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Speaker 1: This is the second intro taping because I definitely funked

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Speaker 1: in to another episode of Horrible Decisions. This your girl

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Speaker 1: Dr Christina, Yes, Dr Empty that's four years college for

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Speaker 1: my name is Weezy. If you've never heard this show,

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Speaker 1: So this horrible decision for this week is, uh, sex injuries.

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Speaker 1: don't know, but I don't know, you know, but um

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00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 1: like he um. I remember one one time in particular,

426
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: we were together. Um one out went back to the

427
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 1: room because he was in town, and in one night

428
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 1: I performed filatio four times to the extent where he

429
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,120
Speaker 1: came every time. But I gave him head for four

430
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 1: times and literally I had never mind you, I just

431
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,199
Speaker 1: had my wisdom teeth taken out and I haven't been

432
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,639
Speaker 1: able to open my mouth because I had Christmas. My

433
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:36,159
Speaker 1: jaw hurt worst then than it did after getting both

434
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 1: of my wisdoms. Chas I did it, I did, I did,

435
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: I did, but not that it took me to the

436
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 1: hospital or anything, but I think I pulled something from

437
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 1: sucking that long. It's so I got Christmas from sucking

438
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 1: day from We never had it from sucking dick too bad,

439
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 1: But eating pussy. I have my tongue hurt eating pussy.

440
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I mean muscles, right, so when you use work,

441
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 1: when you overwork muscles, just like when you work out.

442
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 1: If it was true, So I'm really curious if this

443
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 1: is real. Right, this happened to me twice and it

444
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 1: was both vacations will obey where huh? I don't know

445
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 1: if it's real, like because I've been sick after so

446
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 1: maybe okay, we do this like weird hotel ship when

447
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 1: I start going upside down a ship dog and I

448
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,679
Speaker 1: don't know why, but he'd be sucking my face on

449
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 1: the edge of the bed and my fucking throat is

450
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 1: killing me the next day. So then I went to

451
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 1: the Gate club the next day and I was like, oh,

452
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 1: my throw words. I think I'm sick, and they're like,

453
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: no bad. She even bruised estoph. I guess everybody knows

454
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: it's a thing. And where where in your throat doesn't hurt? Where?

455
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 1: So my tonsils are huge, right, Okay, all right, so

456
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:54,199
Speaker 1: I could feel it like right up here. Yeah, and

457
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 1: it's immediately after like face fucking and I'm like like

458
00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: I have to just drink tea to like soothe it. Yeah,

459
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,360
Speaker 1: I would say that it's probably not your esophagus, because

460
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 1: your esophacis is a little bit deeper. But it's probably

461
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 1: like your pharynx, which is basically the word for throat,

462
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:14,199
Speaker 1: and that's a lot of tissue. They're like there's you know,

463
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: easy bruising in that area, So you're esophagus. Though if

464
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,920
Speaker 1: you bruise yourself down here, you might have like chest pain,

465
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 1: like you know, so it might be a little bit deeper.

466
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: And that's actually that could be an emergency because if

467
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:30,640
Speaker 1: you rupture your esophagus, that can be very I'm gonna

468
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: tell that nigga, don't rupture my pharaoh um Farren farrens

469
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: fairly because basically, you know what I'm saying, I need

470
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 1: to use my voice, and I came right in the

471
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 1: studio and was, yeah, So it's probably it's probably like

472
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: you know, a little bit of your voice box that area,

473
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 1: more so your throat than your esopha. That as an

474
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 1: excuse now, I don't Nega come over last night, And

475
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 1: I was like, so not only were my wisdom teeth

476
00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:59,640
Speaker 1: pulled out, so my jaw isn't opening all the way.

477
00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 1: I said, I have to talk tomorrow, so I can't

478
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: really suck your dick like that, like my like my

479
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: mouth has the word and like even with smoking weed.

480
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,400
Speaker 1: Now we went out, I only had one drink with him.

481
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: I said, liquor changes and backwoods like I don't even

482
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 1: smoke backwoods no more, because my voice meant that's how

483
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 1: I make a living, like do cose like and I

484
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: already have a rasp like and mind you we just

485
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 1: recorded not too long ago. Um shout out to sit

486
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: In and Reazy when they came on. By the end

487
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 1: of the episode, my voice left me. I was like,

488
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: thank god Weezy was here with guests to finish out

489
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: the episode. I literally couldn't speak so like now that

490
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 1: when I go out and stuff like that, I'm not

491
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 1: drinking as much anymore, and I don't do backwoods. I'm

492
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 1: like paper only, um and yeah, and then I don't

493
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 1: be sucking dick like that either, like damn, I'll be like,

494
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: I gotta record tomorrow can't take you tonight. So here's

495
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: what happened. When I went to after my sexon injury

496
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,679
Speaker 1: last week. Right, So I was squatting. I know exactly

497
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: what it happened. I felt this pinch right on the side,

498
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, maybe it's just like a

499
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 1: nerve thing. Then a bit started doing some acrobatics. Two

500
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 1: days later, in the middle of the threesome. You know

501
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, she starts holding my legs open, and

502
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 1: now I'm leaned into her and she's like spreading my

503
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: legs and that's when I felt it, Like it felt

504
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 1: like something almost like just started slowly like ripping. At

505
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: the scene, it was crazy. He saw my face and

506
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 1: he already knew my leg was hurting, and I didn't

507
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: want to ruin the threesome, so I'm just like, oh,

508
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: let me see you do it. Let me see you

509
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 1: fuck him. So I was sucked up. So I get

510
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: to the fucking urgent care and I'm like, yo, I

511
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 1: was squatting, and then like shortly after that it aggravated.

512
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: He was like really from walking, from being back in

513
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 1: the gym, and I was like, no, from sucking, sir.

514
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 1: That's exactly what I said, from sucking, sir, and he

515
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: was like, okay, well, he's like, I can tell you.

516
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: He's like, because you've torn the I T band and

517
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: it's from your hip to your knee. He's squatting is

518
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 1: going to be difficult. Bending over is difficult. So I

519
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: would suggest no going on top. And I'm anyway sorry,

520
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: I said, I thought you already gonna give me a

521
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 1: bag and again, so I don't need to get on top.

522
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 1: It's what you're saying, I said it. Can you write

523
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 1: that down to tell him how al the gift that

524
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: keeps on get? He said, you can't get on top.

525
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 1: I'll say, it's so easy. That ship was hilarious. So

526
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 1: the nurses like typing, you know, and they're like putting

527
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 1: in the notes or whatever. I said, make sure you

528
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: put that in Theresa a printing out and give it

529
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: to my bo. The almost said, my man, oh god.

530
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: So anyway, Top eight sex injuries. Okay. Most comment from

531
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 1: the Sun dot co dot UK. I was so high

532
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: when I did this outline last night. Number one is

533
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: vaginal tears. I thought, tears. I'll said, I've had that before.

534
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: I think I've been really upset. You remember there's a

535
00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: Sex in the City episode, she was my my vagina

536
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: is depressed because like she was having some ship going on.

537
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: I was I really thought that was vaginal tears, but

538
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: it was tears and I'm dumb. I definitely I think

539
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: I'd have had that before. Yeah, it's the interest when

540
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: you fill it in your stomach, in stomach, so it

541
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: like goes up there bad. My story be hurting after

542
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: sex sometime, Like damn, nigger, he was in my stomach.

543
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: You ain't ever no big dick and your stomach was

544
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 1: hurt after my servix servey, so it actually can't get

545
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 1: into your stomach like it's the bottom by my belly

546
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: button be hurting. I think it's my services like damn

547
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: to get you, but it's your servis do we what

548
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: do you mean it real? That was pussy depth like

549
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: five inches about sixty eight centim So how do nigs get?

550
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: But how did you get as bro? You know we're

551
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: going in the amazing place. Was an amazing place girl,

552
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: you know it can be amazing. Dr Pristina. How did

553
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 1: the big dicks get in house for in my cheeks

554
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 1: and not be like put it all in? That's how

555
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: I know it's going to my stomach, but just try

556
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,959
Speaker 1: you where to go. So it goes. It goes just

557
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 1: inside the vagina, and the vagina gang can stretch. It's

558
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: an amazing place that can stretch and go. But it

559
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: don't go long on the side. Confuses me. If I'm

560
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: six inches and your ten and the whole thing and

561
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 1: where that ship went, it's in there. It's in there,

562
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 1: so it stretches all the ligaments and all the tissue out.

563
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 1: And I told you, and these niggas don't be curbed.

564
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: I like the straight dick niggas. Niggas be hurting. So

565
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 1: I know this side, that's where all the muscles are.

566
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: So that's hit in the side. Like that's why we

567
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: were sucking the other night. And it was so funny.

568
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 1: I didn't want to laugh, but so I was. We

569
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 1: were drunk and he's got a curb on his dick,

570
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: right and there's and it's not like it's the craziest,

571
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: biggest dick. It's picking up and god damn, that should

572
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 1: be really hurting. So he turned me and we started sucking.

573
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: He's sucking out of me. Goes like, yeah, now I

574
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: know how to this was baby. Yeah, I don't I

575
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 1: don't like, yeah, so I would say, but I would

576
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 1: say that the vaginal tears are the most common. It's like,

577
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: you know, women who come in and talk about how

578
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: they bled after sex. You know, usually it's because of

579
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: a tear, and really the most severe I've seen. So

580
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: you can tear right underneath the cervix um and can

581
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 1: not your stomach. Not your stomach, there's still in the vagina.

582
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: It stays in the vagina. But I've had somebody come

583
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: to the e D where they literally bled two leaders

584
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: of bloody emergency surgery, the big one from that that's

585
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 1: exactly exactly they needed. Surgery, needs to put suitures in there.

586
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: It was a young girl. She was probably, if I'm

587
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: remembering correctly, like eight nineteen years old. And the thing

588
00:31:55,360 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: is so pet this nigger just put into cocaine. It's

589
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: a lot of blood, blood from from dick. Yes, And

590
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 1: so the thing is she you know, most people they

591
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: don't report when they report these injuries. They don't want

592
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: to say it's because of sex. Right there. Embarrassed, they

593
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 1: kind of try to say, they're like, oh, yeah, I

594
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: don't know what happened, Like we were having sex and

595
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, like I started bleeding like

596
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: it was obviously like rough sacks were speaking of bleeding

597
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: keeping a hunting period. I was just about to ask that, yes,

598
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 1: because I'm telling you right now, I feel like I've

599
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: been fussed and I'm like, yo, that ship was supposed

600
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 1: to come in two days, but you got it out

601
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: not necessarily. So if it's going to come, some blood

602
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: can start to come out early because of sex. So

603
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: let me ask you the other part of that. So

604
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 1: out of like my last day, and I know it's

605
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: my last day because I know how long it last,

606
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 1: and then they don't fun the whole day. Two period

607
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: come back, We're as heavy as fun again. Can they

608
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: fuck you to keep your period on as well? No,

609
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 1: it's not gonna stay on. But the thing is, the

610
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 1: blood comes out a little bit quicker and working itself out,

611
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: it comes out quicker all at once. So basically you

612
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: want your period. In fact, you should just sunk yourself

613
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: to get it out, get it all out, get it

614
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: all out. At some point your uterus is gonna stop

615
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: bleeding and then all the blood just has to work

616
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: itself out. That's why it's dark at the end. So

617
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 1: on the other on the other end of the spectrum.

618
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: The second the second most common injury, UM, something that

619
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: we don't have, but I felt like I've done it before,

620
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: is a fractured penis. You felt like you fractured. I

621
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 1: feel like a nigga was pumping so hard he went

622
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 1: in and maybe missed the hall and then I felt like,

623
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: I feel like that sometimes when I'm like from the back. Yeah,

624
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 1: and if you like they had a fractured penis, they

625
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: would they need you need medical treatment. Let me show

626
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 1: you this dick, I thought, broke called on. Here's what

627
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: my other question when I'm I'm in the picture, bro

628
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: Here's what happened when I'm fucking reverse cow girl. I

629
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 1: feel like I'm not to break a dick. So honestly,

630
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 1: when that happens, you can usually hear a pop, like

631
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 1: like literally like it's a very sorry to this man experience.

632
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 1: It said, there's like three cylinders in the penis, and

633
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: people say it is it's not a bone, but it's

634
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:36,319
Speaker 1: just a lot of people people think it is. They do.

635
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:41,439
Speaker 1: But anyway, when it's broken, it's basically they're rupturing all

636
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 1: that blood, the blood vessels that are running through the people.

637
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: So they're rupturing all of that, and then they need

638
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: got another one. So obviously in this guy hospital dick right,

639
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 1: and he got that name because he was trying to

640
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,800
Speaker 1: suck this girl. I guess she was too quote unquote

641
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 1: narrow whatever, and she end up going to the hospital

642
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: because his dick was too big. In her defense, it

643
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 1: was how can a woman receive or like, I guess

644
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 1: if you have someone with a big dick, get your

645
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,359
Speaker 1: pussy to fit the dick. Loube a whole bunch of loop,

646
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of loube yes who initially a whole

647
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 1: bunch of loop. So as you have sex with this

648
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: person more and more, the vagina is going to stretch

649
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 1: like a little keyhole. It's fitting now because I mean

650
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 1: the baby's head comes out of there. So baby's head

651
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 1: is like this big it comes out there, so it

652
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 1: can fit, but you know, not initially, like it's not

653
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 1: gonna happen right away. You can't just force it in there.

654
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 1: And I so Canadian Bay has such a massive dick

655
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 1: that I like can't even slip past the head and

656
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: so it's not enjoyable for me because it is so big.

657
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 1: And with him it wasn't even to where I felt embarrassed.

658
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 1: I put loud by the side of the bed, and

659
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 1: right before we went to fucking, even without him knowing,

660
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: I grabbed that lube and just put it on myself

661
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: because his dick was so big that I know that

662
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 1: it woul be comfortable. And then also because I do

663
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: use condoms as well, like the friction already there if

664
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 1: I'm not all the way wet is just uncomfortable. It's

665
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: almost unbearable for me. So I mean a lot of

666
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 1: us women look at our vaginas as if we're not wet.

667
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: It's us or maybe we're not turned on. And depending

668
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 1: on the time of the month, I know when I'm drunk,

669
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,720
Speaker 1: it takes way longer for me to get wet the normal.

670
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,799
Speaker 1: So I think a lot of us um look at

671
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: our vaginas as if we're not wet. Oh my god,

672
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 1: maybe we're not aroused. Maybe there's something wrong with us.

673
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:29,720
Speaker 1: And I think as women we need to be okay

674
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 1: with grabbing the lube and put it into there ourselves.

675
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 1: And sorry, it's the same thing with like squirting. Girls

676
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: are like feeling so much pressure because men are watching

677
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: these videos of women and shooting it across the room,

678
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 1: Like the expectations that men have for a pussy as

679
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 1: we women never made me feel that way. I mean,

680
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,240
Speaker 1: after ovulation, you're gonna be a little dryer, right because

681
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 1: your body really is meant to have babies. So I

682
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 1: don't know, it's like after after ovulation it drives up

683
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: a little bit because then you're not you're really not

684
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:05,800
Speaker 1: at risk to get pregnant, right, So your body wants

685
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 1: to be more lubricated for intercourse so it's more enjoyable,

686
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 1: so that you have it before opulation. So I do

687
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 1: the rhythm method, and I have to be honest, I

688
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 1: would like sometimes I get scared because it's worked so

689
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 1: well for me, right, Like I've been pregnant before, but

690
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 1: it was I was younger and didn't you know, do

691
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 1: the rhythm method or whatever. And now I've been doing it,

692
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: everything's been fine. Normally pull out method is my thing.

693
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 1: But when I'm definitely not opulating some time to be like,

694
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: you know, I could do a cream pie to you

695
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Um, I'm curious to know how

696
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: effective is the rhythm method for I guess how effective

697
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 1: is our ovulation cycle? Like can I trust my body

698
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: in that way, if you're if your periods are very regular,

699
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: then you can. The only issue it's only been off

700
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: by one day. Yeah, so usually as long as you're

701
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: a couple of days after ovulation, the egg only lasts

702
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: for twenty four hours, so once you ovulate, but yeah,

703
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,320
Speaker 1: the egg is going after twenty four hours, so after

704
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: that you're really not at risk for pregnancy technically. But

705
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 1: the only issue is that, um, if let's say for

706
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 1: some reason, your period is off that month, like you

707
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: can your period can be be off because of what

708
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: you eat. Your period can be off because you've been

709
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,760
Speaker 1: around a lot of other girls. It's simple, right, So

710
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 1: and if your period is off, that means you ovulated

711
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 1: at a different time. And if you're, you know, thinking

712
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 1: about just tracking your period and thinking about ovulation that way,

713
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: then that fails. My friend literally got on the phone

714
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 1: with me and asked what the app was, and I said,

715
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 1: first off, you know, I don't believe in science period,

716
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,879
Speaker 1: but to me, there's no way an app is gonna

717
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 1: tell me what's going on in my body because there's

718
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,359
Speaker 1: nothing connected. It's just your tracking. It's not the app

719
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,720
Speaker 1: telling you what's going on, it's what's going on based

720
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: on basically, fourteen days before you have your period, you ovulate.

721
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 1: So that's every single woman fourteen days before your parent

722
00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 1: you ovulate, meaning that you don't really know until you

723
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 1: get your period when you ovulate. So if your periods,

724
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:18,760
Speaker 1: so you can track it based on if your peers

725
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,359
Speaker 1: are regular and theoretically you're ovulating at that same time.

726
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: But I think even so, like for me, even I

727
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 1: have a lot of home girls, so I'm constantly around

728
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 1: a lot of my different friends, and and not only

729
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 1: with the tour but just traveling. I travel a lot.

730
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: And I noticed the months that I've tried, like I've

731
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 1: traveled so much in a month. The next month it

732
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 1: came a week early, and I'm like, god damn, So

733
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 1: like that's one Like to me, cod are just just

734
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: a day or two. Oh no, I've I've come five

735
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,240
Speaker 1: days early. Four days early, ladies a little different, but yeah,

736
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 1: if you just it only and it only takes one month,

737
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 1: that's just, don't get me wrong. Like condoms for casual partners,

738
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 1: it's a lot easier said than done. But four or

739
00:39:56,719 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 1: five nights a week dog like all fu, I mean,

740
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 1: be honestly, you're probably good, Like right before your period,

741
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 1: Like right before your period, you'll probably be good in

742
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 1: terms of not getting pregnant. I'm not preaching that. I

743
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: don't think y'all should try it because but no, I

744
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 1: mean I really want for your period is usually your

745
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: one of the other injuries. Interject real quick with a

746
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 1: condom question. But she was saying how when she's drunk

747
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 1: she feels like she can't get wet is fast? I

748
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 1: feel the same, But I really do want to know

749
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 1: something in particular with wetness and condoms. No bullshit, Right,

750
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm always wondering when I use condoms, Right, I'm like

751
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 1: am I Weather because this is a newer partner, or

752
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 1: am I Weather because like maybe it's not soaking it up,

753
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 1: Like is can you be wetter with condoms? Because like,

754
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 1: is skin more porous in the sense that like it'll

755
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: like suck off, especially if it's Yeah, and I think

756
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 1: it's it deals with the lubrication of the condoms. So

757
00:40:56,480 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 1: there's always like the condoms have extra lubrication. Um, and

758
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 1: so I think that that's probably why you feel like

759
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: a little bit better because of that. But I'm not Yeah,

760
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: but you're not most likely not in your conditioner is

761
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 1: the true it drives out my pussy. No, probably not. Well,

762
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: I excuse one of the other common injuries, which I

763
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: don't want to talk too much about, because this is

764
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: a common carpet burn carpet on the carpet, um, you

765
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:26,759
Speaker 1: might get on the floor. That's I ain't working on

766
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 1: the floe, is it. No. The next one is what

767
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 1: we talked about in the beginning, is missing for an

768
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 1: object in the vagina. What's the weirdest one you've heard

769
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 1: of in the hospital? Um? Well, actually there's more so

770
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 1: missing for an objects in area, because I mean the

771
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 1: you know it has a limit, right, so like have

772
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: a limit. Well, the ass goes all the way up

773
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: into all of your intestines, so we can travel far

774
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,439
Speaker 1: up there at the point where you can't get it out.

775
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: Maybe the niggle was of mine testings yourself what I

776
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 1: do be having anal sex bro and I'd be like, oh,

777
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 1: fucking like, it's my pussy. Well only when it's like regular,

778
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 1: like we didn't ease it in and he's going on yeah,

779
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 1: Like I was like, it's all connected. There's a lot

780
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 1: to get to your intestines, so it's it's a lot

781
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 1: to get there. It's like you know. I mean I

782
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 1: think I am single. Yes, well nigna to a doctor.

783
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,799
Speaker 1: Pretty what The next one is also very common. It's

784
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: back injuries. Dum, I don't throw my back out pull me.

785
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: You should stretch before sex, like just like you do

786
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 1: when you go to the gym. Can you stretch in

787
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 1: for play? Do you have any ways of how you

788
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: may be able to stretch and perform? Shut up? It's

789
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: because I know, like Nigga's be thinking I'm flexible, and

790
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:52,439
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know. If it's because I'm little

791
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: and they'd be big, I don't know, but I'm not flexible.

792
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: So niggable like trying to have my leg all the

793
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: way to funk up and I'm like, okay, get off,

794
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 1: like leg hurt. I think. So you know, I got

795
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: a good one. I think. Okay, if you're eating pussy

796
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 1: right and you're flat on your stomach, what's that thing? Um? Okay,

797
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: so like if your legs are down, we can't hear

798
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: you this way, right? Is that right? Uh huh yeah,

799
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 1: that's a good. Yeah. That's what you want to do,

800
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 1: is you want to open your public floor. You want

801
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: to stretch those kind of hip muscles and so I

802
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 1: got the floor and basically did that yoga pose like

803
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 1: the child's pose, I would say, is what I just

804
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: did so you could suck it in child's post because

805
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:44,399
Speaker 1: I know the pelvic floor is mainly the main thing

806
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:46,320
Speaker 1: I need to open up, even in missionary when a

807
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 1: dude pushes my legs back like that sometimes, And it's

808
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:58,240
Speaker 1: also your hip muscles that we have to do walls,

809
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: volleyball and vacuable. That ship will really be really hard. Girl,

810
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 1: I didn't gave I didn't gave head standing up before,

811
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 1: so technically maybe I can do squats what I gave

812
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 1: head standing. They're like six to eleven. I'm five ft one.

813
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: All I gotta do is spread my legs a little bit.

814
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: And I didn't gave head standing up multiple times, and

815
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 1: it's kind of fun. But I could kind of do

816
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 1: squats while I'm sucking dick, So then yeah, I mean

817
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 1: it's not yeah, it's really about opening the public floor

818
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 1: muscles and all the flexors and things like that. Um,

819
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 1: I guess that's the main thing, because I don't. I

820
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,879
Speaker 1: think the main thing that I always get uncomfortable with

821
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: during sex is, uh, when I'm getting sucked in the

822
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 1: back obviously the angle or whatever. And then if it's missionary,

823
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 1: like spreading my legs too wide, I'm like, nack, what

824
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:49,319
Speaker 1: porn do you think? I know, like push your legs down.

825
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: I'm just like I don't like it either. I try

826
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 1: to take it, but me, Um, what was one of

827
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: the last ones. Oh, I do have an interesting one

828
00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: that I wanted to ask you about. If you ever

829
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 1: heard this just a weird sex hospital thing. Um. One

830
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 1: of my friends of the show Injector Zoe is a nurse,

831
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: used to work in the r and said a lot

832
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: of people came in for swallowing magnets and it's like

833
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: a sexual thing. Have you ever heard that. I've never

834
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: heard that swallowing magnets. She said. She saw like a

835
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:19,879
Speaker 1: few people or batteries and magnets. Yeah, and you could die.

836
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: I could die from that. We went on craigslist or

837
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 1: we had a Craigslist thing where someone wanted to swallow

838
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 1: jewelry and wanted to pay women to remember that. This

839
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: was like in the first year of our show, and

840
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 1: this guy had an add out where you wanted women

841
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:35,439
Speaker 1: to swallow jewelry and Zoe was telling you could eat

842
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 1: you probably like people love swallowing ship as a sexual act.

843
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 1: She was like, I don't get it. Is it like

844
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 1: a kink or I feel like it's not going to

845
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: make you feel six any better or anything like that

846
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: I think of. So, so like have you I know

847
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: you said things go up antoly. What is one of

848
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,840
Speaker 1: the things that are like not a dial though that

849
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:03,320
Speaker 1: you've heard of? Food? Sometimes goddamn cucumbers come into that

850
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: paper towel hold. Yeah, anything that's kind of like cylindrical,

851
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 1: like round and cylindrical things. But it's funny because we

852
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: also just had be Simone on and she talks about

853
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 1: how she's never had a vibrator but her friend bought

854
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: her a toothbrush and was like, you know, you could

855
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 1: use that with a little and I know that like

856
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 1: a lot of regular toothbrush, Yeah, but but electric. Oh,

857
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: so I got a little vibrated emotions. It's a step

858
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: to get into the sex toy. Food and irritation was

859
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:34,839
Speaker 1: the next one. Um, I am curious also about ship.

860
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Speaker 1: She just said, oh, with vibrators, right. I don't know

861
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: if this is true, but I think it's true for myself.

862
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 1: So I used to use a bunch of different vibrators

863
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 1: mainly like UM the Woman. I are in different clip masturbators,

864
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 1: and I felt like it was making it harder for

865
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 1: me to reach orgasm during sex, and I thought maybe

866
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: it desensitized my clip. Is that true? Can you do

867
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,720
Speaker 1: that to yourself? UM? I don't. I don't think that's true,

868
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,080
Speaker 1: but I mean I think that you know because that

869
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,879
Speaker 1: it's not. But it's harder to reach orgasm and woman

870
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 1: as I used it every night, and even when I

871
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 1: was when we went three rounds, I was still coming

872
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 1: multiple times and I used the woman, I can't come

873
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: as fast as I used to when I use UM,

874
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: So that was what happened when I would use the

875
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 1: woman as, I could not come as fast as I

876
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 1: used to. I mean, I think mainly it's probably your

877
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 1: body just knowing exactly how it You know how it

878
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: likes to come basically or what you need to do

879
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: for that, and then when you change it up, your

880
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 1: body's like, what the fun? We We did it better

881
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 1: when you when you were with yourself by yourself. My

882
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 1: next question has to do with number seven was pertaining

883
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:39,280
Speaker 1: to food. So I was with a guy recently who's vegan.

884
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 1: So but I don't give a funk I'm gonna eat

885
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 1: what then I want to eat? But I was like, damn,

886
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 1: can I suck your dick? Can I give you a kiss? Like?

887
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 1: I know you don't eat me, but are you allergic

888
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: to these things? Is that's? Is that why you're not

889
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: eating them? And so before I kissed him, I was like,

890
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 1: do I need to brush my teeth? Have you had

891
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 1: anyone come in with an allergic reaction to maybe a

892
00:47:56,640 --> 00:48:00,760
Speaker 1: guy who ate something and then performed head or kissing? What?

893
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 1: What is? How? How is that? It is possible? It's

894
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 1: very rare, but it is possible. Um. The other thing

895
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 1: is that there are some women who are allergic to

896
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 1: semen um. Really yeah, they get like basically anyone comes, yeah,

897
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,319
Speaker 1: after the guy, it's something in the semen like some

898
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:21,280
Speaker 1: sort of component semen um, And after the guy comes,

899
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: like they just get inflamed, like everything swollen. They can

900
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 1: even get inflamed, like if their second dick and then

901
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: it gets into there, they can get you know, the anaphylaxis.

902
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 1: What is the what do you know the stats of

903
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: how many women? It's very rare, but I mean I

904
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 1: would say less than one percent of women you know,

905
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 1: experienced this. But I have had a one patient, honestly

906
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:44,919
Speaker 1: who was like allergic to semen. Speaking of semen come

907
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: in your eye? Huh, What's how do I save myself? Also,

908
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 1: we had a homemale where the bitch that it was

909
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:51,920
Speaker 1: swimming in her eye. You know what I'm saying, I

910
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: don't think you can feels. I was like, she was like,

911
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: I really felt it swimming. It's not it's not that sensitive.

912
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 1: How can you help yourself? When you get come in

913
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: your eye, flush it out with water. Just flush it

914
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 1: out warm water. You'll you won't get you won't get pregnant.

915
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: So sperm can't actually penetrate the eye. Hey guys, So

916
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Speaker 1: before we get back to this week's episode, I wanted

917
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953
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954
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Speaker 1: So anyway, well, I want to ask was finishing a thought.

955
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Speaker 1: I just want to you to finish that out. You

956
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Speaker 1: said it depends what you are using. So we were

957
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 1: discussing condoms. Um, Yeah, finish that out for us, you know,

958
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:54,879
Speaker 1: I was saying, you know, it depends on what you're

959
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Speaker 1: using it for, like the protection for you're protecting yourself

960
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 1: against pregnancy. UM. If so and you have long term

961
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Speaker 1: partner in a latex allergy, just get on birth control.

962
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 1: That's easy to do. Do you have any preferences? I

963
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 1: know people are really always worried about birth control and

964
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,279
Speaker 1: what's best for us. What's your favorite? So what I

965
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Speaker 1: will say is if you ask any O, B G, I,

966
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Speaker 1: N what they prefer and what they actually have. It's

967
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Speaker 1: going to be a marina. So what's crazy about the

968
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: marina is do you have the three I think three

969
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Speaker 1: or five year and ten? Is there a ten year one?

970
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 1: There's a ten year one. Also there's another commercial coming

971
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Speaker 1: out it's it's kai Kyla Kylina. How do you compare?

972
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 1: How do you compare the Kylina to the Marina? And

973
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:38,440
Speaker 1: also it still does have hormones. Okay, so to me

974
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 1: that's my issue. Um A. So my skin has just

975
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 1: got under wraps and my weight is now under wraps.

976
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 1: And those are two things that when I tried UM

977
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Speaker 1: the shot that it affected me, but not only that,

978
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 1: um it did affect my moods um a lot and

979
00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 1: my friends. She claims her breakup because of the Birken. Well,

980
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Speaker 1: the good thing about the i U D is that

981
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Speaker 1: it is intra uterine, meaning that it just sits in

982
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Speaker 1: the uterus and the actual hormone that goes throughout your

983
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Speaker 1: blood stream is very low. So most people you know,

984
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Speaker 1: experience a lot less side effects with the i U

985
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 1: D than they do like the depot shot and explan

986
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: on things like that or even the birth control pill.

987
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:20,720
Speaker 1: Um can it still have side effects, yes, of course,

988
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 1: like the most common some people you know have you

989
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: know crampainging. Um. Some people can have skin you know,

990
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 1: dry skin act to put in, but after that you

991
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Speaker 1: don't even know. It's so I fund tennish dicks plus

992
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Speaker 1: is it going to reach in there and they feel

993
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Speaker 1: they if the strings are cut too short, then basically

994
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:47,319
Speaker 1: they poke out of the cervix and then they can

995
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 1: So my next question before we get into the one

996
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 1: submitted by our listeners, Um, I am one who is

997
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 1: fearful of sex, especially as they get older. I haven't

998
00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 1: had a partnacy scare since I was you know, I

999
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:05,279
Speaker 1: had the one and only UM and so I do

1000
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 1: fear having an abortion this late in age and all

1001
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:11,479
Speaker 1: of that that. But my question comes from when maybe

1002
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,399
Speaker 1: I get a facial or come on me um or

1003
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:18,400
Speaker 1: I clean. I like to give warm rags to my

1004
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: partners after they come. If I were to rub their

1005
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 1: dick or rub the come off of my body and

1006
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:27,360
Speaker 1: then wipe my vagina, is that still putting the come

1007
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 1: in a place where it could somehow get into my

1008
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 1: vagina make me pregnant potentially because sperm are strong. Oh

1009
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 1: I knew it. Okay, they're strongly very unlikely once the

1010
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: sperm hit the air. No, but I mean even like

1011
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:43,839
Speaker 1: when I do when I if I take I've taken

1012
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: swabs from people's vaginas who have just been comed in,

1013
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 1: and then I put it on the slide and I

1014
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 1: see them sperm still swimming, like got pregnant with her

1015
00:54:56,960 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: wife through baster like l we're ship And I was like, bro,

1016
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 1: how like don't they be saying that the sperm or strong?

1017
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:10,279
Speaker 1: Sometimes they're strong? So three three? Well, really up to

1018
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 1: seven sperm can last rep to seven days? This what

1019
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 1: on reg not? That's why with ovulation and like cream

1020
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 1: population bullshit, bullshit is born for a week. So like,

1021
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:29,399
Speaker 1: so after you ovulate, you have fourteen days. Particularly why

1022
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 1: so these green dots I use some fourteen plus seven

1023
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:37,719
Speaker 1: god seven days of opulation because the sperm can live

1024
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:39,400
Speaker 1: in you for up to save seven days, right, but

1025
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 1: you ovulate for fourteen Now you ovulate one day fourteen

1026
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Speaker 1: soul four or seven days right one day. Your chances

1027
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 1: of getting pregnant are high in those seven days because

1028
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: the sperm can swim and live in your pussy for

1029
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 1: your ovulation exactly, so you don't oulate when you believe

1030
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Speaker 1: seven goddamn, that's why people have the watch of the

1031
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,320
Speaker 1: exact time their body. Like have you ever seen that

1032
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: with like women trying to get pregnant and they like

1033
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,759
Speaker 1: when I'm oulating and they want to have sex. So

1034
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:12,480
Speaker 1: I just finished watching Handmaids Tale, um and so the

1035
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 1: Handmaids they were taught that after sex. So they so

1036
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:20,839
Speaker 1: basically they would sleep with the commanders around the time

1037
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 1: of their ovulation. That's when they have to have the ceremony.

1038
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 1: And one thing that they said in this show was

1039
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 1: that I have to lay on my back after you

1040
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:31,800
Speaker 1: come in me because I'm more likely to get pregnant

1041
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: if I stay laying on my back. Are there any

1042
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 1: truths to the positions of having sex and you laying

1043
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:42,880
Speaker 1: on your back after you get coming to become pregnantly difference?

1044
00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 1: There's no difference. Sprammer in there. They're gonna find their way.

1045
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 1: Even if you want a handstand, they just gonna go

1046
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 1: the gonna gonally me right now, had a wild morning,

1047
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 1: I'll tell you. Plus, I ain't going in front when

1048
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:02,399
Speaker 1: I'm really tired of getting us. I already know what's like,

1049
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 1: I'm coming my busy, Like I just know it's gonna work.

1050
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,880
Speaker 1: So I'll be like, all right now I believe um, okay,

1051
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 1: shout out to our listeners, like just posted only an

1052
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:11,120
Speaker 1: hour ago, and we have a lot of replies. So

1053
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 1: I'm handing my phone over to Dr Christina because some

1054
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 1: of y'all be asked some dumb ship and I would

1055
00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 1: really like her to answer the questions that I don't

1056
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: know it might be helpful for someone else. Let's start

1057
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:28,479
Speaker 1: with that prenatal DNA test though, because this DNA testing, yes,

1058
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 1: yes you can, um. The only issue is that the

1059
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 1: test in itself put your pregnancy at risk. How do

1060
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 1: they do it? So they take a sample of the

1061
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: question by the way, was can you do a prenatal

1062
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 1: pregnancy testing before the baby is born? Yeah? And I

1063
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 1: guess it depends on how far along you are, So

1064
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 1: if you're less than fourteen weeks, they can take a

1065
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 1: piece of the actual pregnancy um and test the genetics

1066
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:58,120
Speaker 1: of that. If you're well, actually can you actually the

1067
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 1: risk of that procedure is that the baby could be

1068
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 1: missing a limb. Now, very low risk. It's a very

1069
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:08,160
Speaker 1: low time of or is my nigga gonna kill me?

1070
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: We might have to do that yeah, or you could

1071
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 1: find out between you know, any time after sixteen weeks,

1072
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 1: they can just take the fluid, some of the amniotic

1073
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:20,480
Speaker 1: fluid and test that he really don't want to pay

1074
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: child support. No, I like it thereby or not, because

1075
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 1: I think that's a question for a woman needing to know.

1076
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 1: She's like probably, like that's the only reason, nigga, you

1077
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 1: can slow down and wait. But I'm not sure. Oh,

1078
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:43,400
Speaker 1: take the sack out, but get it here gone like Picasso.

1079
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 1: Take it. Who bro we had a whole maale, it

1080
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 1: wasn't our home male that Steve Harvey wanted you hear

1081
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 1: that where the woman said she was pregnant and it

1082
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 1: could be her son in law's kid. Oh I did

1083
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 1: hear that? Is like, so this is this is ridiculous.

1084
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 1: A lot of b V questions. Um. So you may

1085
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:10,440
Speaker 1: have heard me talked about the t trio oil spositories.

1086
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 1: I really love them. Um, I haven't heard any bad

1087
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 1: reviews on them yet. Suppositories actually fucked me up. I

1088
00:59:17,880 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 1: tried one. Uh it's I don't I don't want to

1089
00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 1: say it's summer's eve, but you could literally buy it.

1090
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: It looks like it almost looks like the monster. UM,

1091
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:28,680
Speaker 1: but you're supposed to like put it up in you

1092
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 1: and it leaks out. So it even comes with a

1093
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 1: pad in the box because you're supposed to sleep with

1094
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:36,120
Speaker 1: it and then all the cream comes out. And so

1095
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 1: I did this when I was maybe like eighteen or nineteen,

1096
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 1: and it literally it wasn't monster. It was a supository.

1097
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:48,440
Speaker 1: It's supposed to be like to make the fresh or

1098
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 1: whatever the funk the case may be the same way

1099
00:59:50,200 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 1: they actually say, Um, Summer's eve as a b V supplement,

1100
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about. It comes into tube.

1101
00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:02,360
Speaker 1: It's a little pearl ball. I don't trust that ship. Yeah, well,

1102
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I really even count that,

1103
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:08,040
Speaker 1: Like these are made from only natural organic products. I've

1104
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 1: used another one UM that I like for like dryness.

1105
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:14,480
Speaker 1: I used it like right after ovulation in my period. UM.

1106
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:16,880
Speaker 1: It's a whole foods I think it's key something key

1107
01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 1: E And it's like cocon vaginal moisturizer. Yeah, okay, it's

1108
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:22,280
Speaker 1: coconut oil based. Oh that it's so soothing or if

1109
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 1: I have rough sex, I've used that UM. But I've

1110
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 1: also heard of boric acid suppositories from a few point

1111
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:29,920
Speaker 1: Stars and I've used them, and I didn't like them

1112
01:00:29,920 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 1: as much as tea tree. But I know that sounds scary.

1113
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 1: Do you know the best natural ways to cure BAV? Yeah, so,

1114
01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 1: I mean bork acid can definitely cure BAV, but it's

1115
01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 1: not the best treatment. The best treatment is antibiotics. Um.

1116
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:47,200
Speaker 1: You know, bork acid are fine to use. They can

1117
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:49,320
Speaker 1: be a little irritating because it's an acid that you're

1118
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 1: speaking your vagina. Vagina is already acidic um, and your

1119
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:57,720
Speaker 1: vagina is a self cleansing, you know organ. So with antibiotics,

1120
01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 1: aren't you killing the good bacteria? Why people get the

1121
01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 1: US infects? You are, so a lot of commonly, when

1122
01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:05,960
Speaker 1: you take antibiotics, you'll get a ust infection. So a

1123
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:07,920
Speaker 1: lot of times if somebody has b V, I'll prescribed

1124
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 1: them both. I'll give them both antibiotic. And so I

1125
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 1: have a lot of sinus issues, and so I go

1126
01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:20,440
Speaker 1: to UM Jesus Christ, my specialist a lot just for

1127
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 1: E N T. And then also I've been dealing with

1128
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:25,280
Speaker 1: a lot of dental stuff UM, and so they re

1129
01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 1: so I normally do a max of sillin um and

1130
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 1: I actually told them that I get almost an immediate

1131
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 1: um infection with a maxillian because it's an antibiotic, and

1132
01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:42,120
Speaker 1: so they gave me actually just another and another antibiotic

1133
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 1: and it gave me no issue with my vagina. I

1134
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 1: want um. It is um clinda clina micin, So actually,

1135
01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 1: don't they give that for um not clamidia. Yes, So

1136
01:01:56,760 --> 01:02:00,040
Speaker 1: I got Clinda's also for an STD and when I

1137
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 1: got to the fucking CVS nigga, the dude is like, okay.

1138
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 1: I was like, it's not like a first line medication

1139
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 1: for any Yeah, it's like a pedicilla. It's like the

1140
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 1: CDCIN that I take. So it was for UM. So

1141
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 1: I was done with my So I was on um

1142
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 1: antibiotics and steroids because I got Christmas and they wanted

1143
01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 1: to make sure I didn't get any blood clots and

1144
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 1: all this stuff going on in the back of my mouth.

1145
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:32,240
Speaker 1: So when I told him, I was like, can I

1146
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 1: get a die flu canto? It was like they didn't

1147
01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 1: want to just prescribe me the both, and I'm like,

1148
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:38,880
Speaker 1: my nigga, I know that when I take my filing,

1149
01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 1: my vagina sucks up. So they gave me the clendon

1150
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:44,480
Speaker 1: miyacin and I had no issue with that as far

1151
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 1: as my vagina. But yeah, I just want to antibiotics.

1152
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:50,840
Speaker 1: Can you can you talk to the um good uses

1153
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 1: of probiotics for people and daily uses and like what

1154
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,440
Speaker 1: they do for us? Yeah, I mean I think that what. So,

1155
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 1: what probiotics are designed to do is keep the floor.

1156
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 1: So your vagina has a lot of bacteria in it, right,

1157
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 1: that's normal. So the probiotics keep the floor of your vagina,

1158
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 1: you know what it needs to be, so that you

1159
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:11,200
Speaker 1: don't get an infection because the bacteria in your vagina

1160
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:15,439
Speaker 1: fight off other infections. So that's what they're designed to do. Um.

1161
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:19,960
Speaker 1: So I'm definitely I'm pro probiotics. They don't hurt. Um.

1162
01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 1: You know, there's not there's not really any good evidence

1163
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:26,160
Speaker 1: saying that they can cure these infections or cure bacterial

1164
01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 1: vaginosis or anything like that. I've never taken about. Yeah,

1165
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:35,520
Speaker 1: preventative things. Yeah, so preventative wise question Actually too real

1166
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:38,240
Speaker 1: quick this one. What's the name of a technical term

1167
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 1: for the walnut in the pussy? I don't know, walnut

1168
01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 1: in the pussy? You know, when you go in the

1169
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:45,440
Speaker 1: doctor and I called it the walnut. It's like a

1170
01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 1: baseball man. You gotta light is what you touch, like

1171
01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 1: when you're fingering, when you're so when your fingers specifically

1172
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:52,720
Speaker 1: trying to get to a woman's g spot. You get

1173
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 1: in there and you apply pressure on the topic. I mean,

1174
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 1: my passions would be like, you know, I'm not like that,

1175
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 1: I said, but these nails. Anyways, So when you go

1176
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:10,240
Speaker 1: in the pussy, so this is if a woman is

1177
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: laying down and you go like this, you press are

1178
01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 1: the top when you curb your fingers kind of like

1179
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 1: you want to do the emotion like her. You touch

1180
01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 1: a part of the pussy that feels like a wan,

1181
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 1: like a walnut. Okay, you know it's a gland. So

1182
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 1: basically I don't, Oh it's the walnut gland. The final one.

1183
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 1: I fu, I fucking saw it. I actually liked it. Um,

1184
01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 1: you only steaming it's a trend. You only beads are

1185
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:44,480
Speaker 1: a trend. How do you feel about that? You know,

1186
01:04:44,560 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 1: I mean it is if that's what you decide to do,

1187
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 1: do it. But you know the thing about the vagina

1188
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 1: is it's self cleansing. You shouldn't really be putting a

1189
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 1: lot of Here's the thing. People that are doing these

1190
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 1: self cleansing things are obviously in my opinion, they're feeling

1191
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:03,040
Speaker 1: like something ain't too fresh. If they feel like plussy

1192
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:06,360
Speaker 1: ain't cleaning itself, then what that's where I feel like

1193
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 1: everybody's sucking stuck you. So diet really does matter. Actually

1194
01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:16,360
Speaker 1: diet matters because even with with guys or like even

1195
01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 1: just outside of the genitals, if you eat a lot

1196
01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 1: of red meat, your breath is gonna smell a different

1197
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:24,560
Speaker 1: way when you asparagus makes spend. If you're using a

1198
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 1: lot of spices, um specifically when you're traveling, you know,

1199
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:30,680
Speaker 1: to like the Middle East or even the country, then

1200
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 1: it comes through your poor So to me, if if

1201
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 1: you feel like your vagina has a stench or isn't

1202
01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:41,320
Speaker 1: feeling spices last forever. I moved into an apartment once

1203
01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 1: in Orlando, and I fucking went right to the real

1204
01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: trust of the sen I'm not trying to be a

1205
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:48,560
Speaker 1: bit I need to know who lives here because this

1206
01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 1: whole house smells like curry and someone needs to paint.

1207
01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:56,680
Speaker 1: And it was strong, the walls, bro the whole floor.

1208
01:05:56,960 --> 01:06:00,280
Speaker 1: My whole building is people from Bangladesh and I'm moved

1209
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 1: into it and it smelled like motherfucking curry. And I said,

1210
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:04,680
Speaker 1: if this ship seep through my door to where my

1211
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:07,480
Speaker 1: house smell like curry, We're gonna have problems. Luckily, I've

1212
01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:10,800
Speaker 1: been there about four years. I'm good. The curry don't

1213
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 1: see through the door, But when I'm in the hallway,

1214
01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 1: I got a problem. That smells like a whole goddam.

1215
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 1: One of my East Indian home girls, I went to

1216
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:19,320
Speaker 1: her house and she cooked for me and I said once,

1217
01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 1: like I drug. I was like, yo, I gotta say something.

1218
01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 1: It's problematic. She was like, it's cool. How come your

1219
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 1: house don't smell my other in the house and she

1220
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:29,320
Speaker 1: said she'd be cooking the ship outside. Bro. She's like,

1221
01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:33,000
Speaker 1: sometimes I it smells strong, but not only that. Like,

1222
01:06:33,680 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 1: so smoking is one thing, but also cooking can change

1223
01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 1: the colors of your walls. It could affect the paint um.

1224
01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 1: A lot of people that I know don't smoke in

1225
01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:45,080
Speaker 1: their houses, specifically cigarettes. We not really, but cigarettes will

1226
01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:48,040
Speaker 1: actually give the paint on your walls like a yellow

1227
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:50,479
Speaker 1: film if you're a smoker and you're smoking your house.

1228
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 1: So for people who smoke cigarettes, it is something that

1229
01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:55,880
Speaker 1: can not only affect how you smell, your clothes and

1230
01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:57,920
Speaker 1: everything else, but it doesn't even affect your house. And

1231
01:06:57,920 --> 01:06:59,840
Speaker 1: I know this because both my parents are chained smokers,

1232
01:06:59,880 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 1: So you only see I didn't be honest with you.

1233
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:05,040
Speaker 1: I think it was like soothing. I don't think I

1234
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:08,120
Speaker 1: don't think it changes that. I'll say that though you know,

1235
01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:09,960
Speaker 1: I don't think it hurts. I don't think it helps.

1236
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,439
Speaker 1: You know. It was nice and spiritual. Set the tone,

1237
01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 1: you know, I'm saying, I'll put that little pot right

1238
01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 1: under about bussy. And I listened to some shot and

1239
01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 1: I was like, this is a great and lovely thing.

1240
01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:20,439
Speaker 1: I mean, the one thing I think that people should

1241
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:24,640
Speaker 1: stay away from his douching. So those things like those

1242
01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:28,479
Speaker 1: will give you a bacterial vaginosis infection? Really, yes, yes,

1243
01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:31,360
Speaker 1: and once once you do, there's no brands. Some of

1244
01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 1: these all don't do it? Don't please do not. What

1245
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 1: about animals? What kind of animals are? Those are five?

1246
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 1: Those are five? But the ship in your vagina vagina?

1247
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:49,160
Speaker 1: Don't do it? Do you want one? BV? Infection just

1248
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:51,800
Speaker 1: keeps coming back? Do you really own preference on? So

1249
01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 1: I use em rita vaginal wash from Whole foods um

1250
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:58,160
Speaker 1: the honeypot um I know is I believe female and

1251
01:07:58,280 --> 01:08:02,320
Speaker 1: black owned um do you have any uh suppliers that

1252
01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 1: you want to shout out or you use it that

1253
01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,480
Speaker 1: you like you don't cool, But I mean I don't honestly,

1254
01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:11,680
Speaker 1: I just USEDTFF soap, like you know, just clean washing

1255
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:14,760
Speaker 1: turnal washing, only you don't need to wash your vagina.

1256
01:08:15,080 --> 01:08:17,840
Speaker 1: You don't need to wash her vagina correctly. And when

1257
01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:21,760
Speaker 1: I wash my vagina, I use the emerada on the

1258
01:08:21,760 --> 01:08:27,559
Speaker 1: outside um and then on the inside. I don't use soap,

1259
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 1: but I do use my fingers and sometimes wash from

1260
01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:32,839
Speaker 1: the inside and I spread my lips, I clean around.

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Speaker 1: I've also like read about like, um, what is the

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Speaker 1: men get it that dick cheese? It starts with a

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Speaker 1: pea maybe damn. I know that you can get it

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Speaker 1: sucking too, So I always make sure to wash their

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Speaker 1: um when using when washing hands rags what what what

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Speaker 1: do you? I mean? I so the textbook will tell

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Speaker 1: you just use just use your hands, but you know

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Speaker 1: these rags like people, they don't even exactly. It's funny

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Speaker 1: because we have I have the debate with my friends

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Speaker 1: all the time, like I don't remember who I was

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Speaker 1: just with. Oh, I was at a at a table

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Speaker 1: with like Tahoe and Dodge and all these like Mountain Star,

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Speaker 1: I think, no, no, Reek. So we're at a table

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Speaker 1: and she's like, no, funk a rag. You need to

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Speaker 1: use the gloves because there's no weight, like so there's

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Speaker 1: gloves that you can buy that you wash. So we're

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Speaker 1: literally talking about all the different ways to wash your

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Speaker 1: body and they're like, well, you're not clean if you

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Speaker 1: don't use a rag. But then she's like, the rag

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Speaker 1: is dirty, so you gotta use the soap the glove

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Speaker 1: to get into the crevices. I mean, I do recommend

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Speaker 1: using a different rag every day obviously, okay, every days

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01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:56,799
Speaker 1: of washing, you know, changing it out. What about towels?

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Speaker 1: How often should you change your tot with daily as well?

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Speaker 1: Or because I could just drive you you drive you

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Speaker 1: off and you're technically clean. If you clean your legs

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01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:06,080
Speaker 1: and things like that, you're clean. But so I used

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Speaker 1: to say, like once a week you will change out

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Speaker 1: your towel. Perfect, definitely change it out. This was so informative,

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Speaker 1: Like I know you guys are gonna like her. Yes,

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Speaker 1: she's cute, So tell us your type because Nick is

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Speaker 1: don't want to know. Um, let's see my type money Okay, yes, alright, alright,

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Speaker 1: start off, you know, I'm actually kind of sure. I'm

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Speaker 1: five too, But I do like call guys. You know, yes,

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Speaker 1: but she check? Um. You know, do you need them

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Speaker 1: to be local to Jersey, New York. They don't have

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Speaker 1: to be local. No, they don't. UM, I like beards.

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Speaker 1: You know, I live in Philly. I do live in Jersey. Well,

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Speaker 1: where I work in camp New Jersey is very close. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I guess do you like women? I don't like women.

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Speaker 1: You have social media or a website or anywhere where

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Speaker 1: maybe our listeners can reach out to you or if

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Speaker 1: they're looking, you know for a black O B G

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Speaker 1: y N in the Tri state area. You are someone

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Speaker 1: that they can reach out to. UM. Of course if

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Speaker 1: their insurance, if you accept their insurance. UM. But what

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Speaker 1: website or where can someone find you if they wanted

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Speaker 1: to reach out to you? Right? So, my Instagram is

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Speaker 1: K Underscore Willie. That's K underscore W I l I

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Speaker 1: UM and I work in I practicing, Camden, New Jersey.

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Speaker 1: So you know you can just google me. Christina Williams

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Speaker 1: care I S T I N A Williams um m D, Camden,

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Speaker 1: this going on. Don't send pigs brodn't make an appointment,

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Speaker 1: make an appointment comes to me. I am a little

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Speaker 1: backed up. You know, it takes a It takes about

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Speaker 1: three months or so to get an appointment. Excuse me,

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Speaker 1: Young Black Unicorn O B G Wine k underscore Willie

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Speaker 1: that in the description for this episode. Definitely reach you,

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Speaker 1: like honestly, I've been looking for Actually, I was like, yo,

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Speaker 1: let me get an r N all these Jamaican missions

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Speaker 1: and follow me. God damn, y'all. Hole's carving the funk

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Speaker 1: out of me. I don't know one of y'all could

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Speaker 1: come and help. And nobody wrote me back for you

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Speaker 1: at two am or something. So the funny thing is

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Speaker 1: I was actually at Trap karaoke in Philly and Mouse

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Speaker 1: Jones is the host for that, and so I was like,

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Speaker 1: you know, I was introduced to him through you guys podcast,

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Speaker 1: So that's how I knew who he was. And I

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Speaker 1: was like, karaoke ticket, you know when you Funny enough,

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Speaker 1: I was with his girlfriend at a bar waisted and

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, my god. I was so excited.

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Speaker 1: I was actually with my dude her Actually we're about

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Speaker 1: to leave with this bitch. I was like, oh my

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Speaker 1: god for the doctor's black. Oh my god, you're so happy.

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Speaker 1: I'll screaming in the bar so at k underscore Willie

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Speaker 1: W I L L I. We're gonna put it in

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Speaker 1: a description that have to tell. Like many said, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for coming on. Thank you, Yeah, I do. Also,

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Speaker 1: this episode. Um, and again we're gonna leave you guys

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Speaker 1: off with that. So thank you Grosina dr for for

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Speaker 1: joining us, and I hope that you guys appreciated this episode.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know I'm all for the education. So I'm glad

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Speaker 1: that Weezy was able to lock you in and schedule you.

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Speaker 1: So once again this has been he had another episode

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Speaker 1: of harmor Decisions. I e. So the home mail for

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Speaker 1: this week read pretty long. I'm sorry now that's why

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Speaker 1: I don't read through it. It looked long, but it

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Speaker 1: ain't that long. I'm a read kind of fast, not

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Speaker 1: real fast. But y'all are here, so it says hi, guys.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to say that I'm a huge fan.

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Speaker 1: She really is. She found us off so shameless when

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Speaker 1: we was a guest, and she's been addicted ever since.

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Speaker 1: I went to two of your live shows in different

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Speaker 1: cities because I adore you both. Thank you, Fran. She

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01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:47,000
Speaker 1: actually came to our New York and our DC Live show. Okay, so,

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Speaker 1: now that I'm done with the mushy mushy, here is

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01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:52,639
Speaker 1: my dilemma. I used to be what you call vanilla.

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01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:56,720
Speaker 1: Would you consider yourself an alla Briana? I think so little,

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01:14:57,680 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 1: a little little sprinkle in there. I hate them big,

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01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:09,120
Speaker 1: you vanilla bitch. Reach no Napoleon, napolitan one until you

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01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:12,479
Speaker 1: reached the blended flavors. No, you're vanilla, so she said.

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01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: She used to be be vanilla, very shy in the

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Speaker 1: bed and not open to new things. Sex was a

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Speaker 1: taboo in my house growing up, and I thought that

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01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:21,679
Speaker 1: sex and pleasure were bad for a long time. Of course,

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01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 1: we find out growing up um in the church. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: I met a guy about two years ago and the

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Speaker 1: sex was bomb capital letters, the best sex I've had

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Speaker 1: in my life. He was very patient with me, and

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Speaker 1: we had open discussions about sex, our fantasies, what we liked,

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01:15:37,240 --> 01:15:40,160
Speaker 1: what we didn't like, etcetera. During one of our conversations,

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Speaker 1: he told me that him and his ex would swing

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01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:46,640
Speaker 1: with other couples and that he was by I was

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01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:51,160
Speaker 1: very scared and confused at the time because I obviously

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01:15:51,240 --> 01:15:53,479
Speaker 1: don't have a penis, and I was like, oh mg,

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01:15:53,880 --> 01:15:56,639
Speaker 1: he's gonna leave me for a man. There's nothing there's

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Speaker 1: something a man has that I don't have that I

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01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:00,800
Speaker 1: can't give him. Which again, and you brought that up.

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01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 1: That was being vanilla and being ignorant to bisexually and man.

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01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:07,679
Speaker 1: So I will say, um, I did want to talk

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01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:10,120
Speaker 1: on that, because just because you won't be with a

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01:16:10,120 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 1: bisexual man doesn't mean that you're vanilla. I think that

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Speaker 1: on this show, we do go all the way to

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01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:19,960
Speaker 1: the fucking spectrum of things where it's just like, oh, bitch,

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Speaker 1: if you're not accepting that I want to suck your

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01:16:21,800 --> 01:16:23,280
Speaker 1: dick from the back and put my finger in it

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01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:24,559
Speaker 1: and make you bust all of me and then give

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01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:26,880
Speaker 1: me a creampie, and that you're vanilla, And that's not

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01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:29,320
Speaker 1: necessarily the case. So I think you can still be

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01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:32,920
Speaker 1: sis hetero and not want to bisexual man, but not

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01:16:33,000 --> 01:16:38,320
Speaker 1: be vanilla. Yes quick, I didn't know that bisexual, bisexuality

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01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:40,960
Speaker 1: and ment existed. That's what I meant, like vanilla, you

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01:16:42,880 --> 01:16:45,600
Speaker 1: can't like women exactly, So that's what I meant I understood,

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01:16:45,680 --> 01:16:47,680
Speaker 1: understand any good that I'm here. You know I love

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01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:51,000
Speaker 1: it anyway. One day he told me during high sex

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01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:57,640
Speaker 1: high all one, okay, that ain't really has I told you?

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01:16:57,720 --> 01:17:01,120
Speaker 1: I'd be like, smoke a bloo. I don't go as

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01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:07,559
Speaker 1: I set that what is y yo? Cooke? Oh you're

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01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:13,880
Speaker 1: white since you're not Latinas, you're a whole and then

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01:17:14,479 --> 01:17:16,479
Speaker 1: Latinas can't say it an't work because y'all whitest folk.

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01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:22,559
Speaker 1: I don't say good. Um, he went so during sex,

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Speaker 1: he told me that he wanted to have a three

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01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:26,040
Speaker 1: sim and watch me with a woman. So I'm like, sure,

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Speaker 1: no problem. Then he says he wants us to suck

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01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:31,760
Speaker 1: dick together and for me to be with him and

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Speaker 1: another guy. I was shocked that in the heat of

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Speaker 1: the moment, I told him that I would. Um. We

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01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:40,080
Speaker 1: went to Vegas one weekend and a unicorn found us

1431
01:17:40,080 --> 01:17:41,840
Speaker 1: and was down for it, but I was so scared

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01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:44,160
Speaker 1: that I pushed her away from us. For weeks, I

1433
01:17:44,200 --> 01:17:46,880
Speaker 1: was internally fighting myself like how could someone who loves

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01:17:46,920 --> 01:17:49,000
Speaker 1: me wants to see another man fuck me? And so forth.

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01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:50,800
Speaker 1: I loved him so much that I was going to

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01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:53,559
Speaker 1: do it for him. That's a no note, I know,

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01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:56,240
Speaker 1: but my thinking was, if I don't give him what

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01:17:56,320 --> 01:17:58,880
Speaker 1: he wants, he'll just find it else. He'll just find

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01:17:58,920 --> 01:18:01,920
Speaker 1: someone else to do it. Long story short, we stopped

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01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:03,680
Speaker 1: dealing with each other because he ended up moving to

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01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:05,639
Speaker 1: another state due to work, and it has never worked

1442
01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:08,759
Speaker 1: out for us. We never got to those fantasies and reality.

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01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:11,240
Speaker 1: So now here we are ladies and gentlemen. A year

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01:18:11,360 --> 01:18:13,800
Speaker 1: since me and him stopped dealing with each other, but

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01:18:13,960 --> 01:18:16,559
Speaker 1: since then, I have ventured out and had an M

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Speaker 1: F F threesome, and I discovered a love for m

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01:18:19,479 --> 01:18:21,320
Speaker 1: F and I discovered a love for pussy that I

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01:18:21,320 --> 01:18:24,200
Speaker 1: had never had. I'm more open sexually than I have

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01:18:24,360 --> 01:18:28,120
Speaker 1: ever been, and now I want to dicks. He created

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01:18:28,160 --> 01:18:30,400
Speaker 1: a little monster, and now all the things he wanted

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01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:32,800
Speaker 1: to do with me that we never did and only

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01:18:32,800 --> 01:18:35,560
Speaker 1: spoke about, I want to do. He opened up Pandora's

1453
01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:37,600
Speaker 1: box in my mind. And now that I'm dating and

1454
01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:41,000
Speaker 1: meeting new people, I feel like certain people will judge

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Speaker 1: me if I say I want two dicks, or I

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01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:44,640
Speaker 1: want spit on my mouth or whatever nasty ship I

1457
01:18:44,640 --> 01:18:46,640
Speaker 1: want to do. Now, So now do I tell a

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01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:49,840
Speaker 1: new guy, what I'm into and what my fantasies are

1459
01:18:49,920 --> 01:18:52,400
Speaker 1: without being judged or labeled nasty because a lot of

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Speaker 1: people think mm threesomes are a chain and all that

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Speaker 1: BS that comes with society judging. I really enjoy your

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Speaker 1: platform and hope you ladies can guide me in the

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Speaker 1: right direct action. Much love and appreciation. But you're not anonymous,

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Speaker 1: so what is your advice? So basically, this guy is yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's she's in the room. She had a guy that

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01:19:16,680 --> 01:19:19,559
Speaker 1: wanted to suck dick with her and enjoy all of

1467
01:19:19,600 --> 01:19:23,160
Speaker 1: these sexual escapades. She was like, no, no, sir, not interested.

1468
01:19:23,439 --> 01:19:26,960
Speaker 1: He moved away, and now, over the course of listening

1469
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 1: to our whole asset, now she wants she want to

1470
01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:33,719
Speaker 1: suck dick with a nigga. So what would you say

1471
01:19:33,880 --> 01:19:36,880
Speaker 1: should she open up about these fantasies to someone new

1472
01:19:36,920 --> 01:19:40,280
Speaker 1: in her life or what would be your suggestion to her?

1473
01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:44,640
Speaker 1: I would say yes, absolutely, because if that's what you

1474
01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:47,040
Speaker 1: really want, you don't want to get into relationship that

1475
01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:48,320
Speaker 1: you're not going to be able to do those things

1476
01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:49,879
Speaker 1: and you're not going to be able to be fulfilled

1477
01:19:49,960 --> 01:19:54,040
Speaker 1: and like or just or the situation, the situation. But

1478
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:58,120
Speaker 1: whatever the situation is, Like, I don't see the point

1479
01:19:58,120 --> 01:19:59,960
Speaker 1: in having sex if it's not gonna be good set,

1480
01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:03,080
Speaker 1: if you're not gonna be pleasured, right, so like what

1481
01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:07,880
Speaker 1: are what's the purpose? Would be so bad? So it's

1482
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:09,240
Speaker 1: like if you're not gonna be able to do those

1483
01:20:09,280 --> 01:20:11,519
Speaker 1: things with that person, like are they serving some other

1484
01:20:11,600 --> 01:20:14,080
Speaker 1: purpose in your life? Because like you're not being fulfilled sexually,

1485
01:20:14,080 --> 01:20:16,680
Speaker 1: and I think worrying about like oh, they're gonna call

1486
01:20:16,720 --> 01:20:20,040
Speaker 1: me nasty or whatever, like that's not the person you

1487
01:20:20,080 --> 01:20:22,840
Speaker 1: need to be around. Because going back to my earlier point,

1488
01:20:22,880 --> 01:20:24,040
Speaker 1: like if I can't be nasty with you, if I

1489
01:20:24,080 --> 01:20:26,080
Speaker 1: can't do these things that you like, what are we

1490
01:20:26,120 --> 01:20:29,840
Speaker 1: doing here? Right? I agree? I will say my advice is,

1491
01:20:29,880 --> 01:20:31,880
Speaker 1: as you guys know now, I can't even have sex,

1492
01:20:32,080 --> 01:20:34,680
Speaker 1: like casual sex with someone who I don't feel like

1493
01:20:34,720 --> 01:20:37,120
Speaker 1: it's on my level sexually. So to me, I would

1494
01:20:37,120 --> 01:20:39,280
Speaker 1: say it's something that you can bring up, bring it

1495
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:41,320
Speaker 1: up and maybe it's twenty one questions way send porn,

1496
01:20:41,840 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 1: gauge the temperature on what they're into. I think you

1497
01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:46,559
Speaker 1: can't open it up to people that you want to

1498
01:20:46,560 --> 01:20:48,960
Speaker 1: bring into your life. But I would also say bitch,

1499
01:20:49,240 --> 01:20:52,120
Speaker 1: you rich, you want to bank. Um, he's a fight away.

1500
01:20:52,200 --> 01:20:54,400
Speaker 1: I would say, maybe try to rekindle what what you

1501
01:20:54,439 --> 01:20:57,880
Speaker 1: had with him and say, hey, I apologize for being

1502
01:20:57,880 --> 01:21:02,320
Speaker 1: so close minded. UM X amount of months or years ago. UM,

1503
01:21:02,400 --> 01:21:04,640
Speaker 1: this is now something that I've opened up to it.

1504
01:21:04,680 --> 01:21:06,479
Speaker 1: I'm sorry if you ever felt judged by me, but

1505
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:08,760
Speaker 1: I'm now willing to experience this with you. Is it

1506
01:21:08,840 --> 01:21:11,240
Speaker 1: something that you're interested in? So I would actually reach

1507
01:21:11,280 --> 01:21:14,559
Speaker 1: back out to him or possibly bring this up to