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Speaker 1: My dog attacked my stalker when he broke into my house.

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Speaker 1: Now my sister in law is trying to put my

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Speaker 2: Hey, big doggie had a problem. Okay, big doggie got

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Speaker 2: it solved. What were you solvent?

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Speaker 3: Sis?

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Speaker 1: This is kind of a complicated story, but I'll just

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Speaker 1: get into it. I used to be in this controlling,

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Speaker 1: kind of abusive relationship. When I finally broke it off

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Speaker 1: a year ago, my ex started showing up places places

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Speaker 1: he wasn't supposed to, trying to get me to take

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Speaker 1: him back. Eventually it developed into full on stalking. He

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Speaker 1: would show up at my work and took to just

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Speaker 1: waiting outside of it. After he was banned. He left

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Speaker 1: notes on my car when I was at the grocery store,

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Speaker 1: leaving all kinds of flowers outside my house, and then

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Speaker 1: he'd stick angry notes on my door after he saw

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Speaker 1: me throw them in the trash. Wrote me all kinds

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Speaker 1: of weird, obsessive emails and letters. I've had to change

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Speaker 1: my phone number three times. The behavior escalated over time

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Speaker 1: and got scarier and more threatening. In one instance, he

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: But the police couldn't get enough evidence connecting him to it.

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Speaker 1: It was after that instance that I put cameras in

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Speaker 1: my yard. I previously only had them pointing at my doors. Geez,

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Speaker 1: people are crazy, really, Boh my god. I was horrified

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Speaker 1: to learn that the police couldn't do shit about any

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Speaker 1: of this until my stalker actually was caught doing something illegal. Also,

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Speaker 1: it's crazy how this could go from an ex boyfriend

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Speaker 1: just to the stalker truly insane, like breaking into my house,

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Speaker 1: at which point I might already be dead. I decided

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Speaker 1: I wasn't spending the rest of my life waiting for

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Speaker 1: the other shoe to drop, so I got a handgun

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Speaker 1: and a concealed carry permit, took some self defense courses,

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Speaker 1: and started doing strength training. This is so fucked up

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Speaker 1: that she literally has to train like she's in the

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Speaker 1: Israeli military to fucking.

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Speaker 3: Like Liel safe just to live life. That's insane.

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Speaker 1: I also looked into getting an attack dog, after all

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Speaker 1: the money I'd sunk into the other methods of protection,

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Speaker 1: they were prohibitively expensive, so I went to my local

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Speaker 1: animal shelter and got the scariest, meanest dog I could find.

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Speaker 3: That is where thor comes in Thor. Thor he's a.

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Speaker 1: One hundred pound American bulldog. Looks like he'd rip out

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Speaker 1: your throat on site, but it's basically a gigantic teddy bear.

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Speaker 1: He loves every person he's ever met, is incredibly sweet

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Speaker 1: and even loves the mailman. I just kind of accepted

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Speaker 1: that he'd probably wouldn't do anything to protect me from

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Speaker 1: my stocker, but it didn't matter that much because having

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Speaker 1: such a huge dog made me so much more confident.

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Speaker 1: I brought Thor everywhere I could and was working on

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Speaker 1: so I could bring him in side places with me.

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Speaker 1: I absolutely would not do this until he was trained

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Speaker 1: well enough so as to not disrupt a regular service.

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Speaker 1: Dog shot out OPI Last month, I woke up in

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Speaker 1: the middle of the night to Thor whining. I was

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Speaker 1: so I got out of bed and opened the door.

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Speaker 1: At that point, my house alarm went off, and pretty

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Speaker 1: soon after that I was face to face with my stalker.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I started screaming and went to run for my gun,

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Speaker 1: but before I could do anything, though, Thor ran across

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Speaker 1: the room in full attack boat who The memory is

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Speaker 1: really blurry for me, but there was blood all over

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Speaker 1: my living room, and I remember my stalker was eventually

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Speaker 1: and then came.

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Speaker 3: Back to me. Dogs are so incredible. I know they

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Speaker 3: know when you're in trouble.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because that's what I'm saying, Like, there's all these

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Speaker 2: people in Opie's life, and the dog knows who is

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Speaker 2: the bad guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, instantly, bam Wow. When the police showed up, they

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Speaker 1: said Thor was a hero who'd probably saved my life.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to list what they found in my

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Speaker 1: stalker's car after they caught him. And I'm shaking little

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Speaker 1: as I type this, but I'm sure he was going

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Speaker 1: to bring me somewhere and kill me. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: It looks like he's going to prison for a long

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Speaker 1: time though, So my nightmare is over. Pretty Much everyone

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Speaker 3: No, no, keep going, sir in law.

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Speaker 1: She and my brother have a four year old, the

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Speaker 1: snapped in the past, he could do it again, and

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Speaker 1: so he's not safe to have around kids. We used

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Speaker 1: to see each other a few times a week before

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Speaker 1: she decided Thor was dangerous. The way she words this

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Speaker 1: makes me really angry because Thor didn't snap. He saw

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Speaker 1: a stranger break into his home, heard his owner's scream

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Speaker 1: Nothing about that screams dangerous around my children to me,

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Speaker 1: unless my niece is also going to break into my

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if someone doesn't get how dogs can do that,

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Speaker 2: it's kind of hard to explain it.

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Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, it's her kid,

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Speaker 1: so she can do what she wants. You can't force

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Speaker 1: her to have her kid around your dog. Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: you could like say, like, hey, when your kids at

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Speaker 3: We can go we can go to the park together.

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Speaker 3: I can leave the dog at home.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, there's there's maybe some compromises the guy.

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Speaker 2: I you know what, at the end of the day whatever,

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Speaker 2: Like the sister.

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Speaker 1: In law, it does suck. It does suck. Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: it's not a reflection of your dog either. It's like

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Speaker 1: also just like sometimes dogs can just get out of hand. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I understand where the sistern in law is coming from,

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Speaker 1: especially like after your dog just like rightfully so, but

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Speaker 1: like mauld and attacker, like I can understand being a

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Speaker 1: parent being like holy shit, like you know, I know

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Speaker 1: he's saved your life, but that dog is.

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Speaker 3: Capable of doing that to my child. Is a sister

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Speaker 3: in law the ahole? I don't think so. I don't

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Speaker 1: But I mean, like, I don't think thor is the

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Speaker 1: It's just differences of like like who you want to

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Speaker 3: Maybe comment your crazy X stories. Oh yeah, as well

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Speaker 3: any stalker stories if you have any and any and all,

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Speaker 3: we want to hear them. We love you, see you.

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Speaker 1: In the next one, I proposed to my boyfriend, so

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Speaker 1: is ex send me their sex stape proving that she's

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Speaker 1: better at bet than me.

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Speaker 3: Not the classiest move. Not the classiest move. And this

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Speaker 3: a few days ago. Oh, that one was crazy, but

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Speaker 3: I need to see what happens. Okay, As for the updates.

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Speaker 1: After posting here and reading the advice and reflecting on

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Speaker 1: my actions, I realized what I did was wrong and

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Speaker 1: a violation of my fiance's privacy. So true, dude, she

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Speaker 1: should have snooped through all those texts. I think she

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Speaker 1: should double down and go through all of it. I

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Speaker 1: should break into his computer easily, hire a white hat hacker,

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Speaker 1: a black hat hacker, private investigator. I've investigator follow him,

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Speaker 1: you know, break his knee, Cass. I allowed my insecurities

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Speaker 1: to dictate my actions. You did, even though my fiance

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Speaker 1: drama once again in his life. He told me that

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Speaker 1: watching it made him look bad, And was afraid if

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Speaker 3: What I did. And I apologize again.

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Speaker 2: This guy's like the golden literally like the golden child,

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Speaker 2: and she's like snooping in his messages and my god

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Speaker 1: And I apologize again and reassured him that they did

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Speaker 3: I wanted.

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Speaker 1: I wanted him to have some time to process things

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Speaker 1: him some space. That night, I decided to cook his

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Speaker 1: He seemed in a much better mood. He apologized to

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Speaker 3: This guy's most understand.

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Speaker 2: The guy literally like you can shoot him in the leg,

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Speaker 2: and it's like, you know, I understand you're working through

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Speaker 3: I needed to let your anger out.

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Speaker 1: But he said that I could have just talked to

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Speaker 1: him and he would have given me his phone and

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Speaker 1: reassured me that he hadn't kept any of the old videos.

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Speaker 3: I assured if. I asked if he was going.

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Speaker 1: To press charges regarding revenge poard, and he told me

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Speaker 1: forget the whole thing, which true, dude like lawsuit's only

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Speaker 3: Accountable and probably go even crazier.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I told him it was completely his choice and

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Speaker 1: I support him and would delete the videos and block

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Speaker 1: her right away. Finally, I brought up the texts and

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Speaker 1: he apologized to me for the rants. He told me

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Speaker 1: that he had actually thought about who was better, and

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Speaker 1: that he never actively compared me to his exes before.

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Speaker 1: He told me he should have just answered it with

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Speaker 1: a simple my fiancees better and tried to apologize again.

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Speaker 1: I told him that he didn't have to sugarcoat anything,

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Speaker 1: and that it was his private conversation with a friend

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Speaker 1: and I have no right to be mad when he

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Speaker 3: True fair. I also told.

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Speaker 1: Him that it was okay if she was better, and

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Speaker 1: I didn't have to be the best at everything. He

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Speaker 1: explained to me that after talking to Sarah, he thought

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Speaker 1: it better, and this.

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Speaker 3: Is what he said. Ooh, I'm excited and this is sweet.

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Speaker 3: She gave that tough.

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Speaker 2: Like no one else.

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Speaker 3: Babe, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: No, it's actually really cool. So you are the best

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Speaker 1: I ever had. I'm not lying or sugarcoating anything. If

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Speaker 1: someone asked me who is the most skilled or most

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Speaker 1: someone asked me what was the best sex I ever had?

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Speaker 1: My first thought would be the time when we had

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Speaker 1: sex right after you asked me to marry you, and

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Speaker 1: then it would be the night when you first told

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Speaker 1: me you loved me, and third with the night we

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Speaker 1: had sex in the kitchen the day I moved in.

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Speaker 1: For all her skill and experience, she couldn't even make

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Speaker 1: Top three and we had the rest of our lives

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Speaker 1: to make sure she doesn't even come in the top

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Speaker 1: one hundred. So no, I'm not lying when I say

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Speaker 1: you were the best I ever had.

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Speaker 3: What about the sloppy toffee though, job, he just poured

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Speaker 3: his heart out. The man is an angel. The man

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Speaker 3: is a fucking angel. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: Despite what I said about not needing to be the best,

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Speaker 1: just hearing what he said, maybe I which of the quote.

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Speaker 1: He was just so much more charming and eloquent. It

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Speaker 1: made me really happy. So I kissed him and asked

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Speaker 1: top three again.

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Speaker 3: Then yeah.

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Speaker 1: I didn't really specifically try to be more aggressive, but

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Speaker 1: I tried to focus more on what he was feeling

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Speaker 1: as I did. That naturally arowed me, That naturally allowed

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Speaker 1: was great. I could tell he really enjoyed it as well.

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Speaker 1: I know I have to work on my insecurities and

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Speaker 1: potentially see a therapist, but for now I will try

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Speaker 1: my best to just forget what I saw all those

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Speaker 1: videos and enjoy being and enjoy being engaged to the

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Speaker 1: most amazing man.

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Speaker 3: I know. Did we did?

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Speaker 2: We just come to a beautiful, incredible whole that was

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Speaker 2: so freaking cute that.

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Speaker 3: That was great. Man is an angel? Man is angel.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't make president, Yeah, make him president president of

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Speaker 3: that damn. I'm wow. We salute you, We salute you.

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Speaker 3: Saluted