1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com. 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:08,799 Speaker 2: Ryan is on the phone today for our first Day 4 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Chloe. So in 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:12,319 Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call her and see if she 6 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him 7 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 2: another date. But first, Ryan, how long has it been 8 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:17,600 Speaker 2: since you heard from Chloe? 9 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 3: Oh? 10 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:22,599 Speaker 4: Man, it's been probably about a week, maybe a little 11 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 4: bit longer. 12 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I don't know. 13 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 3: We went on a date. Everything we were really really good. 14 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 4: We ended up like taking her dog, this little Pomeranian 15 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 4: named Noodle, to a dog friendly pet. 16 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 17 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 4: I mean it was super chill, like I mean, I 18 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 4: thought everything went well, like I mean, we were sipping 19 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 4: on craft beers. I mean, we played like one of 20 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 4: those giant Jinga games, like we watched you go over 21 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 4: and like charm everybody else that was hanging out of the brewery, Like, 22 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 4: I mean, it was great. 23 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 2: What do you think happened? I don't know. 24 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 4: I mean I thought she was awesome, Like, I mean, 25 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 4: she's just super short, man like witty in a way 26 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 4: that like really just kind of keeps you on your 27 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 4: toes and like she loves dogs, like really loves her dog. 28 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 4: But I mean that's cool, Like she's got a big heart. 29 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 4: Like I mean we even like shared a pretzel, and 30 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 4: I mean that's basically like a relationship milestone. 31 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 2: Is it press sharing a pretzel and then comes marriage. 32 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 4: I guess, well, you know, because I've been on dates 33 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 4: where like it's all like small talk and just fake 34 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 4: laughs and stuff like that. But like when I was 35 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 4: hanging out with her, like it just felt different, like 36 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 4: like we were actually connected with each other, Like you. 37 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 5: Could tell that she was into you too. 38 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 4: I mean like it just felt like we had a 39 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 4: connection and like we were having like a really deep 40 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 4: like conversation and like I don't know, it was just 41 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 4: like the best way to describe it, with. 42 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 3: The risk of sounding cliche, it's chemistry. 43 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's not cliche at all. Chemistry is big. You 44 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 5: don't have that with everybody. So then what do you 45 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 5: think could have gone wrong? 46 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 6: Though? 47 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 5: Like was there a moment where anything got awkward or 48 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 5: did you do something? 49 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 4: I mean, there was like a moment where like Noodles 50 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 4: kind of like ran away, Like I mean I swore 51 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 4: I had it, but like he kind of like wheeled 52 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 4: out of my out of his harness and then just 53 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 4: kind of bolted and it took like six of us 54 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,399 Speaker 4: and like one like really athletic bartender to like catch him. 55 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 5: Wait, so like this is a big moment. 56 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 4: She just kind of wiggled it out and like bolted, 57 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 4: you know, Like I mean, Chloe thought it was my fault. 58 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 4: She like might have screamed like you have one job, Rian, 59 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 4: like in front of everybody. 60 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 5: But like when we ask you how the date was, 61 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 5: this is a big thing to talk about. 62 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 3: Everything else about the date was awesome. 63 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 5: Okay, Well then how did a random bartender get involved 64 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 5: to help you get the dog? 65 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 4: Well, it's all the dog running and it was like 66 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 4: a dog friendly brewery and so he ran over to help. 67 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 5: Okay, that was nice. What did you do when the 68 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 5: dog got away? Did you try to get it too? 69 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? No, absolutely I tried to get it. 70 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 5: Okay. How did she react after Noodle came back? Was 71 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 5: she fine she go back to normal? Or was she irritated? 72 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 4: I mean she was a little irritated, but like not 73 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 4: in like a like a big way, Like she wasn't 74 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 4: mad mad m Probably she. 75 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 5: Got Noodle back. Did you guys case or anything. 76 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 3: No, we did. 77 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see we can help you out. We'll play 78 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 2: a song, come back, and then call her and get 79 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 2: your first day follow up, Next. 80 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 81 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com. 82 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up, 83 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 2: Ryan is on the phone and Ryan is getting ghosted 84 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 2: by Chloe. So we're about to call her and see 85 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe 86 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 2: get him another date. But before we do that, Ryan, 87 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 2: why don't you kind of recap your situation for us. 88 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I went on a date with Chloe and 89 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 4: her pomeranian Noodle, and we had a good time. I 90 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 4: did lose Noodle for a brief moment, but we got 91 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 4: him back, and yeah, I don't know everything else about 92 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 4: the date went really really well and we vibed and 93 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 4: we had a really good time. And so like, I 94 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 4: just want to see why she's not calling me. 95 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 2: Bay, And the reason you think you might be getting 96 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 2: ghosted is because you did lose her pomeranian for a minute. 97 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 4: The only possible reason I could think of, because everything 98 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 4: else went so well. 99 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 3: All right, cool? 100 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 2: Are you ready for us to call her. I am okay, 101 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 2: here we go. Hello him, I speak to Chloe. Please. 102 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 2: This is hurt Hey, Chloe, how are you. My name 103 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 2: is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called 104 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 2: the Jubile Show. 105 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 5: Hi, Chloe. I'nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. 106 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:43,039 Speaker 2: This is a radio show called the Jebel Show. Have 107 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 2: you ever heard of it? 108 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 6: I have. I just didn't know you guys actually called people. 109 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 3: This is yes, everybody. 110 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I mean I've doen some clips on TikTok, 111 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 7: but I just didn't think. 112 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 6: I was just not expecting to hear from the radio this. 113 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 2: But we weren't expecting to talk to you today, Chloe. 114 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 2: But now we are. 115 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 5: It's great. 116 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 2: Look at that. It's in the world. Cool, Chloe. We're 117 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 2: calling you because we do a segment on our show. 118 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 2: It's called the First Day follow Up. It's where if 119 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 2: you go out on a date with somebody and they 120 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 2: end up ghosting you, that person can email us to 121 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 2: get you on the phone and see why you're ghosting them. 122 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 2: And we got an email about you from a dude 123 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 2: named Ryan. 124 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 7: Mmmm mm hmm. 125 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, and Ryan told us about your date. He thought 126 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:25,679 Speaker 2: that you guys hit it off. He said that everything 127 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,839 Speaker 2: was great, that you were amazing, Your dog Noodle was awesome. 128 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 5: Are you ghosting him on purpose? 129 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 7: Yes? 130 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 2: You mind telling us why? 131 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 7: Well, she's a nice guy, but I just can't date 132 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 7: someone who is completely irresponsible with my child. 133 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 6: Okay, you have a kid, my dog, My dog Noodle 134 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 6: is my child. 135 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 3: I didn't lose him on purpose. 136 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 7: Like. 137 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 4: He's a tiny dog with the speed of a greyhound. 138 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 4: Like I didn't intentionally lose noodles, Chloe. 139 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:04,039 Speaker 2: That's Ryan. He's actually on the phone and wants to 140 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 2: talk to you. 141 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:09,039 Speaker 7: I think, yes, you did drop the leash, Ryan, He 142 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 7: just dropped it. 143 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 4: I mean technically he wiggled out of the harness, but yes, 144 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 4: I mean my hands were ones involved. 145 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know. 146 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 7: Then they were laughing about it. You were just laughing 147 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 7: while we were chasing him. 148 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 4: I mean it was kind of funny, like the bartender 149 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 4: dove at him like he was like in the Olympics 150 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 4: or something like that. 151 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 3: Like, I mean, it was something out of a sick bomb. 152 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 7: There was a busy road right there. I mean, he's 153 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 7: a little dog. Drivers can't see him. I mean, he 154 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 7: knows much to go on the street. But if people 155 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,479 Speaker 7: are chasing him, he scared. I mean, it's a serious thing. 156 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 6: The point is that. 157 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 7: You were careless, and I mean I don't I can't 158 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 7: trust you with Noodles, So how can I trust you? 159 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,159 Speaker 3: But he's fine and we got him back and he's 160 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 3: not hurt. 161 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 4: And like he even got like free treats from the 162 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,039 Speaker 4: staff and stuff like that, Like Noodles seemed like he 163 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 4: was having a good time. 164 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 6: I mean, it doesn't matter of Noodle's having a good 165 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 6: time before I gets hit by a car. I just 166 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 6: I can't. 167 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 7: I see that dog has been with me for the 168 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 7: last ten years. I can't have someone who just just 169 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 7: dropped his leash. 170 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 6: And thinks it's okay in a busy I mean, yeah, 171 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 6: it's just so. 172 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 5: I get how terrifying that moment is, especially Chloe, Like 173 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 5: you know, you're terrified for for Noodle in the moment, 174 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 5: But stuff like that happens and it sucks, it's not awesome, 175 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 5: but Noodle is okay. And I mean it sounds like 176 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 5: there's a little bit of remorse there, like you feel 177 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 5: bad that you drop the leash, right, Yeah, absolutely, see 178 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 5: Ryan does feel bad. So it's like that's probably something 179 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 5: he's not going to do again. Is this something that 180 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 5: you're really going to hold against him, Chloe? 181 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, I am going to hold him accountable for this. 182 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 7: I had to take middle to therapy because of this, 183 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 7: and so oh wait wait wait you took your dog 184 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 7: to therapy. Yes, yes, he goes to mediums and he goes. Well, 185 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 7: she's never had to go to a therapist before, but 186 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 7: now he is because of you, Ryan, because of you. Okay. 187 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 7: And and pet insurance does not cover therapy, so I 188 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 7: should really be sending you the bill. 189 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 4: Actually, yeah, because pet insurance probably doesn't see it as 190 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 4: a necessary treatment. 191 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 3: For a dog. Oh how can dare you? 192 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 5: How scare you? 193 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 6: Ryan? 194 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, guys when when I had you, guys call 195 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 4: her like, I had no idea that that it was 196 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 4: it was like this. 197 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 2: That you scarred a dog for life. 198 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 3: Sure that that's that's what we'll go with. 199 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 5: Okay, uh Dian. 200 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 7: At this point, I think the only appropriate thing would 201 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 7: be for you to apologize to Noodle. That would go 202 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 7: a long way to repair kind of my betrayed trust. 203 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 4: Okay, So, because I just want to clarify, So, because 204 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 4: I dropped a leash, you want me to apologize to 205 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:08,839 Speaker 4: your dog that you put into therapy because I traumatized 206 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 4: him by dropping his leaks. 207 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 7: Dropped the leash and laughed while chasing him like laught 208 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 7: during it. 209 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, does does Noodles have any like group therapy sessions? 210 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 3: I could maybe like come in would you? 211 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 2: Would you like to go on another date with Ryan? 212 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 2: Will pay for it? 213 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 214 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 6: You'll pay for it? 215 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 3: Wow? 216 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 6: No, there there will not be a second date with Ryan. 217 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 6: Would you guys be willing. 218 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 7: To take that same money and give it to me 219 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 7: for Noodle's therapy? 220 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 6: Because Ryan seems like a dead beat you know what. 221 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 2: It was reserved for people who go out on a date. 222 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 2: So I really can't do that. But maybe Ryan can 223 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:53,719 Speaker 2: find it in his heart to send you some cash. 224 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, checks in the mail. 225 00:09:57,640 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 4: Tell Noodle I apologize and make sure that you puts 226 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 4: them aside for his trust fund. 227 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 3: Okay, okay. 228 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: Jubile's first Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury 229 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: Attorney Online at Advocateslaw dot com.