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Speaker 2: three year old woman has shared on Reddit that her

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Speaker 2: twenty five year old boyfriend's loud reactions during football games,

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Speaker 2: like yelling at the TV and cursing at players and

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Speaker 2: cheering loudly, it's causing her anxiety. She explained that her

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Speaker 2: father had been abusive, and any raised voices in her

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Speaker 2: childhood home often followed by something worse. Her boyfriend has

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Speaker 2: never directed his anger at her. The sound of him

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Speaker 2: yelling at the TV made her feel uncomfortable and triggered

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Speaker 2: past trauma. When she asked him atona down, he became upset,

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Speaker 2: claiming that she was overreacting and expressing hurt over being

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Speaker 2: perceived as aggressive. Since then, he's been avoiding her, making

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Speaker 2: her to feel guilty and unsure if her request was reasonable.

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Speaker 1: This was onreaddit.

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Speaker 2: Most people empathized with her that a loving partner should

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Speaker 2: be sensitive to pass trauma and willing to adjust behavior. Accordingly,

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Speaker 2: many pointed out that passion for football shouldn't override someone

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Speaker 2: else's emotional well being. However, if someone is yelling at

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Speaker 2: the TV and not at you, do you think that,

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Speaker 2: I mean, within the household relationship, if it's your.

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Speaker 1: Roommate, can you say something or is it?

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Speaker 2: Is it like, is that you being a little dramatic

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Speaker 2: because they're yelling at the Lions? It's Kaylin actually, and

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Speaker 2: she's and this is from Shane, her boyfriend. Her boyfriend

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Speaker 2: wrote this, and he you know, apparently you don't care.

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Speaker 2: You just ignore him now and continue to scream at

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Speaker 2: the TV. He can lease it's wildly triggerating for him.

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Speaker 1: That's where he could go. I mean, I.

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Speaker 2: Understand that this, you know that that kind of behavior

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Speaker 2: could be problematic for you, But I mean, but when

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Speaker 2: you're directing it at the sporting event and not at you,

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Speaker 2: and it would be one thing I think if like

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Speaker 2: you're anger, because I've had this. I've had it where

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Speaker 2: my team lost and I was mad the rest of

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Speaker 2: the day at everything, So that that's like something you'd

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Speaker 2: have to have under control, you know, like if your

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Speaker 2: team loses and then you're just you know, sort of

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Speaker 2: lashing out on people because you're in a bad mood.

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Speaker 2: You know, any for any reason that you're in a

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Speaker 2: bad mood. You go to work, have bad day at work,

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Speaker 2: you don't get a promotion, you I don't know, lost something,

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Speaker 2: your headphones got stolen, Yeah, and then take it out

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Speaker 2: on hobby all the rest of the day.

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Speaker 1: Like that's not cool.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, if I'm if I'm emotional about whatever

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Speaker 2: I'm consuming, whatever content I'm consuming, should that is that

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Speaker 2: something that my partner can say like, hey, I mean

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Speaker 2: I can't do that. I need you to stop doing

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Speaker 2: that because well, it brings up something from my path.

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Speaker 3: See I'm somebody who also doesn't like the yelling, and like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: it does for me.

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Speaker 1: Its sparks little something in me.

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Speaker 3: It's just my own personal issue that I'm dealing with

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Speaker 3: as far as like childhood and the yelling and stuff.

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Speaker 3: But I just want to know you know I such

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Speaker 3: straight men are weird or wherever you said. Minute, I

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Speaker 3: want to know why men love being cheerleaders so hard

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Speaker 3: on weekends.

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Speaker 1: It's for these sports events.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm so serious, Like I'm so tired of people

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Speaker 3: yelling and screaming over teams, Like it's not like you're playing,

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Speaker 3: like how you are not playing on the Cubs, Like

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: But you would think the passion, No, I thought he

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Speaker 1: was a Cubs player.

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Speaker 3: You would think with the way my basement looks, and

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Speaker 3: like just the way that like he's got out the

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Speaker 3: jerseys and the hats and the bottle heads, but like.

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Speaker 1: I those from all his teammates.

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Speaker 3: You think I want to freak out every time I

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Speaker 3: just see him even watch a game, because to me,

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Speaker 3: it bothers me, Like this is not real.

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Speaker 1: It's an outsider.

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Speaker 2: Like if you were just to look at dudes watching

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Speaker 2: sports and like how they were act watching sports and

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Speaker 2: it's very interesting and I'm not and they can't hear you.

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Speaker 2: It's like you're not even there. If you're a scream,

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Speaker 2: if you're a game and you're getting into it, I mean,

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Speaker 2: at least they could hear you a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit, right, you're at an event like that word see the.

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Speaker 2: Problem, Like, I mean, I see a problem. If it's

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Speaker 2: that triggering for you, Can I tone down my enthusiasm

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Speaker 2: my screaming at the television? Yeah, I think I probably can.

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Speaker 2: Or can I just move it to a different venue?

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Speaker 2: Maybe you know, like, hey, you don't like that, Okay,

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Speaker 2: maybe maybe you're you don't hang out in the house

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Speaker 2: while I watch the game, or maybe I watch some

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Speaker 2: of the games somewhere else and then we don't have

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Speaker 2: to do that. But I mean, I'm directing it at

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Speaker 2: the TV, like I don't know, I'm into it.

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Speaker 1: I'm passionate about him.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you watch a Bad Money concert, You're yelling

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Speaker 2: and screaming and freaking out. You get an emotional reaction

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Speaker 2: from watching that form of entertainment that's not stimulus at

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Speaker 2: the events.

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Speaker 3: When I'm there at the concert, if I'm in my

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Speaker 3: living groom, might be all shake a lit last, But I'm

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Speaker 3: not gonna like scream.

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Speaker 1: You can't see you shake ass even there. I'm not

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Speaker 1: hurting anybody.

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Speaker 2: But I don't think you're necessarily hurting anyone by getting

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Speaker 2: into a game. But you're looking at the TV. I'm

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Speaker 2: not like Hey, moron, my team didn't score.

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Speaker 1: I hate you. I mean, that's different. That'll be way different.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's difference between me annoying and

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Speaker 2: being like, you shouldn't do it.

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Speaker 1: Nobody.

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Speaker 3: I don't have this problem in my house, but my

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Speaker 3: nephew with the video game is it's the next It's

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Speaker 3: next level.

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Speaker 1: Like he's screaming at the TV. He's yelling at the

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Speaker 1: people on it, the Wendy's head set. He's cursing. It's like,

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Speaker 1: you gotta relax, bro, Like, I don't know what's going

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Speaker 1: on on. You know what are you playing? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on. But it doesn't need

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Speaker 1: all that.

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Speaker 2: I'm more concerned about who they're talking to exactly that

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Speaker 2: I am about who they're yelling at. I mean, they

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Speaker 2: yelling and getting into it whatever, But who is this

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Speaker 2: person on the other end, especially for kids, Yeah, like,

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Speaker 2: are you talking to some strangers somewhere? I've seen the

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Speaker 2: ketchup reredator to.

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Speaker 4: Me, he tes, Hey, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Your husband screams at the TV?

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Speaker 4: Yes, he does every single week, and when his team

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Speaker 4: is on, he has to watch the start of the

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Speaker 4: whole game plus highlights if his team doesn't win, it

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Speaker 4: puts a damper on our whole day. It is the

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Speaker 4: most annoying thing, and our dogs always gets so scared.

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Speaker 2: Well see now, but the whole affecting his mood for

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Speaker 2: the rest of the day. Like that's one thing that's

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Speaker 2: a fair argument that, Like, dude, I mean, why do

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Speaker 2: I have you don't take it out of me? What's

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Speaker 2: sixteen eighteen weeks a year, or however many games there

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Speaker 2: are for your team, Like that's that's not cool. But

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Speaker 2: if he wants to get into a sporting event because

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Speaker 2: he's passionate about it and he wants a team to

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Speaker 2: wait and like that's his release for him or something,

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Speaker 2: then I guess I don't see what you know. I

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Speaker 2: don't see how we can't come up with boundaries for

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Speaker 2: that or or why that that activity has to necessarily,

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Speaker 2: you know, immediately puts me in the same realm as

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Speaker 2: someone who was sadly maybe abusive or or very unkind

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Speaker 4: Like he's never unkind to me, but he just gets

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Speaker 4: so into the games, and I just I'm not a

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Speaker 4: big sports person and I just don't understand it's just

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Speaker 4: a game.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Okay, Tessa all right, well I'm sorry that happens,

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Speaker 2: and go whatever team for him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, woo, okay.

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Speaker 2: All right bye, yea, I was very I was just

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Speaker 2: least on Saturday with the Cubs. But luckily I was

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Speaker 2: only displeased for about twenty minutes because the whole thing

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Speaker 2: melted down the first two innings, so you know, I

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Speaker 2: could move on to other things to be displeased about.

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Speaker 1: Your life back after that? Well, did I just I

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Speaker 1: just stopped watching? Yeah, I got right.

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Speaker 2: It's like I was very mad, but then I just

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Speaker 2: moved on to something else because it happened so fast,

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Speaker 2: it was it was almost painless because you know, we

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Speaker 2: got our butts kicked so quickly that it was okay,

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Speaker 2: you know, but there's always tonight for me to not

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Speaker 2: be mad again. But again, if I'm not taking it

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Speaker 2: out on other people, it's just like, okay, well, I'm

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Speaker 2: sorry that upset you, but like, go go to your

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Speaker 2: seat shed or your craft room or something. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, make a friendship bracelet, or I don't know,

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Speaker 2: there's some pottery or what labor yeah, or I don't know,

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Speaker 2: maybe you're into something, and go go put the Wendy's

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Speaker 2: headsets on and go play Grand Theft Onto. What I

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Speaker 2: don't mean to you know, stereotype or whatever you're into. Like,

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Speaker 2: let me have my minute here where I think I

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Speaker 2: have an impact on this game, and I don't. I

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Speaker 2: have no impact whatsoever. Let me pretend for one second

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Speaker 2: like my enthusiasm matters to anyone