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Speaker 1: Second date update. For today's second date update, Ember is
Speaker 1: on the phone and she sent us an email saying
Speaker 1: that she looked past a deal breaker because she liked
Speaker 1: the dude that she went out with so much, but
Speaker 1: now he's not calling her back. Oh, proof that you
Speaker 1: shouldn't look past your deal breakers. Like my deal breaker
Speaker 1: if I go out with a woman and she has
Speaker 1: like a family, like a healthy family, dynamic deal breaker
Speaker 1: for Mesh wants functional families and no daddy is huge,
Speaker 1: huge red flag from Ember said she looked past the
Speaker 1: deal breaker. We'll find out what that is in the
Speaker 1: second But first, Ember, how are you doing. I'm I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm just on the edge of my seat
Speaker 1: waiting to find out maybe what happened with this date.
Speaker 1: But I'm good. I'm doing good. Well, slide all the
Speaker 1: way back into your seat because sometimes these phone calls
Speaker 1: can take a long time. Okay, I'll the last We'll try. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about your date. So I
Speaker 1: met the guy on a dating app. M. I kind
Speaker 1: of just recently started doing the dating app thing. I
Speaker 1: wasn't meaning guys as naturally anymore. So okay, I always
Speaker 1: think it's funny when people sound like so embarrassed by that.
Speaker 1: I'm but the majority of people do it. It's a
Speaker 1: normal thing. Yeah, you know. I have friends to do it,
Speaker 1: and they've met guys. They're really into that way, so
Speaker 1: I thought I might as well try. Okay, So the
Speaker 1: guy's name on the app is Sparky. I thought it
Speaker 1: was kind of cute Ember and sparky like Emma. I mean,
Speaker 1: think of all the flame play on words you could
Speaker 1: have at your wedding if you guys got married. I
Speaker 1: like how you're picking guys online too, Like, his name
Speaker 1: sounds cute. Well, all about the word play? Why? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you matched with the guy based on name alone. Well,
Speaker 1: not completely, but it was kind of what caught my
Speaker 1: attention intially. Right, your email said that you looked past
Speaker 1: the deal breaker. Why was the date so good that
Speaker 1: you were able to look past whatever your deal breaker is? Well,
Speaker 1: let me call you like the rundown of date first?
Speaker 1: So we went for a swing dance lessons fo Yeah,
Speaker 1: he decided on that, and I thought that was kind
Speaker 1: of cool, and that's already a great idea. I already
Speaker 1: liked sparky. Way to go sparky, and that could go
Speaker 1: really poorly if you meet some dude online he's like, hey,
Speaker 1: I want to go swinging with you. It's you know,
Speaker 1: there's two things that could happen from that. And it
Speaker 1: seems like you got the best result. Yeah, we're not.
Speaker 1: Depending on your preference, I don't know. No, I definitely
Speaker 1: got the result I wanted with the swing daping. So
Speaker 1: how are the classes. Well, we both weren't that adept
Speaker 1: at it, but he was trying really hard to get
Speaker 1: the stuff down and I thought it was really cute
Speaker 1: that he was putting such an effort for us. Right,
Speaker 1: so you're having fun. Yeah, we had a good time,
Speaker 1: and after that we went to get dinner, and that's
Speaker 1: when the deal breaker issue came up. I called him
Speaker 1: Sparky and he was like, well, actually that's not my
Speaker 1: real name, and you're like, yeah, no kidding. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: didn't expect that. So he was like, actually, my real
Speaker 1: name is Ryan, and okay, perfectly good name, but unfortunately
Speaker 1: my ex's name is Brian. Oh a little too similar
Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, we ended on real bad terms. So wait,
Speaker 1: that's your deal breaker, is that you won't date anyone
Speaker 1: with the name similar to Brian. Well, I didn't realize
Speaker 1: it was a deal breaker until that came up, and then,
Speaker 1: you know, it just kind of reminds me of Brian,
Speaker 1: like it's only one letter off, like a confused and like,
Speaker 1: you know, make jokes about it, and I don't want
Speaker 1: to think about that path, you know. So wait, did
Speaker 1: you tell him that after he said that his name
Speaker 1: was Ryan? Well, no, because I had a good time
Speaker 1: and I liked the guy, and I didn't want to
Speaker 1: be a weirdo own be like, oh, well, my X
Speaker 1: had a very similar name. So so you know, and
Speaker 1: I hope that's okay with you. Okay, good, I'm glad
Speaker 1: I did not say that. Yeah, yeah, and go into
Speaker 1: great detail about how bad your breakup was with a
Speaker 1: lot of people like hearing that on a first date.
Speaker 1: So it's probably good you didn't go that route. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to go into detail or even bring
Speaker 1: up any x ya. Obviously that's not cool, so I
Speaker 1: was willing to overlook it. So how did the day end?
Speaker 1: After the name thing, he gave me a hug, like
Speaker 1: I totally forgot about the Ryan Brian thing for the
Speaker 1: rest of the time we were together. I real issues
Speaker 1: when it goes. Yeah, when he said his name, you
Speaker 1: had like a look at disgust, and he actually went
Speaker 1: beast right. My faith tends to give away my emotions
Speaker 1: sometimes more than I'd like it too. So maybe it
Speaker 1: was taking a little too long to order and you
Speaker 1: stood up and you're like, you never know what you
Speaker 1: want when we get here. You're always changing your mind, Brian,
Speaker 1: this is another problem with you, right, Maybe a PCSD
Speaker 1: kicked in. Okay, well we'll find out. We'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, and then call him and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. Okay, okay, thank you, all right, hang up
Speaker 1: brooking jubil in the morning dates. You know, deal breakers
Speaker 1: are kind of a funny subject when you talk about
Speaker 1: dating Brook, Do you have any deal breakers? No? I
Speaker 1: was always pretty hoping I wouldn't I wouldn't sleep with you.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't sleep with you. That's a deal breaker. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I dated guys with missing front teeth once that lived
Speaker 1: in their car. I mean, hey, I was willing to
Speaker 1: look past really anything. Literally, Yeah, don't very accepting would
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it's a good thing, but it was
Speaker 1: my thing. People tend to be a little bit more particular,
Speaker 1: like Ember, who's on the phone for a second date
Speaker 1: update right now, and she was willing to look past
Speaker 1: a dealbreaker to try to get another date with the
Speaker 1: dude we're about to call. Just to remind everybody, Ember
Speaker 1: went out with a guy named Sparky, that's his nickname.
Speaker 1: She didn't know that his real name is actually Ryan
Speaker 1: and it's really close to her ex boyfriend's name, Brian,
Speaker 1: and that was the deal breaker. She felt really uncomfortable
Speaker 1: about that, but she was still like, whatever, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: still try to go out with this guy. And now
Speaker 1: he's not calling her back. Ember, when we were talking earlier,
Speaker 1: I didn't hear what do you like so much about Ryan? Like?
Speaker 1: Why were you willing to look past this dealbreaker? We
Speaker 1: just gone along. He seemed smart, We had great conversation,
Speaker 1: and I just thought there was a spark, like I
Speaker 1: don't know what to say. You were giddy, is what
Speaker 1: you were saying. I liked him, like I was into
Speaker 1: it until he reminded you of your ex and then
Speaker 1: but it was just the name, nothing beyond that. Well,
Speaker 1: we'll give him a call right now and see if
Speaker 1: we can figure out why he's not calling you back.
Speaker 1: Here we go, Hello him, I speak to Ryan. Uh.
Speaker 1: This is Ryan Ryan. How are you man? My name
Speaker 1: is jew Bil from a radio show called Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. What is that the radio show
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's the show where
Speaker 1: we do fun and wacky calls. I don't know you've
Speaker 1: heard it before. Oh yeah, yeah, I guess I've heard
Speaker 1: of you guys. Okay, cool. Have you heard any of
Speaker 1: the fun and wacky calls we do, because that's kind
Speaker 1: of what we're known for, fun and wacky calls. So
Speaker 1: this is one of them. Oh that sounds so lame
Speaker 1: when you describe it, like, who knows? Maybe both? What's
Speaker 1: going on? I don't really get why everyone's laughing. I can.
Speaker 1: I can understand that it probably makes no sense to
Speaker 1: you at all. Um, Well, we do a segment on
Speaker 1: our show called the Second Date Update, and you went
Speaker 1: out on a date with a woman named Ember. Yeah yeah, yeah. Ember.
Speaker 1: Ember emailed us because she said she'd like going out
Speaker 1: with you, but she hasn't heard back. So she's wondering
Speaker 1: if she did something wrong. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: should talk about that. Can you at least tell us
Speaker 1: whether or not you had a good time on your
Speaker 1: date with Ember? I mean that's not really that personal. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess we had no kay time. Oh what a cell?
Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds like you were miserable the entire day.
Speaker 1: I wasn't miserable. I guess I was just kind of confused. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: here's the thing. Ember emailed us because she's willing to
Speaker 1: hear whatever you have to say. She wants to know.
Speaker 1: She said that she wants to know the reason. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's actually the one that's confused. She thought you guys
Speaker 1: had a fantastic time. So can you just tell us
Speaker 1: what you were confused about? It's not a barrassing about you.
Speaker 1: Um okay, I I mean I show up and she's
Speaker 1: all orange orange, like the color Yeah, like color like
Speaker 1: a bad spray tan or something. I mean, amongst other things. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like her skin was orange, her hair was orange, and
Speaker 1: all her clothes were orange. Yeah. So wait, is that
Speaker 1: different from what her profile pick was on her dating account? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean she had like orange hair in her picture,
Speaker 1: but like I couldn't see her clothes, Like her clothes
Speaker 1: weren't orange, you know. Okay, but so she has orange hair,
Speaker 1: and then she decided to wear orange on your date. Yeah, um,
Speaker 1: she wore a maniac. I don't even know how he
Speaker 1: felt safe. I mean, it's not that bad. It's just
Speaker 1: strange that like everything's orange, you know, the way literally orange,
Speaker 1: the color orange is the reason that you don't want
Speaker 1: to go out with her again. Yeah, And it wasn't
Speaker 1: just that she was wearing all orange. She ordered orange
Speaker 1: food for dinner. What what do you mean kind of
Speaker 1: orange food? I mean, like she ordered carrots. Like we
Speaker 1: went out to dinner, she ordered carrots. Okay, so she
Speaker 1: likes carrots. What else? Okay, well, okay, so she ordered carrots.
Speaker 1: Then she ordered butternut squashed soup. Yeah, that's very particular.
Speaker 1: And those are both like app that's not a meal.
Speaker 1: She ordered like two apps. That's not even you know,
Speaker 1: which is a crime in and of itself, like for
Speaker 1: god's sakes, Yeah, I mean it's here, She's going out
Speaker 1: of her way to range order orange food. Um. Interesting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and she never brought up her obsession with orange. No,
Speaker 1: she just just like went on like she was dressed
Speaker 1: like a normal person and like I didn't have orange
Speaker 1: hair and orange skin and acted normal. Are you curious
Speaker 1: at all? Why the orange? I mean yeah, like obviously
Speaker 1: I wanted to know, but like they couldn't ask her.
Speaker 1: It's like a rude thing to ask on a date.
Speaker 1: It's like, why are you all orange? Yeah? I guess
Speaker 1: that is kind of rude, But I know how we
Speaker 1: can figure it out because she is actually on the
Speaker 1: other line listing and wants to talk to you right now.
Speaker 1: Wait what Yeah, probably on an orange phone. I'm not sure,
Speaker 1: but Ember, are you still there? Yeah? Hi, Ryan, what's up?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm sorry. I had no idea you
Speaker 1: were there. Um well I am. So are you? Like,
Speaker 1: are you obsessed with orange? Or did it just happen
Speaker 1: to be a day where you wore an orange outfit
Speaker 1: because it matched? I mean, I don't think I'm obsessed
Speaker 1: with orange. I like orange, I like to match. Sometimes
Speaker 1: I wear orange, sometimes I don't. I wanted to show
Speaker 1: my personality and my favorite colors orange. But like, why
Speaker 1: did you order Range food? Then? Like, did you do
Speaker 1: that on purpose? Were you trying to send a message? No?
Speaker 1: A message to who the other orange people? Like, I'm
Speaker 1: letting everybody in this restaurant now that I'm down for
Speaker 1: the orange. I mean, you just kind of went on
Speaker 1: like you're dressed like a normal person, but you're not.
Speaker 1: You're an orange person. I'm not an orange person. I
Speaker 1: like the color orange. I thought it looked good on me,
Speaker 1: and yeah, orange is one of my favorite colors. Why
Speaker 1: is that a problem? Sorry, it's just like overwhelming. I
Speaker 1: showed up and like, you're all orange, and it just
Speaker 1: took me by surprise. Seriously, your deal breaker thought I
Speaker 1: won't launch because I had a deal breaker too, and
Speaker 1: I looked past mine. What was your deal breaker? It
Speaker 1: was your name. I just got a bad relationship a
Speaker 1: little while ago. Some named Brian. So it's a little
Speaker 1: close to home, the whole Ryan thing. Okay, well that's
Speaker 1: like one little thing. Like your whole life is orange.
Speaker 1: That's different. My whole life is not orange. But I
Speaker 1: looked past my deal breaker. That's the point. And what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say. You need to be able to
Speaker 1: look past the orange thing. I'm trying. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know what the extent of your orangeness is.
Speaker 1: I don't understand this argument, Like we're arguing about a color, literally,
Speaker 1: the color of my outfit, the color of the food,
Speaker 1: like whatever. I mean, I thought we had a good time.
Speaker 1: Didn't you have a good times? I guess I did.
Speaker 1: But I don't know if I can like look past this.
Speaker 1: What are you being serious? Ryan? Like what if she
Speaker 1: was wearing all black? I mean that's something people do
Speaker 1: all the time, or all blue or all red. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: you know, like purple's my favorite color. But you don't
Speaker 1: see me wearing all purple and like ordering eggplants, you know.
Speaker 1: I guess it's just the fact that, like she never
Speaker 1: talked about it, and I felt like I couldn't ask
Speaker 1: about it, and like it was all I could think about.
Speaker 1: It's just like why she was all orange? You know.
Speaker 1: So I'm telling you now it was honestly just a
Speaker 1: coincidence that it all happened that way. I just like
Speaker 1: the color orange, not twenty four seven orange. It's just
Speaker 1: you happen to catch me on an orange day, I guess, Yeah, Bryan,
Speaker 1: you caught her on an orange day. Let's try and
Speaker 1: do a different color. Would you go out with Ember
Speaker 1: one more time for a second day. We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1: I just I don't know what if she didn't wear orange? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that's a really simple solution. Yeah, I won't
Speaker 1: wear orange if you go out with me again. Like,
Speaker 1: wasn't I like a juicy, like hot orange at least?
Speaker 1: I mean if you wear like a mix of colors,
Speaker 1: you know, like a normal like a diversity of colors. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that you have a diverse outfit, somber. You're willing to
Speaker 1: go through your closet and see if you have multiple
Speaker 1: colors to wear that night, so you're not wearing all
Speaker 1: of one color. You're sure you have that ability? Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I'm not colorblind. Okay, I definitely have that ability.
Speaker 1: So I'm putting myself out there. Would you please go
Speaker 1: out with me again? I think we could get past
Speaker 1: this issue. Okay, yes, okay, yeah, I'll do it. Hey,
Speaker 1: aren't you glad? That worked out? Oh? Man, too soon?
Speaker 1: Broken Juwil in the morning,