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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. For today's second date update, Ember is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and she sent us an email saying

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<v Speaker 1>that she looked past a deal breaker because she liked

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<v Speaker 1>the dude that she went out with so much, but

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<v Speaker 1>now he's not calling her back. Oh, proof that you

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't look past your deal breakers. Like my deal breaker

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<v Speaker 1>if I go out with a woman and she has

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<v Speaker 1>like a family, like a healthy family, dynamic deal breaker

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<v Speaker 1>for Mesh wants functional families and no daddy is huge,

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<v Speaker 1>huge red flag from Ember said she looked past the

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<v Speaker 1>deal breaker. We'll find out what that is in the

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<v Speaker 1>second But first, Ember, how are you doing. I'm I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. I'm just on the edge of my seat

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<v Speaker 1>waiting to find out maybe what happened with this date.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm good. I'm doing good. Well, slide all the

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<v Speaker 1>way back into your seat because sometimes these phone calls

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<v Speaker 1>can take a long time. Okay, I'll the last We'll try. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us a little bit about your date. So I

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<v Speaker 1>met the guy on a dating app. M. I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just recently started doing the dating app thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't meaning guys as naturally anymore. So okay, I always

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<v Speaker 1>think it's funny when people sound like so embarrassed by that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm but the majority of people do it. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>normal thing. Yeah, you know. I have friends to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and they've met guys. They're really into that way, so

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I might as well try. Okay, So the

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<v Speaker 1>guy's name on the app is Sparky. I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of cute Ember and sparky like Emma. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>think of all the flame play on words you could

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<v Speaker 1>have at your wedding if you guys got married. I

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<v Speaker 1>like how you're picking guys online too, Like, his name

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<v Speaker 1>sounds cute. Well, all about the word play? Why? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you matched with the guy based on name alone. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>not completely, but it was kind of what caught my

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<v Speaker 1>attention intially. Right, your email said that you looked past

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<v Speaker 1>the deal breaker. Why was the date so good that

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<v Speaker 1>you were able to look past whatever your deal breaker is? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me call you like the rundown of date first?

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<v Speaker 1>So we went for a swing dance lessons fo Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he decided on that, and I thought that was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cool, and that's already a great idea. I already

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<v Speaker 1>liked sparky. Way to go sparky, and that could go

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<v Speaker 1>really poorly if you meet some dude online he's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go swinging with you. It's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's two things that could happen from that. And it

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<v Speaker 1>seems like you got the best result. Yeah, we're not.

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<v Speaker 1>Depending on your preference, I don't know. No, I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>got the result I wanted with the swing daping. So

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<v Speaker 1>how are the classes. Well, we both weren't that adept

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<v Speaker 1>at it, but he was trying really hard to get

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff down and I thought it was really cute

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<v Speaker 1>that he was putting such an effort for us. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're having fun. Yeah, we had a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>and after that we went to get dinner, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>when the deal breaker issue came up. I called him

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<v Speaker 1>Sparky and he was like, well, actually that's not my

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<v Speaker 1>real name, and you're like, yeah, no kidding. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't expect that. So he was like, actually, my real

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<v Speaker 1>name is Ryan, and okay, perfectly good name, but unfortunately

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<v Speaker 1>my ex's name is Brian. Oh a little too similar

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Yeah, we ended on real bad terms. So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>that's your deal breaker, is that you won't date anyone

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<v Speaker 1>with the name similar to Brian. Well, I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 1>it was a deal breaker until that came up, and then,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it just kind of reminds me of Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's only one letter off, like a confused and like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, make jokes about it, and I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to think about that path, you know. So wait, did

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<v Speaker 1>you tell him that after he said that his name

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<v Speaker 1>was Ryan? Well, no, because I had a good time

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<v Speaker 1>and I liked the guy, and I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be a weirdo own be like, oh, well, my X

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<v Speaker 1>had a very similar name. So so you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that's okay with you. Okay, good, I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>I did not say that. Yeah, yeah, and go into

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<v Speaker 1>great detail about how bad your breakup was with a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people like hearing that on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's probably good you didn't go that route. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to go into detail or even bring

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<v Speaker 1>up any x ya. Obviously that's not cool, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was willing to overlook it. So how did the day end?

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<v Speaker 1>After the name thing, he gave me a hug, like

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<v Speaker 1>I totally forgot about the Ryan Brian thing for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of the time we were together. I real issues

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<v Speaker 1>when it goes. Yeah, when he said his name, you

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<v Speaker 1>had like a look at disgust, and he actually went

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<v Speaker 1>beast right. My faith tends to give away my emotions

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes more than I'd like it too. So maybe it

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<v Speaker 1>was taking a little too long to order and you

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<v Speaker 1>stood up and you're like, you never know what you

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<v Speaker 1>want when we get here. You're always changing your mind, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>this is another problem with you, right, Maybe a PCSD

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<v Speaker 1>kicked in. Okay, well we'll find out. We'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, and then call him and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Okay, okay, thank you, all right, hang up

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<v Speaker 1>brooking jubil in the morning dates. You know, deal breakers

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<v Speaker 1>are kind of a funny subject when you talk about

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<v Speaker 1>dating Brook, Do you have any deal breakers? No? I

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<v Speaker 1>was always pretty hoping I wouldn't I wouldn't sleep with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't sleep with you. That's a deal breaker. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I dated guys with missing front teeth once that lived

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<v Speaker 1>in their car. I mean, hey, I was willing to

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<v Speaker 1>look past really anything. Literally, Yeah, don't very accepting would

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say it's a good thing, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>my thing. People tend to be a little bit more particular,

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<v Speaker 1>like Ember, who's on the phone for a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update right now, and she was willing to look past

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<v Speaker 1>a dealbreaker to try to get another date with the

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<v Speaker 1>dude we're about to call. Just to remind everybody, Ember

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<v Speaker 1>went out with a guy named Sparky, that's his nickname.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't know that his real name is actually Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>and it's really close to her ex boyfriend's name, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>and that was the deal breaker. She felt really uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 1>about that, but she was still like, whatever, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>still try to go out with this guy. And now

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<v Speaker 1>he's not calling her back. Ember, when we were talking earlier,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't hear what do you like so much about Ryan? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Why were you willing to look past this dealbreaker? We

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<v Speaker 1>just gone along. He seemed smart, We had great conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just thought there was a spark, like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what to say. You were giddy, is what

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<v Speaker 1>you were saying. I liked him, like I was into

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<v Speaker 1>it until he reminded you of your ex and then

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<v Speaker 1>but it was just the name, nothing beyond that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll give him a call right now and see if

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<v Speaker 1>we can figure out why he's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go, Hello him, I speak to Ryan. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Ryan Ryan. How are you man? My name

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<v Speaker 1>is jew Bil from a radio show called Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning. What is that the radio show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's the show where

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<v Speaker 1>we do fun and wacky calls. I don't know you've

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<v Speaker 1>heard it before. Oh yeah, yeah, I guess I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>of you guys. Okay, cool. Have you heard any of

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<v Speaker 1>the fun and wacky calls we do, because that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what we're known for, fun and wacky calls. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is one of them. Oh that sounds so lame

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<v Speaker 1>when you describe it, like, who knows? Maybe both? What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? I don't really get why everyone's laughing. I can.

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<v Speaker 1>I can understand that it probably makes no sense to

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<v Speaker 1>you at all. Um, Well, we do a segment on

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<v Speaker 1>our show called the Second Date Update, and you went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with a woman named Ember. Yeah yeah, yeah. Ember.

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<v Speaker 1>Ember emailed us because she said she'd like going out

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<v Speaker 1>with you, but she hasn't heard back. So she's wondering

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<v Speaker 1>if she did something wrong. I don't know if I

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<v Speaker 1>should talk about that. Can you at least tell us

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<v Speaker 1>whether or not you had a good time on your

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<v Speaker 1>date with Ember? I mean that's not really that personal. Um. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we had no kay time. Oh what a cell?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that sounds like you were miserable the entire day.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't miserable. I guess I was just kind of confused. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. Ember emailed us because she's willing to

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<v Speaker 1>hear whatever you have to say. She wants to know.

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<v Speaker 1>She said that she wants to know the reason. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's actually the one that's confused. She thought you guys

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<v Speaker 1>had a fantastic time. So can you just tell us

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<v Speaker 1>what you were confused about? It's not a barrassing about you.

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<v Speaker 1>Um okay, I I mean I show up and she's

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<v Speaker 1>all orange orange, like the color Yeah, like color like

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<v Speaker 1>a bad spray tan or something. I mean, amongst other things. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like her skin was orange, her hair was orange, and

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<v Speaker 1>all her clothes were orange. Yeah. So wait, is that

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<v Speaker 1>different from what her profile pick was on her dating account? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she had like orange hair in her picture,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I couldn't see her clothes, Like her clothes

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<v Speaker 1>weren't orange, you know. Okay, but so she has orange hair,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she decided to wear orange on your date. Yeah, um,

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<v Speaker 1>she wore a maniac. I don't even know how he

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<v Speaker 1>felt safe. I mean, it's not that bad. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>strange that like everything's orange, you know, the way literally orange,

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<v Speaker 1>the color orange is the reason that you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with her again. Yeah, And it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>just that she was wearing all orange. She ordered orange

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<v Speaker 1>food for dinner. What what do you mean kind of

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<v Speaker 1>orange food? I mean, like she ordered carrots. Like we

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<v Speaker 1>went out to dinner, she ordered carrots. Okay, so she

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<v Speaker 1>likes carrots. What else? Okay, well, okay, so she ordered carrots.

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<v Speaker 1>Then she ordered butternut squashed soup. Yeah, that's very particular.

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<v Speaker 1>And those are both like app that's not a meal.

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<v Speaker 1>She ordered like two apps. That's not even you know,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a crime in and of itself, like for

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<v Speaker 1>god's sakes, Yeah, I mean it's here, She's going out

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<v Speaker 1>of her way to range order orange food. Um. Interesting. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and she never brought up her obsession with orange. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she just just like went on like she was dressed

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<v Speaker 1>like a normal person and like I didn't have orange

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<v Speaker 1>hair and orange skin and acted normal. Are you curious

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<v Speaker 1>at all? Why the orange? I mean yeah, like obviously

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to know, but like they couldn't ask her.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a rude thing to ask on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, why are you all orange? Yeah? I guess

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<v Speaker 1>that is kind of rude, But I know how we

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<v Speaker 1>can figure it out because she is actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listing and wants to talk to you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what Yeah, probably on an orange phone. I'm not sure,

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<v Speaker 1>but Ember, are you still there? Yeah? Hi, Ryan, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm sorry. I had no idea you

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<v Speaker 1>were there. Um well I am. So are you? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you obsessed with orange? Or did it just happen

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<v Speaker 1>to be a day where you wore an orange outfit

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<v Speaker 1>because it matched? I mean, I don't think I'm obsessed

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<v Speaker 1>with orange. I like orange, I like to match. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I wear orange, sometimes I don't. I wanted to show

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<v Speaker 1>my personality and my favorite colors orange. But like, why

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<v Speaker 1>did you order Range food? Then? Like, did you do

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<v Speaker 1>that on purpose? Were you trying to send a message? No?

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<v Speaker 1>A message to who the other orange people? Like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>letting everybody in this restaurant now that I'm down for

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<v Speaker 1>the orange. I mean, you just kind of went on

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<v Speaker 1>like you're dressed like a normal person, but you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>You're an orange person. I'm not an orange person. I

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<v Speaker 1>like the color orange. I thought it looked good on me,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, orange is one of my favorite colors. Why

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<v Speaker 1>is that a problem? Sorry, it's just like overwhelming. I

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<v Speaker 1>showed up and like, you're all orange, and it just

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<v Speaker 1>took me by surprise. Seriously, your deal breaker thought I

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<v Speaker 1>won't launch because I had a deal breaker too, and

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<v Speaker 1>I looked past mine. What was your deal breaker? It

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<v Speaker 1>was your name. I just got a bad relationship a

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<v Speaker 1>little while ago. Some named Brian. So it's a little

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<v Speaker 1>close to home, the whole Ryan thing. Okay, well that's

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<v Speaker 1>like one little thing. Like your whole life is orange.

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<v Speaker 1>That's different. My whole life is not orange. But I

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<v Speaker 1>looked past my deal breaker. That's the point. And what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to say. You need to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>look past the orange thing. I'm trying. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the extent of your orangeness is.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand this argument, Like we're arguing about a color, literally,

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<v Speaker 1>the color of my outfit, the color of the food,

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<v Speaker 1>like whatever. I mean, I thought we had a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't you have a good times? I guess I did.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if I can like look past this.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you being serious? Ryan? Like what if she

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<v Speaker 1>was wearing all black? I mean that's something people do

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, or all blue or all red. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like purple's my favorite color. But you don't

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<v Speaker 1>see me wearing all purple and like ordering eggplants, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's just the fact that, like she never

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<v Speaker 1>talked about it, and I felt like I couldn't ask

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and like it was all I could think about.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like why she was all orange? You know.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm telling you now it was honestly just a

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<v Speaker 1>coincidence that it all happened that way. I just like

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<v Speaker 1>the color orange, not twenty four seven orange. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>you happen to catch me on an orange day, I guess, Yeah, Bryan,

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<v Speaker 1>you caught her on an orange day. Let's try and

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<v Speaker 1>do a different color. Would you go out with Ember

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<v Speaker 1>one more time for a second day. We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I don't know what if she didn't wear orange? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's a really simple solution. Yeah, I won't

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<v Speaker 1>wear orange if you go out with me again. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't I like a juicy, like hot orange at least?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if you wear like a mix of colors,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like a normal like a diversity of colors. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that you have a diverse outfit, somber. You're willing to

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<v Speaker 1>go through your closet and see if you have multiple

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<v Speaker 1>colors to wear that night, so you're not wearing all

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<v Speaker 1>of one color. You're sure you have that ability? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I'm not colorblind. Okay, I definitely have that ability.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm putting myself out there. Would you please go

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<v Speaker 1>out with me again? I think we could get past

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<v Speaker 1>this issue. Okay, yes, okay, yeah, I'll do it. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>aren't you glad? That worked out? Oh? Man, too soon?

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<v Speaker 1>Broken Juwil in the morning,