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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glazer Podcast. Nicky here I am. Hey guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. It's Tuesday, the Nicky Glazer Podcast.

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Speaker 1: You know what you're listening to? I don't have to

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Speaker 1: say it again. Um, hey, no, uh, how's it going? Good? Good?

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Speaker 1: I God, I'm like still kind of collecting my thoughts.

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Speaker 1: This morning, I just slam a jammed um two bowls

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Speaker 1: of oatmeal because I got podcast podcast podcast back to back,

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Speaker 1: no time to eat until like two or something. So

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling a little bit. But I went down the hatch.

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Speaker 1: Pretty sweet. Um, we're running out of Stevia, Andrew. The

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Speaker 1: thing is Andrew went to the grocery store for us

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Speaker 1: the other day, and um, I was like, I'll get

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Speaker 1: you groceries. What do you want? Like definitely, uh, maybe

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Speaker 1: sensed that I wanted him to do things for me

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Speaker 1: more or like, you know, the last time I complained

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Speaker 1: to him, like, don't go to the grocery store without

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Speaker 1: thinking of getting me things too, um, because I always

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Speaker 1: think to get him things. Even when we're at the

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Speaker 1: same grocery store together. I will grab things from an

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Speaker 1: aisle that I know he'll skip because he'll be like,

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Speaker 1: I'm just not hungry for that aisle right now. I

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Speaker 1: just what is it with boys that they don't anticipate

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Speaker 1: their needs. Boys are so good about like planning for well,

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Speaker 1: not Andrew, but like I'm talking about like men in general,

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Speaker 1: or like I know my ex boyfriend has like a

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Speaker 1: go bag. He's like ready for, like if disaster strikes.

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Speaker 1: He has tools for every kind of dilemma that would

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Speaker 1: arise in the apartment or like in his life. Um,

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Speaker 1: and then when it comes to like food for like

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Speaker 1: the next week. No, I'm mixing two people. Andrew's not prepared.

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Speaker 1: Andrew picks what he needs. That's why he shows up

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Speaker 1: to gigs with a limp backpack. I can't even believe

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Speaker 1: this guy. I bring a hundred pounds of stuff, a

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Speaker 1: hundred pounds of two huge suitcases fifty pounds each, and

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Speaker 1: then my backpack. My carry on is packed to the brim.

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Speaker 1: So is my guitar bag that has a guitar in it.

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Speaker 1: But the little pouch that's supposed to just carry a

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Speaker 1: capo and a pick as like you know, socks and

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Speaker 1: lotions and whatever in it. And Andrew's backpack is like

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Speaker 1: a limp back I don't understand. Sometimes you watch the

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Speaker 1: baggage Carousel. When you go to collector bags and there

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Speaker 1: is a loose duffel bag like a backpack, sometimes people

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Speaker 1: will check like a loose backpack, and I just go,

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Speaker 1: what the fuck is this? Why would you check that?

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Speaker 1: I don't understand people. Um, but yeah, Andrew, I, UM,

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Speaker 1: when we were in San Antonio, we got a ton

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Speaker 1: of like my writer, which is the thing that you

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Speaker 1: make a list of things you want backstage. It's the

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Speaker 1: famous Like the first time I heard writers was like

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Speaker 1: Mariah Carey needs everything, like you know, Beyonce needs everything

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Speaker 1: on a writer to be white and Mariah Carey needs

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Speaker 1: you know, roses in every toilet or I don't know whatever,

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Speaker 1: like the Eminem thing, which was an interesting thing, you

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Speaker 1: know when um there was that big there's always that

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Speaker 1: one story or anecdote of only green Eminem's on someone's writer.

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Speaker 1: It was either like the Rolling Stones or like led

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Speaker 1: Zeppelin or something like and thank you yes, okay, only

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Speaker 1: the brown ones. Um. They did that because they wanted

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Speaker 1: to make sure that the venue was if they if

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Speaker 1: they got that, if the venue read the writer that

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Speaker 1: correctly and got that right, it would be indicative that

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Speaker 1: this like it's it's was a thing they put in,

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Speaker 1: not because they like brown Eminem's or just to be assholes.

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Speaker 1: It was like, okay, if we walk in the green

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Speaker 1: room and there's only brown Eminem's. They were very detailed

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Speaker 1: in this, and we can trust this venue. So I

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Speaker 1: thought that was kind of interesting. It's it's you know,

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Speaker 1: it goes from being like care brown Eminem's too, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: that's actually like a good system. That's how like when

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Speaker 1: I found out that Bill Burr said that people rev

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Speaker 1: their motorcycle engines not to be care but so that

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Speaker 1: they let people know pedestrians know they're coming. And I

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Speaker 1: was like, okay, that just changed the way I looked

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Speaker 1: at that. Now, what were you about to say before

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Speaker 1: we get corrections? They wanted the brown Eminem's out, so

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Speaker 1: they wanted the stuff to pick the brown Eminem's out. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's yeah, that's even more Yes, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: If people were going to write in about that, I

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Speaker 1: don't want to listen to this podcast. I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 1: Please keep listening. Um. So, yeah, so we got a

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Speaker 1: when um My tour managers wrote to me saying, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what do you want on your writer? Because my writer

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Speaker 1: used to be like very antarrextic and like always like

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Speaker 1: feeding into my eating disorder because I would just I

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Speaker 1: my show and I would start like snacking on the

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Speaker 1: veggie tray and I would get like veggies and like

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Speaker 1: hummus and like salsa, but like note, I would get chips,

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Speaker 1: just like get the chips for the illusion that I

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Speaker 1: was a normal eater. And then and also like Andrew

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Speaker 1: and I'd be like, this is for two months from now.

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Speaker 1: This isn't for now when you just ate dinner. Um,

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Speaker 1: But now I have a revised writer because I'm not

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Speaker 1: uh in the depths of an eating disorder anymore. So

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Speaker 1: I and and so I have like regular food on it,

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Speaker 1: whatever I have. But the thing is when I sent

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Speaker 1: in my writer, I literally I just say, give me

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Speaker 1: Thai food, Like, just send whatever Thai restaurant. I want

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Speaker 1: to papaya salads. I want a green curry. I want

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Speaker 1: um green vegetable curry. I want rice cakes. I want

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Speaker 1: vegan cream cheese, which, by the way, I just got

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Speaker 1: Andrew and vegan cream cheese. He's freaking out about it.

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Speaker 1: The guy is like eating, like you know, in one sitting,

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Speaker 1: he'll eat a whole thing. Um. It's so delicious. Vile

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Speaker 1: life is the best kind. It tastes exactly like cream cheese. Um.

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Speaker 1: And Then I asked Andrew and Anya and Matt On

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Speaker 1: his boyfriend, my tour manager, and Jen like, what other thing?

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Speaker 1: What's next to you? Guys want backstage because this isn't

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Speaker 1: just for me. And of course Andrew was like, I

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Speaker 1: don't need anything to gen, you know, Jen, I said,

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Speaker 1: can get anything, and it's out of my money, by

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Speaker 1: the way, or it's out of money that would go

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Speaker 1: to me if it weren't spent on the backstage experience.

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Speaker 1: But I want the backstage experience to be amazing for everyone,

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Speaker 1: So like, get whatever the funk you want. You know,

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Speaker 1: Andrew doesn't want anything, so I go, Okay, yes he does.

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Speaker 1: Get him some popcorn with the words skinny on it.

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Speaker 1: Get some drinks with the word fat burn on it.

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Speaker 1: Get you know, snack wells, healthy choice, anything with healthy

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Speaker 1: that for Andrew because he'll eat it. He also likes dates,

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Speaker 1: so I got him dates, I got him popcorn, whatever.

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Speaker 1: So I get there. It's a smorgest board of food

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Speaker 1: about my stress of life and m Andrew left early

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Speaker 1: Jen is out there selling my merch. Matt is out

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Speaker 1: I can tell he wants to leave so bad, and

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, I'm gonna wait for the rest

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Speaker 1: With ample room. I put that in that baggy backpack.

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Speaker 1: That's what those baggy backpacks are for there, for women

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Speaker 1: to place food that they bring along for the men

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Speaker 1: And that's why men have baggy backpacks and don't pack

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Speaker 1: anything is because women are going to stuff it with

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Speaker 1: food that you should have stuffed it with because you

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Speaker 1: don't think about your needs. What's going on with me?

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Speaker 1: I don't even know. People are going to write it

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Speaker 1: and be like Nikki, that was a waste of our

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Speaker 1: time listening to that, and guess what it was waste

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Speaker 1: like old men balls that men bring on long trips.

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Speaker 1: What what are what are they packing there? Someday I

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Speaker 1: want to go through Andrew's bag for a long weekend.

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Speaker 1: We're going to Atlantic City this weekend. Maybe I will

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Speaker 1: do it then and do like um, an Instagram video

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Speaker 1: or something for it. Man. I have felt very uh,

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Speaker 1: not wanting to be on social media, not wanting to

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Speaker 1: don't want heart emojis, don't want people telling me I'm hot,

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Speaker 1: It's so humid there it would have puffed out by

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00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:39,919
Speaker 1: the end of the night because I sweat on stage.

426
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:42,920
Speaker 1: So instead I was just like, Okay, I'm just gonna

427
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:46,440
Speaker 1: do the air dry, which, by the way, it takes

428
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:49,439
Speaker 1: longer than doing my hair curling. Like I was, I

429
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 1: was arguing, like in my own head, what people are like,

430
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:53,560
Speaker 1: her hair looks like ship It's like, well, this took

431
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 1: two hours to air dry, as opposed to if I

432
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 1: did it straight, it took an hour to get it curled,

433
00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,920
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I had to get Yeah,

434
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 1: so what I do is I brush it. I get

435
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,200
Speaker 1: out of the shower and I dtangle it so I

436
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 1: brush it straight. I know this is not interesting to anyone,

437
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 1: but if you have hair like mine, this will teach

438
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,679
Speaker 1: you how to do the like kind of curly messy

439
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,119
Speaker 1: look in a way that looks the best. Because I've

440
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 1: I've this took me years, years and years years to

441
00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 1: perfect and I actually met my best friend in college

442
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 1: when I was doing this weird thing in the sink

443
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 1: and in our freshman dorms. Um, you straighten your hair,

444
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 1: you like, get out the shower. You put enough like conditioner,

445
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,280
Speaker 1: and then it's straight. But you get the conditioner out

446
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,600
Speaker 1: because you don't want it to be too sulky and conditioned.

447
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 1: So get it out and then be able to brush

448
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 1: it through so that you can run your fingers through

449
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 1: it without any snaggles. Right, Um, use a dtangling spray

450
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 1: whatever you need. Then you go to the sink and

451
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:50,360
Speaker 1: you fill the sink up to about a third with

452
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 1: hot water or like not hot, but like warm hottish water.

453
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 1: Then you dip your make sure your hair is parted

454
00:22:58,720 --> 00:22:59,919
Speaker 1: in the way that you want it to be for

455
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 1: the final look. Then you take each side and you

456
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 1: dip it into the water, and then you run your

457
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:09,479
Speaker 1: hands through to make individual curls that you want those

458
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:11,479
Speaker 1: ones to be like the Because this is the thing.

459
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 1: When you brush out your hair and let it air dry,

460
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:16,400
Speaker 1: it gets too stringy. All the pieces, especially with thinner hair,

461
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:18,919
Speaker 1: all the pieces it will be like three pieces of

462
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 1: hair will be like a little curl and that's not enough.

463
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,919
Speaker 1: You need like a big thick curl. Right, So you

464
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 1: do your you do your hair, and you go in

465
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 1: the sink and you run your hands through it, uh

466
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,639
Speaker 1: with separate with your fingers, and you get it to

467
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: a place where it's like, oh, that looks good. And

468
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,719
Speaker 1: then you go in the sink and you dip it

469
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:37,679
Speaker 1: in and then when it comes up, it should be

470
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 1: individual really wet pieces of hair, right because you dumped

471
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,679
Speaker 1: it in the sink. Then you do a thing I

472
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 1: called congeal, and you gently from the bottom bring it

473
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 1: up and squeeze up and squeeze. You might put a

474
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: little bit of mute moose in your hand, a very

475
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 1: light light because you don't want it to get crunchy.

476
00:23:56,520 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 1: Light moose mixed with a moving bomb. And then you

477
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 1: can squeeze it again, make it even more congealed. Now

478
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,400
Speaker 1: do the other side piece, piece it with your fingers,

479
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,120
Speaker 1: then congeal and then let that air dry and see

480
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,360
Speaker 1: what happens for you. And then the top stays more

481
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 1: straight and doesn't get too curly. Then by the time

482
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:17,239
Speaker 1: it starts drying, you can just like let it go

483
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 1: and kind of congeal it and like and just scrunch

484
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: it all over and it gives you a nice piece. Look. Now,

485
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,640
Speaker 1: the only problem with this is that your male best

486
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 1: friend might start getting corny for your hair and like

487
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,640
Speaker 1: say weird things when you're literal tits are hanging out

488
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:35,479
Speaker 1: on camera and watching you and kind of drooling and

489
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 1: saying your hair looks good. You and of course I'm exaggerating,

490
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:44,120
Speaker 1: but like you have mentioned my hair looking great, Yeah,

491
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 1: both sides of my mouth. But you know I have

492
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 1: a wet mouth. So if you really do like the

493
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 1: curly hair. But here's the other thing I remember, and

494
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 1: maybe some girls up there is funny that you're like, yeah,

495
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:01,399
Speaker 1: it's just natural. But I didn't realize. No, I mean like,

496
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: that's no, it takes two seconds. It really does. In

497
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,439
Speaker 1: the scheme of things is so much easier. But I

498
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 1: also don't do that every day. That was just for

499
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:15,440
Speaker 1: the San Antonio show. But the thing is, uh, oh,

500
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 1: here's the thing most men do well. I learned from

501
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:22,479
Speaker 1: Patti Stanger on Millionaire Matchmaker. She used to yell at

502
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 1: women about, um, how they should show up to these

503
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 1: dates to meet the millionaires that she was setting them

504
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 1: up with. And she would say, girls, no, it was

505
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 1: so racist because this all goes back to like hair

506
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:37,479
Speaker 1: being like, you know, glossy, straight hair equals white, and

507
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 1: then like anything that's not equals ethnic. I mean, that's

508
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 1: pretty much what it is. And so she wouldn't get

509
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,360
Speaker 1: away with saying this, m bravo now, but she was like,

510
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: men want hair that they can run their fingers through.

511
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: Men do not want curly hair. So she would yell

512
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: at these girls that would come to these functions and go,

513
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 1: you're gonna straighten your hair, You're gonna get a carrotons treatment.

514
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: You're like, men don't want curly hair, and um, I've

515
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 1: found that men don't care. And if a man is

516
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: going to care about whether or not you can run

517
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: his hands through your hair, first of all, you can't

518
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: run your hands through my hair no matter what, because

519
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 1: I have a sensitive scalp and I'm scared of losing hair,

520
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:15,120
Speaker 1: So get off my hair. Um. But I do find

521
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: that men like tend to like you know, or I

522
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 1: guess media tend to like shiny, smooth hair more than like,

523
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:28,879
Speaker 1: you know, the messy, kinky hair thoughts. Well, I don't know.

524
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it just makes it seem like

525
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: you're more put together. Yes, so it seems like if

526
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: you're dressed up, but I think there's something really hot

527
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:42,199
Speaker 1: about being dressed up and then your hair looking like

528
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,879
Speaker 1: natural and fun and vibrant, and it just you know,

529
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 1: and this is who you are. You're being honest about

530
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: it while looking great. I don't know, I don't like that,

531
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: see that that that whole thing of like she's just

532
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 1: being herself. That's like when you know, that's like no

533
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 1: offense to lizz Oh. I'm just saying, like we we

534
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,679
Speaker 1: say that about Lizzo, you know, like I love her body,

535
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 1: it's herself. We don't say, we don't go on to

536
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 1: anything else. We just go that's her when really she's

537
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 1: someone who has a body that is not normally seen

538
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 1: in magazine. So like for you to say your hair

539
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 1: is just yourself, that to me says like it's counter

540
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 1: what we all want and it's you're just doing you Nikki.

541
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: Like yeah, I'm saying, no, it's your hair without product.

542
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: It's like if I didn't put gel in my hair

543
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 1: or like paste in my hair and I just went

544
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 1: out and just had my regular hair. I don't know,

545
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't I don't see anything more than

546
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 1: it's without product. Is what I'm saying. So it's just

547
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: your natural hair, what it would be on an island

548
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: when you got out of the beach. That like, no,

549
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: I hear what you're saying. I like it too, and

550
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: I like that juxtapose with a really nice outfit and

551
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 1: like everything else perfect. It looks cool. But that's the

552
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: problem is like it inherently to me. And I didn't

553
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: mean to bring up the Lizzo thing. I'm just bringing

554
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 1: up someone who you know, like any you know, when

555
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 1: they're full figured women, which is anti what media has

556
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:07,640
Speaker 1: told us we should be. Right. That's what I'm talking

557
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: about is when women are bigger and they're like, I

558
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 1: love my body and everyone goes, yes, I love you

559
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,239
Speaker 1: being you. That's another way of saying like I'm not

560
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: sure I want to be that, but good job for you.

561
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 1: Like that's kind of what people say about that. And

562
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not saying I say that, but I

563
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: think that's kind of like when I hear I love it,

564
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: that's like saying, Nicky, you look really healthy, like I don't.

565
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: I know that's a nice thing to say. I don't

566
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 1: want to hear it. Or Nikki, that's just the real you.

567
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: Like that doesn't feel good to me when we're talking

568
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: about physical things. But that's just because everything we're told

569
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: is don't be you if you want to look the

570
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: best you can. So I reacted that you were talking

571
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: about about how when people say you look great on

572
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 1: f Way Island that you feel like it's fake that

573
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: you have this. You have tanner on your hair isn't

574
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: really like your clothes aren't really like you're like lying

575
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:01,479
Speaker 1: to people. And now when I say you're being honest

576
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: because you're not doing any of that and you still

577
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: look great, then it's like, well that's a problem too.

578
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: So it's like I don't know. I oh no, no, no,

579
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,239
Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's a problem. I really like that

580
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 1: you said that. I'm saying that it only works if

581
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 1: everything else is over the top, not you the hair

582
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: with like no makeup and pale, like it wouldn't be

583
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: so interesting. But but yeah, it's like, yeah, there's just

584
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 1: like you can have one thing that's like, oh my god,

585
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 1: she does doesn't wear make like Alicia Keys can look

586
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: perfectly quake in every way, and then she doesn't wear

587
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: makeup and everyone's like, oh my god, she's so amazing.

588
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: But if she wasn't wearing like amazing clothes and have

589
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: like perfect skin tone and perfect like shiny, like beautiful

590
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: dewey skin, it might not work. It's like with me

591
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: with it being a guy whose hair is receding some

592
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 1: like I have to like finagle in a way where

593
00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 1: my hair looks like very thick. But if you peeled

594
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 1: away a few it was so fun I got a

595
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: haircut the other day and no one noticed. No, but

596
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 1: I didn't know that. But okay, well you kept mentioning it,

597
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: and everyone was just like, all right, I didn't keep

598
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 1: mentioning in it. What are you talking about? But the

599
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: lady shaved. I have four hairs that are trying to

600
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 1: hold on on the front, and she just shaved and

601
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 1: then just like, yeah, I just get rid of them,

602
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: and uh and uh. It's just so funny because they're

603
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: like sticking out a little bit, so at least four

604
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 1: hairs that are trying to hold on that she just got.

605
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 1: She's like, what are you doing? Why are you get

606
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: rid of you? I really don't look at you as

607
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 1: a guy with It's so funny, like the things that

608
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: we are insecure about I don't notice on like you

609
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 1: wouldn't notice the thing. Yeah, I mean, like, I guess

610
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: I agree with you because you're just a man at

611
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: that age that it would be insane if you had

612
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 1: a gigantic, bushy head of hair, but you just don't.

613
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 1: It doesn't look add to me. Yeah, I mean, but

614
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying noo. If I don't finagle it in a way,

615
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 1: if I wake up in the morning, there'll be some

616
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 1: mornings where I'm like, I'm a bald man, you know

617
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 1: what I mean? And then I'm like, down, do you

618
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 1: see it on the pillow or do you see it

619
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 1: in the shower? It used to be in the shower

620
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 1: when I would brush with my toothbrush with my hair.

621
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: Can I ask you something? Did you bring a toothbrush

622
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: with you to San Antonio? Yes, no, it's not the

623
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: one on the floor. Was it really new one? It was? Yeah,

624
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: it was from another hotel where they gave me a

625
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: package that I never opened. Oh nice, okay, Um, your

626
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: baggy backpack? Yes, how do you have a baggy backpack?

627
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 1: When you what do you mean? What did you take

628
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 1: with you to San Antonio? In that backpack? I brought tooths?

629
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: It was? Oh you did you brought a lot had

630
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: a backpack in a a side backpack, a double backpack.

631
00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 1: Oh okay, that answers everything. That's why you could fit

632
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 1: that giant bag of skinny pop I go, there's no

633
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 1: one in no way would you be at the ticket

634
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: terminal and have a bag of skinny, a gigantic bag

635
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: of skinny pock that hasn't been opened, and someone's able

636
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: to fit it in one of their carry ons except

637
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 1: a boy you're traveling with with a baggy scrolled um backpack.

638
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 1: It fit perfectly. I was like, this is a miracle.

639
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: We gotta get to the news. But not a lot

640
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: of things. Was your was your backy backpack? Jealous of

641
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: your back other backpack, your side backpack? Do they not?

642
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: They don't know that. I don't tell each does your

643
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: bad getting jealous of your backpack because it has popcorn?

644
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: It depends depends. What are we calling you, Mr Grums?

645
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: Yeah that was a great nickname. Okay, Mr Crumb, bring

646
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 1: it back, Yeah, let's bring it back. Bring it back now. Okay,

647
00:32:56,080 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: let's get to the news. The apparently your first first

648
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: Oh man, I know, Tuesday could be a tough day

649
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: for everyone, but hey, it's not the best day. It's

650
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: not the worst day. It's just a day. Have a

651
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 1: great day and have all the swells out there. Everybody

652
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 1: um about Tuesdays? What happened to you on a Tuesday? Well, Tuesday,

653
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: Monday always like, oh fuck, it's Monday. But Tuesday, it's

654
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: kind of like a birthday, Like that doesn't matter. Like

655
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: no one thinks about Tuesday. Tuesday never gets talked about.

656
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: There's Taco Tuesday, which is fun, which you know, I

657
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: guess see you next Tuesday as kunt Oh yeah, yeah,

658
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 1: that's always fun. All right. I like Tuesdays. I think

659
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 1: Marty Gras fat Tuesday. Alright, worst date ever. A thirty

660
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 1: one year old woman who traveled from Massachusetts Arizona to

661
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: meet a guy she's been talking to on Instagram for

662
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: two months has died after dehydrating on a hike they

663
00:33:56,680 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 1: went on together. Oh no, and know a great news article.

664
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: Another reason why uh no, no hikes for me. Um,

665
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: it's too dangerous out there. I'm not a ledge head

666
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: and I'm not a flat flat earth. I'm not even

667
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 1: what's the up? What's I don't even want to get

668
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: in the vicinity of where ledges are. I don't even

669
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 1: want to walk up a hill to where someone might

670
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 1: find allege I hate hiking. Yeah, so they went. She traveled.

671
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 1: First of all, she traveled. They were, you know, just

672
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: talking long distance. She went. His first date was taking

673
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 1: her to a hundred and four degree hike up a mountain.

674
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 1: Degrees like there's staring height. Oh no no no, no

675
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 1: degrees temperature okay, yeah, and I think would be like

676
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: walking backwards, um okay. And so they're walking up right,

677
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 1: she gets, uh, walking up right, like you're walking up

678
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:05,839
Speaker 1: right ones crawling um. Eventually yeah, and she walks up

679
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 1: halfway she gets dehydrated. She says, you go get a

680
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: photo for me from Instagram up top. He left her,

681
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 1: he left. She ends up being found I think a

682
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,479
Speaker 1: little bit down the mountain, like off the trail, dead

683
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 1: from dehydration. He was an e MT Police officer. Get

684
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: out of here, dude, get out of here. Yeah, I know.

685
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 1: And they didn't have extra water, which is like everybody

686
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 1: knows to do that here in Arizona. Yeah, tragic being

687
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 1: from Massachusetts to I'm sure she's not used to the

688
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 1: dry heat, sure, but she wasn't like out of shape.

689
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 1: She like apparently she drank a lot of water. In

690
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 1: a regular light. Someone brought that up. But yeah, I

691
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 1: mean he knows. She probably was just trying to go

692
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 1: along with like what he wanted or I don't know,

693
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 1: I'm projecting a lot onto this, but oh he but

694
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,840
Speaker 1: she said to go ahead. And I mean that's his story.

695
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: I mean she's not alive to tell all the story

696
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: of like here, like I was just I was trying

697
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: to get the picture she wanted of me alone, Like

698
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 1: who wants that Google image? It? I'm sure was on

699
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: the top of the mountain. That Yeah, yeah, I mean

700
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 1: what do you You can't you can't leave your date.

701
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 1: You can't leave your date. You go, Look, the photo

702
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 1: is not important. Your health is important. You're an E

703
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 1: M T like like power perfect and you know what,

704
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: he might have been not thinking clearly, and she might

705
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 1: not have been thinking clearly. She might have said that

706
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 1: like go ahead, I want you to go ahead, please,

707
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: and like he's trying to please her, she's trying to

708
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 1: please him. Um, she doesn't understand the dry heat. Maybe

709
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 1: he doesn't either for some reason, because he's dehydrated. Like

710
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:53,280
Speaker 1: they're not thinking clearly, Like oh, this is just so sad,

711
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: and this is like such a first date thing where

712
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,360
Speaker 1: you try to please the other person so much that

713
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 1: you're not yourself. She's I can and then this is

714
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: obviously the ultimate price. Uh do you think? Uh? No, yeah,

715
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: I mean what you're going on a first date? Yeah?

716
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: Um on not hiking? No, but we we are going

717
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: outdoors because of Delta COVID. I'm just like not taking

718
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 1: any risks. Um and what are you guys doing? Uh? Well,

719
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to say where because I don't want

720
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 1: people to come find me in St. Louis, But we're

721
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 1: going to um St. Louis outdoor spot that is flat

722
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 1: and safe and it's my sister's chest. I'm just kidding. Um,

723
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 1: ship shots fired, dude. I just picked someone who my

724
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,839
Speaker 1: sister has great boobs actually, and she's pregnant right now.

725
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: So um and and yes that can be out. My

726
00:37:52,719 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 1: sister is doing in in December. So excited. But um no,

727
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: I uh yeah, I'm going on uh an outdoor um

728
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: date on Thursday. And I'm actually stoked about it because

729
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 1: I was realizing I didn't go on like I think

730
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,439
Speaker 1: I went on one, you know, hike with a guy

731
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: that liked me, but I knew that I was just

732
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 1: wanting to be friends with him. So I didn't really

733
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 1: go on any dates last COVID where you had to

734
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 1: keep things outdoors and stuff, And now that Delta is

735
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 1: surging again, I feel like those kind of precautions of

736
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: Like I had a joke in my act about it

737
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, oh no, I have to

738
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,720
Speaker 1: stay six feet away from anyone who might have feelings

739
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: for me. I can't like swap spit with them. I

740
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: can't hug them, I can't get like it's ideal, I

741
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:45,800
Speaker 1: can't be inside alone with them, like this is a dream.

742
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 1: So I'm just going on um and and honestly, it

743
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 1: just feels like two friends meeting up because we're we

744
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 1: just um we met on UM, we met on bumble,

745
00:38:57,120 --> 00:39:00,799
Speaker 1: but uh, we've just been text thing and it just

746
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: has been like very friendly and not thankfully overtly sexual

747
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: in any way on his part or mine, which makes

748
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: me feel safe. And it just is getting to know

749
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: someone who may or may not look exactly like someone

750
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: from my past. My grandma Shirley, after my grandpa died,

751
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 1: she kept dating guys that looked exactly like my grandpa.

752
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 1: Was so weird. Well it's so it makes sense to

753
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: me and I think that that happens more often than not.

754
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: Of like, you know the person that this person looks

755
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: like I had like unrequited love with, And then I

756
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 1: saw this person on bumble Dude. I showed Andrew right away.

757
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 1: I screenshot at him and showed all of my friends

758
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 1: that know this person and sent them to all of them,

759
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 1: and they're like, what the fuck? This is like spitting

760
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 1: image of this guy? I almost do you do? I

761
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,720
Speaker 1: tell this person that he looks like someone from my past,

762
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 1: but a taller and handsomer version. Well, that's actually that

763
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,839
Speaker 1: would be fine. I wouldn't bother me, it wouldn't mother

764
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:11,839
Speaker 1: me if but I don't. But we're not all the same.

765
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 1: You know, it's on two way streets. So I know

766
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 1: that if a guy bet up with me and goes

767
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 1: you look like a girl I was in love with,

768
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: but you honestly look like a taller and handsomer version

769
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,479
Speaker 1: of that girl, I'd be like, thank you. I would

770
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,359
Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, even if I didn't like

771
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: sometimes when I look at a guy's ex girlfriends and

772
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 1: they're all like dark hair and dark complexion, and like

773
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 1: I feel sad because I'm like, I wish they looked

774
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 1: like me because I want to fit and that's just

775
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 1: a sixth need to fit it. So I don't know,

776
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:42,799
Speaker 1: but maybe guys would be like not into that because

777
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 1: guys hate hearing about other guys. But listen, if you're

778
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 1: gonna be a taser, you're gonna have to deal with

779
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 1: hearing about x is. And I'm not someone look almost

780
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 1: like you or maybe even better than you, not better,

781
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 1: but like almost a spin I would want a guy

782
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 1: that looks nothing like a blonde hair, blue eyed man.

783
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: You'd want her ex boyfriends to look nothing like you? Yeah,

784
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: I would want them to look like me. See that's

785
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: the difference. Noah, what about you? Nothing. I don't want them.

786
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,280
Speaker 1: I want to be a new thing on the menu.

787
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,319
Speaker 1: I don't want to be just a shittier steak for

788
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:25,800
Speaker 1: the guy is because I know that if I look

789
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 1: like the what he's attracted to. I am so confident

790
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,600
Speaker 1: about my personality, like I can be a lot, as

791
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:35,840
Speaker 1: Joe Rogan said, and I have my definite personality flaws,

792
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:38,919
Speaker 1: but like I've said, I feel like I'm a supermodel

793
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: of personality, even though I maybe I am a lot

794
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, but I feel like I'm always

795
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 1: going to have a better personality than your ex, but

796
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 1: you know, in terms of being funnier and like smarter,

797
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 1: and not because I'm think I'm a genius, but emotionally smarter, funnier.

798
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: I'm I'm funnier than literally every woman you've ever dated,

799
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 1: no question about it, unless it's you dated Kurseden Forlorman

800
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 1: or Taylor McGraw or Sarah Lena prosal or like my

801
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 1: best friends who aren't comedians, I'm funnier than or another

802
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: female comic because or female comedy writer. I'm always going

803
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: to be funnier than these women. Well, I picked good

804
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: friends that are funny. Um, yeah, I I sometimes I

805
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 1: feel like if they if I don't look anything like

806
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: the ex, like they win the opposite of what just

807
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 1: broke their heart. So I could just be, like, you know,

808
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: a rebound, you know what I mean? I would think

809
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 1: about that a little bit so weird that I want

810
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: to see I want to be no, no, no, it

811
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: makes sense. I think it's healthier to want to be

812
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:42,240
Speaker 1: the opposite because I have such low self esteem about

813
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,319
Speaker 1: my looks. I want to just be secure that they

814
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 1: are like what I'm into, whereas I'm not insecure about

815
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: my personality. So I feel like I would like to

816
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 1: be the opposite of that. I love when they're like,

817
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: oh my ex girlfriend wasn't funny, she sucked. I'm like, good, Okay,

818
00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 1: well I'm gonna show you a whole new world um

819
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 1: of pain. Let's get to the next new story. Uh.

820
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 1: The FBI use photographs of lower level female employees to

821
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: pose as bait for potential sex traffickers without proper consent.

822
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: They did not document which websites their photographs were posted on,

823
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:19,839
Speaker 1: potentially placing the women in danger. They also started an

824
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 1: only fans for these girls and all made millions. No no,

825
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: no oh, I was like they did that too, and

826
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 1: then gave the money to the women. Like, by the way,

827
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 1: if you're upset about this, here's uh seventy it's a

828
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 1: big check. Yeah. Uh, this doesn't surprise me that the

829
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 1: FBI is doing. They're using like employees that you know,

830
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: FBI employees, Yeah, FBI employees photographs they asked for lower

831
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 1: they probably have access to these photos. They probably own

832
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 1: these photos, because there's photos they asked for, like like

833
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,840
Speaker 1: risque photos. Well, then didn't these women know what this

834
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: was gonna be used? For like, why would your boss,

835
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,320
Speaker 1: the FBI be asking for risk A photos? And I

836
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: think the problem is that the low level employees are

837
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 1: not undercover agents, so they weren't properly protected. And you know,

838
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 1: they just didn't know that they were working the front

839
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 1: desk at the fucking Pentagon and they're working like the

840
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 1: Can I get some paper? And why don't you put

841
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: your Yeah? You know what this reminds me. I was listening. Uh,

842
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 1: this doesn't seem like something that would happen in America,

843
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,280
Speaker 1: But I'm not surprised. Last night I was on Reddit

844
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 1: and you know we're doing Reddit ump today, but I

845
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,879
Speaker 1: didn't save this headline. A guy this is years ago.

846
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 1: It happened. He was a medical student in um I believe,

847
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 1: either Uganda or Nigeria, forget which one. And they are

848
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 1: so low on corpses for medical students there that they

849
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:58,879
Speaker 1: use any kind of any anyone the police murders, or

850
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 1: anyone that's like a cash guilty of gun viol like

851
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 1: any criminal violence within the police unit there, they throw

852
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 1: into a van and then they give to the medical

853
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 1: students to dissect. A guy goes to dissect um for

854
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:16,839
Speaker 1: his class for his med school class um lifts up

855
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: the thing and it's one of his best friends that

856
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 1: was murdered, not because he was a criminal, like you know,

857
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 1: it doesn't even matter if he was the victim or

858
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,800
Speaker 1: the assailant or not. He was had three gunshot wounds.

859
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:31,720
Speaker 1: And the guy, you know, he's his best friend on

860
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 1: his and he got it. He got an f on

861
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: the project because he ran. I'm just kidding, no, but

862
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:41,280
Speaker 1: he And it's because it's so corrupt there that they

863
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:46,879
Speaker 1: what a great show where you pay the Let's say

864
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 1: you're a rich guy who needs a new heart, so

865
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: you pay the cops to kill a guy that you

866
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: know how your heart is. I don't know how you'd

867
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:56,760
Speaker 1: find out that. Oh yeah, that's a good plotline. Yeah,

868
00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 1: and then you take the heart from that's everyone biggest

869
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 1: fear about being an organ donor is that you're gonna

870
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 1: someone's gonna make sure you die so that they get

871
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 1: your organ. Yeah. You know, I'd be so happy if

872
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: someone like if I was a concident and I broke

873
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 1: my finger and they're like, we need to put you

874
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: to sleep because Megan Markel needs a new you know

875
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: ear lobe, I'd be like, mine are great. I do

876
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 1: have great earlobes. It's one of the best. I just

877
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 1: sprained my wrist, yeah, exactly. You know girls that went

878
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 1: on the date. By the way, like I feel like

879
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,360
Speaker 1: if you travel really far to see someone for the

880
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 1: first time, there anything, yes, anything, anything, because you've already

881
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: it's like you know what it is. It's the same

882
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 1: psychological um phenomenon. Guys. I can't recommend enough The Psychology

883
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:56,360
Speaker 1: of Influence. It's a book that I read that I

884
00:46:56,480 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 1: just retained. So many little tricks from that are I

885
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: don't use because they're just so manipulative, but it teaches

886
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:07,439
Speaker 1: me how I become susceptible to these things. So the

887
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: famous one is like if if Andrew and I are

888
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,879
Speaker 1: sitting at the same table and we're within the same

889
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: arm's reach of a glass, and I go, Andrew, can

890
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: you give me that glass? Andrew will get it. But

891
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: he'll because he knows that I can get it myself.

892
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 1: He'll convince himself that he likes me a lot because

893
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: that's why he's doing it, because otherwise he's just a

894
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,800
Speaker 1: little pussy bitch that's doing something I could do for myself.

895
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,280
Speaker 1: So in his mind he goes it's because I love Nikki,

896
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: and I want to get her this so it makes

897
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: you like me more. For you get you, you convince

898
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 1: yourself you like me more. So if you go to

899
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 1: the lengths of flying somewhere for someone to do something

900
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 1: that dressic, to grab a glass for someone that far away,

901
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 1: essentially you got to convince yourself that this is love.

902
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 1: And then what else will you be willing to do? Um,

903
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 1: go on a hike that you don't want to go on.

904
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 1: I mean, how many times I have girls done things

905
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 1: don't want to do on a date and men. I'm

906
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 1: not discounting you too, but I think generally women are

907
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 1: taking the like the men are taking the lead and

908
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 1: the women follow, and you just agree to something that

909
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 1: you don't want to do because you want the guy

910
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 1: to like you. Yeah, it's like even driving an hour

911
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 1: for a date, like you're like, oh, maybe I'll just

912
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: sleep over there because I'm already an hour away, or

913
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 1: like all these like you know, depending on how far

914
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 1: you get from your house, the more you're willing to

915
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: do things that you might not want to do, like

916
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: d and four degrees or it's like you know, that's

917
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 1: how they get you to upsell on things They're like, oh,

918
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 1: you're you're already spending thirty four tho dollars on this car.

919
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: It's hundred dollars extra to get this extended warranty. I

920
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 1: mean that is nothing. I mean, you're already doing this

921
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:43,439
Speaker 1: and you go, you know what, You're right, that would

922
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: be foolish. But it's really like, no dollars by itself

923
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: is a lot of money compared to thirty four thousand.

924
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: It's not. It isn't, but let's not do it's all

925
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 1: in comparison. So like it's like I already traveled this

926
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: far for you. I don't also have to eat your ass.

927
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: Like that's yeah, well, if you bought you the ticket,

928
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 1: and if he didn't use miles, let him meet your ass.

929
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 1: Just kidding. Don't don't do anything you ever don't want

930
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 1: to do, including hikes. Next story. Oh why don't I care?

931
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 1: Why do you care? Why do I care? Matt Damon

932
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:20,280
Speaker 1: says he stands with the LGBTQ community after the backlash

933
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: over his use of the homophobic slur in a conversation

934
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 1: with his daughter just months ago. I have never called

935
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 1: anyone the F word in my personal life. I know.

936
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: Why did he have to say personal life. I mean,

937
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 1: and why because all that makes me think of he

938
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: is going off in his private life is personal personal? Okay,

939
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:45,439
Speaker 1: what's okay? So impersonal life probably screaming enough the wind.

940
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 1: Oh so public life if there's a microphone, or if

941
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 1: it's in a script that he wrote with Ben Affleck, yeah,

942
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 1: it's like you wrote that, you wrote those words. Wait

943
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 1: a second, I mean, like, doesn't that stand up. What

944
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 1: happened was he he told a joke to his daughter,

945
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,240
Speaker 1: but that had the F word in it. When he's like, first,

946
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 1: get announced did he say this in an interview with

947
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: a magazine or something He's just trying to do. He said, listen,

948
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,399
Speaker 1: we've all done interviews where we said some dumb thing.

949
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: I'm being haunted by one right now. Thankfully it didn't

950
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: get a lot of press. But like you say, one

951
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 1: dumb thing and then they run with that. And this

952
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 1: is the thing. Remember Liam Neeson he had that thing

953
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: where he so, you know, a black person killed his friend,

954
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 1: and so then any black person. And then so here's

955
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 1: Matt Damon saying, look, I funked up in the past.

956
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 1: I said the F word in front of my daughter.

957
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: Here's a vulnerable thing that I'm being honest about I

958
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:50,839
Speaker 1: have flaws, blah blah blah. And then did you say that. No, No,

959
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's like it's it reminds me of

960
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 1: that you can't say something from your past that you

961
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 1: have amended and realize is wrong. We will punish you

962
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 1: for you saying that you once thought something like that, yes,

963
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:05,919
Speaker 1: or said something like that. So I didn't even read

964
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,280
Speaker 1: the details of this because I don't think Matt Damon

965
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:12,879
Speaker 1: is a homophobe or a racist. I don't know him.

966
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 1: He just doesn't come off like that. I've heard he's

967
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 1: such a nice guy from people, big guy in that

968
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 1: movie in Princess to Boblo or whatever, I don't know

969
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 1: what it's called. Yeah, Princess to Bablo. He won an

970
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:26,359
Speaker 1: Oscar for playing a gay guy. None of us know

971
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:31,399
Speaker 1: what the funk you're talking about. But no, I don't

972
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 1: want to think about it. We gotta move on. So

973
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: what So he shared this anecdote that he wants used

974
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 1: the word maybe in a joke or something that he's

975
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 1: telling his daughters, and his daughter said, Dad, the whole

976
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 1: thing wrote like a thing for him of why this

977
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 1: word isn't right even sharing this, and now we all

978
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 1: all the headlines were about that Matt Damon didn't know

979
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,720
Speaker 1: until his daughter let him know that this was wrong,

980
00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 1: when he was really actually just showing how his daughter

981
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:01,919
Speaker 1: is to be more compassionate than him and has learned

982
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,880
Speaker 1: more than him in a shorter amount of time of life,

983
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 1: and how he's changed his ways. So now he has

984
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: to then address all of the headlines about how he

985
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: says the F word, because you listen, I didn't read

986
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:15,840
Speaker 1: any of the details. I just saw the headlines and

987
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 1: I knew that it was being blown out into something

988
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:21,240
Speaker 1: it wasn't. But listen I did. I I saw the headlines.

989
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, this is this isn't good. So then um,

990
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:30,760
Speaker 1: he goes So then he now addresses those headlines and says,

991
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 1: let me clarify. What does What does he clarifying for us?

992
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,959
Speaker 1: He's clarifying that he when he said he never says

993
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:40,439
Speaker 1: it in private, and that he's not homophobic at all,

994
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: and he supports the LGBTQ community. Oh and his daughter

995
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 1: didn't teach him a lesson, like he already knew the lesson. Yeah,

996
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: everyone's saying, oh my gosh, Mat Damon, your daughter had

997
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:55,360
Speaker 1: to teach you that the F word was bad. Here's

998
00:52:55,400 --> 00:53:01,720
Speaker 1: the thing I like. I believe him, and I believe

999
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 1: that people. That word, by the way, was used so

1000
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 1: much up until ten years ago, it was like the

1001
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 1: R word. I want to just say, that word was

1002
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:19,319
Speaker 1: used a lot, and it was like the saying things

1003
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 1: were gay, which doesn't feel good anymore. Things change there

1004
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: are It's undeniable that we associate different meanings towards over time,

1005
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,959
Speaker 1: based on the cultural interpretation and backlash that we see,

1006
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 1: and and and the feelings expressed by the communities that

1007
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 1: are marginalized by these uses of words. We all grow

1008
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 1: more empathetic and we stopped using them, but going back

1009
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 1: and punishing people for when they did use them, because

1010
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 1: it was just a part of the colloquialism. Even though

1011
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: we knew it was slightly wrong, it was still like

1012
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: I I proudly am someone who has never said the

1013
00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: N word that I can remember, since maybe I was

1014
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 1: a kid. I accidentally said it once to say something

1015
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,320
Speaker 1: that I heard someone say, and the shock of which

1016
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: it was brought to my attention by my parents of

1017
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 1: me saying that word just in you know, in private,

1018
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 1: and saying in repeating someone else story was like so

1019
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 1: bad the feeling that I never said again, and I

1020
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 1: don't I brush over it when I sing songs. It's

1021
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm not one of you know, we all know as

1022
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: three white people, white people that say that word in

1023
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:35,600
Speaker 1: private as jokes and say it ironically, like not really

1024
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:38,319
Speaker 1: using it in a real way, but say it like

1025
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: I'm getting away with this, but I'm saying it as

1026
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: a joke because it's the most shocking thing to say.

1027
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm not even one of those people. And I'm not

1028
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 1: patting myself on the back about that. I'm just saying that,

1029
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 1: like I am safe to know that I don't say that,

1030
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 1: but the the F word. I'm not sure that I

1031
00:54:56,040 --> 00:55:01,320
Speaker 1: didn't maybe float that word around ten years ago, um,

1032
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 1: not to not to cause hate, but because I didn't

1033
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 1: understand how hateful it was, and now I do and

1034
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:11,880
Speaker 1: I would never use it again. But I'm not going

1035
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 1: to go back and fucking cancel myself and hate myself

1036
00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:17,799
Speaker 1: the rest of my life because I may have said

1037
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 1: it one time in the past. I just don't get

1038
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: why people can't forgive Yeah, I mean, if you, if you,

1039
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:28,279
Speaker 1: if you don't see the error of your way of

1040
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 1: using it in the past, then fuck you. But if

1041
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 1: you really know how fucking hurtful it was and how

1042
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 1: thank god no one heard you say that that could

1043
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 1: have been affected and if they did you can go

1044
00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 1: back and talk to those people, then then then yes,

1045
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:48,440
Speaker 1: you deserve to be still homophobic and still races is

1046
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:51,800
Speaker 1: not going to tell you a story from their past

1047
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: where they've learned ship, you know what I mean, Like

1048
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 1: they're gonna be They're not gonna that kind of person

1049
00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 1: that's honest about that obviously, isn't that anymore? And about

1050
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 1: when we've been unintentionally racist or homophobic. We need to

1051
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: be honest about those moments because if we earned denial

1052
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 1: of them, much like I was talking about yesterday, if

1053
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 1: we don't talk about if we don't talk about rape,

1054
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:15,719
Speaker 1: if we don't talk about molestation, if we don't make

1055
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:19,320
Speaker 1: jokes about these things, then we act like they don't happen,

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00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 1: and they do, and then it lets people who do

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00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 1: them in private still do them so and it makes

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00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 1: it close people. So when you are in private with

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00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 1: someone as a white person and they use that word,

1060
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 1: even ironically and they're trying to shock, you make a

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00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 1: point if you can to say I don't tolerate that

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00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:40,319
Speaker 1: even in private. I know you're going to get away

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00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: with it right now, but like, no, you know, like

1064
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,319
Speaker 1: we need to we need to correct now, and don't

1065
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,400
Speaker 1: We just need to be more compassionate because the only

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00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:52,680
Speaker 1: way to get better is to forgive, is to be

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00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: able to have the capacity for forgiveness. I could forgive

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00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:58,839
Speaker 1: pretty much anyone for anything if they see the error

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00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:02,279
Speaker 1: of their ways. And I'm not even joking you anything.

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00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 1: I could forgive anything if the person does the work

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00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 1: and can see how wrong they were and explain what

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00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 1: pre what caused them to say those things or do

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00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 1: those things. Even I just I really think I could

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00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: forgive anything, and that's a powerful place to be, and

1075
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:22,960
Speaker 1: I wish more people could get there, but it's it's

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00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,040
Speaker 1: not so easy. And I also don't know what it's

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00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 1: like to be a victim of these things because I'm

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00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: a white, uh you know woman, So I don't pretend

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00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 1: to understand people that are like I'm not ever going

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00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: to forgive, So I'm not telling you to do that.

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00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:40,440
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm grateful that I I pretty much can forgive,

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00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: and I wasn't always like that. You were the Zach

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00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 1: Sherman episode I loved not forgiving, but um, and it's

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00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: not my place to forgive Matt Damon. I'm not, you know,

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00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 1: gay yet Let's get to the red dump. Yeah yeah,

1086
00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 1: that yet is a huge part of this. You know,

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00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 1: I ou't know for how long it took me to

1088
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 1: get into men. I don't question that my reluctance to

1089
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: get into women could be is the same thing I

1090
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 1: felt in middle school about men in high school, and

1091
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 1: then I finally got into men. So who knows. Um, wow,

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00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 1: I just pulled up Reddit. It's Reddit dump, you guys.

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00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 1: This is insane. There is a it's this isn't I

1094
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: didn't even mark this one to show you, but it's

1095
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 1: in Humans being Bros. This is the subreddit Humans being Bros.

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00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: And they have on footage this woman. Oh my god.

1097
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: It says woman saves kittens after they've been thrown into

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00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:43,400
Speaker 1: a river. So there's I guess it's it's just a

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00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: person running up to a river in the broad daylight,

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00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: like up a pond almost uh that has like seating area,

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00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 1: so it's like a public pond. And she tosses a

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00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: bag into the pond and then runs away. Then all

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00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: of a sudd and all these people come to the

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00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 1: pond and a woman jumps in, strips off all her clothes.

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00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god, she's naked. A woman strips off all

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00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 1: her clothes, swims out to the pond and saves them

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00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,920
Speaker 1: with a bunch of crew people waiting. Yeah, and the

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00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 1: quick kittens are saved. This happens all the time. People

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00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 1: dump animals that you know, litters of animals are grown,

1110
00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:24,959
Speaker 1: and they throw them in a sack and they dump

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00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 1: them on the highway and then cars run over them.

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Speaker 1: My aunt, you want to hear disturbatory, so this is

1113
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 1: a disturbatory dead air. I think I don't even want

1114
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 1: to tell this story, but I have to. If you

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00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:54,640
Speaker 1: don't like animal, no, I'm not gonna tell it. But

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Speaker 1: I just don't understand why people put animals in bags,

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00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 1: because someone might rest an animal. If you don't put

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01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 1: it in a bag, just put it somewhere where it's

1119
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 1: not in a bag, so maybe someone can find it

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Speaker 1: and give it a home. You fucking crazy person, who

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Speaker 1: I can only imagine you've seen a horrible abuse in

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01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 1: your life if you think it's good to put animals

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Speaker 1: and bags. But my aunt one time was at a

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01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 1: grocery store and saw a bag and like like kind

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01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 1: of like uh walking out to the parking lot um,

1126
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: and you know how sometimes you just like jump on

1127
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:30,040
Speaker 1: a bag to like make it deflate, just for fun.

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01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:32,400
Speaker 1: You're like a young child and you see a bag

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01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:35,480
Speaker 1: and you just jump on it. You can, you can

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01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: finish that story in your head. Yeah, okay, let's get

1131
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 1: to my saved posts. Um. Oh this one is good. Okay, Andrew,

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01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:46,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to show you this. This was in this

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01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 1: was this is this is a palate cleanser, this is

1134
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:53,840
Speaker 1: a gift um, and this is from gifts Reddit Separate Gifts.

1135
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 1: It says this baseball player making sure that everyone knows

1136
01:00:56,360 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 1: that there is one out dot dot dot, including the

1137
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 1: praying man just hitching a ride on his hat. Did

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01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 1: you see this? So this guy plays in the Nationals

1139
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 1: and he he there's a Peuge frame mantis on his hat.

1140
01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:12,000
Speaker 1: He says one out to the guys on the side,

1141
01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:15,440
Speaker 1: one out to the other people on the side, and

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01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 1: then he does it right in front of his hats. Wait,

1143
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:19,880
Speaker 1: hold on that. And then he does it right in

1144
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 1: front of his hat and he looks up almost like

1145
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:25,760
Speaker 1: cross side. No one, let me show you this one

1146
01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 1: out one out. Well, here's is he had it on

1147
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 1: and the dugout and the announcer for like, I wonder

1148
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 1: if he notices and then and and it just shows

1149
01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:44,440
Speaker 1: me though. It's like that's how comfortable these guys are.

1150
01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:47,600
Speaker 1: Like he's like, yeah, I'll just have a praying mantis

1151
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 1: on my hat. You know, like people die for these teams,

1152
01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like they fight their kids

1153
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 1: for their This is our town, this is our team,

1154
01:01:56,360 --> 01:01:58,640
Speaker 1: and this guy is just like I never heard the

1155
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:05,200
Speaker 1: Nationals being in any kind of play situation. Not more Well,

1156
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:09,240
Speaker 1: I love I love this gigantic Bragmanda's Um here's one

1157
01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 1: that I found. So I have a lot of visual

1158
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 1: ones and I apologize, but um, this will just make

1159
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:15,959
Speaker 1: you guys maybe have to go to Reddit. This one's

1160
01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 1: from Contagious Laughter and it's a it literally is me

1161
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 1: as a baby. It's called Impatient Baby, and it is

1162
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 1: a baby that's probably about two, and she's trying to

1163
01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 1: put a straw into a Starbucks Hot Starbucks slid, you

1164
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:32,960
Speaker 1: know where they have that little slit. It's like impossible

1165
01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:34,880
Speaker 1: for human to put a straw in there, much less

1166
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 1: a baby. So please just watch this, baby, She's trying

1167
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:42,120
Speaker 1: to put it in and then she just crumbles it up.

1168
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:45,920
Speaker 1: That's her mom just laughing at her, and she stares

1169
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 1: into the dark. Her mom. She's look at this. It's

1170
01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:59,040
Speaker 1: like me trying to get my dick in when I'm drunk.

1171
01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:01,600
Speaker 1: Does the way she throws it. So if you guys

1172
01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:03,840
Speaker 1: want to look it up, go to our Contagious Laughter

1173
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:06,280
Speaker 1: and impatient Baby. It's one of my favorite things ever.

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01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:08,920
Speaker 1: Um okay, and then there's this other thing that I

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01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 1: wanted to play. This is um this might take a

1176
01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 1: second though. Let me see how long it is. It's

1177
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:19,240
Speaker 1: three minutes long. Fuck um it. Do you know a

1178
01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 1: woman named Mary Carrill Carrillo. She's a sports podcaster. Yeah,

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01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: I think so. She looks like this. Yes, yes, yes,

1180
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:35,520
Speaker 1: she's amazing. So um so this was in uh subreddit

1181
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:39,120
Speaker 1: funny and it says Mary Carrillo's brilliant bad mitten rant

1182
01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 1: And it's from like the two thousand three Olympics. And

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01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 1: she's doing you know, she's talking about badminton and she

1184
01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:47,160
Speaker 1: starts talking about like, now this is a bad minten

1185
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:50,480
Speaker 1: um racket that you usually play with in your backyard.

1186
01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 1: Now this is the one they use in the Olympics.

1187
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:55,960
Speaker 1: This is the birdie that they use in Olympics. Here's

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01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:57,880
Speaker 1: the one they use in your backyard. And then she

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01:03:57,920 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 1: starts talking about how uh playing with it in her

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01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:03,520
Speaker 1: backyard with her kids, and I want you to hear

1191
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 1: this because it's just turns into like a stand up

1192
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:08,520
Speaker 1: bit the goose. I'm not making this up, so that

1193
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: so she's describing let me just get to the park.

1194
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:17,360
Speaker 1: So she's describing the birdie of the players in the Olympics,

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01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:20,120
Speaker 1: and then she goes on to describe, um, what it's

1196
01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 1: like playing in your backyard, and it turns into a

1197
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 1: comedy bit that no one sees coming. You cannot tell

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01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 1: me that the birdie we use it home. This thing.

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01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 1: You can lean on this as hard as you want.

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01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:32,880
Speaker 1: This thing isn't going two hundred miles an hour. It's not.

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01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:36,160
Speaker 1: And even though it doesn't look sophisticated, it has a

1202
01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:40,280
Speaker 1: tree seeking device implanted in It's somewhere I don't know where,

1203
01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:42,240
Speaker 1: but I've played a lot of badminton with my kids.

1204
01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 1: By the seventh shot, this thing's up in the tree. Okay,

1205
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 1: so then what is your kids? Do? She just want me.

1206
01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:50,240
Speaker 1: I'll get it down, throws a racket up in the tree.

1207
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 1: Now your rackets up in the tree. Said, don't worry,

1208
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 1: I'll get that down. So now it kid goes into

1209
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 1: the garage and goes and gets the red rubber ball,

1210
01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 1: which should come as standard equipment and any kind of

1211
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 1: backyard badminton set. Throws that in that immediately gets impaled.

1212
01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 1: So she goes to gain something else to get the

1213
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: bed to get one of these things down. Okay, Now

1214
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 1: there are kids from all over the neighborhood that have

1215
01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 1: come into your backyard and they're emptying at your garage,

1216
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 1: throwing stuff at your tree. All right, you realized suddenly

1217
01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:22,560
Speaker 1: you own eighteen basketballs. You've got nine footballs. Okay, there's

1218
01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:25,160
Speaker 1: softballs flying through the ears. The tree is now growning

1219
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:29,480
Speaker 1: with children and equipment. All right, someone started on the hose.

1220
01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:32,160
Speaker 1: Badman is a water sport. They're trying to get this

1221
01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:36,120
Speaker 1: thing down with a hose, and somehow mothers from all

1222
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 1: over the neighborhood here that badminton is being played at

1223
01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:41,960
Speaker 1: Mary's house. They're dropping off. They know it's an all

1224
01:05:42,040 --> 01:05:43,760
Speaker 1: day affair. They know what it's going to be bought.

1225
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:46,840
Speaker 1: Seventeen other sports they're dropping off their kids. They're even

1226
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 1: skin marks. Okay, you've got Colleen Clark up in the

1227
01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: tree trying to get down a SpongeBob SquarePants beatball with

1228
01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:59,080
Speaker 1: a hockey stick. Okay, there's pool sticks flying through the

1229
01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:02,680
Speaker 1: air like javelins, and you hear yourself saying, somebody's gonna

1230
01:06:02,680 --> 01:06:07,720
Speaker 1: poke an eye out. It just never ends. So everything

1231
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 1: is going on right. Then you see Christopher Burr, and

1232
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 1: it's always Christopher Burke. He takes a roller blade, throws

1233
01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:17,680
Speaker 1: it up at the tree, hits your car. You got

1234
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 1: a dent in your jeep. You realize you better get

1235
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:22,240
Speaker 1: your jeep out of the way, and you also realize

1236
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 1: that for the first time in seven years, you can

1237
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:27,080
Speaker 1: actually pull your car into the garage because there's no

1238
01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:31,040
Speaker 1: sporting equipment there anymore, not even the inflatable raft that

1239
01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 1: hasn't seen action. The Baby Duck rescue of you pull

1240
01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:39,200
Speaker 1: your car into the garage and as you do, your

1241
01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 1: other kids coming out. He's on the phone with our

1242
01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 1: team Murphy. He sizes up the situation and says, Hey,

1243
01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 1: come on over, we're playing badminton. That is a sport

1244
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:50,440
Speaker 1: that I know, and that's probably a sport that you

1245
01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 1: know as Well's coming back after this. It was like

1246
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:59,840
Speaker 1: Aristocrats for clean version of the I love that she's

1247
01:06:59,880 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 1: the A and Christine Burr and it's always Christopher Burr

1248
01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:06,280
Speaker 1: throws up a roll up. I mean that woman. I

1249
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:09,360
Speaker 1: want to know everything she's done. Final thought. I was

1250
01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 1: reading all the comments about this and it was great. Uh.

1251
01:07:12,760 --> 01:07:15,440
Speaker 1: People were saying, that is how you feel time, folks.

1252
01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:19,000
Speaker 1: And then uh, he says she slowly morphed from composed

1253
01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:21,680
Speaker 1: news anchor to Jersey mob boss in two point seven

1254
01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:25,720
Speaker 1: five minutes, and then said then people were saying, Um,

1255
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 1: the next thing, you know, there's money missing off the

1256
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:29,800
Speaker 1: dresser and your daughter's knocked up. I've seen in a

1257
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:33,600
Speaker 1: hundred times. I guess that's a quote from some other thing. Um,

1258
01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 1: this could have aired, as someone goes, this could have

1259
01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:38,160
Speaker 1: aired as the opening sketch of SNL, and I wouldn't

1260
01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:41,200
Speaker 1: have thought it was out of place comedy gold. Um, yes,

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Speaker 1: you would have. You would have been like, SNL sucks. Now.

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Speaker 1: The reason why this is funny is because it's out

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Speaker 1: of context for a comedy thing. This isn't actually as

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Speaker 1: funny as things on SNL. Stop saying SNL is not funny.

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Speaker 1: You're I'm so tired of that argument. Then someone wrote back,

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Speaker 1: you're giving us an L too much credit here. Then

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Speaker 1: someone said modern us No, but I thought it felt

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Speaker 1: like nine S all the way, but it wasn't. And

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Speaker 1: then someone said it totally felt like the old sn

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Speaker 1: I honestly thought it was for a second. And uh,

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Speaker 1: it's just like people just love being kid by the way.

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Speaker 1: Um yeah, well, I was thinking. I was listening to Michaels.

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Speaker 1: You like any SNL when you're fucking eighteen, like that's

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Speaker 1: your I forbid my dad from saying SNL sucks now.

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Speaker 1: I literally go, Dad, you can't say that anymore because

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Speaker 1: you've been saying it since and I don't care. Um dude,

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Speaker 1: they're not like You're not like when Eddie Murphy was

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Speaker 1: on in the first episode. It's just like, yeah, things

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Speaker 1: change like so edgy and now it's not ted last

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Speaker 1: I was only going to go for three seasons and

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Speaker 1: everyone's like no, and it's like, you know what, I

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Speaker 1: think it's smart. Why would they stick around until you

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Speaker 1: say that they used to be good and now they're

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Speaker 1: not anymore. That's all anyone ever says of anything that

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Speaker 1: lasts more than three seasons, So funk yourselves three seasons out.

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Speaker 1: That's what I like, except for f Y Island. I

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Speaker 1: want to run that thing into the ground. Um, this

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Speaker 1: was a good one. I just want to close with uh,

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Speaker 1: we gotta go. But this was from ask Men, and

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Speaker 1: it said what have you been up to recently that

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Speaker 1: you're proud of? This person wrote, I just got out

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Speaker 1: of a wheelchair and and learning to walk again. What

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Speaker 1: have you done that you're happy about or proud of?

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Speaker 1: Someone said down eighty pounds going for more. This is

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Speaker 1: just so sweet that men are just like saying what

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Speaker 1: they're proud of. Someone said, I'm a healthcare provider and

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Speaker 1: work in private practice. Worked up the balls to email

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Speaker 1: my boss inquiring about partnership with the practice. Not only

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Speaker 1: did I not get shot down, but he agreed to

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Speaker 1: start discussing it. I'm not good at all at taking

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Speaker 1: initiative on stuff. It might not sound like much, but

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Speaker 1: it took a couple of months to work up the

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Speaker 1: courage to send that email. Was a huge step for

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Speaker 1: me personal and professional. I think it's just so sweet

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Speaker 1: that you can these people are supporting each other. They're

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Speaker 1: just strangers on the internet that are like this. Is

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Speaker 1: what makes me feel good about Reddit. UM a lot

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Speaker 1: of times. There's so many good things on there that

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Speaker 1: make me feel connected people and less alone, so many communities.

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Speaker 1: Whatever you're suffering with, there's a subreddit for it. I

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Speaker 1: swear to God, Andrew. What's something you're proud of recently? UM,

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Speaker 1: yesterday you hit Yeah, I shot at thirty nine again.

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Speaker 1: I am just I just feel so proud of how

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Speaker 1: much time I'm giving to golf and how much reward

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Speaker 1: I'm seeking from it emotionally and physically. And the movie

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Speaker 1: by Matt Damon was behind the Candabrea, I was a

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Speaker 1: little off. What are you proud of? I am proud

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Speaker 1: of um getting out of a depression that I was

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Speaker 1: in two days ago and uh and and be and

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Speaker 1: being very honest about it with my friends, even though

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Speaker 1: it was hard for them to probably hear, and just

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Speaker 1: like getting honest about my feelings and how just like

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Speaker 1: awful I felt with people that were able to like

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Speaker 1: hear it and not like tell me I was wrong

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Speaker 1: or try to like commit me somewhere. Like just being

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Speaker 1: able to express how sad I was and not struggle

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Speaker 1: with it alone. That's what I'm proud of, Um, I

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Speaker 1: hope you do the same for yourself if you're struggling

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Speaker 1: out there. Yeah, thanks for thanks for noticing, uh that

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Speaker 1: I was struggling. No, you've got me, ZeVA and that helped. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Hey everyone, thank you for listening. We'll see you tomorrow

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Speaker 1: on the podcast. We are also going to be Um.

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Speaker 1: I'm all over podcasts recently. Check them out. Just google.

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Speaker 1: You know, Nikki Glazer on whatever pod cast searcher thing

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Speaker 1: that you want. Um. I was on the The Ringers

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Speaker 1: um Bachelor. Uh, I forget what it's called The Bachelor.

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Speaker 1: I think it's called Bachelor Party. And I recapped last

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Speaker 1: night's episode of the Bachelorette, which was insane. It was

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Speaker 1: one of the best Bachelor att episodes I've ever seen.

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Speaker 1: I gotta go. Uh, we'll see tomorrow. Delbeka and Jack

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Speaker 1: to Jack bach Chaker for