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Speaker 6: Like it was like all right, And they almost started

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Speaker 2: And it's all because somewhere in their life they feel

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Speaker 2: Be latey birthday, Rod, I'm glad to hear you had

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Speaker 1: I no longer go all out for my birthday.

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Speaker 2: What I have done in recent years is an informal

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Speaker 1: Oh that's nice. All that's sweet my favor.

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Speaker 2: got something for you or something, and sometimes they don't.

438
00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:13,360
Speaker 2: And it's never like a thing for me, Like I've

439
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:15,680
Speaker 2: never been like, oh I know justice, I didn't get nothing,

440
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 2: Like I'm so chill about it. The main thing for

441
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 2: me it is hard to do is because I'm so

442
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,879
Speaker 2: chill about my birthday, I sometimes forget people can be

443
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 2: kind of more like uptight about theirs, and so they'll

444
00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:30,520
Speaker 2: be like, hey, hit me up, you know, like you

445
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:31,560
Speaker 2: didn't call me or something.

446
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that's right.

447
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 2: This is a big deal to a lot of people,

448
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 2: but it doesn't have to be a big deal.

449
00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 6: For me, and it does it And like I said,

450
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 6: things with my childhood, I internally I have my own

451
00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 6: personal hang ups about that, you know, so I have

452
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 6: to look with them myself and try not to get angry,

453
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 6: you know.

454
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 1: But I'm like, yeah, uh when people like you didn't

455
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,480
Speaker 1: hit me up about my birthday.

456
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 6: Right, because yeah, like I said, it's personal stuff, like

457
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 6: like like my personal.

458
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 2: I mean, if that happens to me one time with somebody,

459
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,639
Speaker 2: I normally just put a reminder on my phone and

460
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 2: then you know, I just want to solve the problem.

461
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 2: But at the same time, if someone got like super

462
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,920
Speaker 2: mad at me or something, I probably would stop fucking

463
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 2: with them just because like to me, that's not healthy

464
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 2: for me, Like right, like if you are like I'm

465
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,199
Speaker 2: not speaking to you level angry about that, I really

466
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,120
Speaker 2: it's fine that we don't need to talk then, because yeah,

467
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 2: because I and the reason I say that is because.

468
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,200
Speaker 1: I would never treat somebody like that.

469
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 2: I've never had a person, you know, forget my birthday

470
00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 2: or some shit, and then I've been like I'm not

471
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 2: fucking with them no more and so and I feel

472
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 2: like that's like kind of a childish approach to it.

473
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,399
Speaker 1: So I don't think I would be able to handle that.

474
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 2: And there's other types of people who would be able

475
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 2: to handle that, and they should just be friends with those.

476
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,199
Speaker 6: People, right, And like I said, because I've had that

477
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:50,919
Speaker 6: happen to me, That's why I said, I have to

478
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 6: internally check myself about you know, what I mean about

479
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 6: it and shit like that, you know, because it's been

480
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,239
Speaker 6: like a running joke, like I'm better at it now,

481
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,240
Speaker 6: but it would be a running joke. Well, I would

482
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 6: hit people like a few days after their birthday, you know, because,

483
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:05,160
Speaker 6: like I said, people have lies, people get busy, people

484
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 6: do things, people forget, so I don't. I don't charge

485
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 6: anything to you if you forget my birthday, you know.

486
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 6: But but like I said, it's a personal thing for me,

487
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 6: because I was like, well, if you have this energy

488
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 6: about your birthday, bitch, don'll never forget mine. Then, you know,

489
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 6: like like and I know that that that that that's

490
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 6: me internally talking. But I'm like, if you're gonna make

491
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 6: a huge deal and call and cry and whin, I

492
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 6: better get a motherfucker call every day on mind did

493
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 6: with the no, Okay.

494
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 1: Yeah I don't. Yeah I've never had somebody like du

495
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: crying and all that stuff. But yeah, I hear you.

496
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,880
Speaker 2: And and I'm more the way of like I don't

497
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,400
Speaker 2: even want to reciprocate the energy, Like I'm not gonna

498
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,479
Speaker 2: start being petty about my birthday, Like no, no, you

499
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 2: just said you were. No, I don't let me finish, please,

500
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 2: I'm just responding to what you said.

501
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 1: Okay, these are the words came out your mouth.

502
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 2: I don't have the Now I'm gonna be petty energy

503
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 2: because I let things go too easily, so like I

504
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,639
Speaker 2: won't remember when it's my birthday, like, uh, this bitch

505
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 2: better call after she doesn't said all that shit or whatever,

506
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 2: this nigga better give me a he better text me,

507
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 2: or what I really will forget about it. So that's

508
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 2: why I just I would probably just move away from

509
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 2: the person in general, like, Okay, this is a very

510
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 2: hard response. I understand it's very important to you and

511
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 2: in a way that it's probably never gonna be important

512
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 2: to me. And if it's times in like conflict and

513
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 2: anger and stuff like that, that's a lot of pressure

514
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 2: right that I'm just not I don't like thinking of

515
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 2: that kind of pressure about my friendships, and especially since

516
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 2: there's never gonna be a way where I whereas even

517
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:44,120
Speaker 2: where I where I keep that same energy and I'm

518
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 2: I'm angry if you don't hit me up on my birthday.

519
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 2: You can forget my ship a hundred times and I'll

520
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,879
Speaker 2: always be Okay, I forgot your ship once and you

521
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 2: was crying and mad.

522
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,680
Speaker 1: Then yeah, it's I need balance in my relationship.

523
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 6: And I think that's more of what I'm talking about,

524
00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,200
Speaker 6: that that that that that balance piece and it's it's not.

525
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 1: But most of the time I literally won't remember. Like

526
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: I literally won't remember.

527
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 6: But if you actually make a big old deal, I'm

528
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 6: gonna go through my roller dicks. But like, oh, you

529
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 6: making a big deal, but you didn't you know, Like

530
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 6: and then it's one of those things where, like I said,

531
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 6: that's an internal thing that I personally got to navigate

532
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 6: through myself. Please don't get me wrong, but that's why

533
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm not big on my birthday.

534
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 1: And you know, if we do something for.

535
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 6: Your birthday, I has nothing wrong with or anything like that,

536
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 6: but you know, it's like, don't act like the world

537
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 6: is going to end because I didn't remember, I didn't

538
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 6: called or something like that. Like it is nothing personal.

539
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 6: Like people take those things personal. I have family members

540
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 6: to take it personally, and I'm like, it ain't personal.

541
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 1: Right AJ, So thank you for righting, he said.

542
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 2: My favorite birthday was twenty eighteen when I got to

543
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 2: see Earthwood and Fire perform at the Embassy and they

544
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 2: played my favorite song from that.

545
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 1: Catalog, Boogie Wonderland that sounds dope.

546
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,439
Speaker 2: I think my favorite one is when we did the

547
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,400
Speaker 2: Blackout Tips live show on my birthday.

548
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 1: That was dope. Do you do it big for your birthday?

549
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: Was the poll?

550
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 2: Oh wait, sorry, sorry sorry, let me check the comments

551
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 2: on YouTube see if we got anything.

552
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:12,640
Speaker 1: None on this episode. Okay, cool, Now we can check

553
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 1: the poll. Do you do it big for your birthday?

554
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: Yes or no?

555
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 2: Twenty five percent say yes, seventy five percent say no.

556
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 2: I also wonder what doing it big means to everybody,

557
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 2: because it's probably different for everyone.

558
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, and it varies, you know, per person, and it's

559
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 6: you know, and it's also one of the things to

560
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 6: to where everybody's different. For some people going what we

561
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 6: did would be considered.

562
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 7: Small, like you know what I'm saying, Like, that's not big, Like.

563
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 2: Just I didn't know I was saying it was small, okay, okay, right,

564
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,360
Speaker 2: I was in my mind what we did is doing

565
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 2: it small.

566
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,400
Speaker 6: Right, So for a lot of people, they'll be like, well,

567
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,679
Speaker 6: I and there's nothing wrong with this because everybody's different,

568
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 6: you know. So if you are somebody like, hey, it's

569
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 6: my birthday, I want everybody to know.

570
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 1: Cool.

571
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 6: You know, as long as you don't get mad and

572
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 6: upset with people, I don't have a problem with that

573
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 6: at all. You know, if you want to senivitations that

574
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 6: have a party, have a blowout party.

575
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 7: I'm cool with that too, because I.

576
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 6: Know some people their birthday is just that important to them,

577
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 6: and there is nothing personally wrong with that. But it's like,

578
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 6: you know, for me, a lot of times I tell

579
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 6: people people that shocked and surprise, like why did you

580
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 6: tell me? It's like, I don't take it personal. I

581
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 6: just you know, this is just how I do my

582
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 6: thing more laid back.

583
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: Let's check the poll on Spotify.

584
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 2: Seventy four percent now twenty six percent yes, which is

585
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 2: almost identical, Like it's only one percentage point difference each way.

586
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 2: So yeah, people do a big for their birthday about

587
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 2: one out of every four people.

588
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 1: And then the Q and A.

589
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 2: Stop asking what black people need to do to get it,

590
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 2: I mean, stop asking what black women need to do

591
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,159
Speaker 2: to get a man. Yes, please, Aaron says, please and

592
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 2: thank you. Nelson says the battle or the sex and

593
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 2: shit is getting old. These content creators profiting from the

594
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 2: vision between black men and black women is disgusting.

595
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think you know what's interesting here is.

596
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 2: There's an overreaction to it in the other way that

597
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 2: I find to be somewhat disingenuous and convenient, and I

598
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:16,120
Speaker 2: don't necessarily like it, but I understand where it's coming from.

599
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: And so what I mean is a lot of.

600
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 2: The content online over embellishes on the division between black

601
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 2: men and black women. And because it's content and and

602
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 2: and and it's effective content that works almost every time,

603
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 2: regardless of who the person is talking like. It could

604
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 2: be the least credible person, it could be a person

605
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 2: that's been on the summer jam screen before.

606
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 1: It don't matter. It goes viral.

607
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 2: They get the clicks, they get the attention, they become

608
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 2: the focal point of the day, and it's very lucrative

609
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 2: as far as the attention economy goes.

610
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 1: But there's also.

611
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 2: A reaction that comes back that goes, none of this

612
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 2: is real. Black men and black women get along with

613
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 2: no problems. Everything's within our community and there's no need

614
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 2: to ever discuss anything because all the black men are

615
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 2: great and all the black women know that the black

616
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 2: men are great, and so what are we even saying?

617
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: And I think this the original gender war like content.

618
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 2: Is enabling that level of like whitewashing and just sweeping

619
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 2: of the of all intro racial, intergeneral intergender conflicts within

620
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 2: black culture or society because you can because it's not

621
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 2: as bad as the person who the person who originally

622
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 2: started it.

623
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: We then go nothing's wrong, and I think.

624
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 2: That's like, that's one of the reasons we need to

625
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 2: get rid of a lot.

626
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: Well, it would be nice to see the gender work.

627
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 2: Content. It will be nice to see that content go away.

628
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 2: It won't, but it would be nice to see it

629
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 2: go away, because I think there's a bunch of discussions

630
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 2: that could be had about how people can be better

631
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 2: to each other within the black race and within the

632
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 2: way gender paradigms are set up and the way that

633
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 2: privilege is set up.

634
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: But we'll never get there as long as people are so.

635
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 2: Over the top in the original content, because it just

636
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 2: makes people go, well, okay, this is not that bad,

637
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 2: and then people act like it's nothing.

638
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 6: I agree, And you know, it's also one of those

639
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:32,719
Speaker 6: things where all of it boils down to projection because

640
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 6: everybody has had different interactions with the opposite sex about

641
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 6: the straight relationships. Everybody has had, you know, different and

642
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 6: you're talking about people are different age ranges, people are

643
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 6: different generations, people who view these things differently, and then

644
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 6: you talk about a lot of schisms and isms mixed

645
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 6: up in there with the race, mixed up in there

646
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 6: with you know, gender. Because what's sad when it comes

647
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 6: to this, most people when they argue about this, a

648
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 6: lot of times they only argue out straight, So you're

649
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 6: not talking about lgbt qya. Plus you're not talking about

650
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 6: like a lot of times these conversations act like these

651
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 6: particular people don't even exist in this conversation at all,

652
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 6: Like they like they don't have these internal things that

653
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,479
Speaker 6: they have to deal with within their community too. And

654
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 6: so's it's like a really really deep issue that everybody's

655
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 6: trying to have public in these platforms that are not

656
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 6: designed to actually have these in depth conversations. Because the

657
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 6: thing is, these things aren't really trying to fix or

658
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 6: solve the problems. All they're trying to do is to

659
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 6: get that enraged and that fire in you be it,

660
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 6: I agree or I don't agree. They don't care. All

661
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 6: they want is to get the shit out there so

662
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Speaker 6: that they can make money. And it's a trick bag,

663
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 6: and a trick bag keeps working, so that's why they

664
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 6: keep doing it. If people stop listening, clicking, sharing, and

665
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 6: going to this fucked up content, the content would stop.

666
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and they're not gonna stop, right, That's it. Just

667
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: end of the day. People are not gonna stop.

668
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Speaker 2: It's too lucratives, too uh, too much to gain from

669
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Speaker 2: from from doing it. You know, Like I said, I'm

670
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 2: not even trying to to make you know, like I'm

671
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 2: not like I said, I don't want to join the

672
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 2: other side of this, which is that there are no

673
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 2: problems in the black community, right, because I think that's

674
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 2: a lot of people go to that because they don't

675
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 2: want to face any level of critique at all, They

676
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 2: don't want to have any level of responsibility.

677
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Speaker 1: And I think that's kind of whack.

678
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 2: But this ain't it whatever, Like this shit where every

679
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 2: day there's another motherfucker being like here's a thing that

680
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 2: will piss everybody off about women and men. It just

681
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 2: it's whacked to me. Like there was a thing that

682
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 2: was trending boy math versus girl math that started out

683
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 2: kind of like acute, like ha ha ha. You know,

684
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 2: I don't you know what the examples were, but like

685
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 2: you know, so I'm like a woman girl math is

686
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 2: your girls saying she'll be ready in fifteen minutes, and

687
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 2: it's an hour later, hahahaa, right right, that kind of

688
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 2: that kind of ship. You know, boy, you know, boy

689
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 2: math is you know blank blank blank, I don't you know.

690
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 1: Some dumb shit.

691
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, that's that's funny, that's cute,

692
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 2: that's you know.

693
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Speaker 1: Adorable or whatever. By the end, it was like.

694
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Speaker 2: Boy, math is you sexually assaulted somebody? And girl math

695
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 2: is the baby is yours? Even though and I need

696
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Speaker 2: child support, even though I'm.

697
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Speaker 7: Like math ain't math?

698
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Speaker 1: And we know with the complex algebra, I thought it

699
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Speaker 1: supposed to be eas male And I'm like, y'all are just mad, Yes,

700
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: you're just mad like it.

701
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 2: This had like y'all took something funny and turned it

702
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 2: into something that would just piss each other off.

703
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: Correct, because it because I believe was not just the

704
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Speaker 1: gender wars thing.

705
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 2: I believe that these are people that are lonely, and

706
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 2: that's the content that people are getting from this is

707
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 2: actually the interactions with each other. I think it's the

708
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 2: same groups of people on both sides that actually get

709
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 2: off on fighting with each other and and and quote

710
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 2: tweeting that, and it's just to avoid whatever's going on

711
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 2: in their life. Yes, sir, because like why would you

712
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 2: be this angry and this upset about everything?

713
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 1: But it's it's you know.

714
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 2: It's like all internet communities that are like hyper localized

715
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 2: like that, where all of a sudden, it's like, I'm

716
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 2: just on here to avoid life.

717
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: This.

718
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,840
Speaker 2: There was this clip that went viral that was actually

719
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 2: like somebody trying to say, like this woman trying to

720
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Speaker 2: point out.

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Speaker 9: Y'all be calling people y'all friends because you play basketball

722
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Speaker 9: with them.

723
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Speaker 1: Oh wait, no, this ain't even the right clip. That's this.

724
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

725
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 2: This clip was funny and true too. I'll see if

726
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 2: I can find their other clip. But yeah, there was

727
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 2: this woman who was saying, how like.

728
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Speaker 1: A lot of this.

729
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 2: Stuff is about people absorbing other people's traumas. Ye, And

730
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 2: how because we're sitting around absorbing everybody else's trauma, even

731
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 2: with some shit didn't happen to us, We're reading about

732
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 2: people's like worst stuff. It's like if you haven't been

733
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 2: cheated on, but all you read about is or the

734
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,280
Speaker 2: content you're here, we go, Yeah, the content you're watching

735
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 2: go viral is people saying, you know, this is the

736
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 2: worst type of thing that ever happened to me, And

737
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 2: this happens to me all the time, or this happens

738
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 2: to everybody all the time, or and it's never happened

739
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 2: to you personally, but you're like, yup, mmm, that's content.

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Speaker 1: You absorb that and it becomes I tell you.

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Speaker 9: Social media is amplifying the divide between black men and

742
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 9: black women. Pages like Justin La Boy, pages like Spiritual World,

743
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Speaker 9: who take the most toxic messages from Twitter and all

744
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Speaker 9: other platforms, put them in one space that are purposely

745
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Speaker 9: perpetuating narratives that we really aren't interacting with in the

746
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Speaker 9: real world. You go on to day, you're not having

747
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 9: these conversations, but you call on social media, and these

748
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:01,280
Speaker 9: conversations are constantly repeated, and none of the solution focused.

749
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Speaker 9: It's all what they do, what they do, what's not

750
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Speaker 9: being done, And it's not productive. It's not pushing us forward.

751
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 9: And what's happening is we are internalizing a lot of

752
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 9: trauma that does not belong to us. So we are

753
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 9: internalizing a lot of relationship trauma that does not belong

754
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Speaker 9: to us. So let's say, for me personally, right, I've

755
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Speaker 9: never been cheated one but let's say I go when

756
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Speaker 9: I follow a bunch of women who talk about the

757
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Speaker 9: fact that, oh I've been cheated all all these niggas

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Speaker 1: They all cheat. They that's all they do.

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Speaker 9: And I'm not self aware enough to really understand that

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Speaker 2: So, like I said, I'm sure she getting called all

787
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Speaker 2: kinds of pignes and shit.

788
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Speaker 7: But the statement is one hundred percent true.

789
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and like it can be somewhat oversimplified into like

790
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 2: this isn't happening stuff, which is not a space I

791
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 2: would want to go into, because I think that's just

792
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 2: as problematic, if not worse, to act like no problems

793
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Speaker 2: are happening.

794
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:06,959
Speaker 7: You can acknowledge it didn't happen.

795
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 2: I mean, internalizing other people's shit as this is my

796
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 2: shit is definitely one hundred percent true. And it's not

797
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Speaker 2: just true of black people in black gender war blah

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Speaker 2: blah blah, it's true of.

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Speaker 1: The internet conduct.

800
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 2: Yes, Like that's people see content, clicks, videos, TikTok, whatever,

801
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 2: and they click on the shit and they're like, now

802
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 2: you're absorbing whatever this is, even when a lot of

803
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 2: times it's either over embellished or not real.

804
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Speaker 6: You know, agreed, And it's one of the things where

805
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 6: you could do it subconsciously because the Internet is just

806
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 6: designed to suck you in. And if you're not aware,

807
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 6: if you're not alert, if you don't have the self awareness,

808
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 6: if you can't discern, you know before you know what,

809
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,839
Speaker 6: you're wrapped up and tangled up in it, and you're

810
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 6: repeating the same things. And a lot of times a

811
00:38:55,520 --> 00:39:00,800
Speaker 6: lot of the things we absorb and absorb on the internet,

812
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:04,240
Speaker 6: if we're not aware, it can actually quote unquote flow

813
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 6: into real life.

814
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: And so these things that you read.

815
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:13,839
Speaker 6: Online that are are are hyper over embellished and said,

816
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 6: some of these things might not be true.

817
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 7: You'll start interacting with people like this in the real world.

818
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,399
Speaker 6: This has a lot to do with my personal opinion

819
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 6: while a lot of people are lonely and things like that.

820
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 6: Because if you read all these niggas ain't shad at

821
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 6: These nigga ain't shady. The nigga ain' shaitut these niggas shit.

822
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 6: You just absorbed it, and then you go on in

823
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 6: the real world. You some people take that same energy

824
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 6: out into the real world. All this everybody's easy to

825
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 6: get rid of, easy to block, easy to mute, easy

826
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 6: to get rid of. You'll take that, you take those

827
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:42,439
Speaker 6: same actions into the quote unquote real world, and you'll

828
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 6: start treating real human beings. These other people don't human

829
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 6: beings too, but you'll start treating people in your everyday,

830
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 6: normal life mimicking the things that you do online online.

831
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Speaker 6: Sometimes you have to draw a line and you gotta

832
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:57,439
Speaker 6: be like, look, there's online, and online can lead into

833
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 6: the real world. Don't get me wrong, but there are

834
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Speaker 6: some things online to need to stay online.

835
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think.

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Speaker 2: And the thing is with her saying, like people, we're

837
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 2: not bringing these conversations up on dates and stuff. I

838
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 2: think there are people that obviously bring up these type

839
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 2: of conversations on dates. I think the difference is even

840
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Speaker 2: those people would admit in real life they're the outliers

841
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Speaker 2: that that that's not a common thing they do. When

842
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,840
Speaker 2: they do stuff like that on dates, people are shocked

843
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 2: or don't know how to answer those questions because they're

844
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 2: they're not because most people aren't confronted with that in

845
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 2: real life. And when you stop and think about, okay,

846
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,359
Speaker 2: so those people are outliers in real life, but on

847
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 2: the Internet, those people lead the discussion, and that is

848
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 2: the basis for the discussion. And that's why people feel

849
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 2: like the Internet doesn't reflect real life because the kind

850
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 2: of person that is bringing up some of this like

851
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 2: stuff in real and in real life normally is the

852
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 2: person that we go, yeah, that person's being a weirdo

853
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Speaker 2: or that person's a real stickler about blank. We're not

854
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 2: treating them like yeah, because that happens all the time.

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00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 2: That's very normal. You know, many of my friends are

856
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 2: the people that would bring something like this up on

857
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Speaker 2: the day, and they don't They don't talk walk around

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00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,399
Speaker 2: being like yeah, you know, I do it all the time.

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00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 2: Everybody's just like totally cool with it. They're like, no,

860
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 2: these motherfuckers don't even.

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Speaker 1: Know what to say.

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00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 2: They sound stupid because they've never even been fucking I

863
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 2: had to think about gender dynamics or.

864
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Speaker 1: To They've never had.

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Speaker 2: To think about you know what if I start bringing

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Speaker 2: up being like anything other than cis head or normative,

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Speaker 2: that it immediately is outside of their their purview and

868
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 2: and that's more realistic. But yeah, the internet's not like that,

869
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 2: another person said, because because what happens single in most cases,

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00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:42,320
Speaker 2: says Demetria, I hear you. Yeah, I really think people

871
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 2: do not well not people. A lot of these discussions

872
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 2: all are based off of like a blissful marriage and relationship.

873
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 2: It's never based on the like you probably have to

874
00:41:55,800 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 2: work at it, or it's mid or some days it's

875
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 2: bad days, or it's bad. No one's ever like talking

876
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: about this day. It's always like you find a person

877
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 2: and then it's great, and you go, why wasn't I

878
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 2: finding a person earlier? The only thing it could have

879
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,799
Speaker 2: made this better was to find them yesterday. And it's like, man,

880
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 2: there's a lot of people that you know, struggle and

881
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 2: fight and try to get into a relationship and then

882
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 2: they still go, this isn't good to me, right to

883
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 2: Flogen says, I agree, start asking.

884
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 1: Why black men can't keep a woman.

885
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 2: Nobody ever asked that shit, and never Kisha asked us

886
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 2: as for some for real, because some of us might

887
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 2: want a woman exactly.

888
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 1: These conversations extremely had on normally.

889
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 2: Seeney says, I love to take on the teacher using

890
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 2: skie it's weird to post. I appreciate the anti respectability

891
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 2: and choice, not the code switch conscious or not, but

892
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 2: SIS had to know these niggas will be pissed. That's

893
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:50,439
Speaker 2: the thing, right, because this is where I'm at right now,

894
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:52,359
Speaker 2: where I'm not cynical in.

895
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,359
Speaker 1: The like you know, I don't.

896
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 2: I don't think I respond very much to the surface

897
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 2: level of videos and content on the Internet anymore. To

898
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 2: which I mean, like, if there was a video that

899
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 2: that was you coming over to me and smacking me

900
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 2: in my face, right, most people who respond to.

901
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:12,760
Speaker 1: The fact that you smacked me in my face?

902
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 2: Right, No, almost nobody responds to the fact that I

903
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 2: posted a video you smacking me in my face?

904
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: What am I trying to get out of this shit?

905
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 8: Now?

906
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 2: I'll just be like, I really just have to ask

907
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 2: myself that before, because the vast majority of the conversation

908
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 2: is the surface level, like damn, she smacked her husband

909
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 2: or whatever.

910
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: It's never like and then this nigga uploaded it and

911
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 1: shared it, and like, what was the decision?

912
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:43,399
Speaker 7: And when you do bring that up, people that act

913
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 7: like you're the weirdo.

914
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:44,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the.

915
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 2: Smack genuine, you know, and I have a ton and

916
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,439
Speaker 2: there's a lot of questions I don't ask on here,

917
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:53,720
Speaker 2: and I don't ask I'll keep it to the group chat.

918
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 2: But motherfuckers know the kind of shit I'm talking about

919
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 2: where it's something has an immediate knee jerk reaction.

920
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: Everyone's on one.

921
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 2: Page and if you just take one more second, you're like,

922
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:04,799
Speaker 2: wait a minute, what the fuck?

923
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:05,439
Speaker 7: It's my name?

924
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:05,879
Speaker 1: Be real?

925
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, Leech says, I'm convinced that at this point they're

926
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 2: just asking these questions for.

927
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: A vile moment. Listen, leash, okay me you saying low

928
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 1: hanging through?

929
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 2: I too fall into the thoughts of what the hell

930
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 2: is wrong with me every now and then, and it's

931
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:20,240
Speaker 2: a struggle.

932
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: That's another thing. Man Like.

933
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 2: People are really dealing with this, especially women, Like it's

934
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 2: very rarely like so like, we empower men so much

935
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 2: in life.

936
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 1: Most men will never have a what's wrong with me?

937
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 2: Moment unless they're talking about fucking but they very rarely

938
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 2: have a what's wrong with me? Why can't I get

939
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 2: into a serious, committed, long term relationship?

940
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:50,880
Speaker 1: There is always like this, what these bitches need to do?

941
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:54,879
Speaker 2: I know people that have been lifelong bachelors haven't really

942
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,760
Speaker 2: been able to make a long term relationship work.

943
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 1: They aren't married, they are aren't engaged, and.

944
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 2: Yet they always got some shit to say about what

945
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 2: women need to do so they can get married and engaged,

946
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 2: because to them, women see exists to service us as

947
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 2: men and to do whatever the fuck we need to

948
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 2: do they need to do to be with us. And

949
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 2: it's always some shit that's got to deal with, Like

950
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 2: they need to learn to put up with our shit.

951
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 2: It's never some like you know whatever, whatever. It is,

952
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 2: always like, learn to lower your standards to me. And

953
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 2: I always trying that shit to be It's just about

954
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 2: the entitlement we experienced from the time we're boys to

955
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 2: becoming men. That's just making us the default and the

956
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 2: women have to acquiesce.

957
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 6: To it, right And you know, and a lot of men,

958
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 6: particularly now as people get older and we rich studies,

959
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 6: men don't know how to deal with older women, particularly

960
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 6: if they want to date somebody in their age range

961
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 6: and they don't want to go down and we're like, no, nigga, I'm.

962
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 7: Not marry you. No you can't move in with me. No,

963
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 7: you stay at your place.

964
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 6: I stay at my eye fuck you, But I'm not

965
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 6: trying to to to do nothing else with you, right,

966
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 6: But because I never you know, because a lot of

967
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 6: women like Nigga don't want to be Okay, I give,

968
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 6: and that's what you're looking.

969
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: For, right, And I know that there's a power for

970
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 1: that for women.

971
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 2: But what you see, whatever, what you didn't even say

972
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 2: in that discussion, what these men need to do to

973
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 2: be with these women? No one thinks about it. We

974
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 2: don't ask it, We don't demand it of them, and

975
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 2: they a don't demand it of themselves. That's not even

976
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,880
Speaker 2: a question inn they discussions. We're we're like happy that

977
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 2: you look at these women standing up for themselves and

978
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 2: saying I don't want to deal with no man.

979
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: We never stop and be like, why aren't.

980
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 2: These men better men to be? You know, to get

981
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 2: with these so these women would want to get with them.

982
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,399
Speaker 6: We don't ask that, We only ask it the other way, right,

983
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 6: and and and and and that. Right, there's a whole

984
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,760
Speaker 6: deeper conversation in itself because men don't hold higher standards

985
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 6: for themselves and for their other fellow men.

986
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 1: Men don't axee.

987
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:51,919
Speaker 6: Each other's questions, they don't challenge each other they don't,

988
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 6: you know, do do do some of the work that

989
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,839
Speaker 6: actually needs to be done. They expect, you know, and

990
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 6: that's just somebody talking from a straight relationship. They expect,

991
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 6: you know, a woman to at unquote come and fix them.

992
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 6: And society teaches women that you quote unquote supposed to

993
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:05,839
Speaker 6: fix a man, you know, type of thing, and that's

994
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 6: that's rooted into like some other types of things.

995
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:10,439
Speaker 1: So, you know, women have just sad.

996
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 6: A lot of women have just accepted that a quote

997
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,839
Speaker 6: unquote man is a man, and if he don't come

998
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 6: with his ship together, I'm not. I am tired of

999
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 6: being the tool kit to repair. I'm not repairing anymore.

1000
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, why men great till they gotta be great? The

1001
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 2: next person says, uh and uh yeah. Francesca Ramsey had

1002
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 2: a recent ig live where full crashed her live. Asking

1003
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 2: why she can't keep a man, she said, some men

1004
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 2: get intimidated when they find out how much money she makes.

1005
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 2: A bunch of laughing emojis. Yeah that's that's that's that's wild.

1006
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's yeah, it's and they also ain't right things.

1007
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 2: It's such a big fucking knock on somebody.

1008
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 1: You ain't got no man like, why, why do you

1009
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:53,400
Speaker 1: think that's such a flex.

1010
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 6: Because because a lot of women have bought up with

1011
00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:00,720
Speaker 6: that insecurity and a lot of them internalized it until

1012
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:02,840
Speaker 6: for some women, until you get to a certain age,

1013
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 6: you know, you that that shit matters, and they know that.

1014
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 6: For a lot of women, whether they said or not,

1015
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 6: it's like a dagger. But you know, a lot of

1016
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 6: women are like, no, nigga, fuck that and fuck you too,

1017
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 6: and men don't know how to deal with somebody gonna know.

1018
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 7: I'm secure with not having a man. I'm secure with

1019
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:20,840
Speaker 7: not having kids.

1020
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 6: I'm secure with not having it as me, being a

1021
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 6: wife is not on the top of my priority. Like

1022
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 6: I'm okay with that. You know what I'm gonna do.

1023
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 6: Get my degree, motherfucker degree, just like you. You know

1024
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 6: what I'm gonna do, further my education, climb up the

1025
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:34,879
Speaker 6: corporate loada just like you. You know what I'm saying,

1026
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 6: Like like, like, I am making the choice, and this

1027
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 6: is a lot of that thing when people go choices

1028
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 6: and rights. I should have the right to desire to

1029
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 6: be married, to be a stay at home mom, but

1030
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:46,879
Speaker 6: I also should have the right to be like these

1031
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 6: are the things that I'm going to do too, and

1032
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 6: there's nothing wrong with none of these choices. Society makes

1033
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:55,399
Speaker 6: you make. Society makes people feel like there's wrong with

1034
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 6: these choices. And they never say the men make the sacrifice.

1035
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 6: It's always the woman makes the sacrifice. The woman is

1036
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 6: making a sacrifice by putting their education first, not deciding

1037
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 6: to have children, delaying marriage, like like this is a sact.

1038
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 6: Those like you are not happy and and and and

1039
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,399
Speaker 6: you are not worthy and won't no man, won't you?

1040
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:15,359
Speaker 6: And how dare you go out here and do these

1041
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 6: things and make this money? Because at the end of

1042
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 6: the day, it's about what the man desires, what the

1043
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 6: man wants, And that goes back to the thing you

1044
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 6: were saying before. Nobody turns around and says, you know,

1045
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,360
Speaker 6: what do men? What can men do as a collective

1046
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 6: or anything like that, like that question of asks, but

1047
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 6: it's always asked what the women can.

1048
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 2: Do, And it's a question that needs to be confronted

1049
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 2: because it's literally killing people, yes, right, men being the

1050
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 2: number one mass shooters, men being the most violent with

1051
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 2: domestic violence, men being the number one reason and way

1052
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 2: that that like women die with innerpart with us, I

1053
00:49:57,000 --> 00:50:00,439
Speaker 2: was like interpart partner violence, and I forget these word

1054
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 2: but like basically domestic violence, like the men die by

1055
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 2: suicide even is about loneliness and stuff. And so because

1056
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 2: we're teaching people, we're valuing sex over relationships. We're valuing

1057
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 2: the ability to have sex with a woman over the

1058
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 2: ability to be to communicate with the woman. We're valuing

1059
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 2: your entitlement to sex over your.

1060
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: Uh need and or longing for companionship.

1061
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 2: We're talking about other stuff we're talking about. We will

1062
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 2: talk about sex, but we won't talk about those things

1063
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:49,760
Speaker 2: which are to me more into intimate partner violence.

1064
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 1: That's it. It's more intimate than than fucking. Yeah.

1065
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 7: And also it's one of those things too.

1066
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 6: Just I'm just talking from from the straight A lot

1067
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 6: of time, most boys aren't really taught to have the

1068
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 6: community that girls are. Girls are taught, Hey, girlfriends, community talk,

1069
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 6: you know, have somebody that you can express these things to.

1070
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 6: But a lot of men are kind of are I

1071
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:17,760
Speaker 6: want to say, lunge wolves.

1072
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 2: But it's well, it's what is the tenets of the community.

1073
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 2: Though men have community in a lot of spaces. Sports

1074
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 2: is huge is community. You know, there's men have a

1075
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,840
Speaker 2: lot of community. It's just what are the values that

1076
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 2: are considered important in those communities, and they're very rarely

1077
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 2: the same as like women.

1078
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:38,880
Speaker 1: Community is much.

1079
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 2: More about taking care of people and each other being

1080
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 2: you know, maternal for lack of a better term, or

1081
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 2: being you know, providing in emotional spaces that you know,

1082
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:54,919
Speaker 2: men mostly uh, through through their own fault, not through

1083
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 2: someone else setting these rules up.

1084
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 1: So please do It's not get into the blame game.

1085
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 2: It's not like that. I'm just describing what's happened. Yeah,

1086
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 2: that years and years and years of patriarchy have set

1087
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 2: men up to not beat an intimate enough in ways

1088
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:15,400
Speaker 2: that they need with each other and with even with women.

1089
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 2: There's a level of vulnerability and stuff that has to happen.

1090
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:23,320
Speaker 2: And uh yeah, we were not there yet. Next episode

1091
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 2: was twenty seven to seventy four.

1092
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 7: That rue.

1093
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,280
Speaker 2: Of course we had Corey and Vernon from Living Color.

1094
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 2: It's great technical difficulties, you know what we do.

1095
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 1: It was fun. It was fun, while Ganghi says, Yo,

1096
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,240
Speaker 1: that's exactly how I felt. When I was in New Zealand.

1097
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 1: I was talking to this majory bartender and.

1098
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:42,759
Speaker 2: I was thinking to myself, Damn, y'all the niggas and

1099
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 2: the Indians here. She was asking me about all the

1100
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:49,320
Speaker 2: police shit here international Fuckory Summits happened everywhere I traveled.

1101
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 2: Mary says, I love that you have Living Color on

1102
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 2: how wonderful the Dead Friends of the show. I'm an

1103
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 2: old head and I remember working in a record store

1104
00:52:56,840 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 2: looking up kids in the late eighties, and then i'm

1105
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 2: the new CDs. They started playing that colder personality in

1106
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:04,799
Speaker 2: the store and I was like, Wow, this frocks. Then

1107
00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 2: we all found out that the band was black, and

1108
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 2: I was blown away.

1109
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: At the time it.

1110
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:12,439
Speaker 2: Was Hairmet Band's Metal, Motley Crew, Poison Rat, etcetera. Living

1111
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 2: Color was to me revolutionary for that alone. These fellas

1112
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:17,719
Speaker 2: need to be in the Hall of Fame, But honestly,

1113
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 2: what does that even mean considering who's doing the choosing.

1114
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 2: Corey and Vernon are also very funny, great show. One

1115
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:25,840
Speaker 2: more thing, Rod Stilly Dan is my go to for

1116
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 2: travel music. Also great for car trips.

1117
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 1: They listen, they don't miss.

1118
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 2: H wun GANGI says, just do that rulee like Polynesians

1119
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 2: and cook it in the ground.

1120
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 1: No pot need it. And he says, also not unique

1121
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:42,160
Speaker 1: across the top.

1122
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 2: Last my ass off Sean said, did someone say Hennessy

1123
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,799
Speaker 2: cupcakes and cent a YouTube video of someone making Hennessy cupcakes?

1124
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 1: I told you, because anything we in it. I made

1125
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: that up on the spot, and I was like, black

1126
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:55,719
Speaker 1: people do it.

1127
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 2: I don't know how she is flames even he says,

1128
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 2: I really enjoy it when Corey and Vernon come on

1129
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,799
Speaker 2: the show. They're so knowledgeable about musical history, and they're

1130
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 2: so funny as well. I was just thinking that we're

1131
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 2: about to get a record amount of black and women

1132
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 2: nominees for the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. This

1133
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 2: shit right, how they be? That's how they be, Like

1134
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 2: we fucked up, guys. Black people were finally acknowledging you

1135
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:20,800
Speaker 2: don't say nothing about that shit though. That always happens

1136
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 2: with the white people get caught on the Suven Jam

1137
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 2: screen for their racism.

1138
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: They tend to overcorrect.

1139
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 2: But this is good for Destiny's child because they're eligible.

1140
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, they definitely don't get in. They definitely getz. Yeah.

1141
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but I don't think I could eat kangaroo

1142
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 2: cooked by anyone. I can't eat an animal that can

1143
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:40,400
Speaker 2: fuck me up in a fistfight. That's the best reason

1144
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 2: to eat them.

1145
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:44,479
Speaker 1: Like, oh, the fuck this up, nigga, I'm gonna fuck

1146
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:46,719
Speaker 1: you up with this flirt, hand me some salts and

1147
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 1: dipped this in.

1148
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 2: Right A them says I love it when Vernon and

1149
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 2: Corey on the show. This conversation made me think about

1150
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:54,919
Speaker 2: the challenge. Is my best friend's face as a black

1151
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:57,800
Speaker 2: woman in country music? Forgive me for the shameless plug.

1152
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:00,439
Speaker 2: Her name is Richie Palmer and she had a dope

1153
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 2: podcast on Apple Music called Color Me Country. She interviews

1154
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 2: artists of color to talk about their contributions to country,

1155
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 2: folk Americana music. Some past guests have been Darius Rutger,

1156
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:13,840
Speaker 2: who they the Blowfish, Chapel Heart from America's Got Talent,

1157
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 2: Patama Jackson, a Very Smart Brothers, and sing songwriter claud Kelly.

1158
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 1: I'd recommend it.

1159
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,359
Speaker 2: To anyone w wants to learn more about country music.

1160
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:21,319
Speaker 2: The show is funny too.

1161
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: Thank you an thank you baby.

1162
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 2: Let's see what we got any comments on YouTube. I'm

1163
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 2: sure we did on this one.

1164
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:28,319
Speaker 1: Yep.

1165
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:31,280
Speaker 2: My mom says this show was hilarious old black people,

1166
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 2: old ladline phone calls a one hundred f and with

1167
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 2: old people lo l fall Dadd says, I watched these

1168
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 2: podcasts that I've paid too much of mind to the

1169
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 2: title because I know I'll eventually figure it out, but

1170
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 2: this time it was special. Once I figured it out

1171
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 2: and y'all kept talking about different versions of the route,

1172
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 2: I was laughing my ass South.

1173
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 1: Great episode. Thank you, Thank you. On Spotify, the poe

1174
00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry.

1175
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 2: The poe is, would you eat some kangaroo if black

1176
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:01,799
Speaker 2: people cooked it?

1177
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 1: Yes? No because I'm racist, or no but I'm not racist.

1178
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: Yes I would. Yeah, I would eat it.

1179
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 2: Sixty four percent say yes, and then zero say no

1180
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 2: because I'm racist. So because you got to account for that,

1181
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,080
Speaker 2: some people will be like, I wouldn't need anything a

1182
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 2: black person cooked me.

1183
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, because you know what that rulee. You know,

1184
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 6: nigga's gonna have some onions in it. Niggas little onions,

1185
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:27,399
Speaker 6: some onions and garlic powders. It's gonna be great, all

1186
00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 6: types of seasonings.

1187
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 2: Uh No, but I'm not racist thirty six percent, and

1188
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 2: then on Spotify, sixty four percent would eat it if

1189
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 2: black people cooked it. Five percent said they wouldn't eat

1190
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 2: it because they are racist.

1191
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 1: So appreciate you. Thank you for your honesty on that one.

1192
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 2: And then thirty percent says, no, they wouldn't eat it,

1193
00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:49,440
Speaker 2: but they are not racist.

1194
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:50,320
Speaker 8: Uh.

1195
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:53,799
Speaker 1: The Q and A was bacon, soda, vinegar, paroxide.

1196
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 2: That's all you need. King Anthreby says, look in their eyes,

1197
00:56:57,600 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 2: what do you see. They're not here for John's fucker

1198
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 2: like Harriet Tubman and Garvey. Oh, they're not here for

1199
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 2: white fuckery. And I'm assuming that song to the tune.

1200
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 1: Of culture personality.

1201
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 2: I've been influenced, says Roger, adding rude to my list

1202
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 2: of exotic meats to try to with ostrich leg and alligator.

1203
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: Alligator do be hitting?

1204
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 6: Alligated be hitting? Yes, alligated bikes. It was absolutely delicious.

1205
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:22,960
Speaker 1: I miss Dixie's.

1206
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,920
Speaker 2: They had alligator bikees and they had this like spicy

1207
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 2: romulid or whatever.

1208
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 1: Yes, it was absolutely it was outstanding. Didn't they fried too? Yeah? Yeah,

1209
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 1: not remember that she was hitting.

1210
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 2: Raphaela's assist from Oz Australia once got me Babe, Ruth

1211
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 2: and queens. That's what she said. They called kangaroo. It

1212
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 2: was during Rugby World Cup and free so I ate

1213
00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 2: it and quietly supported my all blacks with an os beer.

1214
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:56,760
Speaker 2: Chris says, Drown Skype, drown Skype and pure peroxide. And

1215
00:57:56,800 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 2: get a facetied group called or Google Meat. See the

1216
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 2: problem with this is we have to record it for crowdcast,

1217
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 2: so we don't want to use Skype, but we will

1218
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 2: if we have to.

1219
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:15,080
Speaker 1: But the crowdcast is important so.

1220
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 2: That y'all can get the video later on YouTube and

1221
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,959
Speaker 2: things of that nature, which is why we don't use

1222
00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 2: like Facebook or Google Meat or whatever.

1223
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:27,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, because then there's a whole nother fu deal happening.

1224
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 6: And Yeah, they used to be great. It was like

1225
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:32,400
Speaker 6: we was rooting for you because I remember when Skype

1226
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 6: first came out for the kids. You know, when Skype

1227
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 6: first came out, it was like revolutionary, Like everybody had

1228
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 6: a Skype account and it got bought out and they

1229
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 6: just didn't invest and didn't give a fuck, and it

1230
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:44,800
Speaker 6: just went downhill and then everybody else just came and

1231
00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 6: lapsed them.

1232
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:48,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, Microsoft bought it to kill it, and you know

1233
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:49,760
Speaker 2: that happens sometimes.

1234
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:52,920
Speaker 1: It's like Elon must and X.

1235
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 7: They bought it to kill it, right X right?

1236
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:02,760
Speaker 6: Uh, And they're not trying to give it to me.

1237
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 7: Well they are, but I don't want it.

1238
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:06,520
Speaker 1: Sidney says. I love when they come on.

1239
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 2: We love to tech diff technical difficulties hashtag keep the

1240
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 2: blackout tips authentic. Also, thank you for introducing me to

1241
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:18,480
Speaker 2: Voodoo Child. I too hear someone young film and racket

1242
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 2: sample it.

1243
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 1: Oh, I want to hear something.

1244
00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, because all the young black women rappers are sampling

1245
00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 2: old shit and try to like make like songs from

1246
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 2: the old samples.

1247
00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I like it more when they

1248
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 1: just kind of like.

1249
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 2: Do their original shit, because I think some of the

1250
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 2: sample stuff it's the people that make the beats, not

1251
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 2: the rappers, but the people that make the beats.

1252
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:43,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes they can't they haven't come.

1253
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 2: Up with a better flip on the sample, but they

1254
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 2: know that the attempt will get people's attention, right, So

1255
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, they took, you know, all along the

1256
00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:59,040
Speaker 2: watch tower and fucking they flipped the sample and then

1257
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 2: you listen to it, like I feel like the person

1258
01:00:01,800 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 2: made the beat hadn't really sat with this long enough

1259
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:06,919
Speaker 2: and thought to themselves, I came up with a way

1260
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:10,200
Speaker 2: to flip this uniquely. You're just relying on the outrage

1261
01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 2: because oh, the niggas our age are outraged that these

1262
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 2: girls and these flip samples.

1263
01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 1: They don't bother me.

1264
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, outrage please hold on, hold on, Police, the content

1265
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:23,080
Speaker 2: is designed to outrage, I think, yes it is. I

1266
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 2: think because if it's not great, people will still be

1267
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 2: mad that it's not great and they'll still share it.

1268
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 2: So I feel like it's kind of the algorithm is

1269
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:33,439
Speaker 2: algorithm in there.

1270
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,600
Speaker 6: Yep, that's what it's designed to do, and it's unknown things,

1271
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 6: and I'm like, okay.

1272
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 2: And I'm fans of these I'm fans of these these

1273
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 2: women that are rapping, so I go listen to them,

1274
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 2: as you know, I'm not listening to it with the

1275
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 2: hater in my bones to be like I can't wait

1276
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 2: to be mad about this, you know. I'm like, oh,

1277
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 2: oh cool, they used a cool mo D sample and

1278
01:00:51,360 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, whoever did the beat on this? They

1279
01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 2: didn't take the time with it to like to make

1280
01:00:56,600 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 2: it like a hit. Also, I think because of the

1281
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 2: maybe the samples are using, not all these songs are

1282
01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:03,960
Speaker 2: actually designed to go on like Spotify ship, because I

1283
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 2: don't know that they're clearing all these samples. So some

1284
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 2: a lot of times it'll be like a viral video,

1285
01:01:08,160 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 2: but I won't really see it other places.

1286
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 1: Anyway. It's a whole little subculture going on right now.

1287
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:13,840
Speaker 6: Uh.

1288
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:15,440
Speaker 1: Dave says correct.

1289
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:18,680
Speaker 2: Alicia says, exactly, if you want to jazz it up,

1290
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,000
Speaker 2: add a few drops of your favorite of sential oils

1291
01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 2: for nah who.

1292
01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 1: Also, I feel.

1293
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 2: Like mister cleans. Also, I feel like mister Clean was

1294
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:29,919
Speaker 2: originally a black man. They made white so white people

1295
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 2: would buy it. That's a great conspiracy theory.

1296
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 1: I like it too, would not be surprising, you know what.

1297
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 2: Facts, Yeah, yeah, this is a this is a good

1298
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:44,760
Speaker 2: this is a good. Uh, it's a good conspiracy.

1299
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Speaker 1: So that one desives the music.

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Speaker 2: I'm with your facts, And Toy says, add some bleach

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Speaker 2: to that, and I'm with you. I'm scared that I

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Speaker 2: add bleach to it and the next thing, you know,

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Speaker 2: I'll pass out because.

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Speaker 1: I don't know the chemical compound. I'm not a scientist.

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Speaker 1: If I grind it fell out.

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Speaker 2: I've done with that with my tub Before a while,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I just put a little pumps on here,

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Speaker 2: a little bleach in here, and put a little ajaxon here,

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Speaker 2: look common in.

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Speaker 1: Here, and the oh god god, what time is it? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Is it is it? The nighttime? Is the morning? What

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Speaker 1: the fuck?

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Speaker 12: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I should have I should have turned the vents on

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Speaker 1: right I should opened up the windows. The fuck was

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Speaker 1: I thinking?

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Speaker 2: All right, uh, before we get into some other episodes,

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Speaker 2: let me play some music so I remember put commercials

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Speaker 2: on here.

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Speaker 1: Mister clean bleaches is scared all right?

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Speaker 2: Episode twenty seven, seventy five, All Samples.

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Speaker 1: It makes sense. We had some comments.

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Speaker 2: I'm Sasha Pierre says, happy be Day week ride.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why, but the random thoughts are cracking

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Speaker 1: me up this week. Thank you. A lot of people

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Speaker 1: said that this. I always forget that.

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Speaker 2: I'm come up with random thoughts and stuff and put

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Speaker 2: it on Twitter all the time, and I used to

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Speaker 2: read them on the show more often because you know,

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Speaker 2: obviously the show audience and the Twitter audience aren't necessarily correlated,

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Speaker 2: and I'll just be forgetting to put them out here,

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Speaker 2: my random thoughts. And I just this is the week

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Speaker 2: that I remember, and I think it helped make the

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Speaker 2: show a little more sillier and all that stuff. And

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Speaker 2: I was just feeling good vibes the last week or so. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so I was just like, let's get silly this All

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Speaker 2: Samples restaurant. I did some real Larry David type behavior

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Speaker 2: had me wanting to ride at forty five and setting

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Speaker 2: himself up to be America's next lovable curmudgeon.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't. I just couldn't.

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Speaker 2: Also, just to Ben, I was so upset. A couple

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Speaker 2: of weeks ago, I caught the COVID for the first time.

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Speaker 2: I had to miss the live show. Damn Shane. But

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Speaker 2: thank y'all for sharing it so everyone could see it.

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Speaker 2: It looked great like you had a great time. I

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Speaker 2: only wish I could have seen Karen Stunt in person.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, such as luck next time. Let me tell

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Speaker 2: you something, Sasha, Thank you, because this is what we

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Speaker 2: depend on, and this is what I think more people

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01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:44,720
Speaker 2: needed to have to depend on. You stayed home. That

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01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 2: was the right thing to do. It sucks that you

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01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 2: missed it, but it's so much better. As far as

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Speaker 2: I know, no one got sick at our show.

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Speaker 1: We're not.

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Speaker 2: We've been going places and doing stuff and we haven't

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Speaker 2: gotten sick. We haven't been like pushing our luck, like

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Speaker 2: trying to like be all up in the crowded places.

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Speaker 1: Everywhere and all the shit.

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Speaker 2: But we've been to a few places, and you know,

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Speaker 2: to me, this is what living with coronavirus as a

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01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:15,280
Speaker 2: part of just life. Now, people need to treat it

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01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:17,840
Speaker 2: like they didn't treat the flu, which is, hey, you

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01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 2: got the flu, stay home from work, Hey don't go

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Speaker 2: to the thing, don't go to that movie, goud you know, reschedule,

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Speaker 2: go to a different time.

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Speaker 1: Because this is how we take care of each other.

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Speaker 2: And I know a lot of people aren't gonna do that,

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Speaker 2: which is why I don't blame anyone for masking or

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Speaker 2: stay at home. But I would hope that our audience

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Speaker 2: is not among those people. And I'm very happy that

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Speaker 2: you, you know, are expressing that you aren't.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Tay Reil says, Okay, I'm not a scientist, so I

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Speaker 2: won't speak on bourbon chicken. But there used to be

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Speaker 2: a Charlie's, a sandwich shop in case they're not around y'all,

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Speaker 2: and they would have samples of their chicken California sandwich

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Speaker 2: that would be amazing, but if you ordered the sandwich,

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Speaker 2: it was not the same.

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Speaker 1: One day, the sample.

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Speaker 2: Person was somebody I felt would have answers, and I asked,

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Speaker 2: how is the simple man that was different than how

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Speaker 2: I was getting it. He broke down and they put

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Speaker 2: both Mayo and ranch on the samples. Listen that tip

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Speaker 2: change the entire flavor profile or the sandwich. I hope

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Speaker 2: somebody got that data on the Bourbon chickens because I

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01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:14,240
Speaker 2: know I need to know too.

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Speaker 6: It's something, Yeah, it's something that they get it because,

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Speaker 6: like you say, when you get it, you be like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna get into this. You be like, hey, don't

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Speaker 6: look the same. The color a little off. You be like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: this is not the same, y'all.

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Speaker 2: I just says, I bet you are the nicest people

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Speaker 2: in the restaurant that the restaurant had all day. You

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01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:34,280
Speaker 2: are not starting out mad and want to have a

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Speaker 2: good time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: And also because me and Roger go out to eat

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Speaker 6: a lot, and because we black. Sometimes I get in

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Speaker 6: my head because there's been times we come down and

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Speaker 6: we because me.

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Speaker 1: And Roger cans actually served.

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Speaker 6: So sometimes we come down and we sit and sometimes

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Speaker 6: depend on the situation, it might take people a while

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Speaker 6: to get to.

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Speaker 1: Us for various different reasons.

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Speaker 6: And sometimes you can kind of tell, particularly we've been

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Speaker 6: sitting there for a while, we'll start like you know,

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Speaker 6: doing up the ship, watching our phones, like you know,

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01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:05,600
Speaker 6: doing doing you know things, just wait for somebody there

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Speaker 6: coming serve us. And a lot of times the server

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Speaker 6: sometimes come to us, and sometimes you can tell that

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Speaker 6: they're scared, like they don't know how to respond to us,

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Speaker 6: because we might have been sitting there for a while.

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Speaker 6: And some people get very impassion and very ugly if

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Speaker 6: they've had to sit for an extended period of time

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Speaker 6: and nobody has came to them. And I've seen like

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Speaker 6: the relief on a server's face when I'd be like,

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Speaker 6: oh yeah, oh yeah, we ran an order, like we.

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Speaker 7: Just give them everything at once, and you can see

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Speaker 7: him go, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to be a pretty shitty server to

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Speaker 2: get on our bad side.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you eve, he says.

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Speaker 2: I think the Bourbon chicken samples always taste the best

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01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:44,000
Speaker 2: because they pick up the juiciest piece because it never

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Speaker 2: hits when you actually buy. I would definitely visit in

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Speaker 2: all samples, me and you because a little body of

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Speaker 2: everything will always be better than the actual meal. As

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Speaker 2: for Joe Biden, I don't care if he meant the

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Speaker 2: car cooj boy in a racial way. I'll still vote

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Speaker 2: for him over Trump. Yeah, even if he did and racist,

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Speaker 2: but he.

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Speaker 1: Got my vote.

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Speaker 6: Also, like this, him and Christma Kreeme and Chick fil A,

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Speaker 6: they got my vote.

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Speaker 2: Also to me, you just cannot it will never not

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01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:15,720
Speaker 2: be funny to me that l l kJ made accidental

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Speaker 2: racist and then that happened. That's not enough was made

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01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:21,320
Speaker 2: about that. I made a tweet about it. It didn't

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Speaker 2: go viral. Fuck everybody, You motherfuckers don't know funny. That

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01:08:25,560 --> 01:08:26,960
Speaker 2: is goddamn hilarious.

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01:08:27,040 --> 01:08:27,640
Speaker 1: Yes it is.

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01:08:29,360 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 2: Then on YouTube, Hugh Gordon says, come to Rby's. All

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Speaker 2: samples now with grits, not not with grits. My mom says,

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01:08:37,479 --> 01:08:40,599
Speaker 2: happy brother, Happy birthday, dear brother, love peace, blessing that happiness.

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01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:44,160
Speaker 1: Thank you, Mam. Lakita says, why just google special ed.

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01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 2: He's alive and appears to be minding his business running

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01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:47,240
Speaker 2: his nonprofit.

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Speaker 1: We love to see it. Maybe is it a special

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01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 1: education nonprofit? I hope so.

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01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:56,360
Speaker 2: Karina says, very enjoyable episode, Thank you of service. Fu

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01:08:56,400 --> 01:09:00,720
Speaker 2: and Full says those Mario pajamas are unspeakably double Rod,

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01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:01,439
Speaker 2: thank you.

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01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 7: He gets comments every time he puts it.

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Speaker 2: On, and caring you're glowing today. Happy belated birthday, Rode,

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01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:09,519
Speaker 2: thank you, thank you.

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01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:10,680
Speaker 1: We love to see it.

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01:09:11,280 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 2: And then on Spotify and the website, the poll was

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01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:19,240
Speaker 2: did Jermaine dupre invent.

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01:09:19,160 --> 01:09:20,679
Speaker 1: Making it rain Yes or no?

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Speaker 2: Sixteen percent say yes, eighty four percent say no. Damn

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Speaker 2: almost exact same fifteen eighty five. On Spotify, the Q

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01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:35,960
Speaker 2: and A was new vaccine dropped. Guess who says, keep it?

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Speaker 2: I don't trust it all right? Good for you, buddy.

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01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 1: I trust COVID cause you don't get it all right,

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Speaker 1: Daryl says COVID. Darryl says, making an appointment this week.

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Speaker 2: Raphael says, I'm more than ready for the new vaccine,

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01:09:52,280 --> 01:09:55,760
Speaker 2: just awaiting confirmation from local VA that is available. So

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Speaker 2: I roll out and get it and flew shot. Hope,

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01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:00,519
Speaker 2: government shut down one effective ability.

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Speaker 1: Fuck the GLP. God. I ain't think about that, hope.

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Speaker 6: Not yep, yep, because you know it actually experience. I

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01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:08,639
Speaker 6: don't know midnight tonight or some shit like that. They

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01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:11,439
Speaker 6: they ain't got together, ain't nobody talking, ain't nobody doing

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01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:12,360
Speaker 6: shit right now?

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01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I wonder if it will affect

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01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 1: that or not. I don't know.

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01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:20,559
Speaker 2: I guess we'll find out together. Lee says, new shit,

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01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,240
Speaker 2: new shit. Aaron says, get the vack new vaccine. Got

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01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:25,800
Speaker 2: the vack new vaccine. The flu shot yesterday I'm out

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01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:29,080
Speaker 2: of it, taken take a nap. Sidney says, just my

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01:10:29,120 --> 01:10:31,839
Speaker 2: personal experience, I tried to get my daughter vacks before school,

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Speaker 2: and her doctor said the pharmacy.

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Speaker 1: Her doctor and the pharmacy.

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01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:39,479
Speaker 2: Said, uh that we ain't got them because nobody was

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Speaker 2: using the ones for younger kids.

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Speaker 1: Yikes.

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Speaker 2: Is that just your area of town or it is

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Speaker 2: just that I don't know. That's wild, right, keep.

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Speaker 1: Them stopped, don't keep them like the fuck at what

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Speaker 1: a five? Let the five people use it like shit? Yeah?

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01:10:53,800 --> 01:10:57,040
Speaker 1: So that, but I think later someone left for comment.

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Speaker 8: They here.

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01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:02,320
Speaker 2: That yet, so keep in mind with sid just said

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Speaker 2: they didn't have it for the kids or something because

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Speaker 2: nobody was getting them.

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Speaker 1: Which, man, that's scary. That's scary as fuck because they

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01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:12,640
Speaker 1: are in school. Yeah, and their business. It's sad. But

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Speaker 1: they were like anybody using well.

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Speaker 6: No, still order them ship you keep either ship at

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Speaker 6: three people.

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Speaker 2: Order Yeah, I'd call around some different pharmacies. Yes, somebody

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01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:24,519
Speaker 2: got the happy somebody got it. Seanne says, I had

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Speaker 2: a great time. Thanks y'all for enjoyable ever so thank you.

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01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 2: Your auntie says, let me just get that sample. They

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01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 2: sprinkle MSG on it to make it hit m.

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Speaker 1: That's maybe that's what it is. Uh.

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Speaker 2: I noticed y'all aren't scientists, But yes, maybe that's joy says,

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Speaker 2: I enjoy rambling episodes. It reminds me of the thoughts

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01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:44,360
Speaker 2: in my head. Thank you, he says.

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Speaker 1: Ride out here trying to disrupt the Bourbon Chicken industrial

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01:11:46,920 --> 01:11:51,480
Speaker 1: complex and just ask the question. Like I said, remember.

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Speaker 2: Remember what Sidney said, Because Sean says, my appointment at

1514
01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:59,360
Speaker 2: my local pharmacy in Texas got canceled because they ran out.

1515
01:11:59,760 --> 01:12:02,000
Speaker 2: I'll try a getting in Michigan while I'm on assignment.

1516
01:12:02,080 --> 01:12:03,479
Speaker 2: I'll drive to Ohio if I have to.

1517
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:04,720
Speaker 1: So they ran out of.

1518
01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:08,320
Speaker 2: His they didn't have it in and at Sydney's they

1519
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:12,320
Speaker 2: didn't even order it. It's wold, right, Smith said. Miss

1520
01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:14,920
Speaker 2: Smith State says, got that shot in the flu shot

1521
01:12:15,160 --> 01:12:17,519
Speaker 2: and Jack Jay Domo says, oh my god, Rod, I

1522
01:12:17,600 --> 01:12:20,200
Speaker 2: tried ordering plunkin spice for one Starbucks and they were out.

1523
01:12:20,439 --> 01:12:22,280
Speaker 1: I had to go to one further down the street.

1524
01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:25,120
Speaker 1: It's an epidemic. I know. Everyone's been telling me that

1525
01:12:25,160 --> 01:12:27,559
Speaker 1: theirs is out. That don't make sense.

1526
01:12:27,640 --> 01:12:31,599
Speaker 2: Somebody is mother fucking lion. Y'all love the spices. Stop

1527
01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:34,560
Speaker 2: trying to make us feel bad. The next episode was

1528
01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:40,320
Speaker 2: Got in the Box had five comments. Ramsey Djingker says,

1529
01:12:40,360 --> 01:12:42,880
Speaker 2: your cards for the four story of fucking with Black People.

1530
01:12:43,200 --> 01:12:45,760
Speaker 1: Five stars for the episode. I enjoy your bad to show.

1531
01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:48,679
Speaker 1: Warm up. Uh oh here I forgot the band of today.

1532
01:12:49,320 --> 01:12:52,640
Speaker 2: Slicking Slation says, the gay science reminds me of when

1533
01:12:52,720 --> 01:12:55,160
Speaker 2: y'all talked about the sex talk discussion y'all had in school,

1534
01:12:55,439 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 2: and our third talk of unified talks are needed because

1535
01:12:59,200 --> 01:13:03,160
Speaker 2: those studies. Our show also showed the pheromones be pheromona,

1536
01:13:03,520 --> 01:13:05,959
Speaker 2: and we know not everyone that's cys hormonal.

1537
01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:08,040
Speaker 1: Thanks for the great show, right.

1538
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:13,720
Speaker 2: JB from from Harlem says, Hey, y'all, congrats on the

1539
01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 2: line show for ast Hills is not just the suburbs.

1540
01:13:16,280 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 2: It's for whites only, even if you have the money

1541
01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:20,440
Speaker 2: type of community.

1542
01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:23,360
Speaker 1: So he has to know someone or be a good negro.

1543
01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:25,679
Speaker 1: If it was me and someone sprayed water all over

1544
01:13:25,720 --> 01:13:27,360
Speaker 1: me and my guests, first of all, any of my

1545
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:30,000
Speaker 1: guests who weren't taking off their earrings, heels and jacket's ready.

1546
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:32,519
Speaker 2: To fight, we can't be friends no more. Bru It's

1547
01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:34,920
Speaker 2: on site for stock. Congrats on the writer to strike

1548
01:13:35,160 --> 01:13:37,480
Speaker 2: side note. I live down the street from the Schanberg,

1549
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 2: and every time I passed it, I think about your

1550
01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:44,440
Speaker 2: Duke's get Oh thank you. Yeah, I can't believe that happened.

1551
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:48,400
Speaker 2: Evie says, I didn't realize that the waterhole story happened

1552
01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:50,360
Speaker 2: a year ago, but it was. I was looking up

1553
01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:53,240
Speaker 2: articles and the white man who waterholes that party is

1554
01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:55,160
Speaker 2: of course a legend. The guests were threatening him. I

1555
01:13:55,240 --> 01:13:58,080
Speaker 2: highly doubt that. Also, if they were threatening you, why

1556
01:13:58,120 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 2: would a waterholes stop them from whooping your ass?

1557
01:14:01,439 --> 01:14:03,680
Speaker 1: It's water? Why they just call the police, Like, I

1558
01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:06,080
Speaker 1: don't get it. Yeah, fuck the police.

1559
01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:10,080
Speaker 2: If you waterholes, If you're threatening me and I want

1560
01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:14,080
Speaker 2: to stop you, how would a waterholes not make you

1561
01:14:14,120 --> 01:14:15,120
Speaker 2: just whoop my ass?

1562
01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 7: It escalates the situation.

1563
01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:20,479
Speaker 1: It's a water hose. It don't do nothing. Now I'm

1564
01:14:20,520 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 1: wet whooping your ass? Right?

1565
01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:25,800
Speaker 2: He definitely lied. You know they would have had the

1566
01:14:25,840 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 2: police if that was the case. As a wise man

1567
01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:29,120
Speaker 2: once said, I hate slavery.

1568
01:14:29,240 --> 01:14:30,240
Speaker 1: I do hate slavery.

1569
01:14:31,200 --> 01:14:34,840
Speaker 2: Apia says, the Gloryhole dating show sounds like a great

1570
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:37,960
Speaker 2: addition to your future TV empire where you have slavery

1571
01:14:38,040 --> 01:14:42,400
Speaker 2: wasn't so bad now with white people, I remember that

1572
01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:45,800
Speaker 2: it might work better with penis owners. Vagina owners would

1573
01:14:45,840 --> 01:14:47,559
Speaker 2: need to be extremely flexible for it.

1574
01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:48,599
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1575
01:14:48,680 --> 01:14:54,200
Speaker 2: The gloryhole is also the ultimate like proof of patriarchy

1576
01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:59,559
Speaker 2: in the world because with the gloryhole is so funny

1577
01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:04,040
Speaker 2: because everyone's like, oh my god, this woman is a

1578
01:15:04,200 --> 01:15:06,320
Speaker 2: nasty horror.

1579
01:15:06,640 --> 01:15:09,000
Speaker 1: What what a what a what a what a slutt?

1580
01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:09,839
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.

1581
01:15:10,080 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 2: She is letting all these men have sex with her

1582
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 2: the gloryhole, and that's you know this, this for the

1583
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 2: says hed coy host these dicks.

1584
01:15:19,439 --> 01:15:21,680
Speaker 1: But Karen, of course, just cut off my clunch line.

1585
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:25,800
Speaker 1: Don't worry about the guys, all right, moving on, No, finish, No,

1586
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 1: it's too late, Taring, the joke is done. You cut

1587
01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 1: it off at the knee. I am so sorry. Go ahead,

1588
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:34,559
Speaker 1: I did not. It's too late. I didn't mean I

1589
01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:37,160
Speaker 1: can't rewind time. They know the plush line is about

1590
01:15:37,600 --> 01:15:41,519
Speaker 1: everybody having thirty seven men nine six, but none of

1591
01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:43,439
Speaker 1: them are nasty. They know it now it's too late.

1592
01:15:44,160 --> 01:15:47,519
Speaker 2: I mean, it's okay, it's okay. You're a funny person.

1593
01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 2: You just saw coming. I was taking too them and

1594
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 2: set it up and that's a rarity.

1595
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:55,599
Speaker 1: My bad. I'm sorry, this is a move on. I

1596
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:57,080
Speaker 1: agree about hassamonage.

1597
01:15:57,360 --> 01:16:01,040
Speaker 2: I imagine being a girl he asked out, she didn't

1598
01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:03,120
Speaker 2: like him that way and said no, and he didn't

1599
01:16:03,160 --> 01:16:06,200
Speaker 2: take it well, start calling her her family racist bruh,

1600
01:16:06,439 --> 01:16:09,280
Speaker 2: Like saying enough information for people to be able to

1601
01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:12,080
Speaker 2: go find who that woman is is fucking insane, considering

1602
01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:14,639
Speaker 2: that it's a goddamn vibe and the fact that people

1603
01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:16,160
Speaker 2: act like that shit is just and that was in

1604
01:16:16,240 --> 01:16:20,200
Speaker 2: this Homecoming King special. But the fact that people acting

1605
01:16:20,240 --> 01:16:22,760
Speaker 2: like our down playet is so sad to me, and

1606
01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:25,360
Speaker 2: I get it. I had a conversation with a friend

1607
01:16:25,640 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 2: and we both are, you know, stand up fans, and

1608
01:16:29,280 --> 01:16:32,160
Speaker 2: we're very protective of stand up and we definitely feel

1609
01:16:33,160 --> 01:16:34,720
Speaker 2: I think if you're a fan of stand up, you're

1610
01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:37,240
Speaker 2: in denial if you don't think what the Internet is

1611
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:39,080
Speaker 2: trying to do to stand up is fucked up.

1612
01:16:39,120 --> 01:16:39,840
Speaker 1: It is fucked up.

1613
01:16:39,920 --> 01:16:40,400
Speaker 7: Yes, it is.

1614
01:16:40,439 --> 01:16:42,400
Speaker 6: They trying to strip it up everything You're like, well,

1615
01:16:42,439 --> 01:16:44,280
Speaker 6: bitch is comedy, come on now.

1616
01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:46,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, because they're trying to go viral off of content

1617
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:50,200
Speaker 2: that they don't have to be genuine about. The reality

1618
01:16:50,240 --> 01:16:54,360
Speaker 2: of it, right, So they're just saying shit basically like, oh,

1619
01:16:54,479 --> 01:16:56,760
Speaker 2: this means this person really believes this, Like it's a

1620
01:16:56,760 --> 01:16:59,160
Speaker 2: tad talking And I do hate that, you know, I'm

1621
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:03,679
Speaker 2: a human. That being said, this one is different and

1622
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:06,160
Speaker 2: they are, and a lot of people are relying and

1623
01:17:06,200 --> 01:17:08,559
Speaker 2: I guess the simon a strong extent, they're relying on

1624
01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:10,920
Speaker 2: you to dismiss it out of hand without needing to

1625
01:17:10,960 --> 01:17:13,840
Speaker 2: look at anything, because you want to protect stand up

1626
01:17:13,840 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 2: and protect him. And I think it's doing everybody a

1627
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:18,400
Speaker 2: disservice because that shit is foul.

1628
01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:20,680
Speaker 6: To me, yes, it is because the things you were

1629
01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:23,720
Speaker 6: presenting it, you were not presented as jokes or an alternative.

1630
01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:25,920
Speaker 6: You were presenting some of these things as facts, and

1631
01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:27,360
Speaker 6: that shit matter.

1632
01:17:28,439 --> 01:17:30,400
Speaker 2: And if your whole thing is I'm a hero that

1633
01:17:30,880 --> 01:17:32,960
Speaker 2: does the heroic thing and the right thing and I

1634
01:17:33,120 --> 01:17:34,479
Speaker 2: persevere through all the stuff.

1635
01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:36,760
Speaker 1: If the shit didn't happen to you, then you're not

1636
01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:37,200
Speaker 1: the hero.

1637
01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:40,000
Speaker 2: And people what's funny is I know a lot of

1638
01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:42,800
Speaker 2: people who are saying like, I want to protect him,

1639
01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:44,760
Speaker 2: but I don't think he's funny, and I'm not a fan.

1640
01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:47,800
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, But the reason I do think

1641
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:50,120
Speaker 2: his last special was funny. But the reason that you

1642
01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:52,840
Speaker 2: don't think he's funny and you're not a fan is

1643
01:17:52,920 --> 01:17:56,479
Speaker 2: partially because he's not just a joke joke joke comedian.

1644
01:17:56,520 --> 01:18:00,160
Speaker 2: He's a I'm a good person and I make the

1645
01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:04,240
Speaker 2: right decisions comedian and things are happening to me that

1646
01:18:04,400 --> 01:18:06,800
Speaker 2: people are against me because I'm a good person that

1647
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,720
Speaker 2: I make the right decision, And that's why you're like,

1648
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:11,799
Speaker 2: I don't find that funny. A lot of people, liberal

1649
01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:16,000
Speaker 2: people find that kind of comedy, uh, for lack of

1650
01:18:16,040 --> 01:18:16,839
Speaker 2: a better term.

1651
01:18:17,080 --> 01:18:18,320
Speaker 1: Empowering or whatever.

1652
01:18:18,400 --> 01:18:20,400
Speaker 2: Like they like they like it because they want to

1653
01:18:20,479 --> 01:18:23,559
Speaker 2: like the person and their point of view. Uh, that's

1654
01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:25,880
Speaker 2: some fake that's a male entitlement that makes me mad.

1655
01:18:25,960 --> 01:18:29,160
Speaker 2: Man love man love guilt. Guilty men love guilty women

1656
01:18:29,400 --> 01:18:31,880
Speaker 2: for rejecting them already. And this sounds like a new trick.

1657
01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:37,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hear yapia, but uh yeah, that's uh, that

1658
01:18:37,960 --> 01:18:40,439
Speaker 1: was the comments. I don't know why. There was something

1659
01:18:40,479 --> 01:18:44,240
Speaker 1: I thought y'all said that I was gonna address and

1660
01:18:44,280 --> 01:18:46,720
Speaker 1: now I can't remember. Oh yeah, no, it was the

1661
01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:51,960
Speaker 1: gloryho joke that can kill all right, the pole mean,

1662
01:18:52,320 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 1: it's okay. Jokes ding. It wasn't that anyway, Hugh right

1663
01:19:00,240 --> 01:19:03,920
Speaker 1: on YouTube come to Arby's All samples now with grits.

1664
01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:06,760
Speaker 2: Oh wait, we already said this far Wait why did

1665
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:09,559
Speaker 2: I read this all righty oh, because I'm reading the

1666
01:19:09,640 --> 01:19:14,760
Speaker 2: wrong one. Okay, let's go back to the right one

1667
01:19:15,080 --> 01:19:20,240
Speaker 2: and look at that comment YouTube, and we haven't. I

1668
01:19:20,280 --> 01:19:24,160
Speaker 2: haven't put the Walking Dead one on there yet, just

1669
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:24,839
Speaker 2: so it takes.

1670
01:19:24,640 --> 01:19:26,080
Speaker 1: Hours to upload. I haven't. I did.

1671
01:19:26,200 --> 01:19:27,920
Speaker 2: I forgot to do it yesterday. So that's why we

1672
01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:30,000
Speaker 2: won't have comments or YouTube on that one yet. Okay,

1673
01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:32,639
Speaker 2: So the home I create hard emoji?

1674
01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:33,360
Speaker 1: You know how she do?

1675
01:19:34,439 --> 01:19:38,719
Speaker 2: Deep sixteen eight nine says who is Tim Apple laughing emoji?

1676
01:19:39,560 --> 01:19:44,080
Speaker 2: You know the dude that run Apple, Tim Ample. I

1677
01:19:44,120 --> 01:19:46,120
Speaker 2: have no idea where I got that from. I feel

1678
01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:46,960
Speaker 2: like I got that from.

1679
01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:48,360
Speaker 1: Jail Coved or Keith Mallley.

1680
01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:51,800
Speaker 2: I don't know which one, but one of them. I

1681
01:19:51,800 --> 01:19:53,400
Speaker 2: don't know if they got it from somewhere else, but

1682
01:19:53,600 --> 01:19:56,320
Speaker 2: I started calling Tim Apple after that. My mom says,

1683
01:19:56,360 --> 01:19:59,559
Speaker 2: oh my god, not Woolworth font Yeah, Karen was in

1684
01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:01,120
Speaker 2: a bag, sit on the stool front.

1685
01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:07,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. And lastly, Deep sixty ain't not, says Love to

1686
01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:11,200
Speaker 1: YouTube version, I'm unable to catch live with videos and

1687
01:20:11,400 --> 01:20:12,800
Speaker 1: hormone Create says same.

1688
01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:15,840
Speaker 2: Well, that's why we do it for y'all. I mean,

1689
01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:18,120
Speaker 2: because it ain't for the numbers, y'all. These we're not

1690
01:20:18,160 --> 01:20:20,200
Speaker 2: getting lots of views on YouTube. We're not one of

1691
01:20:20,240 --> 01:20:24,120
Speaker 2: them that I don't even monetize YouTube videos anymore.

1692
01:20:24,160 --> 01:20:25,800
Speaker 1: It's more trouble than this word.

1693
01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:31,439
Speaker 2: And ever since they fucking uh tripped out on us

1694
01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:37,200
Speaker 2: and like gave us a content strike for talking about

1695
01:20:37,240 --> 01:20:42,479
Speaker 2: the Montgomery beat down our episode, even though you could

1696
01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:45,960
Speaker 2: fucking go watch that video anywhere in their motherfucking website,

1697
01:20:46,439 --> 01:20:49,880
Speaker 2: I just decided, Uh, I'm not investing. We're probably not

1698
01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:53,120
Speaker 2: gonna be there forever because they're just gonna probably the

1699
01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:55,080
Speaker 2: way we talking and stuff we talk about, and the

1700
01:20:55,120 --> 01:20:58,000
Speaker 2: fact that they don't have any level of context with like.

1701
01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:00,680
Speaker 1: Oh, these are black people or whatever, probably gonna get

1702
01:21:00,760 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 1: us out of there at some point. So that fucking sucks,

1703
01:21:04,400 --> 01:21:04,960
Speaker 1: all right.

1704
01:21:06,920 --> 01:21:10,360
Speaker 2: On the con Oh, and then of course the poll

1705
01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:14,200
Speaker 2: was can gay people smell the gay on each other?

1706
01:21:14,280 --> 01:21:16,120
Speaker 1: Yes it's science or no? What the fuck?

1707
01:21:17,360 --> 01:21:21,400
Speaker 2: Twenty seven percent say yes it's science. Wow that yes,

1708
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:22,320
Speaker 2: it's glitter.

1709
01:21:22,360 --> 01:21:26,160
Speaker 1: Seventy three percent say no, what the fuck, Yes, it's rainbows,

1710
01:21:26,200 --> 01:21:31,360
Speaker 1: and on on Spotify, thirty three percent say it's science.

1711
01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:34,320
Speaker 2: Even more sixty seven percent say no, what the fuck?

1712
01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:38,240
Speaker 2: Sidney says, people always thought I was a lesbian, same

1713
01:21:38,320 --> 01:21:40,919
Speaker 2: with my partner. We ain't found out till our thirties.

1714
01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 2: Now they know and we didn't how they know. And

1715
01:21:43,520 --> 01:21:47,519
Speaker 2: we didn't gay smell with a DNA emoji. I don't

1716
01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:51,360
Speaker 2: make the rules must have been and I don't have

1717
01:21:51,439 --> 01:21:54,080
Speaker 2: it because I'm I'm straight, so I don't have the

1718
01:21:54,160 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 2: gay smell sense because we I remember when we met

1719
01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:03,960
Speaker 2: sid at our first live show ever and she she was,

1720
01:22:04,080 --> 01:22:07,519
Speaker 2: you know, greedy, like hugging us and all the stuff,

1721
01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:12,760
Speaker 2: and she said, Rod, You're the only straight man podcast

1722
01:22:12,920 --> 01:22:13,559
Speaker 2: I listened to.

1723
01:22:14,520 --> 01:22:16,719
Speaker 1: And it felt a little bit like that.

1724
01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:23,200
Speaker 2: It felt a little bit like that scene in uh Atlanta.

1725
01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:25,920
Speaker 1: Don't you let me down?

1726
01:22:27,600 --> 01:22:31,639
Speaker 10: Keep down my nigga.

1727
01:22:32,280 --> 01:22:36,960
Speaker 3: Don't let me down, man, she let me down.

1728
01:22:38,040 --> 01:22:39,000
Speaker 5: I don't know what I do.

1729
01:22:39,920 --> 01:22:42,720
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god, the responsibility. But

1730
01:22:43,760 --> 01:22:45,679
Speaker 2: I didn't spell no gay on her, That's what I'm saying.

1731
01:22:45,720 --> 01:22:49,679
Speaker 2: I was like, I wasn't like, oh, the aroma a gay.

1732
01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:53,080
Speaker 2: I have just just put my arms on the shoulders

1733
01:22:53,080 --> 01:22:55,960
Speaker 2: and push a holder back like this, like a like

1734
01:22:56,000 --> 01:22:57,640
Speaker 2: a fortune teller, and be like, oh, I got some

1735
01:22:57,720 --> 01:22:58,880
Speaker 2: news for you girl.

1736
01:22:59,680 --> 01:23:02,040
Speaker 1: I know you might want sit down for this one.

1737
01:23:02,160 --> 01:23:04,519
Speaker 1: Is that glitter rest of you I'm smelling? You don't

1738
01:23:04,520 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 1: even know yet, do you?

1739
01:23:05,640 --> 01:23:05,840
Speaker 6: Oh?

1740
01:23:06,320 --> 01:23:10,240
Speaker 1: Oh, man, I think I spelled some rogie bif. I hate.

1741
01:23:11,200 --> 01:23:14,320
Speaker 1: I hate to tell you this, girl, but you're seeing

1742
01:23:14,320 --> 01:23:16,800
Speaker 1: you girl, you got the gay. So I'm trying to

1743
01:23:16,840 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 1: tell you. I know you're gonna have to make a

1744
01:23:18,280 --> 01:23:19,320
Speaker 1: lot of lifestyle changes.

1745
01:23:19,360 --> 01:23:21,000
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know what you're into right now, but

1746
01:23:21,040 --> 01:23:22,559
Speaker 2: it's gonna have to change real good.

1747
01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:25,639
Speaker 1: It's a reason. Way, it's a reason I'm the only

1748
01:23:25,680 --> 01:23:28,280
Speaker 1: brother you want to listen to. It's a reason. Okay,

1749
01:23:28,320 --> 01:23:29,920
Speaker 1: you don't hear nothing these niggas got to say.

1750
01:23:29,920 --> 01:23:33,000
Speaker 2: And it's not just Raphael says, how can I when

1751
01:23:33,040 --> 01:23:36,120
Speaker 2: nobody believes that we can't have two adult stretching at

1752
01:23:36,120 --> 01:23:37,120
Speaker 2: two thirty am?

1753
01:23:37,680 --> 01:23:40,559
Speaker 1: You Oh, I'm sorry. The Q and A was mind

1754
01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:41,760
Speaker 1: your business, okay.

1755
01:23:41,680 --> 01:23:44,840
Speaker 2: Rupfael said, how can I when nobody would believe at

1756
01:23:44,840 --> 01:23:47,040
Speaker 2: to adult stretching at two thirty am? You never heard

1757
01:23:47,040 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 2: about platonic stretching before stretching more people, especially by the

1758
01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:52,400
Speaker 2: pool side away from kids.

1759
01:23:52,560 --> 01:23:55,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, they just can't even stretch no more.

1760
01:23:56,240 --> 01:23:59,080
Speaker 2: Apparently that came It was a meme on Facebook that

1761
01:23:59,120 --> 01:24:02,120
Speaker 2: I shared one of these dumb ass questions and it

1762
01:24:02,240 --> 01:24:06,439
Speaker 2: was like, fellas, is it cheating if you buy a

1763
01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:11,000
Speaker 2: female from work breakfast? And I was like, well, obviously

1764
01:24:11,040 --> 01:24:15,759
Speaker 2: the answer is no, but this sounds like you cheating.

1765
01:24:18,080 --> 01:24:20,880
Speaker 1: Like you the kind of person that asked a question

1766
01:24:21,040 --> 01:24:24,400
Speaker 1: like that, you you fucked the chick in the I

1767
01:24:24,520 --> 01:24:27,360
Speaker 1: hot bathroom and your girl caught you, and you blaming

1768
01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:30,559
Speaker 1: I hop like it's I. It's it's the rut to

1769
01:24:30,640 --> 01:24:33,800
Speaker 1: the fresh fruity girl. Ain't me? I can't so I

1770
01:24:33,800 --> 01:24:35,400
Speaker 1: can't even buy breakfast no more.

1771
01:24:35,520 --> 01:24:42,120
Speaker 2: Damn Ja Domo says, Wow, that's really disappointed to hear

1772
01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:42,759
Speaker 2: about Hassan.

1773
01:24:42,840 --> 01:24:44,439
Speaker 6: What made me like him was, you know, and he

1774
01:24:44,600 --> 01:24:47,720
Speaker 6: was like damn now, he was like, uh my.

1775
01:24:47,720 --> 01:24:49,960
Speaker 7: Girl salty, just like that country hand we had.

1776
01:24:54,040 --> 01:24:54,120
Speaker 6: Uh.

1777
01:24:54,360 --> 01:24:57,320
Speaker 2: Jadmo says, wow, that's really disappointed to hear about Hassan.

1778
01:24:57,720 --> 01:24:59,920
Speaker 2: What made me like him was his vulnerability and his

1779
01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:02,280
Speaker 2: stand up and how he took messed up stuff and

1780
01:25:02,320 --> 01:25:04,760
Speaker 2: made it funny. Yeah, and I think that was a

1781
01:25:04,800 --> 01:25:06,880
Speaker 2: big part of the pill. The fact that people are

1782
01:25:06,920 --> 01:25:09,679
Speaker 2: brushing that off is crazy to me. And of course

1783
01:25:10,240 --> 01:25:13,960
Speaker 2: you just can't be the person that runs the Daily Show.

1784
01:25:15,680 --> 01:25:17,639
Speaker 1: The whole thing is the people. I have to feel

1785
01:25:17,680 --> 01:25:20,160
Speaker 1: like they can trust you with the facts. And the

1786
01:25:20,200 --> 01:25:23,519
Speaker 1: biggest attack on the Daily Show is people saying, oh,

1787
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:26,280
Speaker 1: they play with the facts. That's the liberal media bias.

1788
01:25:26,360 --> 01:25:27,080
Speaker 1: They're not real.

1789
01:25:27,880 --> 01:25:30,040
Speaker 2: We can't put a person in charge or I don't

1790
01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:33,439
Speaker 2: think you should where that actually is a real problem

1791
01:25:33,439 --> 01:25:34,080
Speaker 2: in their life.

1792
01:25:34,520 --> 01:25:34,800
Speaker 7: Right.

1793
01:25:35,680 --> 01:25:38,320
Speaker 2: Lisha says, the Cat nine unit made me laugh out

1794
01:25:38,360 --> 01:25:39,920
Speaker 2: loud in the bathroom at work.

1795
01:25:40,120 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 1: Who knows what people think. I'm doing it here? Thank you?

1796
01:25:46,479 --> 01:25:48,000
Speaker 1: And that was like a quick one. I didn't know

1797
01:25:48,000 --> 01:25:50,519
Speaker 1: if anybody was really catching that one. Thank you.

1798
01:25:51,080 --> 01:25:54,599
Speaker 2: Sandy says, not the hosest the GSD and he's from

1799
01:25:54,600 --> 01:25:58,160
Speaker 2: the Motherland. Afia got some explaining, the dude, get your people.

1800
01:26:00,160 --> 01:26:04,080
Speaker 1: You know, you know how Appy is over her mind's

1801
01:26:04,120 --> 01:26:04,639
Speaker 1: gonna work.

1802
01:26:05,000 --> 01:26:06,920
Speaker 2: She really gonna write in to try to explain why

1803
01:26:06,920 --> 01:26:08,840
Speaker 2: the white people hold them black people down.

1804
01:26:09,360 --> 01:26:12,120
Speaker 1: You know, she can't help herself. Why you do that?

1805
01:26:12,160 --> 01:26:13,679
Speaker 1: To her. Don't do that to Appy.

1806
01:26:13,760 --> 01:26:16,840
Speaker 2: It's gonna be three email, three comments responding to each

1807
01:26:16,840 --> 01:26:20,080
Speaker 2: other with her being and I don't mean it this way.

1808
01:26:19,960 --> 01:26:21,880
Speaker 1: But not this Yeah, I didn't mean it that way.

1809
01:26:22,000 --> 01:26:23,600
Speaker 1: When I met new black people at the hospital, I

1810
01:26:23,600 --> 01:26:26,479
Speaker 1: didn't hold him down. You know, I turned my water holes.

1811
01:26:26,520 --> 01:26:28,960
Speaker 2: Oh, Todd Floger says, I caught the smoke for this

1812
01:26:29,000 --> 01:26:32,519
Speaker 2: today at work. Hashtag minded my black ass business, Carrie says,

1813
01:26:32,520 --> 01:26:34,200
Speaker 2: and drink water keeps your skin clear.

1814
01:26:34,320 --> 01:26:39,400
Speaker 1: Exactly. All right, let's go to the last episode of

1815
01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:44,640
Speaker 1: the week. Uh. That was our recap of The Walking.

1816
01:26:44,360 --> 01:26:48,479
Speaker 2: Dead episode twenty seven seven seven that confessed to a

1817
01:26:48,560 --> 01:26:50,719
Speaker 2: murder super gorilla grip wet wet.

1818
01:26:51,800 --> 01:26:52,080
Speaker 1: MS.

1819
01:26:52,080 --> 01:26:54,479
Speaker 2: Barnes says, thank you Rod for saying the quiet part

1820
01:26:54,520 --> 01:26:56,720
Speaker 2: out loud. I thought the only thing missing from the

1821
01:26:56,760 --> 01:26:59,519
Speaker 2: brow from that broser scene was a black leather clad

1822
01:26:59,600 --> 01:27:01,960
Speaker 2: Pamela and a ball gag in Hornsby's mouth.

1823
01:27:02,320 --> 01:27:04,479
Speaker 1: Sadly, I too watched too much for him shaking my

1824
01:27:04,560 --> 01:27:05,080
Speaker 1: dawn head.

1825
01:27:05,200 --> 01:27:05,360
Speaker 8: Yes.

1826
01:27:05,360 --> 01:27:07,839
Speaker 1: Because it being rogular, I was like, is this sexual?

1827
01:27:08,040 --> 01:27:10,720
Speaker 1: Did they fucking note? And Dad didn't tell us that

1828
01:27:10,760 --> 01:27:12,960
Speaker 1: they had a relationship. She was gonna pull a whip

1829
01:27:13,000 --> 01:27:14,720
Speaker 1: out on his ass. Alright, I was like it shit,

1830
01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:17,559
Speaker 1: trying to squeeze it, dick, what has happened to him? Right?

1831
01:27:18,439 --> 01:27:22,200
Speaker 2: Even he says, Uh, if that had been anyone other

1832
01:27:22,280 --> 01:27:24,799
Speaker 2: than Jerry, Aaron would have been thrown to the zombies.

1833
01:27:25,080 --> 01:27:27,120
Speaker 2: At the very least, he would have been yoked up

1834
01:27:27,160 --> 01:27:28,600
Speaker 2: with a who the fuck you talking to?

1835
01:27:28,920 --> 01:27:30,639
Speaker 1: Right? He lucky he got the right one.

1836
01:27:31,560 --> 01:27:33,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, he got missed a happy Yeah.

1837
01:27:34,000 --> 01:27:37,840
Speaker 1: The poe was would you have been pissed with Aaron

1838
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:43,000
Speaker 1: if you were Jerry? One percent? Yes? Uh, yes, So

1839
01:27:43,360 --> 01:27:44,280
Speaker 1: that was an easy one.

1840
01:27:44,760 --> 01:27:48,639
Speaker 2: And uh the Spotify Q and A was Jess Princess,

1841
01:27:48,640 --> 01:27:51,800
Speaker 2: don't settle for could be worse? And Ms Barneson had

1842
01:27:51,800 --> 01:27:53,360
Speaker 2: to shed the glory tale because.

1843
01:27:53,160 --> 01:27:53,799
Speaker 1: She was spitting.

1844
01:27:54,600 --> 01:28:00,560
Speaker 6: She was she was because since we rewatched my astragic

1845
01:28:00,600 --> 01:28:01,200
Speaker 6: every week.

1846
01:28:01,040 --> 01:28:02,320
Speaker 1: Where the fuck is Princess?

1847
01:28:02,439 --> 01:28:02,519
Speaker 6: Like?

1848
01:28:02,600 --> 01:28:04,720
Speaker 1: Every week? Got like she just where is she?

1849
01:28:05,439 --> 01:28:05,719
Speaker 4: Yes?

1850
01:28:05,840 --> 01:28:09,400
Speaker 2: I had questions all right, now we have voicemails to

1851
01:28:09,520 --> 01:28:13,320
Speaker 2: get to. I'm gonna play a little bit of music

1852
01:28:13,479 --> 01:28:16,320
Speaker 2: so we can have a place to put commercials later

1853
01:28:16,400 --> 01:28:32,120
Speaker 2: on full transparency. You know how we get down everybody,

1854
01:28:32,479 --> 01:28:33,040
Speaker 2: Let's gonna get you.

1855
01:28:50,280 --> 01:28:53,520
Speaker 1: I'll see you y'all all likestop one.

1856
01:28:53,160 --> 01:28:55,240
Speaker 2: Uh seven on four five five seven zero one of

1857
01:28:55,240 --> 01:28:56,679
Speaker 2: a six is the voicemail line.

1858
01:28:56,800 --> 01:29:02,200
Speaker 1: Let's get to the voicemails. We got six. Oh yeah, lie,

1859
01:29:02,479 --> 01:29:04,880
Speaker 1: what the I said? What damn were we talking about

1860
01:29:04,920 --> 01:29:05,360
Speaker 1: this week?

1861
01:29:05,400 --> 01:29:08,360
Speaker 12: He just wanted to wish happy birthday to the birthday

1862
01:29:08,360 --> 01:29:15,280
Speaker 12: man over there, birthday Rod, just saying old funny, I

1863
01:29:15,360 --> 01:29:17,240
Speaker 12: think Canada. I wanted to just realize it was your

1864
01:29:17,240 --> 01:29:19,200
Speaker 12: birthday or I might have missed it. And if I did,

1865
01:29:19,760 --> 01:29:20,200
Speaker 12: forgive me.

1866
01:29:20,240 --> 01:29:20,360
Speaker 5: Bro.

1867
01:29:21,280 --> 01:29:23,080
Speaker 12: I hope you all are doing well. I would o

1868
01:29:23,080 --> 01:29:25,439
Speaker 12: pin you on Twitter but or whatever that thing is,

1869
01:29:25,479 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 12: but I don't mess with that much right now. So

1870
01:29:29,520 --> 01:29:30,920
Speaker 12: happy birthday, have a good one.

1871
01:29:31,160 --> 01:29:34,919
Speaker 1: Oh thank you. And listen, I don't my late birthday

1872
01:29:35,680 --> 01:29:37,519
Speaker 1: have birthday. Well, it's not your birthday. It's up to

1873
01:29:37,560 --> 01:29:42,559
Speaker 1: me to say no, I don't mind. Oh I don't

1874
01:29:42,560 --> 01:29:45,760
Speaker 1: mind the late birthday comments.

1875
01:29:45,760 --> 01:29:51,080
Speaker 2: Okay, but also shout out to you know, shout out

1876
01:29:51,120 --> 01:29:55,000
Speaker 2: to uh, to you for in Canada, for for that,

1877
01:29:55,240 --> 01:29:56,120
Speaker 2: for showing some love.

1878
01:29:56,560 --> 01:30:00,640
Speaker 1: Thank you. Then this woman Emily left a bunch of

1879
01:30:00,640 --> 01:30:02,280
Speaker 1: spam messages because I assume it's a bot.

1880
01:30:03,000 --> 01:30:05,320
Speaker 2: Uh so you won't be getting these. You won't be

1881
01:30:05,320 --> 01:30:09,000
Speaker 2: getting these digs, Emily. Okay, nice try Uh. Next one's

1882
01:30:09,000 --> 01:30:09,679
Speaker 2: from a Legras.

1883
01:30:11,560 --> 01:30:15,640
Speaker 8: Hello you two. It's still agress. You might get some

1884
01:30:15,760 --> 01:30:19,720
Speaker 8: background noise. I'm walking on the campus. I'm sorry. I

1885
01:30:19,800 --> 01:30:21,960
Speaker 8: work for you to Berkeley, so I'm walking on the

1886
01:30:22,000 --> 01:30:28,719
Speaker 8: campus right now. Anyway, I'm listening to your birthday episode

1887
01:30:28,760 --> 01:30:31,120
Speaker 8: where you talk about what you did for your birthday.

1888
01:30:31,160 --> 01:30:35,880
Speaker 8: Happy related, Rod, you guys are so fantastic on the

1889
01:30:35,960 --> 01:30:38,400
Speaker 8: live show. I had such a glass in the in

1890
01:30:38,479 --> 01:30:42,080
Speaker 8: the chat on the zoom portion. It was so great.

1891
01:30:42,479 --> 01:30:48,800
Speaker 8: You guys are amazing, tearing your beautiful and allays. And

1892
01:30:48,840 --> 01:30:53,559
Speaker 8: I'm here to talk about the I or the anger

1893
01:30:53,600 --> 01:30:57,719
Speaker 8: that you have Rod for not getting your PSL. Listen,

1894
01:30:58,200 --> 01:31:01,320
Speaker 8: I'm a white woman of color as well. I've been

1895
01:31:01,320 --> 01:31:05,240
Speaker 8: on that PSL for a bazillion years because I worked

1896
01:31:05,240 --> 01:31:09,280
Speaker 8: at a barista for a bazillion years, and I remember

1897
01:31:09,320 --> 01:31:12,439
Speaker 8: the day it came out, or at least the day

1898
01:31:12,520 --> 01:31:15,840
Speaker 8: I got some, and I was like, this shit is delicious,

1899
01:31:16,400 --> 01:31:19,960
Speaker 8: and now because it's all popular, can't nobody getting none.

1900
01:31:20,479 --> 01:31:23,479
Speaker 8: I'm sorry Ron that you had to go through that,

1901
01:31:24,000 --> 01:31:27,840
Speaker 8: the painful experience I hope that by the time you

1902
01:31:27,920 --> 01:31:33,720
Speaker 8: got this message that your PSL has been replenished and

1903
01:31:33,920 --> 01:31:37,760
Speaker 8: these spoke about him to stop lying because that sits delicious.

1904
01:31:38,120 --> 01:31:41,439
Speaker 2: I'm with you, girl, yeah, And for me, it's more

1905
01:31:41,560 --> 01:31:45,040
Speaker 2: the anger and hurt at the betrayal and the lies.

1906
01:31:45,520 --> 01:31:48,840
Speaker 2: You know, for so long on the internet, black people

1907
01:31:48,880 --> 01:31:54,479
Speaker 2: lied to me and said that the pumping spice was nasty,

1908
01:31:54,880 --> 01:31:55,240
Speaker 2: that it.

1909
01:31:55,280 --> 01:32:00,599
Speaker 1: Wasn't good, and much like lawn bowlers titties, I.

1910
01:32:00,640 --> 01:32:05,439
Speaker 2: Refuse to acknowledge a world where we are living amongst lies.

1911
01:32:07,160 --> 01:32:10,240
Speaker 1: Okay, them titties was sitting.

1912
01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:15,040
Speaker 2: Sorry, but that is a we have to acknowledge hit

1913
01:32:15,200 --> 01:32:17,840
Speaker 2: in facts, in reality or else. When I talled this

1914
01:32:17,960 --> 01:32:20,720
Speaker 2: woman a piece of shit later, it's like, it's like, well,

1915
01:32:20,720 --> 01:32:22,559
Speaker 2: I don't trust you because you just lied and said

1916
01:32:22,600 --> 01:32:25,240
Speaker 2: her titties wasn't sitting. That's how I feel about punkin spice.

1917
01:32:25,320 --> 01:32:28,120
Speaker 2: I don't trust these people no more because y'all be lying.

1918
01:32:28,680 --> 01:32:30,519
Speaker 2: And now so to sit up here and believe like,

1919
01:32:30,600 --> 01:32:34,400
Speaker 2: oh yeah, punkin spice is nasty.

1920
01:32:35,200 --> 01:32:38,720
Speaker 1: Wait, I tried it. It's delicious, So hounsolds believe anything else.

1921
01:32:38,760 --> 01:32:42,040
Speaker 2: I'll say sugar is great and grit everybody loves arbist

1922
01:32:42,360 --> 01:32:43,560
Speaker 2: you fucking liars.

1923
01:32:45,479 --> 01:32:48,559
Speaker 1: Next voicemail, all right, this is Rachel.

1924
01:32:48,680 --> 01:32:51,320
Speaker 13: I'm from Missouri and I've called a couple of times,

1925
01:32:51,479 --> 01:32:54,240
Speaker 13: and I just wanted to say I really appreciate you

1926
01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:58,800
Speaker 13: guys doing the Walking Dad recaps. What's funny is I

1927
01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:02,719
Speaker 13: don't even watch the show. I quit watching the show

1928
01:33:02,920 --> 01:33:08,400
Speaker 13: when Meagan became a thing. It just turned my stomach

1929
01:33:08,439 --> 01:33:15,280
Speaker 13: so much I couldn't handle it, and so we haven't watched.

1930
01:33:15,000 --> 01:33:16,080
Speaker 14: The show in years.

1931
01:33:16,439 --> 01:33:18,839
Speaker 13: I have no idea what's going on. But what's funny

1932
01:33:18,880 --> 01:33:21,960
Speaker 13: is I love listening to your recaps of it. I

1933
01:33:22,120 --> 01:33:25,120
Speaker 13: enjoy them more than I ever would watching the show again.

1934
01:33:26,760 --> 01:33:29,800
Speaker 13: So I really appreciate you doing those. I just wanted

1935
01:33:29,840 --> 01:33:32,920
Speaker 13: to let y'all know that. So somebody's listening to these.

1936
01:33:33,720 --> 01:33:38,439
Speaker 1: Thanks bye, Thank you, Rachel, thank you. And uh yeah,

1937
01:33:38,479 --> 01:33:40,599
Speaker 1: I get it. I know the show can be gory

1938
01:33:40,600 --> 01:33:41,439
Speaker 1: and stuff too.

1939
01:33:41,720 --> 01:33:44,479
Speaker 6: Yes for some people that For some people they've never

1940
01:33:44,520 --> 01:33:46,439
Speaker 6: watched it because they're like, I just can't deal with that.

1941
01:33:46,520 --> 01:33:50,360
Speaker 6: I can pletely understand. Like I said, I have my

1942
01:33:50,520 --> 01:33:52,839
Speaker 6: level of gore, but this right here is like at

1943
01:33:52,920 --> 01:33:53,920
Speaker 6: the lower you know.

1944
01:33:53,880 --> 01:33:58,519
Speaker 1: The loweringan was Megan was definitely a lot. Yes he was.

1945
01:33:58,680 --> 01:34:01,160
Speaker 1: I'll never forget that. Take in it like a chair.

1946
01:34:01,840 --> 01:34:07,840
Speaker 7: Yes it was over the top, played his part, glens.

1947
01:34:07,960 --> 01:34:13,439
Speaker 1: I will find you what a scene acting next. Voicemail.

1948
01:34:15,160 --> 01:34:19,920
Speaker 14: Hey Rody Karen, this is Emeralds. I've definitely left a

1949
01:34:19,960 --> 01:34:24,160
Speaker 14: few reviews and stuff before and and stuff on Instagram.

1950
01:34:24,200 --> 01:34:26,960
Speaker 15: But I had to call. I literally had to stop

1951
01:34:27,240 --> 01:34:31,080
Speaker 15: listening to the Walking Dead recap and come on over

1952
01:34:31,120 --> 01:34:36,679
Speaker 15: here because y'all talking about folks having medication, Karen.

1953
01:34:37,680 --> 01:34:45,920
Speaker 14: They aren't realize how funny you are. Just naturally, it's

1954
01:34:45,960 --> 01:34:52,160
Speaker 14: just ridiculous. He was that percoset mental health.

1955
01:34:52,320 --> 01:34:52,640
Speaker 1: That's not.

1956
01:34:54,560 --> 01:34:59,280
Speaker 2: Future like Percocet not sold me for mental health. But

1957
01:34:59,320 --> 01:35:01,800
Speaker 2: you know, Futu, you got some undiagnosed mental health. That's

1958
01:35:01,800 --> 01:35:04,960
Speaker 2: why you with that Ferga set. Black people love just

1959
01:35:05,360 --> 01:35:06,439
Speaker 2: to go to the doctor.

1960
01:35:06,439 --> 01:35:08,960
Speaker 1: They give you some real stuff. Future. You stop rising

1961
01:35:08,960 --> 01:35:09,599
Speaker 1: your baby, Mama.

1962
01:35:10,000 --> 01:35:13,720
Speaker 15: I'm gonna be listening and I'm legit having conversations with

1963
01:35:13,800 --> 01:35:19,120
Speaker 15: y'all because I really feel like we we we are

1964
01:35:19,200 --> 01:35:24,000
Speaker 15: like having this conversation together so interactively. I just had

1965
01:35:24,040 --> 01:35:26,519
Speaker 15: to jump off because that was one of my favorite things.

1966
01:35:26,600 --> 01:35:30,920
Speaker 15: Right now, you guys bring me so much. Joy, It's ridiculous.

1967
01:35:31,280 --> 01:35:34,960
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. That's another one afterwards.

1968
01:35:35,760 --> 01:35:39,439
Speaker 16: Hey, Rod and Karen, it's Emerald. Yes, I just called

1969
01:35:39,520 --> 01:35:43,479
Speaker 16: yesterday or earlier today, I think talking about walking dead.

1970
01:35:43,880 --> 01:35:47,400
Speaker 16: Either way, I'm listening to episode two seven seven six

1971
01:35:47,560 --> 01:35:51,080
Speaker 16: Get in the box, and y'all were talking about the

1972
01:35:51,120 --> 01:35:54,960
Speaker 16: folks that I got holds down by the neighbor. So yeah,

1973
01:35:55,080 --> 01:35:59,160
Speaker 16: we are not doing that. We do not, you know,

1974
01:36:00,200 --> 01:36:03,360
Speaker 16: keep people's identity private that do things like that.

1975
01:36:03,600 --> 01:36:06,880
Speaker 14: His name is Marcus. Let me pull it out for

1976
01:36:06,920 --> 01:36:16,400
Speaker 14: you now. Marcus Rosenbrock is the person Rose Brock, Marcus Rosebrock,

1977
01:36:16,439 --> 01:36:19,960
Speaker 14: and he is a stay at home father who has

1978
01:36:20,000 --> 01:36:23,919
Speaker 14: now received threats following a lawsuit accusing him of racism

1979
01:36:24,320 --> 01:36:26,920
Speaker 14: after he hopes down his black neighbors and he did

1980
01:36:26,960 --> 01:36:29,560
Speaker 14: to break up their party and then he talked some

1981
01:36:29,680 --> 01:36:32,240
Speaker 14: crapable had to inform the school because he's a class

1982
01:36:32,280 --> 01:36:35,840
Speaker 14: parent and he volunteers at the school, so they had

1983
01:36:35,880 --> 01:36:39,599
Speaker 14: to let him know because rumors spread. Listen, I didn't

1984
01:36:39,640 --> 01:36:41,360
Speaker 14: just make that up Google and you'll be able to

1985
01:36:41,360 --> 01:36:45,679
Speaker 14: find it because again, just like y'all said, how come

1986
01:36:45,720 --> 01:36:47,760
Speaker 14: we have the names of everybody else that was at

1987
01:36:47,760 --> 01:36:52,479
Speaker 14: the party, right, but the offender, right, they always do it.

1988
01:36:52,560 --> 01:36:55,800
Speaker 14: They always had these people's identities and it's always one

1989
01:36:55,840 --> 01:36:58,879
Speaker 14: of them. And you know what I mean when I say.

1990
01:36:58,720 --> 01:37:02,600
Speaker 1: That the whites, Yes, exactly what you mean. Thank you

1991
01:37:02,680 --> 01:37:06,120
Speaker 1: so much, and like small world.

1992
01:37:06,479 --> 01:37:09,719
Speaker 2: One of the people that was at the party listens

1993
01:37:09,760 --> 01:37:13,760
Speaker 2: to the blackout tips the world and she d md

1994
01:37:13,840 --> 01:37:16,400
Speaker 2: us on Instagram to be like, thank y'all for talking

1995
01:37:16,439 --> 01:37:18,960
Speaker 2: about it, and yeah, we was there, and you right,

1996
01:37:19,240 --> 01:37:22,439
Speaker 2: like everything you said, but it's lawsuits happening, so we

1997
01:37:22,520 --> 01:37:23,400
Speaker 2: can't say everything.

1998
01:37:23,800 --> 01:37:25,040
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna say their name.

1999
01:37:25,120 --> 01:37:29,800
Speaker 2: But I was like, okay, because I've listen, I'm not

2000
01:37:30,479 --> 01:37:33,519
Speaker 2: And I wasn't even trying to integrate the folks because

2001
01:37:33,520 --> 01:37:37,719
Speaker 2: I think sometimes people ship on black people for stuff

2002
01:37:37,760 --> 01:37:38,360
Speaker 2: like you know.

2003
01:37:39,640 --> 01:37:42,080
Speaker 1: Oh you moved to that neighborhood. You think you safe.

2004
01:37:42,120 --> 01:37:46,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, nah, man, everybody wants safety, right, everybody wants,

2005
01:37:46,560 --> 01:37:48,920
Speaker 2: you know, the fruits of the American dreaming ship. I'm

2006
01:37:48,960 --> 01:37:50,599
Speaker 2: not knocking you for that, as long as you ain't

2007
01:37:51,000 --> 01:37:52,880
Speaker 2: out here saying nothing bad about black folks.

2008
01:37:53,000 --> 01:37:56,880
Speaker 1: I'm good. I get it, yes, sir. But I was like,

2009
01:37:57,040 --> 01:37:58,680
Speaker 1: you could tell from just the picture. I was like,

2010
01:37:58,760 --> 01:38:01,800
Speaker 1: these are a certain type of black people. Man. They like,

2011
01:38:02,160 --> 01:38:04,840
Speaker 1: I know they weren't up there cutting up. I know

2012
01:38:04,920 --> 01:38:05,360
Speaker 1: they weren't.

2013
01:38:05,439 --> 01:38:07,920
Speaker 2: Not in a way that like they know the space,

2014
01:38:07,960 --> 01:38:10,960
Speaker 2: they're in correct, so they wouldn't be. They know that

2015
01:38:11,080 --> 01:38:13,960
Speaker 2: we surrounded by a bunch of old money people. That's

2016
01:38:14,000 --> 01:38:17,080
Speaker 2: that's probably harboring a bunch of racial biases and shit.

2017
01:38:17,120 --> 01:38:19,519
Speaker 1: And they're like, man, we get it. We can't. We

2018
01:38:19,720 --> 01:38:21,960
Speaker 1: just gonna have a nice party here and dad da

2019
01:38:22,000 --> 01:38:24,120
Speaker 1: da da and next thing you know this shit.

2020
01:38:25,320 --> 01:38:28,400
Speaker 2: But thank you, And man, y'all so sweet about these

2021
01:38:28,400 --> 01:38:29,080
Speaker 2: walking dads.

2022
01:38:29,160 --> 01:38:30,160
Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm glad.

2023
01:38:30,200 --> 01:38:33,240
Speaker 6: I'm so glad we decided to uh to do it

2024
01:38:33,240 --> 01:38:36,200
Speaker 6: and it's been worth it and I have been enjoining it.

2025
01:38:36,280 --> 01:38:38,519
Speaker 6: It's been ramping up and I can't wait to see

2026
01:38:38,560 --> 01:38:42,320
Speaker 6: how uh this is. And after this we'll wrap up

2027
01:38:42,400 --> 01:38:44,719
Speaker 6: a fear so shout out for the people. The key

2028
01:38:45,120 --> 01:38:45,960
Speaker 6: is looking for that one.

2029
01:38:46,000 --> 01:38:51,599
Speaker 1: The key is honestly that we get uh. Like we

2030
01:38:51,680 --> 01:38:52,639
Speaker 1: have all the episodes.

2031
01:38:52,680 --> 01:38:54,360
Speaker 2: We could just binge this ship if we want to,

2032
01:38:54,400 --> 01:38:56,479
Speaker 2: but we're watching it like we would have watched it

2033
01:38:56,520 --> 01:39:00,320
Speaker 2: when it came on and saving the episodes so that

2034
01:39:00,479 --> 01:39:01,719
Speaker 2: is fresh for y'all every week.

2035
01:39:01,840 --> 01:39:04,280
Speaker 1: So and man, y'all are so sweet.

2036
01:39:04,360 --> 01:39:06,840
Speaker 2: Just knowing that y'all appreciate it, honestly, it makes it

2037
01:39:06,880 --> 01:39:08,920
Speaker 2: so much worth I wouldn't give a fucking five people

2038
01:39:08,960 --> 01:39:11,519
Speaker 2: heard it. Wait, y'all the fact y'all even pick up

2039
01:39:11,600 --> 01:39:14,880
Speaker 2: y'all phone multiple people to just say y'all appreciate it.

2040
01:39:14,880 --> 01:39:15,559
Speaker 1: It means a lot.

2041
01:39:15,760 --> 01:39:17,800
Speaker 6: It was like I in one of the five. So

2042
01:39:17,880 --> 01:39:20,439
Speaker 6: shout out to all twelve. If y'all we're gonna go

2043
01:39:20,479 --> 01:39:21,439
Speaker 6: through this to the end.

2044
01:39:21,680 --> 01:39:25,440
Speaker 1: Next voicemail and last voicemail, Well.

2045
01:39:25,240 --> 01:39:26,480
Speaker 14: It's that time again.

2046
01:39:29,680 --> 01:39:32,080
Speaker 12: Listening to the show where you asked why the bourbon

2047
01:39:32,160 --> 01:39:36,639
Speaker 12: chicken samples was better than the bourbon chicken meal. There's

2048
01:39:36,680 --> 01:39:37,559
Speaker 12: one reason for that.

2049
01:39:39,080 --> 01:39:47,120
Speaker 1: Crackt Okay. Later, by the way, really love, oh thank you.

2050
01:39:49,160 --> 01:39:51,720
Speaker 2: Okay, Now we got to the bottom of our was

2051
01:39:51,880 --> 01:39:54,040
Speaker 2: You know, he didn't say if he was a scientist

2052
01:39:54,080 --> 01:39:54,240
Speaker 2: and not.

2053
01:39:54,320 --> 01:39:57,360
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna assume that he was that he is

2054
01:39:57,400 --> 01:39:58,040
Speaker 1: a scientist.

2055
01:39:58,280 --> 01:40:01,479
Speaker 2: But I think you have given to me what is

2056
01:40:01,520 --> 01:40:06,360
Speaker 2: the most scientific explanation is crack. They put a little

2057
01:40:06,360 --> 01:40:09,600
Speaker 2: crack in it. The first hits free and then I

2058
01:40:09,640 --> 01:40:13,040
Speaker 2: go trying to get some more to cracking. But now

2059
01:40:13,160 --> 01:40:16,360
Speaker 2: I mean placebo chicken. This ain't got that crack in it.

2060
01:40:17,080 --> 01:40:19,880
Speaker 2: It's been stepped on. It's got baking soda and ship

2061
01:40:19,920 --> 01:40:23,800
Speaker 2: in it. And now I'm just chasing. I'm chasing how

2062
01:40:23,880 --> 01:40:24,520
Speaker 2: the symbols.

2063
01:40:24,560 --> 01:40:27,280
Speaker 1: That makes sense because I've been in the mall before

2064
01:40:27,320 --> 01:40:29,439
Speaker 1: and they pull out themselves and like, oh we almost out,

2065
01:40:29,479 --> 01:40:32,120
Speaker 1: and I'm like, come on, baby, star scratching my neck.

2066
01:40:32,920 --> 01:40:38,120
Speaker 1: You know I got these cheeseburgers from McDonald's. Please, baby,

2067
01:40:38,160 --> 01:40:42,800
Speaker 1: don't do anything like this. All right, let's get to.

2068
01:40:45,360 --> 01:40:49,880
Speaker 2: Doing it for the gram because I didn't forget this week. Yay,

2069
01:40:50,479 --> 01:40:53,080
Speaker 2: so we we we actually have some doing it for

2070
01:40:53,120 --> 01:40:53,840
Speaker 2: the ground to.

2071
01:40:53,840 --> 01:41:09,920
Speaker 1: Do gram the grammar, all right, doing it for the

2072
01:41:09,960 --> 01:41:10,799
Speaker 1: gram this week.

2073
01:41:11,120 --> 01:41:13,519
Speaker 2: We need comments on our Facebook for doing it for

2074
01:41:13,560 --> 01:41:17,200
Speaker 2: the ground, But on Instagram we got a lot, uh,

2075
01:41:17,240 --> 01:41:19,560
Speaker 2: but not as many as normal because I think the

2076
01:41:19,680 --> 01:41:22,320
Speaker 2: question was a little more like it just might not

2077
01:41:22,360 --> 01:41:29,160
Speaker 2: work for everybody. So the question, uh that I asked

2078
01:41:29,479 --> 01:41:35,360
Speaker 2: was what is the pickup line that worked for you? Okay,

2079
01:41:35,600 --> 01:41:37,960
Speaker 2: and I was gonna have work for you, slash on you.

2080
01:41:38,040 --> 01:41:41,040
Speaker 2: But then at the same time, I was like, maybe

2081
01:41:41,040 --> 01:41:42,080
Speaker 2: that'll confuse people.

2082
01:41:43,000 --> 01:41:44,439
Speaker 1: So I just left it as for you.

2083
01:41:44,800 --> 01:41:47,120
Speaker 2: So if you took it as the pickup line that

2084
01:41:47,280 --> 01:41:49,840
Speaker 2: worked and I gave somebody my number or.

2085
01:41:50,160 --> 01:41:55,080
Speaker 1: Whichever way, how have you interpreted? Uh? So the lucky

2086
01:41:55,280 --> 01:41:57,160
Speaker 1: nun says, I was on.

2087
01:41:57,320 --> 01:42:04,720
Speaker 2: Aim, not a damn hey sext location and my just

2088
01:42:04,840 --> 01:42:07,880
Speaker 2: friends with my just friends crushed. He said he was

2089
01:42:07,960 --> 01:42:10,080
Speaker 2: running to the gas station for a drink. I said, ooh,

2090
01:42:10,120 --> 01:42:12,960
Speaker 2: bring me a cherry coke. He got my address, read

2091
01:42:13,000 --> 01:42:13,920
Speaker 2: it by, stayed to.

2092
01:42:14,000 --> 01:42:17,120
Speaker 1: Talk outside for five hours and we never shut up

2093
01:42:17,160 --> 01:42:20,280
Speaker 1: since been together twenty one years.

2094
01:42:20,560 --> 01:42:25,280
Speaker 2: Wow, what a beautiful me cue. And that was back

2095
01:42:25,320 --> 01:42:27,559
Speaker 2: when we didn't trust the internet. We thought everybody was

2096
01:42:27,560 --> 01:42:28,760
Speaker 2: coming out of the house kill us.

2097
01:42:28,840 --> 01:42:31,200
Speaker 1: Yes we did. We was all you gave your dress.

2098
01:42:31,320 --> 01:42:36,960
Speaker 1: Oh lord, l you're dead. I'm gonna miss you. They

2099
01:42:36,960 --> 01:42:38,120
Speaker 1: ain't killed you yet.

2100
01:42:38,080 --> 01:42:42,040
Speaker 2: Right wan Ganghi says it wasn't even a line. We

2101
01:42:42,040 --> 01:42:44,160
Speaker 2: were chatting in her car after hanging out, and I

2102
01:42:44,160 --> 01:42:47,200
Speaker 2: guess I was being too polite because she initiated. She

2103
01:42:47,479 --> 01:42:51,320
Speaker 2: so happy to have my mind read b and Mellie says,

2104
01:42:51,400 --> 01:42:53,960
Speaker 2: Heaven is definitely missing an angel. Yeah, he got the

2105
01:42:54,040 --> 01:42:57,479
Speaker 2: draws and the kid don't judge me. Listen, if it

2106
01:42:57,560 --> 01:43:04,360
Speaker 2: worked to work, I ain't. Sinnia says, uh, another one,

2107
01:43:04,400 --> 01:43:06,200
Speaker 2: so she love a comment early the's are out of order,

2108
01:43:06,240 --> 01:43:08,000
Speaker 2: but she says another one.

2109
01:43:08,040 --> 01:43:09,679
Speaker 1: He's a virgo and when he found.

2110
01:43:09,439 --> 01:43:12,240
Speaker 2: Out my zodiac side and Sagittarius, he proclaimed we were

2111
01:43:12,280 --> 01:43:13,400
Speaker 2: Beyonce and jay Z.

2112
01:43:14,120 --> 01:43:19,120
Speaker 1: Lol to be hive and me is easily excitable. That's funny.

2113
01:43:19,120 --> 01:43:20,920
Speaker 1: He's like, because I'm on cheat on you girl, Okay,

2114
01:43:20,920 --> 01:43:23,280
Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed the hell out of you, and then you're

2115
01:43:23,280 --> 01:43:24,280
Speaker 1: gonna take me back.

2116
01:43:24,120 --> 01:43:25,760
Speaker 2: And then I'm gonna be a good husband and I'm

2117
01:43:25,760 --> 01:43:28,599
Speaker 2: gonna go to therapy. And she's like, no, no, no, no,

2118
01:43:28,640 --> 01:43:29,600
Speaker 2: skip that part.

2119
01:43:29,800 --> 01:43:29,880
Speaker 5: Uh.

2120
01:43:29,960 --> 01:43:33,960
Speaker 1: Dj Joba says, hi, I'm the resident DJ here. Oh okay,

2121
01:43:34,120 --> 01:43:36,760
Speaker 1: that does kind of a flex. She wasn't in it,

2122
01:43:36,920 --> 01:43:39,559
Speaker 1: she wasn't impressed. Oh no, I guess it's not a flex.

2123
01:43:40,520 --> 01:43:43,280
Speaker 2: She wasn't impressed, but gave me a shot. Twenty nine

2124
01:43:43,320 --> 01:43:44,479
Speaker 2: years later, was still together.

2125
01:43:44,560 --> 01:43:49,320
Speaker 1: She still ain't impressed. Like, Okay, I guess that is

2126
01:43:49,360 --> 01:43:51,719
Speaker 1: how it be. That is how it be. I understand.

2127
01:43:52,520 --> 01:43:57,639
Speaker 1: Uh hell, Holly six sixty six, that sounds sounds devil

2128
01:43:57,640 --> 01:44:00,880
Speaker 1: worship me, says, you look like an Abracarmie model. This

2129
01:44:00,920 --> 01:44:02,800
Speaker 1: was back in seventh grade when those stores were all

2130
01:44:02,840 --> 01:44:05,360
Speaker 1: the rage. I guess that could work it.

2131
01:44:06,479 --> 01:44:09,920
Speaker 2: Senia also said he commented on a workflow pick for

2132
01:44:10,000 --> 01:44:10,519
Speaker 2: on Ig.

2133
01:44:11,280 --> 01:44:14,160
Speaker 1: If I worked there, I'd sexually harass you. Oh god,

2134
01:44:14,560 --> 01:44:19,760
Speaker 1: you got a type. She like, I'm a little problematic,

2135
01:44:19,800 --> 01:44:23,639
Speaker 1: just a little bit, like, not a whole lot like girl,

2136
01:44:23,640 --> 01:44:25,439
Speaker 1: If I worked at your job, i'd be an hr

2137
01:44:25,600 --> 01:44:29,519
Speaker 1: every day because I'd be fucking Okay, I would be

2138
01:44:29,560 --> 01:44:36,800
Speaker 1: a problem for you at your job. Don't I give

2139
01:44:36,880 --> 01:44:43,080
Speaker 1: up all fifty thousand okay my salary. That's such a

2140
01:44:43,120 --> 01:44:45,920
Speaker 1: funny big up, like in a bad way. But yes,

2141
01:44:47,360 --> 01:44:47,560
Speaker 1: it was.

2142
01:44:48,200 --> 01:44:51,320
Speaker 6: It was like, girl, I lose my job for you, basically, girl,

2143
01:44:51,439 --> 01:44:52,519
Speaker 6: let me tell you right now.

2144
01:44:52,600 --> 01:44:55,880
Speaker 2: Okay, they had to put a restraint in order to

2145
01:44:56,000 --> 01:44:57,160
Speaker 2: keep me out the building.

2146
01:44:57,280 --> 01:45:00,280
Speaker 1: Okay, cause that's not a good thing.

2147
01:45:02,600 --> 01:45:05,760
Speaker 2: They're gonna have to write me up several times because

2148
01:45:05,800 --> 01:45:06,960
Speaker 2: I'm inappropriate.

2149
01:45:10,240 --> 01:45:11,920
Speaker 1: Ari All says, but I guess you know it.

2150
01:45:11,920 --> 01:45:14,240
Speaker 2: It's not harassment if you like him, that's how it goes.

2151
01:45:14,640 --> 01:45:16,840
Speaker 2: Ari All says, what kind of wine.

2152
01:45:16,520 --> 01:45:19,880
Speaker 1: Do you like? Okay, that's a good does it feel

2153
01:45:19,880 --> 01:45:21,760
Speaker 1: like a pickup line? But I can see how it is,

2154
01:45:21,760 --> 01:45:25,080
Speaker 1: particularly if you into wy My uncle Carlos says, stole

2155
01:45:25,160 --> 01:45:28,960
Speaker 1: this one from UPS. What can Brown do for you? Oh?

2156
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Speaker 9: No, oh no, what can That's what?

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Speaker 1: Father Carlos? What can BBC do for you? Okay? Amn

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01:45:43,640 --> 01:45:47,080
Speaker 1: ubiquitously says there was no line, but I guess he

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01:45:47,160 --> 01:45:48,960
Speaker 1: really had me when he lent me his copy of

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01:45:48,960 --> 01:45:52,080
Speaker 1: Batman No Man's Lamb because I told him I love Batman,

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01:45:52,479 --> 01:45:56,040
Speaker 1: I love a nowl I love a novel recommendation that's

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01:45:56,040 --> 01:45:56,479
Speaker 1: ship ner.

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01:45:57,000 --> 01:45:59,160
Speaker 2: Yeah that's not really a line either, but I like that.

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01:45:59,840 --> 01:46:02,439
Speaker 2: Uh dang, it's so hot out him. It's because you

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01:46:02,560 --> 01:46:04,600
Speaker 2: out here, says bear Me.

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01:46:05,760 --> 01:46:10,120
Speaker 1: That's corny enough to work, Yes it is. PhD fifteen says,

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01:46:10,160 --> 01:46:12,040
Speaker 1: I have never met anyone like you. How can I

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01:46:12,080 --> 01:46:14,800
Speaker 1: get to know you better? Oh?

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01:46:15,280 --> 01:46:22,519
Speaker 2: Flattering, flattering, earnest Leo and karnate, says my now wife.

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01:46:22,840 --> 01:46:24,920
Speaker 2: So when are you going to take me out? Oh

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01:46:25,080 --> 01:46:26,000
Speaker 2: that's a good one.

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01:46:27,320 --> 01:46:29,400
Speaker 1: That would work on me for sure, that would work.

2173
01:46:29,880 --> 01:46:31,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, know to quit fucking around. I was like,

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01:46:31,920 --> 01:46:35,960
Speaker 1: oh shit, she do like me, you know, right? Roger

2175
01:46:36,000 --> 01:46:38,960
Speaker 1: be missing all the cues. I didn't need dodging. Q's

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01:46:39,040 --> 01:46:40,719
Speaker 1: like matrix, he don't know what's happening.

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01:46:40,800 --> 01:46:43,840
Speaker 2: I need that level of aggressiveness. I don't know if

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01:46:43,880 --> 01:46:46,599
Speaker 2: somebody likes me till we're having sex. I'm like, oh,

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01:46:46,680 --> 01:46:47,519
Speaker 2: I guess they like me.

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01:46:49,160 --> 01:46:55,200
Speaker 1: Cool because Sarah says, I asked if she had a

2181
01:46:55,840 --> 01:46:58,080
Speaker 1: CDL and when she asked it, I said, I was

2182
01:46:58,160 --> 01:47:01,240
Speaker 1: just wondering if you needed one for that absolute dump

2183
01:47:01,280 --> 01:47:03,880
Speaker 1: truck of an ass. I was trying to be funny.

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01:47:03,880 --> 01:47:05,920
Speaker 1: It worked. I was shot. I would be shocked too.

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01:47:07,040 --> 01:47:11,360
Speaker 1: You could also get the police called on y'all. You

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01:47:11,439 --> 01:47:17,000
Speaker 1: took a chance. Ice Black says, damn girl, you walk

2187
01:47:17,120 --> 01:47:19,559
Speaker 1: really fast. Most women don't walk as fast as me.

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01:47:20,000 --> 01:47:22,120
Speaker 2: Granted it took a year to get the first date

2189
01:47:22,160 --> 01:47:24,200
Speaker 2: because after a few weeks we lost contact with each

2190
01:47:24,200 --> 01:47:26,719
Speaker 2: other at school, but that was the first thing I said.

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01:47:26,479 --> 01:47:30,360
Speaker 1: To my wife. Wow, damn girl, you walk really fast.

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01:47:30,479 --> 01:47:32,960
Speaker 7: Y'all must have been booking it across campus.

2193
01:47:33,000 --> 01:47:36,599
Speaker 1: Like that's not even like a line, that's just an observation. Yep.

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01:47:36,640 --> 01:47:41,920
Speaker 2: But I think low key people like being noticed because

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01:47:41,960 --> 01:47:44,160
Speaker 2: we just don't pay that much attention to people. And

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01:47:44,560 --> 01:47:47,679
Speaker 2: something like I remember when I was in high school

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01:47:48,400 --> 01:47:52,719
Speaker 2: for a year at Harden, there was this girl, Jamila

2198
01:47:52,800 --> 01:47:56,759
Speaker 2: I'll never forget. I was walking down like the hallway

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01:47:56,800 --> 01:48:00,479
Speaker 2: towards something listen, maybe listening to headphones or just I

2200
01:48:00,520 --> 01:48:02,599
Speaker 2: don't know, just kind of in my own thoughts, looking

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01:48:02,640 --> 01:48:05,800
Speaker 2: down at my feet, and she just stopped me and said, hey,

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01:48:07,040 --> 01:48:09,280
Speaker 2: you should always walk with your head up high. And

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01:48:09,360 --> 01:48:13,000
Speaker 2: I was like, what, Like I just to me, I

2204
01:48:13,040 --> 01:48:15,880
Speaker 2: was just like, I can't believe you weren't even paying

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01:48:15,880 --> 01:48:16,559
Speaker 2: attention to me.

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01:48:16,680 --> 01:48:18,559
Speaker 1: I was not. I was just in my own world

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01:48:19,040 --> 01:48:21,439
Speaker 1: and I wasn't even thinking about that. But and like

2208
01:48:21,520 --> 01:48:23,840
Speaker 1: I said, I didn't been like and then and then

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01:48:23,880 --> 01:48:26,679
Speaker 1: we got married. It was nothing like that. It's just, huh,

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01:48:26,720 --> 01:48:27,760
Speaker 1: a person noticed me.

2211
01:48:28,040 --> 01:48:31,200
Speaker 2: And I think a lot of these lines aren't necessarily

2212
01:48:31,240 --> 01:48:31,800
Speaker 2: the most clever.

2213
01:48:31,880 --> 01:48:34,200
Speaker 1: It is just, oh you noticed me. I walk fast.

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01:48:34,920 --> 01:48:39,479
Speaker 6: It's you're very People observe people more than people think,

2215
01:48:39,520 --> 01:48:41,599
Speaker 6: because a lot of times people just be so trapped

2216
01:48:41,640 --> 01:48:43,360
Speaker 6: up in their own little world that they don't pay

2217
01:48:43,400 --> 01:48:45,360
Speaker 6: attention to people.

2218
01:48:46,120 --> 01:48:48,400
Speaker 7: But this people see.

2219
01:48:48,840 --> 01:48:51,519
Speaker 6: People don't always see how they impact things around them,

2220
01:48:52,120 --> 01:48:53,760
Speaker 6: and so you could be just doing things and that

2221
01:48:53,840 --> 01:48:55,760
Speaker 6: might be something they were like, hey, I've always noticed

2222
01:48:55,760 --> 01:48:57,680
Speaker 6: your head down, like look, you know, look up?

2223
01:49:00,360 --> 01:49:03,160
Speaker 1: And then metal steak Fast said, steak Face said, do

2224
01:49:03,240 --> 01:49:06,240
Speaker 1: I know you through an IG deal? We've been together.

2225
01:49:06,320 --> 01:49:11,200
Speaker 2: We'll be together four years in November. Damn work well

2226
01:49:11,240 --> 01:49:12,040
Speaker 2: I like to get to do.

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01:49:12,320 --> 01:49:15,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good one. Uh, let's fuck, says Eve.

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01:49:15,439 --> 01:49:17,960
Speaker 2: In my defense, I used to be a whole well listen,

2229
01:49:19,520 --> 01:49:21,960
Speaker 2: O love dude, who is life?

2230
01:49:22,400 --> 01:49:25,280
Speaker 1: Okay? And if it worked, it worked straight forward.

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01:49:25,360 --> 01:49:27,880
Speaker 2: I think that's another thing too, is like a lot

2232
01:49:27,880 --> 01:49:30,320
Speaker 2: of people treat pickup lines and stuff as if like

2233
01:49:30,360 --> 01:49:33,120
Speaker 2: you need to wool somebody and you got to still convinced.

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01:49:33,160 --> 01:49:35,320
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people, not everybody, but a

2235
01:49:35,320 --> 01:49:37,599
Speaker 2: lot of people be like I'm gonna fuck this person.

2236
01:49:37,640 --> 01:49:40,960
Speaker 2: They know early on and they just need to know

2237
01:49:41,000 --> 01:49:44,519
Speaker 2: that you're down too. So let's fuck probably will work

2238
01:49:44,520 --> 01:49:46,719
Speaker 2: on a lot of people because it's like, that's exactly

2239
01:49:46,720 --> 01:49:51,680
Speaker 2: what I was thinking. All right, let's go to the

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Speaker 2: emails that was doing it for the grand Thank you

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01:49:55,080 --> 01:49:58,160
Speaker 2: everyone who participated email time.

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01:50:27,600 --> 01:50:32,960
Speaker 1: Ah, that beat going so hard. All right, let's talk emails.

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01:50:32,960 --> 01:50:34,960
Speaker 1: We got a lot of them. Uh.

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01:50:35,080 --> 01:50:37,760
Speaker 2: This one's a fan from Kenya since I don't want

2245
01:50:37,760 --> 01:50:40,439
Speaker 2: you to butcher. My name Danny is what they're going by,

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01:50:40,520 --> 01:50:42,680
Speaker 2: and I don't blame it because I see their name

2247
01:50:42,680 --> 01:50:43,600
Speaker 2: and I was gonna suck it up.

2248
01:50:43,600 --> 01:50:46,760
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let you know right off top. You're right.

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01:50:47,160 --> 01:50:49,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, Hey, Kardon Rod.

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Speaker 2: I've been listening to you, the both of you, ever

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01:50:51,600 --> 01:50:54,800
Speaker 2: since I discovered the podcast from Vice. Yes, when we

2252
01:50:54,880 --> 01:50:58,519
Speaker 2: were on Vice for Game of Throne, Yes, then I

2253
01:50:58,600 --> 01:50:59,519
Speaker 2: stuck around for.

2254
01:50:59,479 --> 01:51:00,920
Speaker 1: The other episod never look back.

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01:51:00,920 --> 01:51:02,680
Speaker 2: When you two take breaks, I think I go through

2256
01:51:02,680 --> 01:51:05,120
Speaker 2: a withdraw and I don't know what to listen to anymore,

2257
01:51:05,360 --> 01:51:07,160
Speaker 2: though I do understand the need to take a breather.

2258
01:51:07,280 --> 01:51:09,879
Speaker 1: Well, thank you for understanding, because we're gonna do it anyway.

2259
01:51:10,520 --> 01:51:11,960
Speaker 2: A love of two of you, and listen to your

2260
01:51:12,000 --> 01:51:14,960
Speaker 2: perspective on whatever comes up in the episodes. I've been

2261
01:51:15,320 --> 01:51:18,719
Speaker 2: I've been those one silently waiting for the Walking Dad recap,

2262
01:51:19,080 --> 01:51:21,759
Speaker 2: so I've been stoked about it since you stopped watching

2263
01:51:21,800 --> 01:51:23,479
Speaker 2: the show at the end of season nine.

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01:51:23,600 --> 01:51:26,960
Speaker 1: Both of you are incredible individuals. Fan from Kenya, Daddy,

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01:51:27,080 --> 01:51:28,479
Speaker 1: thank you, Thank you. CD.

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01:51:29,760 --> 01:51:33,000
Speaker 2: Let's see Jaffo says Happy birthday, Rod. I hope you're

2267
01:51:33,000 --> 01:51:34,559
Speaker 2: having a fantastic day and year.

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01:51:34,720 --> 01:51:35,120
Speaker 1: Lol.

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01:51:35,439 --> 01:51:37,960
Speaker 2: Please tell care her hair is gorgeous and I need

2270
01:51:38,000 --> 01:51:39,800
Speaker 2: to know what she is putting on it.

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01:51:40,760 --> 01:51:41,719
Speaker 1: I miss you guys.

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01:51:41,920 --> 01:51:43,960
Speaker 2: Been on a break from social media and back in

2273
01:51:44,040 --> 01:51:45,320
Speaker 2: school for a career change.

2274
01:51:45,520 --> 01:51:47,519
Speaker 1: Hope you and yours are doing well. All my best.

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01:51:47,560 --> 01:51:51,240
Speaker 1: Take care of Daffo. We are doing pretty good. Yes,

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01:51:51,360 --> 01:51:51,840
Speaker 1: thank you.

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01:51:53,040 --> 01:51:56,960
Speaker 2: Someone wrote just a comment on pop being that just says,

2278
01:51:57,160 --> 01:51:59,479
Speaker 2: uh oh it cut off before the end for episode

2279
01:51:59,479 --> 01:52:01,720
Speaker 2: this is forty five. Yeah, I don't know. It was

2280
01:52:01,760 --> 01:52:03,960
Speaker 2: all I checked everywhere else it was fine. I don't

2281
01:52:04,000 --> 01:52:04,719
Speaker 2: know what the fuck.

2282
01:52:04,640 --> 01:52:06,479
Speaker 1: Wrong with Potbean? Yes, Potbean.

2283
01:52:06,680 --> 01:52:09,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's something on their side, not us. But

2284
01:52:09,439 --> 01:52:11,479
Speaker 2: you know, hey, come on over to death Row. We

2285
01:52:11,600 --> 01:52:15,839
Speaker 2: got Spotify, we got Apple podcasts, we got everywhere else.

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01:52:15,760 --> 01:52:16,360
Speaker 1: Had it fun.

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01:52:16,439 --> 01:52:19,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, YouTube, just don't go to Google podcasts. They shutting

2288
01:52:19,760 --> 01:52:20,800
Speaker 2: that shit down to Yeah.

2289
01:52:20,800 --> 01:52:24,639
Speaker 1: Google podcasts is r ip, just like stitch your radio.

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01:52:24,880 --> 01:52:25,680
Speaker 13: R I. P. B.

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01:52:25,840 --> 01:52:30,400
Speaker 2: Black says, going back, going, going back back to Charlotte.

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01:52:30,479 --> 01:52:31,879
Speaker 1: Charlotte Greetings.

2293
01:52:31,920 --> 01:52:35,080
Speaker 2: Riding Karen seeing YouTube a September ninth live recording was

2294
01:52:35,080 --> 01:52:36,040
Speaker 2: an absolute pleasure.

2295
01:52:36,439 --> 01:52:38,280
Speaker 1: After we took that picture together, it was so much.

2296
01:52:38,280 --> 01:52:39,640
Speaker 1: I wanted to say it that moment, but then I

2297
01:52:39,680 --> 01:52:41,640
Speaker 1: remember you two were human beings, were places to be,

2298
01:52:42,000 --> 01:52:43,519
Speaker 1: and I was better off saving it for the next

2299
01:52:43,520 --> 01:52:45,439
Speaker 1: feedback show. Thank you for understanding.

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01:52:45,520 --> 01:52:48,280
Speaker 2: Plus you know we have a like we were going

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01:52:48,280 --> 01:52:51,640
Speaker 2: to dinner and stuff and we have been doing the

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01:52:51,640 --> 01:52:55,240
Speaker 2: show working all day, So thank you for the thoughtfulness.

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01:52:55,640 --> 01:52:57,559
Speaker 2: When I started the year, I told myself I would

2304
01:52:57,560 --> 01:52:59,240
Speaker 2: get out of this for I've been in since twenty

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01:52:59,280 --> 01:53:01,880
Speaker 2: twenty by travel. I had no idea where at the time,

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01:53:01,920 --> 01:53:04,519
Speaker 2: I knew I needed to do something involving getting on

2307
01:53:04,560 --> 01:53:04,960
Speaker 2: a plane.

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01:53:05,000 --> 01:53:06,160
Speaker 1: Fast forward to the end of July.

2309
01:53:06,439 --> 01:53:08,240
Speaker 2: I listening to one of your episodes when Karen beats

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01:53:08,240 --> 01:53:09,960
Speaker 2: you to the punch and announced your intention to do

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01:53:10,000 --> 01:53:13,760
Speaker 2: a show on SADE. I'd be so excited, se Timber ninth. Yes,

2312
01:53:14,160 --> 01:53:15,559
Speaker 2: just like when she killed my joke earlier.

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01:53:15,960 --> 01:53:17,479
Speaker 1: Man a Man.

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01:53:17,479 --> 01:53:20,040
Speaker 2: At that moment, I had God's Playing by Drake minus

2315
01:53:20,120 --> 01:53:22,519
Speaker 2: the corny video playing in my head since I had

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01:53:22,520 --> 01:53:25,439
Speaker 2: previously booked a ticket to be in Newark, New Jersey, Newark,

2317
01:53:25,520 --> 01:53:28,679
Speaker 2: Jersey at that for the same weekend attend a spoken

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01:53:28,720 --> 01:53:31,840
Speaker 2: word show. When the finalized details were announced, I just

2319
01:53:31,880 --> 01:53:34,120
Speaker 2: in my itenerary to be in Charlotte for the recording.

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01:53:34,360 --> 01:53:36,559
Speaker 2: It's a good thing I did, because lousy weather in

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01:53:36,560 --> 01:53:39,160
Speaker 2: New Jersey the day before caused my flight to be

2322
01:53:39,200 --> 01:53:42,280
Speaker 2: delayed and I missed the show. Attending your recording saved

2323
01:53:42,320 --> 01:53:44,120
Speaker 2: me from a disappointing trip to the US.

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01:53:44,360 --> 01:53:47,479
Speaker 1: Oh man, it was a pleasure to meet you as well.

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01:53:48,040 --> 01:53:50,639
Speaker 2: And interest of not overthinking this message and forgetting about

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01:53:50,640 --> 01:53:52,280
Speaker 2: it in my draft Bolto, I'm going to leave you

2327
01:53:52,320 --> 01:53:56,000
Speaker 2: with some random feedback in point for him. Okay, Charlotte

2328
01:53:56,040 --> 01:53:57,759
Speaker 2: is a beautiful city and I need to go back.

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01:53:58,200 --> 01:54:00,320
Speaker 2: It is and it's so black, and you don't think

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01:54:00,320 --> 01:54:02,400
Speaker 2: about it. This is one of the reasons I think

2331
01:54:02,439 --> 01:54:07,360
Speaker 2: when there's certain people that listen to our show, like, actually, no,

2332
01:54:07,960 --> 01:54:09,800
Speaker 2: it's a shit. A ton of black people that listen

2333
01:54:09,800 --> 01:54:12,360
Speaker 2: to our show from all over the place, and a

2334
01:54:12,400 --> 01:54:15,479
Speaker 2: lot of them relate to the way we talking to

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01:54:15,560 --> 01:54:18,559
Speaker 2: things we talk about even though they don't live here, right,

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01:54:19,479 --> 01:54:23,160
Speaker 2: And a lot of that's because just our experience, even

2337
01:54:23,200 --> 01:54:25,640
Speaker 2: being in the South, even being in North Carolina, is

2338
01:54:25,680 --> 01:54:29,240
Speaker 2: one where I've never questioned my blackness. I've never had

2339
01:54:29,320 --> 01:54:31,120
Speaker 2: to worry about it being affirmed.

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01:54:31,240 --> 01:54:31,879
Speaker 1: I haven't.

2341
01:54:32,360 --> 01:54:34,800
Speaker 2: Even when I've been the only black person in the

2342
01:54:34,840 --> 01:54:38,040
Speaker 2: white space, that shit has never really bothered me or

2343
01:54:38,080 --> 01:54:40,360
Speaker 2: got to me in any type of identity crisis way

2344
01:54:40,720 --> 01:54:44,120
Speaker 2: because I only lived in black neighborhoods. My family black

2345
01:54:44,160 --> 01:54:48,000
Speaker 2: as fuck, my friends and all this things. Like, so

2346
01:54:49,200 --> 01:54:50,680
Speaker 2: I think, and I think there's a lot of black

2347
01:54:50,680 --> 01:54:52,880
Speaker 2: people that relate to that, and we attract those people.

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01:54:52,960 --> 01:54:56,520
Speaker 2: And then that's also like I didn't grow up also

2349
01:54:56,640 --> 01:54:59,000
Speaker 2: with the like we need to attack the other black

2350
01:54:59,040 --> 01:55:02,920
Speaker 2: folks who are different than us type of thing, because

2351
01:55:03,200 --> 01:55:06,800
Speaker 2: when everyone in your neighborhood is black, everyone's different.

2352
01:55:07,040 --> 01:55:10,480
Speaker 1: Like everyone's the same, but everyone's different. So I did

2353
01:55:10,680 --> 01:55:13,320
Speaker 1: know the black kids that went to like a Catholic school,

2354
01:55:13,440 --> 01:55:16,520
Speaker 1: but I played basketball with them, so they black, you know,

2355
01:55:17,320 --> 01:55:19,880
Speaker 1: And I'm other thing, I love my blackness and yours.

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01:55:19,880 --> 01:55:22,880
Speaker 6: So like Roger, you knew the blacks that were like

2357
01:55:23,080 --> 01:55:26,200
Speaker 6: super highly educated, could speak multiple language, you knew the

2358
01:55:26,200 --> 01:55:28,520
Speaker 6: blacks they loved anime. You knew the blacks like in

2359
01:55:28,560 --> 01:55:30,920
Speaker 6: all these genres. So as an adult, when I get

2360
01:55:30,960 --> 01:55:33,560
Speaker 6: a lote, I was like, no, nigga, I knew black people.

2361
01:55:33,400 --> 01:55:36,200
Speaker 2: That did this shit too, So I forget. But part

2362
01:55:36,200 --> 01:55:38,600
Speaker 2: of that is because of where I'm from. It's because Charlotte.

2363
01:55:38,640 --> 01:55:42,120
Speaker 2: I love Charlotte. It's it's no offense to the people

2364
01:55:42,160 --> 01:55:45,320
Speaker 2: from New York, and hopefully they won't take it offensively.

2365
01:55:45,440 --> 01:55:48,919
Speaker 2: I love New Yorkers and the black people and everybody

2366
01:55:49,000 --> 01:55:51,000
Speaker 2: actually that I met in New York was super dope

2367
01:55:51,040 --> 01:55:53,600
Speaker 2: and nice to me and and I and I, and

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01:55:53,640 --> 01:55:54,880
Speaker 2: they made it feel like.

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Speaker 1: A home away from home.

2370
01:55:56,520 --> 01:55:59,720
Speaker 2: But uh, when they would ask like, you know, so,

2371
01:55:59,800 --> 01:56:02,080
Speaker 2: how you like New York, I was like, it's dope, but.

2372
01:56:01,960 --> 01:56:03,080
Speaker 1: I want to go home.

2373
01:56:03,680 --> 01:56:05,200
Speaker 2: And part of the reason I want to go home

2374
01:56:05,320 --> 01:56:07,440
Speaker 2: is because I love it the way they love New York.

2375
01:56:07,520 --> 01:56:10,680
Speaker 2: They know, they know the blackness of New York and

2376
01:56:10,720 --> 01:56:13,360
Speaker 2: the life of New York and everything there. That's how

2377
01:56:13,400 --> 01:56:17,240
Speaker 2: I know Charlotte. So yeah, but yeah, it's a beautiful

2378
01:56:17,240 --> 01:56:20,560
Speaker 2: city and it's underrated. It's so funny because when people

2379
01:56:20,600 --> 01:56:22,880
Speaker 2: come here, they're always like, oh shit, this is actually

2380
01:56:22,880 --> 01:56:26,760
Speaker 2: pretty lit. But it's never especially our age group. Like

2381
01:56:26,800 --> 01:56:29,280
Speaker 2: I could see young people feeling more like, eh, fuck

2382
01:56:29,320 --> 01:56:33,680
Speaker 2: this shit, but people with like families are older or

2383
01:56:33,720 --> 01:56:37,480
Speaker 2: like kind of like just want to like chill. But

2384
01:56:37,560 --> 01:56:39,840
Speaker 2: you still have opportunities to go out and do things,

2385
01:56:39,880 --> 01:56:43,480
Speaker 2: but it's it's more of a chill city, right I think, Yeah,

2386
01:56:43,520 --> 01:56:46,240
Speaker 2: people love coming here. I had a great time at

2387
01:56:46,240 --> 01:56:48,200
Speaker 2: the show. My only regret is not interacting with and

2388
01:56:48,240 --> 01:56:51,040
Speaker 2: getting to know more fans. Well, don't being ahead about that.

2389
01:56:51,040 --> 01:56:55,000
Speaker 2: That's fine, and also like, yeah, it was totally fine.

2390
01:56:55,200 --> 01:56:55,440
Speaker 14: You know.

2391
01:56:55,640 --> 01:56:58,400
Speaker 2: I think if we were doing the show and we have,

2392
01:56:59,560 --> 01:57:01,960
Speaker 2: if it was us putting it on and you probably.

2393
01:57:01,720 --> 01:57:04,560
Speaker 1: Had a little bit more time, you might.

2394
01:57:05,000 --> 01:57:07,920
Speaker 2: Obviously COVID too, but you might see more people playing

2395
01:57:08,000 --> 01:57:10,840
Speaker 2: stuff like well, let's go to this outing, let's do something,

2396
01:57:10,840 --> 01:57:14,680
Speaker 2: because sometimes fans will do that. We don't normally organize

2397
01:57:14,720 --> 01:57:17,080
Speaker 2: those things. We just kind of let fans do it

2398
01:57:17,320 --> 01:57:18,000
Speaker 2: if they want to.

2399
01:57:18,160 --> 01:57:18,600
Speaker 1: Correct.

2400
01:57:18,760 --> 01:57:20,960
Speaker 2: I managed to find a black therapist who was familiar

2401
01:57:20,960 --> 01:57:22,760
Speaker 2: with the show. She was instrumental in getting me to

2402
01:57:22,800 --> 01:57:25,000
Speaker 2: set a resolution to travel in twenty twenty three.

2403
01:57:25,280 --> 01:57:28,000
Speaker 1: Oh man, what a small world it is. Right.

2404
01:57:28,800 --> 01:57:30,720
Speaker 2: I'm happy you're doing recaps of The Walking Dead because

2405
01:57:30,720 --> 01:57:32,520
Speaker 2: I watched the whole serious anticipating in the recaps. So

2406
01:57:32,640 --> 01:57:36,760
Speaker 2: in the AMCU I mean, amc owes you to a check?

2407
01:57:37,760 --> 01:57:39,480
Speaker 1: Well, I think, honestly.

2408
01:57:39,120 --> 01:57:42,200
Speaker 2: Man, And I feel bad because we're behind on Fear

2409
01:57:42,600 --> 01:57:46,680
Speaker 2: But one of the dopest things ever was someone who

2410
01:57:46,720 --> 01:57:50,960
Speaker 2: worked at Fear to Walking Dead went on the hashtag

2411
01:57:51,040 --> 01:57:54,720
Speaker 2: on Twitter to say, Hey, we like do set design

2412
01:57:54,800 --> 01:57:57,440
Speaker 2: and costumes, all the stuff. We listen to your Fear

2413
01:57:57,480 --> 01:58:00,920
Speaker 2: to Walking Dead recaps on speaker here while we're doing

2414
01:58:00,960 --> 01:58:01,320
Speaker 2: the show.

2415
01:58:01,800 --> 01:58:05,320
Speaker 1: And that meant so much to me, because I.

2416
01:58:05,280 --> 01:58:07,640
Speaker 2: Want the people that make the art that we love

2417
01:58:07,760 --> 01:58:10,880
Speaker 2: to feel appreciated. And I know it's, you know, the

2418
01:58:11,440 --> 01:58:13,880
Speaker 2: cool thing to do for everybody to always be like

2419
01:58:13,960 --> 01:58:17,240
Speaker 2: super critical and hate all the shit but watch all

2420
01:58:17,240 --> 01:58:19,879
Speaker 2: the shit and never give it props and just complain.

2421
01:58:20,480 --> 01:58:22,160
Speaker 2: And I don't want to do a show like that,

2422
01:58:22,280 --> 01:58:24,160
Speaker 2: And I would love that we did a recap that

2423
01:58:24,200 --> 01:58:26,760
Speaker 2: people that work on it can listen to. And we're

2424
01:58:26,800 --> 01:58:30,440
Speaker 2: silly and we're not unobservant, so like, if there's something

2425
01:58:30,480 --> 01:58:33,400
Speaker 2: that's funny that we're like, oh, this is weird, I

2426
01:58:33,440 --> 01:58:35,360
Speaker 2: know that Dell could laugh at that too, because we're

2427
01:58:35,360 --> 01:58:36,400
Speaker 2: not being mean about it.

2428
01:58:36,440 --> 01:58:40,320
Speaker 1: We're saying like, oh, yeah, they needed a zombie to.

2429
01:58:40,280 --> 01:58:43,720
Speaker 2: Bust through the wall, so it busted through the walling.

2430
01:58:43,960 --> 01:58:47,480
Speaker 2: Zombieing Karen, there's really been an episode where You've asked

2431
01:58:47,480 --> 01:58:50,000
Speaker 2: a question that I wasn't also asking, especially during white

2432
01:58:50,000 --> 01:58:55,920
Speaker 2: people News. I'm glad I represent them people because I'm

2433
01:58:56,000 --> 01:58:57,640
Speaker 2: a happy related birthday Rod.

2434
01:58:57,760 --> 01:58:58,160
Speaker 1: Thank you.

2435
01:58:58,200 --> 01:59:00,960
Speaker 2: That's it for now, Thanks for amazing podcast. Chat with

2436
01:59:01,000 --> 01:59:03,560
Speaker 2: you all later, Be Black, Thank you, Be Black.

2437
01:59:03,600 --> 01:59:05,800
Speaker 1: Thank you. I also like that your name sounds like

2438
01:59:05,800 --> 01:59:06,320
Speaker 1: a command.

2439
01:59:07,080 --> 01:59:10,440
Speaker 2: Yes, Aaron says, I think I know why RB stays

2440
01:59:10,440 --> 01:59:14,520
Speaker 2: in business. Apparently they sell drugs and own every restaurant.

2441
01:59:14,560 --> 01:59:16,200
Speaker 2: And it's this TikTok video.

2442
01:59:18,320 --> 01:59:21,480
Speaker 1: With this RBS. Let me ask you some right question.

2443
01:59:22,440 --> 01:59:25,120
Speaker 1: Hold on second, I'll pull it up on screen. But

2444
01:59:25,360 --> 01:59:28,680
Speaker 1: h I saw this video people, because anything when you

2445
01:59:28,800 --> 01:59:31,800
Speaker 1: intially get a customer, do you just assume that they

2446
01:59:31,880 --> 01:59:32,800
Speaker 1: need directions?

2447
01:59:36,960 --> 01:59:40,040
Speaker 2: And it's like Rvey's is getting picked on by Basking

2448
01:59:40,160 --> 01:59:44,400
Speaker 2: Robbins and okay, and then the conceit of the joke

2449
01:59:44,520 --> 01:59:48,000
Speaker 2: is eventually Rvey's goes through and you realize Riv's owns

2450
01:59:48,040 --> 01:59:48,560
Speaker 2: all this ship.

2451
01:59:49,560 --> 01:59:52,640
Speaker 9: Yeah that's real funny, bitch, Hey, real quick, you want

2452
01:59:52,640 --> 01:59:53,760
Speaker 9: to know what else is funny?

2453
01:59:54,760 --> 02:00:00,480
Speaker 15: I own both of y'all, huh, bitch, hunh I.

2454
02:00:00,560 --> 02:00:01,880
Speaker 1: Own both of y'all.

2455
02:00:02,040 --> 02:00:05,800
Speaker 12: Nah, Honestly, I don't even understand why y'are surprised.

2456
02:00:05,880 --> 02:00:09,200
Speaker 1: I own everything, bitch. That is not true. You don't

2457
02:00:09,240 --> 02:00:15,280
Speaker 1: own s. That's most Southwest Ria real, bitch, you own me.

2458
02:00:15,560 --> 02:00:18,480
Speaker 9: I do bit, man, y'all, I'm sorry as bitch is

2459
02:00:18,560 --> 02:00:19,640
Speaker 9: letting this punk.

2460
02:00:19,400 --> 02:00:23,800
Speaker 1: It slash kis de son of a bitch, there is

2461
02:00:23,880 --> 02:00:31,120
Speaker 1: no way, there is no ah, bitch, just let us

2462
02:00:31,160 --> 02:00:37,240
Speaker 1: make our pretzels in peace. As a bitch, how are

2463
02:00:37,280 --> 02:00:37,840
Speaker 1: you doing?

2464
02:00:38,400 --> 02:00:42,800
Speaker 2: Jimmy John's Yes, it's a funny, y'all's hilarious.

2465
02:00:42,840 --> 02:00:46,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, so good, so good, everybody so creative and right,

2466
02:00:47,120 --> 02:00:49,800
Speaker 1: y'all come from me, bitch, I own everything? Right. Aaron

2467
02:00:49,880 --> 02:00:51,560
Speaker 1: Right's in in to say hello, RD and Karen.

2468
02:00:51,600 --> 02:00:53,640
Speaker 2: I know this has been said many times before, but

2469
02:00:53,680 --> 02:00:56,320
Speaker 2: disregarding the Kids Online Safety Act or whatever they want

2470
02:00:56,360 --> 02:00:59,000
Speaker 2: to call it, I know it's supposed to protect kids

2471
02:00:59,160 --> 02:01:01,480
Speaker 2: from dangers online, and they are really trying to ban

2472
02:01:02,680 --> 02:01:04,320
Speaker 2: band the queer community from being seen.

2473
02:01:04,840 --> 02:01:08,080
Speaker 1: My question is, y'all know what will still what?

2474
02:01:08,400 --> 02:01:10,640
Speaker 2: You know that they will still find out right, Like,

2475
02:01:10,720 --> 02:01:12,760
Speaker 2: no matter what band you put in place, people will

2476
02:01:12,760 --> 02:01:15,040
Speaker 2: find their community somewhere, and it's not like they won't

2477
02:01:15,080 --> 02:01:17,040
Speaker 2: meet a gay person in real life or on TV.

2478
02:01:17,480 --> 02:01:19,760
Speaker 2: The kids will eventually find out. Heck, their best friend

2479
02:01:19,840 --> 02:01:21,880
Speaker 2: might even be gay. I know they don't care, and

2480
02:01:21,920 --> 02:01:23,760
Speaker 2: I'm trying to spread an agenda, but like, be for

2481
02:01:23,840 --> 02:01:28,560
Speaker 2: real yet, and also like to me, I will say,

2482
02:01:29,360 --> 02:01:31,680
Speaker 2: it sounds like I'm giving up ground and conservatives when

2483
02:01:31,680 --> 02:01:35,360
Speaker 2: I say this on his face, but I'm not. When

2484
02:01:35,400 --> 02:01:40,200
Speaker 2: they say if we have content that shows queer people,

2485
02:01:40,960 --> 02:01:42,880
Speaker 2: it will turn some.

2486
02:01:42,840 --> 02:01:46,480
Speaker 1: Of our kids gay. It will turn them queer. They're

2487
02:01:46,560 --> 02:01:48,200
Speaker 1: absolutely right, and.

2488
02:01:48,080 --> 02:01:50,680
Speaker 2: Not by not what they meaning in like some weird

2489
02:01:50,760 --> 02:01:55,560
Speaker 2: like a switches flip. No, it'll teach your kid people

2490
02:01:55,680 --> 02:01:59,760
Speaker 2: exist like you correct and it's okay, and it's gonna

2491
02:01:59,760 --> 02:02:01,960
Speaker 2: be a okay and you can have a future. And

2492
02:02:02,360 --> 02:02:04,760
Speaker 2: since these people have come from all kinds of different

2493
02:02:04,840 --> 02:02:07,600
Speaker 2: various backgrounds, hey, a lot of people are like I

2494
02:02:07,640 --> 02:02:10,680
Speaker 2: didn't have supported parents just like you, and I had

2495
02:02:10,680 --> 02:02:13,400
Speaker 2: to move. But I went and found my fucking happiness

2496
02:02:13,440 --> 02:02:14,839
Speaker 2: and I found my chosen family.

2497
02:02:15,120 --> 02:02:16,920
Speaker 1: That's what they're afraid of, that the.

2498
02:02:16,920 --> 02:02:19,920
Speaker 2: Kids are going to quote unquote turn gay because they're

2499
02:02:19,920 --> 02:02:21,800
Speaker 2: gonna see you ain't gotta.

2500
02:02:21,600 --> 02:02:22,320
Speaker 1: Live like this.

2501
02:02:22,440 --> 02:02:25,720
Speaker 2: You know you don't also separate topic, but if you

2502
02:02:25,840 --> 02:02:27,120
Speaker 2: can be real ignorant and silly.

2503
02:02:27,200 --> 02:02:29,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm glad the writers will be coming back. Lol.

2504
02:02:29,920 --> 02:02:31,840
Speaker 1: I wish I did have the ability to sniff out

2505
02:02:31,880 --> 02:02:32,240
Speaker 1: gay man.

2506
02:02:32,320 --> 02:02:34,240
Speaker 2: Do you know how useful that would be all the

2507
02:02:34,320 --> 02:02:36,080
Speaker 2: times I would not need to hit on a straight

2508
02:02:36,080 --> 02:02:37,800
Speaker 2: guy accidentally because they smell gay.

2509
02:02:39,680 --> 02:02:41,000
Speaker 1: That is true. That is true.

2510
02:02:41,120 --> 02:02:45,120
Speaker 2: Like that, that's awkward, especially in the world where gay

2511
02:02:45,200 --> 02:02:47,800
Speaker 2: panic is a fucking defense for in court.

2512
02:02:47,880 --> 02:02:48,400
Speaker 1: That works.

2513
02:02:48,400 --> 02:02:51,680
Speaker 2: Sometimes it was like, Oh, this person tried to treat

2514
02:02:51,680 --> 02:02:52,960
Speaker 2: me the way I treat women.

2515
02:02:54,360 --> 02:02:57,080
Speaker 1: It's like what they do? They say they like me? Oh,

2516
02:02:57,160 --> 02:02:58,800
Speaker 1: so I had to kill them? Like what, That's not

2517
02:02:58,840 --> 02:03:00,320
Speaker 1: how that works? Do you know what I'm messie?

2518
02:03:00,360 --> 02:03:02,800
Speaker 2: That would be guys denying at that gay or don't

2519
02:03:02,840 --> 02:03:04,680
Speaker 2: know if yet at Other gays are like, honey, we

2520
02:03:04,760 --> 02:03:05,640
Speaker 2: got news for you that.

2521
02:03:05,840 --> 02:03:09,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be funny. We're starry to disappoint you.

2522
02:03:10,000 --> 02:03:13,360
Speaker 1: But it's also good because I feel like, uh, there's

2523
02:03:13,400 --> 02:03:15,080
Speaker 1: a lot of people that.

2524
02:03:17,360 --> 02:03:19,920
Speaker 2: Like they might be questioning, or they might be paying,

2525
02:03:20,040 --> 02:03:22,920
Speaker 2: or they might be something. But I feel like it's

2526
02:03:22,960 --> 02:03:25,560
Speaker 2: not beyond somebody to be like, I smell the gay

2527
02:03:25,600 --> 02:03:26,040
Speaker 2: on you.

2528
02:03:26,120 --> 02:03:31,800
Speaker 1: Let's be gay, Like I guess, I guess, yes, pretty sure.

2529
02:03:31,800 --> 02:03:32,200
Speaker 1: I'm straight.

2530
02:03:32,400 --> 02:03:34,920
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, Chris Hansworth, I've been smelling it

2531
02:03:34,960 --> 02:03:40,680
Speaker 2: all day, something about this. You need to try this out, many,

2532
02:03:40,760 --> 02:03:42,520
Speaker 2: says dear Rod of Karen. Thank you so much for

2533
02:03:42,520 --> 02:03:44,520
Speaker 2: the episode you did with Living Color and that stupid

2534
02:03:44,560 --> 02:03:47,880
Speaker 2: mofo from Rolling Stone magazine who dismissed black people of

2535
02:03:48,440 --> 02:03:50,080
Speaker 2: being the foundation of American music.

2536
02:03:50,360 --> 02:03:51,560
Speaker 1: My heart left with joy.

2537
02:03:51,360 --> 02:03:54,680
Speaker 2: Because everything all of y'all said was exactly what I

2538
02:03:54,720 --> 02:03:57,000
Speaker 2: always felt and wish I could say to other black people,

2539
02:03:57,400 --> 02:04:00,360
Speaker 2: especially bluegrass music. I've been listening and learning from black

2540
02:04:00,440 --> 02:04:04,400
Speaker 2: artists who do folk Americana bluegrass on the origins of banjo,

2541
02:04:04,600 --> 02:04:10,560
Speaker 2: like r Rihunn and Giddons, Jake Blanc, Alison Russell, Leela

2542
02:04:10,680 --> 02:04:15,360
Speaker 2: Machaalia Adia Victoria, who have done and are doing the

2543
02:04:15,400 --> 02:04:17,600
Speaker 2: work of educating people about the origins of the banjo

2544
02:04:17,680 --> 02:04:20,000
Speaker 2: from Africa and his history with black people in America

2545
02:04:20,400 --> 02:04:22,640
Speaker 2: during slavery. But it falls on deaf ears of black

2546
02:04:22,680 --> 02:04:25,160
Speaker 2: people into black media. I wish those artists got a

2547
02:04:25,200 --> 02:04:27,240
Speaker 2: lot more love from black media, but it will never

2548
02:04:27,440 --> 02:04:30,680
Speaker 2: But it will never happen. Sad to say, I might

2549
02:04:30,720 --> 02:04:33,400
Speaker 2: get some heat from what I'm about to say but.

2550
02:04:33,720 --> 02:04:36,360
Speaker 1: Mandy's your emails always take a left, but here we go.

2551
02:04:38,400 --> 02:04:42,400
Speaker 1: It's just like she like, it's like, do you I

2552
02:04:42,440 --> 02:04:42,680
Speaker 1: don't know.

2553
02:04:43,480 --> 02:04:45,240
Speaker 2: I might get some heat from what I'm about to say,

2554
02:04:45,280 --> 02:04:47,040
Speaker 2: but we need to stop talking about how black people

2555
02:04:47,040 --> 02:04:50,040
Speaker 2: are the foundation of music whenever a white person dismisses

2556
02:04:50,080 --> 02:04:52,920
Speaker 2: our contribution and display black diverse artists from.

2557
02:04:52,840 --> 02:04:54,920
Speaker 1: Non R and B soul and rap year round.

2558
02:04:54,960 --> 02:04:58,160
Speaker 2: More let us put Lenny Kravitz, Slash or Tom Morello

2559
02:04:58,280 --> 02:05:00,960
Speaker 2: on a cover of black magazines because cause I wish

2560
02:05:01,000 --> 02:05:03,080
Speaker 2: I could see them on a black magazine cover. I'm

2561
02:05:03,120 --> 02:05:04,840
Speaker 2: tired of hearing black people are not a model lift

2562
02:05:04,920 --> 02:05:06,200
Speaker 2: yet want to be monoliththic.

2563
02:05:06,280 --> 02:05:07,160
Speaker 1: Mandy.

2564
02:05:08,120 --> 02:05:13,080
Speaker 2: Uh, Here's what I'll say to that. I would bet money,

2565
02:05:13,920 --> 02:05:16,520
Speaker 2: and I don't mean to be mean, matter of fact.

2566
02:05:16,600 --> 02:05:18,880
Speaker 2: Let me rephrase it because it was gonna sound me.

2567
02:05:20,240 --> 02:05:23,360
Speaker 2: I would bet money. Lenny Cravis has been on black

2568
02:05:23,400 --> 02:05:29,880
Speaker 2: magazine covers like it's not just Rolling Stone. That being said,

2569
02:05:30,080 --> 02:05:34,360
Speaker 2: I'll take your point, and I do think a lot

2570
02:05:34,400 --> 02:05:38,240
Speaker 2: of times, instead of bemoaning the days past, we should

2571
02:05:38,280 --> 02:05:40,240
Speaker 2: also be making sure we're lifting up the people that

2572
02:05:40,280 --> 02:05:42,440
Speaker 2: are still here today and the people that are carrying

2573
02:05:42,480 --> 02:05:43,320
Speaker 2: on those legacies.

2574
02:05:43,520 --> 02:05:46,280
Speaker 1: The only thing I'll say is why not both? Why

2575
02:05:46,360 --> 02:05:46,800
Speaker 1: not both?

2576
02:05:47,040 --> 02:05:49,960
Speaker 2: Because I think bringing up that this is foundation that

2577
02:05:50,000 --> 02:05:53,160
Speaker 2: we are foundational to the music doesn't do anything to

2578
02:05:53,240 --> 02:05:54,880
Speaker 2: disregard to people that are continuing to.

2579
02:05:54,840 --> 02:05:57,600
Speaker 1: Carry on that legacy. So I think you can have both.

2580
02:05:57,600 --> 02:06:00,600
Speaker 6: Mandy, Yeah, I also think you can have both too,

2581
02:06:01,400 --> 02:06:05,440
Speaker 6: because the thing is you're always because of white people

2582
02:06:05,480 --> 02:06:09,080
Speaker 6: in white supremacy. You're always going to have somebody every

2583
02:06:09,200 --> 02:06:13,480
Speaker 6: day who learns something new. So that's the biggest reason

2584
02:06:13,520 --> 02:06:15,520
Speaker 6: why you keep repeating it, and that's the biggest reason

2585
02:06:15,560 --> 02:06:18,800
Speaker 6: why it's raised up, because if you don't raise it up,

2586
02:06:18,840 --> 02:06:21,080
Speaker 6: you're gonna have people like me who are raised up

2587
02:06:21,120 --> 02:06:23,200
Speaker 6: that don't know and just buy in and it just

2588
02:06:23,200 --> 02:06:25,440
Speaker 6: be like that's some white bullshit when that's not the

2589
02:06:25,480 --> 02:06:28,240
Speaker 6: reality of it. Like, you can educate people on the

2590
02:06:28,280 --> 02:06:31,760
Speaker 6: past and also educate people on now, and also educate

2591
02:06:31,760 --> 02:06:33,720
Speaker 6: people in the future, because you don't know who out

2592
02:06:33,760 --> 02:06:36,320
Speaker 6: there might can hear that and go back and do

2593
02:06:36,360 --> 02:06:41,240
Speaker 6: their dig and then find all these people that have

2594
02:06:41,440 --> 02:06:43,560
Speaker 6: done these things that they might not be aware of

2595
02:06:44,600 --> 02:06:48,040
Speaker 6: and spark something within them that they can be the

2596
02:06:48,080 --> 02:06:52,440
Speaker 6: future of these genres of music or create a completely

2597
02:06:52,480 --> 02:06:55,280
Speaker 6: different genre of music, but you got to know the

2598
02:06:55,400 --> 02:06:57,520
Speaker 6: roots in the history of it. And you know, it's

2599
02:06:57,520 --> 02:06:59,240
Speaker 6: one of those things where and I do agree with

2600
02:06:59,360 --> 02:07:01,960
Speaker 6: you saying I do understand, but to an extent, things

2601
02:07:02,000 --> 02:07:04,000
Speaker 6: like that is how history gets a race, because if

2602
02:07:04,000 --> 02:07:06,440
Speaker 6: you don't say anything at all all, you're gonna have

2603
02:07:06,440 --> 02:07:07,560
Speaker 6: people to go on that white boy shit.

2604
02:07:07,600 --> 02:07:10,160
Speaker 1: That's white boys shit. That's why we're fighting the erasure.

2605
02:07:10,320 --> 02:07:13,879
Speaker 2: Like the reason I think I don't agree with totally

2606
02:07:13,920 --> 02:07:17,000
Speaker 2: with the premise of her email is in the context

2607
02:07:17,000 --> 02:07:19,480
Speaker 2: of the conversation we're having, we're talking about a person

2608
02:07:19,520 --> 02:07:25,720
Speaker 2: who's who's over rolling Stone magazine and it's picking who.

2609
02:07:25,520 --> 02:07:27,760
Speaker 1: He considers to be the masters of the genre.

2610
02:07:28,560 --> 02:07:30,720
Speaker 2: We're not going to just be like, oh, now it's

2611
02:07:30,720 --> 02:07:32,360
Speaker 2: a good time to say, Lenny Kravitz.

2612
02:07:33,000 --> 02:07:36,640
Speaker 1: No, now, now's a good time to point out all

2613
02:07:36,720 --> 02:07:37,320
Speaker 1: the black.

2614
02:07:37,120 --> 02:07:40,040
Speaker 2: People that have ever contributed, that have not that have

2615
02:07:40,080 --> 02:07:43,320
Speaker 2: been glossed over by your publication, that have been glossed

2616
02:07:43,320 --> 02:07:46,520
Speaker 2: over by you know, just the media in general, Like,

2617
02:07:47,000 --> 02:07:49,160
Speaker 2: now's not the time to be like, you know, who

2618
02:07:49,160 --> 02:07:50,960
Speaker 2: we need to be talking about is black people not

2619
02:07:51,000 --> 02:07:53,160
Speaker 2: doing a good enough job of that. It's like, nah,

2620
02:07:53,440 --> 02:07:55,760
Speaker 2: we're talking about your ass. Now you on the Summer

2621
02:07:55,800 --> 02:07:58,320
Speaker 2: Jams screen lessons. Then you put your shit out.

2622
02:07:58,160 --> 02:08:01,680
Speaker 6: Here, right and it's a systemic issue. So and he's

2623
02:08:01,720 --> 02:08:04,680
Speaker 6: part of the systemic problem. So you have to be like, well,

2624
02:08:04,880 --> 02:08:07,880
Speaker 6: what about the people that have been glossed over because

2625
02:08:07,920 --> 02:08:09,000
Speaker 6: of you and your choices?

2626
02:08:10,080 --> 02:08:10,280
Speaker 1: Ms.

2627
02:08:10,360 --> 02:08:14,400
Speaker 2: Barnes says, good afternoon riding, Karen. I hope this email

2628
02:08:14,440 --> 02:08:15,360
Speaker 2: finds you well today.

2629
02:08:15,720 --> 02:08:17,720
Speaker 1: I wanted to share a belated birthday present to you

2630
02:08:17,800 --> 02:08:20,480
Speaker 1: that Sally isn't inconvenienced to me and Martin Voyce your

2631
02:08:20,480 --> 02:08:23,200
Speaker 1: scheme you applotted and damn now you got me?

2632
02:08:23,360 --> 02:08:26,560
Speaker 2: Are you happy? The Rvy's around the corner from me

2633
02:08:26,760 --> 02:08:30,160
Speaker 2: is closed. I cannot believe it.

2634
02:08:30,320 --> 02:08:34,000
Speaker 1: I've been why they closed? Why are they closed? Yeah?

2635
02:08:34,040 --> 02:08:36,080
Speaker 2: I know right, because not like they were depending on

2636
02:08:36,120 --> 02:08:42,400
Speaker 2: the food to make money. The thing is this Arvey's

2637
02:08:42,400 --> 02:08:44,760
Speaker 2: look like it's from nineteen o five.

2638
02:08:44,840 --> 02:08:47,520
Speaker 1: Oh child, that was the original Arbisch child. I ain't

2639
02:08:47,520 --> 02:08:50,560
Speaker 1: sent it sound like that since I was a goddamn kid, right, Like,

2640
02:08:50,640 --> 02:08:53,440
Speaker 1: what is this even doing? Open? In the first week?

2641
02:08:53,520 --> 02:08:54,840
Speaker 1: Was that open? Nineteen oh two?

2642
02:08:54,960 --> 02:08:57,200
Speaker 7: That was like the first we was like the very

2643
02:08:57,200 --> 02:08:58,040
Speaker 7: first arbist.

2644
02:08:58,720 --> 02:09:00,800
Speaker 2: It can't be because people was going in there in

2645
02:09:00,800 --> 02:09:06,680
Speaker 2: this motherfucking Oregon trail ass Arby's. So yeah, I've been

2646
02:09:06,720 --> 02:09:08,560
Speaker 2: going to that one for years, and all of a

2647
02:09:08,600 --> 02:09:11,320
Speaker 2: sudden I see the famous cowboy hat taken down. Here

2648
02:09:11,360 --> 02:09:13,840
Speaker 2: a picture of the truth. I had to share some

2649
02:09:13,840 --> 02:09:16,160
Speaker 2: thug tears about that thing. In the meantime, I did

2650
02:09:16,200 --> 02:09:19,000
Speaker 2: take your suggestion for the marble exhibit at Disney Discovery

2651
02:09:19,040 --> 02:09:20,360
Speaker 2: Place and had a ball.

2652
02:09:20,440 --> 02:09:22,640
Speaker 1: And yes, the gift shop was a trap, wasn't it.

2653
02:09:22,760 --> 02:09:25,800
Speaker 6: Yes, because it's right at the end you're like, yeah, yeah,

2654
02:09:25,880 --> 02:09:27,520
Speaker 6: you get us like boom.

2655
02:09:27,160 --> 02:09:29,040
Speaker 1: And you're like, oh shit, I got touch something.

2656
02:09:29,080 --> 02:09:32,240
Speaker 2: Of course, car fell for it, childhook line of sinkle

2657
02:09:32,360 --> 02:09:34,160
Speaker 2: while telling us not the f for it.

2658
02:09:34,800 --> 02:09:36,400
Speaker 1: Of course I am the problem.

2659
02:09:36,600 --> 02:09:38,280
Speaker 7: I'm going, well, you know, it's a trap, while I'm

2660
02:09:38,560 --> 02:09:40,080
Speaker 7: instead of this stuff and ship.

2661
02:09:39,960 --> 02:09:43,760
Speaker 2: In the bag, and she says, have a wonderful day

2662
02:09:44,000 --> 02:09:47,640
Speaker 2: as I find a new Arby's love. Miss Barnes was

2663
02:09:47,760 --> 02:09:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm sure there's plenty of them out, Yes, and there's

2664
02:09:50,120 --> 02:09:56,640
Speaker 2: no waiting line, so you'll get the food. Simone says, Hey,

2665
02:09:56,720 --> 02:09:58,920
Speaker 2: Roder Karen, I too lost it reading and then seeing

2666
02:09:58,960 --> 02:10:01,280
Speaker 2: the video of the Forest Hill doctor having a birthday

2667
02:10:01,280 --> 02:10:04,240
Speaker 2: dinner for his sister who was recently engaged ruin by

2668
02:10:04,360 --> 02:10:10,920
Speaker 2: racist attacks. Their Caribbean heritage docus Haitian hearing burs Heaven

2669
02:10:11,120 --> 02:10:14,120
Speaker 2: music in the background, My parents are jamaking. The celebrity

2670
02:10:14,240 --> 02:10:16,840
Speaker 2: chef is also of Haitian descent, and this is a

2671
02:10:16,880 --> 02:10:19,480
Speaker 2: three minute drive from our place. All combined to fill

2672
02:10:19,520 --> 02:10:22,200
Speaker 2: me with rage. We got told to do the right thing,

2673
02:10:22,240 --> 02:10:25,160
Speaker 2: and even when we do, racists feeling titled to do whatever,

2674
02:10:25,200 --> 02:10:27,320
Speaker 2: and the police don't drag them off in cuffs.

2675
02:10:27,520 --> 02:10:29,800
Speaker 1: Karen was right about the New York prices for homes.

2676
02:10:29,840 --> 02:10:31,160
Speaker 1: You can't even park a car on.

2677
02:10:31,120 --> 02:10:33,640
Speaker 2: The street over there unless you have a pass displayed

2678
02:10:33,680 --> 02:10:37,280
Speaker 2: in your car, because streets are private. There were attorneys

2679
02:10:37,320 --> 02:10:40,400
Speaker 2: at the party, and perhaps that helped prevent violence.

2680
02:10:40,920 --> 02:10:42,000
Speaker 1: As messed up as it is.

2681
02:10:42,040 --> 02:10:44,200
Speaker 2: I'm glad you shared the article because I get tired

2682
02:10:44,240 --> 02:10:47,200
Speaker 2: of people thinking all the NYC is so liberal. Yeah,

2683
02:10:47,240 --> 02:10:49,960
Speaker 2: this the home of Officer Mayor Eric Adams. Like this,

2684
02:10:50,080 --> 02:10:51,320
Speaker 2: motherfuckers is not liberal.

2685
02:10:51,400 --> 02:10:53,400
Speaker 6: Like Donald Trump came out of there, a lot of

2686
02:10:53,400 --> 02:10:54,520
Speaker 6: people came out of New York.

2687
02:10:54,680 --> 02:10:58,560
Speaker 2: The reason people think it's fucking liberal is because conservatives

2688
02:10:58,880 --> 02:11:01,040
Speaker 2: attack it and hated and so everybody goes, well, new

2689
02:11:01,120 --> 02:11:02,400
Speaker 2: York must be a liberal utopia.

2690
02:11:02,400 --> 02:11:05,960
Speaker 1: It's like, no, it's fucking not. If you go outside

2691
02:11:06,000 --> 02:11:06,760
Speaker 1: of New York City.

2692
02:11:06,800 --> 02:11:09,160
Speaker 6: They got them flags waving like they're up there like

2693
02:11:09,200 --> 02:11:10,080
Speaker 6: they do down here too.

2694
02:11:10,880 --> 02:11:13,080
Speaker 2: I know she's talking about New York City. I'm not

2695
02:11:13,120 --> 02:11:15,320
Speaker 2: talking about outside of New York City. I'm saying inside

2696
02:11:15,360 --> 02:11:16,360
Speaker 2: New York City, it's a lot.

2697
02:11:16,320 --> 02:11:19,280
Speaker 1: Of people that's racist. Yes, they dealing with shit too.

2698
02:11:19,720 --> 02:11:22,640
Speaker 2: You know, the NYPD is notorious for a reason. It's

2699
02:11:22,640 --> 02:11:25,000
Speaker 2: a reason they're allowed to continue to exist and they

2700
02:11:25,040 --> 02:11:27,320
Speaker 2: haven't defunded them and all the other shit they claim

2701
02:11:27,440 --> 02:11:31,240
Speaker 2: liberal people want because the liberal people don't actually have

2702
02:11:31,400 --> 02:11:35,720
Speaker 2: the numbers like that white people think. I've lived here

2703
02:11:35,760 --> 02:11:38,360
Speaker 2: my whole life and have only heard the hard er

2704
02:11:38,560 --> 02:11:41,720
Speaker 2: us here or written on the side of my childhood

2705
02:11:41,720 --> 02:11:44,680
Speaker 2: home in Brooklyn the late eighties. Anyway, the live show

2706
02:11:44,760 --> 02:11:47,040
Speaker 2: was so good. It was my first trip to Charlotte.

2707
02:11:47,080 --> 02:11:49,280
Speaker 2: I went solo and had a great time. Can't wait

2708
02:11:49,320 --> 02:11:51,240
Speaker 2: for the next live show. I didn't get to enjoy

2709
02:11:51,320 --> 02:11:55,040
Speaker 2: my Afro grind coffee because my mother stole all three

2710
02:11:55,080 --> 02:11:57,200
Speaker 2: packs and I had to place the order online, but

2711
02:11:57,240 --> 02:11:59,920
Speaker 2: I have to use the cold Wow.

2712
02:12:00,320 --> 02:12:02,520
Speaker 1: Well, thanks for supporting the sponsor. But man, your mom

2713
02:12:02,560 --> 02:12:06,400
Speaker 1: ain't playing. She's not a damn coffee. There's a lot

2714
02:12:06,400 --> 02:12:08,160
Speaker 1: of coffee too, wouldn't it though?

2715
02:12:08,440 --> 02:12:11,280
Speaker 2: I had set wine for my childlice and it makes

2716
02:12:11,320 --> 02:12:12,920
Speaker 2: me want to rewatch Game of Throngs.

2717
02:12:13,000 --> 02:12:14,480
Speaker 1: Well, you're gonna be sipping with us when we do

2718
02:12:14,480 --> 02:12:15,920
Speaker 1: the recaps, can't.

2719
02:12:15,960 --> 02:12:19,000
Speaker 6: I can't one thing about to strike you go. Yes,

2720
02:12:19,160 --> 02:12:20,720
Speaker 6: it's time to get the recording, y'all.

2721
02:12:20,800 --> 02:12:21,280
Speaker 1: Let's go.

2722
02:12:21,960 --> 02:12:24,720
Speaker 2: Also, I've been happily enjoying the walking There recaps. I

2723
02:12:24,720 --> 02:12:27,320
Speaker 2: started watching the showing part because of you both, and

2724
02:12:27,320 --> 02:12:29,680
Speaker 2: it's been great to go back and rewatch. I know

2725
02:12:29,720 --> 02:12:31,840
Speaker 2: it is more work for you and it is appreciated.

2726
02:12:32,320 --> 02:12:35,360
Speaker 2: Y'all really are the best. Love y'all, Sam, thank you

2727
02:12:35,360 --> 02:12:35,880
Speaker 2: some mom.

2728
02:12:35,840 --> 02:12:37,480
Speaker 6: And dad in the chat that says she wanted to

2729
02:12:37,480 --> 02:12:41,800
Speaker 6: see the mug too. Damn my mom was a gangster.

2730
02:12:43,160 --> 02:12:45,240
Speaker 1: But all right, mama, you got the coffee. You can't

2731
02:12:45,280 --> 02:12:46,000
Speaker 1: take the mug too.

2732
02:12:46,040 --> 02:12:50,440
Speaker 2: Now your mama don't play you talk in She was like,

2733
02:12:50,480 --> 02:12:50,920
Speaker 2: what's in there?

2734
02:12:51,080 --> 02:12:53,040
Speaker 6: This is for the years, for the years of me

2735
02:12:53,400 --> 02:12:55,480
Speaker 6: sitting down. Every time I sit down, you asked me

2736
02:12:55,520 --> 02:12:56,120
Speaker 6: what I wanted.

2737
02:12:57,520 --> 02:13:00,720
Speaker 2: Adam right saying that ROO episode. Hello Ding, Karen. I

2738
02:13:00,720 --> 02:13:02,800
Speaker 2: love the episode with Corey and Vernon come on the show.

2739
02:13:03,120 --> 02:13:06,200
Speaker 2: Hearing them talk about touring Rolling Stones, Tobaco and dealing

2740
02:13:06,200 --> 02:13:08,880
Speaker 2: with technical difficulties. It was still a great show. If

2741
02:13:08,880 --> 02:13:12,040
Speaker 2: you haven't seen a Living Color go concert, go see them.

2742
02:13:12,160 --> 02:13:13,960
Speaker 2: I seen them three times. I want to go to

2743
02:13:14,280 --> 02:13:16,440
Speaker 2: for four and more. Love the show and.

2744
02:13:16,440 --> 02:13:20,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. Yes, absolutely, man, that's such a

2745
02:13:20,080 --> 02:13:24,280
Speaker 1: great show. And someone on Twitter was in the hashtag

2746
02:13:24,360 --> 02:13:26,280
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna be in Seattle when they there, but

2747
02:13:26,320 --> 02:13:27,520
Speaker 1: I wasn't even get a ticket.

2748
02:13:27,600 --> 02:13:29,640
Speaker 2: If y'all could just like help me get a ticket,

2749
02:13:29,680 --> 02:13:31,880
Speaker 2: I'll say, I'll just retweet it, said signal Booz. If

2750
02:13:31,920 --> 02:13:35,360
Speaker 2: you're a Living Color fan, they somehow helped his brother

2751
02:13:35,360 --> 02:13:38,040
Speaker 2: get a ticket. They want to go, Jeff says dere

2752
02:13:38,120 --> 02:13:43,120
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen have belated rod birthday, Rod plunkin spice

2753
02:13:43,200 --> 02:13:47,360
Speaker 2: wishes from Japan. Why not sweet potato spice out yet?

2754
02:13:47,400 --> 02:13:50,880
Speaker 2: I wonder just wanted to talk. On episode twenty seven

2755
02:13:51,000 --> 02:13:53,960
Speaker 2: sixty six, Got in a Box. So many great talks

2756
02:13:54,000 --> 02:13:55,960
Speaker 2: on this episode, but the fucking with us article on

2757
02:13:56,000 --> 02:13:58,080
Speaker 2: the doctor and his people getting hold by his neighbors

2758
02:13:58,080 --> 02:14:00,920
Speaker 2: in Queens, New York City had me I guess mad,

2759
02:14:00,920 --> 02:14:03,080
Speaker 2: and I wanted to speak on it. Forest Hills is

2760
02:14:03,080 --> 02:14:06,360
Speaker 2: an upscale part of Queens, but very diverse and not

2761
02:14:06,440 --> 02:14:08,520
Speaker 2: an area like other parts where we can run away

2762
02:14:08,520 --> 02:14:12,320
Speaker 2: from other black folks. Okay, it's interesting because I've heard

2763
02:14:12,680 --> 02:14:17,240
Speaker 2: already differing opinions, but I feel like, all right, but yeah, yeah,

2764
02:14:17,560 --> 02:14:21,360
Speaker 2: the sad and discussing thing is truth be told. So

2765
02:14:21,400 --> 02:14:23,880
Speaker 2: many people non native to the NYC have moved in, like

2766
02:14:23,920 --> 02:14:27,120
Speaker 2: in Brooklyn, and along with that have brought that racist bullshit.

2767
02:14:27,200 --> 02:14:28,440
Speaker 1: Yes, Queens is hell of racist.

2768
02:14:28,640 --> 02:14:30,600
Speaker 2: In nineteen eighty six of black men was beaten chased

2769
02:14:30,600 --> 02:14:33,000
Speaker 2: onto the highway killed by an oncoming car. And you

2770
02:14:33,080 --> 02:14:35,840
Speaker 2: know about Yousef Hawkins in Brooklyn being shot over a

2771
02:14:35,840 --> 02:14:38,120
Speaker 2: car in nineteen eighty nine, so many more things.

2772
02:14:38,120 --> 02:14:39,360
Speaker 1: But Forest Hill was a place we.

2773
02:14:39,320 --> 02:14:42,360
Speaker 2: Considered neutral territory for us to go without hassle. But

2774
02:14:42,840 --> 02:14:45,920
Speaker 2: maybe thirty years may have changed it. This shit is

2775
02:14:45,960 --> 02:14:48,480
Speaker 2: what Tannahasee Coast talked about, and one of the last

2776
02:14:48,520 --> 02:14:50,320
Speaker 2: chapters of Between the World and Me and You know

2777
02:14:50,400 --> 02:14:52,080
Speaker 2: it about the black family.

2778
02:14:52,800 --> 02:14:55,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, yeah, about the black.

2779
02:14:54,800 --> 02:14:57,520
Speaker 2: Family who thought they'd done everything right but the son

2780
02:14:57,640 --> 02:15:00,240
Speaker 2: was killed by a black Copit that the police over

2781
02:15:00,240 --> 02:15:02,320
Speaker 2: there are also showing they don't give a shit by

2782
02:15:02,320 --> 02:15:05,240
Speaker 2: ignoring to report fucking bastards. I wish I think, as

2783
02:15:05,280 --> 02:15:08,840
Speaker 2: he said, it always only takes one bad motherfucking day

2784
02:15:08,840 --> 02:15:11,520
Speaker 2: to ruin it for us all, for us to let

2785
02:15:11,560 --> 02:15:13,960
Speaker 2: us know that these racist fuckers are just as nasty

2786
02:15:13,960 --> 02:15:16,960
Speaker 2: and always and feel like our feelings don't matter. And y'all,

2787
02:15:17,040 --> 02:15:19,920
Speaker 2: y'all said, someone got a move after that. This shit

2788
02:15:20,200 --> 02:15:22,400
Speaker 2: and those basterds really picked the wrong people to fuck with,

2789
02:15:22,480 --> 02:15:24,840
Speaker 2: And I hope they sue their asses off, all right.

2790
02:15:24,960 --> 02:15:28,200
Speaker 1: Thanks and love Jeff in Japan, Thanks Jeff, Thank you.

2791
02:15:28,520 --> 02:15:29,560
Speaker 1: Keanu Wright Sin.

2792
02:15:31,000 --> 02:15:33,440
Speaker 2: I'm always so happy to hear Living Color on the

2793
02:15:33,440 --> 02:15:36,120
Speaker 2: show because they dropped so many gems about music. I

2794
02:15:36,240 --> 02:15:38,720
Speaker 2: grew with Rod about rejecting music our parents listened to

2795
02:15:38,760 --> 02:15:40,120
Speaker 2: and then circling back to it.

2796
02:15:40,400 --> 02:15:41,720
Speaker 1: My dad was a huge.

2797
02:15:41,440 --> 02:15:43,840
Speaker 2: Funk fan, so if he came home and wanted to

2798
02:15:43,840 --> 02:15:46,440
Speaker 2: blast Bootsy for three hours, the whole house had to

2799
02:15:46,440 --> 02:15:47,919
Speaker 2: listen to Boosy for three hours.

2800
02:15:48,200 --> 02:15:50,760
Speaker 1: He did instill musical curiosity in me.

2801
02:15:50,840 --> 02:15:54,040
Speaker 2: But I definitely found my way back to Boosy Parliament

2802
02:15:54,120 --> 02:15:57,120
Speaker 2: and everything he tried to hit me to, because honestly,

2803
02:15:57,360 --> 02:16:00,400
Speaker 2: it just really it was just really fucking great music.

2804
02:16:01,040 --> 02:16:02,880
Speaker 1: I even got him into some.

2805
02:16:02,800 --> 02:16:06,720
Speaker 2: Stuff he forgot about, like Betty Davis, like Hendrix and

2806
02:16:06,800 --> 02:16:09,000
Speaker 2: some other rock, but didn't play that as much. After

2807
02:16:09,000 --> 02:16:10,720
Speaker 2: listen to Corey and Vernon, I will be adding that

2808
02:16:10,760 --> 02:16:14,040
Speaker 2: to my catalog. Also, I have to admit I also

2809
02:16:14,200 --> 02:16:17,640
Speaker 2: giggled when y'all were talking about eating kangaroo. About fifteen

2810
02:16:17,800 --> 02:16:20,800
Speaker 2: or so years ago, my family was going away for Christmas.

2811
02:16:20,920 --> 02:16:23,800
Speaker 2: The big holiday dinner was a potluck, and my godmom,

2812
02:16:23,840 --> 02:16:26,240
Speaker 2: who was pretty adventurous when it comes to food, brought

2813
02:16:26,280 --> 02:16:27,160
Speaker 2: some ostrich.

2814
02:16:27,800 --> 02:16:29,920
Speaker 1: I was intrigued decided to try it. Tasted a kind

2815
02:16:29,960 --> 02:16:32,600
Speaker 1: of beefy. I had the same texture as pot ros.

2816
02:16:33,440 --> 02:16:35,640
Speaker 2: I can't say I'd ever eat it again, especially since

2817
02:16:35,720 --> 02:16:38,160
Speaker 2: I'm not sure the but what butcher she acquired it from?

2818
02:16:38,520 --> 02:16:41,600
Speaker 1: But did But I oh.

2819
02:16:42,080 --> 02:16:44,040
Speaker 2: I'm not sure if the butcher she acquired it from

2820
02:16:44,080 --> 02:16:45,760
Speaker 2: did so in the most ethical means.

2821
02:16:45,800 --> 02:16:48,119
Speaker 1: But I don't hate I didn't hate it. That's all

2822
02:16:48,160 --> 02:16:49,800
Speaker 1: I got. Love y'all, thank you.

2823
02:16:50,360 --> 02:16:52,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I try anything just about once, like I

2824
02:16:52,959 --> 02:16:55,520
Speaker 2: don't mind, Like I don't know what it would take

2825
02:16:55,560 --> 02:16:57,760
Speaker 2: for me to be completely like I will not try that,

2826
02:16:57,840 --> 02:17:00,800
Speaker 2: probably something that I thought was gross, like like, I

2827
02:17:00,879 --> 02:17:03,120
Speaker 2: don't think I would ever try s cargo. I just

2828
02:17:03,160 --> 02:17:05,240
Speaker 2: don't think there's ever gonna be like, I'm not that

2829
02:17:05,400 --> 02:17:07,640
Speaker 2: kind of curious. I think a snail looks too weird.

2830
02:17:07,920 --> 02:17:14,120
Speaker 1: Oh that snail? Okay, Yeah, but like, yeah, you Ostrich,

2831
02:17:14,160 --> 02:17:16,640
Speaker 1: I fucking I fuck a ostridch up, give me a

2832
02:17:16,840 --> 02:17:17,600
Speaker 1: I want to try it.

2833
02:17:18,360 --> 02:17:23,200
Speaker 2: What if it's good music segregation. In the game show Porn,

2834
02:17:23,280 --> 02:17:25,800
Speaker 2: this is John who says, good morning riding a Karen.

2835
02:17:25,800 --> 02:17:28,640
Speaker 2: Great episode with Vernon and Corey, always so much fun.

2836
02:17:28,680 --> 02:17:29,279
Speaker 1: In the early.

2837
02:17:29,160 --> 02:17:31,840
Speaker 2: Nineties, I remember them being interviewed on a Boston radio

2838
02:17:31,840 --> 02:17:34,039
Speaker 2: station and the DJ asked them if they like rap,

2839
02:17:34,280 --> 02:17:36,000
Speaker 2: and a tone of manner that clearly show he was

2840
02:17:36,000 --> 02:17:38,520
Speaker 2: expecting them to say no because they play rocking, especially

2841
02:17:38,520 --> 02:17:40,840
Speaker 2: at that time if you were in the rock part

2842
02:17:40,879 --> 02:17:42,920
Speaker 2: of that idemmy was that you had to shit on rap.

2843
02:17:43,000 --> 02:17:44,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember that.

2844
02:17:44,640 --> 02:17:46,879
Speaker 2: Time is like a I think it was one of

2845
02:17:46,879 --> 02:17:48,800
Speaker 2: the reasons as a kid, I kind of picked up

2846
02:17:48,800 --> 02:17:51,200
Speaker 2: on like, I don't think I want to be angry

2847
02:17:51,200 --> 02:17:54,560
Speaker 2: at them, like they're angry at me, you know, because

2848
02:17:54,720 --> 02:17:57,959
Speaker 2: I think what people don't remember unless you're old enough

2849
02:17:58,080 --> 02:18:01,680
Speaker 2: or don't know. At the time that rap was coming up,

2850
02:18:01,879 --> 02:18:04,480
Speaker 2: it was a lot of this is not music, this

2851
02:18:04,640 --> 02:18:10,520
Speaker 2: is not real inspected for someone my age. I'm a kid,

2852
02:18:10,680 --> 02:18:13,880
Speaker 2: very impressiable kid at the time. I glimbed onto that.

2853
02:18:14,000 --> 02:18:16,040
Speaker 2: And it's one of the reasons rap has such a

2854
02:18:16,240 --> 02:18:23,840
Speaker 2: like unifying animosity of authority is because it was considered

2855
02:18:24,160 --> 02:18:27,920
Speaker 2: to be the not music of music, right. And what

2856
02:18:28,040 --> 02:18:30,560
Speaker 2: I didn't know at the time was so was rock

2857
02:18:30,600 --> 02:18:34,120
Speaker 2: and roll at that Like rock and roll started out there,

2858
02:18:34,160 --> 02:18:36,640
Speaker 2: but it got as a rebellion. Yeah, and once it

2859
02:18:36,680 --> 02:18:40,720
Speaker 2: became mainstream and white people decided it was okay, then

2860
02:18:40,760 --> 02:18:43,160
Speaker 2: it becomes the standard and now it's like, well, part

2861
02:18:43,240 --> 02:18:46,400
Speaker 2: of being about rock is being against rap. But there

2862
02:18:46,480 --> 02:18:50,200
Speaker 2: was a lot of like rock and roll slash rap

2863
02:18:50,600 --> 02:18:52,320
Speaker 2: crossovers and stuff that were huge.

2864
02:18:52,400 --> 02:18:52,560
Speaker 8: You know.

2865
02:18:52,600 --> 02:18:55,359
Speaker 1: I still remember Public Enemy.

2866
02:18:56,840 --> 02:19:00,959
Speaker 2: Did that walk this Way song, and it was like, wow,

2867
02:19:01,040 --> 02:19:04,199
Speaker 2: look at this. This is a merging of the genres

2868
02:19:04,200 --> 02:19:07,160
Speaker 2: in a like a hey, we don't have to be

2869
02:19:07,200 --> 02:19:10,320
Speaker 2: against each other moment. You know, obviously iced team a

2870
02:19:10,440 --> 02:19:13,640
Speaker 2: cop killer and uh, like, yeah it was.

2871
02:19:13,959 --> 02:19:16,640
Speaker 1: I want to say Ron DMC and Eron Smith. Oh,

2872
02:19:16,680 --> 02:19:19,440
Speaker 1: I said public Enemy. Yeah it was run DMC. Polic

2873
02:19:19,480 --> 02:19:21,040
Speaker 1: in me had one too, though, but I forget what

2874
02:19:21,080 --> 02:19:25,480
Speaker 1: that was. Yes, I don't remember public enemies. I forget

2875
02:19:25,480 --> 02:19:26,160
Speaker 1: what public And.

2876
02:19:26,080 --> 02:19:28,320
Speaker 7: That sound was fucking huge it came out.

2877
02:19:28,560 --> 02:19:32,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, walk this Way was uh was one.

2878
02:19:31,920 --> 02:19:35,000
Speaker 2: Dem But yeah, it was seeing that kind of like

2879
02:19:36,240 --> 02:19:39,800
Speaker 2: blending of two of the genres that were supposed to

2880
02:19:39,840 --> 02:19:42,960
Speaker 2: be considered you know, taboo. It meant a lot at

2881
02:19:42,959 --> 02:19:48,800
Speaker 2: the time. Uh see, he says, of course he was

2882
02:19:48,800 --> 02:19:49,560
Speaker 2: completely surprised.

2883
02:19:49,560 --> 02:19:50,760
Speaker 1: They were like, oh, we love rap.

2884
02:19:51,000 --> 02:19:53,240
Speaker 2: But that gives a pretty good idea of how real

2885
02:19:53,320 --> 02:19:56,360
Speaker 2: that segregation between musical genres was, and to some insist

2886
02:19:56,400 --> 02:19:59,200
Speaker 2: still is. I played jazz with a lot of old

2887
02:19:59,240 --> 02:20:01,640
Speaker 2: white guys who ride themselves on how open minded they

2888
02:20:01,680 --> 02:20:03,640
Speaker 2: are about music, but at the subject of rapper hip

2889
02:20:03,640 --> 02:20:06,119
Speaker 2: hop comes up, I'm always like, oh, here we go.

2890
02:20:06,200 --> 02:20:09,240
Speaker 2: It's just it's just sad they have no idea what

2891
02:20:09,240 --> 02:20:11,560
Speaker 2: they are missing and how silly they look came in

2892
02:20:11,600 --> 02:20:13,600
Speaker 2: to be experts on music while they know nothing of

2893
02:20:13,640 --> 02:20:14,800
Speaker 2: the most dominant genre of.

2894
02:20:14,800 --> 02:20:15,879
Speaker 1: The past thirty years.

2895
02:20:16,320 --> 02:20:16,480
Speaker 5: Rod.

2896
02:20:16,640 --> 02:20:18,480
Speaker 2: Much as I love your idea for a glory hole

2897
02:20:18,480 --> 02:20:21,320
Speaker 2: style game show, it's already been done. No no, no, no, no,

2898
02:20:22,640 --> 02:20:25,080
Speaker 2: you're thinking a game show. I didn't say that. I

2899
02:20:25,120 --> 02:20:29,039
Speaker 2: said dating show. Totally different. There's a Japanese there's a

2900
02:20:29,120 --> 02:20:31,880
Speaker 2: Japanese fake game show where a person's genitals are exposed

2901
02:20:31,879 --> 02:20:34,440
Speaker 2: but their faces are hidden, and the contestant perform or

2902
02:20:34,560 --> 02:20:36,760
Speaker 2: or penetrative sex and try to guess who they are.

2903
02:20:36,959 --> 02:20:39,240
Speaker 2: And of course people behind the ware are or most

2904
02:20:39,320 --> 02:20:44,360
Speaker 2: likely pretend to be family members. Oh jaff never changed, lol,

2905
02:20:44,680 --> 02:20:45,320
Speaker 2: I mean, come up.

2906
02:20:45,360 --> 02:20:48,680
Speaker 1: First of all, don't disrespect me. I've seen those all right.

2907
02:20:49,360 --> 02:20:53,960
Speaker 1: I know about the Japanese poem where they do the

2908
02:20:54,000 --> 02:20:57,480
Speaker 1: fake glory hole and then it's a surprise that's your

2909
02:20:57,520 --> 02:20:59,120
Speaker 1: sister or whatever the fuck. It's very weird.

2910
02:20:59,520 --> 02:21:02,760
Speaker 2: But the point is that's a game show. I'm saying,

2911
02:21:02,800 --> 02:21:05,280
Speaker 2: a dating show like The Bachelor.

2912
02:21:05,680 --> 02:21:08,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what the key is to fine love,

2913
02:21:08,520 --> 02:21:10,520
Speaker 1: not to be like, oh did I really fuck my

2914
02:21:10,600 --> 02:21:12,600
Speaker 1: wife or was it her sister? No?

2915
02:21:12,600 --> 02:21:15,119
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, that's that's that's not what we do here.

2916
02:21:15,800 --> 02:21:19,560
Speaker 2: I wanted where you the you have sex first in

2917
02:21:19,640 --> 02:21:23,400
Speaker 2: the gloryhole. Then if the glory hole sex is good,

2918
02:21:24,040 --> 02:21:26,840
Speaker 2: you decide, am I gonna try to pursue a relationship

2919
02:21:26,840 --> 02:21:29,360
Speaker 2: with this person? That would be the whole show.

2920
02:21:30,200 --> 02:21:34,520
Speaker 1: That's it. How did these gloryhole relationships go? So? Thank

2921
02:21:34,560 --> 02:21:36,840
Speaker 1: you for your contribution, but you gotta understand the premise.

2922
02:21:38,360 --> 02:21:41,240
Speaker 1: Then later said that something was bringing noise. Yes, bring

2923
02:21:41,240 --> 02:21:41,760
Speaker 1: the noise.

2924
02:21:41,959 --> 02:21:44,680
Speaker 2: Yes, that ship was off the fucking chain, off the chain.

2925
02:21:45,040 --> 02:21:47,200
Speaker 2: And of course there's like tons of remixes Jay Z

2926
02:21:47,280 --> 02:21:54,320
Speaker 2: and Lincoln Park album, the remix to Slam by Onyx, Like,

2927
02:21:55,120 --> 02:21:57,080
Speaker 2: there's a lot of stuff. Yeah, a lot of a

2928
02:21:57,160 --> 02:22:00,520
Speaker 2: lot of stuff. Last thing is I did get something

2929
02:22:00,520 --> 02:22:00,960
Speaker 2: in the mail.

2930
02:22:01,080 --> 02:22:03,360
Speaker 1: I got a card for my birthday for my girl

2931
02:22:03,480 --> 02:22:04,520
Speaker 1: Aaron Yay.

2932
02:22:05,240 --> 02:22:10,160
Speaker 2: She's always dming me stuff on like Instagram and Facebook

2933
02:22:10,160 --> 02:22:14,360
Speaker 2: and stuff. Happy birthday, Rod, smiley face. I am wishing you.

2934
02:22:14,879 --> 02:22:17,240
Speaker 2: I'm wishing for you a wonderful day of celebration on

2935
02:22:17,280 --> 02:22:20,279
Speaker 2: Saturday and an amazing year to come. I am sending

2936
02:22:20,280 --> 02:22:22,040
Speaker 2: in all my best wishes to you and Karen, to

2937
02:22:22,080 --> 02:22:24,360
Speaker 2: all your loved ones. Thank you for all the joy

2938
02:22:24,400 --> 02:22:27,000
Speaker 2: and laughter you bring into this world.

2939
02:22:27,520 --> 02:22:30,720
Speaker 1: You bless so many lives. Enjoy your fresh.

2940
02:22:30,400 --> 02:22:33,920
Speaker 2: And sparkly New Year, Aaron, thank you, Eric, And I

2941
02:22:33,959 --> 02:22:36,440
Speaker 2: love that it has fall leaves on it, because y'all know,

2942
02:22:36,480 --> 02:22:38,960
Speaker 2: I'm a big fall I'm a big pumpkin spice fall,

2943
02:22:39,080 --> 02:22:40,440
Speaker 2: basic white woman of color.

2944
02:22:40,520 --> 02:22:42,600
Speaker 1: Bit this is your time of the year, so it's

2945
02:22:42,640 --> 02:22:45,800
Speaker 1: my fath and I appreciate it. All right, y'all, that's it.

2946
02:22:45,920 --> 02:22:50,039
Speaker 1: We'll talk to you throughout the week. I know, Tuesday

2947
02:22:50,760 --> 02:22:53,560
Speaker 1: we have Mike Kaplan coming on, yeah the Guests, so

2948
02:22:53,600 --> 02:22:56,520
Speaker 1: he'll be back and we'll play the rest of bot

2949
02:22:56,560 --> 02:22:59,080
Speaker 1: ear until next time. I love you.

2950
02:22:59,240 --> 02:22:59,480
Speaker 6: Why