1 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:04,560 Speaker 1: I was born to Duntee. It's the Donkey of the Dead, 2 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: Donkey of the Day, question, Devil. 3 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 2: Breakfast Club, the Evil Lab. 4 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 3: After that, going into Donkey to Day, you really are Hell, 5 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 3: that's wrong with you? 6 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: Bro? 7 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:29,319 Speaker 2: Did you see that he's a breach? I think that. 8 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 2: I don't think that you just took an ask when 9 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: I think you just took something. 10 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 3: Oh man, don't get the day for Tuesday, December twelfth, 11 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 3: go to seventeen year old Jevin Allen and his older brother, 12 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 3: twenty two year old Jared Allen, more so than Jarck 13 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 3: because Jevin is only seventeen, but actually the both of them. 14 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 2: Okay, but Jared, you twenty two, you're supposed to know. 15 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 3: A little bit more than Jevins, just a little bit more, 16 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 3: because we all know that the prefrontal cortex doesn't fully 17 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 3: mature until twenty five years old. 18 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 2: But here's the thing. Jevin is a basketball player. Okay. 19 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 2: He got benched by his coach. 20 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 3: His coach benched him because of his bad behavior toward 21 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 3: an opposing team player. I don't know what Jevin did 22 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 3: to the other player, but whatever he did warranted his 23 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 3: coach benching him. His coach thought it warranted of benching. 24 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 3: All right, cool, trust the coach, all right. The coach 25 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 3: is the coach for a reason. The coach is someone 26 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 3: who tells you what you don't want to hear, who 27 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 3: as you see what you don't want to see, so 28 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 3: you can be who you have always known you could be. 29 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 2: Well, Jevin didn't see it that way. 30 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 3: Neither did his family, because when the team returned back 31 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 3: to the high school, Jevin and his family were waiting 32 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 3: in the parking lot for the coach, and this happened. 33 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 2: Let's go to KHOU eleven for the report. Police. 34 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 4: A Willis High School basketball player is out on bond, 35 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 4: accused of attacking his coach. According to the Montgomery County 36 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 4: Sheriff's Office, seventeen year old Jevin Allen was upset about 37 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 4: being benched during Tuesday night's game against Conroe. He and 38 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 4: his older brother Jerk are accused of then waiting for 39 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 4: the coach outside the school, then attacking him in the 40 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 4: parking lot. Both are charged with a public servant Willis 41 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 4: id telling us the coach is recovering well tonight. The 42 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 4: district goes on to say they determine the student's address 43 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 4: was no longer valid so he has been withdrawn from 44 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 4: the district and they are deeply saddened by this incident 45 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 4: and will not tolerate this behavior from students. 46 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 3: And they shouldn't tolerate it. Okay, everybody can't be crazy. 47 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 3: You and the brother. I expect the seventeen year old 48 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 3: to bug out. I expect the seventeen year old to 49 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,519 Speaker 3: have low emotional IQ. But where are the adults, Where 50 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 3: are the ogs? Where are the older people in the 51 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 3: family that say, no, Gevin, the coach is right, even 52 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 3: if you don't think the coach is right, knowing you 53 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 3: can't resort the violence. Jarck, you're twenty two years old. 54 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 3: You gotta tell your little brother you can't resort the 55 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 3: violence just because he didn't get his way. This sense 56 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:49,519 Speaker 3: of entitlement that exists amongst people in this era is 57 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 3: insane to me. And the fact that nobody is telling 58 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 3: this seventeen year olds this isn't the way to handle this, 59 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 3: and instead they're saying, yeah, you right, we gonna whip 60 00:02:58,000 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 3: his ass. 61 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 2: With you is insane to me. Now know, twenty two 62 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 2: ain't th old. 63 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 3: This was damn Also, Allan, you know Allen's since it's 64 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 3: Jevin and Jack tell me what college is Gevin gonna 65 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 3: get in. What college team is gonna want Jevin to 66 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 3: play for them when they know this is what could 67 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:16,079 Speaker 3: potentially happen when things don't go his way. Just because 68 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 3: he didn't get his way, you know, him and his 69 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 3: brother decided to whip the coaches ass not to mention. 70 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 3: Now you have an assault on a public servant charge 71 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 3: on your record, which is also gonna make your life 72 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 3: more difficult, all because you made an emotional decision. This 73 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 3: is why I don't understand when men talk about women. 74 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 3: Women don't know how to control their emotions. Humans don't 75 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 3: know how to control their emotions. Okay, By the way, 76 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 3: this is why social and emotional learning needs to be 77 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 3: taught in schools kindergarten through twelve grade. Because Jevin and 78 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 3: Jack absolutely needed to exercise emotional control. Take a deep 79 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 3: breath instead of reacting right away, okay, whether positive or negative. 80 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 3: Give yourself a moment to process what happened. Okay, find 81 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 3: out what you're feeling. Replace negative thoughts, channel your energy, 82 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 3: explore your emotions. There is a plesthor are things you 83 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 3: can do before you resort to violence. But my biggest 84 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 3: issue in this situation is nobody is leading this young man? 85 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 3: Are young men? Correctly, Jack, you're the big brother. You're 86 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 3: not an og by any means. I'm forty five, I 87 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 3: was born in nineteen hundred and seventy eight. For to 88 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 3: me you a baby. But this news report said Jevins' 89 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 3: family was in the parking lot. 90 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 2: I don't know. 91 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 3: I just know that there was nobody there to tell 92 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 3: these young men. This is not the move old men 93 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 3: for counsel, young men for war. But when no counsel 94 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 3: is being provided by the older folks, what are these 95 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 3: young people. 96 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 2: To do but go to war? 97 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 3: Because the biggest war they fighting is with themselves. Please 98 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 3: give Jevin Allen and Jack Allen the sweet sounds of 99 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 3: the Hamiltons. 100 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 2: Oh no, you are the dog gee. 101 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: Of the day, the dogee all the day. 102 00:04:55,520 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 3: Ye president of the faul Lives Madic Committee pulled up 103 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 3: his stats for the twenty three to twenty four season. 104 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: Fifteen points per game, three. 105 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 3: Assists, three steals, games played one Okay, that's a pretty. 106 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 2: A decent stat line for one game. 107 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 3: Paid one season stat line for one game, Young Jevin, 108 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 3: all right, okay, but you got to learn some emotional intelligence. Okay, 109 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 3: your emotional high IQ have to be way higher than 110 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 3: that because in life, things aren't going to go your 111 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:31,359 Speaker 3: way okay all the time. 112 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 2: And if the. 113 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 3: Coach benched you because you made a poor decision, the 114 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 3: coach knew exactly what he was doing, that just gives 115 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 3: you an opportunity to think about, you know, the decisions 116 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 3: you make moving forward. If you indeed want to play now, 117 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 3: you ain't playing for nobody because you made an even 118 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 3: worse decision after the coach bitched you for making a 119 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 3: poor decision. Destiny is not a matter of chance as 120 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 3: a matter of choice. Always remember that. 121 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 2: But did the coach fight back? They said people came 122 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 2: to help out, help him out. He would have got 123 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 2: in trouble if you for that. 124 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 3: I don't know no self defense because he's a twenty 125 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 3: two year old brother. He and in school. He get 126 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 3: his ass whip. Look at your shot and the right 127 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 3: coach right, and then Andy was in Texas looking in 128 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 3: your shot. 129 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 2: All right, Well, thank you for that dog in to day. 130 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 5: Now, let's open up the phone lines eight hundred five 131 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 5: eight five one oh five one. We're asking would y'all 132 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 5: delete social media for a healthy relationship? That is the 133 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 5: question eight hundred five eight five one. 134 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,039 Speaker 2: Folationship with who yourself, your spouse, with your girl man 135 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:31,839 Speaker 2: or your spouse. It doesn't matter who you're into. 136 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 5: A lot of people feel like social media breaks relationships up. 137 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think everybody need to delete their social media 138 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 3: if you don't have a healthy relationship with yourself, because 139 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 3: that's the that's the relationship I see people ruin in 140 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 3: the most relationship they have with themselves. 141 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,919 Speaker 5: That is the question where y'all delete your social media 142 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 5: for a healthy relationship. Let's discuss it's the breakfast club. 143 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 5: Good morning, the breakfast club.