Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to Ryan.
Speaker 1: On Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: Everybody's talking about this new way of speed dating in
Speaker 3: La Sistany.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it is ice bath speed dating.
Speaker 3: I would do it if I were single looking a date.
Speaker 3: Why not? How do you know what I wouldn't.
Speaker 5: Be because you're always on the air talking about how
Speaker 5: you don't even want to eat in your bathing suit.
Speaker 2: You're not going to be an ice bath.
Speaker 5: Yeah, on a first date in your bathing suit.
Speaker 2: Didn't think about the lighting.
Speaker 5: Exactly and my cold things.
Speaker 2: Oh it's not a good look. No, it's not a
Speaker 2: great first impression.
Speaker 4: It's fine.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, I just.
Speaker 3: Wow, you've talked to me out of it, and I
Speaker 3: eve even heard the story, Sisty.
Speaker 2: Sorry, I want to burst your bubble.
Speaker 6: Everyone is all into ice plunging ice baths.
Speaker 2: I mean, if another person says to me, do you
Speaker 2: cold plunge?
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't to plunge?
Speaker 2: Do I cold plunge? Do you yahoo?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Apparently it's much better to do with somebody else because
Speaker 6: you can chit chat and it'll, you know, make the
Speaker 6: time go by faster.
Speaker 2: Oh interesting, And a DJ plays music right, uh huh.
Speaker 6: And so they created a speed dating service out of it,
Speaker 6: and just recently more than one hundred people participated in
Speaker 6: this event. It was called ice past La and it
Speaker 6: was done right here in Venice. And they have been
Speaker 6: doing these ice bath events more and more to kind
Speaker 6: of encourage people to meet outside of bars and drinking
Speaker 6: in general and focus more on health.
Speaker 4: And cold plunging is all the rage right now.
Speaker 2: I like it and.
Speaker 6: It's kind of interesting because you what it kind of
Speaker 6: forces you to do is focus on the conversation.
Speaker 3: Because you're trying to distract yourself from feeling what you're feeling.
Speaker 3: And there's quite an ice breaking bond no pun intended,
Speaker 3: that happens over this too. Tops ice tobs, speed dating
Speaker 3: and ice tubs made.
Speaker 4: For you, so you really don't have any time to waste.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 6: Sometimes you're speed and you're like, oh, so like, let
Speaker 6: me think of what I should They just.
Speaker 4: Like you're you're so cold. You get right down to it.
Speaker 6: You kind of just be like what does love mean
Speaker 6: to you? Yeah, it's like what do you feel most alive?
Speaker 6: What makes you feel most alive? What would constitute a
Speaker 6: perfect day for you? So the finages that get straight
Speaker 6: to like the questions that matter to you.
Speaker 3: But the fact that you came to an ice bath
Speaker 3: DJ party says cool. Yes, I think it says cool
Speaker 3: like you kind of you don't give it, you know
Speaker 3: what you're say you know what, I'm just going to
Speaker 3: go for it.
Speaker 7: Yes.
Speaker 6: I think it's a lot of laid bad, laid back
Speaker 6: people and could be interesting.
Speaker 3: It's the latest speed dating trend here in LA. Let's
Speaker 3: get to Claire here on the phones one eight hundred
Speaker 3: and five two one one or two seven and Culver City, Claire,
Speaker 3: How are you?
Speaker 8: I'm doing all right?
Speaker 2: Thanks, I was just in Culver City yesterday.
Speaker 9: Wow.
Speaker 3: So many great places to sit outside and have something
Speaker 3: to eat there.
Speaker 10: Oh, it's a great place for restaurants.
Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite?
Speaker 8: No, they're actually a couple friend restaurants there that I
Speaker 8: really like.
Speaker 3: I saw one called was it bistro or something? I
Speaker 3: drove past that. Actually I saw a bunch of people
Speaker 3: sitting outside.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: You like muscles and pumpfreats.
Speaker 8: I love them so much.
Speaker 3: I like to dip my fries in the pump free
Speaker 3: and my pumpfreat's in the muscle sauce.
Speaker 10: Oh you have to.
Speaker 9: It's so good.
Speaker 8: It's like that wine and cream butter sauce.
Speaker 11: So good.
Speaker 2: Claire, did you call to talk about food? This is fantastic.
Speaker 2: I'm so happy.
Speaker 10: I'd be happy too, But you.
Speaker 3: Have another issue. I am told by Mark, our producer,
Speaker 3: who wants me to move on. Yeah, God, Claire, what
Speaker 3: what happened?
Speaker 8: Lightly less fun?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 10: So okay.
Speaker 8: I have this coworker who started acting super weird around me,
Speaker 8: and I wasn't sure why, so I talked to one
Speaker 8: of our other colleagues about it, Like I didn't, you know,
Speaker 8: I didn't want to say something directly to my coworker
Speaker 8: who was acting weird, so I talked to someone else
Speaker 8: and they said, and I know this sounds to me,
Speaker 8: this sounds so petty, but I really want your take.
Speaker 8: The coworker who was acting salty is apparently bitter because
Speaker 8: she sees that I watch her tiktoks but I don't
Speaker 8: like them, if that makes sense. Like on TikTok you
Speaker 8: can see who watches your videos, but also you know
Speaker 8: that way, she can see that I've watched them, but
Speaker 8: I haven't really liked that. Yeah, and she's just like
Speaker 8: I guess she's trying to be an influencer. Her tiktoks
Speaker 8: are pretty successful, Like, she gets a lot of views
Speaker 8: and a lot of engagements on them.
Speaker 9: So likes are a huge deal to her.
Speaker 8: But now I don't know what to do about it,
Speaker 8: because like, if I confront her to try to make
Speaker 8: things right, that seems almost kind.
Speaker 10: Of over the top.
Speaker 8: But maybe I could like fix my TikTok settings so
Speaker 8: she can't see that I'm watching.
Speaker 3: Her videos or issue, and I like, I get it,
Speaker 3: like it is an issue, and the fact that it
Speaker 3: is is so petty to me.
Speaker 5: But why don't I just like her tiktoks?
Speaker 2: Then she doesn't like them?
Speaker 5: Well why not?
Speaker 2: Why not?
Speaker 8: I just don't like, I don't. I don't really, I
Speaker 8: don't know. I don't even think about it. I don't
Speaker 8: typically like videos. I just, you know, I watch them
Speaker 8: and then I move on.
Speaker 4: I've never really double tippy either. I kind of just
Speaker 4: like so mean I sometimes do, but I forget not mean.
Speaker 2: It's like she has a life.
Speaker 5: Well, okay, she's clear she's watching them, so she's.
Speaker 3: Already Anything that you did watch that struck you as
Speaker 3: entertaining that your coworker posted on TikTok.
Speaker 8: Yeah occasionally, sure, But I mean, I guess I just
Speaker 8: follow the same kind of procedure with her page that
Speaker 8: I do for any other page, which is I just
Speaker 8: I'm like, oh hah, you know that was like cute
Speaker 8: or funnier, informative or whatever, and then I just move on.
Speaker 8: I've never I guess I've never really thought about how
Speaker 8: it might affect the person who posts the content, whether
Speaker 8: I like their videos or not.
Speaker 3: Well, I guess there's two ways to deal with this.
Speaker 3: One who cares what she thinks about you liking the
Speaker 3: videos or not? All right, and just move on because
Speaker 3: it is kind of patty. Or two, just start liking
Speaker 3: the videos whether you like them or not, move on
Speaker 3: not if you hear from again.
Speaker 9: I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 8: I mean that seems kind of arbitrary to me. But
Speaker 8: also I work with this person, so I don't want
Speaker 8: things to be weird.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and like every eighth one, Yeah, maybe just don't
Speaker 6: like her or there, even if you don't mean it,
Speaker 6: to keep the peace and not create any sort of awkwardness.
Speaker 2: If it means again.
Speaker 5: To your coworker and you don't care, why wouldn't you
Speaker 5: do it?
Speaker 4: Because it's not her truth.
Speaker 5: Oh my yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 8: I've never thought about it before. I don't like feeling
Speaker 8: pressured into it just so that this one girl won't
Speaker 8: be mad at me, you know, like you know what
Speaker 8: I mean, And then.
Speaker 2: It's not really here's the question.
Speaker 3: Would you rather feel not pressured and just move on
Speaker 3: and potentially create a little awkwardness at work or forget
Speaker 3: about the fact that you don't care and you're a
Speaker 3: little pressured into liking them, but have no awkwardness at work.
Speaker 2: Which one's better for you?
Speaker 8: I mean, obviously I'd prefer not to have awkwardness at work.
Speaker 8: And if it just takes you know, doing a little
Speaker 8: click click here and there, I guess that's something I
Speaker 8: could look into.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I don't like this stuff. It'sitting tiny
Speaker 3: post on time, you know, but I do it to.
Speaker 2: Keep the peace.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can tell.
Speaker 2: Claire thank you, good luck. I think we have a
Speaker 2: path there.
Speaker 3: But also, like, let's examine this cowork who cares so
Speaker 3: much about whether or not Claire's liking or TikTok totally right,
Speaker 3: col gl not yl gl right. I think I'm not
Speaker 3: good at those. Yeah, I don't even know if l
Speaker 3: OL's laugh out loud or lots of love.
Speaker 6: I don't ever lots of love never.
Speaker 2: How do y'all know? Oh gosh, Melissa in Long Beach,
Speaker 2: how are you?
Speaker 12: Hi?
Speaker 10: Good?
Speaker 11: How are you?
Speaker 2: I'm doing great? Thanks? So you're calling about your boss?
Speaker 2: Your boss is d ming somebody? Yeah, yeah, what's happened?
Speaker 10: Okay? So I work for this guy. I'm I'm not
Speaker 10: his personal assistant, but I do a lot for him
Speaker 10: and some of the other bosses at my company, Like
Speaker 10: I handle social media and you know what I else
Speaker 10: they need. And so I've gotten to know him really well,
Speaker 10: and I've got to know his girlfriend really well. We
Speaker 10: don't hang out or anything, but like we text each other,
Speaker 10: you know, like follow each other. She's really cool. Anyway,
Speaker 10: I was working on socials and I noticed that he
Speaker 10: is using the company's business account to DM his X
Speaker 10: and I knew her too, but not as well. I
Speaker 10: didn't read that much of it because, like you to
Speaker 10: be crossing a line. The messages just looked really flirty.
Speaker 10: And my question is, like, do I tell his girlfriend
Speaker 10: what's going on? Do I keep my mouth shut? And
Speaker 10: I mean, I don't even know how to do it.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 3: I mean if you so, one thing you could do
Speaker 3: is look the other way. One thing you could do
Speaker 3: is think about if you do tell her, how it
Speaker 3: could possibly go, Like, how's it going to if you
Speaker 3: do tell it, you feel like you should how's that
Speaker 3: going to go?
Speaker 2: Then?
Speaker 3: With your job and where do you feel like your
Speaker 3: priority is? Is it in you know, being a good
Speaker 3: almost friend to his girlfriend to let her know or
Speaker 3: do you want that? I mean, I don't know if
Speaker 3: you'd lose your job, but it would probably create some tension,
Speaker 3: would definitely. Sysney thinks just stay out of it. It's
Speaker 3: not your lane. Don't don't look.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 4: It's complicated when right.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm really struggling with it.
Speaker 13: But you can't do it as yourself anymous anonymous, No,
Speaker 13: it couldn't be anonymous because, like the thing is, I
Speaker 13: am one of the only.
Speaker 10: Other people who has access to the company Instagram, so
Speaker 10: like it would be obvious it was me, you know.
Speaker 3: I mean my view is this usually rears its head
Speaker 3: in a little bit of time anyway, So maybe you
Speaker 3: just take a beat and let this play out for
Speaker 3: a second. It helps, It helps to get karma steps
Speaker 3: in and this thing rears its head the natural way,
Speaker 3: versus you getting in the middle of it because it
Speaker 3: is such a it's a tricky thing because like doing
Speaker 3: the right thing might be to tell, but then that
Speaker 3: might compromise.
Speaker 2: Your work a little bit.
Speaker 4: I think so too.
Speaker 3: So I don't know that there's a perfect solution here, Melissa,
Speaker 3: Oh Man.
Speaker 10: I know, I feel the same. I just I'm so
Speaker 10: struggling with it. I really like working for this company.
Speaker 10: He's a great boss as a boss. It's just like
Speaker 10: I feel like, you know, like girl code, or I
Speaker 10: just feel like a bad person knowing.
Speaker 3: It's also professional versus personal, Like it's that's personal, right,
Speaker 3: even though I know he's on its cap and he's
Speaker 3: on the company platform. All right, let's just go around
Speaker 3: the room, Tony, what would you do, oh teller? What
Speaker 3: about your job?
Speaker 5: I'd get to that later.
Speaker 2: Sisney, what would you do?
Speaker 4: I stay out of it. You don't know this other person.
Speaker 6: You don't know that you don't you're gonna get in
Speaker 6: the middle of all of this mess.
Speaker 4: You don't know how it ended beforehand.
Speaker 2: No, what would you do?
Speaker 8: I feel like I'd have to mention it.
Speaker 2: Jen, what would you do?
Speaker 3: I would have to mention that, Melissa, don't worry about
Speaker 3: fifteen other people here.
Speaker 2: What would you do?
Speaker 6: I feel like if I was close to his current girlfriend,
Speaker 6: I would mention it.
Speaker 3: And if I, yeah, looks like we have a consensus here,
Speaker 3: U tubbs, what would you do? He's got to turn
Speaker 3: his mic on, hold on, liss say it wasn't his
Speaker 3: camera ready as everybody else.
Speaker 4: He's putting on his lip gloss, I would stay out
Speaker 4: of it.
Speaker 2: Oh, Melissa, this is no help at all at all.
Speaker 3: Do you know the good person would tell her, and
Speaker 3: good smart smart person stay Yeah, so good luck?
Speaker 4: Oh it's so hard.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, welcome, well, thanks and hung up. You guys suck.
Speaker 3: Thanks a lot, you guys.
Speaker 6: I guess it's different if she knows the girlfriend.
Speaker 3: I don't like scenarios like that because I that's it.
Speaker 3: There's no solution there there.
Speaker 6: If she knows the current girlfriend, and then that changes
Speaker 6: things for me. But if I don't know them, then
Speaker 6: I'm just like, I don't know. You guys, y'all are messy.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, everybody else in the back room would.
Speaker 4: Tell her keep your mess over there.
Speaker 2: Every day signature at morning act this time?
Speaker 3: Could you have anything but something that you could take
Speaker 3: with you old day and remember and share it.
Speaker 2: Any ideas.
Speaker 3: Also to tell people this is the first thing you
Speaker 3: should do when you get into the hotel room. They say,
Speaker 3: flush the toilet.
Speaker 2: Oh, I want to know why, Well, flush the toilet
Speaker 2: they since no one's been in the room for a while.
Speaker 3: The toilet bowl is a perfect hiding spot for spiders
Speaker 3: and insects. Now, you don't want to be seated and
Speaker 3: have one of those you know show themselves.
Speaker 2: That can that can cause a surprise.
Speaker 3: That is so terrifying when you get in and you
Speaker 3: throw your toilet trees down or your stuff in the bathroom.
Speaker 2: Just walk over and flush the toilet.
Speaker 5: I mean, that's not what I do first ever.
Speaker 4: But why stop there?
Speaker 5: I saw the remote?
Speaker 2: You saw the remote? Do you stop there?
Speaker 4: It's like then I saw everything else.
Speaker 3: I'm up the door knobs, about the countertop, how about
Speaker 3: the sheets?
Speaker 2: And throw pillow.
Speaker 3: A quote for you guys, Please be weird, be random,
Speaker 3: be who you are, because you never know who would
Speaker 3: love the person you hide.
Speaker 5: Oh that's so, and that is true.
Speaker 4: Be yourself.
Speaker 2: Be random. Random. Actually, let's be random today.
Speaker 5: Let's be weird.
Speaker 2: Let's be fun. Yeah, let's be random and weird.
Speaker 5: Let's be us, Let's be beautiful.
Speaker 2: FM headlines with sin Well.
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Speaker 1: On air, Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 3: Cicity has a story about how we can extend the
Speaker 3: life of our best friends dogs.
Speaker 6: Yay, scientists, we have them to think for this.
Speaker 2: What is it? What's the story?
Speaker 4: Apparently it's a.
Speaker 6: Medication designed to extend the lifespan of dogs. The drug
Speaker 6: currently is called loy zero zero one, so I don't
Speaker 6: think it has like a fancy name. Yet, but it's
Speaker 6: not available to pet owners. They're hoping that it will
Speaker 6: be available in a couple of years. They're saying twenty
Speaker 6: twenty six. But here's what we do know.
Speaker 2: It Dogs two.
Speaker 6: It is specifically designed for large adult dogs, who generally
Speaker 6: have a shorter lifespan than small dogs. So it's funny,
Speaker 6: you know, like smaller dogs tend to live longer. I mean, like,
Speaker 6: look at my dogs. She's seven pounds and she's fifteen
Speaker 6: years old, and it's kind of shows the.
Speaker 3: Same with same with people. Really, I don't know, but
Speaker 3: I want to tell myself that.
Speaker 1: You never.
Speaker 2: That's funny.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 6: So the drug is set to work by interacting with
Speaker 6: I guess insulin levels and growth factors in the dog,
Speaker 6: and it would be acting as an injectable.
Speaker 4: So this is kind of like the crazy part.
Speaker 6: So it's not like a pill, and it's not food
Speaker 6: that you would give the dog.
Speaker 4: You would have to take your dog to the vet and.
Speaker 6: They would have to inject your dog every three to
Speaker 6: six months, which I think is kind of wild, but
Speaker 6: it would make it so that they would live longer.
Speaker 4: So you have to make the choice. I'm a songer
Speaker 4: that we don't know yet.
Speaker 6: This is all like such early stages. It's not even
Speaker 6: approved by the FDA.
Speaker 3: So if this is something that's on the horizon, you
Speaker 3: think it's approved and we'll know more as the data
Speaker 3: comes in about how much it could add. But you
Speaker 3: want healthy I want healthy years for George exactly. And
Speaker 3: it's just medium big though, right, there's not big, she's right, right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think she would.
Speaker 6: She would qualify as a large dog though in this
Speaker 6: case she's not a great Dane, but she would qualify
Speaker 6: as a large dog.
Speaker 4: But the side effects.
Speaker 6: That I was reading up on this right now, they're
Speaker 6: saying that it's mild.
Speaker 4: To temporary stomach distress. So that's the.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 5: That means, yeah, that sounds.
Speaker 3: Study some Lloyd double over a little further before we
Speaker 3: inject our dog every twenty minutes.
Speaker 5: Good progress.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: They might finger it all.
Speaker 3: Out that these are the things that are focused for
Speaker 3: our friends, our best friends.
Speaker 4: But how wild could this be? What if it actually expands?
Speaker 4: What if it doubles their life?
Speaker 2: Like, oh my gosh, that's a that's a life changer.
Speaker 2: I'll retire.
Speaker 4: I think so too.
Speaker 2: That's a life changer.
Speaker 4: Right, do you see what Paris Hilton did.
Speaker 3: So she's done to me things. Yeah, like what what
Speaker 3: are you talking about? She she had a baby.
Speaker 5: She's well, she lost her teacup.
Speaker 6: One of her teacups either ran away or like whatever,
Speaker 6: got lost. But before that, her dog, her teacup dog,
Speaker 6: it was like a baby. It was like her princess.
Speaker 6: I forgot the name.
Speaker 4: She went missing for a really long time.
Speaker 6: But before that, I guess she got like the DNA
Speaker 6: of the dog and had it cloned.
Speaker 4: So it's crazy stuff.
Speaker 6: But the rebuilt it, rebuilt her exact dog and made
Speaker 6: two of them, so a boy and a girl, and
Speaker 6: it's like, looks exactly like her old dog.
Speaker 4: It's crazy, but it makes her happy. So it's all
Speaker 4: in her reality show, which I'm obsessed with on Peacock.
Speaker 4: It's the only reason I have Peacock.
Speaker 6: It's like the only reason I pay for Peacock is
Speaker 6: her reality.
Speaker 3: Show that Peacock wants. They wanted to suck in with
Speaker 3: the show and they did it. Good job, Peacock.
Speaker 1: Yeah on air with Ryan Seacrest, So honored.
Speaker 3: Tany and Robbie asked me to officiate them at their
Speaker 3: wedding TBD date and location, TBD size scale. Uh, now,
Speaker 3: what are you going to serve for food?
Speaker 5: If they get there?
Speaker 2: I think you should do fun food.
Speaker 5: Pizza, pizza a sudden.
Speaker 4: He's your wedding bladder.
Speaker 3: By the way, if you want, I'm happy to talk
Speaker 3: with the wedding planner. I'm good at this stuff. I'm
Speaker 3: good at programming.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you are pretty good at programming. Honestly, I have
Speaker 5: not given the food is not The food is not.
Speaker 2: No, it is for us.
Speaker 5: It is a priority, but it's not at the forefront.
Speaker 3: Okay, well, think about all the people we know in
Speaker 3: LA if you do it here, Yeah, and do something cool.
Speaker 5: Gluten free pizza for sure.
Speaker 2: Oh you have to. You can't have gluten on your
Speaker 2: wedding either, No, can't have gluten.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I get like very tasty gluten free stuff for everyone.
Speaker 3: Food trucks, food trucks. Okay, so what's the reason we're here. Yes,
Speaker 3: you have some breaking news.
Speaker 5: Go ahead, No, it's not breaking news.
Speaker 2: But you're making some progress with the planning.
Speaker 5: I have a date. Nope, what I'm going to try
Speaker 5: on wedding dresses this month?
Speaker 2: Gosh, I got into a exciting.
Speaker 5: I know, because I didn't think that that should be
Speaker 5: something that I do really early on. But a girlfriend
Speaker 5: of mine said that it can take up to ten
Speaker 5: months to get your wedding dress. So then I really
Speaker 5: just panicked.
Speaker 2: That's ten months because that's the end of the year.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, don't get it done when you were thinking about it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I guess that's not necessarily the case
Speaker 5: for you.
Speaker 2: Think dress? Are you thinking traditional wedding dress?
Speaker 4: What does that mean to you?
Speaker 9: Ryan? Yeah?
Speaker 5: What does that mean?
Speaker 3: Well, I've only seen a couple, and the ones i've
Speaker 3: seen have that long tail.
Speaker 2: Yeah the train. Yeah, no, the long thing in the
Speaker 2: back of the train. Thank you.
Speaker 3: I called it the train, and it's got to be
Speaker 3: picked up by it tail.
Speaker 2: I had worked there.
Speaker 3: I had to get worked my way up to it
Speaker 3: and that thing, and it's white and very beautiful.
Speaker 2: But I've seen it in every movie kind of.
Speaker 5: Look yeah, kind of like the princess, like a big
Speaker 5: poofy bottom.
Speaker 4: You want a princess.
Speaker 5: I don't think so. I don't think it's a style.
Speaker 5: I think, if anything, I like a Mermaid style.
Speaker 4: Oh Mermaid.
Speaker 5: So it kind of like goes down tighter on your ange,
Speaker 5: just have a train, yeah, probably, mm hmmm.
Speaker 4: And then you can pin it when you dance later.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'd pin it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's you bustle it.
Speaker 2: You bustle your train to dance.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because otherwise it's Is this one of those things
Speaker 3: where you go and you have a glass champagne while
Speaker 3: you do it?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah.
Speaker 2: Is this one of the things where the ordainer needs
Speaker 2: to be there? No, you do not have to be
Speaker 2: just Robbie, go go.
Speaker 5: We can't see it.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's right, bad look, I know.
Speaker 5: But you know what's so crazy is I think thinking
Speaker 5: about that, I'm going to want to show him. I'm
Speaker 5: gonna want to send.
Speaker 2: You can't see it's bad luck.
Speaker 5: Like I'm gonna want to go home and be like this,
Speaker 5: there's the.
Speaker 2: Most important dress of your life and you can't see it.
Speaker 6: But because the moment then he does see it, that
Speaker 6: day is going to be so.
Speaker 4: Much more special.
Speaker 3: To get you a glass display box, you're gonna put
Speaker 3: it well lit, You're gonna put it in there.
Speaker 2: He's going to keep it every day after like a
Speaker 2: museum jesuit. Every day. Yeah, no, advent calendar. Every day
Speaker 2: goes by.
Speaker 6: It's really yeah, like anybody's I feel like anybody who
Speaker 6: does that ends up geting divorced later in life.
Speaker 2: Don't do that? Who would know?
Speaker 4: I've watched it on my girl Housewives.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's not reality act. I'm a good wedding programmer.
Speaker 4: That's not weddy.
Speaker 3: Don't you remember my fortieth birthday? That was a program perfectly?
Speaker 3: It was a wine selling.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, can you can those chic uh yeah?
Speaker 2: Why don't you point seven? Jim?
Speaker 3: It's time for Ryan's roses. Here we go, so Daisy
Speaker 3: writes to us Ciciny and Tanya. Dear Ryan in Cicany,
Speaker 3: I'm ninety percent sure my husband is cheating on me,
Speaker 3: but before I throw our whole marriage away, I need
Speaker 3: your help filling in the extra ten percent.
Speaker 2: She says.
Speaker 3: Basically, one night he ran back to work and took
Speaker 3: my phone by accident, he got a text from a
Speaker 3: woman saying, did your wife let you leave yet?
Speaker 2: WHOA.
Speaker 3: Now that may not mean the relationship, That may just
Speaker 3: mean to go to meeting, but lett is not a
Speaker 3: great word for someone else to t.
Speaker 6: This goes to show that he's speaking about her, and
Speaker 6: in a.
Speaker 3: Way it's not Yeah, it's not respectful. So Daisy, thanks
Speaker 3: for coming on. We're gonna get to the call in
Speaker 3: a second. One thing I just want to clear up here,
Speaker 3: what is your ninety percent assurance?
Speaker 9: Well, over the past few months, my husband's gotten into
Speaker 9: this habit of like forgetting something at work and having
Speaker 9: to run back to the office. And I'm talking this
Speaker 9: happens two to three times a week at least.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm connecting, don So you think he's running back
Speaker 3: to see the person ended up texting you when she
Speaker 3: thought he was on his way to see her again.
Speaker 2: But you had his phone right.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 4: How long has he gone?
Speaker 9: You know, he's gone for like forty five minutes to
Speaker 9: an hour, so I I don't know. He only works
Speaker 9: like ten minutes from the house, so I'm always just
Speaker 9: assuming it's a lot more than what it was. But
Speaker 9: it's just something wasn't right this time.
Speaker 2: How long has he been doing this?
Speaker 9: This has been happening for a while now, at least
Speaker 9: like a month.
Speaker 3: Okay, So.
Speaker 2: The gist here Daisy on Hold in Highland Park.
Speaker 3: Her husband has been sneaking off to work or saying
Speaker 3: he's got to go back to the office on a
Speaker 3: regular Then one night he leaves his phone accidentally with
Speaker 3: her and a woman texts quote, did your wife let
Speaker 3: you leave yet? So she thinks he's been running off
Speaker 3: to see this person because clearly this woman was waiting
Speaker 3: for him to arrive. She doesn't know who it is,
Speaker 3: but she says she's ninety percent sure he's cheating. So, Daisy,
Speaker 3: I need you to say, Ryan, you have my permission
Speaker 3: to call, and then his name on Kiss FM.
Speaker 9: Go ahead, Brian, you have my permission to call on
Speaker 9: Kiss FM.
Speaker 3: We're gonna do that before that, did you ask him
Speaker 3: about that text when he got home?
Speaker 9: Yeah? I saw he got the text like, oh, did
Speaker 9: your wife let you leave yet? And when he came home,
Speaker 9: I asked him and he said that Tracy's his new
Speaker 9: supervisor at work.
Speaker 2: You want that, you do have to?
Speaker 9: Her name's Tracy. Yeah. Yeah, he said, Oh, she's just
Speaker 9: joking around because like a lot of wives don't let
Speaker 9: their husbands leave or something.
Speaker 2: But that's not okay for a coworker.
Speaker 10: Exactly, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 9: When he sends those roses to Tracy, I'm done. I'm done.
Speaker 3: That's it for me, all right, Daisy, be very quiet.
Speaker 3: We're calling him now here we go, Okay.
Speaker 1: Oh, hi is this Andrew? Yeh?
Speaker 4: Hi Andrew.
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Speaker 9: I'm okay.
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Speaker 9: Is this a scam?
Speaker 4: It's a it's a.
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Speaker 2: Okay, true, All right.
Speaker 6: We can start with the name of the person you
Speaker 6: want to send them to. They'll receive them by lunchtime today,
Speaker 6: and then we can put a note on the flowers.
Speaker 9: Okay, I uh, I actually know if I have the address.
Speaker 4: When we look for it, we why don't we just
Speaker 4: start with the in the meantime. Her name's Tracy.
Speaker 9: Yeah, did you.
Speaker 3: Your voice be broadcast on the radio. We've got your
Speaker 3: wife Daisy on the phone here.
Speaker 8: She is, My.
Speaker 9: God, you are such a piece of human garbage?
Speaker 1: How dare you do this to me?
Speaker 8: How dare you.
Speaker 1: Eight years together, eight years of my life for what
Speaker 1: we just throw it away?
Speaker 10: Like are you serious?
Speaker 8: Like I mean you just listen to me.
Speaker 7: Listen to me. Do not even think of coming home tonight?
Speaker 13: I have foody GOLs.
Speaker 7: Think I'm going into Boris?
Speaker 9: Is any a lotness? You two will not work when
Speaker 9: you over here today your moment.
Speaker 8: You know what a piece she raised And there's like.
Speaker 9: Oh your clothes, are.
Speaker 7: You at your laugh on your.
Speaker 9: Drangway the favorite you are?
Speaker 11: And then.
Speaker 7: Not gonna be living anymore?
Speaker 2: Dad days for me the word daisy, Daisy, daze Daisy day,
Speaker 2: because the that you are, you're gonna laugh dazzy day,
Speaker 2: Daisy breathe dai z Daisy. She hung up Andrew, Yeah, wow,
Speaker 2: how well did you hear all that?
Speaker 9: What's all of them?
Speaker 2: So you're cheating on your wife with Tracy? And for
Speaker 2: how long?
Speaker 9: Yeah? For bet?
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we're gonna let you go, Yeah, I
Speaker 2: think I should probably talk to her. Okay, I doubt
Speaker 2: that's a good idea.
Speaker 4: Actually, I don't think she's going to talk to you, Andrew.
Speaker 2: What's left to say?
Speaker 5: Well, maybe maybe you just listen to her.
Speaker 2: I was trying to listen to her.
Speaker 4: I heard everything she said me too.
Speaker 2: I heard closed driveway neighbors.
Speaker 4: Man, his bubbleheads are going to go out in the lawn.
Speaker 2: I didn't hear that. I heard that.
Speaker 4: Are they from the Dodger Games. I'm curious what kind
Speaker 4: of bubbleheads they were.
Speaker 3: It was one of the most explosive and justifiably explosive
Speaker 3: reactions we have gotten from a spouse. Daisy, his wife,
Speaker 3: found out that he was cheating with a woman named Tracy,
Speaker 3: and she told us she ninety percent knew it, but
Speaker 3: needed ten percent more to shut the door. And she
Speaker 3: got the ten percent because he sent the roses to Tracy,
Speaker 3: and that's the woman who had texted his phone.
Speaker 2: So it all she put all the pieces together.
Speaker 3: But I guess to your point, Tamya, she had been
Speaker 3: thinking about this for a long time, so all of
Speaker 3: her thoughts were in one massive string of breath that
Speaker 3: she let out. I wonder how long she went without stopping.
Speaker 3: I'm going to play that back for you in a second.
Speaker 3: But first, Emily, thank you for coming on with us.
Speaker 3: She had a lot to get off her chest, and
Speaker 3: she did. I think she went on for a solid
Speaker 3: minute without taking a breath.
Speaker 11: It definitely sounded like that.
Speaker 3: So there's no option. Here's there's good news. She found
Speaker 3: out he's got to go right.
Speaker 11: Absolutely, I think you know what good for her And
Speaker 11: honestly the worst part of that whole situation was her son.
Speaker 11: I mean, she's gonna have to tell him about his dad.
Speaker 11: That's heartbreaking. I just don't understand how could anyone do
Speaker 11: that to their child selfishness?
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Emily, thank you very much for calling.
Speaker 3: We actually have it here. What kind of person are you?
Speaker 3: So if something drastic happens like this, are you the shouder?
Speaker 3: Are you the throw the clothes and bobble heads out
Speaker 3: on the driveway for the neighbors to see, or you
Speaker 3: just to walk out quietly and leave Sisny.
Speaker 4: My gut instinct is probably the shouterer and cause a scene.
Speaker 3: Okay, So here is a version of what Sisney might
Speaker 3: sound like if that would happen. Maybe this is what
Speaker 3: Daisy actually did a few minutes to.
Speaker 10: Come do not even coming home tonight.
Speaker 13: I have foody goss.
Speaker 9: I'm going into a lot will not work today.
Speaker 8: Your mom, you know what a be she raised.
Speaker 9: I'm gonna take all your clows.
Speaker 1: I your your laugh on your.
Speaker 12: Day, the favorite you are, and then I'm.
Speaker 2: Not anymore daz because it's Daisy for me, Daisy, Daisy Day,
Speaker 2: my wife, Daisy Day.
Speaker 5: Because the fan that you are, You're gonna laugh.
Speaker 2: Dazzy dazy, Daisy breathe Daisy and she hung up.
Speaker 4: It's that was viral.
Speaker 6: It's the everything that she It's her worst case feeling
Speaker 6: that she will if you just joined us.
Speaker 3: That was a reaction to Ryan's roses, which was intense
Speaker 3: because she knew it was happening, so she had all
Speaker 3: those thoughts in her head. Right, But you're right, she
Speaker 3: did say I'm gonna throw your stupid bobble heads out.
Speaker 2: I didn't hear that the first.
Speaker 5: Time I heard it.
Speaker 6: That stood out to me because I could just only
Speaker 6: imagine because being married to somebody for so many years,
Speaker 6: they just have their collections of things that doesn't drive
Speaker 6: you nuts.
Speaker 4: And I could just tell that that was about something.
Speaker 6: For her that were Daisy means where those bibbleheads were.
Speaker 3: But she's somebody's version of Tanya's Harry Styles pillow case.
Speaker 4: She hated dusting. She hated dusting and cleaning those bubble heads.
Speaker 3: And so we're in an earthquake r random fall, Tanya,
Speaker 3: would you be that kind of reaction type person or
Speaker 3: a walk out quietly?
Speaker 5: I wouldn't do either. I would curl into a ball
Speaker 5: and cry. I would just cry. That would be what
Speaker 5: I would do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably would too. Yeah, you're on Kiss coming
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Speaker 2: Eight hundred and five to one to two seven, Megan,
Speaker 2: thanks for calling.
Speaker 1: How are you good?
Speaker 10: How are you guys?
Speaker 3: We're super good. Thank you for listening to us. Megan, So,
Speaker 3: what's up and how can we help?
Speaker 9: So?
Speaker 11: I'm calling in because I'm getting married next year and
Speaker 11: I have had well asked one of my sisters, my
Speaker 11: only sister, to be a bridesmaid, and I'm actually wondering.
Speaker 11: And this is why I want your wife's opinion if
Speaker 11: I can unask her to be a bridesmaid, and I'll
Speaker 11: tell you I so I know. So she's eight years
Speaker 11: older than I am. We've never been close. Our mom
Speaker 11: passed away unfortunately when we were younger, and I think
Speaker 11: that's really another reason why we've never been close. But
Speaker 11: I honestly thought of the wedding as a way to
Speaker 11: get closer with her, to kind of mend our relationship.
Speaker 11: And I also wanted her to be a part of
Speaker 11: the day, of course, but ever since I asked her.
Speaker 11: She has been making everything incredibly difficult, really negative, and
Speaker 11: just unenjoyable. Everything is an issue, everything's a problem. She
Speaker 11: has a really negative attitude about everything. The rest of
Speaker 11: my wedding party, where my wedding's going to be, the
Speaker 11: month is going to be in and kind of my
Speaker 11: last draw came last week. We've been trying to nail
Speaker 11: down a date to go wedding dress shopping together, and
Speaker 11: every date that is good for me is not good
Speaker 11: for her, which again I'm trying to work through because
Speaker 11: I'm trying to be accommodating to her. And when the
Speaker 11: last date she gave me again didn't work, she kind
Speaker 11: of had a little bit of a tantrum and kind
Speaker 11: of went nut, saying that I'm making the wedding all
Speaker 11: about me, which I obviously went back to her saying, well,
Speaker 11: it is really about me, but I'm trying to be accommodating,
Speaker 11: and we're kind of left in this space of not
Speaker 11: really speaking, and so I don't know, I just feel
Speaker 11: like the tension might loosen if she didn't have this
Speaker 11: official title. I don't know. I wanted to get your
Speaker 11: opinion on it.
Speaker 2: I'm going to take a pass on this and let
Speaker 2: sis Andy go what would you do or what you do?
Speaker 6: When I saw you calling in Megan, and I saw
Speaker 6: it up on the call screen and it said I
Speaker 6: regret asking my sister to be a bridesmaid. My initial
Speaker 6: reaction before you said anything was you need to suck
Speaker 6: it up, and it's just like, you know, this is
Speaker 6: family's it'll all work itself out.
Speaker 4: But now that you're describing how.
Speaker 11: Bad it is, yeah, part of me, honestly, that was
Speaker 11: my thinking too, like she's my sister. I would never
Speaker 11: do that.
Speaker 6: Here's the thing you to do that, but it is
Speaker 6: your day and it's but it also doesn't give you
Speaker 6: the excuse to act a certain way and be rude
Speaker 6: and which I don't think you're doing anyways. I think
Speaker 6: what you do is you map it out for her
Speaker 6: and be like, hey, it's really coming down to the
Speaker 6: wire of like, I don't know when you're getting married,
Speaker 6: but these are the dates that I really need to
Speaker 6: get stuff handled and done based on the timeline, and
Speaker 6: say this is these are this is the date I
Speaker 6: need to go get my dress, this is the date
Speaker 6: that we're having the bridle shower, this is the date
Speaker 6: and I hope that you can attend the majority of them.
Speaker 6: If you can only come to one thing, I totally
Speaker 6: get it. But give her the map and then if
Speaker 6: she can come to it, great, If she can't, whatever,
Speaker 6: but don't completely shut her out. I don't think that's
Speaker 6: the answer.
Speaker 11: I think that's really good advice, and that's kind of
Speaker 11: like the middle ground.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for both of.
Speaker 3: Us, I'm guessing Sistany and Tanya don't want you to
Speaker 3: give me my view on weddings.
Speaker 5: Don't give her your view, Okay.
Speaker 2: I'll get your number call you later.
Speaker 4: Well, she really needs to compromise a little bit.
Speaker 9: Tony, No, No.
Speaker 2: I just think my take is always it is about you.
Speaker 3: These extra stresses and layers really complicate the focus of
Speaker 3: it being a celebration for you and the person you're
Speaker 3: in love with. And I really find it selfish when
Speaker 3: people get in the way of that, because it really
Speaker 3: is your special day. And Tanya, I'll tell you right now,
Speaker 3: if someone brings you down to a level where they're
Speaker 3: stressing you out, selfish, you lobby need to celebrate each other,
Speaker 3: forget about I.
Speaker 5: Think what I realized too is like I'm going to
Speaker 5: be a very I'm hoping I'm going to be a
Speaker 5: very chill bride. Like I'm going to map out all
Speaker 5: the dates that i can do my wedding dress shoping
Speaker 5: and blah blah blah, and whoever can come can make it,
Speaker 5: can make it. I'm not trying to like hold everybody
Speaker 5: to making it.
Speaker 6: That's all you can do, because you're never gonna be
Speaker 6: able to please everyone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just so you know, Marano's running a bet on
Speaker 3: you being a chill bride or not. And I'm looking
Speaker 3: at odds.
Speaker 5: I know I'm hoping I stay chilled.
Speaker 3: It's pretty split, all right, Megan, good luck. I think
Speaker 3: Sisney gives you some good advice. And do remember you
Speaker 3: are in a happy, peaceful, loving place and that's the
Speaker 3: good news.
Speaker 11: Thank you guys so much.
Speaker 4: Good luck.
Speaker 3: All right, bye, bye bye, And there you have it. Now,
Speaker 3: this is the portion of the show where I would
Speaker 3: generally ask how's the planning going? But I'm going to
Speaker 3: refrain Tanya, Oh.
Speaker 5: Well, I mean we have interviews. We have three interviews
Speaker 5: this week with wedding planners making some progress so much,
Speaker 5: and Robbie wants to be on the call.
Speaker 4: It's like, how cute are you?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 2: He should be He's very cute. That's what I'm marrying.
Speaker 4: Michael was beyond involved with everything.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I didn't think he would like want to
Speaker 5: be on the wedding. No, I know he's gonna want
Speaker 5: a plan but I didn't think he cared who the
Speaker 5: planner was.
Speaker 4: Oh but he does every.
Speaker 2: Step of the way. Come on, you better get to
Speaker 2: know this guy.
Speaker 1: Yes, on air with Ryan Seacrest, time.
Speaker 2: Goes by the dumber. I must just get why.
Speaker 3: I just think it's the if I'm being honest and
Speaker 3: if I'm reading the people around me and the guidance
Speaker 3: that I receive, it's as if I'm getting dumber, which
Speaker 3: is fine. So generously this morning, Marianna saved me a
Speaker 3: parking spot on P one here at the Burbank Complex.
Speaker 5: That's nice. You don't really have to save spots this early.
Speaker 2: You do it because I'm in a I'm I'm in
Speaker 2: number seventeen.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, that's the hot ticket.
Speaker 9: I know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, whose is it?
Speaker 3: Who's seventeen? I shouldn't say their name, but it is
Speaker 3: start with a K. Yes, anyway, I got to borrow
Speaker 3: starts with a K spot and Marianna was there to
Speaker 3: like hold it okay. So anyway, so we're making small
Speaker 3: it's a long walk and we're making small talk.
Speaker 5: It's a long walk.
Speaker 3: And you don't how many key cards we have to
Speaker 3: use to get in here. Yeah, five different.
Speaker 2: You never bring yours with that too.
Speaker 3: So anyway, she's telling me about this date she went on,
Speaker 3: which is it fair to say it wasn't great?
Speaker 2: It's fair to say that. Yeah, maybe in the back
Speaker 2: room telling me this story. Now, I'm all ears. It's
Speaker 2: a long walk.
Speaker 3: So she says, I think I went out this guy.
Speaker 3: I think that maybe it's me that's the issue, even
Speaker 3: though the issue was him. Now explain that to Cisany
Speaker 3: and Tanya please.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So I don't know.
Speaker 7: I mean, the vibes were good, we were having great conversations,
Speaker 7: but I feel like I couldn't concentrate because I kept
Speaker 7: thinking about, Okay, he's wearing a hat.
Speaker 4: It's the first date hat on the first day. Yeah,
Speaker 4: it was just a Dodger hat.
Speaker 2: So, okay, where did you go on the first date?
Speaker 7: The Sherman?
Speaker 4: It's oh, I know where that is.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what did you do at the Sherman?
Speaker 4: We just ate, We had a drink and that was
Speaker 4: pretty much.
Speaker 2: Detail. What what what did you order? In what time?
Speaker 7: I ordered this salmon with the salad on the side.
Speaker 7: I forgot which one was, but yeah, it was really and.
Speaker 2: Was this seven o'clock, six o'clock, eight o'clock, seven thirty? Okay?
Speaker 3: So right, So what I'm trying to get to. It
Speaker 3: comes in in a ball cap Dodger fan. I can't
Speaker 3: fault that, which is great, But what was the issue?
Speaker 3: Why were you distracted?
Speaker 7: And he was also wearing like these really tight pants,
Speaker 7: like skinny jeans.
Speaker 5: I know, I like skinny jean.
Speaker 6: I don't know if you hear the jeans though, Are
Speaker 6: they like spanned pretty skinny?
Speaker 2: Or were they like straight?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 4: Was there a little give to them in the calf area?
Speaker 3: I don't you feel because I actually put on mine
Speaker 3: and left and thought, what a terrible idea.
Speaker 4: This was Ryan they were there was no space there
Speaker 4: was They were just really tight.
Speaker 3: So you're looking at his his apparel, his fashion, and
Speaker 3: you feel like this is superficial in a way.
Speaker 4: What was this shirt?
Speaker 7: I couldn't even I that went through my mind because
Speaker 7: I remember this shirt.
Speaker 4: How don't I even remember the shirt?
Speaker 5: I was too focused on the pants in the hat.
Speaker 2: But why was his personality?
Speaker 9: What was his like?
Speaker 7: I mean, I feel like we were getting along. We
Speaker 7: mainly just talked about work and things like that. But
Speaker 7: I mean he had great taste in music, which was
Speaker 7: surprising because I'm like, how do you have great taste
Speaker 7: in music but jeans not fashion?
Speaker 3: Well, you can't have all of you can't have style
Speaker 3: of every single category. Okay, So Marianna, here's the thing.
Speaker 3: The issue is. I think what she's saying is am
Speaker 3: I am I being a little superficial by judging him
Speaker 3: by his jeans and his ball cap on a date.
Speaker 4: The answer is no, Okay, good, but all that is fixable.
Speaker 3: It's just no because if something like you and I
Speaker 3: have been in situations where something could be any little thing,
Speaker 3: something distracts us from focusing on the person, which is
Speaker 3: a sign from the universe that we are meant to
Speaker 3: be distracted from the person.
Speaker 5: I literally wanted to go on a second date because
Speaker 5: the guy ordered a drink with a straw. I understand
Speaker 5: taking my tie during the day and I was like,
Speaker 5: I can't remember. I was to take it out because
Speaker 5: he's like drinking right, he needed to take in the
Speaker 5: middle of winter, Like, what are we doing here.
Speaker 3: I remember I was on a date and I'm pretty
Speaker 3: good at conversation, and I ran out of things. I
Speaker 3: was struggling so hard, I was working so hard, and
Speaker 3: I thought, well, should I not go out with this
Speaker 3: person again because there's not any there's like not a
Speaker 3: dialogue there, or should I get But she's.
Speaker 6: Saying the conversation went great, you're already we could contact.
Speaker 5: For a second.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so I didn't go out again because it
Speaker 3: was just too much hard. Yeah, right, So I wouldn't.
Speaker 3: I just think that sometimes these things are meant to
Speaker 3: get in the way.
Speaker 5: I don't think so it's not your guys.
Speaker 4: Come on, I actually think that out cut sounds kind
Speaker 4: of cute.
Speaker 11: Me too.
Speaker 5: I love that.
Speaker 2: Not a first date.
Speaker 6: Well, the kind of concerns me because I want to
Speaker 6: know if there was a receding HAIRLINEA Haines, we got problems.
Speaker 3: And yeah, did you hear the receding hairline committee over here?
Speaker 2: Reason?
Speaker 5: Yeah, receding hairlines can be great.
Speaker 4: And also I want to see it on the first date.
Speaker 5: Some some some yes, some some some some some some
Speaker 5: very Some men look better without.
Speaker 6: Hair that I want to see the confidence in that
Speaker 6: man and I want him to wear it on the
Speaker 6: first date.
Speaker 2: You needed to show me. Don't cover it up, go
Speaker 2: to the wedding.
Speaker 4: Okay talking about certain men.
Speaker 2: I don't know. She's pretty feisty about him.
Speaker 1: Just right, hair.
Speaker 2: All right, Madian to keep us posting, and thank you
Speaker 2: for the generous and u candid walk this morning.
Speaker 4: Absolutely anytime pleasure.
Speaker 2: I mean dating. It's a real bummer.
Speaker 5: I'm going to count how long that that walk is
Speaker 5: from the parking garage to our seats.
Speaker 3: We've never really focused on how I mean. I hate
Speaker 3: to moan about it, but it's a long walk.
Speaker 5: No, And when you get caught in the elevator with
Speaker 5: somebody that you don't want to talk to, and then
Speaker 5: you have to go up that elevator and then up
Speaker 5: this elevator, it's like I do, like how many times.
Speaker 4: You have to swipe your cards.
Speaker 3: We're in a building, fine, safe, but we're in a
Speaker 3: building where there's several elevator stall shafts, yeah called shafts
Speaker 3: and uh yeah, when you're stuck in the same pace
Speaker 3: and you don't know them, or you're making small talk.
Speaker 5: Yes, the small talk. It's always about the weather. It's
Speaker 5: the same I know but it's always the weather.
Speaker 3: As you try and make your way in sitting in
Speaker 3: a little traffic. If you want to blow off some steam,
Speaker 3: if you want to just chime in one eight hundred
Speaker 3: and five to one to two seven. You can also
Speaker 3: text us for one O two seven that talk back
Speaker 3: buttons and side the eyeart radio app on the kiss page.
Speaker 3: And then Dana did it the old fashioned way and
Speaker 3: Van I she just dialed in Dana, good morning, Hi.
Speaker 14: Good morning. How are you guys doing.
Speaker 2: We're great. How's your day going?
Speaker 13: Uh?
Speaker 14: It could be better?
Speaker 2: Okay, what's up? How can we help?
Speaker 14: I probably want to apologize in advance. Okay, So I
Speaker 14: used to date my boss. We were together for like
Speaker 14: six months, and we kept a secret from everyone at work.
Speaker 14: So now he's getting married and we still kind of
Speaker 14: sort of have like a connection, Like we hooked up
Speaker 14: a couple of times, but that was like in the
Speaker 14: beginning of him seeing this new person, and I mean,
Speaker 14: I feel terrible about it, so we stopped, but like
Speaker 14: he still messages me. He still feels me like dirty
Speaker 14: photos and I just I ignore it.
Speaker 9: So, Okay, he just.
Speaker 14: Invited me to his wedding and he says that about Yeah,
Speaker 14: he's saying that I can come, but I can't bring
Speaker 14: up plus want unless he approve it, which I feel
Speaker 14: like it's so inappropriate. So like I'm like, I just
Speaker 14: won't go, but I think it's going to be awkward
Speaker 14: because our our whole team is going to be there,
Speaker 14: and I don't know. I didn't I don't want to
Speaker 14: call them scene if I want to go to h
Speaker 14: R because we're going to you know, both be in trouble.
Speaker 14: And yeah, like I still have feelings for him. I
Speaker 14: just I don't know what to do.
Speaker 2: So you have feelings for him.
Speaker 3: He's getting married, he's sending you dirty pictures, and he's
Speaker 3: invited you to the wedding.
Speaker 2: That's really confusing. Whack do you really like? You still
Speaker 2: like him?
Speaker 10: I mean, I yeah, why do you want to be
Speaker 10: with someone like that?
Speaker 5: I know why?
Speaker 14: I keep telling myself, like Dana, like she's so stupid.
Speaker 3: The ship has sailed. You guys are not dating. He's
Speaker 3: getting married. That's not going to last if he's sending
Speaker 3: you pictures. Right now, here's the question.
Speaker 2: You like him.
Speaker 3: He's still trying to connect with you. He's invited you
Speaker 3: to the wedding. He's gonna get married. What if he
Speaker 3: invites you to see him or you he wants to
Speaker 3: see you after he's married.
Speaker 2: What are you going to do? Dana?
Speaker 14: Uh, I'm gonna I'm gonna respect the marriage. Like I
Speaker 14: I wouldn't want that to happen to me. I'm going
Speaker 14: to respect the marriage.
Speaker 9: I just.
Speaker 3: Then, I think you should start respecting it now if
Speaker 3: that's your choice by not going to the wedding, I
Speaker 3: think so too.
Speaker 2: And it's a slippery slope. Do you respond to him
Speaker 2: when he sends you those photos?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 14: No, I ignore him, like and I see him at
Speaker 14: work and I just you know, I try not to.
Speaker 10: Interact with like.
Speaker 2: This is dangerous.
Speaker 3: This is dangerous, So you need to I think you
Speaker 3: need to send clear messages that it's over, you have
Speaker 3: no interest, and you wish him the best. That's what
Speaker 3: I would do, That's what I think.
Speaker 4: And if it doesn't stop, then this is turning into harassment.
Speaker 14: You're right, you're right, but.
Speaker 2: Don't go to the wedding. Don't go.
Speaker 4: You're on vacation, book a vacation somewhere else.
Speaker 2: No, just say I don't feel like it's appropriate.
Speaker 6: Well, they work together, but that she was saying that
Speaker 6: she's gonna be the only one that the team that
Speaker 6: wasn't there. Blah blah, excuse as to why you're not there,
Speaker 6: Go on this girl's trip with your sister or someone
Speaker 6: else like that she.
Speaker 3: Needs to be out of Yeah, good luck with this,
Speaker 3: Thank you Dana for calling. Oh all right bye? But
Speaker 3: this guy sending her pictures while he's like walking, why
Speaker 3: is he inviting her to the wedding?
Speaker 2: What's that so weird?
Speaker 1: On air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: Well, that is going to wrap it up for us. Hey,
Speaker 3: if someone is Systaney Tony, if someone you used to
Speaker 3: like told you they had feelings for you today, would
Speaker 3: you be flattered or annoyed?
Speaker 5: Tanya, I'd be flattered and I'd be like, I'm taking baby.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't feel a thing.
Speaker 3: Like.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't feel annoyed. I wouldn't feel flattered. I would
Speaker 4: feel nothing.
Speaker 2: I feel both, Yeah, Dad, Yeah, I think both right right.
Speaker 4: They wouldn't bother me.
Speaker 5: But it's also like, why are they coming to you now?
Speaker 2: It's a hypothetical, Guys, it's not happening. I just want
Speaker 2: to fill it out.
Speaker 4: I imagine they all do anyways.
Speaker 12: So right, I mean in Sisty's had, She's got her
Speaker 12: movie written. Thanks tomorrow, we're back. Thank you, back room,
Speaker 12: bye bye, thank you ye, and thank you for listening.
Speaker 12: Sissy's Gonna take it till eleven o'clock. That's your odd kiss.
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