WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Diatribe 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:02.120 From Hollywood to you. 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:03.960 Thank you for listening to Ryan. 0:00:05.960 --> 0:00:07.760 On Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.760 --> 0:00:12.880 Everybody's talking about this new way of speed dating in 0:00:13.080 --> 0:00:13.840 La Sistany. 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:17.600 Yeah, so it is ice bath speed dating. 0:00:17.760 --> 0:00:19.920 I would do it if I were single looking a date. 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:23.200 Why not? How do you know what I wouldn't. 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:24.760 Be because you're always on the air talking about how 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:27.280 you don't even want to eat in your bathing suit. 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:29.360 You're not going to be an ice bath. 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:31.840 Yeah, on a first date in your bathing suit. 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:33.680 Didn't think about the lighting. 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:36.120 Exactly and my cold things. 0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:38.879 Oh it's not a good look. No, it's not a 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:39.760 great first impression. 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:42.040 It's fine. 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:43.600 I'm just saying, I just. 0:00:44.159 --> 0:00:45.360 Wow, you've talked to me out of it, and I 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:48.920 eve even heard the story, Sisty. 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:50.040 Sorry, I want to burst your bubble. 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:55.000 Everyone is all into ice plunging ice baths. 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:57.360 I mean, if another person says to me, do you 0:00:57.480 --> 0:00:58.160 cold plunge? 0:00:58.240 --> 0:01:01.040 Yeah, don't to plunge? 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:03.480 Do I cold plunge? Do you yahoo? 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:04.319 Yeah? 0:01:04.319 --> 0:01:07.360 Apparently it's much better to do with somebody else because 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:09.520 you can chit chat and it'll, you know, make the 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:10.600 time go by faster. 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:14.240 Oh interesting, And a DJ plays music right, uh huh. 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:18.000 And so they created a speed dating service out of it, 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:21.240 and just recently more than one hundred people participated in 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:24.200 this event. It was called ice past La and it 0:01:24.319 --> 0:01:27.640 was done right here in Venice. And they have been 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:30.920 doing these ice bath events more and more to kind 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:35.480 of encourage people to meet outside of bars and drinking 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:38.199 in general and focus more on health. 0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:41.520 And cold plunging is all the rage right now. 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:42.520 I like it and. 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:45.840 It's kind of interesting because you what it kind of 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:49.520 forces you to do is focus on the conversation. 0:01:50.120 --> 0:01:52.800 Because you're trying to distract yourself from feeling what you're feeling. 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:56.080 And there's quite an ice breaking bond no pun intended, 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:59.760 that happens over this too. Tops ice tobs, speed dating 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:01.160 and ice tubs made. 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:03.160 For you, so you really don't have any time to waste. 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:03.280 You know. 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:05.600 Sometimes you're speed and you're like, oh, so like, let 0:02:05.600 --> 0:02:06.880 me think of what I should They just. 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:10.080 Like you're you're so cold. You get right down to it. 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:11.919 You kind of just be like what does love mean 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:16.040 to you? Yeah, it's like what do you feel most alive? 0:02:16.080 --> 0:02:18.440 What makes you feel most alive? What would constitute a 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:20.680 perfect day for you? So the finages that get straight 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:22.880 to like the questions that matter to you. 0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:25.320 But the fact that you came to an ice bath 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:29.760 DJ party says cool. Yes, I think it says cool 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:31.720 like you kind of you don't give it, you know 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:33.040 what you're say you know what, I'm just going to 0:02:33.120 --> 0:02:33.639 go for it. 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:34.080 Yes. 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:36.280 I think it's a lot of laid bad, laid back 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:39.000 people and could be interesting. 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:42.560 It's the latest speed dating trend here in LA. Let's 0:02:42.600 --> 0:02:44.960 get to Claire here on the phones one eight hundred 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:47.200 and five two one one or two seven and Culver City, Claire, 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:47.680 How are you? 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:49.880 I'm doing all right? 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:54.239 Thanks, I was just in Culver City yesterday. 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:55.440 Wow. 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:57.839 So many great places to sit outside and have something 0:02:57.880 --> 0:02:58.440 to eat there. 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:01.519 Oh, it's a great place for restaurants. 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:02.760 Do you have a favorite? 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:06.840 No, they're actually a couple friend restaurants there that I 0:03:06.880 --> 0:03:07.320 really like. 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:10.720 I saw one called was it bistro or something? I 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:12.519 drove past that. Actually I saw a bunch of people 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:13.280 sitting outside. 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:15.200 Yeah. 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:16.880 You like muscles and pumpfreats. 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:19.400 I love them so much. 0:03:19.760 --> 0:03:21.480 I like to dip my fries in the pump free 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:23.560 and my pumpfreat's in the muscle sauce. 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:25.000 Oh you have to. 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:25.679 It's so good. 0:03:25.720 --> 0:03:28.120 It's like that wine and cream butter sauce. 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:28.600 So good. 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:31.440 Claire, did you call to talk about food? This is fantastic. 0:03:31.560 --> 0:03:32.280 I'm so happy. 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:35.320 I'd be happy too, But you. 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:37.320 Have another issue. I am told by Mark, our producer, 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:40.920 who wants me to move on. Yeah, God, Claire, what 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:41.480 what happened? 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:42.720 Lightly less fun? 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:43.920 Okay? 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:44.720 So okay. 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:49.480 I have this coworker who started acting super weird around me, 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:52.720 and I wasn't sure why, so I talked to one 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:54.880 of our other colleagues about it, Like I didn't, you know, 0:03:55.040 --> 0:03:57.400 I didn't want to say something directly to my coworker 0:03:57.440 --> 0:03:59.400 who was acting weird, so I talked to someone else 0:03:59.440 --> 0:04:02.280 and they said, and I know this sounds to me, 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:04.840 this sounds so petty, but I really want your take. 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:10.320 The coworker who was acting salty is apparently bitter because 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:13.040 she sees that I watch her tiktoks but I don't 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:16.400 like them, if that makes sense. Like on TikTok you 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:20.760 can see who watches your videos, but also you know 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:23.040 that way, she can see that I've watched them, but 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:26.440 I haven't really liked that. Yeah, and she's just like 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:29.880 I guess she's trying to be an influencer. Her tiktoks 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:32.000 are pretty successful, Like, she gets a lot of views 0:04:32.000 --> 0:04:33.520 and a lot of engagements on them. 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:36.200 So likes are a huge deal to her. 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:39.240 But now I don't know what to do about it, 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:41.280 because like, if I confront her to try to make 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:43.040 things right, that seems almost kind. 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:43.679 Of over the top. 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:46.560 But maybe I could like fix my TikTok settings so 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:48.839 she can't see that I'm watching. 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:53.000 Her videos or issue, and I like, I get it, 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:54.640 like it is an issue, and the fact that it 0:04:54.720 --> 0:04:56.080 is is so petty to me. 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:58.440 But why don't I just like her tiktoks? 0:04:58.440 --> 0:04:59.560 Then she doesn't like them? 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:00.359 Well why not? 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:02.560 Why not? 0:05:02.880 --> 0:05:05.280 I just don't like, I don't. I don't really, I 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:07.080 don't know. I don't even think about it. I don't 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:10.280 typically like videos. I just, you know, I watch them 0:05:10.279 --> 0:05:10.920 and then I move on. 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:13.919 I've never really double tippy either. I kind of just 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:17.680 like so mean I sometimes do, but I forget not mean. 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:18.719 It's like she has a life. 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:21.520 Well, okay, she's clear she's watching them, so she's. 0:05:21.360 --> 0:05:23.920 Already Anything that you did watch that struck you as 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:26.120 entertaining that your coworker posted on TikTok. 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:30.440 Yeah occasionally, sure, But I mean, I guess I just 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:33.880 follow the same kind of procedure with her page that 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:35.640 I do for any other page, which is I just 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:37.880 I'm like, oh hah, you know that was like cute 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:40.760 or funnier, informative or whatever, and then I just move on. 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:43.160 I've never I guess I've never really thought about how 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:45.600 it might affect the person who posts the content, whether 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:46.800 I like their videos or not. 0:05:47.160 --> 0:05:48.760 Well, I guess there's two ways to deal with this. 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:51.279 One who cares what she thinks about you liking the 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:53.640 videos or not? All right, and just move on because 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:56.760 it is kind of patty. Or two, just start liking 0:05:56.760 --> 0:05:59.279 the videos whether you like them or not, move on 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:00.440 not if you hear from again. 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:02.280 I mean, I don't know. 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:04.080 I mean that seems kind of arbitrary to me. But 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:05.840 also I work with this person, so I don't want 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:06.599 things to be weird. 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:10.840 Yeah, and like every eighth one, Yeah, maybe just don't 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:12.800 like her or there, even if you don't mean it, 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:16.000 to keep the peace and not create any sort of awkwardness. 0:06:16.200 --> 0:06:17.400 If it means again. 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:20.039 To your coworker and you don't care, why wouldn't you 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:20.440 do it? 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:22.200 Because it's not her truth. 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:24.760 Oh my yeah, I don't know. 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:27.599 I've never thought about it before. I don't like feeling 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:30.400 pressured into it just so that this one girl won't 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:33.080 be mad at me, you know, like you know what 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:34.080 I mean, And then. 0:06:34.000 --> 0:06:35.799 It's not really here's the question. 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:39.320 Would you rather feel not pressured and just move on 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:43.599 and potentially create a little awkwardness at work or forget 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:46.200 about the fact that you don't care and you're a 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:48.600 little pressured into liking them, but have no awkwardness at work. 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:49.560 Which one's better for you? 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:54.560 I mean, obviously I'd prefer not to have awkwardness at work. 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:56.560 And if it just takes you know, doing a little 0:06:56.560 --> 0:06:58.600 click click here and there, I guess that's something I 0:06:58.640 --> 0:06:59.400 could look into. 0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:01.520 Yeah, I mean I don't like this stuff. It'sitting tiny 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:02.960 post on time, you know, but I do it to. 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:03.480 Keep the peace. 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:05.920 Yeah, I can tell. 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:08.800 Claire thank you, good luck. I think we have a 0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:09.360 path there. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:13.040 But also, like, let's examine this cowork who cares so 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:16.880 much about whether or not Claire's liking or TikTok totally right, 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:25.240 col gl not yl gl right. I think I'm not 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:27.160 good at those. Yeah, I don't even know if l 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:29.040 OL's laugh out loud or lots of love. 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:32.960 I don't ever lots of love never. 0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:38.120 How do y'all know? Oh gosh, Melissa in Long Beach, 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:38.640 how are you? 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:40.400 Hi? 0:07:40.520 --> 0:07:40.760 Good? 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:41.240 How are you? 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:43.720 I'm doing great? Thanks? So you're calling about your boss? 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:48.360 Your boss is d ming somebody? Yeah, yeah, what's happened? 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:52.160 Okay? So I work for this guy. I'm I'm not 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:55.360 his personal assistant, but I do a lot for him 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:57.920 and some of the other bosses at my company, Like 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:00.360 I handle social media and you know what I else 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:04.680 they need. And so I've gotten to know him really well, 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:07.120 and I've got to know his girlfriend really well. We 0:08:07.160 --> 0:08:09.520 don't hang out or anything, but like we text each other, 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:13.960 you know, like follow each other. She's really cool. Anyway, 0:08:14.480 --> 0:08:17.800 I was working on socials and I noticed that he 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:21.880 is using the company's business account to DM his X 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:25.680 and I knew her too, but not as well. I 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:28.360 didn't read that much of it because, like you to 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:31.720 be crossing a line. The messages just looked really flirty. 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:35.720 And my question is, like, do I tell his girlfriend 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:38.640 what's going on? Do I keep my mouth shut? And 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:41.600 I mean, I don't even know how to do it. 0:08:41.720 --> 0:08:42.000 You know. 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:44.520 Well. 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:48.000 I mean if you so, one thing you could do 0:08:48.120 --> 0:08:51.600 is look the other way. One thing you could do 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:55.160 is think about if you do tell her, how it 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:57.680 could possibly go, Like, how's it going to if you 0:08:57.679 --> 0:08:59.800 do tell it, you feel like you should how's that 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:00.600 going to go? 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:00.960 Then? 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:03.600 With your job and where do you feel like your 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:08.559 priority is? Is it in you know, being a good 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:12.680 almost friend to his girlfriend to let her know or 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:15.840 do you want that? I mean, I don't know if 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:18.360 you'd lose your job, but it would probably create some tension, 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:23.800 would definitely. Sysney thinks just stay out of it. It's 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:25.920 not your lane. Don't don't look. 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:26.560 I know. 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:30.120 It's complicated when right. 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:34.080 Yeah, I'm really struggling with it. 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:39.720 But you can't do it as yourself anymous anonymous, No, 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:43.280 it couldn't be anonymous because, like the thing is, I 0:09:43.280 --> 0:09:44.640 am one of the only. 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:47.080 Other people who has access to the company Instagram, so 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:49.080 like it would be obvious it was me, you know. 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:54.439 I mean my view is this usually rears its head 0:09:55.320 --> 0:10:00.160 in a little bit of time anyway, So maybe you 0:10:00.200 --> 0:10:03.320 just take a beat and let this play out for 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:08.400 a second. It helps, It helps to get karma steps 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:11.319 in and this thing rears its head the natural way, 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:15.280 versus you getting in the middle of it because it 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:18.640 is such a it's a tricky thing because like doing 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:20.920 the right thing might be to tell, but then that 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:23.160 might compromise. 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:24.920 Your work a little bit. 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:26.400 I think so too. 0:10:26.960 --> 0:10:30.800 So I don't know that there's a perfect solution here, Melissa, 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:33.199 Oh Man. 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:35.360 I know, I feel the same. I just I'm so 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:38.200 struggling with it. I really like working for this company. 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:40.960 He's a great boss as a boss. It's just like 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:44.320 I feel like, you know, like girl code, or I 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:45.959 just feel like a bad person knowing. 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:50.040 It's also professional versus personal, Like it's that's personal, right, 0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:52.199 even though I know he's on its cap and he's 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:55.120 on the company platform. All right, let's just go around 0:10:55.160 --> 0:11:00.040 the room, Tony, what would you do, oh teller? What 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:00.720 about your job? 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:05.559 I'd get to that later. 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:08.080 Sisney, what would you do? 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:10.960 I stay out of it. You don't know this other person. 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:13.280 You don't know that you don't you're gonna get in 0:11:13.360 --> 0:11:14.720 the middle of all of this mess. 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:16.640 You don't know how it ended beforehand. 0:11:16.720 --> 0:11:17.800 No, what would you do? 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:19.280 I feel like I'd have to mention it. 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:20.840 Jen, what would you do? 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:24.680 I would have to mention that, Melissa, don't worry about 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:26.480 fifteen other people here. 0:11:26.760 --> 0:11:27.400 What would you do? 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:30.080 I feel like if I was close to his current girlfriend, 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:30.959 I would mention it. 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:34.120 And if I, yeah, looks like we have a consensus here, 0:11:34.240 --> 0:11:39.600 U tubbs, what would you do? He's got to turn 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:41.480 his mic on, hold on, liss say it wasn't his 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:43.080 camera ready as everybody else. 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:46.920 He's putting on his lip gloss, I would stay out 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:47.160 of it. 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:53.600 Oh, Melissa, this is no help at all at all. 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:59.199 Do you know the good person would tell her, and 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:06.360 good smart smart person stay Yeah, so good luck? 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:08.959 Oh it's so hard. 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:18.199 Yeah, okay, welcome, well, thanks and hung up. You guys suck. 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:20.600 Thanks a lot, you guys. 0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:25.480 I guess it's different if she knows the girlfriend. 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:28.000 I don't like scenarios like that because I that's it. 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:29.840 There's no solution there there. 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:33.280 If she knows the current girlfriend, and then that changes 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:35.720 things for me. But if I don't know them, then 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:38.080 I'm just like, I don't know. You guys, y'all are messy. 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:42.880 Okay, Well, everybody else in the back room would. 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:45.480 Tell her keep your mess over there. 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:47.160 Every day signature at morning act this time? 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:48.880 Could you have anything but something that you could take 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:50.839 with you old day and remember and share it. 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:51.439 Any ideas. 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:53.800 Also to tell people this is the first thing you 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:56.080 should do when you get into the hotel room. They say, 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:57.280 flush the toilet. 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:01.319 Oh, I want to know why, Well, flush the toilet 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:04.440 they since no one's been in the room for a while. 0:13:04.559 --> 0:13:07.559 The toilet bowl is a perfect hiding spot for spiders 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:09.680 and insects. Now, you don't want to be seated and 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:12.720 have one of those you know show themselves. 0:13:14.040 --> 0:13:16.160 That can that can cause a surprise. 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.200 That is so terrifying when you get in and you 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:22.080 throw your toilet trees down or your stuff in the bathroom. 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:24.720 Just walk over and flush the toilet. 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:26.280 I mean, that's not what I do first ever. 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:27.480 But why stop there? 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:29.240 I saw the remote? 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:32.280 You saw the remote? Do you stop there? 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:34.960 It's like then I saw everything else. 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:41.720 I'm up the door knobs, about the countertop, how about 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:43.720 the sheets? 0:13:43.760 --> 0:13:44.800 And throw pillow. 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:54.360 A quote for you guys, Please be weird, be random, 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:57.440 be who you are, because you never know who would 0:13:57.440 --> 0:13:58.520 love the person you hide. 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.880 Oh that's so, and that is true. 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:05.599 Be yourself. 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:08.720 Be random. Random. Actually, let's be random today. 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:09.520 Let's be weird. 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:13.480 Let's be fun. Yeah, let's be random and weird. 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:15.880 Let's be us, Let's be beautiful. 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:19.240 FM headlines with sin Well. 0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:22.160 The first presidential debate between President and Joe Biden and 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:26.200 former President Trump is tonight at six. It's hosted by CNN, 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:28.840 but it'll pretty much be on every network and streaming 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:32.440 on Max. The La Metro Board of Directors is considering 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:35.960 creating its own police force amid an increase in violent 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:39.880 crimes across the transit system. In the NBA Draft last night, 0:14:39.920 --> 0:14:43.080 the Lakers chose Dalton connect out of Tennessee with the 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:46.160 seventeenth pick. The Clippers didn't have a first round pick, 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:49.960 having traded it to Oklahoma City five years ago, and 0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:54.440 Mexico fell to Venezuela one to zero. Yesterday, in the 0:14:54.520 --> 0:15:00.400 group stage of Gopa Metaga at Sofi Stadium. 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:01.840 On air, Ryan Seacret. 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:07.320 Cicity has a story about how we can extend the 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:10.200 life of our best friends dogs. 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:13.600 Yay, scientists, we have them to think for this. 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:15.000 What is it? What's the story? 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:15.840 Apparently it's a. 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:19.800 Medication designed to extend the lifespan of dogs. The drug 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:23.200 currently is called loy zero zero one, so I don't 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:25.520 think it has like a fancy name. Yet, but it's 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:28.960 not available to pet owners. They're hoping that it will 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:31.360 be available in a couple of years. They're saying twenty 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:35.160 twenty six. But here's what we do know. 0:15:35.800 --> 0:15:36.680 It Dogs two. 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:42.720 It is specifically designed for large adult dogs, who generally 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:47.720 have a shorter lifespan than small dogs. So it's funny, 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:50.400 you know, like smaller dogs tend to live longer. I mean, like, 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:52.480 look at my dogs. She's seven pounds and she's fifteen 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:53.960 years old, and it's kind of shows the. 0:15:53.960 --> 0:15:57.560 Same with same with people. Really, I don't know, but 0:15:57.600 --> 0:15:59.040 I want to tell myself that. 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:01.280 You never. 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:03.400 That's funny. 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:04.120 Okay. 0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:06.480 So the drug is set to work by interacting with 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:09.560 I guess insulin levels and growth factors in the dog, 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:13.040 and it would be acting as an injectable. 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:14.880 So this is kind of like the crazy part. 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:16.880 So it's not like a pill, and it's not food 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:17.880 that you would give the dog. 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:20.440 You would have to take your dog to the vet and. 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:22.560 They would have to inject your dog every three to 0:16:22.640 --> 0:16:26.200 six months, which I think is kind of wild, but 0:16:26.320 --> 0:16:28.280 it would make it so that they would live longer. 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:30.320 So you have to make the choice. I'm a songer 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:31.640 that we don't know yet. 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:34.120 This is all like such early stages. It's not even 0:16:34.160 --> 0:16:35.239 approved by the FDA. 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:37.280 So if this is something that's on the horizon, you 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:40.360 think it's approved and we'll know more as the data 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:42.840 comes in about how much it could add. But you 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:45.960 want healthy I want healthy years for George exactly. And 0:16:46.000 --> 0:16:49.960 it's just medium big though, right, there's not big, she's right, right. 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:52.480 Yeah, I think she would. 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:55.440 She would qualify as a large dog though in this 0:16:55.600 --> 0:16:58.600 case she's not a great Dane, but she would qualify 0:16:58.640 --> 0:16:59.480 as a large dog. 0:16:59.520 --> 0:17:01.400 But the side effects. 0:17:01.080 --> 0:17:03.560 That I was reading up on this right now, they're 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:06.280 saying that it's mild. 0:17:06.359 --> 0:17:10.400 To temporary stomach distress. So that's the. 0:17:12.000 --> 0:17:12.320 I don't know. 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:15.679 That means, yeah, that sounds. 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:17.199 Study some Lloyd double over a little further before we 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:18.920 inject our dog every twenty minutes. 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:19.800 Good progress. 0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:20.000 You know. 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:20.840 They might finger it all. 0:17:20.760 --> 0:17:23.600 Out that these are the things that are focused for 0:17:23.640 --> 0:17:25.840 our friends, our best friends. 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:28.520 But how wild could this be? What if it actually expands? 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:29.840 What if it doubles their life? 0:17:29.920 --> 0:17:32.560 Like, oh my gosh, that's a that's a life changer. 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:33.119 I'll retire. 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:34.000 I think so too. 0:17:34.359 --> 0:17:35.080 That's a life changer. 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:36.560 Right, do you see what Paris Hilton did. 0:17:37.680 --> 0:17:39.840 So she's done to me things. Yeah, like what what 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:42.320 are you talking about? She she had a baby. 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:44.040 She's well, she lost her teacup. 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:46.399 One of her teacups either ran away or like whatever, 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:49.800 got lost. But before that, her dog, her teacup dog, 0:17:49.840 --> 0:17:51.560 it was like a baby. It was like her princess. 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:52.600 I forgot the name. 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:55.120 She went missing for a really long time. 0:17:55.119 --> 0:17:57.120 But before that, I guess she got like the DNA 0:17:57.760 --> 0:17:59.600 of the dog and had it cloned. 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:03.119 So it's crazy stuff. 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:08.160 But the rebuilt it, rebuilt her exact dog and made 0:18:08.160 --> 0:18:11.520 two of them, so a boy and a girl, and 0:18:11.520 --> 0:18:13.800 it's like, looks exactly like her old dog. 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:17.919 It's crazy, but it makes her happy. So it's all 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:20.320 in her reality show, which I'm obsessed with on Peacock. 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:21.720 It's the only reason I have Peacock. 0:18:21.960 --> 0:18:23.760 It's like the only reason I pay for Peacock is 0:18:23.760 --> 0:18:24.560 her reality. 0:18:24.280 --> 0:18:26.159 Show that Peacock wants. They wanted to suck in with 0:18:26.240 --> 0:18:27.560 the show and they did it. Good job, Peacock. 0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:36.880 Yeah on air with Ryan Seacrest, So honored. 0:18:37.200 --> 0:18:40.040 Tany and Robbie asked me to officiate them at their 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:45.919 wedding TBD date and location, TBD size scale. Uh, now, 0:18:45.920 --> 0:18:49.800 what are you going to serve for food? 0:18:48.000 --> 0:18:51.120 If they get there? 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:55.200 I think you should do fun food. 0:18:54.160 --> 0:18:58.040 Pizza, pizza a sudden. 0:18:58.080 --> 0:18:59.040 He's your wedding bladder. 0:18:59.440 --> 0:19:01.880 By the way, if you want, I'm happy to talk 0:19:01.920 --> 0:19:04.800 with the wedding planner. I'm good at this stuff. I'm 0:19:04.800 --> 0:19:05.800 good at programming. 0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:08.439 Yeah, you are pretty good at programming. Honestly, I have 0:19:08.560 --> 0:19:11.280 not given the food is not The food is not. 0:19:12.280 --> 0:19:13.120 No, it is for us. 0:19:13.160 --> 0:19:15.400 It is a priority, but it's not at the forefront. 0:19:15.640 --> 0:19:17.720 Okay, well, think about all the people we know in 0:19:17.880 --> 0:19:20.960 LA if you do it here, Yeah, and do something cool. 0:19:21.119 --> 0:19:26.720 Gluten free pizza for sure. 0:19:25.600 --> 0:19:26.879 Oh you have to. You can't have gluten on your 0:19:26.880 --> 0:19:29.680 wedding either, No, can't have gluten. 0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:33.480 Yeah, I get like very tasty gluten free stuff for everyone. 0:19:34.920 --> 0:19:39.480 Food trucks, food trucks. Okay, so what's the reason we're here. Yes, 0:19:39.640 --> 0:19:40.760 you have some breaking news. 0:19:40.840 --> 0:19:43.600 Go ahead, No, it's not breaking news. 0:19:43.240 --> 0:19:45.240 But you're making some progress with the planning. 0:19:45.400 --> 0:19:49.240 I have a date. Nope, what I'm going to try 0:19:49.280 --> 0:19:50.520 on wedding dresses this month? 0:19:52.680 --> 0:19:55.840 Gosh, I got into a exciting. 0:19:55.480 --> 0:19:57.959 I know, because I didn't think that that should be 0:19:58.000 --> 0:20:00.920 something that I do really early on. But a girlfriend 0:20:00.960 --> 0:20:03.200 of mine said that it can take up to ten 0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:05.480 months to get your wedding dress. So then I really 0:20:05.760 --> 0:20:06.440 just panicked. 0:20:07.240 --> 0:20:09.920 That's ten months because that's the end of the year. 0:20:10.320 --> 0:20:10.520 Yeah. 0:20:10.720 --> 0:20:13.199 No, don't get it done when you were thinking about it. 0:20:13.400 --> 0:20:16.000 Yeah, I mean, I guess that's not necessarily the case 0:20:16.000 --> 0:20:16.280 for you. 0:20:16.320 --> 0:20:18.720 Think dress? Are you thinking traditional wedding dress? 0:20:19.280 --> 0:20:20.119 What does that mean to you? 0:20:20.200 --> 0:20:20.640 Ryan? Yeah? 0:20:20.680 --> 0:20:21.280 What does that mean? 0:20:21.480 --> 0:20:23.320 Well, I've only seen a couple, and the ones i've 0:20:23.320 --> 0:20:24.840 seen have that long tail. 0:20:25.080 --> 0:20:29.320 Yeah the train. Yeah, no, the long thing in the 0:20:29.359 --> 0:20:31.919 back of the train. Thank you. 0:20:32.000 --> 0:20:33.879 I called it the train, and it's got to be 0:20:33.880 --> 0:20:36.600 picked up by it tail. 0:20:37.400 --> 0:20:38.040 I had worked there. 0:20:38.040 --> 0:20:39.440 I had to get worked my way up to it 0:20:39.760 --> 0:20:44.240 and that thing, and it's white and very beautiful. 0:20:44.720 --> 0:20:46.520 But I've seen it in every movie kind of. 0:20:46.520 --> 0:20:48.600 Look yeah, kind of like the princess, like a big 0:20:48.640 --> 0:20:49.560 poofy bottom. 0:20:50.359 --> 0:20:51.160 You want a princess. 0:20:51.720 --> 0:20:53.400 I don't think so. I don't think it's a style. 0:20:53.840 --> 0:20:55.720 I think, if anything, I like a Mermaid style. 0:20:55.760 --> 0:20:56.480 Oh Mermaid. 0:20:57.119 --> 0:20:59.040 So it kind of like goes down tighter on your ange, 0:20:59.080 --> 0:21:01.960 just have a train, yeah, probably, mm hmmm. 0:21:04.480 --> 0:21:06.200 And then you can pin it when you dance later. 0:21:06.600 --> 0:21:07.919 Yeah, you'd pin it. 0:21:08.320 --> 0:21:10.000 Yeah, it's you bustle it. 0:21:11.040 --> 0:21:12.840 You bustle your train to dance. 0:21:13.119 --> 0:21:16.440 Yeah, because otherwise it's Is this one of those things 0:21:16.440 --> 0:21:18.040 where you go and you have a glass champagne while 0:21:18.040 --> 0:21:18.360 you do it? 0:21:19.040 --> 0:21:20.040 Yeah? Yeah. 0:21:20.840 --> 0:21:22.960 Is this one of the things where the ordainer needs 0:21:22.960 --> 0:21:24.840 to be there? No, you do not have to be 0:21:26.200 --> 0:21:28.320 just Robbie, go go. 0:21:28.520 --> 0:21:29.360 We can't see it. 0:21:29.440 --> 0:21:31.159 Oh yeah, that's right, bad look, I know. 0:21:31.200 --> 0:21:33.200 But you know what's so crazy is I think thinking 0:21:33.200 --> 0:21:34.719 about that, I'm going to want to show him. I'm 0:21:34.720 --> 0:21:35.439 gonna want to send. 0:21:36.359 --> 0:21:37.640 You can't see it's bad luck. 0:21:39.160 --> 0:21:41.080 Like I'm gonna want to go home and be like this, 0:21:41.440 --> 0:21:41.840 there's the. 0:21:41.760 --> 0:21:44.080 Most important dress of your life and you can't see it. 0:21:44.080 --> 0:21:47.920 But because the moment then he does see it, that 0:21:48.040 --> 0:21:49.440 day is going to be so. 0:21:49.280 --> 0:21:50.240 Much more special. 0:21:50.320 --> 0:21:53.239 To get you a glass display box, you're gonna put 0:21:53.280 --> 0:21:55.200 it well lit, You're gonna put it in there. 0:21:55.760 --> 0:21:58.520 He's going to keep it every day after like a 0:21:58.600 --> 0:22:05.640 museum jesuit. Every day. Yeah, no, advent calendar. Every day 0:22:05.720 --> 0:22:06.160 goes by. 0:22:06.800 --> 0:22:10.479 It's really yeah, like anybody's I feel like anybody who 0:22:10.480 --> 0:22:11.960 does that ends up geting divorced later in life. 0:22:11.960 --> 0:22:13.520 Don't do that? Who would know? 0:22:14.600 --> 0:22:16.080 I've watched it on my girl Housewives. 0:22:16.400 --> 0:22:23.440 Yeah, well that's not reality act. I'm a good wedding programmer. 0:22:24.200 --> 0:22:24.879 That's not weddy. 0:22:24.960 --> 0:22:27.560 Don't you remember my fortieth birthday? That was a program perfectly? 0:22:28.880 --> 0:22:30.000 It was a wine selling. 0:22:30.200 --> 0:22:37.760 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, can you can those chic uh yeah? 0:22:37.840 --> 0:22:40.360 Why don't you point seven? Jim? 0:22:40.640 --> 0:22:46.600 It's time for Ryan's roses. Here we go, so Daisy 0:22:46.680 --> 0:22:50.760 writes to us Ciciny and Tanya. Dear Ryan in Cicany, 0:22:50.760 --> 0:22:52.840 I'm ninety percent sure my husband is cheating on me, 0:22:53.240 --> 0:22:56.360 but before I throw our whole marriage away, I need 0:22:56.400 --> 0:22:58.560 your help filling in the extra ten percent. 0:22:59.359 --> 0:22:59.680 She says. 0:22:59.680 --> 0:23:01.760 Basically, one night he ran back to work and took 0:23:01.800 --> 0:23:03.679 my phone by accident, he got a text from a 0:23:03.720 --> 0:23:07.280 woman saying, did your wife let you leave yet? 0:23:07.520 --> 0:23:07.879 WHOA. 0:23:10.400 --> 0:23:13.639 Now that may not mean the relationship, That may just 0:23:13.720 --> 0:23:17.439 mean to go to meeting, but lett is not a 0:23:17.480 --> 0:23:20.000 great word for someone else to t. 0:23:20.080 --> 0:23:22.600 This goes to show that he's speaking about her, and 0:23:22.880 --> 0:23:23.120 in a. 0:23:23.080 --> 0:23:26.680 Way it's not Yeah, it's not respectful. So Daisy, thanks 0:23:26.680 --> 0:23:27.879 for coming on. We're gonna get to the call in 0:23:27.920 --> 0:23:30.160 a second. One thing I just want to clear up here, 0:23:30.720 --> 0:23:33.560 what is your ninety percent assurance? 0:23:35.720 --> 0:23:39.680 Well, over the past few months, my husband's gotten into 0:23:39.720 --> 0:23:43.400 this habit of like forgetting something at work and having 0:23:43.400 --> 0:23:45.600 to run back to the office. And I'm talking this 0:23:45.720 --> 0:23:48.479 happens two to three times a week at least. 0:23:48.840 --> 0:23:51.800 Okay, I'm connecting, don So you think he's running back 0:23:51.840 --> 0:23:54.879 to see the person ended up texting you when she 0:23:54.960 --> 0:23:57.200 thought he was on his way to see her again. 0:23:57.920 --> 0:24:01.000 But you had his phone right. 0:24:02.800 --> 0:24:03.000 Right. 0:24:03.119 --> 0:24:05.240 How long has he gone? 0:24:05.920 --> 0:24:08.520 You know, he's gone for like forty five minutes to 0:24:08.560 --> 0:24:13.720 an hour, so I I don't know. He only works 0:24:13.760 --> 0:24:16.520 like ten minutes from the house, so I'm always just 0:24:16.560 --> 0:24:19.080 assuming it's a lot more than what it was. But 0:24:19.119 --> 0:24:21.720 it's just something wasn't right this time. 0:24:22.520 --> 0:24:25.320 How long has he been doing this? 0:24:25.320 --> 0:24:28.960 This has been happening for a while now, at least 0:24:29.000 --> 0:24:29.560 like a month. 0:24:31.160 --> 0:24:33.960 Okay, So. 0:24:35.440 --> 0:24:38.440 The gist here Daisy on Hold in Highland Park. 0:24:38.640 --> 0:24:41.000 Her husband has been sneaking off to work or saying 0:24:41.000 --> 0:24:42.560 he's got to go back to the office on a 0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:48.000 regular Then one night he leaves his phone accidentally with 0:24:48.119 --> 0:24:52.360 her and a woman texts quote, did your wife let 0:24:52.400 --> 0:24:56.040 you leave yet? So she thinks he's been running off 0:24:56.040 --> 0:25:00.160 to see this person because clearly this woman was waiting 0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:02.880 for him to arrive. She doesn't know who it is, 0:25:04.000 --> 0:25:08.720 but she says she's ninety percent sure he's cheating. So, Daisy, 0:25:08.800 --> 0:25:11.920 I need you to say, Ryan, you have my permission 0:25:11.960 --> 0:25:13.760 to call, and then his name on Kiss FM. 0:25:13.840 --> 0:25:18.239 Go ahead, Brian, you have my permission to call on 0:25:18.359 --> 0:25:18.960 Kiss FM. 0:25:19.280 --> 0:25:22.320 We're gonna do that before that, did you ask him 0:25:22.960 --> 0:25:24.520 about that text when he got home? 0:25:25.840 --> 0:25:28.080 Yeah? I saw he got the text like, oh, did 0:25:28.080 --> 0:25:30.040 your wife let you leave yet? And when he came home, 0:25:30.160 --> 0:25:33.520 I asked him and he said that Tracy's his new 0:25:33.600 --> 0:25:35.280 supervisor at work. 0:25:35.680 --> 0:25:38.320 You want that, you do have to? 0:25:38.520 --> 0:25:41.960 Her name's Tracy. Yeah. Yeah, he said, Oh, she's just 0:25:42.080 --> 0:25:44.240 joking around because like a lot of wives don't let 0:25:44.280 --> 0:25:45.679 their husbands leave or something. 0:25:45.680 --> 0:25:47.840 But that's not okay for a coworker. 0:25:49.359 --> 0:25:51.200 Exactly, yeah, exactly. 0:25:51.240 --> 0:25:54.639 When he sends those roses to Tracy, I'm done. I'm done. 0:25:55.440 --> 0:25:57.400 That's it for me, all right, Daisy, be very quiet. 0:25:57.400 --> 0:26:22.119 We're calling him now here we go, Okay. 0:26:10.880 --> 0:26:15.120 Oh, hi is this Andrew? Yeh? 0:26:15.320 --> 0:26:15.840 Hi Andrew. 0:26:15.840 --> 0:26:18.040 My name is Donna. I'm calling from Mama D's Flowers. 0:26:18.040 --> 0:26:18.920 How are you doing this morning? 0:26:20.840 --> 0:26:22.080 I'm okay. 0:26:22.800 --> 0:26:24.720 You know, we're actually new to the area on Figaroa 0:26:24.800 --> 0:26:28.199 near Avenue fifty seven, right by the Chase, and we 0:26:28.320 --> 0:26:31.440 deliver here locally, and since you are a local resident, 0:26:31.680 --> 0:26:34.440 we're offering a promotion today. It's a free dozen red 0:26:34.520 --> 0:26:36.280 roses that you could send to anybody that you'd like. 0:26:36.720 --> 0:26:38.679 They're absolutely free. I don't need cash, I don't need 0:26:38.720 --> 0:26:41.040 Billion info or anything like that. Just the name of 0:26:41.040 --> 0:26:42.560 the person you want to send him to in a note. 0:26:42.680 --> 0:26:43.959 Is that something you'd be interested in? 0:26:45.880 --> 0:26:47.200 Is this a scam? 0:26:47.840 --> 0:26:49.200 It's a it's a. 0:26:49.119 --> 0:26:52.480 Promotion to promote our flower company. Like I said, we're 0:26:52.520 --> 0:26:54.520 near to the area. They're absolutely free. I don't need 0:26:54.560 --> 0:26:58.080 cash or any sort of info Billion info or credit 0:26:58.160 --> 0:27:00.000 card info or anything like that from you. 0:27:01.640 --> 0:27:03.399 Okay, true, All right. 0:27:03.440 --> 0:27:04.800 We can start with the name of the person you 0:27:04.800 --> 0:27:06.880 want to send them to. They'll receive them by lunchtime today, 0:27:06.920 --> 0:27:09.120 and then we can put a note on the flowers. 0:27:10.720 --> 0:27:14.000 Okay, I uh, I actually know if I have the address. 0:27:13.680 --> 0:27:14.840 When we look for it, we why don't we just 0:27:14.880 --> 0:27:18.520 start with the in the meantime. Her name's Tracy. 0:27:18.960 --> 0:27:22.159 Yeah, did you. 0:27:22.000 --> 0:27:24.040 Your voice be broadcast on the radio. We've got your 0:27:24.040 --> 0:27:25.400 wife Daisy on the phone here. 0:27:25.440 --> 0:27:26.120 She is, My. 0:27:26.240 --> 0:27:30.320 God, you are such a piece of human garbage? 0:27:30.720 --> 0:27:32.399 How dare you do this to me? 0:27:33.040 --> 0:27:34.280 How dare you. 0:27:34.119 --> 0:27:37.760 Eight years together, eight years of my life for what 0:27:38.040 --> 0:27:39.440 we just throw it away? 0:27:39.680 --> 0:27:41.120 Like are you serious? 0:27:41.280 --> 0:27:43.520 Like I mean you just listen to me. 0:27:44.080 --> 0:27:47.280 Listen to me. Do not even think of coming home tonight? 0:27:47.720 --> 0:27:48.720 I have foody GOLs. 0:27:48.760 --> 0:27:49.960 Think I'm going into Boris? 0:27:50.040 --> 0:27:52.520 Is any a lotness? You two will not work when 0:27:52.520 --> 0:27:54.399 you over here today your moment. 0:27:54.920 --> 0:27:58.480 You know what a piece she raised And there's like. 0:27:58.520 --> 0:27:59.480 Oh your clothes, are. 0:28:00.200 --> 0:28:02.040 You at your laugh on your. 0:28:06.200 --> 0:28:09.560 Drangway the favorite you are? 0:28:09.800 --> 0:28:10.120 And then. 0:28:16.000 --> 0:28:17.720 Not gonna be living anymore? 0:28:18.359 --> 0:28:34.159 Dad days for me the word daisy, Daisy, daze Daisy day, 0:28:35.720 --> 0:28:40.160 because the that you are, you're gonna laugh dazzy day, 0:28:41.360 --> 0:28:57.000 Daisy breathe dai z Daisy. She hung up Andrew, Yeah, wow, 0:28:57.480 --> 0:28:59.880 how well did you hear all that? 0:29:02.800 --> 0:29:03.360 What's all of them? 0:29:07.160 --> 0:29:10.800 So you're cheating on your wife with Tracy? And for 0:29:10.920 --> 0:29:11.360 how long? 0:29:14.880 --> 0:29:15.600 Yeah? For bet? 0:29:17.280 --> 0:29:21.240 Okay, all right, we're gonna let you go, Yeah, I 0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:24.960 think I should probably talk to her. Okay, I doubt 0:29:25.000 --> 0:29:25.760 that's a good idea. 0:29:25.840 --> 0:29:29.080 Actually, I don't think she's going to talk to you, Andrew. 0:29:30.880 --> 0:29:31.680 What's left to say? 0:29:31.760 --> 0:29:34.080 Well, maybe maybe you just listen to her. 0:29:34.600 --> 0:29:35.960 I was trying to listen to her. 0:29:36.040 --> 0:29:38.000 I heard everything she said me too. 0:29:38.080 --> 0:29:40.280 I heard closed driveway neighbors. 0:29:40.440 --> 0:29:42.680 Man, his bubbleheads are going to go out in the lawn. 0:29:43.160 --> 0:29:45.560 I didn't hear that. I heard that. 0:29:45.880 --> 0:29:48.520 Are they from the Dodger Games. I'm curious what kind 0:29:48.520 --> 0:29:49.440 of bubbleheads they were. 0:29:50.800 --> 0:29:55.400 It was one of the most explosive and justifiably explosive 0:29:55.520 --> 0:29:59.920 reactions we have gotten from a spouse. Daisy, his wife, 0:30:00.080 --> 0:30:02.920 found out that he was cheating with a woman named Tracy, 0:30:03.600 --> 0:30:07.480 and she told us she ninety percent knew it, but 0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:11.680 needed ten percent more to shut the door. And she 0:30:11.920 --> 0:30:14.320 got the ten percent because he sent the roses to Tracy, 0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:16.600 and that's the woman who had texted his phone. 0:30:16.640 --> 0:30:18.760 So it all she put all the pieces together. 0:30:19.600 --> 0:30:21.760 But I guess to your point, Tamya, she had been 0:30:21.800 --> 0:30:23.720 thinking about this for a long time, so all of 0:30:23.840 --> 0:30:28.720 her thoughts were in one massive string of breath that 0:30:28.960 --> 0:30:33.840 she let out. I wonder how long she went without stopping. 0:30:35.440 --> 0:30:37.120 I'm going to play that back for you in a second. 0:30:37.160 --> 0:30:39.880 But first, Emily, thank you for coming on with us. 0:30:40.960 --> 0:30:42.760 She had a lot to get off her chest, and 0:30:42.880 --> 0:30:45.360 she did. I think she went on for a solid 0:30:45.560 --> 0:30:46.880 minute without taking a breath. 0:30:48.400 --> 0:30:49.720 It definitely sounded like that. 0:30:51.400 --> 0:30:55.000 So there's no option. Here's there's good news. She found 0:30:55.040 --> 0:30:56.239 out he's got to go right. 0:30:58.200 --> 0:31:01.480 Absolutely, I think you know what good for her And 0:31:01.600 --> 0:31:03.920 honestly the worst part of that whole situation was her son. 0:31:04.320 --> 0:31:06.840 I mean, she's gonna have to tell him about his dad. 0:31:06.960 --> 0:31:10.360 That's heartbreaking. I just don't understand how could anyone do 0:31:10.480 --> 0:31:13.280 that to their child selfishness? 0:31:13.960 --> 0:31:18.280 Yeah, all right, Emily, thank you very much for calling. 0:31:18.360 --> 0:31:21.440 We actually have it here. What kind of person are you? 0:31:21.720 --> 0:31:28.080 So if something drastic happens like this, are you the shouder? 0:31:29.040 --> 0:31:31.680 Are you the throw the clothes and bobble heads out 0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:33.920 on the driveway for the neighbors to see, or you 0:31:34.120 --> 0:31:37.080 just to walk out quietly and leave Sisny. 0:31:37.840 --> 0:31:41.520 My gut instinct is probably the shouterer and cause a scene. 0:31:42.240 --> 0:31:45.280 Okay, So here is a version of what Sisney might 0:31:45.360 --> 0:31:47.320 sound like if that would happen. Maybe this is what 0:31:47.480 --> 0:31:48.840 Daisy actually did a few minutes to. 0:31:48.880 --> 0:31:52.280 Come do not even coming home tonight. 0:31:52.720 --> 0:31:53.720 I have foody goss. 0:31:54.000 --> 0:31:58.520 I'm going into a lot will not work today. 0:31:58.840 --> 0:32:02.360 Your mom, you know what a be she raised. 0:32:02.920 --> 0:32:04.560 I'm gonna take all your clows. 0:32:04.240 --> 0:32:07.040 I your your laugh on your. 0:32:11.200 --> 0:32:15.320 Day, the favorite you are, and then I'm. 0:32:21.000 --> 0:32:36.960 Not anymore daz because it's Daisy for me, Daisy, Daisy Day, 0:32:38.000 --> 0:32:39.160 my wife, Daisy Day. 0:32:40.720 --> 0:32:43.120 Because the fan that you are, You're gonna laugh. 0:32:44.280 --> 0:32:50.840 Dazzy dazy, Daisy breathe Daisy and she hung up. 0:32:50.960 --> 0:32:52.000 It's that was viral. 0:32:52.160 --> 0:32:56.200 It's the everything that she It's her worst case feeling 0:32:56.360 --> 0:32:59.280 that she will if you just joined us. 0:32:59.360 --> 0:33:02.920 That was a reaction to Ryan's roses, which was intense 0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:05.240 because she knew it was happening, so she had all 0:33:05.280 --> 0:33:07.640 those thoughts in her head. Right, But you're right, she 0:33:07.720 --> 0:33:10.160 did say I'm gonna throw your stupid bobble heads out. 0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:12.920 I didn't hear that the first. 0:33:12.720 --> 0:33:13.360 Time I heard it. 0:33:13.720 --> 0:33:15.560 That stood out to me because I could just only 0:33:15.600 --> 0:33:18.840 imagine because being married to somebody for so many years, 0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:22.000 they just have their collections of things that doesn't drive 0:33:22.040 --> 0:33:22.520 you nuts. 0:33:23.480 --> 0:33:25.560 And I could just tell that that was about something. 0:33:25.400 --> 0:33:29.760 For her that were Daisy means where those bibbleheads were. 0:33:29.920 --> 0:33:33.120 But she's somebody's version of Tanya's Harry Styles pillow case. 0:33:33.280 --> 0:33:37.040 She hated dusting. She hated dusting and cleaning those bubble heads. 0:33:37.640 --> 0:33:42.640 And so we're in an earthquake r random fall, Tanya, 0:33:42.720 --> 0:33:45.480 would you be that kind of reaction type person or 0:33:45.600 --> 0:33:46.720 a walk out quietly? 0:33:47.160 --> 0:33:49.360 I wouldn't do either. I would curl into a ball 0:33:49.400 --> 0:33:52.000 and cry. I would just cry. That would be what 0:33:52.040 --> 0:33:52.400 I would do. 0:33:54.000 --> 0:33:58.960 Yeah, I probably would too. 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Megan, So, 0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:54.439 what's up and how can we help? 0:34:55.960 --> 0:34:56.000 So? 0:34:56.320 --> 0:35:01.520 I'm calling in because I'm getting married next year and 0:35:02.239 --> 0:35:06.560 I have had well asked one of my sisters, my 0:35:06.760 --> 0:35:12.920 only sister, to be a bridesmaid, and I'm actually wondering. 0:35:12.960 --> 0:35:15.239 And this is why I want your wife's opinion if 0:35:15.520 --> 0:35:19.279 I can unask her to be a bridesmaid, and I'll 0:35:19.280 --> 0:35:22.479 tell you I so I know. So she's eight years 0:35:22.480 --> 0:35:25.799 older than I am. We've never been close. Our mom 0:35:25.840 --> 0:35:28.440 passed away unfortunately when we were younger, and I think 0:35:28.480 --> 0:35:31.640 that's really another reason why we've never been close. But 0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:35.279 I honestly thought of the wedding as a way to 0:35:35.480 --> 0:35:38.680 get closer with her, to kind of mend our relationship. 0:35:39.120 --> 0:35:40.560 And I also wanted her to be a part of 0:35:40.600 --> 0:35:43.840 the day, of course, but ever since I asked her. 0:35:44.120 --> 0:35:49.040 She has been making everything incredibly difficult, really negative, and 0:35:49.280 --> 0:35:54.800 just unenjoyable. Everything is an issue, everything's a problem. She 0:35:54.880 --> 0:35:58.719 has a really negative attitude about everything. The rest of 0:35:58.760 --> 0:36:01.960 my wedding party, where my wedding's going to be, the 0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:04.440 month is going to be in and kind of my 0:36:04.560 --> 0:36:08.319 last draw came last week. We've been trying to nail 0:36:08.360 --> 0:36:11.880 down a date to go wedding dress shopping together, and 0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:14.399 every date that is good for me is not good 0:36:14.440 --> 0:36:17.600 for her, which again I'm trying to work through because 0:36:18.040 --> 0:36:21.239 I'm trying to be accommodating to her. And when the 0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:24.680 last date she gave me again didn't work, she kind 0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:27.080 of had a little bit of a tantrum and kind 0:36:27.080 --> 0:36:28.920 of went nut, saying that I'm making the wedding all 0:36:28.960 --> 0:36:33.359 about me, which I obviously went back to her saying, well, 0:36:33.400 --> 0:36:36.680 it is really about me, but I'm trying to be accommodating, 0:36:36.840 --> 0:36:40.239 and we're kind of left in this space of not 0:36:40.400 --> 0:36:43.800 really speaking, and so I don't know, I just feel 0:36:43.840 --> 0:36:48.480 like the tension might loosen if she didn't have this 0:36:48.640 --> 0:36:53.200 official title. I don't know. I wanted to get your 0:36:53.640 --> 0:36:54.360 opinion on it. 0:36:54.680 --> 0:36:57.480 I'm going to take a pass on this and let 0:36:57.520 --> 0:37:01.880 sis Andy go what would you do or what you do? 0:37:02.160 --> 0:37:05.319 When I saw you calling in Megan, and I saw 0:37:05.360 --> 0:37:07.719 it up on the call screen and it said I 0:37:07.840 --> 0:37:10.600 regret asking my sister to be a bridesmaid. My initial 0:37:10.640 --> 0:37:13.120 reaction before you said anything was you need to suck 0:37:13.160 --> 0:37:14.600 it up, and it's just like, you know, this is 0:37:14.680 --> 0:37:17.399 family's it'll all work itself out. 0:37:17.520 --> 0:37:19.440 But now that you're describing how. 0:37:20.120 --> 0:37:26.840 Bad it is, yeah, part of me, honestly, that was 0:37:26.960 --> 0:37:29.480 my thinking too, like she's my sister. I would never 0:37:29.560 --> 0:37:29.759 do that. 0:37:30.200 --> 0:37:32.160 Here's the thing you to do that, but it is 0:37:32.239 --> 0:37:34.680 your day and it's but it also doesn't give you 0:37:34.760 --> 0:37:37.000 the excuse to act a certain way and be rude 0:37:37.040 --> 0:37:39.919 and which I don't think you're doing anyways. I think 0:37:40.000 --> 0:37:42.080 what you do is you map it out for her 0:37:42.280 --> 0:37:44.040 and be like, hey, it's really coming down to the 0:37:44.080 --> 0:37:45.759 wire of like, I don't know when you're getting married, 0:37:45.800 --> 0:37:47.880 but these are the dates that I really need to 0:37:47.920 --> 0:37:50.800 get stuff handled and done based on the timeline, and 0:37:51.000 --> 0:37:52.719 say this is these are this is the date I 0:37:52.800 --> 0:37:54.239 need to go get my dress, this is the date 0:37:54.280 --> 0:37:55.920 that we're having the bridle shower, this is the date 0:37:55.960 --> 0:37:58.799 and I hope that you can attend the majority of them. 0:37:59.280 --> 0:38:01.160 If you can only come to one thing, I totally 0:38:01.320 --> 0:38:04.359 get it. But give her the map and then if 0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:07.080 she can come to it, great, If she can't, whatever, 0:38:07.239 --> 0:38:09.879 but don't completely shut her out. I don't think that's 0:38:09.880 --> 0:38:10.280 the answer. 0:38:11.680 --> 0:38:14.560 I think that's really good advice, and that's kind of 0:38:14.680 --> 0:38:15.600 like the middle ground. 0:38:15.960 --> 0:38:17.960 Yeah, for both of. 0:38:18.000 --> 0:38:20.960 Us, I'm guessing Sistany and Tanya don't want you to 0:38:21.040 --> 0:38:22.719 give me my view on weddings. 0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:26.120 Don't give her your view, Okay. 0:38:28.880 --> 0:38:30.200 I'll get your number call you later. 0:38:30.239 --> 0:38:32.040 Well, she really needs to compromise a little bit. 0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:33.360 Tony, No, No. 0:38:33.480 --> 0:38:36.279 I just think my take is always it is about you. 0:38:36.960 --> 0:38:41.080 These extra stresses and layers really complicate the focus of 0:38:41.160 --> 0:38:43.279 it being a celebration for you and the person you're 0:38:43.280 --> 0:38:46.319 in love with. And I really find it selfish when 0:38:46.320 --> 0:38:48.200 people get in the way of that, because it really 0:38:48.320 --> 0:38:50.880 is your special day. And Tanya, I'll tell you right now, 0:38:51.360 --> 0:38:54.839 if someone brings you down to a level where they're 0:38:54.880 --> 0:38:59.359 stressing you out, selfish, you lobby need to celebrate each other, 0:38:59.440 --> 0:39:00.560 forget about I. 0:39:00.560 --> 0:39:02.719 Think what I realized too is like I'm going to 0:39:02.760 --> 0:39:04.880 be a very I'm hoping I'm going to be a 0:39:05.000 --> 0:39:06.840 very chill bride. Like I'm going to map out all 0:39:06.880 --> 0:39:09.279 the dates that i can do my wedding dress shoping 0:39:09.280 --> 0:39:11.520 and blah blah blah, and whoever can come can make it, 0:39:11.600 --> 0:39:13.800 can make it. I'm not trying to like hold everybody 0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:15.360 to making it. 0:39:15.640 --> 0:39:17.719 That's all you can do, because you're never gonna be 0:39:17.719 --> 0:39:18.800 able to please everyone. 0:39:19.040 --> 0:39:21.719 Yeah, just so you know, Marano's running a bet on 0:39:21.800 --> 0:39:23.399 you being a chill bride or not. And I'm looking 0:39:23.440 --> 0:39:23.920 at odds. 0:39:25.640 --> 0:39:27.239 I know I'm hoping I stay chilled. 0:39:27.400 --> 0:39:30.040 It's pretty split, all right, Megan, good luck. I think 0:39:30.400 --> 0:39:33.040 Sisney gives you some good advice. And do remember you 0:39:33.239 --> 0:39:36.000 are in a happy, peaceful, loving place and that's the 0:39:36.080 --> 0:39:36.480 good news. 0:39:37.600 --> 0:39:38.719 Thank you guys so much. 0:39:38.760 --> 0:39:39.200 Good luck. 0:39:39.920 --> 0:39:45.759 All right, bye, bye bye, And there you have it. Now, 0:39:45.840 --> 0:39:47.120 this is the portion of the show where I would 0:39:47.120 --> 0:39:49.560 generally ask how's the planning going? But I'm going to 0:39:49.640 --> 0:39:50.879 refrain Tanya, Oh. 0:39:52.080 --> 0:39:55.280 Well, I mean we have interviews. We have three interviews 0:39:55.320 --> 0:40:00.520 this week with wedding planners making some progress so much, 0:40:00.600 --> 0:40:01.839 and Robbie wants to be on the call. 0:40:01.920 --> 0:40:02.800 It's like, how cute are you? 0:40:02.960 --> 0:40:03.120 Yeah? 0:40:03.200 --> 0:40:05.440 He should be He's very cute. That's what I'm marrying. 0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:07.640 Michael was beyond involved with everything. 0:40:08.840 --> 0:40:10.400 Yeah, but I didn't think he would like want to 0:40:10.440 --> 0:40:12.640 be on the wedding. No, I know he's gonna want 0:40:12.640 --> 0:40:14.120 a plan but I didn't think he cared who the 0:40:14.239 --> 0:40:14.840 planner was. 0:40:15.040 --> 0:40:16.560 Oh but he does every. 0:40:16.400 --> 0:40:18.480 Step of the way. Come on, you better get to 0:40:18.520 --> 0:40:19.000 know this guy. 0:40:19.320 --> 0:40:26.840 Yes, on air with Ryan Seacrest, time. 0:40:26.800 --> 0:40:30.000 Goes by the dumber. I must just get why. 0:40:30.520 --> 0:40:33.040 I just think it's the if I'm being honest and 0:40:33.080 --> 0:40:37.200 if I'm reading the people around me and the guidance 0:40:37.239 --> 0:40:40.600 that I receive, it's as if I'm getting dumber, which 0:40:40.640 --> 0:40:44.759 is fine. So generously this morning, Marianna saved me a 0:40:44.840 --> 0:40:47.000 parking spot on P one here at the Burbank Complex. 0:40:47.880 --> 0:40:49.919 That's nice. You don't really have to save spots this early. 0:40:50.360 --> 0:40:52.160 You do it because I'm in a I'm I'm in 0:40:52.280 --> 0:40:53.000 number seventeen. 0:40:53.320 --> 0:40:54.880 Oh okay, that's the hot ticket. 0:40:55.040 --> 0:40:55.239 I know. 0:40:55.480 --> 0:40:56.440 Yeah, whose is it? 0:40:56.480 --> 0:40:59.840 Who's seventeen? I shouldn't say their name, but it is 0:41:00.040 --> 0:41:02.640 start with a K. Yes, anyway, I got to borrow 0:41:03.160 --> 0:41:08.040 starts with a K spot and Marianna was there to 0:41:08.440 --> 0:41:11.479 like hold it okay. So anyway, so we're making small 0:41:11.520 --> 0:41:12.920 it's a long walk and we're making small talk. 0:41:13.000 --> 0:41:13.759 It's a long walk. 0:41:14.080 --> 0:41:15.480 And you don't how many key cards we have to 0:41:15.560 --> 0:41:17.320 use to get in here. Yeah, five different. 0:41:17.480 --> 0:41:19.359 You never bring yours with that too. 0:41:20.840 --> 0:41:24.239 So anyway, she's telling me about this date she went on, 0:41:24.360 --> 0:41:26.399 which is it fair to say it wasn't great? 0:41:26.960 --> 0:41:29.359 It's fair to say that. Yeah, maybe in the back 0:41:29.480 --> 0:41:32.399 room telling me this story. Now, I'm all ears. It's 0:41:32.400 --> 0:41:33.000 a long walk. 0:41:33.400 --> 0:41:35.600 So she says, I think I went out this guy. 0:41:35.640 --> 0:41:39.680 I think that maybe it's me that's the issue, even 0:41:39.719 --> 0:41:43.520 though the issue was him. Now explain that to Cisany 0:41:43.560 --> 0:41:44.320 and Tanya please. 0:41:45.160 --> 0:41:45.359 Yeah. 0:41:45.440 --> 0:41:45.880 So I don't know. 0:41:45.920 --> 0:41:48.520 I mean, the vibes were good, we were having great conversations, 0:41:49.000 --> 0:41:52.560 but I feel like I couldn't concentrate because I kept 0:41:52.640 --> 0:41:54.640 thinking about, Okay, he's wearing a hat. 0:41:54.719 --> 0:42:00.279 It's the first date hat on the first day. Yeah, 0:42:00.280 --> 0:42:01.520 it was just a Dodger hat. 0:42:02.120 --> 0:42:04.120 So, okay, where did you go on the first date? 0:42:04.600 --> 0:42:05.080 The Sherman? 0:42:05.200 --> 0:42:06.759 It's oh, I know where that is. 0:42:06.880 --> 0:42:08.560 Yeah, what did you do at the Sherman? 0:42:09.239 --> 0:42:12.080 We just ate, We had a drink and that was 0:42:12.080 --> 0:42:12.720 pretty much. 0:42:15.719 --> 0:42:20.080 Detail. What what what did you order? In what time? 0:42:21.880 --> 0:42:25.560 I ordered this salmon with the salad on the side. 0:42:25.560 --> 0:42:27.880 I forgot which one was, but yeah, it was really and. 0:42:28.040 --> 0:42:31.640 Was this seven o'clock, six o'clock, eight o'clock, seven thirty? Okay? 0:42:31.680 --> 0:42:33.960 So right, So what I'm trying to get to. It 0:42:34.000 --> 0:42:36.560 comes in in a ball cap Dodger fan. I can't 0:42:36.600 --> 0:42:39.560 fault that, which is great, But what was the issue? 0:42:39.600 --> 0:42:40.960 Why were you distracted? 0:42:41.560 --> 0:42:44.320 And he was also wearing like these really tight pants, 0:42:44.400 --> 0:42:45.280 like skinny jeans. 0:42:46.840 --> 0:42:48.239 I know, I like skinny jean. 0:42:48.360 --> 0:42:51.319 I don't know if you hear the jeans though, Are 0:42:51.360 --> 0:42:53.720 they like spanned pretty skinny? 0:42:53.920 --> 0:42:55.000 Or were they like straight? 0:42:55.200 --> 0:42:55.239 Like? 0:42:55.400 --> 0:42:58.000 Was there a little give to them in the calf area? 0:42:59.120 --> 0:43:01.399 I don't you feel because I actually put on mine 0:43:01.440 --> 0:43:03.360 and left and thought, what a terrible idea. 0:43:03.160 --> 0:43:07.120 This was Ryan they were there was no space there 0:43:07.239 --> 0:43:08.680 was They were just really tight. 0:43:09.680 --> 0:43:14.960 So you're looking at his his apparel, his fashion, and 0:43:15.719 --> 0:43:17.920 you feel like this is superficial in a way. 0:43:18.040 --> 0:43:18.799 What was this shirt? 0:43:19.760 --> 0:43:22.680 I couldn't even I that went through my mind because 0:43:22.680 --> 0:43:23.719 I remember this shirt. 0:43:23.840 --> 0:43:24.879 How don't I even remember the shirt? 0:43:24.920 --> 0:43:26.359 I was too focused on the pants in the hat. 0:43:26.560 --> 0:43:27.880 But why was his personality? 0:43:28.080 --> 0:43:28.840 What was his like? 0:43:29.680 --> 0:43:31.680 I mean, I feel like we were getting along. We 0:43:31.920 --> 0:43:34.800 mainly just talked about work and things like that. But 0:43:35.680 --> 0:43:38.279 I mean he had great taste in music, which was 0:43:38.320 --> 0:43:41.200 surprising because I'm like, how do you have great taste 0:43:41.239 --> 0:43:43.720 in music but jeans not fashion? 0:43:44.680 --> 0:43:47.399 Well, you can't have all of you can't have style 0:43:47.480 --> 0:43:52.440 of every single category. Okay, So Marianna, here's the thing. 0:43:52.600 --> 0:43:55.520 The issue is. I think what she's saying is am 0:43:55.640 --> 0:43:58.440 I am I being a little superficial by judging him 0:43:58.480 --> 0:44:00.520 by his jeans and his ball cap on a date. 0:44:00.600 --> 0:44:05.280 The answer is no, Okay, good, but all that is fixable. 0:44:06.040 --> 0:44:08.759 It's just no because if something like you and I 0:44:08.880 --> 0:44:11.879 have been in situations where something could be any little thing, 0:44:12.400 --> 0:44:14.920 something distracts us from focusing on the person, which is 0:44:15.000 --> 0:44:17.279 a sign from the universe that we are meant to 0:44:17.320 --> 0:44:18.520 be distracted from the person. 0:44:18.719 --> 0:44:20.439 I literally wanted to go on a second date because 0:44:20.480 --> 0:44:23.720 the guy ordered a drink with a straw. I understand 0:44:23.719 --> 0:44:25.680 taking my tie during the day and I was like, 0:44:26.080 --> 0:44:29.400 I can't remember. I was to take it out because 0:44:29.400 --> 0:44:33.600 he's like drinking right, he needed to take in the 0:44:33.640 --> 0:44:35.279 middle of winter, Like, what are we doing here. 0:44:35.400 --> 0:44:37.400 I remember I was on a date and I'm pretty 0:44:37.440 --> 0:44:40.680 good at conversation, and I ran out of things. I 0:44:40.760 --> 0:44:43.040 was struggling so hard, I was working so hard, and 0:44:43.120 --> 0:44:45.440 I thought, well, should I not go out with this 0:44:45.520 --> 0:44:48.880 person again because there's not any there's like not a 0:44:49.000 --> 0:44:51.040 dialogue there, or should I get But she's. 0:44:50.880 --> 0:44:56.720 Saying the conversation went great, you're already we could contact. 0:44:56.880 --> 0:44:57.520 For a second. 0:44:57.680 --> 0:44:59.600 Yeah, And so I didn't go out again because it 0:44:59.719 --> 0:45:02.640 was just too much hard. Yeah, right, So I wouldn't. 0:45:02.920 --> 0:45:05.040 I just think that sometimes these things are meant to 0:45:05.080 --> 0:45:05.640 get in the way. 0:45:06.040 --> 0:45:09.480 I don't think so it's not your guys. 0:45:09.560 --> 0:45:12.000 Come on, I actually think that out cut sounds kind 0:45:12.000 --> 0:45:12.319 of cute. 0:45:12.400 --> 0:45:12.680 Me too. 0:45:12.760 --> 0:45:13.279 I love that. 0:45:13.880 --> 0:45:14.600 Not a first date. 0:45:14.920 --> 0:45:17.160 Well, the kind of concerns me because I want to 0:45:17.160 --> 0:45:26.600 know if there was a receding HAIRLINEA Haines, we got problems. 0:45:26.360 --> 0:45:29.960 And yeah, did you hear the receding hairline committee over here? 0:45:31.800 --> 0:45:32.160 Reason? 0:45:32.400 --> 0:45:34.040 Yeah, receding hairlines can be great. 0:45:34.040 --> 0:45:35.879 And also I want to see it on the first date. 0:45:36.239 --> 0:45:40.440 Some some some yes, some some some some some some 0:45:41.640 --> 0:45:44.440 very Some men look better without. 0:45:44.120 --> 0:45:46.239 Hair that I want to see the confidence in that 0:45:46.400 --> 0:45:47.719 man and I want him to wear it on the 0:45:47.760 --> 0:45:48.160 first date. 0:45:48.200 --> 0:45:50.560 You needed to show me. Don't cover it up, go 0:45:50.640 --> 0:45:51.080 to the wedding. 0:45:51.120 --> 0:45:53.960 Okay talking about certain men. 0:45:54.160 --> 0:45:55.759 I don't know. She's pretty feisty about him. 0:45:55.760 --> 0:45:57.000 Just right, hair. 0:46:00.200 --> 0:46:02.320 All right, Madian to keep us posting, and thank you 0:46:02.600 --> 0:46:05.680 for the generous and u candid walk this morning. 0:46:05.920 --> 0:46:07.680 Absolutely anytime pleasure. 0:46:07.560 --> 0:46:09.040 I mean dating. It's a real bummer. 0:46:10.239 --> 0:46:12.440 I'm going to count how long that that walk is 0:46:12.480 --> 0:46:14.240 from the parking garage to our seats. 0:46:14.640 --> 0:46:17.399 We've never really focused on how I mean. I hate 0:46:17.440 --> 0:46:19.160 to moan about it, but it's a long walk. 0:46:19.239 --> 0:46:20.920 No, And when you get caught in the elevator with 0:46:21.000 --> 0:46:22.640 somebody that you don't want to talk to, and then 0:46:22.680 --> 0:46:24.319 you have to go up that elevator and then up 0:46:24.400 --> 0:46:27.200 this elevator, it's like I do, like how many times. 0:46:27.080 --> 0:46:28.120 You have to swipe your cards. 0:46:28.840 --> 0:46:31.040 We're in a building, fine, safe, but we're in a 0:46:31.080 --> 0:46:35.480 building where there's several elevator stall shafts, yeah called shafts 0:46:36.040 --> 0:46:38.200 and uh yeah, when you're stuck in the same pace 0:46:38.360 --> 0:46:40.200 and you don't know them, or you're making small talk. 0:46:40.200 --> 0:46:44.000 Yes, the small talk. It's always about the weather. It's 0:46:44.040 --> 0:46:46.200 the same I know but it's always the weather. 0:46:47.120 --> 0:46:49.640 As you try and make your way in sitting in 0:46:49.760 --> 0:46:52.280 a little traffic. If you want to blow off some steam, 0:46:53.040 --> 0:46:55.880 if you want to just chime in one eight hundred 0:46:55.880 --> 0:46:57.359 and five to one to two seven. You can also 0:46:57.440 --> 0:46:59.480 text us for one O two seven that talk back 0:46:59.520 --> 0:47:02.640 buttons and side the eyeart radio app on the kiss page. 0:47:02.960 --> 0:47:04.680 And then Dana did it the old fashioned way and 0:47:04.760 --> 0:47:08.160 Van I she just dialed in Dana, good morning, Hi. 0:47:08.200 --> 0:47:09.919 Good morning. How are you guys doing. 0:47:10.440 --> 0:47:11.680 We're great. How's your day going? 0:47:12.880 --> 0:47:13.000 Uh? 0:47:13.480 --> 0:47:14.319 It could be better? 0:47:14.880 --> 0:47:16.319 Okay, what's up? How can we help? 0:47:17.840 --> 0:47:22.360 I probably want to apologize in advance. Okay, So I 0:47:22.480 --> 0:47:24.800 used to date my boss. We were together for like 0:47:24.880 --> 0:47:27.799 six months, and we kept a secret from everyone at work. 0:47:29.239 --> 0:47:32.520 So now he's getting married and we still kind of 0:47:32.600 --> 0:47:34.880 sort of have like a connection, Like we hooked up 0:47:34.880 --> 0:47:36.920 a couple of times, but that was like in the 0:47:37.000 --> 0:47:40.279 beginning of him seeing this new person, and I mean, 0:47:41.040 --> 0:47:44.960 I feel terrible about it, so we stopped, but like 0:47:45.040 --> 0:47:47.880 he still messages me. He still feels me like dirty 0:47:48.000 --> 0:47:49.960 photos and I just I ignore it. 0:47:50.760 --> 0:47:52.719 So, Okay, he just. 0:47:52.840 --> 0:47:56.799 Invited me to his wedding and he says that about Yeah, 0:47:56.960 --> 0:47:59.520 he's saying that I can come, but I can't bring 0:47:59.600 --> 0:48:02.359 up plus want unless he approve it, which I feel 0:48:02.400 --> 0:48:06.279 like it's so inappropriate. So like I'm like, I just 0:48:06.360 --> 0:48:08.520 won't go, but I think it's going to be awkward 0:48:08.560 --> 0:48:10.759 because our our whole team is going to be there, 0:48:11.040 --> 0:48:13.360 and I don't know. I didn't I don't want to 0:48:13.400 --> 0:48:14.800 call them scene if I want to go to h 0:48:15.040 --> 0:48:17.440 R because we're going to you know, both be in trouble. 0:48:18.239 --> 0:48:20.120 And yeah, like I still have feelings for him. I 0:48:20.320 --> 0:48:21.800 just I don't know what to do. 0:48:23.840 --> 0:48:25.719 So you have feelings for him. 0:48:25.920 --> 0:48:28.640 He's getting married, he's sending you dirty pictures, and he's 0:48:28.680 --> 0:48:29.720 invited you to the wedding. 0:48:30.440 --> 0:48:36.200 That's really confusing. Whack do you really like? You still 0:48:36.280 --> 0:48:36.600 like him? 0:48:37.880 --> 0:48:41.200 I mean, I yeah, why do you want to be 0:48:41.320 --> 0:48:42.000 with someone like that? 0:48:43.440 --> 0:48:44.120 I know why? 0:48:44.320 --> 0:48:47.600 I keep telling myself, like Dana, like she's so stupid. 0:48:49.760 --> 0:48:53.319 The ship has sailed. You guys are not dating. He's 0:48:53.360 --> 0:48:55.960 getting married. That's not going to last if he's sending 0:48:56.000 --> 0:48:57.919 you pictures. Right now, here's the question. 0:48:58.840 --> 0:48:59.520 You like him. 0:49:00.160 --> 0:49:03.000 He's still trying to connect with you. He's invited you 0:49:03.120 --> 0:49:05.920 to the wedding. He's gonna get married. What if he 0:49:06.040 --> 0:49:09.279 invites you to see him or you he wants to 0:49:09.360 --> 0:49:10.480 see you after he's married. 0:49:10.600 --> 0:49:11.840 What are you going to do? Dana? 0:49:13.880 --> 0:49:19.680 Uh, I'm gonna I'm gonna respect the marriage. Like I 0:49:20.600 --> 0:49:22.160 I wouldn't want that to happen to me. I'm going 0:49:22.200 --> 0:49:23.240 to respect the marriage. 0:49:23.440 --> 0:49:23.799 I just. 0:49:25.440 --> 0:49:27.400 Then, I think you should start respecting it now if 0:49:27.400 --> 0:49:29.719 that's your choice by not going to the wedding, I 0:49:29.840 --> 0:49:30.399 think so too. 0:49:31.560 --> 0:49:33.359 And it's a slippery slope. Do you respond to him 0:49:33.360 --> 0:49:34.360 when he sends you those photos? 0:49:35.360 --> 0:49:35.400 No? 0:49:35.760 --> 0:49:37.719 No, I ignore him, like and I see him at 0:49:37.760 --> 0:49:40.400 work and I just you know, I try not to. 0:49:40.480 --> 0:49:42.480 Interact with like. 0:49:45.400 --> 0:49:46.240 This is dangerous. 0:49:46.840 --> 0:49:49.800 This is dangerous, So you need to I think you 0:49:49.880 --> 0:49:52.840 need to send clear messages that it's over, you have 0:49:53.040 --> 0:49:55.759 no interest, and you wish him the best. That's what 0:49:55.840 --> 0:49:57.080 I would do, That's what I think. 0:49:57.200 --> 0:50:00.840 And if it doesn't stop, then this is turning into harassment. 0:50:03.000 --> 0:50:04.840 You're right, you're right, but. 0:50:05.080 --> 0:50:08.200 Don't go to the wedding. Don't go. 0:50:08.560 --> 0:50:11.200 You're on vacation, book a vacation somewhere else. 0:50:11.520 --> 0:50:13.920 No, just say I don't feel like it's appropriate. 0:50:14.080 --> 0:50:15.800 Well, they work together, but that she was saying that 0:50:15.880 --> 0:50:17.200 she's gonna be the only one that the team that 0:50:17.280 --> 0:50:20.399 wasn't there. Blah blah, excuse as to why you're not there, 0:50:20.480 --> 0:50:23.000 Go on this girl's trip with your sister or someone 0:50:23.000 --> 0:50:23.640 else like that she. 0:50:23.680 --> 0:50:26.400 Needs to be out of Yeah, good luck with this, 0:50:26.560 --> 0:50:33.000 Thank you Dana for calling. Oh all right bye? But 0:50:33.160 --> 0:50:35.520 this guy sending her pictures while he's like walking, why 0:50:35.560 --> 0:50:36.680 is he inviting her to the wedding? 0:50:36.719 --> 0:50:37.960 What's that so weird? 0:50:39.760 --> 0:50:42.120 On air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:50:43.640 --> 0:50:46.000 Well, that is going to wrap it up for us. Hey, 0:50:46.440 --> 0:50:48.880 if someone is Systaney Tony, if someone you used to 0:50:49.160 --> 0:50:51.959 like told you they had feelings for you today, would 0:50:51.960 --> 0:50:53.280 you be flattered or annoyed? 0:50:53.560 --> 0:50:57.160 Tanya, I'd be flattered and I'd be like, I'm taking baby. 0:50:58.200 --> 0:50:59.160 I wouldn't feel a thing. 0:51:01.239 --> 0:51:01.279 Like. 0:51:01.320 --> 0:51:04.120 I wouldn't feel annoyed. I wouldn't feel flattered. I would 0:51:04.120 --> 0:51:04.600 feel nothing. 0:51:05.440 --> 0:51:11.359 I feel both, Yeah, Dad, Yeah, I think both right right. 0:51:12.400 --> 0:51:13.200 They wouldn't bother me. 0:51:14.400 --> 0:51:16.120 But it's also like, why are they coming to you now? 0:51:17.320 --> 0:51:19.480 It's a hypothetical, Guys, it's not happening. I just want 0:51:19.480 --> 0:51:19.920 to fill it out. 0:51:20.600 --> 0:51:22.400 I imagine they all do anyways. 0:51:22.080 --> 0:51:25.360 So right, I mean in Sisty's had, She's got her 0:51:25.400 --> 0:51:28.359 movie written. Thanks tomorrow, we're back. Thank you, back room, 0:51:28.719 --> 0:51:32.319 bye bye, thank you ye, and thank you for listening. 0:51:32.400 --> 0:51:35.439 Sissy's Gonna take it till eleven o'clock. That's your odd kiss. 0:51:36.120 --> 0:51:38.920 Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make 0:51:38.960 --> 0:51:41.160 sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow