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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to Ryan.

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Speaker 1: On Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: Everybody's talking about this new way of speed dating in

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Speaker 3: La Sistany.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so it is ice bath speed dating.

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Speaker 3: I would do it if I were single looking a date.

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Speaker 3: Why not? How do you know what I wouldn't.

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Speaker 5: Be because you're always on the air talking about how

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Speaker 5: you don't even want to eat in your bathing suit.

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Speaker 2: You're not going to be an ice bath.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, on a first date in your bathing suit.

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Speaker 2: Didn't think about the lighting.

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Speaker 5: Exactly and my cold things.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's not a good look. No, it's not a

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Speaker 2: great first impression.

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Speaker 4: It's fine.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying, I just.

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Speaker 3: Wow, you've talked to me out of it, and I

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Speaker 3: eve even heard the story, Sisty.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I want to burst your bubble.

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Speaker 6: Everyone is all into ice plunging ice baths.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if another person says to me, do you

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Speaker 2: cold plunge?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, don't to plunge?

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Speaker 2: Do I cold plunge? Do you yahoo?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Apparently it's much better to do with somebody else because

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Speaker 6: you can chit chat and it'll, you know, make the

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Speaker 6: time go by faster.

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Speaker 2: Oh interesting, And a DJ plays music right, uh huh.

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Speaker 6: And so they created a speed dating service out of it,

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Speaker 6: and just recently more than one hundred people participated in

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Speaker 6: this event. It was called ice past La and it

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Speaker 6: was done right here in Venice. And they have been

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Speaker 6: doing these ice bath events more and more to kind

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Speaker 6: of encourage people to meet outside of bars and drinking

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Speaker 6: in general and focus more on health.

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Speaker 4: And cold plunging is all the rage right now.

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Speaker 2: I like it and.

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Speaker 6: It's kind of interesting because you what it kind of

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Speaker 6: forces you to do is focus on the conversation.

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Speaker 3: Because you're trying to distract yourself from feeling what you're feeling.

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Speaker 3: And there's quite an ice breaking bond no pun intended,

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Speaker 3: that happens over this too. Tops ice tobs, speed dating

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Speaker 3: and ice tubs made.

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Speaker 4: For you, so you really don't have any time to waste.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 6: Sometimes you're speed and you're like, oh, so like, let

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Speaker 6: me think of what I should They just.

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Speaker 4: Like you're you're so cold. You get right down to it.

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Speaker 6: You kind of just be like what does love mean

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Speaker 6: to you? Yeah, it's like what do you feel most alive?

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Speaker 6: What makes you feel most alive? What would constitute a

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Speaker 6: perfect day for you? So the finages that get straight

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Speaker 6: to like the questions that matter to you.

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Speaker 3: But the fact that you came to an ice bath

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Speaker 3: DJ party says cool. Yes, I think it says cool

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Speaker 3: like you kind of you don't give it, you know

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Speaker 3: what you're say you know what, I'm just going to

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Speaker 3: go for it.

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Speaker 7: Yes.

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Speaker 6: I think it's a lot of laid bad, laid back

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Speaker 6: people and could be interesting.

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Speaker 3: It's the latest speed dating trend here in LA. Let's

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Speaker 3: get to Claire here on the phones one eight hundred

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Speaker 3: and five two one one or two seven and Culver City, Claire,

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 8: I'm doing all right?

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Speaker 2: Thanks, I was just in Culver City yesterday.

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Speaker 9: Wow.

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Speaker 3: So many great places to sit outside and have something

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Speaker 3: to eat there.

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Speaker 10: Oh, it's a great place for restaurants.

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Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite?

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Speaker 8: No, they're actually a couple friend restaurants there that I

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Speaker 3: I saw one called was it bistro or something? I

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Speaker 3: drove past that. Actually I saw a bunch of people

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Speaker 3: sitting outside.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You like muscles and pumpfreats.

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Speaker 8: I love them so much.

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Speaker 3: I like to dip my fries in the pump free

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Speaker 3: and my pumpfreat's in the muscle sauce.

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Speaker 10: Oh you have to.

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Speaker 9: It's so good.

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Speaker 8: It's like that wine and cream butter sauce.

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Speaker 11: So good.

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Speaker 2: Claire, did you call to talk about food? This is fantastic.

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Speaker 2: I'm so happy.

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Speaker 10: I'd be happy too, But you.

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Speaker 3: Have another issue. I am told by Mark, our producer,

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Speaker 3: who wants me to move on. Yeah, God, Claire, what

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Speaker 3: what happened?

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Speaker 8: Lightly less fun?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 10: So okay.

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Speaker 8: I have this coworker who started acting super weird around me,

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Speaker 8: and I wasn't sure why, so I talked to one

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Speaker 8: of our other colleagues about it, Like I didn't, you know,

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Speaker 8: I didn't want to say something directly to my coworker

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Speaker 8: and they said, and I know this sounds to me,

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Speaker 8: this sounds so petty, but I really want your take.

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Speaker 8: The coworker who was acting salty is apparently bitter because

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Speaker 8: she sees that I watch her tiktoks but I don't

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Speaker 8: like them, if that makes sense. Like on TikTok you

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Speaker 8: can see who watches your videos, but also you know

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Speaker 8: that way, she can see that I've watched them, but

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Speaker 8: I haven't really liked that. Yeah, and she's just like

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Speaker 8: I guess she's trying to be an influencer. Her tiktoks

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Speaker 8: are pretty successful, Like, she gets a lot of views

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Speaker 9: So likes are a huge deal to her.

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Speaker 8: But now I don't know what to do about it,

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Speaker 8: because like, if I confront her to try to make

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Speaker 10: Of over the top.

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Speaker 8: But maybe I could like fix my TikTok settings so

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Speaker 8: she can't see that I'm watching.

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Speaker 3: Her videos or issue, and I like, I get it,

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Speaker 3: like it is an issue, and the fact that it

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Speaker 3: is is so petty to me.

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Speaker 5: But why don't I just like her tiktoks?

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Speaker 2: Then she doesn't like them?

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Speaker 5: Well why not?

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Speaker 2: Why not?

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Speaker 8: I just don't like, I don't. I don't really, I

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Speaker 8: don't know. I don't even think about it. I don't

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Speaker 8: typically like videos. I just, you know, I watch them

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Speaker 4: I've never really double tippy either. I kind of just

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Speaker 4: like so mean I sometimes do, but I forget not mean.

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Speaker 2: It's like she has a life.

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Speaker 5: Well, okay, she's clear she's watching them, so she's.

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Speaker 3: Already Anything that you did watch that struck you as

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Speaker 3: entertaining that your coworker posted on TikTok.

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Speaker 8: Yeah occasionally, sure, But I mean, I guess I just

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Speaker 8: I'm like, oh hah, you know that was like cute

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Speaker 8: or funnier, informative or whatever, and then I just move on.

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Speaker 8: I've never I guess I've never really thought about how

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Speaker 8: it might affect the person who posts the content, whether

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Speaker 3: Well, I guess there's two ways to deal with this.

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Speaker 3: One who cares what she thinks about you liking the

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Speaker 3: videos or not? All right, and just move on because

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Speaker 3: it is kind of patty. Or two, just start liking

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Speaker 3: the videos whether you like them or not, move on

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Speaker 3: not if you hear from again.

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Speaker 9: I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 8: I mean that seems kind of arbitrary to me. But

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Speaker 8: also I work with this person, so I don't want

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Speaker 8: things to be weird.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and like every eighth one, Yeah, maybe just don't

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Speaker 6: to keep the peace and not create any sort of awkwardness.

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Speaker 2: If it means again.

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Speaker 5: To your coworker and you don't care, why wouldn't you

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Speaker 5: do it?

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Speaker 4: Because it's not her truth.

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Speaker 5: Oh my yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 8: I've never thought about it before. I don't like feeling

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Speaker 8: pressured into it just so that this one girl won't

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Speaker 8: be mad at me, you know, like you know what

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Speaker 8: I mean, And then.

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Speaker 2: It's not really here's the question.

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Speaker 3: Would you rather feel not pressured and just move on

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Speaker 3: and potentially create a little awkwardness at work or forget

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Speaker 3: about the fact that you don't care and you're a

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Speaker 3: little pressured into liking them, but have no awkwardness at work.

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Speaker 2: Which one's better for you?

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Speaker 8: I mean, obviously I'd prefer not to have awkwardness at work.

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Speaker 8: And if it just takes you know, doing a little

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Speaker 8: click click here and there, I guess that's something I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I don't like this stuff. It'sitting tiny

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Speaker 3: post on time, you know, but I do it to.

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Speaker 2: Keep the peace.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can tell.

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Speaker 2: Claire thank you, good luck. I think we have a

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Speaker 3: But also, like, let's examine this cowork who cares so

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Speaker 3: much about whether or not Claire's liking or TikTok totally right,

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Speaker 3: col gl not yl gl right. I think I'm not

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Speaker 3: good at those. Yeah, I don't even know if l

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Speaker 3: OL's laugh out loud or lots of love.

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Speaker 6: I don't ever lots of love never.

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Speaker 2: How do y'all know? Oh gosh, Melissa in Long Beach,

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Speaker 2: how are you?

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Speaker 12: Hi?

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Speaker 10: Good?

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Speaker 11: How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing great? Thanks? So you're calling about your boss?

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Speaker 2: Your boss is d ming somebody? Yeah, yeah, what's happened?

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Speaker 10: Okay? So I work for this guy. I'm I'm not

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Speaker 10: his personal assistant, but I do a lot for him

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Speaker 10: and some of the other bosses at my company, Like

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Speaker 10: I handle social media and you know what I else

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Speaker 10: they need. And so I've gotten to know him really well,

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Speaker 10: and I've got to know his girlfriend really well. We

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Speaker 10: don't hang out or anything, but like we text each other,

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Speaker 10: you know, like follow each other. She's really cool. Anyway,

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Speaker 10: I was working on socials and I noticed that he

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Speaker 10: is using the company's business account to DM his X

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Speaker 10: and I knew her too, but not as well. I

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Speaker 10: didn't read that much of it because, like you to

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Speaker 10: be crossing a line. The messages just looked really flirty.

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Speaker 10: And my question is, like, do I tell his girlfriend

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Speaker 10: what's going on? Do I keep my mouth shut? And

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Speaker 10: I mean, I don't even know how to do it.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 3: I mean if you so, one thing you could do

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Speaker 3: is look the other way. One thing you could do

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Speaker 3: is think about if you do tell her, how it

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Speaker 3: could possibly go, Like, how's it going to if you

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Speaker 3: do tell it, you feel like you should how's that

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Speaker 3: going to go?

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Speaker 2: Then?

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Speaker 3: With your job and where do you feel like your

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Speaker 3: priority is? Is it in you know, being a good

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Speaker 3: almost friend to his girlfriend to let her know or

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Speaker 3: do you want that? I mean, I don't know if

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Speaker 3: you'd lose your job, but it would probably create some tension,

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Speaker 2: Your work a little bit.

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Speaker 3: the room, Tony, what would you do, oh teller? What

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Speaker 5: I'd get to that later.

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Speaker 4: I stay out of it. You don't know this other person.

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Speaker 4: You don't know how it ended beforehand.

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Speaker 2: No, what would you do?

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Speaker 6: I feel like if I was close to his current girlfriend,

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Speaker 3: And if I, yeah, looks like we have a consensus here,

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Speaker 4: He's putting on his lip gloss, I would stay out

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Speaker 2: Oh, Melissa, this is no help at all at all.

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Speaker 3: Do you know the good person would tell her, and

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Speaker 4: Oh it's so hard.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, welcome, well, thanks and hung up. You guys suck.

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Speaker 3: Thanks a lot, you guys.

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Speaker 6: I guess it's different if she knows the girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: I don't like scenarios like that because I that's it.

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Speaker 3: There's no solution there there.

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Speaker 6: If she knows the current girlfriend, and then that changes

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Speaker 6: I'm just like, I don't know. You guys, y'all are messy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, everybody else in the back room would.

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Speaker 4: Tell her keep your mess over there.

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Speaker 2: Every day signature at morning act this time?

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Speaker 3: Could you have anything but something that you could take

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Speaker 2: Oh, I want to know why, Well, flush the toilet

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Speaker 3: The toilet bowl is a perfect hiding spot for spiders

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Speaker 5: I mean, that's not what I do first ever.

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Speaker 4: But why stop there?

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Speaker 5: I saw the remote?

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Speaker 4: It's like then I saw everything else.

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Speaker 3: I'm up the door knobs, about the countertop, how about

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Speaker 2: And throw pillow.

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Speaker 3: A quote for you guys, Please be weird, be random,

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Speaker 3: be who you are, because you never know who would

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Speaker 5: Oh that's so, and that is true.

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Speaker 4: Be yourself.

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Speaker 2: Be random. Random. Actually, let's be random today.

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Speaker 5: Let's be weird.

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Speaker 2: Let's be fun. Yeah, let's be random and weird.

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Speaker 5: Let's be us, Let's be beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Cicity has a story about how we can extend the

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Speaker 3: life of our best friends dogs.

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Speaker 6: Yay, scientists, we have them to think for this.

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Speaker 4: Apparently it's a.

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Speaker 6: Medication designed to extend the lifespan of dogs. The drug

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Speaker 6: currently is called loy zero zero one, so I don't

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Speaker 6: not available to pet owners. They're hoping that it will

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Speaker 6: be available in a couple of years. They're saying twenty

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Speaker 2: It Dogs two.

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Speaker 6: It is specifically designed for large adult dogs, who generally

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Speaker 6: you know, like smaller dogs tend to live longer. I mean, like,

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Speaker 2: That's funny.

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Speaker 6: So it's not like a pill, and it's not food

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Speaker 6: They would have to inject your dog every three to

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Speaker 4: So you have to make the choice. I'm a songer

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Speaker 4: But the side effects.

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Speaker 5: That means, yeah, that sounds.

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Speaker 5: Good progress.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: They might finger it all.

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Speaker 3: Out that these are the things that are focused for

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Speaker 4: But how wild could this be? What if it actually expands?

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Speaker 4: What if it doubles their life?

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Speaker 2: Like, oh my gosh, that's a that's a life changer.

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Speaker 4: I think so too.

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Speaker 2: That's a life changer.

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Speaker 4: Right, do you see what Paris Hilton did.

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Speaker 3: So she's done to me things. Yeah, like what what

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Speaker 5: She's well, she lost her teacup.

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Speaker 4: She went missing for a really long time.

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Speaker 6: But before that, I guess she got like the DNA

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Speaker 4: So it's crazy stuff.

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Speaker 6: But the rebuilt it, rebuilt her exact dog and made

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Speaker 4: It's the only reason I have Peacock.

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Speaker 6: It's like the only reason I pay for Peacock is

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Speaker 3: Show that Peacock wants. They wanted to suck in with

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Speaker 1: Yeah on air with Ryan Seacrest, So honored.

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Speaker 3: Tany and Robbie asked me to officiate them at their

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Speaker 3: wedding TBD date and location, TBD size scale. Uh, now,

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Speaker 3: what are you going to serve for food?

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Speaker 5: If they get there?

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Speaker 2: I think you should do fun food.

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Speaker 5: Pizza, pizza a sudden.

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Speaker 4: He's your wedding bladder.

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Speaker 3: By the way, if you want, I'm happy to talk

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Speaker 3: with the wedding planner. I'm good at this stuff. I'm

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you are pretty good at programming. Honestly, I have

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Speaker 2: No, it is for us.

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Speaker 5: It is a priority, but it's not at the forefront.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, think about all the people we know in

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Speaker 3: LA if you do it here, Yeah, and do something cool.

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Speaker 5: Gluten free pizza for sure.

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Speaker 2: Oh you have to. You can't have gluten on your

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Speaker 2: wedding either, No, can't have gluten.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I get like very tasty gluten free stuff for everyone.

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Speaker 3: Food trucks, food trucks. Okay, so what's the reason we're here. Yes,

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Speaker 3: you have some breaking news.

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Speaker 5: Go ahead, No, it's not breaking news.

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Speaker 2: But you're making some progress with the planning.

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Speaker 5: I have a date. Nope, what I'm going to try

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Speaker 5: on wedding dresses this month?

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Speaker 2: Gosh, I got into a exciting.

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Speaker 5: I know, because I didn't think that that should be

456
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Speaker 5: something that I do really early on. But a girlfriend

457
00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:03,200
Speaker 5: of mine said that it can take up to ten

458
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:05,480
Speaker 5: months to get your wedding dress. So then I really

459
00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:06,440
Speaker 5: just panicked.

460
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Speaker 2: That's ten months because that's the end of the year.

461
00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:10,520
Speaker 9: Yeah.

462
00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,199
Speaker 2: No, don't get it done when you were thinking about it.

463
00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:16,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I guess that's not necessarily the case

464
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:16,280
Speaker 5: for you.

465
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,720
Speaker 2: Think dress? Are you thinking traditional wedding dress?

466
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:20,119
Speaker 4: What does that mean to you?

467
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:20,640
Speaker 9: Ryan? Yeah?

468
00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 5: What does that mean?

469
00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:23,320
Speaker 3: Well, I've only seen a couple, and the ones i've

470
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:24,840
Speaker 3: seen have that long tail.

471
00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:29,320
Speaker 2: Yeah the train. Yeah, no, the long thing in the

472
00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:31,919
Speaker 2: back of the train. Thank you.

473
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:33,879
Speaker 3: I called it the train, and it's got to be

474
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 3: picked up by it tail.

475
00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:38,040
Speaker 2: I had worked there.

476
00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:39,440
Speaker 3: I had to get worked my way up to it

477
00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:44,240
Speaker 3: and that thing, and it's white and very beautiful.

478
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,520
Speaker 2: But I've seen it in every movie kind of.

479
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:48,600
Speaker 5: Look yeah, kind of like the princess, like a big

480
00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:49,560
Speaker 5: poofy bottom.

481
00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:51,160
Speaker 4: You want a princess.

482
00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:53,400
Speaker 5: I don't think so. I don't think it's a style.

483
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,720
Speaker 5: I think, if anything, I like a Mermaid style.

484
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:56,480
Speaker 4: Oh Mermaid.

485
00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:59,040
Speaker 5: So it kind of like goes down tighter on your ange,

486
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 5: just have a train, yeah, probably, mm hmmm.

487
00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,200
Speaker 4: And then you can pin it when you dance later.

488
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:07,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'd pin it.

489
00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's you bustle it.

490
00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:12,840
Speaker 2: You bustle your train to dance.

491
00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:16,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, because otherwise it's Is this one of those things

492
00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 3: where you go and you have a glass champagne while

493
00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:18,360
Speaker 3: you do it?

494
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah.

495
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 2: Is this one of the things where the ordainer needs

496
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,840
Speaker 2: to be there? No, you do not have to be

497
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 2: just Robbie, go go.

498
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:29,360
Speaker 5: We can't see it.

499
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,159
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's right, bad look, I know.

500
00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:33,200
Speaker 5: But you know what's so crazy is I think thinking

501
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:34,719
Speaker 5: about that, I'm going to want to show him. I'm

502
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:35,439
Speaker 5: gonna want to send.

503
00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:37,640
Speaker 2: You can't see it's bad luck.

504
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,080
Speaker 5: Like I'm gonna want to go home and be like this,

505
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 5: there's the.

506
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 2: Most important dress of your life and you can't see it.

507
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 6: But because the moment then he does see it, that

508
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:49,440
Speaker 6: day is going to be so.

509
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:50,240
Speaker 4: Much more special.

510
00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:53,239
Speaker 3: To get you a glass display box, you're gonna put

511
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 3: it well lit, You're gonna put it in there.

512
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 2: He's going to keep it every day after like a

513
00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 2: museum jesuit. Every day. Yeah, no, advent calendar. Every day

514
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:06,160
Speaker 2: goes by.

515
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:10,479
Speaker 6: It's really yeah, like anybody's I feel like anybody who

516
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 6: does that ends up geting divorced later in life.

517
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 2: Don't do that? Who would know?

518
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 4: I've watched it on my girl Housewives.

519
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's not reality act. I'm a good wedding programmer.

520
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 4: That's not weddy.

521
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 3: Don't you remember my fortieth birthday? That was a program perfectly?

522
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 3: It was a wine selling.

523
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, can you can those chic uh yeah?

524
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,360
Speaker 2: Why don't you point seven? Jim?

525
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 3: It's time for Ryan's roses. Here we go, so Daisy

526
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 3: writes to us Ciciny and Tanya. Dear Ryan in Cicany,

527
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 3: I'm ninety percent sure my husband is cheating on me,

528
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,360
Speaker 3: but before I throw our whole marriage away, I need

529
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 3: your help filling in the extra ten percent.

530
00:22:59,359 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 2: She says.

531
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 3: Basically, one night he ran back to work and took

532
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:03,679
Speaker 3: my phone by accident, he got a text from a

533
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 3: woman saying, did your wife let you leave yet?

534
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 2: WHOA.

535
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 3: Now that may not mean the relationship, That may just

536
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:17,439
Speaker 3: mean to go to meeting, but lett is not a

537
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 3: great word for someone else to t.

538
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 6: This goes to show that he's speaking about her, and

539
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:23,120
Speaker 6: in a.

540
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 3: Way it's not Yeah, it's not respectful. So Daisy, thanks

541
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:27,879
Speaker 3: for coming on. We're gonna get to the call in

542
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,160
Speaker 3: a second. One thing I just want to clear up here,

543
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 3: what is your ninety percent assurance?

544
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 9: Well, over the past few months, my husband's gotten into

545
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:43,400
Speaker 9: this habit of like forgetting something at work and having

546
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 9: to run back to the office. And I'm talking this

547
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,479
Speaker 9: happens two to three times a week at least.

548
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm connecting, don So you think he's running back

549
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,879
Speaker 3: to see the person ended up texting you when she

550
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 3: thought he was on his way to see her again.

551
00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 2: But you had his phone right.

552
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 1: Right.

553
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 4: How long has he gone?

554
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 9: You know, he's gone for like forty five minutes to

555
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 9: an hour, so I I don't know. He only works

556
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 9: like ten minutes from the house, so I'm always just

557
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 9: assuming it's a lot more than what it was. But

558
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 9: it's just something wasn't right this time.

559
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 2: How long has he been doing this?

560
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 9: This has been happening for a while now, at least

561
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 9: like a month.

562
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 3: Okay, So.

563
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 2: The gist here Daisy on Hold in Highland Park.

564
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 3: Her husband has been sneaking off to work or saying

565
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 3: he's got to go back to the office on a

566
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 3: regular Then one night he leaves his phone accidentally with

567
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:52,360
Speaker 3: her and a woman texts quote, did your wife let

568
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 3: you leave yet? So she thinks he's been running off

569
00:24:56,040 --> 00:25:00,160
Speaker 3: to see this person because clearly this woman was waiting

570
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,880
Speaker 3: for him to arrive. She doesn't know who it is,

571
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 3: but she says she's ninety percent sure he's cheating. So, Daisy,

572
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,920
Speaker 3: I need you to say, Ryan, you have my permission

573
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 3: to call, and then his name on Kiss FM.

574
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:18,239
Speaker 9: Go ahead, Brian, you have my permission to call on

575
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 9: Kiss FM.

576
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 3: We're gonna do that before that, did you ask him

577
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 3: about that text when he got home?

578
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 9: Yeah? I saw he got the text like, oh, did

579
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 9: your wife let you leave yet? And when he came home,

580
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 9: I asked him and he said that Tracy's his new

581
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 9: supervisor at work.

582
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 2: You want that, you do have to?

583
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 9: Her name's Tracy. Yeah. Yeah, he said, Oh, she's just

584
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 9: joking around because like a lot of wives don't let

585
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 9: their husbands leave or something.

586
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: But that's not okay for a coworker.

587
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 10: Exactly, yeah, exactly.

588
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 9: When he sends those roses to Tracy, I'm done. I'm done.

589
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,400
Speaker 3: That's it for me, all right, Daisy, be very quiet.

590
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 3: We're calling him now here we go, Okay.

591
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:15,120
Speaker 1: Oh, hi is this Andrew? Yeh?

592
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 4: Hi Andrew.

593
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 6: My name is Donna. I'm calling from Mama D's Flowers.

594
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:18,920
Speaker 6: How are you doing this morning?

595
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 9: I'm okay.

596
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 6: You know, we're actually new to the area on Figaroa

597
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:28,199
Speaker 6: near Avenue fifty seven, right by the Chase, and we

598
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 6: deliver here locally, and since you are a local resident,

599
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 6: we're offering a promotion today. It's a free dozen red

600
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 6: roses that you could send to anybody that you'd like.

601
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,679
Speaker 6: They're absolutely free. I don't need cash, I don't need

602
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 6: Billion info or anything like that. Just the name of

603
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 6: the person you want to send him to in a note.

604
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:43,959
Speaker 6: Is that something you'd be interested in?

605
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 9: Is this a scam?

606
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 4: It's a it's a.

607
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 6: Promotion to promote our flower company. Like I said, we're

608
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 6: near to the area. They're absolutely free. I don't need

609
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 6: cash or any sort of info Billion info or credit

610
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 6: card info or anything like that from you.

611
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 2: Okay, true, All right.

612
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 6: We can start with the name of the person you

613
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 6: want to send them to. They'll receive them by lunchtime today,

614
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 6: and then we can put a note on the flowers.

615
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 9: Okay, I uh, I actually know if I have the address.

616
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 4: When we look for it, we why don't we just

617
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 4: start with the in the meantime. Her name's Tracy.

618
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 9: Yeah, did you.

619
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 3: Your voice be broadcast on the radio. We've got your

620
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:25,400
Speaker 3: wife Daisy on the phone here.

621
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:26,120
Speaker 8: She is, My.

622
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 9: God, you are such a piece of human garbage?

623
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 1: How dare you do this to me?

624
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 8: How dare you.

625
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: Eight years together, eight years of my life for what

626
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 1: we just throw it away?

627
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,120
Speaker 10: Like are you serious?

628
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 8: Like I mean you just listen to me.

629
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 7: Listen to me. Do not even think of coming home tonight?

630
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 13: I have foody GOLs.

631
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 7: Think I'm going into Boris?

632
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 9: Is any a lotness? You two will not work when

633
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 9: you over here today your moment.

634
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 8: You know what a piece she raised And there's like.

635
00:27:58,520 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 9: Oh your clothes, are.

636
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 7: You at your laugh on your.

637
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,560
Speaker 9: Drangway the favorite you are?

638
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:10,120
Speaker 11: And then.

639
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 7: Not gonna be living anymore?

640
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 2: Dad days for me the word daisy, Daisy, daze Daisy day,

641
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 2: because the that you are, you're gonna laugh dazzy day,

642
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 2: Daisy breathe dai z Daisy. She hung up Andrew, Yeah, wow,

643
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 2: how well did you hear all that?

644
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 9: What's all of them?

645
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 2: So you're cheating on your wife with Tracy? And for

646
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 2: how long?

647
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 9: Yeah? For bet?

648
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we're gonna let you go, Yeah, I

649
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 2: think I should probably talk to her. Okay, I doubt

650
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 2: that's a good idea.

651
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 4: Actually, I don't think she's going to talk to you, Andrew.

652
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 2: What's left to say?

653
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 5: Well, maybe maybe you just listen to her.

654
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 2: I was trying to listen to her.

655
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 4: I heard everything she said me too.

656
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 2: I heard closed driveway neighbors.

657
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 4: Man, his bubbleheads are going to go out in the lawn.

658
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 2: I didn't hear that. I heard that.

659
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 4: Are they from the Dodger Games. I'm curious what kind

660
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 4: of bubbleheads they were.

661
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 3: It was one of the most explosive and justifiably explosive

662
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 3: reactions we have gotten from a spouse. Daisy, his wife,

663
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 3: found out that he was cheating with a woman named Tracy,

664
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 3: and she told us she ninety percent knew it, but

665
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 3: needed ten percent more to shut the door. And she

666
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 3: got the ten percent because he sent the roses to Tracy,

667
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 3: and that's the woman who had texted his phone.

668
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 2: So it all she put all the pieces together.

669
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 3: But I guess to your point, Tamya, she had been

670
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 3: thinking about this for a long time, so all of

671
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 3: her thoughts were in one massive string of breath that

672
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 3: she let out. I wonder how long she went without stopping.

673
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 3: I'm going to play that back for you in a second.

674
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 3: But first, Emily, thank you for coming on with us.

675
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 3: She had a lot to get off her chest, and

676
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 3: she did. I think she went on for a solid

677
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 3: minute without taking a breath.

678
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 11: It definitely sounded like that.

679
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 3: So there's no option. Here's there's good news. She found

680
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:56,239
Speaker 3: out he's got to go right.

681
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Speaker 11: Absolutely, I think you know what good for her And

682
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 11: honestly the worst part of that whole situation was her son.

683
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 11: I mean, she's gonna have to tell him about his dad.

684
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 11: That's heartbreaking. I just don't understand how could anyone do

685
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 11: that to their child selfishness?

686
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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Emily, thank you very much for calling.

687
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 3: We actually have it here. What kind of person are you?

688
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 3: So if something drastic happens like this, are you the shouder?

689
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 3: Are you the throw the clothes and bobble heads out

690
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 3: on the driveway for the neighbors to see, or you

691
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 3: just to walk out quietly and leave Sisny.

692
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 4: My gut instinct is probably the shouterer and cause a scene.

693
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 3: Okay, So here is a version of what Sisney might

694
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 3: sound like if that would happen. Maybe this is what

695
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 3: Daisy actually did a few minutes to.

696
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Speaker 10: Come do not even coming home tonight.

697
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 13: I have foody goss.

698
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 9: I'm going into a lot will not work today.

699
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 8: Your mom, you know what a be she raised.

700
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 9: I'm gonna take all your clows.

701
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 1: I your your laugh on your.

702
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 12: Day, the favorite you are, and then I'm.

703
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 2: Not anymore daz because it's Daisy for me, Daisy, Daisy Day,

704
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 2: my wife, Daisy Day.

705
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 5: Because the fan that you are, You're gonna laugh.

706
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 2: Dazzy dazy, Daisy breathe Daisy and she hung up.

707
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 4: It's that was viral.

708
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 6: It's the everything that she It's her worst case feeling

709
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 6: that she will if you just joined us.

710
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 3: That was a reaction to Ryan's roses, which was intense

711
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 3: because she knew it was happening, so she had all

712
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 3: those thoughts in her head. Right, But you're right, she

713
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 3: did say I'm gonna throw your stupid bobble heads out.

714
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 2: I didn't hear that the first.

715
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 5: Time I heard it.

716
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 6: That stood out to me because I could just only

717
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 6: imagine because being married to somebody for so many years,

718
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 6: they just have their collections of things that doesn't drive

719
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Speaker 6: you nuts.

720
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Speaker 4: And I could just tell that that was about something.

721
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 6: For her that were Daisy means where those bibbleheads were.

722
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 3: But she's somebody's version of Tanya's Harry Styles pillow case.

723
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 4: She hated dusting. She hated dusting and cleaning those bubble heads.

724
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Speaker 3: And so we're in an earthquake r random fall, Tanya,

725
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 3: would you be that kind of reaction type person or

726
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 3: a walk out quietly?

727
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 5: I wouldn't do either. I would curl into a ball

728
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Speaker 5: and cry. I would just cry. That would be what

729
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 5: I would do.

730
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably would too. Yeah, you're on Kiss coming

731
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 2: back with Disneyland.

732
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Speaker 6: Tickets and if you happen to win those disneylandsiccas, imagine

733
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 6: that right on the way to Disney and you're getting

734
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Speaker 6: there and you're hungry, we'll maybe stop by at Boil

735
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Speaker 6: Local and try their new stuffed Gisa the s they

736
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 6: are calling my name like every single morning when I'm

737
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 6: telling you about them. But come lunchtime, you know you're

738
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 6: gonna be hungry. They come loaded with melti cheese, handcut avocados,

739
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Speaker 6: and famous fire growth boil. They also have a shredded

740
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Speaker 6: beef option if you're into that. I think personally it's

741
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 6: the perfect meal for on the go because you don't

742
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 6: need to fork right and the best part order online

743
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Speaker 6: in the local rewards app or just get one at

744
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Speaker 6: a location near you at Boil Locals New Stuffed Gissa

745
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 6: the sm They're delicious.

746
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Speaker 2: Eight hundred and five to one to two seven, Megan,

747
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 2: thanks for calling.

748
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Speaker 1: How are you good?

749
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Speaker 10: How are you guys?

750
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Speaker 3: We're super good. Thank you for listening to us. Megan, So,

751
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:54,439
Speaker 3: what's up and how can we help?

752
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 9: So?

753
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Speaker 11: I'm calling in because I'm getting married next year and

754
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 11: I have had well asked one of my sisters, my

755
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 11: only sister, to be a bridesmaid, and I'm actually wondering.

756
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 11: And this is why I want your wife's opinion if

757
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 11: I can unask her to be a bridesmaid, and I'll

758
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,479
Speaker 11: tell you I so I know. So she's eight years

759
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 11: older than I am. We've never been close. Our mom

760
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 11: passed away unfortunately when we were younger, and I think

761
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 11: that's really another reason why we've never been close. But

762
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 11: I honestly thought of the wedding as a way to

763
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 11: get closer with her, to kind of mend our relationship.

764
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Speaker 11: And I also wanted her to be a part of

765
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 11: the day, of course, but ever since I asked her.

766
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 11: She has been making everything incredibly difficult, really negative, and

767
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:54,800
Speaker 11: just unenjoyable. Everything is an issue, everything's a problem. She

768
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 11: has a really negative attitude about everything. The rest of

769
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 11: my wedding party, where my wedding's going to be, the

770
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 11: month is going to be in and kind of my

771
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 11: last draw came last week. We've been trying to nail

772
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 11: down a date to go wedding dress shopping together, and

773
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,399
Speaker 11: every date that is good for me is not good

774
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 11: for her, which again I'm trying to work through because

775
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 11: I'm trying to be accommodating to her. And when the

776
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 11: last date she gave me again didn't work, she kind

777
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 11: of had a little bit of a tantrum and kind

778
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 11: of went nut, saying that I'm making the wedding all

779
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 11: about me, which I obviously went back to her saying, well,

780
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 11: it is really about me, but I'm trying to be accommodating,

781
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 11: and we're kind of left in this space of not

782
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 11: really speaking, and so I don't know, I just feel

783
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 11: like the tension might loosen if she didn't have this

784
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 11: official title. I don't know. I wanted to get your

785
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 11: opinion on it.

786
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 2: I'm going to take a pass on this and let

787
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 2: sis Andy go what would you do or what you do?

788
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 6: When I saw you calling in Megan, and I saw

789
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 6: it up on the call screen and it said I

790
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 6: regret asking my sister to be a bridesmaid. My initial

791
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 6: reaction before you said anything was you need to suck

792
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 6: it up, and it's just like, you know, this is

793
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,399
Speaker 6: family's it'll all work itself out.

794
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 4: But now that you're describing how.

795
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Speaker 11: Bad it is, yeah, part of me, honestly, that was

796
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 11: my thinking too, like she's my sister. I would never

797
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 11: do that.

798
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 6: Here's the thing you to do that, but it is

799
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 6: your day and it's but it also doesn't give you

800
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 6: the excuse to act a certain way and be rude

801
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:39,919
Speaker 6: and which I don't think you're doing anyways. I think

802
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 6: what you do is you map it out for her

803
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 6: and be like, hey, it's really coming down to the

804
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 6: wire of like, I don't know when you're getting married,

805
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 6: but these are the dates that I really need to

806
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,800
Speaker 6: get stuff handled and done based on the timeline, and

807
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 6: say this is these are this is the date I

808
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 6: need to go get my dress, this is the date

809
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 6: that we're having the bridle shower, this is the date

810
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,799
Speaker 6: and I hope that you can attend the majority of them.

811
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 6: If you can only come to one thing, I totally

812
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:04,359
Speaker 6: get it. But give her the map and then if

813
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 6: she can come to it, great, If she can't, whatever,

814
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,879
Speaker 6: but don't completely shut her out. I don't think that's

815
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:10,280
Speaker 6: the answer.

816
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 11: I think that's really good advice, and that's kind of

817
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 11: like the middle ground.

818
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, for both of.

819
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 3: Us, I'm guessing Sistany and Tanya don't want you to

820
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:22,719
Speaker 3: give me my view on weddings.

821
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 5: Don't give her your view, Okay.

822
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 2: I'll get your number call you later.

823
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 4: Well, she really needs to compromise a little bit.

824
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Speaker 9: Tony, No, No.

825
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 2: I just think my take is always it is about you.

826
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 3: These extra stresses and layers really complicate the focus of

827
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 3: it being a celebration for you and the person you're

828
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:46,319
Speaker 3: in love with. And I really find it selfish when

829
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 3: people get in the way of that, because it really

830
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 3: is your special day. And Tanya, I'll tell you right now,

831
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,839
Speaker 3: if someone brings you down to a level where they're

832
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:59,359
Speaker 3: stressing you out, selfish, you lobby need to celebrate each other,

833
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 3: forget about I.

834
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 5: Think what I realized too is like I'm going to

835
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 5: be a very I'm hoping I'm going to be a

836
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:06,840
Speaker 5: very chill bride. Like I'm going to map out all

837
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 5: the dates that i can do my wedding dress shoping

838
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 5: and blah blah blah, and whoever can come can make it,

839
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,800
Speaker 5: can make it. I'm not trying to like hold everybody

840
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 5: to making it.

841
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 6: That's all you can do, because you're never gonna be

842
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:18,800
Speaker 6: able to please everyone.

843
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, just so you know, Marano's running a bet on

844
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:23,399
Speaker 3: you being a chill bride or not. And I'm looking

845
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 3: at odds.

846
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 5: I know I'm hoping I stay chilled.

847
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 3: It's pretty split, all right, Megan, good luck. I think

848
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 3: Sisney gives you some good advice. And do remember you

849
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 3: are in a happy, peaceful, loving place and that's the

850
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 3: good news.

851
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 11: Thank you guys so much.

852
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 4: Good luck.

853
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 3: All right, bye, bye bye, And there you have it. Now,

854
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 3: this is the portion of the show where I would

855
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 3: generally ask how's the planning going? But I'm going to

856
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:50,879
Speaker 3: refrain Tanya, Oh.

857
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:55,280
Speaker 5: Well, I mean we have interviews. We have three interviews

858
00:39:55,320 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 5: this week with wedding planners making some progress so much,

859
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:01,839
Speaker 5: and Robbie wants to be on the call.

860
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:02,800
Speaker 4: It's like, how cute are you?

861
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 7: Yeah?

862
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 2: He should be He's very cute. That's what I'm marrying.

863
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 4: Michael was beyond involved with everything.

864
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I didn't think he would like want to

865
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 5: be on the wedding. No, I know he's gonna want

866
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 5: a plan but I didn't think he cared who the

867
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Speaker 5: planner was.

868
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 4: Oh but he does every.

869
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Speaker 2: Step of the way. Come on, you better get to

870
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 2: know this guy.

871
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: Yes, on air with Ryan Seacrest, time.

872
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 2: Goes by the dumber. I must just get why.

873
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 3: I just think it's the if I'm being honest and

874
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 3: if I'm reading the people around me and the guidance

875
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 3: that I receive, it's as if I'm getting dumber, which

876
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 3: is fine. So generously this morning, Marianna saved me a

877
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 3: parking spot on P one here at the Burbank Complex.

878
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:49,919
Speaker 5: That's nice. You don't really have to save spots this early.

879
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Speaker 2: You do it because I'm in a I'm I'm in

880
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 2: number seventeen.

881
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Speaker 5: Oh okay, that's the hot ticket.

882
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 9: I know.

883
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, whose is it?

884
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Speaker 3: Who's seventeen? I shouldn't say their name, but it is

885
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 3: start with a K. Yes, anyway, I got to borrow

886
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 3: starts with a K spot and Marianna was there to

887
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:11,479
Speaker 3: like hold it okay. So anyway, so we're making small

888
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 3: it's a long walk and we're making small talk.

889
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 5: It's a long walk.

890
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Speaker 3: And you don't how many key cards we have to

891
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:17,320
Speaker 3: use to get in here. Yeah, five different.

892
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,359
Speaker 2: You never bring yours with that too.

893
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 3: So anyway, she's telling me about this date she went on,

894
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,399
Speaker 3: which is it fair to say it wasn't great?

895
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,359
Speaker 2: It's fair to say that. Yeah, maybe in the back

896
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,399
Speaker 2: room telling me this story. Now, I'm all ears. It's

897
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 2: a long walk.

898
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 3: So she says, I think I went out this guy.

899
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 3: I think that maybe it's me that's the issue, even

900
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 3: though the issue was him. Now explain that to Cisany

901
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:44,320
Speaker 3: and Tanya please.

902
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:45,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

903
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 2: So I don't know.

904
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 7: I mean, the vibes were good, we were having great conversations,

905
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 7: but I feel like I couldn't concentrate because I kept

906
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 7: thinking about, Okay, he's wearing a hat.

907
00:41:54,719 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 4: It's the first date hat on the first day. Yeah,

908
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 4: it was just a Dodger hat.

909
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 2: So, okay, where did you go on the first date?

910
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 7: The Sherman?

911
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 4: It's oh, I know where that is.

912
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, what did you do at the Sherman?

913
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 4: We just ate, We had a drink and that was

914
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:12,720
Speaker 4: pretty much.

915
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 2: Detail. What what what did you order? In what time?

916
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 7: I ordered this salmon with the salad on the side.

917
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,880
Speaker 7: I forgot which one was, but yeah, it was really and.

918
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 2: Was this seven o'clock, six o'clock, eight o'clock, seven thirty? Okay?

919
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 3: So right, So what I'm trying to get to. It

920
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 3: comes in in a ball cap Dodger fan. I can't

921
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 3: fault that, which is great, But what was the issue?

922
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 3: Why were you distracted?

923
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,320
Speaker 7: And he was also wearing like these really tight pants,

924
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:45,280
Speaker 7: like skinny jeans.

925
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 5: I know, I like skinny jean.

926
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 6: I don't know if you hear the jeans though, Are

927
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,720
Speaker 6: they like spanned pretty skinny?

928
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 2: Or were they like straight?

929
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 1: Like?

930
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 4: Was there a little give to them in the calf area?

931
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,399
Speaker 3: I don't you feel because I actually put on mine

932
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 3: and left and thought, what a terrible idea.

933
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 4: This was Ryan they were there was no space there

934
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 4: was They were just really tight.

935
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 3: So you're looking at his his apparel, his fashion, and

936
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 3: you feel like this is superficial in a way.

937
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 4: What was this shirt?

938
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 7: I couldn't even I that went through my mind because

939
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 7: I remember this shirt.

940
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:24,879
Speaker 4: How don't I even remember the shirt?

941
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:26,359
Speaker 5: I was too focused on the pants in the hat.

942
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 2: But why was his personality?

943
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 9: What was his like?

944
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 7: I mean, I feel like we were getting along. We

945
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,800
Speaker 7: mainly just talked about work and things like that. But

946
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 7: I mean he had great taste in music, which was

947
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 7: surprising because I'm like, how do you have great taste

948
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:43,720
Speaker 7: in music but jeans not fashion?

949
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,399
Speaker 3: Well, you can't have all of you can't have style

950
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 3: of every single category. Okay, So Marianna, here's the thing.

951
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 3: The issue is. I think what she's saying is am

952
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 3: I am I being a little superficial by judging him

953
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 3: by his jeans and his ball cap on a date.

954
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:05,280
Speaker 4: The answer is no, Okay, good, but all that is fixable.

955
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 3: It's just no because if something like you and I

956
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,879
Speaker 3: have been in situations where something could be any little thing,

957
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:14,920
Speaker 3: something distracts us from focusing on the person, which is

958
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 3: a sign from the universe that we are meant to

959
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 3: be distracted from the person.

960
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,439
Speaker 5: I literally wanted to go on a second date because

961
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:23,720
Speaker 5: the guy ordered a drink with a straw. I understand

962
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 5: taking my tie during the day and I was like,

963
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 5: I can't remember. I was to take it out because

964
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 5: he's like drinking right, he needed to take in the

965
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 5: middle of winter, Like, what are we doing here.

966
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,400
Speaker 3: I remember I was on a date and I'm pretty

967
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 3: good at conversation, and I ran out of things. I

968
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 3: was struggling so hard, I was working so hard, and

969
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,440
Speaker 3: I thought, well, should I not go out with this

970
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:48,880
Speaker 3: person again because there's not any there's like not a

971
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 3: dialogue there, or should I get But she's.

972
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:56,720
Speaker 6: Saying the conversation went great, you're already we could contact.

973
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 5: For a second.

974
00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so I didn't go out again because it

975
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 3: was just too much hard. Yeah, right, So I wouldn't.

976
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 3: I just think that sometimes these things are meant to

977
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 3: get in the way.

978
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 5: I don't think so it's not your guys.

979
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 4: Come on, I actually think that out cut sounds kind

980
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 4: of cute.

981
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 11: Me too.

982
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 5: I love that.

983
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 2: Not a first date.

984
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 6: Well, the kind of concerns me because I want to

985
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 6: know if there was a receding HAIRLINEA Haines, we got problems.

986
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 3: And yeah, did you hear the receding hairline committee over here?

987
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 2: Reason?

988
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, receding hairlines can be great.

989
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:35,879
Speaker 4: And also I want to see it on the first date.

990
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 5: Some some some yes, some some some some some some

991
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 5: very Some men look better without.

992
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 6: Hair that I want to see the confidence in that

993
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 6: man and I want him to wear it on the

994
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 6: first date.

995
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 2: You needed to show me. Don't cover it up, go

996
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 2: to the wedding.

997
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 4: Okay talking about certain men.

998
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 2: I don't know. She's pretty feisty about him.

999
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 1: Just right, hair.

1000
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,320
Speaker 2: All right, Madian to keep us posting, and thank you

1001
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 2: for the generous and u candid walk this morning.

1002
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 4: Absolutely anytime pleasure.

1003
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 2: I mean dating. It's a real bummer.

1004
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 5: I'm going to count how long that that walk is

1005
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,240
Speaker 5: from the parking garage to our seats.

1006
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,399
Speaker 3: We've never really focused on how I mean. I hate

1007
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 3: to moan about it, but it's a long walk.

1008
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 5: No, And when you get caught in the elevator with

1009
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 5: somebody that you don't want to talk to, and then

1010
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:24,319
Speaker 5: you have to go up that elevator and then up

1011
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 5: this elevator, it's like I do, like how many times.

1012
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 4: You have to swipe your cards.

1013
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 3: We're in a building, fine, safe, but we're in a

1014
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 3: building where there's several elevator stall shafts, yeah called shafts

1015
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 3: and uh yeah, when you're stuck in the same pace

1016
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 3: and you don't know them, or you're making small talk.

1017
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 5: Yes, the small talk. It's always about the weather. It's

1018
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 5: the same I know but it's always the weather.

1019
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 3: As you try and make your way in sitting in

1020
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:52,280
Speaker 3: a little traffic. If you want to blow off some steam,

1021
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 3: if you want to just chime in one eight hundred

1022
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:57,359
Speaker 3: and five to one to two seven. You can also

1023
00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 3: text us for one O two seven that talk back

1024
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 3: buttons and side the eyeart radio app on the kiss page.

1025
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 3: And then Dana did it the old fashioned way and

1026
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 3: Van I she just dialed in Dana, good morning, Hi.

1027
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:09,919
Speaker 14: Good morning. How are you guys doing.

1028
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 2: We're great. How's your day going?

1029
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 13: Uh?

1030
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:14,319
Speaker 14: It could be better?

1031
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 2: Okay, what's up? How can we help?

1032
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 14: I probably want to apologize in advance. Okay, So I

1033
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 14: used to date my boss. We were together for like

1034
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 14: six months, and we kept a secret from everyone at work.

1035
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 14: So now he's getting married and we still kind of

1036
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:34,880
Speaker 14: sort of have like a connection, Like we hooked up

1037
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 14: a couple of times, but that was like in the

1038
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 14: beginning of him seeing this new person, and I mean,

1039
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 14: I feel terrible about it, so we stopped, but like

1040
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,880
Speaker 14: he still messages me. He still feels me like dirty

1041
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 14: photos and I just I ignore it.

1042
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 9: So, Okay, he just.

1043
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 14: Invited me to his wedding and he says that about Yeah,

1044
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 14: he's saying that I can come, but I can't bring

1045
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:02,359
Speaker 14: up plus want unless he approve it, which I feel

1046
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 14: like it's so inappropriate. So like I'm like, I just

1047
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 14: won't go, but I think it's going to be awkward

1048
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 14: because our our whole team is going to be there,

1049
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,360
Speaker 14: and I don't know. I didn't I don't want to

1050
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:14,800
Speaker 14: call them scene if I want to go to h

1051
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 14: R because we're going to you know, both be in trouble.

1052
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 14: And yeah, like I still have feelings for him. I

1053
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:21,800
Speaker 14: just I don't know what to do.

1054
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 2: So you have feelings for him.

1055
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 3: He's getting married, he's sending you dirty pictures, and he's

1056
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:29,720
Speaker 3: invited you to the wedding.

1057
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 2: That's really confusing. Whack do you really like? You still

1058
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 2: like him?

1059
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 10: I mean, I yeah, why do you want to be

1060
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 10: with someone like that?

1061
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 5: I know why?

1062
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 14: I keep telling myself, like Dana, like she's so stupid.

1063
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 3: The ship has sailed. You guys are not dating. He's

1064
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,960
Speaker 3: getting married. That's not going to last if he's sending

1065
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:57,919
Speaker 3: you pictures. Right now, here's the question.

1066
00:48:58,840 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 2: You like him.

1067
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 3: He's still trying to connect with you. He's invited you

1068
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 3: to the wedding. He's gonna get married. What if he

1069
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 3: invites you to see him or you he wants to

1070
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 3: see you after he's married.

1071
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:11,840
Speaker 2: What are you going to do? Dana?

1072
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 14: Uh, I'm gonna I'm gonna respect the marriage. Like I

1073
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 14: I wouldn't want that to happen to me. I'm going

1074
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:23,240
Speaker 14: to respect the marriage.

1075
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:23,799
Speaker 9: I just.

1076
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 3: Then, I think you should start respecting it now if

1077
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 3: that's your choice by not going to the wedding, I

1078
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:30,399
Speaker 3: think so too.

1079
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:33,359
Speaker 2: And it's a slippery slope. Do you respond to him

1080
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:34,360
Speaker 2: when he sends you those photos?

1081
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 1: No?

1082
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 14: No, I ignore him, like and I see him at

1083
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 14: work and I just you know, I try not to.

1084
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 10: Interact with like.

1085
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:46,240
Speaker 2: This is dangerous.

1086
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:49,800
Speaker 3: This is dangerous, So you need to I think you

1087
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,840
Speaker 3: need to send clear messages that it's over, you have

1088
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 3: no interest, and you wish him the best. That's what

1089
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 3: I would do, That's what I think.

1090
00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:00,840
Speaker 4: And if it doesn't stop, then this is turning into harassment.

1091
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:04,840
Speaker 14: You're right, you're right, but.

1092
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 2: Don't go to the wedding. Don't go.

1093
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 4: You're on vacation, book a vacation somewhere else.

1094
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 2: No, just say I don't feel like it's appropriate.

1095
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:15,800
Speaker 6: Well, they work together, but that she was saying that

1096
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 6: she's gonna be the only one that the team that

1097
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,399
Speaker 6: wasn't there. Blah blah, excuse as to why you're not there,

1098
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 6: Go on this girl's trip with your sister or someone

1099
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 6: else like that she.

1100
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 3: Needs to be out of Yeah, good luck with this,

1101
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 3: Thank you Dana for calling. Oh all right bye? But

1102
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 3: this guy sending her pictures while he's like walking, why

1103
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 3: is he inviting her to the wedding?

1104
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 2: What's that so weird?

1105
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: On air with a Ryan Seacrest.

1106
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 3: Well, that is going to wrap it up for us. Hey,

1107
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 3: if someone is Systaney Tony, if someone you used to

1108
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,959
Speaker 3: like told you they had feelings for you today, would

1109
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:53,280
Speaker 3: you be flattered or annoyed?

1110
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 5: Tanya, I'd be flattered and I'd be like, I'm taking baby.

1111
00:50:58,200 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 4: I wouldn't feel a thing.

1112
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 3: Like.

1113
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 4: I wouldn't feel annoyed. I wouldn't feel flattered. I would

1114
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 4: feel nothing.

1115
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:11,359
Speaker 2: I feel both, Yeah, Dad, Yeah, I think both right right.

1116
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 4: They wouldn't bother me.

1117
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 5: But it's also like, why are they coming to you now?

1118
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 2: It's a hypothetical, Guys, it's not happening. I just want

1119
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 2: to fill it out.

1120
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 4: I imagine they all do anyways.

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Speaker 12: So right, I mean in Sisty's had, She's got her

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Speaker 12: movie written. Thanks tomorrow, we're back. Thank you, back room,

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Speaker 12: bye bye, thank you ye, and thank you for listening.

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Speaker 12: Sissy's Gonna take it till eleven o'clock. That's your odd kiss.

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