1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 1: Lip serving. All right, what's up? What's up? Slip service 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: on the Angela. I'm g maguire, I'm Stephanie Santiago. Yeah, 3 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: and we are wet with excitement. Yeah, because Lisa and 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: here with us, Lady Hi. It's definitely the most beautiful 5 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: table of women I've ever sat with for an interview. 6 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,240 Speaker 1: That because you know, some amazingly beautiful women. I do. 7 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: Look at this table. It's powerful. Thank you for having me, 8 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: and your spirit is so good. She actually came here 9 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: by herself early to get ready for the interview, which 10 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 1: I can appreciate because you've been an entertainment forever and 11 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: sometimes people get like really just you know, yeah, And 12 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 1: it affects me as a producer because talent will show 13 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: up so late that then I have to pay overtime 14 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: on the location, so it costs me money, you know, 15 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: And when they get there, you can't really be upset 16 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 1: because you don't want to make that moment even worse, 17 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:54,279 Speaker 1: so you just kind of have to take it. So 18 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: I always make sure i'm earlier. I'll sit down the 19 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: street and have a coffee or a snack and just 20 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: kind of tweet a little bit and get my feelings 21 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: it's just better than rushing. Y'all know. I'm the same way, right, Yeah, 22 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: Angela will go to the airport, Oh my god, so annoying. 23 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: And then if you're flying with her, don't fly with 24 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: that because you're like, where are you? So you're just 25 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: you didn't leave yet. Uh, And she's the worst. I'm 26 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: the same. And by the way, I have friends that 27 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: I meet them at the airport because they stressed me 28 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: out wanting to be late, and I just want to 29 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 1: get through security and not be sweating it. I want 30 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: to send the sky club. That's what I was about 31 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 1: to say. You go early because you can sit in 32 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 1: the sky club. You can when you're there, right, but 33 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: when you're not there, I'm not going to the airport 34 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: to sit in the terminal. Well, LaGuardia in um in JFK, 35 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: they have the cool terminal with the iPads now. But 36 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 1: also there's nothing worse than daily and I think part 37 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:46,759 Speaker 1: of that, like you said, as a producer, you understand 38 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: the value of time is money. Time is money, right, 39 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: And for me, because I do you know morning radio, 40 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: I know also when people are late, how it affects 41 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: the whole day, you know, That's why I'm always like 42 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: cognizant of that, and you never know what could go wrong. 43 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: But when people are late to to diffuse it, I 44 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: usually just say better late than pregnant, and then we 45 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: move on, moving on, you know. I like that, let's 46 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: talk about your business, daddy, because first of all, and 47 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: let's be very clear, Lisa and is the one person 48 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 1: that I will say that. I said that Lisa Anne's 49 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: coming on and everybody, and I think all the best 50 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: told like our respective people, and everyone was like, oh 51 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: my god, can I just hang out? Can I watch 52 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: show us like their favorite video of yours? I'm like, 53 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: really this, you just have this? Let me show you 54 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: my favorite one. You know, if you look into the 55 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:41,239 Speaker 1: psychology of it, these men are smart, and they've watched 56 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: me for years, be very consistent. I'm kind of a 57 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 1: rite of passage to young men all over the world. 58 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: A tour of Italy last year, and I was even 59 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: more loved there by the men than here. Um, So 60 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: what they see is something that has no guilt attached 61 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: to it, so they can enjoy watching me. I am 62 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: a you know, willing participant, and they know and they 63 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: know I of it, and so I think there's that 64 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:03,679 Speaker 1: because sometimes you watch a girl you really like her, 65 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 1: and then it gets dark you realize like she's not 66 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: looking right, you know, and the guys will pull away 67 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: from that because then there's some guilt associated with their porn. 68 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: So with me, it's just like, Yo, this chick's okay, 69 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: she's cool with me watching. She likes to during it. 70 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 1: Because so win for everybody. I'm going to support this. 71 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: That's great. You're like the number one most searched porn star. 72 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:28,079 Speaker 1: Yeah in America. Wow, that's in the world. Fail. It's 73 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: It's interesting because when I got to the business, there 74 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: was no Internet, and I never really had a goal 75 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: other than to priv myself, like three basic things. I 76 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: wanted to make my own money, travel and see the world, 77 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: and make my own schedule. That's really all I wanted 78 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: from life. I don't care if I got married, if 79 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: I had kids, that's it. Just that financial freedom is 80 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: such a big deal and so the business provided me that. 81 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: And then the side bonus is meeting people. I mean, 82 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: it doesn't always go well. There's some guys that are 83 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: uber creepy when they say it's room right now, as 84 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: excited as every maybe, but like there's some creepy ship 85 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: that goes down creep I don't know if they saw 86 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: me on the street, it would be different. Especially out 87 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: yet every day at least ten men walk up to 88 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: be out of nowhere and just look at me and say, 89 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: oh my god, Lisa, I love you. That would be amazing, 90 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 1: Like there has to be an amazing feeling to be 91 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: seeing so much love and respect. And it's also sweet 92 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 1: because they're willing to express an emotion that maybe they're 93 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: not even telling their girlfriend yet, Like there's because they 94 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: just come out. My friends watch it and they're like, 95 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 1: it's just so neat. You bring out such a soft 96 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: side in people. And then you made the transition, like 97 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 1: you said, to producing, and so what made you realize, Okay, 98 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: I'm not only going to start in these movies, but 99 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: I have to produce. And what was that transition? Like 100 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: it was very important at a time when I really 101 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 1: thought the scenes that I was being asked to do, 102 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 1: we're going to a level that I wasn't comfortable. I'm 103 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: fine being the milf, you know what I mean. That's cute. 104 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: I get to be with the hot pool guy. Definitely, 105 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: it's good, you know, But when they wanted me to 106 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: be a step mom. And then when it really turned 107 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 1: into this, I was like, you know what, I'm not 108 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 1: gonna work for other people. I'm just gonna produce my 109 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 1: own content. I'm gonna stylize it the way I want, 110 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna put it out the way I want. And 111 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 1: though other people will still offer me more money to 112 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: work for them, and I now work for browsers like 113 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: two days a month, but they let me have complete 114 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: creative control of the script what I'm comfortable with and 115 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: that I've also started the conversation like, you know, you 116 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 1: guys are pushing girls to do things that you don't 117 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: know if it's something bad happened in their real life. 118 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: And you know, we don't do a survey when we 119 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 1: get in the business. We're asking people what they've been 120 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 1: up against. So I just felt it was time. And 121 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: now that I'm doing this, other girls are coming forward 122 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 1: and saying, you know what, I'm just I'm also not 123 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: comfortable playing that role, and so it's making a nice 124 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: little list for product production companies to be real with. 125 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: But what kind of role is now you did mention 126 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: the stepmother? What is what kind of things make you uncomfortable? 127 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: There's a lot of ancestual stuff. There's a lot of 128 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 1: derogatory stuff, and there's a lot of aggressive stuff. I'm 129 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 1: not into being choked, and I'm not judging anybody that is, 130 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: but it's just not my thing. I'm not into being 131 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 1: spit on smacked like you know. And so this is 132 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 1: so common now that I became a little bit anxious 133 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 1: about going on set and afraid, like what am I 134 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: up against? I have to talk to the director. I've 135 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 1: talked to the guy are they working behind my back? Like? 136 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: What's going on here? And that didn't feel good, So 137 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 1: that those are the type of scenes I wanted to 138 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: pull away from. Has somebody ever done something like unexpected 139 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: that it wasn't in the script that you were like? Now, 140 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 1: hold up my very first scene I ever did. During 141 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: the scene, the guy smacked me across my face, I 142 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: just stopped and looked right at the camera. We were 143 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 1: shooting on film back then, so you were never supposed 144 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 1: to make them cut when they weren't ready to cut 145 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: this big And I looked at him and I'm like, yo, 146 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: what did I do? You know? And he's like, oh, 147 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: that's just what I did. I'm like, Okay, let's talk 148 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: about this, and I was young, you know. It was 149 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 1: my first scene, and so I knew young from interviewing 150 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: girls that worked at my club in Pennsylvania that were 151 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: porn stars. They would come in and dance every week, 152 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: and I would ask him all the questions about what 153 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: I need to know. I knew I could have a 154 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: no list. So as soon as that scene was over, 155 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: I said to him, Yo, I'm cool with you. I'm 156 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: sure we're going to see each other a lot, but 157 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 1: we're never working together again. First guy ever worked with 158 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: first guy on my no list to it. We remained 159 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: friends and he hired me for his production company years later. 160 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: It was always really cool, but he was like, hey, 161 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: I respect the fact that you know what you're doing, 162 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: you don't want and you're not going to take a 163 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: risk again. Good thing hen't taking out of you. Should 164 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 1: have it. I was so kind of timid then, you 165 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 1: know what I mean? So I wouldn't even thought. I 166 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: just had to stop and be like, what was that about? 167 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: You should have his bode. I love getting slapped and 168 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 1: friends to get I get it. I get it. There's 169 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: tons of people that do you know what I mean? 170 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: Like I'm having bruises, space marks on my face. You 171 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: might need it there. It can be a phase too. 172 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: You can go through sexual phases, because when I had 173 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: a really shitty job, I went through a sexual phase 174 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 1: where I liked to be choked and spacked. And then 175 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 1: I decided to see a therapist because I was like, Okay, 176 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: I'm tripping on something, and she said, you are just 177 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: trying to push a level to feel something outside of 178 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 1: how much emotion you're feeling. It's penting you up from work. 179 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: I feel like when I was young, I um, I 180 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: used to like allow more, used to like getting my 181 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: hair pulled and like really getting beat up during sucks. 182 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: I really liked it. And then I got to like 183 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: this middle area in my late twenties that I was 184 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 1: like and no, I can't. I'm too old for this. 185 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: I'm tired, I can't. Let's just have regular secks like 186 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:38,439 Speaker 1: I don't want this anymore. And now I'm like, took me? 187 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,439 Speaker 1: Did anyone tell you know? Yeah? I've had to train 188 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: guys to do it because they'd be scared. Like my ex, 189 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: the one I was with before, the guy i'm with now, him, 190 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: I used to I had to train him a little 191 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 1: bit and he got with the program. Though. He would 192 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 1: give me like little taps while I was sucking and sick. 193 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: He'll give me like a little taps, and he poor 194 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 1: a new girlfriend is probably like the Okay, so now 195 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 1: we're gonna do this or that with you. Okay, and 196 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,079 Speaker 1: you ladies can antitude and see what you like better. Okay, 197 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:15,199 Speaker 1: as far as it works, Solo masturbation or lesbie important 198 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 1: for me to do. I love solo masturbation because it's 199 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 1: so much fun. I love masturbating on the internet. I 200 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: love doing webcam and I like text my friends on Yo. 201 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,839 Speaker 1: I'm masterbating on the internet. So I'm so happy. I 202 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:29,719 Speaker 1: don't know why. I just find it super fun. It 203 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 1: reminds me of the nineties when we shot a lot 204 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: of solo girl stuff and you had to be really 205 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 1: intimate with camera and you had to fantasize about things 206 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 1: to look sexy. And that's where I really found my fantasy. 207 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:41,599 Speaker 1: So fantasize about all kinds of things. I mean, I 208 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: remember when I very first started, I was obsessed with 209 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,319 Speaker 1: Ben Affleck. Can it always been Affleck? You know what 210 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 1: I mean? It could be a celebrity, could be just 211 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,839 Speaker 1: a hot guy, could be like the cable guy shows 212 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 1: up and he actually is really good looking. Um, you 213 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: know a foreign man that speaks no English, that we'll 214 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: just do whatever I want and not talk. Amazing, Yeah, 215 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 1: and just take my trash question. But or she asked 216 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: to watch? So which one would it be to watch? Sol? Okay, 217 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: what do you guys think that? I'm gonna say, Jess 218 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: gonna say she's the only one here that's like halfway lesbian? 219 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,319 Speaker 1: What girl and girl? Clearly? I mean, even though I 220 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 1: love to mesurpate, it's a tough one for you. I 221 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 1: love to masipate. But if I had to choose this 222 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: or that, My whole theory about sexual things with other 223 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 1: women is why would I play with this when I 224 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: can play with that and she'll play? What about watching? 225 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 1: Would y'all rather watch solo masturbation or lesbie important? That's 226 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: man to me, it's like the same thing because it's 227 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:41,319 Speaker 1: like I'm watching pussy either way, give it. It's interesting 228 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:43,959 Speaker 1: to watch how girls do it. Everybody does the difference, 229 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: Just like when you're asked to give a good hand 230 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 1: job on a new guy, you don't know what is 231 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 1: he like? Just like it's fun as you like, so 232 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:52,599 Speaker 1: I just like to master how the girl does it, 233 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 1: and then you know, like what's her jam and she 234 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: So that's kind of what I get into. So she's 235 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 1: gonna come. She has to do her little thing, all right. 236 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 1: What about that anal our gang bang? Oh my god, 237 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: I get the anal in the gang bang? So because 238 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 1: gang world, Yeah, and they're so hard to arrange. I 239 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: definitely have to say gang bangs because there's never going 240 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: to be a point in my life where I've had 241 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: enough of them. I love group interaction, especially when guys 242 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: are cool with each other, and I could just be 243 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,479 Speaker 1: just the ones. Some of those dicks you had are humongous. 244 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 1: That how did you tiny? I can't, I couldn't, you 245 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 1: know what. I'm just lucky. My business partner is really 246 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 1: flexible and she uh handles all of it. You know, 247 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,559 Speaker 1: some girls get sore. I was one of those girls 248 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: that didn't, you know what I mean? But no way 249 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:56,679 Speaker 1: that's about to fit in dp's is amazing. Sure, all right? 250 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: For you guys, a know or gang bang? What do 251 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 1: you like to watch? Oh? Um, gang bang? Probably for sure? 252 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: Did you get it? All? You have job and if 253 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: somebody's looking great, you can look away and see what 254 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: he's doing, like a looking of like multiple dicks in 255 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:17,199 Speaker 1: one hole have a penetration, like three dicks in a hole, 256 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: like dude I like watching, I don't watch that. I 257 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 1: don't watch that like DP the Bad all in one. 258 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: For some reason, I overthink it, so I don't watch 259 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 1: that one hole. Please. When I think that, I would 260 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 1: rather watch Gang Bang than me too. That's all. That's 261 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 1: the only point I watched my favorite. Do you find 262 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 1: there's not enough of it out there? No? I really don't, 263 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: because I'll tell you why. Because it's the hardest thing 264 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: to shoot, to book, to organize it is. A movie 265 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: can take me a month to put everything together, all 266 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: my production, all my talent. A Gang Bang can take 267 00:12:56,520 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: me five months. Yeah, because you have a lot of 268 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 1: things you've got to think about. You gotta think about location. 269 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: You definitely don't want a location with carpet. You definitely 270 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: have to get a location that is willing to do it, 271 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:08,679 Speaker 1: and a lot of that narrows down to like a 272 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: ten percentile. Then you have to work out the logistics 273 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 1: of everyone's cars because normally there isn't enough parking for everybody. 274 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:17,960 Speaker 1: Then you gotta be so everybody's cool with everybody, then 275 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 1: we have uber and lip they can't do that's what 276 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 1: I do now. Yeah, but before we had to do something, 277 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: we would park and meet everybody to grocery store and 278 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: drive every at the house. Um. And it's also like 279 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 1: you're trying to get ten people at the same place 280 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 1: at the same time. That's not going to happen. So 281 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: you're going to look at about two hours of a 282 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: window where like one person might cancel, or one person 283 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: might get a flat tire on the way there or whatever. 284 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: It is a lot to logistically plan. So that's what 285 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: makes it into making it happen. Yeah, because the guy 286 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: along with each other, right, they delved. Yeah, have you 287 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 1: ever been filming and when a game banging guys that 288 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 1: like sucking these at his dick and you're like, wait 289 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 1: a minute, no, we keep that separate because that wouldn't 290 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: be something. So it stopped him against it. But and 291 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 1: if they wanted to do it, be fine. But when 292 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 1: we're there, it's just business. They know we're shooting this 293 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:12,319 Speaker 1: for this type of site and they know what the 294 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: limitations are on that type of site that hasn't ever 295 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 1: been addict this too big. Were you were like, okay, no, 296 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: you know what, Yes, Oh my gosh, why am I 297 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 1: thinking he's really Man Dingo? I mean I did it, 298 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 1: But when I did anal with Man Dingo, I was 299 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: really it was. I remember I had to fly here 300 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: on a red eye after the scene. I was like, 301 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: I cannot believe I have to sit down for all 302 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 1: flight right now? You know. I mean, but he's big. 303 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 1: You've seen Man Dingo. You guys a little bit, she said, 304 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: with the biggest big with the biggest thing ever I 305 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: can do. You just have to really ease in with 306 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 1: the butt plugs. And when you have a bigger guy, 307 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: you have to get a bigger blood plug and you 308 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: take about an hour before the scene to just really 309 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: to just open it up and beat chill. I know 310 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: about it. I just can't do a no. I can't 311 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: get comfortable enough because I'd be like, no, it's just 312 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 1: going to close my butt. Just be like no, it 313 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 1: doesn't job. So that's one thing. But if it was 314 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 1: for somebody I love, I'm not sitting with a butt 315 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 1: plug in my butt for an hour. You don't have 316 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: to do that if you're not shooting, because you're not 317 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: going to do it for twenty five minutes, like you're 318 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 1: only going to do it for five six pots, right, 319 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 1: it's put in the thing that you should do, like 320 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 1: even if you just at home, know you don't have 321 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 1: to go that far. The thing with people don't realize 322 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: is your jaw is connected to your anus. If you 323 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 1: clink your teeth, your your butt is definitely going to 324 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: be tighter as well. And after you're in the first 325 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: you're gonna be Yeah, so you just relax your job. 326 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 1: Just always always focus on relaxing your jaw and you're breathing, 327 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: and know that once you're past that first half finance, 328 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 1: you won't even feel it at all. That's always silicon. 329 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: Always use silical and moved instead of waterlobe for anal 330 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 1: as well, and that makes a huge difference. Really. Yeah, 331 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: you know when I started with the blue you need 332 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 1: the silicon for you. No, it's not good because it'll 333 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 1: actually make the skin more porous and it'll make it 334 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: grab more onto the dick, so you'll you'll be pulling 335 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 1: your own skin more. You really want to give it 336 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 1: that glide and that protection. That's what silicon does. I 337 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: didn't start trying analtize in my thirties. And my personal life. 338 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 1: And my rule of them was I would never shoot 339 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: anything I hadn't done in my personal life. So I 340 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: had to do with my personal life first. So I 341 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: felt like you would like I got before I actually 342 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 1: asked performers to help me. I had it with a 343 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: guy that I was hanging out with and that had 344 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: performers help me. What I thought was easiest was condoms. 345 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 1: In the beginning, I just felt because I wasn't doing 346 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 1: it on cameras I was doing with condom, And I 347 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: was like, wow, it's a lot easier with condom because 348 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 1: it gives again a protective yeah. Yeah. And also when 349 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 1: you put silicon loo about a condom, it because it stays, 350 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 1: it doesn't soak into this skin. So that's the way 351 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: to try it for people too. When you first start 352 00:16:55,240 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: doing it. It's us condom, Angela right down another if 353 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:04,159 Speaker 1: you listen on demand, I'm sure you might Angela to 354 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 1: get sucked up her as clearly. How old are you 355 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 1: if you don't mind me asking town So I was 356 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: I was just over thirties two. I was thirty five, Okay, 357 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:22,440 Speaker 1: so there's hope maybe get there if you one day, 358 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 1: If I said my boyfriend I want to try, and 359 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 1: he'd be like, why do you all of a sudden 360 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 1: want to try? You know, because we just want to 361 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:34,160 Speaker 1: like university, Okay, this is research, you know. And then 362 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: I come back and interviewer afterwards we're talking about, you 363 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 1: know how we always get people homework give you have 364 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: a professor here? Speaking of professor, I watched the Doctor 365 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 1: Ruth documentary lit and I'm meeting her next week. And 366 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 1: then I'm so jealous. And now that I watched the documentary, 367 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:54,159 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, I'm a new hero, like 368 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: I might buckle, you know what I mean? The documentary 369 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 1: on life? I mean, what was when work? I got it? Yes, 370 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 1: somebody give me the dampage. I'm a Netflix. I have Netflix. 371 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 1: Hulu did the free trial to watch something I can remember, 372 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: I canceled it. I have two different people's Netflix of Counsel. 373 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 1: I can have it on different I love Me too, 374 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 1: wrong with Me? I only don't watch Flavor of Love. Sorry, 375 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:31,399 Speaker 1: I was watching like episode after episode. At the episode 376 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:36,119 Speaker 1: that one up and it's not even mine. It's my sister, 377 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 1: all right? Now? One more this or that? Interracial or 378 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: sixty nine interracial. That's your thing, girl, that's all. The 379 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 1: guys was like, yes, wait sixty nine. Watching sixty nine 380 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,159 Speaker 1: can be so awkward. It's a hard thing to shoot 381 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:58,399 Speaker 1: to really get good camera angles. If the people's bodies 382 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:00,679 Speaker 1: are really different in size. It's a little bit. I mean, 383 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: in real life it's pretty hard to do like sixty nine. 384 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 1: It's awkward. Only it's also like disjecting because I like 385 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:10,399 Speaker 1: to add to concentrate on one of the other. I 386 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 1: always checked them and stop, Like I have this thing 387 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:23,200 Speaker 1: where I like to sit on guy's face so top 388 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:27,400 Speaker 1: and then I'm good. You stop. You know where's Kyle girl? 389 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 1: Little head spin? You know what if you guys sat 390 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:37,880 Speaker 1: on your face? No, it on my face, sir? Not 391 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: having this conversation about sucking dick from the back, have 392 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: you guys, don't not. We had that while you were away. 393 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 1: We had a night about it's good for them. Glorio 394 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 1: made me, Yeah, I made you do it. But I 395 00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 1: just feel like my man would be too uncomfortable because 396 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 1: I'd be too close to us ass or he might 397 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 1: be really comfortable. We also had to wait with a 398 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:09,719 Speaker 1: guy who's long enough to reach back that that's right, 399 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,719 Speaker 1: because if he ain't got a big enough he has 400 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:17,199 Speaker 1: a short dick, You'll be licking his taint. You'll be 401 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: eating his dick like you like to set dick from 402 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: the bag. Yeah, and the size is everything. We know 403 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 1: you'll be getting the bigger that one. Well, I have 404 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 1: real life size penis in my life as well. Luckily, 405 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 1: the guy that I hang out with the most and 406 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 1: um have sex with him, my personal sex also is 407 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 1: very well equipped. Actually, what about could you be with that? 408 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 1: Not liked him and said I can not talk to 409 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:44,639 Speaker 1: him anymore because I need that. That's the scene with 410 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 1: my boyfriend, Like there's songs that we've like we've been 411 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:49,879 Speaker 1: on and off for so long, and there's sounds like 412 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:52,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, the only reason I'm giving this thing is 413 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 1: so pussy is because I got that dick. Reason I've 414 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 1: got some might offer being too big, like like I 415 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: can't take it, Like I can't do it anymore. I 416 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,640 Speaker 1: just can't. There should be somewhere you could pass those 417 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 1: off on the internet, like a list of those like 418 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 1: rejections for the reason I'm very big. I think I 419 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 1: think you would be helpful to others and information And 420 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: I would definitely pass him off like he was really 421 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 1: really good but it's just not for me. Frame color 422 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: on rejected for do being too big and then help 423 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: him at that you help him out, I would right 424 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 1: last him around? What about too little? Has that ever 425 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: been an issue? It has? I remember working one day 426 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: on set with a guy that it was just for 427 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 1: my website, and I remember walking off set and going 428 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 1: into the bathroom to text my friends, like, holy fucking 429 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 1: should I can't believe this is happening right now. It 430 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,399 Speaker 1: was just small and I couldn't understand how he slipped 431 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: through and got into porn and just you know, um. 432 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:53,639 Speaker 1: But but in real life, from a pretty good gauge 433 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 1: of not getting myself into that awkward situation, do you 434 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:58,200 Speaker 1: think there's a real way you could tell how big 435 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 1: a guy's dick is without seeing it, because you know, 436 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 1: they always talk about like the size of his hands, 437 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 1: the size of his feet, different things like the way 438 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 1: that you can like have a dick dar or dick radar. 439 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 1: I do think the way he carries himself, and I 440 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:14,879 Speaker 1: do think they can get big dick energy and baby 441 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 1: and also medium dick energy, but you can also send 442 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 1: small dick energy. Energy is like I think, say, you 443 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 1: can sense that small right He's like angry. Yeah, actually 444 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 1: the ship whatever. A guy email me like, Hey, I 445 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:34,359 Speaker 1: have a small dick. What am I gonna do? I'm like, 446 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 1: study in school, become a plastic surgeon. You'll still fuck 447 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:42,880 Speaker 1: hot chicks. You'll just have to give a discount. Yeah, 448 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 1: I really don't struggle. Wouldn't they just work the brain? 449 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 1: That's what you were giving us your talent. My god, 450 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:56,439 Speaker 1: still end up the same place. Now we know you 451 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,159 Speaker 1: love basketball and you're actually excited to go watch the 452 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 1: game tonight, So your team. I'm pretty neutral because I 453 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 1: played fantasy basketball, so these are season long in daily 454 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 1: leagues where I picked players from matchups. I really love 455 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: Basketball's my first love, and so it's about matchups and 456 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: players that have moved teams and I get to see 457 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,879 Speaker 1: them and I just love it all. So during season 458 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,680 Speaker 1: I can pretty much watch basketball seventies a week, so 459 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 1: I don't need to pick a team. I just played games. 460 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:27,880 Speaker 1: Um well, I grew up a seventies Sixers fan. Okay, my, my, my, 461 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 1: okay Easton. So my very first basketball game was a 462 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 1: seventy Sixers game that was actually the last year that 463 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,640 Speaker 1: they wanted all. So later in life I collected a 464 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:41,399 Speaker 1: team sized signed jersey with a matching ball and dr J. 465 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: Once I came into money the first time, I want 466 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:47,199 Speaker 1: to do it. I'm gonna give this collection. And so 467 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 1: I would have been a Sixers fan, but I live 468 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:50,800 Speaker 1: in l A and I've I've lived here for a 469 00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: period of time as well, so like I'd beat the 470 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: nixt but their tragic. The Lakers they are they are' 471 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 1: Angelo Russell had a breakout season this year and this 472 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 1: was what we all thought he could be before he 473 00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:06,640 Speaker 1: got into that swaggy Peace situation about hilarious good. He's 474 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,880 Speaker 1: recovering from that, though you did. He just get caught 475 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,880 Speaker 1: weed at the airport. But that's not a big deal, 476 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 1: not bad a big deal anyway, It's not a big deal. 477 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 1: It's just stupid and doubt your overall like, oh was 478 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 1: this all fluke? And you can't keep this consistent because 479 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 1: you have friends that can pick that ship up for 480 00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 1: you better. Yeah, you get friends that you putting their 481 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 1: bag for you, like we just everywhere while put it in, 482 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 1: putting an iced tea can, like he's gonna get away 483 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 1: with that through t s an don't bring I threw 484 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:41,480 Speaker 1: the dag that frustrates me when I see that repeated 485 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:47,159 Speaker 1: stupid and quiet, and she's like, I love hearing, I 486 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:51,120 Speaker 1: love where the nets play. I love Barkla during basketball game, 487 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 1: that energy in there, the music, they really it's amazing. 488 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,160 Speaker 1: We have to bring you to a game. Then, yeah, 489 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: we're some good shoes. Yeah, and we know that you've 490 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 1: been with some NBA players, So you've never liked a 491 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 1: team because you've liked somebody that you were working at 492 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 1: the time. No, no, no, I'll watch him in his stats, 493 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 1: but I'm not going to go root for his team 494 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:14,879 Speaker 1: just because we're hanging out, and that would get complicated, 495 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 1: you know, you know, I know, and you know what, 496 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:20,719 Speaker 1: I won't even hang in Jersey in my house if 497 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 1: anybody I've had sex with. Yeah, these are all experiences. 498 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to put your ship up on my wall, know, 499 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,479 Speaker 1: but nobody's ever really tried to like be with you, 500 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: wipe you up from the NBA. I'm very clear when 501 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 1: I meet people and tell them what I'm looking for, 502 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 1: and I say, you know, you can't try and change me. 503 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna try and change you. But I just 504 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: like to see somebody and have a good time and 505 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 1: live in that moment. Life is very complicated. We're all 506 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,880 Speaker 1: very busy. I don't with people that are in a relationship, 507 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 1: are married. Uh, those are my rules. So a lot 508 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: of times I hang out with somebody, he gets into 509 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 1: a little thing, then we're just friends during that time. 510 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,679 Speaker 1: Then they break up, come back. But I make it 511 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 1: very very clear, I don't want to be with somebody. 512 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 1: I don't want to marry somebody. Fight age. I mean, 513 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 1: it's hot and it's fun, but I don't either kind 514 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 1: of stress, you know what I mean? Younger guys really 515 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 1: better a little age and not fucking tripping, and my 516 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 1: dude looks so good, And I don't Younger guys really 517 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,919 Speaker 1: better in bed? You thinking, Oh, they're guys. They're just 518 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 1: like I can tell what porn they watched the first 519 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 1: time altogether. I can tell exactly what sites they go to. 520 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: So that because Brawsers style fucking is totally different than 521 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:26,120 Speaker 1: let's say, like a Bang Bros style of right, we're 522 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 1: friends with bank Bros. Shot bangers and the bank bus, 523 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 1: which is so you all know it is real. Stand 524 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 1: on the corner of Miami might get picked up. Um, 525 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 1: I just like to talk good pools. Ask me. I'm like, yeah, 526 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,680 Speaker 1: it's real band and open store, get the fun in it. 527 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:51,280 Speaker 1: I've like other porns the district they drive around, but no, 528 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,479 Speaker 1: you know, it's just not my thing and I and 529 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,439 Speaker 1: also what's great about our rapport is once players realize 530 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,680 Speaker 1: I don't talk about who I'm with, they can start 531 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 1: to come to me with things. We build a nice friendship. 532 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,360 Speaker 1: They know I love sports. I kind of up there 533 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 1: asked if they do stupid ship like it caught with 534 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 1: me at the airport on the first one to reach 535 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,200 Speaker 1: out your mom's piss. We should be embarrassed, like let's 536 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 1: let's do better, you know. And I So I have 537 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 1: like this kind of really friendly, fun, simple and easy 538 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:19,199 Speaker 1: relationship and it's just great. And young guys are you know, 539 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 1: it's just exciting because they can do it to three 540 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: four times in a day because they're younger, you know 541 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 1: than a guy say my age. What are some crazy 542 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 1: things that you've been asked to do by like an 543 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 1: NBA player, Then maybe they feel more comfortable because so 544 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 1: they might ask you to do ship that they wouldn't 545 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,639 Speaker 1: even ask their girl to do. So, what are some 546 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: things you've been asked to do that are off the 547 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:41,359 Speaker 1: beaten path, I would say, Um, you know, there's really 548 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,879 Speaker 1: not much because they've shared a lot with me too. 549 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,439 Speaker 1: You know, I can go to my NBA friends and 550 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,120 Speaker 1: be like, yo, do you have any other friends who 551 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 1: want to hook up? And this is where I can 552 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 1: get like things arranged for me. So it's pretty much 553 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:54,440 Speaker 1: on the neutral. There's nothing they could ask me that 554 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 1: would be far left. No, but have you ever pegged one? No? 555 00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 1: I haven't done that. But everyone knows that's not my 556 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 1: jam because I've never done it on film personal. I 557 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 1: just haven't been compelled to do it. I'm not against it, 558 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 1: but it just isn't something that's come my way. I 559 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 1: haven't gone there. So but you know, people talk to 560 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:13,160 Speaker 1: me about and you know a lot of players will 561 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: ask me how do they tell their girl that they 562 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 1: want to do these things? Or how do they discuss this? 563 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 1: You know? And so now there's a lot more sites 564 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: that are shooting, more pretty girls doing this, and I 565 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,440 Speaker 1: think it's easier, it's more neutral. But no, I haven't 566 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 1: gotten there yet. But I'm a slow learner. Like you remember, 567 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:32,920 Speaker 1: I've been doing like very like have you ever ate 568 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 1: someone's ass? And it was dirty, like discussing this is 569 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:40,719 Speaker 1: another thing I just don't do. I just don't do it. 570 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 1: And I hope I'm not a disappointment. I just don't know. 571 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 1: I don't like doing it any more either. I used 572 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 1: to do it all the time. They never done in 573 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: my life. I'll tell you this. A director wanted me 574 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 1: to do in a movie and he called me. He's like, 575 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 1: here's what I need you to do. He's like, take 576 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 1: your hand right now, and I'm on my phone. He's like, 577 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,240 Speaker 1: take your hand. Makes this okay? He goes. That's the 578 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,600 Speaker 1: guy's ask because didn't you talking. It was all you 579 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 1: gona do that. Lara said that that's it and it 580 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 1: doesn't taste like Penny, that's what's her name said on that, 581 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,240 Speaker 1: and I did agree, but not that it's the taste, 582 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,480 Speaker 1: it's the feeling. It was a feeling like when you 583 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,040 Speaker 1: stick your tongue on a nivel battery like it was 584 00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: a different feeling as all. I didn't say it tastes 585 00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 1: this world, it's very common. This is where I feel 586 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 1: like I am so not as open minded as I 587 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 1: thought I was, Lisa, and you still got a lot 588 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 1: to like. My boyfriend and I have this this game 589 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:44,720 Speaker 1: we played with because we do comforable things. Right. All 590 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 1: of our friends are married. Right, It's like we had 591 00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 1: the game listen, it's time, and so we were talking 592 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,680 Speaker 1: about so we'll ask, you know, like in front of 593 00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 1: the girl, always in front of the wife. We asked 594 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 1: if the guy likes to get fingers in his asked 595 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 1: or if he likes to get his athlete. Only one 596 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:14,400 Speaker 1: We've asked six couples and only one couple said no, 597 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 1: And almost like you know, did you ask me? Like 598 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,560 Speaker 1: people like, man, this girl be trying to get my 599 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,800 Speaker 1: not with that, you with that? And they'll be like, yeah, see, 600 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 1: guys a limit like it. It's the finger thing that 601 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:34,719 Speaker 1: they don't Yeah, they admitted to the fingers to really us. 602 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 1: I swear gee that I told you about this. We 603 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:41,960 Speaker 1: all go on couples like we go couples with a 604 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 1: couple every day, a couple of a couple of couples, 605 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:45,959 Speaker 1: and we'll sit down and be like, yo, do you 606 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 1: like this? Like a couple of things. A guy can't 607 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,960 Speaker 1: lie in front of his girl because she's like like, 608 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 1: don't play you like it? Yeah, So you'd be surprised. Man, 609 00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:57,920 Speaker 1: A lot of people are doing it. A lot of 610 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 1: people doing it. We're definitely that he's like because he's 611 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 1: on the gray guys say that I know I've done 612 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 1: it to him, like stuck my finger up? Is that? 613 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 1: And he said, like, no, he doesn't do it. So 614 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 1: I've heard somebody actually lay off a finger comes about okay, 615 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 1: But I usually be the guys that like, I would 616 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 1: never let anybody do that to me. That's the ones 617 00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 1: that you put two fingers in them. Right. You want 618 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 1: to hear busted out of strap on? I mean, this 619 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 1: is my next question, but I want to I won't 620 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 1: let me do it, so it never happened. But yeah, 621 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 1: I was just I don't even do toys at all, 622 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: like I want to do on yourself even No, I don't. 623 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,480 Speaker 1: I suggest wearing a strap on under your pants for 624 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 1: a day just walking around sometimes went on just to 625 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 1: funk with people because I feel so much more like 626 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 1: bossy like all the time for cargo pants. They're gonna 627 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 1: be like, I have you have a dick, there's toys 628 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 1: at work with it an app and you can be 629 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: playing with it somewhere else. You can play with your 630 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 1: dick on the app. If I had a dick for 631 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 1: a day, the first thing I would do is swinging 632 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 1: around in a helicopter and then I would go as 633 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 1: many bitches and now I would get my dick socked. 634 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 1: I want to, like, come on somebody's face like I 635 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 1: would get my is your reaction like I say, I 636 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:51,000 Speaker 1: would just be sucking for you, quirky, That's what I 637 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 1: would do. Alright, So at lasta and you have some 638 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,200 Speaker 1: homework to do yourself. Okay, what's my homework? We told 639 00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 1: you just now you gotta eat some mess. It's too 640 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 1: much work for me. I just don't think that much work, 641 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, I feel like I have earned 642 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 1: my trump cards minimal, you know what I mean? Job 643 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 1: because I want to. But everything else is really gonna 644 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 1: be on you, you know what I mean. You're going 645 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,120 Speaker 1: to be the one where your legs are sore and 646 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 1: be the one that's super relaxed. That's how you're able 647 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 1: to take these big black things very relaxed. Did I 648 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 1: figured that? All? Right? Now? I want to ask you this, Lisa, 649 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 1: and so is it better for you when you work 650 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 1: with somebody that you've been working with that you're comfortable 651 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 1: with or do you like new dick? I like working 652 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 1: with people. I'm comfortable with. And I really have a 653 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,960 Speaker 1: tough time meeting someone for the first time on the shoot. 654 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 1: It's awkward for me. I'd like to get to know 655 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 1: them a little bit look forward to it um now 656 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 1: if I do do that, which I had to a 657 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago because someone canceled. I used a 658 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 1: guy that like I literally called twenty five people and 659 00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 1: asked because they know me, they know what I'm good with. 660 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 1: Because sometimes the kids come on set and young guys, 661 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: and they're so nervous they talk too much, and I 662 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,480 Speaker 1: have to tell that. The directors are like, yo, my 663 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 1: knees are welding, fucking shot Like I don't want to 664 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,080 Speaker 1: funk this dude, He's got to shut the funk up. 665 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,319 Speaker 1: The are like stop, you know and so, And it 666 00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 1: grinds me a bit. And they don't know how to 667 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,120 Speaker 1: touch me or not touch me. And when a guy 668 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,279 Speaker 1: gets nervous with me the first couple of times, I'll 669 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,040 Speaker 1: be bruised after this scene because when they're trying to 670 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:23,839 Speaker 1: not come the like squeeze your arm and not really 671 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,960 Speaker 1: think about it and put their weight on you and so. 672 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 1: But the guys that know you know everything, how you 673 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,440 Speaker 1: like be propped up. What your better side is, you know, 674 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,759 Speaker 1: like they know I want to show my triceps so 675 00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:38,319 Speaker 1: they'll pull. They know me. And also it's fun. It's 676 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,000 Speaker 1: like an extended dating life for you know what they 677 00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:43,279 Speaker 1: like to, you know how to help them come to 678 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 1: Like I know when I work with rab Piper, all 679 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,560 Speaker 1: we have to do is kiss and if if he's 680 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 1: starting to lose his edge a little bit, all we 681 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 1: have to do is kiss, make eye contact and connect 682 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,880 Speaker 1: and he's sucking hard again. That's so powerful. What do 683 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 1: you guys think too, is I'm sure all of you are, 684 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 1: like just because everybody's in relation hips and set. Laura, Yeah, 685 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:03,800 Speaker 1: but that's because she's been in a long term relationship 686 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 1: and now she's single, which is amazing. How long term 687 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 1: it was like about five years almost it was for Yeah, 688 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 1: So I think it's fun to be single after you've 689 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,399 Speaker 1: been in a relationship that didn't turn out the way 690 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,439 Speaker 1: you anticipated, so it's time to have a good time. 691 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 1: So do you like being with somebody that you're used 692 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,759 Speaker 1: to or is it really fun like gett a new 693 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,959 Speaker 1: dick see with me, Like y'all already know, like I'll 694 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,200 Speaker 1: deal with somebody I dealt with before before I'll just 695 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:32,560 Speaker 1: go out and get and hold find a whole new 696 00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,880 Speaker 1: because it could be a waste. Sometimes you got to 697 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,239 Speaker 1: go dig an archives. You give what I'm saying. I 698 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:40,319 Speaker 1: might not have had no problem with the person that 699 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 1: you know, we It might have just been we moved 700 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 1: away or something happened. It's like, it would never just 701 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,759 Speaker 1: be somebody that I actually like broke up with it 702 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 1: had a big problem. It wouldn't be that, but somebody 703 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,239 Speaker 1: that I've dealt with before. Yes, absolutely, I'd rather do 704 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 1: that than uh, find out somebody out of pinky dick 705 00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 1: and I just wasted my rather be with somebody when 706 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 1: I did good, are going to do it. And we're 707 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,319 Speaker 1: also more afraid. You know, men can invite a woman 708 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,840 Speaker 1: over not things, she's going to rob them? What what whatever? 709 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:11,800 Speaker 1: You know, But we were we have to be more guarded, 710 00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 1: sort of put ourselves a complete strangers jarring you know exactly. Yeah, No, 711 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,719 Speaker 1: I think physically that's two. But women definitely do rob Man, 712 00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 1: That's true. They love the basketball players. These girls makes 713 00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,520 Speaker 1: me so angry. It makes me angry because then when 714 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,120 Speaker 1: I listen to sports radio, I have to call into 715 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 1: every sports show because I hear these broadcasters talking about 716 00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,839 Speaker 1: the player like he's a fucking idiot, And I would 717 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,319 Speaker 1: say to the broadcaster, like, yo, you've never had two 718 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 1: girls offered to come home to your place at the 719 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 1: same puppet time. You don't even know the mindsets. Don't 720 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 1: be so judgmental, he said, young. I mean, you know, 721 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 1: nobody cares about you, so you may have done the 722 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 1: same thing. Nobody, nobody. You're not on the news for it, 723 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,440 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But I take it personally 724 00:36:50,440 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 1: as an insult because they don't know this all right. Now, 725 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,800 Speaker 1: people always ask questions, right, they asked the service questions, 726 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:07,200 Speaker 1: so we want to get your input, all right. I've 727 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,240 Speaker 1: been married for over six years and with my spouse 728 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,520 Speaker 1: for more than ten. Our entire relationship has been a 729 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,200 Speaker 1: constant argument about sex. I've always felt like I'm the 730 00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 1: only person that initiates to put effort into it. We 731 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 1: go weeks at a time without sex. I feel like 732 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 1: my only option at this point is to file for divorce. 733 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,759 Speaker 1: I don't want to step out. We have kids, so 734 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:24,600 Speaker 1: it's tough to just leave the marriage. But I'm tired 735 00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 1: of feeling neglected and sexually frustrated. We are in our 736 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,160 Speaker 1: early thirties. Wait, is this a woman or a man? 737 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 1: This is a woman. She's been married and I have 738 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:37,319 Speaker 1: a drive. It's been weeks since they have sex. He's 739 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,880 Speaker 1: having sex, he's not having she said. Since the beginning 740 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,239 Speaker 1: of their relationship, they've been married for over six years. 741 00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:46,160 Speaker 1: They've always argued about They've always argued about sex, and 742 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:47,880 Speaker 1: they've been together for ten years. They have to go 743 00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,320 Speaker 1: to a sex she said. They went to counseling and 744 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,880 Speaker 1: somebody else. And you know, some guys just don't have 745 00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 1: a drive. A friend of mine she she's with somebody 746 00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:01,160 Speaker 1: and he she's always wanting to have sex, and he 747 00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 1: just doesn't have a drive. Like he's always tired and 748 00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:08,280 Speaker 1: he kind of has like a penis social who doesn't 749 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 1: get all the way hardy function? Is it hard or 750 00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 1: does it just did ever get hard? It's getting hard 751 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,760 Speaker 1: in the beginning and the beginning, Um, in the beginning, 752 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 1: they had some good because I feel like they've gotten 753 00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 1: used to each other and the sucks started to live. 754 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 1: That's why I don't believe when guys say that, like, 755 00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,439 Speaker 1: because every time I hear a situation like that, they're 756 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,719 Speaker 1: always like, well, you know, he's probably having dysfunctions. I'm 757 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:36,399 Speaker 1: always asked my first question, did y'all ever have good 758 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,920 Speaker 1: sex before? And they're like, yeah, it used to be amazing, 759 00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 1: So that's not what the problem. He don't have a problem, 760 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:45,719 Speaker 1: but stressed sometimes can trigger that too. And also sometimes 761 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:47,680 Speaker 1: the man doesn't look at the woman the same when 762 00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:50,560 Speaker 1: she becomes a mother. I mean, that's that's something that 763 00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:53,759 Speaker 1: many women dealing. They didn't want to have sex with. 764 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 1: There did y'ad's mother after the time. It was somebody 765 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:03,319 Speaker 1: when I wouldn't touch her after that, and then they 766 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:08,839 Speaker 1: ended up eventually. Yeah, I remember. Yeah, people go through things, 767 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:10,920 Speaker 1: and I think like financially, if you're going through it 768 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:12,839 Speaker 1: at work and things aren't going well and you don't 769 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 1: feel good, it is like sex is a very mental thing. Also, 770 00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:20,040 Speaker 1: like think about us, like sometimes you're mad, you're stressed out, 771 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 1: things that aren't going well, you don't really feel like 772 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:28,279 Speaker 1: I feel like that always helps me. Yeah, yeah, when 773 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 1: I see what you're saying. Also, kids are a huge responsibility, 774 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,200 Speaker 1: and when you have kids that people are tired. That's different. 775 00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:37,239 Speaker 1: With the kids running around, it's probably not sexy. They're 776 00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,520 Speaker 1: yelling and throwing ship and no. Yeah, yeah, that's probably 777 00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:42,920 Speaker 1: what the problem, and that sometimes people get resembling relationships, 778 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:44,319 Speaker 1: like if you feel like I'm home with the kids, 779 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 1: I'm doing all the work, and you're kind of resentful 780 00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:48,720 Speaker 1: and you're like, why do I need to do anywhere? 781 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 1: As The silent killer of all relationships was the first 782 00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 1: thing I learned when I went to marriage counseling when 783 00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 1: I was married in my twenties. And his true resentment 784 00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:00,399 Speaker 1: is the silent killer because it just builds up. Tell 785 00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,360 Speaker 1: us about this marriage and your twice there was a marriage. 786 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:05,360 Speaker 1: We're still very good friends. It was just our wedding 787 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,440 Speaker 1: anniversary May twelve. We always talk on our birthdays and 788 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 1: our wedding anniversary. I was young. He was my first 789 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 1: and really only boyfriend of my whole life. I'm just 790 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:16,839 Speaker 1: a free spirit that really likes to be on our own. 791 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,920 Speaker 1: And though we had so many great years. We're together 792 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,759 Speaker 1: for seven years, only married for two um but we 793 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,520 Speaker 1: traveled together and had a really good time. We partied 794 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 1: a lot. It was in the day when I was 795 00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:30,440 Speaker 1: like ecstasy was everything, and it was the mid not 796 00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:32,640 Speaker 1: early nineties. I'm going through that phase and to just 797 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:36,040 Speaker 1: have a partner in crime. But you grow apart, and 798 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,719 Speaker 1: things get stressful and words get said. And I'm one 799 00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:40,360 Speaker 1: of those people that once words are said, I have 800 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:44,280 Speaker 1: a really hard time beginning forgiving. And you know, um, 801 00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 1: so we just decided to We did not have a prenum, 802 00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 1: so of course I made money, so I had to 803 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,160 Speaker 1: buy my way out of the marriage. But money is 804 00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,240 Speaker 1: nothing like you can always make more money. But your happiness, friend, 805 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:55,920 Speaker 1: it is what it is, you know what I mean. 806 00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,040 Speaker 1: That's how the books work, and that's how the state work. 807 00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:01,919 Speaker 1: But we had we we did have three roles. We had. 808 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:04,120 Speaker 1: You had. He had to move back to Florida if 809 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 1: we split up. I got to stay in California where 810 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,200 Speaker 1: I was living. Whatever, whatever friends you brought in, you 811 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 1: you get, you take with you, and we don't start 812 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,040 Speaker 1: and we and we do not stay in touch with 813 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,319 Speaker 1: each other's families. And so we really stuck to that. 814 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,000 Speaker 1: So it was a respectful breakup. Had he stayed in California, 815 00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 1: we would have been back and forth for like three years. 816 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:24,319 Speaker 1: I don't like it would have been he took your money, Yeah, 817 00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:29,200 Speaker 1: we need to him. He wanted to act, but part 818 00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:33,120 Speaker 1: of your career. I wasn't shooting at that time. But 819 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:34,840 Speaker 1: you were making money. So I was dancing and he 820 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:36,440 Speaker 1: went on the road with me. So we just kind 821 00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,280 Speaker 1: of parting on the road and hooked up with other girls. 822 00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,840 Speaker 1: He was living a good life because another word that 823 00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,319 Speaker 1: he was parted and working with you. Then he does 824 00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 1: deserve of course, that's why, because his social wasn't paying 825 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,239 Speaker 1: in anything, you know what I mean social security, So 826 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,640 Speaker 1: it was my responsibility and I didn't see it. I 827 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:54,480 Speaker 1: wasn't bitter about it, right, It was bitter because he 828 00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,880 Speaker 1: tried to take my sign Michael Jordan's jersey and on 829 00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,719 Speaker 1: the very Yeah, because we went to a mediator and 830 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,200 Speaker 1: we had all of our paperwork, everything is neutral. This 831 00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:03,680 Speaker 1: is the number you came up with, because he was like, 832 00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:04,880 Speaker 1: show me the money and I'll go. And I'm like, 833 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,000 Speaker 1: just come up with a number. Yeah, those are the 834 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,040 Speaker 1: words you can't take back. And I see on there 835 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,319 Speaker 1: Michael Jordan jersey, I'm like, funck, no, no, I gotta 836 00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,400 Speaker 1: go hire a lawyer. So going to hire a lawyer. 837 00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 1: It was credit purchase it. I got in a random 838 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:19,479 Speaker 1: way on the role from a fan that he didn't 839 00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 1: believe it was gonna be real, and I paid to 840 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,920 Speaker 1: get it free. I was mine right, how dare he 841 00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,799 Speaker 1: tried to steal a gift? So the lawyer says to me, 842 00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:29,919 Speaker 1: this is fine, just says the Michael Jordan Jersey doesn't 843 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:35,600 Speaker 1: say autographed off, but big five right now? You buy 844 00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 1: him with Jordan's Jersey can give it you in there, 845 00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:41,920 Speaker 1: You're done. I was like, oh, so, like everybody ever 846 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:43,920 Speaker 1: hear his birthday. That's the only thing he gets to 847 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 1: me is that picture, Like you're the best ex husband ever. 848 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:51,799 Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Jordan Jersey. That's really funny. He had like 849 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:53,840 Speaker 1: a real wedding or was it? Like we did have 850 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:57,080 Speaker 1: a real wedding. We got buried in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania. I 851 00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,360 Speaker 1: had an old mansion called the Sarah Mansion. It was 852 00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,520 Speaker 1: just a small wedding of like forty people. Um, but 853 00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:05,360 Speaker 1: we did. I did a butterfly release, which was so 854 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,480 Speaker 1: great because it's legal anymore to do that. I was 855 00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:11,680 Speaker 1: so awesome. I was so much, so beautiful. But it 856 00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 1: was a special day. Um, you control very far back 857 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,280 Speaker 1: on my Instagram, I should place one is a flashback Friday. 858 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:19,600 Speaker 1: Then I'll do a wedding photo. But it was an 859 00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:23,200 Speaker 1: experience and I think people should try things without clamoring 860 00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:26,000 Speaker 1: on that it has to work. Not everything has to work. 861 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 1: And when you start to argue, I draw the line fast. 862 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:31,239 Speaker 1: I'm not going past ninety days of arguing. This isn't 863 00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:34,239 Speaker 1: getting better. We fight every day to make money, we 864 00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:36,279 Speaker 1: fight every day to be safe. Do you really want 865 00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:39,000 Speaker 1: to come home and argue with your spouse? And we 866 00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:40,759 Speaker 1: had a business at a time we had I had 867 00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 1: a day spall as well as well as being on 868 00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,360 Speaker 1: the road dancing, and I just moved out lived on 869 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:47,360 Speaker 1: the massage bed for months while I let him just 870 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:48,680 Speaker 1: pack up his ship because I was like, I don't 871 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:50,160 Speaker 1: want to come back in here and have you standing 872 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,799 Speaker 1: over me trying to change my mind. I will just 873 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,920 Speaker 1: live there and fall off the massage bed about once 874 00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:59,440 Speaker 1: a week, which we had a shower. We had everything 875 00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,120 Speaker 1: I needed. It was just easier, you know. I just 876 00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,359 Speaker 1: wanted it to be done. I wanted to move forward. 877 00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:11,080 Speaker 1: That what you needed. Sorry, and they're not that comfortable either, 878 00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:19,759 Speaker 1: but couch the couches in the lobby, or if you 879 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:24,080 Speaker 1: could look in the window and that everybody. I was 880 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:26,560 Speaker 1: doing that my car every day. My staff did not 881 00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:29,319 Speaker 1: know that was happening. Now here's the next question. My 882 00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,040 Speaker 1: boyfriend of two months keeps gifting me with lavish gifts. 883 00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,759 Speaker 1: I'm very appreciative. However, he loves to brag about how 884 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,440 Speaker 1: much each thing caused as he gives it to me. 885 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,320 Speaker 1: That bad could pay your rent for a month. Here's 886 00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:42,640 Speaker 1: the catch, here's the catch. Here's the catch. It's all 887 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:45,839 Speaker 1: fake as hell. I don't require these lavish kitts. I'm 888 00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,480 Speaker 1: fine with whatever. I just don't know how to bring 889 00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,160 Speaker 1: this up. Should I bring it up, I know it 890 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,640 Speaker 1: will embarrass him, but I do feel deceived and embarrassed 891 00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 1: that he tells my friends how real everything is and 892 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:56,600 Speaker 1: they know better, so it's not fake. That the products 893 00:44:56,600 --> 00:45:00,279 Speaker 1: are fake. Yes, and he's bragged to her like China 894 00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:06,680 Speaker 1: man bags. I was the funk out of him because 895 00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,719 Speaker 1: I was gonna say that it just sucking. Sell them all, 896 00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,520 Speaker 1: break up with them and cash out right now. Cut 897 00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:15,440 Speaker 1: your listen. That's the biggest thing right now in luxury assignment. 898 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:18,640 Speaker 1: It is posh bar and you listen to the new news, 899 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:25,000 Speaker 1: not if it's fake circular economy, which is amazing. Has 900 00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:28,440 Speaker 1: anybody ever given you all anything fake? Somebody get one 901 00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:29,560 Speaker 1: of my customer back when I was the thing, I 902 00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:30,879 Speaker 1: used to be a dancer, and I was gonna bring 903 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,800 Speaker 1: this up, but I didn't want to, you know, interrupt you. 904 00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:33,879 Speaker 1: But there was a couple of times but I wanted 905 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,360 Speaker 1: to mention it. But back when I was a dancer, Um, 906 00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,200 Speaker 1: this guy was like, what do you want for Christmas? 907 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:39,719 Speaker 1: And I was like a Cardier watch. And then he 908 00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:42,560 Speaker 1: came in like right before Christmas with a fake asked Cardio. 909 00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:44,000 Speaker 1: It was so fake that it was still like in 910 00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:46,880 Speaker 1: a little plastic room and I was just like, but 911 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 1: that's fake, and he was looked like, how do you know, 912 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:54,239 Speaker 1: like it looks fake? Fake? Did you think he could 913 00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 1: afford the Cardier watch? Did you think he would do it? 914 00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,080 Speaker 1: I did. I was dumb. I'm like I told my friend, like, 915 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:04,959 Speaker 1: I'm Likedy came over. I was like, this ship, fake 916 00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,000 Speaker 1: it off with this fake ship, Like that's bold to me. 917 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:09,719 Speaker 1: That was like in the very beginning to like I 918 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 1: was still working at the Lilas, which is the very 919 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:16,000 Speaker 1: first I don't remember when that club was the grand 920 00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:19,440 Speaker 1: opening and the whole thing when they put that was 921 00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,440 Speaker 1: the first club in Philly. They had lap dances and 922 00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,319 Speaker 1: it was the first time I ever did a lap dance. 923 00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:30,799 Speaker 1: And I didn't do another what happened it? It was 924 00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:34,920 Speaker 1: twenty bucks at the time. Um and at the time 925 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,479 Speaker 1: this was he played for the Sixers. So I was like, okay, 926 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:38,919 Speaker 1: I want to do a dance for him. And Blad 927 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:40,600 Speaker 1: later saw him in life and told him the story, 928 00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:42,880 Speaker 1: and he touched me the whole time. And then I 929 00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,000 Speaker 1: walked over to the manager and I'm like right, I 930 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:46,959 Speaker 1: said the manager like all right, like this twenty bucks, 931 00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:48,440 Speaker 1: how much you gave it was we get half? I 932 00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:52,279 Speaker 1: go fun this. I'm not going it just wasn't worth 933 00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:54,719 Speaker 1: it to me because you were fighting the guy's hands off. 934 00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:58,120 Speaker 1: I didn't do another one for twenty years. I just 935 00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 1: hustled yeh, like yeah, now stuff go down, Like but 936 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,360 Speaker 1: Silist is a fun club. I was literally just yesterday 937 00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:10,480 Speaker 1: was still open. Yees. I was just there. I danced 938 00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,600 Speaker 1: there like three or four weeks ago. Oh yeah, need 939 00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 1: to go to the fun club. So nobody else never 940 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,319 Speaker 1: got a fake, and I would be so insulted. What 941 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:21,799 Speaker 1: if I didn't know it was a fake? And then 942 00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:23,640 Speaker 1: I like rocked it out. My friends were like, let's 943 00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,440 Speaker 1: fake or someone that's the problem that Look, the problem 944 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,680 Speaker 1: with him is that he's passing it off and bragging 945 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:30,279 Speaker 1: one thing that you're passing off, but the fact that 946 00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,239 Speaker 1: you're bragging about how much it costs, saying like, oh, 947 00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 1: this is gonna pay your rent when it really can't 948 00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,719 Speaker 1: even pay the cable bill, Like because it wasn't bragging, 949 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:40,920 Speaker 1: it would be a kind of the thought was somebody 950 00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:43,480 Speaker 1: setting to him telling him that it's real, but he 951 00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:45,120 Speaker 1: can't be bragging about how much it costs if you 952 00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:50,240 Speaker 1: really didn't pay that much. And it might be exactly 953 00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:55,960 Speaker 1: by fake stuff from scammers. I know. Yeah, yes, no 954 00:47:55,960 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 1: matter real or fake, you should never how much? Shouldn't rag? 955 00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:04,319 Speaker 1: Don't just so much like don't that's not would be 956 00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,600 Speaker 1: like pay my rent, just give me a stake back 957 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:11,600 Speaker 1: and listen. So my advice for her ill them out. Yeah, 958 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 1: you definitely have to call him out. I think yeah, 959 00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:19,200 Speaker 1: But and it's two months in white, they've only been 960 00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:21,040 Speaker 1: dating for two months, so you need to call him 961 00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:23,360 Speaker 1: out on his BS and throw all that fakes bullshit 962 00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,120 Speaker 1: back at him. And in the whole relationship sat a 963 00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:28,200 Speaker 1: littlewere fast and you know what you can say. I'm 964 00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:30,080 Speaker 1: not sure if you're aware, but this isn't real, right, 965 00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,200 Speaker 1: I'll just like you bought me all this fake ash ship. 966 00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 1: I said, of buying me fake bags, why don't you 967 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,680 Speaker 1: pay the rent since it could pay for my rent? 968 00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,360 Speaker 1: All right, broke, I'm not gonna lie. When I was 969 00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:42,279 Speaker 1: a kid, I probably had a fake I did, but 970 00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:50,480 Speaker 1: I was fake when we was younger. I felt like WHOA, 971 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,920 Speaker 1: all my friends and saying, everybody used to go get 972 00:48:52,960 --> 00:49:00,960 Speaker 1: their little fake ship. Yeah yeah, when you were young, 973 00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:03,400 Speaker 1: when you're really couldn't afford to buy the real thing. 974 00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,360 Speaker 1: Somebody get me gold airrings once, but he just handed 975 00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:07,680 Speaker 1: to me in his hand. I think he stole them 976 00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:21,680 Speaker 1: from somebody. I think he wraps somebody. He was like, alright, 977 00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:24,319 Speaker 1: so here's the next question. I got out of an 978 00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 1: abusive relationship about two months ago. I've been dating a 979 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:29,200 Speaker 1: little bit and Metagaid is super nice. At first, I 980 00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,640 Speaker 1: was overly cautious because of stuff I've already been through, 981 00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:33,799 Speaker 1: but I realized that's not really fair to him, so 982 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,919 Speaker 1: I opened up more. Now that I've been less on guard, 983 00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,719 Speaker 1: he's showing less interest. I also overheard him tell a 984 00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:40,799 Speaker 1: friend that he thinks I talked too much. I thought 985 00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,239 Speaker 1: I talk a lot, But why is he talking about 986 00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:45,040 Speaker 1: me and not just telling me? It just seems like 987 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,160 Speaker 1: everything is worse on the weekends. I think because he's 988 00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:49,319 Speaker 1: hanging with his guys and he gets some with the 989 00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:51,600 Speaker 1: boys energy. He's been really sweet and seem like he 990 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,880 Speaker 1: actually wanted a relationship until the weekend and he's with 991 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:56,040 Speaker 1: his guys, he kind of gets douchey and asked like 992 00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,879 Speaker 1: a funk boy on these nights because he's boy someone 993 00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:04,080 Speaker 1: else on this one. On this one, I'm sure, yeah, 994 00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,120 Speaker 1: he's fight picking fights with her so he can go 995 00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:08,120 Speaker 1: out and do his own things. That they do this 996 00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:11,719 Speaker 1: and I learned how to do it, and I do 997 00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:15,319 Speaker 1: it too. Ship. I'm telling you when it's just I'm 998 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,160 Speaker 1: not going out and having fun. I just don't want 999 00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:18,879 Speaker 1: to be bothered that night. I don't want to put 1000 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:20,680 Speaker 1: makeup on, and I'm already home and I'm just like, 1001 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:22,640 Speaker 1: you know, I'll be like I get salty, just bring 1002 00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:24,960 Speaker 1: up some old ship that always works in the and 1003 00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:28,520 Speaker 1: be like, see, this is exactly why, and then that like, 1004 00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:32,320 Speaker 1: don't see your phone. You can get away with anything, China, 1005 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,360 Speaker 1: And you have guys that when you get an argument, 1006 00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:38,080 Speaker 1: they're just like fall back you alone, and I'll go 1007 00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:42,920 Speaker 1: away for the weekend because they probably talk probably mad. 1008 00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,720 Speaker 1: How are you about guys coming to your house. There's 1009 00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:48,799 Speaker 1: just a handful of guys that come to my house, 1010 00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:52,840 Speaker 1: and there's my main guys, like the guy that's spent 1011 00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:54,680 Speaker 1: the most time at my house. But I don't really 1012 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:56,480 Speaker 1: go out much, so it's hard for me to be 1013 00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:57,960 Speaker 1: in public with a guy because I'm on a date 1014 00:50:58,000 --> 00:50:59,319 Speaker 1: and dude to just walk up and be like, yo, 1015 00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:01,359 Speaker 1: can have a photo, and I just feel like so 1016 00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:04,359 Speaker 1: awkward for them. So if you're gonna see me, I'm 1017 00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,239 Speaker 1: you're gonna see me at my house. I cook. I 1018 00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:10,959 Speaker 1: love to cook. What's your specialty anything. I'm vegan, so 1019 00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:12,800 Speaker 1: I cook a lot of good vegan stuff, but I 1020 00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 1: also make Italian. I'll cook whatever anybody wants. There we go. 1021 00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,279 Speaker 1: We have a grill too, and I do grill all right. 1022 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:21,360 Speaker 1: So here's the last one. So my boyfriend baby Daddy 1023 00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:23,520 Speaker 1: is currently in prison facing a bit of time, but 1024 00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:25,439 Speaker 1: prior to him going and made an agreement I would 1025 00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:30,200 Speaker 1: stick by his side. I didn't know. Stephaniely gotta laugh. 1026 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:32,759 Speaker 1: She like that never works, all right. I didn't know 1027 00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:34,799 Speaker 1: the full extent of everything going on because we were 1028 00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:36,719 Speaker 1: living apart during the time he got in trouble. Well, 1029 00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:39,680 Speaker 1: once discoveries and witness recording started coming out, one of 1030 00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,319 Speaker 1: the witnesses was a female he used to date. Well, 1031 00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,279 Speaker 1: she goes on to say that my dude was over 1032 00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,279 Speaker 1: her house trying to get with her, blah blah, but 1033 00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:48,200 Speaker 1: he never mentioned her before we made our agreement for 1034 00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 1: me to stick by his side. I'm a woman of 1035 00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:51,839 Speaker 1: my words, so what I'd be wrong for leaving him 1036 00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:53,880 Speaker 1: while he's locked up because of this? He has che 1037 00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 1: me in the past, and he has been physically mentally abusive. 1038 00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:01,200 Speaker 1: I'm confused on what to do it out and mentally 1039 00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:06,640 Speaker 1: jail and that his witness support him through that bit 1040 00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:10,440 Speaker 1: he witness. She can still know that she's stuck to 1041 00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:14,319 Speaker 1: her word, but his situation avoided out and also they 1042 00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:17,000 Speaker 1: were together when they were when when this started to happen. 1043 00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:19,160 Speaker 1: The downside is she has a child with him and 1044 00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:22,160 Speaker 1: she's still gonna have two relations and be civil with him, 1045 00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,160 Speaker 1: but dating him. Don't wait, the gods you are not 1046 00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:25,840 Speaker 1: those recordings, girl, and you don't have to be a 1047 00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:29,400 Speaker 1: witness that I have to say. That's God giving you 1048 00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:33,960 Speaker 1: a sign. Get out, Okay, he spared you. Get out 1049 00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:37,360 Speaker 1: of the situation and You should never feel guilty about 1050 00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:39,520 Speaker 1: something like that because guess what you locked up. I 1051 00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:41,399 Speaker 1: found out you were cheating. Thank you God for giving 1052 00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:44,600 Speaker 1: me out. Yeah, sometimes you just have to go with 1053 00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:47,560 Speaker 1: what God is giving you, the signs that you're getting 1054 00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:49,840 Speaker 1: from the universe or whatever people want to call it. 1055 00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:55,160 Speaker 1: And yeah, you know, go you have to take the signs, 1056 00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,920 Speaker 1: like God can only send you so much before you 1057 00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,360 Speaker 1: know for you to notice, you're gonna keep skipping off 1058 00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:02,359 Speaker 1: on the right way to go with the right path. 1059 00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:04,560 Speaker 1: And he had to know she was gonna find out 1060 00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:10,440 Speaker 1: some way, somehow. He should have been honest. If he 1061 00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,960 Speaker 1: was honest and the beginning and was like listen, this 1062 00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:16,000 Speaker 1: is this, this, that in the third but he's not 1063 00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:18,799 Speaker 1: doing none of that. He's lying convincing her something. He 1064 00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:21,600 Speaker 1: probably stepped working with somebody else, Like it's just you 1065 00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:24,319 Speaker 1: gotta chill because if he's hiding that, who knows what 1066 00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:27,160 Speaker 1: the funk else he's hide And he's embarrassed that this 1067 00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:30,759 Speaker 1: bit used to fuck is now a witness, exactly embarrassed 1068 00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:34,480 Speaker 1: for your dick was trash three years in jail, and 1069 00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:37,279 Speaker 1: and her discovery was another girl at the A t M. 1070 00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:40,520 Speaker 1: Because heard her man at the a TM pictures and 1071 00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:43,400 Speaker 1: her discovery of her man cheating on her and she 1072 00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:47,080 Speaker 1: didn't know nothing to mean three years some more episode 1073 00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:48,760 Speaker 1: and they get locked up that you have their phone 1074 00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:51,960 Speaker 1: than anything else? Man, she got my phone? But could 1075 00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,759 Speaker 1: they could approve who has their phones? Are not so 1076 00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,640 Speaker 1: like you come from? Yeah? I know, mad people like 1077 00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,520 Speaker 1: you give your phone to you're a girl or you 1078 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:07,960 Speaker 1: don't ye choice, they probably rather give it to the 1079 00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:26,799 Speaker 1: fens had to take the bit no, no, What would 1080 00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:28,680 Speaker 1: you say? Is the difference between how you used to 1081 00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:32,280 Speaker 1: have sex when you were younger and what you do now? Um, 1082 00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:34,680 Speaker 1: now I'm more able to communicate what I want. I 1083 00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:38,680 Speaker 1: think as women, we just gravitate towards that. And I 1084 00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:40,840 Speaker 1: also just don't waste my time, you know, I know 1085 00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:42,920 Speaker 1: I got to be connected to somebody to enjoy personal 1086 00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:45,480 Speaker 1: sex with them. So it's like it's really hard for 1087 00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:47,000 Speaker 1: me to do the fun boy thing at this point 1088 00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:48,840 Speaker 1: in my life, you know what I mean, I've crossed 1089 00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:51,120 Speaker 1: over that. It was great while elasted, but now it's like, 1090 00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:53,840 Speaker 1: if you're just a fucking idiot and I'm just fucking 1091 00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:56,680 Speaker 1: you anyway, then what does that say about me? That 1092 00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:00,800 Speaker 1: you're my lover, but it's till about forty five to 1093 00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:05,000 Speaker 1: get there. So I mean it's only two years old 1094 00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:07,799 Speaker 1: where I'm like still sticking Like the funk boys text 1095 00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:10,000 Speaker 1: and I'm like not driven to make a move, not 1096 00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,400 Speaker 1: responding they think I don't have that number anymore. Just 1097 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:14,239 Speaker 1: leave it that way. Can you remember your first or 1098 00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:18,400 Speaker 1: gas remever and what you like, what's going on? The 1099 00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:21,080 Speaker 1: first like really really really good sex I had was 1100 00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:24,920 Speaker 1: on set really yeah, because I just felt like I 1101 00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:27,440 Speaker 1: was in such a safe place. It was a girl 1102 00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:30,320 Speaker 1: that I knew from her coming to Pennsylvania and dancing. 1103 00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:32,720 Speaker 1: Her name was Lena. She helped me get into business. 1104 00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:34,759 Speaker 1: And it was a guy that I ended up kind 1105 00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:36,279 Speaker 1: of dating a bit because I thought I was in 1106 00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:37,919 Speaker 1: love with him. But really it was just the best 1107 00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:40,880 Speaker 1: set and it was just this comfortable environment of a 1108 00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:42,920 Speaker 1: three way scene and I just felt like it was 1109 00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:45,640 Speaker 1: my second movie. I'm in l a. This is what 1110 00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:48,279 Speaker 1: I'm doing right now. It's such a sexual environment. It's 1111 00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:52,200 Speaker 1: so empowering to just be that free. It's like you're 1112 00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:54,600 Speaker 1: in another zone for the whole day you're shooting. It's 1113 00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:58,320 Speaker 1: just a freedom for me. So that was really probably 1114 00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:01,520 Speaker 1: my best, like orgasms. I understood what was happening. Someone 1115 00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:03,480 Speaker 1: was talking to me and explaining it to me, and 1116 00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:06,479 Speaker 1: you know, it was like having a first rememorable one. Yeah. 1117 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:10,040 Speaker 1: Eastern Pennsylvania where I grew up. No, not so great. 1118 00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:17,320 Speaker 1: The first boyfriend was named Guy. That says anything Guy 1119 00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:22,719 Speaker 1: Italian just lame. What about you? Stephanie said, do you 1120 00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:25,719 Speaker 1: remember your first my first orgasm? Because it was the first. 1121 00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:29,040 Speaker 1: All right, I'm from Chelsea, I'm from Manhattan, and we 1122 00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 1: have Back in the day, we had Channel thirty five 1123 00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:38,640 Speaker 1: at nighttime. It was the Box I remember, remember I 1124 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:44,520 Speaker 1: had it to we had it videos y yeah, and 1125 00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:46,799 Speaker 1: then imagine that at night it will be like nine 1126 00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:52,279 Speaker 1: five steven number commercials or not like yeah, yeah, it 1127 00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:59,160 Speaker 1: would be like quick and then yeah and then right. 1128 00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:02,120 Speaker 1: So night I was watching that by myself. I was 1129 00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 1: like ten years old, and I decided to master me. 1130 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:07,600 Speaker 1: I didn't know what I was doing. I just decided 1131 00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:09,680 Speaker 1: to master me. And I came and I was like, 1132 00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:12,640 Speaker 1: oh my god, that's what sex is for. I'm not 1133 00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:19,440 Speaker 1: leaving the house. I couldn't believe it. That was my 1134 00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:21,560 Speaker 1: first orgasm. I remember, I was young. Did you know 1135 00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:24,480 Speaker 1: what it was like? I came. No, that's I knew 1136 00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:29,000 Speaker 1: what it was. Then what about you? You don't remember yours? 1137 00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:30,960 Speaker 1: She's like, now, I don't remember, you know, I don't 1138 00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:33,760 Speaker 1: remember that. No, No, I knew. I was really young 1139 00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:36,080 Speaker 1: and I masturbated, but I don't remember the good time. 1140 00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:38,400 Speaker 1: I don't remember. I don't remember, you know what. I 1141 00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:40,640 Speaker 1: remember the first time I came from oral from getting 1142 00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:42,120 Speaker 1: eat you. Now, I don't remember the first time I 1143 00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:43,920 Speaker 1: had an orgasm, but I remember the first time I 1144 00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:45,960 Speaker 1: came from that because before that I didn't think I 1145 00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:48,600 Speaker 1: loved it at all. I was like, yeah, very few 1146 00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:51,000 Speaker 1: guys are good at it. But then guy did it, 1147 00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:53,640 Speaker 1: and I was like, this is amazing. I remember the 1148 00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:56,720 Speaker 1: first time I realized I had an internal orgasm, but 1149 00:57:56,840 --> 00:57:58,240 Speaker 1: it probably wasn't the first one I had, but it 1150 00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,720 Speaker 1: was the first time. I was like, Oh, it was 1151 00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:05,520 Speaker 1: a difference of like, you know, the outside in the internal. 1152 00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:08,200 Speaker 1: So it was that one that I was just like, okay, 1153 00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:13,040 Speaker 1: I remember that one. But um, yeah, which way do 1154 00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:16,800 Speaker 1: you like better? To internally come? I mean, to come 1155 00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:22,120 Speaker 1: from from come from both. I mean, it depends where 1156 00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:24,640 Speaker 1: you're with. If they can make you come internally, you know, 1157 00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:26,720 Speaker 1: it depends who you're with. I mean, very few guys 1158 00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:29,400 Speaker 1: can make you come with world because again they're not 1159 00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,040 Speaker 1: that great, so kind of both. But you know, I 1160 00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,440 Speaker 1: find that connection for me is what can make become 1161 00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:36,840 Speaker 1: the hardest. So it's like the guy that I like 1162 00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:39,360 Speaker 1: the most in my life, like we can just have 1163 00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:41,080 Speaker 1: sex and I just start coming. So it's just like 1164 00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:44,280 Speaker 1: I'm so into him that that's just so emotionally and 1165 00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:46,640 Speaker 1: if even sometimes it don't even be that like the 1166 00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 1: dick is so good and it's sex is so good. 1167 00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:50,800 Speaker 1: It's just your connection. Because then when you don't like 1168 00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:55,440 Speaker 1: them as much anymore, that did get so chased, Like 1169 00:58:55,480 --> 00:59:02,400 Speaker 1: what was that think? Sweating on? I hate that thing 1170 00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:08,480 Speaker 1: it seeing that position. You know, you got to do 1171 00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:12,240 Speaker 1: that one first, Like you don't have to sweat angles 1172 00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:13,840 Speaker 1: so that like when I'm on set, I planned the 1173 00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,520 Speaker 1: whole scene around making sure that I'm not going to 1174 00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 1: be sweat on. Do that get down? Have you ever 1175 00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:25,600 Speaker 1: been with a guy that was so sweaty? It was like, Rich, 1176 00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:33,760 Speaker 1: it's my workplace. Yeah, it's another day at the office. 1177 00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:36,440 Speaker 1: Well at least, and we thank you so much for 1178 00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:40,240 Speaker 1: coming and hanging out with this. This is I opening. 1179 00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:42,920 Speaker 1: Can I get different homework though? Can you get different? 1180 00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:46,280 Speaker 1: Can do work? Okay, what's something else that you haven't done? 1181 00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,480 Speaker 1: Because you haven't done that? And that's like pretty basic. 1182 00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:51,480 Speaker 1: Does that have to be sexual? Can't it just be 1183 00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:55,680 Speaker 1: other homework like that? We'll have to maybe the listeners 1184 00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:58,680 Speaker 1: can come up with something. Okay, maybe they will between that. 1185 00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:00,920 Speaker 1: I bet you they want you to eat it. I started, yeah, 1186 01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:06,520 Speaker 1: and he don have to get Yeah. I think I'm 1187 01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,760 Speaker 1: gonna go try I'm gonna go buy me some clench 1188 01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:15,440 Speaker 1: that job. I'm going not eating and I'm like, not man, 1189 01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:18,680 Speaker 1: but the world of the days man just spread him. 1190 01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:25,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's crazy. That's like really really like 1191 01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:28,120 Speaker 1: really really really funk with somebody. Can't just go around 1192 01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:30,840 Speaker 1: eating everybody has? We didn't say that she and her 1193 01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:32,720 Speaker 1: main guy that she likes a lot, that she comes 1194 01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:35,480 Speaker 1: all the time from. She could eat his ass. Yeah, 1195 01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:39,240 Speaker 1: you could eat it, wouldn't finger. I mean it's been 1196 01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:44,360 Speaker 1: ten years and we haven't gotten married yet. You got 1197 01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:48,600 Speaker 1: those finger first you guys first finger and I'm trying 1198 01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:58,520 Speaker 1: to just get something straight. Finger all right, But we 1199 01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:00,960 Speaker 1: appreciate you, and let's on forget. We do have our 1200 01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,360 Speaker 1: lip service live show coming up on June nineteenth at 1201 01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:05,520 Speaker 1: Sony Hall. It's in all of our links in our 1202 01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:07,640 Speaker 1: bios to make sure you come check lip Service Lives. 1203 01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:09,920 Speaker 1: We have some special guests coming through. Trina is going 1204 01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:14,600 Speaker 1: to be there with us, the Bedest bit So develod 1205 01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:16,520 Speaker 1: Ellis will be there. You guys love them when they 1206 01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:19,240 Speaker 1: run lip Service and missed it. I missed them well, 1207 01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:21,520 Speaker 1: and you'll see them there. Yeah, that's gonna be wonderful 1208 01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:25,000 Speaker 1: and hopefully one day we'll all be a Delilas together. Lisa. Yes, 1209 01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:27,520 Speaker 1: and this weekend, where you ever go to gossip in 1210 01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:30,160 Speaker 1: Long Island, because that's where I'm dancing this weekend. You 1211 01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:32,640 Speaker 1: might have to go check it out. Yeah, it's pretty clear. 1212 01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:38,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in San Antonio Friday and Saturday night. 1213 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:41,360 Speaker 1: Yeah we can go. I'm going to Bobby Brownco. Yeah, 1214 01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:53,560 Speaker 1: don't Saturday before we can Bury. Trust, don't be cruel. 1215 01:01:56,600 --> 01:01:59,280 Speaker 1: Al right, Lisa, and thank you so much again. I 1216 01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:01,600 Speaker 1: hope your team will which every team that is this 1217 01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:06,920 Speaker 1: is the whole thing. Say Warriors. She likes to worry. 1218 01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:09,240 Speaker 1: She had a little Warriors boo. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I 1219 01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:12,520 Speaker 1: would say, I mean I'm neutral because it would be 1220 01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:14,760 Speaker 1: the greatest thing for Canada be the first time ever 1221 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:18,320 Speaker 1: in aust they had a whole country. I want Toronso 1222 01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:20,480 Speaker 1: to win. How Lowry has been playing for that team 1223 01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:22,800 Speaker 1: for seven years. He's got a real great life there. 1224 01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:24,880 Speaker 1: I'd love to see them look like my new favorite 1225 01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:30,280 Speaker 1: basketball players. So little personality, so it's so explosive, like 1226 01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:36,480 Speaker 1: in that funny lab expression, makes me not want them 1227 01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:38,960 Speaker 1: to win. That's my problem as well. Oh my god, 1228 01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:49,440 Speaker 1: and I love Drake, but he makes me, makes me years. Yeah, yeah,