WEBVTT - The One About Threesomes, Dope Personalities, and PumpRules

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, golgeous, Welcome back to Give Them La La Podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hyped on this episode because it's all about me,

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<v Speaker 1>just kidding. I asked you guys on the gram, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>what questions you had for this episode?

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<v Speaker 2>And I won't even lie.

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<v Speaker 1>These are the best questions that we've ever gone, Like

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<v Speaker 1>to the point where I reposted again and was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is everyone on this Monday? Because these questions are

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<v Speaker 1>so well rounded and actually, like, as much as I

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<v Speaker 1>love Bravo and vander Talk and all of the things,

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<v Speaker 1>my inbox was not filled with only those questions, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because a lot of times it's like, okay, well these

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<v Speaker 1>questions are different, but like essentially the same. These people

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<v Speaker 1>who showed up to the Give Them La Lap pod

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<v Speaker 1>instagram page, We're not messing around.

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<v Speaker 2>Not today, not today, Junior. So I'm just gonna get

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<v Speaker 2>it on and pop in. Get it on.

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<v Speaker 1>The first question, I said, as much as I love

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<v Speaker 1>talking about Bravoid, like to talk about something else. The

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<v Speaker 1>first question is do you know if Jack's went to

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<v Speaker 1>Sheena's second wedding? And if so, why didn't we see him.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be totally open and honest with you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Jack's and Kristin Doty and Brittany were at the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about three people who are fantastic reality TV personalities.

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<v Speaker 1>So they're at a wedding, but guess what, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to put a camera in their face. I'm gonna need

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<v Speaker 1>a paycheck for that. Otherwise keep me away. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>the real reason why you didn't see any of those

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<v Speaker 1>people at Sheena's wedding. When they filmed it, it was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I will show up. You're more than welcome to film me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I there has to be some sort of transaction

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<v Speaker 1>and I respect it. Right at that point, Okay, you're

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<v Speaker 1>now putting me to work. I'm not just sitting here

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<v Speaker 1>and having fun at a wedding. Yea, right, Okay, there's

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<v Speaker 1>that one. Do you have any sympathy for Rachel Raquel

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<v Speaker 1>now that the dust has settled? I wanted to read

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<v Speaker 1>that one because we've at this point wrapped season eleven.

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<v Speaker 1>We now know she didn't come back, which is fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't planning on her coming back anyway. Do I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was like not the greatest move. We talked

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<v Speaker 1>about this when we touched on the Bethany Frankel Raquel

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<v Speaker 1>Levis podcast, You're gonna see a lot in season eleven

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<v Speaker 1>that I don't think people expect from me ever, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very much like this all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>And actually, you know who pointed this out to me, Jess.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't say her name, but my agent. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to blow her spot up. She's like, please don't

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<v Speaker 1>talk about me. I'm like, you're being talked about. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, it's so interesting to me that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how to say what you mean, but like

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<v Speaker 1>be calm, Like you either are like really really down

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<v Speaker 1>for somebody or you're ripping their head off. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to be like, hey, I really like you.

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<v Speaker 1>This annoys me. Can you please stop doing that? She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you sugarcoat it. You're it's black or white, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how to change that. I think for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, maybe this season you'll see me in the

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<v Speaker 1>gray and I don't want to give a storyline away,

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<v Speaker 1>but you will see my feelings on how I feel

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<v Speaker 1>about Raquel or Rachel. That's interesting, she means maybe just

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<v Speaker 1>in general in life, oh cause I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel the la la we see a lot or me.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't speak for Easton I feel you can. I

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<v Speaker 3>feel I've seen it before where you're like, hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not a big fan of this and I'm just going

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<v Speaker 3>to tell you straight up and be and I've seen it.

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<v Speaker 3>I've seen it. But maybe it's because you get passionate

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<v Speaker 3>when it's different people and other people. Maybe you're I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know, but I've seen it before, but I get

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<v Speaker 3>I get what she's saying. But I've also seen you

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<v Speaker 3>be like, I'm not a big fan of this. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna let you know and move on.

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<v Speaker 1>And you still feel like I'm being like direct but

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<v Speaker 1>all direct, but I'm sweet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I've seen it myself. You know what I'm saying, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I've seen it, So it's just interesting. Maybe you choose

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<v Speaker 3>the people that you give that to. Maybe some people

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<v Speaker 3>it's not worth it. You're like, I'm either gonna blow

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<v Speaker 3>up on you or not.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you?

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<v Speaker 4>Guys like you?

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<v Speaker 3>You are like that? Yeah you can't if you're pretty.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like I'm there's no middle ground for me. It's

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<v Speaker 4>either I'm like just going through it and eating my

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<v Speaker 4>words or eating what I want to say to somebody,

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<v Speaker 4>or then I'm just really lethal and on a hundred.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so true.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like I'll just eat it and I won't let

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<v Speaker 4>anybody know that it's like affecting me to eat it

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<v Speaker 4>and eat it. And then there's one and then once

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<v Speaker 4>I break them at one hundred. But that's I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like how law is though, Yes, okay, like I will

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<v Speaker 4>say I know that from Dad. Yeah, like i I'll

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<v Speaker 4>just the straw that breaks the camel's back, like.

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<v Speaker 3>You hold it, hold it, hold it and.

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<v Speaker 4>Hold it and then break. Yeah, and then sometimes it'll

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<v Speaker 4>usually bust, like I'll rip open the people that I

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<v Speaker 4>love because.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like I can come back from it with you

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<v Speaker 2>unconditional life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like I'm just having a bad day, so I'll

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<v Speaker 4>take it out on like my homies or you guys.

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<v Speaker 4>But I do it because it's like I have to

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<v Speaker 4>let it go, but I have to have like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>doing it on people who know me, and we'll be like,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, we see it. We we accept your apology

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<v Speaker 4>because I usually apologize, but I usually just go from

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<v Speaker 4>there to one hundred.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel that's so hard to do something taking stuff

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<v Speaker 3>out on poor Kyle, poor mom, poor dad, poor Katie,

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<v Speaker 3>and they're like it's from because I know they'll forgive

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<v Speaker 3>me and it's from other outside, but I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna take it out on them and there and because

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<v Speaker 3>I know I can come back from it. And that's

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<v Speaker 3>not good.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it isn't good. I've I've no, but I warned you,

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<v Speaker 4>I like warn my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>See, but that's like, why are you like this right now?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, because everyone's annoying me and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna need you to fucking take it for a moment.

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<v Speaker 2>And she's like, by all means.

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<v Speaker 4>She'll be like, Lauren is on a hundred today, just

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<v Speaker 4>make sure just step on eggshells.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, she send you.

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<v Speaker 4>For she'll text me. Yeah, she'll be like, or she

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<v Speaker 4>usually doesn't text me, she'll call me. I'm letting the

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<v Speaker 4>dogs out. Lauren's on one, all right, you want to

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<v Speaker 4>come over.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, Lisa calling me Lauren my child.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I don't know if any of you guys saw

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<v Speaker 1>the video I posted a while back of Ocean like

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<v Speaker 1>having a mind blowing moment of me being Lala and

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<v Speaker 1>Mama and being like, it's so funny. But now she

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<v Speaker 1>calls me Lauren, so not even my child can say

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<v Speaker 1>my name. She Lauren, Yes, she'll say I love you Lauren,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, no, Lauren. So I've been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>teach her how to say Lauren. But I told mom,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, mom, you gotta call me like something different,

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<v Speaker 1>because I it hurts my soul that a child I

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<v Speaker 1>gave birth to can't pronounce my name correctly.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you care that she calls your first name? Because

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<v Speaker 3>I remember my dad when I would say Amy just

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<v Speaker 3>joking to my mom, he'd be like, disrespectful, you call

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<v Speaker 3>her mother. But I think it's so cute when I

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<v Speaker 3>hear little kids say like their parents first names. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>that is so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mind it at all.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't care, y no.

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<v Speaker 1>And she also messes with me at times where she'll

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<v Speaker 1>say she'll say la la and I'll like give her

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<v Speaker 1>like grumpy face, she no Mama, and then.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll give her love.

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<v Speaker 1>But she's also into telling me lately that she's proud

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<v Speaker 1>of me, which is so stinking cute because obviously she's

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<v Speaker 1>just saying things that we probably say to her. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I now know why she says stop it all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>because when I discipline, I tell her you stop it

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<v Speaker 1>right now. So now I know. I was like, where

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<v Speaker 1>is she getting this?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't realize how you talk.

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<v Speaker 1>Until your child starts saying things and you're like, where

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<v Speaker 1>are they learning things? And then it's like, oh, that

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense, and you catch yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>I the other day I said to you. You came down,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, you're so pretty. And then five

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<v Speaker 3>seconds later, Ocean looked at you and she's like, Mammy,

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<v Speaker 3>you're so pretty, even though she says it anyway. But

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<v Speaker 3>then I was like, oh, and smart and why And

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, I gotta put other describing words

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<v Speaker 3>in there, because she's faking up on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like the one that I always tell her, like, we're.

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<v Speaker 2>So proud of you. So I I'm so proud of you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, it's the cutest freaking thing in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Having children is really fucking epic. What would everyone's last

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<v Speaker 1>meal be if you were on death row? Loved the

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<v Speaker 1>Podessin and I have talked about this before. I do

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<v Speaker 1>not ever eat lamb because it makes me so sad,

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<v Speaker 1>but if it were my last meal, I would have

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<v Speaker 1>a hero yeamn. Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>What about you?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm this, give me a steak lobster tail, garlic,

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<v Speaker 3>mashed potatoes and broccoli.

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<v Speaker 4>Done and mashed potatoes, potatoes.

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<v Speaker 1>The bab so just the one that can't come straight

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<v Speaker 1>out the package. Yeah, those are pretty bomb. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>would do full Mediterranean meal.

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<v Speaker 3>Would you do this? Zekey?

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<v Speaker 1>I do like the lamb euro with the yummy pita

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<v Speaker 1>and like the lemon rice, all of that stuff, right,

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<v Speaker 1>such good hummus, and then a plethora of sparkling water.

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<v Speaker 1>But to wash all of that down, I would order

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<v Speaker 1>a bottle of honey Jack Daniels.

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna say, would you alcohol do a.

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<v Speaker 1>We're breaking sobriety, bitch, I'm on death row, about to croak.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm relapsing. M Okay, don't get upset about it.

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<v Speaker 4>You're dying.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm a assuming there's no way, like no one's

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<v Speaker 1>coming in to like do some sort of reform and

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<v Speaker 1>bring me out of prison. Like I'm going down. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>putting me straight to sleep. Yes, I'd like to numb

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<v Speaker 1>a bit.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Well, the last meal, there's no I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's the day before or the morning of, so there's

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<v Speaker 3>no room.

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<v Speaker 1>My bigger question is why am I on death row?

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder what I did to get there? Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>know what you did.

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<v Speaker 2>What did I do?

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<v Speaker 3>Someone must with your child?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I killed someone done a lot of people. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>can think of a few.

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<v Speaker 4>Headline.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ever think like when you get asked these

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<v Speaker 1>questions like you're on death row, It's like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>less about the meal.

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<v Speaker 2>Now what exactly did I do to get here?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>Was I like some like crazy serial killer that left

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<v Speaker 1>like notes and tried to lead the police in different

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<v Speaker 1>directions or was it like I just kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>stat like I just kind of lost my mind?

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<v Speaker 2>This got dark?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, this got.

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<v Speaker 1>Very very dark?

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<v Speaker 2>La La.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have any new future business plans that you're

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<v Speaker 1>thinking of?

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<v Speaker 3>Ooh, that's a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually really love this one, and I want to

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<v Speaker 1>combine it with this other beautiful woman who asked me,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you planning to grow your brand in the

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<v Speaker 1>event vander Pump Rules gets canceled?

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<v Speaker 2>I have a lot of things in the works.

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<v Speaker 1>Jessica and I hustle our little asses off because the

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<v Speaker 1>goal is empire, Empire, Empire. So yes, I've looked at

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<v Speaker 1>my brand and reevaluated it because when I created it

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<v Speaker 1>and when it started, let's remember I was also drinking

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, not saying that I don't love the brand.

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<v Speaker 1>I do, but just there's been a shift on what's

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<v Speaker 1>important to me in my life and things that really

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<v Speaker 1>have always been important to me, but they were on

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<v Speaker 1>the back burner. They should have been on front burner

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time, and now they are. So we are

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<v Speaker 1>in a space and now I have a phenomenal team

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<v Speaker 1>around me where I can sit there and spew my

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<v Speaker 1>ideas on what I want something to look like, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I have these amazing minds who know how to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, make that come to fruition. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>cross my fingers and I manifest and I work really hard,

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<v Speaker 1>and what's meant to be will always be. But when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to worrying about if the brand is okay

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<v Speaker 1>with or without Vanner Pump Rules, I mean, my brand

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<v Speaker 1>is rarely shown on vander Pump Rules, you know. I

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<v Speaker 1>think the first time it was ever even acknowledged that

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<v Speaker 1>I had a brand was season nine. And I've noticed

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm fortunate enough to have the brand do well

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<v Speaker 1>on its own, like with or without the show. Is

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<v Speaker 1>it nice to be relevant, absolutely, but I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that part fuels the brand, just from what I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen just looking at the numbers. I have not made

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<v Speaker 1>a parallel of like, okay, because I'm on TV.

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<v Speaker 2>This is why the brand thrives.

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<v Speaker 1>People know of the brand because of my But I

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm out in the world where that's the show

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on. But I'm a standalone and that could be

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<v Speaker 1>in my own mind. But I like being in my

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<v Speaker 1>own mind.

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<v Speaker 3>It's funny because working for you, I don't even like.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, as an outsider, you asked that question, but

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<v Speaker 3>I think those are to me two completely separate things.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like the show and then Lalla and her brand,

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<v Speaker 3>and to me it's like they never cross over. Of

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<v Speaker 3>course they sometimes do, but I'm like, rarely ever.

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<v Speaker 4>Those are separate, use together.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't put them together at all. Yeah, And it's

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<v Speaker 1>actually kind of weird when cameras say, like we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>film that. I'm like, no, no, no, you're in. We

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<v Speaker 1>have a well oiled.

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<v Speaker 5>Machine over here, Like please don't come over here and

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<v Speaker 5>try to fuck with it with the cameras. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>like we we move in a certain way, right, we're

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<v Speaker 5>plugging right along the moment, they're like, we like to

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<v Speaker 5>film that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, why are things getting a little walk.

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<v Speaker 4>Aren't tight.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's just hope that the way that I want

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<v Speaker 1>to rebrand, restructure, whatever you want to call it, when

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<v Speaker 1>that does take place, that we are off to the races.

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<v Speaker 4>And I've heard some of your ideas on your rebrand,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think everybody should be very excited.

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<v Speaker 3>Ooh is that tea?

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<v Speaker 1>I love this. I love the tea.

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<v Speaker 2>Easton.

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<v Speaker 1>You can participate in this conversation. Can you talk about

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<v Speaker 1>your journey with vaping. I know you talked about quitting,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm interested, Easton.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you vape here? I do, yes, but it's either

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<v Speaker 4>yours or my roommates. Here's the thing, I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>why I do it. It's a fixation of like I

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<v Speaker 4>just do it, pantamize, yeah, and then I always feel

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<v Speaker 4>like shit and I'm thinking why did I hit it?

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<v Speaker 4>But if it wasn't around, like if like when I

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<v Speaker 4>go with Mom and ron errands for a full days

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<v Speaker 4>am with just her and O and you're not near

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm just her. If there's not a vabe, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't need it, like I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Not you don't think about it?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, No, I don't need. No, I don't need It's

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<v Speaker 4>just like when it's around. I'm just like, oh, there

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<v Speaker 4>it is, let me het that thing. But I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't feel like I need it. But when I

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<v Speaker 4>see it, I'm like, all right, I'll hit it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I get what you mean. Jessica, you don't vabe

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<v Speaker 1>ever thought about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I've tried it, and I don't know why I

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<v Speaker 3>hate it. So this was years ago, but I was like, sure,

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<v Speaker 3>i'll try it. It's strawberry fun. And I was like, oh, gross,

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<v Speaker 3>get it away.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes me depressed when people who don't smoke the

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<v Speaker 1>vapor like sure, I'll give it a hit, and they

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<v Speaker 1>hack hack hack.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, you got healthy law.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, you probably just need to try a different flavor.

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<v Speaker 3>Easton's like here, all I'll give you. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>It is fun because like all of us who vape

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<v Speaker 1>on vander Pump, we all have different flavors. So when

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<v Speaker 1>we get together, for me, it's like the equivalent to

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<v Speaker 1>like wine tasting.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Ooh, Ariana's got the lead she berry.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, we got James Kennedy coming and clutch with the watermelon.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, and then we've got.

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<v Speaker 1>Katie who's a little bit wild and she's got the

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<v Speaker 1>naked flavors. Like, we don't not really sure what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Tastes a little minty, tastes a little something something, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like do you hit each other? Is it like

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<v Speaker 3>a fun Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Past that Dutch baby, past past past the Dutch baby.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean? Past the Dutch I thought it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Isn't it the passa blunt?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I learned it from Missy Elliott.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, oh for Missy Elliott. But I have a question

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<v Speaker 3>about the vape. Actually it's not a question, it's just

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<v Speaker 3>think about I thought about this the other day because

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<v Speaker 3>I was driving in Everyone I see is smoking their

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<v Speaker 3>vape ten years ago. If we just flashed into the

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<v Speaker 3>future and drove down and you guys saw it, wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>you be like, what the fuck is everyone doing? What

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<v Speaker 3>is happening? It's not cigarettes? Or would you think like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Just so we grossed out because I've always been grossed

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<v Speaker 1>out by any type of smoking.

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<v Speaker 2>And I never smoked.

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<v Speaker 1>I've actually that's a lie, and I've talked about this before,

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<v Speaker 1>apparently the night I hooked up with Arianna. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry if you guys have been Day one listeners I've

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<v Speaker 1>talked about this before. Apparently I smoked a cigarette the

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<v Speaker 1>night I hooked up with Ariana. In the back of

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<v Speaker 1>Santaval's car. We went to the Nice Guy. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>remember much, smoked a cigarette, tried to fight some person

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<v Speaker 1>half naked. I was half naked, so that did happen,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't recall. So my mind never smoked a cigarette.

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<v Speaker 1>Cut to I get sober and all of the sudden

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in AA meetings and people are smoking vapes or

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<v Speaker 1>they're having their cigarettes outside, and I just like hit

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<v Speaker 1>my friend's vape outside. And after that it was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my new vice and I can and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>I'll kick it later and worry about it later.

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<v Speaker 2>I did take.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously, when you and I, I think we talked about this,

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<v Speaker 1>I took. I said I'm quitting the vape. I quit

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<v Speaker 1>for I hardly quit four days, No, it was actually seven.

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<v Speaker 4>It was seventh a week.

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<v Speaker 1>However, I smoked other people's vapes. My big thing was like.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just not gonna buy one.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we go into filming a reality TV show and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, fuck this, I cannot I cannot deal with

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<v Speaker 1>not one single thing right, So I buy the vape again.

0:18:20.400 --> 0:18:24.959
<v Speaker 1>Obviously there's gonna be stressful situations. It's not like I

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<v Speaker 1>wrap this season and then life stops and it's like, Okay,

0:18:28.119 --> 0:18:31.679
<v Speaker 1>go into quarantine and like, never remove yourself from it

0:18:31.720 --> 0:18:34.640
<v Speaker 1>because life is bliss. But I'm trying to get life

0:18:34.640 --> 0:18:40.280
<v Speaker 1>insurance for Ocean right now, and smoking vape cigarettes doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>matter is like a huge red flag and definitely plays

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<v Speaker 1>a part in what kind of life insurance you can

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<v Speaker 1>get for whoever. And so I told the person who's

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<v Speaker 1>working this out for me, I said, please just give

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<v Speaker 1>me until we rap filming. I was like, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I swear to God if it's about my care and

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<v Speaker 1>making sure she's set up, God forbid, something happens to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I will give up the vape like there will be

0:19:06.440 --> 0:19:09.720
<v Speaker 1>no if ans are butts about it. And I was

0:19:09.800 --> 0:19:11.840
<v Speaker 1>telling a lot of my friends this and they were like,

0:19:12.040 --> 0:19:15.359
<v Speaker 1>why didn't you just lie? And this is where my

0:19:15.480 --> 0:19:19.080
<v Speaker 1>mind goes. Let's just say I lie about it. Something

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<v Speaker 1>happens to me, I'm dead, they do what they do

0:19:23.680 --> 0:19:28.639
<v Speaker 1>to a dead person an autopsy. They then are dealing with, Okay,

0:19:28.720 --> 0:19:31.520
<v Speaker 1>she has life insurance, it goes to her daughter, Ocean.

0:19:31.920 --> 0:19:35.200
<v Speaker 1>They obviously have to go through protocol to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that all is good before Ocean gets that money. They

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<v Speaker 1>take my blood. They see this bitch said she doesn't smoke.

0:19:42.400 --> 0:19:45.439
<v Speaker 2>She definitely smokes. She's been smoking for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>Ocean then does not get that money. One bucked up

0:19:51.600 --> 0:19:54.679
<v Speaker 1>eye light on the paperwork. I'm telling you what. I

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<v Speaker 1>will not do it. I will not do it.

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<v Speaker 3>I will not tell a lie. Who is that like

0:19:59.440 --> 0:20:02.760
<v Speaker 3>Uncle Sam or something? I don't know that is so?

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<v Speaker 3>But do you remember quitting? Why do I remember like

0:20:06.800 --> 0:20:07.639
<v Speaker 3>month or two of you.

0:20:07.920 --> 0:20:09.679
<v Speaker 2>I slept really well last.

0:20:09.480 --> 0:20:11.920
<v Speaker 3>Year, wasn't it. You slept well. You I think gained

0:20:11.920 --> 0:20:13.560
<v Speaker 3>a little way, in a great way. And I'm not

0:20:13.600 --> 0:20:15.640
<v Speaker 3>saying you told me that. That's why I'm saying I did.

0:20:16.160 --> 0:20:17.080
<v Speaker 2>I did gain weight and.

0:20:16.960 --> 0:20:19.400
<v Speaker 3>You felt better. This was like last year. You quit

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<v Speaker 3>for like a month or two and then I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what. I think you picked it back up or.

0:20:22.720 --> 0:20:25.920
<v Speaker 1>My life happened life, And for some reason I think

0:20:26.000 --> 0:20:29.480
<v Speaker 1>that I can't I need something like that. And yes,

0:20:29.560 --> 0:20:32.320
<v Speaker 1>the vavee is awesome. The most fantastic part of my

0:20:32.440 --> 0:20:33.719
<v Speaker 1>day is in the morning.

0:20:33.800 --> 0:20:38.400
<v Speaker 3>First hit with your coffee. That's a way.

0:20:38.600 --> 0:20:41.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, with the coffee in my bathrobe house.

0:20:43.640 --> 0:20:45.840
<v Speaker 4>Day. Every morning I walk into the house with her

0:20:45.920 --> 0:20:48.359
<v Speaker 4>hitting her vape, her cup of coffee in her robe.

0:20:48.640 --> 0:20:50.800
<v Speaker 3>So let me tell you, I feel you, though, because

0:20:50.840 --> 0:20:52.320
<v Speaker 3>if someone told me I had to give up coffee

0:20:52.320 --> 0:20:55.080
<v Speaker 3>and say no, my best moment is the morning that

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<v Speaker 3>first nip of coffee.

0:20:56.280 --> 0:20:56.680
<v Speaker 2>Totally.

0:20:56.720 --> 0:20:58.480
<v Speaker 1>But I feel so much better when I'm not vaping.

0:20:58.520 --> 0:21:01.240
<v Speaker 1>So I am going to get rid of it. And

0:21:01.440 --> 0:21:04.119
<v Speaker 1>I will think every time I feel like, oh my gosh,

0:21:04.119 --> 0:21:08.080
<v Speaker 1>i'm feeding go My daughter needs a healthy parent, but

0:21:08.200 --> 0:21:11.520
<v Speaker 1>also deserves if something happens to me, she you know,

0:21:11.680 --> 0:21:13.960
<v Speaker 1>is well taken care of. So there's that. The journey

0:21:14.040 --> 0:21:16.560
<v Speaker 1>is hard. If you have never smoked a vape. Do

0:21:16.680 --> 0:21:19.360
<v Speaker 1>not pick it up. I have heard, because I've said

0:21:19.400 --> 0:21:23.120
<v Speaker 1>to people in AA who do not smoke, I tell them,

0:21:23.160 --> 0:21:24.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, I've given up alcohol. I'm gonna be fine.

0:21:24.960 --> 0:21:27.520
<v Speaker 1>They're like, giving up the vape is as hard as

0:21:27.520 --> 0:21:30.200
<v Speaker 1>giving up heroin. It's no fucking joke.

0:21:30.680 --> 0:21:31.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

0:21:31.960 --> 0:21:37.480
<v Speaker 1>Yes, So it's terrifying. Do not do not pick it up.

0:21:38.359 --> 0:21:42.679
<v Speaker 1>I'm warning everybody, it is a nightmare. Okay, I fiend

0:21:42.720 --> 0:21:45.240
<v Speaker 1>for it, So I'm gonna be tweaking for a little bit,

0:21:45.720 --> 0:21:49.640
<v Speaker 1>but you know what, all is good Easton. This girl

0:21:49.720 --> 0:21:52.119
<v Speaker 1>wants to know if you're single. She plans she's asking

0:21:52.160 --> 0:21:53.639
<v Speaker 1>for a friend, but to me, it sounds like they

0:21:53.680 --> 0:21:54.400
<v Speaker 1>want a tag team.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I'm up for a tag Wait what do you mean?

0:21:57.920 --> 0:21:59.639
<v Speaker 3>It's oh the friend and her got it?

0:21:59.720 --> 0:21:59.960
<v Speaker 1>She said?

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<v Speaker 2>Is east and single? I'm asking for a friend and I'm.

0:22:02.480 --> 0:22:04.800
<v Speaker 1>Like the lies, the lies.

0:22:05.760 --> 0:22:08.240
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm single and ready to threesome.

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<v Speaker 2>Out o red Flash.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't want him?

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<v Speaker 2>Ladies right, you're such a good guy.

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<v Speaker 4>What to do?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever had one?

0:22:19.240 --> 0:22:22.800
<v Speaker 1>No, I could get too scared. Have you l one time?

0:22:23.400 --> 0:22:24.160
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't fun.

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<v Speaker 4>There's too many hands, freeze a crowd.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just like weird, like someone's and there's like

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make you feel like you're a part of it,

0:22:32.920 --> 0:22:34.480
<v Speaker 1>and then the swap happens and you're like, you know,

0:22:34.560 --> 0:22:36.240
<v Speaker 1>I think it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Like playing twister.

0:22:37.280 --> 0:22:40.879
<v Speaker 3>Stupid twister would probably be more like naked twister with

0:22:40.960 --> 0:22:43.160
<v Speaker 3>two others would probably be more fun than a threesome.

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<v Speaker 3>But I've never had one, so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>But you have never had one either?

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<v Speaker 3>Never that wasn't like a thing. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what situation I would have ever been in.

0:22:53.440 --> 0:22:57.520
<v Speaker 1>I was wasted at the Grand America Hotel in downtown

0:22:57.600 --> 0:22:58.159
<v Speaker 1>Salt Lake.

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<v Speaker 3>City with who just a group of friends.

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<v Speaker 2>I won't talk.

0:23:03.840 --> 0:23:04.680
<v Speaker 3>It was someone you knew.

0:23:04.720 --> 0:23:07.680
<v Speaker 1>This isn't like a random no, no, no, I knew them

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<v Speaker 1>for since I was in like high school.

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<v Speaker 3>Good okay, okay, yeah it makes more sense Easton.

0:23:12.480 --> 0:23:14.679
<v Speaker 1>What do you look for in a chick? We know

0:23:14.720 --> 0:23:16.440
<v Speaker 1>that they have to be as cool as you. I

0:23:16.480 --> 0:23:19.679
<v Speaker 1>don't know that's hard. Nope, Personality, somebody you can keep

0:23:19.760 --> 0:23:21.919
<v Speaker 1>their own. Somebody who walks in a room and it

0:23:22.000 --> 0:23:25.240
<v Speaker 1>changes the whole aura of the room. Really does age matter?

0:23:25.640 --> 0:23:29.280
<v Speaker 4>No? Okay, age doesn't matter. Looks really doesn't matter that much.

0:23:29.359 --> 0:23:31.120
<v Speaker 4>I like it. I like a certain body type though,

0:23:31.160 --> 0:23:33.639
<v Speaker 4>Like I like short, like shorter girls.

0:23:33.800 --> 0:23:38.280
<v Speaker 1>Okay, like what like five five three four?

0:23:38.320 --> 0:23:40.679
<v Speaker 4>I'll get five four, That is what I like. I

0:23:40.800 --> 0:23:44.399
<v Speaker 4>like I like compact. Yeah, I like some curves on it.

0:23:44.440 --> 0:23:47.520
<v Speaker 3>To five four is not that short. I'm over here five.

0:23:47.320 --> 0:23:52.240
<v Speaker 4>Foot nod I like five Like five ft to five

0:23:52.280 --> 0:23:54.520
<v Speaker 4>four is perfect for me. That's what I love. But

0:23:54.560 --> 0:23:56.840
<v Speaker 4>I know guys with like like five sevens how.

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<v Speaker 3>Tall are you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like five six and a half.

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<v Speaker 3>You've got height.

0:24:00.880 --> 0:24:02.720
<v Speaker 1>When I tried to like be a model, I said

0:24:02.720 --> 0:24:04.600
<v Speaker 1>I was five to seven, which it's like, well.

0:24:05.600 --> 0:24:09.879
<v Speaker 3>You're short, you have to be five. Yeah.

0:24:09.960 --> 0:24:12.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm like five to seven. Thinking they were gonna

0:24:12.080 --> 0:24:18.960
<v Speaker 2>freaking just sell me and Peri. They did not. Bravo

0:24:19.040 --> 0:24:21.000
<v Speaker 2>did Bravo for sure?

0:24:21.119 --> 0:24:21.359
<v Speaker 3>Did?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, where does your friendship stand with Ariana? I think

0:24:25.720 --> 0:24:29.399
<v Speaker 1>we have a great friendship. We'll see what the feels

0:24:29.400 --> 0:24:32.600
<v Speaker 1>are after the season airs again. Like we're always open

0:24:32.640 --> 0:24:34.720
<v Speaker 1>and honest with each other as a cast, but then

0:24:34.880 --> 0:24:37.800
<v Speaker 1>you see things where you're like, wait a minute, the

0:24:37.840 --> 0:24:41.000
<v Speaker 1>breaks here. And for some reason, I always say something

0:24:41.720 --> 0:24:46.199
<v Speaker 1>something that doesn't land right, something that I try to

0:24:46.320 --> 0:24:49.160
<v Speaker 1>like put in a way where it's like I want

0:24:49.240 --> 0:24:51.440
<v Speaker 1>to let you know I'm coming from a good place here.

0:24:52.680 --> 0:24:55.920
<v Speaker 1>So I don't know right now, we're good. Right now,

0:24:56.000 --> 0:25:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like sailing away. In friendships, right was a

0:25:00.640 --> 0:25:05.280
<v Speaker 1>bonding experience. What happened? There was like so much time

0:25:05.359 --> 0:25:08.520
<v Speaker 1>that had passed where it was like, Okay, this friendship

0:25:08.800 --> 0:25:11.600
<v Speaker 1>obviously needs to, you know, be laid to rest. We're

0:25:11.600 --> 0:25:15.000
<v Speaker 1>never We're never gonna be what we once were. But

0:25:15.040 --> 0:25:17.600
<v Speaker 1>then when you have a common hatred for someone, not

0:25:17.720 --> 0:25:21.280
<v Speaker 1>saying that I'm that we're there now the hate part.

0:25:22.000 --> 0:25:25.800
<v Speaker 1>But when that happened and we were all likeh to

0:25:25.920 --> 0:25:29.160
<v Speaker 1>sand of All, it's like bonding moment. Right then sand

0:25:29.160 --> 0:25:32.360
<v Speaker 1>of Aal says the epic words to Raquel. We'll see

0:25:32.400 --> 0:25:36.280
<v Speaker 1>how long that lasts and we will see who knows. Right,

0:25:36.520 --> 0:25:40.520
<v Speaker 1>it's a weird environment to have friendships in gets toxic. However,

0:25:40.520 --> 0:25:42.080
<v Speaker 1>I will say the one thing that I love about

0:25:42.119 --> 0:25:46.479
<v Speaker 1>reality TV is without cameras around, right, if you're feeling

0:25:46.480 --> 0:25:49.680
<v Speaker 1>some type of way about a friend, it is easier

0:25:49.680 --> 0:25:52.200
<v Speaker 1>to just push things under the rug, you know, don't

0:25:52.240 --> 0:25:55.399
<v Speaker 1>deal with it, take a little break, decline, go into dinner.

0:25:56.000 --> 0:26:00.080
<v Speaker 1>Being on reality TV forces you to have uncomfortable conversation

0:26:00.880 --> 0:26:04.000
<v Speaker 1>that you don't want to have, but they could also

0:26:04.200 --> 0:26:06.879
<v Speaker 1>lead to where you should be in a friendship. You

0:26:06.920 --> 0:26:09.639
<v Speaker 1>could then thrive. You could realize, like, this friendship is

0:26:09.680 --> 0:26:12.199
<v Speaker 1>not for me. So it does force you to like

0:26:12.400 --> 0:26:14.920
<v Speaker 1>kind of take the bull by the balls in all relationships.

0:26:15.640 --> 0:26:16.159
<v Speaker 2>So there's that.

0:26:16.560 --> 0:26:17.960
<v Speaker 4>I kind of like that, though I feel like that

0:26:18.040 --> 0:26:19.440
<v Speaker 4>people need to do that more often.

0:26:20.480 --> 0:26:23.720
<v Speaker 1>I also like the texting Yeah, the communication, and I

0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:25.520
<v Speaker 1>like that you call it bull by the balls because

0:26:25.520 --> 0:26:26.959
<v Speaker 1>it's technically bull by the horns.

0:26:27.000 --> 0:26:28.840
<v Speaker 3>But you're going straight to the ball.

0:26:29.080 --> 0:26:33.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, straight to the ball sack. That's where you get

0:26:33.480 --> 0:26:35.200
<v Speaker 2>the baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you guys, this person wrote in and said,

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<v Speaker 1>are you interested in any other Bravo celebrities? The captain

0:26:45.920 --> 0:26:53.399
<v Speaker 1>from below deck down under is interested in meeting you?

0:26:53.840 --> 0:26:59.560
<v Speaker 1>Googling naturally, naturally, I google this shit, Jason Chambers.

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<v Speaker 2>He is fine.

0:27:01.040 --> 0:27:03.920
<v Speaker 3>Google this guy, Jason, let's see.

0:27:04.080 --> 0:27:06.800
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I wanted to have no part of

0:27:06.800 --> 0:27:09.920
<v Speaker 1>that until I saw Captain Jason.

0:27:10.960 --> 0:27:11.960
<v Speaker 3>Jason come through.

0:27:12.680 --> 0:27:13.440
<v Speaker 2>Do you see him?

0:27:13.840 --> 0:27:14.320
<v Speaker 3>He's hot?

0:27:14.440 --> 0:27:16.000
<v Speaker 1>If not, I can just pass my phone, do you.

0:27:16.040 --> 0:27:18.160
<v Speaker 1>I took screenshots that's him.

0:27:18.240 --> 0:27:21.520
<v Speaker 2>He is so hot, and he's a captain.

0:27:21.560 --> 0:27:24.840
<v Speaker 3>That's even from down on duck down un duck.

0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:28.440
<v Speaker 4>You can get below deck.

0:27:30.720 --> 0:27:33.240
<v Speaker 3>Not Dick below deck, Dick below deck.

0:27:33.680 --> 0:27:35.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm sweating, I'm getting wet.

0:27:35.880 --> 0:27:37.760
<v Speaker 3>He's handsome. Can we look up his age? Not that

0:27:37.800 --> 0:27:38.879
<v Speaker 3>it matters, I just want to know.

0:27:39.400 --> 0:27:41.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I look up the age because he is pretty fine.

0:27:42.080 --> 0:27:46.479
<v Speaker 1>That's daddy. That's so daddy, isn't it. He's like silver Fox?

0:27:47.280 --> 0:27:49.399
<v Speaker 1>What are we thinking, what are we thinking?

0:27:49.760 --> 0:27:49.960
<v Speaker 3>How?

0:27:50.160 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 2>How old is he?

0:27:51.880 --> 0:27:53.880
<v Speaker 3>Is he single too? That's important I.

0:27:53.840 --> 0:27:55.800
<v Speaker 2>Know, because oh, that's not a bout at all.

0:27:55.880 --> 0:27:57.919
<v Speaker 1>That's not about it at all. I'm gonna be thirty

0:27:57.920 --> 0:28:00.960
<v Speaker 1>three that I am thirty three. By the time this airs,

0:28:00.960 --> 0:28:01.680
<v Speaker 1>I'll be thirty three.

0:28:01.800 --> 0:28:04.479
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's healthy. I say, holler.

0:28:04.960 --> 0:28:06.919
<v Speaker 2>I say holler too. But I need to know his sign.

0:28:07.440 --> 0:28:08.399
<v Speaker 4>Well, let's get to it.

0:28:08.680 --> 0:28:10.760
<v Speaker 1>I need to know his sign and all of these things.

0:28:10.960 --> 0:28:12.959
<v Speaker 1>And I also need to know I wish that this

0:28:12.960 --> 0:28:16.120
<v Speaker 1>girl would have written more contact forty three he said, sorry, law,

0:28:16.400 --> 0:28:20.199
<v Speaker 1>it just does suck up. He doesn't look no Jason

0:28:20.280 --> 0:28:23.280
<v Speaker 1>Chambers age. Do that back up a little? You have

0:28:23.359 --> 0:28:27.480
<v Speaker 1>to put Jason Chambers below day down on three. Yeah,

0:28:27.480 --> 0:28:29.080
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say he does not look fifty.

0:28:29.320 --> 0:28:30.640
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's even better.

0:28:30.680 --> 0:28:31.920
<v Speaker 3>Seat.

0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:34.320
<v Speaker 4>But this says right here because I don't know if

0:28:34.320 --> 0:28:36.760
<v Speaker 4>he's lying about his age, but it says right here

0:28:37.400 --> 0:28:41.720
<v Speaker 4>the captain shows he is in fact fifty, So I

0:28:41.720 --> 0:28:43.280
<v Speaker 4>don't know if he's trying to lie about it.

0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:45.560
<v Speaker 1>No, he doesn't look like someone that would lie.

0:28:45.960 --> 0:28:48.400
<v Speaker 4>Well, now it sounds like red flags everywhere. Is he

0:28:48.440 --> 0:28:49.600
<v Speaker 4>forty three or is he fifty?

0:28:49.720 --> 0:28:50.000
<v Speaker 2>You guys.

0:28:50.080 --> 0:28:51.960
<v Speaker 1>I can't tell if I'm looking at the right guy

0:28:52.040 --> 0:28:54.040
<v Speaker 1>or not. No, you are, I don't think so, because

0:28:54.080 --> 0:28:56.040
<v Speaker 1>this guy looks totally different than the one that I

0:28:56.080 --> 0:28:59.360
<v Speaker 1>was looking at before. Let me do some research and

0:28:59.360 --> 0:29:01.320
<v Speaker 1>i'll get back to you. Maybe I need to go

0:29:01.520 --> 0:29:04.280
<v Speaker 1>and get onto Peacock and watch down under.

0:29:04.520 --> 0:29:06.960
<v Speaker 4>Down below deck Yeah, below deck, down down.

0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:09.120
<v Speaker 3>No, you're looking at the right guy. It's this guy.

0:29:09.120 --> 0:29:10.200
<v Speaker 3>We're all looking at the right guy.

0:29:10.280 --> 0:29:12.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but he looks a little different in the photo

0:29:12.360 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 1>that I just saw, like, looks completely different.

0:29:15.480 --> 0:29:17.160
<v Speaker 2>So I need to do some research.

0:29:17.320 --> 0:29:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't know about this he's age fishing. Let's just

0:29:20.240 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 1>say I probably wouldn't dat anybody from Bravo. That just

0:29:22.800 --> 0:29:24.880
<v Speaker 1>sounds like a clusterfuck that I don't want to be

0:29:24.920 --> 0:29:26.560
<v Speaker 1>a part of, doesn't it.

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:30.240
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think it sounds beautiful, but I also

0:29:30.800 --> 0:29:33.640
<v Speaker 3>see you. I have high hopes with your next dating person.

0:29:33.760 --> 0:29:36.080
<v Speaker 3>I've I've shouted out some names to you before that

0:29:36.960 --> 0:29:39.600
<v Speaker 3>I won't say here. But I have high hopes, and

0:29:39.680 --> 0:29:41.120
<v Speaker 3>I don't think I.

0:29:41.040 --> 0:29:41.880
<v Speaker 2>Love high hopes.

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:44.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't. Yeah, I just don't think Bravo. I only

0:29:44.680 --> 0:29:46.480
<v Speaker 1>want to I want to be the only Bravo leb

0:29:46.600 --> 0:29:50.760
<v Speaker 1>in the relationship. That just seems like a lot of chaos. Okay, uh,

0:29:50.800 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 1>do you feel like the show has more fans during

0:29:52.720 --> 0:29:57.880
<v Speaker 1>filming posts Scanaval? Yes, And I don't know what is

0:29:57.920 --> 0:30:02.360
<v Speaker 1>going on, but my anxiety is that an all time high? Filming,

0:30:02.440 --> 0:30:06.080
<v Speaker 1>not filming or just in general? Just my what is

0:30:06.120 --> 0:30:10.000
<v Speaker 1>that called social anxiety? Is that an all time high?

0:30:10.040 --> 0:30:12.800
<v Speaker 1>Like I remember doing this podcast and someone had asked

0:30:12.800 --> 0:30:15.560
<v Speaker 1>when we did an ame, do you like when people

0:30:16.120 --> 0:30:16.920
<v Speaker 1>come up to you?

0:30:17.240 --> 0:30:18.040
<v Speaker 2>What are you showing?

0:30:20.200 --> 0:30:23.840
<v Speaker 4>Producer John sent me a link to to below deck.

0:30:24.520 --> 0:30:28.040
<v Speaker 4>Now it's stating he's thirty nine, but he's forty three, but.

0:30:31.600 --> 0:30:33.040
<v Speaker 2>Red flags, red flags everywhere.

0:30:33.040 --> 0:30:33.720
<v Speaker 3>We don't know this for.

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:37.600
<v Speaker 4>Fact, we do not, but producer John sent it to me.

0:30:37.760 --> 0:30:38.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:30:38.240 --> 0:30:39.880
<v Speaker 2>Producer John is on his ship.

0:30:40.080 --> 0:30:43.920
<v Speaker 4>He's on his ship, John, But god damn he.

0:30:43.880 --> 0:30:44.920
<v Speaker 1>Does what the difference?

0:30:45.200 --> 0:30:47.320
<v Speaker 2>Look at the difference, though, look at the difference?

0:30:47.440 --> 0:30:49.960
<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, I think the captain one is very face tuned,

0:30:50.520 --> 0:30:53.800
<v Speaker 4>like he's got no, he's hot, he's no matter what,

0:30:53.880 --> 0:30:57.040
<v Speaker 4>he looks good. But this looks like it they face

0:30:57.080 --> 0:30:59.160
<v Speaker 4>tuned the ship at well, it's.

0:30:58.920 --> 0:30:59.880
<v Speaker 2>Been on for a while.

0:31:00.240 --> 0:31:02.600
<v Speaker 1>You know that's like showing me this season and then

0:31:02.640 --> 0:31:04.520
<v Speaker 1>season four and it's like a little different human.

0:31:05.600 --> 0:31:07.360
<v Speaker 4>It's called agents.

0:31:07.920 --> 0:31:09.840
<v Speaker 3>Back to your social anxiety, just because I'm.

0:31:09.720 --> 0:31:11.760
<v Speaker 2>Fascinated all time high.

0:31:11.800 --> 0:31:15.040
<v Speaker 1>And when we did AMAS a while ago, someone had

0:31:15.040 --> 0:31:18.440
<v Speaker 1>written in and asked, do you like does it get

0:31:18.440 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 1>annoying when fans come up to you asking for pictures?

0:31:21.360 --> 0:31:25.040
<v Speaker 1>And I said, absolutely not. The whole reason I get

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:28.040
<v Speaker 1>to do what I love is because of my people,

0:31:28.480 --> 0:31:32.600
<v Speaker 1>the fans watching the show, supporting, you know, the brands,

0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:34.560
<v Speaker 1>whatever it may be. That's why I get to do

0:31:34.600 --> 0:31:37.640
<v Speaker 1>what I love. Cut to where we are now, I

0:31:37.640 --> 0:31:40.560
<v Speaker 1>don't want to say that I get annoyed. I start

0:31:40.600 --> 0:31:43.640
<v Speaker 1>having anxiety. It's the strangest thing, and I don't know

0:31:44.160 --> 0:31:46.680
<v Speaker 1>what to do to fix it. But when we go

0:31:46.800 --> 0:31:49.520
<v Speaker 1>and film and there's a lot of people that come

0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:53.920
<v Speaker 1>up and want pictures and things like that, normally, I'm like,

0:31:54.640 --> 0:31:58.400
<v Speaker 1>let's take all the pictures in the world. Recently, it's

0:31:58.440 --> 0:32:01.440
<v Speaker 1>been kind of debilitating where even talking about it right now,

0:32:01.480 --> 0:32:04.360
<v Speaker 1>I can feel my mind fogging up, like my brain

0:32:04.400 --> 0:32:06.680
<v Speaker 1>starts to kind of shut down, and they'll be telling

0:32:06.720 --> 0:32:09.560
<v Speaker 1>me these beautiful things, and I'm like starting to kind

0:32:09.560 --> 0:32:13.040
<v Speaker 1>of not like the heart starts racing, the mind starts

0:32:13.080 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 1>going foggy, and it's like I have to get out

0:32:15.200 --> 0:32:16.560
<v Speaker 1>of here, Like I feel like I want to crawl

0:32:16.560 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 1>out of my own skin. Has nothing to do with anybody,

0:32:20.440 --> 0:32:23.160
<v Speaker 1>like asking for pictures. I do love that, but it

0:32:23.240 --> 0:32:27.160
<v Speaker 1>is strange what's been happening these past few months.

0:32:27.400 --> 0:32:30.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it sounds like something you're dealing with, because I

0:32:30.560 --> 0:32:35.360
<v Speaker 3>watched you on tour spend I mean hours just talking

0:32:35.400 --> 0:32:37.640
<v Speaker 3>and hearing people and engaging. I would have been exhausted

0:32:37.680 --> 0:32:40.480
<v Speaker 3>after five minutes, So it must be an anxiety you're

0:32:40.520 --> 0:32:43.480
<v Speaker 3>dealing with right now. I couldn't imagine it.

0:32:44.800 --> 0:32:48.760
<v Speaker 2>No, I mean no, I don't think that. I'm thinking.

0:32:49.600 --> 0:32:52.560
<v Speaker 1>We talked about this in one of the episodes, just

0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:55.840
<v Speaker 1>like looking at the bigger picture of what I'm thinking

0:32:55.840 --> 0:32:59.280
<v Speaker 1>about doing with my life, and maybe I'm just looking

0:32:59.320 --> 0:33:01.920
<v Speaker 1>to kind of ice for a moment. It's been back

0:33:01.960 --> 0:33:06.360
<v Speaker 1>to back, non stop high energy, you know, whether it's

0:33:06.480 --> 0:33:11.160
<v Speaker 1>talking about the show or like we said, rebranding, talking

0:33:11.200 --> 0:33:13.920
<v Speaker 1>about you know, maybe having another baby. It's a lot

0:33:14.000 --> 0:33:17.120
<v Speaker 1>and I'm just feeling like I'm taking on a lot

0:33:17.160 --> 0:33:20.120
<v Speaker 1>of energy that I just can't take on right now,

0:33:20.360 --> 0:33:21.760
<v Speaker 1>right like, I need to kind of I need to

0:33:21.760 --> 0:33:24.480
<v Speaker 1>go to Palm Springs. I need to put the phone away,

0:33:24.880 --> 0:33:27.080
<v Speaker 1>tell everyone to leave me alone for a few days

0:33:27.120 --> 0:33:29.520
<v Speaker 1>and just kind of recharge.

0:33:29.640 --> 0:33:31.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what I feel like I need.

0:33:32.320 --> 0:33:34.160
<v Speaker 3>Then that's what you should get. I also feel do

0:33:34.160 --> 0:33:37.280
<v Speaker 3>you think you're an EmPATH? Because I've watched you, like

0:33:37.320 --> 0:33:39.480
<v Speaker 3>I said, on tour, and people tell you these stories

0:33:39.520 --> 0:33:41.520
<v Speaker 3>and I almost see, like if it's a sad story,

0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:45.280
<v Speaker 3>like your body change like you're I'm like, she's physically

0:33:45.320 --> 0:33:50.080
<v Speaker 3>taking on this emotion and that can drain someone quickly.

0:33:50.160 --> 0:33:51.640
<v Speaker 3>Do you think that's you're an EmPATH?

0:33:51.880 --> 0:33:55.720
<v Speaker 1>My? One of my biggest pet peeves is when anyone

0:33:55.840 --> 0:33:59.400
<v Speaker 1>says I'm an EmPATH. So I'm not gonna say that

0:33:59.480 --> 0:34:02.760
<v Speaker 1>I am because it literally kills me. And someone says

0:34:02.800 --> 0:34:05.760
<v Speaker 1>that to me, not about me, But when someone refers

0:34:05.800 --> 0:34:09.640
<v Speaker 1>to themselves as an EmPATH, I'm like, please shut up, right,

0:34:10.080 --> 0:34:14.880
<v Speaker 1>my god, be quiet, okay, And they're usually so up their.

0:34:14.760 --> 0:34:17.200
<v Speaker 2>Own ass okay. So I don't know if I am

0:34:17.360 --> 0:34:17.560
<v Speaker 2>or not.

0:34:17.880 --> 0:34:20.799
<v Speaker 1>I know I get affected by people's stories and then

0:34:20.840 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I start spiraling a bit.

0:34:23.840 --> 0:34:25.480
<v Speaker 2>So if you want to call it that, let's call it.

0:34:25.480 --> 0:34:35.799
<v Speaker 1>That sounds like it's your absolute favorite cosmetic procedure. You

0:34:35.840 --> 0:34:42.759
<v Speaker 1>look bomb emoji, fire emoji. That's right, got eyebrows to

0:34:42.800 --> 0:34:47.080
<v Speaker 1>the ceiling. Sometimes when I'm watching the podcast on YouTube,

0:34:47.760 --> 0:34:49.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I feel like I need to go like this.

0:34:51.160 --> 0:34:52.080
<v Speaker 2>Look how high they get.

0:34:52.200 --> 0:34:54.760
<v Speaker 1>That's your face shape. Lah, those are your natural brows.

0:34:54.760 --> 0:34:56.400
<v Speaker 1>Look at ocean her browser.

0:34:57.400 --> 0:34:58.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they are like that.

0:34:58.680 --> 0:35:00.279
<v Speaker 1>There was a time that I got bot talks and

0:35:00.320 --> 0:35:02.360
<v Speaker 1>my eyebrows and they were like this high and it

0:35:02.440 --> 0:35:03.560
<v Speaker 1>was terrifying.

0:35:04.000 --> 0:35:05.680
<v Speaker 3>Can you please tell us because I need to know

0:35:05.719 --> 0:35:07.120
<v Speaker 3>what I need to get first, and I think I

0:35:07.200 --> 0:35:08.080
<v Speaker 3>know what you're gonna.

0:35:07.840 --> 0:35:10.959
<v Speaker 2>Say, my favorite procedure I have too.

0:35:11.680 --> 0:35:13.560
<v Speaker 4>Can we take a guest first, Well, take a guess.

0:35:13.560 --> 0:35:15.160
<v Speaker 2>I want you to guess what mine would be.

0:35:15.200 --> 0:35:16.799
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm gonna say botox.

0:35:17.280 --> 0:35:18.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh I love the body?

0:35:18.800 --> 0:35:22.960
<v Speaker 2>Is it love the body? But I.

0:35:24.160 --> 0:35:25.080
<v Speaker 3>That's a good guess.

0:35:25.320 --> 0:35:26.800
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I didn't even think about the lip filler.

0:35:26.840 --> 0:35:31.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's talk about injections and then like a facial

0:35:31.120 --> 0:35:36.120
<v Speaker 1>procedure that that you don't need, like needles injecting something

0:35:36.160 --> 0:35:41.440
<v Speaker 1>into your face. I would say my favorite procedure with

0:35:41.560 --> 0:35:43.759
<v Speaker 1>needles would be botox.

0:35:43.840 --> 0:35:45.280
<v Speaker 2>I think filler gets scary.

0:35:45.880 --> 0:35:48.640
<v Speaker 1>I love my jawline that I have not injected in

0:35:49.160 --> 0:35:51.319
<v Speaker 1>years upon years. The last time I had my jaw

0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:55.839
<v Speaker 1>line injected by Doctor Diamond was probably right before going

0:35:55.880 --> 0:35:57.399
<v Speaker 1>into season eight of filming.

0:35:58.080 --> 0:36:01.479
<v Speaker 4>So long ago in on twenty twenty four.

0:36:01.960 --> 0:36:05.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna talk to somebody about getting your jaw filled up,

0:36:05.080 --> 0:36:07.920
<v Speaker 1>because genetically, we just don't have that on our side.

0:36:09.000 --> 0:36:13.320
<v Speaker 1>I would say for it. The procedure like just topical shit.

0:36:14.200 --> 0:36:19.640
<v Speaker 1>I love, love, love love the PRP. I like the

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:23.600
<v Speaker 1>laser beforehand, and then the PRP is where they take

0:36:23.640 --> 0:36:25.800
<v Speaker 1>the plasma and you guys are gonna think I'm a weirdo.

0:36:25.880 --> 0:36:27.640
<v Speaker 2>But they now have man made.

0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:29.680
<v Speaker 1>Plasma that they can put on your face so that

0:36:29.719 --> 0:36:32.399
<v Speaker 1>you don't have to draw your blood. I don't think

0:36:32.440 --> 0:36:36.960
<v Speaker 1>it works as well. I've tried it. I like the

0:36:37.000 --> 0:36:40.520
<v Speaker 1>results after when they take my blood and spin the

0:36:40.560 --> 0:36:43.319
<v Speaker 1>platelets and then take the plasma, put it on the

0:36:43.360 --> 0:36:46.160
<v Speaker 1>face and then roll it in. You definitely need numbing

0:36:46.160 --> 0:36:49.080
<v Speaker 1>cream because they're like digging into your face with these

0:36:49.120 --> 0:36:55.719
<v Speaker 1>micro needles to create little wounds that then he'll back

0:36:55.800 --> 0:36:56.680
<v Speaker 1>up perfectly.

0:36:57.480 --> 0:36:58.400
<v Speaker 2>That's my favorite.

0:36:58.520 --> 0:37:00.840
<v Speaker 1>But I think i'm gonna have a new favorite soon

0:37:01.120 --> 0:37:06.880
<v Speaker 1>because Lee from skin Tight Aesthetics is doing this Pico

0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:10.080
<v Speaker 1>laser on me to get rid of my malasma. That

0:37:10.200 --> 0:37:12.920
<v Speaker 1>is like it just will not not go away, It

0:37:12.920 --> 0:37:13.720
<v Speaker 1>will not go away.

0:37:13.840 --> 0:37:15.040
<v Speaker 3>Does the laser hurt?

0:37:15.560 --> 0:37:17.400
<v Speaker 4>I have to imagine you're numb?

0:37:17.719 --> 0:37:20.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, because my laser tattoo. I'm like, if it

0:37:20.640 --> 0:37:22.319
<v Speaker 3>felt like that on my face, I'd pass out.

0:37:22.760 --> 0:37:25.280
<v Speaker 2>It's not as intense as that. You can go, Supert,

0:37:26.400 --> 0:37:26.799
<v Speaker 2>you can go.

0:37:26.880 --> 0:37:28.480
<v Speaker 4>It does lasering like.

0:37:28.560 --> 0:37:31.839
<v Speaker 3>Hurts worse than tattoo? Yeah, under time hurts, under times worse.

0:37:31.920 --> 0:37:34.439
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, absolutely, never had it done.

0:37:34.560 --> 0:37:36.240
<v Speaker 3>Oh god, it's awful.

0:37:36.360 --> 0:37:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I'd rather just cover it up with something huge.

0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:40.640
<v Speaker 4>But that's not what it That's not what it feels

0:37:40.680 --> 0:37:42.239
<v Speaker 4>like when you guys like.

0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:45.799
<v Speaker 1>Affleck and just get a rising phoenix. I'm gonna get

0:37:45.840 --> 0:37:48.440
<v Speaker 1>a rising phoenix on my face and just want to

0:37:48.440 --> 0:37:50.600
<v Speaker 1>really give it just neck to face.

0:37:50.719 --> 0:37:51.200
<v Speaker 4>That's sick.

0:37:52.040 --> 0:37:53.640
<v Speaker 1>The flames should be on your face.

0:37:53.800 --> 0:37:56.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah so, but I do so. It doesn't feel like

0:37:56.640 --> 0:37:59.320
<v Speaker 4>when you when you guys are getting like your legs lasered.

0:37:59.360 --> 0:38:00.000
<v Speaker 4>What does that feel?

0:38:00.280 --> 0:38:03.359
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Law, does legs feel like your face when you're

0:38:03.400 --> 0:38:06.440
<v Speaker 3>getting legs vagina. No, oh, so.

0:38:06.520 --> 0:38:07.280
<v Speaker 4>Face is different.

0:38:07.440 --> 0:38:08.600
<v Speaker 2>No, the legs.

0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:11.080
<v Speaker 1>It feels like a rubber band whipping me like a

0:38:11.120 --> 0:38:13.400
<v Speaker 1>hot rubber band. But they don't numb your legs. They

0:38:13.480 --> 0:38:14.160
<v Speaker 1>numb your face.

0:38:14.520 --> 0:38:17.000
<v Speaker 3>Some of the hardest laughs I've ever gotten. And I

0:38:17.080 --> 0:38:20.239
<v Speaker 3>won't say exactly why unless Lava wants me to. Is

0:38:20.280 --> 0:38:22.600
<v Speaker 3>going to lawless laser appointments.

0:38:22.160 --> 0:38:23.080
<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you exactly.

0:38:23.400 --> 0:38:29.200
<v Speaker 1>Jessica, by the way, she consents to this, by the way, Okay,

0:38:29.640 --> 0:38:31.000
<v Speaker 1>I can, by the way, by the way, by the

0:38:31.040 --> 0:38:32.560
<v Speaker 1>way she consents.

0:38:32.640 --> 0:38:34.040
<v Speaker 3>Not only do I consent, I go? Can I go

0:38:34.120 --> 0:38:34.600
<v Speaker 3>in with you?

0:38:35.800 --> 0:38:38.759
<v Speaker 1>Because there is a point in time where they do

0:38:38.800 --> 0:38:41.120
<v Speaker 1>the cookie and then they tell me to lay on

0:38:41.160 --> 0:38:45.759
<v Speaker 1>my stomach and pull my ass cheeks apart to get

0:38:45.800 --> 0:38:50.919
<v Speaker 1>the butthole, and I die. It's so hard, and she's

0:38:50.960 --> 0:38:57.520
<v Speaker 1>like oh oh in her like ass, Oh shit, I'm rying. No,

0:38:57.640 --> 0:39:01.480
<v Speaker 1>it's the most vulnerable you'll ever feel getting your cookie

0:39:01.520 --> 0:39:06.280
<v Speaker 1>and buttole as he is so intense and you feel

0:39:06.360 --> 0:39:07.120
<v Speaker 1>very exposed.

0:39:07.680 --> 0:39:10.200
<v Speaker 3>It's so funny. I feel it in my own vagina

0:39:10.200 --> 0:39:12.960
<v Speaker 3>and butthole. So I'm like about to pass out, crying, laughing,

0:39:13.080 --> 0:39:15.600
<v Speaker 3>like it's so many emotions in a matter of seconds.

0:39:15.800 --> 0:39:17.440
<v Speaker 2>How do you feel about bleached assholes?

0:39:17.480 --> 0:39:21.880
<v Speaker 1>By the way, bleached assholes, we've had a conversation about this.

0:39:22.160 --> 0:39:26.200
<v Speaker 1>I like your opinion on them, because at first I

0:39:26.239 --> 0:39:28.880
<v Speaker 1>was like, yes, I would bleach my asshole if I

0:39:28.920 --> 0:39:29.640
<v Speaker 1>got the chance.

0:39:29.719 --> 0:39:31.680
<v Speaker 3>But then you said something I was a great point.

0:39:31.680 --> 0:39:33.960
<v Speaker 3>And what did you say, law, I just kind of

0:39:34.040 --> 0:39:35.880
<v Speaker 3>like it to be a little brown. You like it

0:39:35.920 --> 0:39:36.480
<v Speaker 3>to be brown.

0:39:36.600 --> 0:39:39.280
<v Speaker 1>It kind of looks like it's gonna kill you, eached?

0:39:39.640 --> 0:39:42.760
<v Speaker 4>What is? What do you guys like a man's asshole

0:39:42.800 --> 0:39:43.239
<v Speaker 4>to look like?

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:46.800
<v Speaker 3>I'm not going near that thing, so I don't really care.

0:39:46.120 --> 0:39:50.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't go near that area. I mean, I've done

0:39:50.440 --> 0:39:52.480
<v Speaker 1>years and years and years ago, thank god, in with

0:39:52.560 --> 0:39:55.480
<v Speaker 1>a not thank god, and with a partner who doesn't

0:39:55.560 --> 0:39:58.880
<v Speaker 1>enjoy butt stuff. Years ago, I was I hooked up

0:39:58.880 --> 0:40:01.120
<v Speaker 1>with one guy who liked a finger in his ass,

0:40:01.160 --> 0:40:02.160
<v Speaker 1>and I did it.

0:40:02.200 --> 0:40:05.520
<v Speaker 3>But it was like I had nails, like, so, how

0:40:05.560 --> 0:40:06.239
<v Speaker 3>do you like this?

0:40:08.200 --> 0:40:08.439
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:40:08.880 --> 0:40:13.360
<v Speaker 1>But how far? Oh my god? It was okay, here's

0:40:13.400 --> 0:40:17.160
<v Speaker 1>the butthole. No, it was like scary. And not only

0:40:17.520 --> 0:40:20.960
<v Speaker 1>was it one finger, you guys. Then he put his

0:40:21.040 --> 0:40:24.879
<v Speaker 1>hand down there and he put the second finger and it.

0:40:24.880 --> 0:40:28.480
<v Speaker 3>Was probably like I started like this and I ended

0:40:28.680 --> 0:40:33.120
<v Speaker 3>probably like whole finger deep in the asshole.

0:40:33.200 --> 0:40:35.279
<v Speaker 1>Like to me, I then do you swirl or do

0:40:35.320 --> 0:40:35.759
<v Speaker 1>you just leave?

0:40:35.920 --> 0:40:37.040
<v Speaker 3>I was just kind of no, I don't.

0:40:37.040 --> 0:40:41.720
<v Speaker 1>Just I'm not soaking my finger and his asshole.

0:40:42.440 --> 0:40:45.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I'm like moving it around because we're doing

0:40:45.120 --> 0:40:46.240
<v Speaker 3>others around.

0:40:47.080 --> 0:40:47.680
<v Speaker 4>But it was.

0:40:47.640 --> 0:40:52.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm moving it around nail with the nail, so.

0:40:52.280 --> 0:40:54.560
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god. But in my mind I was it

0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:58.879
<v Speaker 3>was like a chemistry lesson because I'm like, yeah, okay,

0:40:59.080 --> 0:41:00.960
<v Speaker 3>this is what the inside of an asshole feels like.

0:41:00.960 --> 0:41:01.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh interesting, man.

0:41:01.840 --> 0:41:06.480
<v Speaker 3>I was just like feeling around. Never in my life,

0:41:08.719 --> 0:41:12.480
<v Speaker 3>you are the ass man. It was the one and done.

0:41:13.200 --> 0:41:15.799
<v Speaker 3>I'm just feeling around. But Easton, do you like a

0:41:15.840 --> 0:41:19.040
<v Speaker 3>bleached asshole on a lady or a man.

0:41:19.680 --> 0:41:24.120
<v Speaker 4>I'm just lucky to get there. Okay, I'll take whatever's giving.

0:41:24.520 --> 0:41:26.680
<v Speaker 2>That's so nice guy have.

0:41:26.880 --> 0:41:29.080
<v Speaker 3>But for me, Lala made a great point. She goes,

0:41:29.120 --> 0:41:31.400
<v Speaker 3>I don't bleach my nipples. That would be weird.

0:41:31.800 --> 0:41:34.479
<v Speaker 4>If it's weird if I saw a bleached asshole, I'd

0:41:34.520 --> 0:41:36.160
<v Speaker 4>be like, you can do this too much.

0:41:36.600 --> 0:41:38.680
<v Speaker 3>Oh oh, it's just you think it's.

0:41:38.640 --> 0:41:41.640
<v Speaker 4>Mainly like the bleach. Yeah, I'd be like, you're showing

0:41:41.680 --> 0:41:43.879
<v Speaker 4>this off to too many people there, right, Yeah.

0:41:44.880 --> 0:41:47.839
<v Speaker 1>I just think a little cute brown pucker is right, well,

0:41:47.880 --> 0:41:50.399
<v Speaker 1>it should be like I'm not I'm not looking. I'm

0:41:50.440 --> 0:41:54.800
<v Speaker 1>looking for nipples to be colorful, my asshole to be colorful.

0:41:56.760 --> 0:41:58.600
<v Speaker 1>I just want a.

0:41:58.320 --> 0:41:59.960
<v Speaker 2>Nice, little colorful body.

0:42:00.200 --> 0:42:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Don't know, everything's the way it's supposed to be, the

0:42:04.080 --> 0:42:07.360
<v Speaker 1>way God intended mave that mater to me, you know,

0:42:08.040 --> 0:42:10.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, I just feel like if it was like

0:42:11.239 --> 0:42:15.040
<v Speaker 1>supposed to be like super white. But then again, you know,

0:42:15.120 --> 0:42:16.880
<v Speaker 1>if you want your asshole bleached, I just feel like

0:42:16.880 --> 0:42:18.319
<v Speaker 1>that's a lot of work, and like how do they

0:42:18.360 --> 0:42:20.480
<v Speaker 1>get it bleached? How do they get it bleached? Is

0:42:20.520 --> 0:42:21.360
<v Speaker 1>it actual bleach?

0:42:21.560 --> 0:42:22.480
<v Speaker 3>Is it dangerous?

0:42:22.800 --> 0:42:25.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Can we move on from bleached households?

0:42:25.800 --> 0:42:27.640
<v Speaker 2>I know I'm the one that brought us onto.

0:42:27.400 --> 0:42:31.839
<v Speaker 1>The topic, but it's taking a turn. This person wants

0:42:31.880 --> 0:42:34.560
<v Speaker 1>to know, how do you deal with everyone drinking around you?

0:42:34.600 --> 0:42:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm newly sober one month and struggling easton.

0:42:37.880 --> 0:42:38.759
<v Speaker 2>How do you deal with it?

0:42:38.800 --> 0:42:42.399
<v Speaker 1>Because you have been sober for a little bit now, well,

0:42:42.680 --> 0:42:43.440
<v Speaker 1>you don't.

0:42:43.280 --> 0:42:47.600
<v Speaker 4>Drink honestly, because everybody. Most people repeat themselves a thousand times.

0:42:47.600 --> 0:42:50.440
<v Speaker 4>That's what I've noticed. But it's you can kind of

0:42:50.440 --> 0:42:54.480
<v Speaker 4>be a dick, not like but like when they're telling

0:42:54.640 --> 0:42:54.920
<v Speaker 4>you can.

0:42:55.360 --> 0:42:56.920
<v Speaker 2>All this establishing boundaries.

0:42:57.000 --> 0:42:59.359
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like you've said that before or things like that.

0:42:59.480 --> 0:43:02.400
<v Speaker 4>So like when when I'm out, I mean, I always

0:43:02.480 --> 0:43:04.839
<v Speaker 4>usually have like something in my hand so I fit

0:43:04.880 --> 0:43:08.200
<v Speaker 4>in mm hmmm. And then usually I'm going around with

0:43:08.280 --> 0:43:10.120
<v Speaker 4>just a couple of my friends, but I usually just

0:43:10.160 --> 0:43:12.200
<v Speaker 4>go and talk to multiple people at it just so

0:43:12.280 --> 0:43:15.120
<v Speaker 4>I can hear the story once. Oh yeah, so I

0:43:15.200 --> 0:43:16.960
<v Speaker 4>just mingle a little bit more. And the one thing

0:43:16.960 --> 0:43:19.520
<v Speaker 4>that I always remember is most everyone's drunk here, so

0:43:19.560 --> 0:43:20.919
<v Speaker 4>it doesn't matter what the hell I'm doing.

0:43:21.120 --> 0:43:21.920
<v Speaker 2>That's so true.

0:43:21.960 --> 0:43:24.600
<v Speaker 4>So like yeah, like it's honestly, it's even better because

0:43:24.600 --> 0:43:26.279
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, you know what, half of these motherfuckers are

0:43:26.280 --> 0:43:28.600
<v Speaker 4>gonna forget this tomorrow and I can just move through

0:43:28.800 --> 0:43:31.239
<v Speaker 4>whatever I need to do. Even I'm not gonna I've

0:43:31.239 --> 0:43:34.719
<v Speaker 4>walked away from conversations like right, I'm already done, I

0:43:34.760 --> 0:43:37.520
<v Speaker 4>mean with multiple people involved, right, but like no one

0:43:37.520 --> 0:43:40.040
<v Speaker 4>says anything. They keep talking and they're drunk, and then

0:43:40.040 --> 0:43:42.239
<v Speaker 4>they're just going to keep talking drunkly to their friends.

0:43:42.280 --> 0:43:44.480
<v Speaker 4>So it's just like it's almost like an anxiety relief

0:43:44.520 --> 0:43:46.000
<v Speaker 4>being sober and out.

0:43:46.239 --> 0:43:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I think so too, And I think it's been easy

0:43:48.200 --> 0:43:50.360
<v Speaker 1>to not I'm not easy. I put a lot of

0:43:50.360 --> 0:43:54.400
<v Speaker 1>work into sobriety, but it's been okay being around people

0:43:54.440 --> 0:44:00.239
<v Speaker 1>who drink because I immediately again, I'm in a program, and

0:44:00.239 --> 0:44:03.839
<v Speaker 1>I think it's very important to remember what got you sober. Right,

0:44:03.880 --> 0:44:06.359
<v Speaker 1>That's why I always talk about like a rock your

0:44:06.480 --> 0:44:09.040
<v Speaker 1>rock bottom moment, like what changed. It doesn't have to

0:44:09.080 --> 0:44:13.839
<v Speaker 1>be insane where you know something horrific happened. Your rock

0:44:13.840 --> 0:44:16.400
<v Speaker 1>bottom could be anything, just the day you decided not

0:44:16.600 --> 0:44:21.320
<v Speaker 1>to pick up. And if you always remember that moment.

0:44:22.320 --> 0:44:25.120
<v Speaker 1>And I learned this in a meeting, how important the

0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:27.520
<v Speaker 1>first step is, right, like admitting you have a problem,

0:44:27.600 --> 0:44:29.759
<v Speaker 1>because you go into why am I here?

0:44:30.440 --> 0:44:33.080
<v Speaker 2>I hit a rock bottom moment? What did it look like?

0:44:33.600 --> 0:44:35.800
<v Speaker 2>And if you can remember.

0:44:35.440 --> 0:44:38.279
<v Speaker 1>Those moments, then being around people who are drinking, you

0:44:38.440 --> 0:44:42.279
<v Speaker 1>know how it ends. Right Tomorrow, they're going to feel

0:44:42.280 --> 0:44:46.360
<v Speaker 1>like shit, They're going to deal with the Sunday scaries tonight.

0:44:46.600 --> 0:44:50.200
<v Speaker 1>They're talking a million miles an hour, but they're on

0:44:50.680 --> 0:44:54.239
<v Speaker 1>loop it's like they're it sounds fun if you if

0:44:54.239 --> 0:44:56.120
<v Speaker 1>you don't have a drinking problem by all means like

0:44:56.320 --> 0:45:00.440
<v Speaker 1>droll pound, I don't give a shit. But this sweet

0:45:00.520 --> 0:45:02.839
<v Speaker 1>girl is talking about she's been one month sober, which,

0:45:02.880 --> 0:45:05.520
<v Speaker 1>first of all, like congratulations. The first thirty days are

0:45:05.560 --> 0:45:08.200
<v Speaker 1>the hardest and that's huge, but like, don't go to

0:45:08.239 --> 0:45:10.520
<v Speaker 1>places that are gonna trigger you. And if you know,

0:45:11.000 --> 0:45:14.680
<v Speaker 1>like I can go out and you'll as the longer

0:45:14.719 --> 0:45:18.440
<v Speaker 1>you stay sober, you start noticing like, okay, we're at

0:45:18.480 --> 0:45:21.080
<v Speaker 1>the tipping point right now, like everyone's had too much

0:45:21.200 --> 0:45:24.480
<v Speaker 1>and this is where I leave. Yep, like I know

0:45:24.560 --> 0:45:26.040
<v Speaker 1>it like the back of my hand. I'm like, I'm

0:45:26.040 --> 0:45:29.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna go the first few drinks. Everyone's gonna be fun.

0:45:29.960 --> 0:45:33.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be fun. But then they start being not fun.

0:45:33.600 --> 0:45:36.240
<v Speaker 1>That's my time to like go home and enjoy my life.

0:45:36.320 --> 0:45:38.719
<v Speaker 3>And you leave because it gets tempting, or you leave

0:45:38.760 --> 0:45:40.480
<v Speaker 3>because you know it's gonna get messy.

0:45:40.680 --> 0:45:41.520
<v Speaker 2>It gets messy.

0:45:41.640 --> 0:45:44.359
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to listen to your stupid story three

0:45:44.440 --> 0:45:47.200
<v Speaker 1>more times, Like no sense, I'm not interested. I wasn't

0:45:47.239 --> 0:45:49.480
<v Speaker 1>even interested the first time, but like I pretend it

0:45:49.560 --> 0:45:51.799
<v Speaker 1>to be interested now you're gonna make me sit here

0:45:51.840 --> 0:45:56.040
<v Speaker 1>because you're drunk until it's seventeen more times I'm out. Yeah,

0:45:56.080 --> 0:45:58.880
<v Speaker 1>And the amount of respect you get when someone knows

0:45:58.920 --> 0:46:01.719
<v Speaker 1>that you are not drinking, it just changes.

0:46:02.440 --> 0:46:03.200
<v Speaker 2>So keep it up.

0:46:03.920 --> 0:46:09.200
<v Speaker 1>You got this girl. Bravo, Bravo, bravo. How do you

0:46:09.239 --> 0:46:12.480
<v Speaker 1>not compare your kids to the others? It's so hard

0:46:12.480 --> 0:46:15.040
<v Speaker 1>at this age. I don't compare Ocean other kids, and

0:46:15.120 --> 0:46:17.759
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why, but I just don't. That could

0:46:17.880 --> 0:46:20.680
<v Speaker 1>change with a second baby. I'm telling you what. The

0:46:20.840 --> 0:46:22.920
<v Speaker 1>only time in my life that I've been able to

0:46:22.960 --> 0:46:27.120
<v Speaker 1>find the gray and haven't been so high strung is

0:46:27.160 --> 0:46:30.320
<v Speaker 1>being a mom, which is so crazy. You would think

0:46:30.760 --> 0:46:35.520
<v Speaker 1>Ocean is my third child because I'm just like whatever.

0:46:36.560 --> 0:46:39.239
<v Speaker 1>You know, she doesn't get an app today, what are

0:46:39.239 --> 0:46:39.640
<v Speaker 1>you gonna do?

0:46:39.880 --> 0:46:43.040
<v Speaker 4>I think it's good having Gigi around, thom just exactly

0:46:43.400 --> 0:46:49.799
<v Speaker 4>like I feel. I feel like she's a good like yeah,

0:46:49.840 --> 0:46:53.440
<v Speaker 4>and she had you and obviously you turned out amazing.

0:46:53.440 --> 0:46:55.359
<v Speaker 4>So when you aren't putting her down for an APP

0:46:55.360 --> 0:46:59.200
<v Speaker 4>and Gigi's like, also not, it's like it's reassuring, like, Okay,

0:46:59.239 --> 0:47:02.239
<v Speaker 4>she doesn't need it. Gg also right, because you know

0:47:02.320 --> 0:47:03.880
<v Speaker 4>so it's like you just having that.

0:47:04.200 --> 0:47:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Because she's dealt with two kids who are totally okay,

0:47:07.040 --> 0:47:07.640
<v Speaker 1>And so when.

0:47:07.560 --> 0:47:09.399
<v Speaker 4>I see her dealing with Ocean, I'm like, you know what,

0:47:09.480 --> 0:47:12.040
<v Speaker 4>we're here, so I trust you by all means, right,

0:47:12.080 --> 0:47:14.200
<v Speaker 4>So yeah, No, I think Gg's a good one on that.

0:47:14.480 --> 0:47:16.880
<v Speaker 1>I know. I don't because with my I think a

0:47:16.920 --> 0:47:20.520
<v Speaker 1>lot of people do compare their kids to other people's kids,

0:47:21.000 --> 0:47:22.680
<v Speaker 1>especially when you have kids the same age.

0:47:23.080 --> 0:47:27.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I do wonder. Yeah, if, because you've said this

0:47:27.120 --> 0:47:31.240
<v Speaker 3>before on the podcast, that you've at doctor's appointments, Ocean

0:47:31.320 --> 0:47:34.920
<v Speaker 3>has been told she's ahead, and I wonder if it's

0:47:34.920 --> 0:47:38.000
<v Speaker 3>been different if she was told or you were told,

0:47:38.040 --> 0:47:40.840
<v Speaker 3>maybe she's a little behind. If you then start comparing.

0:47:40.760 --> 0:47:42.920
<v Speaker 1>I think maybe if that were to happen, yes, you

0:47:42.960 --> 0:47:45.440
<v Speaker 1>would start comparing. But when I watch Ocean and then

0:47:45.440 --> 0:47:49.560
<v Speaker 1>I watch Summer Moon, Summer is very good at sitting still,

0:47:49.640 --> 0:47:53.000
<v Speaker 1>and she will go through her flash cards A through.

0:47:52.880 --> 0:47:54.720
<v Speaker 2>Z like a champion.

0:47:55.520 --> 0:47:58.800
<v Speaker 1>My daughter will get to E and then everything's a

0:47:59.000 --> 0:48:01.320
<v Speaker 1>w You know this, she's messing with you, she wants

0:48:01.320 --> 0:48:04.439
<v Speaker 1>no part of it, and she's get sarried. She gets

0:48:04.520 --> 0:48:06.640
<v Speaker 1>up and walks away. She's all over the place. My

0:48:06.719 --> 0:48:09.279
<v Speaker 1>mom watched Summer the other day and was like, law,

0:48:10.320 --> 0:48:15.040
<v Speaker 1>Summer Moon compared to Ocean is so fucking chill.

0:48:15.280 --> 0:48:18.040
<v Speaker 4>She even told me that she goes watching this kid

0:48:18.120 --> 0:48:20.240
<v Speaker 4>is the greatest she goes. She sat down for forty

0:48:20.280 --> 0:48:22.840
<v Speaker 4>five minutes and colored and didn't do anything. She goes

0:48:23.000 --> 0:48:23.800
<v Speaker 4>Ocean could.

0:48:23.719 --> 0:48:25.239
<v Speaker 2>Never, Oh, she could never.

0:48:25.960 --> 0:48:30.879
<v Speaker 1>Ocean goes from Plato time, chop it up, bored, Let's

0:48:30.880 --> 0:48:34.879
<v Speaker 1>play doctor bored, let's cook bored, Let's color bored, let

0:48:34.880 --> 0:48:38.560
<v Speaker 1>me bounce all over the furniture. She's got why from

0:48:38.560 --> 0:48:42.200
<v Speaker 1>what people have told me, girls are more chill usually,

0:48:42.600 --> 0:48:43.479
<v Speaker 1>and boys are kind.

0:48:43.360 --> 0:48:44.040
<v Speaker 2>Of off the wall.

0:48:44.520 --> 0:48:48.680
<v Speaker 1>Ocean's got boy energy. She's hucking shit, throwing balls into

0:48:48.719 --> 0:48:51.640
<v Speaker 1>the wall. She's stacking up chairs to jump off the

0:48:51.760 --> 0:48:55.359
<v Speaker 1>chairs into the ball pitch. She's bouncing off the freaking.

0:48:55.120 --> 0:48:58.800
<v Speaker 4>Walls, which is crazy because she has two other sisters,

0:48:59.000 --> 0:49:02.520
<v Speaker 4>no boys. There's no boys, so she's just doing It's a.

0:49:02.480 --> 0:49:06.759
<v Speaker 1>Freaking wild child, wild child living her best life. I

0:49:06.800 --> 0:49:09.239
<v Speaker 1>want to end this on a super positive note. How

0:49:09.280 --> 0:49:14.680
<v Speaker 1>do you stay motivated and not listen to the negative thoughts? Jessica,

0:49:14.960 --> 0:49:18.120
<v Speaker 1>How do you stay positive and not listen to negative

0:49:18.120 --> 0:49:21.160
<v Speaker 1>thoughts you are now on the podcast. You've noticed it

0:49:21.160 --> 0:49:23.040
<v Speaker 1>for a long time, people commenting on your voice or

0:49:23.040 --> 0:49:24.560
<v Speaker 1>whatever the fuck they comment on.

0:49:24.880 --> 0:49:26.360
<v Speaker 2>How do you stay above?

0:49:27.960 --> 0:49:30.719
<v Speaker 3>That's a good question. I feel like it's not maybe

0:49:30.840 --> 0:49:32.840
<v Speaker 3>fair for me to answer this, but I was just

0:49:32.880 --> 0:49:35.000
<v Speaker 3>talking to Kyle about this. I come from a family

0:49:35.480 --> 0:49:38.879
<v Speaker 3>who good or bad, a ton of siblings. We all

0:49:38.960 --> 0:49:41.040
<v Speaker 3>just teased each other and made fun of each other.

0:49:41.120 --> 0:49:43.840
<v Speaker 3>I mean constant ragging on each other in a fun way.

0:49:44.040 --> 0:49:47.840
<v Speaker 3>I still go home, and that's our dynamic and our energy.

0:49:47.920 --> 0:49:50.919
<v Speaker 3>So I don't take myself too seriously and I don't

0:49:50.960 --> 0:49:54.359
<v Speaker 3>take comment I laugh things off like crazy. That's just

0:49:54.920 --> 0:49:57.759
<v Speaker 3>my way of doing things. I understand other people take

0:49:58.400 --> 0:50:01.680
<v Speaker 3>comments seriously, but I just think, like, like I've told

0:50:01.719 --> 0:50:03.640
<v Speaker 3>you before, a lot, it's like when I see a

0:50:03.680 --> 0:50:06.560
<v Speaker 3>mean comment, especially if it's so off base, it's like

0:50:06.600 --> 0:50:09.520
<v Speaker 3>someone looking at me and being like, your blue hair

0:50:09.600 --> 0:50:12.640
<v Speaker 3>is so ugly and disgusting. It disgusts me that you

0:50:12.680 --> 0:50:16.600
<v Speaker 3>have blue hair. I would look at them and be like, okay, honey,

0:50:16.640 --> 0:50:18.960
<v Speaker 3>are you okay? Like I would be concerned for them

0:50:19.040 --> 0:50:21.720
<v Speaker 3>and be like sure, and just kind of like laugh

0:50:21.760 --> 0:50:23.640
<v Speaker 3>it off or walk away, and that's how I feel.

0:50:23.719 --> 0:50:26.719
<v Speaker 3>So that's how I just, I mean, stay positive, and.

0:50:26.680 --> 0:50:27.960
<v Speaker 2>It's actually brilliant, Jessica.

0:50:28.239 --> 0:50:30.800
<v Speaker 3>And I surround myself with people I love and anybody.

0:50:30.840 --> 0:50:34.759
<v Speaker 3>I don't care about anyone else's opinion. I appreciate when

0:50:34.800 --> 0:50:37.520
<v Speaker 3>I get love, but I kind of I just don't care,

0:50:38.239 --> 0:50:40.319
<v Speaker 3>just like you. You've said that to me before, right,

0:50:40.560 --> 0:50:42.920
<v Speaker 3>like you care about the people who are around you

0:50:43.440 --> 0:50:46.200
<v Speaker 3>who love you, but everyone else like who cares? I

0:50:46.200 --> 0:50:46.719
<v Speaker 3>don't know you.

0:50:47.360 --> 0:50:50.360
<v Speaker 1>I find that there's like two different things, right, like

0:50:50.400 --> 0:50:52.920
<v Speaker 1>the comment section and then my own negative thoughts when

0:50:52.920 --> 0:50:55.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm having negative thoughts, because they do happen where I'm like,

0:50:55.960 --> 0:50:59.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm never going to reach the goals that I want.

0:50:59.560 --> 0:51:02.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm never gonna have this, because you're like, how could

0:51:02.280 --> 0:51:05.840
<v Speaker 1>I you think I'm gonna have that? Look at the

0:51:05.840 --> 0:51:08.080
<v Speaker 1>way that I'm like living right now, how could those

0:51:08.120 --> 0:51:12.600
<v Speaker 1>things ever even exist? And then you remember, I try

0:51:13.000 --> 0:51:16.239
<v Speaker 1>to go to a time where everything was all good,

0:51:16.560 --> 0:51:20.399
<v Speaker 1>and how quickly it became not good? Right, the same

0:51:20.440 --> 0:51:22.520
<v Speaker 1>thing can happen with everything not being good and then

0:51:22.560 --> 0:51:25.040
<v Speaker 1>the next day it being fucking great. So I like

0:51:25.120 --> 0:51:28.359
<v Speaker 1>to purge onto a page everything that I'm feeling right like,

0:51:28.840 --> 0:51:30.920
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I can't accomplish this, and then dig

0:51:30.960 --> 0:51:33.279
<v Speaker 1>into the why right, write it down, write it down,

0:51:33.480 --> 0:51:36.040
<v Speaker 1>write it down. Once you purge onto a page or

0:51:36.080 --> 0:51:39.520
<v Speaker 1>onto a person, then I feel like the real work

0:51:39.560 --> 0:51:42.880
<v Speaker 1>can start where you're like, Okay, this is how I'm feeling.

0:51:43.120 --> 0:51:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I now know the reason, and now I need to

0:51:45.080 --> 0:51:47.120
<v Speaker 1>switch my way of thinking. We always talk about mind

0:51:47.160 --> 0:51:50.720
<v Speaker 1>over matter, and if you don't mind, it don't matter.

0:51:50.960 --> 0:51:55.080
<v Speaker 1>A That's why I love therapy. That right, I'm like

0:51:55.120 --> 0:51:58.480
<v Speaker 1>a therapist. You are without any.

0:51:58.280 --> 0:52:02.360
<v Speaker 4>Sort of degree, miss freelance.

0:52:03.800 --> 0:52:05.200
<v Speaker 2>And the comments section.

0:52:05.760 --> 0:52:08.239
<v Speaker 1>I avoid it all casts because I have seen how

0:52:08.280 --> 0:52:11.400
<v Speaker 1>mean people get and it will put me in my grain.

0:52:12.120 --> 0:52:12.960
<v Speaker 2>So it's just better than.

0:52:12.960 --> 0:52:15.640
<v Speaker 3>All look so you don't look my laugh it off?

0:52:16.120 --> 0:52:18.640
<v Speaker 3>How do you feel if you get any negativity, which

0:52:18.640 --> 0:52:19.120
<v Speaker 3>I haven't seen.

0:52:19.200 --> 0:52:21.759
<v Speaker 4>No, to everybody who's been saying something, thank you very much.

0:52:21.800 --> 0:52:23.359
<v Speaker 4>It does mean a lot to me because this is

0:52:23.400 --> 0:52:24.000
<v Speaker 4>new ship to me.

0:52:24.160 --> 0:52:27.400
<v Speaker 1>Everyone's trying to swoop in and make you their husband.

0:52:28.400 --> 0:52:30.040
<v Speaker 3>I kind of like, you don't have a husband.

0:52:30.239 --> 0:52:32.760
<v Speaker 4>You don't have a husband.

0:52:32.960 --> 0:52:36.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, keep going.

0:52:38.760 --> 0:52:41.000
<v Speaker 4>I there's nothing that somebody can say to me that

0:52:41.040 --> 0:52:43.920
<v Speaker 4>I've already that I haven't said to myself or thought

0:52:44.760 --> 0:52:47.160
<v Speaker 4>of myself. Okay, so there's nothing that you can say

0:52:47.160 --> 0:52:50.280
<v Speaker 4>to me that is already like, that's that's new information

0:52:50.880 --> 0:52:53.919
<v Speaker 4>because I already ate I'm my worst critic. So even

0:52:53.960 --> 0:52:56.600
<v Speaker 4>if I read something, I never take it like this

0:52:56.680 --> 0:52:58.839
<v Speaker 4>person Like like I always, I'm like, all right, how

0:52:58.840 --> 0:53:00.719
<v Speaker 4>can I learn from what they're saying? How can I

0:53:00.800 --> 0:53:03.120
<v Speaker 4>be better? So I don't really care because I've thought

0:53:03.120 --> 0:53:04.880
<v Speaker 4>about it and I've said it to myself, so I'm like,

0:53:04.920 --> 0:53:07.320
<v Speaker 4>all right, just they just point it out again.

0:53:07.560 --> 0:53:09.839
<v Speaker 1>Can I tell you the best way to get over

0:53:10.040 --> 0:53:15.160
<v Speaker 1>a troll? Have Lisa my mom read the comment out

0:53:15.160 --> 0:53:17.160
<v Speaker 1>loud and she laughs?

0:53:17.280 --> 0:53:19.359
<v Speaker 2>Or what how does she read it?

0:53:19.680 --> 0:53:26.120
<v Speaker 1>So monotone, you are the best. When you read a troll,

0:53:26.280 --> 0:53:32.160
<v Speaker 1>read a troll, it'll be like you are so fucking stupid,

0:53:32.520 --> 0:53:36.279
<v Speaker 1>you bitch. It's like the way she reads it, it

0:53:36.360 --> 0:53:39.719
<v Speaker 1>makes you go, wow, if I read that out loud,

0:53:39.840 --> 0:53:43.040
<v Speaker 1>it actually isn't that bad. Like she read one that

0:53:43.120 --> 0:53:44.719
<v Speaker 1>was talking about like a forehead and she was like,

0:53:45.360 --> 0:53:48.840
<v Speaker 1>you stupid five headed bitch?

0:53:49.239 --> 0:53:50.680
<v Speaker 3>Am I definitely a comment to me?

0:53:52.360 --> 0:53:53.600
<v Speaker 4>What is that five headed?

0:53:54.360 --> 0:53:56.920
<v Speaker 1>I'll show you what a five headed bitches right here, honey,

0:53:57.120 --> 0:53:57.919
<v Speaker 1>five headed bitch.

0:53:58.239 --> 0:53:59.040
<v Speaker 4>That's a forehead.

0:53:59.320 --> 0:54:01.840
<v Speaker 3>No no, no, no, no, no, no no, this is

0:54:01.880 --> 0:54:04.839
<v Speaker 3>a forehead. That's a forehead. Yeah, this is a ten head.

0:54:04.880 --> 0:54:06.800
<v Speaker 3>But we love it. We love that about me because

0:54:06.960 --> 0:54:08.000
<v Speaker 3>it means big brain.

0:54:08.160 --> 0:54:08.400
<v Speaker 4>You know what.

0:54:08.560 --> 0:54:09.399
<v Speaker 2>Oh, she's got a big brain.

0:54:09.440 --> 0:54:12.080
<v Speaker 4>Tips. Oh, she's got a noggin on it.

0:54:12.680 --> 0:54:15.680
<v Speaker 1>You watch it, you watch a salthy fucking mouth control

0:54:16.520 --> 0:54:20.000
<v Speaker 1>they I have multiple neutrol nogginghead.

0:54:21.239 --> 0:54:22.799
<v Speaker 3>I love a big head.

0:54:23.160 --> 0:54:26.560
<v Speaker 1>She's got the greatest, a gorgeous head.

0:54:26.800 --> 0:54:29.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah Walter Hogan remember how big his head was.

0:54:29.080 --> 0:54:33.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's got a brain that's beautiful and smart and kind.

0:54:33.800 --> 0:54:34.960
<v Speaker 4>Shout out to Walter Hogan and.

0:54:35.640 --> 0:54:36.760
<v Speaker 2>Filthy fucking mouth.

0:54:37.320 --> 0:54:37.760
<v Speaker 1>Just kidding.

0:54:38.520 --> 0:54:42.359
<v Speaker 4>She's It's true. That's why she's got lethal on.

0:54:42.400 --> 0:54:45.879
<v Speaker 1>Me because she's a genius. She's a genius, and she's

0:54:45.880 --> 0:54:47.520
<v Speaker 1>gorgeous and she's perfect and she.

0:54:47.560 --> 0:54:48.439
<v Speaker 4>Looks like a little kick.

0:54:48.440 --> 0:54:52.120
<v Speaker 2>Pop Houston, I'm about to beat your ass. My daughter

0:54:52.200 --> 0:54:52.880
<v Speaker 2>can never.

0:54:52.760 --> 0:54:53.239
<v Speaker 1>Listen to this.

0:54:54.040 --> 0:54:55.400
<v Speaker 4>Why she's the cutest.

0:54:55.480 --> 0:54:58.680
<v Speaker 1>I too, she's p shit, you're a cake, Pop too.

0:54:59.239 --> 0:55:01.840
<v Speaker 3>I got this big bobby wobbly head. Kyle's always like you.

0:55:02.520 --> 0:55:04.839
<v Speaker 3>He'll hug me and he'll go it's so big your

0:55:04.880 --> 0:55:06.839
<v Speaker 3>head right now.

0:55:08.840 --> 0:55:13.000
<v Speaker 1>You know what, Like mom said, she's perfect, You are perfect.

0:55:13.520 --> 0:55:20.239
<v Speaker 1>Every one of us is perfect. Ocean's perfect. We can't

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<v Speaker 1>help the way that we look.

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<v Speaker 4>What Lisa says, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right.

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<v Speaker 2>That's exactly right, Lisa, that's exactly right.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone who you think is busted someone could come in

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<v Speaker 1>and be like gorgeous, and they're the beholder beauty.

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<v Speaker 4>And man's trash is another man's barbie.

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<v Speaker 1>One man's trash, that's another one's whole. Hurry, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what's coming kind of shoot.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so glad that movie is colored back.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you guys, I promise we're sober here. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you enjoyed this episode of the Give Them All

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<v Speaker 1>a Podcast, the

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<v Speaker 2>Version We will catch you next five