Speaker 1: Hello, golgeous, Welcome back to Give Them La La Podcast.
Speaker 1: I'm hyped on this episode because it's all about me,
Speaker 1: just kidding. I asked you guys on the gram, uh,
Speaker 1: what questions you had for this episode?
Speaker 2: And I won't even lie.
Speaker 1: These are the best questions that we've ever gone, Like
Speaker 1: to the point where I reposted again and was like,
Speaker 1: what is everyone on this Monday? Because these questions are
Speaker 1: so well rounded and actually, like, as much as I
Speaker 1: love Bravo and vander Talk and all of the things,
Speaker 1: my inbox was not filled with only those questions, right,
Speaker 1: because a lot of times it's like, okay, well these
Speaker 1: questions are different, but like essentially the same. These people
Speaker 1: who showed up to the Give Them La Lap pod
Speaker 1: instagram page, We're not messing around.
Speaker 2: Not today, not today, Junior. So I'm just gonna get
Speaker 2: it on and pop in. Get it on.
Speaker 1: The first question, I said, as much as I love
Speaker 1: talking about Bravoid, like to talk about something else. The
Speaker 1: first question is do you know if Jack's went to
Speaker 1: Sheena's second wedding? And if so, why didn't we see him.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be totally open and honest with you. Yes,
Speaker 1: Jack's and Kristin Doty and Brittany were at the wedding.
Speaker 1: We're talking about three people who are fantastic reality TV personalities.
Speaker 1: So they're at a wedding, but guess what, you want
Speaker 1: to put a camera in their face. I'm gonna need
Speaker 1: a paycheck for that. Otherwise keep me away. So that's
Speaker 1: the real reason why you didn't see any of those
Speaker 1: people at Sheena's wedding. When they filmed it, it was like,
Speaker 1: I will show up. You're more than welcome to film me,
Speaker 1: but I there has to be some sort of transaction
Speaker 1: and I respect it. Right at that point, Okay, you're
Speaker 1: now putting me to work. I'm not just sitting here
Speaker 1: and having fun at a wedding. Yea, right, Okay, there's
Speaker 1: that one. Do you have any sympathy for Rachel Raquel
Speaker 1: now that the dust has settled? I wanted to read
Speaker 1: that one because we've at this point wrapped season eleven.
Speaker 1: We now know she didn't come back, which is fine.
Speaker 1: I wasn't planning on her coming back anyway. Do I
Speaker 1: think it was like not the greatest move. We talked
Speaker 1: about this when we touched on the Bethany Frankel Raquel
Speaker 1: Levis podcast, You're gonna see a lot in season eleven
Speaker 1: that I don't think people expect from me ever, because
Speaker 1: I'm very much like this all the time.
Speaker 2: And actually, you know who pointed this out to me, Jess.
Speaker 1: I won't say her name, but my agent. I don't
Speaker 1: want to blow her spot up. She's like, please don't
Speaker 1: talk about me. I'm like, you're being talked about. Actually,
Speaker 1: she was like, it's so interesting to me that you
Speaker 1: don't know how to say what you mean, but like
Speaker 1: be calm, Like you either are like really really down
Speaker 1: for somebody or you're ripping their head off. You don't
Speaker 1: know how to be like, hey, I really like you.
Speaker 1: This annoys me. Can you please stop doing that? She's like,
Speaker 1: you sugarcoat it. You're it's black or white, and I
Speaker 1: don't know how to change that. I think for the
Speaker 1: first time, maybe this season you'll see me in the
Speaker 1: gray and I don't want to give a storyline away,
Speaker 1: but you will see my feelings on how I feel
Speaker 1: about Raquel or Rachel. That's interesting, she means maybe just
Speaker 1: in general in life, oh cause I don't.
Speaker 3: Feel the la la we see a lot or me.
Speaker 3: I can't speak for Easton I feel you can. I
Speaker 3: feel I've seen it before where you're like, hey, I'm
Speaker 3: not a big fan of this and I'm just going
Speaker 3: to tell you straight up and be and I've seen it.
Speaker 3: I've seen it. But maybe it's because you get passionate
Speaker 3: when it's different people and other people. Maybe you're I
Speaker 3: don't know, but I've seen it before, but I get
Speaker 3: I get what she's saying. But I've also seen you
Speaker 3: be like, I'm not a big fan of this. I'm
Speaker 3: gonna let you know and move on.
Speaker 1: And you still feel like I'm being like direct but
Speaker 1: all direct, but I'm sweet.
Speaker 3: Yes, I've seen it myself. You know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 3: I've seen it, So it's just interesting. Maybe you choose
Speaker 3: the people that you give that to. Maybe some people
Speaker 3: it's not worth it. You're like, I'm either gonna blow
Speaker 3: up on you or not.
Speaker 1: You know what?
Speaker 3: Are you?
Speaker 4: Guys like you?
Speaker 3: You are like that? Yeah you can't if you're pretty.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'm there's no middle ground for me. It's
Speaker 4: either I'm like just going through it and eating my
Speaker 4: words or eating what I want to say to somebody,
Speaker 4: or then I'm just really lethal and on a hundred.
Speaker 1: That's so true.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'll just eat it and I won't let
Speaker 4: anybody know that it's like affecting me to eat it
Speaker 4: and eat it. And then there's one and then once
Speaker 4: I break them at one hundred. But that's I feel
Speaker 4: like how law is though, Yes, okay, like I will
Speaker 4: say I know that from Dad. Yeah, like i I'll
Speaker 4: just the straw that breaks the camel's back, like.
Speaker 3: You hold it, hold it, hold it and.
Speaker 4: Hold it and then break. Yeah, and then sometimes it'll
Speaker 4: usually bust, like I'll rip open the people that I
Speaker 4: love because.
Speaker 2: I'm like I can come back from it with you
Speaker 2: unconditional life.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I'm just having a bad day, so I'll
Speaker 4: take it out on like my homies or you guys.
Speaker 4: But I do it because it's like I have to
Speaker 4: let it go, but I have to have like I'm
Speaker 4: doing it on people who know me, and we'll be like,
Speaker 4: all right, we see it. We we accept your apology
Speaker 4: because I usually apologize, but I usually just go from
Speaker 4: there to one hundred.
Speaker 3: I feel that's so hard to do something taking stuff
Speaker 3: out on poor Kyle, poor mom, poor dad, poor Katie,
Speaker 3: and they're like it's from because I know they'll forgive
Speaker 3: me and it's from other outside, but I'm like, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna take it out on them and there and because
Speaker 3: I know I can come back from it. And that's
Speaker 3: not good.
Speaker 4: No, it isn't good. I've I've no, but I warned you,
Speaker 4: I like warn my mom.
Speaker 1: See, but that's like, why are you like this right now?
Speaker 1: And I was like, because everyone's annoying me and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna need you to fucking take it for a moment.
Speaker 2: And she's like, by all means.
Speaker 4: She'll be like, Lauren is on a hundred today, just
Speaker 4: make sure just step on eggshells.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, she send you.
Speaker 4: For she'll text me. Yeah, she'll be like, or she
Speaker 4: usually doesn't text me, she'll call me. I'm letting the
Speaker 4: dogs out. Lauren's on one, all right, you want to
Speaker 4: come over.
Speaker 2: By the way, Lisa calling me Lauren my child.
Speaker 1: Now, I don't know if any of you guys saw
Speaker 1: the video I posted a while back of Ocean like
Speaker 1: having a mind blowing moment of me being Lala and
Speaker 1: Mama and being like, it's so funny. But now she
Speaker 1: calls me Lauren, so not even my child can say
Speaker 1: my name. She Lauren, Yes, she'll say I love you Lauren,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, Lauren. So I've been trying to
Speaker 1: teach her how to say Lauren. But I told mom,
Speaker 1: I'm like, mom, you gotta call me like something different,
Speaker 1: because I it hurts my soul that a child I
Speaker 1: gave birth to can't pronounce my name correctly.
Speaker 3: Do you care that she calls your first name? Because
Speaker 3: I remember my dad when I would say Amy just
Speaker 3: joking to my mom, he'd be like, disrespectful, you call
Speaker 3: her mother. But I think it's so cute when I
Speaker 3: hear little kids say like their parents first names. I'm like,
Speaker 3: that is so cute.
Speaker 2: I don't mind it at all.
Speaker 3: You don't care, y no.
Speaker 1: And she also messes with me at times where she'll
Speaker 1: say she'll say la la and I'll like give her
Speaker 1: like grumpy face, she no Mama, and then.
Speaker 2: I'll give her love.
Speaker 1: But she's also into telling me lately that she's proud
Speaker 1: of me, which is so stinking cute because obviously she's
Speaker 1: just saying things that we probably say to her. You know,
Speaker 1: I now know why she says stop it all the time,
Speaker 1: because when I discipline, I tell her you stop it
Speaker 1: right now. So now I know. I was like, where
Speaker 1: is she getting this?
Speaker 2: You don't realize how you talk.
Speaker 1: Until your child starts saying things and you're like, where
Speaker 1: are they learning things? And then it's like, oh, that
Speaker 1: makes sense, and you catch yourself.
Speaker 3: I the other day I said to you. You came down,
Speaker 3: and I was like, you're so pretty. And then five
Speaker 3: seconds later, Ocean looked at you and she's like, Mammy,
Speaker 3: you're so pretty, even though she says it anyway. But
Speaker 3: then I was like, oh, and smart and why And
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I gotta put other describing words
Speaker 3: in there, because she's faking up on that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the one that I always tell her, like, we're.
Speaker 2: So proud of you. So I I'm so proud of you.
Speaker 1: It's like, it's the cutest freaking thing in the world.
Speaker 1: Having children is really fucking epic. What would everyone's last
Speaker 1: meal be if you were on death row? Loved the
Speaker 1: Podessin and I have talked about this before. I do
Speaker 1: not ever eat lamb because it makes me so sad,
Speaker 1: but if it were my last meal, I would have
Speaker 1: a hero yeamn. Yeah?
Speaker 4: What about you?
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm this, give me a steak lobster tail, garlic,
Speaker 3: mashed potatoes and broccoli.
Speaker 4: Done and mashed potatoes, potatoes.
Speaker 1: The bab so just the one that can't come straight
Speaker 1: out the package. Yeah, those are pretty bomb. No, I
Speaker 1: would do full Mediterranean meal.
Speaker 3: Would you do this? Zekey?
Speaker 1: I do like the lamb euro with the yummy pita
Speaker 1: and like the lemon rice, all of that stuff, right,
Speaker 1: such good hummus, and then a plethora of sparkling water.
Speaker 1: But to wash all of that down, I would order
Speaker 1: a bottle of honey Jack Daniels.
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, would you alcohol do a.
Speaker 1: We're breaking sobriety, bitch, I'm on death row, about to croak.
Speaker 1: I'm relapsing. M Okay, don't get upset about it.
Speaker 4: You're dying.
Speaker 1: No, I'm a assuming there's no way, like no one's
Speaker 1: coming in to like do some sort of reform and
Speaker 1: bring me out of prison. Like I'm going down. I'm
Speaker 1: putting me straight to sleep. Yes, I'd like to numb
Speaker 1: a bit.
Speaker 3: All right, Well, the last meal, there's no I think
Speaker 3: it's the day before or the morning of, so there's
Speaker 3: no room.
Speaker 1: My bigger question is why am I on death row?
Speaker 1: I wonder what I did to get there? Oh, I
Speaker 1: know what you did.
Speaker 2: What did I do?
Speaker 3: Someone must with your child?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: I killed someone done a lot of people. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: can think of a few.
Speaker 4: Headline.
Speaker 1: Do you ever think like when you get asked these
Speaker 1: questions like you're on death row, It's like, this is
Speaker 1: less about the meal.
Speaker 2: Now what exactly did I do to get here?
Speaker 4: You know?
Speaker 1: Was I like some like crazy serial killer that left
Speaker 1: like notes and tried to lead the police in different
Speaker 1: directions or was it like I just kind of like
Speaker 1: stat like I just kind of lost my mind?
Speaker 2: This got dark?
Speaker 3: Oh, this got.
Speaker 1: Very very dark?
Speaker 2: La La.
Speaker 1: Do you have any new future business plans that you're
Speaker 1: thinking of?
Speaker 3: Ooh, that's a good one.
Speaker 1: I actually really love this one, and I want to
Speaker 1: combine it with this other beautiful woman who asked me,
Speaker 1: how are you planning to grow your brand in the
Speaker 1: event vander Pump Rules gets canceled?
Speaker 2: I have a lot of things in the works.
Speaker 1: Jessica and I hustle our little asses off because the
Speaker 1: goal is empire, Empire, Empire. So yes, I've looked at
Speaker 1: my brand and reevaluated it because when I created it
Speaker 1: and when it started, let's remember I was also drinking
Speaker 1: a lot, not saying that I don't love the brand.
Speaker 1: I do, but just there's been a shift on what's
Speaker 1: important to me in my life and things that really
Speaker 1: have always been important to me, but they were on
Speaker 1: the back burner. They should have been on front burner
Speaker 1: the whole time, and now they are. So we are
Speaker 1: in a space and now I have a phenomenal team
Speaker 1: around me where I can sit there and spew my
Speaker 1: ideas on what I want something to look like, and
Speaker 1: then I have these amazing minds who know how to,
Speaker 1: you know, make that come to fruition. And so I
Speaker 1: cross my fingers and I manifest and I work really hard,
Speaker 1: and what's meant to be will always be. But when
Speaker 1: it comes to worrying about if the brand is okay
Speaker 1: with or without Vanner Pump Rules, I mean, my brand
Speaker 1: is rarely shown on vander Pump Rules, you know. I
Speaker 1: think the first time it was ever even acknowledged that
Speaker 1: I had a brand was season nine. And I've noticed
Speaker 1: that I'm fortunate enough to have the brand do well
Speaker 1: on its own, like with or without the show. Is
Speaker 1: it nice to be relevant, absolutely, but I don't feel
Speaker 1: like that part fuels the brand, just from what I've
Speaker 1: seen just looking at the numbers. I have not made
Speaker 1: a parallel of like, okay, because I'm on TV.
Speaker 2: This is why the brand thrives.
Speaker 1: People know of the brand because of my But I
Speaker 1: think I'm out in the world where that's the show
Speaker 1: I'm on. But I'm a standalone and that could be
Speaker 1: in my own mind. But I like being in my
Speaker 1: own mind.
Speaker 3: It's funny because working for you, I don't even like.
Speaker 3: Of course, as an outsider, you asked that question, but
Speaker 3: I think those are to me two completely separate things.
Speaker 3: It's like the show and then Lalla and her brand,
Speaker 3: and to me it's like they never cross over. Of
Speaker 3: course they sometimes do, but I'm like, rarely ever.
Speaker 4: Those are separate, use together.
Speaker 1: I don't put them together at all. Yeah, And it's
Speaker 1: actually kind of weird when cameras say, like we're gonna
Speaker 1: film that. I'm like, no, no, no, you're in. We
Speaker 1: have a well oiled.
Speaker 5: Machine over here, Like please don't come over here and
Speaker 5: try to fuck with it with the cameras. You know,
Speaker 5: like we we move in a certain way, right, we're
Speaker 5: plugging right along the moment, they're like, we like to
Speaker 5: film that.
Speaker 2: It's like, why are things getting a little walk.
Speaker 4: Aren't tight.
Speaker 1: So let's just hope that the way that I want
Speaker 1: to rebrand, restructure, whatever you want to call it, when
Speaker 1: that does take place, that we are off to the races.
Speaker 4: And I've heard some of your ideas on your rebrand,
Speaker 4: and I think everybody should be very excited.
Speaker 3: Ooh is that tea?
Speaker 1: I love this. I love the tea.
Speaker 2: Easton.
Speaker 1: You can participate in this conversation. Can you talk about
Speaker 1: your journey with vaping. I know you talked about quitting,
Speaker 1: but I'm interested, Easton.
Speaker 4: Do you vape here? I do, yes, but it's either
Speaker 4: yours or my roommates. Here's the thing, I don't know
Speaker 4: why I do it. It's a fixation of like I
Speaker 4: just do it, pantamize, yeah, and then I always feel
Speaker 4: like shit and I'm thinking why did I hit it?
Speaker 4: But if it wasn't around, like if like when I
Speaker 4: go with Mom and ron errands for a full days
Speaker 4: am with just her and O and you're not near
Speaker 4: and I'm just her. If there's not a vabe, I
Speaker 4: don't need it, like I'm.
Speaker 2: Not you don't think about it?
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I don't need. No, I don't need It's
Speaker 4: just like when it's around. I'm just like, oh, there
Speaker 4: it is, let me het that thing. But I don't.
Speaker 4: I don't feel like I need it. But when I
Speaker 4: see it, I'm like, all right, I'll hit it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get what you mean. Jessica, you don't vabe
Speaker 1: ever thought about it.
Speaker 3: Oh, I've tried it, and I don't know why I
Speaker 3: hate it. So this was years ago, but I was like, sure,
Speaker 3: i'll try it. It's strawberry fun. And I was like, oh, gross,
Speaker 3: get it away.
Speaker 1: It makes me depressed when people who don't smoke the
Speaker 1: vapor like sure, I'll give it a hit, and they
Speaker 1: hack hack hack.
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, you got healthy law.
Speaker 4: Oh, you probably just need to try a different flavor.
Speaker 3: Easton's like here, all I'll give you. Well.
Speaker 1: It is fun because like all of us who vape
Speaker 1: on vander Pump, we all have different flavors. So when
Speaker 1: we get together, for me, it's like the equivalent to
Speaker 1: like wine tasting.
Speaker 2: I'm like, Ooh, Ariana's got the lead she berry.
Speaker 1: Uh, we got James Kennedy coming and clutch with the watermelon.
Speaker 2: Oh, and then we've got.
Speaker 1: Katie who's a little bit wild and she's got the
Speaker 1: naked flavors. Like, we don't not really sure what it is.
Speaker 1: Tastes a little minty, tastes a little something something, you know.
Speaker 3: It's like do you hit each other? Is it like
Speaker 3: a fun Yeah?
Speaker 1: Past that Dutch baby, past past past the Dutch baby.
Speaker 2: What does that mean? Past the Dutch I thought it was.
Speaker 3: Isn't it the passa blunt?
Speaker 1: That's what I don't know.
Speaker 2: I learned it from Missy Elliott.
Speaker 3: Wait, oh for Missy Elliott. But I have a question
Speaker 3: about the vape. Actually it's not a question, it's just
Speaker 3: think about I thought about this the other day because
Speaker 3: I was driving in Everyone I see is smoking their
Speaker 3: vape ten years ago. If we just flashed into the
Speaker 3: future and drove down and you guys saw it, wouldn't
Speaker 3: you be like, what the fuck is everyone doing? What
Speaker 3: is happening? It's not cigarettes? Or would you think like,
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's.
Speaker 1: Just so we grossed out because I've always been grossed
Speaker 1: out by any type of smoking.
Speaker 2: And I never smoked.
Speaker 1: I've actually that's a lie, and I've talked about this before,
Speaker 1: apparently the night I hooked up with Arianna. And I'm
Speaker 1: sorry if you guys have been Day one listeners I've
Speaker 1: talked about this before. Apparently I smoked a cigarette the
Speaker 1: night I hooked up with Ariana. In the back of
Speaker 1: Santaval's car. We went to the Nice Guy. I don't
Speaker 1: remember much, smoked a cigarette, tried to fight some person
Speaker 1: half naked. I was half naked, so that did happen,
Speaker 1: but I don't recall. So my mind never smoked a cigarette.
Speaker 1: Cut to I get sober and all of the sudden
Speaker 1: I'm in AA meetings and people are smoking vapes or
Speaker 1: they're having their cigarettes outside, and I just like hit
Speaker 1: my friend's vape outside. And after that it was like,
Speaker 1: this is my new vice and I can and I'll
Speaker 1: I'll kick it later and worry about it later.
Speaker 2: I did take.
Speaker 1: Obviously, when you and I, I think we talked about this,
Speaker 1: I took. I said I'm quitting the vape. I quit
Speaker 1: for I hardly quit four days, No, it was actually seven.
Speaker 4: It was seventh a week.
Speaker 1: However, I smoked other people's vapes. My big thing was like.
Speaker 2: I'm just not gonna buy one.
Speaker 1: Then we go into filming a reality TV show and
Speaker 1: I said, fuck this, I cannot I cannot deal with
Speaker 1: not one single thing right, So I buy the vape again.
Speaker 1: Obviously there's gonna be stressful situations. It's not like I
Speaker 1: wrap this season and then life stops and it's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: go into quarantine and like, never remove yourself from it
Speaker 1: because life is bliss. But I'm trying to get life
Speaker 1: insurance for Ocean right now, and smoking vape cigarettes doesn't
Speaker 1: matter is like a huge red flag and definitely plays
Speaker 1: a part in what kind of life insurance you can
Speaker 1: get for whoever. And so I told the person who's
Speaker 1: working this out for me, I said, please just give
Speaker 1: me until we rap filming. I was like, and then
Speaker 1: I swear to God if it's about my care and
Speaker 1: making sure she's set up, God forbid, something happens to me,
Speaker 1: I will give up the vape like there will be
Speaker 1: no if ans are butts about it. And I was
Speaker 1: telling a lot of my friends this and they were like,
Speaker 1: why didn't you just lie? And this is where my
Speaker 1: mind goes. Let's just say I lie about it. Something
Speaker 1: happens to me, I'm dead, they do what they do
Speaker 1: to a dead person an autopsy. They then are dealing with, Okay,
Speaker 1: she has life insurance, it goes to her daughter, Ocean.
Speaker 1: They obviously have to go through protocol to make sure
Speaker 1: that all is good before Ocean gets that money. They
Speaker 1: take my blood. They see this bitch said she doesn't smoke.
Speaker 2: She definitely smokes. She's been smoking for a while.
Speaker 1: Ocean then does not get that money. One bucked up
Speaker 1: eye light on the paperwork. I'm telling you what. I
Speaker 1: will not do it. I will not do it.
Speaker 3: I will not tell a lie. Who is that like
Speaker 3: Uncle Sam or something? I don't know that is so?
Speaker 3: But do you remember quitting? Why do I remember like
Speaker 3: month or two of you.
Speaker 2: I slept really well last.
Speaker 3: Year, wasn't it. You slept well. You I think gained
Speaker 3: a little way, in a great way. And I'm not
Speaker 3: saying you told me that. That's why I'm saying I did.
Speaker 2: I did gain weight and.
Speaker 3: You felt better. This was like last year. You quit
Speaker 3: for like a month or two and then I don't
Speaker 3: know what. I think you picked it back up or.
Speaker 1: My life happened life, And for some reason I think
Speaker 1: that I can't I need something like that. And yes,
Speaker 1: the vavee is awesome. The most fantastic part of my
Speaker 1: day is in the morning.
Speaker 3: First hit with your coffee. That's a way.
Speaker 1: Yeah, with the coffee in my bathrobe house.
Speaker 4: Day. Every morning I walk into the house with her
Speaker 4: hitting her vape, her cup of coffee in her robe.
Speaker 3: So let me tell you, I feel you, though, because
Speaker 3: if someone told me I had to give up coffee
Speaker 3: and say no, my best moment is the morning that
Speaker 3: first nip of coffee.
Speaker 2: Totally.
Speaker 1: But I feel so much better when I'm not vaping.
Speaker 1: So I am going to get rid of it. And
Speaker 1: I will think every time I feel like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: i'm feeding go My daughter needs a healthy parent, but
Speaker 1: also deserves if something happens to me, she you know,
Speaker 1: is well taken care of. So there's that. The journey
Speaker 1: is hard. If you have never smoked a vape. Do
Speaker 1: not pick it up. I have heard, because I've said
Speaker 1: to people in AA who do not smoke, I tell them,
Speaker 1: you know, I've given up alcohol. I'm gonna be fine.
Speaker 1: They're like, giving up the vape is as hard as
Speaker 1: giving up heroin. It's no fucking joke.
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Yes, So it's terrifying. Do not do not pick it up.
Speaker 1: I'm warning everybody, it is a nightmare. Okay, I fiend
Speaker 1: for it, So I'm gonna be tweaking for a little bit,
Speaker 1: but you know what, all is good Easton. This girl
Speaker 1: wants to know if you're single. She plans she's asking
Speaker 1: for a friend, but to me, it sounds like they
Speaker 1: want a tag team.
Speaker 4: Oh I'm up for a tag Wait what do you mean?
Speaker 3: It's oh the friend and her got it?
Speaker 1: She said?
Speaker 2: Is east and single? I'm asking for a friend and I'm.
Speaker 1: Like the lies, the lies.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm single and ready to threesome.
Speaker 2: Out o red Flash.
Speaker 4: You don't want him?
Speaker 2: Ladies right, you're such a good guy.
Speaker 4: What to do?
Speaker 2: Have you ever had one?
Speaker 1: No, I could get too scared. Have you l one time?
Speaker 1: It wasn't fun.
Speaker 4: There's too many hands, freeze a crowd.
Speaker 1: It was just like weird, like someone's and there's like
Speaker 1: trying to make you feel like you're a part of it,
Speaker 1: and then the swap happens and you're like, you know,
Speaker 1: I think it's.
Speaker 4: Like playing twister.
Speaker 3: Stupid twister would probably be more like naked twister with
Speaker 3: two others would probably be more fun than a threesome.
Speaker 3: But I've never had one, so I don't know.
Speaker 4: But you have never had one either?
Speaker 3: Never that wasn't like a thing. I don't know. I
Speaker 3: don't know what situation I would have ever been in.
Speaker 1: I was wasted at the Grand America Hotel in downtown
Speaker 1: Salt Lake.
Speaker 3: City with who just a group of friends.
Speaker 2: I won't talk.
Speaker 3: It was someone you knew.
Speaker 1: This isn't like a random no, no, no, I knew them
Speaker 1: for since I was in like high school.
Speaker 3: Good okay, okay, yeah it makes more sense Easton.
Speaker 1: What do you look for in a chick? We know
Speaker 1: that they have to be as cool as you. I
Speaker 1: don't know that's hard. Nope, Personality, somebody you can keep
Speaker 1: their own. Somebody who walks in a room and it
Speaker 1: changes the whole aura of the room. Really does age matter?
Speaker 4: No? Okay, age doesn't matter. Looks really doesn't matter that much.
Speaker 4: I like it. I like a certain body type though,
Speaker 4: Like I like short, like shorter girls.
Speaker 1: Okay, like what like five five three four?
Speaker 4: I'll get five four, That is what I like. I
Speaker 4: like I like compact. Yeah, I like some curves on it.
Speaker 3: To five four is not that short. I'm over here five.
Speaker 4: Foot nod I like five Like five ft to five
Speaker 4: four is perfect for me. That's what I love. But
Speaker 4: I know guys with like like five sevens how.
Speaker 3: Tall are you.
Speaker 2: I'm like five six and a half.
Speaker 3: You've got height.
Speaker 1: When I tried to like be a model, I said
Speaker 1: I was five to seven, which it's like, well.
Speaker 3: You're short, you have to be five. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like five to seven. Thinking they were gonna
Speaker 2: freaking just sell me and Peri. They did not. Bravo
Speaker 2: did Bravo for sure?
Speaker 3: Did?
Speaker 1: Okay, where does your friendship stand with Ariana? I think
Speaker 1: we have a great friendship. We'll see what the feels
Speaker 1: are after the season airs again. Like we're always open
Speaker 1: and honest with each other as a cast, but then
Speaker 1: you see things where you're like, wait a minute, the
Speaker 1: breaks here. And for some reason, I always say something
Speaker 1: something that doesn't land right, something that I try to
Speaker 1: like put in a way where it's like I want
Speaker 1: to let you know I'm coming from a good place here.
Speaker 1: So I don't know right now, we're good. Right now,
Speaker 1: I'm just like sailing away. In friendships, right was a
Speaker 1: bonding experience. What happened? There was like so much time
Speaker 1: that had passed where it was like, Okay, this friendship
Speaker 1: obviously needs to, you know, be laid to rest. We're
Speaker 1: never We're never gonna be what we once were. But
Speaker 1: then when you have a common hatred for someone, not
Speaker 1: saying that I'm that we're there now the hate part.
Speaker 1: But when that happened and we were all likeh to
Speaker 1: sand of All, it's like bonding moment. Right then sand
Speaker 1: of Aal says the epic words to Raquel. We'll see
Speaker 1: how long that lasts and we will see who knows. Right,
Speaker 1: it's a weird environment to have friendships in gets toxic. However,
Speaker 1: I will say the one thing that I love about
Speaker 1: reality TV is without cameras around, right, if you're feeling
Speaker 1: some type of way about a friend, it is easier
Speaker 1: to just push things under the rug, you know, don't
Speaker 1: deal with it, take a little break, decline, go into dinner.
Speaker 1: Being on reality TV forces you to have uncomfortable conversation
Speaker 1: that you don't want to have, but they could also
Speaker 1: lead to where you should be in a friendship. You
Speaker 1: could then thrive. You could realize, like, this friendship is
Speaker 1: not for me. So it does force you to like
Speaker 1: kind of take the bull by the balls in all relationships.
Speaker 2: So there's that.
Speaker 4: I kind of like that, though I feel like that
Speaker 4: people need to do that more often.
Speaker 1: I also like the texting Yeah, the communication, and I
Speaker 1: like that you call it bull by the balls because
Speaker 1: it's technically bull by the horns.
Speaker 3: But you're going straight to the ball.
Speaker 2: Yeah, straight to the ball sack. That's where you get
Speaker 2: the baby.
Speaker 1: Okay, So you guys, this person wrote in and said,
Speaker 1: are you interested in any other Bravo celebrities? The captain
Speaker 1: from below deck down under is interested in meeting you?
Speaker 1: Googling naturally, naturally, I google this shit, Jason Chambers.
Speaker 2: He is fine.
Speaker 3: Google this guy, Jason, let's see.
Speaker 1: I was like, I wanted to have no part of
Speaker 1: that until I saw Captain Jason.
Speaker 3: Jason come through.
Speaker 2: Do you see him?
Speaker 3: He's hot?
Speaker 1: If not, I can just pass my phone, do you.
Speaker 1: I took screenshots that's him.
Speaker 2: He is so hot, and he's a captain.
Speaker 3: That's even from down on duck down un duck.
Speaker 4: You can get below deck.
Speaker 3: Not Dick below deck, Dick below deck.
Speaker 1: I'm sweating, I'm getting wet.
Speaker 3: He's handsome. Can we look up his age? Not that
Speaker 3: it matters, I just want to know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I look up the age because he is pretty fine.
Speaker 1: That's daddy. That's so daddy, isn't it. He's like silver Fox?
Speaker 1: What are we thinking, what are we thinking?
Speaker 3: How?
Speaker 2: How old is he?
Speaker 3: Is he single too? That's important I.
Speaker 2: Know, because oh, that's not a bout at all.
Speaker 1: That's not about it at all. I'm gonna be thirty
Speaker 1: three that I am thirty three. By the time this airs,
Speaker 1: I'll be thirty three.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's healthy. I say, holler.
Speaker 2: I say holler too. But I need to know his sign.
Speaker 4: Well, let's get to it.
Speaker 1: I need to know his sign and all of these things.
Speaker 1: And I also need to know I wish that this
Speaker 1: girl would have written more contact forty three he said, sorry, law,
Speaker 1: it just does suck up. He doesn't look no Jason
Speaker 1: Chambers age. Do that back up a little? You have
Speaker 1: to put Jason Chambers below day down on three. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was gonna say he does not look fifty.
Speaker 2: Well, that's even better.
Speaker 3: Seat.
Speaker 4: But this says right here because I don't know if
Speaker 4: he's lying about his age, but it says right here
Speaker 4: the captain shows he is in fact fifty, So I
Speaker 4: don't know if he's trying to lie about it.
Speaker 1: No, he doesn't look like someone that would lie.
Speaker 4: Well, now it sounds like red flags everywhere. Is he
Speaker 4: forty three or is he fifty?
Speaker 2: You guys.
Speaker 1: I can't tell if I'm looking at the right guy
Speaker 1: or not. No, you are, I don't think so, because
Speaker 1: this guy looks totally different than the one that I
Speaker 1: was looking at before. Let me do some research and
Speaker 1: i'll get back to you. Maybe I need to go
Speaker 1: and get onto Peacock and watch down under.
Speaker 4: Down below deck Yeah, below deck, down down.
Speaker 3: No, you're looking at the right guy. It's this guy.
Speaker 3: We're all looking at the right guy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but he looks a little different in the photo
Speaker 1: that I just saw, like, looks completely different.
Speaker 2: So I need to do some research.
Speaker 1: I don't know about this he's age fishing. Let's just
Speaker 1: say I probably wouldn't dat anybody from Bravo. That just
Speaker 1: sounds like a clusterfuck that I don't want to be
Speaker 1: a part of, doesn't it.
Speaker 3: I mean, I think it sounds beautiful, but I also
Speaker 3: see you. I have high hopes with your next dating person.
Speaker 3: I've I've shouted out some names to you before that
Speaker 3: I won't say here. But I have high hopes, and
Speaker 3: I don't think I.
Speaker 2: Love high hopes.
Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, I just don't think Bravo. I only
Speaker 1: want to I want to be the only Bravo leb
Speaker 1: in the relationship. That just seems like a lot of chaos. Okay, uh,
Speaker 1: do you feel like the show has more fans during
Speaker 1: filming posts Scanaval? Yes, And I don't know what is
Speaker 1: going on, but my anxiety is that an all time high? Filming,
Speaker 1: not filming or just in general? Just my what is
Speaker 1: that called social anxiety? Is that an all time high?
Speaker 1: Like I remember doing this podcast and someone had asked
Speaker 1: when we did an ame, do you like when people
Speaker 1: come up to you?
Speaker 2: What are you showing?
Speaker 4: Producer John sent me a link to to below deck.
Speaker 4: Now it's stating he's thirty nine, but he's forty three, but.
Speaker 2: Red flags, red flags everywhere.
Speaker 3: We don't know this for.
Speaker 4: Fact, we do not, but producer John sent it to me.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Producer John is on his ship.
Speaker 4: He's on his ship, John, But god damn he.
Speaker 1: Does what the difference?
Speaker 2: Look at the difference, though, look at the difference?
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I think the captain one is very face tuned,
Speaker 4: like he's got no, he's hot, he's no matter what,
Speaker 4: he looks good. But this looks like it they face
Speaker 4: tuned the ship at well, it's.
Speaker 2: Been on for a while.
Speaker 1: You know that's like showing me this season and then
Speaker 1: season four and it's like a little different human.
Speaker 4: It's called agents.
Speaker 3: Back to your social anxiety, just because I'm.
Speaker 2: Fascinated all time high.
Speaker 1: And when we did AMAS a while ago, someone had
Speaker 1: written in and asked, do you like does it get
Speaker 1: annoying when fans come up to you asking for pictures?
Speaker 1: And I said, absolutely not. The whole reason I get
Speaker 1: to do what I love is because of my people,
Speaker 1: the fans watching the show, supporting, you know, the brands,
Speaker 1: whatever it may be. That's why I get to do
Speaker 1: what I love. Cut to where we are now, I
Speaker 1: don't want to say that I get annoyed. I start
Speaker 1: having anxiety. It's the strangest thing, and I don't know
Speaker 1: what to do to fix it. But when we go
Speaker 1: and film and there's a lot of people that come
Speaker 1: up and want pictures and things like that, normally, I'm like,
Speaker 1: let's take all the pictures in the world. Recently, it's
Speaker 1: been kind of debilitating where even talking about it right now,
Speaker 1: I can feel my mind fogging up, like my brain
Speaker 1: starts to kind of shut down, and they'll be telling
Speaker 1: me these beautiful things, and I'm like starting to kind
Speaker 1: of not like the heart starts racing, the mind starts
Speaker 1: going foggy, and it's like I have to get out
Speaker 1: of here, Like I feel like I want to crawl
Speaker 1: out of my own skin. Has nothing to do with anybody,
Speaker 1: like asking for pictures. I do love that, but it
Speaker 1: is strange what's been happening these past few months.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like something you're dealing with, because I
Speaker 3: watched you on tour spend I mean hours just talking
Speaker 3: and hearing people and engaging. I would have been exhausted
Speaker 3: after five minutes, So it must be an anxiety you're
Speaker 3: dealing with right now. I couldn't imagine it.
Speaker 2: No, I mean no, I don't think that. I'm thinking.
Speaker 1: We talked about this in one of the episodes, just
Speaker 1: like looking at the bigger picture of what I'm thinking
Speaker 1: about doing with my life, and maybe I'm just looking
Speaker 1: to kind of ice for a moment. It's been back
Speaker 1: to back, non stop high energy, you know, whether it's
Speaker 1: talking about the show or like we said, rebranding, talking
Speaker 1: about you know, maybe having another baby. It's a lot
Speaker 1: and I'm just feeling like I'm taking on a lot
Speaker 1: of energy that I just can't take on right now,
Speaker 1: right like, I need to kind of I need to
Speaker 1: go to Palm Springs. I need to put the phone away,
Speaker 1: tell everyone to leave me alone for a few days
Speaker 1: and just kind of recharge.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I feel like I need.
Speaker 3: Then that's what you should get. I also feel do
Speaker 3: you think you're an EmPATH? Because I've watched you, like
Speaker 3: I said, on tour, and people tell you these stories
Speaker 3: and I almost see, like if it's a sad story,
Speaker 3: like your body change like you're I'm like, she's physically
Speaker 3: taking on this emotion and that can drain someone quickly.
Speaker 3: Do you think that's you're an EmPATH?
Speaker 1: My? One of my biggest pet peeves is when anyone
Speaker 1: says I'm an EmPATH. So I'm not gonna say that
Speaker 1: I am because it literally kills me. And someone says
Speaker 1: that to me, not about me, But when someone refers
Speaker 1: to themselves as an EmPATH, I'm like, please shut up, right,
Speaker 1: my god, be quiet, okay, And they're usually so up their.
Speaker 2: Own ass okay. So I don't know if I am
Speaker 2: or not.
Speaker 1: I know I get affected by people's stories and then
Speaker 1: I start spiraling a bit.
Speaker 2: So if you want to call it that, let's call it.
Speaker 1: That sounds like it's your absolute favorite cosmetic procedure. You
Speaker 1: look bomb emoji, fire emoji. That's right, got eyebrows to
Speaker 1: the ceiling. Sometimes when I'm watching the podcast on YouTube,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I feel like I need to go like this.
Speaker 2: Look how high they get.
Speaker 1: That's your face shape. Lah, those are your natural brows.
Speaker 1: Look at ocean her browser.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they are like that.
Speaker 1: There was a time that I got bot talks and
Speaker 1: my eyebrows and they were like this high and it
Speaker 1: was terrifying.
Speaker 3: Can you please tell us because I need to know
Speaker 3: what I need to get first, and I think I
Speaker 3: know what you're gonna.
Speaker 2: Say, my favorite procedure I have too.
Speaker 4: Can we take a guest first, Well, take a guess.
Speaker 2: I want you to guess what mine would be.
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm gonna say botox.
Speaker 1: Oh I love the body?
Speaker 2: Is it love the body? But I.
Speaker 3: That's a good guess.
Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't even think about the lip filler.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about injections and then like a facial
Speaker 1: procedure that that you don't need, like needles injecting something
Speaker 1: into your face. I would say my favorite procedure with
Speaker 1: needles would be botox.
Speaker 2: I think filler gets scary.
Speaker 1: I love my jawline that I have not injected in
Speaker 1: years upon years. The last time I had my jaw
Speaker 1: line injected by Doctor Diamond was probably right before going
Speaker 1: into season eight of filming.
Speaker 4: So long ago in on twenty twenty four.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to somebody about getting your jaw filled up,
Speaker 1: because genetically, we just don't have that on our side.
Speaker 1: I would say for it. The procedure like just topical shit.
Speaker 1: I love, love, love love the PRP. I like the
Speaker 1: laser beforehand, and then the PRP is where they take
Speaker 1: the plasma and you guys are gonna think I'm a weirdo.
Speaker 2: But they now have man made.
Speaker 1: Plasma that they can put on your face so that
Speaker 1: you don't have to draw your blood. I don't think
Speaker 1: it works as well. I've tried it. I like the
Speaker 1: results after when they take my blood and spin the
Speaker 1: platelets and then take the plasma, put it on the
Speaker 1: face and then roll it in. You definitely need numbing
Speaker 1: cream because they're like digging into your face with these
Speaker 1: micro needles to create little wounds that then he'll back
Speaker 1: up perfectly.
Speaker 2: That's my favorite.
Speaker 1: But I think i'm gonna have a new favorite soon
Speaker 1: because Lee from skin Tight Aesthetics is doing this Pico
Speaker 1: laser on me to get rid of my malasma. That
Speaker 1: is like it just will not not go away, It
Speaker 1: will not go away.
Speaker 3: Does the laser hurt?
Speaker 4: I have to imagine you're numb?
Speaker 3: Oh okay, because my laser tattoo. I'm like, if it
Speaker 3: felt like that on my face, I'd pass out.
Speaker 2: It's not as intense as that. You can go, Supert,
Speaker 2: you can go.
Speaker 4: It does lasering like.
Speaker 3: Hurts worse than tattoo? Yeah, under time hurts, under times worse.
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, never had it done.
Speaker 3: Oh god, it's awful.
Speaker 1: I'd rather just cover it up with something huge.
Speaker 4: But that's not what it That's not what it feels
Speaker 4: like when you guys like.
Speaker 1: Affleck and just get a rising phoenix. I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: a rising phoenix on my face and just want to
Speaker 1: really give it just neck to face.
Speaker 4: That's sick.
Speaker 1: The flames should be on your face.
Speaker 4: Yeah so, but I do so. It doesn't feel like
Speaker 4: when you when you guys are getting like your legs lasered.
Speaker 4: What does that feel?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Law, does legs feel like your face when you're
Speaker 3: getting legs vagina. No, oh, so.
Speaker 4: Face is different.
Speaker 2: No, the legs.
Speaker 1: It feels like a rubber band whipping me like a
Speaker 1: hot rubber band. But they don't numb your legs. They
Speaker 1: numb your face.
Speaker 3: Some of the hardest laughs I've ever gotten. And I
Speaker 3: won't say exactly why unless Lava wants me to. Is
Speaker 3: going to lawless laser appointments.
Speaker 2: I'll tell you exactly.
Speaker 1: Jessica, by the way, she consents to this, by the way, Okay,
Speaker 1: I can, by the way, by the way, by the
Speaker 1: way she consents.
Speaker 3: Not only do I consent, I go? Can I go
Speaker 3: in with you?
Speaker 1: Because there is a point in time where they do
Speaker 1: the cookie and then they tell me to lay on
Speaker 1: my stomach and pull my ass cheeks apart to get
Speaker 1: the butthole, and I die. It's so hard, and she's
Speaker 1: like oh oh in her like ass, Oh shit, I'm rying. No,
Speaker 1: it's the most vulnerable you'll ever feel getting your cookie
Speaker 1: and buttole as he is so intense and you feel
Speaker 1: very exposed.
Speaker 3: It's so funny. I feel it in my own vagina
Speaker 3: and butthole. So I'm like about to pass out, crying, laughing,
Speaker 3: like it's so many emotions in a matter of seconds.
Speaker 2: How do you feel about bleached assholes?
Speaker 1: By the way, bleached assholes, we've had a conversation about this.
Speaker 1: I like your opinion on them, because at first I
Speaker 1: was like, yes, I would bleach my asshole if I
Speaker 1: got the chance.
Speaker 3: But then you said something I was a great point.
Speaker 3: And what did you say, law, I just kind of
Speaker 3: like it to be a little brown. You like it
Speaker 3: to be brown.
Speaker 1: It kind of looks like it's gonna kill you, eached?
Speaker 4: What is? What do you guys like a man's asshole
Speaker 4: to look like?
Speaker 3: I'm not going near that thing, so I don't really care.
Speaker 1: I don't go near that area. I mean, I've done
Speaker 1: years and years and years ago, thank god, in with
Speaker 1: a not thank god, and with a partner who doesn't
Speaker 1: enjoy butt stuff. Years ago, I was I hooked up
Speaker 1: with one guy who liked a finger in his ass,
Speaker 1: and I did it.
Speaker 3: But it was like I had nails, like, so, how
Speaker 3: do you like this?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: But how far? Oh my god? It was okay, here's
Speaker 1: the butthole. No, it was like scary. And not only
Speaker 1: was it one finger, you guys. Then he put his
Speaker 1: hand down there and he put the second finger and it.
Speaker 3: Was probably like I started like this and I ended
Speaker 3: probably like whole finger deep in the asshole.
Speaker 1: Like to me, I then do you swirl or do
Speaker 1: you just leave?
Speaker 3: I was just kind of no, I don't.
Speaker 1: Just I'm not soaking my finger and his asshole.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm like moving it around because we're doing
Speaker 3: others around.
Speaker 4: But it was.
Speaker 1: Like I'm moving it around nail with the nail, so.
Speaker 3: Oh my god. But in my mind I was it
Speaker 3: was like a chemistry lesson because I'm like, yeah, okay,
Speaker 3: this is what the inside of an asshole feels like.
Speaker 1: Oh interesting, man.
Speaker 3: I was just like feeling around. Never in my life,
Speaker 3: you are the ass man. It was the one and done.
Speaker 3: I'm just feeling around. But Easton, do you like a
Speaker 3: bleached asshole on a lady or a man.
Speaker 4: I'm just lucky to get there. Okay, I'll take whatever's giving.
Speaker 2: That's so nice guy have.
Speaker 3: But for me, Lala made a great point. She goes,
Speaker 3: I don't bleach my nipples. That would be weird.
Speaker 4: If it's weird if I saw a bleached asshole, I'd
Speaker 4: be like, you can do this too much.
Speaker 3: Oh oh, it's just you think it's.
Speaker 4: Mainly like the bleach. Yeah, I'd be like, you're showing
Speaker 4: this off to too many people there, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just think a little cute brown pucker is right, well,
Speaker 1: it should be like I'm not I'm not looking. I'm
Speaker 1: looking for nipples to be colorful, my asshole to be colorful.
Speaker 1: I just want a.
Speaker 2: Nice, little colorful body.
Speaker 1: Don't know, everything's the way it's supposed to be, the
Speaker 1: way God intended mave that mater to me, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, I just feel like if it was like
Speaker 1: supposed to be like super white. But then again, you know,
Speaker 1: if you want your asshole bleached, I just feel like
Speaker 1: that's a lot of work, and like how do they
Speaker 1: get it bleached? How do they get it bleached? Is
Speaker 1: it actual bleach?
Speaker 3: Is it dangerous?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Can we move on from bleached households?
Speaker 2: I know I'm the one that brought us onto.
Speaker 1: The topic, but it's taking a turn. This person wants
Speaker 1: to know, how do you deal with everyone drinking around you?
Speaker 1: I'm newly sober one month and struggling easton.
Speaker 2: How do you deal with it?
Speaker 1: Because you have been sober for a little bit now, well,
Speaker 1: you don't.
Speaker 4: Drink honestly, because everybody. Most people repeat themselves a thousand times.
Speaker 4: That's what I've noticed. But it's you can kind of
Speaker 4: be a dick, not like but like when they're telling
Speaker 4: you can.
Speaker 2: All this establishing boundaries.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you've said that before or things like that.
Speaker 4: So like when when I'm out, I mean, I always
Speaker 4: usually have like something in my hand so I fit
Speaker 4: in mm hmmm. And then usually I'm going around with
Speaker 4: just a couple of my friends, but I usually just
Speaker 4: go and talk to multiple people at it just so
Speaker 4: I can hear the story once. Oh yeah, so I
Speaker 4: just mingle a little bit more. And the one thing
Speaker 4: that I always remember is most everyone's drunk here, so
Speaker 4: it doesn't matter what the hell I'm doing.
Speaker 2: That's so true.
Speaker 4: So like yeah, like it's honestly, it's even better because
Speaker 4: I'm like, you know what, half of these motherfuckers are
Speaker 4: gonna forget this tomorrow and I can just move through
Speaker 4: whatever I need to do. Even I'm not gonna I've
Speaker 4: walked away from conversations like right, I'm already done, I
Speaker 4: mean with multiple people involved, right, but like no one
Speaker 4: says anything. They keep talking and they're drunk, and then
Speaker 4: they're just going to keep talking drunkly to their friends.
Speaker 4: So it's just like it's almost like an anxiety relief
Speaker 4: being sober and out.
Speaker 1: I think so too, And I think it's been easy
Speaker 1: to not I'm not easy. I put a lot of
Speaker 1: work into sobriety, but it's been okay being around people
Speaker 1: who drink because I immediately again, I'm in a program, and
Speaker 1: I think it's very important to remember what got you sober. Right,
Speaker 1: That's why I always talk about like a rock your
Speaker 1: rock bottom moment, like what changed. It doesn't have to
Speaker 1: be insane where you know something horrific happened. Your rock
Speaker 1: bottom could be anything, just the day you decided not
Speaker 1: to pick up. And if you always remember that moment.
Speaker 1: And I learned this in a meeting, how important the
Speaker 1: first step is, right, like admitting you have a problem,
Speaker 1: because you go into why am I here?
Speaker 2: I hit a rock bottom moment? What did it look like?
Speaker 2: And if you can remember.
Speaker 1: Those moments, then being around people who are drinking, you
Speaker 1: know how it ends. Right Tomorrow, they're going to feel
Speaker 1: like shit, They're going to deal with the Sunday scaries tonight.
Speaker 1: They're talking a million miles an hour, but they're on
Speaker 1: loop it's like they're it sounds fun if you if
Speaker 1: you don't have a drinking problem by all means like
Speaker 1: droll pound, I don't give a shit. But this sweet
Speaker 1: girl is talking about she's been one month sober, which,
Speaker 1: first of all, like congratulations. The first thirty days are
Speaker 1: the hardest and that's huge, but like, don't go to
Speaker 1: places that are gonna trigger you. And if you know,
Speaker 1: like I can go out and you'll as the longer
Speaker 1: you stay sober, you start noticing like, okay, we're at
Speaker 1: the tipping point right now, like everyone's had too much
Speaker 1: and this is where I leave. Yep, like I know
Speaker 1: it like the back of my hand. I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go the first few drinks. Everyone's gonna be fun.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be fun. But then they start being not fun.
Speaker 1: That's my time to like go home and enjoy my life.
Speaker 3: And you leave because it gets tempting, or you leave
Speaker 3: because you know it's gonna get messy.
Speaker 2: It gets messy.
Speaker 1: I don't want to listen to your stupid story three
Speaker 1: more times, Like no sense, I'm not interested. I wasn't
Speaker 1: even interested the first time, but like I pretend it
Speaker 1: to be interested now you're gonna make me sit here
Speaker 1: because you're drunk until it's seventeen more times I'm out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And the amount of respect you get when someone knows
Speaker 1: that you are not drinking, it just changes.
Speaker 2: So keep it up.
Speaker 1: You got this girl. Bravo, Bravo, bravo. How do you
Speaker 1: not compare your kids to the others? It's so hard
Speaker 1: at this age. I don't compare Ocean other kids, and
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I just don't. That could
Speaker 1: change with a second baby. I'm telling you what. The
Speaker 1: only time in my life that I've been able to
Speaker 1: find the gray and haven't been so high strung is
Speaker 1: being a mom, which is so crazy. You would think
Speaker 1: Ocean is my third child because I'm just like whatever.
Speaker 1: You know, she doesn't get an app today, what are
Speaker 1: you gonna do?
Speaker 4: I think it's good having Gigi around, thom just exactly
Speaker 4: like I feel. I feel like she's a good like yeah,
Speaker 4: and she had you and obviously you turned out amazing.
Speaker 4: So when you aren't putting her down for an APP
Speaker 4: and Gigi's like, also not, it's like it's reassuring, like, Okay,
Speaker 4: she doesn't need it. Gg also right, because you know
Speaker 4: so it's like you just having that.
Speaker 1: Because she's dealt with two kids who are totally okay,
Speaker 1: And so when.
Speaker 4: I see her dealing with Ocean, I'm like, you know what,
Speaker 4: we're here, so I trust you by all means, right,
Speaker 4: So yeah, No, I think Gg's a good one on that.
Speaker 1: I know. I don't because with my I think a
Speaker 1: lot of people do compare their kids to other people's kids,
Speaker 1: especially when you have kids the same age.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I do wonder. Yeah, if, because you've said this
Speaker 3: before on the podcast, that you've at doctor's appointments, Ocean
Speaker 3: has been told she's ahead, and I wonder if it's
Speaker 3: been different if she was told or you were told,
Speaker 3: maybe she's a little behind. If you then start comparing.
Speaker 1: I think maybe if that were to happen, yes, you
Speaker 1: would start comparing. But when I watch Ocean and then
Speaker 1: I watch Summer Moon, Summer is very good at sitting still,
Speaker 1: and she will go through her flash cards A through.
Speaker 2: Z like a champion.
Speaker 1: My daughter will get to E and then everything's a
Speaker 1: w You know this, she's messing with you, she wants
Speaker 1: no part of it, and she's get sarried. She gets
Speaker 1: up and walks away. She's all over the place. My
Speaker 1: mom watched Summer the other day and was like, law,
Speaker 1: Summer Moon compared to Ocean is so fucking chill.
Speaker 4: She even told me that she goes watching this kid
Speaker 4: is the greatest she goes. She sat down for forty
Speaker 4: five minutes and colored and didn't do anything. She goes
Speaker 4: Ocean could.
Speaker 2: Never, Oh, she could never.
Speaker 1: Ocean goes from Plato time, chop it up, bored, Let's
Speaker 1: play doctor bored, let's cook bored, Let's color bored, let
Speaker 1: me bounce all over the furniture. She's got why from
Speaker 1: what people have told me, girls are more chill usually,
Speaker 1: and boys are kind.
Speaker 2: Of off the wall.
Speaker 1: Ocean's got boy energy. She's hucking shit, throwing balls into
Speaker 1: the wall. She's stacking up chairs to jump off the
Speaker 1: chairs into the ball pitch. She's bouncing off the freaking.
Speaker 4: Walls, which is crazy because she has two other sisters,
Speaker 4: no boys. There's no boys, so she's just doing It's a.
Speaker 1: Freaking wild child, wild child living her best life. I
Speaker 1: want to end this on a super positive note. How
Speaker 1: do you stay motivated and not listen to the negative thoughts? Jessica,
Speaker 1: How do you stay positive and not listen to negative
Speaker 1: thoughts you are now on the podcast. You've noticed it
Speaker 1: for a long time, people commenting on your voice or
Speaker 1: whatever the fuck they comment on.
Speaker 2: How do you stay above?
Speaker 3: That's a good question. I feel like it's not maybe
Speaker 3: fair for me to answer this, but I was just
Speaker 3: talking to Kyle about this. I come from a family
Speaker 3: who good or bad, a ton of siblings. We all
Speaker 3: just teased each other and made fun of each other.
Speaker 3: I mean constant ragging on each other in a fun way.
Speaker 3: I still go home, and that's our dynamic and our energy.
Speaker 3: So I don't take myself too seriously and I don't
Speaker 3: take comment I laugh things off like crazy. That's just
Speaker 3: my way of doing things. I understand other people take
Speaker 3: comments seriously, but I just think, like, like I've told
Speaker 3: you before, a lot, it's like when I see a
Speaker 3: mean comment, especially if it's so off base, it's like
Speaker 3: someone looking at me and being like, your blue hair
Speaker 3: is so ugly and disgusting. It disgusts me that you
Speaker 3: have blue hair. I would look at them and be like, okay, honey,
Speaker 3: are you okay? Like I would be concerned for them
Speaker 3: and be like sure, and just kind of like laugh
Speaker 3: it off or walk away, and that's how I feel.
Speaker 3: So that's how I just, I mean, stay positive, and.
Speaker 2: It's actually brilliant, Jessica.
Speaker 3: And I surround myself with people I love and anybody.
Speaker 3: I don't care about anyone else's opinion. I appreciate when
Speaker 3: I get love, but I kind of I just don't care,
Speaker 3: just like you. You've said that to me before, right,
Speaker 3: like you care about the people who are around you
Speaker 3: who love you, but everyone else like who cares? I
Speaker 3: don't know you.
Speaker 1: I find that there's like two different things, right, like
Speaker 1: the comment section and then my own negative thoughts when
Speaker 1: I'm having negative thoughts, because they do happen where I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm never going to reach the goals that I want.
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna have this, because you're like, how could
Speaker 1: I you think I'm gonna have that? Look at the
Speaker 1: way that I'm like living right now, how could those
Speaker 1: things ever even exist? And then you remember, I try
Speaker 1: to go to a time where everything was all good,
Speaker 1: and how quickly it became not good? Right, the same
Speaker 1: thing can happen with everything not being good and then
Speaker 1: the next day it being fucking great. So I like
Speaker 1: to purge onto a page everything that I'm feeling right like,
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't accomplish this, and then dig
Speaker 1: into the why right, write it down, write it down,
Speaker 1: write it down. Once you purge onto a page or
Speaker 1: onto a person, then I feel like the real work
Speaker 1: can start where you're like, Okay, this is how I'm feeling.
Speaker 1: I now know the reason, and now I need to
Speaker 1: switch my way of thinking. We always talk about mind
Speaker 1: over matter, and if you don't mind, it don't matter.
Speaker 1: A That's why I love therapy. That right, I'm like
Speaker 1: a therapist. You are without any.
Speaker 4: Sort of degree, miss freelance.
Speaker 2: And the comments section.
Speaker 1: I avoid it all casts because I have seen how
Speaker 1: mean people get and it will put me in my grain.
Speaker 2: So it's just better than.
Speaker 3: All look so you don't look my laugh it off?
Speaker 3: How do you feel if you get any negativity, which
Speaker 3: I haven't seen.
Speaker 4: No, to everybody who's been saying something, thank you very much.
Speaker 4: It does mean a lot to me because this is
Speaker 4: new ship to me.
Speaker 1: Everyone's trying to swoop in and make you their husband.
Speaker 3: I kind of like, you don't have a husband.
Speaker 4: You don't have a husband.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, keep going.
Speaker 4: I there's nothing that somebody can say to me that
Speaker 4: I've already that I haven't said to myself or thought
Speaker 4: of myself. Okay, so there's nothing that you can say
Speaker 4: to me that is already like, that's that's new information
Speaker 4: because I already ate I'm my worst critic. So even
Speaker 4: if I read something, I never take it like this
Speaker 4: person Like like I always, I'm like, all right, how
Speaker 4: can I learn from what they're saying? How can I
Speaker 4: be better? So I don't really care because I've thought
Speaker 4: about it and I've said it to myself, so I'm like,
Speaker 4: all right, just they just point it out again.
Speaker 1: Can I tell you the best way to get over
Speaker 1: a troll? Have Lisa my mom read the comment out
Speaker 1: loud and she laughs?
Speaker 2: Or what how does she read it?
Speaker 1: So monotone, you are the best. When you read a troll,
Speaker 1: read a troll, it'll be like you are so fucking stupid,
Speaker 1: you bitch. It's like the way she reads it, it
Speaker 1: makes you go, wow, if I read that out loud,
Speaker 1: it actually isn't that bad. Like she read one that
Speaker 1: was talking about like a forehead and she was like,
Speaker 1: you stupid five headed bitch?
Speaker 3: Am I definitely a comment to me?
Speaker 4: What is that five headed?
Speaker 1: I'll show you what a five headed bitches right here, honey,
Speaker 1: five headed bitch.
Speaker 4: That's a forehead.
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, no, no no, this is
Speaker 3: a forehead. That's a forehead. Yeah, this is a ten head.
Speaker 3: But we love it. We love that about me because
Speaker 3: it means big brain.
Speaker 4: You know what.
Speaker 2: Oh, she's got a big brain.
Speaker 4: Tips. Oh, she's got a noggin on it.
Speaker 1: You watch it, you watch a salthy fucking mouth control
Speaker 1: they I have multiple neutrol nogginghead.
Speaker 3: I love a big head.
Speaker 1: She's got the greatest, a gorgeous head.
Speaker 4: Yeah Walter Hogan remember how big his head was.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's got a brain that's beautiful and smart and kind.
Speaker 4: Shout out to Walter Hogan and.
Speaker 2: Filthy fucking mouth.
Speaker 1: Just kidding.
Speaker 4: She's It's true. That's why she's got lethal on.
Speaker 1: Me because she's a genius. She's a genius, and she's
Speaker 1: gorgeous and she's perfect and she.
Speaker 4: Looks like a little kick.
Speaker 2: Pop Houston, I'm about to beat your ass. My daughter
Speaker 2: can never.
Speaker 1: Listen to this.
Speaker 4: Why she's the cutest.
Speaker 1: I too, she's p shit, you're a cake, Pop too.
Speaker 3: I got this big bobby wobbly head. Kyle's always like you.
Speaker 3: He'll hug me and he'll go it's so big your
Speaker 3: head right now.
Speaker 1: You know what, Like mom said, she's perfect, You are perfect.
Speaker 1: Every one of us is perfect. Ocean's perfect. We can't
Speaker 1: help the way that we look.
Speaker 4: What Lisa says, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right.
Speaker 2: That's exactly right, Lisa, that's exactly right.
Speaker 1: Someone who you think is busted someone could come in
Speaker 1: and be like gorgeous, and they're the beholder beauty.
Speaker 4: And man's trash is another man's barbie.
Speaker 1: One man's trash, that's another one's whole. Hurry, I don't
Speaker 1: know what's coming kind of shoot.
Speaker 4: I'm so glad that movie is colored back.
Speaker 1: All right, you guys, I promise we're sober here. I
Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed this episode of the Give Them All
Speaker 1: a Podcast, the
Speaker 2: Version We will catch you next five