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Speaker 1: Hello, golgeous, Welcome back to Give Them La La Podcast.

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Speaker 1: I'm hyped on this episode because it's all about me,

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Speaker 1: just kidding. I asked you guys on the gram, uh,

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Speaker 1: what questions you had for this episode?

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Speaker 2: And I won't even lie.

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Speaker 1: These are the best questions that we've ever gone, Like

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Speaker 1: to the point where I reposted again and was like,

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Speaker 1: what is everyone on this Monday? Because these questions are

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Speaker 1: so well rounded and actually, like, as much as I

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Speaker 1: love Bravo and vander Talk and all of the things,

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Speaker 1: my inbox was not filled with only those questions, right,

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Speaker 1: because a lot of times it's like, okay, well these

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Speaker 1: questions are different, but like essentially the same. These people

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Speaker 1: who showed up to the Give Them La Lap pod

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Speaker 1: instagram page, We're not messing around.

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Speaker 2: Not today, not today, Junior. So I'm just gonna get

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Speaker 2: it on and pop in. Get it on.

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Speaker 1: The first question, I said, as much as I love

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Speaker 1: talking about Bravoid, like to talk about something else. The

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Speaker 1: first question is do you know if Jack's went to

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Speaker 1: Sheena's second wedding? And if so, why didn't we see him.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be totally open and honest with you. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Jack's and Kristin Doty and Brittany were at the wedding.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about three people who are fantastic reality TV personalities.

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Speaker 1: So they're at a wedding, but guess what, you want

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Speaker 1: to put a camera in their face. I'm gonna need

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Speaker 1: a paycheck for that. Otherwise keep me away. So that's

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Speaker 1: the real reason why you didn't see any of those

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Speaker 1: people at Sheena's wedding. When they filmed it, it was like,

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Speaker 1: I will show up. You're more than welcome to film me,

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Speaker 1: but I there has to be some sort of transaction

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Speaker 1: and I respect it. Right at that point, Okay, you're

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Speaker 1: now putting me to work. I'm not just sitting here

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Speaker 1: and having fun at a wedding. Yea, right, Okay, there's

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Speaker 1: that one. Do you have any sympathy for Rachel Raquel

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Speaker 1: now that the dust has settled? I wanted to read

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Speaker 1: that one because we've at this point wrapped season eleven.

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Speaker 1: We now know she didn't come back, which is fine.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't planning on her coming back anyway. Do I

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Speaker 1: think it was like not the greatest move. We talked

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Speaker 1: about this when we touched on the Bethany Frankel Raquel

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Speaker 1: Levis podcast, You're gonna see a lot in season eleven

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Speaker 1: that I don't think people expect from me ever, because

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Speaker 1: I'm very much like this all the time.

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Speaker 2: And actually, you know who pointed this out to me, Jess.

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Speaker 1: I won't say her name, but my agent. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to blow her spot up. She's like, please don't

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Speaker 1: talk about me. I'm like, you're being talked about. Actually,

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Speaker 1: she was like, it's so interesting to me that you

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Speaker 1: don't know how to say what you mean, but like

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Speaker 1: be calm, Like you either are like really really down

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Speaker 1: for somebody or you're ripping their head off. You don't

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Speaker 1: know how to be like, hey, I really like you.

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Speaker 1: This annoys me. Can you please stop doing that? She's like,

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Speaker 1: you sugarcoat it. You're it's black or white, and I

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Speaker 1: don't know how to change that. I think for the

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Speaker 1: first time, maybe this season you'll see me in the

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Speaker 1: gray and I don't want to give a storyline away,

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Speaker 1: but you will see my feelings on how I feel

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Speaker 1: about Raquel or Rachel. That's interesting, she means maybe just

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Speaker 1: in general in life, oh cause I don't.

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Speaker 3: Feel the la la we see a lot or me.

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Speaker 3: I can't speak for Easton I feel you can. I

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Speaker 3: feel I've seen it before where you're like, hey, I'm

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Speaker 3: not a big fan of this and I'm just going

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Speaker 3: to tell you straight up and be and I've seen it.

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Speaker 3: I've seen it. But maybe it's because you get passionate

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Speaker 3: when it's different people and other people. Maybe you're I

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Speaker 3: don't know, but I've seen it before, but I get

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Speaker 3: I get what she's saying. But I've also seen you

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Speaker 3: be like, I'm not a big fan of this. I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna let you know and move on.

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Speaker 1: And you still feel like I'm being like direct but

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Speaker 1: all direct, but I'm sweet.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I've seen it myself. You know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 3: I've seen it, So it's just interesting. Maybe you choose

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Speaker 3: the people that you give that to. Maybe some people

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Speaker 3: it's not worth it. You're like, I'm either gonna blow

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Speaker 3: up on you or not.

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Speaker 1: You know what?

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Speaker 3: Are you?

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Speaker 4: Guys like you?

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Speaker 3: You are like that? Yeah you can't if you're pretty.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'm there's no middle ground for me. It's

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Speaker 4: either I'm like just going through it and eating my

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Speaker 4: words or eating what I want to say to somebody,

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Speaker 4: or then I'm just really lethal and on a hundred.

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Speaker 1: That's so true.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'll just eat it and I won't let

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Speaker 4: anybody know that it's like affecting me to eat it

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Speaker 4: and eat it. And then there's one and then once

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Speaker 4: I break them at one hundred. But that's I feel

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Speaker 4: like how law is though, Yes, okay, like I will

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Speaker 4: say I know that from Dad. Yeah, like i I'll

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Speaker 4: just the straw that breaks the camel's back, like.

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Speaker 3: You hold it, hold it, hold it and.

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Speaker 4: Hold it and then break. Yeah, and then sometimes it'll

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Speaker 4: usually bust, like I'll rip open the people that I

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Speaker 4: love because.

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Speaker 2: I'm like I can come back from it with you

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Speaker 2: unconditional life.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I'm just having a bad day, so I'll

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Speaker 4: take it out on like my homies or you guys.

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Speaker 4: But I do it because it's like I have to

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Speaker 4: let it go, but I have to have like I'm

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Speaker 4: doing it on people who know me, and we'll be like,

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Speaker 4: all right, we see it. We we accept your apology

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Speaker 4: because I usually apologize, but I usually just go from

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Speaker 4: there to one hundred.

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Speaker 3: I feel that's so hard to do something taking stuff

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Speaker 3: out on poor Kyle, poor mom, poor dad, poor Katie,

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Speaker 3: and they're like it's from because I know they'll forgive

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Speaker 3: me and it's from other outside, but I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna take it out on them and there and because

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Speaker 3: I know I can come back from it. And that's

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Speaker 3: not good.

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Speaker 4: No, it isn't good. I've I've no, but I warned you,

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Speaker 4: I like warn my mom.

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Speaker 1: See, but that's like, why are you like this right now?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, because everyone's annoying me and I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna need you to fucking take it for a moment.

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Speaker 2: And she's like, by all means.

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Speaker 4: She'll be like, Lauren is on a hundred today, just

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Speaker 4: make sure just step on eggshells.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, she send you.

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Speaker 4: For she'll text me. Yeah, she'll be like, or she

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Speaker 4: usually doesn't text me, she'll call me. I'm letting the

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Speaker 4: dogs out. Lauren's on one, all right, you want to

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Speaker 2: By the way, Lisa calling me Lauren my child.

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Speaker 1: Now, I don't know if any of you guys saw

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Speaker 1: the video I posted a while back of Ocean like

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Speaker 1: having a mind blowing moment of me being Lala and

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Speaker 1: Mama and being like, it's so funny. But now she

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Speaker 1: calls me Lauren, so not even my child can say

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Speaker 1: my name. She Lauren, Yes, she'll say I love you Lauren,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, Lauren. So I've been trying to

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Speaker 1: teach her how to say Lauren. But I told mom,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, mom, you gotta call me like something different,

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Speaker 1: because I it hurts my soul that a child I

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Speaker 3: Do you care that she calls your first name? Because

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Speaker 3: I remember my dad when I would say Amy just

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Speaker 3: joking to my mom, he'd be like, disrespectful, you call

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Speaker 3: her mother. But I think it's so cute when I

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Speaker 2: I don't mind it at all.

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Speaker 3: You don't care, y no.

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Speaker 1: And she also messes with me at times where she'll

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Speaker 2: I'll give her love.

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Speaker 1: But she's also into telling me lately that she's proud

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Speaker 1: of me, which is so stinking cute because obviously she's

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Speaker 1: just saying things that we probably say to her. You know,

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Speaker 1: I now know why she says stop it all the time,

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Speaker 1: because when I discipline, I tell her you stop it

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Speaker 1: is she getting this?

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Speaker 2: You don't realize how you talk.

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Speaker 1: Until your child starts saying things and you're like, where

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Speaker 1: are they learning things? And then it's like, oh, that

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Speaker 3: I the other day I said to you. You came down,

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Speaker 3: and I was like, you're so pretty. And then five

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Speaker 3: seconds later, Ocean looked at you and she's like, Mammy,

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Speaker 3: you're so pretty, even though she says it anyway. But

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I gotta put other describing words

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the one that I always tell her, like, we're.

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Speaker 2: So proud of you. So I I'm so proud of you.

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Speaker 1: It's like, it's the cutest freaking thing in the world.

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Speaker 1: Having children is really fucking epic. What would everyone's last

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Speaker 1: meal be if you were on death row? Loved the

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Speaker 1: Podessin and I have talked about this before. I do

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Speaker 1: not ever eat lamb because it makes me so sad,

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Speaker 1: but if it were my last meal, I would have

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Speaker 1: a hero yeamn. Yeah?

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Speaker 4: What about you?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm this, give me a steak lobster tail, garlic,

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Speaker 3: mashed potatoes and broccoli.

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Speaker 4: Done and mashed potatoes, potatoes.

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Speaker 1: The bab so just the one that can't come straight

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Speaker 1: out the package. Yeah, those are pretty bomb. No, I

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Speaker 1: would do full Mediterranean meal.

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Speaker 3: Would you do this? Zekey?

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Speaker 1: I do like the lamb euro with the yummy pita

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Speaker 1: and like the lemon rice, all of that stuff, right,

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Speaker 1: such good hummus, and then a plethora of sparkling water.

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Speaker 1: But to wash all of that down, I would order

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Speaker 1: a bottle of honey Jack Daniels.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say, would you alcohol do a.

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Speaker 1: We're breaking sobriety, bitch, I'm on death row, about to croak.

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Speaker 1: I'm relapsing. M Okay, don't get upset about it.

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Speaker 4: You're dying.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm a assuming there's no way, like no one's

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Speaker 1: coming in to like do some sort of reform and

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Speaker 1: bring me out of prison. Like I'm going down. I'm

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Speaker 1: putting me straight to sleep. Yes, I'd like to numb

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Speaker 1: a bit.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, the last meal, there's no I think

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Speaker 3: it's the day before or the morning of, so there's

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Speaker 3: no room.

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Speaker 1: My bigger question is why am I on death row?

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Speaker 1: I wonder what I did to get there? Oh, I

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Speaker 1: know what you did.

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Speaker 2: What did I do?

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Speaker 3: Someone must with your child?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I killed someone done a lot of people. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: can think of a few.

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Speaker 4: Headline.

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Speaker 1: Do you ever think like when you get asked these

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Speaker 1: questions like you're on death row, It's like, this is

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Speaker 1: less about the meal.

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Speaker 2: Now what exactly did I do to get here?

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Speaker 1: Very very dark?

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Speaker 2: La La.

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Speaker 1: Do you have any new future business plans that you're

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Speaker 1: Jessica and I hustle our little asses off because the

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Speaker 2: This is why the brand thrives.

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Speaker 1: People know of the brand because of my But I

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Speaker 3: It's funny because working for you, I don't even like.

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Speaker 3: Of course, as an outsider, you asked that question, but

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Speaker 3: I think those are to me two completely separate things.

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Speaker 3: It's like the show and then Lalla and her brand,

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Speaker 4: Those are separate, use together.

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Speaker 5: Machine over here, Like please don't come over here and

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Speaker 2: It's like, why are things getting a little walk.

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Speaker 4: Aren't tight.

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Speaker 1: So let's just hope that the way that I want

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Speaker 4: And I've heard some of your ideas on your rebrand,

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Speaker 3: Ooh is that tea?

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Speaker 1: I love this. I love the tea.

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Speaker 2: Easton.

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Speaker 1: You can participate in this conversation. Can you talk about

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Speaker 4: Do you vape here? I do, yes, but it's either

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Speaker 4: But if it wasn't around, like if like when I

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Speaker 4: and I'm just her. If there's not a vabe, I

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Speaker 4: just like when it's around. I'm just like, oh, there

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Speaker 4: I don't feel like I need it. But when I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I get what you mean. Jessica, you don't vabe

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Speaker 3: Oh, I've tried it, and I don't know why I

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Speaker 1: It makes me depressed when people who don't smoke the

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, you got healthy law.

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Speaker 4: Oh, you probably just need to try a different flavor.

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Speaker 3: Easton's like here, all I'll give you. Well.

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Speaker 1: It is fun because like all of us who vape

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Speaker 2: I'm like, Ooh, Ariana's got the lead she berry.

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Speaker 1: Uh, we got James Kennedy coming and clutch with the watermelon.

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Speaker 3: It's like do you hit each other? Is it like

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Speaker 1: Past that Dutch baby, past past past the Dutch baby.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean? Past the Dutch I thought it was.

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Speaker 3: Isn't it the passa blunt?

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Speaker 1: That's what I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I learned it from Missy Elliott.

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Speaker 3: Wait, oh for Missy Elliott. But I have a question

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Speaker 1: Just so we grossed out because I've always been grossed

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Speaker 1: Obviously there's gonna be stressful situations. It's not like I

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Speaker 1: insurance for Ocean right now, and smoking vape cigarettes doesn't

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Speaker 1: she has life insurance, it goes to her daughter, Ocean.

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Speaker 1: take my blood. They see this bitch said she doesn't smoke.

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Speaker 2: She definitely smokes. She's been smoking for a while.

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Speaker 1: Ocean then does not get that money. One bucked up

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Speaker 1: eye light on the paperwork. I'm telling you what. I

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Speaker 3: I will not tell a lie. Who is that like

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Speaker 3: But do you remember quitting? Why do I remember like

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Speaker 2: I slept really well last.

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Speaker 2: I did gain weight and.

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Speaker 3: You felt better. This was like last year. You quit

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Speaker 3: know what. I think you picked it back up or.

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Speaker 1: My life happened life, And for some reason I think

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Speaker 3: First hit with your coffee. That's a way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, with the coffee in my bathrobe house.

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Speaker 4: Day. Every morning I walk into the house with her

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Speaker 3: So let me tell you, I feel you, though, because

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Speaker 1: But I feel so much better when I'm not vaping.

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Speaker 1: is well taken care of. So there's that. The journey

439
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:16,560
Speaker 1: is hard. If you have never smoked a vape. Do

440
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,360
Speaker 1: not pick it up. I have heard, because I've said

441
00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:23,120
Speaker 1: to people in AA who do not smoke, I tell them,

442
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:24,920
Speaker 1: you know, I've given up alcohol. I'm gonna be fine.

443
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 1: They're like, giving up the vape is as hard as

444
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,200
Speaker 1: giving up heroin. It's no fucking joke.

445
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

446
00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:37,480
Speaker 1: Yes, So it's terrifying. Do not do not pick it up.

447
00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:42,679
Speaker 1: I'm warning everybody, it is a nightmare. Okay, I fiend

448
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,240
Speaker 1: for it, So I'm gonna be tweaking for a little bit,

449
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:49,640
Speaker 1: but you know what, all is good Easton. This girl

450
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,119
Speaker 1: wants to know if you're single. She plans she's asking

451
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:53,639
Speaker 1: for a friend, but to me, it sounds like they

452
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:54,400
Speaker 1: want a tag team.

453
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,879
Speaker 4: Oh I'm up for a tag Wait what do you mean?

454
00:21:57,920 --> 00:21:59,639
Speaker 3: It's oh the friend and her got it?

455
00:21:59,720 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 1: She said?

456
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,680
Speaker 2: Is east and single? I'm asking for a friend and I'm.

457
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 1: Like the lies, the lies.

458
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm single and ready to threesome.

459
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,640
Speaker 2: Out o red Flash.

460
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 4: You don't want him?

461
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:15,200
Speaker 2: Ladies right, you're such a good guy.

462
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:17,119
Speaker 4: What to do?

463
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 2: Have you ever had one?

464
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 1: No, I could get too scared. Have you l one time?

465
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 1: It wasn't fun.

466
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:26,920
Speaker 4: There's too many hands, freeze a crowd.

467
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 1: It was just like weird, like someone's and there's like

468
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:32,879
Speaker 1: trying to make you feel like you're a part of it,

469
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 1: and then the swap happens and you're like, you know,

470
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 1: I think it's.

471
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 4: Like playing twister.

472
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,879
Speaker 3: Stupid twister would probably be more like naked twister with

473
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,160
Speaker 3: two others would probably be more fun than a threesome.

474
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 3: But I've never had one, so I don't know.

475
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 4: But you have never had one either?

476
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,439
Speaker 3: Never that wasn't like a thing. I don't know. I

477
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 3: don't know what situation I would have ever been in.

478
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 1: I was wasted at the Grand America Hotel in downtown

479
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:58,159
Speaker 1: Salt Lake.

480
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,640
Speaker 3: City with who just a group of friends.

481
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 2: I won't talk.

482
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 3: It was someone you knew.

483
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,680
Speaker 1: This isn't like a random no, no, no, I knew them

484
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 1: for since I was in like high school.

485
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 3: Good okay, okay, yeah it makes more sense Easton.

486
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,679
Speaker 1: What do you look for in a chick? We know

487
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 1: that they have to be as cool as you. I

488
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,679
Speaker 1: don't know that's hard. Nope, Personality, somebody you can keep

489
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:21,919
Speaker 1: their own. Somebody who walks in a room and it

490
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 1: changes the whole aura of the room. Really does age matter?

491
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 4: No? Okay, age doesn't matter. Looks really doesn't matter that much.

492
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,120
Speaker 4: I like it. I like a certain body type though,

493
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 4: Like I like short, like shorter girls.

494
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: Okay, like what like five five three four?

495
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,679
Speaker 4: I'll get five four, That is what I like. I

496
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:44,399
Speaker 4: like I like compact. Yeah, I like some curves on it.

497
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 3: To five four is not that short. I'm over here five.

498
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 4: Foot nod I like five Like five ft to five

499
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 4: four is perfect for me. That's what I love. But

500
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 4: I know guys with like like five sevens how.

501
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 3: Tall are you.

502
00:23:58,160 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 2: I'm like five six and a half.

503
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 3: You've got height.

504
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 1: When I tried to like be a model, I said

505
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 1: I was five to seven, which it's like, well.

506
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 3: You're short, you have to be five. Yeah.

507
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like five to seven. Thinking they were gonna

508
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 2: freaking just sell me and Peri. They did not. Bravo

509
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 2: did Bravo for sure?

510
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 3: Did?

511
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 1: Okay, where does your friendship stand with Ariana? I think

512
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:29,399
Speaker 1: we have a great friendship. We'll see what the feels

513
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: are after the season airs again. Like we're always open

514
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 1: and honest with each other as a cast, but then

515
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 1: you see things where you're like, wait a minute, the

516
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 1: breaks here. And for some reason, I always say something

517
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:46,199
Speaker 1: something that doesn't land right, something that I try to

518
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 1: like put in a way where it's like I want

519
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 1: to let you know I'm coming from a good place here.

520
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,920
Speaker 1: So I don't know right now, we're good. Right now,

521
00:24:56,000 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 1: I'm just like sailing away. In friendships, right was a

522
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 1: bonding experience. What happened? There was like so much time

523
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 1: that had passed where it was like, Okay, this friendship

524
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: obviously needs to, you know, be laid to rest. We're

525
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: never We're never gonna be what we once were. But

526
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: then when you have a common hatred for someone, not

527
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 1: saying that I'm that we're there now the hate part.

528
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: But when that happened and we were all likeh to

529
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:29,160
Speaker 1: sand of All, it's like bonding moment. Right then sand

530
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,360
Speaker 1: of Aal says the epic words to Raquel. We'll see

531
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 1: how long that lasts and we will see who knows. Right,

532
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 1: it's a weird environment to have friendships in gets toxic. However,

533
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 1: I will say the one thing that I love about

534
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:46,479
Speaker 1: reality TV is without cameras around, right, if you're feeling

535
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 1: some type of way about a friend, it is easier

536
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 1: to just push things under the rug, you know, don't

537
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 1: deal with it, take a little break, decline, go into dinner.

538
00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 1: Being on reality TV forces you to have uncomfortable conversation

539
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: that you don't want to have, but they could also

540
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 1: lead to where you should be in a friendship. You

541
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 1: could then thrive. You could realize, like, this friendship is

542
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,199
Speaker 1: not for me. So it does force you to like

543
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,920
Speaker 1: kind of take the bull by the balls in all relationships.

544
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 2: So there's that.

545
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 4: I kind of like that, though I feel like that

546
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 4: people need to do that more often.

547
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 1: I also like the texting Yeah, the communication, and I

548
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 1: like that you call it bull by the balls because

549
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:26,959
Speaker 1: it's technically bull by the horns.

550
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 3: But you're going straight to the ball.

551
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, straight to the ball sack. That's where you get

552
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 2: the baby.

553
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: Okay, So you guys, this person wrote in and said,

554
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 1: are you interested in any other Bravo celebrities? The captain

555
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 1: from below deck down under is interested in meeting you?

556
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: Googling naturally, naturally, I google this shit, Jason Chambers.

557
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 2: He is fine.

558
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 3: Google this guy, Jason, let's see.

559
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: I was like, I wanted to have no part of

560
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 1: that until I saw Captain Jason.

561
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 3: Jason come through.

562
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 2: Do you see him?

563
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 3: He's hot?

564
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: If not, I can just pass my phone, do you.

565
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: I took screenshots that's him.

566
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 2: He is so hot, and he's a captain.

567
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 3: That's even from down on duck down un duck.

568
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 4: You can get below deck.

569
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 3: Not Dick below deck, Dick below deck.

570
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: I'm sweating, I'm getting wet.

571
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 3: He's handsome. Can we look up his age? Not that

572
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 3: it matters, I just want to know.

573
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I look up the age because he is pretty fine.

574
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:46,479
Speaker 1: That's daddy. That's so daddy, isn't it. He's like silver Fox?

575
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,399
Speaker 1: What are we thinking, what are we thinking?

576
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 3: How?

577
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 2: How old is he?

578
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 3: Is he single too? That's important I.

579
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 2: Know, because oh, that's not a bout at all.

580
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,919
Speaker 1: That's not about it at all. I'm gonna be thirty

581
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 1: three that I am thirty three. By the time this airs,

582
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 1: I'll be thirty three.

583
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:04,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's healthy. I say, holler.

584
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 2: I say holler too. But I need to know his sign.

585
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 4: Well, let's get to it.

586
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: I need to know his sign and all of these things.

587
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:12,959
Speaker 1: And I also need to know I wish that this

588
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,120
Speaker 1: girl would have written more contact forty three he said, sorry, law,

589
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:20,199
Speaker 1: it just does suck up. He doesn't look no Jason

590
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 1: Chambers age. Do that back up a little? You have

591
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 1: to put Jason Chambers below day down on three. Yeah,

592
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: I was gonna say he does not look fifty.

593
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 2: Well, that's even better.

594
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 3: Seat.

595
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 4: But this says right here because I don't know if

596
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 4: he's lying about his age, but it says right here

597
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 4: the captain shows he is in fact fifty, So I

598
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 4: don't know if he's trying to lie about it.

599
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: No, he doesn't look like someone that would lie.

600
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 4: Well, now it sounds like red flags everywhere. Is he

601
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 4: forty three or is he fifty?

602
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 2: You guys.

603
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 1: I can't tell if I'm looking at the right guy

604
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 1: or not. No, you are, I don't think so, because

605
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: this guy looks totally different than the one that I

606
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: was looking at before. Let me do some research and

607
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: i'll get back to you. Maybe I need to go

608
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: and get onto Peacock and watch down under.

609
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 4: Down below deck Yeah, below deck, down down.

610
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 3: No, you're looking at the right guy. It's this guy.

611
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 3: We're all looking at the right guy.

612
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but he looks a little different in the photo

613
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: that I just saw, like, looks completely different.

614
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 2: So I need to do some research.

615
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: I don't know about this he's age fishing. Let's just

616
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: say I probably wouldn't dat anybody from Bravo. That just

617
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 1: sounds like a clusterfuck that I don't want to be

618
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 1: a part of, doesn't it.

619
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 3: I mean, I think it sounds beautiful, but I also

620
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 3: see you. I have high hopes with your next dating person.

621
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 3: I've I've shouted out some names to you before that

622
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 3: I won't say here. But I have high hopes, and

623
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 3: I don't think I.

624
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 2: Love high hopes.

625
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, I just don't think Bravo. I only

626
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: want to I want to be the only Bravo leb

627
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: in the relationship. That just seems like a lot of chaos. Okay, uh,

628
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: do you feel like the show has more fans during

629
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: filming posts Scanaval? Yes, And I don't know what is

630
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: going on, but my anxiety is that an all time high? Filming,

631
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: not filming or just in general? Just my what is

632
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 1: that called social anxiety? Is that an all time high?

633
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: Like I remember doing this podcast and someone had asked

634
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: when we did an ame, do you like when people

635
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: come up to you?

636
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 2: What are you showing?

637
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 4: Producer John sent me a link to to below deck.

638
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 4: Now it's stating he's thirty nine, but he's forty three, but.

639
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 2: Red flags, red flags everywhere.

640
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 3: We don't know this for.

641
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 4: Fact, we do not, but producer John sent it to me.

642
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: I don't know.

643
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 2: Producer John is on his ship.

644
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 4: He's on his ship, John, But god damn he.

645
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 1: Does what the difference?

646
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 2: Look at the difference, though, look at the difference?

647
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I think the captain one is very face tuned,

648
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 4: like he's got no, he's hot, he's no matter what,

649
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 4: he looks good. But this looks like it they face

650
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 4: tuned the ship at well, it's.

651
00:30:58,920 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 2: Been on for a while.

652
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: You know that's like showing me this season and then

653
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: season four and it's like a little different human.

654
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 4: It's called agents.

655
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 3: Back to your social anxiety, just because I'm.

656
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 2: Fascinated all time high.

657
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: And when we did AMAS a while ago, someone had

658
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 1: written in and asked, do you like does it get

659
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: annoying when fans come up to you asking for pictures?

660
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: And I said, absolutely not. The whole reason I get

661
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: to do what I love is because of my people,

662
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: the fans watching the show, supporting, you know, the brands,

663
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 1: whatever it may be. That's why I get to do

664
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: what I love. Cut to where we are now, I

665
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 1: don't want to say that I get annoyed. I start

666
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 1: having anxiety. It's the strangest thing, and I don't know

667
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: what to do to fix it. But when we go

668
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: and film and there's a lot of people that come

669
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: up and want pictures and things like that, normally, I'm like,

670
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: let's take all the pictures in the world. Recently, it's

671
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 1: been kind of debilitating where even talking about it right now,

672
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: I can feel my mind fogging up, like my brain

673
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: starts to kind of shut down, and they'll be telling

674
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 1: me these beautiful things, and I'm like starting to kind

675
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: of not like the heart starts racing, the mind starts

676
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 1: going foggy, and it's like I have to get out

677
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 1: of here, Like I feel like I want to crawl

678
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: out of my own skin. Has nothing to do with anybody,

679
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 1: like asking for pictures. I do love that, but it

680
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: is strange what's been happening these past few months.

681
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like something you're dealing with, because I

682
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 3: watched you on tour spend I mean hours just talking

683
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 3: and hearing people and engaging. I would have been exhausted

684
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 3: after five minutes, So it must be an anxiety you're

685
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 3: dealing with right now. I couldn't imagine it.

686
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 2: No, I mean no, I don't think that. I'm thinking.

687
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: We talked about this in one of the episodes, just

688
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 1: like looking at the bigger picture of what I'm thinking

689
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: about doing with my life, and maybe I'm just looking

690
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 1: to kind of ice for a moment. It's been back

691
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: to back, non stop high energy, you know, whether it's

692
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: talking about the show or like we said, rebranding, talking

693
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: about you know, maybe having another baby. It's a lot

694
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 1: and I'm just feeling like I'm taking on a lot

695
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: of energy that I just can't take on right now,

696
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: right like, I need to kind of I need to

697
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 1: go to Palm Springs. I need to put the phone away,

698
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: tell everyone to leave me alone for a few days

699
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: and just kind of recharge.

700
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I feel like I need.

701
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 3: Then that's what you should get. I also feel do

702
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 3: you think you're an EmPATH? Because I've watched you, like

703
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 3: I said, on tour, and people tell you these stories

704
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 3: and I almost see, like if it's a sad story,

705
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 3: like your body change like you're I'm like, she's physically

706
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 3: taking on this emotion and that can drain someone quickly.

707
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 3: Do you think that's you're an EmPATH?

708
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 1: My? One of my biggest pet peeves is when anyone

709
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: says I'm an EmPATH. So I'm not gonna say that

710
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: I am because it literally kills me. And someone says

711
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: that to me, not about me, But when someone refers

712
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 1: to themselves as an EmPATH, I'm like, please shut up, right,

713
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 1: my god, be quiet, okay, And they're usually so up their.

714
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 2: Own ass okay. So I don't know if I am

715
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 2: or not.

716
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 1: I know I get affected by people's stories and then

717
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: I start spiraling a bit.

718
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 2: So if you want to call it that, let's call it.

719
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 1: That sounds like it's your absolute favorite cosmetic procedure. You

720
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 1: look bomb emoji, fire emoji. That's right, got eyebrows to

721
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: the ceiling. Sometimes when I'm watching the podcast on YouTube,

722
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, I feel like I need to go like this.

723
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 2: Look how high they get.

724
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,760
Speaker 1: That's your face shape. Lah, those are your natural brows.

725
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 1: Look at ocean her browser.

726
00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, they are like that.

727
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 1: There was a time that I got bot talks and

728
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,360
Speaker 1: my eyebrows and they were like this high and it

729
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: was terrifying.

730
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 3: Can you please tell us because I need to know

731
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 3: what I need to get first, and I think I

732
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 3: know what you're gonna.

733
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,959
Speaker 2: Say, my favorite procedure I have too.

734
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 4: Can we take a guest first, Well, take a guess.

735
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 2: I want you to guess what mine would be.

736
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:16,799
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm gonna say botox.

737
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: Oh I love the body?

738
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 2: Is it love the body? But I.

739
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 3: That's a good guess.

740
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:26,800
Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't even think about the lip filler.

741
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about injections and then like a facial

742
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: procedure that that you don't need, like needles injecting something

743
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: into your face. I would say my favorite procedure with

744
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 1: needles would be botox.

745
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:45,280
Speaker 2: I think filler gets scary.

746
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: I love my jawline that I have not injected in

747
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 1: years upon years. The last time I had my jaw

748
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:55,839
Speaker 1: line injected by Doctor Diamond was probably right before going

749
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:57,399
Speaker 1: into season eight of filming.

750
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,479
Speaker 4: So long ago in on twenty twenty four.

751
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to somebody about getting your jaw filled up,

752
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 1: because genetically, we just don't have that on our side.

753
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:13,320
Speaker 1: I would say for it. The procedure like just topical shit.

754
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 1: I love, love, love love the PRP. I like the

755
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 1: laser beforehand, and then the PRP is where they take

756
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 1: the plasma and you guys are gonna think I'm a weirdo.

757
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 2: But they now have man made.

758
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 1: Plasma that they can put on your face so that

759
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,399
Speaker 1: you don't have to draw your blood. I don't think

760
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: it works as well. I've tried it. I like the

761
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: results after when they take my blood and spin the

762
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 1: platelets and then take the plasma, put it on the

763
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 1: face and then roll it in. You definitely need numbing

764
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: cream because they're like digging into your face with these

765
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 1: micro needles to create little wounds that then he'll back

766
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: up perfectly.

767
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 2: That's my favorite.

768
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 1: But I think i'm gonna have a new favorite soon

769
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 1: because Lee from skin Tight Aesthetics is doing this Pico

770
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 1: laser on me to get rid of my malasma. That

771
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: is like it just will not not go away, It

772
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:13,720
Speaker 1: will not go away.

773
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 3: Does the laser hurt?

774
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 4: I have to imagine you're numb?

775
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 3: Oh okay, because my laser tattoo. I'm like, if it

776
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 3: felt like that on my face, I'd pass out.

777
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,280
Speaker 2: It's not as intense as that. You can go, Supert,

778
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 2: you can go.

779
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 4: It does lasering like.

780
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,839
Speaker 3: Hurts worse than tattoo? Yeah, under time hurts, under times worse.

781
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, never had it done.

782
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 3: Oh god, it's awful.

783
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: I'd rather just cover it up with something huge.

784
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 4: But that's not what it That's not what it feels

785
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 4: like when you guys like.

786
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: Affleck and just get a rising phoenix. I'm gonna get

787
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 1: a rising phoenix on my face and just want to

788
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 1: really give it just neck to face.

789
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 4: That's sick.

790
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: The flames should be on your face.

791
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 4: Yeah so, but I do so. It doesn't feel like

792
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 4: when you when you guys are getting like your legs lasered.

793
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 4: What does that feel?

794
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,359
Speaker 3: Yeah? Law, does legs feel like your face when you're

795
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 3: getting legs vagina. No, oh, so.

796
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:07,280
Speaker 4: Face is different.

797
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 2: No, the legs.

798
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: It feels like a rubber band whipping me like a

799
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 1: hot rubber band. But they don't numb your legs. They

800
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: numb your face.

801
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 3: Some of the hardest laughs I've ever gotten. And I

802
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 3: won't say exactly why unless Lava wants me to. Is

803
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 3: going to lawless laser appointments.

804
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 2: I'll tell you exactly.

805
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: Jessica, by the way, she consents to this, by the way, Okay,

806
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: I can, by the way, by the way, by the

807
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: way she consents.

808
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 3: Not only do I consent, I go? Can I go

809
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 3: in with you?

810
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 1: Because there is a point in time where they do

811
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 1: the cookie and then they tell me to lay on

812
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 1: my stomach and pull my ass cheeks apart to get

813
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:50,919
Speaker 1: the butthole, and I die. It's so hard, and she's

814
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 1: like oh oh in her like ass, Oh shit, I'm rying. No,

815
00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 1: it's the most vulnerable you'll ever feel getting your cookie

816
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:06,280
Speaker 1: and buttole as he is so intense and you feel

817
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: very exposed.

818
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 3: It's so funny. I feel it in my own vagina

819
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 3: and butthole. So I'm like about to pass out, crying, laughing,

820
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 3: like it's so many emotions in a matter of seconds.

821
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 2: How do you feel about bleached assholes?

822
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 1: By the way, bleached assholes, we've had a conversation about this.

823
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 1: I like your opinion on them, because at first I

824
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: was like, yes, I would bleach my asshole if I

825
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: got the chance.

826
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 3: But then you said something I was a great point.

827
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 3: And what did you say, law, I just kind of

828
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 3: like it to be a little brown. You like it

829
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 3: to be brown.

830
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:39,280
Speaker 1: It kind of looks like it's gonna kill you, eached?

831
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,760
Speaker 4: What is? What do you guys like a man's asshole

832
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 4: to look like?

833
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 3: I'm not going near that thing, so I don't really care.

834
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 1: I don't go near that area. I mean, I've done

835
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: years and years and years ago, thank god, in with

836
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: a not thank god, and with a partner who doesn't

837
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 1: enjoy butt stuff. Years ago, I was I hooked up

838
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 1: with one guy who liked a finger in his ass,

839
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 1: and I did it.

840
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,520
Speaker 3: But it was like I had nails, like, so, how

841
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 3: do you like this?

842
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:08,439
Speaker 4: No?

843
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 1: But how far? Oh my god? It was okay, here's

844
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 1: the butthole. No, it was like scary. And not only

845
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 1: was it one finger, you guys. Then he put his

846
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:24,879
Speaker 1: hand down there and he put the second finger and it.

847
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 3: Was probably like I started like this and I ended

848
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 3: probably like whole finger deep in the asshole.

849
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 1: Like to me, I then do you swirl or do

850
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 1: you just leave?

851
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 3: I was just kind of no, I don't.

852
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:41,720
Speaker 1: Just I'm not soaking my finger and his asshole.

853
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm like moving it around because we're doing

854
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:46,240
Speaker 3: others around.

855
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 4: But it was.

856
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 1: Like I'm moving it around nail with the nail, so.

857
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 3: Oh my god. But in my mind I was it

858
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 3: was like a chemistry lesson because I'm like, yeah, okay,

859
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 3: this is what the inside of an asshole feels like.

860
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 1: Oh interesting, man.

861
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 3: I was just like feeling around. Never in my life,

862
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 3: you are the ass man. It was the one and done.

863
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 3: I'm just feeling around. But Easton, do you like a

864
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 3: bleached asshole on a lady or a man.

865
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 4: I'm just lucky to get there. Okay, I'll take whatever's giving.

866
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 2: That's so nice guy have.

867
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 3: But for me, Lala made a great point. She goes,

868
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,400
Speaker 3: I don't bleach my nipples. That would be weird.

869
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,479
Speaker 4: If it's weird if I saw a bleached asshole, I'd

870
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 4: be like, you can do this too much.

871
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 3: Oh oh, it's just you think it's.

872
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 4: Mainly like the bleach. Yeah, I'd be like, you're showing

873
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,879
Speaker 4: this off to too many people there, right, Yeah.

874
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 1: I just think a little cute brown pucker is right, well,

875
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,399
Speaker 1: it should be like I'm not I'm not looking. I'm

876
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 1: looking for nipples to be colorful, my asshole to be colorful.

877
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: I just want a.

878
00:41:58,320 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 2: Nice, little colorful body.

879
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: Don't know, everything's the way it's supposed to be, the

880
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 1: way God intended mave that mater to me, you know,

881
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: you know, I just feel like if it was like

882
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 1: supposed to be like super white. But then again, you know,

883
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:16,880
Speaker 1: if you want your asshole bleached, I just feel like

884
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 1: that's a lot of work, and like how do they

885
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: get it bleached? How do they get it bleached? Is

886
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 1: it actual bleach?

887
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 3: Is it dangerous?

888
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Can we move on from bleached households?

889
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 2: I know I'm the one that brought us onto.

890
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:31,839
Speaker 1: The topic, but it's taking a turn. This person wants

891
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 1: to know, how do you deal with everyone drinking around you?

892
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm newly sober one month and struggling easton.

893
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 2: How do you deal with it?

894
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:42,399
Speaker 1: Because you have been sober for a little bit now, well,

895
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 1: you don't.

896
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 4: Drink honestly, because everybody. Most people repeat themselves a thousand times.

897
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 4: That's what I've noticed. But it's you can kind of

898
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 4: be a dick, not like but like when they're telling

899
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 4: you can.

900
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 2: All this establishing boundaries.

901
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you've said that before or things like that.

902
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 4: So like when when I'm out, I mean, I always

903
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 4: usually have like something in my hand so I fit

904
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 4: in mm hmmm. And then usually I'm going around with

905
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 4: just a couple of my friends, but I usually just

906
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 4: go and talk to multiple people at it just so

907
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 4: I can hear the story once. Oh yeah, so I

908
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 4: just mingle a little bit more. And the one thing

909
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 4: that I always remember is most everyone's drunk here, so

910
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:20,919
Speaker 4: it doesn't matter what the hell I'm doing.

911
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 2: That's so true.

912
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 4: So like yeah, like it's honestly, it's even better because

913
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 4: I'm like, you know what, half of these motherfuckers are

914
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 4: gonna forget this tomorrow and I can just move through

915
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 4: whatever I need to do. Even I'm not gonna I've

916
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 4: walked away from conversations like right, I'm already done, I

917
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 4: mean with multiple people involved, right, but like no one

918
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 4: says anything. They keep talking and they're drunk, and then

919
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 4: they're just going to keep talking drunkly to their friends.

920
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 4: So it's just like it's almost like an anxiety relief

921
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 4: being sober and out.

922
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: I think so too, And I think it's been easy

923
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 1: to not I'm not easy. I put a lot of

924
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 1: work into sobriety, but it's been okay being around people

925
00:43:54,440 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: who drink because I immediately again, I'm in a program, and

926
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 1: I think it's very important to remember what got you sober. Right,

927
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 1: That's why I always talk about like a rock your

928
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 1: rock bottom moment, like what changed. It doesn't have to

929
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:13,839
Speaker 1: be insane where you know something horrific happened. Your rock

930
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 1: bottom could be anything, just the day you decided not

931
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 1: to pick up. And if you always remember that moment.

932
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 1: And I learned this in a meeting, how important the

933
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: first step is, right, like admitting you have a problem,

934
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 1: because you go into why am I here?

935
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 2: I hit a rock bottom moment? What did it look like?

936
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:35,800
Speaker 2: And if you can remember.

937
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: Those moments, then being around people who are drinking, you

938
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: know how it ends. Right Tomorrow, they're going to feel

939
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 1: like shit, They're going to deal with the Sunday scaries tonight.

940
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: They're talking a million miles an hour, but they're on

941
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 1: loop it's like they're it sounds fun if you if

942
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 1: you don't have a drinking problem by all means like

943
00:44:56,320 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 1: droll pound, I don't give a shit. But this sweet

944
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:02,839
Speaker 1: girl is talking about she's been one month sober, which,

945
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 1: first of all, like congratulations. The first thirty days are

946
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: the hardest and that's huge, but like, don't go to

947
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 1: places that are gonna trigger you. And if you know,

948
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: like I can go out and you'll as the longer

949
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 1: you stay sober, you start noticing like, okay, we're at

950
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: the tipping point right now, like everyone's had too much

951
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 1: and this is where I leave. Yep, like I know

952
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: it like the back of my hand. I'm like, I'm

953
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 1: gonna go the first few drinks. Everyone's gonna be fun.

954
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be fun. But then they start being not fun.

955
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:36,240
Speaker 1: That's my time to like go home and enjoy my life.

956
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 3: And you leave because it gets tempting, or you leave

957
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 3: because you know it's gonna get messy.

958
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 2: It gets messy.

959
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 1: I don't want to listen to your stupid story three

960
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: more times, Like no sense, I'm not interested. I wasn't

961
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: even interested the first time, but like I pretend it

962
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:51,799
Speaker 1: to be interested now you're gonna make me sit here

963
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 1: because you're drunk until it's seventeen more times I'm out. Yeah,

964
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 1: And the amount of respect you get when someone knows

965
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: that you are not drinking, it just changes.

966
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 2: So keep it up.

967
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: You got this girl. Bravo, Bravo, bravo. How do you

968
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 1: not compare your kids to the others? It's so hard

969
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: at this age. I don't compare Ocean other kids, and

970
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I just don't. That could

971
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: change with a second baby. I'm telling you what. The

972
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: only time in my life that I've been able to

973
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: find the gray and haven't been so high strung is

974
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,320
Speaker 1: being a mom, which is so crazy. You would think

975
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: Ocean is my third child because I'm just like whatever.

976
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 1: You know, she doesn't get an app today, what are

977
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: you gonna do?

978
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 4: I think it's good having Gigi around, thom just exactly

979
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 4: like I feel. I feel like she's a good like yeah,

980
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 4: and she had you and obviously you turned out amazing.

981
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,359
Speaker 4: So when you aren't putting her down for an APP

982
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 4: and Gigi's like, also not, it's like it's reassuring, like, Okay,

983
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 4: she doesn't need it. Gg also right, because you know

984
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 4: so it's like you just having that.

985
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 1: Because she's dealt with two kids who are totally okay,

986
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 1: And so when.

987
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:09,399
Speaker 4: I see her dealing with Ocean, I'm like, you know what,

988
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 4: we're here, so I trust you by all means, right,

989
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 4: So yeah, No, I think Gg's a good one on that.

990
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 1: I know. I don't because with my I think a

991
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 1: lot of people do compare their kids to other people's kids,

992
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 1: especially when you have kids the same age.

993
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 3: Yeah. I do wonder. Yeah, if, because you've said this

994
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:31,240
Speaker 3: before on the podcast, that you've at doctor's appointments, Ocean

995
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 3: has been told she's ahead, and I wonder if it's

996
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 3: been different if she was told or you were told,

997
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,840
Speaker 3: maybe she's a little behind. If you then start comparing.

998
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: I think maybe if that were to happen, yes, you

999
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 1: would start comparing. But when I watch Ocean and then

1000
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 1: I watch Summer Moon, Summer is very good at sitting still,

1001
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: and she will go through her flash cards A through.

1002
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:54,720
Speaker 2: Z like a champion.

1003
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,800
Speaker 1: My daughter will get to E and then everything's a

1004
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,320
Speaker 1: w You know this, she's messing with you, she wants

1005
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:04,439
Speaker 1: no part of it, and she's get sarried. She gets

1006
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 1: up and walks away. She's all over the place. My

1007
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:09,279
Speaker 1: mom watched Summer the other day and was like, law,

1008
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 1: Summer Moon compared to Ocean is so fucking chill.

1009
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 4: She even told me that she goes watching this kid

1010
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:20,240
Speaker 4: is the greatest she goes. She sat down for forty

1011
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 4: five minutes and colored and didn't do anything. She goes

1012
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:23,800
Speaker 4: Ocean could.

1013
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 2: Never, Oh, she could never.

1014
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:30,879
Speaker 1: Ocean goes from Plato time, chop it up, bored, Let's

1015
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:34,879
Speaker 1: play doctor bored, let's cook bored, Let's color bored, let

1016
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 1: me bounce all over the furniture. She's got why from

1017
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: what people have told me, girls are more chill usually,

1018
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:43,479
Speaker 1: and boys are kind.

1019
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 2: Of off the wall.

1020
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:48,680
Speaker 1: Ocean's got boy energy. She's hucking shit, throwing balls into

1021
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 1: the wall. She's stacking up chairs to jump off the

1022
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,359
Speaker 1: chairs into the ball pitch. She's bouncing off the freaking.

1023
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:58,800
Speaker 4: Walls, which is crazy because she has two other sisters,

1024
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 4: no boys. There's no boys, so she's just doing It's a.

1025
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 1: Freaking wild child, wild child living her best life. I

1026
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 1: want to end this on a super positive note. How

1027
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 1: do you stay motivated and not listen to the negative thoughts? Jessica,

1028
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 1: How do you stay positive and not listen to negative

1029
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 1: thoughts you are now on the podcast. You've noticed it

1030
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: for a long time, people commenting on your voice or

1031
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: whatever the fuck they comment on.

1032
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 2: How do you stay above?

1033
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 3: That's a good question. I feel like it's not maybe

1034
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:32,840
Speaker 3: fair for me to answer this, but I was just

1035
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 3: talking to Kyle about this. I come from a family

1036
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,879
Speaker 3: who good or bad, a ton of siblings. We all

1037
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 3: just teased each other and made fun of each other.

1038
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 3: I mean constant ragging on each other in a fun way.

1039
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 3: I still go home, and that's our dynamic and our energy.

1040
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:50,919
Speaker 3: So I don't take myself too seriously and I don't

1041
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:54,359
Speaker 3: take comment I laugh things off like crazy. That's just

1042
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 3: my way of doing things. I understand other people take

1043
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 3: comments seriously, but I just think, like, like I've told

1044
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 3: you before, a lot, it's like when I see a

1045
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 3: mean comment, especially if it's so off base, it's like

1046
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 3: someone looking at me and being like, your blue hair

1047
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 3: is so ugly and disgusting. It disgusts me that you

1048
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 3: have blue hair. I would look at them and be like, okay, honey,

1049
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 3: are you okay? Like I would be concerned for them

1050
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,720
Speaker 3: and be like sure, and just kind of like laugh

1051
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 3: it off or walk away, and that's how I feel.

1052
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:26,719
Speaker 3: So that's how I just, I mean, stay positive, and.

1053
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 2: It's actually brilliant, Jessica.

1054
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,800
Speaker 3: And I surround myself with people I love and anybody.

1055
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 3: I don't care about anyone else's opinion. I appreciate when

1056
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 3: I get love, but I kind of I just don't care,

1057
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,319
Speaker 3: just like you. You've said that to me before, right,

1058
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 3: like you care about the people who are around you

1059
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 3: who love you, but everyone else like who cares? I

1060
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 3: don't know you.

1061
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 1: I find that there's like two different things, right, like

1062
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: the comment section and then my own negative thoughts when

1063
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,799
Speaker 1: I'm having negative thoughts, because they do happen where I'm like,

1064
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:59,399
Speaker 1: I'm never going to reach the goals that I want.

1065
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,280
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna have this, because you're like, how could

1066
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 1: I you think I'm gonna have that? Look at the

1067
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 1: way that I'm like living right now, how could those

1068
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: things ever even exist? And then you remember, I try

1069
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:16,239
Speaker 1: to go to a time where everything was all good,

1070
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:20,399
Speaker 1: and how quickly it became not good? Right, the same

1071
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 1: thing can happen with everything not being good and then

1072
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 1: the next day it being fucking great. So I like

1073
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,359
Speaker 1: to purge onto a page everything that I'm feeling right like,

1074
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't accomplish this, and then dig

1075
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 1: into the why right, write it down, write it down,

1076
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 1: write it down. Once you purge onto a page or

1077
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: onto a person, then I feel like the real work

1078
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:42,880
Speaker 1: can start where you're like, Okay, this is how I'm feeling.

1079
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 1: I now know the reason, and now I need to

1080
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 1: switch my way of thinking. We always talk about mind

1081
00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:50,720
Speaker 1: over matter, and if you don't mind, it don't matter.

1082
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 1: A That's why I love therapy. That right, I'm like

1083
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 1: a therapist. You are without any.

1084
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 4: Sort of degree, miss freelance.

1085
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 2: And the comments section.

1086
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 1: I avoid it all casts because I have seen how

1087
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,400
Speaker 1: mean people get and it will put me in my grain.

1088
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 2: So it's just better than.

1089
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 3: All look so you don't look my laugh it off?

1090
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 3: How do you feel if you get any negativity, which

1091
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 3: I haven't seen.

1092
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 4: No, to everybody who's been saying something, thank you very much.

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00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:23,359
Speaker 4: It does mean a lot to me because this is

1094
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 4: new ship to me.

1095
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:27,400
Speaker 1: Everyone's trying to swoop in and make you their husband.

1096
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 3: I kind of like, you don't have a husband.

1097
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:32,760
Speaker 4: You don't have a husband.

1098
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, keep going.

1099
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 4: I there's nothing that somebody can say to me that

1100
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 4: I've already that I haven't said to myself or thought

1101
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 4: of myself. Okay, so there's nothing that you can say

1102
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:50,280
Speaker 4: to me that is already like, that's that's new information

1103
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,919
Speaker 4: because I already ate I'm my worst critic. So even

1104
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 4: if I read something, I never take it like this

1105
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:58,839
Speaker 4: person Like like I always, I'm like, all right, how

1106
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 4: can I learn from what they're saying? How can I

1107
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 4: be better? So I don't really care because I've thought

1108
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:04,880
Speaker 4: about it and I've said it to myself, so I'm like,

1109
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:07,320
Speaker 4: all right, just they just point it out again.

1110
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:09,839
Speaker 1: Can I tell you the best way to get over

1111
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:15,160
Speaker 1: a troll? Have Lisa my mom read the comment out

1112
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 1: loud and she laughs?

1113
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:19,359
Speaker 2: Or what how does she read it?

1114
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 1: So monotone, you are the best. When you read a troll,

1115
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 1: read a troll, it'll be like you are so fucking stupid,

1116
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 1: you bitch. It's like the way she reads it, it

1117
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: makes you go, wow, if I read that out loud,

1118
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 1: it actually isn't that bad. Like she read one that

1119
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 1: was talking about like a forehead and she was like,

1120
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:48,840
Speaker 1: you stupid five headed bitch?

1121
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 3: Am I definitely a comment to me?

1122
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 4: What is that five headed?

1123
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 1: I'll show you what a five headed bitches right here, honey,

1124
00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:57,919
Speaker 1: five headed bitch.

1125
00:53:58,239 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 4: That's a forehead.

1126
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, no, no no, this is

1127
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:04,839
Speaker 3: a forehead. That's a forehead. Yeah, this is a ten head.

1128
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:06,800
Speaker 3: But we love it. We love that about me because

1129
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 3: it means big brain.

1130
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 4: You know what.

1131
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:09,399
Speaker 2: Oh, she's got a big brain.

1132
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 4: Tips. Oh, she's got a noggin on it.

1133
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 1: You watch it, you watch a salthy fucking mouth control

1134
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 1: they I have multiple neutrol nogginghead.

1135
00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 3: I love a big head.

1136
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 1: She's got the greatest, a gorgeous head.

1137
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 4: Yeah Walter Hogan remember how big his head was.

1138
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's got a brain that's beautiful and smart and kind.

1139
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 4: Shout out to Walter Hogan and.

1140
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:36,760
Speaker 2: Filthy fucking mouth.

1141
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:37,760
Speaker 1: Just kidding.

1142
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:42,359
Speaker 4: She's It's true. That's why she's got lethal on.

1143
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:45,879
Speaker 1: Me because she's a genius. She's a genius, and she's

1144
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 1: gorgeous and she's perfect and she.

1145
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:48,439
Speaker 4: Looks like a little kick.

1146
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 2: Pop Houston, I'm about to beat your ass. My daughter

1147
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:52,880
Speaker 2: can never.

1148
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 1: Listen to this.

1149
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 4: Why she's the cutest.

1150
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: I too, she's p shit, you're a cake, Pop too.

1151
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 3: I got this big bobby wobbly head. Kyle's always like you.

1152
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:04,839
Speaker 3: He'll hug me and he'll go it's so big your

1153
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:06,839
Speaker 3: head right now.

1154
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: You know what, Like mom said, she's perfect, You are perfect.

1155
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 1: Every one of us is perfect. Ocean's perfect. We can't

1156
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 1: help the way that we look.

1157
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 4: What Lisa says, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right.

1158
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 2: That's exactly right, Lisa, that's exactly right.

1159
00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:31,800
Speaker 1: Someone who you think is busted someone could come in

1160
00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 1: and be like gorgeous, and they're the beholder beauty.

1161
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 4: And man's trash is another man's barbie.

1162
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 1: One man's trash, that's another one's whole. Hurry, I don't

1163
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 1: know what's coming kind of shoot.

1164
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:49,319
Speaker 4: I'm so glad that movie is colored back.

1165
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 1: All right, you guys, I promise we're sober here. I

1166
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed this episode of the Give Them All

1167
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:57,320
Speaker 1: a Podcast, the

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Speaker 2: Version We will catch you next five