WEBVTT - Stop Saying “Let Me Know What You Need”: Say This Instead

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<v Speaker 1>Good break it down. If you ever have feelings that

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<v Speaker 1>you just won't Amy and Cat gotcha covin locking, No, brother,

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<v Speaker 1>ladies and folks, do you just follow Anna spirit where

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<v Speaker 1>it's all the front over real stuff to the chill

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<v Speaker 1>stuff and the.

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<v Speaker 2>M but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do

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<v Speaker 2>it just stop you feel things. This is feeling things with.

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<v Speaker 1>Amy and Kat. Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Amykat and my feeling of the day while feelings plural

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<v Speaker 1>excited and grateful because well, because my sister is coming

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<v Speaker 1>to town. I don't think she'll care if I say that.

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<v Speaker 1>She's coming down to go to on Site, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a therapeutic place right outside of Nashville. I've been No

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<v Speaker 1>shame can be very helpful for a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm very excited for her with that. But she

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<v Speaker 1>booked a flight a day early earlier than she needed

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<v Speaker 1>to be here so that she can finally meet my boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Now her husband is coming to but he met my

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend a few months ago.

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<v Speaker 3>I forgot about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my sister is like the only person and that's

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<v Speaker 1>weird because she's my person. My mom has passed away,

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<v Speaker 1>my dad has passed away, so she's the representative of

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<v Speaker 1>the family. I mean, they've interacted on FaceTime. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just excited and I'm grateful for that opportunity because my

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend's leaving on a fishing trip with some of his

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<v Speaker 1>friends and this has been planned forever. The next day

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<v Speaker 1>and if she didn't come in the night before and

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<v Speaker 1>then he's still there that night before. Just the calendar wise,

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<v Speaker 1>the calendar part of this situation, it just worked out perfectly.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he was supposed to get back late Sunday

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<v Speaker 1>night because they'll return from on site on Sunday afternoon,

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<v Speaker 1>and he switched his flight to get back earlier so

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<v Speaker 1>that we can also have Sunday night together as a family.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just grateful for the finagling of flights, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the of flights. Yeah, they finagled their flights to make

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<v Speaker 1>it work. Like especially, my boyfriend already had his booked

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<v Speaker 1>for Sunday night to return home, and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if he had prepaid the part the kind of flight

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<v Speaker 1>where you don't get charged to change it, but if

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<v Speaker 1>you if you don't like I normally buy the cheapest

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<v Speaker 1>flight option and then if something changes, I get a

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<v Speaker 1>little screwed.

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<v Speaker 2>But well, I will say, there's a certain airline that

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<v Speaker 2>changed their rules and you used to always get your

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<v Speaker 2>money back and now you have to buy like the

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<v Speaker 2>nice flight in order to change it. So let's say

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<v Speaker 2>he didn't have that. This shows how much he cares.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm grateful, yeah, and exciting. Yeah, because they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to meet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>That's very different than my feeling of the day, which

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<v Speaker 2>is I am annoyed, and I'm gonna use the word terrified.

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<v Speaker 1>Annoyed and terrified. So these are you got two feelings

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<v Speaker 1>as well, and they are opposite of them.

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<v Speaker 2>There, Yes, So annoyed is twofold one. I'm annoyed because

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<v Speaker 2>I've had this lingering cold for I feel like two

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<v Speaker 2>weeks now and it won't go away. But also that's

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<v Speaker 2>attached to a text message that my mother sent me.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say the primary feeling was scared when I

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<v Speaker 2>got this on a Tuesday morning. I would like to

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<v Speaker 2>know how you would feel getting this message. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>Tuesday eleven thirty three am. Just in case something happens,

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<v Speaker 2>I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm going I'm already scared. I'm going on a.

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<v Speaker 2>Helicopter ride this morning. Oh okay, it doesn't matter, just

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<v Speaker 2>in case something happens, I love you. I read that,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, my mom is in Hawaii with

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<v Speaker 2>my dad, So I was like, did something happen at

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<v Speaker 2>the airport? Like is there I mean, you never know

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<v Speaker 2>what's happening, like is there a bomb threat somewhere? Before

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<v Speaker 2>I read the second part and then I got annoyed

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm I said afterwards, after she had done with

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<v Speaker 2>the ride, I just was like, Oh, that's really scary.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want to go on this helicopter ride? She

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<v Speaker 3>said yeah whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>After she went, I said, well now I can speak

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<v Speaker 2>my true feelings now that this is over. If you

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<v Speaker 2>ever are afraid you're going to tragically die, I'd prefer

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<v Speaker 2>that you opt out of the experience.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, is that fair? I think? Yeah, opting out or

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<v Speaker 1>like just don't also, don't send me a text message.

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<v Speaker 2>That's but I'm glad she sent it to me in

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<v Speaker 2>the sense that like, what if something did happen? So,

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<v Speaker 2>but how does that help you? I guess I did

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<v Speaker 2>already know that she loved me, like she could.

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<v Speaker 1>Just be like, hey, good morning, love you and not

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<v Speaker 1>freak you out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I just am not a daredevil person. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm never going to do something that I think has

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<v Speaker 2>a strong chance of killing me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like I don't. I don't want to get in

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<v Speaker 1>a helicopter. I have before I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think what forore don't even remember what if Alex surprise

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<v Speaker 2>you with the helicopter ride for like Christmas morning, and

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, I have a surprise for you, you

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't go he gives you Okay, listen, I'm pitt a painting.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't want to get in a helicopter because

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<v Speaker 1>my ex husband was a pilot, and even he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't do it. Helicopters freak him out because of the

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<v Speaker 1>physics Like an airplane. He can turn that into a

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<v Speaker 1>glider if you will, Like if the engines go out,

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<v Speaker 1>you can glide in a helicopter. If something goes wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>you just fall. There's nothing to keep you up. So

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't like the physics behind it. He actually was

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<v Speaker 1>in he calls it a controlled landing, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>a crash landing that he ended up controlling very well.

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<v Speaker 1>But his propeller. He was in a single engine aircraft,

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<v Speaker 1>which means there's just one propeller.

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<v Speaker 3>This a helicopter or a.

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<v Speaker 1>Plane, because he doesn't ever want to be in a

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<v Speaker 1>helicopter and the prop flew off the plane and he

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<v Speaker 1>had to land in a body of water because he

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<v Speaker 1>was in the middle of nowhere and the only way

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<v Speaker 1>to get rescued was through a black Hawk helicopter came

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<v Speaker 1>and threw a rope down, but that was the only

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<v Speaker 1>way to get out of there because he was in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of like trees and mountains and a plane

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<v Speaker 1>can't do that. That was the scariest part, he said

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<v Speaker 1>that crash landing the plane, the repeller flying off, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's really scary. But for him, the scariest part was

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<v Speaker 1>during the rescue, having to get on a helicopter. He's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be out. I survived all of this and now

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<v Speaker 1>a'm we gonna die getting in the helicopter, which he didn't. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's great, And I know there are helicopter pilots out

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<v Speaker 1>there that they love helicopters and like they're great and all,

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<v Speaker 1>but they just freak me out. So I know I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not getting on one, and I'm kind of I love

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<v Speaker 1>your mom and I'm sad.

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<v Speaker 2>She got on one, but I'm happy she survived well. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>my dad got sick during it, so I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>was that even worth it? I just am not the

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<v Speaker 2>kind of I'm never gonna sky dive. I'm never going

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<v Speaker 2>to bunch and did that you skydive but you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to get into a helicopter.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm not going to ever skudive again. Ever?

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<v Speaker 3>Was this like for work?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have to do it for my thirtieth birthday?

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<v Speaker 2>Just live?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait? Was it for work or for your birth I

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<v Speaker 1>went with lunch box and another friend just we were like,

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do it and we could talk about it,

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<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't an assignment.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you enjoy it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeh, it's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you would never do it again.

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<v Speaker 1>Never do it again. I don't need to because like

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<v Speaker 1>my luck, something's going to go wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, something didn't go wrong, I know, but if I

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<v Speaker 2>do it again, okay, I don't want to press my

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<v Speaker 2>luck anyway. Mom, if you're listening, don't do that again.

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<v Speaker 2>And thank you for sending me the text because it

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<v Speaker 2>was good intentioned. But if you are ever afraid that

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<v Speaker 2>something's going to kill you, and it is a what's

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<v Speaker 2>it called? When you don't it's a volunteer experience volunteering. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I would like you to be around as long as possible,

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<v Speaker 2>so let's opt out, or like, let's talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Family meeting, so we speaking of flights and just saying

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<v Speaker 1>things that just or doing things that feel weird. What

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<v Speaker 1>are your thoughts on this? Because I was with my

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend and his dad and his stepmom. But they've been

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<v Speaker 1>married for like ever, so this has been a stepmom

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<v Speaker 1>for a while. So for the sake of this, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just say his parents, we're talking about a trip next

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<v Speaker 1>summer that everybody will take on his side of the family.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a lot of people, there's grandkids, there's they're

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<v Speaker 1>kids and parents. And I said, well, I have work,

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<v Speaker 1>so I might have to fly to meet all there.

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<v Speaker 1>And then his stepmom was like, I'm fine with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually fine with all of us being on separate

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<v Speaker 1>ish flights, like I don't want everybody on the same airplane.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, she goes, I know, I know

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds morbid, but like you could wipe out an

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<v Speaker 1>entire family, And I thought, well, I get the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of that in dividing people up, and some husbands and

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<v Speaker 1>wives won't fly on the same flight because if they

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<v Speaker 1>have kids, they don't want.

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<v Speaker 2>Their So if they're going on a vacation, they're like, O, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you take the six D. I'm gonna I'll come in

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<v Speaker 2>a nine, right, Like good luck.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but I'll see you there, right, like

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see who makes it which. But that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like when she said, like I know what she meant,

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<v Speaker 1>and she wasn't saying anything like I get it thinking

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<v Speaker 1>that way, and she's like, I know it's so morbid, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like yeah, and also you're right, like she's

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<v Speaker 1>not wrong, Like traveling separate makes sense. Then you're like

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<v Speaker 1>putting this energy out there that like, well, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what plane it's gonna happen to, but just in

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<v Speaker 1>case it happens to one of the planes, not everybody's

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<v Speaker 1>on it.

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<v Speaker 2>I get that if you have kids. I actually like

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<v Speaker 2>didn't need that perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have to bring that home and talk about

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<v Speaker 2>it with my family.

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<v Speaker 3>However, if I.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna need your parents to fly home from Hawaii separately, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>However, Patrick and I I either want us to die

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<v Speaker 2>or live together, so we need we don't have kids

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<v Speaker 2>right now, so if with kids are feel differently. But

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<v Speaker 2>I if he dies, I'm going down with him. Really,

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<v Speaker 2>Why we talked about this all the time. Why I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to live without him?

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<v Speaker 1>That's really sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>You're about to say that's ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, I think it's really sweet. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think you could still live a good life without him,

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<v Speaker 1>but you would, you would learn, Like I think of

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<v Speaker 1>my boyfriend who lost his wife and like now they

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<v Speaker 1>have kids, so yeah, to take the kids out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Should I ask him, would you have wanted to die too?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't because then if he says yes, I'll be like, Okay, no, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's still life to be had, Like if

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<v Speaker 1>you're a widow or a widower, that's probably true.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't really want to die, but I think about

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<v Speaker 2>the pain and I don't want to go to the

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<v Speaker 2>pain of losing him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so.

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<v Speaker 3>Some podcast has taken a turn.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw someone posts the other day like, if you're dead,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know you're dead? No? You don't know it Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're dead, you don't know that you're dead. When

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<v Speaker 1>you're dead, it impacts the people around.

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<v Speaker 2>You, but it doesn't impact the dead person, right, I'm going.

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<v Speaker 1>Somewhere with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So she says that, and then she's like, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing if you're stupid, Like, if you're stupid, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know it, but it impacts the people around you. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like that's like and she wasn't saying like stupid,

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, if you make stupid choices, right, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>drink and drive, text and drive.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Okay, So if that is the perspective of if

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<v Speaker 2>you're dead, you don't know that you're dead, then I

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<v Speaker 2>would want to be the dead person in the scenario

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<v Speaker 2>if somebody goes down in the plane.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Okay, this has taken a turn, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean to. I think that you fear the feelings that

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to have to have regardless, and you're a

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<v Speaker 1>mental health expert.

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<v Speaker 3>I know it's not healthy when I.

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<v Speaker 1>Just have if like something were to happen, like we

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<v Speaker 1>would not that it will happen, but we would be

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<v Speaker 1>here for you. And I don't want you to fear

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<v Speaker 1>those feelings, which brings me to something that I pulled

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<v Speaker 1>about fear in fancy outfits, fear in fancy outfits. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just a cue, way to put it, like excuses that

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<v Speaker 1>we have. Someone's excuses are just fear in fancy outfits, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And so I can read you the fancy outfit and

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<v Speaker 1>then the like or the excuse and what it's covering

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<v Speaker 1>up somebody else has already done it, Like that's an

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<v Speaker 1>excuse that you give, And really what's happening is I'm

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<v Speaker 1>worried I don't bring anything special to the table. I

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I mean I could do the I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I say, I like that, and I use it a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>People have already done this. I use the excuse a

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<v Speaker 1>lot like I like to use that one.

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<v Speaker 2>However, I will say sometimes that's legit, right, how do

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<v Speaker 2>you decipher?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>I just remember one time talking with a business consultant

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<v Speaker 2>about an idea that I had that I didn't end

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<v Speaker 2>up doing because somebody already did it. I forgot exactly

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<v Speaker 2>what he said. It really made sense in the moment,

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<v Speaker 2>but one of the things he said, before you do

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<v Speaker 2>anything with this, you need to look in your area

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<v Speaker 2>and see, Oh, he said, has somebody already done this?

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<v Speaker 2>And if they haven't, why haven't they? Which was like,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe this wouldn't like take off in this area, and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe we don't have the people that would actually be interested.

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<v Speaker 2>And then somebody did do it and it didn't go

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<v Speaker 2>well because I don't think they had the people in

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<v Speaker 2>this area for that. But I think that sometimes can

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<v Speaker 2>be a legit not excuse. People use it as an excuse.

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<v Speaker 2>It also can be smart to be like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>This, like it could be valid.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, it depends.

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<v Speaker 1>It depends love it. Okay, So I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>sure first, like to want to be really really sure

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<v Speaker 1>about something. Could be covering up. I don't really trust

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<v Speaker 1>myself yet. It's too complicated. Could really be my brain

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<v Speaker 1>is overloaded. I need to make this simpler.

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<v Speaker 3>I use that one all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's too complicated, I think. I say it's too much

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<v Speaker 2>because I get overwhelmed.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you I got overwhelmed trying to pick out

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<v Speaker 1>a new screensaver on my smart TV. Too many options,

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<v Speaker 1>too many options, and so then I jump ship, which

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<v Speaker 1>brings me to another thing. This person curated this awesome

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<v Speaker 1>autumn wardrobe somebody that popped up on my Instagram. Like

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<v Speaker 1>cute stuff, doable, wearable, like nothing over the top. It

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<v Speaker 1>could be cute at work, could be cute on a Saturday.

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<v Speaker 1>Affordable prices. This fall look book that she put up,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know she put a lot of work into it,

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<v Speaker 1>which is great. Why am I the type of person

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<v Speaker 1>that when I click on it and then I see

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<v Speaker 1>all the options on LTK, I click on one and

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<v Speaker 1>I add to cart, and then I have to go

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<v Speaker 1>click on another, and I had to kart and I

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<v Speaker 1>have to click on another, and now it's at another store.

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<v Speaker 1>So now we're not even at Zara anymore. So we

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<v Speaker 1>have gone to J Crew. So now I have two

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<v Speaker 1>different stores open. And then I go and I click

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<v Speaker 1>on another one and the genes are from Abercrombie. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so now I'm I'm shopping at a third place, and

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<v Speaker 1>I've done this work, Like I already have stuff in

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<v Speaker 1>my cart from Zara, stuff my car from J Crew.

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<v Speaker 1>They've done all this work, They've laid it out for me,

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<v Speaker 1>They've made it as easy as possible. But now I

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<v Speaker 1>have three shopping carts open and then I swipe out.

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<v Speaker 1>So I dedicated this much time to my new autumn

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<v Speaker 1>wardrobe that was going to be so cute, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't follow. I don't even follow through with any of

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<v Speaker 1>the purchase. Nothing. I'm gone And I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>who that person was because they were suggested for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I never go back. All I know is maybe if

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<v Speaker 1>I pull up the Tzara or I pull up the

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<v Speaker 1>j Crew, like, maybe that stuff's still in my cart.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, if it's too overwhelming or too complicated. But

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<v Speaker 1>then I thought, why can't I just carve out twenty

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<v Speaker 1>minutes to sit there and do it and just execute it?

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<v Speaker 1>This top from Zara was so's so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a thought, what is it? I think elt

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<v Speaker 2>like to know it? What do you call it? LTK

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<v Speaker 2>does not have a user friendly interface. I don't exactly

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<v Speaker 2>know what that means, but I think you get what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying. I like shop My is it the same thing?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like LTK, but I have some stuff on Shopmay.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing. I even get overwhelmed about organizing.

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<v Speaker 2>My own shop.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, well that's a whole other it's a whole

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<v Speaker 1>nother thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think it's hard. Like you're right, you have

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<v Speaker 2>to like go to the outfit and then there's all

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<v Speaker 2>these things. Then you have to click each one and

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<v Speaker 2>you have to buy it. In a different place and

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<v Speaker 2>it should be like, you know, Okay, when we got married,

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<v Speaker 2>we made a wedding website on the not or something

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<v Speaker 2>like that. I don't remember which one we used, but

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<v Speaker 2>what they did that was really cool and I've seen

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<v Speaker 2>it has been really helpful to me. Wasn't helpful for

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<v Speaker 2>me as a bride, but I think would helpful for

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<v Speaker 2>the people that we invited, and it's been helpful for me.

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<v Speaker 2>And other people's wedding stuff have used us their registry.

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<v Speaker 2>Like let's say you go to Target, you go to

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<v Speaker 2>Creighton Barrel, you go to Restoration Hardware, you go to

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<v Speaker 2>Amazon whatever. They do this with baby showers too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm going to a baby shower and this is

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<v Speaker 1>what she did. Oh, I know what you're about to say,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is what she did. I'm like, this is genius.

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<v Speaker 2>So they on the website, whatever website you use to

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<v Speaker 2>host the event, they compile everything and you can I

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<v Speaker 2>think you can buy it from that website or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's everything in there, and it just you can't.

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<v Speaker 2>You can separate it by store or you can just

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<v Speaker 2>want to look at the whole registry versus why I

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<v Speaker 2>want to go look at her registry at Creighton Barrow.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go look at her registry at Target.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go look at It's you get to

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<v Speaker 2>see everything right there by clicking one button. That's what

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<v Speaker 2>we need.

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<v Speaker 3>It's everything there. Click one button.

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<v Speaker 2>I can just purchase it all, create a bundle or

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<v Speaker 2>this is okay, my brain's going everywhere. This is a

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<v Speaker 2>business opportunity for us. We have to ask the question,

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<v Speaker 2>has somebody else done it? Why not for us to

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<v Speaker 2>take what like to know it has done, looked at

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<v Speaker 2>some problems that still are arising, find a solution and

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<v Speaker 2>to fix it for people and create a whole other

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<v Speaker 2>business where we now are creating bundles. You like that outfit. Here,

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<v Speaker 2>here's what size are you. Here's a bundle ordered from

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<v Speaker 2>all the stores. Yeah, it can be done, right, we

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<v Speaker 2>have to have the technology.

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<v Speaker 1>Surely, let's just build the app.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's hire let's get an investor and then we'll hire

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<v Speaker 2>somebody to build that.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait for the day. Like sometimes the future

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<v Speaker 1>freaks me out, but then also I'm totally fine with

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm walking down the street and I like a

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<v Speaker 1>girl's outfit, like I just want to like like you

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<v Speaker 1>know how you can pay for things with your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>You just pulled it up to the reader. I just

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<v Speaker 1>hold up to their outfit and it's like and then

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<v Speaker 1>it ships it to me. Yes, yeah, anyway, it's too complicated.

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<v Speaker 2>How do we get complicated?

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<v Speaker 1>Another excuse that is a fear and a fancy outfit

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<v Speaker 1>is I'll start it when things calm down. Really, that's

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<v Speaker 1>I'm waiting for the perfect moment so I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to feel uncomfortable. Things never calm down.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there's never a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>There's never a good time. I have to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>have to do it. I don't have time that could

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<v Speaker 1>be a fancy outfit for I'm not making this a

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<v Speaker 1>priority right now. Yeah, that I feel true with like

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<v Speaker 1>anything you want to do, or a relationship you want

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<v Speaker 1>to nurture, a relationship you want to be in. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking about this with my boyfriend the other

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<v Speaker 1>day because someone in our life was broken up with

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<v Speaker 1>and he felt differently than I did about like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if he wanted to make it a priority, he could

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like, I don't know that that's the

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<v Speaker 1>case here, and I'm like, I feel like it's very

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<v Speaker 1>much the case.

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<v Speaker 3>You said that and he said, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. He was like, oh, I don't think that's what's

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<v Speaker 1>happening here, and I was like, no, I think that

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<v Speaker 1>there were certain expectations for person A and person B

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to make that a priority.

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<v Speaker 2>I do think, because you know you've heard that thing.

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<v Speaker 2>If he wanted to, he would. That sometimes applies and

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, it depends, it depends. It depends.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I think sometimes that really is like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he'll figure it out to an extent. Sometimes there are

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<v Speaker 2>just other situations that are getting in the way. Or

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<v Speaker 2>he might really want this, but I think this goes

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<v Speaker 2>to what you're saying too. I might really want to

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<v Speaker 2>make this work, but this is here on the tote

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<v Speaker 2>pol when this is here, I want both, but both

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<v Speaker 2>don't match up at the same time.

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<v Speaker 3>Does that make sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. The final thing is it's not perfect yet, which

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes can mean I'm nervous about what people will think.

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<v Speaker 3>Because it won't ever be perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>So they are just fears and fancy outfits.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I like that list because you can be honest

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<v Speaker 2>and that doesn't mean that you have to do this,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think it's good to be honest about why

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I do have a questions that don't come up

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<v Speaker 1>for you, which I know this is a fun segment

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<v Speaker 1>because you came up with it, but it's really a

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<v Speaker 1>question of how you say something. What is the little

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<v Speaker 1>toiletry bag? Your husband may have one and you travel

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<v Speaker 1>with it and you put stuff in it. What's it called?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you're asking me this because I'm probably

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<v Speaker 3>gonna say it wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I say, I just learned. I've been saying it

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<v Speaker 1>right the entire life. You said it right, okay, DPP

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<v Speaker 1>dop kit?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know? I thought it was a doc kit?

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<v Speaker 1>I've always said doc kit. I want to get my

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend a dot kit for Christmas. So I was googling

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<v Speaker 1>it yesterday and I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, doc kit, nobody sells these anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I see it's saying Dopps and I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>what because I always thought, you know how, back in

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<v Speaker 1>the day, doctors would do house calls and they carry

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<v Speaker 1>those little black bags and it looked like a dot kit,

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<v Speaker 1>like a dot and it had everything they needed inside.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, give it. This is why I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was called a doc kit was because of a doctor's bag.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know, like an old adult time movies like

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<v Speaker 1>the doctor would show up with a little black bag

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<v Speaker 1>and had everything he needed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and you're saying doc sort for a doctor, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Doc kit, Like this is like your dock kit that's

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<v Speaker 1>for toiletrees.

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<v Speaker 2>That's cute that you thought that, actually, but it's dop

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah what is dop?

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't get that far in my research?

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<v Speaker 2>Why is it called a dop?

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<v Speaker 3>I just saw it? Should it should be called a

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<v Speaker 3>toiletry bag?

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<v Speaker 1>You have it? Dop is easier to say, why.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't we don't we don't have a name for our bags?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, can't we carry adopt adop kits only masculine?

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<v Speaker 3>I think dop kits are for men?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? Well? Yeah, I mean I was looking at one

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<v Speaker 1>for a man man in my life.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a really good gift. Are you gonna get it?

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<v Speaker 3>Like embroidered?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I wanted to put his initials on it because

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<v Speaker 1>I saw his Are you going to stock it? Should?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I did that for Patrick one year and I

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<v Speaker 2>got all these like beard oils and like face lotions

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<v Speaker 2>and serums because you know, he didn't have a wound's

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<v Speaker 2>touch in his life, and so I was gonna like

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<v Speaker 2>get him a whole skincare routine.

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<v Speaker 1>Beard oil. Wait, does hee have a beard? I like some?

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<v Speaker 2>He like won it?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, maybe he will one day.

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<v Speaker 2>It was they had a lot of options. It just

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<v Speaker 2>seemed like something that goes in adopt kit. Anyway, he

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<v Speaker 2>never used them. He was like, I don't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>He just washes his face with a with body wash. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I now know why it's called adopkit because it was

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<v Speaker 1>invented by a German American leather craftsman named Charles Doppelt

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<v Speaker 1>in nineteen nineteen. So it was his name in nineteen nineteen.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a craftsman.

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<v Speaker 3>What does it mean it was invented. It's just a

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<v Speaker 3>toiletry bag.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you invent Well, nobody had made the kit

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<v Speaker 1>yet the leather. He was a leather craftsman. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>no one had maybe made it in that shape for okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let me keep reading. His company created a popular leather

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<v Speaker 1>bag for grooming items. Okay, maybe before they just had

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<v Speaker 1>their grooming items scattered about. And the name dopp is

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<v Speaker 1>a shortened version of his last name. While kit simply

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<v Speaker 1>refers to its use for carrying personal items, the term

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<v Speaker 1>became especially popular in the United States due to its

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<v Speaker 1>adoption by the military during World War Two. Ohdop kit,

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<v Speaker 1>Now you know, not to be confused with doc kit.

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<v Speaker 2>That is really cute that you thought that. That makes

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<v Speaker 2>really a lot of sense. I've never questioned until now

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<v Speaker 2>why it's called adopt kit. So thanks for this little segment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, questions that don't come up. What do you call

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<v Speaker 1>your toiletry bag?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you call yours?

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh, you know what, I should drop my toilet bag

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<v Speaker 1>in our next newsletter. I just call it my toiletry

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<v Speaker 1>bag special. It is awesome and it hangs it fits everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and I keep it ready like a go bag because

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<v Speaker 1>I have all my travel side stuff in there and

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<v Speaker 1>now it's just ready to go.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like I don't have to go, and like your's

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<v Speaker 3>just the one that like unfolds right.

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<v Speaker 1>And then there's a side for jewelry and then a

0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:51.760
<v Speaker 1>side for in then it like flaps, so when I

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<v Speaker 1>get to the hotel, I just hang it up.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to organize everything on the counter and then

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<v Speaker 1>I bought this other makeup travel bag. It just opens

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<v Speaker 1>up and I don't have to lay everything out on

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<v Speaker 1>the count Back to the hotel room. Yeah, that's where

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<v Speaker 1>I makeup, and then I have another like hanging bag

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<v Speaker 1>for face wash and different things. So we do have

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<v Speaker 1>another list of things to go over. And you specifically

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<v Speaker 1>requested this because you said it would be very helpful

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Do you know what I'm talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I feel like you're alluding what I'll be

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<v Speaker 2>making it. We'll just read it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just read.

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<v Speaker 2>You're making it sound like I have like a smell problem.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, that's not what I'm talking about. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>there yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, well then I have no idea what you're

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<v Speaker 2>talking about there yet. We'll get to this.

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<v Speaker 1>You are very excited about it, but I do. I do,

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<v Speaker 1>I too, am I have two I am too. It's

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<v Speaker 1>things that you can eat that will make you smell

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<v Speaker 1>a certain way.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's not what we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Remember how we were excited to go over things

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<v Speaker 1>that you can say to someone instead of is there

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<v Speaker 1>anything that I can do?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, this I yeah, this, I also, so it was

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<v Speaker 3>excited about.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this can be helpful for anybody. And I know

0:26:05.800 --> 0:26:08.320
<v Speaker 1>this list and have heard this before. I'm sure same

0:26:08.359 --> 0:26:11.400
<v Speaker 1>for you, Kat, But the default is just so easy

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<v Speaker 1>to say let me know what you need or is

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<v Speaker 1>there anything I can do, which for someone that is

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<v Speaker 1>going through something, they're already overwhelmed, so they're likely not

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<v Speaker 1>going to reach out right.

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<v Speaker 2>And sometimes it feels like you're being a burden if

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<v Speaker 2>you do. Yes, even if somebody offers, it can feel like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to put my stuff on somebody else,

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<v Speaker 2>so I agree, like I have heard this before and

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<v Speaker 2>talk about it, and then I still find myself being like.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me know if you need anything. They're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I will, and then they don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, crickets. Yeah. So this is how you can be

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<v Speaker 1>impactful in helping someone out, Like truly we can get there.

0:26:47.560 --> 0:26:49.920
<v Speaker 1>You can just say, hey, i'm grabbing groceries later, can

0:26:49.960 --> 0:26:53.520
<v Speaker 1>I get anything for you? Specifically You're already going to

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<v Speaker 1>store so they don't feel like they're putting you out,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're saying like, I'm there, Yeah, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you need? I'm free Wednesday evening? Can I drop off dinner?

0:27:04.440 --> 0:27:08.399
<v Speaker 1>Question Mark? I'm thinking of you today. Want me to

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<v Speaker 1>check in tomorrow to question Mark. I'd love to come

0:27:12.480 --> 0:27:15.440
<v Speaker 1>by and sit with you. No need to entertain me. Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>That one I like because I feel like when I

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<v Speaker 2>go through certain things, I don't want to be alone,

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<v Speaker 2>but I also sometimes don't want to talk. I just

0:27:24.520 --> 0:27:26.520
<v Speaker 2>want somebody to like sit on the couch and watch something.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's like a weird sometimes can feel weird to

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<v Speaker 2>ask like I don't need anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you did this to me a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember I was having a particularly difficult Friday night, Oh remember,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were like, I was like, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to stay home and eat pizza. And then I guess

0:27:43.640 --> 0:27:45.960
<v Speaker 1>Patrick was doing something. I don't know what happened, and

0:27:46.280 --> 0:27:48.920
<v Speaker 1>you're like, I can come over and I can bring pizza. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I knew that it wouldn't be like we would

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<v Speaker 1>have to sit there and talk like we would have

0:27:52.240 --> 0:27:55.119
<v Speaker 1>genuinely just sat there and watched something and like eating pizza,

0:27:55.520 --> 0:27:57.960
<v Speaker 1>and it would have been chill and fine. Yeah, but

0:27:58.080 --> 0:28:01.480
<v Speaker 1>you were very specific and deliberate and were willing and

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<v Speaker 1>able to show up if I needed it. Also, speaking

0:28:04.840 --> 0:28:06.840
<v Speaker 1>of a couple weeks ago, do you remember this must

0:28:06.880 --> 0:28:09.680
<v Speaker 1>have been just how quickly feelings can change, because that

0:28:09.760 --> 0:28:11.560
<v Speaker 1>it might have been the Friday before and then like

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:14.879
<v Speaker 1>fast forward two or three days that following Monday. Do

0:28:14.920 --> 0:28:16.760
<v Speaker 1>you remember me leaving a voice text of like I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel great today, Like today, I feel so good.

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<v Speaker 1>We had recorded earlier that day, and then later I

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<v Speaker 1>left and I was like, I feel so good today.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Did I listen to it?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know you did it? Maybe you did, but

0:28:31.600 --> 0:28:34.800
<v Speaker 1>you didn't absorb it. Maybe you didn't appreciate how much. Wait,

0:28:35.000 --> 0:28:37.359
<v Speaker 1>really I felt so good because I feel like you

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:38.280
<v Speaker 1>felt good too.

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<v Speaker 2>This was after that experience. Yeah, okay, I do remember

0:28:41.640 --> 0:28:43.880
<v Speaker 2>this happening, yes, okay, yeah, but like.

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<v Speaker 1>Give it a couple days.

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<v Speaker 2>You never know.

0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:47.840
<v Speaker 1>Like I was in a pretty low of low, and

0:28:47.920 --> 0:28:51.280
<v Speaker 1>then fast forward, nothing had changed about my situation. By

0:28:51.320 --> 0:28:53.440
<v Speaker 1>the way, I still could have been very low about

0:28:53.480 --> 0:28:55.560
<v Speaker 1>what was happening, but I don't know what was going

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<v Speaker 1>on with me or if it was hormonal like good hormones.

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<v Speaker 1>So I feel like sometimes we give ours a bad rap,

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<v Speaker 1>but sometimes when they're in alignment, they're doing their thing

0:29:02.960 --> 0:29:06.400
<v Speaker 1>and we're grooving like okay, yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think part of that too, is, yeah, nothing had

0:29:09.680 --> 0:29:13.880
<v Speaker 2>changed in that situation, but you gave yourself time to see, like,

0:29:14.400 --> 0:29:16.760
<v Speaker 2>even if this is going on, my life can still

0:29:16.800 --> 0:29:20.400
<v Speaker 2>be good. Good things still exist, and sometimes when something

0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:25.760
<v Speaker 2>not desirable happens that brings on uncomfy feelings or sadness

0:29:25.840 --> 0:29:29.200
<v Speaker 2>or hurt or pain, it becomes encompassing and we need

0:29:29.320 --> 0:29:32.200
<v Speaker 2>some space to see like, Okay, I can still have

0:29:32.320 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 2>these feelings about this, and let's not forget these things

0:29:35.520 --> 0:29:39.320
<v Speaker 2>still exist too. Yeah that's true, but it's hard when

0:29:39.400 --> 0:29:42.720
<v Speaker 2>something is fresh, it's hard to have that perspective. Yeah.

0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:44.880
<v Speaker 2>So we probably just had a little like shot of

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<v Speaker 2>oh look, we like.

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<v Speaker 1>Our life, we like our lives. Yes, oh look, I

0:29:48.640 --> 0:29:51.800
<v Speaker 1>don't need to fear this. My life can still be good.

0:29:53.200 --> 0:29:56.040
<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, I just whatever, I'm like chasing

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<v Speaker 1>that Monday from a couple of weeks ago.

0:29:57.840 --> 0:30:01.080
<v Speaker 2>Where where are the case of the Mondays? And our

0:30:01.120 --> 0:30:04.080
<v Speaker 2>Monday was usually people think that's bad and our Monday

0:30:04.240 --> 0:30:04.960
<v Speaker 2>was good?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was just in it was just feeling awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's my once a month gift.

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<v Speaker 3>Once a month you get a good Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, or like a what good few days? Okay, yeah, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I just venmoed you some coffee money for yourself. I

0:30:33.280 --> 0:30:35.719
<v Speaker 1>just venmoed you some coffee money for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good one.

0:30:37.360 --> 0:30:40.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's another thing you can do instead of let

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<v Speaker 1>me know what you need. Another one is can I

0:30:43.920 --> 0:30:48.640
<v Speaker 1>take care of insert a specific task for you this week?

0:30:49.280 --> 0:30:51.160
<v Speaker 1>Can I take care of kid? Pick up for you

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<v Speaker 1>this week? Can I take care or on a specific day?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I get to do it every day? Laundry?

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<v Speaker 3>Can I come break your leaves? Oh that's an things.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I saw y'all raking leaves, and I am

0:31:03.600 --> 0:31:04.600
<v Speaker 1>not gonna rake mine.

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna ask you that actually.

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<v Speaker 1>Things that don't come up? Why?

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<v Speaker 2>Because then I drove in today I did notice that

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<v Speaker 2>you have You have two really big trees, and the

0:31:16.560 --> 0:31:19.240
<v Speaker 2>one in front is beautiful right now, but all.

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<v Speaker 3>The leaves are falling.

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<v Speaker 1>She's showing off.

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<v Speaker 2>So I have never lived in a house that had

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<v Speaker 2>a big trees that had enough leaves to impact your yard. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a lot of work, and I didn't understand how

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<v Speaker 2>people are doing it, Like are you hiring so many

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<v Speaker 2>of this? Are you putting all those leaves in the bags?

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<v Speaker 2>Because that's so much work, And it's like exfoliation of

0:31:43.720 --> 0:31:46.560
<v Speaker 2>a tree. That's phases, you know, like the leaves fall,

0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:48.080
<v Speaker 2>they're all over your yard, you clean them up, then

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<v Speaker 2>they fall again.

0:31:48.840 --> 0:31:52.440
<v Speaker 3>Like it takes a couple falls. And I learned a

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<v Speaker 3>lot about leaf pick up, leaf pickup.

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<v Speaker 1>One lots twice I said leave and then I said leaf.

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<v Speaker 1>I learned a lot about leaf pickuplea. How you glitched

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<v Speaker 1>leaf pick up, leaf peck up, leaf pick up?

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<v Speaker 2>You have to say it twice.

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<v Speaker 1>Account So what did you learn learn?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, many people said don't rake them because leaves are

0:32:19.560 --> 0:32:21.960
<v Speaker 2>really good for the soil or yah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just googled it and said, you don't always

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<v Speaker 1>need to break leaves, and leaving them can be beneficial

0:32:26.880 --> 0:32:29.400
<v Speaker 1>for your lawn in the environment. However, a thick layer

0:32:29.440 --> 0:32:30.920
<v Speaker 1>of leaves can smother the c Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so we have a thick layer.

0:32:32.760 --> 0:32:35.520
<v Speaker 1>So how do you measure it the thickness good question.

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<v Speaker 3>Haven't gotten that far.

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<v Speaker 2>Apparently, if you want fireflies, you want to leave them

0:32:40.560 --> 0:32:44.040
<v Speaker 2>because they're good habitats for the fireflies. But also apparently

0:32:44.360 --> 0:32:45.720
<v Speaker 2>the little bugs glow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>What else would I be talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I guess I was just you know what,

0:32:51.920 --> 0:32:54.520
<v Speaker 1>I feel bad. I just had shame as a kid.

0:32:55.200 --> 0:32:57.120
<v Speaker 1>For fun, we would put on white T shirts and

0:32:57.160 --> 0:32:59.240
<v Speaker 1>we go catch the glougs and then we'd smear them

0:32:59.280 --> 0:33:02.240
<v Speaker 1>on our shirts and we would glow murderer, murderer I

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<v Speaker 1>know in the first degree.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know what this is? You giving back to firefly.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm leaving them ome forgive me. I knew not

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<v Speaker 1>what I was doing.

0:33:15.200 --> 0:33:19.040
<v Speaker 2>Apparently if you know them, it becomes really good mulch

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<v Speaker 2>for your yard.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, and you leave them there.

0:33:23.080 --> 0:33:26.680
<v Speaker 2>But there are certain lawnmowers that have like attachments that

0:33:26.840 --> 0:33:27.720
<v Speaker 2>mulch things for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, I posted a picture of Patrick raking them, and

0:33:32.440 --> 0:33:35.080
<v Speaker 2>my brother texted me and he said, Patrick is using

0:33:35.120 --> 0:33:37.600
<v Speaker 2>a landscaping rake. That's not a rake for leaves. And

0:33:37.720 --> 0:33:40.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay, how are we supposed to know what

0:33:41.000 --> 0:33:43.920
<v Speaker 2>rake is for? That is landscaping? Is it not landscaping?

0:33:44.080 --> 0:33:47.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm doing things in my yard. What constitute says landscaping?

0:33:49.200 --> 0:33:51.360
<v Speaker 1>Is it? Well? I think if there's grass underneath? Was

0:33:51.400 --> 0:33:55.400
<v Speaker 1>he saying, Because if you're in a landscaping bed, there's

0:33:55.440 --> 0:33:58.960
<v Speaker 1>like mulch, okay, and then the grass is there, which

0:33:59.000 --> 0:34:02.840
<v Speaker 1>I did just look up Welcome to landscaping. Landscaping minute,

0:34:03.680 --> 0:34:06.600
<v Speaker 1>you should rake leaves if they're so thick you cannot

0:34:06.680 --> 0:34:09.640
<v Speaker 1>see the grass beneath them. So that's how you measure

0:34:09.920 --> 0:34:11.760
<v Speaker 1>the thickness. Can you see the grass?

0:34:11.880 --> 0:34:13.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we can't see our grass.

0:34:13.760 --> 0:34:18.359
<v Speaker 2>So Patrick, also, somebody sent me this morning this little

0:34:18.520 --> 0:34:21.440
<v Speaker 2>like pusher guy, you know, the thing that picks up

0:34:21.480 --> 0:34:24.160
<v Speaker 2>the golf balls at like a driving range. It's kind

0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:26.279
<v Speaker 2>of like remind me of that. But you push it

0:34:26.760 --> 0:34:28.960
<v Speaker 2>and it will pick up the leaves as you push

0:34:29.000 --> 0:34:29.640
<v Speaker 2>it through the yard.

0:34:30.120 --> 0:34:32.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh so it's like a roller brush for lint, but

0:34:32.680 --> 0:34:33.719
<v Speaker 1>for leaves, and it's big.

0:34:33.960 --> 0:34:38.160
<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, yes, it's a roller it's a lint roller

0:34:38.239 --> 0:34:41.480
<v Speaker 2>for your leaves. Patrick went, well, as we're recording this,

0:34:41.520 --> 0:34:43.520
<v Speaker 2>he's going to home depot to buy one. But we

0:34:43.600 --> 0:34:45.120
<v Speaker 2>have so many leaves that he's going to have to

0:34:45.160 --> 0:34:48.080
<v Speaker 2>empty out the bag like twenty five times. Good thing

0:34:48.120 --> 0:34:50.520
<v Speaker 2>about where we moved, we don't have to bag them up.

0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:53.080
<v Speaker 2>You just push him off to the road and the

0:34:53.160 --> 0:34:54.520
<v Speaker 2>county will come suck them up.

0:34:54.920 --> 0:34:55.200
<v Speaker 1>Wow.

0:34:55.520 --> 0:34:58.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so what about your.

0:34:58.480 --> 0:35:04.000
<v Speaker 1>So to anybody else to listen us talk about leaves,

0:35:04.120 --> 0:35:04.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm interested.

0:35:05.280 --> 0:35:07.359
<v Speaker 2>I would say I got a lot of d MS

0:35:07.360 --> 0:35:10.880
<v Speaker 2>about my leaf content, so I think people are interested.

0:35:11.040 --> 0:35:13.000
<v Speaker 1>I was thinking back to my days in college. I

0:35:13.040 --> 0:35:14.040
<v Speaker 1>took turf management.

0:35:14.600 --> 0:35:16.280
<v Speaker 3>Oh you went to an agriculture school.

0:35:16.440 --> 0:35:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Well, I did, but I think a lot of schools

0:35:18.200 --> 0:35:19.799
<v Speaker 1>maybe offer it. It was just me and a bunch

0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:24.399
<v Speaker 1>of football players got it. Turf is not grass though, right, Yeah,

0:35:24.440 --> 0:35:29.000
<v Speaker 1>it is. Turf is like turf management. We studied all

0:35:29.080 --> 0:35:33.480
<v Speaker 1>kinds of grass, the different types of grass, golf course maintenance.

0:35:34.040 --> 0:35:36.680
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm thinking turf is like artificial grass.

0:35:36.880 --> 0:35:41.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh. I took an artificial artificial grass class.

0:35:41.600 --> 0:35:43.920
<v Speaker 3>I thought it was weird if we just sewed it together.

0:35:44.160 --> 0:35:46.040
<v Speaker 2>Where you learned about the different kinds of plastics and

0:35:46.080 --> 0:35:47.799
<v Speaker 2>the little like rubber beads that are in there.

0:35:49.160 --> 0:35:50.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Interesting.

0:35:50.840 --> 0:35:53.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you're not going to do anything. Do you

0:35:53.320 --> 0:35:55.080
<v Speaker 2>never do anything to your leaves? No?

0:35:55.280 --> 0:35:58.680
<v Speaker 1>But I do have a yard man, Doug. I'll ask

0:35:58.760 --> 0:36:02.640
<v Speaker 1>Doug what's our plan with the Doug has a plan.

0:36:02.960 --> 0:36:04.520
<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to be the one house in our

0:36:04.560 --> 0:36:07.719
<v Speaker 2>neighborhood that's everybody else is maintaining their yards. And I've

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:09.960
<v Speaker 2>never lived in a neighborhood where people do that. So

0:36:10.080 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be like, did you see the

0:36:12.320 --> 0:36:13.280
<v Speaker 2>Van Buren's house.

0:36:13.760 --> 0:36:14.640
<v Speaker 1>You got to keep up with them.

0:36:14.640 --> 0:36:15.320
<v Speaker 3>They're letting it go.

0:36:16.880 --> 0:36:19.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they're bringing down the value of our homes.

0:36:18.800 --> 0:36:20.840
<v Speaker 1>With the Joneses. Yeah, you might get a fine.

0:36:20.880 --> 0:36:24.120
<v Speaker 2>Update update if anybody from my neighborhood, which I'm not

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:26.040
<v Speaker 2>going to say what it is that anybody from my

0:36:26.040 --> 0:36:30.919
<v Speaker 2>neighborhood is listening? Let me into the Homeowner Association Facebook group.

0:36:31.080 --> 0:36:34.879
<v Speaker 1>Wait, why are you getting the heisman on that? I don't?

0:36:35.640 --> 0:36:37.840
<v Speaker 3>That was like a cool little like, yeah, what's like

0:36:37.920 --> 0:36:38.960
<v Speaker 3>a you're getting blocked?

0:36:39.080 --> 0:36:41.439
<v Speaker 2>I'm getting blocked. I talked about this what a month ago,

0:36:41.920 --> 0:36:46.240
<v Speaker 2>maybe longer. I even had a pending request. I canceled

0:36:46.280 --> 0:36:48.000
<v Speaker 2>my request and requests.

0:36:48.040 --> 0:36:51.080
<v Speaker 1>So my thing is maybe the moderator just hasn't logged on,

0:36:51.239 --> 0:36:52.000
<v Speaker 1>like is it active.

0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:55.000
<v Speaker 2>It's active, you can see like there's been two posts today, but.

0:36:55.160 --> 0:36:57.160
<v Speaker 1>Maybe they haven't gone over to the little section like

0:36:57.239 --> 0:36:59.640
<v Speaker 1>the notification that says we have someone waiting to get in.

0:36:59.719 --> 0:37:02.520
<v Speaker 2>Okay, well here's my feedback for them. That could be

0:37:02.719 --> 0:37:06.120
<v Speaker 2>very true. Somebody from the HOA brought cookies to our

0:37:06.160 --> 0:37:08.480
<v Speaker 2>house so they know that I'm here.

0:37:08.760 --> 0:37:11.360
<v Speaker 1>Okay, do you know who specifically brought the cookies or

0:37:11.480 --> 0:37:12.560
<v Speaker 1>just said from the HOA?

0:37:13.280 --> 0:37:15.959
<v Speaker 2>She actually was the same lady that sold our house

0:37:16.040 --> 0:37:17.680
<v Speaker 2>to us, so I would talk.

0:37:17.560 --> 0:37:21.120
<v Speaker 1>To her, Okay, yeah, okay, just networking.

0:37:21.120 --> 0:37:23.520
<v Speaker 3>Oh, by the way, I would really like to be

0:37:23.680 --> 0:37:24.279
<v Speaker 3>part of the group.

0:37:24.600 --> 0:37:26.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you want to get let in. It made me

0:37:26.280 --> 0:37:29.400
<v Speaker 1>think whenever I was googling how to know. You know,

0:37:29.600 --> 0:37:31.759
<v Speaker 1>when you type into a Google search engine, other things

0:37:31.800 --> 0:37:35.320
<v Speaker 1>will pop up that you're not how to know. I

0:37:35.480 --> 0:37:36.759
<v Speaker 1>was saying how to know if you should break your

0:37:36.800 --> 0:37:38.560
<v Speaker 1>leaves or not? But all I typed in was how

0:37:38.640 --> 0:37:40.279
<v Speaker 1>to know? And before I got to that, the first

0:37:40.320 --> 0:37:42.799
<v Speaker 1>thing that comes up is how to know if someone

0:37:42.880 --> 0:37:45.440
<v Speaker 1>blocked you? So that must be the most searched how

0:37:45.480 --> 0:37:48.680
<v Speaker 1>to know. Oh. The next worried one is how to

0:37:48.840 --> 0:37:52.520
<v Speaker 1>know if eggs are bad? Do you know? No? Did

0:37:52.560 --> 0:37:53.040
<v Speaker 1>they float?

0:37:53.360 --> 0:37:54.239
<v Speaker 3>It's a float test?

0:37:54.520 --> 0:37:54.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:37:55.120 --> 0:37:57.680
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well I just clicked on it. You can tell

0:37:57.719 --> 0:37:59.800
<v Speaker 1>if eggs are bad by performing a float test and

0:38:00.200 --> 0:38:03.000
<v Speaker 1>of water. A fresh egg will sink, a bad egg

0:38:03.040 --> 0:38:03.760
<v Speaker 1>will float.

0:38:05.000 --> 0:38:06.399
<v Speaker 3>Have you ever cracked up with a bad egg?

0:38:06.960 --> 0:38:08.680
<v Speaker 1>No? I don't why what happened?

0:38:09.160 --> 0:38:10.040
<v Speaker 3>I've never done it either.

0:38:10.400 --> 0:38:14.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was like, I don't know, Okay, how don't

0:38:14.800 --> 0:38:16.200
<v Speaker 1>know if eggs are bad? How don't know if someone

0:38:16.320 --> 0:38:19.000
<v Speaker 1>blocked you? How don't know if you're pregnant? How don't

0:38:19.000 --> 0:38:22.520
<v Speaker 1>know if you have diabetes? Those are the most popular?

0:38:23.400 --> 0:38:26.120
<v Speaker 2>Is that the most popular in general and the most

0:38:26.160 --> 0:38:27.920
<v Speaker 2>popular based on your search history.

0:38:28.520 --> 0:38:31.279
<v Speaker 1>Well, I've never searched any of those things, so.

0:38:32.800 --> 0:38:33.279
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:38:33.440 --> 0:38:35.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, maybe you type in how to know to your

0:38:35.680 --> 0:38:36.600
<v Speaker 1>little iPad over.

0:38:36.560 --> 0:38:37.920
<v Speaker 2>There, that's actually what comes up.

0:38:38.000 --> 0:38:40.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just all. You don't type in anything else, but

0:38:40.680 --> 0:38:44.200
<v Speaker 1>other than how to know, that's the only thing you're

0:38:44.200 --> 0:38:46.440
<v Speaker 1>allowed to type. And while you type that, I'm going

0:38:46.520 --> 0:38:50.040
<v Speaker 1>to go back to my list of things you can

0:38:50.320 --> 0:38:52.480
<v Speaker 1>say to someone besides let me know what you need.

0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:55.800
<v Speaker 1>We have two more left. Want company for a walk

0:38:56.400 --> 0:38:59.600
<v Speaker 1>or just someone to sit with, which is a good one,

0:39:00.360 --> 0:39:03.919
<v Speaker 1>and the final one I know calls can be a lot.

0:39:04.360 --> 0:39:05.880
<v Speaker 1>Want me to text you instead?

0:39:07.520 --> 0:39:09.440
<v Speaker 2>I can't figure out how to get my iPad to work?

0:39:09.840 --> 0:39:14.760
<v Speaker 1>What do you mean how how to go to search Google?

0:39:15.040 --> 0:39:19.400
<v Speaker 1>It won't. It's being like it's.

0:39:18.520 --> 0:39:20.640
<v Speaker 3>Being ornery, as my grandmother.

0:39:20.239 --> 0:39:21.680
<v Speaker 1>Would say, ornery or honery.

0:39:22.480 --> 0:39:25.120
<v Speaker 3>I think it's ornery, that's how my nmai said.

0:39:25.600 --> 0:39:26.920
<v Speaker 1>But also I thought it was a docket.

0:39:28.560 --> 0:39:33.719
<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, okay, I got I got okay. How see,

0:39:33.760 --> 0:39:35.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm like pressing things and nothing's happened?

0:39:35.760 --> 0:39:35.960
<v Speaker 3>Okay?

0:39:36.000 --> 0:39:38.680
<v Speaker 2>How it's just slow? I know this thing needs to

0:39:38.760 --> 0:39:40.600
<v Speaker 2>be you can see that I don't use this often.

0:39:40.600 --> 0:39:43.680
<v Speaker 2>I think it needs to be updated. How many days

0:39:43.719 --> 0:39:44.440
<v Speaker 2>until Christmas?

0:39:44.600 --> 0:39:45.759
<v Speaker 1>No, you have to type in?

0:39:45.880 --> 0:39:48.640
<v Speaker 2>How to know? I know it's taking that long from

0:39:48.680 --> 0:39:51.560
<v Speaker 2>my I'm typing it and it's taking a long time

0:39:51.640 --> 0:39:55.239
<v Speaker 2>to catch up. How to screenshot on Mac. How to

0:39:55.320 --> 0:39:56.400
<v Speaker 2>get rid of stink bugs?

0:39:56.600 --> 0:39:56.880
<v Speaker 3>Okay?

0:39:57.080 --> 0:39:59.040
<v Speaker 2>How to know? Oh what does it say? How to

0:39:59.120 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 2>know if someone blocked you? How to know if eggs

0:40:00.640 --> 0:40:01.960
<v Speaker 2>are bad? How do you know if you're pregnant? How

0:40:02.000 --> 0:40:02.360
<v Speaker 2>do you know?

0:40:02.920 --> 0:40:04.200
<v Speaker 1>How do you have diabetes?

0:40:04.400 --> 0:40:05.560
<v Speaker 3>How do you know if you have a concussion?

0:40:06.040 --> 0:40:10.399
<v Speaker 2>How to know if a la buobuu is real? How

0:40:10.440 --> 0:40:11.399
<v Speaker 2>did you miss that one?

0:40:11.760 --> 0:40:14.920
<v Speaker 1>Well? I only clicked. I only if I kept scrolling

0:40:14.960 --> 0:40:15.719
<v Speaker 1>more might show up.

0:40:16.760 --> 0:40:18.239
<v Speaker 2>How to know if chicken is bad? How do you

0:40:18.320 --> 0:40:20.120
<v Speaker 2>know if ground beef is bad? How to know when

0:40:20.160 --> 0:40:24.399
<v Speaker 2>you're ovulating? That's hard? How to know your blood type?

0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:26.359
<v Speaker 2>I don't know my blood type.

0:40:26.360 --> 0:40:28.480
<v Speaker 1>And the thing is, I've been told my blood type

0:40:28.520 --> 0:40:32.360
<v Speaker 1>multiple and I don't remember why. Why is it?

0:40:32.640 --> 0:40:34.040
<v Speaker 3>But my mom knows my blood type?

0:40:34.120 --> 0:40:36.279
<v Speaker 2>Because when I want to know it The answer is,

0:40:36.520 --> 0:40:39.680
<v Speaker 2>text your mom because she knows, but I don't know mine.

0:40:39.880 --> 0:40:41.040
<v Speaker 1>Well I can't text my mom.

0:40:41.760 --> 0:40:46.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, then we need to write it down somewhere. How

0:40:46.120 --> 0:40:48.279
<v Speaker 2>do you know Kat knows her blood type?

0:40:48.719 --> 0:40:49.960
<v Speaker 1>No, she's so positive.

0:40:50.120 --> 0:40:51.520
<v Speaker 3>No, she knows hers.

0:40:51.640 --> 0:40:53.480
<v Speaker 1>It's like she Oh, I thought you were saying she.

0:40:53.800 --> 0:40:55.960
<v Speaker 2>I would love to do a poll. Do you know

0:40:56.080 --> 0:40:56.759
<v Speaker 2>your blood type?

0:40:57.320 --> 0:40:58.040
<v Speaker 3>How many people?

0:40:58.560 --> 0:41:00.560
<v Speaker 2>How many people he's gonna know?

0:41:00.840 --> 0:41:02.560
<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of people don't know. Like, do

0:41:02.640 --> 0:41:05.920
<v Speaker 1>you have your driver's license? M're memorized? No? I know.

0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:08.320
<v Speaker 3>It starts with I know the three first numbers.

0:41:08.480 --> 0:41:09.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you have your license plate memorized?

0:41:10.640 --> 0:41:12.440
<v Speaker 2>I used to because I used to work in a

0:41:12.640 --> 0:41:14.719
<v Speaker 2>parking lot where I had to type it in to

0:41:14.880 --> 0:41:17.239
<v Speaker 2>validate my parking. But I got a new license plate.

0:41:17.760 --> 0:41:18.440
<v Speaker 3>Do you know yours?

0:41:18.760 --> 0:41:18.800
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:41:19.440 --> 0:41:20.839
<v Speaker 3>Do you know your social Security number?

0:41:21.160 --> 0:41:24.319
<v Speaker 1>Yes? I know my social Security number.

0:41:26.000 --> 0:41:29.239
<v Speaker 2>So social security number number, I know it?

0:41:30.840 --> 0:41:31.560
<v Speaker 1>Four four.

0:41:31.719 --> 0:41:32.279
<v Speaker 2>You don't have to.

0:41:33.840 --> 0:41:35.960
<v Speaker 1>But I think everybody born around me starts with the

0:41:36.000 --> 0:41:38.799
<v Speaker 1>four four. Wait. Really, I think it's like when you're

0:41:38.840 --> 0:41:41.160
<v Speaker 1>born right as the first I.

0:41:41.160 --> 0:41:42.160
<v Speaker 3>Thought it was random?

0:41:42.640 --> 0:41:43.440
<v Speaker 1>Is it random?

0:41:44.239 --> 0:41:44.800
<v Speaker 3>It's random?

0:41:44.920 --> 0:41:46.080
<v Speaker 2>Take that back? Redact that.

0:41:46.640 --> 0:41:49.960
<v Speaker 1>Okay, there's so many other numbers that you could factor in.

0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:52.680
<v Speaker 1>Nobody's going to figure out my social Security number because

0:41:52.719 --> 0:41:53.240
<v Speaker 1>I said.

0:41:53.080 --> 0:41:55.520
<v Speaker 2>Four next week your identity and I only said four.

0:41:55.480 --> 0:41:57.480
<v Speaker 1>Twice, because that's what we do here. We repeat every

0:41:57.520 --> 0:42:04.839
<v Speaker 1>time twice, tries twice for four. By kay, you ready

0:42:04.880 --> 0:42:07.400
<v Speaker 1>for it? The thing I've been waiting for.

0:42:07.600 --> 0:42:08.680
<v Speaker 3>The thing you've been waiting for.

0:42:08.960 --> 0:42:12.160
<v Speaker 1>The real thing. You've been waiting for. Foods that make

0:42:12.239 --> 0:42:27.320
<v Speaker 1>you smell better, therefore more attractive, Foods that make you

0:42:27.440 --> 0:42:29.799
<v Speaker 1>smell better, therefore more attractive.

0:42:30.120 --> 0:42:31.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm kind of nervous this one.

0:42:31.680 --> 0:42:34.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't agree with at all. But garlic is on

0:42:34.800 --> 0:42:39.800
<v Speaker 1>the list because apparently when a man sweats after he

0:42:39.960 --> 0:42:43.359
<v Speaker 1>is consumed garlic, he is rated as more pleasant by women.

0:42:44.719 --> 0:42:49.920
<v Speaker 1>There's not no what this could be debatable. I just

0:42:50.040 --> 0:42:54.360
<v Speaker 1>don't get it. We'll move on a diet higher in

0:42:54.520 --> 0:42:58.440
<v Speaker 1>fruits and veggies produce sweat with more of a floral, fruity,

0:42:58.840 --> 0:43:03.080
<v Speaker 1>sweet scent. Okay, I can get behind that. Yogurt and

0:43:03.200 --> 0:43:08.480
<v Speaker 1>Kiefer supports beneficial gut mouth bacteria. Did I say keifer wrong? Well?

0:43:08.560 --> 0:43:08.799
<v Speaker 2>Okay?

0:43:09.320 --> 0:43:09.440
<v Speaker 1>Is it?

0:43:10.719 --> 0:43:11.000
<v Speaker 3>Okay?

0:43:11.160 --> 0:43:13.919
<v Speaker 2>I've actually never said that word because I've not known

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<v Speaker 2>how to say it, I would have in my head

0:43:17.280 --> 0:43:18.280
<v Speaker 2>pronounced it keffer.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was about to say thank you for finally

0:43:20.120 --> 0:43:21.120
<v Speaker 3>telling me that it's keifer.

0:43:21.280 --> 0:43:21.960
<v Speaker 1>It could be keffer.

0:43:22.160 --> 0:43:24.040
<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's a weird word.

0:43:24.600 --> 0:43:25.840
<v Speaker 2>It's k e f.

0:43:26.120 --> 0:43:27.760
<v Speaker 1>I R kefer.

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually pronounced.

0:43:31.960 --> 0:43:32.280
<v Speaker 1>Kiffer.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, I don't. That's also a weird one.

0:43:35.080 --> 0:43:39.120
<v Speaker 2>Yogurt. Yogurt is like molded milk. It's curdled milk, is

0:43:39.160 --> 0:43:39.360
<v Speaker 2>it not?

0:43:40.160 --> 0:43:40.480
<v Speaker 1>What is it?

0:43:40.520 --> 0:43:43.799
<v Speaker 3>It's a yogurt is a bacteria.

0:43:43.760 --> 0:43:45.719
<v Speaker 1>But the bacteria that are good in there are good

0:43:45.800 --> 0:43:49.760
<v Speaker 1>for your gut microbiome. Like, I'm the probiotics.

0:43:50.040 --> 0:43:53.320
<v Speaker 3>I'm pro yogurt, but I know that's I'm pro yogurt.

0:43:54.440 --> 0:43:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Yes, let's be more about what we're for, not what

0:43:56.719 --> 0:43:57.360
<v Speaker 1>we're against.

0:43:58.800 --> 0:44:00.479
<v Speaker 2>Let's start with the yogurt people.

0:44:01.600 --> 0:44:03.400
<v Speaker 1>It's so fractured out there these days.

0:44:04.840 --> 0:44:10.160
<v Speaker 2>And it is interesting that yogurt would make you smell good.

0:44:10.880 --> 0:44:14.600
<v Speaker 1>I think it just helps with your bacteria, which leads

0:44:14.719 --> 0:44:19.000
<v Speaker 1>to better Okay, Yeah, Water and staying hydrated, now this

0:44:19.120 --> 0:44:22.080
<v Speaker 1>one is just something I know. I know this, and

0:44:22.239 --> 0:44:26.200
<v Speaker 1>I just still don't drink enough water. Doing so reduces

0:44:26.320 --> 0:44:28.280
<v Speaker 1>concentrated bacteria and unwanted smells.

0:44:28.960 --> 0:44:29.239
<v Speaker 3>Got it.

0:44:30.400 --> 0:44:33.080
<v Speaker 1>Finally, this is what I want to really start doing

0:44:33.760 --> 0:44:37.120
<v Speaker 1>mint leaves or ginger in your water.

0:44:38.000 --> 0:44:39.120
<v Speaker 3>Let's level up the water.

0:44:39.200 --> 0:44:44.320
<v Speaker 1>You get hydrated and you add these herbs that help you.

0:44:45.560 --> 0:44:49.560
<v Speaker 1>They have anti macrobial elements. So if you consume that

0:44:49.719 --> 0:44:51.080
<v Speaker 1>it's like anti macrobial.

0:44:52.480 --> 0:44:54.920
<v Speaker 3>I want to offer some feedback.

0:44:55.280 --> 0:44:55.680
<v Speaker 1>Go for it.

0:44:56.000 --> 0:44:59.239
<v Speaker 2>This is with anything, if you are trying to start

0:44:59.280 --> 0:45:03.600
<v Speaker 2>a new habit, we need to start at the lowest level,

0:45:04.400 --> 0:45:08.040
<v Speaker 2>not stack things. So if you can't even drink water,

0:45:08.760 --> 0:45:10.759
<v Speaker 2>do you think it was minty? Do you think that

0:45:10.800 --> 0:45:12.839
<v Speaker 2>would motivate you of like I have special water. Yeah,

0:45:12.840 --> 0:45:14.360
<v Speaker 2>because then you have to like get the mint and

0:45:14.440 --> 0:45:16.080
<v Speaker 2>then get the water. Put the mint in the water,

0:45:16.280 --> 0:45:17.120
<v Speaker 2>shake it up, trick it.

0:45:17.320 --> 0:45:19.759
<v Speaker 1>You know. I used to put I haven't thought of

0:45:19.840 --> 0:45:23.000
<v Speaker 1>this in years. I used to put fresh mint leaves

0:45:23.480 --> 0:45:27.920
<v Speaker 1>in my chocolate protein smoothies and it tastes like mint

0:45:28.000 --> 0:45:28.560
<v Speaker 1>chocolate chip.

0:45:29.239 --> 0:45:32.080
<v Speaker 2>Waitond because this call I forgot I did that? Why

0:45:32.120 --> 0:45:33.840
<v Speaker 2>have I never thought about this? I have a chocolate

0:45:33.880 --> 0:45:35.279
<v Speaker 2>smoothie like almost every day.

0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:36.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh well, you need to throw some mint leaves in there,

0:45:37.000 --> 0:45:39.200
<v Speaker 1>and it's gonna change the game, especially this time of year.

0:45:39.280 --> 0:45:43.640
<v Speaker 1>Because we are festive. Oh Christmas time. Thank you, You're welcome.

0:45:44.080 --> 0:45:49.200
<v Speaker 1>And you're gonna be adding anti macrobial elements to your smoothie.

0:45:50.040 --> 0:45:53.680
<v Speaker 1>Your chocolate smoothie just got an upgrade. Fresh mint leaves. Okay,

0:45:53.760 --> 0:45:55.480
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna beat the grocery store and you're gonna be like,

0:45:55.600 --> 0:45:59.000
<v Speaker 1>I need some mint, fresh mint please. It's an elevated purchase.

0:45:59.040 --> 0:45:59.960
<v Speaker 3>Where do you keep your freshman?

0:46:00.200 --> 0:46:01.240
<v Speaker 1>But it's like not expensive.

0:46:02.080 --> 0:46:03.719
<v Speaker 3>Should we think lant mint?

0:46:03.800 --> 0:46:05.879
<v Speaker 1>We should just grow our own. Yeah, I bet it's

0:46:05.920 --> 0:46:08.759
<v Speaker 1>easy to grow your own mint. Yeah, leaf plant, tree thing.

0:46:08.880 --> 0:46:10.719
<v Speaker 3>Then we're adding more and we really just need to

0:46:10.719 --> 0:46:11.560
<v Speaker 3>be drinking more water.

0:46:12.360 --> 0:46:16.280
<v Speaker 1>Okay, And I like ginger. I can add ginger chunks

0:46:16.400 --> 0:46:18.719
<v Speaker 1>into hot hot limit water.

0:46:19.480 --> 0:46:20.040
<v Speaker 3>That could do it.

0:46:20.640 --> 0:46:23.640
<v Speaker 1>You can throw ginger into your smoothies. I wouldn't into

0:46:23.680 --> 0:46:25.640
<v Speaker 1>your chocolate mint, but you could if you were doing

0:46:25.680 --> 0:46:27.560
<v Speaker 1>a different type of smoothie that had other.

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:31.440
<v Speaker 2>I love a ginger tea like a hot tea. I

0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:33.799
<v Speaker 2>can't get down with a ginger flavored water.

0:46:34.200 --> 0:46:35.320
<v Speaker 3>Okay, there you go.

0:46:36.200 --> 0:46:39.239
<v Speaker 1>If you want to be more attractive, all you have

0:46:39.360 --> 0:46:41.319
<v Speaker 1>to do is put mint in your water and there

0:46:41.360 --> 0:46:43.279
<v Speaker 1>you go. Now I have a list of foods that

0:46:43.400 --> 0:46:46.000
<v Speaker 1>make you smell bad, therefore less attractive.

0:46:46.000 --> 0:46:46.920
<v Speaker 2>This is what I was scared of.

0:46:47.600 --> 0:46:50.000
<v Speaker 1>This word I always struggle with. So is I'm going

0:46:50.040 --> 0:46:51.560
<v Speaker 1>to be vulnerable and I'm going to try to say

0:46:51.560 --> 0:46:58.279
<v Speaker 1>it right the first time. Crysiferous vegetables. Cryciferous vegetables, Do

0:46:58.280 --> 0:46:58.840
<v Speaker 1>you know what that is?

0:46:59.480 --> 0:47:01.279
<v Speaker 3>Like a rock or a cauliflower.

0:47:01.560 --> 0:47:06.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they are packed with sulfurous compounds leading to unpleasant smells.

0:47:07.080 --> 0:47:10.479
<v Speaker 3>Broccoli is probably the veel I eat the most. That's

0:47:10.719 --> 0:47:11.239
<v Speaker 3>tough for me.

0:47:11.960 --> 0:47:14.759
<v Speaker 1>Asparagus causes smelly sweat and urine.

0:47:14.840 --> 0:47:16.360
<v Speaker 2>That's my second favorite vegetable.

0:47:17.680 --> 0:47:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I have never even ever smelled to me.

0:47:19.560 --> 0:47:22.880
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, but your pa does smell after you as

0:47:22.920 --> 0:47:24.000
<v Speaker 3>fergus very much.

0:47:24.080 --> 0:47:26.840
<v Speaker 1>So it's instantaneous, Which doesn't that make you think of

0:47:27.440 --> 0:47:31.440
<v Speaker 1>It's almost like you're having this science experience in happening

0:47:31.520 --> 0:47:33.000
<v Speaker 1>right to your buddy. Like I'll be at a restaurant,

0:47:33.000 --> 0:47:34.880
<v Speaker 1>I'll eat a bite of asparagus. I'll run to the

0:47:34.920 --> 0:47:36.759
<v Speaker 1>bathroom like at the restaurant because I have to pee,

0:47:37.160 --> 0:47:39.200
<v Speaker 1>and while I already smell like it. So it's like

0:47:39.280 --> 0:47:41.120
<v Speaker 1>how quickly things hit your bloodstream.

0:47:41.280 --> 0:47:43.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like crazy I know it is.

0:47:44.200 --> 0:47:46.480
<v Speaker 1>But also I was talking to someone the other day

0:47:46.480 --> 0:47:51.160
<v Speaker 1>about how smart our blood is. Our blood is really smart. Yeah, yeah,

0:47:51.200 --> 0:47:53.359
<v Speaker 1>because it like filters all kinds of things all the time.

0:47:53.640 --> 0:47:55.279
<v Speaker 3>I don't really know how blesses. I don't.

0:47:55.680 --> 0:47:57.880
<v Speaker 1>We don't ask me to explain it. I just know

0:47:58.160 --> 0:48:01.480
<v Speaker 1>that it's moving around and doing it's moving, it's grooven,

0:48:01.560 --> 0:48:07.560
<v Speaker 1>it's doing things. Red meat men rated smelling slightly worse

0:48:07.719 --> 0:48:09.239
<v Speaker 1>compared to men who didn't eat meat.

0:48:10.080 --> 0:48:13.120
<v Speaker 3>I feel like that's men are gonna stop eating red meat.

0:48:13.400 --> 0:48:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I feel good after I have some ground beef. Okay,

0:48:18.200 --> 0:48:19.800
<v Speaker 1>maybe that's what I did that Monday.

0:48:20.440 --> 0:48:23.239
<v Speaker 2>You had some ground beef. That ground be oh like

0:48:23.719 --> 0:48:25.160
<v Speaker 2>what you were on a ground beef kick.

0:48:25.600 --> 0:48:31.560
<v Speaker 1>I was having lots of beef around. Maybe that's because

0:48:31.640 --> 0:48:38.120
<v Speaker 1>my blood just need once it wants the meat, fish

0:48:38.160 --> 0:48:41.840
<v Speaker 1>and beans, they produce strong smelling compounds that are released

0:48:41.920 --> 0:48:45.440
<v Speaker 1>via the skin and breath. I will say, my boyfriend

0:48:45.480 --> 0:48:47.960
<v Speaker 1>did eat some fish the other day, and I knew

0:48:47.960 --> 0:48:49.920
<v Speaker 1>we ate it, like I could just smell the fish.

0:48:51.200 --> 0:48:55.239
<v Speaker 2>I didn't have smell too. My friend doesn't have a

0:48:55.320 --> 0:48:58.400
<v Speaker 2>sense of smell, which is crazy. She just from COVID

0:48:58.520 --> 0:49:00.200
<v Speaker 2>or no, she's just never had one.

0:49:00.480 --> 0:49:01.879
<v Speaker 1>Oh, she was born that way.

0:49:02.560 --> 0:49:04.920
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I actually forget the whole story. I should ask her.

0:49:05.239 --> 0:49:08.760
<v Speaker 2>I feel like it slowly changed or she didn't realize

0:49:08.800 --> 0:49:10.600
<v Speaker 2>that she didn't have it until later in life, and

0:49:10.640 --> 0:49:13.080
<v Speaker 2>then she was like, wait, what you guys are smelling this?

0:49:13.719 --> 0:49:15.080
<v Speaker 2>So like she can't pick out a candle and she

0:49:15.120 --> 0:49:17.200
<v Speaker 2>can't pick out a perfume. She has to ask us

0:49:18.080 --> 0:49:21.640
<v Speaker 2>to help her because she could be wearing really yucky perfume.

0:49:22.280 --> 0:49:24.719
<v Speaker 2>I used to live with her and she used to

0:49:24.800 --> 0:49:29.240
<v Speaker 2>take fish to work and microwave it because she didn't

0:49:29.760 --> 0:49:32.520
<v Speaker 2>know what fish smell like. And then we had to

0:49:32.600 --> 0:49:34.800
<v Speaker 2>tell her, you're probably the smelly girl at work and

0:49:34.840 --> 0:49:35.800
<v Speaker 2>everybody's annoyed with you.

0:49:36.080 --> 0:49:38.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's rules for the work microwave.

0:49:38.440 --> 0:49:42.799
<v Speaker 2>You can't put fish or crustaceans in it. I don't

0:49:42.840 --> 0:49:44.080
<v Speaker 2>think you should do shrimpy.

0:49:43.760 --> 0:49:45.400
<v Speaker 1>There, Oh crustaceans.

0:49:45.560 --> 0:49:48.600
<v Speaker 2>What did you think I'm saying? Chrisis servis.

0:49:49.840 --> 0:49:52.480
<v Speaker 1>I just have never I've heard other people do it,

0:49:52.560 --> 0:49:55.279
<v Speaker 1>but I've never referred to a shrimp as a crustacean.

0:49:55.560 --> 0:49:58.160
<v Speaker 2>I think, like any type, well, like he's a crab,

0:49:58.200 --> 0:50:00.839
<v Speaker 2>a crustacean. I think so now crab in the Yeah,

0:50:00.960 --> 0:50:04.280
<v Speaker 2>no crab, No lobster, Nope, no, none of those crustaceans

0:50:04.320 --> 0:50:06.759
<v Speaker 2>I think from the sea. Yeah, nothing from the sea.

0:50:08.160 --> 0:50:11.439
<v Speaker 2>She was mortified and she didn't She'll never do it again.

0:50:11.880 --> 0:50:13.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's lucky to have y'all.

0:50:13.239 --> 0:50:13.880
<v Speaker 3>Isn't that crazy?

0:50:13.920 --> 0:50:14.080
<v Speaker 1>Though?

0:50:14.120 --> 0:50:16.640
<v Speaker 2>She's just like not born. I guess it's probably more

0:50:16.680 --> 0:50:19.680
<v Speaker 2>common than you think. Well, like your but she can't taste.

0:50:19.719 --> 0:50:22.200
<v Speaker 2>That's the other thing is your senses, Like which sense

0:50:22.280 --> 0:50:24.080
<v Speaker 2>would you would take over?

0:50:24.280 --> 0:50:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Like would you? Yeah? Because you would think like if

0:50:26.520 --> 0:50:30.000
<v Speaker 1>you have the taste, she would know that fish sometimes

0:50:30.080 --> 0:50:31.880
<v Speaker 1>it tastes fishy, Yeah.

0:50:31.760 --> 0:50:32.960
<v Speaker 3>But she doesn't know what it smells like.

0:50:33.160 --> 0:50:33.359
<v Speaker 1>True.

0:50:33.400 --> 0:50:35.120
<v Speaker 3>But what's interesting is she can still you.

0:50:35.760 --> 0:50:38.440
<v Speaker 2>There used to be this urban legend going around the

0:50:38.480 --> 0:50:42.439
<v Speaker 2>internet that that if you didn't have a sense of smell,

0:50:42.480 --> 0:50:44.960
<v Speaker 2>you didn't have a sense of taste. But I think

0:50:45.000 --> 0:50:46.960
<v Speaker 2>if you don't have a sense of smell, your sense

0:50:47.000 --> 0:50:50.640
<v Speaker 2>of taste is very limited. But if you never have one,

0:50:50.680 --> 0:50:52.719
<v Speaker 2>then you don't know that. So like, if I lose

0:50:52.760 --> 0:50:55.520
<v Speaker 2>my sense of smell, I will notice the difference in

0:50:55.600 --> 0:50:56.000
<v Speaker 2>my taste.

0:50:56.080 --> 0:50:59.320
<v Speaker 1>But since she's never had it, when you're sick, things

0:50:59.400 --> 0:51:01.600
<v Speaker 1>taste stiff, different or you can't taste them as much.

0:51:01.800 --> 0:51:06.120
<v Speaker 3>But because she's never had that experience, yeah she yeah. Anyway,

0:51:06.640 --> 0:51:07.080
<v Speaker 3>the more you.

0:51:07.120 --> 0:51:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Know, moving on with the list, there's only a few

0:51:09.080 --> 0:51:15.200
<v Speaker 1>more large amounts of alcohol. This increases moral bacteria causing sweat, skin, gut,

0:51:16.080 --> 0:51:19.160
<v Speaker 1>all that stuff to Emit smells, which, yes, if you

0:51:19.200 --> 0:51:20.360
<v Speaker 1>have large amounts of alcohol.

0:51:21.320 --> 0:51:24.080
<v Speaker 2>That's interesting that alcohol creates the bacteria, because I would

0:51:24.080 --> 0:51:25.720
<v Speaker 2>think that alcohol would wipe it out.

0:51:26.360 --> 0:51:33.160
<v Speaker 1>Like rubbing alcohol. Yeah, a little different. Caffeine or tea

0:51:33.360 --> 0:51:38.920
<v Speaker 1>stimulates sweat glands in your underarms and area, leading to

0:51:39.040 --> 0:51:40.120
<v Speaker 1>stronger body odor.

0:51:40.600 --> 0:51:42.080
<v Speaker 3>Wait, I drink a lot of tea.

0:51:42.280 --> 0:51:43.360
<v Speaker 1>I love tea and coffee.

0:51:43.880 --> 0:51:44.680
<v Speaker 2>This is stupid.

0:51:45.680 --> 0:51:49.840
<v Speaker 1>Where does this from low carb ketogenic style diets? I

0:51:49.920 --> 0:51:53.239
<v Speaker 1>have heard this, like if you are in keto you

0:51:54.280 --> 0:51:58.719
<v Speaker 1>have a nail polish remover smell oh like.

0:51:58.800 --> 0:52:02.400
<v Speaker 2>Alcohol like acid. Yeah that's shocking.

0:52:02.840 --> 0:52:05.200
<v Speaker 3>So can we go ahead and say that.

0:52:05.320 --> 0:52:09.719
<v Speaker 1>This list is just for fun and not real, and

0:52:10.160 --> 0:52:11.600
<v Speaker 1>but add mint to your smoothies.

0:52:11.920 --> 0:52:12.600
<v Speaker 3>That part's real.

0:52:12.800 --> 0:52:14.800
<v Speaker 1>That part's real. I do think that there is some

0:52:16.120 --> 0:52:18.160
<v Speaker 1>to it ish, but you don't have to live by it,

0:52:18.280 --> 0:52:22.680
<v Speaker 1>like eat your asparagus, eat your broccoli, eat your cauliflower.

0:52:22.400 --> 0:52:24.640
<v Speaker 3>And people will love you no matter what you smell like.

0:52:25.440 --> 0:52:28.279
<v Speaker 1>But my favorite thing out of this entire you know,

0:52:28.360 --> 0:52:30.320
<v Speaker 1>sometimes you're like, I don't know why we do certain

0:52:30.480 --> 0:52:33.680
<v Speaker 1>little segments. I don't know this. I know, I know

0:52:33.760 --> 0:52:36.000
<v Speaker 1>we went through all of that so that we could

0:52:36.160 --> 0:52:39.160
<v Speaker 1>re introduce or in your case, introduce it to you

0:52:39.239 --> 0:52:43.879
<v Speaker 1>for the first time mentally into our chocolate smoothies. Yeah.

0:52:44.000 --> 0:52:44.600
<v Speaker 3>Thank god.

0:52:44.960 --> 0:52:46.719
<v Speaker 2>I would never have thought of that, And I've been

0:52:46.800 --> 0:52:49.879
<v Speaker 2>on a mint chocolate chip ice cream kick the past

0:52:49.920 --> 0:52:50.399
<v Speaker 2>couple weeks.

0:52:50.480 --> 0:52:53.160
<v Speaker 1>Questions that don't come up. Do you put milk in

0:52:53.239 --> 0:52:53.840
<v Speaker 1>your ice cream?

0:52:54.760 --> 0:52:56.279
<v Speaker 3>No, it's made out of milk.

0:52:56.400 --> 0:52:59.439
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but what you do is you scoop it into

0:52:59.480 --> 0:53:03.200
<v Speaker 1>your bowler cup and then you pour a thin layer

0:53:03.280 --> 0:53:04.959
<v Speaker 1>of milk on top of the ice cream.

0:53:05.320 --> 0:53:05.880
<v Speaker 3>What happens?

0:53:06.560 --> 0:53:08.880
<v Speaker 1>Put it back in the freezer for just a little bit,

0:53:09.120 --> 0:53:12.560
<v Speaker 1>not too long, and then pull it out. Don't ask

0:53:12.640 --> 0:53:19.480
<v Speaker 1>me what happens. Try it for yourself. It is so good, yeah,

0:53:19.560 --> 0:53:22.320
<v Speaker 1>saying we grow. Yeah. It came up because my sister

0:53:22.880 --> 0:53:24.960
<v Speaker 1>and I were on FaceTime with my boyfriend and I

0:53:25.160 --> 0:53:27.560
<v Speaker 1>was drinking a glass of milk not milk. I drink

0:53:27.560 --> 0:53:30.640
<v Speaker 1>almond milk, but can you use almond milk for this

0:53:31.160 --> 0:53:33.320
<v Speaker 1>whatever kind of milk you drink, Yes, you can do

0:53:33.360 --> 0:53:35.600
<v Speaker 1>almond milk for this on your ice cream. It's really

0:53:35.680 --> 0:53:41.440
<v Speaker 1>what it. Almond milk, oat milk, cow's milk, cashw milk,

0:53:43.719 --> 0:53:49.000
<v Speaker 1>coconut milk, whatever milk you fancy, go for it. Back

0:53:49.080 --> 0:53:52.799
<v Speaker 1>in my childhood, my dad always put ice in his milk,

0:53:52.960 --> 0:53:55.320
<v Speaker 1>so we grew up putting ice in our milk. I

0:53:55.440 --> 0:53:57.080
<v Speaker 1>love ice in my milk. And I was at my

0:53:57.120 --> 0:53:59.600
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend's house the other night and he had made these

0:53:59.640 --> 0:54:02.520
<v Speaker 1>little protein ball things that were really good, and I

0:54:02.600 --> 0:54:03.960
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, you know, it just hit right now.

0:54:04.000 --> 0:54:05.640
<v Speaker 1>It's a glass of milk. So I go over and

0:54:05.760 --> 0:54:07.120
<v Speaker 1>make glass of milk, but I put ice in it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't think I've ever had this in front

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<v Speaker 1>of him. Yeah, it was the first time, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, what are you doing? And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm having a glass of milk. And then my sister

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<v Speaker 1>got on FaceTime. She's like, oh, yeah, yeah, we drink

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<v Speaker 1>ice our milk. She's like, oh yeah, and we also

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<v Speaker 1>put milk over our ice cream. And he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what that doesn't make sense. But we just grew up

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<v Speaker 1>doing that and it's so normal, and to us it's

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<v Speaker 1>so good, and so I would say, don't knock it.

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<v Speaker 2>To try it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna try it.

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<v Speaker 1>But also, what kind of mint chocolate chip ice cream?

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<v Speaker 3>I have two thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do your thing, I'm gonna move my ring.

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<v Speaker 2>So I remember this other thought. The ice cream that

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<v Speaker 2>I've been eating is there's those YAsO or YAsO or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like Greek yogurt ice cream bars. And I think

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<v Speaker 2>it was when oh, I got mint chocolate chip when

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<v Speaker 2>I was congested a couple of weeks ago, because I

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<v Speaker 2>thought the mint would be like feel good. I was

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<v Speaker 2>drinking mint tea and eating mint ice cream and now

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hooked. Why are you looking at that if you're congested?

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<v Speaker 2>Are they made out of dairy? Dairy like form a cow?

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<v Speaker 1>I think if you're congested, you should avoid milk, but well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm not a it's Greek yogurt. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Greek yogurts from a cow? So is that bad for

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<v Speaker 1>I just think if you're congested, you try to avoid milk.

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<v Speaker 1>But that could be urban legend. That could be totally wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>It made me. Oh no, it wasn't congestion, it was

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<v Speaker 2>a sore throat. Oh okay, And I thought the mint

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<v Speaker 2>would feel good on my throat.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, I wonder in there is it real mint or

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<v Speaker 1>is it like mint flavoring?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I feel like that's like a I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>they use good ingredients in those bars. Think that they

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<v Speaker 2>are expensive, you like to get them when they're on sale. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>my either thought this is not important, but I just

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<v Speaker 2>now question does that don't come up? And since they're

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<v Speaker 2>talking about milk, I'd like to know this about you

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<v Speaker 2>at dinner growing up?

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<v Speaker 3>What could you drink with your dinner?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember having rules, okay, because.

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<v Speaker 2>You know some people grow up and they have to

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<v Speaker 2>drink milk with dinner. Who so you could be like

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<v Speaker 2>having spaghetti and have to drink milk with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh. I've never heard a lot of parents because it's

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<v Speaker 1>I guess good for kids zones. Yeah, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>that got Milk campaign.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was gonna say the commercials, they are always

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<v Speaker 2>a dinner and the mom's like, here's a glass of

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<v Speaker 2>milk with your chicken parmesan Like that to me is

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<v Speaker 2>like gross, does don't go together. I also grew up

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<v Speaker 2>in a family that nobody drinks milk. I have never

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<v Speaker 2>seen anybody in my family drink a glass of milk.

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<v Speaker 2>My little brother really likes chocolate milk. But I have

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<v Speaker 2>never seen my mom, my dad, my sister, my brother,

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<v Speaker 2>my brother, myself, my grandma, never seen any of them

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<v Speaker 2>be like, I'm gonna have a glass of milk.

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<v Speaker 1>Never.

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<v Speaker 3>We only use milk for cereal.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know, we drink milk. I would drink

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<v Speaker 1>skim milk over ice and let it water down. Then

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<v Speaker 1>I would drink it. It's so good. I love that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, anyway, so that.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, man, wow, we covered lawn care, dairy, asparagus.

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<v Speaker 1>We had other helpful things.

0:57:06.320 --> 0:57:11.239
<v Speaker 2>We didn't never figure out how to say chrysiferousiferous chers.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, anyway, we are going to be covering well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was last week that we covered. We already

0:57:19.520 --> 0:57:21.479
<v Speaker 1>did it on last week's Couchhok Souse. I was about

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<v Speaker 1>to do our closing have the day, Oh you need

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<v Speaker 1>to have and if you've ever been confused by that.

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<v Speaker 1>On last Thursday's Couch Talks episode, we talked about what

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<v Speaker 1>that means.

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<v Speaker 3>Where it came from.

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<v Speaker 1>It can be confusing because like, what does that really mean?

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<v Speaker 3>What does that really mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Have the day you need to have?

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<v Speaker 2>It could be honestly, somebody might think it's passive aggressive

0:57:43.040 --> 0:57:45.040
<v Speaker 2>have the day you need to have? If we don't

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<v Speaker 2>say it in that tone. Yeah, I think are merch

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<v Speaker 2>that way and be like, oh gosh, on the.

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<v Speaker 1>Back of our shirt, have the day you need to have,

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<v Speaker 1>like we're all hard.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we say it with an upbeat tone.

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<v Speaker 1>Toxic yeah, and it's like it's more so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even think it's upbeat. It's just more of like half

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<v Speaker 1>the day you need to have, like have it.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you want to know, then go.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen to last Thursday's Couch Talks riveting about what have

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<v Speaker 1>the day you need to have really means? And with

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<v Speaker 1>that said, we'll say, have the day you need to have.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye Bye,