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Speaker 1: Amy and Kat. Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my sister is like the only person and that's

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Speaker 2: But well, I will say, there's a certain airline that

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Speaker 2: That's very different than my feeling of the day, which

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not going to ever skudive again. Ever?

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Speaker 3: Was this like for work?

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Speaker 1: Never do it again. I don't need to because like

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Speaker 2: And thank you for sending me the text because it

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to bring that home and talk about

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Speaker 3: However, if I.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna need your parents to fly home from Hawaii separately, yes.

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Speaker 2: However, Patrick and I I either want us to die

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Speaker 1: That's really sweet.

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Speaker 2: You're about to say that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I think it's really sweet. And

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Speaker 1: I think you could still live a good life without him,

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Speaker 1: but you would, you would learn, Like I think of

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Speaker 1: Don't because then if he says yes, I'll be like, Okay, no, don't.

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Speaker 1: because you came up with it, but it's really a

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Speaker 1: question of how you say something. What is the little

438
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,359
Speaker 1: toiletry bag? Your husband may have one and you travel

439
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Speaker 1: with it and you put stuff in it. What's it called?

440
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Speaker 3: I feel like you're asking me this because I'm probably

441
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Speaker 3: gonna say it wrong.

442
00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:11,879
Speaker 1: No, I say, I just learned. I've been saying it

443
00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:15,960
Speaker 1: right the entire life. You said it right, okay, DPP

444
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 1: dop kit?

445
00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

446
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:19,560
Speaker 1: Did you know? I thought it was a doc kit?

447
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,440
Speaker 1: I've always said doc kit. I want to get my

448
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,920
Speaker 1: boyfriend a dot kit for Christmas. So I was googling

449
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 1: it yesterday and I'm.

450
00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 2: Like, doc kit, nobody sells these anymore.

451
00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:33,119
Speaker 1: And then I see it's saying Dopps and I'm like

452
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Speaker 1: what because I always thought, you know how, back in

453
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Speaker 1: the day, doctors would do house calls and they carry

454
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Speaker 1: those little black bags and it looked like a dot kit,

455
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Speaker 1: like a dot and it had everything they needed inside.

456
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Speaker 1: I mean, give it. This is why I thought it

457
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Speaker 1: was called a doc kit was because of a doctor's bag.

458
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Speaker 1: Do you know, like an old adult time movies like

459
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Speaker 1: the doctor would show up with a little black bag

460
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Speaker 1: and had everything he needed.

461
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Speaker 2: Yes, and you're saying doc sort for a doctor, Yeah.

462
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Speaker 1: Doc kit, Like this is like your dock kit that's

463
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Speaker 1: for toiletrees.

464
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Speaker 2: That's cute that you thought that, actually, but it's dop

465
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Speaker 2: Yeah what is dop?

466
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Speaker 1: Why didn't get that far in my research?

467
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Speaker 2: Why is it called a dop?

468
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Speaker 3: I just saw it? Should it should be called a

469
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Speaker 3: toiletry bag?

470
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Speaker 1: You have it? Dop is easier to say, why.

471
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Speaker 3: Don't we don't we don't have a name for our bags?

472
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Speaker 1: Well, can't we carry adopt adop kits only masculine?

473
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Speaker 3: I think dop kits are for men?

474
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Speaker 1: Right? Well? Yeah, I mean I was looking at one

475
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Speaker 1: for a man man in my life.

476
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Speaker 3: It's a really good gift. Are you gonna get it?

477
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Speaker 3: Like embroidered?

478
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Speaker 1: Yeah? I wanted to put his initials on it because

479
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Speaker 1: I saw his Are you going to stock it? Should?

480
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Speaker 2: Yeah? I did that for Patrick one year and I

481
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,719
Speaker 2: got all these like beard oils and like face lotions

482
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Speaker 2: and serums because you know, he didn't have a wound's

483
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Speaker 2: touch in his life, and so I was gonna like

484
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Speaker 2: get him a whole skincare routine.

485
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Speaker 1: Beard oil. Wait, does hee have a beard? I like some?

486
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 2: He like won it?

487
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Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe he will one day.

488
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Speaker 2: It was they had a lot of options. It just

489
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Speaker 2: seemed like something that goes in adopt kit. Anyway, he

490
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Speaker 2: never used them. He was like, I don't do that.

491
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Speaker 2: He just washes his face with a with body wash. Okay.

492
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Speaker 1: I now know why it's called adopkit because it was

493
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Speaker 1: invented by a German American leather craftsman named Charles Doppelt

494
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Speaker 1: in nineteen nineteen. So it was his name in nineteen nineteen.

495
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Speaker 1: He's a craftsman.

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Speaker 3: What does it mean it was invented. It's just a

497
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Speaker 3: toiletry bag.

498
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Speaker 1: How do you invent Well, nobody had made the kit

499
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Speaker 1: yet the leather. He was a leather craftsman. Okay, so

500
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 1: no one had maybe made it in that shape for okay,

501
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 1: let me keep reading. His company created a popular leather

502
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Speaker 1: bag for grooming items. Okay, maybe before they just had

503
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Speaker 1: their grooming items scattered about. And the name dopp is

504
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Speaker 1: a shortened version of his last name. While kit simply

505
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: refers to its use for carrying personal items, the term

506
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: became especially popular in the United States due to its

507
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Speaker 1: adoption by the military during World War Two. Ohdop kit,

508
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Speaker 1: Now you know, not to be confused with doc kit.

509
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Speaker 2: That is really cute that you thought that. That makes

510
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Speaker 2: really a lot of sense. I've never questioned until now

511
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Speaker 2: why it's called adopt kit. So thanks for this little segment.

512
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Speaker 1: Yeah, questions that don't come up. What do you call

513
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Speaker 1: your toiletry bag?

514
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Speaker 3: What do you call yours?

515
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Speaker 1: Ooh, you know what, I should drop my toilet bag

516
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Speaker 1: in our next newsletter. I just call it my toiletry

517
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Speaker 1: bag special. It is awesome and it hangs it fits everything,

518
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Speaker 1: and I keep it ready like a go bag because

519
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 1: I have all my travel side stuff in there and

520
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Speaker 1: now it's just ready to go.

521
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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I don't have to go, and like your's

522
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Speaker 3: just the one that like unfolds right.

523
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Speaker 1: And then there's a side for jewelry and then a

524
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Speaker 1: side for in then it like flaps, so when I

525
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Speaker 1: get to the hotel, I just hang it up.

526
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Speaker 2: Okay.

527
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Speaker 1: I used to organize everything on the counter and then

528
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Speaker 1: I bought this other makeup travel bag. It just opens

529
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Speaker 1: up and I don't have to lay everything out on

530
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Speaker 1: the count Back to the hotel room. Yeah, that's where

531
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 1: I makeup, and then I have another like hanging bag

532
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: for face wash and different things. So we do have

533
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Speaker 1: another list of things to go over. And you specifically

534
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Speaker 1: requested this because you said it would be very helpful

535
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Speaker 1: for you. Do you know what I'm talking about?

536
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:24,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like you're alluding what I'll be

537
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 2: making it. We'll just read it.

538
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Speaker 1: Just read.

539
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,479
Speaker 2: You're making it sound like I have like a smell problem.

540
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 1: Oh no, that's not what I'm talking about. I'm not

541
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Speaker 1: there yet.

542
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:34,360
Speaker 2: Oh okay, well then I have no idea what you're

543
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 2: talking about there yet. We'll get to this.

544
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Speaker 1: You are very excited about it, but I do. I do,

545
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 1: I too, am I have two I am too. It's

546
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Speaker 1: things that you can eat that will make you smell

547
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Speaker 1: a certain way.

548
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Speaker 3: But that's not what we're talking about.

549
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: No, Remember how we were excited to go over things

550
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 1: that you can say to someone instead of is there

551
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Speaker 1: anything that I can do?

552
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Speaker 3: Okay, this I yeah, this, I also, so it was

553
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Speaker 3: excited about.

554
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, this can be helpful for anybody. And I know

555
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: this list and have heard this before. I'm sure same

556
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 1: for you, Kat, But the default is just so easy

557
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: to say let me know what you need or is

558
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 1: there anything I can do, which for someone that is

559
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Speaker 1: going through something, they're already overwhelmed, so they're likely not

560
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 1: going to reach out right.

561
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Speaker 2: And sometimes it feels like you're being a burden if

562
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Speaker 2: you do. Yes, even if somebody offers, it can feel like, well,

563
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Speaker 2: I don't want to put my stuff on somebody else,

564
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 2: so I agree, like I have heard this before and

565
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 2: talk about it, and then I still find myself being like.

566
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Speaker 3: Let me know if you need anything. They're like, okay,

567
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 3: I will, and then they don't.

568
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Speaker 1: Yeah, crickets. Yeah. So this is how you can be

569
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Speaker 1: impactful in helping someone out, Like truly we can get there.

570
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 1: You can just say, hey, i'm grabbing groceries later, can

571
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: I get anything for you? Specifically You're already going to

572
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Speaker 1: store so they don't feel like they're putting you out,

573
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Speaker 1: and then you're saying like, I'm there, Yeah, what do

574
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 1: you need? I'm free Wednesday evening? Can I drop off dinner?

575
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 1: Question Mark? I'm thinking of you today. Want me to

576
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:12,439
Speaker 1: check in tomorrow to question Mark. I'd love to come

577
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,440
Speaker 1: by and sit with you. No need to entertain me. Uh.

578
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 2: That one I like because I feel like when I

579
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,439
Speaker 2: go through certain things, I don't want to be alone,

580
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 2: but I also sometimes don't want to talk. I just

581
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 2: want somebody to like sit on the couch and watch something.

582
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 2: But that's like a weird sometimes can feel weird to

583
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Speaker 2: ask like I don't need anything.

584
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Speaker 1: Well, you did this to me a couple of weeks ago.

585
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Speaker 1: Remember I was having a particularly difficult Friday night, Oh remember,

586
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,120
Speaker 1: and you were like, I was like, I just want

587
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 1: to stay home and eat pizza. And then I guess

588
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 1: Patrick was doing something. I don't know what happened, and

589
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 1: you're like, I can come over and I can bring pizza. Yeah,

590
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 1: And I knew that it wouldn't be like we would

591
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Speaker 1: have to sit there and talk like we would have

592
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 1: genuinely just sat there and watched something and like eating pizza,

593
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 1: and it would have been chill and fine. Yeah, but

594
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 1: you were very specific and deliberate and were willing and

595
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: able to show up if I needed it. Also, speaking

596
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Speaker 1: of a couple weeks ago, do you remember this must

597
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 1: have been just how quickly feelings can change, because that

598
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Speaker 1: it might have been the Friday before and then like

599
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 1: fast forward two or three days that following Monday. Do

600
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: you remember me leaving a voice text of like I

601
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: just feel great today, Like today, I feel so good.

602
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 1: We had recorded earlier that day, and then later I

603
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: left and I was like, I feel so good today.

604
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 1: What is it?

605
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 3: Did I listen to it?

606
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: I don't know you did it? Maybe you did, but

607
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 1: you didn't absorb it. Maybe you didn't appreciate how much. Wait,

608
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 1: really I felt so good because I feel like you

609
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: felt good too.

610
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Speaker 2: This was after that experience. Yeah, okay, I do remember

611
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 2: this happening, yes, okay, yeah, but like.

612
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: Give it a couple days.

613
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 2: You never know.

614
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 1: Like I was in a pretty low of low, and

615
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Speaker 1: then fast forward, nothing had changed about my situation. By

616
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Speaker 1: the way, I still could have been very low about

617
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: what was happening, but I don't know what was going

618
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Speaker 1: on with me or if it was hormonal like good hormones.

619
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Speaker 1: So I feel like sometimes we give ours a bad rap,

620
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: but sometimes when they're in alignment, they're doing their thing

621
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: and we're grooving like okay, yeah, thank you.

622
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Speaker 2: I think part of that too, is, yeah, nothing had

623
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 2: changed in that situation, but you gave yourself time to see, like,

624
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 2: even if this is going on, my life can still

625
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 2: be good. Good things still exist, and sometimes when something

626
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 2: not desirable happens that brings on uncomfy feelings or sadness

627
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 2: or hurt or pain, it becomes encompassing and we need

628
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 2: some space to see like, Okay, I can still have

629
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Speaker 2: these feelings about this, and let's not forget these things

630
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 2: still exist too. Yeah that's true, but it's hard when

631
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Speaker 2: something is fresh, it's hard to have that perspective. Yeah.

632
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 2: So we probably just had a little like shot of

633
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 2: oh look, we like.

634
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: Our life, we like our lives. Yes, oh look, I

635
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 1: don't need to fear this. My life can still be good.

636
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I just whatever, I'm like chasing

637
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: that Monday from a couple of weeks ago.

638
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Speaker 2: Where where are the case of the Mondays? And our

639
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 2: Monday was usually people think that's bad and our Monday

640
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 2: was good?

641
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 1: Like I was just in it was just feeling awesome.

642
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: Maybe that's my once a month gift.

643
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Speaker 3: Once a month you get a good Monday.

644
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, or like a what good few days? Okay, yeah, okay, okay,

645
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 1: I just venmoed you some coffee money for yourself. I

646
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:35,719
Speaker 1: just venmoed you some coffee money for yourself.

647
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Speaker 2: That's a good one.

648
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's another thing you can do instead of let

649
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: me know what you need. Another one is can I

650
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: take care of insert a specific task for you this week?

651
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: Can I take care of kid? Pick up for you

652
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 1: this week? Can I take care or on a specific day?

653
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 1: Can I get to do it every day? Laundry?

654
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Speaker 3: Can I come break your leaves? Oh that's an things.

655
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: Okay, So I saw y'all raking leaves, and I am

656
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Speaker 1: not gonna rake mine.

657
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Speaker 3: I was gonna ask you that actually.

658
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 1: Things that don't come up? Why?

659
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Speaker 2: Because then I drove in today I did notice that

660
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 2: you have You have two really big trees, and the

661
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 2: one in front is beautiful right now, but all.

662
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 3: The leaves are falling.

663
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: She's showing off.

664
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Speaker 2: So I have never lived in a house that had

665
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 2: a big trees that had enough leaves to impact your yard. Okay,

666
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 2: it's a lot of work, and I didn't understand how

667
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 2: people are doing it, Like are you hiring so many

668
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 2: of this? Are you putting all those leaves in the bags?

669
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 2: Because that's so much work, And it's like exfoliation of

670
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 2: a tree. That's phases, you know, like the leaves fall,

671
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 2: they're all over your yard, you clean them up, then

672
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 2: they fall again.

673
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 3: Like it takes a couple falls. And I learned a

674
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 3: lot about leaf pick up, leaf pickup.

675
00:31:55,760 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: One lots twice I said leave and then I said leaf.

676
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 1: I learned a lot about leaf pickuplea. How you glitched

677
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: leaf pick up, leaf peck up, leaf pick up?

678
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: You have to say it twice.

679
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: Account So what did you learn learn?

680
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 2: Okay, many people said don't rake them because leaves are

681
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 2: really good for the soil or yah.

682
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,479
Speaker 1: So I just googled it and said, you don't always

683
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 1: need to break leaves, and leaving them can be beneficial

684
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 1: for your lawn in the environment. However, a thick layer

685
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 1: of leaves can smother the c Yes.

686
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we have a thick layer.

687
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: So how do you measure it the thickness good question.

688
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 3: Haven't gotten that far.

689
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 2: Apparently, if you want fireflies, you want to leave them

690
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 2: because they're good habitats for the fireflies. But also apparently

691
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 2: the little bugs glow.

692
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

693
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 3: What else would I be talking about?

694
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess I was just you know what,

695
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: I feel bad. I just had shame as a kid.

696
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: For fun, we would put on white T shirts and

697
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 1: we go catch the glougs and then we'd smear them

698
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: on our shirts and we would glow murderer, murderer I

699
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: know in the first degree.

700
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Speaker 3: Well, you know what this is? You giving back to firefly.

701
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: Now I'm leaving them ome forgive me. I knew not

702
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: what I was doing.

703
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 2: Apparently if you know them, it becomes really good mulch

704
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 2: for your yard.

705
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 3: Oh, and you leave them there.

706
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: But there are certain lawnmowers that have like attachments that

707
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 2: mulch things for you.

708
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 3: I don't know.

709
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 2: Also, I posted a picture of Patrick raking them, and

710
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 2: my brother texted me and he said, Patrick is using

711
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 2: a landscaping rake. That's not a rake for leaves. And

712
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, how are we supposed to know what

713
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 2: rake is for? That is landscaping? Is it not landscaping?

714
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:47,719
Speaker 2: I'm doing things in my yard. What constitute says landscaping?

715
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 1: Is it? Well? I think if there's grass underneath? Was

716
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 1: he saying, Because if you're in a landscaping bed, there's

717
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 1: like mulch, okay, and then the grass is there, which

718
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 1: I did just look up Welcome to landscaping. Landscaping minute,

719
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 1: you should rake leaves if they're so thick you cannot

720
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Speaker 1: see the grass beneath them. So that's how you measure

721
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:11,760
Speaker 1: the thickness. Can you see the grass?

722
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:13,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, we can't see our grass.

723
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 2: So Patrick, also, somebody sent me this morning this little

724
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 2: like pusher guy, you know, the thing that picks up

725
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 2: the golf balls at like a driving range. It's kind

726
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 2: of like remind me of that. But you push it

727
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 2: and it will pick up the leaves as you push

728
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 2: it through the yard.

729
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: Oh so it's like a roller brush for lint, but

730
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: for leaves, and it's big.

731
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, it's a roller it's a lint roller

732
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 2: for your leaves. Patrick went, well, as we're recording this,

733
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 2: he's going to home depot to buy one. But we

734
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 2: have so many leaves that he's going to have to

735
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 2: empty out the bag like twenty five times. Good thing

736
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 2: about where we moved, we don't have to bag them up.

737
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 2: You just push him off to the road and the

738
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 2: county will come suck them up.

739
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: Wow.

740
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Speaker 3: Yeah, so what about your.

741
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: So to anybody else to listen us talk about leaves,

742
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 1: I'm interested.

743
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,359
Speaker 2: I would say I got a lot of d MS

744
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 2: about my leaf content, so I think people are interested.

745
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 1: I was thinking back to my days in college. I

746
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: took turf management.

747
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,280
Speaker 3: Oh you went to an agriculture school.

748
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: Well, I did, but I think a lot of schools

749
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 1: maybe offer it. It was just me and a bunch

750
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:24,399
Speaker 1: of football players got it. Turf is not grass though, right, Yeah,

751
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 1: it is. Turf is like turf management. We studied all

752
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: kinds of grass, the different types of grass, golf course maintenance.

753
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm thinking turf is like artificial grass.

754
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 1: Oh. I took an artificial artificial grass class.

755
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 3: I thought it was weird if we just sewed it together.

756
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 2: Where you learned about the different kinds of plastics and

757
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 2: the little like rubber beads that are in there.

758
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. Interesting.

759
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're not going to do anything. Do you

760
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 2: never do anything to your leaves? No?

761
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: But I do have a yard man, Doug. I'll ask

762
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: Doug what's our plan with the Doug has a plan.

763
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 2: I didn't want to be the one house in our

764
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 2: neighborhood that's everybody else is maintaining their yards. And I've

765
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 2: never lived in a neighborhood where people do that. So

766
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 2: I don't want to be like, did you see the

767
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:13,280
Speaker 2: Van Buren's house.

768
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: You got to keep up with them.

769
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:15,320
Speaker 3: They're letting it go.

770
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're bringing down the value of our homes.

771
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 1: With the Joneses. Yeah, you might get a fine.

772
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 2: Update update if anybody from my neighborhood, which I'm not

773
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 2: going to say what it is that anybody from my

774
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:30,919
Speaker 2: neighborhood is listening? Let me into the Homeowner Association Facebook group.

775
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 1: Wait, why are you getting the heisman on that? I don't?

776
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 3: That was like a cool little like, yeah, what's like

777
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 3: a you're getting blocked?

778
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:41,439
Speaker 2: I'm getting blocked. I talked about this what a month ago,

779
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:46,240
Speaker 2: maybe longer. I even had a pending request. I canceled

780
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 2: my request and requests.

781
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: So my thing is maybe the moderator just hasn't logged on,

782
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: like is it active.

783
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 2: It's active, you can see like there's been two posts today, but.

784
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: Maybe they haven't gone over to the little section like

785
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 1: the notification that says we have someone waiting to get in.

786
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 2: Okay, well here's my feedback for them. That could be

787
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 2: very true. Somebody from the HOA brought cookies to our

788
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 2: house so they know that I'm here.

789
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 1: Okay, do you know who specifically brought the cookies or

790
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: just said from the HOA?

791
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:15,959
Speaker 2: She actually was the same lady that sold our house

792
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 2: to us, so I would talk.

793
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: To her, Okay, yeah, okay, just networking.

794
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 3: Oh, by the way, I would really like to be

795
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 3: part of the group.

796
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you want to get let in. It made me

797
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 1: think whenever I was googling how to know. You know,

798
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 1: when you type into a Google search engine, other things

799
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:35,320
Speaker 1: will pop up that you're not how to know. I

800
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 1: was saying how to know if you should break your

801
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: leaves or not? But all I typed in was how

802
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 1: to know? And before I got to that, the first

803
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 1: thing that comes up is how to know if someone

804
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: blocked you? So that must be the most searched how

805
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: to know. Oh. The next worried one is how to

806
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: know if eggs are bad? Do you know? No? Did

807
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: they float?

808
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 3: It's a float test?

809
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 2: Yeah?

810
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: Okay, well I just clicked on it. You can tell

811
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 1: if eggs are bad by performing a float test and

812
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: of water. A fresh egg will sink, a bad egg

813
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:03,760
Speaker 1: will float.

814
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:06,399
Speaker 3: Have you ever cracked up with a bad egg?

815
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 1: No? I don't why what happened?

816
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 3: I've never done it either.

817
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:14,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like, I don't know, Okay, how don't

818
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: know if eggs are bad? How don't know if someone

819
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: blocked you? How don't know if you're pregnant? How don't

820
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 1: know if you have diabetes? Those are the most popular?

821
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: Is that the most popular in general and the most

822
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 2: popular based on your search history.

823
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 1: Well, I've never searched any of those things, so.

824
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 3: I don't know.

825
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe you type in how to know to your

826
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: little iPad over.

827
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 2: There, that's actually what comes up.

828
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, just all. You don't type in anything else, but

829
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 1: other than how to know, that's the only thing you're

830
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 1: allowed to type. And while you type that, I'm going

831
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 1: to go back to my list of things you can

832
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: say to someone besides let me know what you need.

833
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,800
Speaker 1: We have two more left. Want company for a walk

834
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: or just someone to sit with, which is a good one,

835
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,919
Speaker 1: and the final one I know calls can be a lot.

836
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 1: Want me to text you instead?

837
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 2: I can't figure out how to get my iPad to work?

838
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:14,760
Speaker 1: What do you mean how how to go to search Google?

839
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 1: It won't. It's being like it's.

840
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 3: Being ornery, as my grandmother.

841
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 1: Would say, ornery or honery.

842
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 3: I think it's ornery, that's how my nmai said.

843
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 1: But also I thought it was a docket.

844
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 2: Oh oh, okay, I got I got okay. How see,

845
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:35,720
Speaker 2: I'm like pressing things and nothing's happened?

846
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 3: Okay?

847
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 2: How it's just slow? I know this thing needs to

848
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 2: be you can see that I don't use this often.

849
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 2: I think it needs to be updated. How many days

850
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 2: until Christmas?

851
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: No, you have to type in?

852
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 2: How to know? I know it's taking that long from

853
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 2: my I'm typing it and it's taking a long time

854
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 2: to catch up. How to screenshot on Mac. How to

855
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 2: get rid of stink bugs?

856
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 3: Okay?

857
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 2: How to know? Oh what does it say? How to

858
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 2: know if someone blocked you? How to know if eggs

859
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 2: are bad? How do you know if you're pregnant? How

860
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 2: do you know?

861
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 1: How do you have diabetes?

862
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 3: How do you know if you have a concussion?

863
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:10,399
Speaker 2: How to know if a la buobuu is real? How

864
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:11,399
Speaker 2: did you miss that one?

865
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 1: Well? I only clicked. I only if I kept scrolling

866
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 1: more might show up.

867
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Speaker 2: How to know if chicken is bad? How do you

868
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 2: know if ground beef is bad? How to know when

869
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:24,399
Speaker 2: you're ovulating? That's hard? How to know your blood type?

870
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,359
Speaker 2: I don't know my blood type.

871
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 1: And the thing is, I've been told my blood type

872
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:32,360
Speaker 1: multiple and I don't remember why. Why is it?

873
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 3: But my mom knows my blood type?

874
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 2: Because when I want to know it The answer is,

875
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 2: text your mom because she knows, but I don't know mine.

876
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 1: Well I can't text my mom.

877
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 2: Well, then we need to write it down somewhere. How

878
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,279
Speaker 2: do you know Kat knows her blood type?

879
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: No, she's so positive.

880
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 3: No, she knows hers.

881
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 1: It's like she Oh, I thought you were saying she.

882
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 2: I would love to do a poll. Do you know

883
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 2: your blood type?

884
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 3: How many people?

885
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 2: How many people he's gonna know?

886
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people don't know. Like, do

887
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: you have your driver's license? M're memorized? No? I know.

888
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 3: It starts with I know the three first numbers.

889
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 1: Do you have your license plate memorized?

890
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 2: I used to because I used to work in a

891
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 2: parking lot where I had to type it in to

892
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 2: validate my parking. But I got a new license plate.

893
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 3: Do you know yours?

894
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 1: No?

895
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 3: Do you know your social Security number?

896
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 1: Yes? I know my social Security number.

897
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 2: So social security number number, I know it?

898
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: Four four.

899
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 2: You don't have to.

900
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 1: But I think everybody born around me starts with the

901
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 1: four four. Wait. Really, I think it's like when you're

902
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: born right as the first I.

903
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 3: Thought it was random?

904
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: Is it random?

905
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:44,800
Speaker 3: It's random?

906
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 2: Take that back? Redact that.

907
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 1: Okay, there's so many other numbers that you could factor in.

908
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 1: Nobody's going to figure out my social Security number because

909
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:53,240
Speaker 1: I said.

910
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 2: Four next week your identity and I only said four.

911
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 1: Twice, because that's what we do here. We repeat every

912
00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 1: time twice, tries twice for four. By kay, you ready

913
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 1: for it? The thing I've been waiting for.

914
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 3: The thing you've been waiting for.

915
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: The real thing. You've been waiting for. Foods that make

916
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:27,320
Speaker 1: you smell better, therefore more attractive, Foods that make you

917
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 1: smell better, therefore more attractive.

918
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 3: I'm kind of nervous this one.

919
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 1: I don't agree with at all. But garlic is on

920
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:39,800
Speaker 1: the list because apparently when a man sweats after he

921
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:43,359
Speaker 1: is consumed garlic, he is rated as more pleasant by women.

922
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 1: There's not no what this could be debatable. I just

923
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 1: don't get it. We'll move on a diet higher in

924
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:58,440
Speaker 1: fruits and veggies produce sweat with more of a floral, fruity,

925
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 1: sweet scent. Okay, I can get behind that. Yogurt and

926
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 1: Kiefer supports beneficial gut mouth bacteria. Did I say keifer wrong? Well?

927
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 2: Okay?

928
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: Is it?

929
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 3: Okay?

930
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,919
Speaker 2: I've actually never said that word because I've not known

931
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 2: how to say it, I would have in my head

932
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:18,280
Speaker 2: pronounced it keffer.

933
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 3: So I was about to say thank you for finally

934
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 3: telling me that it's keifer.

935
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: It could be keffer.

936
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 3: Okay, it's a weird word.

937
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 2: It's k e f.

938
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:27,760
Speaker 1: I R kefer.

939
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 2: It's actually pronounced.

940
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:32,280
Speaker 1: Kiffer.

941
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 3: Wait, I don't. That's also a weird one.

942
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 2: Yogurt. Yogurt is like molded milk. It's curdled milk, is

943
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 2: it not?

944
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 1: What is it?

945
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:43,799
Speaker 3: It's a yogurt is a bacteria.

946
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: But the bacteria that are good in there are good

947
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:49,760
Speaker 1: for your gut microbiome. Like, I'm the probiotics.

948
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,320
Speaker 3: I'm pro yogurt, but I know that's I'm pro yogurt.

949
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 1: Yes, let's be more about what we're for, not what

950
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:57,360
Speaker 1: we're against.

951
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:00,479
Speaker 2: Let's start with the yogurt people.

952
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 1: It's so fractured out there these days.

953
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 2: And it is interesting that yogurt would make you smell good.

954
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: I think it just helps with your bacteria, which leads

955
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: to better Okay, Yeah, Water and staying hydrated, now this

956
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 1: one is just something I know. I know this, and

957
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: I just still don't drink enough water. Doing so reduces

958
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:28,280
Speaker 1: concentrated bacteria and unwanted smells.

959
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 3: Got it.

960
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: Finally, this is what I want to really start doing

961
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 1: mint leaves or ginger in your water.

962
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 3: Let's level up the water.

963
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:44,320
Speaker 1: You get hydrated and you add these herbs that help you.

964
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 1: They have anti macrobial elements. So if you consume that

965
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 1: it's like anti macrobial.

966
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 3: I want to offer some feedback.

967
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: Go for it.

968
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 2: This is with anything, if you are trying to start

969
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 2: a new habit, we need to start at the lowest level,

970
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 2: not stack things. So if you can't even drink water,

971
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 2: do you think it was minty? Do you think that

972
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 2: would motivate you of like I have special water. Yeah,

973
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 2: because then you have to like get the mint and

974
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 2: then get the water. Put the mint in the water,

975
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 2: shake it up, trick it.

976
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 1: You know. I used to put I haven't thought of

977
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: this in years. I used to put fresh mint leaves

978
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: in my chocolate protein smoothies and it tastes like mint

979
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 1: chocolate chip.

980
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 2: Waitond because this call I forgot I did that? Why

981
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:33,840
Speaker 2: have I never thought about this? I have a chocolate

982
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 2: smoothie like almost every day.

983
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 1: Oh well, you need to throw some mint leaves in there,

984
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: and it's gonna change the game, especially this time of year.

985
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: Because we are festive. Oh Christmas time. Thank you, You're welcome.

986
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: And you're gonna be adding anti macrobial elements to your smoothie.

987
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: Your chocolate smoothie just got an upgrade. Fresh mint leaves. Okay,

988
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 1: you're gonna beat the grocery store and you're gonna be like,

989
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 1: I need some mint, fresh mint please. It's an elevated purchase.

990
00:45:59,040 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 3: Where do you keep your freshman?

991
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:01,240
Speaker 1: But it's like not expensive.

992
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 3: Should we think lant mint?

993
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:05,879
Speaker 1: We should just grow our own. Yeah, I bet it's

994
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 1: easy to grow your own mint. Yeah, leaf plant, tree thing.

995
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 3: Then we're adding more and we really just need to

996
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 3: be drinking more water.

997
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:16,280
Speaker 1: Okay, And I like ginger. I can add ginger chunks

998
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 1: into hot hot limit water.

999
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 3: That could do it.

1000
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 1: You can throw ginger into your smoothies. I wouldn't into

1001
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 1: your chocolate mint, but you could if you were doing

1002
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: a different type of smoothie that had other.

1003
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 2: I love a ginger tea like a hot tea. I

1004
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,799
Speaker 2: can't get down with a ginger flavored water.

1005
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:35,320
Speaker 3: Okay, there you go.

1006
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 1: If you want to be more attractive, all you have

1007
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:41,319
Speaker 1: to do is put mint in your water and there

1008
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 1: you go. Now I have a list of foods that

1009
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: make you smell bad, therefore less attractive.

1010
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 2: This is what I was scared of.

1011
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 1: This word I always struggle with. So is I'm going

1012
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 1: to be vulnerable and I'm going to try to say

1013
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 1: it right the first time. Crysiferous vegetables. Cryciferous vegetables, Do

1014
00:46:58,280 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 1: you know what that is?

1015
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 3: Like a rock or a cauliflower.

1016
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, they are packed with sulfurous compounds leading to unpleasant smells.

1017
00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:10,479
Speaker 3: Broccoli is probably the veel I eat the most. That's

1018
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 3: tough for me.

1019
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 1: Asparagus causes smelly sweat and urine.

1020
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 2: That's my second favorite vegetable.

1021
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 1: I have never even ever smelled to me.

1022
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,880
Speaker 3: So yeah, but your pa does smell after you as

1023
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 3: fergus very much.

1024
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,840
Speaker 1: So it's instantaneous, Which doesn't that make you think of

1025
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 1: It's almost like you're having this science experience in happening

1026
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: right to your buddy. Like I'll be at a restaurant,

1027
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:34,880
Speaker 1: I'll eat a bite of asparagus. I'll run to the

1028
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 1: bathroom like at the restaurant because I have to pee,

1029
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: and while I already smell like it. So it's like

1030
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 1: how quickly things hit your bloodstream.

1031
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like crazy I know it is.

1032
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 1: But also I was talking to someone the other day

1033
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 1: about how smart our blood is. Our blood is really smart. Yeah, yeah,

1034
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 1: because it like filters all kinds of things all the time.

1035
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 3: I don't really know how blesses. I don't.

1036
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 1: We don't ask me to explain it. I just know

1037
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: that it's moving around and doing it's moving, it's grooven,

1038
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 1: it's doing things. Red meat men rated smelling slightly worse

1039
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 1: compared to men who didn't eat meat.

1040
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 3: I feel like that's men are gonna stop eating red meat.

1041
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel good after I have some ground beef. Okay,

1042
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:19,800
Speaker 1: maybe that's what I did that Monday.

1043
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 2: You had some ground beef. That ground be oh like

1044
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 2: what you were on a ground beef kick.

1045
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 1: I was having lots of beef around. Maybe that's because

1046
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: my blood just need once it wants the meat, fish

1047
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:41,840
Speaker 1: and beans, they produce strong smelling compounds that are released

1048
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: via the skin and breath. I will say, my boyfriend

1049
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 1: did eat some fish the other day, and I knew

1050
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:49,920
Speaker 1: we ate it, like I could just smell the fish.

1051
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 2: I didn't have smell too. My friend doesn't have a

1052
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 2: sense of smell, which is crazy. She just from COVID

1053
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 2: or no, she's just never had one.

1054
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:01,879
Speaker 1: Oh, she was born that way.

1055
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 2: Okay, I actually forget the whole story. I should ask her.

1056
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:08,760
Speaker 2: I feel like it slowly changed or she didn't realize

1057
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 2: that she didn't have it until later in life, and

1058
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 2: then she was like, wait, what you guys are smelling this?

1059
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 2: So like she can't pick out a candle and she

1060
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 2: can't pick out a perfume. She has to ask us

1061
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 2: to help her because she could be wearing really yucky perfume.

1062
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,719
Speaker 2: I used to live with her and she used to

1063
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:29,240
Speaker 2: take fish to work and microwave it because she didn't

1064
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 2: know what fish smell like. And then we had to

1065
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 2: tell her, you're probably the smelly girl at work and

1066
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 2: everybody's annoyed with you.

1067
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's rules for the work microwave.

1068
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 2: You can't put fish or crustaceans in it. I don't

1069
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 2: think you should do shrimpy.

1070
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 1: There, Oh crustaceans.

1071
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 2: What did you think I'm saying? Chrisis servis.

1072
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: I just have never I've heard other people do it,

1073
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 1: but I've never referred to a shrimp as a crustacean.

1074
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 2: I think, like any type, well, like he's a crab,

1075
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 2: a crustacean. I think so now crab in the Yeah,

1076
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:04,280
Speaker 2: no crab, No lobster, Nope, no, none of those crustaceans

1077
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 2: I think from the sea. Yeah, nothing from the sea.

1078
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:11,439
Speaker 2: She was mortified and she didn't She'll never do it again.

1079
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's lucky to have y'all.

1080
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 3: Isn't that crazy?

1081
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: Though?

1082
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 2: She's just like not born. I guess it's probably more

1083
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: common than you think. Well, like your but she can't taste.

1084
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 2: That's the other thing is your senses, Like which sense

1085
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 2: would you would take over?

1086
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 1: Like would you? Yeah? Because you would think like if

1087
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: you have the taste, she would know that fish sometimes

1088
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 1: it tastes fishy, Yeah.

1089
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 3: But she doesn't know what it smells like.

1090
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:33,359
Speaker 1: True.

1091
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 3: But what's interesting is she can still you.

1092
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 2: There used to be this urban legend going around the

1093
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:42,439
Speaker 2: internet that that if you didn't have a sense of smell,

1094
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 2: you didn't have a sense of taste. But I think

1095
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 2: if you don't have a sense of smell, your sense

1096
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 2: of taste is very limited. But if you never have one,

1097
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 2: then you don't know that. So like, if I lose

1098
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 2: my sense of smell, I will notice the difference in

1099
00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 2: my taste.

1100
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:59,320
Speaker 1: But since she's never had it, when you're sick, things

1101
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 1: taste stiff, different or you can't taste them as much.

1102
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 3: But because she's never had that experience, yeah she yeah. Anyway,

1103
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 3: the more you.

1104
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: Know, moving on with the list, there's only a few

1105
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: more large amounts of alcohol. This increases moral bacteria causing sweat, skin, gut,

1106
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: all that stuff to Emit smells, which, yes, if you

1107
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 1: have large amounts of alcohol.

1108
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 2: That's interesting that alcohol creates the bacteria, because I would

1109
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:25,720
Speaker 2: think that alcohol would wipe it out.

1110
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: Like rubbing alcohol. Yeah, a little different. Caffeine or tea

1111
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: stimulates sweat glands in your underarms and area, leading to

1112
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: stronger body odor.

1113
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 3: Wait, I drink a lot of tea.

1114
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:43,360
Speaker 1: I love tea and coffee.

1115
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 2: This is stupid.

1116
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:49,840
Speaker 1: Where does this from low carb ketogenic style diets? I

1117
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:53,239
Speaker 1: have heard this, like if you are in keto you

1118
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 1: have a nail polish remover smell oh like.

1119
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 2: Alcohol like acid. Yeah that's shocking.

1120
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 3: So can we go ahead and say that.

1121
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: This list is just for fun and not real, and

1122
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: but add mint to your smoothies.

1123
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 3: That part's real.

1124
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:14,800
Speaker 1: That part's real. I do think that there is some

1125
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 1: to it ish, but you don't have to live by it,

1126
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 1: like eat your asparagus, eat your broccoli, eat your cauliflower.

1127
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,640
Speaker 3: And people will love you no matter what you smell like.

1128
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 1: But my favorite thing out of this entire you know,

1129
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:30,320
Speaker 1: sometimes you're like, I don't know why we do certain

1130
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: little segments. I don't know this. I know, I know

1131
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 1: we went through all of that so that we could

1132
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 1: re introduce or in your case, introduce it to you

1133
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:43,879
Speaker 1: for the first time mentally into our chocolate smoothies. Yeah.

1134
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 3: Thank god.

1135
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:46,719
Speaker 2: I would never have thought of that, And I've been

1136
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:49,879
Speaker 2: on a mint chocolate chip ice cream kick the past

1137
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:50,399
Speaker 2: couple weeks.

1138
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 1: Questions that don't come up. Do you put milk in

1139
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 1: your ice cream?

1140
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 3: No, it's made out of milk.

1141
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, but what you do is you scoop it into

1142
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 1: your bowler cup and then you pour a thin layer

1143
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:04,959
Speaker 1: of milk on top of the ice cream.

1144
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 3: What happens?

1145
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 1: Put it back in the freezer for just a little bit,

1146
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 1: not too long, and then pull it out. Don't ask

1147
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: me what happens. Try it for yourself. It is so good, yeah,

1148
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:22,320
Speaker 1: saying we grow. Yeah. It came up because my sister

1149
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 1: and I were on FaceTime with my boyfriend and I

1150
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: was drinking a glass of milk not milk. I drink

1151
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: almond milk, but can you use almond milk for this

1152
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 1: whatever kind of milk you drink, Yes, you can do

1153
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 1: almond milk for this on your ice cream. It's really

1154
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 1: what it. Almond milk, oat milk, cow's milk, cashw milk,

1155
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 1: coconut milk, whatever milk you fancy, go for it. Back

1156
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 1: in my childhood, my dad always put ice in his milk,

1157
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:55,320
Speaker 1: so we grew up putting ice in our milk. I

1158
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: love ice in my milk. And I was at my

1159
00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 1: boyfriend's house the other night and he had made these

1160
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 1: little protein ball things that were really good, and I

1161
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know, it just hit right now.

1162
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 1: It's a glass of milk. So I go over and

1163
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 1: make glass of milk, but I put ice in it.

1164
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 1: And I don't think I've ever had this in front

1165
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: of him. Yeah, it was the first time, and he

1166
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 1: was like, what are you doing? And I was like,

1167
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 1: I'm having a glass of milk. And then my sister

1168
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 1: got on FaceTime. She's like, oh, yeah, yeah, we drink

1169
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,879
Speaker 1: ice our milk. She's like, oh yeah, and we also

1170
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 1: put milk over our ice cream. And he was like,

1171
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 1: what that doesn't make sense. But we just grew up

1172
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 1: doing that and it's so normal, and to us it's

1173
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 1: so good, and so I would say, don't knock it.

1174
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 2: To try it.

1175
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:30,719
Speaker 3: I'm gonna try it.

1176
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,399
Speaker 1: But also, what kind of mint chocolate chip ice cream?

1177
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:34,720
Speaker 3: I have two thoughts.

1178
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do your thing, I'm gonna move my ring.

1179
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 2: So I remember this other thought. The ice cream that

1180
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:44,360
Speaker 2: I've been eating is there's those YAsO or YAsO or whatever.

1181
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 2: They're like Greek yogurt ice cream bars. And I think

1182
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:50,880
Speaker 2: it was when oh, I got mint chocolate chip when

1183
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 2: I was congested a couple of weeks ago, because I

1184
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 2: thought the mint would be like feel good. I was

1185
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 2: drinking mint tea and eating mint ice cream and now

1186
00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 2: I'm hooked. Why are you looking at that if you're congested?

1187
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,440
Speaker 2: Are they made out of dairy? Dairy like form a cow?

1188
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: I think if you're congested, you should avoid milk, but well,

1189
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm not a it's Greek yogurt. Yeah,

1190
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 1: Greek yogurts from a cow? So is that bad for

1191
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: I just think if you're congested, you try to avoid milk.

1192
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:21,319
Speaker 1: But that could be urban legend. That could be totally wrong.

1193
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 2: It made me. Oh no, it wasn't congestion, it was

1194
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 2: a sore throat. Oh okay, And I thought the mint

1195
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 2: would feel good on my throat.

1196
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:32,400
Speaker 1: Also, I wonder in there is it real mint or

1197
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:33,960
Speaker 1: is it like mint flavoring?

1198
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 2: Well, I feel like that's like a I feel like

1199
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 2: they use good ingredients in those bars. Think that they

1200
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 2: are expensive, you like to get them when they're on sale. Yeah, okay,

1201
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 2: my either thought this is not important, but I just

1202
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 2: now question does that don't come up? And since they're

1203
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 2: talking about milk, I'd like to know this about you

1204
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 2: at dinner growing up?

1205
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 3: What could you drink with your dinner?

1206
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 1: I don't remember having rules, okay, because.

1207
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 2: You know some people grow up and they have to

1208
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,840
Speaker 2: drink milk with dinner. Who so you could be like

1209
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 2: having spaghetti and have to drink milk with it.

1210
00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 1: Oh. I've never heard a lot of parents because it's

1211
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:09,800
Speaker 1: I guess good for kids zones. Yeah, and you know

1212
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 1: that got Milk campaign.

1213
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say the commercials, they are always

1214
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 2: a dinner and the mom's like, here's a glass of

1215
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 2: milk with your chicken parmesan Like that to me is

1216
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 2: like gross, does don't go together. I also grew up

1217
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:24,919
Speaker 2: in a family that nobody drinks milk. I have never

1218
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:27,719
Speaker 2: seen anybody in my family drink a glass of milk.

1219
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 2: My little brother really likes chocolate milk. But I have

1220
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 2: never seen my mom, my dad, my sister, my brother,

1221
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 2: my brother, myself, my grandma, never seen any of them

1222
00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:39,359
Speaker 2: be like, I'm gonna have a glass of milk.

1223
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 1: Never.

1224
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:41,240
Speaker 3: We only use milk for cereal.

1225
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:43,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, we drink milk. I would drink

1226
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 1: skim milk over ice and let it water down. Then

1227
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: I would drink it. It's so good. I love that.

1228
00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, anyway, so that.

1229
00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 1: But yeah, man, wow, we covered lawn care, dairy, asparagus.

1230
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 1: We had other helpful things.

1231
00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 2: We didn't never figure out how to say chrysiferousiferous chers.

1232
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:16,600
Speaker 1: Anyway, anyway, we are going to be covering well, no,

1233
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 1: but it was last week that we covered. We already

1234
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:21,479
Speaker 1: did it on last week's Couchhok Souse. I was about

1235
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: to do our closing have the day, Oh you need

1236
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: to have and if you've ever been confused by that.

1237
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: On last Thursday's Couch Talks episode, we talked about what

1238
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:31,479
Speaker 1: that means.

1239
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 3: Where it came from.

1240
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:35,080
Speaker 1: It can be confusing because like, what does that really mean?

1241
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 3: What does that really mean?

1242
00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: Have the day you need to have?

1243
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 2: It could be honestly, somebody might think it's passive aggressive

1244
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 2: have the day you need to have? If we don't

1245
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 2: say it in that tone. Yeah, I think are merch

1246
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 2: that way and be like, oh gosh, on the.

1247
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 1: Back of our shirt, have the day you need to have,

1248
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 1: like we're all hard.

1249
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, we say it with an upbeat tone.

1250
00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: Toxic yeah, and it's like it's more so I don't

1251
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 1: even think it's upbeat. It's just more of like half

1252
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 1: the day you need to have, like have it.

1253
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 3: So if you want to know, then go.

1254
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 1: Listen to last Thursday's Couch Talks riveting about what have

1255
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 1: the day you need to have really means? And with

1256
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 1: that said, we'll say, have the day you need to have.

1257
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 2: Bye Bye,