WEBVTT - Laugh it Off with Heather McDonald

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<v Speaker 1>Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast

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<v Speaker 1>Girls were going to hit the road this week. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>excited three sleeps, right, it would be so fun something

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I'm so excited. New York there's just like

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<v Speaker 1>a few seats left, Yeah, only a few, and then

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<v Speaker 1>Boston's like closest selling out on the second night. It's

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<v Speaker 1>wild to me. People are showing up in Boss. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so excited. I've never been. Oh my gosh, it's so

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<v Speaker 1>much fun. I feel like I want to get up

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<v Speaker 1>at like six am and just do all the things

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see. Boston. It's so fun. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to remember. So there's like the really pretty park. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of fun things to do in Boston.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like the attitude in Boston might be very

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<v Speaker 1>U brand for me right now. Yeah, for sure, there's

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<v Speaker 1>good chopping. There's a lot of good really cool like

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<v Speaker 1>architectural holdings and stuff that like we want to see.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think to bring the tennis shoes. Bring the

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<v Speaker 1>tennis shoes. Yes, there'll be lots of because the day,

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<v Speaker 1>the second day that we're there, we'll be like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>explore and I just have to travel to the next day. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just so excited. I feel like I need I

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<v Speaker 1>needed some some good girl time since November. Right, we

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<v Speaker 1>haven't been out since November and then the last girl

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<v Speaker 1>trip that I had was Sarah and then she So

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like we need like I need this,

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<v Speaker 1>like I need a good girl's trip because we were

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<v Speaker 1>Katherine and I were supposed to go some of first

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<v Speaker 1>spring break and it had kind of canceled. I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still up for a girl saying, so we need

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<v Speaker 1>I look, I like count down the days to wind down.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that time. It's just so well we travel well together. Yeah, which,

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<v Speaker 1>now that I know we travel well together, I really

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<v Speaker 1>look forward to. Well I did before, but now that

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<v Speaker 1>I know what's important to all of us and our

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<v Speaker 1>love languages and where we sleep, we all go to

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<v Speaker 1>the beach and backroom stretch. Well, it just feels like cozy.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm like, oh, we're back on the dorm. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>here for it. I love it. Do you guys like traveling?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there is there a couple like do you like

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<v Speaker 1>traveling with your husband's? Like would you rather travel solo

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<v Speaker 1>with your husband? Would you want to do couples, what

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<v Speaker 1>is your composure? Go to so fun fact, Preston and

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<v Speaker 1>I in eight years have never taken a vacation solo

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<v Speaker 1>until this, like to three weeks ago, which was crazy

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, hi, time out. Did you see

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<v Speaker 1>the pirates came? Yes, okay, they really came? Like wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so Christy wasn't far off? Pirates? Like when like goose

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<v Speaker 1>bumps so many people do you mean They're like you

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<v Speaker 1>manifested this? The pirates are I was there right? The

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<v Speaker 1>pirates came to Tampa? They did? Was that weird? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I saw it and just started busting. I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>to put I need to go back and post because

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<v Speaker 1>I was dying. I was like, you, guys, I did

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<v Speaker 1>I I guess what does that even say about me?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I better be careful. It's probably what

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to No, I need to manifest the

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<v Speaker 1>opposite direction and really get some things aligned for us.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think with the um couples or so, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually prefer to do a girl's trip and then do

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<v Speaker 1>a one on one for because I feel like since

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<v Speaker 1>we travel so much in work, it's hard to get

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<v Speaker 1>that one on one time, like you just said with President,

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<v Speaker 1>you have eight years eight years. So though it's fun

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<v Speaker 1>to travel with a couple, at the same time, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like that's the time that I'm like, I'd rather just

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<v Speaker 1>be like eye to eye with like my person. And

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<v Speaker 1>then because girls trips are just so much fun, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>rather just love it with the girls. I've really done

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<v Speaker 1>a whole lot of couple's trips. Honestly, maybe we should

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<v Speaker 1>come like girls trips or girls stressing better than a

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<v Speaker 1>girl's trap. There's really especially with us, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>my love for us, but like, none of us are

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<v Speaker 1>crazy drinkers. None of us are like you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>I remember the first time I told Press and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, I'm headed out for a wine down,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, uh, this is when Kat was potentially

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<v Speaker 1>getting divorced. You were different, look like but I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>it looks like eleven o'clock face wash and us belly

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<v Speaker 1>laughing about all the things. It looks like that was

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<v Speaker 1>like to meet you guys from an audisclosed location. At

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<v Speaker 1>this point, I do, and then yeah, I mean that's yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're like remember that one night we tried to go

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<v Speaker 1>out in Chicago. We really tried. That was actually sad.

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<v Speaker 1>We're trying so hard and everything. We just wanted one

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<v Speaker 1>good drink, one good drink, that was it, But instead

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<v Speaker 1>we belly laughed in our back in our room in

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<v Speaker 1>about twenty minutes. I like that about us. Girl's trips

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<v Speaker 1>have changed. It's not that exciting to everybody else listening,

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<v Speaker 1>but we love it. It's I think we're more comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>than people. Let on. I think what you guys do

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<v Speaker 1>is you got to find your people, and those are

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<v Speaker 1>the people that you should because we're so busy with

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<v Speaker 1>life and moments and it's nice to have for example,

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<v Speaker 1>like obviously the one with Sarah was it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was amazing, It was so much fun. So when you

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<v Speaker 1>have those moments like travel with the people that bring

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<v Speaker 1>life and joy into you rather than stress, because there's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing worse than traveling with people that you don't like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, why am I spending my time doing this

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Yeah? Like with kids and I'm kidding. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the other thing I remember, like a long period. I

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<v Speaker 1>like just that we it's always like a quick like

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<v Speaker 1>the trip we were going to do was like wet

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<v Speaker 1>two nights for spring break. It wasn't let me reiterate

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't a whole spring break trip. Kids don't worry

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<v Speaker 1>two nights. But yeah, it's you know, I like traveling

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<v Speaker 1>with kids with other kids. Yeah that's funny too because

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<v Speaker 1>it keeps them the that's I like, I really like

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<v Speaker 1>doing that. I want to do more trips where it's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>let's all take the kids here for spring break, especially

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<v Speaker 1>this year because my husband's gone a lot and I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to vacation, but I get, let's do it

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<v Speaker 1>for fall break. I have the kids for fallbreak, Mike

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<v Speaker 1>cousin for the spring, but with his now. But it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm now taking half of it because like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm gonna be here, so then that's where I

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<v Speaker 1>go into that, like I'll take him so uh but

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<v Speaker 1>fall break would be fun. Let's talk about where you

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<v Speaker 1>just came back from uh, California and you had a

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<v Speaker 1>sweet trip. I did so sweet? You know what you had?

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<v Speaker 1>Called Catherine? I go, when did TMZ come to Nashville.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know who this man was, but I got

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<v Speaker 1>off that this nine hour flight and so where he

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<v Speaker 1>lives it's about like three hours from England, like two

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<v Speaker 1>and a half three hours, so count that onto it.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I'm at the airport for two hours and then

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<v Speaker 1>a nine hour flight back home. Nine hours and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>no makeup, got some zits like in my like sweatpants, Karen,

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<v Speaker 1>my big old blanket. And I get this guy and

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<v Speaker 1>this one guy has a camera videoing, and then one

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<v Speaker 1>guy is long lens and I'm like where am I

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<v Speaker 1>at right now? Like this is never never seen that

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<v Speaker 1>in Nashville? What Yeah? I was like, am I getting punked?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was just so so. Then it hit the

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<v Speaker 1>news after no, no, it hasn't come out and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even look forward or whatever, but like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like this. What was strange about it was I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was immediately when I went through the doors of

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<v Speaker 1>you know, out of the British Airways or whatever, the

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<v Speaker 1>international terminal. You know, how can people approach you think

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<v Speaker 1>that you might know them, and he's like hi, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Hi, how are you? Because it's like you're

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<v Speaker 1>always so nice? Well, and but in my mind I'm like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>are they a fan? Are they do I actually know them?

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<v Speaker 1>Or I'm always gonna play it like I know you

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<v Speaker 1>and whatever. That's amazing. So even people you are for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know. You're always like hey girl, cute top

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<v Speaker 1>I mean always so you knew the photographer, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know any well. The first guy in the

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<v Speaker 1>cameras like hey Jenna, Like I was like, oh hi,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you in? Nice to see you, and he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>how is your time in England? I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so weird. I don't think that is crazy to me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was just like, uh, yeah, I know it

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<v Speaker 1>was good and I'm walking like I'm briskly walking. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to get to my uber. I want to see

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<v Speaker 1>my kids, right and so he just kept asking me

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<v Speaker 1>all these questions like has Allen met the kids? And like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I don't feel like discussing that. Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually would like to really get to my kids right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you met his kids? And like again I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to discuss that. I'm so sorry, like I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to get to my car, And then he kept

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<v Speaker 1>asking like the one thing I remember from it because

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<v Speaker 1>it was again such a blur, He goes, have you

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<v Speaker 1>learned any fancy words? And I go rubbish and rubbish yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was just like what, like what is happening

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Like I was just so confused, and then

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<v Speaker 1>he kept asking me questions, like he said something else

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<v Speaker 1>about Alan, and I just was so like I looked

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<v Speaker 1>at him like dead in the eye and was just

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<v Speaker 1>like I just got off a nine hour plane, like please,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry, like I just want to get home

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<v Speaker 1>to my kids. Also like probably caught off guard, like

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<v Speaker 1>what's really happening right now? I still that's crazy. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know that was. I mean I have heard that

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<v Speaker 1>they're definitely here now are there? Um? Someone had told

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<v Speaker 1>me that they were, yeah, that they were doing something downtown.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, they don't know where. The gymnastics play a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of content, but I had not seen or heard

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<v Speaker 1>them at the airport. The days, those were the days

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<v Speaker 1>because I just made me laugh just I miss those

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<v Speaker 1>days just for the No, I just didn't say. I

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<v Speaker 1>take that back. I do not miss those days. I

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<v Speaker 1>miss the Queendo. That's what. Well. I just ate popcorn

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<v Speaker 1>and watched it. I can remember sitting on my couch

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<v Speaker 1>literally eating popcorn so hard. It's just I literally said

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<v Speaker 1>The Queen was better than Netflix to me. It was

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<v Speaker 1>way too good. It's you just can't make And then

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<v Speaker 1>you went and stable and got a boyfriend and quiet.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I'm like, hey, guys, we also have back

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<v Speaker 1>together with Meg. Julie is successful, Pam's healing guts and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Pam's growing abs. You've got a boyfriend. Sarah Bryce has

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<v Speaker 1>exited the conversation. She actually stay on. No, I don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think. So we stopped Sarah conversation. Girl, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just too much. But but England was great. It's um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's a lot. You know what kills me is

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<v Speaker 1>the nine hour travel back. Like the one there is great.

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<v Speaker 1>I got that one. It's the flight back that's just

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<v Speaker 1>really tough. It's it's nine and a half hours. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just it's to me, that's a lot. And you don't sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't because you have to sleep and get home, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because you gotta like you land at like five pm

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like, all right, I gotta stay awake, which

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<v Speaker 1>is you know one o'clock. No ask how you are

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<v Speaker 1>just coming back? Because that was it snuck up on me,

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<v Speaker 1>like the second day, I felt like, so I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's harder for me going there just than it

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<v Speaker 1>is coming here, because like you're going to bed so

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<v Speaker 1>you're already like tired. I don't know, but there it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It will be coming to an end soon or it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like I did, admit so many different things that

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to have to elaborate. Well, y'all just to

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<v Speaker 1>just be a director instead he's a plot writer. It

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<v Speaker 1>will all be coming doing what do you mean eventually

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<v Speaker 1>it'll all be coming to an end. That uh, the

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<v Speaker 1>amount of times I'm going over there. Mhm. Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>I got t MZ's telescope camera fired up. But yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it it was so great. We like saw some really

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<v Speaker 1>cool different places and there were have you ever heard

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<v Speaker 1>of this place called bath in England? Yeah, I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>of it. Wow, it's wild back and live the Roman days.

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<v Speaker 1>They dug so deep. And again I'm gonna butcher this

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm the person, so I'd like to know this.

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<v Speaker 1>When you go to a museum that you know they

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<v Speaker 1>have those little phones and the headphones, I walk right

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<v Speaker 1>past those things. I just want to see. I'm wearing

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<v Speaker 1>my headphones. Now those are the kind of headphones. But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I just like, I'm like now I just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of want to look and like see and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>read a few of the little plaques. But besides that,

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<v Speaker 1>like give me, give me the like when was it built?

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<v Speaker 1>Sith notes? Whatever? Now, send me on my way. So

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<v Speaker 1>what's your cliff notes about bath? That cliff notes about

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<v Speaker 1>bath was back in the Roman times? Okay, they dug

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<v Speaker 1>so deep into the ground that they hit like a

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<v Speaker 1>The ground was hot, so Toda's day and I even

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<v Speaker 1>made it said don't touch, but Allen touched the water.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh so, um, it's still warm. That so that the

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<v Speaker 1>pictures I took when I was there, it stays warm.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that wild? That's why bath? Yes, well I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's actually why the study is called back. But I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why it would be called bad mother? Is right? True? True? True?

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<v Speaker 1>And we're trained to shower that they called a bath

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<v Speaker 1>and then made up that story to fit the name

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<v Speaker 1>of the and then they have a heat or installed

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<v Speaker 1>all of those fields. Well sound we I know what

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<v Speaker 1>we needed to do is we needed to to to

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<v Speaker 1>look at the the you know, the little guide thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyways, so but we're google. I don't know things

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<v Speaker 1>or what they did in that bath, but they all

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<v Speaker 1>bathed together in these baths. So we went there and

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<v Speaker 1>then we went to this other place called we went

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<v Speaker 1>to windsor windsor was did you go the Queen's Castle

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<v Speaker 1>or I think that's what it is. We didn't wear

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<v Speaker 1>that phones, but it was beautiful, like just so stunning,

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<v Speaker 1>so pretty the grounds were and I saw these you

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<v Speaker 1>know those what those guys called they walk with the

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<v Speaker 1>like big soldiers. They are, yes, they are soldiers, but

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<v Speaker 1>there does anybody want to cancel the last five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>England culture? I apologize. I will do better next time.

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<v Speaker 1>We are were so but every part of me I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, hey, like I want to because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to get there because they won't because they

0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:30.480
<v Speaker 1>won't right, like, and you love eye contact. I do that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really hard for you. But that was pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Watched the exchange of the guards guards. Okay, so we

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<v Speaker 1>have to watch them, Yeah, changing the car, changing the guard. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was pretty cool. Yeah, And I thought there was

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<v Speaker 1>something more fancier and like the red Stallions are the

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<v Speaker 1>red Guard stack. That's not the magic of the Kingdom.

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<v Speaker 1>You made a few fires, tried to watch Babbylon. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the fires didn't watch Babbylon them out anyways, But

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<v Speaker 1>it was fun and I'll be back sooner, and he

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<v Speaker 1>cannot come here to an end before it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>an end, because you know in season it's he'd have

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<v Speaker 1>like again in twenty to our travel day. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>so funny. I still am phobic of you giving clues,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just tightened up and I'm like, oh, that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>When everyone knows who he is, now it's fine, okay, okay. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we have a really amazing guest on our show. She's

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<v Speaker 1>got a really fun podcast. She's hilarious. So let's take

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<v Speaker 1>a break and then let's get Heather on. Hey, Heather,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Janna Christ. Hey, I'm Catherine. Thank you so much

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<v Speaker 1>for coming on Wine Down. We really appreciate it. How's

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<v Speaker 1>your dame? Good? How's yours? Where are you guys? You're

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<v Speaker 1>in Nashville. We're in Nashville. Yeah. Are you in l A. Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>It's juicy in l I. I bet it's great. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's such a gorgeous day to day, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I would be jealous, but it's a very

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful day to day too, in Nashville and sunny. We've

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<v Speaker 1>really tried today with our weather. We're feeling proud of ourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll be gone tomorrow. Don't worry. It's totally gone tomorrow. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's cute. We were just we we all love you.

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<v Speaker 1>But this one right here was just before entered. She

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, guys, I really love I really love

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<v Speaker 1>you because I like funny women and there's not a

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<v Speaker 1>ton of them. Oh thank you. I appreciate that so much.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so sweet. I mean the Chelsea Lately days, that's

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<v Speaker 1>how far it goes back. Oh good, great, that's not good.

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<v Speaker 1>I just love you. I had to say it. I

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<v Speaker 1>just need to say I love you, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care who knows it. I had had my buddy the

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<v Speaker 1>Elf moment and I can move along. Good. So Juicy

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<v Speaker 1>Scoop tell us all about that podcast and is there

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<v Speaker 1>any juice to be given? Um, well, Juicy Scoop, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been doing for seven and a half years, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been really fortunate and that it's just some thing

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<v Speaker 1>I really love to do. I started it because Chelsea

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<v Speaker 1>Lately had ended, and I had like a year of

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<v Speaker 1>a couple other TV shows that you know, we're happening

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<v Speaker 1>not happening, A few episodes here there, and in two thousand.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it would have been two thousand fifteen. Is

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<v Speaker 1>when I started. I was like, well, I guess it's

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<v Speaker 1>time for a podcast. Like nothing else is happening. Only

0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:24.800
<v Speaker 1>the losers have podcasts. Nobody made money off of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be a guest on podcast and I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know how to listen back. Um. And I wasn't doing

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<v Speaker 1>it for the money. I did it because I was

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<v Speaker 1>doing stand up and and I was like, how am

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<v Speaker 1>I going to keep headlining clubs if I'm not like

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<v Speaker 1>on TV, you know, because I have to sell every

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<v Speaker 1>ticket myself and um, And so I was. I was

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<v Speaker 1>at a club and I saw a poster of Tom Sagora,

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<v Speaker 1>which I hope you guys know who he is. He's

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<v Speaker 1>huge but Bert Kreisher. Um. But at the time Tom Sagur,

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<v Speaker 1>I go, oh, that guy is a really good podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>like a popular podcast. And the owner of the clubs like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he comes here on a Tuesday night and sells out

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<v Speaker 1>just from the people that listen to his podcast. And

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<v Speaker 1>so then the next day I was like, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to get a podcast. So then I started mine, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't expect to make any money at it. Nobody

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<v Speaker 1>did I just was doing it as like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a way to keep be creative and hopefully it would

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<v Speaker 1>help sell tickets. So yeah, so then like about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Then after a year, I didn't I didn't even realize

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<v Speaker 1>like it was becoming really popular because it wasn't reflecting

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<v Speaker 1>in my social media, like the people that were just listening,

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<v Speaker 1>we're listening, they weren't like, you know, going over to

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram and being like I loved your episode. So I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even know. And then um, and then it just

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<v Speaker 1>became really popular. So and I just just never stopped.

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<v Speaker 1>I never I never took a break. I never did

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<v Speaker 1>a season one and two. I never took If it

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<v Speaker 1>was a Tuesday and the Thursday and that was Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>and New Year's Eve, you got an episode and I

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<v Speaker 1>just treated it like I did Chelsea Lately, but instead

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<v Speaker 1>of sixty people working on it, it was basically like

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<v Speaker 1>just me and a producer. And so the hard work

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<v Speaker 1>is paid off. I'm like the top female in the

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<v Speaker 1>comedy department who who doesn't have a partner, so doing it,

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<v Speaker 1>doing it has been really great. And I just cover

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<v Speaker 1>everything that I think is juicy, and so some of

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<v Speaker 1>that is you know, obviously like whatever is in pop culture.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do cover like a juicy crime mostly if

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's like, um, mostly if it's like passion driven,

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<v Speaker 1>like it has to be about couples or something, because

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<v Speaker 1>it always like I like analyzing, you know, what do

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<v Speaker 1>I think happened in this or why do I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's juicy? It's not as like detective driven when I

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<v Speaker 1>cover it as some of like a hardcore podcast crime,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do that. And then of course I've always

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<v Speaker 1>been a fan of the Bravo stuff in the Real Housewives,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll always touch on that. But I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>recap every episode. I just kind of be like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this was pretty juicy. What happened here? This is why

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think this person is going to be asked back,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just kinda do that. And then I have

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<v Speaker 1>comedians and I have different guests on as well, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think right now in the pop culture world?

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<v Speaker 1>Define that's juicy? The The whole thing with j Lo

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<v Speaker 1>and Ben is just like funny, you know, because it's

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<v Speaker 1>like the other thing people don't realize is like they're

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<v Speaker 1>fifty and they've been going to these events for years,

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<v Speaker 1>and anyone that's married for that long and your husband

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<v Speaker 1>is like fifty, whether he's Ben Affleck or just like

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<v Speaker 1>a dude, and you're like, okay, I'm warning you now.

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<v Speaker 1>Like there came a point, like in my marriage, so

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<v Speaker 1>I've been married twenty two years where I would be like, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>we have a wedding on Saturday night, so you cannot

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<v Speaker 1>like go golfing all day Friday and boozet toll ten

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<v Speaker 1>because I need you to be a delight for Saturday.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would like put in calendar like Peter doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>drink Friday. So like I think that like eventually your

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<v Speaker 1>husband's all become toddlers where you're like, um, okay, we've

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<v Speaker 1>been out all morning shopping at home, deepo, we have

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<v Speaker 1>that party tonight. Do I need to get you home

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<v Speaker 1>for a nap? Get you like, let's let's get him down.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you need to water some food? What can I

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<v Speaker 1>help you with? Do you need a bathroom or yeah? Exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>just like get so then you have so I think

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<v Speaker 1>like with some of that, like yeah, he doesn't love it.

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<v Speaker 1>He was just like he is kind of like a

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<v Speaker 1>craeky person. But I think that they're they're fine. So

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<v Speaker 1>that was like fun to kind of analyze what that

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<v Speaker 1>was really about. He did swallow a couple of yawns, though,

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<v Speaker 1>did you see that? Like I watched him internalize a

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<v Speaker 1>yawn and really his eyes watered and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is hard for Ben. He's really having a really

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<v Speaker 1>and I really don't like how they said and she

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<v Speaker 1>snapped at him. I'm like, that was not snapping. They

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<v Speaker 1>were just like you know what I mean, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just like a to me. That made me think that

0:22:00.359 --> 0:22:02.960
<v Speaker 1>they are like real as real as can be. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>get your ass together, right, like cameras are. That's the worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Like when she saw her like that the camera was on.

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<v Speaker 1>That part like killed me from her because again, people

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<v Speaker 1>are always staring and looking and the moment that you

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<v Speaker 1>think you have without cameras and then the fake kind

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<v Speaker 1>of smiled coming back, It's like, oh God, we've all

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<v Speaker 1>we've all been there in some setting or another. Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't watch the Grammys, Like I don't really watch

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff anymore. I'll watch the clips now. I'm always there. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I have bells on and stuff, but like when people

0:22:36.680 --> 0:22:38.480
<v Speaker 1>at home don't realize is that like this is like

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<v Speaker 1>an exhausting day. You know you guys, you know you

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<v Speaker 1>would know that, but like getting cute early, being uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>standing on the red carpet, waiting for this, being on,

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<v Speaker 1>having to smile, not eating, you're never eating. Yeah, there

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<v Speaker 1>was just like that sad shark cootery board at a wedding,

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<v Speaker 1>all eyes are on you. You're not good enough. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't get together. I mean it's very much like

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<v Speaker 1>a wedding gramer. And you know, like when you're not

0:23:09.320 --> 0:23:13.200
<v Speaker 1>famous or whatever, you're like, there's times when I get

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<v Speaker 1>invite to something and I'll say to my husband, I'm like, okay,

0:23:16.359 --> 0:23:20.400
<v Speaker 1>we I have that like Apple TV premiere. You are

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<v Speaker 1>my choice, you know, but like if you're not feeling it,

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<v Speaker 1>can you tell me now? So I can invite my girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>who will go with bills on and yeah, so I

0:23:34.880 --> 0:23:37.520
<v Speaker 1>can go with my girlfriend and no one's like Heather

0:23:37.600 --> 0:23:42.040
<v Speaker 1>McDonald's getting divorced, you know, but she can't bring her

0:23:42.080 --> 0:23:45.040
<v Speaker 1>sister or like her best friend. You were like, actually

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<v Speaker 1>when she'd probably have so much more fun with instead, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or like the single girlfriend that like might hook up

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<v Speaker 1>with someone there, which makes it fun for the merry girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, she has to bring Ben. So that's for that.

0:24:02.480 --> 0:24:06.080
<v Speaker 1>For that, I feel a little bit internally Ben in

0:24:06.080 --> 0:24:09.720
<v Speaker 1>my head forever. Yeah, okay, well that's so good. And

0:24:09.760 --> 0:24:12.160
<v Speaker 1>then so you've been married for how many years? Twenty

0:24:12.240 --> 0:24:16.560
<v Speaker 1>years and he's he's not in the industry at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh no, I mean he's been like managing me, and

0:24:21.080 --> 0:24:23.119
<v Speaker 1>he was you know, he's like a finance guy. So

0:24:23.200 --> 0:24:26.560
<v Speaker 1>he's always handled everything. And then and then in between

0:24:26.640 --> 0:24:30.840
<v Speaker 1>leaving our first podcast company and um, you know, I

0:24:30.880 --> 0:24:32.879
<v Speaker 1>always had agents and all that stuff, and then he

0:24:32.920 --> 0:24:35.320
<v Speaker 1>would like, I'd like do a deal, and then he

0:24:35.320 --> 0:24:38.560
<v Speaker 1>would actually read the contract and he'd be like, why

0:24:38.600 --> 0:24:41.480
<v Speaker 1>didn't you do this and this and this? And I'm like, well,

0:24:41.520 --> 0:24:44.200
<v Speaker 1>why why am I? Why am I paying this person

0:24:44.240 --> 0:24:47.399
<v Speaker 1>that doesn't care about me, that doesn't read the contract,

0:24:47.720 --> 0:24:50.280
<v Speaker 1>who's like, I don't know if you guys, you guys

0:24:50.280 --> 0:24:52.040
<v Speaker 1>would know, the out of your audience knows. But like

0:24:52.080 --> 0:24:53.720
<v Speaker 1>the usould be a time where like an agent would

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<v Speaker 1>do a deal and then all of a sudden, if

0:24:55.600 --> 0:24:58.040
<v Speaker 1>you had a big deal, they'd be like, okay, so

0:24:58.240 --> 0:25:00.560
<v Speaker 1>you need to also hire an attorney for that will

0:25:00.600 --> 0:25:04.000
<v Speaker 1>take ten percent And you're like, what the hell are

0:25:04.040 --> 0:25:07.360
<v Speaker 1>you doing, like so it's kind of like so anyway,

0:25:07.440 --> 0:25:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I still have all that, but like he does, you

0:25:10.560 --> 0:25:12.600
<v Speaker 1>know he So then he started to get involved more

0:25:12.720 --> 0:25:15.600
<v Speaker 1>with it. And then when the podcast group, we have

0:25:15.720 --> 0:25:18.560
<v Speaker 1>our own studio and we have someone you know, so

0:25:18.600 --> 0:25:21.600
<v Speaker 1>we then we did all ourselves and we have a

0:25:21.640 --> 0:25:23.679
<v Speaker 1>network that you know, brings us ads or whatever, but

0:25:23.720 --> 0:25:26.919
<v Speaker 1>we do all everything ourselves. So then just along with

0:25:26.960 --> 0:25:29.359
<v Speaker 1>all that type of stuff, I was like, God, I mean,

0:25:30.040 --> 0:25:32.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, it is hard to work with your spouse.

0:25:32.960 --> 0:25:36.159
<v Speaker 1>And it's something I my sister and I would go

0:25:36.200 --> 0:25:38.720
<v Speaker 1>to bed at night and like promise ourselves that we

0:25:38.760 --> 0:25:42.280
<v Speaker 1>would never work with our husband because my parents were

0:25:42.400 --> 0:25:46.800
<v Speaker 1>realtors and they worked together, and oh I thought it

0:25:46.840 --> 0:25:49.960
<v Speaker 1>was awful. Though it was awful. Um that they stay

0:25:50.040 --> 0:25:52.720
<v Speaker 1>married till they died, and they really liked each other

0:25:52.800 --> 0:25:55.320
<v Speaker 1>once we were all gone and they stopped working. But

0:25:55.359 --> 0:25:59.520
<v Speaker 1>like it was, it's hard. It's hard to work with

0:25:59.560 --> 0:26:04.879
<v Speaker 1>your house. It's hard like your spouse sometimes too. I mean,

0:26:04.920 --> 0:26:08.680
<v Speaker 1>let's just start from strata at that element. But then

0:26:08.720 --> 0:26:12.320
<v Speaker 1>there's amazing benefits to it too, and that no one

0:26:12.520 --> 0:26:14.399
<v Speaker 1>has your back, like you know, like your spouse. Some

0:26:14.440 --> 0:26:16.560
<v Speaker 1>one's gonna care about it, you know, no one like

0:26:16.640 --> 0:26:21.440
<v Speaker 1>you don't have to worry about anything shady happening on whatever. Um.

0:26:21.480 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 1>So it's funny. But my sister, who's an attorney, she

0:26:23.560 --> 0:26:25.600
<v Speaker 1>works with her husband too, so we both ended up

0:26:25.640 --> 0:26:28.000
<v Speaker 1>working with our husbands. We didn't start out that way,

0:26:28.880 --> 0:26:33.919
<v Speaker 1>but eventually it came to that. And so yeah, so no,

0:26:34.080 --> 0:26:38.000
<v Speaker 1>he was never like an actor or anything like that though. Okay,

0:26:38.040 --> 0:26:40.560
<v Speaker 1>And is that do you think that's like what's made

0:26:40.640 --> 0:26:43.720
<v Speaker 1>your relationship since you're so in the spotlight and in

0:26:43.760 --> 0:26:46.680
<v Speaker 1>doing things in entertainment, that that's helped, um, kind of

0:26:47.800 --> 0:26:52.160
<v Speaker 1>keep the relationship as strong as it has. Um. Yeah,

0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:55.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean I think I think it does help to

0:26:55.080 --> 0:26:58.439
<v Speaker 1>have someone that doesn't want your life, you know, Like

0:26:58.520 --> 0:27:00.760
<v Speaker 1>I think that is. I think there's I think there's

0:27:00.760 --> 0:27:03.000
<v Speaker 1>something so great. I have a lot of friends that

0:27:03.040 --> 0:27:06.840
<v Speaker 1>are like, you know, like power comedian couples like you know,

0:27:06.920 --> 0:27:10.639
<v Speaker 1>Toom Sagora and Christina Paczynski and and Natasha la Jarro

0:27:10.880 --> 0:27:14.640
<v Speaker 1>and Mosha Kasha like and they both do the thing

0:27:14.720 --> 0:27:17.160
<v Speaker 1>they do the podcast together, like they're both funny there.

0:27:17.240 --> 0:27:19.879
<v Speaker 1>You know, I think it can really work out. I

0:27:19.920 --> 0:27:22.840
<v Speaker 1>think with actors sometimes obviously it's a little more difficult

0:27:22.840 --> 0:27:24.760
<v Speaker 1>because it's like one person has all these movies and

0:27:24.800 --> 0:27:27.840
<v Speaker 1>another one doesn't, and they go off, you know, and

0:27:27.840 --> 0:27:30.600
<v Speaker 1>they're making out with people. So it's like, I do

0:27:30.720 --> 0:27:33.600
<v Speaker 1>think that part of it can be hard. But when

0:27:33.640 --> 0:27:36.399
<v Speaker 1>I when I was when I met him, he just

0:27:36.480 --> 0:27:39.639
<v Speaker 1>kind of was like when I was like doing Stamp

0:27:39.680 --> 0:27:41.600
<v Speaker 1>and on meet guys and this is a long time ago,

0:27:41.800 --> 0:27:44.480
<v Speaker 1>you know. When I was in my twenties, there weren't

0:27:44.480 --> 0:27:46.119
<v Speaker 1>a lot of women that were doing it, so it

0:27:46.240 --> 0:27:49.480
<v Speaker 1>was always like either they were either they the guys

0:27:49.640 --> 0:27:51.720
<v Speaker 1>that I would tell would be like, oh wow, okay,

0:27:51.760 --> 0:27:54.320
<v Speaker 1>So like how long are you gonna give it? Like

0:27:54.440 --> 0:27:57.400
<v Speaker 1>when are you gonna quit? Like when like how like

0:27:57.840 --> 0:27:59.479
<v Speaker 1>you know, like as if I'm not if I'm not

0:27:59.560 --> 0:28:01.960
<v Speaker 1>making much by thirty year, if I'm not in a sitcom,

0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:03.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm just supposed to like quit that day. I'm like,

0:28:04.240 --> 0:28:05.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I'm just gonna do it as long

0:28:05.560 --> 0:28:08.000
<v Speaker 1>as I am having fun doing it. And this one

0:28:08.040 --> 0:28:10.000
<v Speaker 1>guy was like, yeah, but it says I'm dating you,

0:28:10.760 --> 0:28:13.400
<v Speaker 1>like you go out on all these auditions and like

0:28:13.960 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 1>have you even gotten any of them? And I'm like, no,

0:28:16.680 --> 0:28:19.800
<v Speaker 1>I never get any of them. I never do. I'm like,

0:28:20.040 --> 0:28:23.120
<v Speaker 1>but I just like going on them. Well, I just

0:28:23.200 --> 0:28:26.679
<v Speaker 1>like getting cute, wasting four hours and preparing and not

0:28:26.840 --> 0:28:29.960
<v Speaker 1>knowing where to park, and then never be successful at it.

0:28:30.359 --> 0:28:32.399
<v Speaker 1>But like I'm still living the dream, like I'm still

0:28:32.560 --> 0:28:34.800
<v Speaker 1>going and do my thing. So when I got Peter,

0:28:34.920 --> 0:28:36.919
<v Speaker 1>he just kind of he wasn't in that business. He

0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:39.840
<v Speaker 1>was into He was a medical sales rep and then

0:28:39.880 --> 0:28:43.000
<v Speaker 1>got into like mortgage brokering and stuff, and so he

0:28:43.080 --> 0:28:45.680
<v Speaker 1>was just like, oh, this is cool, like you know,

0:28:45.800 --> 0:28:48.160
<v Speaker 1>this is great, and he thought I was funny and

0:28:48.560 --> 0:28:50.880
<v Speaker 1>he didn't have like an ego about it, and I

0:28:50.920 --> 0:28:52.920
<v Speaker 1>always talked about him in my act and that was

0:28:52.960 --> 0:28:57.200
<v Speaker 1>fine as well, and so yeah, it was it was

0:28:57.280 --> 0:29:00.560
<v Speaker 1>never it was never that. And then you know, he

0:29:01.120 --> 0:29:03.760
<v Speaker 1>was thrilled that I was like successful in making money,

0:29:03.800 --> 0:29:07.880
<v Speaker 1>Like there was never anything negative about that. So yeah,

0:29:08.000 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 1>that was a good combo for you know, it's not perfect,

0:29:10.880 --> 0:29:15.320
<v Speaker 1>but it's good. And I never wanted and I never

0:29:15.360 --> 0:29:17.280
<v Speaker 1>want to be that person at Bragg's too much, because

0:29:17.280 --> 0:29:20.320
<v Speaker 1>then those are the ones that always end up. We

0:29:20.440 --> 0:29:26.640
<v Speaker 1>use this audio over top of here breaking that's horrible.

0:29:26.800 --> 0:29:29.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm with you. We don't ever jink set in audio?

0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:33.200
<v Speaker 1>And how many kids do you have, Heather, because they're

0:29:33.240 --> 0:29:37.240
<v Speaker 1>teenagers now right, Yeah, we have three. Um My stepdaughter

0:29:37.320 --> 0:29:40.920
<v Speaker 1>is twenty three, but we basically raised her because you know,

0:29:41.040 --> 0:29:43.200
<v Speaker 1>she was very young when we got together. And then

0:29:43.440 --> 0:29:46.720
<v Speaker 1>I have my son who's twenty year old. He's at

0:29:46.760 --> 0:29:49.640
<v Speaker 1>a s u Arizona State. And then I'm another son

0:29:49.680 --> 0:29:54.920
<v Speaker 1>who's a junior in high school. Boys, is there is

0:29:54.920 --> 0:29:58.680
<v Speaker 1>there one thing in stand up that, especially when you

0:29:58.680 --> 0:30:02.120
<v Speaker 1>were starting? Is my thing is I'm like, I feel terrible,

0:30:02.120 --> 0:30:04.440
<v Speaker 1>but sometimes when I go to a comedy show, if

0:30:04.440 --> 0:30:07.400
<v Speaker 1>something's not funny, I'm like, I'm not going to like

0:30:07.480 --> 0:30:09.600
<v Speaker 1>force myself to laugh when if if you were to

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:11.480
<v Speaker 1>not get a laugh, like does that because to me,

0:30:11.520 --> 0:30:13.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, I'm gonna laugh because I feel bad

0:30:13.400 --> 0:30:15.400
<v Speaker 1>for the comedian now, so I'm just gonna laugh, even

0:30:15.400 --> 0:30:17.960
<v Speaker 1>though I'm like, huh, other doesn't know because how there's funny?

0:30:18.040 --> 0:30:21.280
<v Speaker 1>Well of course, but I'm starting out though, I mean

0:30:21.320 --> 0:30:22.959
<v Speaker 1>like I would be like if I was sitting up

0:30:22.960 --> 0:30:28.960
<v Speaker 1>there and mortified, So I'm like, tell me all, it's

0:30:29.000 --> 0:30:31.160
<v Speaker 1>mortifying for the person doing the stand up, But I

0:30:31.200 --> 0:30:34.480
<v Speaker 1>also love that there are girls and people like you

0:30:34.560 --> 0:30:38.040
<v Speaker 1>that are actually it's like uncomfortable and cringe you sometimes

0:30:38.080 --> 0:30:39.840
<v Speaker 1>to go to stand up, Like I had a friend

0:30:40.880 --> 0:30:43.320
<v Speaker 1>that had to come just so much of my stand up,

0:30:43.400 --> 0:30:45.320
<v Speaker 1>especially in the beginning, because you have to bring people,

0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:49.000
<v Speaker 1>and it was always like kind of a weird lineup right,

0:30:49.120 --> 0:30:51.440
<v Speaker 1>Like I would be I would always do pretty decent,

0:30:51.880 --> 0:30:53.960
<v Speaker 1>and then there'd be it was always like they always

0:30:53.960 --> 0:30:55.880
<v Speaker 1>come up to me and they'd be like, well, you

0:30:55.960 --> 0:30:58.240
<v Speaker 1>and the black guy were good, but like everyone else sucked.

0:30:58.240 --> 0:31:02.120
<v Speaker 1>Like it was always just like like and then I'd

0:31:02.160 --> 0:31:05.320
<v Speaker 1>be like, oh my god, I'm not going on to

0:31:05.520 --> 0:31:08.320
<v Speaker 1>like the eighth person. How am I people going to

0:31:08.440 --> 0:31:11.920
<v Speaker 1>live through this? Like hell? And then my later on

0:31:11.920 --> 0:31:13.920
<v Speaker 1>once I became successful with my girlfriend, was like, oh,

0:31:13.960 --> 0:31:15.880
<v Speaker 1>someone just asked me to a comedy show and I

0:31:15.960 --> 0:31:19.200
<v Speaker 1>was like, no, I can't take the anxiety of like

0:31:19.280 --> 0:31:21.400
<v Speaker 1>when they're not funny unless they're like a professional, like

0:31:21.440 --> 0:31:24.360
<v Speaker 1>unless you're gonna go see like me or Amy Schumer,

0:31:24.560 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 1>Chris Rock or something like sometimes we're just going to

0:31:27.120 --> 0:31:31.000
<v Speaker 1>like the random night of stand up. For some people,

0:31:31.160 --> 0:31:35.520
<v Speaker 1>they have like a codependent like anxiety for the stand up,

0:31:35.560 --> 0:31:41.800
<v Speaker 1>which sounds like you I'm like, but I like feel

0:31:41.920 --> 0:31:44.800
<v Speaker 1>terrible for them that it's not They're not funny. So

0:31:44.960 --> 0:31:47.160
<v Speaker 1>it's just like, oh and I don't think a lot

0:31:47.160 --> 0:31:49.760
<v Speaker 1>of people are funny. Is that like a diagnosed Can

0:31:49.800 --> 0:31:52.560
<v Speaker 1>I diagnose myself? Not a lot of people make me laugh?

0:31:53.600 --> 0:31:55.600
<v Speaker 1>May mean like when you're like scrolling and you see

0:31:55.640 --> 0:31:59.200
<v Speaker 1>people's like stand up, you're like not feeling it. No,

0:31:59.400 --> 0:32:02.000
<v Speaker 1>I hate to say it's a talent, so I admire it.

0:32:02.400 --> 0:32:06.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm married to a musician, so I like, I respect

0:32:06.400 --> 0:32:08.680
<v Speaker 1>the bravery, but I just feel bad because I can't fake.

0:32:08.800 --> 0:32:10.600
<v Speaker 1>I just not I can't fake laughs or a lot

0:32:10.640 --> 0:32:14.400
<v Speaker 1>of things, Heather, But I mean, I think stand up is,

0:32:14.960 --> 0:32:18.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, an art form within the umbrella of comedy,

0:32:19.160 --> 0:32:22.040
<v Speaker 1>and so like you might be someone that like absolutely

0:32:22.040 --> 0:32:25.320
<v Speaker 1>like love you could watch twelve episodes of the Office,

0:32:25.480 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 1>that's all that's comedy. That doesn't mean you don't like comedy.

0:32:28.760 --> 0:32:32.360
<v Speaker 1>Love comedy, you don't like the you're just not overly

0:32:32.360 --> 0:32:35.280
<v Speaker 1>attracted to like the art form of stand up of

0:32:35.320 --> 0:32:38.480
<v Speaker 1>like storytelling and joke telling and like seeing just someone

0:32:38.520 --> 0:32:43.680
<v Speaker 1>alone with a mike who's your favorite by the way, um,

0:32:43.840 --> 0:32:48.640
<v Speaker 1>you know it's like my inspiration was Rosanne and writer

0:32:48.760 --> 0:32:51.040
<v Speaker 1>Romano and people like that, because that's what I saw

0:32:51.080 --> 0:32:53.000
<v Speaker 1>when I was a kid, even before they had their

0:32:53.000 --> 0:32:56.240
<v Speaker 1>big sitcoms um where I was like, oh my gosh,

0:32:56.240 --> 0:32:59.480
<v Speaker 1>because they talked about their life and could tell stories.

0:32:59.480 --> 0:33:01.920
<v Speaker 1>So like those are probably if you saw old stand

0:33:02.000 --> 0:33:05.040
<v Speaker 1>up of them, that's like the more similar of how

0:33:05.120 --> 0:33:07.960
<v Speaker 1>my stand up is, Like I just tell you know,

0:33:08.000 --> 0:33:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not like booom boom jokes. I just tell stories

0:33:11.160 --> 0:33:14.920
<v Speaker 1>and there's jokes within the stories. That's my favorite. Like

0:33:14.920 --> 0:33:17.280
<v Speaker 1>that's what I love about Like Sebastian Maniscalco and Nap

0:33:17.960 --> 0:33:21.680
<v Speaker 1>like those those two are like my favorite guy comedians

0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:23.760
<v Speaker 1>because they're just like I feel like there's a there's

0:33:23.800 --> 0:33:26.520
<v Speaker 1>always something like about the I love the story and

0:33:26.560 --> 0:33:29.960
<v Speaker 1>then the enjoy Yeah. Yeah, so I think I think

0:33:30.000 --> 0:33:32.720
<v Speaker 1>it's fine if you're not like a stand up fan.

0:33:32.880 --> 0:33:36.800
<v Speaker 1>It's like I don't. I grew up like doing musical

0:33:36.840 --> 0:33:40.200
<v Speaker 1>theater and stuff, but like I don't go to musical

0:33:40.240 --> 0:33:43.800
<v Speaker 1>theater events, Like I don't seek out tickets. I don't

0:33:45.200 --> 0:33:49.360
<v Speaker 1>because they're given to me the front room. But even

0:33:49.440 --> 0:33:53.560
<v Speaker 1>even sometimes when somebody does invite me, I find and

0:33:53.600 --> 0:33:55.840
<v Speaker 1>this is being totally honest, and I do feel like

0:33:55.880 --> 0:33:58.479
<v Speaker 1>a a less cultured person and many it. But I

0:33:58.480 --> 0:34:01.760
<v Speaker 1>find like you looking at the you know, the brochure

0:34:01.800 --> 0:34:04.800
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and you're like, when is the how intermission

0:34:04.840 --> 0:34:08.080
<v Speaker 1>scenes before the intermission and the whole Thank god after

0:34:08.120 --> 0:34:12.440
<v Speaker 1>intermission it's shorter and you're swallowing your yawns, like Ben Affleck,

0:34:12.640 --> 0:34:15.880
<v Speaker 1>we've got cameras on you. Yeah. So it's like and

0:34:15.880 --> 0:34:17.719
<v Speaker 1>then people are like, I can't believe you've never seen

0:34:17.760 --> 0:34:20.000
<v Speaker 1>Hamilton's and I can't believe you know, And I'm like,

0:34:20.000 --> 0:34:21.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Every time I go to New York,

0:34:21.760 --> 0:34:24.560
<v Speaker 1>I always was performed myself and I but I'm like, well,

0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:26.520
<v Speaker 1>maybe maybe if I had to spend like a month

0:34:26.560 --> 0:34:27.960
<v Speaker 1>and a half in New York, I think maybe I

0:34:28.000 --> 0:34:30.080
<v Speaker 1>would go to shows and maybe I would really get

0:34:30.120 --> 0:34:32.200
<v Speaker 1>back into it. But like it's just one of those

0:34:32.239 --> 0:34:34.640
<v Speaker 1>things that I don't spend my free time looking at.

0:34:35.280 --> 0:34:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I remember there was this one guy story that he

0:34:38.160 --> 0:34:40.560
<v Speaker 1>was into, like he wanted to take me out on

0:34:40.600 --> 0:34:42.839
<v Speaker 1>a date and he was a Broadway actors, Like, I

0:34:42.880 --> 0:34:45.160
<v Speaker 1>can't do it. I just because I'm not a big

0:34:45.160 --> 0:34:47.239
<v Speaker 1>again broad with like I'm I'm looking for the words

0:34:47.280 --> 0:34:50.719
<v Speaker 1>the intermission, like it's just doesn't excite me. I'm not

0:34:50.960 --> 0:34:53.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't love brought like shows that are like that

0:34:54.560 --> 0:34:57.359
<v Speaker 1>or movies. I just don't. I just not my jam,

0:34:57.360 --> 0:34:58.919
<v Speaker 1>not my thing. And so I was just like, I can't.

0:34:59.040 --> 0:35:00.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to entertain in a date with

0:35:00.480 --> 0:35:01.839
<v Speaker 1>you because I know that I had to be driving

0:35:01.880 --> 0:35:06.080
<v Speaker 1>to these things and I wouldn't. So I'm just gonna

0:35:06.080 --> 0:35:09.080
<v Speaker 1>swipe right, We're gonna keep moving if I can't do this.

0:35:21.560 --> 0:35:24.880
<v Speaker 1>I went on this painful blind date once um painful,

0:35:24.920 --> 0:35:26.799
<v Speaker 1>and the guy took me to stand up and I

0:35:26.840 --> 0:35:30.400
<v Speaker 1>actually really enjoy stand up. I just like, I just

0:35:30.440 --> 0:35:32.000
<v Speaker 1>have to I hate this, but I have to pre

0:35:32.120 --> 0:35:34.200
<v Speaker 1>qualify almost because I just don't want to be like

0:35:34.200 --> 0:35:36.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't look like a bit either, you know, like

0:35:36.040 --> 0:35:38.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't have suit like oh good, you know, like

0:35:38.120 --> 0:35:39.880
<v Speaker 1>I've never eye rollie. I'm just kind of like it

0:35:39.960 --> 0:35:41.720
<v Speaker 1>just takes a lot to make me laugh, I guess.

0:35:42.320 --> 0:35:45.200
<v Speaker 1>So he takes me to this like horrible blind date.

0:35:45.520 --> 0:35:49.399
<v Speaker 1>He orders electric lemonades. I'm like, I'm drinking blue kool aid.

0:35:49.440 --> 0:35:53.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I shouldn't even probably be drinking maybe twenty

0:35:53.400 --> 0:35:56.040
<v Speaker 1>and I'm he's getting hammered, and all he keeps doing

0:35:56.120 --> 0:35:58.560
<v Speaker 1>is go he's front row. Howther I wanted to die?

0:35:58.600 --> 0:36:02.360
<v Speaker 1>You just kept going, that's how hilarious. Now that's hilarious.

0:36:02.400 --> 0:36:04.719
<v Speaker 1>Like if it's hilarious, you'd laugh, you jackass, like me

0:36:04.800 --> 0:36:07.120
<v Speaker 1>out of here. So for a long time I had

0:36:07.120 --> 0:36:10.000
<v Speaker 1>PTSD because I'm like everything smelled like an electric lemonade

0:36:10.000 --> 0:36:11.480
<v Speaker 1>when I would go near a comedy club and I

0:36:11.480 --> 0:36:14.239
<v Speaker 1>couldn't do it. But I'm back. We we actually got

0:36:14.280 --> 0:36:19.520
<v Speaker 1>to go see here and that was exceptional. And a

0:36:19.640 --> 0:36:23.000
<v Speaker 1>comedy club experience has its own fun because it's like

0:36:23.719 --> 0:36:26.440
<v Speaker 1>or not in your case, like like because there is

0:36:26.520 --> 0:36:30.040
<v Speaker 1>food in there's drinks, because you might get someone wasted,

0:36:30.120 --> 0:36:32.600
<v Speaker 1>you might get a heckler, you might and they might

0:36:33.040 --> 0:36:35.040
<v Speaker 1>do a lot more like crowd work, and some people

0:36:35.120 --> 0:36:37.960
<v Speaker 1>really love that, and people stubble it on a Saturday night,

0:36:38.040 --> 0:36:39.960
<v Speaker 1>even if it's a big headline, they might not know

0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:43.839
<v Speaker 1>that person. And then there's the level that unfortunately I'm at,

0:36:44.040 --> 0:36:46.239
<v Speaker 1>and and a lot of other people that are you know,

0:36:46.320 --> 0:36:49.200
<v Speaker 1>big people where you do a theater and you could

0:36:49.200 --> 0:36:51.360
<v Speaker 1>have a drink, but people aren't coming around with chicken

0:36:51.400 --> 0:36:56.520
<v Speaker 1>wings and and so I definitely think then and the

0:36:56.600 --> 0:36:59.480
<v Speaker 1>people all came to see you, so they're that much

0:36:59.520 --> 0:37:02.919
<v Speaker 1>boring aged And when I talk about I still will

0:37:02.960 --> 0:37:05.400
<v Speaker 1>like give a qualifier of like so my husband Peter,

0:37:05.480 --> 0:37:07.920
<v Speaker 1>like I'll still explain, but I really don't have to

0:37:08.000 --> 0:37:10.480
<v Speaker 1>because like every single person knows my kid's names and

0:37:10.520 --> 0:37:13.200
<v Speaker 1>this and that. But I still do for like the

0:37:13.239 --> 0:37:15.480
<v Speaker 1>person that brought their friend who didn't know how I was,

0:37:15.560 --> 0:37:18.839
<v Speaker 1>that exists. So there there's that. It's a it's a

0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:21.800
<v Speaker 1>different experience, like you can experience the stand up differently

0:37:21.840 --> 0:37:25.040
<v Speaker 1>depending on the venue. Do you ever try the jokes

0:37:25.080 --> 0:37:30.919
<v Speaker 1>on your husband? Um? Well, you know with the podcast, Um,

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:33.760
<v Speaker 1>I do so much stuff on the podcast like every

0:37:33.960 --> 0:37:37.480
<v Speaker 1>week and that is really not prepared at all. And

0:37:37.520 --> 0:37:40.400
<v Speaker 1>then there'll be something where people will go, oh my god,

0:37:40.440 --> 0:37:44.120
<v Speaker 1>that story about that, what happened to you this weekend

0:37:44.160 --> 0:37:45.839
<v Speaker 1>was so great? And then I'll just kind of go

0:37:45.960 --> 0:37:48.480
<v Speaker 1>over to my notes section of my phone and be

0:37:48.640 --> 0:37:52.520
<v Speaker 1>like I should like expand that or punch it up

0:37:52.640 --> 0:37:55.879
<v Speaker 1>or like that could be a chunk later in my

0:37:56.680 --> 0:37:58.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, stand up kind of the way I do

0:37:58.840 --> 0:38:01.040
<v Speaker 1>it now. Yeah, I think it's funny about that dynamic

0:38:01.200 --> 0:38:03.839
<v Speaker 1>is there's nothing worse than when you're in a fight

0:38:03.840 --> 0:38:06.520
<v Speaker 1>with your husband and then they either say something funny

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 1>or you say something funny and you don't want to

0:38:08.160 --> 0:38:12.000
<v Speaker 1>laugh because then it's like you still haven't really nailed

0:38:12.000 --> 0:38:13.960
<v Speaker 1>your point in with the fight or the argument. So

0:38:14.000 --> 0:38:16.120
<v Speaker 1>it's like and then to laugh, it's like all right,

0:38:16.160 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 1>then we're good, you know. So it's like ide all

0:38:20.160 --> 0:38:23.120
<v Speaker 1>over again, and that's exactly what's happening. But just I

0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:25.160
<v Speaker 1>could just I don't know. For some reason, I just

0:38:25.160 --> 0:38:26.880
<v Speaker 1>like picture being in y'all's place and then like if

0:38:26.920 --> 0:38:28.800
<v Speaker 1>you guys were into a fight, and then because obviously

0:38:28.840 --> 0:38:33.280
<v Speaker 1>you're hilarious, and then him not wanted to laugh, but yeah,

0:38:33.360 --> 0:38:36.319
<v Speaker 1>well he one thing I always say, like we get

0:38:36.360 --> 0:38:39.439
<v Speaker 1>over stuff really quick, that's great, and but I don't

0:38:39.480 --> 0:38:41.719
<v Speaker 1>think I'm going to in the moment. I'm like, oh

0:38:41.760 --> 0:38:43.600
<v Speaker 1>my god, if there were cameras here ever, we would

0:38:43.640 --> 0:38:46.040
<v Speaker 1>definitely be on my side, like you're on an awful person.

0:38:46.480 --> 0:38:49.840
<v Speaker 1>And then and then like with like you know, within

0:38:50.600 --> 0:38:53.560
<v Speaker 1>ten minutes or something, then he comes back in the

0:38:53.680 --> 0:38:56.680
<v Speaker 1>room and he's like I'm like, he's like a psychopath,

0:38:56.719 --> 0:38:57.879
<v Speaker 1>like that comes back to the room and it will

0:38:57.920 --> 0:39:00.520
<v Speaker 1>be like, hey, like with the dog or something and

0:39:00.560 --> 0:39:03.239
<v Speaker 1>then just acts like nothing happened. And I'm like, I

0:39:03.239 --> 0:39:06.680
<v Speaker 1>guess it's just just like our weird own dysfunction. Like

0:39:07.000 --> 0:39:10.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, sometimes people's relationships work because they don't go

0:39:10.200 --> 0:39:13.640
<v Speaker 1>to therapy. You know, none of us would know about that.

0:39:13.880 --> 0:39:16.880
<v Speaker 1>We all go to the same permit. No, But I

0:39:16.880 --> 0:39:19.439
<v Speaker 1>think if if you don't hold onto resentment, it's fine.

0:39:19.719 --> 0:39:21.480
<v Speaker 1>If it's if you hold on the resentment, that's that's

0:39:21.480 --> 0:39:23.680
<v Speaker 1>the issue. But if you're able to actually let it go,

0:39:24.160 --> 0:39:27.759
<v Speaker 1>then that's great. Because this like backhanded thing where he

0:39:27.840 --> 0:39:30.239
<v Speaker 1>comes in and it's real tender, and I can, like,

0:39:30.280 --> 0:39:32.839
<v Speaker 1>I can feel something's come, like a closure is coming

0:39:32.960 --> 0:39:36.600
<v Speaker 1>after a fight. And then he'll go, I'm sorry, we fought.

0:39:37.600 --> 0:39:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Kind I'm like, well, that's not an apology, you like,

0:39:40.239 --> 0:39:42.480
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, that's what what isn't say?

0:39:42.520 --> 0:39:44.600
<v Speaker 1>I think that is to me. I'm like, let's see,

0:39:45.000 --> 0:39:49.319
<v Speaker 1>he's acknowledging and he's sorry in front of everything because

0:39:49.360 --> 0:39:52.440
<v Speaker 1>he didn't apologize, like I'm sorry we fought. And I'm like, well,

0:39:52.440 --> 0:39:55.360
<v Speaker 1>there's just no ownership in that other than the collective

0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:57.320
<v Speaker 1>is sorry, I'm sorry we fought too. It's always for

0:39:57.360 --> 0:40:00.360
<v Speaker 1>a time, right, Yeah, Well it's I was like, you

0:40:00.440 --> 0:40:02.399
<v Speaker 1>might have more hanging fruit that you would like to

0:40:02.480 --> 0:40:06.759
<v Speaker 1>have him. Couples that go to the therapist is what

0:40:06.800 --> 0:40:09.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to I agree a couple of therapy wasn't

0:40:09.200 --> 0:40:11.960
<v Speaker 1>great for us. So I guess if both of you

0:40:12.040 --> 0:40:14.720
<v Speaker 1>are totally down to like go, I think it's great.

0:40:15.320 --> 0:40:18.719
<v Speaker 1>But I do think sometimes and this part, you know,

0:40:18.760 --> 0:40:20.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how anyone would feel like that. I

0:40:20.120 --> 0:40:22.520
<v Speaker 1>don't know what I've ever said this, but like sometimes

0:40:22.560 --> 0:40:26.920
<v Speaker 1>I think maybe not over like analyzing that, because like

0:40:26.960 --> 0:40:28.960
<v Speaker 1>if you did, it was like, oh my god, you

0:40:29.000 --> 0:40:31.600
<v Speaker 1>know he's not respecting you and this is awful, and

0:40:31.719 --> 0:40:34.080
<v Speaker 1>like you cut him to kick, you know, kick him

0:40:34.120 --> 0:40:35.960
<v Speaker 1>to the curb and get out and everything. It's like,

0:40:36.000 --> 0:40:38.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like then, and then I remember when

0:40:39.239 --> 0:40:41.200
<v Speaker 1>we didn't We really haven't gone much at all. I

0:40:41.200 --> 0:40:42.759
<v Speaker 1>think there's only been two stints and it was like

0:40:42.800 --> 0:40:44.840
<v Speaker 1>three times each. But I remember I was like, we

0:40:44.920 --> 0:40:46.359
<v Speaker 1>just have to go, we have to go, and then

0:40:46.680 --> 0:40:48.919
<v Speaker 1>my friend was like, well, just get ready because like

0:40:50.239 --> 0:40:55.040
<v Speaker 1>it turned out to be your fault. I remember when

0:40:55.080 --> 0:40:57.440
<v Speaker 1>the first stutch happened in therapy and all of a sudden,

0:40:57.640 --> 0:41:00.160
<v Speaker 1>I felt a little too against one, and I was like, no, no,

0:41:00.160 --> 0:41:03.480
<v Speaker 1>no, no no, no, no no no, this was supposed to go.

0:41:03.719 --> 0:41:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I didn't. I saw it going differently. You know, I

0:41:08.200 --> 0:41:11.640
<v Speaker 1>have foundership pieces a real bee. Yeah, I I hear,

0:41:11.880 --> 0:41:14.440
<v Speaker 1>I hear all all, all three of the ladies. I

0:41:14.440 --> 0:41:17.399
<v Speaker 1>think there's a good, healthy mix if you can communicate good,

0:41:17.440 --> 0:41:19.680
<v Speaker 1>get some good tools from therapy. But by dissecting it

0:41:19.840 --> 0:41:22.640
<v Speaker 1>so much, it can be destructive too. And then like

0:41:22.640 --> 0:41:24.400
<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh my god, yeah this is miserable. What

0:41:24.400 --> 0:41:26.560
<v Speaker 1>am I doing? Okay, So twenty two years and you're

0:41:26.600 --> 0:41:29.000
<v Speaker 1>still in love? Do you have any advice for all

0:41:29.080 --> 0:41:32.400
<v Speaker 1>of us? I'm divorced. I'm also divorced. I'm on my

0:41:32.440 --> 0:41:39.200
<v Speaker 1>second husband. I'm feeling decent about that. She married for

0:41:39.400 --> 0:41:41.760
<v Speaker 1>fifteen years. Wait, you were going to get a divorce.

0:41:41.840 --> 0:41:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I was. We were getting divorced. Told our children we

0:41:45.080 --> 0:41:47.359
<v Speaker 1>were getting divorced for about three months and they got

0:41:47.360 --> 0:41:49.879
<v Speaker 1>back together. But they meant it. They didn't just tell

0:41:49.920 --> 0:41:55.840
<v Speaker 1>them we were getting divorced. Is like, where is the

0:41:55.960 --> 0:41:58.960
<v Speaker 1>end button? The leave for this meeting? I always think

0:41:58.960 --> 0:42:01.680
<v Speaker 1>it was so kind a great when people would you know,

0:42:01.680 --> 0:42:04.120
<v Speaker 1>when you eat someone and they're like, so my parents

0:42:04.120 --> 0:42:08.200
<v Speaker 1>got divorced and then like years later, like now they're

0:42:08.239 --> 0:42:10.719
<v Speaker 1>like they got they got remarried. Like whenever you hear

0:42:10.760 --> 0:42:12.799
<v Speaker 1>about that, like there's like they were gone, they were

0:42:12.840 --> 0:42:14.759
<v Speaker 1>broken up, their divorced for ten years and then they

0:42:14.800 --> 0:42:18.200
<v Speaker 1>got remarried. And then I'm like, you don't thing about

0:42:18.280 --> 0:42:20.920
<v Speaker 1>that is as the kid, I hate to say this,

0:42:20.960 --> 0:42:23.200
<v Speaker 1>but it was your fault, like you were the lass.

0:42:26.440 --> 0:42:28.799
<v Speaker 1>I do. I do love you, We do get along

0:42:28.840 --> 0:42:32.680
<v Speaker 1>with those awful little roommates we had all those years

0:42:33.600 --> 0:42:36.000
<v Speaker 1>when my childhood trauma of my parents get divorce is

0:42:36.040 --> 0:42:38.920
<v Speaker 1>not going to make me go back and lets the

0:42:40.080 --> 0:42:44.799
<v Speaker 1>only way they get back together they remarried. Then you

0:42:44.880 --> 0:42:48.080
<v Speaker 1>have to look within. We only took three or four months,

0:42:48.120 --> 0:42:51.360
<v Speaker 1>so I'm safe, I think. Obviously I'm kidding, but no,

0:42:51.480 --> 0:42:56.520
<v Speaker 1>that's that's great. I mean, I mean, my my advice

0:42:56.680 --> 0:43:00.960
<v Speaker 1>is my advice is if you My advice is if you,

0:43:01.239 --> 0:43:05.560
<v Speaker 1>if you do feel like it's not right, like get

0:43:05.600 --> 0:43:09.000
<v Speaker 1>out quicker than later, especially if there are no kids,

0:43:10.080 --> 0:43:13.920
<v Speaker 1>even if there's a house like just you know, because

0:43:15.440 --> 0:43:18.360
<v Speaker 1>if you want to have that, you want to have

0:43:18.440 --> 0:43:22.920
<v Speaker 1>that opportunity for another big love or marriage in your

0:43:22.960 --> 0:43:26.680
<v Speaker 1>life and the longer you wait, I mean, I do

0:43:26.880 --> 0:43:32.000
<v Speaker 1>feel like there's a window of of breaking of getting

0:43:32.000 --> 0:43:36.200
<v Speaker 1>divorced and still having a really significant second marriage in

0:43:36.239 --> 0:43:40.759
<v Speaker 1>your life and having like a significant step parent to

0:43:40.840 --> 0:43:44.680
<v Speaker 1>your child whatever. And so I mean it's it's important

0:43:44.719 --> 0:43:46.840
<v Speaker 1>to try really hard, but like at the same time,

0:43:46.920 --> 0:43:50.520
<v Speaker 1>like rip off the band aid because you got to

0:43:50.560 --> 0:43:53.319
<v Speaker 1>waste another ten years. And it's and I also don't

0:43:53.320 --> 0:43:57.480
<v Speaker 1>think there's much to choose from. And this is awful too,

0:43:57.520 --> 0:44:02.960
<v Speaker 1>but I don't think. I don't think there's much to

0:44:03.040 --> 0:44:08.400
<v Speaker 1>choose from after fifty because everybody is divorced and fucked up.

0:44:08.719 --> 0:44:12.960
<v Speaker 1>So it's like and a lot of those a lot

0:44:13.000 --> 0:44:16.840
<v Speaker 1>of those fifty year old guys, these like you know,

0:44:17.040 --> 0:44:18.840
<v Speaker 1>can get like a thirty year old if they have

0:44:18.920 --> 0:44:21.680
<v Speaker 1>a couple of bucks or if they're not even looking

0:44:21.719 --> 0:44:24.760
<v Speaker 1>for a young girl. People are like, oh my god,

0:44:24.840 --> 0:44:26.759
<v Speaker 1>he owns a home. So now this fifty year old

0:44:26.760 --> 0:44:30.040
<v Speaker 1>guy that like barely got laid in college and was

0:44:30.080 --> 0:44:32.520
<v Speaker 1>married to his wife for thirty years is now just

0:44:32.600 --> 0:44:35.719
<v Speaker 1>like the siege with girls on the apps that want

0:44:35.719 --> 0:44:38.239
<v Speaker 1>to come over and suck his dick because he's got

0:44:38.560 --> 0:44:42.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, a garage attached, like and you're like what

0:44:43.760 --> 0:44:48.680
<v Speaker 1>and so you need to you need to if you're young,

0:44:48.840 --> 0:44:51.480
<v Speaker 1>you need to try to hook someone good. And if

0:44:51.480 --> 0:44:53.839
<v Speaker 1>you hook someone that you thought was good that's not good,

0:44:53.880 --> 0:44:58.040
<v Speaker 1>then get out and find someone better because it's just

0:44:58.160 --> 0:45:02.440
<v Speaker 1>not it out there. Well here here's what I'll say though,

0:45:02.440 --> 0:45:09.040
<v Speaker 1>because Britain cheating a blowjob, hand drab lover so much.

0:45:10.760 --> 0:45:15.239
<v Speaker 1>I mean, think about it, like if someone is if

0:45:15.239 --> 0:45:20.880
<v Speaker 1>a guy is divorced over fifty either he was an

0:45:20.920 --> 0:45:24.040
<v Speaker 1>awful husband you know that got and he got divorced,

0:45:24.360 --> 0:45:28.800
<v Speaker 1>or he's or he's broken because his his wife was awful.

0:45:28.920 --> 0:45:31.360
<v Speaker 1>Now were they both equally? Do get it? Got divorced?

0:45:31.360 --> 0:45:35.879
<v Speaker 1>And how the greatest post divorce relationship possibly it's it's

0:45:35.920 --> 0:45:38.279
<v Speaker 1>not as likely. So you're just kind of dealing with

0:45:39.320 --> 0:45:42.200
<v Speaker 1>another dude that's like a little dub. So if you

0:45:42.719 --> 0:45:47.520
<v Speaker 1>like the one that you're with enough, just know, like

0:45:47.520 --> 0:45:49.640
<v Speaker 1>like if the demons aren't that bad and he's just

0:45:49.719 --> 0:45:55.240
<v Speaker 1>like burping and not being romantic, I would say, don't

0:45:55.239 --> 0:45:57.880
<v Speaker 1>divorce that person, like he's cheating in a drug addict

0:45:57.920 --> 0:46:01.400
<v Speaker 1>but I got that, but like but like just being

0:46:01.440 --> 0:46:05.200
<v Speaker 1>like god, you know, like you really don't see that interview,

0:46:05.280 --> 0:46:08.200
<v Speaker 1>or you're not that great, like let it go, you know,

0:46:08.239 --> 0:46:13.880
<v Speaker 1>it's another day. Yeah, you can say something, or you

0:46:13.880 --> 0:46:16.440
<v Speaker 1>can try to change your reaction to see if he'll change.

0:46:17.000 --> 0:46:19.719
<v Speaker 1>Like I definitely think changing your reaction will get a

0:46:19.719 --> 0:46:23.600
<v Speaker 1>bigger change out of your partner. Then you're talking about

0:46:23.800 --> 0:46:26.560
<v Speaker 1>wanting him to change, like if if he was doing

0:46:26.600 --> 0:46:29.879
<v Speaker 1>it's something I mean, they're they're still the guys are

0:46:29.920 --> 0:46:33.920
<v Speaker 1>still teenage boys. Okay, that's what they are. So sometimes

0:46:33.920 --> 0:46:35.759
<v Speaker 1>there's that thing where he's just doing it to get

0:46:35.760 --> 0:46:38.040
<v Speaker 1>a reaction, like as if you were his sister or

0:46:38.080 --> 0:46:41.480
<v Speaker 1>something like just being annoying and as soon as you

0:46:41.880 --> 0:46:45.399
<v Speaker 1>like and be like god, damn, what why are you doing?

0:46:45.640 --> 0:46:47.399
<v Speaker 1>You know, Like, but if all of a sudden you're

0:46:47.440 --> 0:46:51.200
<v Speaker 1>just like I don't care, burp your hat off, like

0:46:51.280 --> 0:46:52.879
<v Speaker 1>I hope you broke out a party and everyone else

0:46:52.880 --> 0:46:56.640
<v Speaker 1>thinks you're gross walking like like that walk away, chances

0:46:56.640 --> 0:46:59.480
<v Speaker 1>are like the begainer might change because you're like, god,

0:46:59.480 --> 0:47:01.919
<v Speaker 1>you weren't like this, you know, the first six months

0:47:01.920 --> 0:47:04.560
<v Speaker 1>of us dating. Yeah, I don't remember my husband chewing

0:47:04.640 --> 0:47:07.160
<v Speaker 1>the first six months, but now it's like here, So

0:47:07.200 --> 0:47:09.399
<v Speaker 1>it's a little frustrating because you're out of the highlight reel.

0:47:09.640 --> 0:47:12.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah you know, yeah, Like I'm in the highlight reel

0:47:12.280 --> 0:47:17.320
<v Speaker 1>right right now with my boyfriend, like everything everything he touches, too, says,

0:47:17.480 --> 0:47:25.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like it, like I'm saving airplane tickets and like,

0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:28.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's like I'm I'm in that face booking.

0:47:28.360 --> 0:47:33.160
<v Speaker 1>But I like plotting now because we're having popcorn and

0:47:33.160 --> 0:47:35.080
<v Speaker 1>watching Netflix and I'm like, does it. I'm gonna get

0:47:35.080 --> 0:47:36.520
<v Speaker 1>you a straw. I'm just gonna chew it like a

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<v Speaker 1>baby bird, and we're gonna end. But there is something

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<v Speaker 1>to be said though we're but there are some but

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<v Speaker 1>there are some couples that really are really romantic off

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<v Speaker 1>the start and that's their love language and it can

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<v Speaker 1>really last like that. There. I mean, my sister and

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<v Speaker 1>her husband are still very there twenty five years. They're

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<v Speaker 1>still very very romantic, and he's still the same way

0:48:00.480 --> 0:48:02.600
<v Speaker 1>he was in the beginning, and like, look at your

0:48:02.640 --> 0:48:06.080
<v Speaker 1>sisters and she gorgeous and like that, and my husband

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<v Speaker 1>is not like that. But then there's there's things that

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<v Speaker 1>my husband does that she wishes her husband would do,

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<v Speaker 1>and read contracts. He can like took a part of

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<v Speaker 1>barbecue and fixed it like that, like he was doing that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I go for one million dollars. I wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>able to figure that out like I was, like I would,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd just be like forget it like I. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>So there's things that everybody is different. And you you

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<v Speaker 1>may not have a really romantic guy, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>you just might not. But if that's what you really

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<v Speaker 1>need a relationship, then that's what you should seek out.

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<v Speaker 1>But you might laugh your ass off with him, still

0:48:43.239 --> 0:48:46.560
<v Speaker 1>have good sex, but you know, and you'll still get

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<v Speaker 1>a card in a present, but it's just not like

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<v Speaker 1>complete romantic and then other people you'll have that and

0:48:53.160 --> 0:48:55.040
<v Speaker 1>it will taper off, but you still might have a

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<v Speaker 1>good relationship. It's like you never know. Well, Heather, thank

0:48:58.120 --> 0:49:01.160
<v Speaker 1>you coming for coming on and sharing all your insight.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to listen to the Juicy Scoop because it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds juicy and you're hilarious. So thank you so much

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<v Speaker 1>for coming on. Wine Down. We really appreciate you. Thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>have a good one. Thanks bye bye. D Did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys see him grab the spider by the way, Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>st Set Sara text me and choice Jean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know if that's like a that's like a positive thing.

0:49:25.239 --> 0:49:27.480
<v Speaker 1>She's like, he just grabbed it with his hands, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, i'd rather him. I thought. It's

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<v Speaker 1>mainly to it's like, let it know, all that's amazing.

0:49:36.320 --> 0:49:40.080
<v Speaker 1>What's hard for you? Baby talking to he know something

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<v Speaker 1>about the chewing murderous thoughts. When people chew with you,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard for me. Ice chewers are hard for me

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<v Speaker 1>to sorry, I remember, and I will not choice keeps around.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting because I don't know if it's him sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>if it's just what are you with the kids, Because

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<v Speaker 1>when Jolie chomps, I'm like baby mouth, so I'm on

0:50:06.760 --> 0:50:09.719
<v Speaker 1>her a lot. I don't like chumping out as much

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<v Speaker 1>as I say, I don't want Legend to ever get

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<v Speaker 1>married and leave my house. I do need him to

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<v Speaker 1>get married, and I don't want his wife to hate

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<v Speaker 1>me because I didn't correct his chewing. So I'm breaking

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<v Speaker 1>the cycle. There's difference in chewing and smacking. There is

0:50:20.000 --> 0:50:23.640
<v Speaker 1>chewing is just chewing, and it can be very annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>The smacking. I cannot take my father the way he

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<v Speaker 1>eats an apple. Yeah, it's almost like I felt it

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<v Speaker 1>down my spine. Right when you said it. It's really

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<v Speaker 1>offensive to me, and I'm a pretty patient person. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, so you would kill your usband over smacking

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<v Speaker 1>h Yeah, It's like there was one time was like

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<v Speaker 1>is that cereal? Like why is that so? And it

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<v Speaker 1>just feels so aggressive potentionally does it when you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are fighting? No, And now I now I've actually feel

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<v Speaker 1>like a total be I feel like I bullied my

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<v Speaker 1>own husband because I feel like now he picks snacks

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<v Speaker 1>based on there so that's sad. Or time he's like

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<v Speaker 1>he's like trying to dilute the pretzels. He's he's there

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<v Speaker 1>for about like, oh, I'm sorry. He lets the pretzels

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<v Speaker 1>softened in his mouth first saliva before you can actually choose.

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<v Speaker 1>He really, I just don't see you as a person

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<v Speaker 1>getting annoyed by a lot of I in this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for some reason, I don't really buy a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things. I mean, I clean toilets, I throw it's drink.

0:51:41.120 --> 0:51:43.239
<v Speaker 1>He's at their house, that you because you're just with

0:51:43.360 --> 0:51:45.400
<v Speaker 1>them so much and because you do so much. I

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<v Speaker 1>also think by the end of the night is like

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<v Speaker 1>literally the only time I have Yeah, so then it's

0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:53.200
<v Speaker 1>like trying everything gets cozy, and then all of a sudden,

0:51:54.520 --> 0:51:58.280
<v Speaker 1>I just hear cement, cereal or a granola or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like I I'm not a good Christian. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, let's go get on a plane. How

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<v Speaker 1>about that, I'm gonna snack that ice right in your beer.

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<v Speaker 1>Next week, rive through Sonic with your slow roll, big

0:52:13.920 --> 0:52:17.000
<v Speaker 1>juicy ice. That sounds so good. All next week, we

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<v Speaker 1>got some big news coming for you next week. Nice,