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Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast

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Speaker 1: Girls were going to hit the road this week. I'm

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Speaker 1: excited three sleeps, right, it would be so fun something

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Speaker 1: like that. I'm so excited. New York there's just like

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Speaker 1: a few seats left, Yeah, only a few, and then

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Speaker 1: Boston's like closest selling out on the second night. It's

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Speaker 1: wild to me. People are showing up in Boss. I'm

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Speaker 1: so excited. I've never been. Oh my gosh, it's so

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Speaker 1: much fun. I feel like I want to get up

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Speaker 1: at like six am and just do all the things

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Speaker 1: I want to see. Boston. It's so fun. I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to remember. So there's like the really pretty park. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of fun things to do in Boston.

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Speaker 1: I feel like the attitude in Boston might be very

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Speaker 1: U brand for me right now. Yeah, for sure, there's

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Speaker 1: good chopping. There's a lot of good really cool like

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Speaker 1: architectural holdings and stuff that like we want to see.

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Speaker 1: So I think to bring the tennis shoes. Bring the

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Speaker 1: tennis shoes. Yes, there'll be lots of because the day,

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Speaker 1: the second day that we're there, we'll be like, you know,

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Speaker 1: explore and I just have to travel to the next day. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm just so excited. I feel like I need I

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Speaker 1: needed some some good girl time since November. Right, we

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Speaker 1: haven't been out since November and then the last girl

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Speaker 1: trip that I had was Sarah and then she So

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Speaker 1: I just feel like we need like I need this,

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Speaker 1: like I need a good girl's trip because we were

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Speaker 1: Katherine and I were supposed to go some of first

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Speaker 1: spring break and it had kind of canceled. I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm still up for a girl saying, so we need

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Speaker 1: I look, I like count down the days to wind down.

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Speaker 1: It's that time. It's just so well we travel well together. Yeah, which,

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Speaker 1: now that I know we travel well together, I really

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Speaker 1: look forward to. Well I did before, but now that

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Speaker 1: I know what's important to all of us and our

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Speaker 1: love languages and where we sleep, we all go to

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Speaker 1: the beach and backroom stretch. Well, it just feels like cozy.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm like, oh, we're back on the dorm. I'm

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Speaker 1: here for it. I love it. Do you guys like traveling?

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Speaker 1: Is there is there a couple like do you like

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Speaker 1: traveling with your husband's? Like would you rather travel solo

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Speaker 1: with your husband? Would you want to do couples, what

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Speaker 1: is your composure? Go to so fun fact, Preston and

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Speaker 1: I in eight years have never taken a vacation solo

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Speaker 1: until this, like to three weeks ago, which was crazy

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Speaker 1: and I was like, hi, time out. Did you see

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Speaker 1: the pirates came? Yes, okay, they really came? Like wait,

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Speaker 1: so Christy wasn't far off? Pirates? Like when like goose

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Speaker 1: bumps so many people do you mean They're like you

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Speaker 1: manifested this? The pirates are I was there right? The

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Speaker 1: pirates came to Tampa? They did? Was that weird? I

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Speaker 1: mean I saw it and just started busting. I forgot

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Speaker 1: to put I need to go back and post because

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Speaker 1: I was dying. I was like, you, guys, I did

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Speaker 1: I I guess what does that even say about me?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I better be careful. It's probably what

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Speaker 1: I don't want to No, I need to manifest the

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Speaker 1: opposite direction and really get some things aligned for us.

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Speaker 1: So I think with the um couples or so, I

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Speaker 1: that one on one time, like you just said with President,

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Speaker 1: you have eight years eight years. So though it's fun

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Speaker 1: to travel with a couple, at the same time, it's

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Speaker 1: like that's the time that I'm like, I'd rather just

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Speaker 1: a whole lot of couple's trips. Honestly, maybe we should

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Speaker 1: girl's trap. There's really especially with us, I want to

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Speaker 1: my love for us, but like, none of us are

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Speaker 1: crazy drinkers. None of us are like you know, like

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Speaker 1: I remember the first time I told Press and I

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Speaker 1: have changed. It's not that exciting to everybody else listening,

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Speaker 1: the people that you should because we're so busy with

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Speaker 1: life and moments and it's nice to have for example,

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Speaker 1: like obviously the one with Sarah was it was it

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Speaker 1: nothing worse than traveling with people that you don't like,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't a whole spring break trip. Kids don't worry

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Speaker 1: two nights. But yeah, it's you know, I like traveling

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Speaker 1: would love to vacation, but I get, let's do it

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Speaker 1: Called Catherine? I go, when did TMZ come to Nashville.

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Speaker 1: I don't know who this man was, but I got

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Speaker 1: Then I'm at the airport for two hours and then

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Speaker 1: The Queen was better than Netflix to me. It was

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Speaker 1: together with Meg. Julie is successful, Pam's healing guts and yeah,

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Speaker 1: was just like that sad shark cootery board at a wedding,

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00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:03,119
Speaker 1: all eyes are on you. You're not good enough. Yeah,

424
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: you can't get together. I mean it's very much like

425
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 1: a wedding gramer. And you know, like when you're not

426
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 1: famous or whatever, you're like, there's times when I get

427
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:16,359
Speaker 1: invite to something and I'll say to my husband, I'm like, okay,

428
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:20,400
Speaker 1: we I have that like Apple TV premiere. You are

429
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 1: my choice, you know, but like if you're not feeling it,

430
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 1: can you tell me now? So I can invite my girlfriend,

431
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: who will go with bills on and yeah, so I

432
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 1: can go with my girlfriend and no one's like Heather

433
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: McDonald's getting divorced, you know, but she can't bring her

434
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 1: sister or like her best friend. You were like, actually

435
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 1: when she'd probably have so much more fun with instead, yeah,

436
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 1: or like the single girlfriend that like might hook up

437
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 1: with someone there, which makes it fun for the merry girl.

438
00:23:55,640 --> 00:24:02,360
Speaker 1: Like yeah, she has to bring Ben. So that's for that.

439
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 1: For that, I feel a little bit internally Ben in

440
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 1: my head forever. Yeah, okay, well that's so good. And

441
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,160
Speaker 1: then so you've been married for how many years? Twenty

442
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 1: years and he's he's not in the industry at all.

443
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 1: Uh no, I mean he's been like managing me, and

444
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 1: he was you know, he's like a finance guy. So

445
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: he's always handled everything. And then and then in between

446
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 1: leaving our first podcast company and um, you know, I

447
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 1: always had agents and all that stuff, and then he

448
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 1: would like, I'd like do a deal, and then he

449
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 1: would actually read the contract and he'd be like, why

450
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: didn't you do this and this and this? And I'm like, well,

451
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 1: why why am I? Why am I paying this person

452
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 1: that doesn't care about me, that doesn't read the contract,

453
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: who's like, I don't know if you guys, you guys

454
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 1: would know, the out of your audience knows. But like

455
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 1: the usould be a time where like an agent would

456
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,600
Speaker 1: do a deal and then all of a sudden, if

457
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: you had a big deal, they'd be like, okay, so

458
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: you need to also hire an attorney for that will

459
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 1: take ten percent And you're like, what the hell are

460
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,360
Speaker 1: you doing, like so it's kind of like so anyway,

461
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: I still have all that, but like he does, you

462
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: know he So then he started to get involved more

463
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: with it. And then when the podcast group, we have

464
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: our own studio and we have someone you know, so

465
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 1: we then we did all ourselves and we have a

466
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,679
Speaker 1: network that you know, brings us ads or whatever, but

467
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 1: we do all everything ourselves. So then just along with

468
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: all that type of stuff, I was like, God, I mean,

469
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,360
Speaker 1: you know, it is hard to work with your spouse.

470
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:36,159
Speaker 1: And it's something I my sister and I would go

471
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 1: to bed at night and like promise ourselves that we

472
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 1: would never work with our husband because my parents were

473
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 1: realtors and they worked together, and oh I thought it

474
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: was awful. Though it was awful. Um that they stay

475
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: married till they died, and they really liked each other

476
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 1: once we were all gone and they stopped working. But

477
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:59,520
Speaker 1: like it was, it's hard. It's hard to work with

478
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:04,879
Speaker 1: your house. It's hard like your spouse sometimes too. I mean,

479
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 1: let's just start from strata at that element. But then

480
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 1: there's amazing benefits to it too, and that no one

481
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 1: has your back, like you know, like your spouse. Some

482
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: one's gonna care about it, you know, no one like

483
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:21,440
Speaker 1: you don't have to worry about anything shady happening on whatever. Um.

484
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: So it's funny. But my sister, who's an attorney, she

485
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: works with her husband too, so we both ended up

486
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: working with our husbands. We didn't start out that way,

487
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:33,919
Speaker 1: but eventually it came to that. And so yeah, so no,

488
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 1: he was never like an actor or anything like that though. Okay,

489
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 1: And is that do you think that's like what's made

490
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 1: your relationship since you're so in the spotlight and in

491
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,680
Speaker 1: doing things in entertainment, that that's helped, um, kind of

492
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 1: keep the relationship as strong as it has. Um. Yeah,

493
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 1: I mean I think I think it does help to

494
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,439
Speaker 1: have someone that doesn't want your life, you know, Like

495
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 1: I think that is. I think there's I think there's

496
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 1: something so great. I have a lot of friends that

497
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: are like, you know, like power comedian couples like you know,

498
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 1: Toom Sagora and Christina Paczynski and and Natasha la Jarro

499
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,640
Speaker 1: and Mosha Kasha like and they both do the thing

500
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 1: they do the podcast together, like they're both funny there.

501
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 1: You know, I think it can really work out. I

502
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: think with actors sometimes obviously it's a little more difficult

503
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: because it's like one person has all these movies and

504
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: another one doesn't, and they go off, you know, and

505
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 1: they're making out with people. So it's like, I do

506
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: think that part of it can be hard. But when

507
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 1: I when I was when I met him, he just

508
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 1: kind of was like when I was like doing Stamp

509
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: and on meet guys and this is a long time ago,

510
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 1: you know. When I was in my twenties, there weren't

511
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 1: a lot of women that were doing it, so it

512
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: was always like either they were either they the guys

513
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: that I would tell would be like, oh wow, okay,

514
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 1: So like how long are you gonna give it? Like

515
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 1: when are you gonna quit? Like when like how like

516
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,479
Speaker 1: you know, like as if I'm not if I'm not

517
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 1: making much by thirty year, if I'm not in a sitcom,

518
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: I'm just supposed to like quit that day. I'm like,

519
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm just gonna do it as long

520
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 1: as I am having fun doing it. And this one

521
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: guy was like, yeah, but it says I'm dating you,

522
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 1: like you go out on all these auditions and like

523
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: have you even gotten any of them? And I'm like, no,

524
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: I never get any of them. I never do. I'm like,

525
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 1: but I just like going on them. Well, I just

526
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,679
Speaker 1: like getting cute, wasting four hours and preparing and not

527
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: knowing where to park, and then never be successful at it.

528
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 1: But like I'm still living the dream, like I'm still

529
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 1: going and do my thing. So when I got Peter,

530
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,919
Speaker 1: he just kind of he wasn't in that business. He

531
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 1: was into He was a medical sales rep and then

532
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 1: got into like mortgage brokering and stuff, and so he

533
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 1: was just like, oh, this is cool, like you know,

534
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 1: this is great, and he thought I was funny and

535
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 1: he didn't have like an ego about it, and I

536
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: always talked about him in my act and that was

537
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: fine as well, and so yeah, it was it was

538
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: never it was never that. And then you know, he

539
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 1: was thrilled that I was like successful in making money,

540
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: Like there was never anything negative about that. So yeah,

541
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: that was a good combo for you know, it's not perfect,

542
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 1: but it's good. And I never wanted and I never

543
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: want to be that person at Bragg's too much, because

544
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: then those are the ones that always end up. We

545
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: use this audio over top of here breaking that's horrible.

546
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: I'm with you. We don't ever jink set in audio?

547
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: And how many kids do you have, Heather, because they're

548
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 1: teenagers now right, Yeah, we have three. Um My stepdaughter

549
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: is twenty three, but we basically raised her because you know,

550
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 1: she was very young when we got together. And then

551
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 1: I have my son who's twenty year old. He's at

552
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: a s u Arizona State. And then I'm another son

553
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 1: who's a junior in high school. Boys, is there is

554
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 1: there one thing in stand up that, especially when you

555
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: were starting? Is my thing is I'm like, I feel terrible,

556
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: but sometimes when I go to a comedy show, if

557
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 1: something's not funny, I'm like, I'm not going to like

558
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: force myself to laugh when if if you were to

559
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: not get a laugh, like does that because to me,

560
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm gonna laugh because I feel bad

561
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: for the comedian now, so I'm just gonna laugh, even

562
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 1: though I'm like, huh, other doesn't know because how there's funny?

563
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: Well of course, but I'm starting out though, I mean

564
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:22,959
Speaker 1: like I would be like if I was sitting up

565
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 1: there and mortified, So I'm like, tell me all, it's

566
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: mortifying for the person doing the stand up, But I

567
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 1: also love that there are girls and people like you

568
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 1: that are actually it's like uncomfortable and cringe you sometimes

569
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: to go to stand up, Like I had a friend

570
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: that had to come just so much of my stand up,

571
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: especially in the beginning, because you have to bring people,

572
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 1: and it was always like kind of a weird lineup right,

573
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 1: Like I would be I would always do pretty decent,

574
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 1: and then there'd be it was always like they always

575
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: come up to me and they'd be like, well, you

576
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: and the black guy were good, but like everyone else sucked.

577
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: Like it was always just like like and then I'd

578
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, I'm not going on to

579
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: like the eighth person. How am I people going to

580
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 1: live through this? Like hell? And then my later on

581
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: once I became successful with my girlfriend, was like, oh,

582
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: someone just asked me to a comedy show and I

583
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 1: was like, no, I can't take the anxiety of like

584
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: when they're not funny unless they're like a professional, like

585
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: unless you're gonna go see like me or Amy Schumer,

586
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: Chris Rock or something like sometimes we're just going to

587
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: like the random night of stand up. For some people,

588
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: they have like a codependent like anxiety for the stand up,

589
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: which sounds like you I'm like, but I like feel

590
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 1: terrible for them that it's not They're not funny. So

591
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: it's just like, oh and I don't think a lot

592
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 1: of people are funny. Is that like a diagnosed Can

593
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: I diagnose myself? Not a lot of people make me laugh?

594
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 1: May mean like when you're like scrolling and you see

595
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: people's like stand up, you're like not feeling it. No,

596
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: I hate to say it's a talent, so I admire it.

597
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: I'm married to a musician, so I like, I respect

598
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 1: the bravery, but I just feel bad because I can't fake.

599
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: I just not I can't fake laughs or a lot

600
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 1: of things, Heather, But I mean, I think stand up is,

601
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 1: you know, an art form within the umbrella of comedy,

602
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: and so like you might be someone that like absolutely

603
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: like love you could watch twelve episodes of the Office,

604
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: that's all that's comedy. That doesn't mean you don't like comedy.

605
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 1: Love comedy, you don't like the you're just not overly

606
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: attracted to like the art form of stand up of

607
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 1: like storytelling and joke telling and like seeing just someone

608
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 1: alone with a mike who's your favorite by the way, um,

609
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: you know it's like my inspiration was Rosanne and writer

610
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: Romano and people like that, because that's what I saw

611
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 1: when I was a kid, even before they had their

612
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: big sitcoms um where I was like, oh my gosh,

613
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 1: because they talked about their life and could tell stories.

614
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 1: So like those are probably if you saw old stand

615
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: up of them, that's like the more similar of how

616
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: my stand up is, Like I just tell you know,

617
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 1: I'm not like booom boom jokes. I just tell stories

618
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 1: and there's jokes within the stories. That's my favorite. Like

619
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 1: that's what I love about Like Sebastian Maniscalco and Nap

620
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: like those those two are like my favorite guy comedians

621
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: because they're just like I feel like there's a there's

622
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: always something like about the I love the story and

623
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 1: then the enjoy Yeah. Yeah, so I think I think

624
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 1: it's fine if you're not like a stand up fan.

625
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: It's like I don't. I grew up like doing musical

626
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: theater and stuff, but like I don't go to musical

627
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: theater events, Like I don't seek out tickets. I don't

628
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: because they're given to me the front room. But even

629
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: even sometimes when somebody does invite me, I find and

630
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: this is being totally honest, and I do feel like

631
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,479
Speaker 1: a a less cultured person and many it. But I

632
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: find like you looking at the you know, the brochure

633
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: or whatever, and you're like, when is the how intermission

634
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: scenes before the intermission and the whole Thank god after

635
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 1: intermission it's shorter and you're swallowing your yawns, like Ben Affleck,

636
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 1: we've got cameras on you. Yeah. So it's like and

637
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 1: then people are like, I can't believe you've never seen

638
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 1: Hamilton's and I can't believe you know, And I'm like,

639
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 1: I don't know. Every time I go to New York,

640
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: I always was performed myself and I but I'm like, well,

641
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: maybe maybe if I had to spend like a month

642
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: and a half in New York, I think maybe I

643
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: would go to shows and maybe I would really get

644
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: back into it. But like it's just one of those

645
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: things that I don't spend my free time looking at.

646
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: I remember there was this one guy story that he

647
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 1: was into, like he wanted to take me out on

648
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 1: a date and he was a Broadway actors, Like, I

649
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: can't do it. I just because I'm not a big

650
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 1: again broad with like I'm I'm looking for the words

651
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: the intermission, like it's just doesn't excite me. I'm not

652
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 1: I don't love brought like shows that are like that

653
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,359
Speaker 1: or movies. I just don't. I just not my jam,

654
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:58,919
Speaker 1: not my thing. And so I was just like, I can't.

655
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 1: I don't even want to entertain in a date with

656
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:01,839
Speaker 1: you because I know that I had to be driving

657
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: to these things and I wouldn't. So I'm just gonna

658
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: swipe right, We're gonna keep moving if I can't do this.

659
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: I went on this painful blind date once um painful,

660
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 1: and the guy took me to stand up and I

661
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 1: actually really enjoy stand up. I just like, I just

662
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: have to I hate this, but I have to pre

663
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: qualify almost because I just don't want to be like

664
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: I don't look like a bit either, you know, like

665
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: I don't have suit like oh good, you know, like

666
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 1: I've never eye rollie. I'm just kind of like it

667
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:41,720
Speaker 1: just takes a lot to make me laugh, I guess.

668
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 1: So he takes me to this like horrible blind date.

669
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:49,399
Speaker 1: He orders electric lemonades. I'm like, I'm drinking blue kool aid.

670
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, I shouldn't even probably be drinking maybe twenty

671
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: and I'm he's getting hammered, and all he keeps doing

672
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: is go he's front row. Howther I wanted to die?

673
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 1: You just kept going, that's how hilarious. Now that's hilarious.

674
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 1: Like if it's hilarious, you'd laugh, you jackass, like me

675
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: out of here. So for a long time I had

676
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: PTSD because I'm like everything smelled like an electric lemonade

677
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 1: when I would go near a comedy club and I

678
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 1: couldn't do it. But I'm back. We we actually got

679
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: to go see here and that was exceptional. And a

680
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 1: comedy club experience has its own fun because it's like

681
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: or not in your case, like like because there is

682
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 1: food in there's drinks, because you might get someone wasted,

683
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: you might get a heckler, you might and they might

684
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: do a lot more like crowd work, and some people

685
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: really love that, and people stubble it on a Saturday night,

686
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 1: even if it's a big headline, they might not know

687
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 1: that person. And then there's the level that unfortunately I'm at,

688
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 1: and and a lot of other people that are you know,

689
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 1: big people where you do a theater and you could

690
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 1: have a drink, but people aren't coming around with chicken

691
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: wings and and so I definitely think then and the

692
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: people all came to see you, so they're that much

693
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:02,919
Speaker 1: boring aged And when I talk about I still will

694
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: like give a qualifier of like so my husband Peter,

695
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: like I'll still explain, but I really don't have to

696
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 1: because like every single person knows my kid's names and

697
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: this and that. But I still do for like the

698
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 1: person that brought their friend who didn't know how I was,

699
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 1: that exists. So there there's that. It's a it's a

700
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 1: different experience, like you can experience the stand up differently

701
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: depending on the venue. Do you ever try the jokes

702
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:30,919
Speaker 1: on your husband? Um? Well, you know with the podcast, Um,

703
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,760
Speaker 1: I do so much stuff on the podcast like every

704
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: week and that is really not prepared at all. And

705
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 1: then there'll be something where people will go, oh my god,

706
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 1: that story about that, what happened to you this weekend

707
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:45,839
Speaker 1: was so great? And then I'll just kind of go

708
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: over to my notes section of my phone and be

709
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: like I should like expand that or punch it up

710
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,879
Speaker 1: or like that could be a chunk later in my

711
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:58,799
Speaker 1: you know, stand up kind of the way I do

712
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: it now. Yeah, I think it's funny about that dynamic

713
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 1: is there's nothing worse than when you're in a fight

714
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: with your husband and then they either say something funny

715
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 1: or you say something funny and you don't want to

716
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 1: laugh because then it's like you still haven't really nailed

717
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 1: your point in with the fight or the argument. So

718
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 1: it's like and then to laugh, it's like all right,

719
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: then we're good, you know. So it's like ide all

720
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 1: over again, and that's exactly what's happening. But just I

721
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: could just I don't know. For some reason, I just

722
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 1: like picture being in y'all's place and then like if

723
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 1: you guys were into a fight, and then because obviously

724
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 1: you're hilarious, and then him not wanted to laugh, but yeah,

725
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: well he one thing I always say, like we get

726
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,439
Speaker 1: over stuff really quick, that's great, and but I don't

727
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 1: think I'm going to in the moment. I'm like, oh

728
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: my god, if there were cameras here ever, we would

729
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: definitely be on my side, like you're on an awful person.

730
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 1: And then and then like with like you know, within

731
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 1: ten minutes or something, then he comes back in the

732
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: room and he's like I'm like, he's like a psychopath,

733
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:57,879
Speaker 1: like that comes back to the room and it will

734
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: be like, hey, like with the dog or something and

735
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 1: then just acts like nothing happened. And I'm like, I

736
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: guess it's just just like our weird own dysfunction. Like

737
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes people's relationships work because they don't go

738
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: to therapy. You know, none of us would know about that.

739
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 1: We all go to the same permit. No, But I

740
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,439
Speaker 1: think if if you don't hold onto resentment, it's fine.

741
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: If it's if you hold on the resentment, that's that's

742
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 1: the issue. But if you're able to actually let it go,

743
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: then that's great. Because this like backhanded thing where he

744
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: comes in and it's real tender, and I can, like,

745
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,839
Speaker 1: I can feel something's come, like a closure is coming

746
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: after a fight. And then he'll go, I'm sorry, we fought.

747
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: Kind I'm like, well, that's not an apology, you like,

748
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, that's what what isn't say?

749
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 1: I think that is to me. I'm like, let's see,

750
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 1: he's acknowledging and he's sorry in front of everything because

751
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: he didn't apologize, like I'm sorry we fought. And I'm like, well,

752
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 1: there's just no ownership in that other than the collective

753
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 1: is sorry, I'm sorry we fought too. It's always for

754
00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:00,360
Speaker 1: a time, right, Yeah, Well it's I was like, you

755
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 1: might have more hanging fruit that you would like to

756
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 1: have him. Couples that go to the therapist is what

757
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 1: I'm trying to I agree a couple of therapy wasn't

758
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 1: great for us. So I guess if both of you

759
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,720
Speaker 1: are totally down to like go, I think it's great.

760
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 1: But I do think sometimes and this part, you know,

761
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: I don't know how anyone would feel like that. I

762
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: don't know what I've ever said this, but like sometimes

763
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 1: I think maybe not over like analyzing that, because like

764
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: if you did, it was like, oh my god, you

765
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 1: know he's not respecting you and this is awful, and

766
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: like you cut him to kick, you know, kick him

767
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 1: to the curb and get out and everything. It's like,

768
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, like then, and then I remember when

769
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 1: we didn't We really haven't gone much at all. I

770
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 1: think there's only been two stints and it was like

771
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 1: three times each. But I remember I was like, we

772
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:46,359
Speaker 1: just have to go, we have to go, and then

773
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:48,919
Speaker 1: my friend was like, well, just get ready because like

774
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: it turned out to be your fault. I remember when

775
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 1: the first stutch happened in therapy and all of a sudden,

776
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 1: I felt a little too against one, and I was like, no, no,

777
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, no no no, this was supposed to go.

778
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: I didn't. I saw it going differently. You know, I

779
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 1: have foundership pieces a real bee. Yeah, I I hear,

780
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: I hear all all, all three of the ladies. I

781
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,399
Speaker 1: think there's a good, healthy mix if you can communicate good,

782
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: get some good tools from therapy. But by dissecting it

783
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: so much, it can be destructive too. And then like

784
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 1: you're like, oh my god, yeah this is miserable. What

785
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: am I doing? Okay, So twenty two years and you're

786
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 1: still in love? Do you have any advice for all

787
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: of us? I'm divorced. I'm also divorced. I'm on my

788
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 1: second husband. I'm feeling decent about that. She married for

789
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,760
Speaker 1: fifteen years. Wait, you were going to get a divorce.

790
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: I was. We were getting divorced. Told our children we

791
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,359
Speaker 1: were getting divorced for about three months and they got

792
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 1: back together. But they meant it. They didn't just tell

793
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:55,840
Speaker 1: them we were getting divorced. Is like, where is the

794
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 1: end button? The leave for this meeting? I always think

795
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 1: it was so kind a great when people would you know,

796
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: when you eat someone and they're like, so my parents

797
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: got divorced and then like years later, like now they're

798
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: like they got they got remarried. Like whenever you hear

799
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:12,799
Speaker 1: about that, like there's like they were gone, they were

800
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 1: broken up, their divorced for ten years and then they

801
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: got remarried. And then I'm like, you don't thing about

802
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 1: that is as the kid, I hate to say this,

803
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 1: but it was your fault, like you were the lass.

804
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:28,799
Speaker 1: I do. I do love you, We do get along

805
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: with those awful little roommates we had all those years

806
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 1: when my childhood trauma of my parents get divorce is

807
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 1: not going to make me go back and lets the

808
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 1: only way they get back together they remarried. Then you

809
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: have to look within. We only took three or four months,

810
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:51,360
Speaker 1: so I'm safe, I think. Obviously I'm kidding, but no,

811
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: that's that's great. I mean, I mean, my my advice

812
00:42:56,680 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: is my advice is if you My advice is if you,

813
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 1: if you do feel like it's not right, like get

814
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: out quicker than later, especially if there are no kids,

815
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 1: even if there's a house like just you know, because

816
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,360
Speaker 1: if you want to have that, you want to have

817
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 1: that opportunity for another big love or marriage in your

818
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: life and the longer you wait, I mean, I do

819
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: feel like there's a window of of breaking of getting

820
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 1: divorced and still having a really significant second marriage in

821
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: your life and having like a significant step parent to

822
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: your child whatever. And so I mean it's it's important

823
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 1: to try really hard, but like at the same time,

824
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 1: like rip off the band aid because you got to

825
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:53,319
Speaker 1: waste another ten years. And it's and I also don't

826
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 1: think there's much to choose from. And this is awful too,

827
00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 1: but I don't think. I don't think there's much to

828
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 1: choose from after fifty because everybody is divorced and fucked up.

829
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 1: So it's like and a lot of those a lot

830
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 1: of those fifty year old guys, these like you know,

831
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 1: can get like a thirty year old if they have

832
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: a couple of bucks or if they're not even looking

833
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,760
Speaker 1: for a young girl. People are like, oh my god,

834
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: he owns a home. So now this fifty year old

835
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: guy that like barely got laid in college and was

836
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 1: married to his wife for thirty years is now just

837
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 1: like the siege with girls on the apps that want

838
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: to come over and suck his dick because he's got

839
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: you know, a garage attached, like and you're like what

840
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 1: and so you need to you need to if you're young,

841
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: you need to try to hook someone good. And if

842
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,839
Speaker 1: you hook someone that you thought was good that's not good,

843
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 1: then get out and find someone better because it's just

844
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 1: not it out there. Well here here's what I'll say though,

845
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: because Britain cheating a blowjob, hand drab lover so much.

846
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 1: I mean, think about it, like if someone is if

847
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 1: a guy is divorced over fifty either he was an

848
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: awful husband you know that got and he got divorced,

849
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 1: or he's or he's broken because his his wife was awful.

850
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 1: Now were they both equally? Do get it? Got divorced?

851
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:35,879
Speaker 1: And how the greatest post divorce relationship possibly it's it's

852
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: not as likely. So you're just kind of dealing with

853
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 1: another dude that's like a little dub. So if you

854
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 1: like the one that you're with enough, just know, like

855
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 1: like if the demons aren't that bad and he's just

856
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:55,240
Speaker 1: like burping and not being romantic, I would say, don't

857
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 1: divorce that person, like he's cheating in a drug addict

858
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:01,400
Speaker 1: but I got that, but like but like just being

859
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 1: like god, you know, like you really don't see that interview,

860
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 1: or you're not that great, like let it go, you know,

861
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:13,880
Speaker 1: it's another day. Yeah, you can say something, or you

862
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 1: can try to change your reaction to see if he'll change.

863
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 1: Like I definitely think changing your reaction will get a

864
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: bigger change out of your partner. Then you're talking about

865
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: wanting him to change, like if if he was doing

866
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,879
Speaker 1: it's something I mean, they're they're still the guys are

867
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 1: still teenage boys. Okay, that's what they are. So sometimes

868
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: there's that thing where he's just doing it to get

869
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 1: a reaction, like as if you were his sister or

870
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: something like just being annoying and as soon as you

871
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:45,399
Speaker 1: like and be like god, damn, what why are you doing?

872
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,399
Speaker 1: You know, Like, but if all of a sudden you're

873
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 1: just like I don't care, burp your hat off, like

874
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:52,879
Speaker 1: I hope you broke out a party and everyone else

875
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: thinks you're gross walking like like that walk away, chances

876
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: are like the begainer might change because you're like, god,

877
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:01,919
Speaker 1: you weren't like this, you know, the first six months

878
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 1: of us dating. Yeah, I don't remember my husband chewing

879
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 1: the first six months, but now it's like here, So

880
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,399
Speaker 1: it's a little frustrating because you're out of the highlight reel.

881
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: Yeah you know, yeah, Like I'm in the highlight reel

882
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:17,320
Speaker 1: right right now with my boyfriend, like everything everything he touches, too, says,

883
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:25,839
Speaker 1: I'm just like it, like I'm saving airplane tickets and like,

884
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: you know, it's like I'm I'm in that face booking.

885
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: But I like plotting now because we're having popcorn and

886
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: watching Netflix and I'm like, does it. I'm gonna get

887
00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 1: you a straw. I'm just gonna chew it like a

888
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: baby bird, and we're gonna end. But there is something

889
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 1: to be said though we're but there are some but

890
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 1: there are some couples that really are really romantic off

891
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 1: the start and that's their love language and it can

892
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 1: really last like that. There. I mean, my sister and

893
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:56,479
Speaker 1: her husband are still very there twenty five years. They're

894
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 1: still very very romantic, and he's still the same way

895
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: he was in the beginning, and like, look at your

896
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: sisters and she gorgeous and like that, and my husband

897
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,880
Speaker 1: is not like that. But then there's there's things that

898
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 1: my husband does that she wishes her husband would do,

899
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,800
Speaker 1: and read contracts. He can like took a part of

900
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 1: barbecue and fixed it like that, like he was doing that,

901
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: and I go for one million dollars. I wouldn't be

902
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: able to figure that out like I was, like I would,

903
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:28,920
Speaker 1: I'd just be like forget it like I. You know,

904
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 1: So there's things that everybody is different. And you you

905
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: may not have a really romantic guy, you know, and

906
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: you just might not. But if that's what you really

907
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: need a relationship, then that's what you should seek out.

908
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 1: But you might laugh your ass off with him, still

909
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: have good sex, but you know, and you'll still get

910
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 1: a card in a present, but it's just not like

911
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: complete romantic and then other people you'll have that and

912
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: it will taper off, but you still might have a

913
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: good relationship. It's like you never know. Well, Heather, thank

914
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: you coming for coming on and sharing all your insight.

915
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 1: We're going to listen to the Juicy Scoop because it

916
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 1: sounds juicy and you're hilarious. So thank you so much

917
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:09,240
Speaker 1: for coming on. Wine Down. We really appreciate you. Thanks,

918
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 1: have a good one. Thanks bye bye. D Did you

919
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 1: guys see him grab the spider by the way, Yes, yes,

920
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 1: st Set Sara text me and choice Jean, I don't

921
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: really know if that's like a that's like a positive thing.

922
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,480
Speaker 1: She's like, he just grabbed it with his hands, and

923
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 1: I was like, well, i'd rather him. I thought. It's

924
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:35,320
Speaker 1: mainly to it's like, let it know, all that's amazing.

925
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: What's hard for you? Baby talking to he know something

926
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 1: about the chewing murderous thoughts. When people chew with you,

927
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 1: it's hard for me. Ice chewers are hard for me

928
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 1: to sorry, I remember, and I will not choice keeps around.

929
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 1: It's interesting because I don't know if it's him sometimes

930
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,959
Speaker 1: if it's just what are you with the kids, Because

931
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 1: when Jolie chomps, I'm like baby mouth, so I'm on

932
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: her a lot. I don't like chumping out as much

933
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 1: as I say, I don't want Legend to ever get

934
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 1: married and leave my house. I do need him to

935
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: get married, and I don't want his wife to hate

936
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,760
Speaker 1: me because I didn't correct his chewing. So I'm breaking

937
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,920
Speaker 1: the cycle. There's difference in chewing and smacking. There is

938
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: chewing is just chewing, and it can be very annoying.

939
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 1: The smacking. I cannot take my father the way he

940
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 1: eats an apple. Yeah, it's almost like I felt it

941
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 1: down my spine. Right when you said it. It's really

942
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 1: offensive to me, and I'm a pretty patient person. I

943
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 1: feel like, so you would kill your usband over smacking

944
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 1: h Yeah, It's like there was one time was like

945
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:48,799
Speaker 1: is that cereal? Like why is that so? And it

946
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: just feels so aggressive potentionally does it when you guys

947
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:55,439
Speaker 1: are fighting? No, And now I now I've actually feel

948
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:56,920
Speaker 1: like a total be I feel like I bullied my

949
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:58,760
Speaker 1: own husband because I feel like now he picks snacks

950
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: based on there so that's sad. Or time he's like

951
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 1: he's like trying to dilute the pretzels. He's he's there

952
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 1: for about like, oh, I'm sorry. He lets the pretzels

953
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:24,959
Speaker 1: softened in his mouth first saliva before you can actually choose.

954
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:28,879
Speaker 1: He really, I just don't see you as a person

955
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 1: getting annoyed by a lot of I in this episode.

956
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 1: Thanks for some reason, I don't really buy a lot

957
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 1: of things. I mean, I clean toilets, I throw it's drink.

958
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 1: He's at their house, that you because you're just with

959
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 1: them so much and because you do so much. I

960
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: also think by the end of the night is like

961
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 1: literally the only time I have Yeah, so then it's

962
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 1: like trying everything gets cozy, and then all of a sudden,

963
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:58,280
Speaker 1: I just hear cement, cereal or a granola or whatever.

964
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 1: I'm just like I I'm not a good Christian. Well,

965
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 1: you know what, let's go get on a plane. How

966
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 1: about that, I'm gonna snack that ice right in your beer.

967
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:13,799
Speaker 1: Next week, rive through Sonic with your slow roll, big

968
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 1: juicy ice. That sounds so good. All next week, we

969
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 1: got some big news coming for you next week. Nice,