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Speaker 1: Second Dat up date. The guy on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update today probably knows why he's not
Speaker 1: getting a call back because in his email it said, hey, guys,
Speaker 1: I need help. I called my date an idiot and
Speaker 1: now I need to apologize. Oh yeah, that's usually going
Speaker 1: to ensure that somebody's not gonna call you after day
Speaker 1: when you call him an idiot. What's up, Chris? How
Speaker 1: are you? How are you guys doing today? Pretty good?
Speaker 1: We get to you calling your date an idiot in
Speaker 1: just a second. But first, what's the idiot's name? But
Speaker 1: her name is Bobett? Okay, I did, but I didn't.
Speaker 1: Where did you meet Bobet? I met abound the club,
Speaker 1: and it'll always meet women at a club. It's always
Speaker 1: so difficult to loud everything, but uh, I instantly it
Speaker 1: also hurt weird. Okay, did you use a line or
Speaker 1: anything to approacher or you know? I don't have to
Speaker 1: really use lines. I just kind of used some swagger.
Speaker 1: You call an idiot a few times, and then it's
Speaker 1: putty in your hands. Oh man, no, I'll get to
Speaker 1: that part all right. At first it was great. We're talking,
Speaker 1: we're danged, and we weren't even drunk. We had like
Speaker 1: one drink. And I found out that she had a
Speaker 1: bunch of mutual friends of mine. I mean literally like
Speaker 1: a hundred friends in comment on Facebook. I mean they're
Speaker 1: like real friends, though people like I really see all
Speaker 1: hundred of them, maybe half. All right, so you you
Speaker 1: had a lot in common with her, yeah, and it
Speaker 1: just fell right. And for a while we went back
Speaker 1: to my place, had a very great night, woke up
Speaker 1: early and breakfast. Oh sorry, I know, I just wondering,
Speaker 1: she said. The night then, Oh yeah, I know, I'm not.
Speaker 1: I don't want to brag, but like, it was really good. Yea,
Speaker 1: the swagger again. It was nice. It was really it
Speaker 1: was really I didn't even use the word lovely, frankly,
Speaker 1: had a lovely evening. And then she woke up at
Speaker 1: your place the next day. And when did the idiot
Speaker 1: thing happen? All right? It wasn't like I woke up
Speaker 1: and called her an idiot. All right, We had to
Speaker 1: be a bread fast enjoy your night, idiot. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: not what happened. Guess all right. I woke up and
Speaker 1: she woke up, and we one got breakfast and we
Speaker 1: walked around and just were hanging. It was easy. It
Speaker 1: was just like a felty Yeah. When you say you
Speaker 1: felt it, I mean, are you thinking that this could
Speaker 1: have turned into a relationship for you? Just felt like
Speaker 1: someone I want to hang out with, you know, just
Speaker 1: be around. I even brought up with her even was
Speaker 1: just half choking, but really kind of being serious. Afkina
Speaker 1: if she could see us in the future together all right?
Speaker 1: And did she seem down with that? Yeah? She smiled
Speaker 1: and she said sure, it was nice. And then then
Speaker 1: we were just laughing about it and talking about like
Speaker 1: what happened? Did we get together? You know who does
Speaker 1: what chores? Oh? Okay, so you're really talking future stuff together.
Speaker 1: I was just kind of joking at first, and then
Speaker 1: we got into it because you know, she likes to cook.
Speaker 1: I do gisses, so it's the perfect combination there. And
Speaker 1: she works in finance and better with money, so I'll
Speaker 1: do the yardwork. You make the money. I'll make things
Speaker 1: pretty for you. Yeah, but we got over a bunch
Speaker 1: of stuff, just joking about it. But then I brought
Speaker 1: us laundry, and at first it was kind of playful,
Speaker 1: but she didn't like laundry. Doesn't she really doesn't like,
Speaker 1: to a point where she was getting upset about it.
Speaker 1: It's like her whole demeanor change. She was this amazing,
Speaker 1: amazing woman in them, I'll bring up laundry and it
Speaker 1: was like I mentioned somebody murdering her father back. She
Speaker 1: got that mad just at the thought of maybe doing
Speaker 1: laundry one day in a relationship with you. To be fair,
Speaker 1: she explained that it was because her ex boyfriend just
Speaker 1: kind of leeched off her and made her do it.
Speaker 1: So I get that, you know, I get that she
Speaker 1: doesn't want another situation where some guys just making her
Speaker 1: due clothes and I'm not that guy. That's not what
Speaker 1: I was trying to say. It just kind of came
Speaker 1: out that way. And then as we were joking a
Speaker 1: little more about the laundry, I thought joking she was
Speaker 1: getting serious. I was like, Oh, you're just being an idiot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's when you called your data an idiot, and probably
Speaker 1: the reason she's not calling you back. You're always been
Speaker 1: trying to call her a real idiot. Yeah, but it
Speaker 1: sounds like what you were saying is you have to
Speaker 1: do the laundry in a relationship, you're the woman. And
Speaker 1: now I think that if you disagree with that, you're
Speaker 1: an idiot. No. No, that she's making this big deal
Speaker 1: about doing laundry where it's our first time hanging out.
Speaker 1: You know, we met the night before and we're just
Speaker 1: talking about small things, and I called her adotause she's
Speaker 1: making a big deal about something that's not a big deal.
Speaker 1: It's laundry, And now she's making a big deal about
Speaker 1: getting called an idiot. That never feels good when you're
Speaker 1: the defense already. Now you're an idiot for being too
Speaker 1: emotional over a subject that we brought up. Like, I
Speaker 1: get what you were saying, but I can also see
Speaker 1: where on her side it would make her angry. I
Speaker 1: didn't think about it that way. You know that that
Speaker 1: makes me want to apologize even more because I want
Speaker 1: to let her know I'd even do all the LA hundred.
Speaker 1: What was her reaction after you said that? Did she
Speaker 1: instantly get pissed? Yeah, that's when the date ended. She
Speaker 1: had to go. She had, really, Yeah, she had she
Speaker 1: had to do some work. Yeah, she didn't have to
Speaker 1: do anything, she just had to get out of there.
Speaker 1: I know, but I felt like I lost my charm
Speaker 1: at that point, so I couldn't really Guys, hung out
Speaker 1: for almost twenty four hours, it sounds like, and then
Speaker 1: suddenly you get into a fight over laundry that hasn't
Speaker 1: even happened. You know, it was really stupid, and I
Speaker 1: realize that I'm the idiot in this whole thing. So
Speaker 1: I was just hoping you guys could maybe help me
Speaker 1: get out of it. All right, well we can try.
Speaker 1: We'll play a song and then come back and call
Speaker 1: her and get your second date update. Okay, guys, thank
Speaker 1: you so much. I really hope you can help save this.
Speaker 1: So sorry to hang on looking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second date. All right, let's call this idiot joining us
Speaker 1: for today's second day update. Chris is on the phone
Speaker 1: and the idiot that we're about to call her James Babette.
Speaker 1: Why am I calling her an idiot? Because Chris did.
Speaker 1: On their date. Apparently they met at a club. They
Speaker 1: had a really great night together. Chris actually said he
Speaker 1: enjoyed it and thought it was a wonderful evening. They
Speaker 1: spent the night together and the next day they went
Speaker 1: to breakfast and they were talking about stuff, even like
Speaker 1: discussing future plans if they were to actually get in
Speaker 1: a relationship. And at some point they got on the
Speaker 1: topic of chores, and then laundry came up and Chris
Speaker 1: called her an idiot And now he hasn't heard from her,
Speaker 1: sins Chris, are you about ready to get her on
Speaker 1: the phone? Yeah, well, let me make a couple of
Speaker 1: days clear, because I had to tell my side of
Speaker 1: the store of folly. Okay, first off, I should have
Speaker 1: called you guys sooner, because he's been about two weeks.
Speaker 1: Oh it's been a while. Okay, Yeah, I thought maybe
Speaker 1: i'd hear from her, you know, I text her a
Speaker 1: couple of times, but nothing, So that's why I finally
Speaker 1: gave in. And also, if I didn't make it clear,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she's like my perfect match. Oh that's
Speaker 1: really sweet. Do you like really dumb people? Then I'm kidding.
Speaker 1: I'm kidding, Chris. I guess my thing is it's like
Speaker 1: I assumed you apologize via text, right, absolutely. I just
Speaker 1: don't know why she would hold such a grudge over
Speaker 1: this y you and me both. That's why I called
Speaker 1: you guys. Most people like it when you call him
Speaker 1: an idio if you apologize, usually it's something you should
Speaker 1: be able to get past. It maybe a red flag
Speaker 1: that you guys can't. Yeah, I hope not. I'm really
Speaker 1: into our guys. I'm really indore. All right, well, I'm
Speaker 1: a dollar fun of it right now, and see if
Speaker 1: we can help make things better. Okay, here we go,
Speaker 1: all thank you? Hello, Hi, got I speak to a
Speaker 1: bet please? This is she? Hey, how are you? This
Speaker 1: is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Who
Speaker 1: is this Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Okay, how are you doing? I'm good?
Speaker 1: What does this sit out? We do a segment on
Speaker 1: our show called the second Date Update. That's where if
Speaker 1: you go out on a date with somebody and then
Speaker 1: end up blowing them off after, they can email us
Speaker 1: to get you on the phone and find out what happened.
Speaker 1: And one of our listeners actually email us about you. Wait,
Speaker 1: somebody contacted you about me. Yeah, congratulations. His name is Chris,
Speaker 1: and I guess it's been about two weeks since you
Speaker 1: guys hung out. Okay, you remember going out with Chris? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I remember. Are you still mad at Chris because you
Speaker 1: sound kind of angry in your voice. Yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: happy about it. Is it because he called you an idiot? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Actually I hear that turns people off sometimes, it's like that.
Speaker 1: I'm actually surprised that he told you guys that he
Speaker 1: did that. Yeah, he told us all about your date,
Speaker 1: and I guess he feels really bad too that he
Speaker 1: called you an idiot. And he said he's tried to
Speaker 1: apologize to you and everything, but you just are not
Speaker 1: returning any of his text messages or phone calls. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to because somebody who calls you an
Speaker 1: idiot on the first time that you meet after you
Speaker 1: just spent then with them, I mean, I don't like
Speaker 1: what else is to come from that. Wait, wait, hold
Speaker 1: on though, I mean, like he said that you guys
Speaker 1: got into an argument about future laundry chores and you
Speaker 1: were getting really heated about it, and that's when he
Speaker 1: called you an idiot. And what he meant was like,
Speaker 1: you're being an idiot that we're getting so worked up
Speaker 1: over this. Still not a nice thing to say. I
Speaker 1: get it, but you have no way or room for
Speaker 1: forgiveness there. I mean, I just feel like this is
Speaker 1: not how I expect to be treated and how I
Speaker 1: want to be treated. So why am I going to
Speaker 1: set the bar so low so that someone like this
Speaker 1: can basically be like verbally abusive to me? Okay, I
Speaker 1: feel like verbal abuse there is going a little bit far. Okay,
Speaker 1: but he just you know, triggered me and all went
Speaker 1: back to doing my most hated chore. You know, I
Speaker 1: hate laundry so much. I mean, go to school all
Speaker 1: these years, she's like, do laundry for somebody. So did
Speaker 1: he actually say that he wanted you to do his laundry?
Speaker 1: I mean, not exactly, but it was kind of implied.
Speaker 1: But I think he was trying to be cute, like,
Speaker 1: look at we're gonna have a life together. Isn't this cute?
Speaker 1: And we're talking about our future? I know, but I
Speaker 1: hate laundry. I mean, I think everyone hates laundry. Honestly,
Speaker 1: you guys, it doesn't matter anymore. I actually met somebody
Speaker 1: else who does not talk about laundry, So I've moved on.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, maybe you can put it in the
Speaker 1: present for just a second, because Chris is actually on
Speaker 1: the phone and wants to talk to you. What that
Speaker 1: better is? That's true? Are you guy? Yeah? I am
Speaker 1: actually and he's nice and he's sweet, and he's less
Speaker 1: argumentative than you, and he doesn't talk about chores. I mean,
Speaker 1: first off, I'm sweet, and i'm time and I'm willing
Speaker 1: to do chores. It was just a little cute conversation.
Speaker 1: Have you even talked to this guy about doing dishwashing?
Speaker 1: I'll just talk about that. Oh maybe, sure. If you're
Speaker 1: going to spend the rest of your life with this guy,
Speaker 1: I want to get the I'm not saying, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that I am marrying this guy. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying I met somebody who makes me feel like
Speaker 1: he is paper. Yeah, Chris, I also feel like you
Speaker 1: move a little fast in relationships like I always thought
Speaker 1: I used to move fast with Damn. Like, one day,
Speaker 1: you're already talking about laundry, and then she starts dating
Speaker 1: a guy. For what how long you been dating this
Speaker 1: new dude. We've only been on a couple of dates.
Speaker 1: But I can actually already tell that he is a
Speaker 1: less intense person than Chris's. So yeah, I mean, and
Speaker 1: Chris is already assuming that you're gonna marry this guy. Yea, yeah, Chris,
Speaker 1: what is that? I wasn't assuming that she's gonna marry him.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you know, we had something real and
Speaker 1: I thought, you know, you might be very special for me,
Speaker 1: and I'm going to compromise here. Okay, how about I
Speaker 1: do the whites, you do the color. Chris? Are you
Speaker 1: not understanding or hearing what she's saying. It's not about
Speaker 1: who's doing whites and who's doing colors. It's about you
Speaker 1: chilling out a little bit and stopped having hypothetical fights. Yeah, yeah, Chris.
Speaker 1: Why are we even talking about laundry still? I mean,
Speaker 1: we had this conversation two weeks ago and we're still
Speaker 1: talking about it now on the radio for that matter. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I'm apologizing and I'm telling you that all do
Speaker 1: have the laundry all even folded, all folded too. I
Speaker 1: don't think it's about the laundry anymore, Chris. But she's
Speaker 1: saying it is. No, she's not. She's saying that that's
Speaker 1: what sparked the red flags that came up for her,
Speaker 1: that you're too much and I'm willing to pick up
Speaker 1: those red flags and wash them like I'm the white ones.
Speaker 1: You got pink flag, and then everything's all messed up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're saying some weird signals huge funny. I'll give them
Speaker 1: that huge funny. I'm not trying to be funny, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be very serious about something that's so
Speaker 1: so right and so real that's getting ruined by a
Speaker 1: stupid little argument. I'm willing to do what it takes. Chris.
Speaker 1: I've moved on, and I just need you to know
Speaker 1: that I told this new guy about our argument, and
Speaker 1: he told me that he loves to do the laundry.
Speaker 1: No one loves doing laundry. That's a lie. You were lying. Now.
Speaker 1: I don't mean it in a mean way, but you're one.
Speaker 1: I'm just strength. I can now see why things unraveled
Speaker 1: so quickly on your date, but that I don't know
Speaker 1: what else to say at this point. You know what
Speaker 1: you could say that you could say that you go
Speaker 1: on another date with Chris, We'll pay for it. Would
Speaker 1: you like to go out with Chris again? Even if
Speaker 1: he were to do my laundry for me, I would
Speaker 1: still not go out on another date with him. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know what you are an idiot exactly. Do you
Speaker 1: see what I mean? You, guys, this is why he
Speaker 1: is not the right match for me. Yeah, you called
Speaker 1: it again. I'm sorry. It's just my emotions because you
Speaker 1: just you're the one, and I feel so strongly about you,
Speaker 1: and it just comes out she just loves you. But Bet,
Speaker 1: when you're not being an idiot, that's all all right.
Speaker 1: I think I've reached my quota about talking about laundry
Speaker 1: and idiot. Thanks so much for calling. Yeah, thank you,
Speaker 1: b Bett. Chris, Sorry man, no second date. M guys,
Speaker 1: I'm shocked. I just I don't know where do we
Speaker 1: go from here? How are we going to get her back?
Speaker 1: I don't think we are. I think we're gonna live
Speaker 1: our lives alone without Babett. Chris, you need to give
Speaker 1: up on that dream, all right? Well, plenty of other
Speaker 1: idiots in the sea, right, guys. Broken Jewel in the
Speaker 1: morning text seven eight five nine two said I don't
Speaker 1: know why she was so upset. I love doing laundry.
Speaker 1: Talking about today's second date update if you missed it,
Speaker 1: Chris wanted to call this girl Babette. They met at
Speaker 1: a club and hung out all night, even had breakfast
Speaker 1: the next day, and Chris thought the reason he wasn't
Speaker 1: getting a call back was because at one point during
Speaker 1: their date, they were discussing future plans, like if they
Speaker 1: actually had a long relationship, and chores came up in
Speaker 1: the conversation and Chris said that he would do the
Speaker 1: dishes if she did the laundry, which made her very upset. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then that made him upset, and he called her
Speaker 1: an idiot, but he thought it was just playful banter.
Speaker 1: And then we got her on the phone and found
Speaker 1: out that she was actually very offended when he called
Speaker 1: her an idiot and said that she hates doing laundry
Speaker 1: so much it completely ruined their first date. She also
Speaker 1: wasn't calling Chris back because apparently she's been dating another
Speaker 1: dude who she says is less argumentative, and they don't
Speaker 1: talk about laundry at all, which is probably a good thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he know it's going to be an issue though. If
Speaker 1: you're already fighting about chores, that hapn't even gone yet, right.
Speaker 1: Chris was heartbreaking heartbroken though, and did want another date.
Speaker 1: He said he'd even chip in and do some of
Speaker 1: the laundry, but she said no. Yeah, so they're not
Speaker 1: going out again. Remember, if you want to do a
Speaker 1: second day up date, all you have to do is
Speaker 1: email the show and we will call the person who
Speaker 1: didn't call you back