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<v Speaker 1>Second Dat up date. The guy on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today probably knows why he's not

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<v Speaker 1>getting a call back because in his email it said, hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I need help. I called my date an idiot and

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<v Speaker 1>now I need to apologize. Oh yeah, that's usually going

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<v Speaker 1>to ensure that somebody's not gonna call you after day

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<v Speaker 1>when you call him an idiot. What's up, Chris? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? How are you guys doing today? Pretty good?

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<v Speaker 1>We get to you calling your date an idiot in

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<v Speaker 1>just a second. But first, what's the idiot's name? But

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<v Speaker 1>her name is Bobett? Okay, I did, but I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you meet Bobet? I met abound the club,

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<v Speaker 1>and it'll always meet women at a club. It's always

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<v Speaker 1>so difficult to loud everything, but uh, I instantly it

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<v Speaker 1>also hurt weird. Okay, did you use a line or

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<v Speaker 1>anything to approacher or you know? I don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>really use lines. I just kind of used some swagger.

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<v Speaker 1>You call an idiot a few times, and then it's

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<v Speaker 1>putty in your hands. Oh man, no, I'll get to

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<v Speaker 1>that part all right. At first it was great. We're talking,

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<v Speaker 1>we're danged, and we weren't even drunk. We had like

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<v Speaker 1>one drink. And I found out that she had a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of mutual friends of mine. I mean literally like

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<v Speaker 1>a hundred friends in comment on Facebook. I mean they're

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<v Speaker 1>like real friends, though people like I really see all

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<v Speaker 1>hundred of them, maybe half. All right, so you you

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot in common with her, yeah, and it

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<v Speaker 1>just fell right. And for a while we went back

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<v Speaker 1>to my place, had a very great night, woke up

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<v Speaker 1>early and breakfast. Oh sorry, I know, I just wondering,

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<v Speaker 1>she said. The night then, Oh yeah, I know, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to brag, but like, it was really good. Yea,

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<v Speaker 1>the swagger again. It was nice. It was really it

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<v Speaker 1>was really I didn't even use the word lovely, frankly,

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<v Speaker 1>had a lovely evening. And then she woke up at

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<v Speaker 1>your place the next day. And when did the idiot

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<v Speaker 1>thing happen? All right? It wasn't like I woke up

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<v Speaker 1>and called her an idiot. All right, We had to

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<v Speaker 1>be a bread fast enjoy your night, idiot. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not what happened. Guess all right. I woke up and

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<v Speaker 1>she woke up, and we one got breakfast and we

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<v Speaker 1>walked around and just were hanging. It was easy. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just like a felty Yeah. When you say you

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<v Speaker 1>felt it, I mean, are you thinking that this could

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<v Speaker 1>have turned into a relationship for you? Just felt like

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<v Speaker 1>someone I want to hang out with, you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>be around. I even brought up with her even was

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<v Speaker 1>just half choking, but really kind of being serious. Afkina

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<v Speaker 1>if she could see us in the future together all right?

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<v Speaker 1>And did she seem down with that? Yeah? She smiled

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<v Speaker 1>and she said sure, it was nice. And then then

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<v Speaker 1>we were just laughing about it and talking about like

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? Did we get together? You know who does

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<v Speaker 1>what chores? Oh? Okay, so you're really talking future stuff together.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just kind of joking at first, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we got into it because you know, she likes to cook.

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<v Speaker 1>I do gisses, so it's the perfect combination there. And

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<v Speaker 1>she works in finance and better with money, so I'll

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<v Speaker 1>do the yardwork. You make the money. I'll make things

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<v Speaker 1>pretty for you. Yeah, but we got over a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff, just joking about it. But then I brought

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<v Speaker 1>us laundry, and at first it was kind of playful,

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<v Speaker 1>but she didn't like laundry. Doesn't she really doesn't like,

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<v Speaker 1>to a point where she was getting upset about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like her whole demeanor change. She was this amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>amazing woman in them, I'll bring up laundry and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like I mentioned somebody murdering her father back. She

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<v Speaker 1>got that mad just at the thought of maybe doing

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<v Speaker 1>laundry one day in a relationship with you. To be fair,

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<v Speaker 1>she explained that it was because her ex boyfriend just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of leeched off her and made her do it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I get that, you know, I get that she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want another situation where some guys just making her

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<v Speaker 1>due clothes and I'm not that guy. That's not what

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to say. It just kind of came

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<v Speaker 1>out that way. And then as we were joking a

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<v Speaker 1>little more about the laundry, I thought joking she was

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<v Speaker 1>getting serious. I was like, Oh, you're just being an idiot. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when you called your data an idiot, and probably

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<v Speaker 1>the reason she's not calling you back. You're always been

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<v Speaker 1>trying to call her a real idiot. Yeah, but it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like what you were saying is you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do the laundry in a relationship, you're the woman. And

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<v Speaker 1>now I think that if you disagree with that, you're

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<v Speaker 1>an idiot. No. No, that she's making this big deal

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<v Speaker 1>about doing laundry where it's our first time hanging out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we met the night before and we're just

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<v Speaker 1>talking about small things, and I called her adotause she's

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<v Speaker 1>making a big deal about something that's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>It's laundry, And now she's making a big deal about

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<v Speaker 1>getting called an idiot. That never feels good when you're

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<v Speaker 1>the defense already. Now you're an idiot for being too

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<v Speaker 1>emotional over a subject that we brought up. Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>get what you were saying, but I can also see

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<v Speaker 1>where on her side it would make her angry. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think about it that way. You know that that

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<v Speaker 1>makes me want to apologize even more because I want

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<v Speaker 1>to let her know I'd even do all the LA hundred.

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<v Speaker 1>What was her reaction after you said that? Did she

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<v Speaker 1>instantly get pissed? Yeah, that's when the date ended. She

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<v Speaker 1>had to go. She had, really, Yeah, she had she

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<v Speaker 1>had to do some work. Yeah, she didn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>do anything, she just had to get out of there.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but I felt like I lost my charm

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<v Speaker 1>at that point, so I couldn't really Guys, hung out

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<v Speaker 1>for almost twenty four hours, it sounds like, and then

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly you get into a fight over laundry that hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>even happened. You know, it was really stupid, and I

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<v Speaker 1>realize that I'm the idiot in this whole thing. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was just hoping you guys could maybe help me

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<v Speaker 1>get out of it. All right, well we can try.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll play a song and then come back and call

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<v Speaker 1>her and get your second date update. Okay, guys, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much. I really hope you can help save this.

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<v Speaker 1>So sorry to hang on looking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date. All right, let's call this idiot joining us

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<v Speaker 1>for today's second day update. Chris is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and the idiot that we're about to call her James Babette.

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<v Speaker 1>Why am I calling her an idiot? Because Chris did.

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<v Speaker 1>On their date. Apparently they met at a club. They

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<v Speaker 1>had a really great night together. Chris actually said he

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed it and thought it was a wonderful evening. They

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<v Speaker 1>spent the night together and the next day they went

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<v Speaker 1>to breakfast and they were talking about stuff, even like

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<v Speaker 1>discussing future plans if they were to actually get in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship. And at some point they got on the

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<v Speaker 1>topic of chores, and then laundry came up and Chris

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<v Speaker 1>called her an idiot And now he hasn't heard from her,

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<v Speaker 1>sins Chris, are you about ready to get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone? Yeah, well, let me make a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>days clear, because I had to tell my side of

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<v Speaker 1>the store of folly. Okay, first off, I should have

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<v Speaker 1>called you guys sooner, because he's been about two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it's been a while. Okay, Yeah, I thought maybe

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<v Speaker 1>i'd hear from her, you know, I text her a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of times, but nothing, So that's why I finally

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<v Speaker 1>gave in. And also, if I didn't make it clear,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure she's like my perfect match. Oh that's

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet. Do you like really dumb people? Then I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kidding, Chris. I guess my thing is it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I assumed you apologize via text, right, absolutely. I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why she would hold such a grudge over

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<v Speaker 1>this y you and me both. That's why I called

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. Most people like it when you call him

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<v Speaker 1>an idio if you apologize, usually it's something you should

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<v Speaker 1>be able to get past. It maybe a red flag

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys can't. Yeah, I hope not. I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>into our guys. I'm really indore. All right, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a dollar fun of it right now, and see if

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<v Speaker 1>we can help make things better. Okay, here we go,

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<v Speaker 1>all thank you? Hello, Hi, got I speak to a

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<v Speaker 1>bet please? This is she? Hey, how are you? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Who

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<v Speaker 1>is this Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Okay, how are you doing? I'm good?

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<v Speaker 1>What does this sit out? We do a segment on

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<v Speaker 1>our show called the second Date Update. That's where if

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<v Speaker 1>you go out on a date with somebody and then

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<v Speaker 1>end up blowing them off after, they can email us

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<v Speaker 1>to get you on the phone and find out what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>And one of our listeners actually email us about you. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody contacted you about me. Yeah, congratulations. His name is Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess it's been about two weeks since you

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<v Speaker 1>guys hung out. Okay, you remember going out with Chris? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember. Are you still mad at Chris because you

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<v Speaker 1>sound kind of angry in your voice. Yeah, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>happy about it. Is it because he called you an idiot? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Actually I hear that turns people off sometimes, it's like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually surprised that he told you guys that he

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<v Speaker 1>did that. Yeah, he told us all about your date,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess he feels really bad too that he

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<v Speaker 1>called you an idiot. And he said he's tried to

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<v Speaker 1>apologize to you and everything, but you just are not

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<v Speaker 1>returning any of his text messages or phone calls. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to because somebody who calls you an

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<v Speaker 1>idiot on the first time that you meet after you

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<v Speaker 1>just spent then with them, I mean, I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>what else is to come from that. Wait, wait, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on though, I mean, like he said that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>got into an argument about future laundry chores and you

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<v Speaker 1>were getting really heated about it, and that's when he

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<v Speaker 1>called you an idiot. And what he meant was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're being an idiot that we're getting so worked up

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<v Speaker 1>over this. Still not a nice thing to say. I

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<v Speaker 1>get it, but you have no way or room for

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<v Speaker 1>forgiveness there. I mean, I just feel like this is

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<v Speaker 1>not how I expect to be treated and how I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be treated. So why am I going to

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<v Speaker 1>set the bar so low so that someone like this

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<v Speaker 1>can basically be like verbally abusive to me? Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like verbal abuse there is going a little bit far. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but he just you know, triggered me and all went

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<v Speaker 1>back to doing my most hated chore. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>hate laundry so much. I mean, go to school all

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<v Speaker 1>these years, she's like, do laundry for somebody. So did

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<v Speaker 1>he actually say that he wanted you to do his laundry?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, not exactly, but it was kind of implied.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think he was trying to be cute, like,

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<v Speaker 1>look at we're gonna have a life together. Isn't this cute?

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<v Speaker 1>And we're talking about our future? I know, but I

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<v Speaker 1>hate laundry. I mean, I think everyone hates laundry. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, it doesn't matter anymore. I actually met somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else who does not talk about laundry, So I've moved on.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, maybe you can put it in the

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<v Speaker 1>present for just a second, because Chris is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and wants to talk to you. What that

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<v Speaker 1>better is? That's true? Are you guy? Yeah? I am

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<v Speaker 1>actually and he's nice and he's sweet, and he's less

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<v Speaker 1>argumentative than you, and he doesn't talk about chores. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>first off, I'm sweet, and i'm time and I'm willing

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<v Speaker 1>to do chores. It was just a little cute conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you even talked to this guy about doing dishwashing?

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just talk about that. Oh maybe, sure. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to spend the rest of your life with this guy,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get the I'm not saying, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that I am marrying this guy. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying I met somebody who makes me feel like

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<v Speaker 1>he is paper. Yeah, Chris, I also feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>move a little fast in relationships like I always thought

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<v Speaker 1>I used to move fast with Damn. Like, one day,

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<v Speaker 1>you're already talking about laundry, and then she starts dating

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<v Speaker 1>a guy. For what how long you been dating this

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<v Speaker 1>new dude. We've only been on a couple of dates.

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<v Speaker 1>But I can actually already tell that he is a

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<v Speaker 1>less intense person than Chris's. So yeah, I mean, and

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<v Speaker 1>Chris is already assuming that you're gonna marry this guy. Yea, yeah, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>what is that? I wasn't assuming that she's gonna marry him.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, you know, we had something real and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, you know, you might be very special for me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to compromise here. Okay, how about I

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<v Speaker 1>do the whites, you do the color. Chris? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>not understanding or hearing what she's saying. It's not about

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<v Speaker 1>who's doing whites and who's doing colors. It's about you

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<v Speaker 1>chilling out a little bit and stopped having hypothetical fights. Yeah, yeah, Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are we even talking about laundry still? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we had this conversation two weeks ago and we're still

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<v Speaker 1>talking about it now on the radio for that matter. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm apologizing and I'm telling you that all do

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<v Speaker 1>have the laundry all even folded, all folded too. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think it's about the laundry anymore, Chris. But she's

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<v Speaker 1>saying it is. No, she's not. She's saying that that's

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<v Speaker 1>what sparked the red flags that came up for her,

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<v Speaker 1>that you're too much and I'm willing to pick up

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<v Speaker 1>those red flags and wash them like I'm the white ones.

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<v Speaker 1>You got pink flag, and then everything's all messed up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying some weird signals huge funny. I'll give them

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<v Speaker 1>that huge funny. I'm not trying to be funny, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to be very serious about something that's so

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<v Speaker 1>so right and so real that's getting ruined by a

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<v Speaker 1>stupid little argument. I'm willing to do what it takes. Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>I've moved on, and I just need you to know

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<v Speaker 1>that I told this new guy about our argument, and

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<v Speaker 1>he told me that he loves to do the laundry.

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<v Speaker 1>No one loves doing laundry. That's a lie. You were lying. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean it in a mean way, but you're one.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just strength. I can now see why things unraveled

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<v Speaker 1>so quickly on your date, but that I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what else to say at this point. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>you could say that you could say that you go

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<v Speaker 1>on another date with Chris, We'll pay for it. Would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go out with Chris again? Even if

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<v Speaker 1>he were to do my laundry for me, I would

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<v Speaker 1>still not go out on another date with him. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what you are an idiot exactly. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>see what I mean? You, guys, this is why he

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<v Speaker 1>is not the right match for me. Yeah, you called

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<v Speaker 1>it again. I'm sorry. It's just my emotions because you

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<v Speaker 1>just you're the one, and I feel so strongly about you,

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<v Speaker 1>and it just comes out she just loves you. But Bet,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're not being an idiot, that's all all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I've reached my quota about talking about laundry

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<v Speaker 1>and idiot. Thanks so much for calling. Yeah, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>b Bett. Chris, Sorry man, no second date. M guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm shocked. I just I don't know where do we

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<v Speaker 1>go from here? How are we going to get her back?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we are. I think we're gonna live

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<v Speaker 1>our lives alone without Babett. Chris, you need to give

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<v Speaker 1>up on that dream, all right? Well, plenty of other

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<v Speaker 1>idiots in the sea, right, guys. Broken Jewel in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning text seven eight five nine two said I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why she was so upset. I love doing laundry.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking about today's second date update if you missed it,

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<v Speaker 1>Chris wanted to call this girl Babette. They met at

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<v Speaker 1>a club and hung out all night, even had breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>the next day, and Chris thought the reason he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>getting a call back was because at one point during

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<v Speaker 1>their date, they were discussing future plans, like if they

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<v Speaker 1>actually had a long relationship, and chores came up in

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation and Chris said that he would do the

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<v Speaker 1>dishes if she did the laundry, which made her very upset. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then that made him upset, and he called her

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<v Speaker 1>an idiot, but he thought it was just playful banter.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we got her on the phone and found

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<v Speaker 1>out that she was actually very offended when he called

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<v Speaker 1>her an idiot and said that she hates doing laundry

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<v Speaker 1>so much it completely ruined their first date. She also

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't calling Chris back because apparently she's been dating another

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<v Speaker 1>dude who she says is less argumentative, and they don't

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<v Speaker 1>talk about laundry at all, which is probably a good thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he know it's going to be an issue though. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're already fighting about chores, that hapn't even gone yet, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris was heartbreaking heartbroken though, and did want another date.

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<v Speaker 1>He said he'd even chip in and do some of

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<v Speaker 1>the laundry, but she said no. Yeah, so they're not

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<v Speaker 1>going out again. Remember, if you want to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second day up date, all you have to do is

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<v Speaker 1>email the show and we will call the person who

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back