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Speaker 1: Second Dat up date. The guy on the phone for

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Speaker 1: getting a call back because in his email it said, hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: I need help. I called my date an idiot and

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Speaker 1: now I need to apologize. Oh yeah, that's usually going

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Speaker 1: to ensure that somebody's not gonna call you after day

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Speaker 1: when you call him an idiot. What's up, Chris? How

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Speaker 1: We get to you calling your date an idiot in

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Speaker 1: just a second. But first, what's the idiot's name? But

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Speaker 1: Where did you meet Bobet? I met abound the club,

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Speaker 1: You call an idiot a few times, and then it's

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Speaker 1: that part all right. At first it was great. We're talking,

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Speaker 1: and the idiot that we're about to call her James Babette.

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Speaker 1: bet please? This is she? Hey, how are you? This

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Speaker 1: is this Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Chris is already assuming that you're gonna marry this guy. Yea, yeah, Chris,

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Speaker 1: do the whites, you do the color. Chris? Are you

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Speaker 1: Why are we even talking about laundry still? I mean,

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Speaker 1: No one loves doing laundry. That's a lie. You were lying. Now.

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Speaker 1: I'm just strength. I can now see why things unraveled

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