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Speaker 1: I just found out my step mom hates me and

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Speaker 1: my siblings because she rants about us on Reddit. Oh

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Speaker 1: she hates us.

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Speaker 2: Because she hates us, and she tells everyone.

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Speaker 1: Oh sure, I hate us more. I'm really pissed off

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Speaker 1: and want to vent. I even cried reading the thing

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Speaker 1: she said. And I don't know what to do. I

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Speaker 1: don't need any advice. I just want to vent. My

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Speaker 1: father has been married to my stepmother for five years.

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Speaker 1: He has been divorced from my mother since my younger

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Speaker 1: brother was two years old, and there's no beef between

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Speaker 1: them and they have a great co parenting relationship. By

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Speaker 1: the way, this comes from Diligent Stand thirty seven forty

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Speaker 1: eight from the Best of editor updates separed it. So,

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Speaker 1: I have a seventeen year old sister, a sixteen year

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Speaker 1: old brother, and I am twenty five. Then my father

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Speaker 1: has a three year old son with my stepmother, crazy

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Speaker 1: age gap. I found her Reddit account in a pretty

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Speaker 1: random way. Since I'm only home on the weekends, I

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Speaker 1: let her use my computer and she forgot to close

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Speaker 1: her email. At least do it on your own computer

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Speaker 1: for your trash.

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Speaker 2: Come on, come on, rookie, mistakes rookie.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't post too much, but she comments too much

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Speaker 1: at cap. I was honestly going to close the email,

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Speaker 1: but it caught my attention that all the replies were

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Speaker 1: from a step parents subreddit, so curiosity won me over.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know it's not a good thing to do,

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Speaker 1: and curiosity killed the cat.

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Speaker 2: But satisfaction brought it back.

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Speaker 1: That's right. The first thing I saw was her last post,

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Speaker 1: in which she detailed things about my life and a

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Speaker 1: random subreddit criticizing my decisions and even lying to get

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Speaker 1: people to support her. Lying to strangers from the internet

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Speaker 1: to get support is.

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Speaker 2: Wild, Like you don't even have to tell them in

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Speaker 2: the first place. Yeah, like you've purposely on person. You

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Speaker 2: told them, and then you had to lie about it

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Speaker 2: because you knew that you were in.

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Speaker 1: The wrong, and you're just like wanting to get this

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Speaker 1: like a vapid, hollow validation. But it's also our show.

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Speaker 1: She has posts on the site talking about how she

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Speaker 1: feels when my siblings are not home. My sister adores her,

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Speaker 1: but she has comments talking about how she can't wait

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Speaker 1: for them to turn eighteen and leave the house because

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Speaker 1: she just wants to share the house with her family.

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Speaker 1: My father and her toddler. It seems that she doesn't

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Speaker 1: see us as her family. Super quick question, and I

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Speaker 1: imagine we'll like deep dive on this later. But tell

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Speaker 1: the dad or not? I think absolutely.

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Speaker 2: I think I you go to the down you say, hey,

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Speaker 2: I found this information. Feels a little bit inappropriate? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: for to you know, be talking about us like that.

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Speaker 2: Can you have a little conversation with her? Tell her

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Speaker 2: what's what's what?

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Speaker 1: Do what? You will?

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Speaker 2: Come on.

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Speaker 1: So she has a lot of comments answering other people

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Speaker 1: that it's totally okay not to love your stepchildren because

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Speaker 1: She has comments talking about how much it bothers her

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Speaker 1: when my dad and brother have sleepovers. They just watch

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Speaker 1: a series in the playroom and then go to sleep.

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Speaker 1: That sounds like amazing father son bondings.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like that, Yeah, he's a good dad.

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Speaker 1: His their healthy relationship disgusting, so rude as she is

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Speaker 1: tired of hearing the laughter of a teenager.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, are you literally a joy hater?

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Speaker 1: Like literally correla devilla?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was looking for an example, but I can

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Speaker 2: only think of the Grinch.

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Speaker 1: So he's just on his grinch on the minding train

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Speaker 1: grinch train. I mean it is a holiday season, yes,

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Speaker 1: after all, and can't wait until we all leave the

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Speaker 1: house so my father can be with his real family.

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Speaker 1: It's not quote unquote, but I'm saying quote unquote. But

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Speaker 1: what she hates the most is having to learn sign

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Speaker 3: My god, she's she's hands literally.

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Speaker 2: I think it's such a fun language to learn.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, what what cool opportunity? But would you.

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Speaker 3: Rather like just type on red how bad it is

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all that time that you spent on it, you

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Speaker 2: could be learning sign language. You are rude?

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Speaker 1: Tell them that was sign language, no visual humor?

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Speaker 2: I that don't I think like you.

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Speaker 1: Ou comments someone out there knows, so tell us if

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Speaker 3: She signed language, I love you.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, it was a visual.

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Speaker 1: So it always seems strange to me that stepmom still

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Speaker 1: struggles with sign language. But now I know that she

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Speaker 1: always said that for many people, sign language is very difficult,

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Speaker 1: she always found it stupid to learn how to communicate

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Speaker 1: I was too surprised by the hatred she has when

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Speaker 1: jealousy towards us is so obvious that it disgusted me

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Speaker 1: that there were so many people who told her how

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Speaker 1: they feel the same way about their step children, to

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Speaker 1: the point of spicy things. What what, what is huh

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Speaker 1: even love her very much. And what fills me with

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Speaker 1: I offered to babysit my stepbrother so she and my

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Speaker 1: dad could go on a date. All of the time

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Speaker 1: she refused to let me take care of him. And

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Speaker 1: now I saw comments that she left about how I

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Speaker 1: am living at my father's house and I don't help

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Speaker 1: her at all, only for people to respond saying that

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Speaker 1: she should give her father an ultimatum to make me

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Speaker 1: leave because I am too old to live with him

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Speaker 1: as he has a new family. She sucks, She sucks,

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Speaker 1: she sucks, and it's like it's like, why do you suck?

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Speaker 1: You know, why why do you suck? Like if you,

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Speaker 1: him living there, then leave leave I mean even bring it,

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Speaker 1: bring it, bring it to the husband. I feel like

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Speaker 1: she's doing this because she knows, and then this has

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Speaker 1: make me inferring here infer but I feel like she knows.

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Speaker 1: If she goes to the husband, to her husband, he's

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Speaker 1: gonna be like, those are my kids, those are my kids.

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Speaker 1: This is my son, Like yeah, he's older, but like

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Speaker 1: I want him to live here, and like I think

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Speaker 1: it's his house. It's not super clear, but it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want him to live here. This is what I want,

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Speaker 1: and like that's it.

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 1: What are we? What are we talking about? I cook

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Speaker 1: I help my father pay the bills while she doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Good point, and only come home on weekends because I'm

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Speaker 1: doing police academy all through the week. I don't even

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Speaker 2: Yeah, make it obvious, because then you can have an

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Speaker 2: all out Reddit war with your stepmom.

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Speaker 1: That would be a maze like Reddit for Reddit post

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Speaker 1: who gets the most up votes who gets the most, like,

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Speaker 1: honestly give him to us. We'll duke it out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna read both of your stories, and whoever's

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Speaker 2: better has to leave gets to keep the house.

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Speaker 1: That actually is a great theme for an episode, like

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Speaker 1: A versus B like who and it's like two people

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Speaker 1: duke it out on who's the winner, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean? A one v one that would be fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. We would also do like the tears, you know,

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Speaker 2: like the like the these people fight, these people fight,

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Speaker 2: and then who goes to the next round?

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Speaker 1: Oh, a bracket, A bracket. A bracket would be fun.

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Speaker 1: Huh tear the people fight and they move. It was

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Speaker 1: my father who told me to move back with him

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Speaker 1: so that way when I come back from the academy

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Speaker 1: the dad literally was like, no, come live, come live

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Speaker 1: with me, don't don't live so love. She misinterprets my

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Speaker 1: not normal for me to sleep, nap, hug him and

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Speaker 1: that I should know my place. He is my father.

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Speaker 2: That's so weird. What the hell is wrong with the

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Speaker 2: sextualizing their father daughter relationship.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely insane, Like absolutely.

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Speaker 2: I really don't understand the idea that you can't like

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Speaker 1: It's like understand that, and like, you know, people have

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's such as such a sick, twisted way of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, as like a father father child. We do have

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Speaker 1: which is the telling of the dad.

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Speaker 2: Telling of the dad, tell the dad. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 2: one tell the dad about the redipose and then tell

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Speaker 2: these familial reactions in a really weird way and you're feeling.

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Speaker 1: Uncomfortable about that, Yeah, I think like kind of just

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Speaker 2: And that's that.

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Speaker 1: It's basically it's basically it leaves her, hopefully he leaves her.

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Speaker 1: There is the three year old baby that's really don't know,

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Speaker 1: if he's like fully supporting her kind of like, what

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Speaker 1: the what the that dynamic looks like? Does that change anything?

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Speaker 2: I think? I mean, I mean it. I think it

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Speaker 2: And also I just don't really, you know, I don't

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Speaker 2: like what that implies for their parenting style or what

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Speaker 2: she wants to you know, with this three year old,

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Speaker 2: Like is she not gonna allow him to ug his

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Speaker 1: Great point, great point. Yeah. And I think too, like

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Speaker 1: he has had a successful co parenting relationship with Opie's

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Speaker 1: biological mom. Yeah, right, so it's like, hey, he's done

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Speaker 1: it before, he can do it again. But again, he

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Speaker 1: seems like you know, from every from the very short

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Speaker 1: amount that we've read it he's like, Hey, you know,

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Speaker 1: come live with me. It'll be easier on your work life.

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Speaker 1: He seems like a very very he's spending really great

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Speaker 1: quality time with his teenage children. Like, he seems like

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Speaker 1: a very supportive father. Yeah, and will probably make sure

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Speaker 1: set up for success and all of that jazz. So

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Speaker 1: I completely agree with you, Sophia.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much. I love to hear that.

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Speaker 1: Nice try, Mama can't stop us now, But I don't

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Speaker 1: Let's keep it between us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and you know you can take on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: Uh oh oh, talk that talk, Sophia, tell them are moving?

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Speaker 2: I can't remember learn I what that's so rude? I

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Speaker 1: Here are here our hand hear the wind from our

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Speaker 1: Do it, guys. As fun as those options sound, it's

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Speaker 2: It's just not the move.

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Speaker 1: Not the move. Always maintain the upper hand. My sister

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Speaker 1: This was the comment. So basically it was like they

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Speaker 1: So we have an update. Hi, for now I'm going

438
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,679
Speaker 1: to post this little update here since I haven't spoken

439
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,359
Speaker 1: to my father yet, but I spoke with my siblings

440
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,960
Speaker 1: and my mom biological mom, that is. I told my

441
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 1: dad that I was staying at a friend's house when

442
00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 1: I left the academy, but I actually went to my

443
00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 1: mom's house and told her everything. She doesn't even know

444
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,880
Speaker 1: what red it is. The site isn't used too much here,

445
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 1: but I translated the comments and posts for her and

446
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 1: I showed her the videos and my mom is furious.

447
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,280
Speaker 2: Yes, that's right side.

448
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 1: I explained to her that in the comments, BM is

449
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:22,200
Speaker 1: Madre Biologica. I was confused about it too the first

450
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 1: time I read that. Also with stepmother also baby Mamabe.

451
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 1: It works out both ways. So my step mom also

452
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 1: made comments and posts complaining about my mother, being that

453
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:36,680
Speaker 1: they have always had a cordial treatment and relationship. So

454
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 1: she also talked to Crap about Opie's mom, and.

455
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:44,679
Speaker 2: Then even though they had a kind of seemingly okay relationship.

456
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:48,199
Speaker 1: It was all a lot loves her off, that gloves

457
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,399
Speaker 1: are off. But still my stepmother was lying saying that

458
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,560
Speaker 1: my mother was troublesome. No one in the comments said anything.

459
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:58,399
Speaker 1: Everyone supported her and they recommended that she moved far

460
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 1: away with her legal family, far away from the problematic

461
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: baby mother and kids. Ouch. First, we told my brother,

462
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 1: who was also upset and said that she was a fake,

463
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 1: but that he has seen her ignore my sister and

464
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,439
Speaker 1: pretend that she does not see or hear her a

465
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of times. Mean, dude, that's just so.

466
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 2: So incredibly mean, Like cul Yeah, cruel.

467
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 1: Cruel is the right word. Ruel is the right word.

468
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 2: So like for someone who already has, like you know,

469
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:31,880
Speaker 2: a different level of communication, has to communicate differently exactly

470
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 2: and then to actively ignore them disgusting. Yeah.

471
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 1: He explained that, like me, it also seems strained to

472
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 1: him that stepmom has not learned sign language. My siblings

473
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: spent a lot of time at my father's house. Just

474
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 1: like English and Spanish, sign language is much easier to

475
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,640
Speaker 1: learn if you live with someone who absolutely exactly.

476
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 2: If you're around someone who actively is using sign language,

477
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 2: you should pick up some stuff.

478
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 1: Absolutely. Therefore, it is strange that my stepmother doesn't use it.

479
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,120
Speaker 1: He said that even my father has offered to pay

480
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: for her classes, but she says she doesn't have the time.

481
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 2: Come on, you've got some time.

482
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: You've got you.

483
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, you make the time for people who are in

484
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 2: your family, who are you, who your husband loves.

485
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 1: This is supposed to be a healthy step child parent relationship.

486
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 1: Is you see them as your children. Yes, maybe there's

487
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: some scenarios where it doesn't quite click, but they keep

488
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 1: it cordial or whatever. I understand it can get complicated.

489
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: But with that, but like the fact that you wouldn't

490
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 1: learn it sign language is crazy. If anything, do it

491
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 1: for the husband, if anything exactly, He said that even

492
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 1: my father's offer to pay for classes, but she says

493
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 1: she doesn't have the time. We asked him if he

494
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,920
Speaker 1: noticed any other behavior of that kind, and he said

495
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: that stepmother doesn't let him take care of our younger brother,

496
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 1: which she also does with me. But curiously, she does

497
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 1: let our sister take care of him. So I don't

498
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 1: understand that part, other than that she's never treated him

499
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 1: badly or anything like that. At the time of telling

500
00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 1: my sister, she was the most hard. She cried, especially

501
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: because of stepmother's comments towards me, calling me an or

502
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 1: It's kind of ironic how the comments towards her affected

503
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 1: me and the comments towards me affected her. Ah, they're both.

504
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: You know, they feel for each other. They're more concerned

505
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: about the other person, which is sweet. Something that my

506
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 1: sister noticed that I didn't is that almost all of

507
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:23,639
Speaker 1: stepmother's comments are criticizing me, my sister, and even my mother.

508
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 1: But for my brother, she only criticized the sleepovers or

509
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 1: when he comes back late from being with friends. She

510
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 1: also criticized me and my sister's clothes, made up things

511
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 1: about my life. Confess that she hates it when we

512
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 1: hug our father. Ugh says we're too clingy. She talked

513
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 1: badly about my mother, et cetera.

514
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 2: It all comes back to jealousy and all to her

515
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,480
Speaker 2: saying that it's weird that you and your father are

516
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 2: physically affectionate. It's all this weird misplaced jealousy towards familial relationships.

517
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: And maybe do I, Sophia, do I sense a whiff

518
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,120
Speaker 1: of some internalized misogyny?

519
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 2: As do I believe there is a dash of internalized misogyny.

520
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: In essence, if you will, my goodness. My sister said

521
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: it's sexist. What can we say, we're professionals, And maybe

522
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: she's got some mental problems, which Loki she absolutely might.

523
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: My sister said she always believes Stepmother didn't really hear her,

524
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: and she maybe wasn't speaking well and didn't understand. My

525
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: sister's greatest pride is being able to pronounce some words,

526
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 1: no matter how short they are or if they sound

527
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 1: like noise to some other people. We understand her, but

528
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 1: stepmother made her feel insecure every time she ignored her.

529
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 2: I hate this one.

530
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 1: Throw this woman into the ort cloud, into the ort cloud.

531
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: What's where's the ort cloud from? Is that from like

532
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 1: something or sciencey? It's science y, it's science.

533
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, so of level of moved heres. So we have

534
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 2: we have the moon, which is like, that's like you know,

535
00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 2: the interim, think about it, maybe they'll come back, do

536
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 2: a little return. Then we have the Sun, which is

537
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 2: like we want you to burn to a crisp. And

538
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,959
Speaker 2: then the ord cloud, which is like you have to

539
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 2: stay and think about your actions forever and you're stuck

540
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 2: in darkness. Ah, and then we have a black hole,

541
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,640
Speaker 2: which is where you turn into a spaghetti.

542
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: I love it, I absolutely love it. I'm here for it,

543
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: and you don't exist. Could we somehow give them the

544
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 1: step mom, all of them? Yeah, that would make respect back.

545
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 1: I know that my sister justified that by believing that

546
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,919
Speaker 1: it was her mistake and that my stepmother made an

547
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: effort to learn, but it was simply more difficult for her.

548
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:36,679
Speaker 1: But now we know that no, she was never interested

549
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 1: in learning. I'm getting mad again as I write this. Sorry.

550
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 1: My mother said that she was going to talk to

551
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 1: both of them, mainly because even though it's anonymous site,

552
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: stepmother's way of expressing herself is sick, and she's not

553
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 1: going to let my siblings be around someone like that.

554
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 2: Yes, put your foot down, mama.

555
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 1: Great point. What a negative household to Yeah, be like

556
00:27:56,400 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 1: living in Yeah. Oh, but she's venting being a stepmm lonely.

557
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: I've received comments like that, it's not the same to

558
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 1: say I feel lonely and stressed than to say my

559
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 1: stepdaughter behaves like a salute.

560
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is different.

561
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 1: Completely different. Just because me and my minor sister use

562
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: a bikini for the pool, that's that's.

563
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 2: What you use in the pool.

564
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 3: No, you gotta wear a T shirt, one piece and

565
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 3: probably like those skirts that go down to your ankles.

566
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: Why are you not wrapped in a down blanket right now?

567
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: Why are you not? Yeah, just just just just wrap

568
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: yourself up in cloth like like like alf like, mummify yourself,

569
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: be a mummy, or get out of my face, get

570
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 1: out of the pool, be a mummy, or I'm not

571
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 1: your mummy.

572
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 2: And there you have it.

573
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 1: There you have it, folks, that's it. Face clothes. Let's

574
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: we can walk away right now with lies, with complaints

575
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: we never even heard before. It's all just so messed up.

576
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: We've arranged that we're going to tell our father all

577
00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: together and show him everything. So we're probably gonna tell

578
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: him tomorrow because I need to leave to the academy

579
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: on Monday, which now I kind of like the like

580
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: tell everyone else and then.

581
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I guess it worked out that way.

582
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: I guess it worked out. There's multiple multiple good part.

583
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: My stepmother's count is not deleted. It's crazy how she

584
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 1: makes things up to get approval from strangers. At this point,

585
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 1: I don't even know if she's crazy or a myth

586
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: omaniac mytho. Yeah, I was about to say, I haven't

587
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: loved to tell like a myth my maniac and on

588
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 1: all these myths.

589
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 3: Myth manimag referred to someone who was obsessed or with

590
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 3: or passionate about myths, before it was applied to individuals

591
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 3: affected with or exhibiting mythomania.

592
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 2: Excessive or abnormal propensity for lying and exaggerating.

593
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 3: Okay, you want to produce. You want to come back

594
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 3: here and produce?

595
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 2: I comment, Okay, okay, geez, maybe I knew that off

596
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 2: the top of my head.

597
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 3: No, you, I saw you look down at your phone.

598
00:29:58,880 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

599
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 2: I was texting, sure, sure, sure, sitting it. I was

600
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 2: sending it. I was sending a text.

601
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: Jew was texting a missilemedia.

602
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 2: What's the different?

603
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: What do you?

604
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 2: What's the thing you have where you lie a bunch?

605
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 3: Anyways, that's what it is.

606
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 2: Prince Ssxes Holy app As the husband, I would be

607
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 2: ducking pissed you implied I would want to f my

608
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 2: child weirdo.

609
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, crack right.

610
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 3: John's shoven nuts in his mouth, Yeah, as he loves

611
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 3: to do.

612
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 2: Sanita Thomas says there's no way the husband can stay

613
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 2: with her if he sees this. She's called him a

614
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 2: pdfile pretty much, call this children stupid and oars. And

615
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 2: he married her. Yeah, that's the thing. It's like not

616
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 2: even the word. I think if they went to him,

617
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 2: they're like, not only is he treating you know us bad,

618
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 2: your kids, but also she's accusing you of things too,

619
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 2: which is the real kicker. The amount of insecurity is crazy,

620
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 2: so true.

621
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 3: Are we gonna read what's happening?

622
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: We're gonna read. I'm sorry, I just like needed a

623
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 1: few fistfuls of nuts in my mouth.

624
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 3: Well you can do that on your own time.

625
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. So I would like to go back to

626
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: her email since the passwords saved, but I don't know

627
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: if you will receive a notification of that because this

628
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 1: time I closed the account, closed her account or closed.

629
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: We're not sure, but we do have yet another update.

630
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 1: We're about halfway through and we're just gonna keep going.

631
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 1: I go for it. We're gonna get after it. So

632
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 1: oh and this is like I think A day later