1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: Welcome to How the Money. I'm Joel and I am 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: Matt and today we're talking about becoming a financial Samurai 3 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: with Sam Dogan. That's right, Sam Dogan. He is the 4 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 1: founder of Financial Samurai, which you probably had heard of, uh, 5 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 1: and he is joining us today. Sam was one of 6 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: the pioneers of fire back when he started writing at 7 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:40,840 Speaker 1: Financial Samurai over ten years ago. He retired at age 8 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: thirty four after a career at Goldman Sachs. But then 9 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: actually he came out of retirement because retired life was 10 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: a little too boring for him. But he has written 11 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:52,160 Speaker 1: over twenty articles at his site and now his new 12 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: book By This Not That it's about to be released 13 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: very soon, which is an excellent guide on how you 14 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: can optimies you your money to build wealth and live 15 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,680 Speaker 1: life on your own terms. And yeah, I'm looking forward 16 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: to talking about financial independence, about maximizing your earning potential, 17 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: engineering a layoff. That's something that he that we're gonna 18 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: get to. We're excited to talk about all of that 19 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: and more today. And by the way, we're gonna give 20 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 1: away several copies of Sam's book By This Not That, uh, 21 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 1: And so stick around to the end of the episode 22 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: to learn how you can enter to win one of 23 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: those copies. But Sam, thank you so much for joining 24 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 1: us today. Hey guys, thanks so much for having me Sam. 25 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: We're pumped to talk to you man. And the first 26 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: question we ask everyone out of the gate is what 27 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 1: their craft beer equivalent is. And that's because Matt and 28 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: I love craft beer. We spent a lot of money 29 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: on it while we're trying to be good with our money, 30 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 1: save and invest for the future. So, yeah, do you 31 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: have something like a craft beer equivalent in your life? Yeah? 32 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: So craft beer equivalent would be chlorine tablets or chlorine granules. 33 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: You know what that is for It sounds like the 34 00:01:56,040 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: opposite of a splur sounds I am very confus used. 35 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: I cannot wait to keep these are all about. Yeah, 36 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: there you go. So I get a bottle of chlorine 37 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: granular tablets once every three weeks maybe, and I dump 38 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: them into my hot tub every other day to keep 39 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: the water clear and clean. So that is the absolute 40 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 1: best splurge I've ever spent. This was six years ago. 41 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: I spent fifteen dollars to buy hot tub, set up 42 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 1: the level cement platforms, set up the electronics, and then 43 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: just go with it. So that is my splurge. How 44 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: often are you using that hot tub? So I go 45 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: about three times a week, and then since the pandemic started, 46 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: I've been going about four or five times a week, 47 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: and it's been a great outlet for my son. And 48 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: I had a bond because the hot tub is actually 49 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 1: at a rental property, but half of the rental property 50 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,919 Speaker 1: is open, and so it's kind of like our sanctuary, 51 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: our escape. Oh so it's like, Okay, I see what 52 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 1: you did here. This is an investment. You got to 53 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 1: run off those expenses. It's definitely an investment and there yea. 54 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 1: Hey that's important man. Okay, So Joe, you gonna gonna 55 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 1: pull the trigger. Joel always talks about getting a hot 56 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:12,639 Speaker 1: tub like pool my kids love. Just two years ago, 57 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 1: you thought about getting one of the inflatable hot tubs. 58 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: I tried on Black Friday, Sam, there was one of 59 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 1: those inflatable hot tubs on Walmart site for like, listen, 60 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: two hundred bucks. But I'm a little hopped on at 61 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 1: seven PM when it was supposed to be on sale 62 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: and it was sold out to jerk the rug out 63 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: from money, Yeah exactly, Yeah, I was bumped but maybe 64 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: I need to like go all out and get one 65 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: of those nice ones, like Sam Scott, you gotta get out, 66 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,399 Speaker 1: you gotta go big and get the hardwired hot tub 67 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: with the twenty jets whatever. That is so worth it. Okay, 68 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: Well if I if I proceed, I'm gonna reach out 69 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: to you for with some questions to get you that 70 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: Cadillac of hot tubs. Sam. So you first started writing 71 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: about financial independence, I feel like before it was even cool, uh, 72 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: way back in the day. What is it that inspired 73 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: you to pursue that that lifestyle and to start documenting 74 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: it all way back in two thousand nine. Yeah, So, 75 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: I started working at Goldman sax In and they required 76 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 1: me to get into the office at five thirty in 77 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: the morning. And it wasn't just getting in a five thirty. 78 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: I had to stay back beyond seven pm every night 79 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: to connect with Asia because the Asian markets were opening. 80 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,239 Speaker 1: And so I knew right then and there in after 81 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: one month, I couldn't last, you know, for hopefully until 82 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: I was aged forty. I like, beyond that, there was 83 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 1: just no way to have a multi decade career in finance. 84 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: And I mean, you know, I gained weight, I got sciatica. 85 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 1: You know, I was just always stressed, and so I decided, 86 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna try to invest and save 87 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: as much as possible the first month from work so 88 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 1: that one day I could escape. And so in two 89 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 1: thousand and nine, July is when I started financial Samurai, 90 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,159 Speaker 1: because I had been putting it off since two thousand 91 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: and six after I graduated from business school part time. 92 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 1: And July two tho nine was the bottom of the 93 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 1: global financial crisis, and I lost thirty five pc of 94 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: my net worth in six months. That's you know, that 95 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,479 Speaker 1: took ten years to build. And I just felt like 96 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: a dummy, and I felt, you know what, there's gotta 97 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: be a better way to get out of this. And 98 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 1: writing was Mike Catharsis, Okay, So yeah, it was like 99 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 1: partly Catharsis, part documentation, and I, I just I'm curious 100 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:21,159 Speaker 1: to seeing your network dropped by something like other people 101 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: in like today's market might be feeling something like you 102 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: were feeling back then. They might have seen, you know, 103 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: their their their stock market holdings dropped by if if 104 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 1: they're heavily exposed to crypto, potentially more so, Yeah, how 105 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: would you how would you talk to talk people through 106 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: maybe an experience like this. Since you've kind of dealt 107 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:42,679 Speaker 1: with it firsthand and have recovered handsomely well, the important 108 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: thing to do is learn from your experience. So investing 109 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: is a long term game. It's a psychological mind vendor. 110 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:54,559 Speaker 1: The person who lasts the longest and is the most 111 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 1: calm usually wins because over time, right you see stocks 112 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: go up ten percent a year, real estate is up 113 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 1: unlevered about three to four and a half percent a 114 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: year just on average, So you know that over a 115 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 1: ten twenty year period, you're probably gonna be fine. It's 116 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: the people who wig out and just sell and just 117 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 1: get out of things when things are crashing that generally 118 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 1: end up regretting it over time. So the key right now, 119 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: let's say in two you're down huge on your investments, 120 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: is to understand what your risk tolerance is. And it's 121 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: a wake up call. If you feel bad right now, 122 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: horrible that you're losing whatever you're losing, then it's probably 123 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: because your risks exposure is too high and you have 124 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 1: to adjust that downwards. So over the two thousand dot 125 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: Com bomb, the two thousand and eight two thousand and 126 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: nine financial crisis, I've been able to hone my net 127 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: worth asset allocation to match my risk tolerance. And everybody's 128 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 1: risk tolerance is different because everybody's goals and DNA are different, right, 129 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,039 Speaker 1: And so you've got to use this as an opportunity 130 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:58,359 Speaker 1: to figure out what your risk tolerance is and net 131 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: worth asset allocate apprope really yeah, So, Sam, you know 132 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: like you're focused in the new book. It it centers 133 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: around spending, and you say that like most folks, they 134 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: get told about the saving side of the equation, but 135 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: that we're often lost when it comes to knowing how 136 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: to actually spend our way to wealth. Can you explain 137 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: to to listeners what you mean by that? Right, So, 138 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: there's only so much you can save, but the income 139 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: side is unlimited. All the wealthiest people in the world 140 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 1: didn't get super wealthy by saving their way to wealth, 141 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: but by making more money, building more equity, building companies 142 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: and businesses. So it's really going from a defensive approach, 143 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: which I think should be a given saving budgeting, to 144 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: an offensive approach where you can get your vacuum money 145 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 1: vacuum cleaner and then just soak up as much money 146 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: as possible in the world. Because truly, there's trillions and 147 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: trillions of dollars for the taking, And it's a mindset 148 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: you have to say, I too deserve to be rich. 149 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: Why can't I stop up all this money as well? 150 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: So it's really about thinking on the offense rather than 151 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: the defense. Yeah, well, you talk about the root of 152 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: inaction in your book and you say that, like that 153 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 1: part of the reason so many of us don't take 154 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: action when it comes to investing is because we desire 155 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: absolute certainty. So in your mind, for folks who are 156 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: like I would love to invest, it just feels a 157 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: little risky. How how can we overcome maybe that tendency 158 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: that so many of us have towards inaction, towards really 159 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: kind of standing pat right. So it's important to realize 160 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: that the fear in your head is often worse than 161 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:41,719 Speaker 1: the reality. And the other point to know is it's 162 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: important to think in probabilities, not absolutes. So what do 163 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 1: I mean by that? When you think in absolutes you 164 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: short change yourself. You think you need a hun certainty 165 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: to go ask out that girl or boy, You need 166 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 1: a hun certainty to apply for that job or bid 167 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 1: on that house before proceed And what a shame because 168 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: you will likely miss out on so many opportunities. So instead, 169 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: I encourage you to think in probabilities using a seventy 170 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 1: thirty decision making framework. And this decision making framework can 171 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: be used for investing, for having children, for doing a 172 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 1: lot of tackling a lot of life's biggest dilemmas. And 173 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:22,559 Speaker 1: the Frameworkers says, if you believe there's a seventy percent 174 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: probability or better that you will make the right choice, 175 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: you go for it while having the humility in knowing 176 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: that thirty percent of the time you're gonna make the 177 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: wrong choice, but that's okay because you're gonna learn from 178 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: that choice and make better decisions going forward, right. I mean, 179 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:40,680 Speaker 1: I guess the problem there, though, is that it's difficult 180 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: to determine when you are kind of crossing that seventy 181 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,959 Speaker 1: percent threshold, right, and so so much of this, I 182 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 1: mean it kind of comes down to you as an 183 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 1: individual to kind of weigh the risk to kind of 184 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 1: determined to figure out on your own that like, Okay, 185 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: you know this, this feels like something that's seventy I 186 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: think that's the pushback. I think a lot of folks 187 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: might say that why. I get that theoretically, I get 188 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 1: that as a principle, but in practice I think that 189 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 1: can be difficult, right, right, So there's two ways to 190 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 1: approach this um. One is by making calculations. Making calculations 191 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 1: for everything, whether it's from the NBA Finals who's gonna 192 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: win by how many games? To who's gonna win the 193 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: Dog Show, to how long that marriage is going to last, 194 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: to whether you're going to get into that incubator for 195 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: your startup and so forth. And what you do is you, 196 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 1: before something happens, you make a prediction, and then you 197 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 1: write down why you think it's gonna happen that way, 198 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: and then sooner or later you're gonna find out the result. 199 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: And then you do a post mortem and try to 200 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 1: analyze why things didn't go the way it did or 201 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: why it did go. But are you sure it went 202 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:48,599 Speaker 1: the way it did because of those reasons you highlighted 203 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: or big as is something else? You don't want to 204 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 1: be delusional in your thought. So this takes experience and practice, 205 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 1: really intentional practice. And that's something that I learned on 206 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: the trading for working for a couple of Wall Street 207 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 1: firms for thirteen years. You really need to make some 208 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 1: probability estimates. The other way to get around this to 209 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 1: overcome your fear is to listen and to read from 210 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: people who have been there before. And so that's the 211 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: whole point behind by this, not that how to spend 212 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: your way to wealth and freedom. Not only is it 213 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: a book about helping you achieve financial freedom in a 214 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 1: risk appropriate way, it also tackles some of life's biggest dilemmas. 215 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:27,439 Speaker 1: You know, things such as should you marry for money 216 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: or marry for love, Should you live in an expensive 217 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 1: city um for the greater career potential, or should you 218 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 1: relocate to a lower cost area, should you have kids 219 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 1: later or younger? So all of these big dilemmas are 220 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: approached using the seventy framework in my book. Yeah, I 221 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,199 Speaker 1: thought it was interesting that you said that people should 222 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: go to the anemic coal Smith route and always just 223 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 1: marry someone who's really rich and really old, and that's 224 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 1: what you're set for life, right exactly, And then then 225 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:59,839 Speaker 1: you just leap frog generations of hard work and struggles. 226 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 1: It's so simple, that's the real trick. Let other people 227 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 1: do the compounding for you, and then you just meet 228 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:06,559 Speaker 1: them there at the end. The easy button at the 229 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: easy button. Well one of the things too, you know, 230 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 1: you're talking about the probabilities, and I thought that was 231 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:14,079 Speaker 1: a great, great framework, But it's also important probably to 232 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 1: think about the potential negative consequences of something that you 233 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: could do. And when, for instance, when you're talking about 234 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 1: asking somebody out on a date, and like, how bad 235 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: is the negative potential consequence of being talked about? Uh? 236 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: And I had the distinctly remember when I was, you know, 237 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:35,199 Speaker 1: in my early twenties before I met my lovely wife, 238 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: trying and I was like so bad at asking girls out, 239 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: and I was like, finally, like what is the possible 240 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: worst possible outcome. I'm gonna feel like crap for maybe 241 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: twenty minutes and then I'll get over it. And so 242 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 1: it was one of those things where I just kind 243 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 1: of started with breathless abandoned to start asking people out 244 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: on dates and UH. And so that's another thing like 245 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 1: when you think about the worst possible outcome of not investing, man, 246 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 1: it is so severe that you better get started. But 247 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: when it comes to something else out the negative possibilities 248 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:06,959 Speaker 1: might be so infantestively small that you better just go 249 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: ahead and do it. Yeah, A lot of about financial 250 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: independence is about having the courage to change in sub 251 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: optimal situation. So one test to see if you are 252 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: truly financially independent is to see if you can change, 253 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:23,680 Speaker 1: to take action to change a bad situation. If you 254 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 1: feel you're financially independent, but you're still coming into or 255 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: getting oppressed by, you know, a terrible boss and doing 256 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 1: something you don't like, well you're probably not financially independent yet. 257 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: Well all that note about financial independence, I mean same, 258 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: can you talk about like the evolution of the fire 259 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: movement because you know, like folks who saved a huge 260 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 1: chunk of their income, like they existed before, you know, 261 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 1: the modern fire movement, but I feel that like you 262 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: kind of helped to bring it mainstream. Like what's your 263 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,600 Speaker 1: take on where the movement stands right now? Well, it's 264 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: really interesting. So in two thousand and nine, UM, when 265 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: I helped kickstart the modern day fire movement. The basic 266 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: definition of fire is if you have enough passive income 267 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:07,599 Speaker 1: or passive investment income to cover your basic living expenses, 268 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: then you're financially independent. So what I've noticed over time 269 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 1: is that definition of financial independence has changed, where there's 270 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 1: terms such as Coast Fire, Barista fire, Lean fire, and 271 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: all sorts of fire and what it is terminology has spread. Yeah, 272 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: I mean it's it's pretty interesting to watch. And what 273 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 1: it is is based off human psychology because it really 274 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 1: is hard to accumulates enough capital to generate that passive income. 275 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 1: It takes you know, ten twenty years, and a lot 276 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: of people just can't wait too long and they will 277 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: lose steam. So what has happened is instead of waiting 278 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 1: that long, people have created these new terminologies to help 279 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: fit where they are on their journey. Right. So for example, 280 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 1: if you say, let's say Barista fire is basically working 281 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 1: part time where you know, you get a job at 282 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 1: Starbucks and they provide healthcare helps supplement your chilled, chilled 283 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: out life. Uh. Coast Fire is is a is a 284 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: fascinating one where it talks about having enough retirement income 285 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 1: that if it compounds at the historical rate of return, 286 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 1: you'll eventually be living the good life in retirement. But 287 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: that's just defining what most people are doing right now 288 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: is just saving for retirement. So it's really a psychological 289 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 1: motivating tool to redefine what financial independence is for various 290 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 1: people so they can continue saving and investing for the future, right, 291 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 1: I mean, do you see that as a good thing, 292 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: because I mean I hear all these things that what 293 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: it does to me is it makes it sound a 294 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: little more inclusive, which in my mind, the more folks 295 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 1: you can kind of get on the boat, right even 296 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: though it's like, well you're not you're not totally there yet. Man, 297 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 1: you're still working a job or you're still clock in 298 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: thirty hours a week and benefits necessarily want to quit altogether, 299 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: which and so like, on one hand, I like I 300 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: kind of see it as almost like a like a 301 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 1: good thing because it gets folks on the boat that 302 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 1: they're they're thinking in that direction, even though they might 303 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 1: have years or even maybe decades of part time work 304 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: ahead of them. Yeah, I definitely think it's a good 305 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: thing to be more inclusive, because again, the journey is 306 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 1: very long and sometimes it can be very hard, and 307 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: it's easy to quit. I mean, how many of us 308 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: try to go on diets and then we just quit 309 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: after three months because we're like screw that, right, So 310 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: the more inclusive it can be to help people go 311 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 1: along on their journey, the better. It's just sometimes it 312 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 1: can give get a little bit funny where there's another 313 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: term called why WiFi so wife wife financial independence. In 314 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: other words, you know, so men, we men have really 315 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 1: fragile egos, and so when we leave our jobs and 316 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 1: we've become stay at home fathers, a lot of men, 317 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 1: it seems like, are not willing to say that they 318 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 1: are stay at home dad's. Instead they'll say they retired 319 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: early and while they have a working wife making good 320 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 1: money and providing for healthcare. So again it's that yeah, 321 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: so it's it's but you know I I I was 322 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: like for me, it's like more prior to you, whatever 323 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 1: you want to do to you know, help your situation, 324 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 1: whatever is best for your household. I think that's the 325 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: most important thing. And however you can frame it, that 326 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 1: means that you're going to be able to pursue it 327 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:18,080 Speaker 1: with the most vigor in a way that's sustainable for 328 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: for your life. Right right, All right, Sam, We've got 329 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:22,479 Speaker 1: more questions for you. Man. We want to specifically talk 330 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 1: more about fire. We want to talk about how real 331 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 1: estate can factor in to the financial independence lifestyle, and 332 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:30,479 Speaker 1: then we also want to talk about debt. You've got 333 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: kind of some interesting thoughts on that, so we'll get 334 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: to those questions right after this. Alright, well we are 335 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 1: back from the break. We're talking with Sam Dougan about 336 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 1: becoming a financial samurai. Angel. I know you're excited to 337 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 1: talk about real estate with Sam here in a second. 338 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 1: But uh, before we move on, Sam, let's let's talk 339 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:59,359 Speaker 1: about how you know that you've reached five How how 340 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 1: you know you once you reach financial independence or achieve 341 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:04,399 Speaker 1: some sort of sense of financial freedom. Because we know 342 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 1: you're not the biggest fan of the coming up with 343 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 1: five times your your annual expenses, how do you suggest 344 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 1: that folks think about what they'll need to have saved 345 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: up in order to hit that five mark? Right? So, 346 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: the times expenses is fine. It's based off the inverse 347 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,119 Speaker 1: of the four percent rule, which was started in the 348 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:26,959 Speaker 1: ninety nineties, when you can get a risk free return 349 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 1: of five to six percent from a ten year bond yield. So, 350 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,439 Speaker 1: in other words, of course you can withdraw at a 351 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 1: four percent rate because you were getting a risk free 352 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: return of five to six percent. But obviously times have 353 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,159 Speaker 1: changed over the past thirty years, and so should we. 354 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 1: In my mind, it's more important to base your financial 355 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 1: independence number based on a multiple of your gross annual income, 356 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 1: not your expenses. And why is that because when you 357 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: base it off your expenses, there's a propensity to cheat. Right, 358 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 1: So let's say expenses are a hundred thousand dollars and 359 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 1: you want to do twenty five times to get to 360 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 1: financial independence. That's two point five million. But let's say 361 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:11,399 Speaker 1: you're just tired of it all and it's just you 362 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 1: want to just get out quicker, so you just say, well, 363 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do lower my expenses to fifty thousand dollars 364 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 1: a year. So based on twenty five times, you know 365 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: you only need to generate what one point to five million. 366 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: So with the multiple based on income, you can't cheat. 367 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 1: And many of us who are pursuing this, you know, 368 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 1: obviously by definition, are younger, right forty, And if we 369 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 1: base a multiple by income, as your income grows, as 370 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 1: most people's income will grow over time, you have to 371 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 1: force yourself to save and invest more, there's no cheating. 372 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 1: And so the ultimate number that I've come up with 373 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,959 Speaker 1: is twenty times your annual gross income, which is a 374 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,440 Speaker 1: huge number, and I know some people will get married 375 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 1: very mad at that. But the idea is to change 376 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:58,639 Speaker 1: your mindset again from defense to offense, and once you 377 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 1: get to about ten times your growth annual income, that's 378 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:05,439 Speaker 1: really when you feel like you're you're on a great 379 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:09,640 Speaker 1: path of financial independence. So it is a stratus. Do 380 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 1: you do you think that number and kind of that 381 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:14,680 Speaker 1: mindset is because you're probably more in like the fat 382 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 1: fire camp talking about different fire terminology. Maybe because yeah, 383 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 1: you're you're less. You're not looking forward to that Barista 384 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: fire lifestyle. That's not that's not your jam. So do 385 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:26,199 Speaker 1: you think that's maybe part of why you kind of 386 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:29,439 Speaker 1: come up with with that methodology. It might be, But 387 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 1: the good thing about multiples is that it works whatever 388 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 1: the absolute dollar amount is. And so again it's back 389 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 1: to the philosophy of focusing on income and growth and 390 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 1: less so much about budgeting and saving. We should all 391 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: be budgeting and saving, but this is like a standard 392 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 1: operating procedure that should be a default setting. Really, you know, 393 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: it's just changing that mindset to a number based on income. 394 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 1: And I think that's very consistent with my whole philosophy 395 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:59,440 Speaker 1: of the book. Okay and okay, so when it comes 396 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: to real estate, want to talk about real estate? Matt 397 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,399 Speaker 1: and I we talk about real estate A decent amount 398 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: on the show, we're both you know, small time mom 399 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:08,200 Speaker 1: and pop landlords here in Atlanta have a small stable 400 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 1: rental properties, and we are we think it's something that 401 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 1: more people should consider, and we're constantly like you know, 402 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: pushing people, hopefully gently in that direction. But um, yeah, 403 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 1: how does real estate factor into the wealth building journey 404 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,400 Speaker 1: for you? Because it could be you know, a bit 405 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,920 Speaker 1: daunting for some folks to think about buying a single 406 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: family home or a duplex renting it out and and 407 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 1: you know that's kind of a part time job in 408 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 1: addition to your day job. Maybe, So yeah, what are 409 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 1: your favorite ways for folks to have some real estate exposure? 410 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 1: So my absolute favorite way to build a rental property 411 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 1: portfolio to generate passive income is to buy your primary residents, 412 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 1: get neutral real estates. You're going up and down with 413 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:47,879 Speaker 1: the market, living it for three to five years, maybe longer, 414 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 1: rent out that property by another property, living it for 415 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 1: three to five years, maybe longer rented out, and over 416 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: a forty year career post high school to college, you 417 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:03,439 Speaker 1: can easily build a three to four rental property portfolio 418 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: which will most likely pay for all your living expenses 419 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,359 Speaker 1: by the time you know you're fifty or sixty, and 420 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,479 Speaker 1: so that's the easiest way to do it. Another easy 421 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,640 Speaker 1: way to do it is obviously to buy public rates 422 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 1: or invest in private real estate funds. UH. You don't 423 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 1: need to borrow money. You can just invest as it 424 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 1: is to gain that exposure as you're building your down 425 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 1: payment for your primary residence or your rental property portfolio. 426 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 1: For me, real estate accounts for about of my net worth, 427 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 1: excluding the value of my online business. And the reason 428 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:41,639 Speaker 1: why it's so high, whereas stocks it's only about is 429 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 1: because I'm focused on generating cash flow so I don't 430 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 1: have to go back to work, and real estate is 431 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 1: something that's more stable generates higher yields. You are the 432 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,959 Speaker 1: king or the queen of your asset. You can do 433 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 1: things to improve the asset, not only just remodeling and expanding, 434 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,959 Speaker 1: but hustling harder to find better tenants to pay you 435 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,120 Speaker 1: a closer to market rate. So it's a much more 436 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 1: stable and attractive way to go to generate income, especially 437 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 1: with the higher yields compared to stock divd and yields. 438 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 1: Because you don't wake up one day and see your 439 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:18,159 Speaker 1: property down thirty You just continue to you know, collect 440 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 1: that rental income where it's with stocks crypto, it's like, man, 441 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:27,360 Speaker 1: you know, look at the tech stocks they're down. Sure, yeah, 442 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:29,920 Speaker 1: well I guess the biggest downside right too. I mean, 443 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: and we think people should save up. We encourage people 444 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 1: to do. This is kind of the nest egg that 445 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: you have to have on hand for a down payment 446 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 1: to buy that house. And um, and we want people 447 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 1: to challenge themselves to save more for a bigger down payment. 448 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,240 Speaker 1: But that that for a lot of people. That's why 449 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 1: maybe people might go in the direction of real estate 450 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:51,160 Speaker 1: investment trust a publicly traded reats instead of a single 451 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,679 Speaker 1: family home or a multi family home, right just because 452 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 1: just because it's more accessible, right, and so it's important. 453 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: So it is daunting to come up with a ten 454 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: or twenty or thirty percent down pay and on the 455 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 1: value of the home. Right now, the median price in 456 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 1: America is like four four and fifty thousands, so you're 457 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:09,879 Speaker 1: talking eighty to nine dollars. But it's all about perspective too, 458 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 1: because the first time home buyer in America is in 459 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 1: their early thirties, let's say two to thirty four. So yeah, 460 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 1: you know, when you're twenty two or twenty. Yeah, you're 461 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 1: you don't get that money usually, right, But it's about perspective. 462 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,360 Speaker 1: So the average is, let's say thirty four first time 463 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 1: home buyer. Just try to beat the average. Maybe you 464 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 1: can get long by age thirty, thirty one or eight. 465 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 1: It's all about being understanding where other people are in 466 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 1: general with your age group. The one other thing about 467 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,919 Speaker 1: the down payment is, and I talked about this in 468 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 1: the book, it's about, um, how do you access to 469 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: the bank of Mom and Dad as well? So here 470 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 1: in San Francisco, of homes we're purchased in cash and 471 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 1: something like first time home buyers had the help of 472 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 1: bank of Mom and Dad and in the past, right, 473 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 1: like if you if you just bought a property on 474 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,879 Speaker 1: your own, you probably poopoo the people who leveraged the 475 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 1: bank of Mom and Dad. And that was me too, 476 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,120 Speaker 1: I was. I was. And it's barely because I don't 477 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 1: even have access to that. So yeah, exactly, Yeah, I'm 478 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: like jealous. I'm like, you know, scool, you I had 479 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,399 Speaker 1: to I had to cut myself to save this. You know, 480 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 1: I'm just jealous. Basically, you're just jealous, right, I was 481 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,160 Speaker 1: just jealous. But if you think about it if your 482 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 1: parents are you know, fifties sixty seventy, they've been able 483 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 1: to save and invest so much and take advantage of 484 00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 1: the massive bull market we've had. And as a parent now, 485 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 1: I totally understand why every parent you know I love 486 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: their child and why they want everything to be best 487 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 1: for their child. And if you're a responsible parent who 488 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 1: has saved invested over the past thirty to forty years, 489 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,399 Speaker 1: you're probably going to die with too much money, and 490 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 1: so it's probably better to help your children and loved 491 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 1: ones while you're still alive then after you're dead, because 492 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 1: after you're dead, you know your children might be fifty 493 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 1: plus years old. So what's the point of that, right. 494 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 1: I completely agree with that philosophy, and I think, yeah, 495 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 1: there are way too many people hoping to leave some 496 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 1: sort of massive inheritance when they would be using it 497 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 1: in here now to help their kids and uh and 498 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 1: get to actually experience the joy on their kids faces 499 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,399 Speaker 1: as were able to maybe buy a house that they 500 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 1: otherwise wouldn't have been able to. I mean and and yes, 501 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 1: I totally believe that as a parent, um. And the 502 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 1: key is obviously not to brag about it. If you're 503 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 1: receiving all this help from bank of mom and dad. 504 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 1: You know, it's to be humble, it's to be low key, 505 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 1: it's to be set helf, and to actually pay your 506 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,719 Speaker 1: parents back to It's just even if they don't need 507 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 1: the money, I'm sure they'll feel even more great that. Wow, 508 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,479 Speaker 1: you know, my kids are such responsible individuals that they 509 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 1: want to pay me back. Yeah. Well, when it comes 510 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,439 Speaker 1: to taking out a mortgage, it's interesting because you've been 511 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,959 Speaker 1: a proponent of adjustable rate mortgages, where the interest rate right, 512 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:43,880 Speaker 1: it can move around after a set period of time. 513 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 1: So I guess I'm curious because interest rates have been 514 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 1: on the rise lately, so people with adjustable rate mortgages 515 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 1: might be shaking in their boots a little bit. How 516 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,640 Speaker 1: do you feel about those those products right now? Yeah, 517 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,679 Speaker 1: So I love this debate. I love this debate, and 518 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 1: I've been encouraging people to take out adjustable rate mortgages 519 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 1: since I started in two thousand and nine. And the 520 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 1: reason why is because of perspective. First of all, interest 521 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: rates have been coming down since the late nineteen eighties. 522 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,360 Speaker 1: Literally it's been a forty year decline. And why is that. 523 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:21,120 Speaker 1: It's because the world has gotten smaller. The federal reserve 524 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 1: boards around the country, central banks around the country have 525 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 1: become tighter, they've become more coordinated, and we better, We've 526 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:32,400 Speaker 1: been able to better manufacture inflation. Further, with a smaller world, 527 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:38,119 Speaker 1: you have input costs that have come down. Right, So China, India, Vietnam, 528 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 1: they're creating goods, They're creating goods and exporting it to 529 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 1: more developed countries and lowering the cost of goods. Right, 530 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: And this is all you're going to continue over time. Now, 531 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 1: sure you we're gonna have um, you know, short term 532 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:55,920 Speaker 1: spikes in inflation and therefore interest rates as we are 533 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 1: experiencing right now. But right now is a special situation. 534 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 1: You know, we've at war in Ukraine. Who would have thought, 535 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 1: you know, Russia would have invade Ukraine. We had COVID 536 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,160 Speaker 1: pandemic which hopefully is not going to last for more 537 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 1: than five years. And we've had massive, massive amount of stimulus, 538 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:14,439 Speaker 1: which obviously percolates through the system. But think about it, 539 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: if you are an arm holder, you're basically borrowing money 540 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,360 Speaker 1: at the shorter end of the yield curve. And when 541 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:22,119 Speaker 1: you borrow at the shorter end of the yield curve, 542 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 1: the interest rate is lower. So the spread between let's 543 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,640 Speaker 1: say an average thirty year fixed rate mortgage and let's 544 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,480 Speaker 1: say a seven one ARM might be like one and 545 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:34,639 Speaker 1: a half percent. So for seven years during that fixed 546 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 1: rate period, you're saving one and a half percent in 547 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 1: terms of interest cost for a year. So you're only 548 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:46,800 Speaker 1: going to start losing seven years later after if the 549 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,640 Speaker 1: thirty year fixed rate mortgage or a new rate mortgage 550 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,719 Speaker 1: is one and a half percent or higher. So, in 551 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 1: other words, let's say you did get an ARM, I'll 552 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 1: just use my example. I got a seven one ARM 553 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 1: at two point one two five because I bought another home. Then, right, 554 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,479 Speaker 1: so am I quaking in my boots? I'm not quaking 555 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 1: in my boots because it doesn't reset until and if 556 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 1: it does reset, there's a limit to how much it 557 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 1: can reset. It's not like endless reset, right, It's like 558 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 1: two or three percent limit, and then it only resets 559 00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 1: at a limit a year after that. However, it's in 560 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 1: my opinion that inflation will ultimately moderate and therefore in 561 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 1: st right, So I could easily see a scenario by 562 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 1: three where inflation starts moderating because there's demand destruction. Right, 563 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: The higher prices go the less demand comes, and if 564 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 1: inflation starts rolling over, let's say in August, there's going 565 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 1: to be a decline in the bond yields and there's 566 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: gonna be a client in mortgage rates, and you're right 567 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 1: back to long term forty year trend. And here's the 568 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 1: other thing, And sorry for blabbing around so much, but 569 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 1: it's interesting. This is good. But the average person, the 570 00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 1: median home ownership duration was about at four and a 571 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,120 Speaker 1: half years before the financial crisis in two thousand and 572 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 1: eight two thousand nine. Today, the average homeownership duration is 573 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,920 Speaker 1: closer to ten and a half eleven years. Okay, so 574 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 1: it doesn't make sense to take out a thirty year 575 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 1: fixed rate mortgage and pay a higher rate if you're 576 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 1: only going to hold your property for ten or eleven years, 577 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 1: or hold onto that mortgage for ten or eleven years. Instead, 578 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:26,560 Speaker 1: it's a much more optimal financial decision to match your 579 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 1: fixed rate duration to the length of ownership of your home. 580 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 1: So if it's ten years you plan to own it 581 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 1: before you sell it or pay off the mortgage, then 582 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 1: you should match it with a ten one arm. This 583 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 1: is something I've kind of come around on because I 584 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 1: used to be like, oh no, no no, you've got to 585 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 1: do the fifteen year fix. You got to do the 586 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 1: thirty year fixed. But that, like you said, that assumes 587 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 1: that you're gonna be there for the next fifteen years, 588 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 1: in the next thirty years. And one thing I've realized 589 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 1: is that folks they like to move. There are opportunities 590 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 1: that draw them to different cities or two different parts 591 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 1: of the country, or to close closer to family for 592 00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 1: just a desire for a big your or different house. 593 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:05,520 Speaker 1: Life changes. I mean, your your wealth now will be 594 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 1: different from your wealth twenty years from now or thirty 595 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: years from now. To be able to match your flexibility 596 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 1: is actually much smarter and so and but the reality 597 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 1: is ninety plus percent of mortgages are thirty or fixed mortgages. 598 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 1: It's something like five to our arms. And and I 599 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 1: get a lot of pushback from that. But if you 600 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 1: live your life and you observe other people living their lives, 601 00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 1: you will notice change in their their homes over time. 602 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,959 Speaker 1: And you just have to do the math. If you 603 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 1: ever have doubt, just run the scenarios on the break 604 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 1: even point. Because I'm I'm very happy, i I'm holding 605 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 1: an arm and The other thing is you're not stuck, right, Like, 606 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 1: let's say when my arm resets in two thousand seven, 607 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 1: I'm assuming I will have some more cash. I can 608 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 1: pay down principle when at a time comes so that 609 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,280 Speaker 1: my payment is lower, or I could sell the property. 610 00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:56,080 Speaker 1: I can do a lot of other things. So I 611 00:31:56,120 --> 00:32:00,080 Speaker 1: think the optionality of paying less and having flexibility it 612 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 1: is very valuable. That's true. Yeah, So let' let's talk 613 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 1: about a different kind of debt, Sam, because you say 614 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 1: that most of us get into debt because we want 615 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 1: to live a lifestyle that we don't deserve. So can 616 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 1: you explain what you mean by this? And how does 617 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 1: debt factor into someone's ability to achieve financial independence? Yeah, 618 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,320 Speaker 1: if you think about how we consumed and purchased goods 619 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,280 Speaker 1: hundreds of years ago, just a hundred years ago, we 620 00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 1: pay mostly cash because the debt markets weren't built out yet. 621 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 1: But very smart and wise people have been able to 622 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 1: recognize that we're greedy. We want things now, and we 623 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: don't want to you know, we want to go straight 624 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 1: to the corner office without putting in our dues. And 625 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 1: that's just human nature, right. So we've created credit cards, 626 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 1: pay day loans by now pay later to get people 627 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 1: to get what they want what without having to be 628 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,479 Speaker 1: able to afford, you know, whatever they want in full value. 629 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,480 Speaker 1: And so I think getting into debt is something that 630 00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 1: UM people really need to get out of, especially it's 631 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 1: consumer debt. If you have credit card debt, revolving credit 632 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 1: card debt, the average illustrated something like SEV which is 633 00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 1: seven to eight percent higher than the average SMP five 634 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 1: return over since and it is also higher than the 635 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,240 Speaker 1: average return UH. The illustraus Warren Buffett has been able 636 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 1: to generate in his career and he's one of the 637 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 1: top ten richest people in the world. And so if 638 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 1: you have this revolving credit card debt or consumer debt 639 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,719 Speaker 1: and you're buying things that don't have a chance of 640 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 1: appreciating and value, I think you're doing yourself a disservice. 641 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 1: So you have to ask yourself how much do you 642 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 1: really want and you want to do you want to 643 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 1: get rich or do you want to make the lender 644 00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,600 Speaker 1: yet rich. That's the mindset. And the other thing UM 645 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 1: I think you're asking about is you know, debt and investing. 646 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 1: So many of us have debt, but we also want 647 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,720 Speaker 1: to invest. So I have a framework called the financial 648 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:58,160 Speaker 1: Samurai debt and investment ratio, which basically states, if you 649 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 1: have debt and you also want to invest, you should 650 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 1: use that debt interest rate as a barometer for what 651 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,239 Speaker 1: percentage of your monthly cash flo you're going to use 652 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 1: to pay down that debt. So, in other words, if 653 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:13,160 Speaker 1: you have debt at seven, you multiply that by ten 654 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:17,239 Speaker 1: to get seventy, so you would take sevent of your 655 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:21,680 Speaker 1: monthly cash flow to pay down debt and then to invest. 656 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,399 Speaker 1: So this way you're always winning and you're always hedged. Now, 657 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 1: after ten percent, which is also the SPI historical average return, 658 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 1: you would allocate one of your casual to paying off 659 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 1: that debt because you can't really really launch if you're 660 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:42,360 Speaker 1: getting dragged down by ten plus percent debt interest rates. Yeah, 661 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 1: now that makes sense. And really the only caveat to that, 662 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 1: I'm sure you agree is if you're getting some sort 663 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 1: of company match on some of those four one dollars 664 00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,839 Speaker 1: right where you might want to avoid paying off something 665 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:54,879 Speaker 1: it's like eight or nine percent interest rate in order 666 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 1: to get that max that match out before you start 667 00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,600 Speaker 1: attacking that thing like gangbusters, right, I mean the company 668 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 1: matches a hundred percent return, so yes, definitely fulfilled that 669 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 1: return up to the match maximum and then start paying 670 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,600 Speaker 1: down that debt. I mean, you want to change your 671 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,919 Speaker 1: mindset to say, well, what is the return on my debt? 672 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 1: Pay down? It's obviously the interest rate that you don't 673 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 1: have to pay. Yeah, all right, we want to talk 674 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,200 Speaker 1: about some career stuff with you, Sam, including you know, 675 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 1: one of the coolest things. I feel like I read 676 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 1: this on Financial Samurai years ago, and uh if for 677 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: some reason, it sticks in my mind more than anything 678 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,359 Speaker 1: else when it comes to like the content that you've 679 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,520 Speaker 1: put out, and it's about basically getting paid to walk 680 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,160 Speaker 1: away from your job. So we'll talk about career advice 681 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:47,440 Speaker 1: that you've got and more right after this. All right, 682 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 1: we are back talking with Sam Dogan and Sam, we're 683 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,760 Speaker 1: gonna spend this last section talking a good bit about 684 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 1: career advice. We're gonna talk about how you were able 685 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 1: to engineer a layoff before we dive into that. Can 686 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 1: you share the story of actually about how you got 687 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,160 Speaker 1: your first job. You you tell a pretty good story 688 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 1: in the book about yeah, scoring that that first position 689 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 1: there at Goldman Sacks and how it wasn't necessarily about grades, 690 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,960 Speaker 1: but yeah, share how that came to be. So it 691 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,720 Speaker 1: all came about because there was a career fair in Washington, 692 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 1: d C. And Williamsburg, Virginia, where the College of William 693 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 1: and Mary Is is about a two and a half 694 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:26,319 Speaker 1: hour drive south or north to Washington, d C. And 695 00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:30,800 Speaker 1: so I signed up for a career fair and Goldman 696 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 1: Sachs said they wanted to to see me. I was like, okay, 697 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:37,879 Speaker 1: sounds good, and so I woke up at five thirty 698 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,239 Speaker 1: am to get on a bus at six am from 699 00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:44,440 Speaker 1: Williamsburg to d C. And nobody showed up, and supposedly 700 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,920 Speaker 1: twenty five to thirty people signed up to go go 701 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 1: on this bus to go to d C. And so 702 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,200 Speaker 1: after about forty five minutes, the driver said, you know what, 703 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,080 Speaker 1: screw this, nobody's showing up. Let's go change vehicles. So 704 00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:59,879 Speaker 1: he drove me in the bus to some random shack 705 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,919 Speaker 1: in Williamsburg and out popped a black Lincoln town car. 706 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 1: And then so he drove me like a shave limo 707 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:09,279 Speaker 1: for two and a half hours to the career fair, 708 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:12,759 Speaker 1: and I had a lot of series of tough interviews 709 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:15,000 Speaker 1: and then I was invited to super Day where there 710 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,400 Speaker 1: were twelve interviews that one day, and I thought, all right, 711 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,799 Speaker 1: twelve interviews, let's rock, let's do it. You know, you 712 00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: drink your caffeine and you go. And I felt great 713 00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 1: afterwards and they said, oh, thanks for your interviews, let's 714 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:30,160 Speaker 1: come back. So all told, I ended u up doing. 715 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 1: I believe it was fifty five interviews over seven rounds 716 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,520 Speaker 1: to get my first job in New York City, and 717 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,960 Speaker 1: the reason why it took so long is most likely 718 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,800 Speaker 1: because I was a poor candidate. You know, they couldn't 719 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:44,600 Speaker 1: fit me in the right bucket. You know. I was 720 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 1: interviewing on the on the US trading floor and then 721 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,200 Speaker 1: the options derived of desk they made me read a 722 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,960 Speaker 1: thousand page book called Options as a Strategic Investment Way. 723 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:55,759 Speaker 1: I think it was Nate McMillan, and then they asked 724 00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:58,840 Speaker 1: me one question about what is a butterfly spread? So 725 00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,200 Speaker 1: that was it was like the gauntlet and so but 726 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,680 Speaker 1: after you know, like about the fourth round, you're like, okay, 727 00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:06,360 Speaker 1: if they're not gonna hire me, and that's ridiculous. I 728 00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:10,120 Speaker 1: started feeling confident and so they finally hired me, and 729 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:11,840 Speaker 1: then then I had to go through the mean Grinder 730 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:13,880 Speaker 1: again about getting into Ork at five thirty and then 731 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 1: realizing is this what my life is going to be? Yeah, 732 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:21,360 Speaker 1: well it's fascinating to that just your basically your pursuit 733 00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 1: of that job, your work ethic, your your willingness to 734 00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 1: show up when when nobody else did it set you 735 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:29,759 Speaker 1: apart in a way that maybe you didn't go to 736 00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:32,279 Speaker 1: one of the schools that they typically mine. It was 737 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:33,919 Speaker 1: not a target school at all. I mean, you gotta 738 00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:37,360 Speaker 1: show up, folks. Showing up, I really is like fifty 739 00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,399 Speaker 1: plus percent of the battle. You know. I promised myself 740 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 1: in two thousand and nine I would write publish a 741 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,560 Speaker 1: new post three times a week for ten years to 742 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:50,000 Speaker 1: see what would happen, because I I strongly felt plus 743 00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 1: probability greater that something good would happen if that were 744 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,879 Speaker 1: to come true. And so it's now it's been over 745 00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,440 Speaker 1: thirteen years, and I'm just going to continue because if 746 00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,320 Speaker 1: you can speak forever, you can write forever. There's so 747 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:04,799 Speaker 1: much interesting stuff to talk about every day. Yeah. Well, 748 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:06,319 Speaker 1: one of the things you talking about in the book too, 749 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,120 Speaker 1: is you talk about how not many folks pick a 750 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 1: place to live based on income potential. And I love 751 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,319 Speaker 1: that you actually dedicated a whole chapter to it in 752 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 1: your new book. But like, salaries in coastal cities are 753 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:20,080 Speaker 1: often higher, but it's also much cheaper to live in 754 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 1: like the American heartland. So so how does someone decide 755 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,759 Speaker 1: that that conundrum of where to live? And you know, 756 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:29,320 Speaker 1: when it comes to job opportunities. Fortunately, now I guess 757 00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,120 Speaker 1: maybe it's a little bit easier with more work from 758 00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,640 Speaker 1: home opportunities. But how do you think about that? So 759 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:37,480 Speaker 1: when you first start off, you're learning instead of earning, 760 00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:41,120 Speaker 1: and eventually you're gonna start earning. But when you first off, 761 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:42,520 Speaker 1: if you don't have that much knowledge, you don't have 762 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:46,160 Speaker 1: that much experience by definition, So you should go where 763 00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:50,040 Speaker 1: the job opportunity, the salary is the highest, the greatest, 764 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:53,760 Speaker 1: And even if that means living in a studio apartment 765 00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,359 Speaker 1: with two other people in New York City because it's 766 00:39:56,400 --> 00:40:00,279 Speaker 1: so expensive, that's where you should go. Again, we're talking 767 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:04,839 Speaker 1: about growing income versus saving money to generate wealth. Because look, 768 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,040 Speaker 1: so many people talk about San Francisco and New York 769 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,840 Speaker 1: City is they're so expensive, how do people afford to 770 00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:14,960 Speaker 1: live there? But it's it's it's economics, folks. You can't 771 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 1: talk about, you know, a one point eight million dollar 772 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:21,440 Speaker 1: medium price home without talking about the median household income 773 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 1: of the buyers of those homes. Right, you have to 774 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,759 Speaker 1: look at both sides of the equation, and because eventually, 775 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:32,200 Speaker 1: eventually your income, well this is the whole will will 776 00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:35,480 Speaker 1: skyrocket far beyond the cost of living. And this is 777 00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:37,640 Speaker 1: what people don't tell you who have been able to 778 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 1: generate a lot of wealth in the more expensive places. Yes, 779 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,200 Speaker 1: it costs a lot to live, to buy home, to 780 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:45,720 Speaker 1: send your kids to school, whatever, but that income growth 781 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:49,279 Speaker 1: is huge. People are making two thousand dollars right out 782 00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,440 Speaker 1: of school working at Facebook, Google, Apple, and by the 783 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,880 Speaker 1: time they're thirty they're making four hundred thousand. And then 784 00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 1: if two people shack up, they're making seven eight hundred 785 00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,959 Speaker 1: thousand dollars. So suddenly, maybe that one point a million 786 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,120 Speaker 1: dollar home on a seven thousand dollar household income isn't 787 00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,839 Speaker 1: that expensive. So it's it's important to look at it 788 00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 1: that way. Now, I love the heartland because of the 789 00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:15,960 Speaker 1: opportunity to invest as a real estate investor. Post COVID. 790 00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 1: Now we're seeing much more segregation spreading out of America, 791 00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 1: where you can work from home, you can go. So 792 00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:27,080 Speaker 1: if you are in a relatively senior position, people trust 793 00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:29,319 Speaker 1: you and they know you're going to do your job. 794 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,239 Speaker 1: I would take advantage of, you know, relocation closer to 795 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,200 Speaker 1: where your family is. Maybe you can save some money, 796 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:39,040 Speaker 1: have a better lifestyle. Um that is that makes tons 797 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,880 Speaker 1: of sense. However, here's the one thing a lot of 798 00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,520 Speaker 1: people again starting on the career of twenties and thirties, 799 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:48,960 Speaker 1: need to be cautious about because out of sight is 800 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:52,280 Speaker 1: often out of mind. So if you are that person 801 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 1: who wants to get promoted and paid and go places 802 00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,759 Speaker 1: and you're earlier on your financial journey, if you're out 803 00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:03,399 Speaker 1: out of sight physically in a satellite office, you might 804 00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,680 Speaker 1: be missing out on those in person opportunities. And when 805 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:09,319 Speaker 1: it comes time to lay people off, it's so much 806 00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 1: easier to lay people off who you don't see often, 807 00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,200 Speaker 1: So please be aware of that. Also when it comes 808 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,680 Speaker 1: time to get a raise, like you probably aren't going 809 00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:19,520 Speaker 1: to be the first person when it comes to a 810 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:22,960 Speaker 1: promotional raise on your manager's mind. Yeah, let's imagine a 811 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,920 Speaker 1: scenario where there's a conference room, you know it's it's 812 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:29,000 Speaker 1: hybrid work from home whatever. There's like five people in 813 00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 1: the room, and then there's five people dialing in and 814 00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,680 Speaker 1: you see them on TV. I will promise you that 815 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:39,440 Speaker 1: the relationships in that office are going to be stronger, 816 00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,200 Speaker 1: and the people who are dialing it in are probably 817 00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,000 Speaker 1: not going to be called on as much to participate. 818 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 1: And this is based on my talks. I've already given 819 00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:51,520 Speaker 1: talks at Google, Yelp, some other large firms and they're 820 00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:54,320 Speaker 1: talking about this dynamic now. So it depends on where 821 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,040 Speaker 1: you are in your career too, and how much you 822 00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 1: want it. Totally agree. Yeah, So, Sam, can we talk 823 00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:02,759 Speaker 1: about your experience negotiating a severance package because you basically 824 00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:06,440 Speaker 1: got paid handsomely to leave your job when you're itching 825 00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:09,920 Speaker 1: to leave anyway. Yeah, share how that went down please. Yeah. So, 826 00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:14,000 Speaker 1: one of my biggest failures as a financial writer and 827 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:17,120 Speaker 1: blogger is that I haven't been able to create a 828 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,440 Speaker 1: movement where if you're going to quit your job anyway 829 00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:24,640 Speaker 1: or retire early anyway, you should try to negotiate a 830 00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:27,719 Speaker 1: severance because what's the downside. You're gonna leave anyway, your 831 00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:31,160 Speaker 1: two week notice, you're just gone. Why not create a 832 00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,400 Speaker 1: win win scenario where you try to get a severance 833 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 1: based on your good work, your good relationships while you 834 00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:42,279 Speaker 1: help the firm find your replacement and you train your replacement. 835 00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:44,480 Speaker 1: Because I was a manager once, and every manager will 836 00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:47,719 Speaker 1: agree that losing people who have done decent work or 837 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 1: even just social work is really painful, especially in this 838 00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:56,239 Speaker 1: market tight labor market. Right. So my my story is essentially, 839 00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:59,759 Speaker 1: in two thousand eleven, I was really burned out from 840 00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:03,680 Speaker 1: finance financial crisis. You know, the correlation with effort and 841 00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:07,680 Speaker 1: reward was no longer there, and so I really wanted 842 00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:09,920 Speaker 1: to get the hell out of finance. You know, it's 843 00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,800 Speaker 1: just enough, twelve years enough, and I really liked financial 844 00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,760 Speaker 1: Samurai and just writing and connecting with people online. So 845 00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:19,920 Speaker 1: after I got a Bagel bonus in twenty eleven, I 846 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,200 Speaker 1: was like, you know what, this is really not worth 847 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 1: it anymore. I got to find a way out. And 848 00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:28,839 Speaker 1: I recognized from you know, basically we were going through 849 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,879 Speaker 1: like three to five rounds of layouts almost every year 850 00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:34,640 Speaker 1: for a couple of years. I recognized that people were 851 00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:38,719 Speaker 1: getting laid off with pretty decent servance packages, you know, 852 00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:41,399 Speaker 1: based on two to three they were getting paid two 853 00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,640 Speaker 1: to let's see, two to three weeks of pay for 854 00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 1: every year worked. And also they were getting their deferred 855 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:52,319 Speaker 1: cash and stock compensation. So in finance, there was more 856 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:55,120 Speaker 1: senior you rise, the more of your compensation, your your 857 00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:57,640 Speaker 1: arin bonus will be in deferred cash and stock. So 858 00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:59,799 Speaker 1: it's like a golden cancuff. So you you can never 859 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,360 Speaker 1: eve right because there's no like retirement part of your pensions. 860 00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:06,160 Speaker 1: And so if you quit your job in finance, just 861 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 1: like if you quit your job in tech or any 862 00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 1: industry that provides deferred compensation, you tend to lose it all. 863 00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:16,000 Speaker 1: And so after being in my one firm for eleven years, 864 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:20,799 Speaker 1: I had three years of deferred compensation and generally I 865 00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:25,120 Speaker 1: got paid thirty five percent of my total compensation in 866 00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:26,960 Speaker 1: deferred compensation. So in other words, I had like a 867 00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:30,360 Speaker 1: year of deferred a year of income that I was 868 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,000 Speaker 1: just gonna lose, and that was in the hundreds of 869 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:35,960 Speaker 1: thousands of dollars. And not only that, the company forced 870 00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:38,799 Speaker 1: all employees to invest a portion of their bonus in 871 00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 1: the toxic assets of all these mortgage backed securities to 872 00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:46,000 Speaker 1: get that off the company balance sheet, and which was 873 00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:47,960 Speaker 1: I think a really smart and wise move that we 874 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:51,399 Speaker 1: all shared the pain. But those investments in turned out 875 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,239 Speaker 1: to be multi multi baggers and if I left that, 876 00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,440 Speaker 1: I would have lost that as well. And so the 877 00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:00,760 Speaker 1: bottom line was I was able to to my manager 878 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:02,919 Speaker 1: and talk to my HR person and say, hey, look, 879 00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,560 Speaker 1: you know these are tough times right now, and I've 880 00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:10,000 Speaker 1: hired my replacement. I'll do whatever it takes to train 881 00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:14,560 Speaker 1: him make the transition as seamless as possible, if you 882 00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:18,960 Speaker 1: can reward me with all my deferred compensation and a severance. 883 00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:21,400 Speaker 1: And it took about a month of going back and forth, 884 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:25,640 Speaker 1: and ultimately I convinced them to let me go and 885 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,319 Speaker 1: pay me out. So it's exactly the opposite of trying 886 00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:31,799 Speaker 1: to convince someone to hire you and pay and promote you. 887 00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:36,160 Speaker 1: But it's actually the same because it's actually about understanding 888 00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:38,640 Speaker 1: what the other side needs. The other side, you know, 889 00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,279 Speaker 1: they would like to cut the salary and conversation of 890 00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:44,200 Speaker 1: a director like myself whose heart was no longer in it, 891 00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:49,000 Speaker 1: to promote and pay less a younger person, and then 892 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,160 Speaker 1: to move on. So it was it was great win 893 00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:54,200 Speaker 1: win situation, and it's better. It's just easier emotionally to 894 00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:56,759 Speaker 1: act somebody who who wants to leave than to like 895 00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:00,120 Speaker 1: find somebody who's like yes, it's the hardest thing to it. 896 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,359 Speaker 1: It's one of the hardest things to lay people off. 897 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:05,879 Speaker 1: And if someone can volunteer to get laid off when 898 00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 1: you have to lay someone off anyway, it is a 899 00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:12,440 Speaker 1: huge relief on the managers, uh, Psyche. And so I 900 00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:14,759 Speaker 1: really hope that more people if they're going to leave 901 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,440 Speaker 1: their job anyway. You know, I think actually giving a 902 00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,560 Speaker 1: two week notice is kind of cruel because what are 903 00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:23,160 Speaker 1: the chances that you know, your boss, your colleagues are 904 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,600 Speaker 1: going to find your replacement within two weeks that's good, 905 00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:27,960 Speaker 1: and you know your colleague is gonna be left holding 906 00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:29,279 Speaker 1: the bag where they got to do all the work. 907 00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:32,280 Speaker 1: So my transition out took a couple of months because 908 00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:35,560 Speaker 1: I was trying to help make things smooth. Yeah, I 909 00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,320 Speaker 1: like that. One. One of the other things you mentioned 910 00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,400 Speaker 1: briefly in the book too, is that there are additional 911 00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 1: benefits to getting laid off as opposed to quitting or 912 00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:46,240 Speaker 1: getting fired, whether it's governmental benefits, U and so cobra, 913 00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:48,840 Speaker 1: things like that. So those are important things to think about. 914 00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,280 Speaker 1: But I guess I want to ask you about this 915 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:54,640 Speaker 1: this situation because you were in a kind of an 916 00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:58,560 Speaker 1: interesting job that most people they might think Okay, cool, 917 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:00,759 Speaker 1: maybe this works in high finance, But isn't that sort 918 00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,719 Speaker 1: of an outlier scenario? U? Yeah, what would you say 919 00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,400 Speaker 1: to that person and can they make this a reality 920 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,920 Speaker 1: in their kind of everyday sort of work wherever wherever 921 00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:14,440 Speaker 1: they're at. So I would say anybody who has uh 922 00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:18,080 Speaker 1: the courage to confront their manager or hi person to 923 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,719 Speaker 1: try to get laid off is an outlier. But I 924 00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:22,920 Speaker 1: think we're all outliers if we want to do something 925 00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:27,640 Speaker 1: different or special. I would say everybody has the ability 926 00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:32,840 Speaker 1: to negotiate a severance because everybody has emotions, everybody has needs. 927 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,520 Speaker 1: Paying a serverance is voluntary. The warn Act pay, which 928 00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:41,320 Speaker 1: a lot of people confuse with a servants, is actually law. 929 00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:44,719 Speaker 1: If you're a big company, you have to give severance 930 00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,040 Speaker 1: in the form of warn Act pay, which is mandatory 931 00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:51,080 Speaker 1: one to three months of pay. A severance is voluntary. 932 00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:55,280 Speaker 1: So let's just put I don't know myself as an example, 933 00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:57,480 Speaker 1: I have a hard working employee. I'm a private company. 934 00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,520 Speaker 1: I don't have to pay a severance. Let's have a 935 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:03,600 Speaker 1: great employee five years just added so much value, so, 936 00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:07,560 Speaker 1: you know, always nice, great, friendly to work with, easy, 937 00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:09,799 Speaker 1: and they say, Sam, you know I I gotta move on. 938 00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,920 Speaker 1: I got another opportunity. You know, thanks so much. Is 939 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,400 Speaker 1: there anything I can do? Um, you know, maybe get 940 00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:17,479 Speaker 1: a severance or something. It's like a going away gift. 941 00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,120 Speaker 1: If I like that person and they try to help 942 00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:23,279 Speaker 1: me find their replacement, I'm happily giving them a severance, because, 943 00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,680 Speaker 1: if you think about it from a corporation's point of view, 944 00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,600 Speaker 1: a severance the amount is not huge in terms of 945 00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:31,640 Speaker 1: the overall earnings, but the good will is huge. It's 946 00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:34,239 Speaker 1: about treating people well so that it can attract more 947 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,719 Speaker 1: people in the future. If you're like a big employee. 948 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:39,759 Speaker 1: One of the biggest actually for all companies, one of 949 00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:43,680 Speaker 1: the biggest fears is gaining a bad reputation as a 950 00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:46,360 Speaker 1: bad place to work, as a place where they don't 951 00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:50,320 Speaker 1: treat their employees with respect, as disaster with social media 952 00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,279 Speaker 1: and everything, you know, I mean, if I want it, 953 00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:54,359 Speaker 1: I can blow people left and right with my platform, right, 954 00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,760 Speaker 1: I mean, that's you don't want to do that, but frankly, 955 00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,680 Speaker 1: anybody can do that right now. So it's really about 956 00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:04,439 Speaker 1: create um that that collegiate atmosphere, collegial atmosphere and creating 957 00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:07,080 Speaker 1: win wins with situations and anybody can do it in 958 00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:09,400 Speaker 1: any kind of job setting. It might not be a 959 00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:12,360 Speaker 1: specifically like a severance. I mean it could be you 960 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,120 Speaker 1: know what you can how about you work four hours 961 00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:17,480 Speaker 1: a day for the next three months. That's kind of 962 00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:20,239 Speaker 1: like getting double pay for three months. Or how about 963 00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:23,440 Speaker 1: just come in two days a week and you know, 964 00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:25,239 Speaker 1: just do hybrid two days a week and then take 965 00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:27,920 Speaker 1: Friday off. You get three day weekend every every weekend 966 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 1: for one year. That's kind of like a severance because 967 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:34,320 Speaker 1: it's about creating matching a scenario of demand and supply 968 00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,400 Speaker 1: as well. Yes, not black or white. There are a 969 00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:39,080 Speaker 1: lot of options out there, not black or white. Everything. 970 00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:42,919 Speaker 1: Every problem is there, there's a solution, there's a more 971 00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:45,560 Speaker 1: optical solution where both sides can win. And that's what 972 00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:48,040 Speaker 1: I encourage people to do is always think about the 973 00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,880 Speaker 1: other side so you can make a better situation for yourself, 974 00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,240 Speaker 1: totally make it win win for for both parties involved. 975 00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,359 Speaker 1: With all the talk about severance, Sam, did you happen 976 00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,640 Speaker 1: to watch the TV show Severance on Apple TV? Yeah, 977 00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:03,040 Speaker 1: I've watched the first episode, so I'm actually gonna watch more. 978 00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:05,839 Speaker 1: But I gotta sign up Joel both so you got 979 00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:10,000 Speaker 1: to get that first episode get so good, and uh, 980 00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:11,719 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure it's gonna kig. I'm not taking 981 00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:15,719 Speaker 1: that show. I just finished Peaky Blinders season six. I 982 00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:19,120 Speaker 1: gotta do the severance. Well, San, thank you so much 983 00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:21,719 Speaker 1: for joining us. Man. Where where can folks learn more 984 00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:24,680 Speaker 1: about you? Well? Obviously at Financial Samurai dot com. I'm 985 00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:26,200 Speaker 1: gonna go ahead and say it, but where can folks 986 00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:29,560 Speaker 1: learn more about your books? Specifically, you can buy buy this, 987 00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:31,279 Speaker 1: not that, How to Spend Your Way to Wealth and 988 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:35,080 Speaker 1: Freedom anywhere that they sell books, Amazon, Barnes and Nobles, 989 00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:38,879 Speaker 1: Powells Books, Indie Books, and at your bookstore. It's coming 990 00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:42,600 Speaker 1: out July. I think that's it's gonna be the best book. 991 00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:46,279 Speaker 1: And obviously I'm biased because it not only talks about 992 00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 1: helping you achieve financial freedom based on real life experience 993 00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:53,520 Speaker 1: and examples, but it really tackles a lot of life's 994 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,279 Speaker 1: biggest dilemmas. What's the point of money, right is to 995 00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:58,760 Speaker 1: live a better life and to look back with no regret. 996 00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,200 Speaker 1: So I really think you guys love it? Yeah? No, 997 00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:03,319 Speaker 1: well we enjoyed reading it, Sam, and yeah, we think 998 00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:05,279 Speaker 1: how the money listeners are gonna love it too, So 999 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:06,920 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for taking the time out of 1000 00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,359 Speaker 1: your day to join us. We appreciate it man, And yeah, 1001 00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,360 Speaker 1: I hope to talk to you soon. Thanks so much, guys, 1002 00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:14,919 Speaker 1: I really feel honored that you have me on. Well, Sam, 1003 00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,240 Speaker 1: we are honored to have had you on the show today. 1004 00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 1: Thanks again for joining us, Joel Man. Great conversation here 1005 00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:24,560 Speaker 1: with the financial Samurai. The man himself, Sam was one 1006 00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:27,400 Speaker 1: of the o g uh he he was just on 1007 00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,359 Speaker 1: the space. He was on the scene very early on 1008 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,680 Speaker 1: when it came to folks who were writing about personal 1009 00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:35,200 Speaker 1: finance and specifically on you know, about the different ways 1010 00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:37,960 Speaker 1: that you can achieve some sense of financial freedom. So 1011 00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:39,799 Speaker 1: it was really cool to have him on today. But yeah, 1012 00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,000 Speaker 1: what were your Did you have a big takeaway from 1013 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:44,279 Speaker 1: this episode? I think maybe I know, there's a lot 1014 00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:47,000 Speaker 1: of great stuff for sure, and I love the way 1015 00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:49,400 Speaker 1: so I'm Sam talks about engineering a layoff, and I 1016 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,640 Speaker 1: just think that's like such beneficial advice for so many 1017 00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:55,239 Speaker 1: people who are interested in changing careers or just tired 1018 00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:57,120 Speaker 1: of their job and want something different and they want 1019 00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,040 Speaker 1: maybe a little bit of peace out money to to 1020 00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 1: help them navig eight uh those few months in between 1021 00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 1: finding something else, but I think I don't know. The 1022 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,640 Speaker 1: main thing that that stuck out to me talking to 1023 00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,760 Speaker 1: him was when he said investing is a psychological mind bender, 1024 00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 1: and he said stay calm um, And basically what he 1025 00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,600 Speaker 1: said was that the fear is worse than the reality itself. 1026 00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:18,439 Speaker 1: And I think it's true. I think it's very true 1027 00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:21,680 Speaker 1: that we get fearful and we let that fear override 1028 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,520 Speaker 1: the reality of the situation. Um, we we we let 1029 00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:29,680 Speaker 1: our emotions overly influence our behavior. So I think, yeah, 1030 00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:33,560 Speaker 1: staying calm is staying reasonable in a time where everyone 1031 00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:36,000 Speaker 1: else is running around like chickens with their with their 1032 00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:38,759 Speaker 1: heads cut off. I think is is sage advice and 1033 00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,120 Speaker 1: it's something that we should all be following during this time. 1034 00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,640 Speaker 1: There is no need to look at your account balance 1035 00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:46,839 Speaker 1: every day or every week. There's no need to read 1036 00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:49,759 Speaker 1: the headlines. And the calmer you can stay in the 1037 00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:52,879 Speaker 1: midst of chaos, the more wealth you're gonna be able 1038 00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:54,920 Speaker 1: to build. That's right. Yeah, you just set up fear 1039 00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:57,560 Speaker 1: is bigger than the actual reality, and so all parlay 1040 00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:00,919 Speaker 1: that into negotiating that severance. And one of the things 1041 00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,319 Speaker 1: that took out to me was that in reality, for 1042 00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,000 Speaker 1: a business. We're not talking about a large amount of 1043 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,000 Speaker 1: money in the grand scheme of things, and you know 1044 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,879 Speaker 1: when you're taking the zoomed out big picture look at things, 1045 00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:14,480 Speaker 1: but the amount of goodwill that you are fostering by 1046 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:17,040 Speaker 1: working with your boss or your manager or your employer 1047 00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:19,520 Speaker 1: to make sure that they're not the ones left holding 1048 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:22,120 Speaker 1: the bag, because a lot of times it's not. It's 1049 00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:24,000 Speaker 1: it's less about the money, and it's more about the work. 1050 00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:26,640 Speaker 1: It's more about the different tasks. It's more about the 1051 00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:29,240 Speaker 1: client relations that you have, and if you are able 1052 00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:33,399 Speaker 1: to make that transition stretched out over a period of time, 1053 00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:34,680 Speaker 1: or if there are just some ways that you can 1054 00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:37,759 Speaker 1: make that happen more smoothly, like he said, while you 1055 00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,040 Speaker 1: train the new person who's going to be taking over 1056 00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:43,360 Speaker 1: your role. That is worth the money, and that is 1057 00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:45,400 Speaker 1: something that a manager is willing to pay for. And 1058 00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,520 Speaker 1: so I mentioned that because you're you're talking about fear, 1059 00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:49,480 Speaker 1: and I think a lot of times folks are afraid 1060 00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:52,759 Speaker 1: to step out and do something like that. But he 1061 00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:55,759 Speaker 1: positioned it where it's presumptuous, it feels presumptious, or it 1062 00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:58,080 Speaker 1: feels like or it feels like maybe mean or something 1063 00:54:58,160 --> 00:54:59,760 Speaker 1: like that, but what he was saying is that it's 1064 00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:02,160 Speaker 1: it's seems more rude to give a two week's notice 1065 00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:03,920 Speaker 1: where you're doing all right, because that seems like the 1066 00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:06,799 Speaker 1: clean when something that it makes complete sense that that 1067 00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:08,360 Speaker 1: is actually maybe a better way to go about it. 1068 00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:09,719 Speaker 1: And I just want to say that I was able 1069 00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,600 Speaker 1: to do this exact same thing. Like I read what 1070 00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:14,640 Speaker 1: Sam wrote on this and I was like, dang it, 1071 00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:16,719 Speaker 1: that makes a whole lot of sense. And I was 1072 00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:19,920 Speaker 1: like looking to to leave, but there was a perfect 1073 00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:21,800 Speaker 1: outlet to say, what if I stick around for a 1074 00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:25,400 Speaker 1: little bit longer? And I helped with this transition and ultimately, like, 1075 00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:27,240 Speaker 1: I see that you're actually trying to get rid of people, 1076 00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:29,400 Speaker 1: get rid of me. And so when your employer was 1077 00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:31,240 Speaker 1: better off for it though, because you were to stick around. 1078 00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:33,480 Speaker 1: And yeah, I think a lot of times folks see 1079 00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:35,200 Speaker 1: the two week noticed thing. I was like, Okay, that's 1080 00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:37,720 Speaker 1: just how you do it. There's a reason why everybody 1081 00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:41,680 Speaker 1: remembers that. I don't know, it's got a good marketing platform. 1082 00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:43,919 Speaker 1: Like for whatever reason that is stuck in our minds, 1083 00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:46,920 Speaker 1: that's what you're supposed to do. But in reality, maybe 1084 00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:50,000 Speaker 1: there are some alternatives where everybody is able to win 1085 00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,160 Speaker 1: where everybody's going to come out a little more ahead. 1086 00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:55,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, that was my big take away. Uh, Foster 1087 00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:58,000 Speaker 1: that goodwill with with your employer. Don't be afraid to 1088 00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,520 Speaker 1: start having some of those conversations. But unless get back 1089 00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,680 Speaker 1: to the beer that you and I enjoyed during this episode, 1090 00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:06,239 Speaker 1: we both enjoyed a daily serving and this is a 1091 00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:11,400 Speaker 1: tropical punch berlinavice. This is by Trillium. I didn't know 1092 00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:13,880 Speaker 1: that Trillium makes Berlino vices. I think most of the 1093 00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:16,160 Speaker 1: beers I've ever had by them have been I P 1094 00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:18,880 Speaker 1: A s. And so this is a quite a surprise 1095 00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:20,960 Speaker 1: to to be able to enjoy something so delicious that 1096 00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,040 Speaker 1: I'm not used to these guys making. But what were 1097 00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:24,440 Speaker 1: your thoughts on I think we've had like a coffee 1098 00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:27,239 Speaker 1: stop from them before too, but everything we've had from 1099 00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:30,399 Speaker 1: them has everything else. It's been incredible. Yeah, and and 1100 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:34,200 Speaker 1: so this one was no exception to me. If this 1101 00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:36,759 Speaker 1: could count as my serving of daily fruit, I would 1102 00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:40,000 Speaker 1: drink it every day because it is just like it's 1103 00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:42,799 Speaker 1: bursting at the seams with fruit flavor and so just 1104 00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:46,399 Speaker 1: incredibly juicy, luxurious amounts of fruit in this I would say, 1105 00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 1: like they must have used a ton because the fruit 1106 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,640 Speaker 1: vibes come forward in a big way. But yeah, again, 1107 00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:55,319 Speaker 1: like everything Trillium does, I'm impressed. It's so good. Right, 1108 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,239 Speaker 1: So some of the flavors they don't like bash you 1109 00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:58,960 Speaker 1: over the head all ryeah, it's just not like this 1110 00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:02,640 Speaker 1: perfume kind of over the top fruit flavor. It's it's 1111 00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:04,799 Speaker 1: it's real, like you can tell that there there there 1112 00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,080 Speaker 1: is real fruit in here. And like you said, I 1113 00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:09,920 Speaker 1: think that's why they called it daily serving, because it 1114 00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:12,520 Speaker 1: truly is real fruit in this beer. Honestly, it kind 1115 00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:14,200 Speaker 1: of reminds me of Humble Forger because they do a 1116 00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:16,479 Speaker 1: really good job of incorporating a lot of that fruit 1117 00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:20,480 Speaker 1: flavor without it feeling like this perfumey artificial fruitiness. Um. 1118 00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:23,240 Speaker 1: And so I think Trillium has done an incredible job. 1119 00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,080 Speaker 1: And this was another beer that was sent to us, 1120 00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:28,240 Speaker 1: by the way, by Sean. He is up there in Boston, 1121 00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:30,600 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure, and so for him this is maybe 1122 00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:32,040 Speaker 1: this is a daily thing because it might be his 1123 00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:34,320 Speaker 1: daily serving. Gonna be able to enjoy something this delicious, 1124 00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:36,760 Speaker 1: I'm jealous, But Sean, thank you so much for sending 1125 00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:39,320 Speaker 1: this one. Hour away. Seriously, thanks Sean, we appreciate it. 1126 00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,760 Speaker 1: By the way, Matt, we should announce how to enter 1127 00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:44,160 Speaker 1: the book. We almost forgot that you mentioned at the 1128 00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:47,160 Speaker 1: beginning of the episode. We are giving away five copies 1129 00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:50,600 Speaker 1: of Sam's new book by this, not that, And all 1130 00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:53,760 Speaker 1: you gotta do is be a How to Money newsletter subscriber. 1131 00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:57,480 Speaker 1: If you already subscribed, you realize how glorious it is, 1132 00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:00,800 Speaker 1: and you are already entered. Uh. But if you have 1133 00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:04,360 Speaker 1: not yet subscribed, you should and it's free, and you 1134 00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:06,680 Speaker 1: will get entered to win one of these five copies, 1135 00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:11,440 Speaker 1: and we will mention the winners in next week's newsletter 1136 00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:13,920 Speaker 1: a week from tomorrow. That's right, and you can sign 1137 00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:16,120 Speaker 1: up for that newsletter at how to Money dot com 1138 00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:18,240 Speaker 1: Ford slash newsletter. I love how we got that. You 1139 00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:22,000 Speaker 1: are l just nailed right, We got it all right man. 1140 00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,880 Speaker 1: That's gonna be it for this episode, buddy. Until next time, 1141 00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:26,880 Speaker 1: Best Friends Out, Best Friends Out.