1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: What's up Vatchination. 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena, and we. 3 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,399 Speaker 1: Are back with another episode of Bacheler Happy Hour. 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 2: Welcome back. 5 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: How are you feeling? 6 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 2: To be honest, I'm feeling at a little tired and 7 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: a little sick today, but happy to be here recapping hometowns. 8 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: You've been feeling that way all day? 9 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not I'm not my best today. I'm not 10 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 2: at my best. 11 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: You're struggling at the gym. 12 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 2: I was. I did a good twenty minutes on the stairs, 13 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 2: and then I laid in the steam room of the 14 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 2: sauna for about another twenty minutes, which I was trying 15 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 2: to sweat out all the toxins. I don't know if 16 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 2: it worked or not. 17 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:37,239 Speaker 1: I've been in a bad mood all day. I was 18 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: in a bad mood at the gym. I've been like 19 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: in a pouty mood. 20 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, you've been grumpy today. 21 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: But I did a cold punge before this podcast. 22 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 2: I thought you were just hungry, which is why I 23 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 2: ordered us Chipotle. But no, didn't solve the issue. 24 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: I'm still mad for no reason. 25 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 2: What are you so mad about? 26 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. It's just one of 27 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: those days. 28 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 2: It's just off in this household today. 29 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, something up in the air in this in 30 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: this apartment. I was feeling it last night when we 31 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 1: were watching The Great and I was like, disapartment. 32 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 2: The function by Maybe we just need to do a 33 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 2: little clean up, organization. 34 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: Or sage save age. 35 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely. Wow. We're starting this podcast often kind of 36 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 2: a depressed no. 37 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: But we're not because the episode was fun, we enjoyed it, 38 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 1: we watched it together, and it's probably better that we're 39 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: gonna recap it angry, like Joey's uncle. Joey's uncle was 40 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 1: a little angry. 41 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, we've got some Joey's Uncle energy in this house today. 42 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: Okay, let's anything else new before we get into the episode. 43 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 1: I did find the Talks. 44 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 2: Joe found a tux to the webbit. If you've been 45 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 2: listening to us on this podcast or on any other 46 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 2: podcast we've done recently, it has been a struggle, but 47 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 2: we went out this weekend and found one, and. 48 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: It took forever. They had to keep going down to 49 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: the basement to get sizes, and I don't know why 50 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: they didn't bring up multiple sizes at once to get 51 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: fitted for a Talks and I'm not talking about like 52 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: this crazy you know set up here. We're pants in a. 53 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 2: Jacket, not even a shirt. 54 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: It took an hour and twenty minutes. 55 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're being generous. I'm going to go 56 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 2: an hour forty five. 57 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 1: That was it. It was totally insane. 58 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, we won't say the name of the brand because 59 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 2: we really like this brand, but it was one of 60 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,679 Speaker 2: the most insane service experience I've ever had in a 61 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 2: retail store. 62 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: He just kept saying, we're under staff. I'm like, I 63 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: know you're under staff, but just bring three sizes up. 64 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:30,679 Speaker 2: Yeah. It was just incredibly inefficient and so frustrating, to 65 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 2: the point I did have to walk out for the 66 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 2: last ten minutes so I can't be in her anymore. 67 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 2: I cannot be in this store anymore. But it was 68 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 2: all worth it. But at the end of the day, 69 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 2: the tuxa is going to look gorgeous on you, and 70 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 2: I'm very excited that we can check that off our list. 71 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 1: All right, so let's recap the episode. We have hometown 72 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: episodes Serena's least favorite episode. I actually really enjoyed it. 73 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: I like hometowns. I never really watch them, but I 74 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: don't know. 75 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. Usually I do say every time I go on 76 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 2: a podcast recap hometown, I always disclosed with hometowns or 77 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 2: my least favorite episode. But I didn't. I didn't mind 78 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: this hometown episode. It actually felt like it went by 79 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: pretty quickly, which I find ray for a hometown episode. 80 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: I think it's just because I really liked all the families, 81 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 2: you know what. 82 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: It also, the families were all different, had different energies, 83 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: and I feel like they were broken up like appropriately, 84 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: Like it was like one family was, you know, like 85 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: after Joey's family, then you got Xavier's family. 86 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 2: And it was just Yes, for some reason, it didn't 87 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 2: feel as like repetitive as it usually does. Usually just 88 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 2: feels like I'm watching the same thing four times, and 89 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 2: it didn't feel that way. 90 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. So first hometown we are in Houston, Texas. It 91 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: is Aaron. Aaron is the man who got the first 92 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: one on one date. Charity had mentioned that she thought 93 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: she was going to marry him. Yeah right away. 94 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 2: That's the first time we've heard her say that. I 95 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 2: think I think I. 96 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: Think she is physically attracted to Aaron. I think Aaron's 97 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: her type, and I just feel like they had a 98 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: good friend state and then it really seems like nothing 99 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: happened from there. 100 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:06,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I do think I remember after the first 101 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 2: date being like, oh wow, she's really into him, and 102 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 2: then I just feel like we haven't really seen that since. 103 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 2: And after a conversation with her on last week's Happy 104 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 2: Hour episode, if you haven't listened to it, go check 105 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 2: out our interview with Charity, she did talk about how 106 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 2: she wasn't a fan of him bringing the brad and 107 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 2: drama to her, and I do think that killed their 108 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 2: connection a little bit. If anything, it just like killed 109 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:30,679 Speaker 2: the amount of time they had to further their connection. 110 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, which always happens, Always happens. We're never going to 111 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: have somebody that goes tells on someone else that the 112 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: lead chooses. Maybe we will eventually if the show keeps going. Okay, 113 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 1: So at the house, a spread of food the mom's 114 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: cook in. We have catfish, fried lobster frog legs. It 115 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 1: looks delicious, you know, and what more can you ask for? 116 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 1: When you walk into a house, you get a home 117 00:04:56,880 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 1: cooked meal. They all welcome Charity. I think the first 118 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: conversation we see is Aaron and his brother, and Aaron's 119 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:05,920 Speaker 1: actually trying to hold it together. 120 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 2: He's really emotional this episode. You can tell his family 121 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 2: really welcomes him and Charity and with like warm positive energy. 122 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 2: And then like right from the Gecko's conversation with his brother, 123 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,559 Speaker 2: he's like kind of holding back tears, and that theme 124 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 2: kind of just continued the entire conversations with his family, 125 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 2: which makes me think that maybe, I mean, they seem 126 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:27,840 Speaker 2: to be a very close family, but I mean it 127 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 2: doesn't mean they talk about their love and their feelings 128 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 2: for each other all the time. And you could tell 129 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 2: how touched he was when his mom and daw were saying, 130 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 2: like how proud they were of him. It was a 131 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 2: really nice moment. Like I felt like his relationship with 132 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 2: his family kind of stole the show of that hometown 133 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 2: versus Charity getting to know his family. 134 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, Yeah, that makes that's well said. 135 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 1: I don't think him, yeah, Charity in him just didn't 136 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: really I guess on the football field, we see it. 137 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: But we'll get into that. So his mom and Charity 138 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: talk and his mom asks would you be ready if 139 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: he proposed? And she said no, but like what is 140 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 1: she supposed to say? And that she can't say yes. 141 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 1: There's three other guys there, and Aaron's the first guy. 142 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 2: No is the right answer in my opinion, Like, I 143 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 2: do believe there's the right answer to that question, and 144 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 2: it's no, because she sits there and says, yes, I 145 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 2: would accept his proposal. Shows over, then shows over. What 146 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 2: are you doing with these other three guys? And I 147 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 2: think at this point, like she can't. If she's certain 148 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:30,039 Speaker 2: on one dude, then no one else is there. So 149 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 2: she's if any parent asked that question, you've got to 150 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 2: say no. I wouldn't accept it. It'd be disrespectful to 151 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 2: him and be disrespectful to the other guys. And I 152 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 2: still have time left in this journey to get to 153 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 2: know them. So I thought her answer was perfect. 154 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the answer she basically had to give. Yeah. 155 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: Charity talks to Aaron's dad. He mentions, like we do Christmas. 156 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: He's trying to lock her down for Christmas. 157 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 2: I know that's a very my dad move. Man. 158 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: Hey, And I heard you say like, oh, she's got 159 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: a family. 160 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 2: Too, Yeah, because my parents would be the ones to 161 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 2: be like, all right, like we're celebrating holidays together and 162 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 2: like it's that thing when you get into a serious 163 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 2: relationship of like who gets Christmas? Who gets Thanksgiving? Like, 164 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 2: who's getting the holidays? So I was just laughing at 165 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: his dad already trying to lock her in for Christmas. 166 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: He's like, just so you know, we do Christmas. Yeah, 167 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: so does everyone else. 168 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm sure she does Christmas as well. 169 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 2: But no, I liked it. I thought it was cute. 170 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: But it was nice seeing Aaron like he was. You 171 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: could tell he was really touched when his dad said 172 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: he's proud of him, and that's kind of Yeah, it was. 173 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: It was a nice I agree that the nicest moment 174 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: was Aaron and his family. 175 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really nice. This film was lovely. And 176 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 2: then they go to the football field they wear matching. 177 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: Varsity jackets and which looked really nice. I like the red. 178 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 2: It was a great look. It looked really nice. 179 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: And then they do a throwback to the Laura and 180 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: Elena performance which she I met her when I did 181 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: Dancer with the Stars. I believe she was the season 182 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: prior to me, or she performed on my season. But yeah, 183 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: she's she's all over this season right now. 184 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they love her and it was a nice 185 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 2: little throwback for Aaron b and Charity to like their 186 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 2: first one on one day, and Aaron B takes that 187 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 2: moment to tell Charity that he's falling in love with her, 188 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 2: which feels a little like late to the game. 189 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 1: No, yeah, And I almost feel like he felt that 190 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: way because he got approval from his parents and he 191 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: was just feeling good on a high, and he was 192 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,239 Speaker 1: just like, I'm falling in love with you. I don't 193 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: even know if he truly I think he thinks it. 194 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 1: I don't think he. 195 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 2: You think he got swept up in the moment. You 196 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 2: think he's someone that's going to look back and be like, 197 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 2: I don't know if I was actually falling in love 198 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 2: with her. 199 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: I think it was all a moment for him because 200 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: that day was such a high for him. Yeah, it 201 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: really seemed like. 202 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 2: And I think that's not uncommon. I think there's definitely 203 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 2: people that come off the show and say like, hmm, 204 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 2: I thought I was falling in love. I thought I 205 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 2: was in love and I wasn't. And then there's people 206 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 2: that were like, no, I totally felt that way. She 207 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 2: doesn't say it back, which is normal, which is not 208 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 2: really a shock at all at this point, because this 209 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 2: is the third person to say I'm falling in love 210 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 2: with you, and she didn't say it back to any 211 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 2: of them, but she. 212 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: Leaves the date feeling good. Ended well great, Okay, so 213 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: Aaron at this point, he's still in the running. He's 214 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: probably the furthest behind, but he's still in the running. 215 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: All right, Let's go to College Hill, Pennsylvania. 216 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 2: Date number two. 217 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: Date number two. We are at Joey's family's house. 218 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 2: Yes, which is a beautiful home. 219 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: Beautiful home. We meet his dad, we meet his mom, 220 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 1: but we truly meet his uncle uncle. 221 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 2: Wait, so we're not at his home. 222 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,239 Speaker 1: Yet, No, we are at let's see. 223 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 2: We got to start off at the tennis court, which 224 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 2: Charity walked in in like an incredible yellow dress, and 225 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 2: I was like, I swear to God if they put 226 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 2: her in this beautiful yellow outfit to get sweaty and 227 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 2: run arounded on a tennis court. But then she changed 228 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 2: into like a purple tennis. 229 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: Fit, which makes you want to become a tennis player. Yeah. 230 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: So they're at the tennis court with Charity. Joey's uncle 231 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 1: comes in surprises Joey and he seems pretty shocked to 232 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: see him. 233 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:15,680 Speaker 2: I'm genuinely shocked to see him. Really, what are you 234 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: doing here? 235 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: I know. 236 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 2: So Joey's uncle shows up. Joey is literally shocked to 237 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 2: see him. He definitely didn't know he was coming. I 238 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 2: don't know if it was like full blown happiness, like 239 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 2: if I'm Joey, I'm kind of like uncle, like, let 240 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 2: me have this one on one time with Charity, I'll 241 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 2: see you later sight at dinner. But they had a 242 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 2: cute little like tennis match moment they were all playing 243 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 2: tennis together. 244 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: I thought it was all fine up until the point 245 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 1: where Joey's uncle kept insinuating like do you have the 246 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 1: real Joey here? Yeah? And that nothing really to back 247 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 1: it up with. 248 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 2: But you know what, even their conversation on the tennis court, 249 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 2: before we even knew what direction the date was heading, 250 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 2: you and I were kind of like, why does this 251 00:10:57,120 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 2: conversation feel so awkward? Like it did? There The conversation 252 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 2: between Joey, Charity and Uncle joe felt a little awkward, 253 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 2: and then it immediately followed with him making that statement 254 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 2: of like I don't know if this is the real 255 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 2: Joey that Charity is getting to see. 256 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think Joey himself was just like worried about 257 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: what my uncle could. 258 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 2: Say I want to know more about his relationship with 259 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 2: his uncle. I know we talked a little bit about 260 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 2: it when he was on the podcast, but I want 261 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 2: to know, like, how close to him his uncle. How 262 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 2: well does his uncle know him, because his uncle had 263 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 2: some pretty strong claims on this date that very well 264 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 2: could have impacted his relationship with Charity. 265 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 1: Well, I think he knows. I mean, he definitely knows 266 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 1: him pretty well. I mean Joey said he's basically my mentor. Yeah, 267 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: he said that on the show, so he knows very well. 268 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 1: I just think I it just came across the me 269 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: that Joey's uncle was worried that Joey is too nice 270 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: of a guy and not outspoken enough in a relationship, 271 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: and I felt like that was the point he wanted 272 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 1: to get across, and it just seemed unnecessary. 273 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I more read it as Joey's uncle 274 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 2: saying like, and maybe this has been an issue with 275 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 2: Joey and relationships in the past, of like being a 276 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 2: people pleaser and acting in a way that that person 277 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 2: wants them to act and saying the things that that 278 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 2: person wants him to say. But maybe that's not really 279 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 2: how he truly feels or how he is. But I mean, 280 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 2: I don't know if the uncle knows this, but like 281 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 2: that's like the worst doubt you can put in Charity's 282 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 2: mind is that this is not really who Joey is, 283 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 2: and like you might not find that out on this show. 284 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 2: You might leave the show and find out he's a 285 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 2: totally different person. And I think we really saw how 286 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 2: much that impacted her because when they were saying goodbye, 287 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 2: it was like not a happy moment, like she was saying, 288 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 2: you know, I'm gonna miss Hi'm gonna miss you, But 289 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 2: her tears felt like they were coming from a place 290 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:57,479 Speaker 2: of like fear and anxiety. 291 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: Joey was was maybe not in the lead. Maybe maybe 292 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:09,319 Speaker 1: I felt a little little behind Dotton in their relationships. 293 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 1: I felt like after this hometown it dropped his chances significantly. 294 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm curious to see if they have a conversation 295 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,079 Speaker 2: about it next week during Fantasy Suits, which I'm sure 296 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 2: they will because they obviously. She was going into that 297 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:27,959 Speaker 2: day being like, if this goes great, I'm going to 298 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 2: tell Joey I'm falling in love with him. And she 299 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 2: left balling her eyes out. So I feel like that 300 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 2: conversation is going to have to happen. Like it's just 301 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 2: so hard though, because like for him to say, like, yes, 302 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 2: this is me, this is the real me, but like 303 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 2: you can't prove it, you know what I mean, Like 304 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 2: you can't really really know that, no matter how hard 305 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 2: he says it. And for his uncle who knows him 306 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 2: really well to say that to her and say like, 307 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 2: this isn't the real Joey, Like, who do you believe? 308 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 2: I feel for Charity, She's in a real hard spot 309 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:02,079 Speaker 2: with Joey. I'm curious to see how this affects the 310 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 2: relationship because it's definitely not just going to go away. 311 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree, And that's yeah, that's kind of 312 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: how that ended. So it was the first It was 313 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 1: the first time all season we saw her relationship with 314 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 1: Joey kind of like, oh, this is this, this is 315 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 1: on the rocks now. 316 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's been smooth sailing this whole time. He's 317 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 2: definitely been in like a front runner, one of the 318 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 2: strongest relationships the whole time. I just wanted to shake 319 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 2: Joey before she left and be like Joey, ask her 320 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 2: why she's crying, Like, well. 321 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 1: I also feel like they may have had that conversation 322 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 1: because I feel like he kind of hinted at it 323 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: a little bit. Also, before we do get off this topic, 324 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: Charity didn't Charity tell Joey's sister that she was falling 325 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 1: in love with him? Yes? 326 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, because she went into the day being like, I'm 327 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 2: going to say it, and she did say to the 328 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 2: sister who asked, also, his sister is beautiful. 329 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: They kept, they kept. I actually wrote that down that 330 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: they kept, like we kept seeing little clips, little shots 331 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: of Joey's sister like, oh, she's getting cast it on 332 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: the show. 333 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 2: I was going to say, she's she looks like a 334 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 2: contestant on the Bachelor. But yeah, so she said it 335 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 2: to his sister, but she didn't end up saying it 336 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 2: to him. But we know she is falling in love 337 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 2: with him. We know that her feelings for him are 338 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 2: really strong. 339 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she I think she went into that hometown 340 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 1: the most optimistic and left like I mean, she left crying. 341 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 342 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: And it was weird too because it was like is 343 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: she and it was like it was kind of played 344 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: off like she was She tried to play it off 345 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: like she was crying because she's going to miss him, 346 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 1: but there's no way that's it didn't feel like that's 347 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: why she was crying. 348 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. I feel like 349 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 2: we're going to see like part two of that situation 350 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 2: at Fantasy Suites. 351 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, because he does he does make it through. Yeah, 352 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: but we'll talk about that at the end. Then let's 353 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: go right now, We're going to go to Cleveland, Ohio. 354 00:15:55,240 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 1: We have Xavier's hometown, which Xavier is. I really like 355 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 1: Xavier to me, he is like genuinely himself. I think 356 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: he's funny, like he's got a lot of uh like 357 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 1: he knits, and he's he's a scientist, like he's it's great. 358 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: Like I like, Xavier is somebody that like, every single week, 359 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: I find him more and more interesting, don't you. Yeah, 360 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: not really. 361 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 2: I don't know. What do you mean by more and 362 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 2: more interesting? 363 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 1: I just I just I don't know. I just find 364 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: I just he's growing on me every week. I guess. Okay, yeah, 365 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 1: maybe not more interesting, but yes, he grows on me. 366 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 1: His personality is growing on me every week. 367 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 2: I agree, because he does have kind of a more 368 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 2: like chill, laid back personality. So it took a while 369 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 2: to really see who he is and see his personality 370 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 2: come out. Yeah, I like him too. I think that 371 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 2: he is someone that is like authentically himself. He just 372 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 2: seems like a very easy going guy. He's an interesting person. 373 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 2: But I just I don't know, I don't know about 374 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 2: their connection. I just feel like, well. 375 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 1: Every time Charity is going into a date or anything 376 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,199 Speaker 1: one on one with Xavier, it seems like she's like 377 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 1: ready to call it quits. And at the end, it's 378 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 1: always like she's just like she's like. 379 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 2: Never mind, this has gone great. Yeah. I feel like 380 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 2: he's always surprising her. 381 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: And we meet We meet Xavier's family, his mom, who 382 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: was so sweet and she has MS, which is just 383 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: such a terrible, a terrible disease, you know, and you know, 384 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 1: I really feel for them. But they were just a 385 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 1: lovely family and they the sister, the dad, and the 386 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 1: mom were kind of like, yeah, Xavier is he's ready 387 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 1: for Marierica. 388 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. It's so funny because the biggest concerned Charity had 389 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:46,199 Speaker 2: was that he was not ready, that he reminded her 390 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 2: of her ex boyfriend and just like not sure if 391 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 2: he was in that place. And he is, like, I 392 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 2: think he's one of the younger guys in the group. 393 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:59,120 Speaker 2: He definitely gives off kind of like chill like I'm 394 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 2: not taking anything too seriously energy, Like obviously he does. 395 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 2: He's serious of his family, he's serious for his work 396 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:06,399 Speaker 2: all these things, but like he does give off that 397 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 2: kind of like playboy energy, Like I don't know what 398 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,439 Speaker 2: it is. I think maybe he's just like a flirt. 399 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 2: But his family is like, oh no, he is ready, 400 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 2: like he's ready for marriage. He said serious girlfriends. He's 401 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 2: ready to be a dad. He's excited to be a dad, 402 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 2: like his family were the ultimate hype grew his sister 403 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 2: amazing wing woman like they I feel like really eased 404 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 2: all of Charity's fears at least for this date. And 405 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 2: I like Xavier too. 406 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. And I think she leaves the date 407 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:37,679 Speaker 1: with Xavier and is like, yeah, like I'm into the 408 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: sky again. He got me every time. 409 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 2: He gets her every time. He's still like the ultimate 410 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:43,400 Speaker 2: underdog of this season. 411 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:46,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, yep. And then and it was like kind of 412 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 1: opposite opposite with Joey this week. 413 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 2: Yes, I feel like the date for Xavier like made 414 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 2: him have a stronger connection with Charity and like eased 415 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 2: her worries, whereas the date with Joey almost like brought 416 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 2: on worries that weren't there before. 417 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, Okay. So then we go to Fresno, California 418 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:21,719 Speaker 1: to meet Doughton's family, which it starts off with Charity 419 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:25,119 Speaker 1: saying like she's disappointed that Doughton's parents couldn't make it. 420 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:27,480 Speaker 2: I totally understand them not coming for it, and I 421 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:29,640 Speaker 2: totally understand her being like these could be my future 422 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,199 Speaker 2: in laws. It's kind of important, like I meet them 423 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 2: and they meet me. So it was such a nice 424 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:35,720 Speaker 2: surprise that they showed up. Yeah. 425 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:38,160 Speaker 1: Well, first she meets she meets the rest of the family, 426 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 1: and she meets the grandma who just had this. 427 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 2: Grandma great person, is an angel. I love her. 428 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you could just see like how tight knit 429 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 1: his whole family was, and like they like welcome cher 430 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 1: Like Charity had to feel so comfortable, like just in 431 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,879 Speaker 1: that space because they were so much like, oh you're 432 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: you're with us now. 433 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, embraced her like with open arms. Yeah, 434 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 2: it was. It was great. I mean I feel like 435 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think, Oh, so they did a little 436 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 2: bit of a different format. They did their family time 437 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 2: during the day and then they did their like intimate 438 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 2: one on one time at night, which I thought was 439 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 2: very cute in the way that he did like the 440 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 2: drive in movie and the movie with like baby photos 441 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 2: of them. It was just so cute. It was very thoughtful. 442 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, well let's uh, I agree, but let's talk about 443 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:35,880 Speaker 1: Thoughton's parents real quick, because they we just like kind 444 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 1: of skimmed over that. But they end up showing up 445 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 1: and he I wrote down, He's like, he's so happy 446 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: my parents showed up. But it does come with his challenges. 447 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he dis it. 448 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:51,159 Speaker 1: My mom is My mom is very critical and his 449 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:55,239 Speaker 1: mom she she couldn't she was wasn't critical at all 450 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 1: of charity. 451 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 2: At least we saw no. But she like loved her, 452 00:20:58,080 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 2: which is great. 453 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's like, I'm gonna throw don't worry, I'm 454 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 1: gonna throw a massive wedding for you, and we're gonna 455 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:05,200 Speaker 1: have a great time. 456 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 2: Yeah it was awesome. 457 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,199 Speaker 1: But yeah, then we jumped to the end portion of 458 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:12,919 Speaker 1: the hometown and yeah, it's the cute date and Dotton 459 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:16,879 Speaker 1: and her take a thunderbird up to the drive in 460 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 1: Movies and watch a movie and see baby pictures of themselves, 461 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 1: which I find always so weird. 462 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 2: Why. 463 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:25,679 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just kind of wish. I'm like, 464 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: I wish you were just watching a regular movie. 465 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was like something special for them to 466 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 2: like experience together, I guess. And like he obviously put 467 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 2: more time and effort into that than he would have 468 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:37,440 Speaker 2: if he just thrown like Titanic. 469 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:41,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree, And that kind of 470 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:45,919 Speaker 1: that wraps up the hometowns and then we see we 471 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 1: go to this like hangar where we do the rose 472 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,880 Speaker 1: ceremony and all four guys are there. 473 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god, wait, why did they so before that happened, 474 00:21:56,440 --> 00:22:01,199 Speaker 2: they did a chat with Charity and Jesse. Why did 475 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 2: they keep putting Jesse's age? Yeah, putting his bio as 476 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 2: if he's contested. I'm like, showing this man some respect. 477 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:12,880 Speaker 2: It literally is like Jesse Palmer age forty whatever, host 478 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 2: as like occupation. 479 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 1: Just in case you forgot, Jesse is in his mid forties. Yeah, 480 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:21,160 Speaker 1: it's it is. It's it's weird. 481 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:22,919 Speaker 2: It's just so funny to be like, I'm like, did 482 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 2: they used to do? Have they done this before? Is 483 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:25,440 Speaker 2: this new? 484 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 1: Yeah? 485 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 2: I don't think they have. 486 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 1: They've been They've been. Jesse's age has been there the 487 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 1: whole time, because I think I said something like episode one, No. 488 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,640 Speaker 2: This season, I know, but like over the years. 489 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 1: I feel like they did it for Zach season two. Yeah, 490 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:41,640 Speaker 1: but I don't know. I mean, we'd have to we'd 491 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:43,480 Speaker 1: have to go back and uh, we'd have to go 492 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 1: back and check. But let's uh. 493 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 2: Also, I have to comment on Charity's outfit. This is 494 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 2: the outfit she was most excited about, and she said 495 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:55,360 Speaker 2: this was her favorite outfit, and I agree. This outfit 496 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:59,400 Speaker 2: was so good. Oh my god, this dress was amazing. 497 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 1: Which dress my. 498 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 2: Wedding dresses that I've got for our wedding and just 499 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 2: wear that dress in white? I absolutely would for the 500 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 2: whole weekend, for all of our events. It was so good. 501 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 1: Geez, that's that's that's a that's a bold statement right now. 502 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 2: Well, I mean I can make it because I know 503 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 2: it's not going to happen. 504 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 1: You just dumped all your wedding dresses. 505 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,440 Speaker 2: That would be crazy. But I really love this dress. 506 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 2: It looked amazing on her. 507 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 1: Okay, So then we are we're at the Rose ceremony 508 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 1: and we have four guys and she ends up. We're 509 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:35,879 Speaker 1: not sure it's really between Donton gets a rose, Xavier 510 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,879 Speaker 1: gets a rose, and it's really between Joey and Aaron, 511 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 1: and I honestly this is usually I'm like, I know 512 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 1: who she's giving a rose to. I really didn't know. 513 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 1: And she ended up not giving it to Aaron, giving 514 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: the rose to Joey, and she's really upset. She when 515 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 1: he leaves, She's like, I think I made a huge mistake. 516 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 1: I can't tell I think like Aaron's upset. I just 517 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I felt like it never 518 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 1: their relationship, in my opinion, never really like got there. 519 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, Just like I definitely saw a 520 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 2: really strong connection with them on their first day at 521 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 2: the beginning of the season. I just felt like, at 522 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,479 Speaker 2: least as a viewer, it did look like it kind 523 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 2: of tapered off. And I do think the brain drama 524 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 2: had a little bit to do with that, but I 525 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,439 Speaker 2: also just think she had stronger connections with other people. 526 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 2: I was really surprised by how this breakup went. I'm 527 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 2: always shocked when the lead doesn't have like something prepared 528 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 2: at like almost like a little breakup paragraph of like 529 00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 2: this is what I want to say to you know, 530 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 2: they're going into a breakup, like when the person that's 531 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,280 Speaker 2: getting dumped doesn't know what to say, like I get it, 532 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 2: they're in shock. But when Charity was like bawling her 533 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,120 Speaker 2: eyes out understandably, like she clearly has a really hard 534 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,439 Speaker 2: time breaking up with people, and makes sense like she 535 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 2: cares about them, she just want to hurt their feelings. 536 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,679 Speaker 2: But she couldn't give him an explanation of why she 537 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 2: was doing it, and that really threw me off because 538 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 2: I was like, but you've got to have a reason, 539 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 2: and I think she was falling in love with him. 540 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:17,399 Speaker 2: I don't know even if the reason was just like 541 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 2: I have stronger feelings with other people. 542 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe she went in there though truly. 543 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:23,119 Speaker 2: Not not knowing what she was going to do in 544 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 2: the moment, made the decision on the spot. Yeah, yeah, 545 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 2: maybe because that would kind of make a little more 546 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 2: sense to me. Yeah, And she did give kind of 547 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 2: a speech at the beginning, basically say I've been going 548 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:34,919 Speaker 2: back and forth on this. I really didn't know what 549 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 2: to do here. 550 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 1: I mean, if I had I if I were to 551 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 1: take just a while, guess I would say there was 552 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 1: a good chance she was probably like, I'm going to 553 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 1: send Joey home and then saw Joey and probably felt like, no, 554 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: maybe it's too. 555 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:51,520 Speaker 2: Soon, and really flipped to wow. 556 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,159 Speaker 1: The end portion of Aaron's state, the only one that 557 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 1: ended rough was Joey's state. 558 00:25:56,520 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 2: Yes, Aaron's went really well, and so did Xaviers and 559 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 2: so did Dawton's. So if she's going based on that week, 560 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,120 Speaker 2: like Joey had the worst date, But I just think 561 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 2: it's so hard, like they've had such a steady connection 562 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 2: this whole time. I would have been really surprised if 563 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 2: she sent him home. 564 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree, just after that, especially 565 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,680 Speaker 1: because it wasn't like it really was it was the 566 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 1: whole Uncle's situation. It wasn't like it was anything that 567 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:25,879 Speaker 1: Joey actually did. 568 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what, we see the promo for 569 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 2: next week, and we've seen in the super teaser midway 570 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 2: through the season that someone comes back and you and 571 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 2: I both thought it was an ex Yeah, but now 572 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 2: after watching the breakup between Aaron B and Charity and 573 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 2: seeing I feel like she left him with no closure, 574 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:45,959 Speaker 2: And I feel like if I'm sitting there and someone's 575 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 2: crying saying like I don't know if I'm making the 576 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 2: right decision, Like I don't know if I should be 577 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,439 Speaker 2: doing this, and I'm like in love with that person, 578 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,919 Speaker 2: Like maybe I'll go back and try to see if 579 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 2: they've made a mistake, you know, if they have any regrets. 580 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 2: I feel like it could be Aaron or am I 581 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,400 Speaker 2: I wouldn't I wouldn't be mad to see him again either. 582 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 1: I completely agree. I think I they get me every year. 583 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 1: I think with this because it probably is Nea Mayah 584 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 1: and it's probably not a big thing, but I think, Yeah, 585 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:16,960 Speaker 1: at first, I was like, oh, is that an acts? 586 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: But I think it might be Aaron because it does 587 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:23,359 Speaker 1: make sense because if Aaron is now being told like hey, 588 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,640 Speaker 1: like she might be pondering this, like she she may 589 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 1: have made a mistake, like he is, probably like Okay, 590 00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: I'll take one more last shot. Yeah, so we'll see. 591 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 1: That's that's coming up next week. But I think that 592 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 1: wraps this episode. And later in the week we have 593 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:46,479 Speaker 1: Jared Freed coming from The Bachelor, So yeah, that wraps everything. 594 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:48,680 Speaker 1: Make sure to subscribe if you're not already, because we 595 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,120 Speaker 1: are dropping our exclusive interview with Jared and hearing more 596 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 1: about his story later this week. 597 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,959 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening. Be sure to tune in later this 598 00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 2: week and next week were more exclusive interviews like hey 599 00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 1: HM,