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Speaker 1: What's up his lipservice, I'm as like, yee, I'm Gig Maguire,

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Speaker 1: I'm Jordie or Jimmy, Okay, I don't get it wrong. Well,

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Speaker 1: first of all, thank you so much for joining us today,

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Speaker 1: having me and cheers. Do you. I know you came

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Speaker 1: in with a slight headache, but the tequila will clear

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Speaker 1: this right up. And I do want to shout out

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Speaker 1: They're not sponsoring us for nothing but Antil Tequila because

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Speaker 1: it's a black woman own brand and so it's a

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Speaker 1: coconut line that we're doing and it has a little

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Speaker 1: hint of pepper and it's good. Yeah, I shout out

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Speaker 1: to her. We love that. Well, first of all, let's

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Speaker 1: talk about you man. First. I've been following your career,

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Speaker 1: your music, like you've done some classic songs, you know.

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Speaker 1: I'm also a fan of like early on dext adapts

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Speaker 1: and you and just seeing where you are today. You

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Speaker 1: have a song out right now that some people are

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Speaker 1: saying it's quote controversial, but I don't see an issue

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Speaker 1: with it right me either.

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Speaker 2: You know what this this is what I'm in the

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Speaker 2: right place. It's literally is just the voice of women

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Speaker 2: right now. That's literally in the uber speaking with somebody,

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Speaker 2: and she's literally like talking about what I'm talking about

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Speaker 2: in the son Man exactly like I think a lot

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Speaker 2: of us, especially us independent women, we just want somebody

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Speaker 2: to match up to, you know what I mean. You

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Speaker 2: just want somebody to love us and care for us

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Speaker 2: and protect us, like you know, the men that God

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Speaker 2: said is supposed to do it. And I was saying

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Speaker 2: to her that I grew up in a household where

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Speaker 2: my stepdad, my dad, they were the men of the

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Speaker 2: househole like you know what I mean. Like, so I

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Speaker 2: can't settle for rubbish. It makes absolutely no sense. I

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Speaker 2: saw my stepfather, my father be the father figure and

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Speaker 2: be the man at the house, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know. It's just it's weird. It's like

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Speaker 2: a lot of a lot of these men are in

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Speaker 2: their soft girl.

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Speaker 1: I say, they want to be.

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Speaker 2: Exactly like it is. It is, it is. It is

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Speaker 2: so sadden. A lot of women are opting to be

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Speaker 2: single because there's just someone to deal with it. You

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Speaker 2: have become the men that we want to marry. We

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Speaker 2: have become the men that we want to date. We

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Speaker 2: have become the men that are hustling we it's the

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Speaker 2: women know that are hustling. It's they said, sixty five

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Speaker 2: percent of people that are buying homes, know are single women.

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Speaker 1: First of all, a lot of pas that you do

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Speaker 1: statistics out here and back it up. I'm slight like it.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's a real thing. Like I went down

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Speaker 2: a rabbit hole. I kid you not, ladies, I went

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Speaker 2: down a rabbit hole in writing this song the particular week.

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Speaker 2: Then when the song was written, I sent a bunch

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Speaker 2: of beats. For some reason, I picked this one. Usually

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Speaker 2: you know, it would be like the dancer kind of

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Speaker 2: vibe and are killing that. For the entire week when

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Speaker 2: I sent that beat, every single girlfriend that I had

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Speaker 2: was complaining about their situationship, their relationship, dotty man, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like everybody was complaining. And then that was the same

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Speaker 2: week when the did the Child had started And it

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Speaker 2: was amazing to city dynamic between the men responses in

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Speaker 2: the comments as opposed to the women's responses and the

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Speaker 2: women saying, oh, she's a victim and the men said,

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Speaker 2: oh she wanted it.

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Speaker 1: You got a let you know what I mean. And

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Speaker 1: then that's interesting and the timing of this, and I saw,

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Speaker 1: since we have the seven call from the feed, well

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Speaker 1: jump right into it. You posted what somebody commented, That's

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Speaker 1: why a lot of your female is gonna be oh,

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Speaker 1: single and miserable. Texting calling first is not a man thing.

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Speaker 1: If you're interested in each other and trying to get

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Speaker 1: to know each other, anyone can text first. Texting calling

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Speaker 1: is not chasing female keeper the female singer with them

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Speaker 1: fuckery standards and rules. Now tell me, because you said,

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Speaker 1: do you agree with this perspective? I want to know

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Speaker 1: what your thoughts are about that. Because you posted it

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Speaker 1: and somebody left that comment.

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Speaker 2: I posted it because he left it. Another posts okay,

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Speaker 2: and I was in the middle about it because I

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Texting our colleagues to be

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Speaker 2: a male or female thing. Like we're not kids, So

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Speaker 2: if we like each other, like we should just want

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Speaker 2: only that, but if we're taking it a step farther back.

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Speaker 2: The same man, your grandfather, your great grandfather, he had

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Speaker 2: to text our callers, speak or ask for your grandmother's

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Speaker 2: hand in marriage. So what are you saying? You know

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Speaker 2: what I mean? What are you really saying?

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Speaker 1: You know? That's interesting. I was watching this movie right

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Speaker 1: it's called Together with Deve Franco and Alison Brie, his wife,

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Speaker 1: and they did a movie together. It's a horror movie.

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Speaker 1: But in the movie it's something I never thought about.

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Speaker 1: She proposed to him in front of their friends and

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Speaker 1: didn't go well. Everybody was looking like, what is going

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Speaker 1: I used to always think like, all right, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm a very like liberal woman, but I also could

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Speaker 1: see why even a man, a man should be like ooh,

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Speaker 1: I don't want that, yeah, you know, but something I

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Speaker 1: want to be proposed to. Nowadays, I feel like they

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Speaker 1: do what I mean, Traditions, I feel must be a tradition. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: in some traditions I feel must just be lift as tradition.

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Speaker 2: Understand that we're liberal. I understand that, you know, we're

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Speaker 2: living our world nowhere. There there are no lines basically,

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Speaker 2: but I feel like, you know, certain things like even

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Speaker 2: that's you know what I mean, there's certain things that

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Speaker 1: Well finistic start, what are some traditions that you like?

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Speaker 3: So you know, a lot of people have issues about

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Speaker 3: gender roles. For me, I feel like there's some gender

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Speaker 3: roles that I want to apply to my relationship because

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Speaker 3: that's my preference.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 3: So do I feel like the man needs to be

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Speaker 3: chivalrous and opening doors and taking care of certain things?

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Speaker 1: I really do?

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Speaker 3: We know, I don't want to pay for any dates.

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Speaker 3: I went on a date and went shopping recently and

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Speaker 3: I paid for an uber okay, and he was like,

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Speaker 3: why are you even doing that? And I was like,

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Speaker 3: I need that.

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Speaker 1: I feel good.

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Speaker 3: I need that type of energy that's going to let

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Speaker 3: me feel like you said, safe but feminine. M I

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Speaker 3: read this article recently about It was from a man

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Speaker 3: which I was impressed by, and he was saying, how

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Speaker 3: whoever's the baby in the relationship makes the other person

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Speaker 3: a child, that puts us in a mother situation instead

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Speaker 3: the ones protected. So we went to daddy, So, what

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Speaker 3: do you think your role as a woman Since we're

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Speaker 3: talking about the man's role for you, What is your

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Speaker 3: role as a woman then, I mean, I think all

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Speaker 3: relationships should be based on an understanding of friendship. I

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Speaker 3: think that's very important to me. I think providing that

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Speaker 3: make sure some things are in order. But I'm definitely

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Speaker 3: still going to maintain my independence at all time. But

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Speaker 3: I think it's just providing a safe space to be

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Speaker 1: Okay, so that what about you, g What do you

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm really in the Probably one of the only

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Speaker 4: ways of me being traditional might be with gender roles,

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Speaker 4: because I really feel like there's certain things when it

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Speaker 4: comes to the relationship, the household, the marriage that the

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Speaker 4: men should do and the women should do, like, for instance,

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Speaker 4: cooking clean in household chores. You know, I think that

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Speaker 4: women should be responsible for laundry, men should be responsible for.

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Speaker 1: Trash, just like keeping like things like that and do

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Speaker 1: that at home. Yeah, only my man be messing my

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Speaker 1: laundry up. Yeah, they don't really know what I'm doing

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Speaker 4: I don't really know what I do when it comes to that,

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Speaker 4: and I'm not trying to pick up no heavy, stinky

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Speaker 4: trash right and have to deal with that. So and

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Speaker 4: then when it comes to like, of course I agree

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Speaker 4: with Jordan and I don't want to pay for no

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Speaker 4: I'll pay for breakfast and birthdays. That's probably about it.

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Speaker 4: But when it comes to like with this article, was

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Speaker 4: with this text message with a message was saying, with

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Speaker 4: definitely feel like it should be like a reciprocal thing,

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Speaker 4: not who should do it first. It should be if

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Speaker 4: I want to hear from you, then I'm gonna reach

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Speaker 4: out and tell you. If I miss you, I'm a

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Speaker 4: reach out you. If I want to check on you,

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Speaker 4: how was your day? How are you feeling, I'm gonna reach

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Speaker 4: out and tell you. It shouldn't be oh, you didn't

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Speaker 4: text me, so I'm not going to text you type

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Speaker 4: of thing like I think that's very childish.

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Speaker 1: But for you, tif what would you say? Are the

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Speaker 1: things that you're like? These are the norms that I

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Speaker 1: actually like today that I want to keep applying to myself.

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Speaker 2: Well, it would be a merger between these two. But

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Speaker 2: as I said, I grew up in a hoshel weird.

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Speaker 2: If I saw my mom like do the mommy things

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Speaker 2: like get up, make breakfast, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: take care of us. I saw my dad, my stepdad

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Speaker 2: will be like here here's the money, like go, spend, go,

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Speaker 2: you know, take care of the But I also saw

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Speaker 2: you went to PTA, I know you've been doing this. Okay,

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Speaker 2: let me take schooler up this morning.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Because in anything you need, as you said, reciprocity and balance,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Not only because I'm much

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Speaker 2: of means Okay, here's some money, but where I can

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Speaker 2: step in a step in, the same thing with my mom,

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Speaker 2: where she could step in where the business was concerned,

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Speaker 2: she stepped in us. So I think it's just it's

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Speaker 2: just it's just a balance and reciprocity.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's interesting because for me, I feel like I've

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Speaker 1: always been used to like paying for things and so

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Speaker 1: but I realized that, like my man hated, I always

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Speaker 1: am like quick to be like, oh, you know, pull

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Speaker 1: out my card and everything. So sometimes I do have

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Speaker 1: to step back and let that happen. I also don't

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Speaker 1: like when guys walk on the inside. It don't even

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Speaker 1: have to be my man, like just any guy if

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Speaker 1: he's walking down the black with you. I don't know

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Speaker 1: why that matters to me, but I do feel like

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Speaker 1: it's weird when I'm walking on the outside and the

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Speaker 1: guy's not like, hold on, get on the inside. That's

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Speaker 1: a former protect Greeds Form Protection agreed. I just know

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Speaker 1: because guys are going to be listening like, well, what

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Speaker 1: do y'all have to do for us? You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, And I know people guys think about that

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Speaker 1: because we're there. I just want us to stop the

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Speaker 1: Well this you're still able to be cordial? Yah, because

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's about it's about control with me because

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Speaker 2: I am as much as I'm a girl, I'm one

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Speaker 2: Say it's always been about Okay, then how do we

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Speaker 1: But we can't be tamed?

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Speaker 4: Has there ever been an issue in your relationships with

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Speaker 1: Know how they say that, Yes, yes, you navigated through that.

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Speaker 2: I've been asked before, why do you have so many?

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Speaker 2: Like they took my phone search my phone. Why do

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Speaker 1: Asked about that it's a male dominated feel that you're exactly.

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Speaker 1: I've had people you can't be successful doing what you

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Speaker 2: I've had one guy be like, Okay, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: But then you're outside, you.

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Speaker 2: You you know what I mean, Like it has to

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Speaker 2: that you know, there was.

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Speaker 1: A period of time when it did feel like you

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Speaker 1: so you would have been okay with saying on.

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Speaker 2: Like you know what I mean, especially especially nowhere, even

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Speaker 2: about somebody else. Like I wasn't about to walk away

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Speaker 1: Tell you, I was making sure this is still your dream,

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Speaker 2: But all right, some most some people hate the pandemic,

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Speaker 2: because I was I was so hurt. I thought like,

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Speaker 2: Then the barter with my pearents was if you want

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Speaker 1: But you know how many relate to that too, because no, yeah, but.

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Speaker 2: And I was just like, listen, I'm going to do this.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to sing about life, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: That was much more, you know what I mean. I

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Speaker 2: change the culture, she's trying to change. And then again

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Speaker 2: I could speak and I was educated. So then carpet

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Speaker 2: A lot of people didn't understand it. Why her, Why

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Speaker 2: the situation with my bone disease and my legs. But

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Speaker 2: they didn't understand that it was a plus for me

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Speaker 2: a school to administer to teams and girls, and then

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Speaker 2: of people never understood that. I never really exactly so

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Speaker 2: what I mean. And I was just at that point,

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Speaker 2: I was just so tired and she sits on a

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Speaker 2: carpet empire. We want this now, okay, we see what

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Speaker 2: she can do. And it was literally operation and taped

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Speaker 2: don't And I was just like, oh my god, like

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Speaker 2: I can't understand you want you know, other people to

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Speaker 2: come into space or you know what I mean, But don't,

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Speaker 2: don't play my legacy. Don't don't play the word that

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Speaker 2: And I was just so hurt, right, you know what

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Speaker 1: So even so in the beginning for you, when you

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Speaker 1: to you, that was a better time period for you though,

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Speaker 1: because it was was it just about.

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Speaker 2: It, you know what, It's crazy, it was it was better.

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Speaker 2: You know, you got the discouragement because you got the

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Speaker 2: discouragement because you know, people told me you should write.

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Speaker 2: You're a good writer, you should write. You don't think

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Speaker 2: the typical description about a dance artist is and then

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Speaker 2: remember my parents sent me to school. My stepfather is

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Speaker 2: the person that broke Ladysa. He has his Diamonda's records,

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Speaker 2: like he's the person that brought Lady Start to the

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Speaker 2: world exactly. And I did not piggyback on that. Because

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00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:44,960
Speaker 2: I was supposed to be a psychologist, as supposed to

435
00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:46,399
Speaker 2: go to college, you know what I mean.

436
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:47,080
Speaker 1: I had to do it.

437
00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:50,000
Speaker 2: I had to prove myself on my own. But then

438
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:53,320
Speaker 2: I started to figure things out, you know what I mean,

439
00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,840
Speaker 2: I started to like apply the host so, like, people

440
00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:59,719
Speaker 2: don't even understand. When I got my first endorsement, it

441
00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:01,720
Speaker 2: was even like on the premise of being tea for

442
00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:05,240
Speaker 2: the artists, they paid me as a model. But I'm like, Okay,

443
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have billboards in all of Jamaica. I'm gonna

444
00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:10,159
Speaker 2: have all of these readers as I can pay for.

445
00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:12,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have all of these newspapers as I can

446
00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,360
Speaker 2: pay for. Like I literally just use that to pimp

447
00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:16,600
Speaker 2: the game, promote my son, you know what I mean,

448
00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,399
Speaker 2: and then to get my big break. But if people

449
00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:22,880
Speaker 2: were like, nah, that's a big company, like they should

450
00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:24,679
Speaker 2: be paying you, and I'm like, yo, you don't understand

451
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:26,800
Speaker 2: the value of taking a little bit less, yeah, to

452
00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:30,160
Speaker 2: get you know what I mean else, So they didn't

453
00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:33,040
Speaker 2: understand the business again again, because you know what I mean.

454
00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,000
Speaker 1: They like, everything's not just about money exactly. Yeah, So

455
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,920
Speaker 1: it was a little bit better. And then social media

456
00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:40,199
Speaker 1: wasn't about like it was about was.

457
00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 2: It wasn't like, yeah we had Facebook, we had It

458
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,680
Speaker 2: wasn't like now where if you drop your cup it's

459
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 2: on shame, wake up, you know. So like it was,

460
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:53,720
Speaker 2: it was a little bit different. And I like the

461
00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:56,920
Speaker 2: fact that like I broke like going to the parties

462
00:20:56,960 --> 00:21:00,520
Speaker 2: at night, washing the one shirt with one pro my shirt,

463
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 2: sleeping in the day and going to another party that

464
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,640
Speaker 2: the Chenogemica party seven days, you know what I mean.

465
00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:09,160
Speaker 2: So it was it was somewhat a little bit easier,

466
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 2: somewhat okay. And then Soco at the time from More

467
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,160
Speaker 2: twenty one familiar with Souco Soco at the time from

468
00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:17,000
Speaker 2: More twenty one because at the time we have we

469
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:19,960
Speaker 2: had a juggling culture. So you have like eight people

470
00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:23,439
Speaker 2: on the same rythm, the same beat, and if you

471
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,400
Speaker 2: weren't exceptional or you were like a ladist or Antania students,

472
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:29,359
Speaker 2: you wouldn't hear yourself on the bait. So Soco came

473
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 2: up with this idea that okay, let me do our

474
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 2: female juggling reading because them you're sitting and necessarily how

475
00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 2: I got my start, like myself Timberly with bubble like

476
00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:41,399
Speaker 2: soup that's still viral up to today, you know what

477
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 2: I mean. The Angel a whole bunch of us that

478
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 2: were on it. That's how we really got our starts.

479
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,840
Speaker 2: It's a little bit easier now with social media because

480
00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:50,960
Speaker 2: you can you know, you can't.

481
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 1: Go for it. I feel like Dancer and is really

482
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 1: having a time right now more than ever. Yeah, because

483
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:58,840
Speaker 1: you know, I've always loved Dancer and there's people that

484
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:00,680
Speaker 1: have for a period of times said that only the

485
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 1: only like the old school stuff, you know, and the

486
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:06,120
Speaker 1: classic dance our songs and back in like the nineties.

487
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 1: But I feel like now seeing everybody selling our shows,

488
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 1: going on tour, it's big. Isn't the fact that people

489
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 1: are mad about this song?

490
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 2: It's a double edged sword because when you're really thinking

491
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 2: about it, VI has come back into the space, Buju

492
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:24,200
Speaker 2: has come back into the spaces from the nineties. Be

493
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 2: I have gotten back their visas that's from the nineties,

494
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,400
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Yeah, So though, I mean,

495
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 2: I love a lot of the younger acts are coming up,

496
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,159
Speaker 2: but a lot of them broke in the pandemic, so

497
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 2: they didn't really get to tour tour, and you know,

498
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 2: friends are really people like they broke on live, you

499
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,119
Speaker 2: know what I mean. So they have a lot of

500
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 2: learning to do in terms of performing as opposed to

501
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 2: the Binnie, the Bounty, the Boujo that, you know.

502
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:50,880
Speaker 1: What I mean.

503
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 2: They came through the right passage, so that's helping. I know,

504
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 2: people realize that they're doing better songs where people like

505
00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 2: Russian that is already you know what I mean, and

506
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 2: started but the juggling culture last year. So I think

507
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 2: a combination of all of those fucked us are helping

508
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:08,719
Speaker 2: to push the genre right.

509
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 1: No, right now, listen. I gotta ask you because I

510
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: know you're the lord of the rings. Oh God, and

511
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,679
Speaker 1: I know you said listen, being a single is not

512
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 1: necessarily your choice. You would much better than that.

513
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 2: No, I don't mind. Yeah, of course everybody wants to

514
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 2: be loved and touched. Toys can do so much.

515
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 1: Are you dating?

516
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 2: I kind of what.

517
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,679
Speaker 1: Are you looking for? If you had to say, like,

518
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 1: you know, these are the qualities, and we're going to

519
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: go around the room and we talk about I want

520
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,400
Speaker 1: a man, all right. I want us to all lists

521
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 1: what we want when we say I want a man,

522
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: So you think about it. Because I don't just say

523
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:50,640
Speaker 1: what you said on a song.

524
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 2: No no, no, no no, I'm going to tell you

525
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:52,640
Speaker 2: for really real.

526
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 1: Okay.

527
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 2: Good hygiene is the first gene because the perfect.

528
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 1: Flaws we needed a flaw us.

529
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:01,359
Speaker 2: I don't need knows to be yeah, because I'm a

530
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 2: very like sensual, sexual, touchy feeling exactly, and there are

531
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,479
Speaker 2: people that don't be Remember this whole conversation that we're like, Oh,

532
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 2: I don't bad for a week, like I needed to

533
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 2: have good gen. I like somebody that can make my laugh.

534
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 1: Okay.

535
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,159
Speaker 2: I love a comedon. I love somebody that you know

536
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 2: doesn't take you know, things too seriously, and you know

537
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 2: that can laugh and joke about but also like an

538
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 2: educated man. So we can laugh about the tequila about

539
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 2: at the same time, we can talk about world issues

540
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 2: and we can plan, you know exactly. You know what

541
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:35,679
Speaker 2: I mean. We can laugh about other things than your

542
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 2: red bottoms are how many battles your but you know

543
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,919
Speaker 2: what I mean. I like somebody that is money, savy,

544
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 2: and ambitious. I like, I'm a can dress.

545
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 1: What about looks?

546
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 2: I don't have a type. Okay, I don't have a

547
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 2: type it per se. I just talked to her, I like,

548
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 2: none of my exes are the same. M hm, yeah,

549
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 2: I don't have a type.

550
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: What about bedroom?

551
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 2: And I am very sex prejudice if that's a thing.

552
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 1: What does that mean? Prejudice means that sounds like a

553
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 1: song in the South?

554
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 2: Okay, that you did. I am very sexually prejudiced, like

555
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 2: if I'm not about to stay with you because you

556
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 2: have money, but the sex is terrible? Oh okay, sex

557
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 2: has to be good like the sex like has to

558
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,399
Speaker 2: be like I just want that one person to be

559
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 2: freaking nasty with, but it has to be good, like

560
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 2: I have to be comfortable, like I'm not going to

561
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 2: compromise and the sex at all.

562
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,679
Speaker 1: Okay, because you know, there's all these movements about Jamaican

563
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 1: men and we've already done that. Yeah, is that important

564
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 1: to you?

565
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 2: Head? Yeah, it's twenty twenty five, Like who's doing.

566
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: Still trying to act like and you know what's crazy.

567
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 2: You will talk to other women and they will tell you, oh,

568
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 2: the best head I got was from a Jamaica.

569
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: You said that before that the first head I got.

570
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 2: Dot tell nobody the best head you get this fromman? Like,

571
00:25:56,400 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 2: come on, fine, but sorry, don't tell.

572
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:05,119
Speaker 4: Nobody feel like they just can't because it's culture.

573
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 1: What about for women right and not now and down

574
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 1: and all of that, Like was that something that you

575
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 1: felt like you couldn't do? No, I don't tell about it.

576
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 2: I mean, That's what I said. I And this is

577
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 2: why I'm very selective about even my partners when it comes.

578
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not one of those women that like

579
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 2: run into your sexuals because I want to get to

580
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 2: know you're, like, you know what I mean, have to

581
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 2: check your fingers as certain question you know what I mean.

582
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 2: I want to ask you certain questions like what turns

583
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 2: it on? Like you know what I mean. I want

584
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:38,119
Speaker 2: to know that we're equally your sex. I'm going to

585
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,640
Speaker 2: share this body video like I think people just take sex.

586
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna know. I'm more like, I want to know

587
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,119
Speaker 2: what turns on, what makes a tick, and if we

588
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 2: don't align, it doesn't make any sense.

589
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 1: Turns what turns you on?

590
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 2: It can be the simplest thing, okay, it like if

591
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 2: I'm attracted to you, it can just be a smile

592
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 2: at me. I just want to take closees off you. You

593
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 2: know what I mean? If I much tracked it to you,

594
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 2: like you literally don't have to do nothing like gree

595
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 2: and free and I'm gonna be like.

596
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 1: Chemistry when you fas somebody, somebody could be very attractive,

597
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: but there could be no chemistry, and somebody could be

598
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: not traditionally attractive and you could be like this is it?

599
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I'm all for like I want, I want.

600
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:23,959
Speaker 2: I just think that life is too short to waste

601
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 2: it on bad sex.

602
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 3: I agree that, But how long does that research process

603
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 3: last for you?

604
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,879
Speaker 2: But it depends, like because you can literally just have

605
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 2: the coversation shot like a couple of years, a week,

606
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 2: two weeks. It just depends on how open again, how

607
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 2: open that person is, because some people like they're freaks,

608
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 2: but you know they take time to pull it out

609
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 2: of them, you know what I mean. And you find

610
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 2: that the quiet ones usually the quiet ones, they are

611
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 2: the freakiest ones, right, they're like, You're like, so you

612
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 2: had it in you like you made a.

613
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: Wait, let me ask you this. Have you ever like

614
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 1: thought something was going to be good? What like what's

615
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 1: a bad experience to you? Because you know we're talking

616
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: about like the sex has to be right and sometimes

617
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 1: you can't tell until you actually do it, and then.

618
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 2: You're like I usually know what to pick them, but

619
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 2: what tips you are? But once when but like when

620
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 2: I was just starting, you know, you're just you. You

621
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 2: know when I just started, it was yeah. But like

622
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 2: I'm Jamaica, We're gonna go. I'm gonna rub up on you.

623
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna see what you're working with it. I'm gonna say,

624
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 2: you know, you're we smooth. I'm gonna I want you

625
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 2: to underson. I want to kid someone like I'm gonna

626
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 2: put myself in like I'm the type of person I

627
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 2: rob a boob on you just to see how you're

628
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 2: But usually I know who to pick them, like I had,

629
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 2: like like earlier on like when I just started this journey,

630
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 2: like I had like one bad experience.

631
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 1: Well we're made it bad. I want to hear it.

632
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 2: It was very quick.

633
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: You know, he can't get a second chance because sometimes

634
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: you know, they'd be nervous very quick.

635
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 2: And it was it was the stubbing and it wasn't courage.

636
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 1: It's daggering.

637
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it was Yeah, it was just nuts. It

638
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 2: was just not good.

639
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: At what's the worst sex experience.

640
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 3: That it's the jack rabbiting. I hate that, Yeah, I

641
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 3: hate the rabbit movement. It's just like childish to me, right, and.

642
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: It followed by the lord grunt lord, and you just

643
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 1: kind of be laying there like what the fuck? Literally,

644
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: have you ever rolled your eyes during sex? Like what?

645
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I had. G What's your worst experience?

646
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 4: Probably the time that I never even got to feel

647
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 4: the penis because he orgasm before I like one lick

648
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 4: and it was just like, Okay.

649
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 1: Did you feel like though maybe powerful in that moment?

650
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,959
Speaker 4: I did, but I mean I was attempting to do it,

651
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 4: so it's just like you let me down in that

652
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 4: moment and we never did it.

653
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 1: He couldn't even go again because I feel like if

654
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: I gotten was over.

655
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 4: It after that, like literally I pulled it out and

656
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 4: attempted to like give him here and I like licked

657
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 4: from the bottom up and he just like came on

658
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 4: my hand and I was just like.

659
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 2: Oh, do you apologize?

660
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 4: He did, but he the apology wasn't enough for him

661
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 4: to get a REALM two.

662
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 1: We'll probably say that was the worst because it never happened. Yeah,

663
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I want Jordan to open this bottle. Oh yeah,

664
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 1: pop this bottle because we got to celebrate, you know what,

665
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, we got to sell it. First

666
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 1: of all, I'm not mad at you for doing a

667
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: sign that made people mad. I think that's good. That's

668
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: a positive thing.

669
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 4: I even try to like make the people mad. They

670
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 4: just got mad, right.

671
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: That. Did you anticipate that?

672
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 2: And you know some people were going to like have

673
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 2: like you know, like I was gonna have some backlash,

674
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 2: you know, in terms of standing up for a woman,

675
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 2: especially like no, in Jamaica it's seventy I think it's

676
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 2: seventy five percent paternity fraud. Oh wow, yeah, so they've

677
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 2: been giving me that like Morris sure would be having

678
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 2: like a blasting, right whoa somebody blessings that's what happened

679
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 2: to Yeah, there's been like that's wild. Yeah, like crazy.

680
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 2: So at least at least at least at least least

681
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 2: at least men don't give jackets. At least we don't

682
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 2: give the wrong kids to the wrong man, you know

683
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 2: what I mean. So that I've been having that robot.

684
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: Like wow, yeah, that's so. I got to ask you, so,

685
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: how many times have you been engaged? Like three and

686
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: a half three and a half half, Right, I.

687
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 2: Wasn't sure if it happened like you know it happened

688
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 2: with you. Wasn't sure if it was a proposal, it

689
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 2: was a promise, it was a but it.

690
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: Was so that counts yeah, support times all right. So

691
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 1: the first time you were engaged at over you.

692
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 2: That's pretty young, like twenty three.

693
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, so what happened with that?

694
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 2: It fizzled. He was strange.

695
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: She liked to say yes, but you caught off guy.

696
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 2: I think I think that's what it is. I think

697
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 2: I don't want people to feel bad. That's what I

698
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 2: always say.

699
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 1: Yes, especially if it's in front of people.

700
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 2: I've been coming to terms with that. I think that's

701
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 2: what it is. But with that guy in particular, he

702
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:24,719
Speaker 2: just became very obsessive and he tattooed my name on

703
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: his thing.

704
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: What yeah, slow down out, I got some tattoos. I

705
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: actually had tattoo there too, But.

706
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 2: It became ubsessive. It became like weird and obsessive.

707
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 1: Here's a good pussy. Let me tell you something. This

708
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: man that got his your name tattooed on his thing,

709
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: your phone name Latifa or just I was gonna say

710
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: I wanted because if it was a phone name, that's

711
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: big like at the top or where where like shaft,

712
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 1: that's painful, and who did that tattoo? Right, Well, it

713
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: has to look different when it's when it's nice, right,

714
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: That's what I was doing because.

715
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 2: When it was he was a different character. He was fun.

716
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: That sounds w and it it takes some pain.

717
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 2: Let me tell you.

718
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: I think.

719
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 2: I think because as I said, there's a process in

720
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 2: the beginning, and we're getting to know each other, and

721
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: we're getting to know the kings, and the conversation is nice,

722
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 2: and it will end up it's like almost end up

723
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 2: falling immediately because of the conversation and our interests and

724
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And then the sex happens

725
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 2: because clearly we are aligned sexually, and then the sex

726
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 2: is great, and then it becomes a thing, you know

727
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 2: what I mean. I think that's what always happens.

728
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: I can't believe he did that. I'm just thinking about

729
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 1: how painful that could be. And then also like the scab,

730
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 1: and then like we said, when it's limb, was he

731
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: a shower or a grower? Did you know he was

732
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 1: going to do it? Did he surprise you with it?

733
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 1: He just pulled it out one day, like look, baby,

734
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: look what I did. Did you feel like that was love.

735
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 2: It scared me. It scared me, and the way it

736
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 2: was a long destide because he was from here and

737
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 2: I was living in Jerminicatta time.

738
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: Okay, it was weird.

739
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. It was weird, kind of like I'm

740
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 2: scared for you.

741
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 1: It seem like a fully tattooed man. Though, yeah he's

742
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 1: got okay, he said, this is only space left not know.

743
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 2: I probably saw him maybe ten years ago. I don't

744
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 2: know where he is. I don't know what he's doing.

745
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 2: I don't I don't know.

746
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 1: Well, how did y'all break up?

747
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 2: And why? Why did we not? I want? I as

748
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 2: thinking it was because, of course, men are greedy and one,

749
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 2: how are you.

750
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 1: Gonna have another woman with my name tattooed on your dick?

751
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 1: That's crazy. Imagine you were with a guy and you

752
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: went to go suck it and you saw someone else's name.

753
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't even think I would have

754
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 1: seen it.

755
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 2: They do it like men are strange.

756
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 1: You know, before anything, you're supposed to with the lights on,

757
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 1: literally do an inspection the same way men do the

758
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 1: touch and smell on the little tests. You gotta do that.

759
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 1: Let me gotta do it.

760
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 3: Would have put it together, but those are that's a tattoo.

761
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 3: I just don't think my mind would have on there

762
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 3: and told this moment Now, I'm like.

763
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: I've heard a tattoo on the inside of the lips. Yeah,

764
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: but you put it there, but it needs stan it's crazy. Wow.

765
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 1: Let me, have you ever dated a white guy? I

766
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 1: want to because I'm gonna tell you this, so Jordan

767
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 1: and you have one of my friends get on a

768
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 1: dating app. Yes, And she said a lot of white

769
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 1: guys have been hitting her up and she's never dated

770
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 1: a white guy.

771
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 2: I want to have. I never have, but I want to.

772
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 1: Why do you want to just think?

773
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 2: I just I get out of such a terms and

774
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 2: I'd love to try different things. I just wanted to experience.

775
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: I had some great experiences with the white guys. Never did.

776
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 4: They were all older though I never had like the

777
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 4: same age. We're younger than me.

778
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 1: She said, it's a lot of older white guys.

779
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 2: Said maybe maybe I've had friends that's so like you

780
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 2: know what I mean was mind? What's it called? She

781
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 2: got daddes not come that's different though that's actual thing.

782
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: I know. I know.

783
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 2: The day didn't know it kind of weird, but they

784
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 2: like they treat women like, yeah, I think I wanted

785
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 2: to try it. I've never tried it.

786
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:06,280
Speaker 1: Chinese?

787
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 2: You have is that Chinese?

788
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 1: But you know it's hard.

789
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 2: They always say that Asian people have the smallest dick,

790
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 2: but he has had the biggest one thus far.

791
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: But shout out to us, Wow, well you know I

792
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: want to have an Asian husband. Crazy, let's you know, babies.

793
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 1: I've never been with a Chinese guy, and I've always

794
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 1: felt like bad for us because I know people say that.

795
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:34,760
Speaker 1: So you know, so I'm glad.

796
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 2: You know he was actually the biggest one thus far,

797
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 2: He's been the biggest one.

798
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 1: I can't believe you did. Yeah, well, I guess it's

799
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 1: a lot of Chinese people in Jamaica. That's name when I.

800
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 2: Was always I'm so glad. I want to, like I

801
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 2: want to experience. Mostly are like, oh, I don't want to.

802
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 2: I don't want to date outside my culture because then

803
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 2: I have to explain what is color lo what is planting?

804
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, he was Chinese Jamaican, but you

805
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 2: could get white, of course, But I don't care, Like,

806
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 2: I just want the experience of you to be something different.

807
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,399
Speaker 1: I can't believe that was the biggest Let me ask

808
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: you this. Have you ever had somebody that was too big?

809
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,760
Speaker 1: That just wow? So what happened?

810
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 2: So he had to wear our ring? Yeah, he had

811
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 2: to wear a ring so all of it couldn't go

812
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 2: inside because if all of it like went inside, it

813
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 2: would like like destroy. To wear a ring at the

814
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 2: point like yeah, yeah, he had to have like a stupper.

815
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:39,400
Speaker 1: That's crazy. I think.

816
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 2: Most like he did mostly like fellowshi. So he was

817
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 2: the one that put me onto the fact that like

818
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 2: when you have strawberries, the taste that's even the taste,

819
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 2: but the sensation is greater because of the seed the seeds.

820
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:55,879
Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't know that.

821
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,399
Speaker 2: So he's like when it comes down to.

822
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 1: Did you did you feel like I want to try

823
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: to put the whole thing in or was it painful.

824
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 2: When I started? Was like what We spoke about it

825
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 2: and he told me, like, you know, the doctor gave

826
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 2: him the ring, ring, all of it, all of it,

827
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 2: because it's it's like huge.

828
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: Was it exciting for you? Like tire?

829
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 2: So yeah, of course I'm going to be intriguing. I

830
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 2: want to see it. I want you know what I mean?

831
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: Did you attempt to perform Filicia.

832
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you couldn't do it never, It wasn't it wasn't.

833
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 1: Wasn't it to be for a guy because he can't

834
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: never get like, yeah, experience only used part of it.

835
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 2: You have to, like because I wanted to see it,

836
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:48,800
Speaker 2: like you, so you have to wear a ring. He's like,

837
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,400
Speaker 2: you have to wear a ring because if all of

838
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 2: it goes inside, You're like, it's over for you, destroy

839
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 2: your inside.

840
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 4: Do you know that there's a surgery where men can

841
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 4: get a penis reduction enlargement but not un so I

842
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 4: recently learned this. I literally I think like yeah, yeah, yesterday,

843
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 4: so there's a she's been going viral on Instagram. She's

844
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:14,360
Speaker 4: from Houston, and she's very loud and proud about her

845
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 4: you know, both having both yeah and scrolling yesterday I

846
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 4: kind of went down a deep dive of her because

847
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 4: I was intrigued by her saying that she's about to

848
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 4: have a penis reduction and her reason for it, because

849
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 4: she not physically shows, but through the pants and through

850
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 4: the print, we can see that it's actually really large

851
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 4: and that she got like big sits in the big

852
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 4: dick and there's a vagina up underneath where the balls

853
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 4: would be, and she says that she's been more in

854
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 4: touch with her feminine side and that she's dressing more feminine.

855
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: But then a brushia air come by.

856
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 4: And now she's like, you know, and she's like it's

857
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 4: She's like, so she is in the process of getting

858
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 4: having a to have surgery to get it not.

859
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,760
Speaker 1: Removed, but because it's just too big.

860
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 3: Can you imagine, Wow, he's traveling around with this ring

861
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 3: at all times, just in case, or he just has

862
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 3: it at home or.

863
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 2: When she's intrigue battertration just when when he was our

864
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 2: own me. I don't know if he took it off

865
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 2: like we didn't live together. If when you went to yeah,

866
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 2: have you ever lived with anyone? No, he made a

867
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 2: face like I don't know. No. Again, I'm such a

868
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,399
Speaker 2: tires So I want to feel like I'm in a relationship,

869
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 2: but I also want to I want space. Is that weird?

870
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 3: No?

871
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: You travel a lot, though, so you get so you're

872
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,280
Speaker 1: gonna have space regardless. Can you see yourself with somebody

873
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,280
Speaker 1: else in the business. I mean, you've done it before,

874
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 1: but is that what you think you would prefer?

875
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 2: No?

876
00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 1: Mm hmmmm, especially after having experience.

877
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 2: I don't like you think about just being with an

878
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 2: ordinary man and getting cheated on, like with an ordinary

879
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:10,719
Speaker 2: man that cheated on with an entertain It's like it's

880
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 2: a completely like you're getting worldwide we love to call

881
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 2: it bone. You're getting a worldwide bone. I don't have

882
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 2: time for like a worldwide like. It's it's too much

883
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 2: like And then you have your friends that are in

884
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 2: the industry, you know, every time and again you have

885
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 2: to lie for them, you know what I mean, Like

886
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 2: you know what goes on, like I just.

887
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:29,240
Speaker 1: Don't people.

888
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 2: Like you, and like you just don't I just don't

889
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 2: want to be I just don't want I just don't

890
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 2: want to. Like there's life is stressful as it is, yes,

891
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 2: and the less stress the better, you know.

892
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:46,439
Speaker 1: I was thinking about. You have this song with Noah

893
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 1: Poet in the video Wicked. Why are you laughing? We

894
00:41:53,440 --> 00:42:00,919
Speaker 1: can get no no choke. But you know, the way

895
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 1: you started off is kind of like it seems like

896
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: you're very direct when it comes to talking to men

897
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:10,399
Speaker 1: and just being like I'm sorry, you know, sorry, not sorry.

898
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: I just don't love you.

899
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 2: You know, as it is, I think life is just

900
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 2: much easier when you tell the truth. Yes, and I mean.

901
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: Is that wicked though?

902
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 2: They see it as wi kid, you know what I mean? Like, oh,

903
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 2: she like, can you believe she said? This is what

904
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 2: I'm telling me? You like, right, No, I know this

905
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 2: is not going to work. Or let's just call it

906
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 2: a day, you know what I mean? Why prolong it?

907
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: Communication is very important?

908
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 2: You know what's weird? As much as I'm a sexual

909
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 2: person and I love text, I've never treated.

910
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: Okay, there's nothing wrong with that.

911
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 2: Yes, I mean I've never I'd rather to just like

912
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 2: if I feel like I want to cheat and I

913
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 2: break up.

914
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,879
Speaker 1: With you, Like, what's the longest relationship you've been in,

915
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 1: like three years?

916
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 2: Three going four years?

917
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: Okay?

918
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I've never liked you know what I mean.

919
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: I don't.

920
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:57,760
Speaker 2: I've never seen the reason to be taking too penises

921
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 2: at once. That's just me. That's just my preference. Like,

922
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 2: I don't. I'm not judging anybody else because I have

923
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 2: friends that are very liberal, you know what I mean,

924
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 2: And that's their thing.

925
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 1: I don't know that cheating is a liberal thing. I

926
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:09,439
Speaker 1: think it's but being honest.

927
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 4: And currently sleeping with multiple men, you know that's not

928
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 4: technically cheating.

929
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 2: I personally, I guess because I have a spiritual aside. Also,

930
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 2: I personally just I just don't. As I said, I

931
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 2: just want that one person. And I'd be like, Okay,

932
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 2: let's go down this rabbit hole together, you know what

933
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,760
Speaker 2: I mean. So if I feel like it's not working,

934
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 2: or if I feel like I rather dous ended, no, like,

935
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 2: let's just call it.

936
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: But what about sometimes you got to ride through the

937
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 1: bad times because it's always going to be times, and

938
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,239
Speaker 1: it feels like it's not working for a moment, I

939
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: would think, you know what it is? Like how you

940
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: know it's not a glitch and it's you know that.

941
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:53,360
Speaker 2: I think I was traumatized by probably a relationship or

942
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:57,319
Speaker 2: two myself, and probably even other relationships that I've seen

943
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,359
Speaker 2: from like aunts and other persons where you know, ride

944
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 2: or die and you know they're taught to stick it out.

945
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 2: They're taught, you know, it's about the family and till

946
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:07,840
Speaker 2: death do was part. And then you're getting treated and

947
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: you're getting beaten, you're getting you know what I mean.

948
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 2: And I just knew that, and especially when I had

949
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:14,920
Speaker 2: my first heartbreak, I knew that I never wanted to

950
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 2: feel that way again. And I knew that I never

951
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 2: wanted that for myself. And I think that's why I

952
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 2: even though I have not had a child yet, because

953
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 2: I knew certain things I didn't want to feel or

954
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 2: go through.

955
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 1: What was your first heartbreak?

956
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 2: My first heartbreak? I think my first real heartbreak was

957
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 2: I was with a guy and it's the first and

958
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 2: the only time I had gotten pregnant. And most people

959
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: would lose like a Kida last twins and it was

960
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 2: just a very traumatic experience. I mean, like I had

961
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 2: one was EP topic, the other one was in the stomach,

962
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 2: and then when the EP topic one, you know, they

963
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 2: got rid of that one, this one developed a heart beat.

964
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 2: But by the time this one developed a heart beat,

965
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:53,919
Speaker 2: it was just weird, Like I couldn't and he thought

966
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 2: that I didn't want to because of my career, and

967
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 2: you know, he was just being selfish, and he was

968
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:00,800
Speaker 2: very angry at me because I always didn't want to

969
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 2: have my kids, and I'm like, brom, I literally almost died,

970
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I wanted to find out

971
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 2: that somebody else was pregnant for him, and I like,

972
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 2: I think because of that, it has made me somewhat

973
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 2: of Arona it's like the first sign of because I know,

974
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 2: like losing my twins, Like I slept with my mom

975
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 2: for three months, and I was like a woman, you

976
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 2: know what I mean. I just know that I never

977
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 2: wanted to go through that again. And I think that's

978
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 2: why I'm the way I am. And it's like when

979
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 2: I see something now because I was sticking it out

980
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 2: with you, you know what I mean. He had his flowers,

981
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 2: he was you know, he was nice, but he had

982
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 2: his flowers or whatever. And I was just like to

983
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 2: know that I invested my time and my energy and

984
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 2: my efforts and then this none and I had to

985
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 2: go through with.

986
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 1: My mom because he should have been even more there

987
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:46,879
Speaker 1: something like that, and then.

988
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 2: I had to watch y'all like have the baby.

989
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

990
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 2: I just never wanted to go through something like that,

991
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 2: like you know what I mean. And you know, you

992
00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 2: see your aunts, you see you know, you're all cousins

993
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:03,400
Speaker 2: go through things. I just knew I never wanted that

994
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 2: for myself again. And I just knew that nobody was

995
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 2: ever gonna make me feel that way ever again.

996
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: Wow. So that's something that happened that affected you to

997
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: this day. Really, Yeah, like you ain't ever live with nobody.

998
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 1: You're quick to walk away if you feel like it's

999
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 1: not gonna work. That's been a week. I'm gonna leave

1000
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 1: it too bad. But I ain't staying alone, you know

1001
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,479
Speaker 1: what I mean, I can't. That happened.

1002
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 2: Now, that's that's dramatic, you know it is, but it happens.

1003
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 2: And like that, women go, yeah, they do, you know

1004
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 2: what I mean?

1005
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,759
Speaker 1: And I just knew. And for anybody, you would want

1006
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 1: somebody to be there for you when something like that

1007
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 1: has happened. Of course. Yeah.

1008
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 2: And he was he literally like it was at the

1009
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 2: time when my career was taken off. He literally thought

1010
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 2: that I was just telling him this because I didn't

1011
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 2: I didn't want to have his kids and I just

1012
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:50,720
Speaker 2: wanted to focus on my career.

1013
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 1: First of all, the topic pregnancy is very serious. It

1014
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 1: can be deadly. You could lose a lot of blood,

1015
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: it can rupture.

1016
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 4: It's so many I've been through it twice, so there's

1017
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 4: so many things that can happen with it, and it's

1018
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 4: actually very painful. It is.

1019
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 2: Listen, when I walked into that doctor's office and she

1020
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:06,399
Speaker 2: told me, like, you know, climb up on the thing.

1021
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 2: She's like if you had waited a day later, you're

1022
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 2: probably been dead. Same because it was growing, like I

1023
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,319
Speaker 2: didn't even know always I didn't think.

1024
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 1: I was like, I think I went to the doctor too,

1025
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:18,359
Speaker 1: because imagine you want to went to get your check out.

1026
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, invasive, mind, I would have very that. But she's

1027
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:24,879
Speaker 2: very invasive. And I was living in her at the time,

1028
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 2: and she's like, I don't see any paths in the trash,

1029
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 2: like what's happening.

1030
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 1: As you're gonna be big too?

1031
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 2: Like early, Yeah, it was sweating, but I was just thinking,

1032
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 2: you know me, you know what I mean. So it

1033
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:37,720
Speaker 2: was just a very it was a very traumatic experience.

1034
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 2: And I think your therapy, you guys, are therapy because

1035
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 2: I've like I've really talked about this openly. I think

1036
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 2: that's why I'm the way. I know, like I never

1037
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 2: wanted abody to make me feel that way again.

1038
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:53,320
Speaker 1: Right, you know I and I sympathize that. And I

1039
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 1: do want to say though that I always have to

1040
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:58,479
Speaker 1: look at it like this, like any relationship or anything

1041
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: you do is going to be a risk, Like it

1042
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:02,879
Speaker 1: could be the best thing if you take a chance,

1043
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: and it could be the worst thing if you take

1044
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 1: a chance. But the worst thing is to not take

1045
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:10,879
Speaker 1: a chance. You know what I'm saying, I apologize those students. Yeah,

1046
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: oh that's what he reached out and he apologized, like

1047
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 1: you know, I was being you know, selfie show is

1048
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:20,879
Speaker 1: being so you know, yeah, you know, because I don't

1049
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 1: you think that like any And I think it's like

1050
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 1: a shame to never experience like giving something you're all

1051
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 1: just because we're scared because I think it's scary, but

1052
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 1: for your sometimes sometimes being scared is fun.

1053
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 2: Yes, And.

1054
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: In our career and in our relationships, like can happen

1055
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: when you just like fuck it? The worst thing is

1056
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: it don't work.

1057
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 2: I think, well, I'm like just the first time opening

1058
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 2: I think probably two nights things. I was looking through

1059
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 2: a lot of old pictures and it's like, you know what,

1060
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,840
Speaker 2: I think I probably need some therapy because when you

1061
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 2: I was I was born in a bone disease card

1062
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 2: Blown's disease one inn there was sixteen million that has

1063
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 2: When my mom was like six months pregnant, a scarpion

1064
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 2: stunger in the neighbor where the Umbilica card was so poisoner,

1065
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 2: a poison me affected, teeth affected, feet affected. I've had

1066
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:17,279
Speaker 2: dream like surgeries. But like growing up like that, I

1067
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 2: wasn't like I didn't I didn't experience being different until

1068
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 2: I came out of the horse and when I came

1069
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 2: onto the house, it was it was a lot of

1070
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 2: teasing and it was a lot like I've had people

1071
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,800
Speaker 2: like spit out my car because as we're in a

1072
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 2: skirt and whole dere you wear a skirt and you

1073
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 2: know you walk like that. So it's a lot of

1074
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 2: traumatic things that have happened. And you know what I mean,

1075
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 2: I've had to fight, I've had to you know, just

1076
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:41,800
Speaker 2: brush a lot of it to the side. And I

1077
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 2: think that's why I've probably last it's a lot in

1078
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:47,800
Speaker 2: the industries because I'm like I've dealt with you know

1079
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 2: what it is exactly, you know what I mean. So

1080
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 2: I think for me personally, it's a lot of things

1081
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 2: that you know, I need therapy with. But then when

1082
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 2: that happened, that was just the end of it for me,

1083
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:00,840
Speaker 2: Like that just put the cherry on top of the

1084
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 2: cake for me. Like every woman wants to, you know,

1085
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 2: be pregnant and be pregnant for the man that they love,

1086
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 2: and like I did love him at the time, you know,

1087
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 2: what I mean. And then as I said, most women

1088
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 2: would lose a child at last two once you know

1089
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 2: what I mean. It was just like I was just

1090
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: like you know, after everything I got through, like I know,

1091
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 2: I never wanted to feel that way, and I like

1092
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:24,919
Speaker 2: that was when I got my big break to telling

1093
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:28,760
Speaker 2: it too, because I literally just challenge channeled everything into

1094
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 2: being differ at the brand and you know what I mean.

1095
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:34,359
Speaker 2: Like you know, if you call me come, you want

1096
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 2: to date me, fine, but if you're giving me too much,

1097
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 2: trade it like bye, right, you know what I mean,

1098
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:42,800
Speaker 2: Like exactly, so I think I think personally and I

1099
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 2: can admit this openly today I need therapy.

1100
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: But but really you're a superhero, Yes you are. Thank you,

1101
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 1: you know because when we survive all of those things

1102
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: and overcome all those obstacles and the fact that you

1103
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: have been as successful as you have and people don't

1104
00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 1: even know this story, and I'm gonna be honest, you

1105
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,399
Speaker 1: telling us this today makes I want a man even

1106
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 1: more powerful because it explains why it is that you

1107
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 1: feel like you need somebody that can take care of you.

1108
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 1: They can hold you down, that can stand up so

1109
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 1: you could be soft and you can express yourself and

1110
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 1: be vulnerable, and I do think that you're even telling

1111
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 1: us this and we appreciate you for sharing that. It

1112
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:21,320
Speaker 1: also makes that song really resonate even more. Thank you,

1113
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 1: you know, in ways that maybe even when you did it,

1114
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:26,800
Speaker 1: you probably didn't even think it very last, you know,

1115
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:30,800
Speaker 1: So that's dope. We appreciate that. And another song that

1116
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 1: it makes resonate more is outside with Inside Warm you know, shit, no,

1117
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 1: but honestly, I do appreciate that because I know that,

1118
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 1: and even saying that you would like to do therapy,

1119
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:44,960
Speaker 1: I think that's a positive thing.

1120
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:46,280
Speaker 2: Absolutely definitely.

1121
00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:49,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I feel like, you know, if there's ways

1122
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: that we can support and help you in that, because

1123
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: we do have better help as a sponsor, and maybe

1124
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 1: there's ways you can even start off online and then

1125
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 1: sometimes it's a process of like, yeah, finding who works

1126
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 1: for you, but even just being able to talk. I mean,

1127
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,280
Speaker 1: I love that we had this conversation today because honestly,

1128
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: you've been doing this for decades and that's nothing that

1129
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:09,120
Speaker 1: we take lightly. And I feel like I've never heard

1130
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 1: this before, she said, it's the first time really being

1131
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 1: open about it. So again, we do appreciate you for

1132
00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 1: sharing that space somebody you know, Well, is there anything

1133
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 1: else that you want to make sure that we know

1134
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:24,960
Speaker 1: about because I know, like you said, you've had a

1135
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:27,759
Speaker 1: lot of ups and down Listen, you've you know, been

1136
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,400
Speaker 1: engaged broken up. Now we've known a lot about a

1137
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:31,239
Speaker 1: lot more things that.

1138
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 2: You but it's is I mean, just simplest typical things

1139
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 2: that you got to read in the industry, You know

1140
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 2: what I mean. You know, you know this is not

1141
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 2: time exactly, you know, especially especially when you have our brain,

1142
00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 2: and especially when you know it's hard to take advantage

1143
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 2: of you. So I have to comment you also, you

1144
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 2: know what I mean, because it is not easy at all.

1145
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 2: You know it's again because it's it's it's easy to

1146
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 2: put people in positions when they do of our brain,

1147
00:52:58,280 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 2: when it's easy to manipulate. Then when it's easy to

1148
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:01,879
Speaker 2: make more money off them because I don't have a brain,

1149
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So minded, we could have

1150
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:07,920
Speaker 2: been further than where we are. But what do I

1151
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:10,919
Speaker 2: forgifts for where we are because we see and reach

1152
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:13,840
Speaker 2: and make an impact after soul, you know.

1153
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 1: What I mean. I love that you say, because you

1154
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:17,480
Speaker 1: know my other shall way up with the angela ye

1155
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 1: I called it that because I said, I'm way up

1156
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:21,240
Speaker 1: from where I first started, but I'm still.

1157
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:23,800
Speaker 2: On my way away. Yeah, but what what does I

1158
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 2: forgift tongs? Because at the end of the day, a

1159
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:28,319
Speaker 2: lot of persons have started with us. I'm not here.

1160
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:30,800
Speaker 2: Somebody was reminding me. I posted an old picture in

1161
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 2: my stories, like, Yo, do you realize that from the

1162
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:35,840
Speaker 2: twenty tens, you are literally the only person that is

1163
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 2: still doing this?

1164
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:36,879
Speaker 1: Wow?

1165
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:38,359
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, you know what I mean.

1166
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: And I listen. I can attest to for especially in

1167
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 1: this dance hall you know reggae field, how hard it

1168
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 1: is for women like more than you know, just what

1169
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: you've had to go through. I can't even imagine it is.

1170
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 2: So I mean, we're just grateful to still be here.

1171
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 2: You know, we're gonna have, were gonna have with dons.

1172
00:53:55,960 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 2: But they've created a least at this point because yeah,

1173
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, they've like you literally you

1174
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 2: traumatize me and I'm still here, Like I've learned to

1175
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 2: live with the traum and I've laughed at somebody. I

1176
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 2: like somebody, you know what I mean, you you literally

1177
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:13,919
Speaker 2: built somebody for water right now, It's it's like, okay,

1178
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:16,359
Speaker 2: you're blocking this lright, this is what I'm gonna do. Okay,

1179
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 2: you're stopping this. Okay, So this is what I'm gonna do. Okay,

1180
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be at this event. Okay, so I'm

1181
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 2: gonna create my own event.

1182
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:21,520
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

1183
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:23,960
Speaker 2: You're building this long enough where you kind of know

1184
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 2: how to maneuver make things. You know it could be easier.

1185
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 2: But at the same time, like, no, you have all

1186
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 2: the tools where you're like, OK, I can handle this.

1187
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 2: Let me just plan it, plan be plant. See. I

1188
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 2: still I still have the same impact, you know what

1189
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 2: I mean. So I can't even complain because I know

1190
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 2: know that I'm gonna be there. I have been an

1191
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 2: asset to somebody else, an asset to other women coming up,

1192
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 2: even men coming up to you know what I mean. Like,

1193
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:54,320
Speaker 2: I have so much to share in terms of my

1194
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:56,760
Speaker 2: knowledge of music, in terms of my knowledge of the business,

1195
00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 2: in terms and the knowledge of and I can afford opportunit.

1196
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:03,360
Speaker 2: It is the others that maybe I can't, But I

1197
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 2: can give it to somebody else, right, you know what

1198
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 2: I mean? So just to be here now, fifteen years

1199
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:11,880
Speaker 2: yeah and singing, I want a man and to be

1200
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 2: relevant and to be here because everybody, not everybody gets

1201
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 2: to come and lip service coach, you know what I mean.

1202
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 2: So just to be here, just you know what I mean,

1203
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:22,919
Speaker 2: it's a blessing. And to see all people like love

1204
00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 2: your after Salankas, trust me. People, especially in our culture

1205
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 2: in American Counture Jamaican, we have somewhat of a pedophile culture.

1206
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:33,320
Speaker 2: It's about who's young, who's that like, oh that personal

1207
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:36,520
Speaker 2: yeah over there is And to just still have an

1208
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:38,920
Speaker 2: impact and be relevant and for people still to want

1209
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 2: to have the conversation with you and hear your music

1210
00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:43,080
Speaker 2: is just a blessing. So I'm just living it up

1211
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 2: right now.

1212
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 1: We're good. We've got that. You've touched us today many ways,

1213
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 1: so we appreciate you for that is there. And listen

1214
00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 1: for everybody who's listening right now, make sure y'all listen

1215
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 1: to I want a man. We want you to tell

1216
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 1: us what you're looking for. You know what I'm saying.

1217
00:55:57,760 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 1: If you want a man and for a guys to

1218
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 1: we cared about what you want of course, and.

1219
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 2: You know what, let's say because I want them to.

1220
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 2: I want like, I want them to answer. I have

1221
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 2: the robots already, I want ready, but I just want

1222
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 2: to say this big up and much love to all

1223
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 2: the good men out there, because there are good men

1224
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 2: out there. We don't hat there, we don't hate you guys,

1225
00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 2: there are good fathers out there, you know what I mean.

1226
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 2: And this, this song has nothing to go on about.

1227
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 2: It live your happy lives, their happy wives. This is

1228
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 2: nothing about you, you know what I mean.

1229
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 1: It's not even available. This is about.

1230
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:35,840
Speaker 2: And it's funny because we could we could see the

1231
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 2: talk here for days in terms of the conversation around

1232
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:41,520
Speaker 2: this song. Because when you really think about it, I

1233
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 2: heard you say, you know you're so independent, and you

1234
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:46,319
Speaker 2: know you're Why is this because a lot of us

1235
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 2: grew up with moms that are two and three jobs

1236
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 2: and we had no choice to be independent. We had

1237
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 2: no choice but to take care of our younger siblings,

1238
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,720
Speaker 2: but to wash, cook and clean. And then the boys,

1239
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 2: our brothers would be in the house and all all

1240
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 2: they have to do with the trash. Yeah, they will

1241
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 2: go play play video games, are playing ball outside and

1242
00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 2: a lot of the men were babied.

1243
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:09,319
Speaker 1: My mom still working to jazz. I've been telling her,

1244
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 1: like chill out, and she I think she's so used

1245
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:14,680
Speaker 1: to it. She just won't start.

1246
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 2: But I know you have like six or seven Angela, Yeah,

1247
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 2: I do have a few jobs, you know what I mean.

1248
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 2: Came we had no choice but to become these independent women,

1249
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:31,439
Speaker 2: And a lot of that was because we have more money,

1250
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:33,600
Speaker 2: because we have our assets, because of our things, Like

1251
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 2: we're just decided, Okay, I don't want to put up

1252
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 2: with this. Like I can literally go and buy a

1253
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,440
Speaker 2: sex machine. It can't hug me, but it does the

1254
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 2: same thing, you know what I mean.

1255
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: I can't. I don't know if it does the same

1256
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean I wanted to try, but

1257
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: you know, I don't even need a machine. You could

1258
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 1: just use your fingers.

1259
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 2: But a lot of women have just been opting to

1260
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:56,400
Speaker 2: not be bothered with us this type of shame. That's

1261
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:58,960
Speaker 2: a shame, just just in opting. And a lot of

1262
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:01,480
Speaker 2: men know because they're a baby, like they want you

1263
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 2: to be their mom, Like I have no problem being

1264
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 2: you know, your baby or baby in it, but as

1265
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 2: a woman, like, I'm not gonna do the same things.

1266
00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 1: A woman, do you know what I mean?

1267
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 2: I don't want somebody that we're if you have an

1268
00:58:12,120 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 2: argument the first person, mom, she said this, hell you

1269
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 2: know what I mean.

1270
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like I miss.

1271
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 2: My dad's era, my stepdad's era when men were actually men.

1272
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. And like the same

1273
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 1: thing you said, you just want to feel safe exactly.

1274
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 2: You don't want to feel like he don't have to

1275
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 2: have as much money as you. But as long as

1276
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, you come home and he's like, baby,

1277
00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 2: you know your work so hard, Maronia bathwater, let me

1278
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 2: rub your feet. You know, I made dinner, or I

1279
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:45,160
Speaker 2: got your gift shirt, like, you know, go go get

1280
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 2: her money, peny, Like he doesn't necessarily have half, Like

1281
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:50,160
Speaker 2: if you make a million, you know, I have make

1282
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 2: three million, you knowing. But it's just the thought that

1283
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 2: content and make you feel as a woman.

1284
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 1: Or even if he's like reminding you of things you

1285
00:58:57,240 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 1: need to do, like you just don't forget you have

1286
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 1: to do X today, remember this, or random like I

1287
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 1: love you, text thank you, Yeah, things like that, It

1288
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:08,320
Speaker 1: goes a long way. They do thank you. I can't

1289
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 1: wait we come into the wedding when whoever.

1290
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 2: Is and I find him, I want, I want what

1291
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 2: this white man is.

1292
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:16,520
Speaker 1: I want, I want to And it's.

1293
00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 2: Funny because save me that I feel like I ton't

1294
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Speaker 2: he to say like im as much as I have

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Speaker 2: like brothers and sisters and step brothers. And I'm my

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Speaker 2: mom's only child, so I feel guilty because I haven't

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Speaker 2: given her a grand friend, right, so I want to

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Speaker 2: have it's even our child, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Well, no matter what, this is going to happen, so

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Speaker 1: whatever it is, but you're already a gift to her.

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Speaker 1: So I know she's so proud of you. So we

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Speaker 1: appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you seeing here. Thank you, and we're gonna see

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Speaker 2: you Angela d August. This is not going to get

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Speaker 2: Angela Ragna come to things. I represent for the name Rewar.

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Speaker 1: You know that's right for those who don't know, angel

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Speaker 1: is a time outside.

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Speaker 2: You know who else is performing right, just so you know,

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Speaker 2: I think, so I don't want to say the wrong things.

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Speaker 1: So Egyptian is going to be there, all right. That's

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Speaker 1: all I'm gonna give you, all right now, you know,

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Speaker 1: go to August Free and it's a family day, so

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Speaker 1: I come out and have some fun and hang out

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Speaker 1: with us.

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Speaker 2: And I heard it's earlier this year.

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Speaker 1: It's earlier this year. It's part of Planet Brooklyn at

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Speaker 1: the Barclays. So Planet Brooklyn is a two day festival.

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Speaker 1: It's the first time they're doing this at the Barclays.

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Speaker 1: So it's basically a festival that's like blocks and blocks

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Speaker 1: and blocks long and Angela Yide is a community part

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Speaker 1: of it. It's a free event. We're gonna have haircuts,

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Speaker 1: hair braiding, free backpacks, free everything, you know, for families,

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Speaker 1: for kids to come out because it's right before back

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Speaker 1: to school. It's a week before the West Indian American

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Speaker 1: Day Parade, which we love. We outside y'all and I'm

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Speaker 1: going to take my virgin say, oh my god, I'm excited.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: It's your virginity chair propping around here.

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Speaker 2: Lip service.

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Speaker 1: Yeah,