1 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 1: Welcome to reasonably shady mail bag. Okay, all right, y'all, 2 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: we got we got, let us on, let us on, 3 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: let us Okay, this is from a Mohammed who we love. 4 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 1: We love youha Momad, what's up? What's up from Canada? 5 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 1: You've got mail Hidazella Robin. It's your favorite person from Toronto. 6 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: But let's be honest, probably your favorite Canadian as well. 7 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: Mohammed may our favorite person ever. Yes, we love Mohammad. 8 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: I know you ladies are always looking for something new 9 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 1: to watch, and I think both of you should watch 10 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: the show Heated Rivalry. 11 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 2: I've heard about this, really, I've seen it. I keep 12 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 2: seeing it. I think they were nominated for some awards too. 13 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 2: What is his own? 14 00:00:53,760 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 1: Okay, as both of you are lgtb Q allies, h 15 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: I got that right. This show is important for everyone 16 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: to watch. It is a show about two male hockey 17 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: players who are rivals from the very beginning of their 18 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: hockey career, who end up hooking up with each other. 19 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: Oh we see their story over ten years. Oh wow, 20 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: it's like aspiring them for a long time. 21 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 3: Over ten years. 22 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, is this a true story? 23 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:24,759 Speaker 1: I don't know of how they they have their hot 24 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: hookups progresses to something more. It is based Oh, it's 25 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: based on a book series, which is very explicit in 26 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 1: its decision. A discussion of sex between the two characters, 27 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 1: think fifty shades of gray. Oh wow, steaminess but b DSM. Yes, 28 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: might be too risky for Giselle. Now I think it 29 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: says but no, Oh but no b DSM. 30 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, so none of them. 31 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 3: Don't sex was BDSM? 32 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 2: Okay, it's like the chains, the whips. Okay, but I 33 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 2: don't bondage. Yeah, okay, let's let's see what. Yes, you 34 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 2: look that up. Okay, let's see what. 35 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: The show itself has some very steamy sex scenes which 36 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: enhances the plots. 37 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, writing, bondage and discipline, dominance and submission. 38 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, that's our horrible decision. Girls, we should know that. 39 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 2: And sadism and Matt should I can't never say this 40 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 2: word messy anyway. 41 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: The ones, the ones, Okay, so steamy hot sex scenes 42 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: which enhances the plot and really explores gay male relationships 43 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: and romance that has not been shown on mainstream television before. 44 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: It is also a Canadian producer produced series. Is Mohammed 45 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: in this because he's really getting. 46 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 3: Pleasant, Mohammed, you in this. 47 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 2: Muhamad likes it. 48 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 1: Yes, it's also Canadian produced series on our streaming platform 49 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 1: call Crave, but it was purchased by h HBO Max 50 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 1: in the US and you will love it and it's 51 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: something that I think your listeners will love as well. 52 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 1: The show is blown up due to huge fan following 53 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 1: of the book, and so I guess it's not a. 54 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 2: True story, right and. 55 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: Every type of person straight gay by male female has 56 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: watched the show and look like PS don't think I 57 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: didn't notice that the most requested city for your guys 58 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: to come. 59 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 3: To was Oh was it? It was Toronto? 60 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 2: Yes, m hm. Put a poll out and it was 61 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: like Toronto, Toronto, Toronto. 62 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that was that Mohammed Baham thoughts that 63 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: you bought all. I did my research, like Giselle said, 64 00:03:56,480 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: and voila people, Voi la people. I want to see 65 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: you ladies here And we are coming up at the 66 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: two year mark of the last live show, are we as? 67 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: The last one was in February oh, twenty twenty four. 68 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: In searches, Elle saying, what, so let's get into it 69 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 1: your biggest fam Muhammad from Toronto, Yes, I didn't know. 70 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 3: It was just been two years almost. 71 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 2: I feel like there's been more than that. No, two because. 72 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, that's right. February twenty twenty four, Yeah is it? Yeah? 73 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 1: Because I remember I was like very sick that that tour. 74 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 1: I mean that date, but I had just left Karen. 75 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: I was in New York. 76 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 3: I just left. I did this commercial with Karen. 77 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: Oh okay, and Karen was like, hey, my gosh, when 78 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: is this going to be over? 79 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 2: Like Karen was acting crazy anyway. Okay, So so yeah, 80 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 2: we get back on the road, Yes we do. And Muhammad, 81 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 2: if you want to research some venues for us, yes, 82 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 2: please let us know, send them our way. Yes, no, 83 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 2: we definitely do need to. 84 00:04:58,080 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 3: I love Toronto me too. 85 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, we definitely do need to figure out our next life. 86 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. So are the Raptors still a team? Yes? They are? 87 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 3: Are they any good? 88 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 2: I think they are? Yeah? Ok yeah, I think they're 89 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 2: I think they're good. 90 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 3: Okay, what's going on? Is it NBA playing now? They're playing? 91 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 2: Now? 92 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 3: Yeah? Who's winning the NBA is? 93 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 2: Who's winning? Teams are good? Well? 94 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 3: The Spurs, yeah, Aton. 95 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 2: Are good because they have Wimby. 96 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 3: The Nuggets are still good. 97 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:32,799 Speaker 2: Okay, who want the Knicks. 98 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: Nicks are good, okay, nicker Bockers and Wizards. 99 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 2: No, the Wizards are not good. Yes, but they just 100 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: traded for Trey Young, so hopefully he helps maybe turn 101 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 2: some stuff around for the Wizards. 102 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 3: But yeah, very good, come through. 103 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, but Muhammed, thank you for telling us about heated rivalry. 104 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 2: I will watch that when my kids are not around. 105 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, totally. 106 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:56,039 Speaker 2: No. 107 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 3: I am interested in it. 108 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 2: And I think I've heard about it a lot. 109 00:05:58,839 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 3: Oh you have. 110 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: I think I saw it on I was on HBO 111 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: for something. I think I saw yea like the little. 112 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 2: You probably didn't if it's if like the picture shows 113 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 2: like hockey players, you probably were like. 114 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 3: What is this? This is stupid? Yeah, you probably weren't 115 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 3: even like I didn't know my story. 116 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, all right, okay Mohamed, Okay, thank you, thank you. 117 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 2: Interesting all right, So this is from Caitlyn. 118 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 3: Hey Caitlyn, she. 119 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 2: Says, hijaz Ellen Robin. I just started binge, watching Potomac 120 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 2: and binge listening to Reasonably Shady as well as on 121 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 2: the Patreon. Thank you for our Patreon honors. Honestly, it's 122 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 2: all I listened to in my car to and from work. 123 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 2: My name is Caitlin and I'm writing and for some 124 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 2: friendship advice, Robin, and I actually got a cameo from 125 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 2: you asking for advice. So here's more backstory. So, long 126 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 2: story short. I have a friend of over twelve years. 127 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 2: It started at my birthday dinner where she chose to 128 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 2: stay at the original restaurant and text me saying she 129 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 2: wasn't coming as she had dinner around the corner with 130 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 2: another friend two and a half hours in. Who So, 131 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 2: two and a half hours in of your birthday dinner, 132 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 2: your friend said she's not coming. Good lord, she's around 133 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 2: the corner with another friend, dag. Since then, there have 134 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 2: been scheduled hangouts. But then she canceled on me and 135 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 2: gave me a story and posted a different one on 136 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 2: her Instagram. Okay, so she told you one thing and 137 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 2: then on Instagram she's posting something else. 138 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 3: Okay. 139 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 2: I never really told her how I felt, and when 140 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 2: I did, I was met with that she only had 141 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 2: time in her life for two people, an old friend 142 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 2: she hadn't talked to in year's and her ex fiance ah, 143 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 2: and I was not one of them. Dang, I haven't 144 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 2: talked to her since this, which was in May, would 145 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 2: it be reasonable to give her another chance now that 146 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 2: she's come back into my life. Thanks for your advice 147 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 2: in a van. 148 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: No, No, we ain't given us whole another chance. She 149 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: didn't showed you who he is who she is, and 150 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: we gotta believe my Angelou and open one free. Yes, 151 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: we're gonna believe who she is, which is a hole. 152 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, No, I don't like that. I mean, 153 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 2: y'all were friends for twelve years and then she threw 154 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 2: you to the side for other people. 155 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 3: And it was your birthday. 156 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: It'd be one thing if it was like a random 157 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: like we're just getting together for lunch. It was your 158 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 1: birthday and she blew you off to go around the 159 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: first of all, how did you find out she was 160 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 1: around the corner? I have lunch somebody else, right, Like, 161 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: that's so crazy, Like, no, do not take her back 162 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: because she is going if she that, because that speaks 163 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 1: to character, and when someone shows you their character, their 164 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 1: character is hard to get better. 165 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 3: Right, So, no, she's not your friend. 166 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:41,200 Speaker 2: And then going to tell her she only had time 167 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 2: for two people in her life. 168 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, And so now now that she's no longer with 169 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 1: the fiancee. 170 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 3: Fiance is an act. 171 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: So now that she not booed up, she wanted to 172 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: bring her girlfriends back on her lime. Yes, yes, no 173 00:08:52,800 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 1: boot tomato tomato. Okay, this is some Sean Brown. Hi, ladies, 174 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 1: it's your friend Sean from Germantown. Dude, do we have 175 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: a friend named Sean from Germantown? 176 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 2: We do? 177 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 1: Now, it's because he acting like he writes us every day, 178 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 1: like Sean, we don't know who you are, but he's 179 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: saying that he's he's our friend. 180 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 3: Now, okay, he's our friend. We're friends. 181 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,719 Speaker 2: We love you, Sean, our new friend Sean does that. 182 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: I'm watching episode one nine, your birthday episode, and I 183 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: wanted to follow up to see if Roger Rabbit aka 184 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 1: the Man with No Teeth ever hit you back. Okay 185 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: he said he's watching. Oh he's watching on YouTube. That's 186 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 1: what threw me up. 187 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:46,319 Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, I was confused. Okay, so yes, actually 188 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 3: actually Sean, his name was Sean. Is this him? 189 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 2: Oh shit, I pray not see from Germantown? 190 00:09:55,840 --> 00:10:03,319 Speaker 3: So embarrassing. No, he might. Oh shit, I'm scared. I'm 191 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 3: scared to answer this question. 192 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: Okay, so after our date, yes, he did reach out. 193 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 2: Okay, give backstory for people who don't remember. 194 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 1: So I went out with this guy and it turned 195 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:18,719 Speaker 1: out that he had a dental issue, which was he 196 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: went to the dentist, I guess to get his teeth 197 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: and they weren't ready to give him his teeth, and 198 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 1: so he left with no teeth. And then he decided 199 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: to meet me for a date. 200 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 3: Like I was so crazy. 201 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 1: So then he's like, I got something to tell you. 202 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 1: As we was like set down and I'm like what, 203 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: he was like, well, you know, I don't have my teeth. 204 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 1: What what am I here? 205 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 2: No teeth? Sout? 206 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 3: Why am I here? 207 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 1: It's so not gold. It was so a waste of 208 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 1: my time. Okay, So anyway, yes, after that, he informed 209 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 1: me that he got his teeth. Okay, he wanted to 210 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 1: take me out on a teeth date, like you know, yes, 211 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: and I was not interested. 212 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 2: Oh you weren't. 213 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 3: I didn't say nothing. I don't know. I think I 214 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:05,199 Speaker 3: just did them. 215 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: Yes, but like, come on, you have to put your 216 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: best foot forward in dating one on one, and this 217 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 1: is the first day you do not you cancel. 218 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 2: You only give one chance to make a first impression. 219 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 3: And that was like whoa baby. 220 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 1: That's crazy because my position is like, what were you thinking? 221 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 3: Why would you even leave the house with no teeth? 222 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 2: Right? 223 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, why are you leaving the house? So yeah, no, 224 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 1: are you gonna like, I don't know. It just speaks 225 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: to other things that you might do that you think. 226 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 3: You're okay to do. It's not okay. 227 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:38,079 Speaker 1: So yeah, and his name is Sean, So I hope 228 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: if this is all the same person, I'm embarrassed. 229 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:43,199 Speaker 3: Well, you let him know I did. 230 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 2: This was your way of letting them know. 231 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, we're out of here. Guys. We love y'all. 232 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: Bite, see you next day, baby,