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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand jewils dirty Little Secret. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what's up? This is The Jewels Show. And you texted

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Speaker 1: in at four one o six one that you have

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Speaker 1: a dirty little secret. Oh my gosh, Yes we are.

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Speaker 1: Are you in an area where you can tell us

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Speaker 1: your dirty little secret? Yes, he's in the shower. What's

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Speaker 1: your dirty little secret? Well, so I've been with my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend for a few years now and we have been

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Speaker 1: doing really well. But almost like four months ago, we

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Speaker 1: took a break just to you know, grow and whatnot.

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Speaker 1: And so he was the one who suggested it, and

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Speaker 1: at first I was, you know, like afus, and I

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Speaker 1: was very sad. So that night I actually went and

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Speaker 1: like with someone else. And this guy is actually one

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Speaker 1: of my really really good guy friends though, and apparently

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Speaker 1: he had a crush on me for years when I

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Speaker 1: never told me because I was with somebody else. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So the point is that we sleve together, but I

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Speaker 1: told him that I didn't want to lose him with

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Speaker 1: a friend, you know, So and you know, with somewhat

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Speaker 1: talked and you know, had sex for a few weeks whatever. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but then you know, my boyfriend came back and I

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Speaker 1: really do believe he's the laws of my life first

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Speaker 1: of all. So me and my friend talked it out.

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Speaker 1: We're fine, you know, I went back to my boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: But then I found out a couple of months ago

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Speaker 1: that I am pregnant. Oh, and do you know which

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Speaker 1: one it is? Like if it's your boyfriend or your friend?

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Speaker 1: That is my dirty little secret. I actually don't know WHOA. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's a secret that you're gonna at some point have

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Speaker 1: to tell somebody. I mean, my boyfriend thinks it's his,

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Speaker 1: and I told my friend there's no way good he is.

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Speaker 1: But you know that it is my boyfriends. But to

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Speaker 1: be very very honest, I don't know, and I don't

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Speaker 1: know what to do. And would you would you tell?

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Speaker 1: Like Alex and I'm rid if you didn't know that.

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Speaker 1: Let's say we weren't married and we were dating and

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Speaker 1: you were in the same situation. You're pretty straightforward, so

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Speaker 1: I feel like you would tell me. Would you be

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Speaker 1: able to tell when the baby comes out? Are you

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Speaker 1: asking me or hurt? Well? I don't know. I guess

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Speaker 1: doesn't look like my boyfriend. Maybe I don't know what

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Speaker 1: to do to be very honest, but sometimes you can

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Speaker 1: sometimes there are factors that would be obvious. Right, if

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Speaker 1: it's not obvious, I wouldn't say nothing. Oh my good, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that was not what I expected you to say. So, hey,

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Speaker 1: it's been I've kind of been in this situation where

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Speaker 1: I've taken breaks within a relation and ship and things

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Speaker 1: happened during the break, and I me, I'm one hundred

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Speaker 1: percent truthful, and you know, I share what happened on

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Speaker 1: the break. A break is a break, and that's why

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Speaker 1: we went on it, right, But you just made it

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Speaker 1: really complicated because you went on a break and you

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Speaker 1: create a whole another human. So you went on a break,

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Speaker 1: and then you created eighteen years of work. I would

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Speaker 1: say you did. You would have to tell your boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: You have to if you respect him, tell him and

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Speaker 1: he can't be mad. You guys were all on a break, right,

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Speaker 1: did you guys have rules? Not really? No, I mean

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Speaker 1: he just dropped it on me like out of the blue.

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Speaker 1: So I was very confused and I just lashed out. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he called for the break too, you know, he kind

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Speaker 1: of did it to himself. Yeah. Also, now there are

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Speaker 1: a test like you can do tests while you're still

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Speaker 1: pregnant to determine who the father is. So what if

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Speaker 1: you and the friend just linked up again one last

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Speaker 1: time and said, look, we got to figure this out.

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Speaker 1: If it's not a map to the friend, then you

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Speaker 1: know it's your man's. You keep it a clean secret,

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Speaker 1: and you move on with your life. Can you do

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Speaker 1: that it says that there's a well, then call us back.

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Speaker 1: We'll reassess. If it is not my boyfriend's, then I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure he would stick around. To be honest, I

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Speaker 1: don't think you would. Lam Yeah, but hey, maybe your

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Speaker 1: best you'll stick around. Yeah, you can raise a kid

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Speaker 1: with your best friend with benefits now, and maybe you

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Speaker 1: guys get together. I don't know. Well, at least I

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Speaker 1: know he would be a good father. Well, thank you

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Speaker 1: for telling us. You're a little secret and good luck. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: thank you guys. Thank you. Have a good one then.

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