WEBVTT - The Dr. Candace Matthews Episode

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<v Speaker 1>You know boys, it's back and reot it all in

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<v Speaker 1>your mind. Yeah, and that deep throating. This is for

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<v Speaker 1>the streets, the real, the relroading, the distant franchise, the

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<v Speaker 1>truth to escape Golding, and they ain't knowing we speak

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<v Speaker 1>the truth, so they ain't quoted because we wrote it.

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<v Speaker 1>The North South against Code is the g be my

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<v Speaker 1>for keeping your head bobbing, and it ain't no stopper

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to be drives head by And then the

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<v Speaker 1>system is so corrupted they threw the rock out of

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<v Speaker 1>their heads and then blame it on us. Don't get

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<v Speaker 1>it twisted on Code and me and dance it for

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<v Speaker 1>now buttament biscuits, it's Willie d y'all reloaded with another

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<v Speaker 1>episode of information and instructions to help you navigate through

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<v Speaker 1>this wild, crazy, beautiful world. In the studio, Doctor Candice,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what. Everybody should know your name by now,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm gonna go ahead and say it anyway. Make

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<v Speaker 1>sure you put some respect on it from me. Doctor Kenneth.

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<v Speaker 1>Doctor Kenneth Matthews is in the house. You know you

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<v Speaker 1>have been doing some phenomenal work. Phenomenal work I'm talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>like you've been putting it on the line. You've been

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<v Speaker 1>doing this for a long time, but more recently you've

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<v Speaker 1>gained a lot of notoriety for holding our elected officials

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<v Speaker 1>feet to the fire. Where'd you get your sense of community? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I got it directly from my parents, actually, because I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up around politics, you know what I mean, Like

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<v Speaker 1>my mom and dad was cool with Mickey Leland. Mickey

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<v Speaker 1>Leland used to come in gumbo, fried shrump and fish

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<v Speaker 1>at our house. You sleep on the couch at our house.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's kind of like I was kind of always

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<v Speaker 1>around it. But then I was pushed into it when

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<v Speaker 1>I became a business owner. So I owned a foster

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<v Speaker 1>adoption agency, and the stuff is tied in to federal

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<v Speaker 1>legislation as well as state legislation. So when I got

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<v Speaker 1>into a lajam when I first got started, because I

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<v Speaker 1>had the wrong people working for me who clearly didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have your best interests, and so I had to get

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<v Speaker 1>a team to come in to come help me get

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<v Speaker 1>everything in order, and so had state reps of Fronya

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<v Speaker 1>Thompson had stepped in the gap and came in and

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<v Speaker 1>helped me out to where we got everything on a

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<v Speaker 1>level playing field and so then I was like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, this business is tied into politics because these

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<v Speaker 1>state people go hard on your first until they realized

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<v Speaker 1>that you connected with certain politicians. Right, So I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's something more to this. Right. So then I was

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<v Speaker 1>invited to the Texas Coalition of Black Democrats meeting first

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<v Speaker 1>time going never knew none of these people in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>and so they were doing an endorsement screening at this

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<v Speaker 1>specific time. Now I'm on the outside looking in, and

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<v Speaker 1>I have education sense and also street sense. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>listening to these politicians telling everybody what they want to hear,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's nothing in place to hold them accountable. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So before I became a member, I listened a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>and then before the meeting was over, I said, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna give my opinion, but I'm gonna pay my dues

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<v Speaker 1>first before i give my opinion. And then when I

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<v Speaker 1>turned around and I gave my opinion, I paid my

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<v Speaker 1>dues and I said, first of all, everybody in here

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<v Speaker 1>that's doing this endorsement shit is fake. It's fake, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>because I come from the child welfare background, and the

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<v Speaker 1>state comes in our office every month or sometime every

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<v Speaker 1>other month, and we have to have records to show

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<v Speaker 1>what is it that we're doing that we're staying on benchmark.

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<v Speaker 1>So my question is, y'all don't have anything in place

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<v Speaker 1>to show what is it that y'all have when they

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<v Speaker 1>come in here to come in here in line stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>What is it that you have to hold them accountable?

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<v Speaker 1>So then I was presented that charge that night, why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you create an accountability program? I say, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you show you on that. The's like yeah. So I

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<v Speaker 1>created the accountability program where it had all the evaluation

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<v Speaker 1>tools for every level of government. Okay, then I created

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<v Speaker 1>a spreadsheet where we can go in to see when

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<v Speaker 1>you're dealing with your congressional or your state legislators, to

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<v Speaker 1>see what they voted on, what they didn't vote on.

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<v Speaker 1>Because what I noticed was that people in the community

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<v Speaker 1>that look like us, we really didn't know who the

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<v Speaker 1>for because the only thing that we did was just

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<v Speaker 1>name recognition. You know what I'm saying. But now it's

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<v Speaker 1>something in place to show if you come in here

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<v Speaker 1>telling us one thing, but you didn't voted another way,

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<v Speaker 1>we got records to show that if you run around

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<v Speaker 1>here on your Texas Ethics Commission report. Receiving funds from

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<v Speaker 1>donors who will utilize you as a puppet, We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>know about it. So now by me creating that program,

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<v Speaker 1>it expanded to where they wanted me to do it

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<v Speaker 1>for the entire state. So I did it for the

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<v Speaker 1>entire state. So I'm all around, you know, Texas, laying

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<v Speaker 1>a him on everybody, because one I'll go through legislative

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<v Speaker 1>session and if I see that you're voting for something

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<v Speaker 1>that's not in the best interest of black people, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell your hands up. And nine times out of ten,

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm gonna do, I'm gonna bring all the media

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<v Speaker 1>stations out there and i'm gonna light you up. Then

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<v Speaker 1>if you're going to any community meetings and you over

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<v Speaker 1>here line of these people, I'm gonna coming, then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna aggivate that whole meeting and I'm gonna get these

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<v Speaker 1>people to proof on your line tail. And so that's

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<v Speaker 1>how I just went, you know, from there, and throughout

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<v Speaker 1>the whole process, it was like majority of my hats

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<v Speaker 1>was men. I ain't had no women. It was all men.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, And it's to be honest, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>darkness of me right now to even fathom, well, we

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<v Speaker 1>got something in common though, because the majority of my

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<v Speaker 1>hate is a man. Also, what's up with that? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know? And it's kind of like, but my thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel that I'm manly, but I feel no.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying that hating on for a man, to hate

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<v Speaker 1>on a woman or a man is unmanly, That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. Yeah, And it's like, what I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you something, bro, what I didn't understand.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, wait a minute, who are these people? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Who are you to say something about me? And you

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know me? You know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know nothing about me? And you over here

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<v Speaker 1>running your mouth and really low key while you over

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<v Speaker 1>here running your mouth, and let me find out who

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<v Speaker 1>you are, you donna get your ass wood. But see

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<v Speaker 1>I had to bring that Northeast and put it in

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<v Speaker 1>the back pocket, you know, because see it wouldn't turned

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<v Speaker 1>to small other stuff, you know. But um, but when

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<v Speaker 1>I got into more in the cracks and crevices and

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<v Speaker 1>in the valleys, the highs and lows, I started to

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<v Speaker 1>see a lot of fake stuff that was actually happening. Too,

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of fake stuff that the average person

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be able to see. I wanna be able to notice,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. That was the first time

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<v Speaker 1>I was able to see when they put this smoke

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<v Speaker 1>screen type theatrics out there. So now you know, damn well,

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<v Speaker 1>you voted for this, but then you coming back to

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<v Speaker 1>the community like you're fighting against it, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. So that was the purpose of having that

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<v Speaker 1>accountability system where you hold them accountable and you hold

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<v Speaker 1>them to Hey, this is what you said, but this

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<v Speaker 1>is not what you're doing. And then when you bring

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<v Speaker 1>it to the community and then the community have trust

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<v Speaker 1>in you, then they're gonna ride with you, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. And so me, I've always had a

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<v Speaker 1>good reputation in the community because I come from a

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<v Speaker 1>good home. Let's talk about that good home. You grew

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<v Speaker 1>up on the northeast side of Houston. But fun would

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<v Speaker 1>ye you know, went to C King and all that

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<v Speaker 1>good stuff and L bcl More you know my old

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<v Speaker 1>stomping grounds. Uh you know, I'm assuming you played at

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<v Speaker 1>and see the gas park at some point. Who did? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So your roots on the northeast side of Houston, you

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<v Speaker 1>grew up in the household with who, with my mom

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<v Speaker 1>and my dad. And that was interesting enough because I've

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<v Speaker 1>always grew up around my aunts, uncles. They're married, they

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<v Speaker 1>have their children, you know, my grandpa, grandma, they married.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you have your other grandparents and your other aunts

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<v Speaker 1>and uncles, so you never really seen a single parent.

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<v Speaker 1>I never seen that, and so you know how I

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<v Speaker 1>was introduced to that when I entered school, because my

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<v Speaker 1>whole complete lifestyle was for me to see the mama,

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<v Speaker 1>the daddy and the kids. You go on to church,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if you don't go to church, family reunions, graduations, parties.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, stuff that was normal. It's like normalized stuff

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<v Speaker 1>in your traditional black families. That's what I grew up with.

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<v Speaker 1>But then when I came into meeting other people from school,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know anything about foster kill. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything about kids being adopted, you know, I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything about Oh, yeah that's my mama boy friend, but

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<v Speaker 1>my daddy live over here. You know. Oh that's my

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<v Speaker 1>daddy girlfriend and I don't like her, but my mama,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she over here. And then for me to

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<v Speaker 1>be that friend that your friend had come to you

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<v Speaker 1>and tell you that I don't like my daddy, but

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<v Speaker 1>I want to stay with him. But then I got

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<v Speaker 1>to stay over here with my mama because she got

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<v Speaker 1>to get the child spool for my daddy. I've never

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<v Speaker 1>knew anything of that caliber until I started going to

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<v Speaker 1>school with kids who experienced that. And so our house

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<v Speaker 1>stayed full of kids, Like my mama had everybody over that.

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<v Speaker 1>We had everybody kids was over there. My mom took

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<v Speaker 1>care everybody kids. That's why everybody loved to today right now.

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<v Speaker 1>And so they were come to the house and they

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<v Speaker 1>would share their stories and everything at the house, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they were always would tell me it was like, Kennis,

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<v Speaker 1>you lucky, like you got both of your parents, like

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<v Speaker 1>you got your mom or you got your daddy. And

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<v Speaker 1>then on top of that, like you become the school

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<v Speaker 1>fresh you know what I'm saying, Like you be up

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<v Speaker 1>on the latest stuff and everything. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's what your parents supposed to do, though, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. And it was just a different

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<v Speaker 1>ball game, Like I never dealt with having a sister,

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<v Speaker 1>and we didn't have the same mom and daddy, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. It was just interesting, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>just wasn't used to it, you know, right, And I

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<v Speaker 1>guess that's why you have the family dynamic that you

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<v Speaker 1>have to day. You're a married woman. How many kids? Yet?

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<v Speaker 1>For kids? Now? How is it that you were able

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<v Speaker 1>to this is tricky, y'all get ready for this. How

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<v Speaker 1>is it that you're able to be this opinionated woman

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<v Speaker 1>who is not docile, firm, fair, loving, generous, but also

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<v Speaker 1>a woman who can be aggressive when need be. How

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<v Speaker 1>is it that you can be that and still be

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<v Speaker 1>all the things you need to be to your man,

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<v Speaker 1>It's all about balance because first of all, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>be married with or any kind of man. I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 1>you saw that also you saw some examples in that

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<v Speaker 1>with your mother, Yeah, because it's kind of pigy on

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<v Speaker 1>that my mom and dad's relationships here. My dad was

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<v Speaker 1>always the man of the house, right. My mom made

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<v Speaker 1>sure that he was the man of the house. But

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<v Speaker 1>my dad was not that type of man to put

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<v Speaker 1>down his wife. I think he made sure that he

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<v Speaker 1>was the man of house and your mom accepted it. Nah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was kind of mutual type thing. Because

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta keep mind they both come from a background

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<v Speaker 1>with a hand Both of their pas Why I say

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<v Speaker 1>it up, Here's why I say that. Because here's why

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<v Speaker 1>I say that, because I don't care who a woman is.

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<v Speaker 1>No woman made a woman can make me assume my

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<v Speaker 1>role as a man, like no woman gives me a

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<v Speaker 1>permission to be a man. I'm a man by essence,

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<v Speaker 1>just like somebody was saying, what he allowed her to

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<v Speaker 1>be the woman? No, she is the woman, you know, No,

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<v Speaker 1>he is the man. But I think they kind of

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<v Speaker 1>jailed because you gotta keep mind they both came from

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<v Speaker 1>a family structure that was there, that was already in

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<v Speaker 1>place like that, you know what I mean. And so

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<v Speaker 1>and what I've noticed also is that the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>we have a lot of families that are broken up

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<v Speaker 1>like that, because a lot of them do not come

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<v Speaker 1>from that find that that that that foundation family structure,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Because in my opinion, and

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<v Speaker 1>I could be wrong, but this is my take, you

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<v Speaker 1>have some females that out here that I don't need

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<v Speaker 1>a man. You know, I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna do it how I do it. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? That you have men out here? Well, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't a female gonna do what I say and

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do it how I do it, or if not this,

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<v Speaker 1>she can roll you know what I mean. And those

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<v Speaker 1>are two toxic type ideologists, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>And so like in my household, because I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>transparent in my household. See, I'm married to a real man.

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<v Speaker 1>See my husband used to be a street nigga back

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<v Speaker 1>in the day with much respect still in the streets.

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<v Speaker 1>But we have a relationship where we respect each other. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>Nah do I sometimes go off phone that joker. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I go off phone him if it's something that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like, right, But what I noticed about him, he

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<v Speaker 1>don't ague with me. You know that, he don't ague

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<v Speaker 1>with me at all. He'll turn around me like you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, And that makes me even more matter, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. You know why he know why

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<v Speaker 1>he does that because he understands that women oftentimes do

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<v Speaker 1>not care about being right. They just want you to

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<v Speaker 1>agree with them. You just say, you know what, you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>You got, That's how it is. But you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like and so like with me. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I can be like if I feel disrespected or if

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<v Speaker 1>I feel and it's not even as him being disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be people that's around him that could be

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<v Speaker 1>possibly disrespectful. Then I turn around and check this shit,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I check it, and then I'm gonna turn

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<v Speaker 1>around and I check him too, you know, and then

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<v Speaker 1>he'll turn out be like wait, man, hold up, hold

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<v Speaker 1>up now, wait wait wait, let's talk about this. Or

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<v Speaker 1>if he's not, let's talk about it. Then he'll be like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, you're right, we're moving on because seeing

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to Pettyville, and see I'm about to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with you when you're in Pettyville. Now when you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about this checking, I'm assuming this is a private conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>This checking is not public. No, I wouldn't say that

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<v Speaker 1>it's public, and I really, to be honest, let me

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<v Speaker 1>rephrase that. I wouldn't necessarily say checking towards my man.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm gonna check those outside influences. If I feel

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<v Speaker 1>that it's something that's that comes from an outside influence,

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<v Speaker 1>then yeah, I'm going all the way ten thousand on you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean, I'm gonna turn from Candice

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<v Speaker 1>until a whole King Cobra, because you know, King Cobra's

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<v Speaker 1>eat snakes okay, and if you're doing some snake shit,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna come after you, huh. Which brings me to

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<v Speaker 1>Austin County. Oh, Lloyd, same man. The folks in Austin

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<v Speaker 1>County is living in a bubble. Give us an update

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<v Speaker 1>on miss Betty Smith's case. Well, right now, this is

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<v Speaker 1>the black woman. For those who don't know, this is

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<v Speaker 1>sixty five year old grandmother who was beaten by three

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<v Speaker 1>white employees at a store after she found a fifty

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<v Speaker 1>dollars bill on the floor. They felt like she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>deserve that fifty dollars bill, so they wanted to take

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<v Speaker 1>it back from her, and she was literally fighting for

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<v Speaker 1>her life. They actually kidnapped Hilda against the wheel inside

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<v Speaker 1>of the store. They locked the doors on it, and

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<v Speaker 1>the police and ended up sending her to jail, right

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<v Speaker 1>and her daughter and her granddaughter and the daughter. Oh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Austin County. Y'all are you y'all deplorable? Man? Y'all your

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<v Speaker 1>mama should be embarrassed in your dad and should have

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<v Speaker 1>pulled that Go ahead, Kenna, Well, what's going on right

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<v Speaker 1>now is that they have legal representation and so that

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<v Speaker 1>process is going on right now. As far as dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with her civil rights being violated, and even with her

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<v Speaker 1>daughter as well as the granddaughter. So that's in process

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and I can't really, you know, properly divulge

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of it because it's in process. But what

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<v Speaker 1>was interesting to me when we end up dealing with

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<v Speaker 1>this case, the granddaughter sent me the video to my

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<v Speaker 1>inbox on Facebook, you know, and sometimes I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>take you know, people inboxes if I don't know you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. And so I just so

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<v Speaker 1>happened to take a look at it. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even know brother Cornell looked at it. So being here,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling each other about this situation. So we was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we got to move on this because that's that's just

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<v Speaker 1>not right. Like we looked at the video, We looked

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<v Speaker 1>at what happened, how it happened, and those people had

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<v Speaker 1>their audacity, nobody at the temerity to say we was

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<v Speaker 1>restraining her baby. I am trained to teach restraints. That

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a restraint, that was an assault, you know. And

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<v Speaker 1>you locked this lady in that store, violating her civil rights.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the fifty dollars did even below need one

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<v Speaker 1>of you jokers, you don't need the fifty dollars actually

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<v Speaker 1>belonged to a customer who was their prior, and they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even know it. They didn't find out who that

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<v Speaker 1>customer was. Well, yes they did, because when they went

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<v Speaker 1>back and looked at the actual video, the video showed

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<v Speaker 1>that it fell out of his pocket. Okay, but the

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<v Speaker 1>fifty dollars was not in the cash register. The fifty

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<v Speaker 1>dollars was not on the floor behind the cash register.

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<v Speaker 1>The fifty dollars was on the floor in front way

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<v Speaker 1>to the other side of the cash register. So in

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<v Speaker 1>the state of Texas, if you find something that no

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<v Speaker 1>one has claimed as yours, right, So what happened to

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<v Speaker 1>the fifty dollars? Did the guy ever get the fifty dollars?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, I really don't know if the guy

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<v Speaker 1>got the fifty dollars or not, because no, because what

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<v Speaker 1>they tried to do. The owner of the store, because

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<v Speaker 1>he was so just just upset about what actually happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and he fired those employees. He offered to give the

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<v Speaker 1>grandmother fifty dollars back, and the grandma was like, nah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want the fifty dollars. And then the cold

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<v Speaker 1>think about that situation was that all she was doing

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<v Speaker 1>was going into the store to get her special needs

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<v Speaker 1>son to ice cream. The special needs son was in

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<v Speaker 1>the car, you know what I mean. And so this

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<v Speaker 1>fifty dollars in below, and neither one of y'all that

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<v Speaker 1>was in that store. The grandmother even said, well, look

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<v Speaker 1>called the owner. I'll give the fifty dollars to the

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<v Speaker 1>owner if you know, if need be, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. So she wasn't really just like tripping. She

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<v Speaker 1>was more and less like, hey, this is my lucky

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<v Speaker 1>day out of five fifty dollars. And then y'all go over.

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<v Speaker 1>He ain't just go straight gorilla on this grandma, and

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<v Speaker 1>don't thank You're not going to get some consequences behind it.

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<v Speaker 1>So what ended up happening. We end up going to

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<v Speaker 1>Austin out of Belleville, me, Brother Quarnell, some of the

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<v Speaker 1>Black Panthers, some of the pastors, community members, families, all

0:20:22.440 --> 0:20:26.600
<v Speaker 1>of us was there the first time, and we made

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<v Speaker 1>a demand that that DA in Austin Countar you need

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure you look at this video correctly, and

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<v Speaker 1>you need to make sure that charges need to be

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<v Speaker 1>made on all three of them. And then brother Quannell

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<v Speaker 1>was very adamant about that man putting his hand on

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<v Speaker 1>that grandmother because brother Quardell was like, I'm about to

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<v Speaker 1>bring all these black panthers to this boy Highs and

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get some straightening going on. Right. So without

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<v Speaker 1>that process we heard, we hardly hear anything. Then probably

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<v Speaker 1>about a month later, no charges. So and who determined this,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming the clan jury, yeah, the supposed Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>clan jury, like you said, the jury, yeah, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>the clan clan Because by the way, for everybody out there, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>that was a phrase that I coined. So when y'all

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<v Speaker 1>start hearing it everywhere else, like all the other stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that I'd be saying, people be picking up and not

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<v Speaker 1>be giving me my credit for, you know, so you

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<v Speaker 1>know I would use that one. So, um, it was

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<v Speaker 1>interesting because we did bring up about the the ethnic

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<v Speaker 1>the the ethnic makeup of that specific jury because so

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<v Speaker 1>y'all telling us and some of these people have prior histories,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, prior criminal histories and things like that, and

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<v Speaker 1>so you're telling us that this video we've seen the

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<v Speaker 1>same video that you looked at. So you tell telling

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<v Speaker 1>me that you didn't see no charges whatsoever. And we've

0:22:03.880 --> 0:22:06.800
<v Speaker 1>seen the same damn video, right, So that's when we

0:22:07.520 --> 0:22:12.680
<v Speaker 1>surrounded that uh DA's office and it went viral, of course,

0:22:13.359 --> 0:22:16.320
<v Speaker 1>and we sent a message. And what I like with

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<v Speaker 1>Brother Cornell did. He said, and I'm gonna give you

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<v Speaker 1>something better. We're gonna start a New Black Panther Nation

0:22:21.760 --> 0:22:25.040
<v Speaker 1>chapter right here. I'm gonna give you something that you need,

0:22:25.760 --> 0:22:27.200
<v Speaker 1>something that you don't want, but I'm gonna give you

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<v Speaker 1>what you need. And so that's how we end up

0:22:30.840 --> 0:22:36.240
<v Speaker 1>establishing another chapter in Belleville. Now, when did y'all do that?

0:22:37.119 --> 0:22:41.960
<v Speaker 1>Uh that actually happened that day? So and who is

0:22:42.040 --> 0:22:46.240
<v Speaker 1>the leader of that chapter? I think it's that pastor

0:22:46.760 --> 0:22:51.720
<v Speaker 1>I forgot his actual name right off, but um, but

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<v Speaker 1>it is a chapter theretos Loaded podcast, we'll keep right

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<v Speaker 1>back after the spot. Let's get into the New Black

0:23:08.200 --> 0:23:11.000
<v Speaker 1>Panther Party and how you mean the nation, because it's two.

0:23:11.320 --> 0:23:13.840
<v Speaker 1>You got the New Black Panther Party that's not us,

0:23:14.320 --> 0:23:16.400
<v Speaker 1>and then you got the New Black Panther Nation, which

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<v Speaker 1>is us. Okay, I'm glad you clarified that the New

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<v Speaker 1>Black Panther Nation correct led by Brother Cornel X. Correct,

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<v Speaker 1>Good Brother Cornel X. How did you in Coinnell and

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<v Speaker 1>meet in the first place? And what brought about this? Uh,

0:23:31.680 --> 0:23:35.359
<v Speaker 1>this relationship? Did you guys have, um, you know with

0:23:35.560 --> 0:23:40.520
<v Speaker 1>working together to better society? You know what? Me and him, Uh,

0:23:40.840 --> 0:23:46.960
<v Speaker 1>we linked up on one case and this was a

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<v Speaker 1>case I think that we all was kind of had

0:23:50.840 --> 0:23:53.520
<v Speaker 1>some interest with. I can't remember exactly which case was

0:23:53.560 --> 0:23:56.520
<v Speaker 1>because we worked on so many and me and him

0:23:56.600 --> 0:24:01.159
<v Speaker 1>hit it off, you know from there. And I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>type of person. I'm a straight up person, you know

0:24:03.160 --> 0:24:06.400
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. I like to judge people for myself

0:24:06.880 --> 0:24:09.560
<v Speaker 1>and who you are and for me to know if

0:24:09.600 --> 0:24:11.840
<v Speaker 1>you're a snake or not. Right, Because I had so

0:24:11.960 --> 0:24:14.840
<v Speaker 1>many people saying bad stuff about this brother, you know

0:24:14.880 --> 0:24:17.280
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, saying stuff like he takes people money

0:24:17.320 --> 0:24:19.360
<v Speaker 1>and he'd do all this and he do all that right.

0:24:19.880 --> 0:24:23.560
<v Speaker 1>And this brother was very transparent with me. This brother

0:24:23.840 --> 0:24:27.840
<v Speaker 1>showed me straight lawsuits that he won on these people

0:24:28.160 --> 0:24:31.040
<v Speaker 1>who saying this stuff about him, you know what I mean.

0:24:31.400 --> 0:24:33.920
<v Speaker 1>Then on top of that, when me and him work together,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, you know what, I need you to teach

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<v Speaker 1>me the game on how to deal with the media,

0:24:40.240 --> 0:24:41.879
<v Speaker 1>because you gotta keep him out. I already had a

0:24:41.920 --> 0:24:44.680
<v Speaker 1>platform too before me and him linked up, and my

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<v Speaker 1>platform was with the Democratic Party for the Black Caucus.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when me and him linked up and I

0:24:51.560 --> 0:24:54.119
<v Speaker 1>told him, I said, I'm gonna be a student, and

0:24:54.240 --> 0:24:56.240
<v Speaker 1>I want you to be the teacher to show me

0:24:56.359 --> 0:25:03.720
<v Speaker 1>how to navigate with this media part. This brother showed

0:25:03.720 --> 0:25:06.720
<v Speaker 1>me how to write press releases. This brother showed me

0:25:06.920 --> 0:25:10.920
<v Speaker 1>how to send out press releases. This brother showed me

0:25:11.040 --> 0:25:15.280
<v Speaker 1>how to play the media on certain instances, as far

0:25:15.359 --> 0:25:17.800
<v Speaker 1>as like, you don't want to make yourself too common,

0:25:18.119 --> 0:25:20.360
<v Speaker 1>because then if you turn around and do so many

0:25:20.400 --> 0:25:22.800
<v Speaker 1>press conferences, they're not gonna come out. So he showed

0:25:22.840 --> 0:25:25.160
<v Speaker 1>me the game on how to deal with certain media

0:25:25.200 --> 0:25:28.000
<v Speaker 1>outlets to give them the exclusive and then make them

0:25:28.080 --> 0:25:30.720
<v Speaker 1>fight for the next exclusive and things like So he

0:25:30.840 --> 0:25:33.399
<v Speaker 1>just taught me the whole entire game on how to

0:25:33.560 --> 0:25:37.040
<v Speaker 1>do it, and also even how to conduct an actual

0:25:37.160 --> 0:25:41.080
<v Speaker 1>press conference and how to navigate through a press conference

0:25:41.160 --> 0:25:43.520
<v Speaker 1>to the fact where you don't be liable, you know.

0:25:44.280 --> 0:25:50.159
<v Speaker 1>And me and him worked on several several cases together,

0:25:50.920 --> 0:25:54.200
<v Speaker 1>and some of the stuff what I found interest in.

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<v Speaker 1>He'll turn around and I'm like, brother Cornell, you're on

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<v Speaker 1>your way and he'll be like, now you got it,

0:26:01.720 --> 0:26:03.800
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, did this joke? Could just leave me

0:26:04.000 --> 0:26:06.200
<v Speaker 1>up here to do this? And I turned around and

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<v Speaker 1>rocked it. And to this day right now, I'm the

0:26:09.320 --> 0:26:11.920
<v Speaker 1>only person that can speak on his behalf if he's

0:26:11.960 --> 0:26:15.480
<v Speaker 1>not there, because he told me, he said, you got something,

0:26:16.440 --> 0:26:20.119
<v Speaker 1>you gotta light that's in you. You have something, and

0:26:20.280 --> 0:26:23.160
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna get bigger. And he said that I'm gonna

0:26:23.280 --> 0:26:28.159
<v Speaker 1>perpetuate it. So at what point did he give you

0:26:28.320 --> 0:26:31.280
<v Speaker 1>that role that you have with and what exactly is

0:26:31.320 --> 0:26:33.720
<v Speaker 1>your role in the New Black Panther Nation? And you

0:26:33.840 --> 0:26:36.000
<v Speaker 1>know what, And I'm glad you asked that question because

0:26:36.440 --> 0:26:38.960
<v Speaker 1>I didn't all the way jump into the New Black

0:26:39.000 --> 0:26:43.400
<v Speaker 1>Panthers at all, because I still kept the Rainbow Push

0:26:43.480 --> 0:26:47.600
<v Speaker 1>Coalition with Revend Jesse Jackson and also the Black Caucus,

0:26:47.720 --> 0:26:50.280
<v Speaker 1>which is a text coalition of Black Democrats, and so

0:26:50.520 --> 0:26:53.840
<v Speaker 1>we would do things. It'll be joint organizations that we

0:26:53.880 --> 0:26:56.920
<v Speaker 1>would do. And so I got to send you know

0:26:58.240 --> 0:27:00.720
<v Speaker 1>how they move what they do because I'm all about

0:27:00.760 --> 0:27:02.679
<v Speaker 1>black people at the end of the day, and when

0:27:02.720 --> 0:27:05.879
<v Speaker 1>I saw seeing that they actually out here doing things

0:27:06.240 --> 0:27:10.399
<v Speaker 1>for black people and about black people. I was like,

0:27:10.480 --> 0:27:12.879
<v Speaker 1>you know what I say, brother Cornell, I'm gonna come

0:27:12.920 --> 0:27:17.000
<v Speaker 1>on and join. I'm gonna join. And he said, well

0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:20.960
<v Speaker 1>you join. I want you to be my national Minister

0:27:21.040 --> 0:27:25.480
<v Speaker 1>of Politics because you already in the politic realm. Already

0:27:25.640 --> 0:27:29.520
<v Speaker 1>you know how to navigate through that. And sometimes he'll

0:27:29.560 --> 0:27:32.080
<v Speaker 1>call me to ask me to reach out to a

0:27:32.160 --> 0:27:34.880
<v Speaker 1>politician on certain things, or if he need to phone

0:27:34.960 --> 0:27:37.720
<v Speaker 1>number and things like that. Because I'm in that arena,

0:27:38.119 --> 0:27:41.840
<v Speaker 1>I want to pause for a moment to recognize what

0:27:43.280 --> 0:27:48.879
<v Speaker 1>Quannelle saw, what the insight that he had to to

0:27:49.080 --> 0:27:52.760
<v Speaker 1>bring you in. He saw that light in you, and

0:27:52.960 --> 0:27:57.920
<v Speaker 1>he saw that blood, that new blood that we have

0:27:58.119 --> 0:28:01.840
<v Speaker 1>to have to keep the movements going. Like this is

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:07.760
<v Speaker 1>how they're able to throughout so many movements. You have

0:28:07.920 --> 0:28:11.040
<v Speaker 1>one person at the helm and they feel like it

0:28:11.480 --> 0:28:14.800
<v Speaker 1>when they stop that person, the movement stops. But if

0:28:14.880 --> 0:28:21.959
<v Speaker 1>you have a quantels and a doctor Kennis Matthews teaming up,

0:28:22.000 --> 0:28:24.119
<v Speaker 1>which nobody saw coming. I didn't see it coming and

0:28:24.200 --> 0:28:25.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm on the streets. You know what I'm saying. I

0:28:25.840 --> 0:28:28.560
<v Speaker 1>got my pulse on the community. I see what's happening,

0:28:28.760 --> 0:28:32.160
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't see that when coming when I was like, oh,

0:28:32.280 --> 0:28:34.520
<v Speaker 1>I know this is going down. I'm like, it's gonna

0:28:34.560 --> 0:28:39.080
<v Speaker 1>go down. And I'm talking about here, I'm talking about Bama,

0:28:39.800 --> 0:28:43.160
<v Speaker 1>like you go to Bam Bam. You know the funny part,

0:28:43.240 --> 0:28:46.200
<v Speaker 1>this is what he told me to he said. He said,

0:28:46.640 --> 0:28:52.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna make you the female meeting, because no nation

0:28:52.400 --> 0:28:55.880
<v Speaker 1>is stronger than it's black woman. And what I like

0:28:56.040 --> 0:28:59.920
<v Speaker 1>about him is that he's not a male chauvinistic type guy.

0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:03.840
<v Speaker 1>You know, he's not misogynistic at all. He believed in

0:29:03.920 --> 0:29:06.360
<v Speaker 1>a woman having a voice. You have a lot of

0:29:06.440 --> 0:29:09.800
<v Speaker 1>these jack legs suckers around here that don't believe in

0:29:09.920 --> 0:29:11.880
<v Speaker 1>women having a voice at all. They want to try

0:29:11.920 --> 0:29:14.080
<v Speaker 1>to solid you, you know. And I actually had that

0:29:14.160 --> 0:29:16.680
<v Speaker 1>happen to me, you know, before I joined the nation.

0:29:16.720 --> 0:29:18.320
<v Speaker 1>I had that happened to me when I was at

0:29:18.400 --> 0:29:22.120
<v Speaker 1>the Capitol doing a legislative session, right And I ain't

0:29:22.160 --> 0:29:24.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna say the politician name, but that joke will know

0:29:24.160 --> 0:29:26.440
<v Speaker 1>who he is if you're watching, you know what it is, sucker.

0:29:26.800 --> 0:29:33.080
<v Speaker 1>So what happened. We were man, say that chump name.

0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:36.600
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you what's his name. Let me get

0:29:36.640 --> 0:29:41.040
<v Speaker 1>the scenario. So he turned around and um, we were

0:29:41.080 --> 0:29:43.960
<v Speaker 1>doing a press conference with you know, all the passes

0:29:44.000 --> 0:29:47.520
<v Speaker 1>and things like that. And so by me being the

0:29:47.560 --> 0:29:50.960
<v Speaker 1>accountability person and the vice chair of the entire Black

0:29:51.000 --> 0:29:54.000
<v Speaker 1>Caucus for the state, they was like doctor Matthews, make

0:29:54.040 --> 0:29:56.040
<v Speaker 1>show you know you that Rep Ron Reynolds, all the

0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:58.880
<v Speaker 1>may show. I was in the building. Even Garrett Bledsoe

0:29:58.920 --> 0:30:01.479
<v Speaker 1>with NAACP that's over Texas. All of them made sure

0:30:01.480 --> 0:30:03.400
<v Speaker 1>I was in the build. This joker trying to cut

0:30:03.520 --> 0:30:07.840
<v Speaker 1>me bro he turned around and try to get me

0:30:07.960 --> 0:30:12.240
<v Speaker 1>cut out of the press conference. Okay, And so one

0:30:12.320 --> 0:30:16.480
<v Speaker 1>of the people that was helping organize this ran it

0:30:16.560 --> 0:30:18.760
<v Speaker 1>by me and told me to play on what was

0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:21.960
<v Speaker 1>going on, right, say, I'm the wrong person to tell

0:30:22.040 --> 0:30:24.720
<v Speaker 1>me that some snake stuff going on, because I'm the

0:30:24.840 --> 0:30:26.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of person I'm gonna go straight to the snake

0:30:26.680 --> 0:30:29.600
<v Speaker 1>who did it right, And they didn't think that's what

0:30:29.680 --> 0:30:32.160
<v Speaker 1>I was going to do. And I did. And I

0:30:32.320 --> 0:30:35.400
<v Speaker 1>told Garret Blesso, I say, you might want to turn

0:30:35.440 --> 0:30:37.000
<v Speaker 1>your head because this ain't gonna have nothing to do

0:30:37.040 --> 0:30:40.200
<v Speaker 1>with you, all right. So I went over there, I say, say,

0:30:41.400 --> 0:30:43.600
<v Speaker 1>it was brought to my attention you went over here

0:30:43.640 --> 0:30:46.600
<v Speaker 1>doing some snake shit. Bro. He told me, Well, I say, man,

0:30:46.640 --> 0:30:48.600
<v Speaker 1>don't play the fake stuff for me. Doc, I say,

0:30:48.600 --> 0:30:51.480
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you right now. I have full niggas from

0:30:51.560 --> 0:30:55.200
<v Speaker 1>homestead up here in two hours. So I'm gonna tell

0:30:55.200 --> 0:30:57.160
<v Speaker 1>you this, and I'm gonna say this again. What you're

0:30:57.200 --> 0:31:02.600
<v Speaker 1>not gonna do is try to silence me. Okay, So

0:31:02.680 --> 0:31:05.160
<v Speaker 1>I say, are we clear? Because when I walk away

0:31:05.200 --> 0:31:07.960
<v Speaker 1>from here and I make a phone call, it's gonna

0:31:08.000 --> 0:31:15.200
<v Speaker 1>be a problem for you. We had the whole press conference.

0:31:15.320 --> 0:31:20.560
<v Speaker 1>So what happened since put it this way? Me and

0:31:20.640 --> 0:31:25.120
<v Speaker 1>this individual, we got into it again. And this was

0:31:26.000 --> 0:31:29.240
<v Speaker 1>with a situation I don't know, if I don't know

0:31:29.280 --> 0:31:31.800
<v Speaker 1>if you know about it that happened in Lubbock, Love

0:31:31.880 --> 0:31:34.480
<v Speaker 1>but Texas, and there was some racist stuff where they

0:31:34.520 --> 0:31:39.920
<v Speaker 1>were calling the children monkeys and yelling nigga and then

0:31:40.520 --> 0:31:43.600
<v Speaker 1>one of the young ladies tried to kill herself in

0:31:43.760 --> 0:31:52.920
<v Speaker 1>that process. And so when Reverend Jesse Jackson daughter called me, yes,

0:31:53.640 --> 0:31:56.680
<v Speaker 1>and so we didn't we in Texas, we didn't even

0:31:56.720 --> 0:32:00.760
<v Speaker 1>knew about the story. But Reverend Jesse Jackson daughter saw

0:32:00.880 --> 0:32:04.560
<v Speaker 1>the story in Chicago, and so she reached out to me,

0:32:04.800 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 1>and she reached out to another politician you know that

0:32:07.240 --> 0:32:11.880
<v Speaker 1>was here, and so then that's where the alliance had

0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:14.520
<v Speaker 1>came in. And so me and this person was an

0:32:14.560 --> 0:32:17.520
<v Speaker 1>alliance together. And so I'm the kind of person I

0:32:17.640 --> 0:32:22.160
<v Speaker 1>don't do well with people who try to run the show,

0:32:22.880 --> 0:32:25.400
<v Speaker 1>don't I don't do well with that, right, And so

0:32:26.040 --> 0:32:30.720
<v Speaker 1>when this person tried to run the show, it made

0:32:30.720 --> 0:32:34.360
<v Speaker 1>it very uncomfortable for some of those families that were

0:32:34.440 --> 0:32:37.719
<v Speaker 1>there because they shared the concern like, well, how are

0:32:37.760 --> 0:32:41.440
<v Speaker 1>you gonna set up what we're gonna do this press conference?

0:32:41.640 --> 0:32:44.280
<v Speaker 1>And you didn't even ask us, you know what our

0:32:44.680 --> 0:32:48.280
<v Speaker 1>religious preference is, you know how we feel about it,

0:32:48.680 --> 0:32:52.520
<v Speaker 1>and then you're doing zoom calls and you're not even

0:32:52.680 --> 0:32:57.200
<v Speaker 1>involving us, you know, in it, right. And so when

0:32:57.280 --> 0:33:01.040
<v Speaker 1>that happened, we all in the group text together. I

0:33:01.200 --> 0:33:02.880
<v Speaker 1>turn around and I put it in that group text,

0:33:03.120 --> 0:33:07.720
<v Speaker 1>say why did you not invite us and the families

0:33:08.000 --> 0:33:10.720
<v Speaker 1>to this zoom call? I got a problem with you,

0:33:11.120 --> 0:33:13.520
<v Speaker 1>and that all of us was at that test. Because

0:33:13.520 --> 0:33:15.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of person I'm gonna hit you right there.

0:33:15.960 --> 0:33:19.280
<v Speaker 1>And then I turn around and son a personal text

0:33:19.840 --> 0:33:23.520
<v Speaker 1>and I said, hey, you need to call me because

0:33:23.880 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 1>we got something to discuss right, Okay, I'm at the

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:31.240
<v Speaker 1>beauty shop get my hat done, you know, and I

0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:36.800
<v Speaker 1>get a call. Hey, cannis, um, all right, what problem

0:33:36.880 --> 0:33:38.520
<v Speaker 1>you have? I say, Okay, so the problem that I

0:33:38.640 --> 0:33:41.840
<v Speaker 1>have is this one. You did not invite us on

0:33:41.960 --> 0:33:44.760
<v Speaker 1>this zoom call, you know what I mean, Me, the families,

0:33:44.880 --> 0:33:46.960
<v Speaker 1>none of us, So we really don't know what you passed.

0:33:47.120 --> 0:33:48.800
<v Speaker 1>This got going on, you know what I mean. If

0:33:48.800 --> 0:33:51.400
<v Speaker 1>we're all supposed to be in a joint effort, then

0:33:51.840 --> 0:33:55.520
<v Speaker 1>it goes from we're trying to get our flights, we're

0:33:55.560 --> 0:33:59.000
<v Speaker 1>trying to get everything together so we can plan appropriately,

0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:03.480
<v Speaker 1>but you're not answering your phone right then, I said,

0:34:03.640 --> 0:34:06.680
<v Speaker 1>Then one of the other elected officials was trying to

0:34:06.760 --> 0:34:09.160
<v Speaker 1>call you and you didn't even answer his phone either.

0:34:09.719 --> 0:34:11.879
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean. That's a lie. That's a lie.

0:34:12.120 --> 0:34:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I say, Look, nigga, who are you talking to? Who

0:34:16.080 --> 0:34:19.160
<v Speaker 1>are you talking to? Chump? You know what I'm saying,

0:34:19.320 --> 0:34:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Because I don't like that snake shit that you did.

0:34:23.360 --> 0:34:25.480
<v Speaker 1>And I said, and first of all, you're not gonna

0:34:25.520 --> 0:34:29.040
<v Speaker 1>be talking to me like that, like one like I'm

0:34:29.120 --> 0:34:32.360
<v Speaker 1>your wife, or if I'm like one of your kids

0:34:33.080 --> 0:34:35.120
<v Speaker 1>or one of the members that you're jack led Church

0:34:35.840 --> 0:34:37.440
<v Speaker 1>South like, to me, all of them got it bad

0:34:37.480 --> 0:34:39.600
<v Speaker 1>if he talks to them like that, That's what I'm saying.

0:34:39.680 --> 0:34:48.200
<v Speaker 1>And so that male toxic molest toxic um misogynistic behavior

0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:50.759
<v Speaker 1>was a problem, you know what I mean. And so

0:34:51.400 --> 0:34:53.680
<v Speaker 1>then I got the other elected officials because they heard

0:34:53.719 --> 0:34:55.840
<v Speaker 1>about it. There's like, now, look, y'all need to just

0:34:56.160 --> 0:34:57.840
<v Speaker 1>squash that. You know what I'm saying, y'all need to

0:34:57.880 --> 0:35:00.439
<v Speaker 1>just go and y'all just go and help the people

0:35:00.480 --> 0:35:02.760
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. Y'all just keep y'all beef aside.

0:35:02.800 --> 0:35:05.719
<v Speaker 1>I say, see death right, there is one thing that

0:35:05.840 --> 0:35:09.160
<v Speaker 1>I can't rock with in politics because if I know

0:35:09.360 --> 0:35:11.680
<v Speaker 1>you're a snake and I know you do snake stuff,

0:35:11.840 --> 0:35:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call you out. And then once I call

0:35:14.120 --> 0:35:16.120
<v Speaker 1>you out, I'm not gonna fool with you, you know

0:35:16.120 --> 0:35:17.520
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. Like, I'm not gonna sit up here

0:35:17.560 --> 0:35:19.719
<v Speaker 1>and laugh in your face like we're cool and we

0:35:19.880 --> 0:35:22.040
<v Speaker 1>really not, you know what I mean, Because I know

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:24.080
<v Speaker 1>what type of snake you are. No, I want you

0:35:24.200 --> 0:35:26.759
<v Speaker 1>to know. I know what kind of snake you are,

0:35:26.960 --> 0:35:29.440
<v Speaker 1>and you better stay up out of my lane because

0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:31.640
<v Speaker 1>you keep playing with me. I'm gonna blast your ass.

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:34.960
<v Speaker 1>And that was kind of how I went from Now,

0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:40.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean blast you means that highly criticize and hold

0:35:40.560 --> 0:35:46.120
<v Speaker 1>you accountable. Okay. So that's the that's the the university,

0:35:46.760 --> 0:35:50.759
<v Speaker 1>that's the university definition. I'm giving the straight I'm giving

0:35:50.800 --> 0:35:57.400
<v Speaker 1>the street definition. I'm fire up. Okay. So Candice. Uh,

0:35:59.480 --> 0:36:03.319
<v Speaker 1>often times these problems that that you're you're attacking. Uh,

0:36:03.520 --> 0:36:06.920
<v Speaker 1>these when people bring you these issues, a lot of

0:36:06.960 --> 0:36:12.839
<v Speaker 1>these issues are systemic, absolutely, and the people who are

0:36:14.360 --> 0:36:18.000
<v Speaker 1>are often named in the you know who are who

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:22.719
<v Speaker 1>often are the subjects of the of the of the

0:36:22.840 --> 0:36:26.879
<v Speaker 1>criticism of the finger point or white people. Uh. Are

0:36:26.920 --> 0:36:30.640
<v Speaker 1>there any white people that are supportive of you, who

0:36:30.719 --> 0:36:33.920
<v Speaker 1>have who have the power, and who have influence. Oh? Absolutely,

0:36:34.719 --> 0:36:37.279
<v Speaker 1>I have quite a bit of white people who are

0:36:37.400 --> 0:36:40.560
<v Speaker 1>very supportive with what I do and and you're not

0:36:40.680 --> 0:36:43.080
<v Speaker 1>what and and like I always would tell them, I said,

0:36:43.960 --> 0:36:46.560
<v Speaker 1>what you're doing is completely out of the box, and

0:36:46.719 --> 0:36:50.239
<v Speaker 1>I really appreciate what you're doing and that you're not

0:36:50.400 --> 0:36:56.040
<v Speaker 1>falling into the um How did I tell them myself?

0:36:56.040 --> 0:37:00.279
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that you're not falling into the tunnel of

0:37:00.400 --> 0:37:03.239
<v Speaker 1>white supremacy because you gotta keep in mind, Like I

0:37:03.280 --> 0:37:05.200
<v Speaker 1>always explain to him, See, a lot of black people

0:37:05.239 --> 0:37:08.440
<v Speaker 1>we've been traumatized, broke, like, we've been seriously traumatized, and

0:37:08.480 --> 0:37:10.680
<v Speaker 1>we really don't trust white people, you know what I mean?

0:37:11.000 --> 0:37:15.200
<v Speaker 1>So by you being these white people that stand away

0:37:15.280 --> 0:37:20.040
<v Speaker 1>from that, that is not for the systemic racism, that's

0:37:20.120 --> 0:37:24.319
<v Speaker 1>not for the white supremacy, that's not for anything that's

0:37:24.600 --> 0:37:27.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, dealing with racism. You know, Hey, we're good,

0:37:28.200 --> 0:37:30.440
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? And how do you persuade

0:37:30.760 --> 0:37:35.440
<v Speaker 1>white people who see you often attacking the system that

0:37:35.680 --> 0:37:40.880
<v Speaker 1>includes white people who are running the system that you know,

0:37:41.000 --> 0:37:44.439
<v Speaker 1>you're not against white people, you're just against white people

0:37:44.480 --> 0:37:47.560
<v Speaker 1>who are against you. Well, this is what I tell them.

0:37:48.360 --> 0:37:51.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm not against white people. I'm against white supremacist and

0:37:51.960 --> 0:37:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm also against agents of white supremacy because you also

0:37:55.680 --> 0:38:03.640
<v Speaker 1>have agents that look like us, you know, the cocon nuts.

0:38:03.920 --> 0:38:05.839
<v Speaker 1>You know Candis owns. I mean, how do you feel

0:38:05.840 --> 0:38:08.520
<v Speaker 1>about Candid's owners? I don't like her. You don't like Okay,

0:38:08.920 --> 0:38:11.480
<v Speaker 1>that's one thing, you know, Like I'm the real Candids,

0:38:11.520 --> 0:38:13.080
<v Speaker 1>that's the real kid. Yeah, I don't know who the

0:38:13.120 --> 0:38:15.160
<v Speaker 1>hell I don't know who the hell it is do

0:38:15.239 --> 0:38:17.080
<v Speaker 1>you ever hear her name and just be like, damn,

0:38:17.160 --> 0:38:19.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, I wish she didn't have my name. No

0:38:20.440 --> 0:38:22.879
<v Speaker 1>what I'd be like, you know what? She just needs

0:38:22.880 --> 0:38:24.360
<v Speaker 1>to shut the hell up, and she better not let

0:38:24.440 --> 0:38:27.080
<v Speaker 1>me see her ass because I'm a light up. I

0:38:27.160 --> 0:38:30.040
<v Speaker 1>think y'all spell your name different. Yeah, I think we do.

0:38:30.440 --> 0:38:34.560
<v Speaker 1>But it's like the stuff that she does is just like, ma'am,

0:38:35.400 --> 0:38:38.680
<v Speaker 1>shut up. I think she spells her name. I think

0:38:38.680 --> 0:38:44.839
<v Speaker 1>it's us with an ad, isn't it. Yeah, yeahs her

0:38:44.960 --> 0:38:49.040
<v Speaker 1>name with an ad. Yeah. I don't like them. Yeah,

0:38:49.160 --> 0:38:51.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't like them. She kind of yeah. She was

0:38:51.960 --> 0:39:00.560
<v Speaker 1>recently doing some jackabooing about, um, why does black sel lebrities.

0:39:02.440 --> 0:39:06.719
<v Speaker 1>Why don't black celebrities live in black neighborhoods? Why she

0:39:06.800 --> 0:39:09.600
<v Speaker 1>don't stay in the black neighborhood. Yeah, well we know,

0:39:09.760 --> 0:39:12.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, we know what she's about, you know, uh,

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:16.840
<v Speaker 1>you know. But the trip part about it is the

0:39:16.920 --> 0:39:21.480
<v Speaker 1>people that hear certain things that she's saying, they go like, yeah, yeah, yeah, candids,

0:39:21.560 --> 0:39:24.759
<v Speaker 1>that's right, that's right, you know, and people like her,

0:39:25.800 --> 0:39:29.920
<v Speaker 1>they're very good at pointing out the obvious things that

0:39:30.040 --> 0:39:32.799
<v Speaker 1>people know that you know it's true and you can

0:39:32.840 --> 0:39:37.680
<v Speaker 1>agree with. But but then they also, uh what they do,

0:39:37.800 --> 0:39:40.920
<v Speaker 1>They go top heavy. Once they get you, get your

0:39:40.960 --> 0:39:43.400
<v Speaker 1>trust on that obvious thing or whatever that they know

0:39:43.520 --> 0:39:46.520
<v Speaker 1>they can get you with, then they come back with something,

0:39:47.239 --> 0:39:52.600
<v Speaker 1>uh like something assinine, like why don't black celebrities live

0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:54.919
<v Speaker 1>in black neighbors But first of all, that's a true

0:39:55.000 --> 0:39:57.920
<v Speaker 1>definition of a narcissist. Yeah, well it's not. It's not

0:39:58.080 --> 0:40:02.480
<v Speaker 1>even And she's a gass exactly because because she knows,

0:40:02.840 --> 0:40:07.800
<v Speaker 1>she knows that it's about classism, not racism, exactly. She

0:40:07.880 --> 0:40:10.800
<v Speaker 1>knows not it's not about racist, about class she knows that.

0:40:11.680 --> 0:40:15.680
<v Speaker 1>But the average person may not pick pick up on

0:40:15.840 --> 0:40:19.480
<v Speaker 1>that right because you know, you'll never hear Candide Ones

0:40:20.640 --> 0:40:24.880
<v Speaker 1>ask the question, why don't rich white people live in

0:40:24.920 --> 0:40:28.799
<v Speaker 1>poor neighborhoods? Live in poor white neighborhoods? Why don't rich

0:40:28.880 --> 0:40:32.239
<v Speaker 1>white people live in trailer parks? She'll never ask that question. Well,

0:40:33.200 --> 0:40:35.680
<v Speaker 1>because she's an agent, Well WILLI you already know what

0:40:35.760 --> 0:40:40.239
<v Speaker 1>it is she's she's actually by design to be put

0:40:40.440 --> 0:40:42.880
<v Speaker 1>on that type of platform, you know what I mean?

0:40:43.320 --> 0:40:47.520
<v Speaker 1>Because one, she's a gas lighter, and that's normally what

0:40:47.640 --> 0:40:51.840
<v Speaker 1>they do. And so they try to activate the African

0:40:51.880 --> 0:40:54.239
<v Speaker 1>Americans that are not woke, you know what I mean,

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:59.160
<v Speaker 1>who actually cannot really see the smoke screen, cannot really

0:40:59.440 --> 0:41:02.880
<v Speaker 1>see the foolishes that she's doing, you know what I mean.

0:41:03.080 --> 0:41:06.120
<v Speaker 1>But see she gets real or real candids come through there,

0:41:06.200 --> 0:41:08.319
<v Speaker 1>She's gonna get the bears, you know what I mean,

0:41:08.400 --> 0:41:10.400
<v Speaker 1>Because you don't know if I'm gonna be on an

0:41:10.560 --> 0:41:13.320
<v Speaker 1>educational tone or if I'm being on a hood tone.

0:41:13.520 --> 0:41:16.640
<v Speaker 1>And see that's what be killing them. Because just because

0:41:16.719 --> 0:41:20.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm educated doesn't mean I have to talk like I'm

0:41:21.000 --> 0:41:24.600
<v Speaker 1>straight out of Harvard. I'm gonna talk like Candice, you

0:41:24.680 --> 0:41:26.920
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, because Candice is the one that

0:41:27.040 --> 0:41:30.640
<v Speaker 1>got me where I am. Not the education Candice did

0:41:30.680 --> 0:41:34.240
<v Speaker 1>because Candids had to go in now and go get it. Okay,

0:41:34.880 --> 0:41:39.239
<v Speaker 1>great point, flip side is just because you got those

0:41:41.480 --> 0:41:43.840
<v Speaker 1>you got your fingernails all done up in all that

0:41:43.960 --> 0:41:46.919
<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff, don't mean that you're gonna talk hood either.

0:41:47.400 --> 0:41:49.680
<v Speaker 1>So you got you can hit them from any angle.

0:41:49.880 --> 0:41:52.120
<v Speaker 1>That's got to be something that you know to have

0:41:52.320 --> 0:41:54.080
<v Speaker 1>that you know to be able to do that, like

0:41:54.280 --> 0:41:57.600
<v Speaker 1>they can't box you in, Nope, Who who is Candice?

0:41:57.920 --> 0:42:03.000
<v Speaker 1>Who is Candice Matthews, not doctor Candice Matthews. Who is

0:42:03.160 --> 0:42:07.560
<v Speaker 1>Candice when she goes home and takes off that cowgirl

0:42:07.680 --> 0:42:12.160
<v Speaker 1>had right for you. I Am just a down the

0:42:12.280 --> 0:42:16.680
<v Speaker 1>earth's sister. I like the chill. I love my family.

0:42:17.120 --> 0:42:18.800
<v Speaker 1>You know, sometimes they get on your damn nerves. You

0:42:18.880 --> 0:42:20.319
<v Speaker 1>just be like, man, get out my damn face. Let

0:42:20.400 --> 0:42:22.160
<v Speaker 1>me risk for a little bit. And I like to

0:42:22.200 --> 0:42:25.360
<v Speaker 1>smoke my stogies. You know. I take care of my mama,

0:42:25.920 --> 0:42:29.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, take care of my sisters. You know. Then

0:42:29.600 --> 0:42:32.800
<v Speaker 1>I turn around and provide jobs for people besides me

0:42:32.880 --> 0:42:36.759
<v Speaker 1>at doctor Matthews. I provide opportunities for people, you know.

0:42:37.360 --> 0:42:44.480
<v Speaker 1>And I'm just I just regular sister, you know that

0:42:44.960 --> 0:42:48.960
<v Speaker 1>have respect for herself and have the utmost respectful my people.

0:42:49.440 --> 0:42:52.680
<v Speaker 1>That's it, you know, nothing more, nothing less, you know.

0:42:53.360 --> 0:42:57.040
<v Speaker 1>And I just don't like snake shit. And that's what

0:42:57.160 --> 0:42:59.560
<v Speaker 1>the doctor Matthews had on all went out it on.

0:43:00.760 --> 0:43:03.560
<v Speaker 1>You know. I'm just that person, that's it. Like, I'm

0:43:03.600 --> 0:43:06.320
<v Speaker 1>not that type of girl that you know when you

0:43:06.440 --> 0:43:10.200
<v Speaker 1>get with a celebrity that you get star struck. You

0:43:10.239 --> 0:43:12.759
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. You pull your pass up just

0:43:12.920 --> 0:43:16.360
<v Speaker 1>like me, you know what I mean. You may have

0:43:16.480 --> 0:43:18.800
<v Speaker 1>a little bit more influence, you know, with people because

0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:21.600
<v Speaker 1>of the work and things that you do. But that

0:43:21.680 --> 0:43:23.879
<v Speaker 1>don't give you a pass with me, because I'm gonna

0:43:23.880 --> 0:43:27.600
<v Speaker 1>hold you recountable regardless, you know. And and if I

0:43:27.680 --> 0:43:30.080
<v Speaker 1>say hey to you and you don't speak to me,

0:43:30.560 --> 0:43:32.120
<v Speaker 1>all right, well then you don't gotta worried about me

0:43:32.239 --> 0:43:37.200
<v Speaker 1>doing nothing else, but Y'll be jail. So I'm just saying,

0:43:37.560 --> 0:43:39.839
<v Speaker 1>you know, and I've been around a lot of celebrities.

0:43:39.920 --> 0:43:44.120
<v Speaker 1>I'd be around a lot of people, and I've always

0:43:44.239 --> 0:43:46.200
<v Speaker 1>had and my mom and my dad always say this,

0:43:46.640 --> 0:43:51.719
<v Speaker 1>I've always had that type of aura that draw people

0:43:51.800 --> 0:43:55.480
<v Speaker 1>to you. You know. People don't not gonna draw to

0:43:55.680 --> 0:43:58.399
<v Speaker 1>something that that's just okay. This is something I see

0:43:58.440 --> 0:44:00.560
<v Speaker 1>every day, you know what I mean. They want to

0:44:00.600 --> 0:44:02.600
<v Speaker 1>draw to somebody way man, now, who is that? You

0:44:02.680 --> 0:44:04.279
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. It's like anywhere I walk in,

0:44:05.480 --> 0:44:07.320
<v Speaker 1>the power gonna come in the room when I walk in,

0:44:07.760 --> 0:44:09.920
<v Speaker 1>and you can be the most powerful person in now.

0:44:10.120 --> 0:44:12.719
<v Speaker 1>But my mentality is I'm the most powerful person in here.

0:44:14.200 --> 0:44:17.880
<v Speaker 1>Girdle spots reloaded podcasts will be right back after the sports.

0:44:24.880 --> 0:44:34.279
<v Speaker 1>How do you maintain your advocacy for children and do

0:44:34.480 --> 0:44:38.759
<v Speaker 1>what you do in the community at large. Right, all

0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:43.400
<v Speaker 1>of those cases that aut there with people being attacked,

0:44:43.800 --> 0:44:48.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, from all kinds of angles, you know, right, political, educational, social,

0:44:48.960 --> 0:44:51.120
<v Speaker 1>How do you do that? Well? The kid thing is

0:44:51.160 --> 0:44:53.480
<v Speaker 1>you got to have good people working for you, you

0:44:53.560 --> 0:44:54.880
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. And like member, I told you

0:44:54.960 --> 0:44:57.360
<v Speaker 1>the beginning, Like when I first got started, I didn't

0:44:57.360 --> 0:44:59.680
<v Speaker 1>have the right people working for me. And so the

0:45:00.120 --> 0:45:02.680
<v Speaker 1>a board of directors that I have all come from

0:45:03.120 --> 0:45:08.879
<v Speaker 1>experience part of working working at Xon, you know, work

0:45:08.960 --> 0:45:13.719
<v Speaker 1>that five Star companies, and then also that was a

0:45:13.960 --> 0:45:17.239
<v Speaker 1>college professor, you know, and we all kind of got

0:45:17.320 --> 0:45:21.279
<v Speaker 1>together and created this is how we need to do

0:45:21.680 --> 0:45:24.600
<v Speaker 1>this portion in reference to who you need to have

0:45:24.719 --> 0:45:27.680
<v Speaker 1>to come in to come work. So my dad, he's dead,

0:45:27.719 --> 0:45:29.440
<v Speaker 1>he died in twenty seventeen, but he was on my

0:45:29.560 --> 0:45:32.719
<v Speaker 1>board and my dad told me, he said, you know,

0:45:33.000 --> 0:45:35.560
<v Speaker 1>when I worked at XON, you know what Xon used

0:45:35.600 --> 0:45:37.959
<v Speaker 1>to do. I'm like what they used to do, he said,

0:45:38.239 --> 0:45:40.439
<v Speaker 1>because you know how you got the state always coming

0:45:40.480 --> 0:45:42.720
<v Speaker 1>in here, They always coming in here, and they always

0:45:42.840 --> 0:45:46.080
<v Speaker 1>ardent and everything. You need to get somebody that worked

0:45:46.120 --> 0:45:49.240
<v Speaker 1>for the state to come in and be your compliance person.

0:45:50.280 --> 0:45:52.120
<v Speaker 1>I say, you know, I ain't never really thought of that,

0:45:53.360 --> 0:45:56.120
<v Speaker 1>And guess what, I have that in place right now,

0:45:56.800 --> 0:45:59.200
<v Speaker 1>And any time that state come up in now, you

0:45:59.280 --> 0:46:02.440
<v Speaker 1>ain't finding new because I got the same person who

0:46:02.520 --> 0:46:08.359
<v Speaker 1>used to come in and regulate us. Right. So that's

0:46:08.400 --> 0:46:12.040
<v Speaker 1>what I mean by having the right people, the right team,

0:46:12.600 --> 0:46:15.520
<v Speaker 1>so you can make sure your business is navigated properly.

0:46:16.239 --> 0:46:19.279
<v Speaker 1>And I also have a management company that I pay

0:46:19.360 --> 0:46:23.120
<v Speaker 1>out of Austin that handle all of my back office. Now,

0:46:23.239 --> 0:46:25.640
<v Speaker 1>one of my employees can tell you that they paycheck

0:46:25.680 --> 0:46:29.880
<v Speaker 1>have been laid. Now, foster parent can tell you that

0:46:30.000 --> 0:46:34.840
<v Speaker 1>they reimbursement has been laid because I run my business

0:46:35.880 --> 0:46:40.719
<v Speaker 1>to a top tier expectation. And see, once you do that,

0:46:41.320 --> 0:46:43.279
<v Speaker 1>the stuff that I do in the community, I'm just

0:46:43.440 --> 0:46:47.239
<v Speaker 1>giving back because I'm not charging nobody to do that.

0:46:47.960 --> 0:46:52.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm giving back because God didn't bless me to where

0:46:52.320 --> 0:46:55.520
<v Speaker 1>I can provide jobs for other people to take care

0:46:55.560 --> 0:46:58.920
<v Speaker 1>of their families. So that's basically like me giving a

0:46:59.040 --> 0:47:04.279
<v Speaker 1>tide to my community by going in and fighting for

0:47:04.360 --> 0:47:07.520
<v Speaker 1>the underdog and standing in the gap for him, and

0:47:08.000 --> 0:47:10.000
<v Speaker 1>I can move the way that I moved too, because

0:47:11.239 --> 0:47:13.359
<v Speaker 1>by you not paying me, I don't have to take

0:47:13.400 --> 0:47:15.640
<v Speaker 1>it o case if I don't want it. What do

0:47:15.719 --> 0:47:19.360
<v Speaker 1>you think about those who do go into the community

0:47:19.600 --> 0:47:24.240
<v Speaker 1>and fight for justice for those people who have been wronged.

0:47:24.920 --> 0:47:28.239
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that they deserve monetary compensation? Yeah, if

0:47:28.320 --> 0:47:31.960
<v Speaker 1>that's their only line of work, then absolutely, you know

0:47:32.000 --> 0:47:34.360
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. But seeing my situation, I've been blessed

0:47:34.520 --> 0:47:39.239
<v Speaker 1>because I was already established before I even got into

0:47:39.400 --> 0:47:42.840
<v Speaker 1>the activism peace So that's why I can move the

0:47:42.920 --> 0:47:45.960
<v Speaker 1>way that I move. But for that actual activist who

0:47:46.040 --> 0:47:48.719
<v Speaker 1>does not have that luxury, then yeah, I believe that

0:47:48.800 --> 0:47:51.759
<v Speaker 1>you should, you know, be paid because it takes a

0:47:51.800 --> 0:47:54.040
<v Speaker 1>lot of time, It takes a lot of effort, It

0:47:54.160 --> 0:47:56.840
<v Speaker 1>takes a lot of countless hours to do what you

0:47:57.000 --> 0:48:00.279
<v Speaker 1>do to make sure people are being treated fairly and

0:48:00.360 --> 0:48:02.839
<v Speaker 1>have a seat at the table. And that's my point

0:48:02.920 --> 0:48:09.040
<v Speaker 1>because those activists, they are the unsung heroes of society.

0:48:09.760 --> 0:48:12.680
<v Speaker 1>These guys go put the work in day, night, seven

0:48:12.760 --> 0:48:15.799
<v Speaker 1>days a week, three sixty five. They own the case

0:48:16.000 --> 0:48:20.920
<v Speaker 1>all the time, and sometimes we don't get that. We

0:48:21.040 --> 0:48:23.839
<v Speaker 1>only see the activists. We don't see that the activists

0:48:23.920 --> 0:48:26.719
<v Speaker 1>has a family. You don't see his wife is you

0:48:26.800 --> 0:48:30.759
<v Speaker 1>don't see her husband. You don't see their children, you

0:48:30.840 --> 0:48:32.920
<v Speaker 1>don't see the house that they have to pay the

0:48:33.000 --> 0:48:35.560
<v Speaker 1>mortgage on the cause, you don't see that they have

0:48:35.719 --> 0:48:38.680
<v Speaker 1>a life. And I'm gonna tell you something else about activism.

0:48:39.360 --> 0:48:41.800
<v Speaker 1>It is one of the most dangerous jobs in the world.

0:48:42.120 --> 0:48:45.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, because you're talking about oftentimes going up against

0:48:46.000 --> 0:48:49.520
<v Speaker 1>and I'm talking about specifically the type of social justice advocates.

0:48:50.000 --> 0:48:53.719
<v Speaker 1>You're talking about going up against the machine. You're talking

0:48:53.719 --> 0:48:56.960
<v Speaker 1>about going up against some of the most wicked individuals

0:48:57.800 --> 0:49:01.920
<v Speaker 1>known to man. And they are killers, make no mistake,

0:49:02.760 --> 0:49:08.239
<v Speaker 1>they're killers. They kill They will literally kill you. Some

0:49:08.440 --> 0:49:10.800
<v Speaker 1>of them have it in them to actually kill you.

0:49:11.520 --> 0:49:15.279
<v Speaker 1>And so people don't understand what activists have to go through.

0:49:15.600 --> 0:49:19.360
<v Speaker 1>Activists get threats all the time. They get you know,

0:49:19.440 --> 0:49:23.120
<v Speaker 1>they get stocked, They sometimes people pull up at their homes.

0:49:24.000 --> 0:49:27.480
<v Speaker 1>You know. Uh, sometimes their kids get harassed. They go

0:49:27.600 --> 0:49:30.879
<v Speaker 1>through a lot. So say say, this is why I'm

0:49:30.960 --> 0:49:36.600
<v Speaker 1>like this him, this is why I'm like this exactly

0:49:36.840 --> 0:49:39.719
<v Speaker 1>because let's see that thing. So let me let me

0:49:39.800 --> 0:49:41.920
<v Speaker 1>just share this with you before before I pull out.

0:49:41.960 --> 0:49:45.239
<v Speaker 1>This is one a minute, okay, So my thing is

0:49:45.280 --> 0:49:48.120
<v Speaker 1>this bro at the end of the day and trust me,

0:49:48.160 --> 0:49:49.480
<v Speaker 1>I know how to shoot that thing too. What I

0:49:49.600 --> 0:49:52.640
<v Speaker 1>know your muscle. So my thing is this is that

0:49:53.040 --> 0:49:57.359
<v Speaker 1>one um, you have to be protected and aware at

0:49:57.440 --> 0:50:02.440
<v Speaker 1>all times because again, just like you said, you're fighting

0:50:02.719 --> 0:50:06.560
<v Speaker 1>against a machine, and they will send people to either

0:50:06.640 --> 0:50:10.359
<v Speaker 1>come to disrupt your household. They're sending people to come

0:50:10.400 --> 0:50:13.040
<v Speaker 1>and try to disrupt your business. They're sending people to

0:50:13.160 --> 0:50:15.400
<v Speaker 1>try to come and rattle and shake you up, you

0:50:15.480 --> 0:50:16.880
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. But say you don't have a

0:50:16.960 --> 0:50:19.640
<v Speaker 1>rude awaken them when you come over here, right, what

0:50:19.680 --> 0:50:24.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying so, hey, just because I'm doctor Matthews, I

0:50:24.440 --> 0:50:26.200
<v Speaker 1>mean I ain't strapped because I got it on the pattern.

0:50:27.400 --> 0:50:29.920
<v Speaker 1>Say babe, look here, look here. Let me say this.

0:50:30.120 --> 0:50:35.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm Houston strong, but I'm Texas tough. Yeah, fam, you

0:50:35.440 --> 0:50:40.719
<v Speaker 1>know hey, you know what's what's the what's the what's

0:50:40.719 --> 0:50:42.800
<v Speaker 1>the Kyle girl had without the scrap? You know what

0:50:42.800 --> 0:50:44.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about. You know what I'm talking about, like,

0:50:45.080 --> 0:50:48.200
<v Speaker 1>and that's how you should be yea. And I encouraged.

0:50:48.320 --> 0:50:52.879
<v Speaker 1>I encouraged that for anybody out there who are really

0:50:52.880 --> 0:50:55.840
<v Speaker 1>I encourage that for anybody to protect yourself first and foremost,

0:50:56.480 --> 0:50:58.359
<v Speaker 1>especially a lot of the ladies that are out there,

0:50:58.600 --> 0:51:00.680
<v Speaker 1>because a lot of times people roll up on women

0:51:00.719 --> 0:51:03.160
<v Speaker 1>and thinking they're sweet, thinking they're sweet, you know, and

0:51:04.040 --> 0:51:07.239
<v Speaker 1>I kind of I ain't gonna lie. I ain't gonna lie.

0:51:07.320 --> 0:51:09.800
<v Speaker 1>Every time I see a dude trying to take advantage

0:51:09.800 --> 0:51:13.120
<v Speaker 1>of a woman, beating on the woman or whatever, and

0:51:13.239 --> 0:51:15.560
<v Speaker 1>she pulled that thing out and light them up. I

0:51:15.719 --> 0:51:18.879
<v Speaker 1>kind of chuckle. I chuckle a little bit. Uh, it's

0:51:19.040 --> 0:51:22.720
<v Speaker 1>it's it's amusing to me. I ain't gonna front because

0:51:22.840 --> 0:51:27.000
<v Speaker 1>I think people should keep that heads to themselves. Everybody leave,

0:51:27.480 --> 0:51:30.360
<v Speaker 1>keep your hands to yourself, Leave people alone, and you

0:51:30.440 --> 0:51:33.719
<v Speaker 1>won't have those problems exactly, and know when to walk away. Yeah,

0:51:34.320 --> 0:51:37.319
<v Speaker 1>and like see and and see. That's what I catch

0:51:37.360 --> 0:51:39.120
<v Speaker 1>a lot of sea. My husband, don't be worried about

0:51:39.120 --> 0:51:40.600
<v Speaker 1>me too much, because you know I can handle man.

0:51:40.960 --> 0:51:44.560
<v Speaker 1>So but the average person that don't know me, you

0:51:44.600 --> 0:51:46.120
<v Speaker 1>don't even know. I got a whole she probably got

0:51:46.120 --> 0:51:48.920
<v Speaker 1>about three of a Moment's what I'm saying. So you're

0:51:48.960 --> 0:51:53.040
<v Speaker 1>feeling froggish, I'm gonna make you jump right. I'm saying

0:51:54.040 --> 0:51:57.520
<v Speaker 1>you res the old cash. Yeah, I said, you know,

0:51:57.719 --> 0:52:00.200
<v Speaker 1>we used to say you're feeling froggy jump. Yeah, I'm

0:52:00.200 --> 0:52:01.919
<v Speaker 1>gonna make you. You're gonna make you jump. I'm gonna

0:52:01.920 --> 0:52:04.560
<v Speaker 1>get you out with me shooting. So I mean and

0:52:04.840 --> 0:52:09.120
<v Speaker 1>and and at the end of the day, bro, it's like,

0:52:10.760 --> 0:52:15.080
<v Speaker 1>regardless of the fact, you have to make sure that

0:52:15.360 --> 0:52:20.040
<v Speaker 1>you are safe and what you do at all times

0:52:20.520 --> 0:52:25.320
<v Speaker 1>because you don't know where these ops coming from, you

0:52:25.400 --> 0:52:27.120
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, So you have to be very

0:52:27.280 --> 0:52:30.800
<v Speaker 1>vigilant with everything that you do. And so just like

0:52:31.360 --> 0:52:34.120
<v Speaker 1>when you wrote that video with me at Houston Community College,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. You think I was worried

0:52:36.040 --> 0:52:38.560
<v Speaker 1>about somebody? Think you about to come run up on me? Right,

0:52:39.040 --> 0:52:41.200
<v Speaker 1>They're gonna be worried about you because I'm gonna light

0:52:41.239 --> 0:52:47.040
<v Speaker 1>your ass up because somebody puts something on your comment

0:52:47.200 --> 0:52:50.920
<v Speaker 1>one time, UM saying that protect her at all calls

0:52:51.640 --> 0:52:55.880
<v Speaker 1>uh because something It was something that was along those lines.

0:52:56.040 --> 0:52:59.160
<v Speaker 1>And I like when you said then she stay strapped.

0:52:59.200 --> 0:53:00.680
<v Speaker 1>You best believe she got out of an owner, she

0:53:00.800 --> 0:53:02.960
<v Speaker 1>got owner, and she got back and got back up.

0:53:04.480 --> 0:53:09.680
<v Speaker 1>That believe that. How do people who want to get

0:53:09.760 --> 0:53:15.120
<v Speaker 1>involved with your foundation, how do they get involved as

0:53:15.160 --> 0:53:17.359
<v Speaker 1>far as they want to become parent? Can you can

0:53:17.440 --> 0:53:20.680
<v Speaker 1>you Can you volunteer? Can you volunteer without joining as

0:53:20.719 --> 0:53:23.160
<v Speaker 1>far as uh are you talking about? Because you know

0:53:23.520 --> 0:53:25.279
<v Speaker 1>I wear so many So are you talking about the

0:53:25.320 --> 0:53:29.239
<v Speaker 1>actual foster care agency? Are? Because that's that's another deal

0:53:29.480 --> 0:53:32.839
<v Speaker 1>and we definitely need foster parents for that. So let

0:53:32.880 --> 0:53:34.920
<v Speaker 1>me let me just go this way. Okay, if you

0:53:35.080 --> 0:53:38.920
<v Speaker 1>want to join or volunteer with the Texas Coalition of

0:53:39.000 --> 0:53:42.400
<v Speaker 1>Black Democrats, you can definitely do that. You know what

0:53:42.440 --> 0:53:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean. I give you my my email, which is

0:53:45.000 --> 0:53:48.120
<v Speaker 1>doctor which is Dr Candice c A N D I

0:53:48.239 --> 0:53:52.160
<v Speaker 1>c E not a ce i CE Matthews with the

0:53:52.440 --> 0:53:55.640
<v Speaker 1>s then tcb D which is Texas Coalition of Black

0:53:55.680 --> 0:53:58.040
<v Speaker 1>Democrats at gmail dot com. So if you want to

0:53:58.080 --> 0:54:02.200
<v Speaker 1>get in, no, what if what if you're a Republican?

0:54:02.840 --> 0:54:05.520
<v Speaker 1>You got some relic They can't. They can't because it's

0:54:05.520 --> 0:54:10.239
<v Speaker 1>a democratic organization. Other than that organization, another organization got

0:54:10.280 --> 0:54:12.440
<v Speaker 1>something for the Black Republican, anything for the black Republican

0:54:12.440 --> 0:54:14.040
<v Speaker 1>when it comes dealing with a chair, because we all

0:54:14.160 --> 0:54:16.560
<v Speaker 1>kind of agree a little bit on certain instances when

0:54:16.560 --> 0:54:18.840
<v Speaker 1>it comes dealing with kids. So if they want to

0:54:19.000 --> 0:54:22.680
<v Speaker 1>help with foster children, my agency name is Children of

0:54:22.760 --> 0:54:25.799
<v Speaker 1>Diversity and so you can go to the website which

0:54:25.880 --> 0:54:31.160
<v Speaker 1>is www dot children, dash of dash diversity dot org.

0:54:31.600 --> 0:54:33.759
<v Speaker 1>So even if you want to become a foster parent,

0:54:34.200 --> 0:54:37.840
<v Speaker 1>or if you want to be a resting provider, or

0:54:38.480 --> 0:54:40.880
<v Speaker 1>let's say that you CPS, then play some kids in

0:54:41.000 --> 0:54:43.160
<v Speaker 1>your house, but you got to be in the Texas

0:54:43.200 --> 0:54:45.839
<v Speaker 1>Houston area of course. And if they place children, then

0:54:45.880 --> 0:54:48.560
<v Speaker 1>you come through us so we can license you, so

0:54:48.800 --> 0:54:51.280
<v Speaker 1>you can receive funding to take care of your relatives

0:54:52.120 --> 0:54:55.040
<v Speaker 1>if you are a transfer family. So let's say that

0:54:55.520 --> 0:54:58.120
<v Speaker 1>you already have kids in your home, you already licensed,

0:54:58.360 --> 0:55:00.680
<v Speaker 1>but you had another agency. And if you don't like

0:55:00.880 --> 0:55:03.600
<v Speaker 1>how the agency is treating you, then come on to

0:55:03.760 --> 0:55:06.200
<v Speaker 1>the protection of the hammer. Because when the state come

0:55:06.239 --> 0:55:07.920
<v Speaker 1>over that missed with you, they mean they messed with me.

0:55:08.600 --> 0:55:13.440
<v Speaker 1>Come to death that's right, come on death row. But

0:55:14.320 --> 0:55:16.520
<v Speaker 1>that's that's one thing that they can actually help with

0:55:16.680 --> 0:55:22.160
<v Speaker 1>as well. So I mean, it's it's rewarding because, believe

0:55:22.160 --> 0:55:23.759
<v Speaker 1>it or not, willing I used to be a false

0:55:23.800 --> 0:55:27.279
<v Speaker 1>sparing you know, you know I knew that right, Oh

0:55:27.400 --> 0:55:31.120
<v Speaker 1>see that now he's been fosparing and I had over

0:55:31.200 --> 0:55:34.520
<v Speaker 1>thirty kids graduate under me. Wow, graduate, I had over

0:55:34.600 --> 0:55:37.200
<v Speaker 1>thirty kids graduate high school under me, and I had

0:55:37.280 --> 0:55:41.800
<v Speaker 1>about maybe twelve to thirteen they graduated college under me

0:55:42.160 --> 0:55:45.160
<v Speaker 1>because CPS pays for their school for free until they

0:55:45.480 --> 0:55:47.680
<v Speaker 1>are six or five years old when they go through

0:55:47.840 --> 0:55:50.760
<v Speaker 1>the PALS program and that shows them how to write checks,

0:55:50.960 --> 0:55:53.240
<v Speaker 1>bank accounts, you know, things like that, and that's designed

0:55:53.280 --> 0:55:56.480
<v Speaker 1>in the CPS system. But that's part of it before

0:55:57.040 --> 0:55:59.839
<v Speaker 1>they can receive the benefits as far as what their

0:56:00.000 --> 0:56:01.680
<v Speaker 1>college being paid for. And they have to go to

0:56:01.840 --> 0:56:05.480
<v Speaker 1>a public university, not private. When you was a foster

0:56:05.600 --> 0:56:08.040
<v Speaker 1>paring how many kids were living under the roof at

0:56:08.080 --> 0:56:12.279
<v Speaker 1>that time? I had nine. But see now they can't

0:56:12.320 --> 0:56:13.759
<v Speaker 1>do it like that no more. You can only have

0:56:13.920 --> 0:56:17.120
<v Speaker 1>no more than six. And so my mom was retired

0:56:17.600 --> 0:56:20.920
<v Speaker 1>from being a registered nurse. So I called my man. Now,

0:56:21.280 --> 0:56:23.360
<v Speaker 1>I say, mommaa, come out, girl, I need you to

0:56:23.440 --> 0:56:25.879
<v Speaker 1>come and help me over here with the young uns.

0:56:26.400 --> 0:56:29.759
<v Speaker 1>And so she was like, okay, I come in help

0:56:29.800 --> 0:56:31.759
<v Speaker 1>And I put my MoMA on the payroll. I was

0:56:31.840 --> 0:56:34.200
<v Speaker 1>paying mama too, you know what I mean. And then

0:56:34.800 --> 0:56:39.359
<v Speaker 1>I was the only young lady when I was working. Uh,

0:56:39.520 --> 0:56:40.840
<v Speaker 1>what was the name of that place I worked for?

0:56:41.320 --> 0:56:44.520
<v Speaker 1>It was what was the name of that place. It

0:56:44.680 --> 0:56:48.960
<v Speaker 1>was singular. It was a wireless place where you do

0:56:49.080 --> 0:56:52.560
<v Speaker 1>your cell phones and stuff. Was it what was T

0:56:52.719 --> 0:56:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Mobile before it was T Mobile? I forgot the name

0:56:54.680 --> 0:56:56.320
<v Speaker 1>of Well anyway, it used to be T Mobile. I

0:56:56.360 --> 0:56:58.680
<v Speaker 1>used to work there, and I was the only one

0:57:00.000 --> 0:57:03.359
<v Speaker 1>at that job with a range rover, and they were

0:57:03.400 --> 0:57:05.480
<v Speaker 1>trying to figure that out. You know what I mean,

0:57:06.000 --> 0:57:10.439
<v Speaker 1>because when I had like nine kids in that house,

0:57:10.880 --> 0:57:15.520
<v Speaker 1>the state pays you so many thousands of dollars per kid, right,

0:57:16.080 --> 0:57:20.280
<v Speaker 1>so even though I'm collecting my check from my job,

0:57:20.600 --> 0:57:23.160
<v Speaker 1>which I can utilize whatever that I need to utilize

0:57:23.160 --> 0:57:26.120
<v Speaker 1>it for to build me together. And then the funds

0:57:26.200 --> 0:57:28.520
<v Speaker 1>that I received from the state, I would utilize it

0:57:28.640 --> 0:57:31.480
<v Speaker 1>on the kids and also to keep a roof over

0:57:31.560 --> 0:57:34.920
<v Speaker 1>our head. And so that's when I moved into, you know,

0:57:35.080 --> 0:57:36.880
<v Speaker 1>moving on up to the east side with the wifeo

0:57:37.600 --> 0:57:40.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, living in a house bigger than them. And

0:57:40.240 --> 0:57:42.960
<v Speaker 1>they didn't understand, like what does she do? Like she

0:57:43.080 --> 0:57:45.960
<v Speaker 1>got all these children and they all different colors and stuff,

0:57:46.120 --> 0:57:48.160
<v Speaker 1>and every last one of them chere to cut your asside,

0:57:48.520 --> 0:57:51.320
<v Speaker 1>because they'll tell you that I've named mama, you know

0:57:51.360 --> 0:57:54.520
<v Speaker 1>what I mean? Because I and my family. We accepted

0:57:54.840 --> 0:57:57.960
<v Speaker 1>all of them kids, and we showed them love. You

0:57:58.040 --> 0:58:00.240
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, What do you do with your

0:58:00.280 --> 0:58:05.040
<v Speaker 1>agency to avoid children being in the house with parents

0:58:05.120 --> 0:58:08.200
<v Speaker 1>who are that just for the check. So this is

0:58:08.240 --> 0:58:10.880
<v Speaker 1>how we do this first thing when they come to

0:58:11.000 --> 0:58:14.320
<v Speaker 1>actually apply to be a foster parent. If you don't

0:58:14.360 --> 0:58:17.000
<v Speaker 1>have no job, you have to have a job. You

0:58:17.080 --> 0:58:20.200
<v Speaker 1>don't have a job, then you can't foster with us

0:58:20.680 --> 0:58:23.400
<v Speaker 1>unless it's like kinship that they didn't place you and

0:58:23.520 --> 0:58:26.160
<v Speaker 1>these are your relatives and you're just seeking to get

0:58:26.200 --> 0:58:27.680
<v Speaker 1>a license so you can be able to take care

0:58:27.720 --> 0:58:30.400
<v Speaker 1>of them. That's different. But we have things in place

0:58:30.480 --> 0:58:33.800
<v Speaker 1>for people like that because they do have people that

0:58:33.920 --> 0:58:36.760
<v Speaker 1>are out there who are about the money. And like

0:58:36.880 --> 0:58:40.160
<v Speaker 1>when I fostered, I worked still, and that's why I

0:58:40.280 --> 0:58:43.280
<v Speaker 1>had my mom to come in as my RESCPIE person

0:58:43.520 --> 0:58:46.360
<v Speaker 1>so I can work, you know what I mean, Because

0:58:46.520 --> 0:58:48.720
<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day, I didn't feel right

0:58:48.920 --> 0:58:50.840
<v Speaker 1>me personally. I didn't feel right because I like to

0:58:50.880 --> 0:58:53.000
<v Speaker 1>make my own money. I felt like that money that

0:58:53.120 --> 0:58:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I use that the state page, which is actually your reimbursement,

0:58:57.400 --> 0:58:59.800
<v Speaker 1>but I use it on the kids, like we'll take

0:59:00.120 --> 0:59:03.120
<v Speaker 1>on vacations you know, we would do a lot of

0:59:03.200 --> 0:59:05.840
<v Speaker 1>things with those children. They would not going to school

0:59:05.920 --> 0:59:08.320
<v Speaker 1>looking halfway half dress. You didn't even know that they

0:59:08.360 --> 0:59:11.280
<v Speaker 1>were Falster kids, you know what I mean. And then

0:59:11.560 --> 0:59:13.880
<v Speaker 1>what I loved about my crew is that if I

0:59:14.040 --> 0:59:16.760
<v Speaker 1>was to get another kid to come through there, they'll

0:59:16.840 --> 0:59:19.040
<v Speaker 1>like that. They'll lace that new kid up, like, yo,

0:59:19.600 --> 0:59:21.120
<v Speaker 1>we like what we say. So don't come up in

0:59:21.160 --> 0:59:23.480
<v Speaker 1>here with they're lying, you know, because they have foster

0:59:23.640 --> 0:59:26.760
<v Speaker 1>children that when they get upset, they allowing the Falster

0:59:26.840 --> 0:59:30.160
<v Speaker 1>parent and then to create a whole investigation to the

0:59:30.240 --> 0:59:33.680
<v Speaker 1>fact where they removed the kids to go through the investigation,

0:59:33.880 --> 0:59:35.640
<v Speaker 1>and then they'll try to bring the kids back. See,

0:59:35.680 --> 0:59:38.000
<v Speaker 1>the kids knew the system too, just like how I

0:59:38.080 --> 0:59:41.439
<v Speaker 1>knew the system. So like what I would do, It's

0:59:41.480 --> 0:59:44.400
<v Speaker 1>like my kids. I took them to like restaurants, like

0:59:44.440 --> 0:59:46.080
<v Speaker 1>they went to Popados. You know. They was like out

0:59:46.160 --> 0:59:49.560
<v Speaker 1>guard and teach our fridays all that, and I would

0:59:49.560 --> 0:59:52.800
<v Speaker 1>actually have I would always keep the receipts and I

0:59:52.960 --> 0:59:56.000
<v Speaker 1>have everybody's signature on the back of every seat. So

0:59:56.280 --> 0:59:58.280
<v Speaker 1>if these state people come up in here, I'm gonna

0:59:58.280 --> 1:00:02.840
<v Speaker 1>share everything down grocery lists, everybody's signing the grocery list,

1:00:03.280 --> 1:00:06.040
<v Speaker 1>because you can't say that you're not eating. You can't

1:00:06.080 --> 1:00:08.360
<v Speaker 1>say that you don't have a roof overhead, you can't.

1:00:08.400 --> 1:00:11.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just made it to where everything was transparent.

1:00:11.880 --> 1:00:16.120
<v Speaker 1>So the kids they felt safe because you got you

1:00:16.200 --> 1:00:20.080
<v Speaker 1>got a mom that who's stepping up to take kid

1:00:20.080 --> 1:00:22.480
<v Speaker 1>of you. It's gonna make sure that nobody's gonna come

1:00:22.520 --> 1:00:24.640
<v Speaker 1>in here and mess with you. So when a new

1:00:24.760 --> 1:00:28.400
<v Speaker 1>kid would come then turned around, it kind of reminded me,

1:00:28.440 --> 1:00:30.960
<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna lie. It kind of reminded me of prison,

1:00:31.400 --> 1:00:32.880
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like when the dude fish

1:00:32.960 --> 1:00:34.400
<v Speaker 1>come over the yard and you thank you for the

1:00:34.440 --> 1:00:36.360
<v Speaker 1>coming here with that man's they gonna jam me up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how those kids were because they protected where they

1:00:39.840 --> 1:00:41.760
<v Speaker 1>lived because that was the best how they ever lived.

1:00:42.120 --> 1:00:46.400
<v Speaker 1>They never lived in a sixty five hundred square foot

1:00:46.440 --> 1:00:50.360
<v Speaker 1>house where everybody got their own room, their own space,

1:00:50.800 --> 1:00:54.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, their own closet, you know, and they never

1:00:54.880 --> 1:00:58.720
<v Speaker 1>lived like that. These kids came from poverty, you know,

1:00:58.920 --> 1:01:01.640
<v Speaker 1>and they felt like, I'm in a position now that

1:01:01.760 --> 1:01:04.320
<v Speaker 1>I can make it so I'm nothing letting nobody think

1:01:04.320 --> 1:01:06.040
<v Speaker 1>they're gonna come in here, because you got a chip

1:01:06.120 --> 1:01:08.600
<v Speaker 1>on your shoulder and try to miss up where we live.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was what I really love about those kids.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, to this day, any holiday or

1:01:13.280 --> 1:01:16.520
<v Speaker 1>anything that we have is full of cheering. And I

1:01:16.640 --> 1:01:18.560
<v Speaker 1>was a fosi pairer before I became a real mother.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that that's crazy. So when I got my

1:01:23.440 --> 1:01:27.280
<v Speaker 1>own kids, I was already season. You know, I knew

1:01:27.280 --> 1:01:30.120
<v Speaker 1>I had changed the dippers. I knew when a child

1:01:30.200 --> 1:01:33.920
<v Speaker 1>got highs. I knew when like my teenage daughter, I

1:01:34.080 --> 1:01:36.040
<v Speaker 1>know all the tricks of the trade. You know, She'll

1:01:36.080 --> 1:01:38.280
<v Speaker 1>try to do some little slick stuff and I'd be like, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>you already know I'm only U six, don't do that one. No,

1:01:42.520 --> 1:01:45.280
<v Speaker 1>try again, because I already had the experience, and I

1:01:45.400 --> 1:01:49.240
<v Speaker 1>had different ages of kids, you know, but the tough,

1:01:49.440 --> 1:01:51.920
<v Speaker 1>the tough group that I had was those teenagers. They

1:01:51.960 --> 1:01:55.480
<v Speaker 1>were tough. And so the foster agencies really couldn't understand

1:01:55.600 --> 1:01:58.919
<v Speaker 1>how this little old woman got control of these kids,

1:01:59.000 --> 1:02:01.320
<v Speaker 1>because these were kids that came from other placements that

1:02:01.560 --> 1:02:04.560
<v Speaker 1>disrupted those placelets. But then when they came to me,

1:02:05.440 --> 1:02:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I just kept it. I kept a stream with them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I say, look, I want to know who

1:02:11.720 --> 1:02:14.400
<v Speaker 1>you are as a person. You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna help you make it, but I can bring

1:02:17.320 --> 1:02:20.080
<v Speaker 1>it to the water, but I can't make you drink it. Okay,

1:02:20.280 --> 1:02:22.040
<v Speaker 1>But what you're not gonna do. You're not gonna come

1:02:22.080 --> 1:02:24.640
<v Speaker 1>in my house and you're not gonna disrupt nothing because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the parrot. You I'm saying, I'm the parrot, and

1:02:27.720 --> 1:02:30.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna respect you, and you're gonna respect me. Now

1:02:30.920 --> 1:02:33.080
<v Speaker 1>you feel like you want to get a little gangster

1:02:33.120 --> 1:02:35.360
<v Speaker 1>around here, then I'm gonna have these sheriffs in here

1:02:36.080 --> 1:02:42.320
<v Speaker 1>and somebody gonna be going to the psych hospital tonight. Huh, Well,

1:02:42.360 --> 1:02:45.760
<v Speaker 1>you disrupted a whole lot of things these day. You

1:02:45.880 --> 1:02:49.800
<v Speaker 1>got these politicians around here running scared to death. The

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<v Speaker 1>trip part about it is that if they're doing what

1:02:52.640 --> 1:02:54.600
<v Speaker 1>they're supposed to be doing, they ain't got nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>worry about it nothing. I'll support you exactly, but we

1:02:58.440 --> 1:03:01.360
<v Speaker 1>support you and everything you do, and we really appreciate

1:03:01.440 --> 1:03:03.320
<v Speaker 1>all the work that you do. We appreciate the work

1:03:03.400 --> 1:03:06.280
<v Speaker 1>that the Black Path Nation is doing, the New Black

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<v Speaker 1>Path and Nation is doing, the Black Pathers are doing,

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<v Speaker 1>all of the other organizations and the activists that out there,

1:03:13.000 --> 1:03:15.560
<v Speaker 1>you guys putting in the work. Man. You know we

1:03:15.640 --> 1:03:18.040
<v Speaker 1>can't thank you enough. I want to get you on

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<v Speaker 1>the show again, very very soon. Love talking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>We got so much more to talk about, but right

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<v Speaker 1>now we're out of time. Ladies and gentlemen, Doctor Candice

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<v Speaker 1>Matthews appreciate your baby, girl, I appreciate so much. All Right, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all be seeing me next time. So y'all, and remember

1:03:38.360 --> 1:03:40.520
<v Speaker 1>she got that thing on show. Dude, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>put it out again, No more talk. This episode was

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