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Speaker 2: Julia is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Tyler's.
Speaker 2: In a few minutes, we'll call him and seefield toss
Speaker 2: why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another day. But first, Julia,
Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Tyler?
Speaker 3: I think it's been three weeks.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's definitely a ghosting.
Speaker 5: Yeah, have you been trying to contact him? Like, what
Speaker 5: has been your play on this?
Speaker 3: I mean I sent him like a little meme last week.
Speaker 6: You know, I thought he might think it was funny,
Speaker 6: but I didn't really get a response, so I thought
Speaker 6: maybe he was hiding or something. So then I I
Speaker 6: sent another one yesterday.
Speaker 3: I thought it was really funny. I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: this definitely about this to Ali, Yeah, he has a respond.
Speaker 4: Well that doesn't sound good. Let's talk about the date.
Speaker 4: How did that go?
Speaker 7: So they actually went very well. He was super charming,
Speaker 7: you know, kind of cheesy, but like I mean, he
Speaker 7: was super cute and made me laugh.
Speaker 6: We went to like get our kide bar and tik
Speaker 6: super into like you know, old school games and all
Speaker 6: that kind of stuff.
Speaker 3: So I'm so so terrible.
Speaker 7: And pac Man though, So we were playing pac Man
Speaker 7: and we were just like, you know, slapping, had you
Speaker 7: having a.
Speaker 3: Really really great time, and he was just like getting
Speaker 3: pits and you know, he would let me win a
Speaker 3: couple of times. I thought was super cute.
Speaker 4: Do you think that's why he's not calling you back
Speaker 4: because your pack mad skills were lacking?
Speaker 3: Oh gosh, I really hope not.
Speaker 6: But I mean, yeah, we went to grow grab you know,
Speaker 6: tacos after and we were just like having a really
Speaker 6: nice time just talking and eating and just you know,
Speaker 6: we just that we talked for you know, quite a
Speaker 6: long time where it got like, you know, really cold
Speaker 6: out and then he called her, Right.
Speaker 4: So, why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 8: Then?
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know, maybe I was doing too much
Speaker 3: or like, I mean, I.
Speaker 6: Was nervous, But maybe I did joke about like how
Speaker 6: his like high score in Gallaga might mean that like,
Speaker 6: oh he got peak in high school.
Speaker 3: I thought it was funny.
Speaker 4: It's funny, Yeah, it was.
Speaker 3: It was definitely funny. I laughed, and if he laughed,
Speaker 3: it didn't really seem like he would be offended by
Speaker 3: something like that. But I don't know.
Speaker 6: Maybe I went a little too far, or he didn't
Speaker 6: mention an X, maybe like they he's not really over
Speaker 6: that break up yet, or I don't know, maybe I'm
Speaker 6: not just this type.
Speaker 3: I really I don't know.
Speaker 4: See he told you that he's not over his ex.
Speaker 3: I mean he did mention his X because they they
Speaker 3: broke up like pretty recently.
Speaker 4: Okay, to me, I kind of assumed, I'm.
Speaker 3: Kind of just assuming maybe he's not over her because
Speaker 3: he brought her up.
Speaker 4: Was it his idea to go there?
Speaker 2: It was his idea to go there, he said that
Speaker 2: to you, And I didn't bother you d because I
Speaker 2: feel like, like, oh, this is your spot used to
Speaker 2: have with your ex.
Speaker 9: Huh.
Speaker 3: I mean, I mean not gonna lie it did.
Speaker 7: It did kind of bother me, but he was just
Speaker 7: so into, like, you know, the game and he.
Speaker 6: Was teaching me how to like play them that I
Speaker 6: kind of just brushed it aside. So I didn't really
Speaker 6: think too much about it.
Speaker 4: How did you guys in things?
Speaker 3: It ended really well. Actually we had a really good conversation.
Speaker 5: In But did you guys plan on seeing each other again,
Speaker 5: did you guys hug kiss? Like, how did you say goodbye?
Speaker 3: We did kiss? He did kissed. Okay, it wasn't really
Speaker 3: he kissed, but it was really nice.
Speaker 6: And yeah, he did see that it was a really
Speaker 6: great night he was having, and he did mention that
Speaker 6: he would like to do this again. So I'm not
Speaker 6: for sure.
Speaker 4: All right, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
Speaker 2: him and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting
Speaker 2: you and maybe eat you another date. Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 2: we'll get your first day follow up, next.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first date follow up
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Julia is on the phone
Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Tyler. So
Speaker 2: we're about to call him and see if you'll tell
Speaker 2: us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 2: But first, Julia, why don't you catch us up on
Speaker 2: your situation?
Speaker 3: So I went on a date and we went to
Speaker 3: an old arcade. We played pac Man Galagha. I made
Speaker 3: fun of him for peaking in high school.
Speaker 6: For getting a high school high score in Gallagha, and
Speaker 6: then we had a really nice time.
Speaker 3: He mentioned his ex. We got tacos after we talked
Speaker 3: for quite a while, and then we kissed good night.
Speaker 5: What a recap, peaked in high school, talked about his X,
Speaker 5: and then we got tacos.
Speaker 2: And you think one of the reasons that he's not
Speaker 2: calling you back might because he's not over his exit, right.
Speaker 3: I'm thinking maybe that to be a reason.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 10: Uh?
Speaker 4: Huh Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to
Speaker 4: Tyler please?
Speaker 9: Yeah, Tyler?
Speaker 4: Who Tyler?
Speaker 5: Hey man?
Speaker 4: How are you? My name is Jewbell. I'm calling from
Speaker 4: a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Yeah, Hi, Tyler.
Speaker 4: I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 4: How's it going?
Speaker 9: Okay? Wait?
Speaker 4: What what have you ever listen to the show before?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 9: I haven't.
Speaker 4: Well, we do a segment on our show that's okay,
Speaker 4: And we got an email about you.
Speaker 9: Okay, wait, hold on is this like? Is this live? Yes?
Speaker 2: Okay, And we got an email about you from somebody
Speaker 2: that you want on a date with. We do a
Speaker 2: segment called the first Date follow Up. That's where if
Speaker 2: you go out on a date with somebody and then
Speaker 2: you ghost them, that person can email us to get
Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them?
Speaker 4: Do you have any idea who would email us about you?
Speaker 9: Wow? This is really unexpected. You guys actually do this
Speaker 9: on the air.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you're a star today, Tyler.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I think I might have an idea? Would be
Speaker 9: Is it Julia? Yes?
Speaker 10: It is.
Speaker 2: Congratulations, you got it right. Julia told us about your date.
Speaker 2: She said, you really like hanging out with you, but
Speaker 2: she's confused because it's been three weeks and she hasn't
Speaker 2: heard anything from you.
Speaker 4: She even sent you memes, right, Oh yeah, okay, look,
Speaker 4: can you tell us why you're Ghostinger?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 9: No, I mean listen. She was She's great, really is
Speaker 9: I just I don't know. She made me feel like
Speaker 9: kind of like I wasn't enough on the date.
Speaker 10: Why well, I don't know, like a you know, at
Speaker 10: like the arcade, she kept joking about how bad I
Speaker 10: was at some of the games, you know, and like
Speaker 10: I laughed it off, but by the end of the
Speaker 10: night it kind of stuck, you know, like she's amazing.
Speaker 10: She was, she was she was awesome at all the games.
Speaker 10: She kicked my and like she's really beautiful and like
Speaker 10: I'm just average.
Speaker 9: You know, and I just I don't know if I
Speaker 9: can keep up with someone like her, you know. I
Speaker 9: feel like she's out of my league.
Speaker 3: But that's why you ghosted me.
Speaker 9: And look what.
Speaker 3: Because you think I'm too much? That's what you ghosted me.
Speaker 9: Oh hi, Julia, No, I.
Speaker 4: Want to talk to Tyler.
Speaker 9: No, no, no, no, it's not that you're too much.
Speaker 10: It's just me feeling like I'm I wasn't enough, you know,
Speaker 10: and I didn't know how to say that without notetic.
Speaker 3: That's really that's it. You don't have crappy that made
Speaker 3: me like I thought it screwed up something really good.
Speaker 3: And it wasn't even about me. It was about you,
Speaker 3: Like are you kidding me right now?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 9: I mean, I'm being honest. It really was about me,
Speaker 9: Like you're awesome. I really, I don't know. I clammed up, Mitchel,
Speaker 9: like I've are you.
Speaker 3: Are you really sure that?
Speaker 6: Because this is do you even give me a chance
Speaker 6: to like prove you wrong or just have a second
Speaker 6: date or anything?
Speaker 9: Okay? Yeah, fine, you're right, there is more?
Speaker 4: What there is?
Speaker 9: What? What is it? You know? I just I don't
Speaker 9: feel like getting into it, you know, especially on the air.
Speaker 3: No, No, I like, what was it? Like, it's such
Speaker 3: a great night and you just up and stop talking
Speaker 3: to me?
Speaker 9: What was it?
Speaker 10: Well? I mean I used to go there with my
Speaker 10: extral friend, right, I.
Speaker 9: Told you that?
Speaker 6: Yes, So I mean I mean maybe you were just
Speaker 6: mentioning about her because like you were playing a game
Speaker 6: that you really like.
Speaker 3: Like, so, why are you actually not over your girlfriend?
Speaker 3: Is this the whole thing?
Speaker 9: Well, honestly, I was over her.
Speaker 10: And then when we went there and we were playing
Speaker 10: pac Man and you were really bad at pac Man,
Speaker 10: and I just I realized that I kind of I
Speaker 10: kind of missed my girlfriend.
Speaker 9: You know, she was awesome at pac Man. And I.
Speaker 4: Don't think you were ever over your a pac Man you.
Speaker 10: Honestly, it was it was more about the pac Man,
Speaker 10: you know, like the game. I need someone who's got
Speaker 10: decent skills a pac Man.
Speaker 5: Have it.
Speaker 9: And it made me realize that, you know.
Speaker 10: I need my like someone like my ex who kicked
Speaker 10: the pac Man.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 8: Wow, all right, you need to put out on your
Speaker 8: profile now. Must be good at Tyler, would you like
Speaker 8: another date with Julia?
Speaker 4: Will pay for it?
Speaker 10: I mean, I'm trying. I am trying to get over
Speaker 10: my ex. So if you know, if she did get
Speaker 10: better at pac Man and we could do like.
Speaker 9: More fun things together like that, then I would go
Speaker 9: on a second date.
Speaker 4: Julia, do you want to get better at pac Man?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I that just sounds like a really wasted amount of
Speaker 6: time for someone who's like not even going to care.
Speaker 4: It feels like you just kind of stressed yourself out
Speaker 4: for this.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 6: No, I'm not going to waste time learning pac Man. Tyler,
Speaker 6: good luck finding your girlfriend who is just pathetic.
Speaker 3: As you are.
Speaker 10: Oh all right, Well, if I ever do see you again,
Speaker 10: i'd like my quarters back.
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