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Speaker 1: First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocates dot com.

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Speaker 2: Julia is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Tyler's.

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Speaker 2: In a few minutes, we'll call him and seefield toss

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Speaker 2: why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another day. But first, Julia,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Tyler?

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Speaker 3: I think it's been three weeks.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's definitely a ghosting.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, have you been trying to contact him? Like, what

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Speaker 5: has been your play on this?

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Speaker 3: I mean I sent him like a little meme last week.

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Speaker 6: You know, I thought he might think it was funny,

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Speaker 6: but I didn't really get a response, so I thought

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Speaker 6: maybe he was hiding or something. So then I I

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Speaker 6: sent another one yesterday.

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Speaker 3: I thought it was really funny. I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: this definitely about this to Ali, Yeah, he has a respond.

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Speaker 4: Well that doesn't sound good. Let's talk about the date.

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Speaker 4: How did that go?

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Speaker 7: So they actually went very well. He was super charming,

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Speaker 7: you know, kind of cheesy, but like I mean, he

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Speaker 7: was super cute and made me laugh.

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Speaker 6: We went to like get our kide bar and tik

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Speaker 6: super into like you know, old school games and all

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Speaker 3: So I'm so so terrible.

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Speaker 7: And pac Man though, So we were playing pac Man

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Speaker 7: and we were just like, you know, slapping, had you

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Speaker 3: Really really great time, and he was just like getting

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Speaker 3: pits and you know, he would let me win a

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Speaker 3: couple of times. I thought was super cute.

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Speaker 4: Do you think that's why he's not calling you back

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Speaker 4: because your pack mad skills were lacking?

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, I really hope not.

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Speaker 6: But I mean, yeah, we went to grow grab you know,

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Speaker 6: tacos after and we were just like having a really

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Speaker 6: nice time just talking and eating and just you know,

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Speaker 6: we just that we talked for you know, quite a

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Speaker 6: long time where it got like, you know, really cold

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Speaker 6: out and then he called her, Right.

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Speaker 4: So, why do you think you're getting ghosted?

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Speaker 8: Then?

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Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know, maybe I was doing too much

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Speaker 3: or like, I mean, I.

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Speaker 6: Was nervous, But maybe I did joke about like how

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Speaker 6: his like high score in Gallaga might mean that like,

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Speaker 6: oh he got peak in high school.

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Speaker 3: I thought it was funny.

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Speaker 4: It's funny, Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: It was definitely funny. I laughed, and if he laughed,

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Speaker 3: it didn't really seem like he would be offended by

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Speaker 3: something like that. But I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Maybe I went a little too far, or he didn't

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Speaker 6: mention an X, maybe like they he's not really over

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Speaker 6: that break up yet, or I don't know, maybe I'm

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Speaker 6: not just this type.

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Speaker 3: I really I don't know.

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Speaker 4: See he told you that he's not over his ex.

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Speaker 3: I mean he did mention his X because they they

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Speaker 4: Okay, to me, I kind of assumed, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Kind of just assuming maybe he's not over her because

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Speaker 3: he brought her up.

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Speaker 4: Was it his idea to go there?

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Speaker 2: It was his idea to go there, he said that

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Speaker 2: to you, And I didn't bother you d because I

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Speaker 2: feel like, like, oh, this is your spot used to

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Speaker 9: Huh.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I mean not gonna lie it did.

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Speaker 7: It did kind of bother me, but he was just

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Speaker 7: so into, like, you know, the game and he.

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Speaker 6: Was teaching me how to like play them that I

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Speaker 6: kind of just brushed it aside. So I didn't really

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Speaker 4: How did you guys in things?

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Speaker 3: It ended really well. Actually we had a really good conversation.

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Speaker 5: In But did you guys plan on seeing each other again,

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Speaker 5: did you guys hug kiss? Like, how did you say goodbye?

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Speaker 3: We did kiss? He did kissed. Okay, it wasn't really

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Speaker 3: he kissed, but it was really nice.

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Speaker 6: And yeah, he did see that it was a really

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Speaker 6: great night he was having, and he did mention that

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call

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Speaker 2: him and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe eat you another date. Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: we'll get your first day follow up, next.

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Speaker 1: First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first date follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Julia is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Tyler. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call him and see if you'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 2: But first, Julia, why don't you catch us up on

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Speaker 2: your situation?

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Speaker 3: So I went on a date and we went to

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Speaker 3: an old arcade. We played pac Man Galagha. I made

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Speaker 3: fun of him for peaking in high school.

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Speaker 6: For getting a high school high score in Gallagha, and

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Speaker 6: then we had a really nice time.

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Speaker 3: He mentioned his ex. We got tacos after we talked

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Speaker 3: for quite a while, and then we kissed good night.

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Speaker 5: What a recap, peaked in high school, talked about his X,

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Speaker 5: and then we got tacos.

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Speaker 2: And you think one of the reasons that he's not

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Speaker 2: calling you back might because he's not over his exit, right.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking maybe that to be a reason.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 10: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Huh Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to

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Speaker 4: Tyler please?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, Tyler?

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Speaker 4: Who Tyler?

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Speaker 5: Hey man?

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Speaker 4: How are you? My name is Jewbell. I'm calling from

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Speaker 4: a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Yeah, Hi, Tyler.

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Speaker 4: I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 4: How's it going?

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Speaker 9: Okay? Wait?

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Speaker 4: What what have you ever listen to the show before?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 9: I haven't.

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Speaker 4: Well, we do a segment on our show that's okay,

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Speaker 4: And we got an email about you.

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Speaker 9: Okay, wait, hold on is this like? Is this live? Yes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, And we got an email about you from somebody

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Speaker 2: that you want on a date with. We do a

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Speaker 2: segment called the first Date follow Up. That's where if

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Speaker 2: you go out on a date with somebody and then

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Speaker 2: you ghost them, that person can email us to get

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Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them?

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Speaker 4: Do you have any idea who would email us about you?

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Speaker 9: Wow? This is really unexpected. You guys actually do this

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Speaker 9: on the air.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you're a star today, Tyler.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I think I might have an idea? Would be

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Speaker 9: Is it Julia? Yes?

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Speaker 10: It is.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations, you got it right. Julia told us about your date.

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Speaker 2: She said, you really like hanging out with you, but

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Speaker 2: she's confused because it's been three weeks and she hasn't

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Speaker 2: heard anything from you.

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Speaker 4: She even sent you memes, right, Oh yeah, okay, look,

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Speaker 4: can you tell us why you're Ghostinger?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 9: No, I mean listen. She was She's great, really is

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Speaker 9: I just I don't know. She made me feel like

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Speaker 10: Why well, I don't know, like a you know, at

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Speaker 10: like the arcade, she kept joking about how bad I

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Speaker 10: night it kind of stuck, you know, like she's amazing.

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Speaker 10: She was, she was she was awesome at all the games.

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Speaker 10: She kicked my and like she's really beautiful and like

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Speaker 10: I'm just average.

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Speaker 9: You know, and I just I don't know if I

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Speaker 3: But that's why you ghosted me.

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Speaker 9: And look what.

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Speaker 3: Because you think I'm too much? That's what you ghosted me.

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Speaker 9: Oh hi, Julia, No, I.

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Speaker 4: Want to talk to Tyler.

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Speaker 9: No, no, no, no, it's not that you're too much.

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Speaker 10: It's just me feeling like I'm I wasn't enough, you know,

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Speaker 10: and I didn't know how to say that without notetic.

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Speaker 3: That's really that's it. You don't have crappy that made

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Speaker 3: And it wasn't even about me. It was about you,

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Speaker 3: Like are you kidding me right now?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 9: I mean, I'm being honest. It really was about me,

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Speaker 9: Like you're awesome. I really, I don't know. I clammed up, Mitchel,

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Speaker 9: like I've are you.

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Speaker 3: Are you really sure that?

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Speaker 6: Because this is do you even give me a chance

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Speaker 9: Okay? Yeah, fine, you're right, there is more?

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Speaker 4: What there is?

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Speaker 9: What? What is it? You know? I just I don't

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Speaker 3: No, No, I like, what was it? Like, it's such

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Speaker 3: a great night and you just up and stop talking

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Speaker 9: What was it?

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Speaker 10: Well? I mean I used to go there with my

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Speaker 3: Like, so, why are you actually not over your girlfriend?

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Speaker 3: Is this the whole thing?

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Speaker 9: Well, honestly, I was over her.

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Speaker 10: And then when we went there and we were playing

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Speaker 9: You know, she was awesome at pac Man. And I.

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Speaker 4: Don't think you were ever over your a pac Man you.

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Speaker 10: Honestly, it was it was more about the pac Man,

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Speaker 5: Have it.

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Speaker 9: And it made me realize that, you know.

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Speaker 10: I need my like someone like my ex who kicked

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Speaker 10: the pac Man.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 8: Wow, all right, you need to put out on your

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Speaker 8: profile now. Must be good at Tyler, would you like

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Speaker 8: another date with Julia?

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Speaker 4: Will pay for it?

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Speaker 10: I mean, I'm trying. I am trying to get over

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Speaker 9: More fun things together like that, then I would go

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Speaker 4: Julia, do you want to get better at pac Man?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I that just sounds like a really wasted amount of

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Speaker 6: time for someone who's like not even going to care.

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Speaker 4: It feels like you just kind of stressed yourself out

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Speaker 4: for this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: No, I'm not going to waste time learning pac Man. Tyler,

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Speaker 6: good luck finding your girlfriend who is just pathetic.

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Speaker 3: As you are.

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Speaker 10: Oh all right, Well, if I ever do see you again,

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Speaker 10: i'd like my quarters back.

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