WEBVTT - Slam Dunks with Larsa Pippen

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm heart Radio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>If only, if only we can roll pre tape, if

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<v Speaker 2>only post and posty gay when we get canceled. Speaking

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<v Speaker 2>of baby, she just softball. I I wasn't even going

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<v Speaker 2>to bring it up. Wasn't even did I say something.

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<v Speaker 2>They got you canceled or me canceled or pressed and canceled.

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<v Speaker 2>So I, first of all, I hate that word, So

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<v Speaker 2>we'll just we'll stop saying that word because I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like it what I do. But this is

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<v Speaker 2>why you shouldn't podcast post fartum. I already I already

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<v Speaker 2>have a belly ache every time I'm driving here, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>please God be with me and guide my words because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm spicy. No, you're so good, And I think the

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<v Speaker 2>the thing is with podcasts is it's fun to get

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<v Speaker 2>behind the mic and say whatever you want. Now, there's

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<v Speaker 2>other podcasts where I feel like, like the Joe Rogans

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<v Speaker 2>of the world, he could have any guests on say like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, people are still like I feel, you

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<v Speaker 2>can say stuff on a podcast, but you also have

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<v Speaker 2>to be right careful. And I've learned the lesson of

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<v Speaker 2>I know that you know that the outlets will could

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<v Speaker 2>potentially hear or whatever. And so when I ever talk

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<v Speaker 2>about my ax or just anything, I'm like, I have

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<v Speaker 2>to be careful of the words that I use because

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to give them a But here's the

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<v Speaker 2>doing where my hurts.

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<v Speaker 3>We really don't have to worry about that so much,

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<v Speaker 3>but y'all don't. That's why.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what that's that's why it's fun to have you

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<v Speaker 2>guys like on. But I to spice it second degree, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but like you're fine, Okay, okay, I have a belly.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you hear the principal office? I want to throw up?

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<v Speaker 2>Tell me what I said? No, but I so that's why,

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<v Speaker 2>like I love it when I'm always like I just

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<v Speaker 2>I just told Catherine to ask a question to Larsa

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<v Speaker 2>because we have Larsa Pippin coming on the show today.

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<v Speaker 2>Because if I say it, then it's gonna be maybe

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<v Speaker 2>like if if maybe it's said in a wrong way

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever, like feuding with you know what I mean

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<v Speaker 2>I do. So I'm like, but I can ask. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't mean, I don't. I don't mean it like that,

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<v Speaker 2>like that's not what I mean to say. But like

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<v Speaker 2>they probably won't quote no the like the random friend.

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<v Speaker 2>I always think, now I'm digging my own hole, but

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I'm agreeing with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like that both of you know what I

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<v Speaker 2>said wrong, and I don't someone tell me what I

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<v Speaker 2>said wrong, so I have to I have to just

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<v Speaker 2>go the whole story with it. So that's why, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>again even to like because you know, listen, they say

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<v Speaker 2>all all bad press is good breast right, So there's

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<v Speaker 2>times when I go on I'm like, oh god, why.

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<v Speaker 3>Did they pick that up?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I don't like to see things that are said

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<v Speaker 2>about me and my ex that I set on here

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<v Speaker 2>because I really like, I want it to be such

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<v Speaker 2>like a safe Let's like, I love our Windown shows

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<v Speaker 2>because it is a very safe community and we can

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<v Speaker 2>say so we think that one time, yeah, but like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, so I just am more. We're more free

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<v Speaker 2>on the Windown tour, but even here, I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to be able to just feel like I can

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<v Speaker 2>say anything without it like going or making a tabloid

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<v Speaker 2>or or just something like that. So over time, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I've had to talk to my therapists about this because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I love my podcast, and I get anxiety

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<v Speaker 2>because I don't like seeing the headline because there's so

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<v Speaker 2>much more that concept context, context between what's actually the

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<v Speaker 2>headline and what was said in the podcast. So I

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<v Speaker 2>fight with like, I love doing this, but I'm also

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, and I hate censoring because I want

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<v Speaker 2>to share, but I have to be very careful how

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<v Speaker 2>I word things. So leading up to this, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>pew what I said wrong. So, leading up to this

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<v Speaker 2>last podcast, I was like, you know, I kind of

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<v Speaker 2>thought it was a you know, we talk about pop

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<v Speaker 2>culture stuff that happens, and conversations in the view would

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<v Speaker 2>pick this up, and I'm like, this would be a

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<v Speaker 2>really not calling us the view, by the way, but I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Just you know, you're like, if you can talk about it,

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<v Speaker 3>then we can talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm just saying, like, it's a good conversation. We

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you're married to an artist's has been an

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<v Speaker 2>artist whatever, like you know, So so anyways, I thought

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<v Speaker 2>it was a good conversation, but I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>have to be very careful what I say because anything

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<v Speaker 2>I say about Miranda will then get picked up sure

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<v Speaker 2>most likely not always, and.

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<v Speaker 3>You basically said that leading into this conversation exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And I also said I was scared to say anything. Right, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>guess what, dang it what you said?

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<v Speaker 3>They quoted me?

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<v Speaker 2>No, so I'm at where was Oh? I was about

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<v Speaker 2>to play a show in Minnesota. Catherine's like, f yi.

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<v Speaker 2>Fox News had no no something million followers they had

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<v Speaker 2>they had sent this uh interview, Uh this what it was.

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<v Speaker 3>They'd email they'd emailed the agents.

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<v Speaker 2>My agent to me and said, can you say this

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<v Speaker 2>is her quote or not? And it said.

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<v Speaker 3>Bully like said was to get people.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate to get people. You said, I hate to

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<v Speaker 2>get people. Canfuled, but it seemed very bully like. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, am I supposed to take it back now?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, because I don't want to. No, I'm not. And

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<v Speaker 2>that is.

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<v Speaker 3>What you said. I don't think was bad personally.

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<v Speaker 2>And what I said was it was kind of rude, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>And I stand by that. I thought it was kind

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<v Speaker 2>of rude having said that, you know, they don't put

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<v Speaker 2>in the having said that at part afterwards, you don't

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<v Speaker 2>know the circumstances and blah blah blah blah blah. But

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<v Speaker 2>I still stand by that I didn't call her rude.

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<v Speaker 2>I said it was kind of rude, oftens it a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit. So I'm like, I'm fine with that because

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<v Speaker 2>that's what my opinion was, you know, But the bully word,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I was like for me, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I was very careful. Now, whether I might think that

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<v Speaker 2>or not doesn't matter. You didn't say it. So it's interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've actually thought about this talk even before I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know this. I feel a little better now, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>because tell you about them before. Oh gosh, there's more.

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<v Speaker 2>There's more. So we then say, I'm like, I did

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<v Speaker 2>not say that. Now, I don't want to throw you

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<v Speaker 2>under the bus, but I'm like, my other co host

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<v Speaker 2>said it.

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<v Speaker 3>I told the publicist. I was like, look, she did

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<v Speaker 3>not say that. It was one of our other co hosts.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, so it's nice quotations, Krystal Breaston.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not Janna. I'm not going to say I don't

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<v Speaker 2>work with Honey on the podcast. Not it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I would love to claim it if I

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<v Speaker 3>said it, trust me.

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<v Speaker 2>But anyway, you guys, this sucks because I'm actually a

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<v Speaker 2>Miranda fan and I don't I didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>They didn't say you.

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<v Speaker 2>They said I said I called her a bully. Oh boy.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, I didn't say that. So I respond

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<v Speaker 2>back and I'm like, guys, I didn't say that. It

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<v Speaker 2>was my other co host, So stay well, guess who.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess who put it out there? They put it out there.

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<v Speaker 3>They still put it out and.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, that's not fair. I didn't say that. And

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<v Speaker 2>now I'm like, you know, but then we dug in

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit deeper and I even had I'm glad

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't send it, but you know me, I get

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<v Speaker 2>fast with my emails. Yeah, so I saw the the

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<v Speaker 2>the reporter's email, so then I drafted I didn't. I

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<v Speaker 2>just had to say it. Though. I was like, how

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<v Speaker 2>could you because we responded saying that was not me?

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<v Speaker 2>How could you then, out of knowing that it wasn't me,

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<v Speaker 2>put that out there? And I have such a thing

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<v Speaker 2>after that one thing happened a couple of years ago

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<v Speaker 2>with the fake or the person having the truth and

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<v Speaker 2>then still putting something out. So I was like, how

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<v Speaker 2>can you sleep? How do you do that?

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<v Speaker 5>You know what? I mean?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>That's I was like, I don't care what context or

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<v Speaker 2>how big or small the story is. Or whatever. Those

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<v Speaker 2>were not my words. Don't quote me. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they're going to do what they're going to do then,

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<v Speaker 2>So but they ended up taking it down and then

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<v Speaker 2>they just clicks.

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<v Speaker 3>It was actually relatively quick. It was like within a

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<v Speaker 3>couple hours. I mean she'd had a conversation, I know,

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<v Speaker 3>so it was another conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>So they just changed it to my original, which again

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<v Speaker 2>I stand by.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that they don't care what I say. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So I thought about this after that conversation and because

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, what would I prefer she do?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I I there's a no flash photography policy. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to go back into it, but I just

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<v Speaker 2>had this moment where I was like, I think what

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<v Speaker 2>it is for me is I would want her security team.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I would have done to to just be

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<v Speaker 2>like absolutely no flash photography. If you see it, shut

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<v Speaker 2>it down. Yeah, and then she doesn't have to do

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<v Speaker 2>then puts her in a way better position. Yeah, I agree,

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I would have done because I just don't

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<v Speaker 2>want anybody feeling left out or pointed out. And that's

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<v Speaker 2>what made me sad. Yeah. But anyways, anyways, that's just

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<v Speaker 2>guess nervous having said all that that was, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>but I still it's not that we're not saying the

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<v Speaker 2>truth of things. There's just against certain things. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm being very careful and so you our guests today.

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<v Speaker 2>There are probably things I'd want to ask, but I've

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<v Speaker 2>just given them now to Kristen and gathering. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to know about the Kardashians, I really do. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to know what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll same, we'll see how it goes.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it's in her bio like it was best friend

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<v Speaker 2>and so I'm just like curious. It's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>she's talked about before, she's talked about it, and not

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<v Speaker 2>that I really care about the drama, but I also

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<v Speaker 2>for some reason, they just seem so untouchable that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>always like, what's the like inside? So I didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>they weren't best friends anymore. Oh, I thought they had

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<v Speaker 2>a falling out? Am I right? You know we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to find out.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we'll find out. From what I believe, I think

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<v Speaker 3>that they're just not as close as they used to be.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the Kardashians have let it known that it

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<v Speaker 3>was just like a little just they're just not as close.

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<v Speaker 3>I think maybe she has more to say about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I know she had a brief fling with Tristan,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was before I don't know if I did

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<v Speaker 2>a full rundown. But she's actually so. She has a

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<v Speaker 2>new podcast out. It's called Separation Anxiety Podcast with Larsa Pippen.

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<v Speaker 2>So she used to be married to Scottie Pippen, who's

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<v Speaker 2>like huge. If anyone saw the Michael Jordan documentary, I

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<v Speaker 2>mean they're alive in America, yeah, I mean Scotty Pippen. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And by the way, he's so sweet. I ran to

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<v Speaker 2>him one time a ping pong like charity thing, just

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<v Speaker 2>like the nicest dude. I was like, Scotty Pippin, it's

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<v Speaker 2>so cool, like a legend. Yeah. Well, but now she's

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<v Speaker 2>dating Michael Jordan's son, Marcus Jordan, and you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>Scotti and like Michael Jordan had beef too. So did

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<v Speaker 2>you watch the Last Dance documentary. It's good. Oh I

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<v Speaker 2>did see that. I didn't forget that they had beef. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I got to like go back and like see,

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<v Speaker 2>like way agan, but it's I guess they had even together. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you're on that, and I'm just gonna go.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But now, so there's a sixteen year age gap, So

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<v Speaker 2>before she comes on, what are your thoughts on an

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<v Speaker 2>age gap sixteen years when the girl is older, Because

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<v Speaker 2>I've been in where I was younger and the guy

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<v Speaker 2>was older and like same, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, should it really be different? Not necessarily, but

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<v Speaker 3>guys are just more immature, So I think it just

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<v Speaker 3>depends on their immaturity level.

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<v Speaker 2>In my chini, or we did that. We did talk

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<v Speaker 2>to the girls of that one show one time that

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<v Speaker 2>like Love Island or something, and they were all going

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<v Speaker 2>younger and they said that these these dudes like doted

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<v Speaker 2>on them because they were younger and they treated them

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<v Speaker 2>like a queen and all this, yeah experience. Yeah it

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<v Speaker 2>was the husband was younger than me. Well same, Mike

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<v Speaker 2>was a couple of he was only like four years.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so this is probably my own stuff coming up. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like we should play a drinking games. How

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<v Speaker 2>many times do we think in a podcast do we

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<v Speaker 2>say that our own stuff, this is our own stuff

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<v Speaker 2>coming up? Okay? I don't know why it bothers me,

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<v Speaker 2>but it does. And I just have to say it,

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<v Speaker 2>say okay, and I you know, I don't like to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about like the past or whatever, but I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>bring up the past.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, as long as that's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like it and it's probably my own stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>But so y'all know that my ex he said his

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<v Speaker 2>only advice was playing video games, right. I mean I

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<v Speaker 2>even worried about that in the Good Fight. So that's

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<v Speaker 2>like not new news, right, Like he played video games whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>And then when he went to like rehab or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>And I also wrote in the book like I snashed

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<v Speaker 2>it with like hammers because I'm like, oh, your only

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<v Speaker 2>vice it's not video game. We would so the other day, Jolie,

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<v Speaker 2>we were just like talking or whatever, and we'd my

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<v Speaker 2>and I kind of had to think about disagreement about

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<v Speaker 2>how long the kids should be on an iPad. It

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<v Speaker 2>was just it's just seemed like a lot more. But

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<v Speaker 2>he had some stuff going on, so whatever. Fine. But

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<v Speaker 2>so there's been you know, we've tried to put the ipadsay,

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't like the iPads. I'm like, go outside,

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<v Speaker 2>go play, go, just please get off the electronics. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>don't like it. Well, so I was just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>what you guys to do last night, and she was

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<v Speaker 2>just like and she said, it's a couple of times now,

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<v Speaker 2>like we've been playing video games and I'm like, that's fun,

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<v Speaker 2>and I know you're Cayden plays video games. Yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>For me personally, for some reason, it's very like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want my son Jase to grow up to be

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<v Speaker 2>a now my ex husband. Is what thirty six or

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<v Speaker 2>thirty playing video games fair? Because I'm like, if Alan's

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm going to go into the room play video

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<v Speaker 2>games for some reason, it's like I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>it's because it's like a trigger because that wasn't the

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<v Speaker 2>only thing that like, I don't I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 2>might would just be a trigger from like my ax.

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<v Speaker 2>But personally, I'm like, what thirty plus man goes and

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<v Speaker 2>plays video games? But then I feel bad because maybe

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<v Speaker 2>that's just their thing and they like it. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm just like I just had to just voice

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<v Speaker 2>that and maybe do I disagree hate video games? The

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<v Speaker 2>passion I like Tetris quote unquote yeah great, Kristen. I

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<v Speaker 2>know I would not be attracted to like I do

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<v Speaker 2>video games. I wouldn't be attracted to them. I like

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<v Speaker 2>the old school stuff, but I just watch these I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know this will get me super hated, but

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<v Speaker 2>I just it. It is like under my skin. I

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<v Speaker 2>just think there's way a million other things we could do,

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<v Speaker 2>Like yeah, especially like when you have kids. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>you're you're a grown man playing video games. Now. I

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<v Speaker 2>get it if it's a thing that you want to

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<v Speaker 2>do and you like to do what's said to say,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I enjoyed drinking a glass of one, sitting out

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<v Speaker 2>back playing you gre with my friends, and his alone

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<v Speaker 2>time is playing video games. But for some reason, it

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<v Speaker 2>just seems so immature. Is it the way we grew

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<v Speaker 2>up though, that gamers are different? Because gaming now is

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<v Speaker 2>actually pretty cool, Like it's very interactive and people have

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<v Speaker 2>the headsets and they're playing with each other and friends,

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<v Speaker 2>which is very social.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that's Kayden only plays. He's outside ninety nine

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<v Speaker 3>percent of the time. So I have zero issue with

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<v Speaker 3>Kate and playing video games. But it's social. They get on.

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<v Speaker 2>They're either they're actually true like he, or they have

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<v Speaker 2>like friends that are like playing. But I'm like, you

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<v Speaker 2>guys are all grown men with children. But I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>but we play you girls, So what's the difference.

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<v Speaker 3>So I battle myself with it, and I've always wondered

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<v Speaker 3>that because we have another friend who has an issue

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<v Speaker 3>with video games or really an x an ex husband.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like code uh.

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<v Speaker 3>Huh okay, because he plays too yeah or he used

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<v Speaker 3>to yeah, and when they were married. I don't fully

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<v Speaker 3>understand it, just in the sense that, well, it's actually

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<v Speaker 3>very funny you bring this up because Nick literally found

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<v Speaker 3>his old school Nintendo.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fun. I was playing. I am gonnahoop everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>But my point is is he's not a video game guy,

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<v Speaker 3>but he happened to pick one up last night. But like,

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<v Speaker 3>he doesn't watch TV at night, So if he picked

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<v Speaker 3>up a controller at night and did video games and

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<v Speaker 3>I was watching TV, it would not bother me, And

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<v Speaker 3>like the slightest because I like to watch TV at

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<v Speaker 3>night for my downtown Sure, but if I was like

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<v Speaker 3>trying to hang out with him and he didn't want

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<v Speaker 3>to because he's playing video games all the time or something,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe that would bother me.

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<v Speaker 2>But I like the big overside, just bean bag chair

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<v Speaker 2>and a pilot headset and very childish. Mean, let's bring

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<v Speaker 2>let's bring larsa on because maybe she'll give her insight

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<v Speaker 2>on it, but again, like, I get it if it's

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<v Speaker 2>your downtime thing, but maybe it's like a trigger for

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<v Speaker 2>my old past. And then like, so I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>a trigger and I don't like it. Okay, let's get

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<v Speaker 2>It's just I'm like, can you imagine Alan playing video games?

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be like that just seems so like. But I

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<v Speaker 2>will say, like Preston on the bus when they're on

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<v Speaker 2>the road, everyone's playing we play you gurs, So what's

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<v Speaker 2>the right right?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Yeah, one's really front of.

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<v Speaker 2>A screen and one's yeah, I mean that can that

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<v Speaker 2>be my first question to Larsa?

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<v Speaker 3>So like a safe one? Good?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Ben, she'd be like, actually that, but maybe he

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<v Speaker 2>does because it's probably around the same age too, as

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<v Speaker 2>like that group. So that's why I'm like curious, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean? Hey girl, Hey, we're talking about

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<v Speaker 2>younger guys and my ex husband was around is I

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<v Speaker 2>think around the Saint Held's Marcus thirty two. Oh he's okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so he's a little bit younger than my ex husband.

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<v Speaker 2>But we were talking about the age difference with that,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was telling her that I didn't understand the

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<v Speaker 2>video game playing, and to me, it like bothered me.

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<v Speaker 2>It didn't seem like I don't know, like I like

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<v Speaker 2>what man is like playing video I don't know. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just so I'm like. So then she says she doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>like him, she doesn't mind. So does he play?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you like it?

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<v Speaker 2>What?

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<v Speaker 4>No, Marcus never plays video games?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Would it bother you if he did?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 4>I like video games.

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<v Speaker 3>That's kind of me. That's why.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like the old school video games like Mario, Like

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<v Speaker 2>there's such a difference. Yeah, because you're playing like aircraft

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, but you guys understand that I have like younger siblings.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm the oldest of five, so, like I have a

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<v Speaker 7>brother that's twenty seven years old. Yeah, so I feel

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<v Speaker 7>like I like I have older kids. I have younger siblings.

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<v Speaker 7>So like from me, I'm surrounded by like young, younger

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<v Speaker 7>older people. My mom is like twenty years older than me,

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<v Speaker 7>maybe nineteen years older than me, something like that. And

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<v Speaker 7>so my mom used to go to clubs with me

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<v Speaker 7>when I was like younger, and she still likes to

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<v Speaker 7>hang out and go out. My mom and dad go

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<v Speaker 7>out every weekend. It's so fun, Like they stay out

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<v Speaker 7>till like three o'clock in the morning, they like have

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<v Speaker 7>the best relationship. So for me, when I think of age,

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<v Speaker 7>I don't really think of like you're supposed to be

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<v Speaker 7>doing this at this age, and you're supposed to be

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<v Speaker 7>doing this at this age, because I feel like for me,

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<v Speaker 7>I did everything like opposite, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 7>I got married super young, I had all my kids

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<v Speaker 7>super young. So like for me, I don't like, I

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<v Speaker 7>don't view age like somebody else that literally is like, oh,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm thirty five, now I should settle down and have kids.

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<v Speaker 7>For me, it's like I did it the other way around,

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<v Speaker 7>you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure that makes sense. By the way, I love your

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<v Speaker 2>whole vibe all of a sudden, like you're just like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just cha you to calm us. Yeah, I needed

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<v Speaker 2>to come down from my video. Can I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>if people are listening, it's like a henhouse. Then we

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<v Speaker 2>just like had a yoga instructor.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know. I mean I'm all all over the

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<v Speaker 4>place too, so I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>So we have a mutual friend and and actually texted

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<v Speaker 2>him last night when I saw that you were coming on.

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<v Speaker 2>Adam Whitesman.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, I love him so much. He is

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<v Speaker 7>such a good guy. He's like such a good friend.

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<v Speaker 7>I talked to him like all day every day.

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<v Speaker 2>We we stated his house in New York. We walked in, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and because we were we had a we were on

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<v Speaker 2>tour for the podcast, and you know, he's like literally

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<v Speaker 2>the nicest human imaginable. Like, I mean, he's friends with everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>He's so nice, he's so kind, and you know, he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you're in New York and you know, use use my place.

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<v Speaker 2>And so we walk in and I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>this is the nicest beautiful view place I've ever seen

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<v Speaker 2>in my entire life.

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<v Speaker 4>Nice.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it really is. But his heart is he's placed

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<v Speaker 7>in Miami. It's beautiful. But no, he really is a

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<v Speaker 7>really good friend. I feel like, you know, he might

0:19:45.840 --> 0:19:47.320
<v Speaker 7>be friends with a lot of people, but I think

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<v Speaker 7>the people that he's like really close to, like you

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<v Speaker 7>really get to know who he is as a person.

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<v Speaker 7>And he's just he has the best energy, the best heart,

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<v Speaker 7>and I just love him. He's just you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 7>really lucky because my boyfriend Mark is like always used

0:20:00.440 --> 0:20:01.760
<v Speaker 7>to tell Adam. I'd be like I love you, and

0:20:01.800 --> 0:20:03.280
<v Speaker 7>you'd say I love you too, and then like, now

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<v Speaker 7>my boyfriend like will be on the phone, He'll be like.

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<v Speaker 4>I love you guys really quick, love you too. We're

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<v Speaker 4>like one big Abbey family.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's really sweet. Well, because I was reading when

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<v Speaker 2>I was just kind of like doing some of my

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<v Speaker 2>you know, research. Obviously I know who you are, but

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, all right, I want to like know

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit more. You were saying that you wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to keep the relationship more low key. And I don't

0:20:22.760 --> 0:20:24.600
<v Speaker 2>know how I have to look back at how long

0:20:24.600 --> 0:20:26.600
<v Speaker 2>ago that was, but what was then your decision to

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<v Speaker 2>go all right, you know, let's do a podcast together,

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<v Speaker 2>let's be more, you know, let's talk about this more.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, you know, I'm on Miami Housewives, and I feel

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<v Speaker 7>like every season they've been like, hey, who are you dating?

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<v Speaker 4>What's going on in your personal life?

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<v Speaker 7>And I didn't know how to incorporate my boyfriend and

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<v Speaker 7>to the storyline and like and it was like a

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<v Speaker 7>couple of things. It was like I wanted to bring

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<v Speaker 7>them on the show, but at the same time, I

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<v Speaker 7>didn't want to just bring them on as my boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 7>And I wanted to have a platform for us where

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<v Speaker 7>there's so many things that are being said about us,

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<v Speaker 7>and all of them are so incorrect, you know, and

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<v Speaker 7>it was kind of like I would just listen and like,

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<v Speaker 7>look at all these these blogs say the craziest things

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<v Speaker 7>about us, and we never could talk back.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 7>I really didn't have a platform where we could basically

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<v Speaker 7>be like, Okay, that's inaccurate, by the way, because I

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<v Speaker 7>just kept letting the narrative grow and grow, and it

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<v Speaker 7>just kept getting so big and it was all wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 7>I feel like a lot of times when you leave

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<v Speaker 7>and I talk about this, like when you leave a

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<v Speaker 7>relationship or where you're married to someone that's famous, whoever's

0:21:24.800 --> 0:21:27.359
<v Speaker 7>not famous, like it's destroyed. It's like you're the bad guy,

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<v Speaker 7>you shouldn't have left, You're this, you're that. And for me,

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<v Speaker 7>I was like I put in twenty three years, like

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<v Speaker 7>I have four amazing kids. I did everything for that relationship.

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<v Speaker 7>I purpose like I couldn't have done more for that relationship.

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<v Speaker 7>It just didn't work anymore. So it's like I had

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<v Speaker 7>to go find my mental like you know, safe place

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<v Speaker 7>and like my happiness. And it took me a long

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<v Speaker 7>time because I felt like for years I stayed in

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<v Speaker 7>a relationship that was horrible.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't like it.

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<v Speaker 7>I wasn't happy, and I'm kind of glad that I did,

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<v Speaker 7>because I wanted to see my kids get older and

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<v Speaker 7>have one home rather than like two homes. I know,

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<v Speaker 7>like I grew up with a mom and dad, and

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<v Speaker 7>I know how like great my life was. I wanted

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<v Speaker 7>that for my kids. But at the same time, like

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<v Speaker 7>I kept reading all this stuff about me that was

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<v Speaker 7>like so not true.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what is the biggest not true thing that

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<v Speaker 2>that you were.

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<v Speaker 7>Just I feel like recently, like everyone thinks that like

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<v Speaker 7>I've known Marcus his whole life, and I didn't. I

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<v Speaker 7>wasn't friends with his parents.

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<v Speaker 2>I was not the well Scotti and Michael had kind

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<v Speaker 2>of beef anyways, didn't they.

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<v Speaker 7>No, But when when I was married to Scotti, when

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<v Speaker 7>you played for the Bulls, I was only with him

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<v Speaker 7>that one last year where he played with Michael, I

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<v Speaker 7>wasn't there. I was in college. I met him my

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<v Speaker 7>senior year in college, like the summer before my senior

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<v Speaker 7>in college. So I wasn't a part of that whole

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<v Speaker 7>Bulls dynasty or whatever, like I was in school, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>And so people assumed that like I've known them I've

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<v Speaker 7>known him. They're like, how could she She's known him

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<v Speaker 7>his whole life, And I'm like, by the way, I

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<v Speaker 7>just met him like three years ago, Like I didn't

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<v Speaker 7>know him his whole life, Like no, and a lot

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<v Speaker 7>of times, like you know, recently, like I've been looking

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<v Speaker 7>at things and peopeople are like, you know, you get

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<v Speaker 7>to choose who you are with. Why did she choose him?

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<v Speaker 7>And I'm like, because I wanted to.

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<v Speaker 4>I like him. I like him, like we like each other,

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<v Speaker 4>we love each other. Why not? But it wasn't like a.

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<v Speaker 7>Thing Like I think a lot of people want to

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<v Speaker 7>turn the narrative and be like, oh, she did this

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<v Speaker 7>to spite her ex, and that's not what it is

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<v Speaker 7>at all. Like I'm like, not at all. I don't

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<v Speaker 7>ask him his personal stuff. He doesn't ask me my

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<v Speaker 7>personal stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 7>We talk about our kids and that's it. And I

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<v Speaker 7>feel like when people break up, like and they're in

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<v Speaker 7>a good place, all they really need to discuss is

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<v Speaker 7>their kids, Like there's nothing else for us to talk about,

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<v Speaker 7>because if if things were so great between us, we

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<v Speaker 7>would have been together.

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<v Speaker 4>That's there's a reason why people break up.

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<v Speaker 7>It's not like, you know, It's not like I can't

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<v Speaker 7>nurture a relationship with my ex.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't do that.

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<v Speaker 7>I have to nurture like the relationship that I'm in today.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, I'm very current in all my relationships. Like

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<v Speaker 7>if like I'm talking to you right now, I'm very

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<v Speaker 7>invested in this conversation with you guys. But if I

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<v Speaker 7>wasn't here, like I would be very invested in the

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<v Speaker 7>conversation with my boys that are here, or like you know,

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<v Speaker 7>my dog or my kids, or my friends or work stuff.

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<v Speaker 7>But I'm not the kind of person that like goes

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<v Speaker 7>back and like harps on bad things that have happened

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<v Speaker 7>to me or situations. I don't do that, Like that's

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<v Speaker 7>just not my personality. I kind of like deal with it,

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<v Speaker 7>move on, deal with.

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<v Speaker 4>The next thing. You know, I'm very president in my situations.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you could have saved me a lot of copays

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<v Speaker 2>if I just would have met you about seven years

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<v Speaker 2>ago in therapy. But how did you and Marcus meet?

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<v Speaker 2>Because that's that was my biggest question. I'm sure it's somewhere,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'd rather get like the truth from the source.

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<v Speaker 7>So we met at a party. It was like a

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<v Speaker 7>Jordan Brand party in La I went with some of

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<v Speaker 7>my friends.

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<v Speaker 4>He was there.

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't even know who, Like, I didn't really even

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<v Speaker 7>know who he was my friends. He got us into

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<v Speaker 7>some VIP area and we talked and he said, hey,

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<v Speaker 7>what's up, you know whatever. He's like, ohh Marcus Jordan.

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<v Speaker 7>And then we would DM after that and he would

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<v Speaker 7>invite me to parties and he would say, hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 7>coming to Miami. And we missed each other for like

0:24:48.480 --> 0:24:50.400
<v Speaker 7>three years, like I would It was just like two

0:24:50.480 --> 0:24:52.440
<v Speaker 7>passing ships, you know. We never were in the same

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<v Speaker 7>city at the same time, but we were friends for

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<v Speaker 7>like three years.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I love that. And you knew who he was instantly,

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<v Speaker 2>and he knew and who you were.

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<v Speaker 4>Well yeah, I mean yeah, okay, we knew yeah, you know, yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>But we had never we had never seen each other

0:25:08.320 --> 0:25:11.560
<v Speaker 7>before that, like, never been at parties together or anything

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<v Speaker 7>like that.

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<v Speaker 2>How does he like, I mean with being on the

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<v Speaker 2>Housewives too, I mean, have you liked going into that

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<v Speaker 2>world and then kind of integrating him in that.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, you know, it's it's a scary story. You know,

0:25:24.200 --> 0:25:25.960
<v Speaker 7>it's a scary place to be sometimes when you're on

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<v Speaker 7>these shows because it could go either way. And I

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<v Speaker 7>think for us, like we're so open in our relationship,

0:25:30.960 --> 0:25:33.080
<v Speaker 7>like I share so much of my life anyway, so

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<v Speaker 7>it's like, you know, you want to be on this

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<v Speaker 7>journey with me because this is where I am today,

0:25:38.040 --> 0:25:39.639
<v Speaker 7>and if you do, then let's go. Let's do this

0:25:39.720 --> 0:25:42.000
<v Speaker 7>and let's have fun. And I don't you know, I

0:25:42.000 --> 0:25:43.640
<v Speaker 7>feel like I didn't want to put pressure on him

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<v Speaker 7>to be on the show if he didn't want to

0:25:44.920 --> 0:25:47.160
<v Speaker 7>be on the show. I feel like his family they're

0:25:47.240 --> 0:25:49.439
<v Speaker 7>very private, like this is not something they like to do.

0:25:49.480 --> 0:25:51.760
<v Speaker 7>And I'm sure his family was very skeptical about him

0:25:51.760 --> 0:25:53.800
<v Speaker 7>being on the show. But I said, hey, if you

0:25:53.840 --> 0:25:55.199
<v Speaker 7>want to come on, you don't have to be a

0:25:55.200 --> 0:25:57.720
<v Speaker 7>big part of the drama. If there is drama, you

0:25:57.760 --> 0:25:59.760
<v Speaker 7>can just come to dinners. You can come to the things.

0:25:59.800 --> 0:26:01.679
<v Speaker 7>If you don't feel comfortable, you can like you know,

0:26:01.920 --> 0:26:05.760
<v Speaker 7>like I'll meet you at home, right and we recap

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<v Speaker 7>the season then it you know, it was great.

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<v Speaker 4>We had a great season. I think so far, so good, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. I have a question about family dinners, LARSA,

0:26:13.800 --> 0:26:18.480
<v Speaker 2>are you going to dinner with Michael Jordan? No, okay,

0:26:18.880 --> 0:26:19.639
<v Speaker 2>anything you want.

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<v Speaker 7>To say, I haven't hung out with his dad. I've

0:26:21.840 --> 0:26:22.880
<v Speaker 7>only hung out with his mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I just wondered, is that is not hard? Like?

0:26:26.680 --> 0:26:32.320
<v Speaker 2>Is there is that you know? Have they have?

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<v Speaker 1>They?

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<v Speaker 7>Like?

0:26:33.160 --> 0:26:35.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Is that just? Is that a tricky kind of

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<v Speaker 2>walk to to walk?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 7>Because I feel I feel like, you know, it's probably

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<v Speaker 7>awkward for them, like for my ex and his dad,

0:26:43.520 --> 0:26:46.159
<v Speaker 7>and but I like I get it. I'm not like crazy,

0:26:46.200 --> 0:26:47.960
<v Speaker 7>like I understand it's different for them. You know, it's

0:26:48.000 --> 0:26:50.680
<v Speaker 7>like they had a relationship or have a relationship. I'm

0:26:50.680 --> 0:26:53.240
<v Speaker 7>not sure. But like for us, like I don't want

0:26:53.760 --> 0:26:56.159
<v Speaker 7>like we never talk about them. We have our own relationship,

0:26:56.240 --> 0:26:58.399
<v Speaker 7>We have our own day to day life, Like it

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<v Speaker 7>doesn't really involve anyone else than us, my kids. Like

0:27:01.600 --> 0:27:03.919
<v Speaker 7>that's really what it's about, to be honest with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Your podcasts called separation anxiety? Do you have separation anxiety? Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Where'd the name come from?

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<v Speaker 7>You know what, we spend so much time together. I've

0:27:12.119 --> 0:27:14.480
<v Speaker 7>literally never spent this much time with another person other

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<v Speaker 7>than my kids. We literally do everything together. We work

0:27:18.320 --> 0:27:21.360
<v Speaker 7>out together, we cook together, we work together, like everything

0:27:21.400 --> 0:27:23.800
<v Speaker 7>everything together. And so every time I'd be in a

0:27:23.800 --> 0:27:26.280
<v Speaker 7>different room and I'd be like, oh my god, separation anxiety.

0:27:26.440 --> 0:27:27.840
<v Speaker 7>Or he would say, like if you were at a

0:27:27.840 --> 0:27:29.200
<v Speaker 7>restaurant and I'd be like, I have to go to

0:27:29.280 --> 0:27:31.560
<v Speaker 7>the bathroom, and then i'd walk to the bathroom. He

0:27:31.560 --> 0:27:33.159
<v Speaker 7>would text me like a minute later and be like,

0:27:33.200 --> 0:27:37.879
<v Speaker 7>oh my god, I'm going through separation anxiety. So and

0:27:37.960 --> 0:27:39.840
<v Speaker 7>so that's kind of where the name came from. But

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<v Speaker 7>I feel like I'm like I'm very like loving, like

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<v Speaker 7>I like I tell my friends all the time, like

0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:46.840
<v Speaker 7>I love you so much, I can never live without you.

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:49.439
<v Speaker 7>I like appreciate you, like I text my friends all

0:27:49.440 --> 0:27:51.240
<v Speaker 7>the time like I love you, Like I'm so happy

0:27:51.240 --> 0:27:52.560
<v Speaker 7>for you, I'm so proud of you. And I feel

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:54.840
<v Speaker 7>like like that's just kind of my personality. And so

0:27:54.920 --> 0:27:57.560
<v Speaker 7>separation anxiety is kind of like you want to have

0:27:57.640 --> 0:27:59.720
<v Speaker 7>that separation anxiety when you're not with the people that

0:27:59.760 --> 0:28:01.880
<v Speaker 7>you and that like make you feel good.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

0:28:02.200 --> 0:28:04.320
<v Speaker 7>I think it's really important to surround yourself with people

0:28:04.359 --> 0:28:06.920
<v Speaker 7>that like love you and want to see you win.

0:28:07.000 --> 0:28:08.639
<v Speaker 7>And I feel like Marcus does that with me. He

0:28:08.720 --> 0:28:10.760
<v Speaker 7>wants to see me win, you know. I want to

0:28:10.760 --> 0:28:12.639
<v Speaker 7>win with him. I want to one with him. So

0:28:13.400 --> 0:28:14.160
<v Speaker 7>it's like a good thing.

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<v Speaker 2>about it pre like I've I've dated older men with

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<v Speaker 2>that gap, but I haven't had the flip. But I'm like, well,

0:30:10.400 --> 0:30:12.760
<v Speaker 2>in Catherine's I She's like, what's what's the difference, I'm like,

0:30:12.760 --> 0:30:15.000
<v Speaker 2>there isn't any. I just I just think it's society's

0:30:15.320 --> 0:30:18.320
<v Speaker 2>being like, oh, you know, the It's just it's not

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<v Speaker 2>as common as the other the flip side.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, No, I feel like for me, I've dated guys

0:30:25.400 --> 0:30:27.120
<v Speaker 7>that were older. My ex was like, you know, ten

0:30:27.120 --> 0:30:29.120
<v Speaker 7>and a half, eleven years older than me. I've dated

0:30:29.120 --> 0:30:30.800
<v Speaker 7>guys that were, like, you know, twenty years older than

0:30:30.760 --> 0:30:32.480
<v Speaker 7>I mean, I've dated guys that were twenty years younger

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<v Speaker 7>than me. I've kind of gone it both ways, both

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<v Speaker 7>both extremes. I just really think it's based on the

0:30:37.920 --> 0:30:39.720
<v Speaker 7>person that you're with and where you are, and you're

0:30:40.040 --> 0:30:42.840
<v Speaker 7>like compatibility at the moment, you know, or where you

0:30:42.920 --> 0:30:45.280
<v Speaker 7>guys are in life. I don't really view ages like

0:30:45.920 --> 0:30:48.680
<v Speaker 7>you're too old, you're too young or whatever, because I like,

0:30:48.760 --> 0:30:51.040
<v Speaker 7>I see my mom, and my mom was like the youngest,

0:30:51.160 --> 0:30:53.800
<v Speaker 7>like sixty something year old, Like she's super young and

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:56.600
<v Speaker 7>like works out every day and like parties and like

0:30:56.600 --> 0:30:58.920
<v Speaker 7>like lives her best life. And so I kind of

0:30:58.920 --> 0:31:00.760
<v Speaker 7>grew up in that. Like my means that, you know,

0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:03.600
<v Speaker 7>my uncle was married to someone twenty five years older

0:31:03.600 --> 0:31:05.880
<v Speaker 7>than I mean, twenty five years young younger than him.

0:31:06.000 --> 0:31:09.080
<v Speaker 7>So I've seen age, you know, gaps all the time,

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:11.400
<v Speaker 7>and I don't think it really determines like if you

0:31:11.440 --> 0:31:13.040
<v Speaker 7>guys are going to work out, if you guys are.

0:31:12.920 --> 0:31:14.920
<v Speaker 4>Going to be happy. I think it's really based on like,

0:31:15.480 --> 0:31:16.160
<v Speaker 4>you know, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree with thesual. Yeah, and I agree with that

0:31:18.920 --> 0:31:20.920
<v Speaker 2>and the piece of like the timeline of things, because

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:22.720
<v Speaker 2>you know, obviously I've only been together with my fiance

0:31:22.840 --> 0:31:25.000
<v Speaker 2>for eight months. We're pregnant, like can engage orever. But

0:31:25.040 --> 0:31:28.840
<v Speaker 2>it's like, congratulations, that's fun, thank you, I'm excited. But

0:31:29.120 --> 0:31:32.320
<v Speaker 2>it's like it doesn't really matter, like whether it's you

0:31:32.360 --> 0:31:34.800
<v Speaker 2>meet them and you get whatever it's like, or if

0:31:34.800 --> 0:31:36.480
<v Speaker 2>you stay with them for five years and then you

0:31:36.520 --> 0:31:38.960
<v Speaker 2>go on the journey. It's like it's whatever works.

0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:41.560
<v Speaker 7>And I think people, people come into your life and

0:31:41.880 --> 0:31:44.520
<v Speaker 7>like like at that moment, I know people that have

0:31:44.600 --> 0:31:46.080
<v Speaker 7>dated in the past that I was like, oh my god,

0:31:46.120 --> 0:31:47.719
<v Speaker 7>what was I thinking? But I'm like, no, I kind

0:31:47.760 --> 0:31:49.880
<v Speaker 7>of needed that at that point. And even friends to

0:31:50.000 --> 0:31:52.440
<v Speaker 7>come into your life. It's certain parts of your life

0:31:52.480 --> 0:31:54.800
<v Speaker 7>where you like need them or there's a reason for

0:31:54.840 --> 0:31:57.240
<v Speaker 7>all this stuff, you know. Yeah, And so I don't know,

0:31:57.240 --> 0:31:59.080
<v Speaker 7>I don't really view age like that. I'm like just

0:31:59.120 --> 0:32:01.040
<v Speaker 7>living my best life. I'm happy, he's happy.

0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:05.240
<v Speaker 2>So you have the calmest and I love it so much. Really, yeah,

0:32:05.320 --> 0:32:06.720
<v Speaker 2>so certain and so calm.

0:32:06.880 --> 0:32:08.520
<v Speaker 7>If you if you watch me, if you watch him

0:32:08.520 --> 0:32:12.200
<v Speaker 7>on Housewives it they call me the larcenist because I'm

0:32:12.240 --> 0:32:13.480
<v Speaker 7>really nice until I'm not.

0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:17.880
<v Speaker 2>Like, I feel that for me Detroit, but that's fine whatever.

0:32:18.040 --> 0:32:20.920
<v Speaker 7>Oh okay, so yeah, I'm from Chicago, so we're neighbors,

0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:21.360
<v Speaker 7>get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, it's we get man. There's something about like

0:32:24.680 --> 0:32:27.920
<v Speaker 2>the Midwest girl. Yeah, like we are just so good

0:32:28.000 --> 0:32:32.120
<v Speaker 2>until we're not and then yeah, totally it's your funeral. Yeah,

0:32:32.160 --> 0:32:32.720
<v Speaker 2>exactly right.

0:32:34.240 --> 0:32:36.680
<v Speaker 3>Switching gears for a second. I'm sure you hate getting

0:32:36.680 --> 0:32:38.600
<v Speaker 3>this question and you're sick of talking about it, but

0:32:38.720 --> 0:32:42.720
<v Speaker 3>obviously you were friends with the Kardashians. Are y'all still friendly?

0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:44.320
<v Speaker 3>Is there not? I know there was. We were kind

0:32:44.320 --> 0:32:46.440
<v Speaker 3>of debating that earlier, like, are y'all still friends?

0:32:46.440 --> 0:32:46.560
<v Speaker 2>Now?

0:32:46.600 --> 0:32:47.320
<v Speaker 5>I think we're.

0:32:47.080 --> 0:32:50.320
<v Speaker 7>Cool, you know, I think like people go through different things.

0:32:50.480 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 7>I think I was in a different place, they were

0:32:52.640 --> 0:32:53.520
<v Speaker 7>in a different place.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:32:54.000 --> 0:32:56.720
<v Speaker 7>I just feel like I'm you know, I used to

0:32:56.720 --> 0:32:59.480
<v Speaker 7>put so much emphasis on my friends five years ago,

0:32:59.560 --> 0:33:01.880
<v Speaker 7>ten years ago because I kind of felt like I

0:33:01.920 --> 0:33:04.600
<v Speaker 7>needed it. I just was missing something and I really

0:33:04.600 --> 0:33:06.320
<v Speaker 7>needed my friends to fill that void because I didn't

0:33:06.360 --> 0:33:08.040
<v Speaker 7>have it at home, and I feel like today I

0:33:08.040 --> 0:33:09.880
<v Speaker 7>have everything that I want at home, So I don't

0:33:09.920 --> 0:33:14.280
<v Speaker 7>really need like these outside situations because I feel like

0:33:14.320 --> 0:33:16.480
<v Speaker 7>my like my cup is full. So right now, I

0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:17.680
<v Speaker 7>feel like I'm really good.

0:33:17.720 --> 0:33:17.880
<v Speaker 4>You know.

0:33:18.280 --> 0:33:18.800
<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>So what was the age? What was the youngest age

0:33:23.320 --> 0:33:26.240
<v Speaker 2>of your kids when you did go get divorced?

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<v Speaker 7>So I feel like I filed for divorce six years ago.

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<v Speaker 7>Sophia has fourteen so eight eight okay, because it's no

0:33:34.160 --> 0:33:38.600
<v Speaker 7>six eight yeah eight right, No, she's fourteen sixteen six

0:33:38.680 --> 0:33:39.240
<v Speaker 7>two six to.

0:33:39.320 --> 0:33:41.920
<v Speaker 2>Six of that. Yeah, because I I I struggled with

0:33:42.160 --> 0:33:46.200
<v Speaker 2>when to leave my X too. It's like when when

0:33:46.240 --> 0:33:48.240
<v Speaker 2>I found out that he had like the first round

0:33:48.240 --> 0:33:51.680
<v Speaker 2>of affairs, you know, my daughter was little, she was

0:33:51.720 --> 0:33:53.440
<v Speaker 2>only six months and I'm like, well god, I'm like,

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:55.880
<v Speaker 2>I come from a divorced family. I don't want the

0:33:55.920 --> 0:33:59.080
<v Speaker 2>divorce separations and the all you know, all that stuff.

0:33:59.400 --> 0:34:02.240
<v Speaker 2>Hi's the way, little one.

0:34:02.480 --> 0:34:06.640
<v Speaker 4>Okay, Cruise, that's curious. Sorry, Okay, cruise on over?

0:34:07.440 --> 0:34:10.280
<v Speaker 2>You should he dog train or what's happening? She's like, hey, cruise.

0:34:10.320 --> 0:34:13.360
<v Speaker 2>He's like all right, I got it, such a little

0:34:13.920 --> 0:34:16.360
<v Speaker 2>but anyway, so yeah, so it but then you know,

0:34:16.520 --> 0:34:18.600
<v Speaker 2>you get to a point where I ended up filing

0:34:18.640 --> 0:34:23.600
<v Speaker 2>when they were got it. Jace was two and four,

0:34:23.680 --> 0:34:26.760
<v Speaker 2>but my daughter was four, but I think at that age,

0:34:27.160 --> 0:34:30.080
<v Speaker 2>but it's just like I don't know if I could

0:34:30.120 --> 0:34:33.879
<v Speaker 2>have gone longer than that, because you just you're as

0:34:33.920 --> 0:34:36.640
<v Speaker 2>much as I wanted the family. I was just you're

0:34:36.680 --> 0:34:39.400
<v Speaker 2>so broken. And it's so I heard you say, like,

0:34:39.440 --> 0:34:41.560
<v Speaker 2>you know, you tried to go as long as you could.

0:34:41.719 --> 0:34:43.879
<v Speaker 2>Was there a piece of you that like, I'm I'm

0:34:43.920 --> 0:34:46.919
<v Speaker 2>good with with you know, the the journey and how

0:34:46.960 --> 0:34:49.160
<v Speaker 2>long it went and took and stuff. But I couldn't

0:34:49.200 --> 0:34:53.560
<v Speaker 2>imagine going another six years feeling that same like head

0:34:53.600 --> 0:34:56.040
<v Speaker 2>against the wall.

0:34:56.520 --> 0:34:58.520
<v Speaker 7>I feel like I, you know, I stayed in as

0:34:58.520 --> 0:35:00.360
<v Speaker 7>long as I could. It was it was one of

0:35:00.400 --> 0:35:02.319
<v Speaker 7>those things that like I knew in my heart, like

0:35:02.400 --> 0:35:04.840
<v Speaker 7>it wasn't going to be like a for everything, Like

0:35:04.840 --> 0:35:06.319
<v Speaker 7>I knew in my heart, but I had so many kids.

0:35:06.320 --> 0:35:07.040
<v Speaker 4>I had four kids.

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:09.960
<v Speaker 7>You know, my kids were like and you know, athletes

0:35:10.040 --> 0:35:12.359
<v Speaker 7>and like traveling and stuff. So it's really hard because

0:35:12.360 --> 0:35:14.239
<v Speaker 7>I felt like they needed both of us, you know,

0:35:14.320 --> 0:35:16.000
<v Speaker 7>like one would travel with them, one would be home

0:35:16.000 --> 0:35:17.960
<v Speaker 7>with the other kids. It was just like a lot

0:35:18.000 --> 0:35:19.759
<v Speaker 7>of stuff, and like both of us are very hands

0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:23.880
<v Speaker 7>on parents, Like we both have like very traditional you know,

0:35:23.920 --> 0:35:26.480
<v Speaker 7>we both like take care of our kids the same way.

0:35:26.520 --> 0:35:29.200
<v Speaker 7>We're both we both come from traditional backgrounds, so I

0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:31.000
<v Speaker 7>feel like we both like are very much a part

0:35:31.040 --> 0:35:32.719
<v Speaker 7>of our kids' lives and want to see our kids

0:35:32.760 --> 0:35:34.759
<v Speaker 7>do well. So it was it's definitely hard. It's not

0:35:34.800 --> 0:35:36.960
<v Speaker 7>an easy road. I mean, that was probably the darkest

0:35:37.000 --> 0:35:38.279
<v Speaker 7>time of my life, to be honest with you.

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:40.120
<v Speaker 4>It was like the worst and I felt a lot

0:35:40.120 --> 0:35:40.520
<v Speaker 4>of guilt.

0:35:40.560 --> 0:35:42.040
<v Speaker 7>I think when you have young kids, you feel like

0:35:42.040 --> 0:35:44.680
<v Speaker 7>guilt because you're like just suck it up and just

0:35:44.680 --> 0:35:46.920
<v Speaker 7>stay and just do it for your kids. And I

0:35:46.920 --> 0:35:49.319
<v Speaker 7>feel like my parents like literally were mad at me

0:35:49.440 --> 0:35:51.439
<v Speaker 7>for leaving. They wanted me to stay for my kids,

0:35:51.520 --> 0:35:53.120
<v Speaker 7>or like you have young kids, you have so many kids,

0:35:53.160 --> 0:35:54.680
<v Speaker 7>like you have to stay and work it out for

0:35:54.719 --> 0:35:55.160
<v Speaker 7>your kids.

0:35:56.360 --> 0:35:57.960
<v Speaker 4>But I was miserable, like it just.

0:35:58.040 --> 0:36:01.520
<v Speaker 7>Was not good for me, you know, not to say

0:36:01.560 --> 0:36:04.279
<v Speaker 7>like you knows it has nothing to do with like

0:36:04.280 --> 0:36:06.120
<v Speaker 7>like my ex wasn't bad. It was it was just

0:36:06.160 --> 0:36:09.040
<v Speaker 7>like it just didn't work, you know. Sure, So I

0:36:09.040 --> 0:36:11.000
<v Speaker 7>think we have to do what's best for us, you know,

0:36:11.120 --> 0:36:13.400
<v Speaker 7>as women. I think it's like really challenging because we

0:36:13.440 --> 0:36:16.360
<v Speaker 7>do have to be like, you know, we have to

0:36:16.360 --> 0:36:18.319
<v Speaker 7>be the best parent, right because we're women. We give

0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:20.920
<v Speaker 7>these kids life. Like you have to really be very

0:36:20.960 --> 0:36:23.480
<v Speaker 7>much like hands on with your kids. You have to

0:36:23.480 --> 0:36:25.160
<v Speaker 7>be good looking or you're going to get cheated on.

0:36:25.280 --> 0:36:26.520
<v Speaker 7>You have to be you have to work.

0:36:26.560 --> 0:36:28.080
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't matter. Let me tell you, it does not

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:29.680
<v Speaker 2>matter how good looking you are. You're good.

0:36:30.000 --> 0:36:32.320
<v Speaker 7>I know, I'm just saying, Oh, I'm just saying for yourself,

0:36:32.560 --> 0:36:34.200
<v Speaker 7>just in case you need to like exit, like just

0:36:34.239 --> 0:36:35.359
<v Speaker 7>in case you need an exit plan.

0:36:36.840 --> 0:36:41.880
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, yeah, there's.

0:36:40.719 --> 0:36:42.320
<v Speaker 7>Like a lot of pressure. There's a lot of pressure

0:36:42.320 --> 0:36:44.520
<v Speaker 7>on women. It's just like not easy for us, you

0:36:44.520 --> 0:36:44.920
<v Speaker 7>know well.

0:36:44.920 --> 0:36:47.000
<v Speaker 2>And I also think when you guys are you know,

0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:50.080
<v Speaker 2>when there's divorced with children, I feel like the mom

0:36:50.239 --> 0:36:53.080
<v Speaker 2>is where my heart is the most because you're also

0:36:53.280 --> 0:36:57.200
<v Speaker 2>why should just say it doesn't matter, but you guys

0:36:57.239 --> 0:37:00.479
<v Speaker 2>are triaging the children, like it's the children's feeling first.

0:37:00.520 --> 0:37:04.080
<v Speaker 2>There's no room for you to to feel what you

0:37:04.120 --> 0:37:05.600
<v Speaker 2>need to feel when you want to feel it. Most

0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:07.759
<v Speaker 2>of the time, like you're still chugging ahead. So that

0:37:07.880 --> 0:37:09.719
<v Speaker 2>dark time is something I've heard, you know, Like my

0:37:09.760 --> 0:37:11.480
<v Speaker 2>best friends is a single mom and she was like

0:37:11.520 --> 0:37:13.640
<v Speaker 2>there was no time. I didn't get to process at

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:16.080
<v Speaker 2>all until like two years later or whatever.

0:37:17.120 --> 0:37:19.239
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, No, it's it's hard. It's hard on us, you know.

0:37:19.600 --> 0:37:22.120
<v Speaker 7>I feel like we have to like rally and be

0:37:22.120 --> 0:37:24.759
<v Speaker 7>proud of ourselves and be proud of like you know,

0:37:24.920 --> 0:37:26.719
<v Speaker 7>like we've Like for me, I feel like I've come

0:37:26.760 --> 0:37:29.120
<v Speaker 7>so far. I've come so far, you know. I didn't

0:37:29.120 --> 0:37:30.920
<v Speaker 7>think that I could make it, and I'm making it

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:33.520
<v Speaker 7>and I'm happy and I'm thriving. And it's funny to

0:37:33.520 --> 0:37:35.480
<v Speaker 7>me when I see people like bash me and I'm

0:37:35.520 --> 0:37:38.279
<v Speaker 7>like online, it's so easy to hate, but it's like

0:37:39.000 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 7>it's so easy to hate, but for me, I'm like, listen,

0:37:41.000 --> 0:37:43.120
<v Speaker 7>I refuse to hate. I just love, Like I just

0:37:43.160 --> 0:37:45.319
<v Speaker 7>want to surround myself with people that make me feel good,

0:37:45.320 --> 0:37:47.560
<v Speaker 7>that I make feel good, Like that's my personality. And

0:37:47.600 --> 0:37:49.880
<v Speaker 7>if people want to hate and say oh, X, Y

0:37:49.920 --> 0:37:51.840
<v Speaker 7>and Z, that's on them, like good luck, like be

0:37:51.920 --> 0:37:54.080
<v Speaker 7>miserable in your own life, like not, it's not gonna

0:37:54.080 --> 0:37:54.480
<v Speaker 7>work on me.

0:37:54.920 --> 0:37:57.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, man, it is hard though. I Mean, we talk

0:37:57.080 --> 0:37:59.000
<v Speaker 2>about that all the time on here, but it's still

0:37:59.800 --> 0:38:02.600
<v Speaker 2>so hard to I think it's personally, it's still hard

0:38:02.600 --> 0:38:06.000
<v Speaker 2>to read comments. I'm like, man like, but it's interesting

0:38:06.040 --> 0:38:07.760
<v Speaker 2>how off they have it. Like we were just saying,

0:38:07.840 --> 0:38:09.120
<v Speaker 2>she was telling me she was reading one of my

0:38:09.160 --> 0:38:11.080
<v Speaker 2>hate pages. Like they're like, that's not when she's due.

0:38:11.080 --> 0:38:12.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, because you know when my due date

0:38:12.840 --> 0:38:15.839
<v Speaker 2>is and then can tell you. I'm like, please, Like,

0:38:17.040 --> 0:38:19.480
<v Speaker 2>so you talked about parenting with your ex and how

0:38:19.520 --> 0:38:21.759
<v Speaker 2>you guys are in alignment traditional you guys have that

0:38:21.800 --> 0:38:24.160
<v Speaker 2>same mentality. Do you still have like a very good

0:38:24.200 --> 0:38:26.600
<v Speaker 2>relationship with each other? Do you co parent? Well, what's

0:38:26.640 --> 0:38:27.239
<v Speaker 2>the relationship?

0:38:27.640 --> 0:38:29.279
<v Speaker 7>How do you think the only thing we like, my

0:38:29.360 --> 0:38:31.160
<v Speaker 7>kids are getting older now, Like I feel like the

0:38:31.160 --> 0:38:33.000
<v Speaker 7>only thing we need to discuss for my kids other

0:38:33.080 --> 0:38:35.799
<v Speaker 7>than that, like we don't. There's no reason for me

0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:39.400
<v Speaker 7>to like, sure, you talk to anyone that's in my past. Sure,

0:38:39.440 --> 0:38:41.239
<v Speaker 7>Like I said, I'm very present, Like I'm very more

0:38:41.520 --> 0:38:43.840
<v Speaker 7>part of where I am today. I don't look for

0:38:43.880 --> 0:38:45.839
<v Speaker 7>the future. I don't look for the past. I kind

0:38:45.840 --> 0:38:48.120
<v Speaker 7>of just like stabilize for the future. You know, Yeah,

0:38:48.200 --> 0:38:50.400
<v Speaker 7>I'm here and then like I'm prepared for left or

0:38:50.480 --> 0:38:52.880
<v Speaker 7>right going into the future, but like I don't. I

0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:54.640
<v Speaker 7>don't live my life like that, and I just feel

0:38:54.640 --> 0:38:56.440
<v Speaker 7>like that's what works best for me, you know.

0:38:56.800 --> 0:38:59.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So what are you guys doing on separation Anxiety? Then, like,

0:38:59.680 --> 0:39:01.560
<v Speaker 2>you guys, is it about your relationship? Do you bring

0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:04.120
<v Speaker 2>people on? Like what's your to get everyone to go

0:39:04.160 --> 0:39:05.040
<v Speaker 2>over and listen to that?

0:39:06.640 --> 0:39:11.680
<v Speaker 7>So Separation Underscore Anxiety Underscore podcast is basically just you know,

0:39:11.719 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 7>we talk about relationships, we talk about current events. I

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<v Speaker 7>just we shot a podcast yesterday where we wrote my

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<v Speaker 7>attorney on who basically gave legal advice Likelora.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasser you know it's mine.

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, no, his name is Jason Giller. But we

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<v Speaker 7>talked about, you know, prenups and why is it good

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<v Speaker 7>or bad to have a prenup and like are they

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<v Speaker 7>ironclad or like stuff like that, like the information people

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<v Speaker 7>want to know because I feel like I have so

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<v Speaker 7>many friends, so many guy friends that are like in

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<v Speaker 7>the process of like getting engaged, and they don't know

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<v Speaker 7>They're like, should I get a prenup?

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm like, yes, you, by the way, should Like

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<v Speaker 4>so you're just a prep Yeah, I think it's you.

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<v Speaker 7>Know, it saves a lot of heartache at the end

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<v Speaker 7>because it's like you understand exactly what you're going into.

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<v Speaker 7>You understand the process is there's no like you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well guessing game. But let me just say, postnups

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<v Speaker 2>do not hold up. I learned that last time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the go for the pre post. I was just like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is true love. I don't need a prenup. We

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<v Speaker 2>need to bring up. Yeah, there's a lot of business.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's just, you know, it's just it's good.

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<v Speaker 7>I you know, I think there's like you listen, you

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<v Speaker 7>can be with someone for if you're with someone for

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<v Speaker 7>twenty years, twenty plus years, you need to give them

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<v Speaker 7>all your stuff. Okay, that's a long time. That's a

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<v Speaker 7>long time. But if you're with someone for two years,

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<v Speaker 7>three years, like they were not really entitled to like,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, half of whatever you have, that's like insane.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think anything undertaken. I think it's based good.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I think it's you know, I think it's based

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<v Speaker 7>on the relationship and like what you bring to the

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<v Speaker 7>table or everyone brings something, Yeah, everyone brings something different

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<v Speaker 7>to the table. I think that there's women that are

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<v Speaker 7>really pretty that just you know, hang out all day

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<v Speaker 7>and expect their husband to do everything. And there's women

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<v Speaker 7>that are really hands on and do everything, and those

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<v Speaker 7>women should be compensated for their day to day and

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<v Speaker 7>you know what they do to make you better.

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<v Speaker 2>I say amen to that. Let's say her mom now.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was I had like a big career and

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<v Speaker 2>then my husband is an artist, so he's gone all

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<v Speaker 2>the time. So when we had kids, I decided to

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<v Speaker 2>stay home because otherwise, no.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, you have to take care of your kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and there'd be a nanny like living their best

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<v Speaker 2>life with my babies and their everything. You know. But

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<v Speaker 2>now I look at I had that moment like the

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<v Speaker 2>Carrie Bradshaw moment in Sex and the City where she

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<v Speaker 2>was like she was a smart girl till she fell

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<v Speaker 2>in love. Like what did I do? You know, like

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<v Speaker 2>I've given up my identity, my career. So postpartum with

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<v Speaker 2>my first baby, it was so much. But I think

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<v Speaker 2>what you're saying makes so much sense because it was

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we do what we have to do, especially

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<v Speaker 2>when you have traveling husband and a career like that.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a comedian. Sorry, I was just laughing. I

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<v Speaker 2>can't remember who was now. I was watching it on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>But she was like, as women, we just give away

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<v Speaker 2>our name, like you know what I mean, like we

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<v Speaker 2>lose our name. The only time you ever hear like

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<v Speaker 2>the word you know, you ever hear your maiden name

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<v Speaker 2>is when your son calls you and ask mom, what

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<v Speaker 2>was your maiden name? You know? For I was just like,

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<v Speaker 2>you do everything away for this man, like.

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<v Speaker 7>She knows, well, you know it's funny because people always

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<v Speaker 7>ask me why did you keep your maiden name?

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<v Speaker 2>Any of you guys care, I'm now well, I say

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<v Speaker 2>that I went. I've gone back to it again. I

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<v Speaker 2>would never do it again. But having said that, now

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<v Speaker 2>that we're having a baby together, me and my fans,

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<v Speaker 2>and when we get married, I do think I will

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<v Speaker 2>be Russell because I'd like to at least be the

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<v Speaker 2>same name as the same name, even though my other

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<v Speaker 2>two babies aren't my last name. But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I just am like, that's That's where I'm toying with

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<v Speaker 2>right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I feel like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>For me, like I kept Pippen because I've been Pippen

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<v Speaker 7>longer than I yonan, you know, so for me, I

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<v Speaker 7>have four kids that are Pippen.

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<v Speaker 4>It would just be like weird if.

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<v Speaker 7>My least, like my houses or whatever, just like stuff

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<v Speaker 7>like that wasn't under the same name as my kids.

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<v Speaker 7>But if I do get remarried, like, I'll definitely change

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<v Speaker 7>my name. You know, I wouldn't mind doing that, but.

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't Jordan. I like it exactly. But you know

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<v Speaker 4>what's funny.

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<v Speaker 7>People think I keep my name because of like the name,

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<v Speaker 7>and I'm like, if my last name was Jones, I

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<v Speaker 7>would still keep it, Like if it was my kid's name, like.

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<v Speaker 2>People do all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Like my parents got divorced, my mom's life, I mean

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<v Speaker 3>I would have kept probably.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. My mom kept Framer because she was like I was.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a Cramer longer than I was a conmactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Yeah, yeah. So I feel like it's just what

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<v Speaker 4>you're comfortable with.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Well, Larsa, I just love you. I'm gonna chext

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<v Speaker 2>Adam right now and just just say you know how

0:43:23.400 --> 0:43:26.160
<v Speaker 2>amazing you are. But thank you for coming on Wine down.

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<v Speaker 2>We really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you guys. I had the best time. I appreciate

0:43:30.320 --> 0:43:30.760
<v Speaker 4>you guys.

0:43:30.840 --> 0:43:31.399
<v Speaker 3>Nice to meet.

0:43:31.800 --> 0:43:36.200
<v Speaker 2>Everyone listened to Separation anxiety with Larsa Pippin and Marcus Jordan.

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<v Speaker 2>I already have separation anxiety from me.

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<v Speaker 4>I know I'm already missing you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. I'm like, let's be together. Yeah, can we

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<v Speaker 2>do Miami? Can I pop the baby out?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, after baby?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, So I can't tell you when I'll tell you off, Eric,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll flat into your d MS. But the we can

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<v Speaker 2>have we should have the bachelorette party in my me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my husband would love that. He this is good,

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<v Speaker 2>like I for a night. Okay, so fun, so fun.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, I'll talk to you guys soon.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm upset. Can we slide into I can slide?

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<v Speaker 2>Girls can slide into girls, gms. We're sliding.

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<v Speaker 3>She was so sweet, love her love.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel obnoxious.

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<v Speaker 7>Hell, I know.

0:44:33.880 --> 0:44:35.960
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, we're having a meditation, Hi, like

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<v Speaker 2>I was all in.

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<v Speaker 3>The best was the dog?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey cruise, Hey cruise up exactly sounds and right eva

0:44:46.960 --> 0:44:50.080
<v Speaker 2>witch laugh Afterwards. There was one other thing I was

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<v Speaker 2>going to say, now I can't remember. I have my brain.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny though about being loud. Alan's son was like,

0:44:58.360 --> 0:45:04.319
<v Speaker 2>you're so loud. I know because I'm like I'm deaf.

0:45:04.400 --> 0:45:06.160
<v Speaker 2>I think the two kids. I was screaming in my

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<v Speaker 2>ear because it was in the back seat. He was

0:45:08.160 --> 0:45:09.799
<v Speaker 2>in the front whatever and I was in the back seat,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just I think when I get really excited,

0:45:12.360 --> 0:45:17.439
<v Speaker 2>I get loud. So I'm like so it was like, God,

0:45:17.520 --> 0:45:19.360
<v Speaker 2>your soul. Lot. I was like, I know, it's just

0:45:19.400 --> 0:45:21.920
<v Speaker 2>because I get really excited, like my ears are bleeding,

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<v Speaker 2>then can I go back home? And other times okay,

0:45:23.920 --> 0:45:27.799
<v Speaker 2>are more like I don't have a middle. No, no,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have a middle. But I don't think you're

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<v Speaker 2>allowed human Well, I can't do.

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<v Speaker 3>We're all we all can be very loud.

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<v Speaker 2>You should catch us in the hotel room after wine down.

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<v Speaker 2>We are a mess. Girls. I love you. I love

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<v Speaker 2>you too. Thanks for pulling me out the postpartum bubble

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<v Speaker 2>when I do potentially get us all interested. And you

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<v Speaker 2>just had your outlaws leads so you know you needed

0:45:50.400 --> 0:45:52.839
<v Speaker 2>you needed to. I do not have a bristle like her.

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<v Speaker 2>In the moment, You're right with myself. You're good, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>We'll see you next week.

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<v Speaker 1>By