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Speaker 1: Hey, they're folks.

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Speaker 2: It is Saturday, November twenty ninth, and man, we couldn't

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Speaker 2: wait to welcome them home, and now we can't wait

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Speaker 2: to see them leave. I know a lot of you

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Speaker 2: parents out there got college kids that have come home

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Speaker 2: for the weekend and are packing up and ready to roll.

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Speaker 2: And we got two we kind of can't wait to

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Speaker 2: get rid of ourselves. And they're sitting right here in

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Speaker 2: front of us, And welcome to this episode of Amy

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Speaker 2: and TJ.

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Speaker 1: Robes. Will you please explain who these two are?

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Speaker 2: Who who were putting on planes pretty soon?

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Speaker 3: Yes, so this is nineteen year old Annalise, of course,

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Speaker 3: my daughter, and then her best friend Jenna, one of many.

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Speaker 4: Do I get you in trouble if I say you

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Speaker 4: have one best friend?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 3: But they are both actually now heading on the same

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Speaker 3: plane back to Denver tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: And speak for yourself. I'm going to miss them.

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Speaker 3: Oh, there's an adjustment period for sure.

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Speaker 2: You know what was the highlight for you all? Was

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Speaker 2: it really being fed?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Seriously?

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Speaker 6: Literally a meal, that's it.

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Speaker 4: It's a free meal. But you didn't have to having.

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Speaker 5: To buy my groceries.

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Speaker 6: It's really nice and a shower and like a clean shower.

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Speaker 2: Wait, what happens in school? You're not getting clean shower?

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Speaker 6: No like our own showers that like are ours?

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Speaker 1: You're not sharing with somebody?

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, actually, let's get a count.

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Speaker 4: How many people do you share your shower with? Analyse?

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Speaker 5: Three people, two of them including guys, another girl and me.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's interesting, and how about you, Jenna? Three girls?

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Speaker 6: So a lot of products everywhere, but.

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Speaker 4: How big is the bathroom that we're talking about?

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Speaker 7: There's two sinks and a shower and a toilet. Not

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Speaker 7: not much room for three people, only one one thing?

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Speaker 3: So how much perspective has living away from home given

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Speaker 4: About being back at home?

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Speaker 6: Life changing?

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Speaker 5: I feel like this year is like we've really been

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Speaker 5: in the houses. We've had to, you know, shovel the snow,

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Speaker 5: get the leaves out of the way.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 6: It's it's really different. So snow are you shoveling? Not yet?

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Speaker 6: Has it snowed and folder yet?

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Speaker 5: But it's the perspective is insane, big switch.

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Speaker 4: I'm very grateful.

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Speaker 7: I like sometimes forget that, like I have to buy

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Speaker 7: new rolls of like paper towels, Like now they're not

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Speaker 7: just going to show up in my moment.

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Speaker 2: But you know, that was a heavier perspective question than

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Speaker 2: I was expecting this early in this podcast that you

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Speaker 2: make a good point though, Do you now appreciate that

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Speaker 2: you said? And at least like some of the simplest things.

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Speaker 2: I opened the refrigerator and there's sparkling water in there,

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Speaker 2: like there are supplies.

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Speaker 7: There's like surprise things, and the friends are like because like,

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Speaker 7: we're not buying them, and we're home, so it's nice

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Speaker 7: to see that. You come home and it's like, oh,

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Speaker 7: like there's this in the fridge. I wouldn't have bought

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Speaker 7: that if I was like changing.

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Speaker 3: We've been laughing listening to you all talk about so

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Speaker 3: we so before we came on to the podcast, we

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Speaker 3: were listening to Analyse and Jenna talking about living with

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Speaker 3: multiple other people and having to figure out chores and

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Speaker 3: who pays for what and who cleans up what and

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Speaker 3: who cooks this. But I actually thought it was hilarious

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Speaker 3: because the when the subject of toilet paper came off,

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Speaker 3: it was, yes, what is it about toilet paper?

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Speaker 7: No one and no one wants there's always an alternative, like, yeah,

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Speaker 7: my roommates will use tissues.

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Speaker 6: We don't have enough of tissues. If there's no toilet paper,

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Speaker 6: I've used paper towels. Honestly, you have to get towels.

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Speaker 7: That like you use, like to only clean your face,

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Speaker 7: like the one used paper. Yeah, sometimes we'll have to

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Speaker 7: use this because no one will buy toilet paper. It's

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Speaker 7: like the last It's like during COVID, But like during.

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Speaker 4: COVID, everyone's refusing to purchase us.

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Speaker 1: You all total, it was not that expensive. It really right,

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Speaker 1: and we all have to have it. So what again?

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Speaker 2: This has been a while to me and you all.

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Speaker 2: We talked about this earlier. I lived by myself for

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Speaker 6: So what happened when you didn't have toilet paper?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: I was responsible. I'm the only one responsible.

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Speaker 2: So now is that that everybody's expecting somebody else to

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Speaker 2: buy toilet paper.

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Speaker 7: You're the last person to use toilet paper. You should

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Speaker 7: be the one to replenish it.

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Speaker 1: You know, what is the rule?

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Speaker 6: We actually there isn't a rule of us.

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Speaker 5: I have a group chat it's called lou Crue, and

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Speaker 5: we almost send I'll send it and I'll be like, guys,

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Speaker 5: it's time to buy a new toilet paper. I bought

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Speaker 5: it last time, and I will just get left on

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Speaker 5: like everyone will see it and just not answer.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, great, a utility fund. What if you

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Speaker 2: all just put into one fund and from this pot

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Speaker 2: we're buying toilet paper paper to so but good.

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Speaker 6: But I think that.

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Speaker 7: There's always like like when anils is like, oh, like, guys,

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Speaker 7: I bought it last time, then that like I did

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Speaker 7: it last time kind of thing, like yeah, transfers over

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Speaker 7: to like when it comes to like the garbage, like

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Speaker 7: if the garbage, like if.

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Speaker 6: The garbage is overflowing, it's like, well.

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Speaker 7: I threw it out last time, so now I'm gonna

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Speaker 7: make it overflow even more.

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Speaker 3: It's so funny to watch you all figure out how

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Speaker 3: to basically create some sort of civilized communal living condition

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Speaker 3: on your own without your parents' help.

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Speaker 4: It's really funny to me.

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Speaker 3: But the whole who's paying for the toilet paper thing

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Speaker 3: just cracked me up, because it's something you take for

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Speaker 3: granted when you're a kid until you actually realize, oh,

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Speaker 3: I actually.

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Speaker 4: Someone someone has someone's paying for this exactly. This doesn't

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Speaker 4: just magically show up.

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Speaker 2: God, right, first time I thought about toilet paper needing

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Speaker 2: to be purchased.

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Speaker 1: I was eighteen or nineteen, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Exactly, Well was to steal some put it in my suitcase.

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Speaker 6: Sleep hold on no home from New York.

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Speaker 4: She doesn't know.

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Speaker 7: She came to my apartment a few weeks ago and

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Speaker 7: saw that we had fresh rolls of paper towels, and

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Speaker 7: she was complaining about how she didn't have any paper

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Speaker 7: towels and how I had like seven rolls, and I

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Speaker 7: was like, analyst, you can take apparently you could take

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Speaker 7: a roll of my paper towels.

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Speaker 2: At least we can't have this if we.

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Speaker 1: Please send you.

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Speaker 2: Do you have a place to secure toilet paper and

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Speaker 2: paper towels in your home that nobody can steal them?

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Speaker 5: I can put in my room, but honestly, people will

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Speaker 5: just come in and.

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Speaker 6: Be like, I'll take it.

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Speaker 3: So I have a question because this is interesting. I

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Speaker 3: remember back obviously there were similar issues, but I feel

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Speaker 3: like they have been compounded exacerbated because no one actually

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Speaker 3: addresses these issues with one another face to face. I

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Speaker 3: if you actually didn't have phones, which we did not

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Speaker 3: have when I was in college, to text each other,

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Speaker 3: you could leave a nasty note maybe on a countertop, but.

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Speaker 4: That was it.

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Speaker 3: So otherwise you had to then face to face have

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Speaker 3: a conversation about that, and there is then a more

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Speaker 3: I'm looking you in.

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Speaker 4: The eye and I'm saying this isn't okay.

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Speaker 6: Agreed, And I still do that.

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Speaker 5: I do live with all of them, so I will

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Speaker 5: track every single one of them down, sit them on

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Speaker 5: need to do this and this. So I still do that,

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Speaker 5: and it's way better. It works way better than a phone.

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Speaker 7: I think it's easier for me because I only live

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Speaker 7: with two other people, so it's like like, but we

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Speaker 7: have our bathrooms. It's two, it's like one full and

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Speaker 7: one half. So one bathroom is only being shared by

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Speaker 7: like like for the shower purpose. But there's a bathroom

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Speaker 7: upstairs for like one roommate to use. And there's no

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Speaker 7: tile paper in either of the bathrooms, so like, if

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Speaker 7: there's no toiling in the upstairs, she'll come to the downstairs.

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Speaker 7: This is but I genuinely think it's like one of

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Speaker 7: those things that are so minor that like when you

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Speaker 7: live in a house with like your family, Like it's

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Speaker 7: like one of those things that are just always there

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Speaker 7: because like like my mom, I think is on like

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Speaker 7: a subscription for toy Like it's like something that's.

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Speaker 5: Just so Amazon's an Amazon subscription that just comes and goes.

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Speaker 6: But because we forget that, like it does like I

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Speaker 3: You're saying is and when we are looking to put

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Speaker 3: something in a care package.

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Speaker 5: Toilet page just put toilet packages.

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Speaker 2: Well, I have a problem with it if it's going

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Speaker 2: to be used for people other than analysas.

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Speaker 1: But you know it, I know I'm not supporting that house.

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Speaker 6: Should we do bring your own toilet paper every time

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Speaker 6: I go to the bathroom?

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Speaker 7: Should we like I do, I should not each break?

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Speaker 2: Really, I'm okay with that. This is I cannot remember this.

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Speaker 1: This is I had.

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Speaker 5: Six rolls in my room and I was like, this

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Speaker 5: is mine. I'm going to keep this behind my door,

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Speaker 5: no one can see it. And you know, I come

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Speaker 5: back heit toilet paper. I had toilet toilet paper my

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Speaker 5: room and I come back and literally I was like,

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Speaker 5: two rules are missing.

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Speaker 6: I'm wondering where that was.

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Speaker 7: The funny thing everyone's in agreement on, like the toilet paper,

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Speaker 7: not like everyone's like guys, we ran out of toile paper,

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Speaker 7: but no one like will step in and be like, oh, like,

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Speaker 7: I'll buy.

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Speaker 6: A new roll.

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Speaker 2: Can somebody tell me how much this toilet paper costs

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Speaker 2: out there?

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Speaker 5: I think it's I think I just checked, like eight

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Speaker 5: bucks for six rolls.

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Speaker 6: That's really not that bad like toilet papers. Oh yeah, okay,

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Speaker 6: well whoa, what's twenty four? It's like twenty for twenty

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Speaker 6: four rolls? It's thirty five dollars.

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Speaker 2: Okay, now, how and at least your house, how long

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Speaker 2: will toilet paper last?

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Speaker 1: Y'all will go through a roll a day, two rolls.

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Speaker 6: A day, roll roll every two and a half days.

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Speaker 1: I'd say for the house, No.

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Speaker 6: For for my bathroom of four, but people use your bathroom.

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Speaker 6: People are talking about yes, you guys like that's the

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Speaker 6: that's the issue.

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Speaker 1: My house.

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Speaker 6: So many more people than you think that are using that.

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Speaker 6: We have an open door policy. Everyone's just in and.

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Speaker 7: Out, so.

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Speaker 6: Lock our door, my windows. You can climb through my

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Speaker 6: windows to go into our apartment.

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Speaker 4: But do you remember this, babe?

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Speaker 3: I do not remember ever thinking about worrying about or

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Speaker 6: Like, well, I think guys. Guys are a lot more

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Speaker 6: Knock on the door. I'm like, oh, you gotta talk

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Speaker 4: You imagine knocking on a female.

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Speaker 6: So we got to talk to never do that. Never.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's not bad or anything, but I just

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Speaker 7: It's like very aggressive and like I necess and you

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Speaker 4: It, like you said it.

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Speaker 4: Yes you have?

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Speaker 1: And Jenna our dear Jenna. Who Jenna? We didn't explain

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Speaker 2: We met Jenna in in Spain when we went to

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Speaker 2: I said, who the hell is this fire crack? Who

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Speaker 1: Yes, everybody like that one.

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Speaker 4: Very true. And yes, no, you've got I love.

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Speaker 3: You're authentic and I think you know, in a world

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Speaker 4: So it's awesome to have you here.

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Speaker 3: But yes, you asked me if I have noticed a

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Speaker 3: First of all, I've noticed an increased amount of gratitude. Yes, okay, yes,

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Speaker 5: And it's funny because I used to make fun of Eva,

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Speaker 6: And now I understand.

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Speaker 5: And that is definitely makes me reach a sense of gratituity.

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Speaker 6: Been pretty good yes night.

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Speaker 4: And that was a big difference conversation.

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Speaker 6: So I have to set good examples the exact same thing.

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Speaker 7: But because then I'll actually if she leaves it in

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Speaker 6: And like but now it's like.

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 6: That's so funny.

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Speaker 7: there was a drink her in like they said everything up.

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00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:36,159
Speaker 3: We didn't explain, so Annelie told us the day she

450
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Speaker 3: chose to come home, and it happened to coincide with

451
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Speaker 3: a little mini pre vacation that we were taking before

452
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Speaker 3: Thanksgiving to the Caribbean. And when we found out the

453
00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:48,280
Speaker 3: day she was coming home, we were gonna be getting

454
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Speaker 3: in about what five hours after her or something, and

455
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Speaker 3: so we decided to change our flights come back a

456
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Speaker 3: day early to surprise her. But by surprise, we didn't

457
00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 3: tell her. We were just like, you know what, and

458
00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,919
Speaker 3: she had a big night. Plans were, oh, sadly, we

459
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 3: won't see you until Saturday. But when she landed, boom,

460
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:08,399
Speaker 3: what did you see when you came out of the office.

461
00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,879
Speaker 5: There is there is an April Spirts waiting for me.

462
00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:13,480
Speaker 5: And I was like walking down that big suitcase and

463
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:16,199
Speaker 5: I was like mom, I'm also blind and I couldn't

464
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:20,639
Speaker 5: see her, and I was like you, I think I

465
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:24,120
Speaker 5: screamed that from the from the start of the hallway.

466
00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:26,040
Speaker 6: But she was so excited.

467
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:29,719
Speaker 7: I have an April Spirits waiting for me, like I

468
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 7: have new clothes, and.

469
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Speaker 4: She like.

470
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Speaker 6: Gift.

471
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Speaker 4: Well, it was a new home you had not been to.

472
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Speaker 3: TJ and I moved in together, and so this was

473
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Speaker 3: a place you actually had not lived in yet, so

474
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 3: we had some welcome home gifts.

475
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Speaker 6: It was very nice.

476
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Speaker 5: And back to the question I don't want you guys,

477
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Speaker 5: I do think you've also become more like appreciate, not

478
00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,640
Speaker 5: that you weren't appreciate it for me, but I also think,

479
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 5: like you know, we spent a lot of time together,

480
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 5: and so when I leave and then I come back,

481
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 5: it's like, well all happy, sunshine.

482
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 4: And rainbows, no.

483
00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:12,360
Speaker 5: Anthing, just just just straight.

484
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 4: There was zero tension, no this strip not.

485
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Speaker 6: I think that's like the same at home.

486
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:19,679
Speaker 7: Like I live in such a small town that like

487
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,880
Speaker 7: coming back home is seeing every single person I've known

488
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 7: since kindergarten, which obviously Sam has pros and cons, yeah,

489
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 7: but like there's nothing really to do in our town.

490
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 7: So it's a street like I live on. I have

491
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 7: one street and that's about it. And so coming home

492
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:39,159
Speaker 7: like I actually like not not that I didn't before,

493
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Speaker 7: but like appreciate more of like the time with my

494
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:45,680
Speaker 7: family because there's not like I'm not looking for activities

495
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Speaker 7: to do because I'm home for such a short period

496
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Speaker 7: of times, Like I appreciate them, Like my grandparents will

497
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Speaker 7: come up when I get like when I'm back or like.

498
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 6: My cousins flew in from California for the holidays.

499
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 7: Like it was like nice to see them for like

500
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Speaker 7: a little bit, and like I can portion like the

501
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Speaker 7: amount of time with like my friends and my family

502
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:02,879
Speaker 7: because there's so little to do.

503
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Speaker 6: I don't feel like I have like a whole checklist

504
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:05,399
Speaker 6: of things I have to do.

505
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,199
Speaker 7: And I also think that I was the one with

506
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 7: my parents that had like the stricter side because I'm

507
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 7: the oldest, so like I beat that curve for like

508
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 7: my siblings, and like I feel like they have such

509
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:17,600
Speaker 7: an easy life right now, and I'm sitting here, like the.

510
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:21,359
Speaker 3: Younger siblings always always coming in.

511
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 6: Constantly with like new clothes and everything. I'm like, where, Yeah,

512
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 6: that's mom, God from I'm.

513
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Speaker 3: Like, oh said the same thing yesterday.

514
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 4: She no, she said it. She's like Mom never did

515
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Speaker 4: that for me.

516
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, But then it's always gonna be a battle I'll

517
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 5: never win and she'll never win.

518
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 2: I don't think there is winning still to the question

519
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 2: to you though, changing your parents at all anything, Like I.

520
00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 6: Think the same thing about like we're not fighting. There's

521
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 6: not really anything to fight about.

522
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 7: Like they come home and I'm coming home from being

523
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:54,439
Speaker 7: so independent that. I think there's like there's a barrier

524
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Speaker 7: of like them like casting all these rules on like

525
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 7: what I can do when I'm home versus in high

526
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 7: school when I was living under their roof completely. Obviously

527
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 7: they're still like like paying for everything I do, like

528
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 7: and living, but it's not like like I I'm living

529
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Speaker 7: my own life and they're like it's not like they're

530
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 7: supervising me anymore. So it doesn't feel like I'm very

531
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Speaker 7: like held at like a like heavy schedule.

532
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Speaker 6: It's like very like on my own.

533
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Speaker 2: And the other thing I had to ask, who is

534
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Speaker 2: it easier to if you had your preference to live

535
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Speaker 2: with three guy roommates or three girl roommates?

536
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Speaker 6: Do you mean her guy roomates or just any gas?

537
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I don't know, Telly. Is it easier in

538
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 1: les experience so far?

539
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,200
Speaker 2: Has it been easier to live with girls and guys?

540
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Speaker 5: So I've lived with both, so I think have a

541
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 5: pretty good perspective.

542
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Speaker 6: Yes, I will say it is fun to live with guys.

543
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 5: We throw some great parties, we have we have fun nights,

544
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 5: you know, we play games. It's it's different than I'm

545
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 5: not going to say there's like honestly, there's more drama

546
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 5: with guys.

547
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 6: I can't even I was gonna stop you.

548
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 5: Very people say girls have more drama, but honestly, I

549
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 5: think guys do. And I love them all and it's

550
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,159
Speaker 5: great and it's amazing, Like they are very sweet.

551
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: How do guys have moua.

552
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 7: Because they're so they're wait her guys. They throw tempertend

553
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 7: about the launch her guys.

554
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 1: They have your particular guys.

555
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 6: Yes, recently, Yes, my laundry.

556
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 5: There was recently a large, massive fight about someone. Someone

557
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 5: did take someone's wet laundry and put it on.

558
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 6: The roof of the the top. I just left it

559
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 6: there and then but his in the in the dryer.

560
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 7: But this is all over, This is back to the

561
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 7: whole text was over text texting verse person.

562
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 6: This was all aggressive text.

563
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:49,360
Speaker 2: This fight did not happen face to face between guys.

564
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 6: Two men, Yes, two men.

565
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 5: It's honestly, it's like it's entertainment that I don't have

566
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 5: to be like in the middle of the drama, you know,

567
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 5: because it's like that's the male drama.

568
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 6: Drama back and yeah, I think there's more drama in

569
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 6: her house revolving around Yes, how the men. Actually, I

570
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 6: will say, we like in.

571
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 7: Spain, we would we would get airbnbs for the weekends

572
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:18,920
Speaker 7: that would consist of like not room for ten of us,

573
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 7: but we would have ten people that would make it.

574
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:26,919
Speaker 7: We have been in like really tight spaces, like together

575
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,679
Speaker 7: all together with a bunch of guys, like with the guys,

576
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 7: and I will.

577
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Speaker 6: Say, I don't, I can't think of I don't being

578
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 6: in a.

579
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 7: Spot with them is just not not your like ideal

580
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,479
Speaker 7: way of living. I mean, I will say the location

581
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 7: based of like their house of having like the majority

582
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 7: of the guys on the bottom floor, it seems to

583
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 7: it's pretty their own spye like space. But like last

584
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 7: year when we would go to their house, like we

585
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,439
Speaker 7: at least I stopped going because it was too dirty.

586
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,160
Speaker 4: Right, So you're saying that living with girls is easier.

587
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 6: I agree, I am yelling at them.

588
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,439
Speaker 5: Well, I honestly don't think they're kind of it's a

589
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 5: fifty to fifty chance. Honestly, girls are messy too.

590
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 6: The girls are more like you're gonna pay a fight over. Yeah.

591
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 7: I think it depends on the girls. I think it

592
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 7: depends on the girls, depends on the guys.

593
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 2: Speak in general terms. I think in terms of cleanliness,

594
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 2: guys are girls. Girls okay. In terms of cooking, guys

595
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 2: are girls.

596
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 7: Girls.

597
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:29,479
Speaker 2: In terms of cleaning up, guys are girls okay. In

598
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 2: terms of social relations in the house, in terms of

599
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 2: just overall getting along, guys are girls.

600
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 5: The guys because I know, like there have been a

601
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,919
Speaker 5: not there really haven't. Hasn't been much drama in my house,

602
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 5: but you know there's the occasional yeah, and I will say,

603
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,399
Speaker 5: like the guys do it are like guys like we

604
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 5: don't want this to happen, like let's all be happy,

605
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 5: and they'll try and like fixing.

606
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 7: Yes, but then they'll hold it against it, like it'll

607
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:58,360
Speaker 7: come back around a week later.

608
00:27:58,880 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 4: And it'll be pilled.

609
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 6: Do you try?

610
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,719
Speaker 7: I think I think that living with I think guys,

611
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 7: like especially the ones that were friends with I think

612
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 7: I honestly think that bringing them to Spain was like

613
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 7: very was a lot more like mature and like matured

614
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 7: them a lot because they like were living on their

615
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 7: own in a foreign country.

616
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 6: But like think that they matured.

617
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 7: I think if you brought them like these specific guys,

618
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 7: brought them straight to Boulder first, this would be hell

619
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 7: and it would not work. But I do think that

620
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 7: Spain definitely did help them, because I do see a

621
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,199
Speaker 7: level of maturity that changed from like us coming in

622
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Speaker 7: August to like us leaving in disaber.

623
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Speaker 3: I mean, it's it's documented. Boys just mature later than

624
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 3: girls mature faster.

625
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 6: Once they do mature, I think.

626
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 7: I think once they start, it's like a lot quicker

627
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 7: than girls do.

628
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 6: Think Okay, then girls think that way later. Start correct.

629
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Speaker 6: At the end of the day, everyone's maturing at the

630
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 6: same point. Gradual, build, you know what you effort, you both.

631
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Speaker 4: This has been so fun.

632
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Speaker 3: I hope so a lot of parents listening to this,

633
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 3: and I think just a lot of insight. I do

634
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:06,239
Speaker 3: think for me, just to pass along to parents who

635
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 3: might have younger kids, this is a cool example of

636
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 3: just knowing no matter what you're going through with your kids,

637
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 3: and things can get tough in those teen years, in

638
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 3: the toddler years, but to be able to sit around

639
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 3: a table with your nineteen year olds after they have

640
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 3: actually had a year or two of experience outside of

641
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 3: you and your bubble that you've created for them, it

642
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 3: is fun and hopefully nice to know that you can

643
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:34,239
Speaker 3: have fun conversations like this, that you can know your

644
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 3: kids are gonna come around.

645
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 4: They're going to get it.

646
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 3: They're going to understand why you did what you did

647
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 3: and why you maybe said what you said. And I

648
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 3: think it's just a cool reminder that, yes, you can

649
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 3: be friends with your kids again, and this has been

650
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 3: fun and we're looking we know you're leaving, but you're

651
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 3: coming back in two weeks for Christmas for a month

652
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 3: and actually stalk with us.

653
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 4: I swear we're looking forward to it.

654
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Speaker 3: So thank you, Jenna, thank you Anna, please, and thank

655
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Speaker 3: you all for listening.

656
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Speaker 4: I'm Amy Roeboch alongside t. J.

657
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Speaker 6: Holmes.

658
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Speaker 4: We hope you have a good one.

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Speaker 3: H