WEBVTT - True Love Is Free

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<v Speaker 1>Get your itaminy right with me and get excited about

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<v Speaker 1>today's DELSA. Vitamin D is dedicated to true love. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not talking about that fairy tale kind of love.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean genuine care and concern for someone to be

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<v Speaker 1>loved and the most authentic way possible. Have you heard

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<v Speaker 1>the saying you don't love me, you love the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of me. Do these words resonate with you? Shoot? Some

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<v Speaker 1>of us don't realize that this is how we treat

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<v Speaker 1>those wee getting relationships with. And the hit song Mango

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<v Speaker 1>by come Out featuring out of line, he belts, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want nothing but you getting what you need, even

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<v Speaker 1>if it ain't for me. Did you catch you? When

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<v Speaker 1>you truly love someone or someone truly loves you, they

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<v Speaker 1>will always want the best for you, despite if it

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<v Speaker 1>means they lose you in the process, because giving it up,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not giving up, it's creating space for it to

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<v Speaker 1>be free. So many of us are not taught growing

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<v Speaker 1>up what it looks like to authentically love someone. We

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<v Speaker 1>are taught to go after a certain type of outward

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<v Speaker 1>appearance or the idea of someone. When it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship. We must un learn to learn what love is,

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<v Speaker 1>never selfish and of service on purpose. This isn't easy,

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<v Speaker 1>I would acknowledge that, but you have to start some all.

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<v Speaker 1>Learn to be the person who creates a space for

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship where the other person knows that it's safe

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<v Speaker 1>to be vulnerable. And you can't control how other people

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<v Speaker 1>treat you, but you can't set the standard for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Be the difference, be the love you wish you had

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<v Speaker 1>and the love you so desire. That's it for your

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<v Speaker 1>doseur Vitamin D. Be sure to follow me on all

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<v Speaker 1>social media at Dawn Day Speaks and until next time,

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<v Speaker 1>always remember you are your greatest starts. Act