Speaker 1: Get your itaminy right with me and get excited about
Speaker 1: today's DELSA. Vitamin D is dedicated to true love. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about that fairy tale kind of love.
Speaker 1: I mean genuine care and concern for someone to be
Speaker 1: loved and the most authentic way possible. Have you heard
Speaker 1: the saying you don't love me, you love the idea
Speaker 1: of me. Do these words resonate with you? Shoot? Some
Speaker 1: of us don't realize that this is how we treat
Speaker 1: those wee getting relationships with. And the hit song Mango
Speaker 1: by come Out featuring out of line, he belts, I
Speaker 1: don't want nothing but you getting what you need, even
Speaker 1: if it ain't for me. Did you catch you? When
Speaker 1: you truly love someone or someone truly loves you, they
Speaker 1: will always want the best for you, despite if it
Speaker 1: means they lose you in the process, because giving it up,
Speaker 1: it's not giving up, it's creating space for it to
Speaker 1: be free. So many of us are not taught growing
Speaker 1: up what it looks like to authentically love someone. We
Speaker 1: are taught to go after a certain type of outward
Speaker 1: appearance or the idea of someone. When it comes to
Speaker 1: a relationship. We must un learn to learn what love is,
Speaker 1: never selfish and of service on purpose. This isn't easy,
Speaker 1: I would acknowledge that, but you have to start some all.
Speaker 1: Learn to be the person who creates a space for
Speaker 1: a relationship where the other person knows that it's safe
Speaker 1: to be vulnerable. And you can't control how other people
Speaker 1: treat you, but you can't set the standard for yourself.
Speaker 1: Be the difference, be the love you wish you had
Speaker 1: and the love you so desire. That's it for your
Speaker 1: doseur Vitamin D. Be sure to follow me on all
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Speaker 1: always remember you are your greatest starts. Act