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Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl lex p And it is

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Speaker 1: your girl draining the call and you are tuned in

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor.

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Speaker 2: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 1: We gotta guess today, We gotta guess today.

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Speaker 3: So let me just say this because I.

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Speaker 1: Am super excited because, first of all, we finally have

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Speaker 1: a guess who.

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Speaker 3: Voice deeper than mine? Okay, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I ain't got the deepest voice on the couch right now.

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Speaker 2: I feel like my voice is deeper than yours.

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Speaker 3: Your voice is not deeper than mine. I think it is.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, we got try to trove it.

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Speaker 3: I'm so excited because this has been a long time coming.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate you know what.

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Speaker 1: As a woman ever like, bet me tell your boy sex.

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Speaker 3: See all the time, all the time. I believe you

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Speaker 3: can tell you use your voice to get out of trouble. Huh.

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Speaker 4: I ain't even talking much.

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Speaker 3: You've been to talk today. Okay, so let us know,

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Speaker 3: you know, because we have a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of younger listeners, So give us, you know a

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Speaker 1: little background backstory about who.

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Speaker 4: Trades m I don't know about a little one.

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Speaker 2: But you can give us a long.

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Speaker 3: Time. We got some time.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, you know, it's just different aspects to me.

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Speaker 5: You know a lot of people know me from the music,

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Speaker 5: you know, being in the game for over twenty years

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Speaker 5: of course in Houston, and just know me from the

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Speaker 5: knows me it is being one of the longtime heroes

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Speaker 4: It's just all different walks.

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Speaker 5: I mean, whatever whatever flow, they vote for, what they like.

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Speaker 6: That's what I was gonna say. I feel like you

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Speaker 6: do a lot of philanthropy talking about this.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead, I'll read.

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Speaker 5: I don't really know a lot of people labeled at

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Speaker 1: I do, right, But I want you to talk about

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm gonna say important for me because what I

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Speaker 5: everybody have the mentality that everybody has to do different things.

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Speaker 5: And what I came to realize is I can't expect

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Speaker 5: But for me, it's just important to do that because

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Speaker 5: why not be there for them, you know, and just trying.

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Speaker 5: I use everything I do just to motivate others who's

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Speaker 5: Because that's just what I would do, Because I don't

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Speaker 1: You know, let me ask you this too, because I'm

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Speaker 1: glad you brought that up about like other rappers and

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Speaker 3: Like it's a lot.

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Speaker 1: It's a long list of things of like just having

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Speaker 5: Deed they do, so you have to learn how to

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Speaker 5: use it, like myself, mister Rodgers. You know, we figured

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Speaker 5: You know, got I think, man, social media these days

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Speaker 5: People came, I guess what they came, left, went wherever

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Speaker 5: We're motivating people who could help with people who could

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Speaker 5: the thing is, if you see me posting it, people,

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Speaker 5: So you have to be able to expose that in

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Speaker 4: But for me, it's always worked that way. You got

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Speaker 3: I can agree with that, you.

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Speaker 5: Like, think about it, it's not cool to to necessarily

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Speaker 4: I'm not trying to fit in. I'm just doing me.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you got to accept it for what it

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Speaker 6: So can you tell the people that don't know because

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Speaker 6: you know us being from Houston, especially me growing up

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Speaker 6: in Houston. I've been knowing about trade A. How long

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Speaker 6: You've probably been doing it for like fifteen years or more.

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Speaker 5: This is what trade itself. This was year fifteen that

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 4: I've been doing stuff for people in general.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean because I remember being in like high

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Speaker 6: So I definitely want you to elaborate and kind of

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Speaker 5: Trade Day was uh, it was awarded to me randomly too,

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Speaker 5: Like I had been doing stuff for the community just

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Speaker 5: More Victims. I'm part of that with them. It's children

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Speaker 5: And I blew off, like what you mean day? And

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Speaker 5: I told you I'm dead, SI, it's about you getting

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Speaker 5: And I remember the first one we ever did was

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Speaker 5: Never had they seen that, brought elephants to the hood, camels, kangaroos,

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Speaker 5: So people they'll see on social media, MySpace, TV, anything

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Speaker 3: That's real. So we're gonna get into a little icebreaker.

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Speaker 1: Now, you mentioned you was that Popados once you ordered

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Speaker 4: I didn't order nothing.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but what do you eat when you go to Popados?

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Speaker 3: Let's see how southern you are? For real?

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Speaker 4: It depends.

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Speaker 5: If I'm moving fast, I just get their chicken strips

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Speaker 3: Do you eat red beans rice?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I definitely, we love it.

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Speaker 3: Look, I love beans. I don't trust people who don't

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Speaker 3: eat beans.

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Speaker 1: Stomach beans, My stomach, stomach made of steal. Now I

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Speaker 1: don't know, Hey, I'll be sucking some beans.

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Speaker 3: I don't trust people who don't eat beans. So how

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Speaker 4: The beans?

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Speaker 3: You don't be going? Okay?

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, I don't go crazy.

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Speaker 6: You're the only one, because ain't nobody trying to be

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Speaker 1: I feel like I've been eating beans for sola.

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Speaker 3: To steal. I said, I don't know the same.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, now come on now, okay, okay, dragon, ahead with

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Speaker 1: the next question. God damn it, I ain't gassing, motherfucker.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you.

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Speaker 6: Doing Like ice workers, I would have talked about, what's

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Speaker 3: That's a good, that's a good.

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Speaker 4: I don't really know. I do know.

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Speaker 5: Once you get to that point, to getting on the

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Speaker 5: I'm wanted them people. I might let a few things

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Speaker 3: Strict? No what you mean like strict?

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like if I make one mistake or two,

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Speaker 4: Damn Yeah. I might not even be saying nothing.

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Speaker 3: That's not fair, you stre because.

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Speaker 5: You gotta realize the reason why I don't say as

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Speaker 5: much because I'm not. I ain't like these other niggas.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to be insecure crying and complain about everything.

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Speaker 1: I think that's more so communicating like hey I don't

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Speaker 5: You can communicate, yeah, yeah, but I think I'll be

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Speaker 5: to the point where it's like, man, some shit, I'm

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Speaker 5: But I think the ultimate thing that somebody can do

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Speaker 5: is once I feel played, And it ain't even about

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Speaker 5: If you do some shit like that, then at that

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Speaker 4: I'm off it, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: That's fair, But at THEND it to get is gonna

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Speaker 5: get addressed. But what happened is you have some people

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Speaker 5: these days, right, you have some people that's gonna value it,

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Speaker 5: oh well fuck it, Yeah I did some whole shit,

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Speaker 3: Keep moving for being mad at them, right.

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Speaker 5: And at that point, for me, as fucking man, it

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Speaker 4: I haven't been in a long time.

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Speaker 3: When was the last time you fell in love?

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Speaker 4: Last time I was in a relationship probably five years ago.

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Speaker 5: You know, friendship my last real relationship, funny bro and I,

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Speaker 5: you know, just being real, I got g cheated, so

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Speaker 5: so for her to do that, that damn that fucked

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Speaker 5: it up for all us. So now I'm I'm the

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Speaker 4: It's crazy like it.

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Speaker 5: Wasn't even a cheating on the point of I wouldn't

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Speaker 5: a solid nigga. What it is is, I'm a highly

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Speaker 5: respected niggas. So when you go to exposing people to

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Speaker 5: and for one ain't from the town and they trying

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Speaker 5: may see a group of girls that may be around

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Speaker 5: key you up to do some dumb ship and then

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Speaker 5: you end up fucking yourself in the process.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 5: She went on about a business and so many niggas.

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Speaker 5: Was a lot of niggas was chasing that, you know,

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Speaker 5: And yeah, look, she ended up one of the niggas

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Speaker 5: who was chasing us like crazy. After once I cut off,

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Speaker 5: seeing it wasn't no coming back. She wouldn't have had

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Speaker 3: Do your thing, damn. Once she found true love.

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Speaker 4: What you mean with the nigga, she should have did

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Speaker 4: that with me.

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Speaker 3: Then I feel, I feel, okay, what's your pet reason?

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Speaker 2: Probably the pettiest thing I ever did, this one. I

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Speaker 2: was like, younger though, I had stopped you because I

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Speaker 2: know he's so stupid. So I had stopped talking to

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Speaker 2: this dude because like he had the little donut tired

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Speaker 3: It was like it was like months.

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Speaker 2: It was like, why you ain't want it brought a

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Speaker 2: noose tire.

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Speaker 3: Yet you left him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean he was never my man.

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Speaker 6: You hey, he was never like my boyfriend because he

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Speaker 2: I was just like, yeh, why you ain't got a

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 6: And I did stop talking to him over there because

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Speaker 6: these Damn?

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Speaker 4: He could have been inside the nigga for you.

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean I still kind of like keep up

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Speaker 6: You know, we got a new tar, he has a

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Speaker 4: You got to show she can go buy my tie.

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Speaker 3: Know that's right, you said I should say you could.

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Speaker 3: I mean I could do a lot of things.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't about to do that though you should do.

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Speaker 4: You should definitely do the but he got the time

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Speaker 4: just giving back. It's just you never know, you never

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Speaker 5: Like I was out so like I was looking right,

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Speaker 5: I seen on social media when they were talking about

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Speaker 5: But then I'm thinking in my head. But if you

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Speaker 5: reverse it, what if y'all were have tried to take

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Speaker 3: That's never happening.

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Speaker 4: On the first day, but just say if you will.

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Speaker 5: So if you say, hey, Tree, you know what, I

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Speaker 5: want to take you out and you're not taking me

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Speaker 5: to a five star restaurant, I got have the right

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Speaker 5: to just cut you off.

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Speaker 3: You do have that right, but you're not going.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you should cut me off anyway, since I was

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Speaker 6: too thirsty, because why am I taking you on a

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Speaker 3: You need to be weary want to take me on it?

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Speaker 4: So you can't feel the nigga naturally on your own.

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Speaker 6: Absolutely, I can feel a nigga, but I'm not asking

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Speaker 6: no nigga or taking no nigga on no first date ever.

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Speaker 2: So that to be trying to be chivalrish tour to me.

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Speaker 5: But guess what that goes to prove my point. The

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Speaker 5: y'all also it's a double edged sword. You won't accept

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Speaker 5: it's like, it's okay for that.

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Speaker 6: But I've said this because we actually talked about this

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Speaker 6: But like I said, when I was younger, some of

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Speaker 6: those places that was on the least is acceptable to.

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Speaker 3: Me as a girl in there twenty.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when I was younger.

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Speaker 6: But also like even what I just talked about with

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Speaker 4: Hold on backtrack.

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Speaker 5: If y'all too is out by yourself right now and

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Speaker 5: you was home grey and it was a goddamn apple

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Speaker 5: Bee's up the street, you mean to tell you're gonna

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Speaker 5: be like I'm going to starve because it ain't.

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Speaker 7: I don't with some chilis that's the same as Applebee's.

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Speaker 5: But the point I'm making is it's okay for y'all

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Speaker 5: to go there for a nigga.

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Speaker 4: Take y'all there, it's a problem.

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Speaker 1: So this is what I felt about the list. I

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Speaker 1: just felt like, first of all, why is everything food?

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Speaker 1: I like creative dates, so I like to have some

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Speaker 1: thought in it, like why are you always trying to

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Speaker 1: feed me?

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Speaker 3: There are so many things to do in the world.

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Speaker 5: Know, that's what niggas here all the time. The worst

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Speaker 5: thing you can do is starve girl.

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Speaker 1: Well I'm not that girl, Like, we're not starving.

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Speaker 6: And my thing is, you're not about to take me

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Speaker 6: my own.

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Speaker 2: I would not go to Applebee's.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So you said chilis me and you going on

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00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 5: a date right now, And I'm just like, man, you

445
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 5: know what, I'm moving right now. I ain't got time

446
00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 5: to stop. Let's go eat the chili's real fast. You're

447
00:21:58,800 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 5: gonna be cool with it.

448
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 1: Go to if you gotta do something really fast? No,

449
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 1: I mean a day that's gonna gonna take.

450
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 4: Let's take the fast.

451
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 5: Then if I take you the Chili's, are you gonna

452
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 5: be like you know what?

453
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, let's go eating, Like I gotta do something real quick,

454
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:17,920
Speaker 6: Let's stop at Chick fil A.

455
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 2: I'll be like all right.

456
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,680
Speaker 4: Cool, So you except over chilis.

457
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 2: It's not a day though. You just were just going

458
00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:24,960
Speaker 2: to get something.

459
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 4: You see how you're dancing around the question.

460
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 5: I'm just asking if I took you the chilis, what

461
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 5: did you say?

462
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 4: It's the first date.

463
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 2: But that's what the.

464
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 5: List was about, right, But I'm saying, if me and you,

465
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 5: you know what, man, it's long over.

466
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,399
Speaker 4: Dude's supposed to go out. Come on.

467
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 5: I know we ain't gonna have time to sit and

468
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,920
Speaker 5: eat later. That's the chili's right here. Let's go eat

469
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 5: before we get to move. You have a problem with it.

470
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:49,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would be like no, because if it was

471
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 2: long over duty.

472
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 3: You had, you had.

473
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 4: Today. This is so what may cut? What may cut?

474
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Speaker 5: They better to go to chilies than mine to go

475
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 5: to chilis because.

476
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 3: And we was at the airport, we was just chill.

477
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 4: Better.

478
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,919
Speaker 2: I ain't trying to be that to me because you.

479
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 3: Need to put it in some effort. God damn, I

480
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 3: know a lot about the truth.

481
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 4: As no questions, so I can get a truth.

482
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:29,439
Speaker 1: I feel like the first day is about effort. Things

483
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 1: that were on that list was waffle house, chip like church.

484
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 1: That's not effort.

485
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 8: To Chick fil No, that's not effort.

486
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 4: Yeah I could.

487
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 3: It's a fast food train.

488
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:43,679
Speaker 6: I said, you could take me on your way to

489
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 6: go where you gotta get something real quick in the

490
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 6: drive through.

491
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 4: Okay, let's switch it. If y'all really like a nigga,

492
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 4: would you be.

493
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 1: I'm just saying you have some like top quality men,

494
00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 1: like you know, sliding my DNS. But until you have

495
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 1: time to take me on a proper date, and until

496
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: you like had a conversation with me. We exchange numbers,

497
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 1: we've had a phone conversation, We've texted, so you kind

498
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: of have an idea what I like to do. It

499
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 1: ain't about to be none of that. It ain't no

500
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 1: real quick with me. I got to talk to you now, Trey.

501
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 1: I'm an auntie. I'm thirty four.

502
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 3: You ain't finna just be like ho, let's pull up

503
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 3: a little apple be real quick. I ain't trying to

504
00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 3: do that.

505
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 5: I'm just I'm just I don't eat applebe but I'm

506
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 5: just asking. But the point is, if a person is

507
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,959
Speaker 5: genuinely just trying to take you to make sure that

508
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 5: you fed, you can't shit on them.

509
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm not shitting on them.

510
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,199
Speaker 1: But like I said, for a first date to me,

511
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,679
Speaker 1: like going to dinner is cool, but I like I

512
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:42,680
Speaker 1: like creative and fun.

513
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 4: You said that a couple of times. Will give me

514
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:45,120
Speaker 4: an example.

515
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 1: So one thing that was on the list, I didn't

516
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 1: agree with. What sporting events I went to.

517
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 4: Do you have girls that like sports?

518
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 1: And I don't you know, I ain't gonna lie I

519
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,880
Speaker 1: really don't even care for sports, but I'll be having

520
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 1: a ball. I went to a few months ago. I

521
00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 1: went to the Astros game for the first date. Who

522
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: was in that drunk talking about golf team golf team baby,

523
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: go Astro baby.

524
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 3: I didn't even know that. I didn't even know it

525
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,880
Speaker 3: was the Astronauts. I didn't know. I thought, I know

526
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 3: it was short.

527
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 1: For Astronauts, bitch. Yes, Astros, it's short for astronaut bitch.

528
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 3: I never knew this.

529
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 1: Hey, I was in there having a ball and it

530
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 1: was fun though, because I like, like he was like, Okay,

531
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 1: let's go do something different.

532
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 3: So we went to the Astro games. I was drunk.

533
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 3: We had a ball, like I like creative days.

534
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: Like the second day we went on, we went to

535
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 1: like this little rooftop and it was like a cover

536
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: band playing like old motown songs, Like it was just

537
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:37,880
Speaker 1: real creative, Like that's the stuff I like to do.

538
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: So I just like thoughtful for And those tickets were

539
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 1: twenty dollars to the rooftop thing.

540
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:43,640
Speaker 3: So it's not even about.

541
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 5: That next point. So then that's the case. It's not

542
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 5: even about the costa the situation.

543
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 3: This is not the environment that I want to be.

544
00:25:54,880 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 6: I'm well, let me tell y'all, Atlanta.

545
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 2: It's niggas everywhere.

546
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:04,679
Speaker 3: Niggas everywhere.

547
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 2: I'm even tripping off of the a.

548
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,959
Speaker 1: I love going where niggas the pettiest. The reason I

549
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 1: stopped talking to somebody.

550
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 3: Is because I felt like he kind of knew.

551
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 1: Who I was from the show or whatever, and I

552
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: felt like he was trying too hard to laugh at

553
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 1: things I was saying because I feel like people know

554
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,679
Speaker 1: like I'm goofy. But it was like points where I

555
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: wasn't even telling no joke.

556
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 3: He was yeah.

557
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, because you know, I grew up

558
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:30,640
Speaker 1: in orange texts. He was like, Orange girl, I'm from

559
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 1: Orange nigga.

560
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,360
Speaker 4: I used to be in Orange on the regular.

561
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 3: Golden trying see.

562
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 4: I told you.

563
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 3: On the That's why I grew up crazy.

564
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 4: You've pulled off the right.

565
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:45,919
Speaker 1: A t I used to be Rundom Streets now the

566
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: Golden Triangle all day. Stopped playing with me, I told

567
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,199
Speaker 1: the fruity.

568
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

569
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 1: I just felt like every time I was saying anything

570
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: like it wouldn't even.

571
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 4: Be Orange proud right now?

572
00:26:59,080 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 9: Oh?

573
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 3: I love that? And what's been going on past past?

574
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 3: My brother?

575
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, they have a parade for.

576
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 3: I need next. They playing on my time.

577
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 1: I've been around the United States, what I do when

578
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 1: I get on strage around through city.

579
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 3: Everything stopped playing with her all day. But yeah, so

580
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:35,919
Speaker 3: I have.

581
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 1: To stop talking to him because it was like sometimes,

582
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: you know, believe it or not, I like to have

583
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 1: serious conversation, but I felt like I would be saying anything.

584
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: I could have been like, yeah, man, because my grandma died,

585
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: your grandma, that whole on.

586
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 2: It was like, all right, he was just doing really back.

587
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 3: In so yeah, I definitely start like he was just

588
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 3: doing too much.

589
00:27:58,320 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 2: That's not really petty.

590
00:27:59,160 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 3: It's not patty.

591
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 1: But I felt like he knew who I was, but

592
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: he didn't want to say it, like you know, you

593
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 1: could tell when somebody know what you do. And you know,

594
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: I'm not saying like everybody know who I am.

595
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 3: That's not.

596
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: But it was just like things he was saying and

597
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 1: he wanted me to talk about the show. He wanted

598
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 1: me to bring it up, and I was like, okay,

599
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: this is this is not that. So yeah, he had

600
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 1: to get.

601
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 2: Kid to get the bo.

602
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 3: You already get into these topics him. Okay, go ahead,

603
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 3: with the first topic.

604
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 2: Okay, so for the first topic, I want us to talk.

605
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 6: About, do you think men are intimidated by successful with me?

606
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 6: Because we had actually seen a post on I can't

607
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 6: remember if it was Twitter or Instagram. We had seen

608
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 6: a post where basically this guy was saying like, if

609
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 6: a woman has her own home, like a single woman,

610
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 6: he need her. He started dating her she owned a home.

611
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 6: He don't want to day hood because she too independent,

612
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 6: which I think is crazy. That sounds crazy is here?

613
00:28:55,080 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 5: So again that's a double less or never supposed to them.

614
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 5: Only weak niggas that would be insecure about that, right.

615
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 5: The flip part about that is in this day and age,

616
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 5: you we used to seeing woman power or women power,

617
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 5: shall we say? So some of you do have some

618
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 5: women not saying you. You have some women that feel

619
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 5: because it's that they can handle and talk. Rickords to

620
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 5: a nigga, I got you. So it just depends. I

621
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 5: don't know what eating experienced, but any real one, no, yeah, nigga,

622
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 5: I want you to have your own shit because any

623
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 5: two ways we dating, I'm gonna be trying to figure

624
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 5: out ways to help you get your own shit so

625
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 5: you could be on just as well as I'm on

626
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 5: what happened if I fall off, right, and if.

627
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 6: A woman already own her own home and you meet her,

628
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 6: if y'all end up being together, she already owns her

629
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 6: own home, y'all, she has equity in a home. Like

630
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 6: that's building generational will, So why wouldn't you want it?

631
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 2: That's that's what I'm saying. It's crazy to me.

632
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, his reason was basically saying, because she's gonna be

633
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: too hard and praise. She wants to do everything on

634
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 1: her own. If, like you know, they end up being together,

635
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to convince her to move out of

636
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: her house or sell her house or do whatever to

637
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: her house. And he was just saying, it's just too

638
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 1: much hassle, Like women who are really on their shit

639
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: basically are too much hassle.

640
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 5: I mean, And like I said, go both ways, because

641
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 5: you do have some women who mentality is fuck these niggas.

642
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 5: I don't need a nigga for nothing, unless it may

643
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 5: be the fuck on whatever that may be, right, So

644
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 5: some of that energy definitely.

645
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 4: Can come off at times.

646
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 5: But you have I know a lot of independent women

647
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 5: as cool, cool as fuck. They don't even think because

648
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 5: I feel like any two ways, if we in a

649
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 5: real relationship and we're really trying to rock as a team,

650
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 5: both of us got to be willing to sacrifice different

651
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 5: So whether it may be me giving away my place

652
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 5: right where it depends on who got the.

653
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 3: The nicer house, right, you get the point of what

654
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 3: I'm saying.

655
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 5: The other one, yeah, because you don't necessarily have to

656
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 5: get rid of them. You can keep the other one, right.

657
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 5: It's just it's just about understanding at that point.

658
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 1: Now in my experience now of being where I'm at

659
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: in life, I noticed that there's literally like two type

660
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: of guys. I feel like at this point in my life,

661
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 1: I only attract successful men. I think that's safe to say,

662
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 1: but it's like two types of successful men.

663
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 3: It's that successful.

664
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: Man that they love the fact that like I'm making

665
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: money and I'm doing what I'm doing and I'm very driven.

666
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: And then there's a successful man who like, they don't

667
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 1: like that because they want a woman that needs the need.

668
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 3: They want a woman that You have.

669
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 5: A lot of niggas that do that, right, just being real,

670
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 5: you have niggas that move a woman into their house,

671
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 5: make them take everything that that that that woman may

672
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 5: have knew how to do strip them of it and

673
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 5: not in not necessarily strip them like you, just.

674
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 4: You make it to where they comfortable. But then they

675
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 4: become dependent on you.

676
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 5: Right, So then when a nigga decide you want to

677
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 5: go do something else, you still got a damn the

678
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 5: situations in that house because you ain't really got you.

679
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 5: So you have niggas who do hohst shit like that.

680
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 5: That's that's the mentality of niggas. It's that or either

681
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 5: get them pregnant and try and stop the next nigga

682
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 5: from trying to who come with niggas. I was just

683
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 5: gonna say they still feel around niggas still gonna try.

684
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 5: Niggas go down and try to hit anything. But I'm

685
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 5: saying that's the mentality. That's me giving y'all game, right,

686
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 5: That's just how niggas is.

687
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of I know somebody like that. Yeah,

688
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 3: I just feel like a lot.

689
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 1: Of times though, the same men that try to control

690
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: women with their money are the same men they get

691
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: mad when women approach them for that. It's like, if

692
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: you use your money for power to try to control

693
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: somebody like you approach somebody like oh, I can do

694
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 1: this x y Z for you.

695
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 3: She gets with.

696
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: You, you start doing all this stuff for her, then

697
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: you like hold it over her head or make her

698
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, if you leave me, ain't nobody gonna do.

699
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 3: X y Z for you.

700
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 5: I honestly feel those used to be and I can't

701
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 5: speak for all a majority. It used to be the

702
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 5: niggas who probably back in the day in school, probably

703
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 5: used to didn't get no clo, probably wasn't getting no attention.

704
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 5: And what happened they got, They they hit, they lick,

705
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 5: whatever that situation may be. They came across some money,

706
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 5: and it's like, fuck that. I want to be him.

707
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 5: I want to make motherfuckers feel like they need me,

708
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, Because the natural any any

709
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 5: real solid nigga, it don't matter if if we together

710
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 5: not together, Like for me, right, it's only one thing

711
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 5: that will make me not once I feel like a

712
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 5: motherfucker trying to use it. I feel like they're trying

713
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 5: to take it to that to their advantage and it's like, Okay,

714
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 5: you're doing this, but you're not even trying on your

715
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 5: own right, then that's gonna make me like, nah, I'm

716
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 5: not Nona Sucker.

717
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 4: You're not gonna make me do that. But if I'm

718
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 4: watching you try.

719
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 5: Shit, it make me more happier, just to relieve some

720
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 5: of that stress, you know, Like I tell a woman

721
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 5: right if which I'm singing now, but if I was

722
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 5: dating you know a lot of people have women mentally

723
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 5: be like, I'm not doing good right now. I'm trying

724
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 5: to figure myself out. And for me, that would be

725
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 5: the time that I would come in because I don't

726
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 5: want to be with you and everything good. I'd rather

727
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 5: show you I'm rocking with you. And I could have

728
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 5: got my ass up and left, but I didn't, you

729
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. It just showed more how loyal

730
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 5: and how much a nigga rocking with you, you know

731
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:22,879
Speaker 5: what I'm saying.

732
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:23,800
Speaker 4: So that'd be my metell.

733
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 1: I do think sometimes people go in the situation though

734
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 1: they're looking to be saved. But it's different if like

735
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 1: you go into a situation you're really trying to get

736
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 1: to know somebody and really, you know, fuck with them

737
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: for who they are, and then you know, like you

738
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 1: come up on a hard time or something and then

739
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 1: he wants to step up because one thing I can say,

740
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 1: one of my close guy friends just recently went through

741
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 1: this and he was dealing with this girl and it

742
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 1: was like she was just always asking him for stuff

743
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 1: like always, and I'm just like, bro, and I fuck

744
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: with him. And it's like I didn't want to sound

745
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: like a hater, like, you know, because I get it.

746
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 3: I get it, girl, get your coins, you know.

747
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 4: But if you really with him, he supposed to keep

748
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 4: Yeah I did.

749
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 1: I had I'd be like, hey, she is really trying

750
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:04,879
Speaker 1: to run it up on your ass. Like I hate

751
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 1: to be that because you know why I say I

752
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 1: hate to say that because I care about him, but

753
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: I also get it from the other end.

754
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 3: It just like you out here, you're trying to make

755
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 3: ends me.

756
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: You gotta get it how you live. So it's like

757
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to knock her hustle. But at the

758
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 1: same time.

759
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 3: Like this is a good guy, Like he's a good guy.

760
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 3: Some some niggas deserve for it to be.

761
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 4: Ringing up on people.

762
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 5: You gotta just you gotta be fed, right, because that's

763
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 5: just like if me and you cool and I look

764
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 5: at you like cis and I'm I'm watching you fuck

765
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 5: with a goofy nigga, I'm never gonna hate on that man,

766
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,359
Speaker 5: but I'm also gonna let you know, like, hey, bro,

767
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 5: like you need to start being short paying attention and

768
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 5: if you if you have a funny feelings, nigga, you

769
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:47,959
Speaker 5: need to be making sure you're paying attention to certain

770
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 5: because if I really rock with you, I look goofy.

771
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 5: By allowing you to look just as goofy, you know

772
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. Of course, now, you never you never

773
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 5: want to hate, but you know it's just that. And

774
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 5: another thing that that people do on both ends is

775
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 5: they make you feel guilty to whar you.

776
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 4: Damn they have to do, so I don't like that. Yeah,

777
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:09,320
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying.

778
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a it was a very strange situation

779
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 1: because I actually, you know, it was crazy because I

780
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 1: knew the girl too. It's not like we were friends

781
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: or nothing them, because I can tell you, Yeah, I

782
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: had to tell him because this is not the first

783
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: time though, because he's told me about other situations and

784
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, and he's such a good guy, but he's

785
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 1: so green, you said, And it's crazy because me and

786
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,280
Speaker 1: him used to like we we never like mess got physical,

787
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: but we tried to day and it didn't work out.

788
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 1: But I'm like, okay, but you the homie. And it's

789
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 1: crazy because the whole time me and him dated, I

790
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: never asked.

791
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 3: Him for nothing.

792
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 1: I never was like and I knew he had money,

793
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: but it was like, it wasn't about that. I'm trying

794
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: to get to know you. Once I figured out you

795
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: were my person, Okay, we can be friends. And then

796
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 1: I see all the stuff that these girls are doing,

797
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: and it was just like, damn, man, Like I really

798
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 1: felt bad.

799
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:06,359
Speaker 3: Was it was?

800
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,360
Speaker 1: It was getting too bad because I'm like, damn, nigga, Okay,

801
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 1: let me step in and say something.

802
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 3: Because the dating scene in Atlanta is a mess.

803
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: It's a mess everywhere, but I feel like in Atlanta

804
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: it's extremely bad.

805
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 5: I think the dating scene now is i'd say, in

806
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 5: a sense premeditated. Everybody playing their future. Yeah, I deal

807
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 5: with meaning not playing their future, Like, hey, I possibly

808
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 5: want to get mad, Like worst case worst, how shit

809
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 5: gonna be working out for me if I went, If

810
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 5: I go ahead and fuck with this, nigga, you know

811
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, Like at least I'll be getting.

812
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 3: I got a fall.

813
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:44,880
Speaker 6: I definitely feel like people be planting it out on

814
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,839
Speaker 6: the first date, So you just never know if it's

815
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 6: gene winning intentions or nice.

816
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 5: That's time and even in time, time don't even always

817
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 5: tell because this is what I tell you.

818
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,439
Speaker 2: People if they know what they can get too, right.

819
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 5: But the thing is you can only play for so long, right,

820
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 5: So the thing I will what I tell somebody if

821
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 5: I'm dealing with them at the end of the day,

822
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 5: it doesn't matter if I'm fucking on the first date

823
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 5: or a year later, if that's all I.

824
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 4: Wanted to do.

825
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 5: I know niggas who can wait that year and go

826
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:14,479
Speaker 5: through the process for the challenge still get done with.

827
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 6: You and on the show before because I feel that

828
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 6: way too.

829
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 1: But situation like that member, I made it like we

830
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: waited like six months and it wasn't nothing.

831
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 3: He was just a he was a horrible ass.

832
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 6: It was like after that, it was like he just

833
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 6: turned and it was just like what he was waiting on.

834
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, But the thing is, I I only say that

835
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 5: to say I'll be trying to let motherfucker know. Like,

836
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,959
Speaker 5: but you also can fuck with somebody on your first

837
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:44,840
Speaker 5: date and then there can be with you for a lifetime.

838
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 4: I got a lifelong friendship. It go both ways.

839
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 3: That's very very true.

840
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,720
Speaker 1: Okay, So before we get into this second topic, y'all

841
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:56,600
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842
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,360
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843
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844
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 1: get her day started.

845
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 2: I love to put it in my coffee. Put it

846
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:06,840
Speaker 2: in my hot y'all. Is so good.

847
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 6: It's like it's kind of like Bailey's, but way more elevated.

848
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 6: I love that it has like these coconuty flavor you

849
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,760
Speaker 6: could taste like the nutmeg, and everything is so good, y'all.

850
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:17,760
Speaker 2: And it's vegan.

851
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 3: Yep, it's super good and so trying. We got you.

852
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 1: I know you don't drink, but if you got somebody

853
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 1: for you, it could be like a little stocking stuffer

854
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:31,320
Speaker 1: for somebody.

855
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 2: Okay, it's not either.

856
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 6: It's like a cream liquor. So it's kind of like,

857
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 6: have you heard of Bailey's before?

858
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 4: I don't know.

859
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 3: You drink out of curiosity? Have you ever drink before?

860
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 4: I was drinking that was smoked.

861
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:56,359
Speaker 5: No, So a lot of people now and in these days,

862
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 5: a lot of dood A lot of people do it

863
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 5: just for they turn up the feel good but coming

864
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 5: up how we came up.

865
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 4: They would do it when they're going through it.

866
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 5: That's what would put them at ease, you know, from

867
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 5: whatever they were dealing with. And I always like to

868
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:11,240
Speaker 5: deal whatever I'm dealing with head up. However, I feel

869
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:13,720
Speaker 5: at that moment, it's not gonna get no worse, because

870
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 5: the thing is, if I was a fuck with it

871
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 5: in the way off the reality gonna sink in.

872
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:21,760
Speaker 1: Let's just still have that is really really good advice.

873
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 3: It's crazy.

874
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,359
Speaker 1: I don't mean to get morbid and weird, but last

875
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: year when my mom passed, I made it a point

876
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 1: like not to drink because I wanted to feel everything,

877
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:31,959
Speaker 1: and I wanted to go through it and I wanted

878
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,320
Speaker 1: to remember and.

879
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 5: That and wan yourself to be able to start making

880
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 5: it through it.

881
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

882
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, because of course everybody know. I mean,

883
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:41,760
Speaker 1: I smoke a little wean, I drink a little drink,

884
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 1: gonna have a little one too, not a wine down.

885
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 1: But like when I go through things like traumatic, especially

886
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: something like that, I make sure to stay away from

887
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: all that stuff. So I'm glad that you said that,

888
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: because that's a very big deal because I know when

889
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 1: I used to go through like a breakup or something

890
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 1: or just be depressed or sad, I would drink, I

891
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 1: would smoke, and it was.

892
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:03,720
Speaker 3: Just like spiral out of control.

893
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 1: So it's like when I went through that, it was like, okay,

894
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,319
Speaker 1: let me just step away from everything and just have

895
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 1: a clear mind.

896
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's why for a lot of people, it kind

897
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 6: of becomes like a codependency type of thing. Like and

898
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,359
Speaker 6: like you were saying, like, then when you stop doing it,

899
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,879
Speaker 6: or if you don't have access to it, then ship

900
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 6: is even worse because you've.

901
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 2: Been using this to cope and now you don't have

902
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 2: access to it.

903
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: That's how people turn to crack and stronger ship fast.

904
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 3: See somebody people.

905
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 5: Say, but crack for some reason?

906
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 4: Why crack?

907
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 5: But I do say definitely some strong people out there

908
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 5: on the PA saying that it ain't a lot of

909
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 5: them not like much.

910
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 3: I feel like I don't.

911
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,839
Speaker 2: Know if I wrong. I don't feel like people our

912
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 2: age do cracked.

913
00:41:56,880 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 6: Like I don't think people in our age, homeless people

914
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 6: do a lot of things.

915
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 3: Just see, I don't know.

916
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 1: I don't honestly, I don't know what people do. I

917
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 1: feel like maybe it's like the opioids, painkiller and stuff

918
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 1: like that, you know, and take a little perk.

919
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 3: I'm just saying.

920
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 2: People, really, people really think you do per Okay about it.

921
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: Now, we're gonna move on, Okay, So shout out to

922
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 1: LS Cream, thank you for the liquor per usual.

923
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 3: So I wanted to talk about this because I feel

924
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 3: like I don't know.

925
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 1: I want to talk about this because I feel like

926
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: people mess with you about this all the time, Drea.

927
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: I feel like I want to talk about confidence versus

928
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: cockiness because I've always personally felt like Drea was a

929
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 1: very confident person. But I see, you know, you know

930
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 1: how people be saying crazy stuff to you all the time,

931
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 1: and I feel like it's.

932
00:42:56,800 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 3: Not Drea's not comp cocky, She's just telling the truth.

933
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 6: I just think people like to attack me at time

934
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 6: since I think my confidence me or me overly feeling

935
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 6: myself and fucking with myself really bothers people who don't

936
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 6: fuck with theyselves like that, So then it makes them

937
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 6: want to try to say things to you or tear

938
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 6: you down to make you feel like you're not what

939
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 6: you you know think you are. I think it happened

940
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 6: all the time on social media.

941
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 1: Is I'll give you an example, because obviously Dre is funny.

942
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 1: So she had tweets something she was like, the baddest

943
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: bitches in Houston is Beyonce Meg than me?

944
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:35,240
Speaker 3: Now everybody knows. She was like who else? Who else

945
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 3: we got?

946
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 5: But I was obviously, you know, before you say that,

947
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 5: you got to understand common sense ain't coming these right.

948
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 5: So obviously you joking, They do not mean they be

949
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 5: thinking you was.

950
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 2: Joking, right, Yeah, And I think that's always the case.

951
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:56,280
Speaker 4: Usually they take everything personally.

952
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 1: I mean, but at the end of the day, even

953
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 1: if she really did feel like that, what's.

954
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 4: Right?

955
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 5: Because they say when we when people joke or say certainly.

956
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I feel like, you know, to it,

957
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 6: I feel like, you know, come on, I'm up there.

958
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: But I just feel like, but what's wrong with that?

959
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 1: So I think somebody had responded.

960
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 3: They were like, okay, Drea, you just be taking shit

961
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 3: too far, like you be doing too much.

962
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 1: It was like, but how are you doing too much

963
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,840
Speaker 1: or taking shit too far by clapping for yourself?

964
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 3: So I wanted to talk about, like, what.

965
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 1: Is the difference between being confident and being cocky or conceded?

966
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 1: Because you would you say you're a confident person.

967
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 5: Definitely confident. But the difference is I'm confident to where

968
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:45,439
Speaker 5: I can walk in the room and don't say nothing.

969
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,720
Speaker 5: My present is still gonna be felt. This is probably

970
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 5: way more than the mother fus coming here, yelling and

971
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:51,479
Speaker 5: doing the most.

972
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:53,800
Speaker 6: And that's how I feel too, because I feel like

973
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 6: I have their presence when I go places and when

974
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 6: I'm obviously outside of us talking on camera and doing

975
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 6: our show, but when we just be out, I'm very

976
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 6: quiet and reserved in mind my business and I don't

977
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:06,399
Speaker 6: be talking that much. I don't be trying to get

978
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:08,320
Speaker 6: no teaching. But for some reason, I just feel like

979
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 6: people just still always still away.

980
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 5: You gotta realize sometimes people be fighting now, yeah they don't,

981
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:19,280
Speaker 5: they don't insecurities, and yeah it's an issue confidence and Kaki,

982
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 5: I'm always gonna be shall I say, confident, right because

983
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 5: I've always went against the grain and did what I

984
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 5: wanted to do and stayed on my own. Even when

985
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:30,439
Speaker 5: you go to talking about giving back, that's not ship

986
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 5: that was written in the blueprint for like me to do.

987
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 5: I think what I wanted to do, Kaki, I don't

988
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,800
Speaker 5: believe me. I just don't believe in being khaki. You

989
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. I feel like I don't care

990
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 5: to try and make you fuck with me. If you're

991
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 5: gonna fuck with me, you gonna fuck with me regardless,

992
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:50,959
Speaker 5: you know. And it's not to say what she's doing

993
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 5: is wrong, you know, Like definitely, if i'd have seen that,

994
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 5: I'd probably randomly shot.

995
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 4: A tick like, boy, you're a bullshitting there.

996
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 5: I was just because you know, it's not that that

997
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 5: she's not cute and nothing like.

998
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 4: That's just I'm playful like that, you know what I'm saying.

999
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 4: So I wouldn't take that no type.

1000
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:09,359
Speaker 5: But you do have some people that know when you

1001
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,879
Speaker 5: go to saying cock you got some people that walk

1002
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 5: in the room and they just demand, Hey, I want

1003
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,320
Speaker 5: everybody to look at me. I'm gonna I want to

1004
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 5: show y'all I'm somebody in that I don't fuck with

1005
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying.

1006
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 1: For me, I feel like confidence is like how you

1007
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 1: feel about yourself.

1008
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 3: You have every right that's how you feel about yourself.

1009
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: To me, cockiness is this is how I take cockiness.

1010
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 1: When I see somebody that's cocky, and I be like,

1011
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: what the fuck it's somebody how they feel about their self.

1012
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,879
Speaker 3: But it's not necessarily true. You know what I'm saying,

1013
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 3: like you no, no, no, no, let me say this. Let

1014
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:44,359
Speaker 3: me say this.

1015
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 1: Though you supposed to believe in yourself, you're supposed to

1016
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 1: talk highly about yourself. But sometimes it's like now you know,

1017
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 1: you push it, like you see somebody and they when

1018
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: they get on the beat, they really not rapping about shit.

1019
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 1: They can make a good song, but how dare you

1020
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: be like, I'm the best rapper alive.

1021
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 5: So it's two things with that, and I hate keep

1022
00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 5: saying two things. Two things that because in their mind

1023
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,240
Speaker 5: they made a pump they self up to really believe

1024
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 5: that's what the fuck that is. And the second part

1025
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 5: is niggas be trolling. That's just what people be trolling.

1026
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 5: But people really do, like like, right, if you take

1027
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 5: a I gotta watch what I say because everybody, and

1028
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 5: it could be a certain type of male or female

1029
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 5: that they may have been pushed around, poke that is

1030
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 5: whatever throughout their whole life. And they start building they self,

1031
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 5: building their confidence.

1032
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:42,319
Speaker 4: Up, and.

1033
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 5: They feel like, man, fucking I am who I am,

1034
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 5: unapologetic and I want to let it be known that's

1035
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 5: how I feel so mentally they may feel that, Now

1036
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:56,280
Speaker 5: what they see may not be what we see. Everybody

1037
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 5: in this room may see totally opposite of what the

1038
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 5: fuck they see, but in their mind that's what they see.

1039
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 5: So it's I just don't do the the loud mab doing.

1040
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:09,279
Speaker 1: Too much shit, you know what I'm saying, And that's

1041
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 1: what I shopping on.

1042
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 4: Somebody when you're doing it in the process, like.

1043
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 1: When you trying to overcomplish that and believe what you're saying.

1044
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:17,879
Speaker 2: And that's what I was gonna say too.

1045
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 6: I feel like it's the difference between like believing in

1046
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 6: yourself and having confidence in yourself and feeling yourself. But

1047
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 6: that's just how you feel about you, and nothing is

1048
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 6: wrong with how you feel about you. You should feel

1049
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,839
Speaker 6: their way about you. It's for me when people try

1050
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 6: to tear down other people or make other people feel

1051
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 6: less being too cocky, right, that's what being cocky is,

1052
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 6: you know.

1053
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what you got on. It is cute, but

1054
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 4: the you know my shit way better?

1055
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 6: Right, Yeah, that's being because you didn't have to say

1056
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 6: that last you know. But you definitely have people out

1057
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 6: here that are like that. They try to big themselves

1058
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 6: up based off of what they have and with another

1059
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 6: person don't have versus. It's people who just they fuck

1060
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 6: with themself and they love themself and they feel like

1061
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 6: they then when.

1062
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,720
Speaker 5: Solid people see through that. Yeah, we don't think people

1063
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 5: don't see through it. People see through that ship.

1064
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 4: Like, Okay, they got to do whatever they got to

1065
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 4: do to make their self.

1066
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:08,399
Speaker 1: Man. And and that's and that's you said it right

1067
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:10,279
Speaker 1: on the head because I think, I mean, we've talked

1068
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,879
Speaker 1: about this on the show before, because it was like

1069
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 1: when I first met Drea, I was like the person

1070
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: where it was like I always felt like my personality

1071
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: was a lot, so I would try to I didn't

1072
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 1: know who I was for a long time, so I

1073
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 1: kept trying to like mold myself into what I thought

1074
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:30,759
Speaker 1: people wanted to see or what my man thought at

1075
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 1: the time when I was in a relationship. I was

1076
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: in a terrible relationship when I first moved out here,

1077
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 1: I was always trying to mold myself. And I was like,

1078
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 1: you know what, the people around me who really really

1079
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: loved me, they know the real meat and they love it.

1080
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 3: So I was like, you know what, fuck it.

1081
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:48,320
Speaker 1: Let me just be my natural, authentic self and Honestly,

1082
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,479
Speaker 1: I feel like that's when the show got better because

1083
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: you really got to see me and Drea's friendship.

1084
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,359
Speaker 4: Somebody put together other.

1085
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,800
Speaker 6: For instance, we lived in Houston. We both used to

1086
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,399
Speaker 6: do you remember Prime Song when it was open.

1087
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 5: It was like off of South Main definitely remember. Oh yeah,

1088
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 5: it was about.

1089
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 3: Literally right down the street from Caroline.

1090
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 2: That's what we made.

1091
00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 6: We both used to bars end up there and it

1092
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 6: was like twenty fifteen.

1093
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 2: When you got.

1094
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,279
Speaker 5: Just randomly I'm saying, yeah, randomly wanted to do a

1095
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 5: show together.

1096
00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1097
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:23,760
Speaker 2: No, So I moved here first.

1098
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 6: I moved here in twenty sixteen with somebody that I

1099
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 6: was cool with in Houston and it didn't end up

1100
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 6: like working out, and then we moved apart. I was

1101
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 6: living on my own in my own apartment and me

1102
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 6: and her were still cool, and I was like, oh,

1103
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 6: you know, you should move to Atlanta because she was

1104
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 6: telling me she really wanted to get into media and

1105
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 6: stuff because we both have degrees in mass communications.

1106
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 2: So I thank you.

1107
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 6: So I knew she always wanted to kind of like

1108
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:46,720
Speaker 6: get into media and stuff, and at the time, Houston

1109
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 6: wasn't really a place where I feel like you could

1110
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 6: excel in it at the time, so she moved out

1111
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 6: here and she wanted to start a YouTube channel. We

1112
00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 6: started a YouTube channel kind of took off a little bit,

1113
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 6: and then we had a segment called wine Down, which

1114
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 6: was kind of like a shorter version of what we

1115
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 6: do right now. It was only like twenty minutes though,

1116
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 6: and so we ended up changing the name and turned

1117
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 6: it into a podcast.

1118
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 2: And that's what happened.

1119
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 3: It was like what I felt like, I was always

1120
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 3: trying to like I didn't know.

1121
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:16,239
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I think I need to do

1122
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 1: this because this is what people want to see. And

1123
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 1: Dre was like, bro, you are funny, Like just relax

1124
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 1: and be yourself. And I think that was the first

1125
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 1: time I really got to sit in that because like

1126
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 1: growing up, you know, I grew up in Orange, I

1127
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: went to.

1128
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 3: All white school. I was always like.

1129
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 1: Then, it's like when I got to college, I was

1130
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: around all black people. So it was like, I'm kind

1131
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 1: of like still like I'm different because it's like this

1132
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:39,280
Speaker 1: and that She was like, girl, like you're beautiful, you funny,

1133
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: just do you and you're right about that.

1134
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 3: People can see through everything.

1135
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,359
Speaker 1: And I felt like once we really we both kind

1136
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,359
Speaker 1: of sat back and was just like because she was

1137
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:50,919
Speaker 1: more so of like not wanting to talk and show

1138
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 1: her personalit because everybody was just like, Okay, she's just pretty,

1139
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: she's just a face whatever. And it was like, no,

1140
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: she's actually fucking hilarious. You know what I'm saying, So

1141
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:04,320
Speaker 1: I being your authentic self. People don't see that regardless,

1142
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: and we say that all the time. That's so true.

1143
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: It shout out to the people that keep it one.

1144
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: Honey girl, you know what I'm saying.

1145
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 3: Time is not here today.

1146
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1147
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 4: I'm a good gift. Now I'm gonna have to do

1148
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 4: something special.

1149
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:40,760
Speaker 3: I can't open. It's a little it's a it's a speaker,

1150
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:42,359
Speaker 3: you know what.

1151
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: Me Andrea literally always forget our speakers at home tour

1152
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:49,240
Speaker 1: because we you know, we mean the meyor doing our makeup,

1153
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 1: getting ready for our shows.

1154
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:52,320
Speaker 3: We actually really need.

1155
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:57,800
Speaker 5: This, walking the workout whatever, y'all doing your kind of steps,

1156
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 5: but bump boxes for I like these.

1157
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:10,400
Speaker 3: You know, people don't really be bringing us gifts, So

1158
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 3: thank you.

1159
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 6: Try and water resis okay, I like these gotta y'all.

1160
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:19,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, And you know what, y'all can help me, right,

1161
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 5: because y'all females, y'all give me y'all perspective. Let me

1162
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 5: see that over there, so you know they're gonna release

1163
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:34,160
Speaker 5: my my glasses. Oh I love y'all females.

1164
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:37,399
Speaker 1: So y'all can okay, let me see let me see

1165
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 1: them now.

1166
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 3: Now you know I'm being honest.

1167
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 4: You're supposed to now.

1168
00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 1: First of all, I'm sucking with the box ally it's

1169
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 1: giving casket shark. Okay, I'm just saying it's given like

1170
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 1: you know, I like it.

1171
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 3: I like it. So the presentation is PI.

1172
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're gonna open them up and see what

1173
00:53:57,280 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: they like. So this is what is say, B, B

1174
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 1: and an. Okay, let me pull them out nice. Oh

1175
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 1: I'm fucking with these already. I was just saying this today.

1176
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 1: I need glass because I love my glasses, but I

1177
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 1: need some glasses where you can still see myself up.

1178
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:19,799
Speaker 3: That was good.

1179
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:28,280
Speaker 4: I guess that. I guess the university.

1180
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 2: Are supposed to be more like gears horse.

1181
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 3: I know I look good.

1182
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 4: I was just trying to.

1183
00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 3: I'm fucking with these.

1184
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:38,280
Speaker 1: I actually too, I was, I swear on everything today.

1185
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 1: I was like, I need some glasses. You know you

1186
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 1: had them glasses that you had on in New Orleans,

1187
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 1: and I was.

1188
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 3: Like, I need some glass looks like them.

1189
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 1: And I was like, I need some glasses that can

1190
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 1: actually because I'll be doing my makeup and I be wanting,

1191
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 1: you know, be like you know incognito a little bit.

1192
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 3: When I say something, I need a nigga to feel it.

1193
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 3: I need a nigga you feel me, right, all right?

1194
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: So when I put the glasses down, I need to

1195
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,320
Speaker 1: know you need to hear what I'm saying.

1196
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 3: But I need them to still see this face.

1197
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,320
Speaker 2: You can see the face is facing.

1198
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 3: You did your y'all like that was a nice.

1199
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 4: All right, all right, you're good. I'm gonna keep it

1200
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 4: outa let me let all right.

1201
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 3: Trauma, trauma, trauma.

1202
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 4: Come on, you'll go get one out the truck.

1203
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,800
Speaker 3: And again I get on, give me one off the truck.

1204
00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 3: We yeah, the whole five.

1205
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 2: They real cute.

1206
00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 3: No, I know they cute.

1207
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 2: I was like, how they looking.

1208
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, look cute. It looked good on you.

1209
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 3: You look fresh to death. I like that. I'm feeling

1210
00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 3: my I'm fucking with it, Trey, I like it. Look sorry,

1211
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 3: we look we don't we don't get. We don't get

1212
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 3: you the glasses. I'm fucking with it. You know, it

1213
00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 3: could be a little it could be a poor man's color.

1214
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 3: They bomba get something, you know what you talk about it?

1215
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 4: I got Hey, I'm all to make sure everybody able

1216
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 4: to eat.

1217
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 3: Hey, you know me, one thing about me, I'm silent

1218
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:13,279
Speaker 3: with it.

1219
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 5: Well, not even that we do one better. I hold

1220
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 5: a conversation. We're trying design a pap for y'all, like.

1221
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 3: Some little pino. You know, that's our color. We like

1222
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 3: a little ping, little purple. Okay, so we're gonna move on.

1223
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 3: So now it's time to get into the b out

1224
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:31,879
Speaker 3: the bow.

1225
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: Okay, So for the bad topics today, this actually goes

1226
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 1: into what we were talking about earlier because I want

1227
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 1: to I always say this. I feel like, for a man,

1228
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 1: the only thing that's better than good sex is new sex.

1229
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 3: So why do men get bored after sex?

1230
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:55,400
Speaker 1: Like?

1231
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:56,880
Speaker 3: Why is curiosity?

1232
00:56:56,960 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 1: Curiosity is something that gets men in trouble because they

1233
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:01,799
Speaker 1: just want to know.

1234
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 3: They just they're curious.

1235
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:08,360
Speaker 5: And you know that's a hard question, right because truthfully,

1236
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,719
Speaker 5: that is the curiosity is.

1237
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:17,959
Speaker 4: The main goal, right, like the main form of thank

1238
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 4: you sorry?

1239
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 8: Yeah, I think naturally they're just curious, you know, and

1240
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 8: they don't even so I can understand when from a

1241
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 8: male standpoint they be like, she don't mean shit to me,

1242
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 8: it was because they were just more so curious.

1243
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 4: It don't make it right, you know that end.

1244
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 5: You gotta think they get bored too, because they used to.

1245
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 4: When we first start. When we first start, you got.

1246
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 5: Motherfucker's going all in because they both trying to really

1247
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 5: impress each other. Once they get content, it's like, yeah, nigga,

1248
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:58,960
Speaker 5: I'm gonna give you this fifteen percent out of a

1249
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 5: fucking takes, gonna leave it. And then it makes But

1250
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 5: they go both ways. The thing with y'all is females

1251
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 5: away sneaking very much more sharper and they can get

1252
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 5: away with a lot more. And they will go to

1253
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 5: the grave without telling you the whole time. You have

1254
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 5: no idea. So it go both ways because when a

1255
00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 5: nigga not doing right by them physically and make them

1256
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 5: get tired and frustrated to where they want to go

1257
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 5: do something different too.

1258
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 2: Don't know, I feel like niggas will take you to

1259
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 2: the graves, y'all just be not gonna tell.

1260
00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:38,280
Speaker 4: You right nothing.

1261
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 5: But but the thing is, y'all don't even leave enough

1262
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 5: room for a nigga to catch y'all.

1263
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 4: Y'all, definitely time a girl.

1264
00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 6: Cheat or every time she does something'll be is doing,

1265
00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 6: is will thought out.

1266
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 4: I promise you she is on her a game.

1267
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 5: She is gonna and will probably be in the same

1268
00:58:56,680 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 5: room and you have no idea because that's why niggas pride.

1269
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:05,600
Speaker 4: It is like you, motherfucker. You see what I'm saying.

1270
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:07,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not speaking for all women.

1271
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 1: I can just speak for women that I know, and

1272
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 1: I can speak for a situation I was in.

1273
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 3: When women cheat.

1274
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 1: A lot of times they've been telling you, hey, this

1275
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 1: is going on. Now, like, hey, this is going on.

1276
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:22,919
Speaker 1: Women never like, oh this is a fine ass nigga,

1277
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:25,720
Speaker 1: I want to give him some pussy. Never now, it

1278
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 1: probably can for some women. I can honestly say, every

1279
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 1: time I've been in a relationship, I ain't never been like,

1280
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: oh damn this nigga. Fine, I'm gonna go cheat on

1281
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 1: my nigga. Niggas will see a bad bitch and be like,

1282
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 1: I just want to see.

1283
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 3: What she hit.

1284
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 5: You can say, hey, a nigga, fine, you may not

1285
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 5: move right then and now, But if that thought crossed

1286
00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:46,080
Speaker 5: the amount a couple more times it may take and

1287
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 5: y'all can go longer before.

1288
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:51,600
Speaker 1: But but the thing is that nigga can only wear

1289
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 1: you down because I'm telling my man, hey, this is

1290
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 1: what I'm missing because one thing about women, we love consistency.

1291
00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 1: We are consistently w right, I would not be outside.

1292
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 4: Look, you didn't hear what I said.

1293
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 5: The thing is when you're only getting fifteen percent out

1294
01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 5: of a hundred.

1295
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 4: And it's like, hey, take it and leave it.

1296
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 5: That leave the room for y'all to go elsewhere that

1297
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 5: because it ain't gonna be no consistency then, right, you

1298
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying.

1299
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 3: I agree.

1300
01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 1: I feel like when men cheat though, it's because, like

1301
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 1: I said, they want to, They just want to try it.

1302
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 1: They probably will never talk to that girl again. They

1303
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:31,439
Speaker 1: probably she was probably dunk conversation wag. He he don't

1304
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: even want her.

1305
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 3: He just curious.

1306
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 5: And I'm gonna give out y'all card because I'm I'm

1307
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 5: just transparent, you know, And I'm I'm always gonna root

1308
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:42,840
Speaker 5: for the niggas. I'm a nigga, but y'all take it

1309
01:00:42,880 --> 01:00:44,919
Speaker 5: a lot better when y'all find that job.

1310
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 4: And then the nigga would ever take.

1311
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 3: It fact because that's true.

1312
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 6: Be ready to fuck some ship up, be ready to.

1313
01:00:56,640 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 3: Have been started. Niggas will niggas have died. That is

1314
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 3: a fact.

1315
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:10,320
Speaker 1: Literally, it gets it gets crazy out here, okay, but

1316
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:13,440
Speaker 1: I feel like it's because what's expected of men, like

1317
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 1: we just expected me. Okay, you know what this is?

1318
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 1: When I knew I was crazy. This is in my twenties.

1319
01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 1: I was one of them girls and felt like, okay,

1320
01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 1: what was that song? He's mine and made a hat

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Speaker 1: on once, but I got him all the time.

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Speaker 2: You thought if he cheated once, I was like.

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01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 3: Okay, he fucked you once, but he he had hon

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01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 3: with me. He mine.

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01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: No, Yeah, that's crazy, that's crazy as a fun but

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01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 1: it's like they made it normal.

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01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 3: I know. I don't be like me.

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Speaker 2: I don't play this.

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Speaker 3: It's strict over here.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 2: So if a nigga, but about before that, the nigga

1332
01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 2: was like fucking with she?

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01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 4: But did you would you be ready to fight at

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01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:53,400
Speaker 4: the end of the day we found out.

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Speaker 2: I'm not fighting over no nigga ever, I ain't.

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01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 5: Never don't say because you never. It depends on what

1337
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:00,600
Speaker 5: nigga get crazy.

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01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:03,320
Speaker 6: Look, let me tell you the craziest that I was

1339
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 6: was in my twenties. I don't think I can get

1340
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:06,920
Speaker 6: more crazier than that. And if I didn't fight over

1341
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 6: no nigga again, I do not see it happening.

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01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 1: Now.

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01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 6: I'm gonna just walk away, like nobody can make me

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01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:15,840
Speaker 6: that crazy. My piece is not worth My piece is

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01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 6: not worth somebody that that would disturb me, because like

1346
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 6: if you would do some shit to disturb my piece,

1347
01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:23,920
Speaker 6: Like why I'm gonna fight over you, because if you

1348
01:02:24,120 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 6: knew that you only wanted to fuck with these girl

1349
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:28,600
Speaker 6: one time or two times, or whatever the case might be,

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01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:31,120
Speaker 6: why is that worth jeopardizing what we got.

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01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: I always say that niggas get too comfortable with risking me.

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01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:37,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, risk me.

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01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. I'm not a perfect woman.

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01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 1: I'm not a perfect woman, but I do feel like

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01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 1: I really give my awe and it's like I like

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01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 1: to work through things. I like to communicate. So if

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01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 1: you're okay with risking that, that's on you.

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01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 3: So if you want to risk that, I'm gone. Now

1359
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:57,520
Speaker 3: would have been like, uh uh, he loved me, girl,

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01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 3: But now it's strict in this motherfucker. Yeah, you see

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01:03:01,000 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 3: it in the track.

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Speaker 5: Man, I ain't telling y'all what you're saying is wrong.

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01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:08,720
Speaker 5: Get all, I got you right now. So y'all single

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01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:09,200
Speaker 5: or taking?

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01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:12,840
Speaker 3: I am single? I'm single.

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01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 2: I'm saking.

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01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 1: That time you said taking, it's crazy, that taking is crazy?

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01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 4: What is that? A situationship?

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01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 3: Single and taking it the same?

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01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:27,560
Speaker 4: I don't know.

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01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 3: Getting elaborate taking its wild?

1372
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:33,360
Speaker 5: I thought I just I thought it was on the card.

1373
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 5: I'm like, that sounds like an it's instead of teeth.

1374
01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:38,440
Speaker 5: But go ahead forgive you an example what that is.

1375
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 3: Come on the word because I mean it does.

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01:03:42,600 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 1: It does perfectly explaining elaborate because I'm listening.

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01:03:47,520 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 6: Okay, So, like you know, I'm in a situation where

1378
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 6: like me by me, it's not really like together right now.

1379
01:03:57,280 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 3: We was, but now we.

1380
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 6: Know but he's still kind of like, no, take care

1381
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 6: of me like he do everything, And so I feel

1382
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 6: like I don't deal with other niggas for real because

1383
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 6: I'm still dating him and we still spend time and

1384
01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:15,800
Speaker 6: stuff together. But I think we're just trying to figure

1385
01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 6: out whether or not we think it could work as

1386
01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:20,760
Speaker 6: a relationship between the two of us, and from what

1387
01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 6: he tells me, he ain't they no other girls but

1388
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 6: I don't, you know, I know how niggas speak.

1389
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:29,280
Speaker 2: I don't necessarily believe it.

1390
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 3: Jerry, I like that.

1391
01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:41,040
Speaker 6: It's a little complicated, but okay, so now it's time to.

1392
01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 2: When somebody asks you, I'm saking.

1393
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 3: About about joined?

1394
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 2: She always in her own world, I do.

1395
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:54,480
Speaker 3: I got my glass. I'm a little tipsy. I'm feeling myself.

1396
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:57,520
Speaker 3: Y'all feel me, y'all feel me?

1397
01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:02,959
Speaker 1: Okay, So what's my bop of the week. This song

1398
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 1: came out, you know, a little second ago. It's still

1399
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 1: technically new though, but Megan came out with Cobra, and

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01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:11,640
Speaker 1: you know what, I love it because I feel like

1401
01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 1: everybody wants to complain about the girls. They only doing

1402
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 1: pussy raps, they only doing.

1403
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:17,440
Speaker 3: X y Z.

1404
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 1: And she was really honest and real. She talked about

1405
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 1: her depression. She talked about wanting to commit suicide and

1406
01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 1: how she you know, made made it through that. And

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01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 1: it was so crazy because the song is called Cobra.

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01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:31,920
Speaker 1: In the video, she was like shedding, you know, her skin,

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01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 1: and it was a beautiful visual. But people were still

1410
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 1: in the comments not getting it. I've seen somebody was like,

1411
01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 1: how are you rapping about you miss your parents? And

1412
01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:44,000
Speaker 1: your naked. I'm like, are y'all stupid? I really think people.

1413
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 3: I hate to say this because.

1414
01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 1: I don't like calling people stupid, but I was like,

1415
01:05:47,360 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 1: I really feel like the comments I saw it was

1416
01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 1: just so disheartening because it's like, damn, how can a

1417
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:56,720
Speaker 1: person really bear their soul in this song of really

1418
01:05:56,720 --> 01:05:57,919
Speaker 1: giving you themselves?

1419
01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:02,040
Speaker 3: And y'all still are choosing to miss miss the point.

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01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 1: But shout out to Megan, you know, dealing with depression

1421
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 1: and feeling the way she felt and then making it

1422
01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 1: on the other side, because there's lots of people who

1423
01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:13,360
Speaker 1: didn't make it to the other side. There's a lot

1424
01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:15,720
Speaker 1: of people who are not here with us today, and

1425
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 1: so I'm glad that she is fighting and she's still working,

1426
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 1: and you know that we still have her here to

1427
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 1: enjoy her artistry. She's an amazing artist. So yeah, I

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01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:30,520
Speaker 1: fuck with it. Meg the Stallion Cobra. That's my bop

1429
01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:30,959
Speaker 1: of the week.

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01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 6: Mm hmm, okay, I My bop of the week is

1431
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 6: Tim's Me and You I love song. It made me

1432
01:06:40,480 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 6: want to be on a beach somewhere vacation. She really

1433
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 6: do make vacation music. And he's just like a feel

1434
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:48,120
Speaker 6: good song. I feel like it's one of those songs

1435
01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:49,640
Speaker 6: you wake up in the morning. You could play it

1436
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:52,640
Speaker 6: while you're getting ready, while you're taking your shower, getting

1437
01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 6: ready to go to the gym, doing your makeup.

1438
01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 2: A feel good, nice little song, make you want to

1439
01:06:58,880 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 2: be in louse.

1440
01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:03,360
Speaker 3: This is beautiful too. She is she is very trying

1441
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 3: what you've been listening to.

1442
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:11,720
Speaker 4: No, honestly, probably stuck in most right now.

1443
01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:14,600
Speaker 5: That's all the fun I get to here because from

1444
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:16,640
Speaker 5: time I wake up to go to sleep, I'm doing

1445
01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 5: press and if it ain't that videos performance, so I'm

1446
01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:23,240
Speaker 5: right now, I'm stuck on stuck in motion right now.

1447
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:27,600
Speaker 5: But I love our type of music, man. I think

1448
01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:32,120
Speaker 5: my favorite, well, my favorite type of music is when

1449
01:07:32,160 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 5: I'm just rolling and I'm listening to the eighties and nineties,

1450
01:07:37,840 --> 01:07:40,840
Speaker 5: R and B, the High Fives, the you know, the

1451
01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 5: different stuff like that.

1452
01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:46,439
Speaker 4: Edd. Yeah, I'll say gap band for Ted.

1453
01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 1: Okay, alright, alright, alright, guess because we love the eighties

1454
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 1: and nineties are.

1455
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:53,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, we love.

1456
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:56,160
Speaker 4: I definitely feel like I want a coldest playlist for sure.

1457
01:07:56,920 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to share with it.

1458
01:07:58,360 --> 01:07:59,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta share with it.

1459
01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 5: Figure out I gotta figure out to share the playlist.

1460
01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:09,320
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So who is an artist out like right now,

1461
01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 1: like a new artist that you would like to work

1462
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:13,040
Speaker 1: with that you like haven't worked with.

1463
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:21,040
Speaker 5: I've damn never work with everybody I really have. Man,

1464
01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:25,799
Speaker 5: that's a hard one. Like I got over two thousand

1465
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:27,439
Speaker 5: released records. I have records with.

1466
01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 3: Everybody, but like of the like the new, the new.

1467
01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:35,360
Speaker 5: Kids, everybody, it ain't really much. It's probably a handful

1468
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:39,000
Speaker 5: of them. And so what I tell people is I

1469
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 5: have real relationships with people, so it doesn't a lot

1470
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:43,960
Speaker 5: of times they don't.

1471
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 4: Even really be about music. The music is the bonus.

1472
01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 5: So even if I if it's a handful that I

1473
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:55,200
Speaker 5: haven't physically laid the track with, it's probably already there anyway,

1474
01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:57,040
Speaker 5: just based on our relationships.

1475
01:08:57,120 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 4: Just when it's time.

1476
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:04,479
Speaker 5: But I don't think, you know, this's some youngsters that

1477
01:09:04,520 --> 01:09:07,160
Speaker 5: I'm just not familiar with, right and I want the

1478
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:10,160
Speaker 5: ones that I wanted a few of our time that

1479
01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 5: embrace everybody.

1480
01:09:11,560 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 4: You know.

1481
01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:15,559
Speaker 5: It's like damn that, like I'm a gateway because even

1482
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 5: with the youngest, their first thing is, man, I gotta

1483
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:20,960
Speaker 5: get some with og. You see what I'm saying, and

1484
01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 5: then every time I watch them start to elevate, and

1485
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,360
Speaker 5: it's been that way for the test of time.

1486
01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:30,519
Speaker 3: Right, Okay, that's fair. I'll let you just lie with

1487
01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 3: that one.

1488
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:32,240
Speaker 4: It's the truth.

1489
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:34,719
Speaker 3: Okay.

1490
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into our favorite segment of

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01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:39,639
Speaker 1: the week. If you want your question answered on the show,

1492
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:42,439
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Speaker 6: don't post it anywhere else, so you can watch it

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Speaker 1: Backslash, poor mind tune, inarghs.

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Speaker 6: Well mine, No, mine is actually short, which I'm surprised.

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Speaker 2: I've seen her.

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Speaker 1: It's actually not bad compared to the other stuff we've gotten.

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Speaker 2: No, sometimes they be longer than it. Yeah, we always

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Speaker 2: ask you know that, y'all keep it short. Keep that

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Speaker 2: in mind.

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Speaker 6: Question number one, Hey, lex Andrea, I love y'all so much,

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01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:05,240
Speaker 6: but straight to my question. I'm planning to visit Houston

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01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:07,760
Speaker 6: for my birthday in February. I'm going with my me

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01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:10,200
Speaker 6: and my me and my men, and I wanted to

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01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:12,600
Speaker 6: know what are some food spots that are must for

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01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:17,360
Speaker 6: my first time in Houston. Clubs, brunch or day activities. Anything,

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01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:21,360
Speaker 6: will be appreciative. Love y'all and keep going up. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: In events.

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Speaker 1: Well, I will tell y'all to go to Turkey. I

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01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:31,760
Speaker 1: don't know what's gonna happen all right there, y'all know,

1531
01:11:31,920 --> 01:11:35,720
Speaker 1: is y'all y'all in Houston. Y'all know it's just getting message.

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01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:39,840
Speaker 3: Now brush spots that I like to go to. Graces

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01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:43,120
Speaker 3: is good. I like Grace. This is good. It's cool.

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Speaker 1: If you want like a chill vib Yeah, like if

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Speaker 1: you want some chill Okay.

1536
01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:48,200
Speaker 3: What else?

1537
01:11:48,439 --> 01:11:49,200
Speaker 4: The honey Hole?

1538
01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:54,200
Speaker 2: I still like Prospect definitely.

1539
01:11:54,240 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 5: Can y'all gotta get the truth truck, you know my trucks.

1540
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:00,679
Speaker 3: The truth True.

1541
01:12:00,720 --> 01:12:01,760
Speaker 2: You gotta come to the truth.

1542
01:12:01,840 --> 01:12:03,840
Speaker 3: Truth. The food they got, you.

1543
01:12:03,800 --> 01:12:04,360
Speaker 4: Got the truth.

1544
01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:09,400
Speaker 5: Chicken sandwich, chicken suit, your tacos, steak tacos.

1545
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:14,639
Speaker 6: The you look sound like he's bussy.

1546
01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 4: Okay, so the chicken sandwich yourself is gonna suck again.

1547
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:20,800
Speaker 2: Okay, Now what are you try?

1548
01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:22,720
Speaker 3: The clubs now? Because I don't. I don't be going

1549
01:12:22,720 --> 01:12:24,040
Speaker 3: out here going to like.

1550
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:28,800
Speaker 5: The address, you know, I just have On Wednesdays, they

1551
01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:31,439
Speaker 5: have probably one of their biggest nights. They do the

1552
01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:33,640
Speaker 5: R and B nights, and now they bring an R

1553
01:12:33,680 --> 01:12:38,920
Speaker 5: and B artist every wind. Yeah, classic R and B artists,

1554
01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:41,439
Speaker 5: not just the new Yeah.

1555
01:12:41,439 --> 01:12:44,440
Speaker 1: I like the old school ones. I feel like Sunday Frinday.

1556
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 6: He will be going to Sica Yea Saturdays or Fridays.

1557
01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 4: Friday, Saturdays and Sundays.

1558
01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:57,320
Speaker 1: Now, okay, Camp Camp Camp Sundays Chapman and Kurby fifty fifteen.

1559
01:12:57,760 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 1: But you know what, let me shout out this influencer.

1560
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:03,160
Speaker 1: This is actually the perfect because she creates content in

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01:13:03,240 --> 01:13:06,800
Speaker 1: Houston and she always shows you the best places to

1562
01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:11,320
Speaker 1: go in Houston. I started following her. I love her content.

1563
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:15,160
Speaker 1: It's searching High with Low. She's in Houston and she

1564
01:13:15,240 --> 01:13:18,840
Speaker 1: will show you everywhere all the nice restaurants to eat at.

1565
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:22,880
Speaker 1: So go on Instagram follow Searching High with Low, and

1566
01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:24,680
Speaker 1: she gonna put you on all the.

1567
01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:25,720
Speaker 3: Good spots in Houston. For real.

1568
01:13:27,520 --> 01:13:29,760
Speaker 4: I'm sorry to her.

1569
01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:32,240
Speaker 2: I be feeling bad when I cut people off.

1570
01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:35,200
Speaker 4: I ain't a deal.

1571
01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:39,479
Speaker 6: So it's also these dudes that I follow on Twitter.

1572
01:13:39,560 --> 01:13:41,760
Speaker 3: His name is Eric eats ht Oh.

1573
01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:44,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, I follow him to and he always, y'all, he

1574
01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:47,040
Speaker 6: be posting all of the good spots in Houston to

1575
01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:50,439
Speaker 6: go eat it like food. I'm talking food trucks hauling

1576
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:53,360
Speaker 6: the walls in the clubs and the berist.

1577
01:13:53,960 --> 01:13:54,880
Speaker 4: So he liked the dude.

1578
01:13:55,280 --> 01:13:57,599
Speaker 5: So I just learned about the dudes y'all got out here.

1579
01:13:58,360 --> 01:14:01,680
Speaker 5: I just seen him, and I seen him from the

1580
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:05,120
Speaker 5: skits that everybody everybody's been making lately.

1581
01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:07,920
Speaker 3: Yes, Keith is from Vegas.

1582
01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:09,639
Speaker 2: But he came out there.

1583
01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:13,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, clearly, Oh my god, it was so with no expression.

1584
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:15,800
Speaker 6: Once he came out here and he tried all the

1585
01:14:15,880 --> 01:14:17,960
Speaker 6: restaurants and he had a lot to say. I mean,

1586
01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:21,519
Speaker 6: he wouldn't live, he wouldn't like. The food out here

1587
01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:24,240
Speaker 6: is great, Like we have good food. I feel like

1588
01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:25,799
Speaker 6: nobody got bitter food than Houston.

1589
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:28,759
Speaker 3: But in New Orleans and New Orleans.

1590
01:14:28,800 --> 01:14:31,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, bro.

1591
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 1: Yep, shut Look, Larry Brow, we ate all his restaurants,

1592
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 1: about them gumbo, pot stickers.

1593
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 3: Them little dumplings.

1594
01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:48,280
Speaker 1: We went to his little Ti restaurant, We went Tomorrow's,

1595
01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:49,799
Speaker 1: We went to what is it called Monday?

1596
01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 3: Man?

1597
01:14:51,600 --> 01:14:56,280
Speaker 1: I had a time shut on the show. Okay, we

1598
01:14:56,280 --> 01:14:59,680
Speaker 1: gave you enough information Question number two, High ladies. I've

1599
01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:02,479
Speaker 1: been listen for years now, love love, love your content.

1600
01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:04,120
Speaker 1: I have a dilemma, and I want to make sure

1601
01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:06,760
Speaker 1: this isn't all in my head. I'm turning thirty six

1602
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:09,880
Speaker 1: this year, and I feel like I'm too sexually inexperienced.

1603
01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:12,639
Speaker 1: I'm a single mom. I was with my son's dad

1604
01:15:12,680 --> 01:15:16,320
Speaker 1: from age seventeen to twenty seven. He was super vanilla,

1605
01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 1: so we didn't do very much exploring in the bedroom

1606
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:23,880
Speaker 1: after our relationship I ended. After relationship ended, I didn't

1607
01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:27,320
Speaker 1: get much support from my family or his with my child,

1608
01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:30,719
Speaker 1: and since he had behavior problems, I couldn't keep consistent

1609
01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:33,200
Speaker 1: child care for anything other than work.

1610
01:15:33,560 --> 01:15:35,639
Speaker 3: I was very depressed for years because of this.

1611
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:38,599
Speaker 1: Only one of my friends has children, so my friends

1612
01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:41,200
Speaker 1: were listening ears, but I never wanted to burden them

1613
01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:44,439
Speaker 1: with my child care issues. Now that my son is older,

1614
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:47,320
Speaker 1: we're both in therapy. His behavior is better, and he's

1615
01:15:47,360 --> 01:15:49,360
Speaker 1: a teen now, so I can leave him home for

1616
01:15:49,400 --> 01:15:51,719
Speaker 1: short periods if I want to get out. I would

1617
01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:54,040
Speaker 1: like to date and find love again, But now I

1618
01:15:54,160 --> 01:15:56,919
Speaker 1: worry that my lack of experience will be a deterrent.

1619
01:15:57,640 --> 01:15:59,960
Speaker 1: Is this all in my head? Or do men really

1620
01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:06,160
Speaker 1: not want an inexperienced partner? Thanks for your help, y'all

1621
01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:06,960
Speaker 1: want to answer.

1622
01:16:06,680 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 3: Because I got a good air? Okay, Well, well I'll

1623
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:13,400
Speaker 3: go first. Man, I'll say this.

1624
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:16,800
Speaker 1: I feel like when you are really dating somebody, it

1625
01:16:16,840 --> 01:16:20,479
Speaker 1: doesn't matter if you're extremely sexually experienced or not. Everybody

1626
01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:23,040
Speaker 1: has their different wants and needs in a bedroom.

1627
01:16:23,120 --> 01:16:24,000
Speaker 3: So whether you're.

1628
01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:26,720
Speaker 1: Experienced or not, a man that wants this and you

1629
01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:28,920
Speaker 1: want that y'all gonna have to teach each other in

1630
01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:31,880
Speaker 1: the bedroom just because you know he likes it bent

1631
01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:33,880
Speaker 1: throw over that way and your leg up that way.

1632
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:36,840
Speaker 1: That's not how he wants it. So no matter what,

1633
01:16:37,000 --> 01:16:39,200
Speaker 1: if you're experienced or not, you're always gonna have to

1634
01:16:39,320 --> 01:16:41,280
Speaker 1: learn in the bedroom with your partner.

1635
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 3: Period.

1636
01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:44,040
Speaker 1: I feel like everybody should be open minded when it

1637
01:16:44,080 --> 01:16:48,320
Speaker 1: comes to sex. So you being sexually inexperienced shouldn't be

1638
01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:50,120
Speaker 1: a problem for a man who really fucked with you,

1639
01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:54,000
Speaker 1: because as experienced as the next girl may be, she

1640
01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:56,920
Speaker 1: has to be open to learning what that man likes

1641
01:16:57,200 --> 01:17:00,000
Speaker 1: because there's people like sometimes people feel like you can't

1642
01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,200
Speaker 1: teaching old dog new drinks. The best thing you can

1643
01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:04,599
Speaker 1: do in the bedroom is be open minded. That's how

1644
01:17:04,640 --> 01:17:07,280
Speaker 1: I personally feel, and you don't need experience to be

1645
01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 1: open minded.

1646
01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:10,240
Speaker 4: I'm that open mind.

1647
01:17:10,240 --> 01:17:13,639
Speaker 5: Whereas that definitely I'm debating on that because you don't

1648
01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:16,639
Speaker 5: like some people might be doing to motherfucking much.

1649
01:17:16,760 --> 01:17:19,960
Speaker 3: I mean, that's that's for you to hear you.

1650
01:17:20,000 --> 01:17:25,160
Speaker 5: That open mind is a strong word. I'm not strict

1651
01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:32,519
Speaker 5: at all, but I'm not hell nolen you little nipple. No,

1652
01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:38,680
Speaker 5: I don't man, come on you can you just imagine

1653
01:17:41,960 --> 01:17:44,479
Speaker 5: you're gonna be looking like bro the No, I'm not.

1654
01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:45,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, I.

1655
01:17:49,880 --> 01:17:51,960
Speaker 5: Don't do that because you might be telling nose sacing

1656
01:17:52,120 --> 01:17:56,960
Speaker 5: right now. I'm okay, so let's stop it. Yeah, no

1657
01:17:57,040 --> 01:18:00,320
Speaker 5: nipple play, no nipple you know, nothing play?

1658
01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:03,000
Speaker 3: Okay, so you like vanilla sex, it's no.

1659
01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:05,080
Speaker 4: No, I am good at what I.

1660
01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:09,720
Speaker 3: Do said, I ain't get this the truth, I'm.

1661
01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 4: Good at what I do. I'm not doing none of

1662
01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:13,519
Speaker 4: that extra shit though. It's just not gonna happen.

1663
01:18:14,120 --> 01:18:16,880
Speaker 3: Know that's right. Okay. Do y'all have any advice for her?

1664
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:19,519
Speaker 6: I feel like you guys did advice. I definitely think

1665
01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:21,960
Speaker 6: you have to be open minded. Everybody doesn't like the

1666
01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:25,679
Speaker 6: same thing. So what she with one person might consider

1667
01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:28,400
Speaker 6: sexually inexperience. Another person might not even be into that.

1668
01:18:28,520 --> 01:18:30,080
Speaker 5: I was just gonna say that because my thing is

1669
01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:32,840
Speaker 5: who gave who gave a term for what that is?

1670
01:18:33,000 --> 01:18:35,160
Speaker 5: Because even if what if you were super experienced, but

1671
01:18:35,200 --> 01:18:36,200
Speaker 5: the person you're dealing with.

1672
01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:39,400
Speaker 4: Is over extreme? No, what if they over extreme?

1673
01:18:39,479 --> 01:18:44,439
Speaker 5: So even if the your experience is just still look yeah, or.

1674
01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:46,439
Speaker 3: You can be into a little nipplesucking and you may

1675
01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:47,760
Speaker 3: get in the bedroom. When they don't like.

1676
01:18:47,720 --> 01:18:50,639
Speaker 8: That, they might it's a rap right now, you're cutting

1677
01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:57,120
Speaker 8: right now, poor mindy.

1678
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:56,559
Speaker 1: Let us know everything you got going on where they

1679
01:18:56,600 --> 01:18:57,759
Speaker 1: can find you all.

1680
01:18:57,640 --> 01:19:01,759
Speaker 5: That yourself, the album stuck and most out now. Instagram

1681
01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:03,920
Speaker 5: is the only thing that I really deal with hands on,

1682
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Speaker 5: which is at Trey A b N t R a

1683
01:19:06,600 --> 01:19:09,759
Speaker 5: E A b N Facebook. I don't know ship about

1684
01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:13,200
Speaker 5: so whatever I post on Instagram that it finds its

1685
01:19:13,240 --> 01:19:19,000
Speaker 5: way to Facebook. TikTok. My kids showing me that about

1686
01:19:19,040 --> 01:19:24,760
Speaker 5: that X it gets whatever post on Instagram. But now

1687
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 5: you got I had Twitter so long, and you know

1688
01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:30,920
Speaker 5: you'll go to following some of the baddest women back then.

1689
01:19:31,080 --> 01:19:33,479
Speaker 5: Now I'll be scared over because of down it looks

1690
01:19:33,520 --> 01:19:36,720
Speaker 5: like a pornzy.

1691
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Speaker 2: I still be calling me Twitter.

1692
01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:42,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy. It should be called X for real.

1693
01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:46,599
Speaker 4: The biggest time? Do you open that at the wrong time?

1694
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1695
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1696
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1697
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1698
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1706
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Speaker 4: But we introducing trade the truth and the truth notes period.

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01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:40,880
Speaker 1: A period because we finna eat this. So we ready

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Speaker 1: hobby on the perfect day.

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01:21:48,960 --> 01:21:55,800
Speaker 2: I know that I can't count on you, well that's

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01:21:55,840 --> 01:22:01,240
Speaker 2: not possible. Tell me, can you wear the the storm?

1737
01:22:03,840 --> 01:22:08,280
Speaker 3: Because I need your body who is staying back?

1738
01:22:08,560 --> 01:22:13,120
Speaker 1: Come on through the good time the bad time?

1739
01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:19,519
Speaker 3: She was always what would she be? Always be right there?

1740
01:22:20,360 --> 01:22:35,639
Speaker 3: Signy day. Everybody loves them. Tell everybody you don't we call.

1741
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Speaker 4: This.

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Speaker 9: We know for sure this, we know for sure you

1743
01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:52,360
Speaker 9: stay the race. Your love a conditional. I'm not asking

1744
01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:54,040
Speaker 9: much of you.

1745
01:22:57,520 --> 01:23:03,879
Speaker 3: And girls American, I'll do what heaven needs to be done.

1746
01:23:06,320 --> 01:23:12,240
Speaker 9: Because I need the body who what's saying boy sing

1747
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Speaker 9: a draft.

1748
01:23:15,120 --> 01:23:19,160
Speaker 3: Who run? She will alway?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, always right, give it to a come on Signay.

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Speaker 5: Come on, I'll beat like up, come on, can't get

1751
01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:32,400
Speaker 5: stand day?

1752
01:23:33,840 --> 01:23:43,320
Speaker 3: Oh no, I know, shout truth. That was a damn

1753
01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:44,200
Speaker 3: gold carry off.

1754
01:23:44,360 --> 01:23:47,320
Speaker 4: I don't care what we're taking bookings right now.

1755
01:23:48,760 --> 01:23:53,160
Speaker 3: The truth, the truth notes we outside. Yeah, we ate

1756
01:23:53,200 --> 01:23:54,040
Speaker 3: that one little thing.

1757
01:23:54,240 --> 01:23:56,760
Speaker 2: We might be invaded to Yo City twenty twenty four

1758
01:23:57,360 --> 01:23:57,839
Speaker 2: period