Speaker 1: Hey, fam I'm Jada Pinkett Smith and this is the
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Speaker 1: on Apple Podcasts. I like this set up. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: little dinner a little different. It's awesome. It's gonna be
Speaker 1: like she's right here with us, upfront and personal. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I get to have a very special woman on today.
Speaker 1: I've waited to have her for a very long time,
Speaker 1: for three years. Okay, because this woman has been an
Speaker 1: inspiration for this table. Okay, and her name is Selma Hillo.
Speaker 1: It's so exciting. It's so good to see you finally
Speaker 1: I paid it to the Red Table. Yeah. I wish
Speaker 1: we could have you here in person, but I know
Speaker 1: you're in London. I'm in London. I want to say congratulations, girls,
Speaker 1: thank you. Fantastic job, amazing idea, amazing concept. We have
Speaker 1: all been craving for a safe place where we can
Speaker 1: be real and that it can have the amazing the
Speaker 1: dynamic that the three of you create. Well, s Imma,
Speaker 1: thank you because you know you were an inspiration for
Speaker 1: why this happened, you know, and I was going through
Speaker 1: that really difficult time and you just took me under
Speaker 1: your wing and you just schooled me on so much,
Speaker 1: and you shared your testimony with me. I gotta say, Jada,
Speaker 1: you leave inside of me every day. I am so
Speaker 1: proud of your beautiful family, and I'm so proud of you,
Speaker 1: and I'm so proud of what you're doing in the world.
Speaker 1: I follow you on Instagram and you always make me laugh,
Speaker 1: and you always make me think, and something about you
Speaker 1: makes me fall in love with life. That's how I
Speaker 1: feel about you. I don't care if you're in the
Speaker 1: roller skates or if you're saying something deep, if you're dancing.
Speaker 1: Did you do some weird stuff? Man? So how does
Speaker 1: she come up with so much? It's always like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, there's my girl. I mess you so much.
Speaker 1: We haven't seen each other in so long. We've got
Speaker 1: so much to catch up on. How did you guys meet?
Speaker 1: We were one of the four finalists for the Matrix,
Speaker 1: and so we had jumped through many hurdles and you know,
Speaker 1: screen testing and many auditions, and they brought these stunt
Speaker 1: coordinators from Asia and it was the physical test. Now,
Speaker 1: I'm flexible, I'm my child, but I'm lazy. I never
Speaker 1: really went to the gym, and they said to me,
Speaker 1: you have to run. I go to wear around, you
Speaker 1: have to run around. I couldn't even go around the room.
Speaker 1: Once I was like, in comes Jada and mean, lean,
Speaker 1: sexy machino. When oh my god, she was so good.
Speaker 1: It was so embarrassing. She was so fat, she was
Speaker 1: so focused, she was so dcibly, she was so capable,
Speaker 1: she was so gracious. And I just looked at this
Speaker 1: woman and I thought to myself, that's why I want
Speaker 1: to be when I grow one. Yeah, I was impressive,
Speaker 1: she was really impressive. I didn't get the part. Yeah
Speaker 1: we didn't get the party. They never call me again
Speaker 1: after that day. But you know, I always tell carry
Speaker 1: and I'm like, she she was perfect for that one.
Speaker 1: So now when I'm gonna every time, I'm gonna do action,
Speaker 1: I said, no, no, no, I better start like getting
Speaker 1: a little bit of stamina and I better practice the routines. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta be like Jade. That you gotta be like Jade.
Speaker 1: I remember when I did Wild Wild West and I
Speaker 1: became friends with Jada and with Will. I was always
Speaker 1: very impressive of what a good step mother you were,
Speaker 1: because I know you before your kids came came along,
Speaker 1: and I know you bregg you were pregnant also and
Speaker 1: really young, and I'm sorry, but you really had together.
Speaker 1: You've never been fake. You never went and follow what
Speaker 1: everybody else were doing. You got to do things for conviction.
Speaker 1: I think I really got to know some. You know,
Speaker 1: many years ago when I called her to direct a
Speaker 1: video for me, I was still on human trafficking advocacy
Speaker 1: and she was gracious enough. Two. Yeah, you know, we
Speaker 1: had known each other by now. She was very dear
Speaker 1: to me. She called me and she said, what are
Speaker 1: you doing? She goes, I did the song, I sang
Speaker 1: it in Spanish, and you're directing the music video. Her
Speaker 1: Spanish was perfect, and that's coming from so Ha Hones
Speaker 1: was like impeccable. And I said, who wrote this for you?
Speaker 1: On top of everything else? She goes, I did, But
Speaker 1: I do have to tell you. Some said that she
Speaker 1: would do the video, but she said only if I
Speaker 1: did it naked. Absolutely, Yeah, yeah, Nate and Anita, and
Speaker 1: she said you're gonna be naked. She made sure you
Speaker 1: is so nusty, eat it all. Yeah, deep. It's a
Speaker 1: love song about sex trafficking, and the story is about
Speaker 1: trusting a man that destroys you, luring you into sex trafficking.
Speaker 1: And I said, I think it's important that you are
Speaker 1: as vulnerable as these women, because the obsession that men
Speaker 1: have with women's bodies, it's really threatening for us. And
Speaker 1: so she accepted to be snaked with her body as
Speaker 1: she was with her voice, and so she was very brave.
Speaker 1: She had never done it before. No, but awesome. So
Speaker 1: something you've been married for like twelve years and you're
Speaker 1: like one of the wisest women that I know. What
Speaker 1: are some of your tips for deeper connection and a relationship?
Speaker 1: I will tell you what My best advice is that
Speaker 1: I think I love it that I have it with
Speaker 1: my husband. When there is conflict, we put all the
Speaker 1: energy in solving the problem, never finding who to blame
Speaker 1: or you should have done these or that. No, all
Speaker 1: her energy goes into how do we solve this? And
Speaker 1: so because of this, we've never said anything nastitude. That
Speaker 1: is beautiful summer. No resentment, that's a good that is
Speaker 1: a good way focus on the problem. And I'm not
Speaker 1: figuring out the problem and figuring out together. Yea Valentina,
Speaker 1: she's thirteen. She's thirteen. Now, how how many languages is
Speaker 1: she speaking? Now? She speaks the three, Spanish, English, and French.
Speaker 1: That she always spoke sounds a lot of Italian Portuguese.
Speaker 1: But I tried to get her to do Chinese. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I always loved like when I would see her and
Speaker 1: listening to it, like, I was always fascinated. She was
Speaker 1: so young and she was trilingual. I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: I'm up here first of all, trying to master English
Speaker 1: and trying to figure out space. And she got it.
Speaker 1: She got the three, Jada, I'm still trying to figure
Speaker 1: out the English. But thirteen, some how has that been?
Speaker 1: I remember when miss Willow was thirteen. Let's not remember that.
Speaker 1: I want to I want us to have all amnesia
Speaker 1: about that now. But Willow, she was always so proud
Speaker 1: of you. Thank you. Such an interesting time, you know,
Speaker 1: as our daughters are transitioning into young womanhood, and so
Speaker 1: I always think that that journey between mother and daughter
Speaker 1: is a fascinating one. You know, hasn't been teaching you
Speaker 1: anything so much. I've been learning to get out of
Speaker 1: the way, and I've also learned a lot of that
Speaker 1: from you, Uh to get out always take let them
Speaker 1: be who they are, to give them the chance to
Speaker 1: take the chance to be unique and dad. It's not easy.
Speaker 1: And when you give them a voice, the first person
Speaker 1: they use it for it's you, you know, yes. Empowerment
Speaker 1: also comes with understanding boundaries. That's what I'm talking about,
Speaker 1: You know what Willow that? I mean, it's just good
Speaker 1: Mothers are always gonna wonder am I doing the right thing?
Speaker 1: Am I did I do the right thing? Should I?
Speaker 1: Should I have? Should I? Always? Because we care and
Speaker 1: because we want to be are very very very best
Speaker 1: for you. Sometimes when your children go away, because I
Speaker 1: have stepchildren that are older, there's such a void that
Speaker 1: you really don't know who you are anymore. There is
Speaker 1: a sense of not only of laws, it's like who
Speaker 1: am I without them? Like? What is my family? Now?
Speaker 1: I think every woman goes through that, what is my place?
Speaker 1: I remember when they start growing. I remember being in
Speaker 1: the bad room and saying, wait a minute, nobody's knocking
Speaker 1: at the door. Mommy, You're like in the bathroom and
Speaker 1: somebody's like, mommy, just silence, No, nobody's interrupting my private
Speaker 1: moment of peace, and then you go, okay, and what
Speaker 1: do I do with this moment now that I don't
Speaker 1: have to hurry off? It's even hard to know how
Speaker 1: to chill. It's hard, like I'm chilling. I'm chilling, my god,
Speaker 1: I am making an effort to chill that transition where
Speaker 1: just like I don't know how to actually relax, I
Speaker 1: really don't know what to do with myself. It's true.
Speaker 1: And then you It takes a process and just learning
Speaker 1: how to just be still and then remembering what is
Speaker 1: it that I like to do again? What is the
Speaker 1: things that bring me joy again? Yeah, it's a process.
Speaker 1: I want to tell you that I watched the movie
Speaker 1: that you just did, hip Man's Wife, badding so exciting,
Speaker 1: that's so fun. Always excuse me, I've seen a game
Speaker 1: with a woman, but never be sold. No, don't don't laugh,
Speaker 1: and you my age, I'm fomished. Shall we go now?
Speaker 1: Some of you are whooping kicking. As for your funny, beautiful,
Speaker 1: witty self, I mean, it is such a pleasure to
Speaker 1: see you in a role like that. And what was
Speaker 1: really impressive is like you would like bunk that I'm
Speaker 1: letting people know I'm fifty four and yes, and we
Speaker 1: need to see more of this. You know, there's always
Speaker 1: the silver fox guy getting in the car and doing
Speaker 1: his business. We need more women in that role. I
Speaker 1: feel less. It was conceived as maybe a girl in
Speaker 1: her forties, But the truth is that I said why
Speaker 1: and I say, let's let's make it a a woman
Speaker 1: in her fifties. And I think we should make her
Speaker 1: about her having to do all this action while she's
Speaker 1: going through menopause. I love that hilarious. And we have
Speaker 1: to convince some people, but they're like, do we have
Speaker 1: to say the word, And I'm like, it doesn't matter
Speaker 1: about words. What matters is that we go through it. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's so interesting why it's such a like a problem
Speaker 1: When I think about it as a woman, you think
Speaker 1: that's hilarious. Hilarious, love that there's a very important message
Speaker 1: behind it, because well we're saying here is that there's
Speaker 1: no expiration dates for women. That has because you can
Speaker 1: kick us at any age, you can call your own
Speaker 1: at any age, you can dream at any age, you
Speaker 1: can be romantic at any age. We have the right
Speaker 1: to be loved for who we are at the place
Speaker 1: that we are. We're not just here to make babies.
Speaker 1: We're not just here to baby the man. We're not
Speaker 1: just here to you know, service everything and everyone around us.
Speaker 1: And then when you when the kids go away or
Speaker 1: where there is no kids and you hit that age,
Speaker 1: its songs like expiration date for the eggs. That means
Speaker 1: expiration date for you as a woman. There's a lot
Speaker 1: of ages. M it's missunderstanding that that has been going
Speaker 1: around for centuries. And you know what, you don't look
Speaker 1: at day not a day fifty exactly. I just gotta
Speaker 1: put that on the table right now. Well, thank you,
Speaker 1: But even if I did, I could still kick us
Speaker 1: straight up. Are you experiencing any of the symptoms of menopause?
Speaker 1: I've been for a long time, okay. I think it
Speaker 1: was my meat forties. I had to take a test
Speaker 1: and the questions were terrifying. They were asking me things like,
Speaker 1: are your ears growing and there's hair coming out of them?
Speaker 1: Are you growing mustache and a beer? Are you easily irritable?
Speaker 1: Are you crying for no reason? Are you gaining a
Speaker 1: lot of weight really fast that doesn't go away no
Speaker 1: matter what you do. Are you shrinking? And then they
Speaker 1: ask you it's your vagina dry? And I thought to myself,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter if you have hair coming out of
Speaker 1: your ears and nose and a mustache and a beer
Speaker 1: and you're shrinking and you're getting big, and you're in
Speaker 1: a bad mood all day but crying at the same time,
Speaker 1: nobody's coming here, you vagiant, you have to be coming here.
Speaker 1: That thing makes no difference. What I'll tell you what
Speaker 1: they didn't tell you. Are your boobs growing? WHOA Do
Speaker 1: boobs grow during menopause? Yes, the boobs grow a lot.
Speaker 1: For some women they get smaller. But there are some
Speaker 1: women that when you gain weight, your boobs grow, and
Speaker 1: other women that when you have children and you breast
Speaker 1: with your boobs grow and they don't go back down,
Speaker 1: and then in some of the cases when you are
Speaker 1: in menopause, they grow again. And I just happened to
Speaker 1: be one of those women that it happened in every
Speaker 1: single step when I gained weight, when I got pregnant,
Speaker 1: and when I'm in menopause. A lot of people say
Speaker 1: that I had breast augmentation. I don't blame them. My
Speaker 1: booms were smaller was the rest of my body. But
Speaker 1: did just have kept growing many many sizes, and my
Speaker 1: back has been really suffering from it, and not a
Speaker 1: lot of people talk about this. I didn't even know
Speaker 1: that that could occur. Yeah, I mean either me neither.
Speaker 1: What about mood swings? I have gone through those periods,
Speaker 1: Maybe I still am, But you gotta kind of notice
Speaker 1: and take a deep breath and say, Okay, it'll pass.
Speaker 1: You gotta hold it together. And also, the hot flashes
Speaker 1: are not fun, definitely not. I'm gonna be fifty this year.
Speaker 1: Some of that. Maybe that's why I'm crying all the time.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's why I've cried all the time. You're just sensitive.
Speaker 1: Now you know why you're crying all the time, Jada,
Speaker 1: You are only rying all the time because you have
Speaker 1: so much to be grateful for. Yes, you know that's
Speaker 1: not a lot, and gratitude can't move you to tears. Yes.
Speaker 1: As you grow older, also you feel things deeper. We
Speaker 1: let ourselves be more sensitive because we don't feel as threatened.
Speaker 1: As you get stronger, I think you get the luxury
Speaker 1: of letting yourself feel everything. Yeah. There, you stronger, gain
Speaker 1: the luxury of plating yourself. You see why I love her? Yeah,
Speaker 1: let me down every time I'm around Selma. I guess
Speaker 1: school and there's not a lot of people that can
Speaker 1: school you exactly. Sounds a good one, but she schools
Speaker 1: me every day. Even when I don't talk to her,
Speaker 1: I hear her voice in my head, I feel her
Speaker 1: energy around me. I feel her too. It's crazy, I
Speaker 1: really do. It's the depth of your spirits al must
Speaker 1: where just permeates and just engulfs. And that's the part
Speaker 1: of you I love so much. Selma. We have the
Speaker 1: fish bowl. Okay, now, the fish bowl is a red
Speaker 1: table tradition. When our red Table family heard you were coming,
Speaker 1: people lined up for questions. We wanted to pass along
Speaker 1: the gift of Selma. First, we have a Diana from
Speaker 1: New York. What's going on? Hi? How are you? Beautiful lady?
Speaker 1: So excited to see you. So. I'm a curvaceous Latino
Speaker 1: with a busty body type, and one of the biggest
Speaker 1: challenges I've had is the assumptions that people are making
Speaker 1: about me all the time. Like, even in professional environments,
Speaker 1: I've had people make fun, you know, comments about my breast, eyes,
Speaker 1: what I look like, and just assume that like I
Speaker 1: want that sexual attention because of what I look like.
Speaker 1: So my question is, how can I navigate and find
Speaker 1: ways to get people to respect me for who I
Speaker 1: am and take me a little bit more seriously. Okay,
Speaker 1: So the first thing is when you have big breast,
Speaker 1: it's really hard to dress. And one of the tricks
Speaker 1: is that they say, oh, you, you showed a lot
Speaker 1: of cleavage. Yes, because if you cover all the way
Speaker 1: up to here, they just look bigger and you look bigger.
Speaker 1: You need to have like some space, you know, otherwise
Speaker 1: they take over your entire Dorso all these seeds, like
Speaker 1: the head, and then like the thing. One thing that
Speaker 1: I suggest emphasize your eyes because it's also hard for
Speaker 1: them to look up. Maybe we're laughing, but this because
Speaker 1: your eyes are smart. They're gonna hear what you have
Speaker 1: to say to connect. To make a connection, the strongest connection,
Speaker 1: I think it's through the eyes. Try to make it
Speaker 1: a focus. But I'll tell you a very good trick.
Speaker 1: Drop your voice a little bit not so high. Try
Speaker 1: to talk from the god of your stomach. Own your voice,
Speaker 1: command with your voice the respect that you deserve. Do
Speaker 1: not be afraid of your voice. See if I start
Speaker 1: talking like this, and you can make the jokes, you know,
Speaker 1: but it's very different if I said, yeah, my babies
Speaker 1: are huge and great, you know, but like if you yes,
Speaker 1: my books are huge and great. Like high your voice
Speaker 1: on your voice, drop it projected and feel it in
Speaker 1: your God and it's where your strength is. So do
Speaker 1: not be afraid of your voice. Do not have a
Speaker 1: not here, you know, like relax your neck and speak
Speaker 1: your truth. And they have to listen to you, and
Speaker 1: they have to look into your eyes because then they
Speaker 1: know that you're forced to be reckoned with and the
Speaker 1: whole package is there. Why not? Yeah, but thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you so much. That is amazing already better. I've
Speaker 1: always wondered how I can get my voice to like
Speaker 1: sound a little more confident. I'm doing it now a
Speaker 1: little bit. You are, and you know what, that's your
Speaker 1: real voice, right, You're not used to it, but it
Speaker 1: is explored through your voice. You changed my life in
Speaker 1: like a minute. Yeah, exactly. Welcome to the club. Welcome
Speaker 1: to the club so much. Next we have Emily from Cleveland.
Speaker 1: Hey Emily, Hi ladies, what do you have for us today?
Speaker 1: I'm approaching my thirtieth birthday and I've been feeling a
Speaker 1: lot of pressure to get a boob en marchment as
Speaker 1: you can see, there's really not a lot going on here.
Speaker 1: I've had my boyfriend makee a couple of comments about it.
Speaker 1: It's really getting to me, but I really don't want
Speaker 1: to go under the nights. And I guess my question is,
Speaker 1: in today's day, h how does a woman with no boobs,
Speaker 1: tiny waists, no but due to feel sexy. First of all,
Speaker 1: you said there's not much going on here, and it's like, wow,
Speaker 1: I see a lot going on there. I see. I mean,
Speaker 1: you're really striking. So I'm gonna tell you a fast story.
Speaker 1: I have a very close friend who got a breast
Speaker 1: augmentation because the boyfriend really wanted her to get a
Speaker 1: breast augmentation and they were engaged actually, and she got
Speaker 1: them and she didn't marry her and she's had to
Speaker 1: have eight operations because of it. Right, right, Okay, if
Speaker 1: it's what you want, it's what you want. But don't
Speaker 1: let anybody dictate what to do with your body. Okay,
Speaker 1: if it's your choice, it's your choice. But it's really
Speaker 1: hard to leave with someone else's choice that didn't even
Speaker 1: stick around. You know. You know, the mind is super powerful,
Speaker 1: So what can you do to be sexy? You know,
Speaker 1: if you're not volocked uous. I dream of wearing T
Speaker 1: shirts without a bra. You have to find what is
Speaker 1: it that you love about your body let it expand
Speaker 1: to other places. Vita used to say, I am my
Speaker 1: own work of art. That's right, and I can see
Speaker 1: that in you. I can see what you do with
Speaker 1: your hair, with your makeup, your tattoo. You are your
Speaker 1: own canvas. You are so nobody freed that would never
Speaker 1: let somebody come and do any other painting. And you
Speaker 1: know that's what's sexy, your own confidence. That the way
Speaker 1: you move because you're comfortable in it, because you like it,
Speaker 1: because you accept it, small breast, that it's something very
Speaker 1: sexy too. Everything is sexy. It's not about the size
Speaker 1: of the bullboards that make it work for you, girl,
Speaker 1: work for you. There is sexy in every science and
Speaker 1: every style and every color of women. Just the side
Speaker 1: to be that sexy within what you are coming from
Speaker 1: someone who has struggled with that for their whole life.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've been very small for my entire life,
Speaker 1: and you know that really takes a hit to my
Speaker 1: self esteem, you know, because the world that we live in,
Speaker 1: I mean, what a woman is supposed to look like
Speaker 1: is always changing. We're always supposed to just hop on
Speaker 1: what the new cool thing is. What I've realized is
Speaker 1: like almost taking away that sexual perception of my body,
Speaker 1: like taking away like looking at myself naked and taking
Speaker 1: away the sexual perspective and just seeing all the different
Speaker 1: ways that my body serves me so well, like as
Speaker 1: I feel like, as women, we just get so zeroed
Speaker 1: in on am I going to be wanted by someone else?
Speaker 1: Sometimes lose the basic fundamental reason for having a body,
Speaker 1: which is to take you through this world and to
Speaker 1: experience things that don't have to be centered around sex.
Speaker 1: And I want to tell you one more thing from
Speaker 1: a spiritual perspective. Always remember that your body is simply
Speaker 1: a casing. It is casing your spirit. The most valuable
Speaker 1: part of you is your heart art right, and your spirit,
Speaker 1: your soul. And let me tell you something. I've always
Speaker 1: been a tiny girl too. I've always been small, small
Speaker 1: everything small and stature, small breast, small butt, small legs,
Speaker 1: small everything right. But let me tell you spirit, soul, laughter, connection,
Speaker 1: spirit girl right, Okay, And I think how you feel
Speaker 1: about yourself is so much more important than how somebody
Speaker 1: else feels about you. So if he's not happy with
Speaker 1: who you are, then maybe he needs to because, you know,
Speaker 1: be with someone else. I don't know, I'm really uncomfortable
Speaker 1: with him after having to change your physicality for somebody else.
Speaker 1: If it's not something that you're really interested in doing
Speaker 1: it and you're happy with your body, honey, walk with it,
Speaker 1: be with that who you are? That again? Do you go? So?
Speaker 1: Thank you, so much, so welcome. So we have a
Speaker 1: video question now, our ladies. My name is Kia. I'm
Speaker 1: forty four, divorced, and I recently started dating again. But
Speaker 1: every man that I meet seems to want a twenty
Speaker 1: year old. So my question is how can I meet
Speaker 1: an age appropriate man. You don't know how many friends
Speaker 1: I have in their forties and in their fifties that
Speaker 1: are going through the same problem. It's become an epidemic
Speaker 1: because now with the access you know, through the dating
Speaker 1: sides and all these and want to commit less than ever,
Speaker 1: just so much axes you know out there, and they
Speaker 1: have so many choices, and it's become a real problem. Problem,
Speaker 1: It's become a real problem. I have one advice for you.
Speaker 1: Instead of really looking for men, look for new interests,
Speaker 1: find an adventure that you want to learn how to do.
Speaker 1: Let's say you want to learn how to do judo.
Speaker 1: Find something that excites you that might also attract the
Speaker 1: kind of man that represents some of the things that
Speaker 1: you liked and that you could share with someone and
Speaker 1: that you've never had that chance, So that you get
Speaker 1: a chance to find somebody also that's not looking and
Speaker 1: that it's painting the perfect picture. Oh, I want her
Speaker 1: twenty with this kind of body, with this So find
Speaker 1: an activity that you're interested in. Ye. I agree with
Speaker 1: Alma because I had a friend who was going through
Speaker 1: the same thing, and you guys know that I like
Speaker 1: to dance, and I invited her to come out and
Speaker 1: dance with me. It was really about finding some new
Speaker 1: activity to get your life together. And she ended up
Speaker 1: finding a guy. I had a step in community there
Speaker 1: you girls, and they're happily married now. But it was
Speaker 1: all about focusing on her. It wasn't about looking for
Speaker 1: a man. Yeah, you know, it just comes to words.
Speaker 1: You enjoyed the dance, Yeah, yes, Selma, I don't even
Speaker 1: want to say ready to you. I know, I just
Speaker 1: want to come back any time. I just want to
Speaker 1: come back in person and I want some food on
Speaker 1: the red table. Mexican food to the Red table. You
Speaker 1: can come here any time you come here and talk
Speaker 1: about the Yellow Pages for all I can. I'm coming
Speaker 1: over there to give that monitor a hug because, oh
Speaker 1: there you go. Thank you Selma and calling the three
Speaker 1: of you magnificent women and an example, an example to families,
Speaker 1: to women the world. Keep shining your light, no matther
Speaker 1: who we blinds, as long as it doesn't blind yourselves.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, thank you, Thank you so much. I
Speaker 1: love you so much. Mi too. I can't wait to
Speaker 1: see you. The hip man's wife Bundyguard is out. Now,
Speaker 1: go make sure you see that ward to middle aged women. Yes,
Speaker 1: we got someone in there kicking egg. Yeah, before with menopause.
Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. That's why I love it. Yes,
Speaker 1: make sure you go and support big time. Oh that
Speaker 1: was good. That was so great. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: love her so much. Yeah, she is so funny is
Speaker 1: when you're with her, just how he her, just how
Speaker 1: loving she is, it will just feel like you're just
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