WEBVTT - Nurture Your Seed! 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:43.480 Laughing, he laughing with la. If you watch Coffee Time 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:45.960 to Baby, you know the name flame, my role also 0:00:46.080 --> 0:00:48.519 known as my role Flame. Come in with last and 0:00:48.760 --> 0:00:51.200 come in with JN love lounds. Baby, you better catch 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:54.440 it when you can't drop a knowledge from fatherhood to politics, 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:58.120 shouting now comics just paying homics. What's up? Tip? Yeah 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:00.960 you know she raped shot towns on speaking to the ground. 0:01:01.000 --> 0:01:03.920 And second we're gonna last cut of the kicking and 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:05.759 at the end we leave it, which is a lift 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:08.000 spirit to think you want to revisit. So your first 0:01:08.080 --> 0:01:10.040 like a list of kill folks like your slip, all 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:13.480 folks that we take it. No kids do what you do. 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:17.759 No kids do what you don't. No kids do what 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:41.920 I do. No Kish welcome to laugh and learning. Lation gentm, 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:43.920 I hope you had a great week. Happy Mother's Day 0:01:43.959 --> 0:01:46.080 to all the mothers out there or anybody who's been 0:01:46.120 --> 0:01:49.560 in your life who has presented themselves as a mother figure. 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:53.000 That could be a man or woman, auntie, grandmama to neighbor, 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:55.040 all that because some of our mama's just what, didn't 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:58.080 do their job and we had to rely on somebody else, 0:01:58.120 --> 0:02:00.280 even the gate kids. A lot of gay kids create 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:02.760 their own families and mothers so and even the mothers 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:04.880 who have experienced lost to may not have a kid, 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:07.160 but you know how to miscarriage week or if you 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:10.600 locked your mom, the love don't leave apparently, but the 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:13.760 love don't leave. We acknowledge all of you guys. So 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:16.720 to get started flame, I know you have an announcement. 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:19.320 I was not supposed to raise my arm up. I 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:22.840 got a couple of works. Wait a minute, what happened, correctly, 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:27.399 A couple of announcements. New job alert, new job, Thank 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:30.359 you Karen Hunter and Series Radio. I sawt this fride 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:32.680 next frid to the twenty one were Karen Hunter. We're 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:37.480 doing a political and comedy and hodgepodge of stuff on 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:41.120 the series Radio exim effect. I'm still negotiations for laughing, 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:43.480 I mean for love Lounge, but we'll hold off on that. 0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:46.840 Second announcement is I am so sorry to announce to 0:02:46.919 --> 0:02:50.799 you guys that I will not be attending Delaware this weekend. 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:53.000 It just did not work out. There was a lot 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:57.000 of miss conscrews and the advertisement just did not match 0:02:57.200 --> 0:02:59.880 the quality of who I am. So I have to 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:05.000 pull out respectfully, uh professionally. I'm so sorry. I hope 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:07.520 you guys call in and get your refund back. I 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:11.120 did refund back the club part of the down payment, 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:13.480 so I think there should be no issue with you 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:16.399 all getting your your money back for the tickets, even 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:19.600 though it's say it's nonrefundable on the website. But this 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.160 is the second time that this didn't go right, and 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.160 I took the blunt of the responsibility the first time. 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:28.800 Not this one. This ain't on me. I just ain't 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:31.920 coming because I don't do bad business periods. So if 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:33.720 you want to book Flame World at he she were 0:03:33.720 --> 0:03:36.680 bookings through Loring Hogan, understand that if you think I'm 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:40.560 a bit, you ain't even met this one yet. Okay, Okay, 0:03:41.240 --> 0:03:45.240 let's bring Nick, because else are you going to You 0:03:45.280 --> 0:03:48.680 were going to Philly. I'm going to Philly September. That's 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:52.120 after the Delaware a DC in September nine, three eleven 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:54.440 with James and and all my flame man. So yeah, 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:56.920 I don't know the venue though for September. You know, 0:03:57.080 --> 0:04:01.560 I know it's level up, level up? Yes, is it? Sierre? 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:04.800 Maybe you could do a little something. I can't see her, 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:07.520 but Sierra did level up. She went. Her future was 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:11.640 not that bright. So she went to Seattle and got 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:14.680 a bright future with what's his name? Had a baby 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:17.520 changed the baby last night. Baby. Let me tell you something. 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:19.440 I don't know what y'all thought that Sierra wasn't doing. 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:21.400 Y'all think you know how to dance on the dance flow? 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:24.520 You better check her into bere have you rest so well? Simple, 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:31.640 let's do it. Where Where is Nick Smith? Smith? Who 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:34.800 had a wonderful Mother's Day? Nicholas to go home? Tell 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:36.400 us all about it? And Nick, you went to see 0:04:36.440 --> 0:04:40.160 mother did indeed? Hey, congratulations flame. A couple of people say, 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:42.719 what was the announcement? Tell us all about Karen Hunter again. 0:04:43.640 --> 0:04:45.800 Karen Hunter has a show on Serious Radio. It's been 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:47.880 going on a couple of years. She also has a podcast. 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:49.960 I did the podcast a few years ago, and she 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:52.359 just hired me today this morning while I was on 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:55.440 coffee time to come and work with her starting next 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:58.040 Fride to twenty one. My manager will work out the particulars, 0:04:58.120 --> 0:04:59.840 you know. I just looked at the dollar amount. I 0:04:59.839 --> 0:05:01.360 don't want to read nothing else. I just look at 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:03.000 the money number. So that's it. That's out for me. 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:06.320 But yeah, it's good. I'm and I'm again delaware. I 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:09.440 apologize for not being able to come, but it was 0:05:09.480 --> 0:05:12.040 not on me and I'm not going to even take 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:15.320 that this go around. Uh Baby, how was Ms Rosette? 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:18.520 How was your visit with mom Lauren Flame? You both 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:21.040 started the show just talking about people who may or 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:23.360 may not have their mothers. I just I just go back. 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:28.640 I realized this weekend. I've always known it. Yeah, I'm 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:31.520 just so incredibly blessed. It's it's it's amazing. But I 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:33.960 tell you, we also thought about because Lauren you just 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:36.320 kind of touched on this, we thought about the moms 0:05:36.320 --> 0:05:38.480 who maybe have lost their children because we've seen so 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:40.440 many black men die at the hands of Not to 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:41.960 take the show in that direction, you know what I'm 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:43.680 saying there, But you have to know that there are 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:45.160 a lot of moms out there right now who are 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:47.479 hurting too. Um So we just, you know, we just 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:49.640 did a little prayer with that, and we are My 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:51.440 mom was like, Nick, you told me I would get 0:05:51.440 --> 0:05:53.760 a chance to chat with Flames, So we kept bugging Flame, Flames. 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:55.840 Nick I was trying to order chairs, would you stop? 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:58.720 So but we did get a chance to chat with Flame, 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:01.279 and I really try to call y'all back, But y'all, 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:03.600 you just kept calling me at the most inconvenient time. 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:05.800 So Ms. Rosette, I promised it wasn't that nick or 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:09.159 at you, y'all, just nick timing was off. Ms. Rosetta. 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:13.000 Let me just tell you, I love but we had 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:16.920 a great time and uh, just a little inside baseball flame. 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:19.480 I employed the tactics that you and I talked about, 0:06:19.800 --> 0:06:21.920 and it could not have it could not have gone better. 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:23.800 So thank you. No, no, don't, don't don't say that. 0:06:24.320 --> 0:06:27.520 Tell the truth. You listen to me. Tell the truth. 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:31.360 I told you what to do, and you listened. That's 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:33.479 exactly what I just You don't always listen to me. 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:34.920 Let me let me just make it clear for y'all, 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:37.119 because we've been knowing each other thirty years. This nigger 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:38.960 don't always listen to me. But he listened to me 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:40.760 this weekend. And he had a great visit with his 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:44.080 mom because mother Valcher had told him sit back and 0:06:44.120 --> 0:06:46.080 shut the hell up. And guess what he did. And 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:47.440 you guys, let me tell you some nick is the 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:49.800 videos that you guys put out. Your mom looks so 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:53.040 happy to have her baby. She I was more excited 0:06:53.080 --> 0:06:56.000 for Hutheran for you because she was so smiley faced 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:58.560 and just joyous that she had a big old baby back. 0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:02.960 Because you know, you're number the biggest. Lauren, how was 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:05.159 yours because you spent it with your mom too. I did. 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:08.240 My mother's day was good. Actually, miss I love miss Marsha, 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:12.200 So I actually took her out to her favorite sushi spot, myself, 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:13.800 her and my dad. We all went to the favorite 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:17.680 sushi spot with Sky, who was my little four pound yorkie. UM. 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:20.120 So we all went out and had sushi outside together. 0:07:21.120 --> 0:07:24.360 It was listen, we can talk about timmy, I want 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:28.320 to do all right, Okay, but no, we had a 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:31.320 really great time. We went and um had some sushi. 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:33.120 It's one of her favorite sushi spot. She hasn't been 0:07:33.160 --> 0:07:34.920 outside in a long time just because of COVID and 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:37.720 things like that. So you know, it was a really 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:40.080 good uh you know, it was just a nice time 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:42.040 and it was a special time. So I'm really grateful 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:43.760 for that, and it would go for all. It was 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:45.200 just a good mother's day. She got some gifts and 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:49.440 some flowers and so yeah, okay, so if we were 0:07:49.520 --> 0:07:51.720 talking to you, if we're talking to you, but we're 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:53.440 looking this were we're looking at the camera because we're 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:55.280 trying to focus more on the camera for the video 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:57.239 now then so we still hear you and we're talking 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:59.000 to you, but we just focused for not ignoring you. 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:01.280 We promised and you and I, You and I have 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:03.800 talked about that before. So I'm getting on my case 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:05.760 kinda over here, fight me triple about to slap the 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:07.040 ship out of me. I don't know what to do, 0:08:07.520 --> 0:08:12.800 and my house is a household, but but but it 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:15.840 looks a flame. I really liked that hair. This is 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:19.080 my Sharing Underwood hair. I'm a mid I'm in the 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:22.320 middle of a Sharon Osborne and uh Sheryl Underwood. So 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:25.520 if they need a replacement, I'm a combo. I'm sure 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:30.000 Sharon man replaced. And the ratings have tanked. Now you 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:31.920 do the map, Okay, when we're going this week because 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:35.560 we're talking about some things. Yeah, so actually we're gonna 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:38.760 start with a young lady named Mikayla Miller. And it 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:41.240 was interesting that this came up because Flame and I 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:44.120 actually had an offline conversation about something that happened with 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:46.319 Izzy this week. Um, for those that you guys that 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:49.640 don't know Izzy is Flame's oldest daughter, and it's really 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:53.320 about bullying. So do you want to start with Okay, 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:58.360 So Mikayla Miller. Um, she was a sophomore at Hopkinton 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:00.680 High School and she had got into a fight with 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:03.920 her girlfriend and other teens and she actually and as 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:07.640 a result of said fight, she ended up dead. Um 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:09.760 And so according to her mother, so she spoke of 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:12.600 just of her disappointment with the police investigation because her 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:16.000 daughter was lgbt Q, she was a lesbian and when 0:09:16.040 --> 0:09:19.520 this whole incident happened, the police basically said, it's better 0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:22.440 that we probably sleeped this under the rug because your 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:25.000 daughter's sexuality is going to come out in this investigation. 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:29.720 And the real kind of Kulda grav This is the 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:32.440 three teens that ended up fighting Michaela Miller and ended 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:34.560 up causing her death for three white girls, and Michaela 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:37.320 Miller was a fifteen year old black girl in the 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:40.760 Boston area. Um, So we're just going to open up 0:09:40.760 --> 0:09:44.959 the discussion really about bullying, what's happening in the world today. 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:46.960 Come on, Nick, give me yours because you ain't never 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:48.760 had a fight. So when I get into it, I'm 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:50.679 going hard and deep, you just have you never been 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:52.520 in a fight, Nicholas has never been in a fight. 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:55.200 The only time I was in the fight Lawrence in 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:58.040 the military, and that was someone else starting you don't leave, 0:09:58.160 --> 0:10:00.560 you know, a fellow soldier, you know, tithing. But no, 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:02.520 I've never I've never had a situation where I had 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:06.120 had to fight. Um. But but again, I also didn't Um. 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:09.040 I also didn't start stuff. I've always minded my own business, 0:10:09.080 --> 0:10:11.240 you know. Um. And then for the most part, you know, 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:13.840 I'm a bigger boy, so I've never had anybody picking 0:10:13.840 --> 0:10:16.440 on me, you know. So they're just a number of things. 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:18.680 And I also didn't run with people who were bullies, 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:21.800 so you didn't pick on other people. So UM, this 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:25.920 is probably, um, the I think most contentious time right now, 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:28.480 because I think that kids flame and I've had this conversation, 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:32.480 aren't allowed to leave what happened at school at home. 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:34.840 So I think that what happens in a situation like this, 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:41.360 particularly uh, this particular, um, young lady, the if I 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:44.480 understand correctly, Lauren, there was a lot happening also on 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:47.120 social media, and it just it seems like these things 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:50.320 continue to just fester and it grows so people aren't 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:53.440 allowed to leave that problem at school, go home, have 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:56.240 a weekend with your family, and maybe let things die down. 0:10:56.320 --> 0:11:00.600 The bullying continues through social media. Well, I don't even 0:11:00.640 --> 0:11:03.520 know if the social media component is at the forefront. 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:05.760 I think it more so has to do with one 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:11.559 that she was gay, black female and she was murdered. Really, 0:11:12.200 --> 0:11:14.319 she was lynched because she was found hanging from a tree. 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:17.120 So she was lynched by these three white teenagers, and 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.680 the police in the area tried to sweep it under 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:21.800 the rug. It was more so it wasn't until her 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:24.680 mother another like Black Lives Matter activists had come out. 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:26.720 Now all of a sudden, the d A is trying 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:29.120 to step in and make things right. So I think 0:11:29.160 --> 0:11:32.800 it's more so geared towards racism and the you know 0:11:32.880 --> 0:11:35.320 how racism is taught. Really at this point, that's what 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:36.800 I more so I think the root of this is 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:39.800 and not so much the social media component, because the 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:42.640 question goes, well, why is her sexuality, like why is 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:45.360 that even a factor in the investigation, like just those 0:11:45.400 --> 0:11:49.480 different elements. Is more so that hate is really taught nowadays, 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:52.600 and we just see it festering into the younger generations. 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:55.280 That's more so what I'm what I'm taking is the 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:58.760 forefront of this issue. But go ahead, you know what's 0:11:58.880 --> 0:12:00.920 messed up about that is and when you look at 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:03.000 how the police are doing this. If you remember the 0:12:03.040 --> 0:12:06.199 movie Boys Don't Crab, the Hillary Swank won an oscar 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:09.360 for the police did the same thing to the character 0:12:09.400 --> 0:12:11.160 in that movie and said that why are you walking 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:13.440 around with boy clothes? Why are you dressed like a boy. 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:16.480 You know, you can't question my life and who I 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:18.320 am and why I'm living the life that I am, 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:21.199 even if I'm fifteen. That's not your fucking business. That's 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:25.120 the first thing. The second thing is I don't want 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:27.719 them to make this LGBT because I don't know if 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:30.880 this is necessarily LGBT. This could be like you said 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:33.120 on racism, it could be a combination of things. It 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:36.800 could be LGBT and racism. But these were teenage, fifteen 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:39.400 year old girls. I'm not understanding that you don't have 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:45.080 one person in your life, mother, administrator, teacher, counselor preachers 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:47.120 that you can talk to with a trust to tell 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:49.320 me that I'm being But I've been bullied before, so 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:51.160 I know, but it was different things. So with the 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:53.719 whole internet thing. And I talked about this before all 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:56.679 these keyboard gangsters. A hundred people can get on here 0:12:56.760 --> 0:12:58.240 right now and tell me they don't like me. I 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:01.200 don't know a hundred people. What you think about me. 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:03.560 Don't mean shipped to me because I don't know you. 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:06.280 You don't mean anything. You could die now and I'm 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:09.239 gonna go have a burger. And I'm not saying celebrating 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:10.920 your death. But if I don't know you, it does 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:13.360 not affect me. So if y'all taken that the way 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:15.240 I said it then and taking it the wrong way, 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:18.440 I don't care. This my ship. Uh, And this ain't 0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:23.600 even Love Lounge. Um, it's very sad that this girl 0:13:23.640 --> 0:13:26.240 had to experience that and that the parent didn't step 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:28.200 in because you see when your children are being bullied. Now, 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:29.600 I went up to the school. I talked about this 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:32.040 on Love Lounge the other day or on Live or something. 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:34.120 I had to go up to the school because is 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:37.000 he had to go pick up some things. Her boyfriend's 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:39.600 ex girlfriend invited her to come to a fight. My daughter, 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:41.199 the dumb dumb went up there to meet the girl 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:42.760 to go get a fight, but the girl had four 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:45.560 other girls with her. What that little helper did not 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:48.440 know was that is these crazy trendy daddy was with her. 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:51.480 And trust me, I'm not even gonna argue with you. 0:13:51.760 --> 0:13:53.720 If you these little girls would have put that they 0:13:53.720 --> 0:13:56.840 were seventeen eighteen, my daughter could have been just what 0:13:56.880 --> 0:13:59.640 this little girl was ended up dead, not hung from 0:13:59.640 --> 0:14:02.280 a tree because these was a little black girls, but dead. 0:14:02.400 --> 0:14:04.680 I would have beat the ship out of those little girls. 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:07.760 Council culture, you mad. I'm telling you that you have 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:12.040 to take presidents over your children because protocol. Protocol does 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:15.000 not always work. Going to the teachers, reporting to the principle, 0:14:15.120 --> 0:14:18.280 talking to somebody, sometimes they don't do anything. It doesn't work, 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:20.680 and your kids still end up being hurt. And these 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:23.280 kids ain't fighting fairly. Now these kids will cut your 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:26.520 face or stab you. People are dying from bullying. Bullying. 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:28.320 I used to get my ass swoop in grammar school. 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:30.680 I WoT plenty of asses too, But it was just 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:34.200 a fight on Monday. On Tuesday, we meet mugged each other. 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:36.640 On Wednesday, we were smiling with each other. On Thursday 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:38.920 we were speaking again, and on Friday we were friends 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:42.680 all over again. It's not like that now it's not, 0:14:42.800 --> 0:14:44.960 and it's not because nobody is taking to control. And 0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:47.600 this right here where we are on the social media internet, 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:51.360 all of this is the biggest bully to me. Starting 0:14:51.400 --> 0:14:53.120 let let's go back forward. Let's go back for the 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:56.440 last four years, social media was the biggest bully for 0:14:56.480 --> 0:15:00.560 the number one person in the country. And according to reports, 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:03.600 Michaela had been involved in the physical altercation the evening 0:15:03.640 --> 0:15:07.720 before her body was found, but that the teenagers present 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:10.960 had not been to the area where her body was discovered. Uh. 0:15:10.960 --> 0:15:13.440 This is from forensic evidence that is being recovered right 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:16.360 now in the investigation. UM, and I guess testimony in 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:18.560 alibis that they may have had Uh. They said that 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:21.560 authorities are still waiting for the medical examiner to determine 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:24.760 Michaela's manner and cause of death, and they're still waiting 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:28.320 on the results of forensic testing and sampled items found 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:30.720 in the area. I'll tell you what I had. Somebody 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:32.680 in my inboxes tell me flame, you can't be fighting, 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:34.720 no girl, you still a man. I should then him 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:36.360 and I would have put this wig on and been 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:39.040 a full all man. And to me, it's been a 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:41.720 chentry and dragon looking lovely. But those little girls would 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:43.040 not put their hands on my door because I would 0:15:43.040 --> 0:15:45.760 have clocked their heat. I'm not promoting violence, but if 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:48.120 you're a parent, you need to take care of your children. 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:50.800 You need to watch over your keys. These kids not playing, 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:53.760 and some of these kids parents encouraged them to do 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:57.200 wretchy things to other keys, horrible things. I don't encourage 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:59.480 my children to go out to fight. Defend yourself. Longe 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:01.280 had a bully an issue she told me about and 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:03.320 she was pushed and push and push. When you push 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:05.880 anybody's back to a wall, they have no other option 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:08.520 but to sink or swim. Most of us will come 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:11.280 out swing it. I would slap the ship out your kid, 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:14.040 and then you know it could be kindergarten. You want 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:18.840 to uh, okay, well, well I'll just say this for 0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:22.360 me and like like, my parents never encouraged me to fight, 0:16:22.840 --> 0:16:25.200 but my mom was very clear, don't you ever lose 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:28.240 a fight either, So pick and choose your battles. You 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:30.240 know we say that, pick and choose your battles. But 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:33.840 I was never going to be bullied. And this one 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:35.800 instant that flame is talking about, this girl was much 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:37.440 bigger than me. She was hefty, and I think we 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:39.800 kind of talked about this on the show. I don't 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:41.800 know how you know, she was fat. I don't know 0:16:41.840 --> 0:16:46.760 how hard she could swing, so that the bitch was fat, 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:49.280 just calling out and I didn't know how hard she 0:16:49.320 --> 0:16:52.360 could swing, so I was like, well, I'm athletic, you're not. 0:16:52.480 --> 0:16:54.240 So I ran her around the schoolyard, so she had 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:57.000 an asthma attack. Pick and choose your battles. You just 0:16:57.000 --> 0:16:59.200 gotta pick and then you know, and I have actually, 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:00.840 you know, put some people and choke cold and things 0:17:00.880 --> 0:17:01.960 like that. But you know, you gotta do what you 0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:03.680 gotta do. Lauren's a big bitch. Let me tell you 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:06.720 a big bitch. Lad's about six too, So Lauren's a 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:10.720 big bitch. Don't get it to his thick bottom line. 0:17:10.880 --> 0:17:13.320 I don't fight fair, and you don't you ever lose 0:17:13.320 --> 0:17:15.280 a fight. Okay, those were my mom's things. You don't 0:17:15.320 --> 0:17:17.040 fight fair and don't lose the fight. And I tell 0:17:17.080 --> 0:17:19.320 my kids the same, don't fight, don't start the fight, 0:17:19.440 --> 0:17:21.840 but fight back, which is what we need to do 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:24.520 as black Americans right now. All this marching and talking 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:28.760 and protests, we gotta fight back. Veno Diva says, yes, flame, 0:17:28.840 --> 0:17:30.760 I have gone to the school and found the little 0:17:30.760 --> 0:17:33.160 boy who was picking on my little girl and told 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:36.879 him I would cut his thing, his effing hands off, 0:17:37.320 --> 0:17:40.320 his mama, daddy and his whole family. So it looks 0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:42.800 like you're right. Don't don't play that at all. Well 0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:45.439 I'll say this too. If my mama ever came to 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:47.520 the school, the whole staff was scared. They were like, 0:17:47.520 --> 0:17:49.200 oh my god, mi's holking, what's wrong? What's wrong? Why 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:51.199 are you here? You didn't want my mom coming up 0:17:51.200 --> 0:17:53.879 to the school. Okay, everybody knew run for cover because 0:17:53.920 --> 0:17:56.600 some ship's about to happen. You know what's funny about that. 0:17:56.640 --> 0:17:58.800 When we were children and we had those parents that 0:17:58.800 --> 0:18:00.679 would come up and be aggressive that because they were 0:18:00.680 --> 0:18:02.800 so overprotective of their children, all of us would be like, well, 0:18:02.840 --> 0:18:05.640 your mama doing too much and wo But now as 0:18:05.680 --> 0:18:08.400 a parent, you understand that now I didn't do enough, 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:11.520 because I'm telling you heads will roll messing with me. 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:14.439 Don't mess with my children because I didn't raise those kids. 0:18:14.800 --> 0:18:18.120 Now they talking. You can't you even agree to that 0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:20.920 when we were in school that you really just didn't 0:18:20.960 --> 0:18:22.879 do that, Like if the teacher told you like you 0:18:22.880 --> 0:18:25.440 didn't talk back to teachers any of that, you know? 0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:31.200 To me, I surely did. I would tell the teacher 0:18:31.200 --> 0:18:33.000 to shut the hell up talking to me quickly. That 0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:35.200 was That was my threat. Like, you want to talk 0:18:35.240 --> 0:18:36.760 to me crazy, trust my mom will be here at 0:18:36.800 --> 0:18:38.879 three o'clock to handle you. That was my threat. And 0:18:38.920 --> 0:18:42.600 I knew that my mom was showing up. It's your faults, Marsha. 0:18:42.960 --> 0:18:47.919 So it's your fault, miss marsh because this thing right here. Shoot, 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:52.120 that mouth comes in hand. That good mouth always works. 0:18:52.320 --> 0:18:56.800 We're talking about okay, yeah, lord, it went left room. 0:18:57.119 --> 0:19:01.159 It's sad, though, because the girl is fifteen and she 0:19:01.200 --> 0:19:04.520 would and apparently she was very comfortable with her sexuality. 0:19:04.560 --> 0:19:06.359 She was open about it, she was free. She was 0:19:06.560 --> 0:19:08.919 comfortable enough in her house and in the city and 0:19:08.960 --> 0:19:11.159 the school that she went to to be who she 0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:14.040 wanted to be. It's just too much going on in 0:19:14.080 --> 0:19:17.240 the world. And I didn't even know about the lynching part. 0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:22.600 I really didn't that just oh it just shut up, flame, 0:19:22.640 --> 0:19:24.640 my bro, You're gonna get canceled for real. I'm gonna 0:19:24.640 --> 0:19:26.200 hold that thought. We don't do it at Love Lounge 0:19:26.280 --> 0:19:28.480 and a parallel to it, I know in some ways 0:19:28.520 --> 0:19:30.960 it was used as a comedy, but it kind of 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:33.440 reminded me of the get Out of the movie get Out, 0:19:33.480 --> 0:19:36.120 because I don't remember, I don't I'm not for sure 0:19:36.480 --> 0:19:38.960 sure about it, but I believe that the um that 0:19:39.040 --> 0:19:43.280 Mikhayla Miller's girlfriend was white. So um, it kind of 0:19:43.320 --> 0:19:45.320 reminded me of the movie get Out a little bit 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:48.159