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Speaker 1: Y'all don't even understand how excited I am about this interview.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us today. Tweet I have much

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Speaker 1: look to the excited. I was too excited this time.

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Speaker 1: Party girl with single. I had the party, uh you know,

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Speaker 1: my my wine came out to have something humber wine,

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Speaker 1: the last relationship I had was exactly what it was.

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Speaker 1: It's called this or that, and it's just a couple

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Speaker 1: So so the first one is monogamy or open relationship,

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Speaker 1: which one, Okay, um, fucking why just because I would

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Speaker 1: So ready, I don't know what I want? Okay? Alright?

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Speaker 1: So home cooked meal or fine dining? Can I can

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Speaker 1: I say either? Or get not? Not recently? No, I've

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Speaker 1: The pandemic gave me a chin I didn't have before

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Speaker 1: it's called dumb bitch stories are dumb bitch advice dumb

425
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Speaker 1: bitch stories because we've all been a dumb bitch at

426
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Speaker 1: least once or twice, so we actually have a dumb

427
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Speaker 1: bitch story. You want to get your advice on that

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Speaker 1: came in from a listener, but I want to know,

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Speaker 1: we want to know do you have any dumb bitch

430
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Speaker 1: stories you'd like to share? And not saying that you're

431
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Speaker 1: a dumb bitch because oftentimes just this other person took

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Speaker 1: advantage of a good person, right, that's what happens. Sometimes

433
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Speaker 1: you end up the situations where you just you feel stupid,

434
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Speaker 1: but hey, they're lost, So tell us the time. I

435
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Speaker 1: know you got a story. Come on, now, everybody never

436
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Speaker 1: has a story. A story. I have a story that

437
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Speaker 1: I um was going to visit my boyfriend at the

438
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Speaker 1: time and he said, the hotel room key is at

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Speaker 1: the good front desks. Go get it and you see

440
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Speaker 1: your name and I'll see you later. He was doing something.

441
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Speaker 1: I went to the room that they may didn't clean

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Speaker 1: the room, so the room was trashed as far as

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Speaker 1: the bed was was occupied, yes, with underwear and a

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Speaker 1: note on the side of the bed. Well it was

445
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Speaker 1: a nice night. I had a great night. All of this,

446
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Speaker 1: all of this in the bathroom. It was a tissue

447
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: with um red. She made sure she wore red stick

448
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: to wipe it off and put it in the trash.

449
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: I asked him what it was, Oh, this, that's just

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Speaker 1: my assistant guy, and I stayed after that. That was

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Speaker 1: my dumb dumb dum And that wasn't the only time

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Speaker 1: that happened. I know how that feel them. There's more

453
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Speaker 1: time than that. I showed up to an event with

454
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Speaker 1: him that same night, like, hey, m h, listen, girl,

455
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Speaker 1: I've been there. But nigger, you stupid, like you're not

456
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Speaker 1: gonna make sure the rule clean before And I feel

457
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Speaker 1: like that's all we want. We just want you to

458
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Speaker 1: like not let me find out if you aren't here

459
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Speaker 1: doing some I should never ever know. But dogs leading

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Speaker 1: shoot out for you to see cats covered up, and

461
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 1: that's why they you got the bitch lipstick. Come on.

462
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:40,239
Speaker 1: Intuition will always let us know when something's not right,

463
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Sometimes it's overthinking for some women,

464
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Speaker 1: but to know, beep down in your heart with something right,

465
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Speaker 1: you know it. And it depends on it depends on

466
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Speaker 1: how you how you and that person are intimate, like

467
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Speaker 1: let's just say, y'all are yeah, I said, I call

468
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Speaker 1: it doing a nasty like without a condom. When you

469
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: are connected with somebody in that way, you almost feel

470
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Speaker 1: like what is happening? And I feel like they could

471
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Speaker 1: feel it too. Anytime I try to creep is like

472
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Speaker 1: my phone started blowing up all of a sudden, like god,

473
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Speaker 1: damn happening. Then had that situation too. It's kind as

474
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Speaker 1: strong as ours, though I don't think you know right,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna read this this dumb bitt story we got

476
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Speaker 1: in from a listener. I don't know. It's kind of messy,

477
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Speaker 1: but right, so um hi aj and tam bam. I'm

478
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Speaker 1: messaging to get get your advice on the current situation.

479
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: I'm in love with a man that could probably never

480
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Speaker 1: be with me. When we met about a year ago,

481
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Speaker 1: he told me he honestly, I'm sorry. When we met

482
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: about a year ago, he told me honestly that he

483
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: was married, but he and his wife had an arrangement. Basically,

484
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 1: he does his thing and her the same. I have

485
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: never been with the married man, but I gave myself

486
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Speaker 1: permission because of how the situation was presented to me.

487
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 1: They have two kids and a business they run together.

488
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Speaker 1: I admit that I've been on some stalker ship and

489
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 1: visited their business a time or five, but you're trying

490
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Speaker 1: to get your ass killed too much, exactly. Um. The

491
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Speaker 1: wife is usually there as he has a couple other

492
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Speaker 1: businesses he runs. I have had conversations with his wife

493
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Speaker 1: and she seems really nice. I really just wanted to

494
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Speaker 1: see what she looked like initially. So here's my issue.

495
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Speaker 1: I'm twelve weeks pregnant and when I I have mercenyesus girl.

496
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Speaker 1: When I read this, I was like, what the fuck?

497
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Speaker 1: All right, So here's my issue. I'm twelve weeks pregnant

498
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Speaker 1: and when I shared the news with him, he was

499
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Speaker 1: not enthusiastic about it at all. I'm thirty six and

500
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Speaker 1: this would be my first child. I will admit that

501
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: I did consider an abortion, but throughout all my relationships,

502
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 1: I have never gotten pregnant. I never actually checked, but

503
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Speaker 1: for the most part, I thought I couldn't have kids,

504
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Speaker 1: and I thought I couldn't get pregnant. She says, Okay,

505
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Speaker 1: so now it's happening, and I can't help but to

506
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Speaker 1: feel that this is my one and only chance at motherhood.

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Speaker 1: Um conversation. Conversations with him lately have been really dry.

508
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Speaker 1: It's like he's not that interested. I still see him

509
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Speaker 1: and we have sex maybe one or two times a week,

510
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: but he literally acts as if I'm not pregnant. I

511
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Speaker 1: really want to tell his wife, but I don't know

512
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Speaker 1: how he'll act. What do y'all think I should do?

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Speaker 1: She said, I'm completely capable of taking care of the

514
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Speaker 1: child and raising the child on my own. I just

515
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Speaker 1: never thought this would be my life at this age.

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Speaker 1: I really like, God, damn, I can't read. What the

517
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 1: hell I really feel like? I really feel like a

518
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: stupid ass eighteen year old. I know this is some

519
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: ship for therapy, but I feel a tiny bit better

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Speaker 1: telling someone. Wait, did you say how old she was? Thirty? No?

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Speaker 1: She says she felt like she's so no kids. This

522
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Speaker 1: is her first time being pregnant. Tweet think. I just

523
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Speaker 1: I would never tell nobody to abort any because the

524
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Speaker 1: baby has nothing to do with it. You know what

525
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Speaker 1: I mean? Pro choice? Uh, don't you know? Um, she's

526
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: got herself in a pickle. Uh, hell of a pickle.

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Speaker 1: Hell of a pickle. Uh, she's just gonna have to

528
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Speaker 1: to listen. She put herself in this position, but she

529
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Speaker 1: cannot destroy she's already kind of destroyed the family. Um.

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Speaker 1: But it's not in her place to tell the wife anything.

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Speaker 1: I don't think at this point. Yeah, let the let

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Speaker 1: that man handle that. But I don't know if I'm

533
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Speaker 1: right by saying this. But if he decides that he

534
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Speaker 1: don't want to mess with her no more, then that's

535
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: just the chance that she took and messing with a

536
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Speaker 1: married man, you know what I mean. And just make

537
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 1: sure he takes care of the baby. But at this

538
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 1: point I was Scott even nothing with the man like that,

539
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 1: And just make sure your child is number one priority.

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Speaker 1: At this point, I just don't. I don't like that

541
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 1: type of thing. That just my grid. Yeah, yeah, why

542
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Speaker 1: you want to tell the wife after this? You don't

543
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 1: want to tell right right? You want to go see

544
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: you at the place of business and stuff? Come on, man,

545
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,239
Speaker 1: I want some shoes. Can I try it on the

546
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: size eight like you and all of the business like

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Speaker 1: going to see the w Yeah that's great, so dumb,

548
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 1: you are really good. I mean I hate it for you. Yeah,

549
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 1: but there's nothing you can do or don't don't don't

550
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: tell that wife. That's not your place, not like now

551
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: you should can find out eventually, And I need more information,

552
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 1: like what's your thought process? Why do you feel like

553
00:34:57,719 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 1: you need to tell her the wife? Why do you

554
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 1: feel like that that's your place? That's what I want

555
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 1: to ask the listener. Why do you feel like it

556
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 1: is your place to tell his wife? Yeah, because you're

557
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 1: not getting the validation wants validation, right, because she's not

558
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 1: getting the response she wants out of him. Which I

559
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:17,720
Speaker 1: don't see how you thought that he would be happy

560
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: about this even though he you know, he told her

561
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: like maybe they we're in an open relationship, like they

562
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: do their thing right, but we only said that right.

563
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 1: That might not even true. So should she punish him

564
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 1: then for lying? Then? I don't know. I mean his

565
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 1: wife should his wife? I just feel like that just

566
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: oh god, that's so terrible. That's ah. Then he got

567
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: a baby involved, I mean, you know that's kind of

568
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: making worse. Definitely, she should definitely have her baby. Yes,

569
00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:00,439
Speaker 1: I agree, there, keep your baby, but now gotta worry

570
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 1: about him having these siblings where the mother of those

571
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 1: siblings resists the child and don't want the child to

572
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 1: come over and just all these ugly situations that that

573
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 1: that will affect that baby. You know that sucks. We'll

574
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: still keep that baby. Keep keep your legs close to

575
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:27,320
Speaker 1: married men. Man, you're a wife like me, and a

576
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 1: wife yet, but you're gonna write into a wife like me,

577
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna beat your ass about my husband. I

578
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: fight about a boyfriend, but I just might because to me,

579
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: women keep cheating going. Your man cannot cheat. It wasn't

580
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 1: somebody always willing to cheat with him. Yeah, but here's

581
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: the thing. You you're not making him responsible for the

582
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 1: vows everybody when you say that, you know everybody is

583
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 1: responsible because the home record is the nid's in the

584
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,400
Speaker 1: home or the woman that's at home. So I'm not

585
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: saying that they aren't responsible. But if the man makes

586
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 1: the decision, because cheating is a a choice, So if

587
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 1: you made a choice to leave out the house and

588
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 1: go sleep with somebody else, it should be a woman

589
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 1: that says, nah, you're married or no, I know, I

590
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,919
Speaker 1: know you got a baby. Especially like celebrities and stuff

591
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: like that, you see these people's lives, you see who

592
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 1: they're with, and then you still sleep with them, and

593
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 1: then you want to expose them like it doesn't make

594
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 1: sense to me, So you should get beat up. I'm sorry, yeah,

595
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 1: on the beat up part. We took grown to be

596
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 1: out here fighting women about our new Okay, then I'll

597
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 1: pay somebody to beat that ass. She just randomly got

598
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: beat coming out of Hope Foods. I don't know what happened.

599
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 1: She can't get beat up. I have a breaknant woman.

600
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: Get her right out a little, but I'm asked for

601
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: about nine months. Okay, but this is probably He's never

602
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: gonna be your man. Just know that he's never gonna

603
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 1: leave his wife for you, right unless his wife says

604
00:37:56,600 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 1: I'm done with the marriage, then maybe, But then he

605
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 1: may regret that you even his fault too though, right,

606
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 1: he gonna resent you then potentially mm hmmm. Yeah. So

607
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,319
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you didn't know, because it wasn't your

608
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: fault that you didn't know. Well you did, no, she

609
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: did no, she knew that she knew what she signed

610
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 1: up for. And this is just the consequences. You know,

611
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 1: it's a situation, but that goes for all all our listeners.

612
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: You out here fucking somebody, husband, you gotta suffer the

613
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: consequences of what might come with that, and if it's

614
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 1: a j husband, you might get your ass beat outside

615
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 1: of her damn right, like boyfriends is fair game. But

616
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 1: I spad God, if I get married my husband, everybody

617
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: getting beat up. He getting beat up too, Like I

618
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 1: don't really being for real, I'm gonna do something. I

619
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: might put roots on your ass. I might put your

620
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: ass in the freezing might I might put you your ice. Okay, hereful,

621
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:11,319
Speaker 1: we don't have a problem with my husband. That's sad.

622
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. So what's nae? Because I know I

623
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 1: know you've done some uh some some acting. Yeah, I

624
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 1: want to do more that I want. I would love

625
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 1: to do mahogany um the Dina Ross movie over that's

626
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: been I've been saying that for years. I would be

627
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: love to do that. Um, doing more music, getting into

628
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: more of the products, you know, like I want to

629
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: do a hatline I've been doing. I'm saying that for years, yes, yea,

630
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: and things like that, you know, clothing maybe you know,

631
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 1: just other things and um, yeah, you could do it.

632
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: That's so. One last question from me, what advice would

633
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 1: you give women who are going through a heartbreak and

634
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: there in the lowest place, what advice would you get there,

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Speaker 1: I would say, because I've been there. I went through it,

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Speaker 1: through the pandemic. So I would say, um, live in

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Speaker 1: the moment of whatever emotion that is and let it move,

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00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 1: go through it, you know what I mean, And so

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Speaker 1: you can come through it, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: But do not allow whatever situation that got you here

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Speaker 1: to make you feel like you are hard to love,

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Speaker 1: that you're not value, that you're not special, that you're

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Speaker 1: not I don't care what it feels like now, a month,

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Speaker 1: I mean a year later or whatever. You don't be like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I was thinking thinking, What was

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Speaker 1: I thinking? So go through it, go through the fire,

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Speaker 1: go through the pain, live through it. But as you

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Speaker 1: can come out just as beautiful as you was when

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00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 1: you got in there, it's gonna be more beautiful. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're definitely gonna look back and he's gonna be so

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Speaker 1: ugly to you. Is going to be like they what

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Speaker 1: why are you even opening your mouth? Like what are

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Speaker 1: you saying? Like he's not even gonna be able to

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Speaker 1: see your couchie girl in a year, You're gonna get

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Speaker 1: over it. Yeah, cry crying out, laughing out, talking about

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00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: whatever that substance, the thing that you go to. But

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Speaker 1: just go through it. God, you got to You got

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Speaker 1: this too. Now. You know, women when they're going through stuff,

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Speaker 1: they sit and they listen to tweets, they listen to marriage,

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Speaker 1: they blige, they listen to all of hurt for music.

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Speaker 1: I always say when I have kids, like, if I

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Speaker 1: have a little girl, she can't listen to R and B.

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Speaker 1: Like you can't listen to no style. You're gonna get

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Speaker 1: you a man. He's gonna be great. But like when

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Speaker 1: you hear like, do you think it's a subconscious thing.

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Speaker 1: It's a subconscious something. When I tell her that, you

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Speaker 1: better tell the truth. So when it does happen, because

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Speaker 1: it will, right, Yeah, it's something. Somebody's gonna break your heart.

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Speaker 1: That's what's gonna happen, you know. But when you prepare her,

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Speaker 1: you won't be because I was naive as I don't

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Speaker 1: know what coming from from the church. You know you're

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Speaker 1: not supposed to do that. Yeah, you know nothing about it, y'all. Listen,

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Speaker 1: I know now, and then it happens, you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: prepare her. But the bullshit because the bullshit, Like I

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Speaker 1: feel like families need to focus on raising boys more

676
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: like everybody always focusing on women. All keep your legs,

677
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 1: shout and do this and that don't look right. But

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Speaker 1: we have to teach her the boys that little girls

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Speaker 1: are special, so they don't spending a whole running through

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Speaker 1: women and breaking hard, especially with the music, because some

681
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Speaker 1: of the ship these rappers are saying in these songs

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Speaker 1: towards women, but all balls. And then I'll be right

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Speaker 1: the cub it's the it's the beat at the time, right,

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Speaker 1: it's not the lyrics, it is the beat. And then

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Speaker 1: I'm growing enough to have discernment. These young kids they

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Speaker 1: don't under stand and that's why they here eating booty

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Speaker 1: like groceries because they and I want to just say

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Speaker 1: this right now for everybody listen, that's a dukie home.

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Speaker 1: Don't put your friend salmonella poison. But you still gotta

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Speaker 1: be careful because some of these dudes got salmonella on

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Speaker 1: their things from having been a thing. Alright, And that's

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Speaker 1: a whole another episode right there. Who trade show the

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Speaker 1: moral story, y'all be careful. Man a man, We're really

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Speaker 1: really enjoyed you tweet. I'm so happy, I am so

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Speaker 1: thankful for coming on our show. Problems, I text all

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Speaker 1: my friends, like, girl, I'm interviewed. Tweet to my girl. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: everybody like they're jealous to us, look, one, you got

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Speaker 1: one of the best boys like you. To me, you're underrated,

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Speaker 1: Like you've got one of the best vote voices in

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Speaker 1: the industry. Like I don't know what people are, but listen,

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Speaker 1: I enjoy. Thank you so much. Please come back on

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Speaker 1: the show when you drop your red wine. Please come back.

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Speaker 1: Love to have the album. Yeah, I definitely would, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I will. Okay, okay, thank you y'all. We got tweet on,

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Speaker 1: we talked back. We appreciate you for coming. Thank you

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Speaker 1: right