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Speaker 1: I know people know that you work hard.

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Speaker 2: I wish they knew how much you truly care and

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Speaker 2: how intentional you are, and how seriously you take every job.

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Speaker 2: I don't think people realize that you have three to

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Speaker 2: four projects going on at once. I don't think they

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Speaker 2: realize why you work this hard. You quite literally probably

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Speaker 2: were put on this earth to break that generational trauma

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Speaker 2: and create this new legacy, and I feel like you

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Speaker 2: carry the weight of that on your shoulders. People don't

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Speaker 2: know that you were sleeping in your car when you

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Speaker 2: were trying to be a pro, fighting for your life,

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Speaker 2: and that's why you do what you do.

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Speaker 3: Do not make me cry? Right now? Is doing me cry?

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Speaker 3: What is going on? Y'all? I am so so so

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Speaker 3: excited for today's guest.

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Speaker 4: This is a guest that has been asked about very

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Speaker 4: very often, especially on my social media. She was formerly

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Speaker 4: the creative producer and social lead for Los Angeles Golf

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Speaker 4: Club and then started her own company called Beyond the Wake,

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Speaker 4: crafting captivating content, building communities, helping other talents and athletes

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Speaker 4: build their social platforms, and also just telling stories that

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Speaker 4: really hit. She is an incredibly talented photographer, creative director,

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Speaker 4: marketing expert and all around amazing and beautiful person. But

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Speaker 4: I guess I'm also a little bit biased because yes,

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Speaker 4: she happens to be my fiance. I am so excited

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Speaker 4: for you all to meet my favorite human on this

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Speaker 4: planet and also the love of my life that I

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Speaker 4: am so so grateful for. We're going to share how

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Speaker 4: we met and how she got into the golf world,

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Speaker 4: and so much more. Please welcome my dear fiance, Ashley

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Speaker 4: joy Driver.

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Speaker 3: To the car Tea.

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Speaker 1: Hey, honey, I'm very excited.

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Speaker 3: So you've always wanted a podcast.

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Speaker 2: I've always wanted a podcast and it's been on my

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Speaker 2: vision board for a couple of years.

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Speaker 3: Now, well, now you're here.

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Speaker 1: This is it.

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Speaker 4: So usually before we get started, we always start with

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Speaker 4: a fun little game. I kind of told you a

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Speaker 4: little bit about it last night.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but prep you. But this is all about how

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Speaker 3: well do we know each other?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so it's rapid fire questions, but we're gonna answer

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Speaker 4: it how the other.

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Speaker 3: Person would answer it. Okay, does that make sense?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, So the first one, are.

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Speaker 2: We saying this at the same time or am I

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Speaker 3: Let's say, you're going to guess what would choose. We're

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Speaker 4: Okay, you're ready, all right, So the first one is ready,

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Speaker 4: golf or beach?

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Speaker 1: Beach? Beach. I thought you were going to count it down.

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Speaker 1: I was ready.

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Speaker 3: You would definitely choose beach. I would choose beach.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't think people realize this, but you actually don't

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Speaker 2: enjoy golfing in your free time any time.

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, hey, I want to go golfing.

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Speaker 3: No correction, I like golf.

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Speaker 4: Just telling someone who may love their job in finance,

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Speaker 1: When golf is what you do eighty percent of the

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Speaker 1: time for your work.

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Speaker 4: Like, okay, favorite place in the world, you're gonna tell

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Speaker 4: me what you think my favorite place is in the world.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you what I think yours is. Okay, ready?

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Speaker 1: Oh with you? Yeap with me?

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Speaker 3: Just me and you in Hawaiian world. No, you're right,

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Speaker 3: I would definitely say Hawaii.

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Speaker 1: Wherever you are is where I want to be.

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Speaker 3: You say so many different places.

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Speaker 1: So favorite place of the world is anywhere you are,

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Speaker 1: but where there's saltwater.

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Speaker 3: You want to go to the Swiss Alps. You want

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Speaker 3: to go to Europe, but I haven't been there yet.

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Speaker 4: Favorite ice cream flavor, same time, yeap three two one,

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Speaker 3: Oh absolutely right, right, mine's Rocky Road.

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Speaker 1: Y'all, no one come for me about the bubble gum flavor.

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Speaker 3: I really thought it was going to be a deal breaker.

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Speaker 3: It was a red flag. It was a red flag.

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Speaker 2: You know how couples are, It's like, oh, he's a ten,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like, I can never have a bite of yours,

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Speaker 1: I need bubble gum in the ice cream.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, go to karaoke song three to one Valerie

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Speaker 4: floor and.

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Speaker 3: My favorite is Valerie.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, your go to a Selena Komola floor.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she goes crazy. Guys, there's a dance with it

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Speaker 3: and everything.

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Speaker 1: I love my singing. I do, but it's always that

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Speaker 3: Do you like to choose that one? Like Disney song?

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Speaker 1: It's the Frozen song?

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Speaker 3: Why do you like the hardest on the sea.

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Speaker 4: We have many talents, and singing is not one of them.

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Speaker 4: The way we like to perform when we karaoke's pretty.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty crazy. We belt it out.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, pet peeve of one another each other, okay,

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Speaker 4: all right, three to one, never putting things back. When

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Speaker 4: I take your charger, she gets so mad when I

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Speaker 4: take her charger.

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Speaker 3: It's seriously.

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Speaker 2: There are many things I do that probably just are

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Speaker 2: like my little qualms and quirks, but literally, when you

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Speaker 2: take my charger, I'll be like, honey, where's my charger?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. You get so mad.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but my charger just better be on

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Speaker 1: the wall. Literally.

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Speaker 4: Or two women, all right, we're gay and we share. Actually,

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Speaker 4: he takes my things, and god forbid, I'd take her

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Speaker 4: but god forbid, I take her phone charge of. This

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Speaker 4: game over, okay, So that's it for a little bit

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Speaker 4: of four play, and now we're going to dive into us.

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Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of people share a lot

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Speaker 4: lot of what people have been asking us.

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Speaker 3: How did we meet?

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Speaker 1: We met through a mutual friend.

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Speaker 3: Shout out to coach Rusty.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to coach Trustee.

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Speaker 2: He is a creator and now he's an artist, paint artist,

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Speaker 2: doing his thing.

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Speaker 1: We love him.

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Speaker 2: He lived in Orlando. I was living in Orlando at

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Speaker 2: the time, and I saw a picture of you on

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Speaker 2: his story and I was feeling really confident that day.

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Speaker 2: I had been single for a while. At that point.

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Speaker 2: I just slid into his DMS and I said, when

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Speaker 2: are you going to introduce me? Yeah, and he said,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, she's so available, and then the rest

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Speaker 2: was history.

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Speaker 1: The rest was history.

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Speaker 2: I think within forty five minutes you were following me

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Speaker 2: and I literally messaged you and I said, that was fast.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, from there, mind you.

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Speaker 4: She was actually a very slow messager and she was

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Speaker 3: Didn't think anything could happen.

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Speaker 4: And then, of course DMS led to text message. Text

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Speaker 4: message led to voice message, then it led to facetimes.

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Speaker 2: And all her long phone call phone calls, falling asleep

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Speaker 3: Then I was like, why don't I just come over?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was you just bopped over real quick

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Speaker 3: Way home California.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I literally just visited for two nights lo and behold,

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Speaker 1: here we are.

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Speaker 4: Here we are literally just from a slide into the

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Speaker 4: DM's shout out to Coach Rusty.

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Speaker 3: It's because of him that we were able.

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Speaker 1: To give better.

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Speaker 2: When a mutual friend introduces you, because you have that

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Speaker 2: mutual friend to check, you're like, hey, they're legit, right.

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Speaker 4: I did ask Coach does she look like her pictures?

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Speaker 4: Because you know, I've be't catfished quite a few times.

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Speaker 3: On the dates.

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Speaker 4: And he goes, oh, God, no, she's like way hotter

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Speaker 1: He was honest.

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Speaker 3: I'll take that remark.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad he was.

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Speaker 3: And here we are.

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Speaker 1: We are.

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Speaker 4: So I want to dive into gear upbringing in your childhood.

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Speaker 4: I think I've always known you to be such a

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Speaker 4: creative human being. You're also an amazing photographer, you work

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Speaker 2: Probably early on, as young as maybe eight nine and ten,

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Speaker 2: I was always doing things with my hands.

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Speaker 1: I love to paint.

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Speaker 2: My mom would drop me off at Michael's for these

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Speaker 2: surrounded by forty year old women taking painting classes. But

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Speaker 2: jewelry and sell that our garage sales. I did a

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I was always doing that.

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Speaker 2: And it was until six or seventh grade when digital

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Speaker 2: started just shooting landscapes in my backyard. I knew that

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Speaker 2: I kind of always said an't eye because of my grandma.

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Speaker 2: My grandmother is an incredible photographer.

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Speaker 3: So would you say that she kind of did she

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Speaker 3: get you into it?

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Speaker 1: I would say so, yeah, in a way. I always admired.

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Speaker 2: She has this incredible collection of vintage cameras in the

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Speaker 2: always thought that was really cool. And when I started

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Speaker 2: would reach out to.

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Speaker 1: Now she has me NonStop unsolicited advice.

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Speaker 4: She does Grandma, Grandma Linda be in the DMS or

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Speaker 4: She'll be in the public forums just say in how

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Speaker 3: But we love Grandma.

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Speaker 2: She'll be in my comment like it's a private chat.

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Speaker 1: Mom.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's so cute.

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Speaker 4: Fun fact, Ash is actually like eight percent Filipino. She

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Speaker 4: will literally ride and die with that percentage. Gone forbid

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Speaker 4: anything else. But for those that actually are wondering, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you're actually half Mexican.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you're actually a melting pot.

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Speaker 1: I'm a giant melting pot. I did do that twenty

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Speaker 1: three and me thing. It lit up like a Christmas tree.

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Speaker 2: I said that I was half Mexican my entire life,

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Speaker 2: because my mother is from Mexico. That came back as

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Speaker 2: When I got the ancestry report back, it said I

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Speaker 4: We're going to claim it. I'm full Filipino, so therefore

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Speaker 1: With red hair.

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Speaker 3: I love your red hair. Can you explain to everyone

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Speaker 2: No, because I don't know how to stick to one

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Speaker 1: Yes, the fun marketing, the fun marketing. I'm a creative marketer,

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Speaker 4: That actually encomes to so much though you actually help

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Speaker 3: You do photography.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think if you work in marketing, you warn

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Speaker 3: That's right. I feel like you just honestly do it all.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I do it all. I love it.

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Speaker 2: My favorite is brand strategy, content strategy, ideation. I think

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we talk in social media.

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Speaker 4: I want to actually touch a little bit on golf.

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Speaker 4: What was your experience in golf before even meeting me?

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Speaker 2: Honestly, nothing, just a lot of mini put putt golf

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was it.

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Speaker 4: And now, what was your first impression of golf and

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Speaker 2: My first impression of golf was Scottsdale, Arizona Waste Management Weekend.

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Speaker 2: I realized, like I realized like, oh waste wand had

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Speaker 2: I'm always just happy to be there.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was. I was happy to be here.

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Speaker 3: What do you think of the game now?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a crazy party.

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Speaker 2: That's like the only version of golf that I kind

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Speaker 2: that's the version I know. I think it's an incredible sport.

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Speaker 2: I think it's the most humbling sport. If you think

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Speaker 1: Why can't I do this? But I love golf now.

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Speaker 2: I think there's so much opportunity for growth with women

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Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with it. I love that it's a game

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Speaker 4: So do you like playing golf or do you prefer

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Speaker 2: I love playing golf and I would be out there

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Speaker 1: PG Torr called me Ashley behind the ropes driver.

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Speaker 3: That's right. First tour events.

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Speaker 2: I was supposed to shoot for LAGC. I was in

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Speaker 1: To get the choice.

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Speaker 4: She was inside the ropes. She got her wrist slap

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Speaker 4: for that one. But also Colin Colin Morikawell, I called

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Speaker 2: We're friends or not friends friends, but you guys are

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Speaker 4: What would you say is your favorite memory in golf

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Speaker 1: Well, obviously it's gonna be with you.

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Speaker 2: Probably that epic hybrid shot that I took and it

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Speaker 2: That whole day is by far my best memory in

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Speaker 3: So now that you're in the golf social media.

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Speaker 2: I know everyone's like, oh, do you golf? I'm like

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Speaker 2: But creatively, I think golf is just now starting to

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Speaker 3: I think it's a good point.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I do feel like the talent, especially among anyone

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: Not only that, but I think that when it comes

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Speaker 2: so much content ideation that goes into a process. You

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Speaker 2: you're probably going to get two to three revisions all

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Speaker 1: Take creators seriously.

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Speaker 3: The creators worked their asses off.

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Speaker 4: The editor or the shooter or the actor, the producer,

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Speaker 4: the scriptor you name it.

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Speaker 3: Quite literally everything.

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Speaker 2: There's two people in this world, the people who create

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 1: I forget that.

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Speaker 4: So I feel like ever since you've been with me,

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Speaker 1: You don't say, you don't say, don't well, I would love.

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Speaker 1: I think that's in two parter.

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Speaker 2: Actually, the first one, obviously, is just the nature of

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Speaker 1: I love to be out.

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Speaker 2: I'm always like, so what are we do in But

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Speaker 2: you want to be home, and so naturally I fell

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Speaker 4: She's like, eat more, eat more, Wow, you gain weight.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, mother, please stop talking.

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Speaker 3: God you keep asking us to eat.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Mama se be ruthless sometimes, but we love. But

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Speaker 4: how do you feel like the adjustment has been for you?

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Speaker 4: Kind of not being in the spotlight people that I

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Speaker 3: But I feel like you've handled it with like so

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Speaker 2: I think the beginning was the biggest adjustment, obviously, like

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Speaker 2: And that used to get to me at first, just

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Speaker 3: And you do fight them.

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Speaker 2: I say that a lot because I'm just like, sometimes

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Speaker 3: I didn't even know about that.

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Speaker 2: Biggest adjustment was it was that at first, I honestly

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Speaker 4: of went with the wind, and you were like, oh

451
00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,040
Speaker 4: my god, why are we going so fucking fast?

452
00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:23,800
Speaker 1: I got on the ride and I was like, oh

453
00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:25,520
Speaker 1: my god, how long is this ride?

454
00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:28,480
Speaker 3: I'm like forever? If you want it, Oh.

455
00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:31,240
Speaker 1: I want it. Bib I was just like, dang, she's fast.

456
00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:36,320
Speaker 4: What has been your biggest moment since hopping on this

457
00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:37,600
Speaker 4: roller coaster? Oh?

458
00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:38,080
Speaker 1: Wow?

459
00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:41,320
Speaker 2: Probably with the essencly porcing Bide Creek experience. That was incredible,

460
00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:47,160
Speaker 2: single pore. It took us so long to get there,

461
00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:50,560
Speaker 2: and it was so stressful because my passport had been

462
00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,679
Speaker 2: chewed up by a dog and I genuinely did not

463
00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:57,200
Speaker 2: know if I was going stuck in that flight. We

464
00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:59,840
Speaker 2: almost didn't make the flight because my passport was such

465
00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:02,520
Speaker 2: an issue just at Lax. But once we made it

466
00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:06,159
Speaker 2: into that room at Marina Bay Sand's crazy richations by

467
00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,000
Speaker 2: the way, if you don't know that hotel, the most

468
00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:10,080
Speaker 2: stunning hotel. And we walked into that room and I

469
00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:12,840
Speaker 2: ripped the curtain. I saw the gardens by the bay.

470
00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:14,920
Speaker 2: I literally started crying.

471
00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,399
Speaker 3: Because it did start crying. It is such a beautiful and.

472
00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,440
Speaker 2: Then you think about it, you think, how am I here?

473
00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:23,120
Speaker 2: My fiance works in golf. That was a huge pitch

474
00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:23,480
Speaker 2: the moment.

475
00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:24,600
Speaker 3: And you also got to meet Tiger.

476
00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:27,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's definitely an obvious pinchbee moment. That was really

477
00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,639
Speaker 2: cool to see that at first, and it was just

478
00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:32,919
Speaker 2: funny to be around him. I got to take his picture,

479
00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,480
Speaker 2: you know, meet Charlie. Very firm handshake. I will say

480
00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:38,440
Speaker 2: I matched him with a strong eye content. Yeah, but

481
00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:41,240
Speaker 2: it was funny because I had taken a picture. I

482
00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:43,879
Speaker 2: shot a photo of you and Tiger, remember, and it

483
00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:47,040
Speaker 2: ended up on an article because people saw that you

484
00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,879
Speaker 2: were his new girlfriend. Yes, there was an article saying

485
00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:50,600
Speaker 2: that you.

486
00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:55,919
Speaker 1: Did all in. Oh, Tiger's new lady, and I was like, no,

487
00:19:56,200 --> 00:20:00,760
Speaker 1: actually I'm the lady, and I took.

488
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:01,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, but thank you.

489
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:03,080
Speaker 1: It was so funny.

490
00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:06,359
Speaker 3: It was crazy. Okay, God forbid I stand next to

491
00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:08,040
Speaker 3: the legend. We were five feet away.

492
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:12,080
Speaker 2: God forbid, quite literally, forbid, you'd be a pretty lesbian

493
00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:13,479
Speaker 2: standing next to Tiger Woods.

494
00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:16,560
Speaker 4: You just know, so I want to actually get into

495
00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:19,480
Speaker 4: now your career. You work in marketing.

496
00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:20,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so marketing.

497
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:24,800
Speaker 2: I started in an entry level marketing position at a

498
00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:28,920
Speaker 2: marine manufacturer company in the boating industry and the watersport industry.

499
00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 2: I was always passionate about water sports. But when I

500
00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,280
Speaker 2: got that job, that job literally fell into my lab.

501
00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:38,040
Speaker 2: I had done an incredible excursion to the Bahamas Sixth

502
00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:41,680
Speaker 2: Island trip for Boating Magazine with Roswell at the time,

503
00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 2: and I met the guys on that trip and we

504
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:45,880
Speaker 2: just clicked. And so they were like, hey, we've got

505
00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,280
Speaker 2: this marketing position. We think you'd be great. And that

506
00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:52,200
Speaker 2: is quite literally where I learned full steam ahead everything

507
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,480
Speaker 2: there is to know about marketing, and then anything I

508
00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:57,320
Speaker 2: didn't know I taught myself. I was very much hungry

509
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,600
Speaker 2: at that point, you know. I was like, I'm going

510
00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:01,760
Speaker 2: to say yes to everything, like, hey, Ash, could you

511
00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:04,400
Speaker 2: do this? Yes, even if I don't know how, I'm

512
00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 2: going to learn and figure it out. But as soon

513
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:10,320
Speaker 2: as I left Roswell, I knew that I had just

514
00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:12,840
Speaker 2: found an even bigger passion for the sport because I

515
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 2: had always wakeboarded.

516
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,080
Speaker 1: Since I was a young kid.

517
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 2: But something about the athletes, I knew that they needed

518
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 2: help because I don't think a lot of people know

519
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:24,840
Speaker 2: that wakeboarding was an insanely big sport back of the day,

520
00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,920
Speaker 2: you know, X Games, sponsored by rock Star, Monster, all

521
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,080
Speaker 2: those big brands, and unfortunately it's kind of a dying

522
00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:30,639
Speaker 2: sport right now.

523
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 1: There's just no more money in it.

524
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 2: And I got really good at my own social media,

525
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,639
Speaker 2: and then got good at obviously I'd built Roswell's social

526
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,400
Speaker 2: media so well that I had a couple athlete friends

527
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 2: and people reach out to me just asking for help

528
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 2: on their own personal brands. I can probably do this,

529
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 2: you know. And then beyond the wake is just where

530
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 2: that came from.

531
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:48,960
Speaker 1: That name.

532
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:50,240
Speaker 3: You're a water baby too.

533
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 1: I'm a water baby.

534
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,440
Speaker 4: For those that don't know what Roswell is, it's a

535
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:54,920
Speaker 4: company within like the water.

536
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 3: Sports worlds for speakers.

537
00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 2: It's so yeah, I'm still very passionate about the company

538
00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 2: marine manufacturer, but audio. So it's an audio company. So

539
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 2: we did like the Sickest event. It was like the

540
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 2: Sickest speaker. You know, we were doing Miami Boat Show

541
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 2: for Laudlder Boat Show. We were in Miami, whining and dining,

542
00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 2: you know, our OEM's and all this stuff is a

543
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 2: very lavish lifestyle in marketing, and I was young at

544
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:16,679
Speaker 2: the time, so I was.

545
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:17,720
Speaker 1: Like, wow, this is cool.

546
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 4: And then you met me and transitioned your marketing knowledge

547
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 4: into the golf world. So tell me about entering the

548
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 4: golf world.

549
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 2: I don't think people realize this, but obviously when I

550
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,679
Speaker 2: moved out to LA you realized, holy shit, I have

551
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 2: to start all over again. And I don't think that

552
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 2: hit me until I was actually here. We're finally in La,

553
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,119
Speaker 2: settled in our new home. I was literally at the

554
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,119
Speaker 2: right place at the right time. I was applying for

555
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 2: marketing jobs left and right. I think I applied for

556
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 2: over sixty job and I was just burnt out from

557
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:50,480
Speaker 2: that many rejections or ghost calls. We had heard about

558
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 2: Los Angeles Golf Club because Alexis o'hanian reach out to

559
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,439
Speaker 2: you personally to be an investor, and I want you

560
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,240
Speaker 2: to be a part of this, and so they reached

561
00:22:58,240 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 2: out and said, hey, we've got a little.

562
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 1: Event at time golf.

563
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 2: So we went and I finally got to meet the

564
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 2: incredible Kayla Green, who was their fractional CMO at the time,

565
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 2: and we just got to talking.

566
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:08,919
Speaker 1: What do you do where you come from?

567
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 2: I told her obviously social media, brand strategy and all

568
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 2: the fun stuff. Her eyes got big and she was like,

569
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,640
Speaker 2: oh my god, we need to can you use you? Yeah,

570
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,919
Speaker 2: I'm doing the social media and I hate it. And

571
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 2: I was like, that was the door creeping open, And

572
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 2: I said, amazing.

573
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 1: When can you meet?

574
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 2: I said, Tish and I were leaving for my birthday

575
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: trip tomorrow, but the day I come back, let's meet

576
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 2: for coffee. We had like a two and a half

577
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 2: hour coffee meeting, and the restless history.

578
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 1: The rest was history. I think I was like higher

579
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 1: number four or five with als Anger's Golf club as

580
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:41,120
Speaker 1: a contractor. About that was my first entry into golf.

581
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,920
Speaker 4: It was a crazy one because Los Angeles Golf Club

582
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 4: is one of six teams they're expanding within TGL, which

583
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 4: is a new Golf League simulator.

584
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:50,439
Speaker 1: One of the six cities.

585
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 3: It was just insane.

586
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 4: Because he hit the ground running building this thing, and

587
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 4: then I feel like everybody was going crazy over lagc's marketing.

588
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 3: So can you explain what you did for the team.

589
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 2: As the inaugural team, we led the pack and if anything,

590
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 2: we had even more pressure on us because we had

591
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 2: launched the name, the logo, but we were already kind

592
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 2: of announcing hey we're here, yeah, our overall team and concept,

593
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 2: and we got pushed back the season. So we had

594
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 2: announced balloon popper anyone else. So literally, Kayla and I

595
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 2: go into how are we going to keep growing this community,

596
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 2: keeping this community entertained and the season doesn't start for

597
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 2: a year and a half.

598
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 1: Now, that's crazy.

599
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 2: So honestly, once I got with Kayla, I immediately jumped

600
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 2: into all things social media. I had pitched her what

601
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 2: the voice should breathe, the overall content strategy, the content pillars,

602
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 2: what kind of content we should be posting, then I

603
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 2: turned into creative producer. I was shooting photos at the time,

604
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 2: and then we hired Ryan Murray, the photographer. Once we

605
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 2: hired him, I was able to take a step back

606
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 2: and do more of a producer role in oversight.

607
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 4: More like a creative director handle all the events. You

608
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,120
Speaker 4: basically built the brand between you and cal Green.

609
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,640
Speaker 2: I feel like he built up AlgC and with the startup,

610
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 2: you're going to do absolutely everything, and I was passionate

611
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 2: about everything. So working with her, like we built the

612
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,880
Speaker 2: complete creative voice in DNA of that team together.

613
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 3: You did incredible work. I've never seen like that kind

614
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 3: of grind.

615
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 2: It was really cool because obviously we had a lot

616
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,439
Speaker 2: of pressure on ourselves to keep driving that momentum for

617
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 2: a year.

618
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: But it was cool because we set the.

619
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 2: Tone and everyone was like, oh, I want to be

620
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 2: like LAGC, like leading the hat, leading the pack, and

621
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 2: it was something so different that golf had never seen before.

622
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 2: And that was Kayla's idea. She was like Los Angeles

623
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 2: Golf Club, we are going full blown, straight city Angelino.

624
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:49,719
Speaker 1: I said, all right, I can work with this.

625
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 4: For those that don't know, we keep saying Kayla Green,

626
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 4: Kayla Green is an amazing CMO.

627
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 3: She had built.

628
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 1: Built a city football club.

629
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 4: She built up all kinds of brands, all kinds of teams.

630
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 3: She's very passionate about. Yeah. Literally anything she touches turns

631
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:05,880
Speaker 3: to gold.

632
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: She's my mentor and my best.

633
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 3: She is she is quite literally the best.

634
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 4: And then after LAGC you also have done on things

635
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:11,959
Speaker 4: in golf.

636
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:16,919
Speaker 2: You model moved here, couldn't find a job anywhere. I

637
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 2: was trying to build up the clientele, and then Bad

638
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 2: Bertie reached out to you. I think forgetting that you

639
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 2: were with Puma at the time and we're like, we

640
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 2: need a model, and you were like, my girlfriend, Yeah,

641
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 2: hire her. And that's when I got to meet the

642
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,439
Speaker 2: Bad Birdie team and I went out to Charleston and

643
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 2: shot with them. They became family at that time, and

644
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 2: then I started shooting some photos for them once in

645
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 2: a while.

646
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 1: U GC. I really started shooting photos a lot more. Yeah.

647
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 1: Now I actually help a couple of golf creators as well.

648
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 3: Now we're going to talk about all in.

649
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 4: Let's go a woman's golf apparel line, which now you

650
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 4: are a.

651
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 3: Huge part of your basically the other half to it.

652
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 1: I jumped on that train and then I said, let's go.

653
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 3: I know, how was the experience and spin so far?

654
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 4: Launching all in with me, your personal work in it.

655
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 4: You are quite literally like the eyes and visuals behind

656
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 4: it all.

657
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 2: I think it's been amazing because it's already kind of

658
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 2: everything I was doing at Los Angeles Golf Club, so

659
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 2: I was able to just bring the grip mindset, and

660
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 2: then this is even more fun because you're my heart

661
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 2: and soul. This brand is my heart and soul. So

662
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 2: I think it's just been really fun having full creative freedom.

663
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 1: But also it's been scary because.

664
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 2: You say we're gonna do this, And remember I looked

665
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 2: at you a couple weeks before launch and I said, hey, honey,

666
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 2: you know this is like forever, right.

667
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 3: This isn't just passion project.

668
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 2: We don't know how to do things small, so I

669
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 2: literally all in. That's why I looked at it and

670
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: I said, I need you to know that this is

671
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 2: forever now.

672
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, well here we are.

673
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Speaker 3: What has been the biggest challenge, you'd say, for you.

674
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 2: I think just us working together, just trying to learn

675
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 2: the dynamic of when to turn the business partner colleague

676
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: portion off and then be like, okay, we're actually future wives,

677
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 2: like let's make sure we turn it off and like

678
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 2: turn the work day off.

679
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Speaker 1: I think that's been the biggest adjustment.

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Speaker 4: Quick call out is the fact that my beautiful fiance

681
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 4: allowed us to push our wedding so that we can

682
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 4: launch this brand and we are going to get married.

683
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 3: We promise and we will get into that.

684
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 2: It was supposed to be April twenty twenty six. Now

685
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 2: we're hoping for fall. Now it's not the fart.

686
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, what is your role in all In?

687
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: We came up with this ridiculous title, like a week ago,

688
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: we were laughing about it.

689
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.

690
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 2: It's the Chief Brand and Creative Officer, but we just

691
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 2: call it CBBL.

692
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 4: I keep calling on the CBBL because I never member

693
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 4: come back from.

694
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 3: Like, you're the chief Brizilian Butler.

695
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 2: Chief brand and creative all things marketing creative at this

696
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 2: point until I can hire a team and bring them on.

697
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 3: Where do you want to see all In go? Where

698
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 3: do you think you can go?

699
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 2: I want it to be the fastest growing women's golf

700
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 2: where brand the country has ever seen. I wanted to

701
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 2: be the malbone of women's golf in terms of when

702
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 2: you think of those luxury brands, while I want women

703
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,719
Speaker 2: to have that brand because I don't think there is

704
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: that brand yet, So I want to be on every

705
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 2: woman out there. You know. My goal for it is

706
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 2: to be like the Kith of Golf. I really want

707
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 2: us to get into collaborations one day, but I'm going

708
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 2: to be really really excited about all the future events

709
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 2: and the community aspects of that. I agree all In

710
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 2: is founded on diversity inclusivity, so I think that's what

711
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 2: I'm most excited to make all in.

712
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 4: I'm just so grateful that I have you with me

713
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 4: because there are so many times, especially when we don't agree.

714
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 4: The difficulties of working together is that we're both creative.

715
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 4: We're going to butt heads. But I've always told you

716
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 4: that I feel like whatever we create together is going

717
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 4: to be a magic and no one can compare. But so,

718
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 4: my God, the process to get the.

719
00:29:56,600 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 1: Idea well goes like this already, and you'll.

720
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 3: Like just make it come to life.

721
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: For christ, this is a bit for me. The other day,

722
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Speaker 1: The mat are gonna hate me saying this.

723
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 2: But I literally was like, you know what, it really

724
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 2: is that easy when your girlfriend or your fiance, your

725
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 2: wife has a good idea. You just tell her that

726
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 2: is a great idea, and if it's not, you go, baby, yes.

727
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's just like rework.

728
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: It a little bit.

729
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 2: But yeah, I was like, I'm just gonna support everything

730
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 2: you do because we'll save so much more.

731
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 4: Time anytime we disagree. There are moments where I'm like, gosh,

732
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 4: I don't know if this makes sense that we work together.

733
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 4: But then selfishly, I'm like, I don't want anyone to

734
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 4: have you.

735
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 3: Because because you're so good at what you do.

736
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 4: Like, if if any of you have looked at all

737
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 4: in golf, you look at the web, if you look

738
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 4: at the newsletters, if you look at the visuals, if

739
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 4: you look at the social media, like that is all

740
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 4: ash And if I ever had to give her up

741
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 4: to another brand, I would completely lose. I would lose

742
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 4: every battle. And I'm such a competitive person. Obviously I'm

743
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 4: also biased because she is my fiance, but like, you're

744
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 4: just so good at thinking outside the box and bringing

745
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 4: a different energy and also really caring, you know, it's

746
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 4: not just a job. Like we obviously both really care

747
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 4: about the growth of women's golf.

748
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 2: I honestly, I don't think I would be able to

749
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 2: watch someone else do the things that I do, because

750
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 2: it'd be hard. I'd have to be at least orchestrating

751
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 2: what was happening. I don't think there's ever a world

752
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 2: where we could not work together at all.

753
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 4: I do feel like it takes a special couple to

754
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 4: be able to work together. And you were already traveling

755
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 4: with me and helping shoot and edit while on the road,

756
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 4: and now we have decided, you know, let's keep you home,

757
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 4: and now we're working all in and I feel.

758
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 3: Like we're well, I think, actually we make a really

759
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 3: great team. I really do.

760
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, five honey, five girl.

761
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 4: But I do want to actually dive into a couple things.

762
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 4: So we're going to try and keep some of the

763
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Speaker 4: story short. But I feel like I've been a broken

764
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 4: record when it comes to my coming out story. Sure,

765
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 4: and I would personally love for you to share with

766
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 4: the audience your coming out story.

767
00:31:58,840 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

768
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 2: Well, it's actually going to be a pretty short story

769
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 2: because I attempted to come out younger, like freshman year,

770
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: but I was almost outed at fifteen years old by

771
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Speaker 2: the varsity volleyball coach of my high school.

772
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Speaker 1: At the time.

773
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 2: Oh, by the way, I had a friend who was

774
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 2: openly bisexual, and she was quite literally just a bestie.

775
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: But god forbid other girls see me hanging out with

776
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 2: a friend. Girls were really yappy back of the day,

777
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 2: and being gay, lesbian, bi openly and publicly was just

778
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 2: not common back then in high.

779
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: School at least.

780
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 2: So there was a rumor that her and I had

781
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 2: made out on the bus on the way home from

782
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 2: an away game, and quite literally all I did was

783
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 2: rest by head on her shoulder. The next day, the

784
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 2: varsity coach told me I was going to be bench

785
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 2: and she screamed at me in front of the whole bus, saying,

786
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 2: the hell disgusting, disrespectful that would has been? And I

787
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 2: was like, I literally didn't do that. So I was like,

788
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 2: I am never coming out now. But then fast forward

789
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 2: in my senior year at eighteen, I met a girl

790
00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: and I was just obsessed.

791
00:32:58,960 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: It was like kind of like a pen.

792
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 2: I got drunk at a party once told my friend

793
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 2: that I was talking to a girl. The next day,

794
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 2: this big boy of a y apper told everyone. The

795
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 2: following day at school, my best friend Whitney texted me

796
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 2: and she goes, why are people saying that you're bisexual?

797
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 2: I was about to deny and I said it's because

798
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 2: I am. Later that day, I finally had to open

799
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 2: up to my dad because I had already been kind

800
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 2: of in a funk, just sad over this girl.

801
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: He said, what's going on with you? What's going on? Yeah,

802
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 1: he said nothing.

803
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,479
Speaker 2: He said is it a boy? Is it school? And

804
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 2: then he paused and he goes, is it a girl?

805
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 2: And I said yeah, and he said I love you.

806
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

807
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 2: He said it's going to be hard, and he said,

808
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 2: thank god. Now that means you can't get pregnant.

809
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 3: Way to break the high school. Yeah.

810
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's every dad's biggest fear.

811
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, it sucks to hear the fact that you didn't

812
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 4: get to control your own coming out story and to

813
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 4: be completely demeaned and called out by a coach, which

814
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 4: if I ever find you, it's over for you. I'm

815
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 4: saying your name and I'm sharing it with all of

816
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 4: the social media in the world because that's super fucked up.

817
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:10,760
Speaker 3: But I'm just so glad that you know you were.

818
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,399
Speaker 4: Accepted, especially by dad, because that would have been really cool.

819
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my guy, that's my buddy.

820
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I am my father's daughter.

821
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 4: You're also very open about your ADHD. Oh, yeah, And

822
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 4: I don't think people actually realize how difficult it is

823
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 4: to live with it. Can you share it with everyone

824
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 4: what it was like growing up?

825
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think people realize that you have severe

826
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 2: it actually is. But I was diagnosed when I was

827
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 2: ten years old, so that was way before ADHD and

828
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 2: ADD was a little more common. Like ily remember the

829
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 2: first parenting books that came out, Parents had them in

830
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 2: the kitchen.

831
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,760
Speaker 1: So when you were diagnosed with ADHD at.

832
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Speaker 2: That young an age, it was almost treating a little taboo,

833
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 2: kind of like you didn't know what to do with

834
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 2: that kid.

835
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,360
Speaker 1: And I was medicated very quickly.

836
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 2: I was immediately put into the program where you get

837
00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 2: more time on your test. So when I I was

838
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 2: a kid, I thought I was a problem, like something

839
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 2: was wrong with me, you know. Because of that medication,

840
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 2: I actually developed involuntary tics that I actually never talk about.

841
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 2: But there are these just like little impulsive ticks. It

842
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 2: could be anything. Some people sometimes mistake here for OCD.

843
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 2: There's even a point where my grandmother thought that I

844
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,320
Speaker 2: had Tourettes because the tics got so bad. But growing

845
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 2: up with that going on and off medication, the summer's

846
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 2: of the school year.

847
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: That was definitely the hardest part.

848
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 4: In dating you and loving you. I really had to

849
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 4: learn and understand ADHD. And I think, what kind of

850
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 4: I guess not Maybe it kind of irks me is

851
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 4: that when people openly say like, oh, there goes like

852
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:40,800
Speaker 4: my ADHD again, I'm like add and I'm like, no,

853
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 4: don't say that you don't understand, because I feel like

854
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 4: the way you've best described it to me, it's like

855
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 4: you constantly have five thoughts going in one.

856
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 2: I saw something funny the other day, it was like,

857
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 2: what's it like to have ADHD. It's like waking up

858
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 2: every morning waiting for an email to say I'm mad

859
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 2: at you and you're in big trouble. It's like waking

860
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 2: up with anxiety a little bit. You have four different

861
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 2: thoughts going on at once. But then I actually don't

862
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 2: think people realize when you do have severe ADD and ADHD.

863
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 2: It really does affect your relationships, your ability to get motivated,

864
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: your ability to perform well in your job, and emotionships,

865
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 2: your emotions, it affects everything in your life. Every day

866
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 2: when you walk outside when you have ADHD, we're putting

867
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,320
Speaker 2: on masks because we constantly have to adapt to the world.

868
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 4: So what would you say is the best advice you

869
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 4: can give anyone who is struggling with ADHD when it

870
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 4: comes to work.

871
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 2: When it comes to work, one hundred percent, you need

872
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,399
Speaker 2: to find out what your coping mechanisms are as far

873
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:40,400
Speaker 2: as like, what's going to keep you organized. I'm a

874
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 2: list writer. I have so many to do lists. I'm

875
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 2: even telling our Alexa to remind me to do things.

876
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 2: Reminders and notes are my thing. But I highly recommend

877
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 2: time blocking in your calendar because we can get really distracted.

878
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 2: So find out genuinely what motivates you and hold on

879
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 2: to a baby.

880
00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 3: And how about when it comes to day.

881
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 2: My biggest advice for if you're getting into a relationship

882
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 2: and you're starting to get serious and those feelings are

883
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 2: starting developed, or maybe you're already dating and it is

884
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:14,399
Speaker 2: getting serious, definitely preface how bad it actually is for you.

885
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,479
Speaker 2: If you are already aware of what your symptoms are

886
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 2: and how you navigate life. You didn't realize that it

887
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 2: takes me a month sometimes to full laundry.

888
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,359
Speaker 3: But I think just tell your part, not playing it

889
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 3: like quite literally.

890
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: Just I'll just look at the Oh, there's the laundry.

891
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:32,839
Speaker 3: Again, King's crazy look at the laundry, though.

892
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 2: I think the best advice is give your partner a

893
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 2: heads up, tell them, Hey, you're gonna get frustrated with

894
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 2: me at times, but I just need to remind you

895
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 2: not to.

896
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: Take it seriously.

897
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 2: And now we've even developed too when you need my

898
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 2: full attention, you go, honey, I need your full attention,

899
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 2: and I put whatever's down, I turn the TV off,

900
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 2: mute at whatever I do, and I go, okay, yeah,

901
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:57,240
Speaker 2: and I lock the fucking I will sick.

902
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 4: And I will say, from being on the receiving end,

903
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 4: I think my best advice, and i'll piggyback off of that,

904
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 4: is you have to love your partner for who they

905
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 4: are because this is not something that's going to change.

906
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 4: There are times when it's going to improve, in times

907
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:11,919
Speaker 4: when it's going to really hit the fan.

908
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 2: The other day, what did I put in the fridge?

909
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 2: I think I put cereal in the fridge or ice

910
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,399
Speaker 2: cream in the fridge the other day.

911
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, you left the creamer and the pantry and you

912
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 4: put something that wasn't supposed to be in the fridge.

913
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 3: It's one of those things.

914
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 4: But I also feel like, really understanding ADHD really learning

915
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 4: about it because I don't know what it's like to

916
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 4: wake up and not be decisive.

917
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 3: I'm a very decisive person.

918
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 2: You know this of me, and it's been actually one

919
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 2: of our biggest struggles in our relationship and something that

920
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 2: we had to learn how to navigate very quickly.

921
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 4: But I will say that when you're on the superpower

922
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 4: is insane. She can do ten things at once and

923
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 4: I'm like still working on the same thing. I can

924
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 4: lock in, she can lock in. It's crazy lock in

925
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:53,839
Speaker 4: when it's down to the wire, that's when you lock in.

926
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, At what point did you know that I

927
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 4: was it for you?

928
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: That's a very sweet question.

929
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 2: First phone call actually, the one that was like three

930
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,439
Speaker 2: and a half hours. I knew that you were going

931
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 2: to be the one, if not someone extremely special in

932
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,320
Speaker 2: my life because everything that you and I were saying,

933
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 2: we were literally just hammin egging it. The same experience,

934
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 2: same values, morals. I was like, she either she's my

935
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 2: soulmate or she was my best friend.

936
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 4: I knew that you were it after we finally met

937
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 4: in person. We had already been talking for like a

938
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 4: month and a half straight, like NonStop, like twenty four

939
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 4: hours a day when I met you in person, I'll

940
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 4: never forget that. We had the most incredible day and

941
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 4: a half.

942
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:33,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I remember.

943
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 4: Being like, God, what if this doesn't work? And the

944
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 4: best case scenario happened. We had the best date ever.

945
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 4: I'll never forget when we flow danced together so sa

946
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 4: in your room, and I was like, I've always wanted

947
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 4: a partner that would just dance with me.

948
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 2: I always thought that too seriously. As soon as I

949
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 2: saw that you danced, I was like, thank god.

950
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 4: I just remember leaving that trip crying because I was like,

951
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 4: oh no, like.

952
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, you called your best friend. I just started crying.

953
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:58,479
Speaker 2: I called it a bitch, you're in trouble. She did

954
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 2: say that, that's what my friend said. She said bitch bye,

955
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 2: because I was facetiming my best friend. When you land

956
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 2: in my armpits were sweating, and as soon as you

957
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 2: got off that airplane, my smile went.

958
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: Like this because I picked you up at the gate

959
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:11,760
Speaker 1: like a lady.

960
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 3: You did, and she was bye, that's right.

961
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 4: I called my best friend who it will be my

962
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 4: maid of honor and I didn't even have to say

963
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 4: a word, and she was just like I get it.

964
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 4: I understand, you don't need to say anything. I'm just

965
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 4: sobbing on this call. And she just knew me so well.

966
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 4: She knew that, oh it went so well that.

967
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 3: This is it.

968
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:35,359
Speaker 4: My best friend found the person crazy. So we also

969
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 4: get this question all the time, so we might as

970
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 4: well just nip it in the butt. Honey, do we

971
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 4: want to have kids? And who's carrying the baby?

972
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:41,440
Speaker 1: Me?

973
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 2: I am the oven. She was like, I am not

974
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 2: doing it. I said, all right, fine, I'll do it.

975
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 3: And in a perfect world, I feel like two kids

976
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 3: would be great.

977
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, two is perfect. I mean one is a blessing.

978
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 2: People don't realize how expensive it is for two women

979
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 2: or two men, like you know, gay couples that actually

980
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 2: have a baby. So it's very intense. Process is a

981
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 2: very lengthy process. So I'd be blessed with one. Three

982
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 2: would be great.

983
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 4: And for those that are wondering, we were actually going

984
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 4: to go through the process this year. We're going to

985
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 4: freeze our eggs and create embryos, to freeze embryos, and

986
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,879
Speaker 4: we think that our first child hopefully will be half

987
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 4: me with our donor, and then hopefully the second child

988
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 4: will be half you.

989
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 2: So I love carry your egg for the first one,

990
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 2: and then the second baby will be from my eggs. Yeah,

991
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 2: our babies are probably not gonna look much alike, but

992
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 2: they're gonna be the coolest kids in school.

993
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 3: They will be.

994
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 4: We're gonna be like, yes, you too are siblings. Yeah,

995
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 4: yes one is tanner then the other get used to it. Yes,

996
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 4: I love it.

997
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 1: I love it. I'm so excited.

998
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:44,280
Speaker 4: What is one thing that you wish people understood more?

999
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 3: When it comes to me? And I'll answer about.

1000
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: Oh, that's a good question.

1001
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 2: I think I wish people realize, Like, I know, people

1002
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:56,240
Speaker 2: know that you work hard. That's obvious, and the people

1003
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,240
Speaker 2: know how busy you are, but I wish they knew

1004
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 2: how much that you truly care and how intentional you are,

1005
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 2: and how seriously you take every job. You know, like

1006
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 2: you're busy, But I don't think people realize that you

1007
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 2: have three to four projects going on at once. I

1008
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 2: don't think they realize why you work this hard. You know,

1009
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 2: you quite literally probably were put on this earth to

1010
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 2: break that generational trauma and like create this new legacy genuinely,

1011
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 2: and I feel like you carry the weight of that

1012
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,840
Speaker 2: on your shoulders, and people don't know that people don't

1013
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 2: know that. You know, you were sleeping in your car

1014
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 2: when you were trying to be a pro, fighting for

1015
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 2: your life, and that's why you do what you do.

1016
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 2: That is why you work so hard, and that's why

1017
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 2: you always fight. And I love that about you.

1018
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 4: Yeahest we do not make me cry right now, don't

1019
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 4: make me cry. I will say that one thing that

1020
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 4: I wish people understood more about you is just.

1021
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 3: How talented you are.

1022
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: I thought I was going to cry.

1023
00:42:55,719 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 4: I'm really passionates. Obviously, I love to the to the

1024
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 4: to the death of me. I'll literally be anyone up

1025
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 4: for you. But no, Like, you're so talented, and I

1026
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 4: know it's been hard since you moved to LA for me,

1027
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 4: and I just it's been tough and I'm just.

1028
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 3: So grateful for you.

1029
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 4: But like, you're one of the most talented and most

1030
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 4: you know, diverse people that I know, and you can

1031
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 4: literally take anything on it.

1032
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 3: You just do it.

1033
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 4: And it breaks my heart when I see life hit

1034
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 4: you really hard, because I'm like, God, you just deserve

1035
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 4: the world and there's only so much that I can

1036
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 4: offer you in this world, and I'll give you anything,

1037
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 4: But I just wish people.

1038
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 3: Like really saw you the way I saw you.

1039
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 4: I wish you saw you the way I see you,

1040
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 4: you know, because like you're the most beautiful person in

1041
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 4: the world to me, and so I don't know, you're

1042
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 4: my little golden retriever. Like you're the best thing that's

1043
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 4: ever happened. Truly, I couldn't do this life without you.

1044
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 3: And this is our last question. We're gonna end on

1045
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 3: a high. What is your favorite thing about us?

1046
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 2: Honestly, I love how much fun we have, how playful

1047
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 2: we are. Like and my grandma told me this, marry

1048
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:08,439
Speaker 2: your best friend, because looks said baby, And you want

1049
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 2: to be on the couch or the porch with your

1050
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 2: best friend who's going to make you laugh your ass off.

1051
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,879
Speaker 1: And you and I laugh countly.

1052
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:15,359
Speaker 3: We do.

1053
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 2: We feed into each other and we just laugh. Like

1054
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: if you're not laughing with your partner, literally run like

1055
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 2: you need to be laughing with your partner at least

1056
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 2: once a day.

1057
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 3: Oh, we love.

1058
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 1: That's so much more than my favorite thing.

1059
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 4: I think that's my favorite thing is that I really

1060
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 4: do feel like I am engaged and soon to be

1061
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 4: married to my best friend. We laugh all the time,

1062
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 4: and I remember the first time you made me laugh

1063
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 4: and I was like, WHOA, I never cackled like that.

1064
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 4: Well the end of another I just showed her my

1065
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 4: ugly laugh.

1066
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, is that the Filipino cackle?

1067
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 3: It is? And that's what I know.

1068
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: I love that. I love you any thank you so

1069
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 1: much for having me. No, thank you for joining and

1070
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:57,280
Speaker 1: by I'm like, look at me and just yapping away.

1071
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 3: Well we just we just yep and yep. But you

1072
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 3: work when everyone find you.

1073
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 2: Everyone can find me at Ashley period Driver. That is

1074
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Speaker 2: Ashley a s hl ee period driver. That's right on

1075
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Speaker 2: everything on Instagram, TikTok everything.

1076
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Speaker 4: Welcome to the Party with Tasha Allen is an Iheartwoman's

1077
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Speaker 4: sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports Entertainment.

1078
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Speaker 3: I'm your host, Tisha Allen.

1079
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Speaker 4: Christina Everett is our executive producer, and Jennifer Bassett is

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Speaker 4: our producer. Sound mixing and mastering by Mary Doo. Special

1081
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