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Speaker 1: Guys, you're not supposed to, uh, wax the nose hair

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Speaker 1: inside of your nostrils. You're not supposed to. I'm reading

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Speaker 1: about this right now. I just wanted it. This is

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Speaker 1: a public service I'm going to do.

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Speaker 2: Women.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys get noshares? Ladies?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we get nosehares?

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Speaker 1: What do you do with them? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Mine aren't like long that I need to do anything.

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Speaker 2: Same.

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Speaker 4: Oh I've seen my mom pluck hers and that looks painful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they don't like.

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Speaker 4: Grow out of my nose. But I would wax it though,

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Speaker 4: if I had to. I wax the mustache. And then

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Speaker 4: there's moments where I'm like, should I just get up

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Speaker 4: there in the nose?

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Speaker 3: I'm like this close. I think we need them, don't we. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you're supposed to know.

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Speaker 1: Well, the alley it says you're Yeah, waxing may pave

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Speaker 1: the way for germs to enter through the nose. There's

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Speaker 1: a risk of infection. You're not supposed to do that.

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Speaker 1: What was the story you were talking about, Caitlin, about uh,

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Speaker 1: the everything shower or something? Oh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so, Actually, so gen Z is borrowing from millennials

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Speaker 5: on this one, but a lot of people on TikTok

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Speaker 5: are talking about the everything shower, and so I don't know,

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Speaker 5: like for women, I don't know if you guys know this,

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Speaker 5: but there's like different kinds of showers. There's you know,

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Speaker 5: it can be a hair washing shower, it can be

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Speaker 5: just a body a quick body shower. And then the

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Speaker 5: everything shower is when you literally do everything.

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Speaker 3: So it's a shave, it's a wash, it's a.

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Speaker 5: Maybe like a hair mask, a face mask, you're exfoliating,

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Speaker 5: you're doing everything, and that's a time consuming shower.

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Speaker 3: So there's different kinds of showers.

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Speaker 5: But gen Z named it the everything shower, and they're

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Speaker 5: talking about it a lot on the OLDTT.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's every shower for a man, is

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Speaker 1: the everything Like we just get, we cover all the

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Speaker 1: body parts, we kind of you know, if we're going

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Speaker 1: to wash the hair, we wash the hair. You know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I will always watch all my body parts. That's

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Speaker 3: that's an everyday shower.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, friend, do you shave in the shower? Do

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Speaker 2: you shave?

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Speaker 1: No? Well, I don't really shave, but I mean I

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Speaker 1: know my manscaping slash beard trimming, that's a different activity.

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Speaker 1: That's a whole different show that. Well, I do it

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Speaker 1: in the shower so that all this hair goes everywhere,

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Speaker 1: you know, when it stays one place. But I also I

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Speaker 1: shower after that. But that's more of like a I

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Speaker 1: don't know, twice a week kind of appointment. Got it

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Speaker 1: because I don't. I don't have to do it every day.

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Speaker 1: I guess if you if you want to have smooth

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Speaker 1: legs every day, you have to shave every day.

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Speaker 5: Right, Well, some women's hair on their legs doesn't grow

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Speaker 3: It just depends on how hair. Like.

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Speaker 5: I have friends who could shave once a week and

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Speaker 5: be completely fine my Italian booty, like I need to, Like,

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Speaker 5: I'll literally shave and then like a half hour later, see.

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Speaker 3: Like the little yeah on my legs. But yeah, I'm like, dammit,

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Speaker 3: I just shave.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, oh yeah, five o'clock.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my leggies, my ankles. But I mean even with.

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Speaker 5: Laser like, I've been lasered in my armpits and my

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Speaker 3: It'll go away for a while and then that lasering

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Speaker 3: got nothing on your hotel.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm going through this list of stuff

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Speaker 1: I have this week that we didn't get to and

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Speaker 1: I was like, what is and everything shower? I feel

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Speaker 1: like everything shower is a shower.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know, Like you, sometimes you just don't

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Speaker 5: that good stuff. So but always please watch you know,

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Speaker 3: A before the date shower split.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, never before, never before.

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Speaker 2: That's the first time I've ever heard that one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's how you always always watch hear that always.

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Speaker 7: I mean yeah, everything shower though, sounds to me like

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Speaker 7: a before a date shower, before the whole travel, before

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Speaker 7: the booty gull shower. Yeah right, you take care of

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Speaker 7: all those things. So I'm happy gen Z has discovered

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Speaker 1: mean I probably overshower now. It's quite bad for my skin. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: My friends are like, you need to stop, like your

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Speaker 3: But like I don't know, I don't know what.

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Speaker 5: And during COVID, like I would shower so much like

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Speaker 1: that's the worst possible thing that could happen to me,

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Speaker 3: Know why God, why do good bad things happen to

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: What about your slip? What you gotta go?

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Speaker 7: You got to?

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Speaker 1: Why don't you just dry your asshof?

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Speaker 1: It's but yeah, people are texting them. They're way less

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Speaker 1: I just didn't. I wasn't. I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why it became so much more. I

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Speaker 1: guess I'm just older and wiser now or whatever.

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Speaker 3: That American girl.

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Speaker 5: Doll book that we all had in the nineties that

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, groom but like you know washer, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Were having there's an American doll book about washing your

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's all of it. Yeah, about puberty everything. I

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Speaker 1: American Girl doll about American Girl book puberty. Oh wow, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yes, oh god, oh my god, memory unlocked.

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Speaker 1: We all had that Girl's Body Book by American Girl.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, boys, right, my stuff, the body Book for boys?

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Speaker 1: You know how many this We've had this conversation before,

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Speaker 1: But I'm always amazed at like, you know, you guys,

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Speaker 5: Like my friends and I like taught each other how

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 1: I Kiki, how was he like, did you get a

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Speaker 7: I got a whole talking to. My sister was very detailed.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, she explained it all to me.

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Speaker 7: And I was very uncomfortable with Kaylyn to your point,

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Speaker 7: but years later I thanked her because.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's good.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I think everyone should do that with their

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Speaker 3: But it's it's it's very awkward.

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Speaker 7: Like now I have teenage nephews and they're doing things

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Speaker 3: The parents who it's awkward. I feel how do I

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 7: I think I feel like they know more than we

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Speaker 5: I was like I didn't want it, Like I was like, please,

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Speaker 3: God to be honest, No, I didn't feel that in

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Speaker 4: I just feel like I was actually really quiet about it,

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Speaker 4: But then I think, you know, more girls got it

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Speaker 3: Like, what.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought yeah, like was over yet something else

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Speaker 3: Every guy I dated. Yeah, I'm getting girl. They just

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Speaker 2: It's not what the tim farts in front of He doesn't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm cut out. I don't think

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Speaker 2: Morning show.

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Speaker 1: I want to talk to uber drivers for a second

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Speaker 1: eight five five five nine three five to all my

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Speaker 1: And if you have a customer, maybe don't call. Maybe call.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, somebody, trust me. I've been an ubers

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Speaker 1: you see that somebody, it'll have like the heads up

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Speaker 1: been driving. Have you ever noticed that? Yes, because I'm

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Speaker 1: we'll have somebody's name on it, and then it will

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Speaker 1: say like two hours, twelve minutes. I'm like, damn, Like,

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Speaker 1: I want to know if as an Uber driver, you've

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Speaker 1: phone conversations in the back of the car. I know people,

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Speaker 1: you know, they'll probably get in fights. You know, who knows,

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Speaker 1: And this was in New Hampshire, I guess, But supposedly

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Speaker 1: This woman was calling in like threats to this bomb

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Speaker 1: you know, the Uber driver's probably paying attention. I don't

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Speaker 1: think you can help, but eavesdrop. In those situations, I

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Speaker 1: None of you who've ever driven for Uber, have you no?

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Speaker 1: I know Jason did door Dash, but but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But can you think of a time when you've ever

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Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh, okay, And then I'll read the

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Speaker 1: I probably should have done that, because that person could

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Speaker 1: have I guess written it down.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Buck, what's up? Buck?

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Speaker 9: Hey? Where's you going? How's going?

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Speaker 10: Guys?

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Speaker 1: My man? What have you overheard? As an uber driver?

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Speaker 9: I just overheard this morning one lady she got I

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Speaker 9: out a check for twenty five thousand. He's the wrong person.

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Speaker 9: Who Oh, the person the person, the person they mailed

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Speaker 9: the twenty five thousand dollars check too, was supposed to

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Speaker 9: So someone got that check and the other person got

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Speaker 9: get that all straightened down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's something you'd want to probably figure out. I

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 9: Oh you should have heard her. She was on the

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Speaker 9: a fifty thousand. And the guy was like, oh no, no,

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Speaker 9: I got my wife in the carway. Man, can you

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Speaker 9: repeat that? And then they was the ones who actually

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's a that's a major screw up. But see,

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Speaker 1: this is what I'm saying, like, if you're having a

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Speaker 1: Thank you man, having the day?

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Speaker 9: Oh you too, guys, Thank you buddy, I.

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Speaker 1: See you man.

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Speaker 3: Me am I happy birthday, buddy, I.

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Speaker 1: Said, birthday, Buddy. I think I don't know if we

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Speaker 3: I ain't go huh Buck, can.

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Speaker 1: I have the same birthday? Yeah? I don't know. Somebody's section.

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Speaker 1: I was in an uber on the way to work.

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Speaker 1: I was in the sober living I was in sober

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Speaker 1: what he heard. Oh damn, yeah, I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: had an uber driver tell me one day. I'm sitting

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Speaker 1: at the back of his car. He's driving me somewhere

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Speaker 1: and he's like, yeah, I let people do whatever they

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Speaker 1: wanted to back in the car. I don't pay any attention,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sitting there. I'm kind of looking around, like,

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Speaker 1: do you like bliss al? I don't know if you

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Speaker 1: should let them do whatever they wanted the back of

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Speaker 1: the car.

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Speaker 3: The Frist Show is on.

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Speaker 1: We'll hear more about to speak tymn sighting so Kiki

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Speaker 1: her boyfriend who lives with her. I'm giving all the terminology, right,

451
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Speaker 1: I gotta get it all right. So, you guys have

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Speaker 1: been together for almost three years and no one's I

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Speaker 1: shouldn't say no one, but really, no one has ever

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Speaker 1: seen this guy before because you don't put him on anything.

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Speaker 1: He's not in any social media post. You say, he

456
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Speaker 1: better put a ring on it before he gets recognized.

457
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Speaker 1: Like that.

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Speaker 7: Absolutely, And we've been together six years. You're giving him

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Speaker 7: too much credit?

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Speaker 3: Oh Si, yes, yes, I thought.

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Speaker 1: I said free before and you said yeah, And it

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter. So a lot of years, you know, I'm

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Speaker 1: not I'm not real good with with dates and times

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Speaker 1: and things like that. You know, Jason's been I have

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Speaker 1: the same age, Yeah, as far as I'm age, even

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Speaker 1: though what are you seven years younger than me? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: How many years younger than? So?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm still too young for you though,

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Speaker 1: aren't I?

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, there's a minimum here.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we.

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Speaker 1: Got to hit that. But let's hear about the Big

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Speaker 1: Tim signing. So, Paulina, Jason, who else saw Big Tim?

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Speaker 1: Because you had an event yesterday, Because you have a

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Speaker 1: little cooking show on YouTube. You and Ryan Lee who

477
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Speaker 1: was on before us, very successful YouTube cooking show. It's

478
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Speaker 1: actually very funny too. Everyone should go and watch. But

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Speaker 1: you celebrated one year of your cooking show and Big

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Speaker 1: Tim showed up.

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Speaker 7: Yes, yes, I let him out the house to come

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Speaker 7: to the party, and he was in his full glow

483
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Speaker 7: of his name you've created for him. He's like walking

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Speaker 7: around the party introducing himself as Big Tim down. But

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Speaker 7: I was so happy when Jason and Probablina walked in

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Speaker 7: because I'm like, finally, you guys can confirm that he

487
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Speaker 7: is alive and well, and you could tell Fred that

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Speaker 7: he does exist.

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Speaker 1: So yes, exactly. Yeah, I was in Arizona. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: make it, But had I known there was a Big

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Speaker 1: Tim sighting, I probably would have flown back in on

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Speaker 1: the Red Eye and made sure that I was there

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Speaker 1: for this, because I'm very curious to know. I have

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Speaker 1: an image in my head what I think Big Tim

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Speaker 1: looks like, but I really don't know. I've only had

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Speaker 1: people described Yeah, hey.

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Speaker 7: Look, how would you describe him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if you would paint a picture for me, Caleen,

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Speaker 1: you know he's gonna explode.

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Speaker 5: You know, you guys are familiar with Mount Rushmore, so

501
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Speaker 5: they actually there. I mean, they haven't unveiled it yet,

502
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Speaker 5: so this is kind of like insider, but it is coming,

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Speaker 5: and it's gonna be Big Tim's head.

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Speaker 3: All those presidents and it's just because of how fine here.

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Speaker 6: He didn't have to be a president. Okay, have been

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Speaker 6: able to keep that a secret so long on the mountain.

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Speaker 6: I'm going to the ribbon cutting.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you're gonna you're gonna repel that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he will be there obviously.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: When you think Mount Rushmore, who from big tail.

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Speaker 3: Around here, Well, that would be whomever is on the

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Speaker 3: one hundred dollars bill.

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Speaker 2: That is definitely incorrect. Be guessing you.

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Speaker 7: Bill first of all, Bill, Bill Clinton.

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Speaker 1: He should be Bill. You think Bill Clintons.

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Speaker 3: Might as well?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I love Bill on the one his.

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Speaker 1: Own he got his own brand and cigars. That's a

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Speaker 1: whole different story. Though you don't say good so he

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Speaker 1: is not? No so, no trying out who is on

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Speaker 1: Mount Rushmore? Paulina aside from Big Tim Kikey's boyfriend. Just

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Speaker 1: think of good presidents.

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Speaker 4: President Barack Obama should be the president.

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Speaker 1: Time.

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Speaker 4: I know George Washington for sure, the first president George Washington.

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Speaker 1: Four there are four.

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Speaker 3: Oh boy, I only know two. If anything.

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Speaker 1: If I were to say, if I were to say Theodore,

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Speaker 1: you would say belt yeah, Abraham Lincoln, you just say

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Speaker 1: that George Washington. And if I were to say Jefferson,

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Speaker 1: you would say.

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Speaker 3: Ah, don't know, you don't know. L d L Apartment

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Speaker 3: in the sky Thomas.

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Speaker 1: Tommy, Yes, Tom, I think I used to work here

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna, not gonna, I'm not gonna work here anymore.

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Speaker 1: So all right, Tommy Jefferson is up there waiting by

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Speaker 1: the phone. Why did somebody get ghost? People?

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Speaker 8: Do it?

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Speaker 1: Next? On The Fred Show.

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Speaker 3: The Fresh Show is on.

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Speaker 1: Friend Show, Friend Show Radio dot Com, friendce or radio

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Speaker 1: on Instagram. All that good stuff. Hikalin Hi, Jason Hi,

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Speaker 1: Rufe Hey, Paulina Jaking good money. We've we've done various

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Speaker 1: versions of this before, and I gotta be vague here,

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Speaker 1: but my mom was asked to go to coffee with

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Speaker 1: a friend of hers recently, and this friend revealed that

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Speaker 1: another common friend she suspects is being cheated on. Unbeknownst

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Speaker 1: to her. She thinks that this woman's husband, their common friend,

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Speaker 1: is cheating, maybe embezzling money too. Maybe maybe maybe not.

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Speaker 1: They're not certain of it, but they're pretty sure this

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Speaker 1: is happening. Okay, why are you laughing? It's just like maybe,

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Speaker 1: but I mean, no one physically saw it. There's some

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Speaker 1: suss activity going on, but like it's not like they

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Speaker 1: were caught red handed, which a lot of times, you know,

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Speaker 1: no one actually very rarely we actually see the person

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Speaker 1: put in the P and a B, you know, so

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Speaker 1: like most of the time we're speculating, making you know,

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Speaker 1: an educated guest or whatever. But the woman who wanted

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Speaker 1: advice from my mom and it, and this woman is

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Speaker 1: closer to the potential cheated on party than my mom is.

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Speaker 1: And the question was, I'm friends with both of these

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Speaker 1: people in this relationship, But do I should I say

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Speaker 1: something like do I go to the woman and say,

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Speaker 1: I think you're being cheated on and maybe you're being

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Speaker 1: cheated on financially too, or you know, money's being embezzled

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Speaker 1: from from this business or do you mind your own

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Speaker 1: and do you say nothing because maybe it's not happening.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it is happening and this person knows about it,

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Speaker 1: because I don't know. I don't think people understand it.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you do, but it seems to be very common

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Speaker 1: these days that people have arrangements that we don't know

581
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Speaker 1: about And I think sometimes if I were to expose that,

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Speaker 1: like maybe I know about it, but if I were

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Speaker 1: to have exposed it, I might be embarrassing somebody who

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Speaker 1: already knew and said it was okay. And you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, I.

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Speaker 8: Don't know if the person will be embarrassed, like they'll

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Speaker 8: just tell you, no, we have this situation, but.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they don't want you to know. Maybe they don't

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Speaker 1: want other people to know that they're in a sexless

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Speaker 1: marriage or a loveless marriage or something. Wow, Well, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't want people to know that if I were in

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Speaker 1: a relationship, if I were married and I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: and the only reason to stay married, I would think

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Speaker 1: is to maintain an image of your family or friend

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Speaker 1: groups or whatever. That's the only reason that you would

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Speaker 1: stay married, I would think in that thing, So I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't if I had an arrangement with my wife that

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Speaker 1: we could sleep with other people. I don't think I

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Speaker 1: would want everybody to know that, because otherwise I would

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Speaker 1: just get to you know, like I like, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, would you really want would you really

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Speaker 1: want people to know Keiki that Big Tim was sleeping

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Speaker 1: with other women. But and you said it was okay

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Speaker 1: because you don't want to do them anymore.

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Speaker 7: Well, I wouldn't want people to know that now, but

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Speaker 7: I wouldn't care if they knew, because clearly I don't

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Speaker 7: care at all.

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Speaker 1: People are trying to you know, some people did.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I've heard of a number of situations like this. People

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Speaker 1: who've been married for a long time, they have kids.

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Speaker 1: This is this case. They've been married for a long time,

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Speaker 1: they get a bunch of kids. You know, they had

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Speaker 1: a business together, a lot of stuff going on together.

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Speaker 1: And I've heard of people who it's like, look, I

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Speaker 1: love you as the mother or father of my kids.

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Speaker 1: I love you know, we have friends, we have a house,

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Speaker 1: we get a business with all this different stuff. Totally

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Speaker 1: but but but we've grown apart romantically, so I don't

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Speaker 1: really want to divorce you. But I also like, don't

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Speaker 1: want to have sex with you. So can you just

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Speaker 1: do your deal and just don't want to find out?

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Speaker 1: Don't embarrass me?

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Speaker 2: Is it?

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Speaker 1: And I know one or two situations like this, and

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Speaker 1: that seems to be the sentiment, don't embarrass me. It's

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Speaker 1: what it comes down to, like keep it tight and

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Speaker 1: I don't think this person is keeping it very tight

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Speaker 1: if a number of people around him are talking about this.

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Speaker 1: But my mom's thing, she actually came to me and

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Speaker 1: she was like, you know, my mom was once cheated

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Speaker 1: on and everybody knew about her, and she felt super

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Speaker 1: embarrassed and when it came out, humiliated. And I think

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Speaker 1: some people were culpable. They knew and knew that it

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Speaker 1: would blow up the marriage, as it should have in

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Speaker 1: this case. Or I think there were people that didn't

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Speaker 1: want my mom to hurt basically, so the look they

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Speaker 1: look the other way. What do you do though, I mean,

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Speaker 1: do you inject yourself into this thing and potentially lose

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Speaker 1: both of them as friends because let's say the other guy,

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Speaker 1: let's say the dude here is really trying to keep

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Speaker 1: this a secret and he denies it. He's what he's

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Speaker 1: going to do is call her a busybody. You know,

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Speaker 1: the person who's trying to help is going to wind up.

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Speaker 1: You know, he's going to try and create a situation

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Speaker 1: where she's a liar, or she's nosy, or she's making

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Speaker 1: stuff up, or she's crazy or whatever. And that might

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Speaker 1: work depending on the nature of their relationship. So do

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Speaker 1: you do you say something, how do you say it?

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Speaker 1: Or do you just mind your own business and say, look,

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Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not part of this relationship. They're both

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Speaker 1: my friends. I don't know, and I didn't see it myself,

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Speaker 1: so I really can't say anything.

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Speaker 8: What if you only bring up the embezzling part, you

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Speaker 8: know what I'm saying, don't bring up the cheating part,

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Speaker 8: just like, hey, maybe I think and I want to

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Speaker 8: take your finances. I think you're humanity and that will

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Speaker 8: just lead to other things, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I guess you could, But I mean, wouldn't you have

660
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Speaker 1: a lot of questions if somebody came to you and said, hey,

661
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Speaker 1: I think Jess is stealing money from you, wouldn't you

662
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Speaker 1: have a lot of question Why do you know this?

663
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Speaker 1: Why do you think that? Who knows? Where did you

664
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Speaker 1: get this information? Right?

665
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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean it's just a simple check, you

666
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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 8: You if that person's not checking her finances and their

668
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Speaker 8: significant other is stealing from them, It's it's an easy

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Speaker 8: I think, But you see.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying. Ever, I feel like if if somebody

671
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Speaker 1: came to me and said, hey, Fred, I think your

672
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 1: wife is stealing from you and then just walked away left.

673
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: You know, I'd be like, oh, why why might you

674
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Speaker 1: random person think that? What? Who have you been talking to? What?

675
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? But I'm actually pretty torn

676
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Speaker 1: because you know, there's part of me that would want

677
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Speaker 1: to help somebody in that situation if I knew something,

678
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 1: there's another part of me that doesn't know for sure,

679
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,719
Speaker 1: and I'd rather just sort of stay out of it

680
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 1: because it's not my business. So and that's where this

681
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: woman is because she's friends with both of them, but

682
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Speaker 1: she doesn't think the dude is doing the right thing.

683
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Speaker 5: Yeah, after seeing how devastated my nana was at the

684
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 5: amount of people that saw stuff and new stuff close

685
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 5: to her, like family members, friends, and didn't say anything,

686
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 5: I will always risk it and do the right thing

687
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 5: and share. I mean, they saw proof and nobody would

688
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 5: believe her, and she had to hire a PI to

689
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 5: find out for herself. And and this could have ended

690
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 5: years earlier and she could have, you know, moved on

691
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Speaker 5: with her life. So sure, that's why I have a

692
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Speaker 5: view of you know, if you care about somebody and

693
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 5: you see something, you say something, and yeah, you might

694
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Speaker 5: risk it going the other way, but I promise you

695
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 5: later in life the truth always comes out and they

696
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 5: will apologize and be back in your life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because you could risk losing the friend, because the

698
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: friend might choose their spouse and be like, but.

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Speaker 5: It would mean helping them, so you might. I mean,

700
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Speaker 5: it just depends on your view. And for me, that's

701
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Speaker 5: that's why you gotta have proof, Like you gotta have

702
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 5: some type of miss. I'm gonna name her Sheila.

703
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 2: Miss Sheila.

704
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Speaker 3: Don't have no proof, you say she doesn't have any.

705
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Speaker 1: No, everybody has a high level of speculation coming from

706
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: the speculation. I don't think this person would ever listen

707
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: to this, But I just I think, is it.

708
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Speaker 3: Like did they see like, uh, is he like losing

709
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 3: weight and changing his appearance?

710
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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm really trying to say here, but it basically

711
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 1: it's it's it seems apparent to everybody around that this

712
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: is going on.

713
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

714
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and and you know it sort of all adds

715
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 1: up in some ways. But you know, I don't know.

716
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 3: Right I would have to. I guess I would have

717
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 3: to know what the why. It's a parent. Yeah, you

718
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 3: need some heart.

719
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Speaker 7: You're gonna take it to in my opinion, if you're

720
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 7: gonna take it to somebody and tell them that you

721
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 7: think that their spouse is cheating, you need some photos,

722
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 7: like you need heart proof to protect yourself in that situation.

723
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 7: If you just have a speculation, I don't think you

724
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 7: need to insert yourself in someone else's relationship because it's

725
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 7: probably gonna go bad. However, if that's your friend and

726
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 7: you really care about them, you could just say how

727
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 7: are you and Mike doing?

728
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Speaker 10: You know, like, not you Jason trying to change more

729
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 10: than that? And I said no, I said no.

730
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Speaker 7: But yeah, maybe acts like how are you guys doing?

731
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Speaker 7: And you know, I'm just worried about you guys. You

732
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 7: know I've been thinking about and that's how you can

733
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 7: gotta hast the waters. But if you come and you

734
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 7: don't have any proof, but that's just messy. Sometimes you

735
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 7: don't need the proof.

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Speaker 8: I would say, I would be like, you know, the

737
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 8: streets are talking, like Pauline would say.

738
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Speaker 2: Like the streets are talking.

739
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Speaker 8: You know, I was told that you know your man

740
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 8: might be doing some things, you know, and I just

741
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Speaker 8: want to be the first one to tell.

742
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Speaker 5: You that if the streets are all think that, and

743
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 5: then you don't know that even if it's a speculation,

744
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 5: that's fair, Caitlyn.

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Speaker 1: The way that I would definitely inject myself, I think

746
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Speaker 1: is if I had a good friend I was also

747
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 1: friends with his wife. Let's say in this example, and

748
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:16,400
Speaker 1: he were doing something and involving me, like inviting his

749
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 1: girlfriend out to hang out with us or something like.

750
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 1: I'm now I'm culpable, Like I'm literally seeing this. And

751
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 1: I know people who this has happened to. Yeah, and

752
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: they went to this person and said, look, I love you,

753
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 1: and I love your wife. And even I don't love

754
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: your wife, I respect your wife, and I don't want

755
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 1: to go down as somebody who's watching this all and

756
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 1: trying to help you live your double life. Ye, if

757
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 1: that person refused to clean up in front of me,

758
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: I might get involved at that point because now you

759
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Speaker 1: don't respect me, you don't respect your wife, Like, don't

760
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: involve me in this, don't. I don't need to be also,

761
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 1: And because then now somehow I'm not even doing the thing.

762
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: But somehow if you knew that somebody, then now you're

763
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: also an a hole. It's like, no, just keep me

764
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Speaker 1: out of it. And in this case, no, but he's

765
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 1: involved in this really, so I don't know. You're saying

766
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 1: you better have some photographic evidence. Ruvio is saying, you know,

767
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: the streets of talking and that's enough. People in the

768
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 1: text are saying, is there an anonymous way to do this?

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Speaker 3: Oh god, it's the letter like on Jersey Shore between hoses.

770
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Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know about anonymous. That's like that

771
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 1: might be easy to explain away too, like, oh my god,

772
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 1: we're getting we have a talker. We have it was

773
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,919
Speaker 1: crazy and this is ridiculous. You know, this person must

774
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: be lying or they would show their face kind of thing.

775
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 1: It's super complicated. Caitlin has the Entertainer Report each next

776
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Speaker 1: on the Fresh Shop