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Speaker 1: That's a Bobby Bone shoot. Thank you guys for listening

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Speaker 1: to the podcast. Our Frankie Munez interviewed coming up in

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Speaker 1: just a second, which is super cool. And then after

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Speaker 1: that we're gonna do another edition of the Wheel of Selfish,

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Speaker 1: the Selfish Wheel. If Land's back on lunchbox, I don't

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Speaker 1: know what we're gonna do. Oh, guys, we spent forty

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Speaker 1: minutes doing no.

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Speaker 2: Take me off? What he's talking about, Mike, come on now.

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Speaker 1: Can't take him off. But first, here is our interview

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Speaker 1: this morning with Frankie Munez. There we go on the

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Speaker 1: Bobby Bone Show.

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Speaker 3: Now, Frankie Muniz.

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Speaker 1: Hey, frank you have a race tonight. What do you

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Speaker 1: do day of a race now to I don't know

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Speaker 1: what not to eat or stretch or what.

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Speaker 3: You know. I'm a pretty superstitious person. So when I

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Speaker 3: find something that I think works, like, I've got to

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Speaker 3: keep doing it. And you know, so far this season,

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Speaker 3: you know, we're two races into the season. But I

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Speaker 3: had a really good result in Dayton when I got

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Speaker 3: my first career top ten Truck Series and in Atlanta

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Speaker 3: we were racing so good, like we were up there,

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Speaker 3: we were battling with like you know, past champions and

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Speaker 3: the thing that I did before each race was a

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Speaker 3: really cheesy peloton dance cardio warm up. So that's gonna

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Speaker 3: be my thing so far this season until it stops working.

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Speaker 1: What is the difference And we have a lot of

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Speaker 1: drivers on but most of them drive cars, So what's

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Speaker 1: the difference in car and truck when it comes to competing?

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Speaker 3: I mean, really not much to be honest. The chassis,

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Speaker 3: if you know, I think people think we're racing like

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Speaker 3: but there's no you can't put anything in it, you

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Speaker 3: know what I mean. I would say the trucks and

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Speaker 3: I would say is the truck pokes a little bit

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Speaker 3: it brings the closing the race the racing a lot

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Speaker 3: closer because just the draft is bigger. You can affect

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Speaker 3: other people's vehicles with yours based on where you place

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Speaker 3: it on their truck, so there's a little more you

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Speaker 3: the racing is almost identical.

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Speaker 1: Talking with a lot of professional athletes and even drivers,

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Speaker 1: they all have different feelings on where they went through

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Speaker 1: adrenaline to be when the race starts. Some want to

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Speaker 1: on a regular Tuesday, where do you fall in that?

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Speaker 1: Are you right? Are you jacked up and ready to

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Speaker 3: I definitely like the first couple of races when I

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Speaker 3: just like, but I just got exhausted, right, You're just

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Speaker 3: Where now I seem more calm when I start the race.

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Speaker 3: I find it. When I'm there, you're just less tense.

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Speaker 1: Where did the passion for racing come from? At what age?

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Speaker 1: And how did you start?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I was always a huge race fan, like,

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Speaker 1: I'm a big priorities and capacity guy, and so you

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Speaker 1: and then how much of it can you actually give

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Speaker 1: Where in your life was that pivot point where racing

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Speaker 3: Well, Malcolm n did in two thousand and six, and

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Speaker 3: this is their life, Like I need to compete like

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like life is flying by. But I also

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Speaker 1: Just a couple more racing questions, What is that toll

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm I'm definitely beyond exhausted. I mean I

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Speaker 3: And I'm definitely spend. I am a lot older than

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Speaker 3: that's one thing I'm really trying to focus on is

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Speaker 1: I read get a pilot's license. Are you just an

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Speaker 1: I was reading about the Malcolm in the Middle revival,

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Speaker 1: that were born in the eighties we all watched Malcolm

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Speaker 1: in the Middle loved it. But before Malcolm, like, how

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Speaker 3: things that the same kind of racing. I hate to

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Speaker 1: Craftsman Truck Series race at Las Vegas Motor Speedway tonight

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Speaker 1: I We're rooting for you. Hey, Frankie, thank you for

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much to you.

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Speaker 1: Get your Bobby bones on. Let's spend the selfish wheel.

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Speaker 1: All of our names are on it. If it lands

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Speaker 1: in like two weeks something signed up, paid seventy bucks,

435
00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:35,119
Speaker 1: nice boom, got in. It's three hours away. I'm not

436
00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:39,159
Speaker 1: going to that three hours away Memphis. No, it's in Like,

437
00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:43,080
Speaker 1: so't go to Memphis. You play and they get robbed? Yeah,

438
00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,800
Speaker 1: I mean you play against you prize money, get robbed

439
00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:49,840
Speaker 1: on the way out. Yeah, it was some weird turn,

440
00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 1: like like, it's not Columbia is that far away.

441
00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:55,200
Speaker 4: Columbia is not too far. It's an hour and a half.

442
00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:56,680
Speaker 4: Yeah maybe yeah, but.

443
00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:58,359
Speaker 1: I signed up for a tournament three hours away, and

444
00:20:58,359 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 1: I'm not driving three hours to go play a tournament.

445
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,520
Speaker 1: So I guess, like I said, I don't really want.

446
00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 2: It, I'll take your spot.

447
00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 1: You you never played, I.

448
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 2: Know I'd be hilarious. Your rating will go way down.

449
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,440
Speaker 2: I don't have a rating. I know what I'm saying,

450
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,480
Speaker 2: but you'll start out loose. You'll get the easier petition.

451
00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 1: You wouldn't be my name. No, no, no's how it works.

452
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,159
Speaker 1: So you sign up in a tournament, like I was

453
00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:18,959
Speaker 1: going to sign up in a three point zero tournament

454
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:20,679
Speaker 1: to play singles because I don't know what that is.

455
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 1: And I played with a friend who I'm friends with

456
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,440
Speaker 1: his wife, and his wife's like, hey, my husband plays

457
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:28,639
Speaker 1: all the time, like four times a week. So I

458
00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:31,720
Speaker 1: invited him over to play and I beat him. And

459
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:33,199
Speaker 1: before I beat him, I was just like kind of

460
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,120
Speaker 1: feeling out what number he was, and he was like, yeah,

461
00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 1: I he was just playing like four point zero tournaments

462
00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:39,240
Speaker 1: and then I beat him. Now, I don't he could

463
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 1: have been having a bad day, but I was feeling

464
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 1: pretty good about myself. And I did twist my ankle

465
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:45,919
Speaker 1: a little bit. Uh oh, but I didn't say it

466
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 1: because I wanted be one of those guys that gets injured.

467
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 1: So we're playing best at three. I win the first one.

468
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:51,439
Speaker 1: He got me on the I twisted my ankle in

469
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 1: the middle Amy sobortion on her computer see Selver segments. Guys,

470
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 1: we had pay attention to Lunchbox. I'm looking up Lunchbox

471
00:21:57,920 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 1: was doing his stupid stuff about all.

472
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 2: I'm looking up where your tournament is so I can figure.

473
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 1: Out how far to drive off a segment.

474
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:06,680
Speaker 4: I will say I spaced that when Lunchbox was talking.

475
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: I know, I can't even know you did.

476
00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:13,719
Speaker 6: You can't do that, actually, interested in your rating anyway?

477
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:17,399
Speaker 1: Spend the midle again, your ankle like just to I

478
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 1: heard it at the end of the first game. I

479
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 1: lost the second game, but I tried so hard not

480
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 1: to favor my ankle because I don't want to be

481
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 1: the person who's like, I'm injured, I'm losing. I hate

482
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 1: that person.

483
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:27,679
Speaker 6: That's Eddie.

484
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,880
Speaker 4: Excuse me when when have I said.

485
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 6: That you get injured often?

486
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,399
Speaker 1: I broke my arm, well in your foot, But the

487
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 1: difference is he doesn't play with it, or he doesn't

488
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,480
Speaker 1: not have an injury and fake like he has one

489
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 1: for when he's getting beat, because people will do that too,

490
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 1: they'll be getting beat. They'll be like, oh, ankle. I

491
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 1: don't want to be that guy. Even though I turned

492
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 1: my ankle a little bit and so I just tried

493
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: to hide it, and then I ended up winning Game three,

494
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 1: really fought back from adversity again. They should option that

495
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 1: Disney Plus. But now I'm just kind of wondering what

496
00:22:58,119 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 1: level I'm at, and I still got to go play

497
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 1: the guy for a thousand bucks in Cleveland. We have

498
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,959
Speaker 1: an attorney that's coming on twenty five whistles on Monday

499
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:05,959
Speaker 1: to make sure we can set up an escrow legally

500
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: to put the money in. We can't say it's a bet.

501
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:08,760
Speaker 1: It has to be a competition.

502
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 6: Why do you have to put it in escrow?

503
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 1: Because I don't trust giving this whole this dude hold money.

504
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: I don't know that he doesn't know you either, so

505
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 1: he doesn't know that we're not scamming him.

506
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:20,119
Speaker 6: Oh well, I'm good for it, scammer.

507
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 1: Every scammer said scared, Yeah, we got it.

508
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 6: Okay, so you put it in escrow.

509
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 1: So we have an attorney.

510
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:26,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

511
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 1: So on Monday's twenty five whistles, he's on with us

512
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 1: talking about how he's not my attorney. He is a

513
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 1: I don't know him, but he's going to do it

514
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 1: and it will be even for both sides, because I

515
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 1: don't want to get scammed for a thousand bucks. I

516
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 1: paid this two thousand bucks to hold the money. I

517
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 1: get up to Cleveland to play him, and then I

518
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: don't even get the money.

519
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,160
Speaker 6: Yeah. So how do you get your rating?

520
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 1: I think you play in tournaments?

521
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 6: Oh you can't just but I mean if you had

522
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 6: to guess.

523
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 1: I don't know what how to do that?

524
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 2: Let me.

525
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 1: I mean I can look it up.

526
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,359
Speaker 5: Like in the Karate Kid, he just told him he

527
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 5: was a black belt when he really was just trained

528
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 5: by mister Miyagi.

529
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:12,640
Speaker 1: How do I get a pickleball rating? Okay, self rate

530
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 1: using us A Pickleball skill assessment sheets, or participate in tournaments.

531
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: Here's a self rating and that says self rating. Use

532
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 1: a USA Pickleball Skill Assessment sheet sends you back.

533
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:27,440
Speaker 2: It was weird.

534
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 1: I'm running in circles here, Uh, how to find your

535
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 1: pickleball rating? I'll do like three more minutes of this

536
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 1: because I can tell one of my selfishness. Really nobody

537
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 1: cares about it.

538
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 4: I do have questions. I experienced it.

539
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:42,880
Speaker 2: Can I tell you what a four point is. It's

540
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,680
Speaker 2: understanding and performing pickleball. Can rate all of them.

541
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,639
Speaker 1: One point oh player has never played and has no

542
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 1: skill set.

543
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 4: That's lunch.

544
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,879
Speaker 1: That's a fear one point oh player. Two point and

545
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 1: you can be in the middle of it. Could be

546
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: a one point three apparently one point eight. A two

547
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: point zero player is just starting to play and has

548
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 1: no other sports background. Two point five player has a

549
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: limited experience, can't sustain a short rally, and it's still

550
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: learning all the rules. Three point zero player understands the

551
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:12,880
Speaker 1: fundamentals and basic rules as well as court positioning. They

552
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,680
Speaker 1: can construct limited points. Three point five player knows the

553
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: differences between the hard and soft game. They can get

554
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 1: to the non volley zone consistently, and are beginning to

555
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 1: understand the benefits of stacking. They may have an unrelated

556
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: sports background that may help some with new skills more quickly.

557
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 6: Do you understand.

558
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: I'm at least three point five. That means how to

559
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 1: hit the ball.

560
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 6: You know, okay, you know the difference.

561
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 1: You know the difference hitting the ball hard or soft

562
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: dropping it over softly?

563
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 4: And what about the stack? Even the stack?

564
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 1: You know, wh iking in doubles. I don't only play a

565
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 1: lot of doubles, but stacking can be if for standing

566
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 1: on the same side on the serve and then you

567
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: both jump to different places. I'm left handed. We stack

568
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 1: a little bit sometimes, just because left handed people have

569
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:03,120
Speaker 1: big disadvant and the occasional advantage depending on court four

570
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 1: point zero players able to identify and attack opponent's weaknesses,

571
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 1: is aware of their partner's position on the court, able

572
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,439
Speaker 1: to move as a team with their partners. This is

573
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 1: mostly doubles. What's five? They have up to eight? Oh

574
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,439
Speaker 1: my god, yeah, I'm not I'm not that yet. I'm

575
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: not pro yet. I'm trying to go pro. But anyway,

576
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 1: I sign up for a stupid tournament, paid seventy bucks

577
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 1: and now I can't even go just three hours.

578
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 4: Do you get the money back?

579
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: I don't think so.

580
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:25,479
Speaker 4: Is that money gone?

581
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 1: I think, as a wise man once said, money gone?

582
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 4: Sorry? Oh yes, what was the prize for that tournament medal?

583
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 4: Like no money?

584
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,439
Speaker 1: Oh the guy I played, I don't think no no

585
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 1: prize money. The guy played one silver medal like a

586
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: week ago.

587
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 4: That's cool, but so like, do you like a metal ceremony?

588
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 1: I never been to a tournament, dude, Yeah, I don't know.

589
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 4: Just wondering what you're going there, like, because I mean.

590
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 1: I'm just going there to beat people.

591
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 2: And do they have a sign that says this court

592
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 2: is for pickleball three point ers? And then the people

593
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 2: are four point zero?

594
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 1: So it's like, em it's like a tournament where they

595
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 1: I don't think it's signs because there's so many people

596
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: playing at once, but I think they're like, I've never

597
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 1: been to a tournament. I tried to go to my

598
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: first one. I couldn't get in.

599
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,199
Speaker 4: You play one in town, I'm going, But now you're in.

600
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 1: Do we go in? Like, have no short on the

601
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: right that could be on your chair?

602
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 4: Percent We'll all do it.

603
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 1: Would be awesome.

604
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 2: Your mouse in your pocket, I'll go.

605
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 1: You have to wear a sports broad right on your belly.

606
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 6: That's how they do it, Bobby, Yes, oh yeah, we

607
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 6: could do b oh b b Why.

608
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 1: And then I lose on a one point.

609
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 6: How do you think you would handle losing?

610
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: Fine, because long I'm still in the tournament. No, I

611
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: mean you lose double eliminations.

612
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 6: Okay, you're double eliminated. Like, how would you handle that?

613
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: I would shake hands, say hey, great game, walk out

614
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 1: of the place, get in my car, drive home, and

615
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 1: then punch myself in the face.

616
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 6: Like this is where I get worried, like adding another

617
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 6: thing to your plate to get all worked.

618
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,640
Speaker 1: Up about it. I need something to get all worked

619
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,439
Speaker 1: up about because I need to put that energy somewhere.

620
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:51,160
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, you have to get work.

621
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: It's that or UFC. You guys picked.

622
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 6: You might die if I was going to pickle ball.

623
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 1: I'm one point.

624
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 6: But also he did say if he loses, he's going

625
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 6: to punch himself in the.

626
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,199
Speaker 1: I might get myself a u FC invertent and you

627
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: print yourself interesting. One more here, let's do selfish will Oh, yes,

628
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: well you didn't win a prize. This is big, okay,

629
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 1: selfish will go ahead. Guys, I have gifts for you.

630
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 5: Yes, come on, you need these gifts, Okay, Can I

631
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 5: please give you this gift?

632
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 6: Yes?

633
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,400
Speaker 4: But look at me, look at me and be honest.

634
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 1: This is going to be stupid.

635
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 4: No, it's not stupid. Well where is it you know

636
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 4: in high school?

637
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 1: If you're giving us a gift on the podcast, on

638
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: the show, this is going to be stupid.

639
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 2: I mean, you have no gift with you because it

640
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 2: just randomly came up on the wheel, so you don't

641
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 2: have it with me.

642
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: I'm sure he has it, but I'm sure it's gonna

643
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: be something we have to do for him. Go ahead.

644
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 1: It's not for me, Go ahead, but it is for life.

645
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 1: Go ahead.

646
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 4: I brought you guys gifts. Let me go get him

647
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 4: a filibuster, both philibuster what.

648
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: Oh, I know he's gonna go get I know he's

649
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: going to I think I know what he's gonna get to.

650
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: Don't say it.

651
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 2: I've never ruined the surprise. I'm not a surprise. I'm

652
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 2: not amy.

653
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna spoil it.

654
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, they're plants.

655
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 6: I wanted one of these. Thank you.

656
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 4: This is a product.

657
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 5: Oh remember my show and Tell, which I had that

658
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 5: planetarium thing.

659
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 4: Whatever I got, like, my gift shouldn't be have to

660
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 4: do work. No, it's not work. It's not work. It's

661
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 4: however you want to do it.

662
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 1: Can I put my energy drink in there.

663
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 5: Oh, that's the experiment. You can try what I want

664
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 5: to see. I gave you guys plants. So these are

665
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 5: Japanese money plants. They came originally from a plant I bought.

666
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 5: I took the leaves off, I put.

667
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 4: Them in water.

668
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 5: They grew their own babies. So you guys have the babies.

669
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 5: There are three babies, Amy, Bobby Lunchbox. You guys have

670
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 5: these babies. It's up to you to keep them alive.

671
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 5: You want to give them energy drinks. See what happens. Hey,

672
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 5: maybe you get the biggest babies out of all of them.

673
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 2: How much sunlight does it?

674
00:29:58,080 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to do work.

675
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 4: It's not work, dude. It's your baby. It's if you

676
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 4: want to take care of it. You can take care

677
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 4: of it.

678
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 2: How much sunlight does it need?

679
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 4: That's up that's up to you.

680
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 2: I mean it's your You need to no, no.

681
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 6: No no.

682
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 4: Once you give a gift, it's no longer mine.

683
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 1: This is you all.

684
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 2: What is it called Japanese money?

685
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:16,719
Speaker 4: Yeah? Money and lunch user.

686
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 1: Would you like to have a Japanese money plant? I

687
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: don't want it to die. I would like to give

688
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: it to a better home. I basically put it on

689
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: the steps of the fire department.

690
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 5: I believe that if you have something to care for,

691
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 5: take your mind off other than many things to care for.

692
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 1: I have not a money plant, I have two dogs,

693
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: I have a wife and have all you need.

694
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 6: But this will be representative of like, if we can

695
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 6: keep this alive and nurture it, it'll represent like the

696
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 6: little things we need to like we need to remember

697
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 6: to water ourselves and give ourselves air and sun correct.

698
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 2: And it's really.

699
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 4: It does need sun. But I feel like these lights

700
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 4: are kind.

701
00:30:58,000 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 1: Of like so much.

702
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 6: I feel like these lights might harm.

703
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: This is not a gift.

704
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 4: Well, then you know what, take them home, take them home.

705
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: We have take them home by a window.

706
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 6: Why it looks pretty on my table.

707
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 4: They're beautiful at least.

708
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: And then what if these plants have a little anybody

709
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 1: hit it, dump over. It takes forever to get the

710
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 1: carpet cleaned.

711
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 2: Anyway, the good news is this is a member of

712
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 2: the stinging nettle family.

713
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 1: Perfect.

714
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 2: I love to be stung by fan. It's soper easy

715
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 2: to look after this remarkable little plane. It's a true

716
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 2: beauty with its rounded, dark green leaves. It is perfectly

717
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 2: shaped to add a little bit of interest to your

718
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:32,479
Speaker 2: indoor jungle lunch box. Being such a popular little guy,

719
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 2: we've written a little all you need to know God

720
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 2: on how to honor your plant.

721
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 4: He's calling it a little guy.

722
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 2: This is very is what the article.

723
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: I didn't call it.

724
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 6: But why is one of the little circular plant leaves things.

725
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 6: It's on lunchboxes. It's already dead.

726
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, a that that's kind of why I give it

727
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 5: to lunch box. It's kind of like when you buy

728
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 5: something and there's like a stale cracker in there, like.

729
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 2: Oh, they love soaking up some sunshine. But in the

730
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 2: summer months, just be careful not to leave it directly

731
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,080
Speaker 2: exposed to sunlight. It'd be such a same shame to

732
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 2: scorch this gorgeous greenery. Oh man. Watering, of course is

733
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 2: very important.

734
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: Water is important. That's it's a plant. I don't know

735
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: if you did this to be nice or as a joke,

736
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 1: or to torture us.

737
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 4: Why would you think I would do this to.

738
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 1: Torture I have no interest in plants.

739
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 4: This is me being nice and sharing my love for plants.

740
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 2: Only water once a week.

741
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 5: This is nothing, dude. They're so low maintenance. It's like

742
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 5: a beta fish. Those guys don't die well.

743
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 4: Actually the one calls that, oh no I killed.

744
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 2: Don't let the soil go bone dry. It'll be unhappy

745
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 2: with you.

746
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: Rate your gift, guys, out of what I don't care,

747
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: ten go ten, ten, I go ten.

748
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 6: I love it.

749
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 1: Out of one, I go zero.

750
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 6: Thoughtful. He had to take the plant and reapont it

751
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 6: for us and soil bring it up here.

752
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 4: I'm telling you.

753
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 2: I'm telling you he's just trying to get out of

754
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 2: his house.

755
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 4: Plants in my house here is what's it called?

756
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,959
Speaker 2: Repurpose propagation, Yeah, propagating.

757
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: I'll give it to one out of have any ten one.

758
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 4: It's so I don't.

759
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: I don't plan, and I also don't feel like his

760
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 1: intentions appeared.

761
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 6: Feel like his intentions are. I'm very curious because like.

762
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 1: What fun of us when it dies? So it can

763
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: be like I can raise a planet, you can't. It's

764
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 1: a superiority.

765
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 3: I'm not.

766
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 2: You for killing his plan.

767
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 1: Don't I got nobody a butterfly.

768
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 6: It's not my plan thinks that way.

769
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 4: I don't thank you.

770
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 2: Amy, who's playing is it?

771
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 4: And it's not my plane? It's your plan now, So

772
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 4: it's on you if you want to kill it.

773
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 6: I don't want to kill it.

774
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 4: I probably will go ahead, dude, you want to kill

775
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 4: your planet.

776
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 6: Kill it.

777
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: It's going to spend that great life with its foster parent. Abby.

778
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 4: You let your you're playing the foster system.

779
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: And I'm putting it. That's something you should know about

780
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 1: and you should appreciate it.

781
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 4: I do.

782
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't appreciate it, but I think you

783
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 5: should keep it.

784
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 1: One other thing and thank you for the gift.

785
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 2: Appreciate that.

786
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 1: Man, I don't feel thank you for that. Sorry, thank

787
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 1: you for the chore.

788
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 4: He's like Lunchbox said, you want to it once a week.

789
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 4: It's nothing, but.

790
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 6: It's the gift that keeps on giving because if you

791
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 6: take care of it, you could prop get it.

792
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 1: It's the gift that makes me work more and more

793
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: and more.

794
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 6: I can't, but it's rewarding and very rewarding.

795
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: Hey, thanks Eddie, You're welcome.

796
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 6: And that's my hope. Like I think, I typically kill plants,

797
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 6: but if I keep this one alive, it'll be rewarding.

798
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 4: You can do it.

799
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:13,760
Speaker 1: Try.

800
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 6: I'm gonna try. That's why I gave it a ten.

801
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 1: And he said he thought he saw you driving the

802
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 1: other day or his exact words were, I think I

803
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: saw a cougar.

804
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:25,760
Speaker 4: No, no, I saw a cougar in car that Amy drives.

805
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 4: And I was like, is that Amy?

806
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 6: And it wasn't me.

807
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 4: I don't know, maybe it was you.

808
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: Are you saying she's a cougar? Well?

809
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 6: What is that? Why why would you say I'm a cougar?

810
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,399
Speaker 5: You know, you see people in cars and you're like, okay,

811
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 5: that's a young college kid.

812
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 6: That's a So now you see me and I'm like

813
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 6: the older I mean I am. I'm turning forty four

814
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 6: next week, so.

815
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 2: That'd be cougarish.

816
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 4: We are are?

817
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:44,399
Speaker 2: Yeah?

818
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: So he said he saw a cougar and I was

819
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: like where, And he goes, well, I could have been

820
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 1: Amy in a car. Did you go to a.

821
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 4: Hardware store on Wednesday? The parking lot?

822
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 6: Nope? What hard like?

823
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 2: What hard like?

824
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 4: A big one?

825
00:34:58,840 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 3: No?

826
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 1: Well there's not like two big like that.

827
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 6: No. I wasn't at home depot that Wednesday?

828
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 4: Did in your car?

829
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,399
Speaker 1: So were they in the parking lot?

830
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 4: They were driving like I was driving past them god,

831
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:14,840
Speaker 4: And I was like, oh okay, that Amy, Amy?

832
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 5: And I was like, well you know what I'm going

833
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 5: to ask if that was amy it was not, It's

834
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 5: not okay.

835
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 6: I do have to go to home depot.

836
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,319
Speaker 1: Is that offensive that he thought you might have been

837
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,280
Speaker 1: a cougar at first? Was it offensive?

838
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 6: I think at first? But then when I really think

839
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 6: about my age, I then I guess take it as

840
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 6: a compliment because but I don't know. I'm not with.

841
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: That was that.

842
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 6: Was a long time ago. So then if if if

843
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 6: you're not with someone younger, are you still a cougar

844
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 6: or is it just.

845
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: I think it's just the age, right, I think you're

846
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: a cougar if you're open to the possibility of No.

847
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 6: I thought this was a cradle robber.

848
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 1: No, no, no, No, cred robber would be if the person's

849
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:00,839
Speaker 1: like nineteen twenty oh.

850
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 4: I thought that was just anyone younger.

851
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 1: That's like a cradle robber would be like a dude

852
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 1: with somebody who's nineteen twenty eighteen, nineteen twenty twenty one.

853
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 1: A cougar is just somebody in their forties and up

854
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: who likes men in their mid young mid mid twenties.

855
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 6: I had no twenty man. If let's say it was

856
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 6: me a look, but I'm not on the look. I

857
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 6: have a boyfriend that's older.

858
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: No, no, I hear you now, But I'm saying, Eddie

859
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 1: thought it was a you were you look like a

860
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: cougar like you were looking like you were on the

861
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,240
Speaker 1: hunt for a young man at the hardware.

862
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 6: Store looking for a man?

863
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,879
Speaker 4: Are you getting like, sirs? A lot? Now?

864
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 6: Really? All I get, mam, ma'am.

865
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 1: Man, it's terrible, man, it's terrible.

866
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,959
Speaker 5: Ma'am Hey man, are you using that cart? No, sir,

867
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:50,359
Speaker 5: I'm not. You can take that, sir.

868
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, ma'am, Miss missus Brown, miss Brown, just call me.

869
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 4: It's so sad, man.

870
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 5: It is a weird like time in your life where

871
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 5: like no one called you sir, and now all of

872
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:02,919
Speaker 5: a sudden they're calling you sir.

873
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: It's interesting you don't at all. I don't. I think

874
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 1: my glasses hide my age a bit.

875
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 6: Well, I'm getting and that's it me too.

876
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: Well, mine are so thick though, you can't see any

877
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 1: age in the eyes.

878
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, that's I'm going to get some.

879
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: And also I'm if I'm not here, I mean I'm

880
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 1: a bit peter Pan dress wise. I wear sweats and

881
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: cutoffs like I have all my hair. I have all

882
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: my hair.

883
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 4: That's helpful like that, so do I.

884
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're a woman, you're cogar.

885
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, when you're checking that dude in high school, it

886
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,919
Speaker 2: was like they knew your son.

887
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 3: No.

888
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 1: The average parents spend sixty seven hours a year negotiating

889
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: with their kid.

890
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 4: Now no negotiations, excuse.

891
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 6: Sometimes there is not in my house. Wow, it is

892
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 6: a blanket. You don't mean let them? Isn't a case?

893
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,479
Speaker 5: It depends if it's like a big, big, big ask

894
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 5: or whatever like, then we'll talk about it. But if

895
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 5: it's just like, come on, can have coke?

896
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 2: No?

897
00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 6: Oh?

898
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well you ever change your mind on a big

899
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:03,720
Speaker 1: ask if you've said no, Not if you've said maybe,

900
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: but if you've said no, have they ever convinced you

901
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 1: to change your mind?

902
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 4: There is a uh what do you call that?

903
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 5: Like a system where you go down from like all right,

904
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 5: there's the first answer, first response, Then my wife and

905
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 5: I talk about it, and then he pleads his case.

906
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 4: Then we go back and talk about it.

907
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 1: So he talks first, though, so he'll talk to you

908
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: and your wife or just you or just your wife.

909
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:24,320
Speaker 4: Sometimes he goes straight to my wife.

910
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: First, okay, and then you will talk about it together

911
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 1: behind closed doors. Mm hmm.

912
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 5: Then we'll make a decision what do you think and

913
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 5: then we kind of tell him and he'll be like, no, no, no,

914
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 5: but but what about like I.

915
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 4: Really think this?

916
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 5: All right, we'll think about that, and then we go

917
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 5: back and think about it, and then that's the final decision.

918
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 1: And it has changed where if you've said no, but

919
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:42,840
Speaker 1: then you've talked with your wife, she has convinced you

920
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: to listen a bit more, and you can come out

921
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 1: of that room going Okay, I'm a bit more open

922
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: and change your mind.

923
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, And but it usually ends up being kind

924
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 5: of like, all right, let's try it for a couple

925
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 5: of weeks and see what happens.

926
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 4: But if you can prove that you're able to do

927
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 4: this and it's all good, then we'll move on.

928
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, without whining. That's what I say to my kids, like,

929
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 6: if you want to present a case, that's fine, but no,

930
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 6: no whining.

931
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to any more details because.

932
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,919
Speaker 6: If they're like, well why can't I do this? Or oh,

933
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 6: if it's like if there's any whining a part of

934
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:16,839
Speaker 6: the case, then the case is thrown out. But if

935
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 6: you want to because I think it's just good practice

936
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 6: for them. If you want to put together some reasons

937
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 6: and some facts and why you think this should be

938
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 6: go for it.

939
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 1: Is that like staying out later or going somewhere like

940
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: what what generally? I mean because you're.

941
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 6: They was run recently with my daughter who's seventeen. I

942
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 6: don't I haven't talked to her about talking about this,

943
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 6: so I'm not going to say that the topic. But

944
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 6: she put together a PowerPoint.

945
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: That's awesome. She's in I don't evenre what he does

946
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: want to do drugs? Okay, PowerPoint it is you nailed it.

947
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 1: Do all the drugs you want because you follow through.

948
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:54,879
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I mean so she had something. We were

949
00:39:55,440 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 6: pretty much like no, but then I said, should present

950
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 6: a case?

951
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 1: Make surely? Maybe that I don't think. So here's the

952
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 1: power point. You know what, you made a good point?

953
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:07,399
Speaker 1: Yeah it was you know what you did. You've really

954
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 1: delivered in a way I didn't expect that was good negotiations.

955
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 2: She actually had points and valid My kid just says,

956
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, you can't do that. Why I know.

957
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 2: It's so frustrating because you're like, why I decided it's

958
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 2: not a safe decision to do that why, and then

959
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 2: it's just like, oh my gosh, they just say why

960
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 2: a hundred times, and you got to safety.

961
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 6: Is my top concern.

962
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 1: Like if he launched a power point in response like five,

963
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 1: I'd be awesome. Oh right, what it was? Candy all

964
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 1: day breakfast? Launch handwer He did a PowerPoint? Sure? Uh.

965
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: The average momberdet spends a lot of time battling their

966
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 1: kid over things like food. They strike up to five

967
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: bargains a week dinner as the meal kids pushed back

968
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: on the most vegetables, and then they go into a

969
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 1: lot of specifically food things. I don't like vegetables. Anybody

970
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 1: have those.

971
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 5: I have one that just doesn't eat, like, doesn't want

972
00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 5: to eat. The other three they love to eat.

973
00:40:58,239 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 1: Doesn't want to eat to prove a point or.

974
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 4: Just I don't know what it is, but he just

975
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:02,759
Speaker 4: doesn't want to eat like you.

976
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 6: Like.

977
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 5: Even what I used to do was just say like,

978
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 5: all right, you serve your plate, because at first I

979
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:10,400
Speaker 5: would serve it or my wife would serve it, and

980
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 5: then they wouldn't eat it, and we'd may like finish

981
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 5: your food please, and then we're like all right, fine,

982
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 5: if you think that's too much, next time, you serve

983
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 5: your own plate.

984
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 4: But whatever you serve yourself, you have to eat.

985
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 5: Then he'd do like one French fry and like like

986
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 5: a little piece of a burger, like come on, you

987
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 5: have to eat. But it's just a thing, like it

988
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,400
Speaker 5: doesn't want to. He's always the last one at the table

989
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 5: because he's not done.

990
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 1: Eating, because not that he's not done, because he doesn't

991
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: want to be done, just doesn't really want to eat.

992
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 1: Amy you your thing?

993
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 6: Well something that I mean, we struggle with vegetables, but

994
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 6: Sisha is wanting to add more. She does not like

995
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 6: a lot of them, but she's she has desire. Now

996
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 6: that she's getting older, she gets that like, oh I

997
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 6: feel a certain way if I eat this, or I

998
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:53,439
Speaker 6: eat that or don't eat. So she's trying to add

999
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 6: more vegetables. Stevenson will open up the fridge and pull

1000
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 6: out a box of mixed greens or lettuce or whatever

1001
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 6: and just stick his hand in there, put in his

1002
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:03,359
Speaker 6: mouth like a rabbit. It's awesome. However, he also loves

1003
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,920
Speaker 6: sugary cereal and there's this one that I buy and

1004
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,879
Speaker 6: they get to have every once in a while. And

1005
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 6: the other day he made a bowl because he had

1006
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 6: permission to eat it. And then he got done, and

1007
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 6: I saw him reach for it and fill up another bowl,

1008
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 6: and I said, oh, nope, one bowl and I got

1009
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 6: the At dad's house, they get to have to oh.

1010
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 1: Day and I.

1011
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 6: Said, well, oh you're not at lucky for you. You'll

1012
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 6: be there next week.

1013
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 4: Woad.

1014
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: That's good, got him back.

1015
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 5: My kids like to do the everyone everyone has whatever

1016
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 5: fill in the blank. And I'm like, okay, well then

1017
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 5: i'll go to your school tomorrow and I'll ask everyone, well,

1018
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 5: well not everyone, Well you just said it.

1019
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: I just went once ye at school. Even if everybody

1020
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 1: did my school, then they go. The one that I

1021
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 1: have to have with my wife is no onions. I'm

1022
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: the kid I don't.

1023
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 2: I hate onions.

1024
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: She's like, you won't even see them. I'll cut them

1025
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,479
Speaker 1: up so small. They need to be there when she cooks.

1026
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 1: They need to be there for the taste. I hate onions.

1027
00:42:58,040 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: If I see one, I'm not going to eat anything.

1028
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: I'm seven and she's like, you will not see a

1029
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: single onion. If I see a onion. I'm like, I

1030
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 1: see an onion and she's like shut up, and I'm like, well,

1031
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 1: I'll go to my dad She's like, you don't know

1032
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 1: your dad. Good point.

1033
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 6: Dad doesn't make me eat onions.

1034
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're like my kids. I mean, no one

1035
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:14,399
Speaker 2: is my wife.

1036
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 3: That is true.

1037
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 6: Your dad doesn't make you eat onions.

1038
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 1: I hate onions.

1039
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 4: You even grilled.

1040
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:21,799
Speaker 1: My dad didn't make me do a dang thing. He

1041
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 1: didn't make me eat onions. He didn't make me do homework.

1042
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: He did make me feel safe or loved, he didn't.

1043
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 1: We could do this all day, boys and girls. Thank

1044
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:33,839
Speaker 1: you guys. Hope you had a great weekend. Be sure

1045
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: to check out on Amy's podcast. What was the thing

1046
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 1: you were doing this week on your podcast?

1047
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 6: Oh, like a short list of self care things, because

1048
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 6: you know, I just did that weekend away with my

1049
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 6: kids and my ex husband And one of the big

1050
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,879
Speaker 6: themes was simple things we can do as a family

1051
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 6: if we ever need to reset. And so it's four

1052
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 6: different ways just to check in with your emotions and

1053
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 6: reset if you need to. But like, have you ever

1054
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 6: heard of dopamine dressing?

1055
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: I know what dopamine is. I've never had that with

1056
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:00,720
Speaker 1: my turkey.

1057
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, no it's not. It's dressing like when you're getting ready.

1058
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,839
Speaker 1: I'd love that dope me dressing the turkey though. That awesome,

1059
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 1: sounds good.

1060
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, but there's it's science, and you know, colors can

1061
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 6: go into it too. That colors, like if you wear

1062
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 6: a certain color, you'll feel a certain way. But then

1063
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 6: also just knowing what feels really good on you, and

1064
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 6: if you go in your closet and if you have

1065
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 6: a go to or you can like figure out outfits

1066
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 6: that you just feel your best in when you look

1067
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 6: in the mirror, when you show up at work wherever,

1068
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,840
Speaker 6: you get a hit of dopamine because you feel more

1069
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 6: confident and you need those dopamine hits. So that's just

1070
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,359
Speaker 6: one of the tricks is trying to figure out that

1071
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 6: in your closet, and then different methods and techniques and

1072
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 6: tools you can use where you don't need anything, like

1073
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 6: you don't need a pin, you don't need a journal.

1074
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 6: You can just do it anywhere. Like I did one

1075
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 6: of them with my kids the other day and it

1076
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 6: totally reset us and it was great.

1077
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: This is me when I look in my closet, Kayla,

1078
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 1: what color is this green? Never mind? What color is

1079
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 1: this blue? Okay? Does this red match with Arkansas hat?

1080
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 1: That's not red? Okay? That's me and my closet, everything

1081
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:04,879
Speaker 1: with every single You.

1082
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 6: Probably feel your best when you have on your red because.

1083
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: It's like a dope. It's a dope, it's a dope

1084
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: pit in the closet, just dope. I'm a dope because

1085
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 1: I can't tell what color anything is. Thank you guys,

1086
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 1: have a great weekend. We will see you Monday. Bye everybody.