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Speaker 1: All right, Steve. This is from Spaitlana in Corpus Christi.

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Speaker 1: She says, the guy that I'm dating is older and

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Speaker 1: he's had a lot of health problems. I have been

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Speaker 1: with him for two years, and I feel obligated to

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Speaker 1: help him when he needs me to do things for him.

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Speaker 1: He has become a burden, and I told him. He

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Speaker 1: said that he was considering marriage, but I am not

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Speaker 1: marrying a man that is always ill. He won't let

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Speaker 1: me talk to any of his doctors, and I think

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Speaker 1: it's unfair. Is it possible to love him with my

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Speaker 1: whole heart but not want to take care of him?

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Speaker 1: Am I being selfish? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Just don't love him with your whole heart. Just take

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Speaker 2: a piece of it that's on the out look. This

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Speaker 2: ain't gonna work. This ain't gonna work. Before you take

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Speaker 2: them vows Rich of poor sickness and in health, don't

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Speaker 2: say that. Don't say that. Don't stand up there with

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Speaker 2: dad ring and say that, cause you already don't want.

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Speaker 3: To change the vial.

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Speaker 2: You okay with Rich of pool well for sickness and

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Speaker 2: it hath and he stay sick and he won't let

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Speaker 2: you talk to none of the doctors. Because he don't

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Speaker 2: want you to know how bad it is. See now

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Speaker 2: he'll spend his whole life being a little player, running

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Speaker 2: around doing like he wanted to do. Now he got

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Speaker 2: his ass old, Now he looking for a help. Mat No, no, no,

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Speaker 2: leave his sick ass alone for you wind up, and

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Speaker 2: I tell you right now, yay, no, hell no, you're

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Speaker 2: gonna wind up wiping I'm telling you right now. Just

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Speaker 2: hay you calling up? Say the kind of lord you won't?

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Speaker 2: This ain't the kind of lord you won't. I don't

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Speaker 2: won't had to wipe you.

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Speaker 3: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: We're not having that relationship. We're not that close talking

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Speaker 2: about you're gonna roll over now? No no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: dog no. You can slide to the edge of this

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Speaker 2: mattress and clean yourself.

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Speaker 3: But what we're not going to do.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, no no. You can get

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Speaker 2: him on the edge of this dope. We can hold

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Speaker 2: his dough open. I put the tie up against this dope.

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Speaker 2: You can slide him down the crack of his dough

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Speaker 2: for what. I'm not fit to dude, wipe you. I

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Speaker 2: can go outside and I can get that garden hose

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Speaker 2: and bring it through the wonder for you.

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Speaker 3: You can wash yourself, but why I'm not fitting to

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Speaker 3: wipe you.

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Speaker 2: You go out on that front lawn with that little

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Speaker 2: with with that little sprinkler that go around like this, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and you can bounce your lass around that yard while

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Speaker 2: that's sprinkler fired off aping you.

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Speaker 3: But what I'm not fit to wash it? So I

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Speaker 3: suggest this is just me now, this is right here,

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Speaker 3: Break it off.

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Speaker 2: Break it off. You ain't even really in love with him.

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Speaker 3: You really ain't what she is with her whole heart?

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Speaker 2: Though she said, no, no, no, no, she not, She said,

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Speaker 2: can can you really?

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Speaker 3: What? What was her last question? Said again?

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Speaker 1: She said, is it possible to love him with my

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Speaker 1: whole heart but not want to take care of him?

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Speaker 2: Well, to see your whole heart ain't loving him?

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Speaker 3: See that, ain't your whole heart?

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Speaker 2: Stop saying it your heart, A part of your heart

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Speaker 2: loves him, the other part of your heart don't want

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Speaker 2: to wash him. You can love somebody and not want

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Speaker 2: to take care of them. Come on, now, you know

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Speaker 2: you know how many women I loved looking at I

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Speaker 2: don't want to take care.

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Speaker 3: All right, you know, I'm just I'm just not finn

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Speaker 3: to do that. No, no, she should leave him. You're

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Speaker 3: saying right now.

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Speaker 2: To right, No, wait, what what is.

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Speaker 3: You waiting on? You already know you're not finna do this.

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Speaker 3: You ain't even that type of girl.

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Speaker 1: Two years they've been together, though, Steep.

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Speaker 2: She didn't go to school for nursing. That ain't what

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Speaker 2: she went down there for. She went down there to

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Speaker 2: be a nail take. She a nail tap. She didn't

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Speaker 2: go not Now. You can't wipe nobody and be a

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Speaker 2: nail take. Now, just tell me right now, that's that's

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Speaker 2: the last thing you want to do, is get some

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Speaker 2: under your nails. That's the last thing.

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Speaker 3: You want to do.

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Speaker 1: Mystery.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this ain't gonna work. It ain't no need y'all

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Speaker 2: look breaking off.

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Speaker 1: But she says she feels obligated.

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Speaker 3: Steve, she stopped feeling obligated.

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Speaker 2: You feel obligated because you win him. Get away from

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Speaker 2: him and stop feeling obligated.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, up coming up in twenty minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour.

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Speaker 3: All right, going down.

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Speaker 1: Her, ma'am, if you want to have the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morton show coming.

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Speaker 3: Up right after this, he's back. That's all we can say.

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Speaker 3: Be spoon feeding him in a minute

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