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Speaker 1: Second Date Update. Welcome back to brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning.

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Speaker 2: Another Second Date update, and just like many of our

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Speaker 2: male listeners who come on to this segment, today's listener

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Speaker 2: James says he has no idea if he did anything

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Speaker 2: wrong on his first flat.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure it was not his fault.

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Speaker 1: No, probably not. She's like, well, he set my house

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Speaker 1: on fire. He's like, oh, wait minute, I.

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Speaker 3: Forgot I forgot to tell him that.

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Speaker 2: But there is a gray area in there. That's why

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Speaker 2: we're gonna implement this sound. Oh that's an RFA, a

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Speaker 2: red flag alert.

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Speaker 3: Oh I like it.

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Speaker 1: Anytime you hear.

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Speaker 2: That noise, we need to stop what we're doing and discuss.

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Speaker 2: Could she have maybe taken that okay the wrong way?

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Speaker 3: Okay, who's in charge of the sound? You are, jeff

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Speaker 3: that's a red flag.

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Speaker 1: Don't question in charge in this.

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Speaker 3: Room ever broke the power is not the right hand.

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Speaker 1: Turn off Brooks Mike for the next ten seconds.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Let's welcome not let's welcome James to the show. James,

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Speaker 2: how you doing, man? You don't have to be afraid

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Speaker 2: of I.

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Speaker 5: Tried to hear what his voice sounded like before he

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Speaker 5: decided if it was a red flag.

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Speaker 3: Need to hit the button. I'm scared the button's going

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Speaker 3: to go off.

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Speaker 1: Don't say anything weird.

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Speaker 2: His fingers literally on the buttons.

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Speaker 1: No pressure. Just tell us how your date went with

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Speaker 1: who were calling today?

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Speaker 6: I went on a date with Chelsea.

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Speaker 2: Chelsea okay, he remembered the name right away. I almost

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Speaker 2: hit the hit the sound effects. But we're good on that.

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Speaker 1: We have a green flag button. There we go.

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Speaker 5: This is gonna get annoying.

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Speaker 1: Please all right, So tell us how how did you

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Speaker 1: meet Chelsea?

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Speaker 6: Okay, so we met on a dating app.

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Speaker 5: That's where people meet now, Joe, I agree, But which

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Speaker 5: dating app?

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Speaker 1: We met on?

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Speaker 6: Bumble?

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Speaker 3: That's a green flag?

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Speaker 1: That's all right, Hands off the buttons.

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Speaker 2: It's it's a medium. I'm always a questionable giving girls

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Speaker 2: all the power. But let's keep going. What did you

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Speaker 2: and Chelsea bondover when you first met?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, things were like pretty natural right from the start.

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Speaker 4: And one of the things we bonded over was hot sauce,

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Speaker 4: like we both love really spicy food.

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Speaker 1: And I was like the recorder song. We also had

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Speaker 1: hot cross buns.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, hot, and such an easy transition to we need

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Speaker 5: to go get spicy food together.

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Speaker 1: Is that what you did? Did you lead it into

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Speaker 1: like we should try some hot sauce somewhere? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Actually, and we went to this taco place.

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Speaker 3: Sweet.

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Speaker 4: It was great.

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Speaker 1: It was great.

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Speaker 4: Uh, there was live music, so it was like physicol

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Speaker 4: setting right off to that. But it was really loud

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Speaker 4: in there, and my hearing isn't the best because I

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Speaker 4: played drums in my past, like way too loud, and

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Speaker 4: so my.

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Speaker 6: Earring is kind of going. So I did ask.

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Speaker 4: The waiter if we could like move tables so I could.

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Speaker 7: Hear her better.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you could come across as high maintenance former server.

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Speaker 2: I think I remember people asking yes, and sometimes it's

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Speaker 2: actually nice because he's being considerate.

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Speaker 1: A Now that Jose approves it, I agree that a

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Speaker 1: great flag.

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Speaker 5: Okay, keep going, I want to hear something on the shade.

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Speaker 1: Eventually you found a table that was quieter.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it was quieter, and we showed each other pictures

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Speaker 6: of our dogs.

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Speaker 1: Were both dog parents really nice.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So I mean, you guys are vibing on all

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Speaker 5: these different levels.

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Speaker 3: I mean, was there anything awkward?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Exactly, Like I felt like we really connected and there

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Speaker 6: wasn't anything awkward at all at least not from what

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Speaker 6: I could tell that she was super cute and we

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Speaker 6: felt really comfortable talking to each other.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't even like pretending and trying to be cool.

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Speaker 6: I was just being myself so nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jeff's right, hit the button. Yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: That is exactly what people want on a date.

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Speaker 1: No, I know how it is.

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Speaker 2: Once you get deeper into the relationship, are two years

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Speaker 2: in and the real you comes out, that's when everything

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Speaker 2: turns over.

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Speaker 5: Oh, that's when you know you're with the right person.

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Speaker 5: Is when you feel like you can be fully yourself.

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Speaker 2: And that's when your husband spits sunflower seeds all over

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Speaker 2: the house.

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Speaker 3: It's a habit that's annoying. It does.

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Speaker 1: It's the hymn.

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Speaker 2: Tell us this, was there any romance happening between you?

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Speaker 2: Any flirtations, any kissing?

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Speaker 1: There we go.

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Speaker 6: So unfortunately there wasn't a kiss, but not because I

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Speaker 6: didn't try.

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Speaker 3: Oh did you get turned down?

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Speaker 1: Did she reject you?

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Speaker 7: Not?

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Speaker 6: Really?

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Speaker 4: Like she drove me to my car because I kind

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Speaker 4: of parked far away and I'm like a good bit

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Speaker 4: taller than her. Though, as I was getting out of

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Speaker 4: her car, like she moved her head toward mine. And

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Speaker 4: then like I leaned down and kissed like the top

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Speaker 4: of her head.

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Speaker 1: Oh was it awkward or cute? Because a forehead kiss

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Speaker 1: could be cute.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't really her forehead. It was like the top

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Speaker 4: of her head's like.

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Speaker 3: Hair, Oh my gos, hair in my mouth.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you're kissing your kid before you send

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Speaker 2: them off to school.

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Speaker 3: That is That is an awkward ending. Totally sure, And.

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Speaker 2: I totally could have buzzed you for not doing valet

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Speaker 2: parking yourself, but I didn't do that.

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Speaker 1: I'm giving you credit there, give yourself agreement what.

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Speaker 3: Taco spot has.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a good job, Jeff for being understanding of other

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Speaker 2: people's plate.

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Speaker 1: I feel really good about myself.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, I hate it after the head kiss, How did

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Speaker 2: you leave it?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 6: I just walked back to my car. She drove off

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Speaker 6: and I haven't heard from her.

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Speaker 7: Then.

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Speaker 5: Were you just walking back to your car being like God,

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Speaker 5: why did I kiss the top of the.

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Speaker 2: You know you blew it, especially when you could have

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Speaker 2: used tongue and you didn't.

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Speaker 1: At least it shows that you're into it. I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna fix.

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Speaker 5: It.

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Speaker 1: Shows that you wanted it, but you missed.

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Speaker 3: Red flag yourself.

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Speaker 2: Green flag for effort, And how long has it been

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Speaker 2: since the awkward top of the head kiss?

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Speaker 4: It's been a solid two weeks flag.

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Speaker 5: Finally, when we agree on yeah, Ani communication at all?

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Speaker 6: Uh No, she hasn't maxted me back.

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Speaker 4: That's why I am calling you guys. Hopefully you can

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Speaker 4: help me, Like, did I somehow turn her off or

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Speaker 4: offend her or something?

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Well, the head's awkward, but that's not a deal breaker

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Speaker 1: for sure.

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Speaker 3: Will we not use the sounders when we call her?

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Speaker 2: Well, at that point, she's just going to be telling

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Speaker 2: us what her red flags were, so it's not going

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Speaker 2: to feel good to buzz it. But if she answers

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Speaker 2: the phone on the first try, red flag, she should

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Speaker 2: be Yeah, it's a little bit too over eager, could

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Speaker 2: be a scammer call over and I don't trust that.

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Speaker 2: So hopefully she doesn't pick up for a few times.

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Speaker 2: But when she does, listen for hors second date update,

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Speaker 2: Red Flag Edition, we'll do it right after this hold.

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Speaker 1: Up Second Date update? Are you just joining us for

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Speaker 1: the second date update?

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Speaker 2: We played a little game of spot the possible red flags?

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Speaker 3: Why would we not call it red flag? Green flag?

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Speaker 3: And it was you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a fun time, wasn't it.

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Speaker 2: And several potential flags did come up. One after they

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Speaker 2: were seated and James asked the waiter if they could

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Speaker 2: move tables farther away from the live singer so that.

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Speaker 3: He could actually hear her. I wanted to listen.

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Speaker 2: Could have come across as he's a high maintenance guy. Also,

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Speaker 2: maybe she thinks he hates music. Nobody wants today someone

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Speaker 2: that's anti music. The second possible red flag happened when

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Speaker 2: he went to kiss her, but she moved so his

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Speaker 2: lips touched the top of her head aka the Proud

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Speaker 2: Father kiss. Not a move you want to be pulling,

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Speaker 2: at least not on a first date. And then two

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Speaker 2: full weeks with zero communication from Chelsea not a good sign.

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Speaker 1: Jeff, Yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 3: The last two.

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Speaker 2: I agree with Jeff, because even if you don't like

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Speaker 2: a guy at all, you'll at least drunk text him

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Speaker 2: at two am one night, right, Alexis.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, probably high like a photo on insta exactly.

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Speaker 1: Slip up will happen.

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Speaker 2: So we are officially though, we're going to retire the

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Speaker 2: red flag alert. That's the last one. It had a

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Speaker 2: good run for at least half a segment. But from

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Speaker 2: now on, let's just.

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Speaker 1: Try to use our voices to talk and communicate like

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Speaker 1: humans do.

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Speaker 3: Are you okay?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Why are you saying that.

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Speaker 1: It's a group thing. Let's all agree together?

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Speaker 3: So you think, all right.

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Speaker 1: I'm on an island.

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Speaker 2: I will try to communicate all on my own. And

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Speaker 2: I haven't heard at all from James. James, are you

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Speaker 2: still on the phone.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm here, Okay, okay, he's listening to your monologue,

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Speaker 5: is what he was doing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, green flag for being a good listener.

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Speaker 3: That's why you wanted the quieter booth.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's just call Chelsea. We'll see if she answers.

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Speaker 2: Here we go, Hello, high are we talking to Chelsea?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Chelsea, this is a radio show called Brooke and

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: H Chelsea, Oh it feels forced.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Hi, why are you calling me?

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Speaker 2: This is part of a segment we do call the

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Speaker 2: second Date Update, where we're trying to get some answers

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Speaker 2: for one of our listeners about why he hasn't heard

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Speaker 2: from you since you met up for a date.

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Speaker 3: It was like two weeks ago me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, a guy you went out with named James.

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Speaker 5: Oh, okay, remember spicy James.

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Speaker 3: It loves tacos.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, spicy James.

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Speaker 2: He emailed us because he told us about your date,

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Speaker 5: That's so interesting. He didn't come across as rude at all.

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Speaker 5: I appreciate it when people tell me I'm repeating myself.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, a big dealer or not. It made me mad.

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Speaker 2: I hate interrupt, but you did already tell us that

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Speaker 4: Sorry, I had to go this radio route, but I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, James, did you hear the part where she didn't

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Speaker 5: I was gonna say, if it was a long, boring

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you thought my story was too long and boring.

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Speaker 7: Okay, but you should let all that finish the story.

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Speaker 3: Not only that, but if it's a sad story. You

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Speaker 5: I didn't want that? Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and you ruined it.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like she was looking for like a safe

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Speaker 5: And a green flag right now, James would be you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And Chelsea, can I ask you, is that the

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Speaker 5: Okay, can you are you a person that has ever

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 2: If you agreed to listen to your story in it's

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Speaker 7: Would then I would just be thinking the whole time.

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Speaker 5: She keeps making points that I can see what she's say.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, I know I feel the same way.

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Speaker 6: There's like nothing I can say here.

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Speaker 3: Wow, say sorry, Yeah, you can never do it again.

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Speaker 1: I know what I want to say.

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Speaker 2: I want to ask if you two will go out

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Speaker 7: Yeah, No, it's no for me. I think he should

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, Chelsea.

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Speaker 4: Maybe maybe you should learn like how to read a

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Speaker 1: You're not backing down.

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Speaker 4: No, she's being rude to me. She's not even giving

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Speaker 5: Stories about like her childhood dog die That's what it

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Speaker 7: No, I rescued him from a tree and then he

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Speaker 1: Oh, Brook, why would you even bring that up? Brook?

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Speaker 1: Red flag for.

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Speaker 2: The segments, Yes, don't ask if these questions ever again.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: All right, listen, I'm sorry I had to bring back

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Speaker 2: but Brook crossed the line we all agree we need Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No one else wanted close on what.

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Speaker 3: Id of trust that there was a reason he cut.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a little bit hard because I felt like,

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Speaker 5: I mean, if it was a debate like in high school,

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know, Yeah, she came out on top.

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Speaker 2: But I also think that they probably should have gone

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Speaker 1: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 3: I think this girl has zero patients.

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Speaker 2: She should have brought it up during the date and said, sorry,

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Speaker 2: I think it's rude for you to interrupt me telling

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Speaker 3: Nobody likes doing that, Jeff, that's the confrontation.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 2: But if you want to hear all of our stories,

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Speaker 2: the second date ones are awkward Tuesdays. All of our

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Speaker 2: content is up online. You can check it out wherever

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Speaker 2: you get your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey