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Speaker 1: our show. It helps new listeners discover us and grow

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Speaker 1: the program. On this episode of Sports Illustrated Weekly, Stephen

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Speaker 1: and Trayvon Diggs have made their mother, Stephanie, very proud. Yes,

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Speaker 1: because they're each among the best at their positions in

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Speaker 1: the top without the guiding hand of their father, Aron,

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Speaker 1: who passed away when they were just boys. I'm senior

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Speaker 1: producer Dan Bloom, and I have senior writer Alex Pruett

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Speaker 1: with me today. He wrote our cover story about the

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Speaker 1: Diggs brothers for sis Strength issue, and their journey, although

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Speaker 1: paved with pain, forged an unshakable brotherly love that now

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Speaker 1: extends through generations. How's that for a Philly reference? Gonzalez

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Speaker 1: from Sports Illustrated and I Heart Radio. This is Sports

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Speaker 1: Illustrated Weekly. My name is Alex pruittt, senior writer at

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Speaker 1: Sports Illustrated. Today we're talking about cover story I did

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Speaker 1: for our Strength issue about a pair of brothers in

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Speaker 1: the NFL, Stefan and Trayvon Digs. Stefan is a All

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Speaker 1: Pro receiver for the Bills, and Trayvon is an All

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Speaker 1: Pro defensive back for the Cowboys. Stefan is this shipmying, shaking,

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Speaker 1: joking receiver. Well, that's how you become the best receiver

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Speaker 1: of the National Football League like he was last year.

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Speaker 1: Trayvon is kind of the smooth operator. He has this

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Speaker 1: Nobody's gonna catch him. House call, Travo ditch pick six.

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Speaker 1: Stephen said, all manner of time since Randy Moss and

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Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone could have predicted, even Stefan

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Speaker 1: Trayvon Dick, staring right back into Heinrich's soul, knew exactly

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Speaker 1: What a phenomenal year this young man has had. Not

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Speaker 1: necessarily unique to have a couple of brothers, or even

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Speaker 1: But never has it been so condensed to this like

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Speaker 1: speaking as an only child from my vast experience, mirrors

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Speaker 1: the sibling rivalry itself. Right, you're out on an island.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of mono mono. So you've intrigued me with

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Speaker 1: its conception? No? If anything, it made me think maybe

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Speaker 1: Who is the Diggs family? Where are they from? What

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Speaker 1: And Trayvon described those games when he first started. I

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Speaker 1: That's Trayvon put it. Seeing the bins of recruiting letters

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