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Speaker 1: of Big Facts Fridays. What's up? What's up? Games? That's
Speaker 1: a little hi. Everybody feeling today? We're feeling everybody good? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what it is. Well, Big Facts Friday's tradition. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We always have a word of
Speaker 1: the day that we explored and we moved that into
Speaker 1: a topic. So, Jay, what's the word of the day?
Speaker 1: Hit us? Hit us with it? Okay. So our right
Speaker 1: of the day is pessimism, And the official textbook definition
Speaker 1: of pessimism is a tendency to see the worst aspect
Speaker 1: of things or believe that the worst will happen, a
Speaker 1: lack of hope or confidence in the future, and or
Speaker 1: a belief that this world is as bad as it
Speaker 1: could be, or that evil will ultimately prevail over good.
Speaker 1: M So it's pessimism bad which the urban definition. The
Speaker 1: urban definition is something that I do not have right now,
Speaker 1: and we can get it in a minute. Okay, so
Speaker 1: you're not properly prepared, No, I'm not. We do we
Speaker 1: usually do the RBAN definition. It's it's pessimism bad because
Speaker 1: obviously the complete opposite of pessimism is optimism. So obviously,
Speaker 1: to some extent we have to talk about optimism today too.
Speaker 1: But it's pessimism a bad thing I think personally, Um,
Speaker 1: it could be bad and good. It could be good
Speaker 1: in a sense to where like Black was saying earlier,
Speaker 1: it may prevent you from being naive and so in
Speaker 1: situations which could ultimately lead to your downfall. But I
Speaker 1: feel like it could be a bad thing because it
Speaker 1: could create unnecessary anxiety and limitations on living in life.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I don't think it could
Speaker 1: be that bad. Like me, personally, I prepared for the
Speaker 1: worst in every situation. So every time I walk into
Speaker 1: a room or anything happened, I ultimately think of, like,
Speaker 1: what's the worst that can happen? Like can I deal
Speaker 1: with the worst? And if I could deal with the worst,
Speaker 1: I'll deal with the situation. Preparation, deal with the worst
Speaker 1: and I just take my step back. Yeah, Like, if
Speaker 1: I think about the worst of the situation, I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, I only want to deal with this. I'll
Speaker 1: take a step back from the whole situation. It's preparation testimism, though,
Speaker 1: like you should be. Is it being prepared if you're
Speaker 1: thinking about the worst all the time? Like preparing short
Speaker 1: because all I'm preparing for is the worst. I'm not
Speaker 1: preparing for the actual situation. I'm just preparing for you
Speaker 1: lock you lock your door at night because somebody could
Speaker 1: come in your home, right, But is that preparation or pessimism? Preparation?
Speaker 1: That's preparation, That's what I think. But it's still you're
Speaker 1: still thinking that the worst can happen. That's why you're
Speaker 1: locking the door, right. But I think pessimism to that
Speaker 1: degree would be you sitting by the door waiting for
Speaker 1: somebody to come in, like you got all your guns
Speaker 1: by the door waitings. I'm saying what you're saying, basically,
Speaker 1: you ain't thinking about it once you lock your dough Yeah,
Speaker 1: exactly what you're laying in bed like hears right, paris
Speaker 1: what about the people that that sleep with their gun
Speaker 1: next to their bed paria. Think that's that's racial. That
Speaker 1: ain't nothing. Yeah, still pessimism with no gun. A lot
Speaker 1: of a lot of people that Yeah, most cons if
Speaker 1: you break into him, then you're probably gonna get you.
Speaker 1: If you got your gun on you at all times.
Speaker 1: And then when you walk through l a, you walk
Speaker 1: through and you're grabbing it, what you're thinking of the
Speaker 1: grab and it you're a gun owner. Most gun owners
Speaker 1: always have their guns with most going on, they'd lock
Speaker 1: the weight exactly seat risk pessimism right now. You think
Speaker 1: you can't go down it anytime. It's preparation to it's
Speaker 1: being prepared if somebody, if somebody run up, if somebody
Speaker 1: run up on somebody and they get got, they're gonna
Speaker 1: be like you were slipping. You weren't prepared, yell. But
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I get it. How would you even
Speaker 1: think that you could slip if you're not thinking the worst?
Speaker 1: Thank you. That's the point. That's the bank. But what
Speaker 1: I was saying is, how do we separate preparation with
Speaker 1: pessimism and paranoia? Are they all together? If you're preparing
Speaker 1: for the worst, that means you're a pessimism, right You're
Speaker 1: a pessimist. You know what I mean, If you're preparing
Speaker 1: for the worst, that means you're thinking about some bullshit. No,
Speaker 1: I feel like if you're preparing for the worst, that
Speaker 1: just means that you're smart. They're saying, they saying what
Speaker 1: you said. Definition is you think the worst can happen, right,
Speaker 1: A tendency to see the worst aspect of things. People.
Speaker 1: Most people that go by guds got guds just in case. Preparation,
Speaker 1: preparation personness, pessimism thinking something can happen if precident's prepared
Speaker 1: to thinking that something can happen, and they want to
Speaker 1: be prepared to prevent something from happening in that it does.
Speaker 1: Pessimism is pessimism is also not giving yourself a chance
Speaker 1: to win per se. So it's like going to play
Speaker 1: the powerball, right, and you get the ticket, like, man,
Speaker 1: I know I ain't gonna win. You're thinking the worst situations.
Speaker 1: What you call each situation is different, right, because it
Speaker 1: could be good or bad. It's good that you're preparing
Speaker 1: for the worst. It's what you're still thinking the worst.
Speaker 1: I think, what about what about about a realist though?
Speaker 1: What about a realist? What about the reality that the world.
Speaker 1: That's certain stuff going on. It's not that's the world.
Speaker 1: Everybody has a different worlds of the world is funked
Speaker 1: up in your mind. That means you're looking at it
Speaker 1: in a negative white No, that means that's based on
Speaker 1: that's based on experiences. How'd you looking at the world
Speaker 1: right now? It's fucked up basically, but based on experience.
Speaker 1: We're looking at the experience. But everybody, but everybody, everybody,
Speaker 1: that's what you're not the same on that. Everybody perspecting
Speaker 1: that the same of that. We look at the worlds.
Speaker 1: We have funked up experiences. But it's so what that
Speaker 1: makes you realist? Realist? But what's the realist? What's the definition? Again?
Speaker 1: Look at the world? What what I was about? Pensimists?
Speaker 1: You just said the world? Don't You just said the world?
Speaker 1: But if you're a pessimist, you're you only think the
Speaker 1: bad ship is gonna happen. You only think how you
Speaker 1: go on the club and you outside and night, what
Speaker 1: are you thinking the worst can happen? You're preparing for
Speaker 1: the world to happen, your anxieties up. You don't think
Speaker 1: you don't think it's gonna happen, though, do you think
Speaker 1: the bulls's gonna go down, go to a motherfucking cook out.
Speaker 1: You're thinking every time you got them some drop what
Speaker 1: you thought a pessimist get on the plane and think
Speaker 1: the plane gonna crash. But when you get on the plane,
Speaker 1: When I get on the plane, I in my mind,
Speaker 1: I know this ship can exactly this is probably start
Speaker 1: turbulent and shaking it. It's like it's going down. What
Speaker 1: roll did more? You ain't thinking like it's just turbulence, no,
Speaker 1: what not. But what I'm saying is is like, okay,
Speaker 1: like you just said, when you get on a plane,
Speaker 1: you're getting on the plane knowing that this plane can crash.
Speaker 1: You're not on the plane knowing that this plane is
Speaker 1: gonna crash. Every time I seek, like pop on what
Speaker 1: you think any going on? It's it's going to be
Speaker 1: a rocky flight. Now. I can't wait to time. I
Speaker 1: can't wait to this flight. I can't wait to this
Speaker 1: flight over. I don't just be thinking us over with,
Speaker 1: we're done for Let me say my final prayer. If
Speaker 1: you start smelling smoke when you want to play with you,
Speaker 1: when you're gonna be a little more fearful because you're
Speaker 1: a realist that glass of wine. The pessimistm is realized
Speaker 1: the actual. But then y'all trying to justify anything you
Speaker 1: do being being what is it pessimistic? You do with
Speaker 1: different words trying to do you're looking at something in
Speaker 1: a negative way, You're being pessimistic. Okay, I saw another
Speaker 1: way to break that. You're a pestimistic person. And I'm
Speaker 1: saying you have a pessimistic mind something oh certain things.
Speaker 1: Everybody makes another way, another way to break it down,
Speaker 1: basically is to say that pessimism is a direct parallel
Speaker 1: to a negative, self fulfilling prophecy. What get in the car,
Speaker 1: get in the car and get in the car and
Speaker 1: assuming or thinking that it's always gonna I'm pessimistic about cars,
Speaker 1: about driving them, about just being in cars. I'll be
Speaker 1: feeling like I'm like every time if we need get
Speaker 1: close to the curt Special they're driving, like I can't
Speaker 1: sleep in called by other people driving not really you know,
Speaker 1: bumped into ship. But I ain't never been a no
Speaker 1: accident accident. Have you ever seen a big accident? What
Speaker 1: I'm just saying like that that's comes to a part
Speaker 1: of that. It's usually it's I think I'm pessimistical anything
Speaker 1: that's out of my like. That's what I'm saying. It
Speaker 1: is what it is, and I think this is a
Speaker 1: mental disorder too, right PTSD. But this is the thing,
Speaker 1: right am I speaking of? You called me a lot
Speaker 1: of time with a lot of optimism, So you're not
Speaker 1: a pessimistic person you called me, But spit. It depends
Speaker 1: on what it is, especially when it comes to people.
Speaker 1: When it comes to people, I see it's you all
Speaker 1: some bullshit until you prove me to me that you're not.
Speaker 1: Because dealing with people over the years, I have been
Speaker 1: let down by people. That's kind of defense mechanism. Though
Speaker 1: that's not a defense mechan because in the end of
Speaker 1: the day I meet you and don't know you, I'm
Speaker 1: still wondering what you want, well, defending you want to
Speaker 1: protect yourself, trying to change words, change the words, or
Speaker 1: if I'm looking at you in a negative way when
Speaker 1: I meet you. That's what the definition you said. You're
Speaker 1: protecting yourself yourself just because we get just because you
Speaker 1: don't want to. But I don't mean that. We're not
Speaker 1: being pestimistic. No, we all justifying my actions on white
Speaker 1: I feel this way doesn't mean I'm being in that situation.
Speaker 1: In that situation here, you are being pesimist, but it's
Speaker 1: because of it. Basically, I think the difference. Did I
Speaker 1: get the underlying issues on why I'm being that way,
Speaker 1: but I am being like this word. I never knew
Speaker 1: this word, so I looked it up last night and
Speaker 1: just start reading like damn this in certain situations. But
Speaker 1: the thing. The thing is with pessimism, and like what
Speaker 1: you're saying about how you meet people, You've been led
Speaker 1: down in the past. So whenever you meet new people,
Speaker 1: it's a possible you look at them like expecting the
Speaker 1: bullshit pessimism you like the reason that you're feeling like
Speaker 1: that when you meet new people, you're warranted to feel
Speaker 1: like that because of your previous experiences with other people
Speaker 1: with pessimism A lot of because because it takes away
Speaker 1: my pain. No, No, still know what a man is.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is passimism. A lot of times it
Speaker 1: can't be justified that pessimism. A lot of that's unworranted
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. It's not situational. Yes, that's just
Speaker 1: a state. I feel like a situational me personally, I
Speaker 1: think it's pessimistic and certain ship. It's just what it is.
Speaker 1: You're gonna look at certain ship in the negative way
Speaker 1: if you already been through it in a negative way,
Speaker 1: like the lottery, like y'all said before. But that means
Speaker 1: because I feel like I ain't gonna win and I
Speaker 1: might be the negati get more in it. That's pessimism,
Speaker 1: thank you. But but you just said that said, I'm
Speaker 1: optimistic about a lot of ship when I call you.
Speaker 1: But if you do go buy a ticket, you're gonna
Speaker 1: feel like you can win. Or you might be like
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna win, but shot gonna play. You probably win.
Speaker 1: That's how you are. But she said, it's a state.
Speaker 1: It is a state. That's pessimis what we're doing. Pessimistic,
Speaker 1: pimistic that she's saying. If you're being if you that
Speaker 1: you that all the way around. If you're being pessimistic,
Speaker 1: you are all the way around. You're always negative about ship,
Speaker 1: that you have no reason to be nexatim that's pessimism.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying pessimistic is I could be
Speaker 1: pessimistic about something right now, like this ain't gonna taste.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm just going to what we're talking about,
Speaker 1: pessimism or being pessimistic, and y'all change the word. I
Speaker 1: said the word pessimistic. Y'all change the word the word
Speaker 1: because I'm because pessimism has as a lot more derivatives
Speaker 1: than pessimistic, because pessimistic is the act of being a pessimist,
Speaker 1: which derives from the word pessimism. I get pessimism, I'm
Speaker 1: not talking about I'm talking about pestimistic. Can that be selected? Yes,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm speaking of. I'm not just I'm not
Speaker 1: in a steak well. I'm a pessimism because everything I started,
Speaker 1: any type of any type of thing that I started business,
Speaker 1: I see the grade in it before I even started.
Speaker 1: But when I see a nigga, I'm thinking, what this
Speaker 1: nigga on? So it's two different things. What I'm trying
Speaker 1: to get you all, am I Trippet. It's in the
Speaker 1: same family. But that's what you're saying. You're being pessimistic
Speaker 1: about the person, the context of context of the situation.
Speaker 1: But I ain't stuck in in is M I'm whatever, Cimi,
Speaker 1: that's me a lot, that's me. Everyone is pessimistic. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm thinking about. She brought up another word that
Speaker 1: I'm glad because I just learned two words. She brought
Speaker 1: up pestimism. No, I'm not that, But am I pestimistic
Speaker 1: about a lot of ship? Yes, that makes sense perfect
Speaker 1: senselestims about being in cars, pestimist about people, but I'm
Speaker 1: not about my ability to do certain She ain't gonny
Speaker 1: going to nothing thinking I'm gonna lose. Well, you have
Speaker 1: more optimism for things involving yourself than you do for
Speaker 1: other people. That seemism can stop, like Jay saying, pestimism
Speaker 1: can stop you from even exceling because you're already not
Speaker 1: trying because you know you're gonna fail. But that goes back.
Speaker 1: He's pessimistic pretty much primarily about anything that's not within
Speaker 1: his control. Thank you, thank you, That's all I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: which is worth it because if you can't control that ship,
Speaker 1: you don't know what the man happen exactly. That makes
Speaker 1: sense that being pestimistic about love stop you from loving
Speaker 1: or being loved. Definitely, Definitely, you wouldn't know how to love,
Speaker 1: nor would you know how to receive love, because what
Speaker 1: your love languages, your love language a person being pessimistic
Speaker 1: about love is usually someone that's either been abused, cheated on,
Speaker 1: or lied to a lot of times, and they project
Speaker 1: that pessimism onto their future and next partners. But who's
Speaker 1: not who who? What right person in their mind have
Speaker 1: been through anything that the normal um middle class American,
Speaker 1: Black American, it's not don't have PTSD every I think
Speaker 1: a lot of black people have got PTSD and different
Speaker 1: type of forms. Thank you, That's what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I can't say that
Speaker 1: somebody stuck like she was saying. It's two different words.
Speaker 1: I'm glad that we got to that. I can't say
Speaker 1: that the motherfucking's stuck being a Debbie down. But in
Speaker 1: certain situations can trigger you to be a debbute down
Speaker 1: based off a previous experience, and that's where the anxiety,
Speaker 1: the paranoia, and the PTSD comes from. We don't think
Speaker 1: some people are just stuck me and Debbie down. There
Speaker 1: is like I do, But I don't think nobody at
Speaker 1: this table is that. But like I said, like like,
Speaker 1: but like like when we like a whole bunch of
Speaker 1: big facts Fridays ago, when we were talking about relationships
Speaker 1: and like nigga's the deal with women that are gonna
Speaker 1: nag no matter what, because that's just what's in them.
Speaker 1: Those type of people are the people that we're speaking
Speaker 1: about that are consistently, constantly and always pessimistic. But they
Speaker 1: might just be like that about that situation with that dude,
Speaker 1: or or they may see better in that person and
Speaker 1: trying to push that person to be better off. It's
Speaker 1: bitches out there that don't matter what the nigga does,
Speaker 1: no matter what the nigga tries to do, no matter
Speaker 1: what the nigga thinks about you trying to make it better. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you already bullshit to her. Know what I'm saying is
Speaker 1: what if? What if you ain't never done nothing to
Speaker 1: this bitch and She'sip's what I'm saying, after nigga, before
Speaker 1: you did that, and she's projecting all of that on
Speaker 1: you and giving you all of this bullshit because of
Speaker 1: what this other nigga put her through. Don't even be here, y'all,
Speaker 1: shouldn't even be That's on you. But a lot of people,
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't get that deep into the
Speaker 1: situation until after they've been together for years or had
Speaker 1: kids or whatever, and then those type of things make
Speaker 1: you feel obligated to the situation. So you try to
Speaker 1: do what you can, muddle through and deal with it.
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, this is some
Speaker 1: ship that you really can't take man. Like I said,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, no matter what you
Speaker 1: when you come into any relationship, any friendship, anything, you
Speaker 1: see all the signs of everything you need to see
Speaker 1: in the beginning. If you choose to ignore them, thinking
Speaker 1: they're gonna get better, a lot of that thing, whether
Speaker 1: you're gonna see immediately what it is, what you're dealing with,
Speaker 1: no matter what, like right the same day, and you're
Speaker 1: gonna you like so much other shit about them. You
Speaker 1: try to ignore that until it starts to increase increase, increase, increase.
Speaker 1: Then now I can't deal with it. But you I've
Speaker 1: been like this, or it could be able. How they
Speaker 1: treat other people, like you will watch how they're treating
Speaker 1: you and think like, oh, they treat me so great,
Speaker 1: but you will see that they're treating this other person bullshit.
Speaker 1: I am a firm believer that you watch our people
Speaker 1: treat other people, eventually they're gonna start treating you bullshit.
Speaker 1: It's gonna come right back around. Like if somebody just
Speaker 1: treating other people bullshit all the time, but treating you
Speaker 1: like you just oh so great. Eventually, when you stop
Speaker 1: giving them what they want and what they desire, you're
Speaker 1: gonna be on that bullshit side too. Facts. Facts by
Speaker 1: the time, by the time you trying to look over ship,
Speaker 1: now they don't warn you. Now you pestimistic about hood,
Speaker 1: right yeah, basically, yeah, that's what it is like. But
Speaker 1: you're gonna allow yourself somebody else to put you in
Speaker 1: that space when you already know I can't deal with it.
Speaker 1: Like back to the cigarette ship. Yeah, you already know
Speaker 1: you like motherfucker's smoke cigarettes, but you're trying to deal
Speaker 1: with it thinking I can love you enough to you
Speaker 1: stop smoking cigarettes, or eventually you're gonna love me enough
Speaker 1: to stop smoking. Don't go like that. You can't love
Speaker 1: anybody out of who they truly are like that. They
Speaker 1: were there before that was then before you got to
Speaker 1: They're gonna be like that forever. Facts, we're not get big.
Speaker 1: So as you think like the opposite, like optimism sometimes
Speaker 1: bad because it makes you like naive, a gullible and
Speaker 1: let your guard down for all these attacks which is
Speaker 1: the opposite of pessimism optimism thinking everything is all good.
Speaker 1: I think they make Yeah, you don't think everything all good.
Speaker 1: Some people come the world. When some people come from
Speaker 1: that world, they ain't never seen that brow you would
Speaker 1: happen to those people. But okay, so so how you
Speaker 1: saying and you can't think everything is good? That goes
Speaker 1: back to what we were saying about reality? What about reality?
Speaker 1: About thinking of living? Not being necessarily pestimistic, but just
Speaker 1: being a realist too, because we turn on the knee.
Speaker 1: I feel like being pestimistic in certain situations you have
Speaker 1: to be, Yeah, but because it's because being pestimistic about
Speaker 1: certin ship would make you prepare like y'all trying to sleep. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'm thinking the worst that somebody could breaking your
Speaker 1: house at home you and your kids, would make you prepare. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that Kanye and Kim Kardashian and DJ
Speaker 1: Kali's kids are very optimistic because they haven't experienced no
Speaker 1: bullshit yet. So they don't know nothing about none of
Speaker 1: that ship. You see what I'm saying. They don't know
Speaker 1: nothing about that. If you grow up in Calabasa's your
Speaker 1: whole life. You don't know nothing about some of the
Speaker 1: ship something in calabas So do you believe So okay, well,
Speaker 1: if y'all are saying that, do you guys believe that
Speaker 1: your outlook on optimism versus pessimism depends on your environment?
Speaker 1: For sure? Yes, your product, you're a product of you
Speaker 1: definitely aren't. Absolutely. I'm just saying that their environments that
Speaker 1: we might not have been disposed to people are la
Speaker 1: la la la la la la. Seeing like they don't
Speaker 1: have to you, you feel like they don't have a coupe. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: and to them. So that's two different worlds. Don't talk
Speaker 1: about our world in the big fast, the big Fast
Speaker 1: Friday world the listeners who thats up pessimism? They pestimistic
Speaker 1: down a motherfucker, and we want to get out another line.
Speaker 1: We want to get you. I don't want to get you.
Speaker 1: I want to get you out of the searching ways.
Speaker 1: If you live, if you're loud, to stop you from searching,
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Yes, But other than that, come
Speaker 1: with it. But don't have the mentality I ain't never
Speaker 1: gonna be. Don't be that pessimist like you seeing a
Speaker 1: nigger with the poshter Man song with stick in his
Speaker 1: hand and you're like, oh, he just got that for protection.
Speaker 1: Know anybody tell you the lay down man, big fact.
Speaker 1: Be optimistic about this photo shoot. That's just like the
Speaker 1: parking your car in certain spots. You're thinking, the worst
Speaker 1: can happen. My car window can be busted. Guy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they busting every body, the one in that Lanta. But
Speaker 1: you're gonna be optimistic, like mine ain't gonna get busted,
Speaker 1: or you're just prepared for what come with it. You
Speaker 1: might be cool with it they go buck my winder,
Speaker 1: But I got the preparing this when they need a
Speaker 1: car unlocked and then the window down and you just
Speaker 1: opened and put the plastic bag on the mother and
Speaker 1: like already, why would you leave your leave your laptopping
Speaker 1: things on the seat, Because that's an optimistic because a
Speaker 1: lot of people think about what is very optimistic. I'm
Speaker 1: just running there. A lot of people think about what
Speaker 1: life should be instead of what deal. Well, I should
Speaker 1: be able to leave my car here. Yeah, I like
Speaker 1: you're going in the gas with your crow. We used
Speaker 1: to be able to do that back in the day.
Speaker 1: Who does that? I used to do that? You can running? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it won't. But it weren't like how it is now.
Speaker 1: People are actually behind these cards from these guys. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they made this ship into a hustle. So you have
Speaker 1: to be mindful, yes, mindful, Yeah, not necessarily pessimistic, but mindful.
Speaker 1: But what could do mindful preparation and all these other
Speaker 1: words y'all trying to talk around back today, I just
Speaker 1: feel like pessimism is gloom and doing pessimistic pestimism. Sure,
Speaker 1: but you can you can start off the day pessimistic
Speaker 1: about your day. You might not be in a state
Speaker 1: of pessimism, but them glooming doing people that wake up
Speaker 1: on some pessimistic ship. But I never be like that,
Speaker 1: So I guess I'm speaking from the point of things
Speaker 1: I can't control. Once again, like I can't control Like
Speaker 1: if I see code that the day depends on how
Speaker 1: he is. I don't know what Kode called until he speaks,
Speaker 1: then okay, yeah, but the real I'm not gonna say
Speaker 1: to him if he's looking like something's on his mind,
Speaker 1: until he'd be like bang, oh yeah, because I can't
Speaker 1: predict how he's gonna go. You know what I've been
Speaker 1: going through? Yeah, what might switch it up? That's true.
Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, Like I don't know what you got
Speaker 1: going on, really trying to see if you're gonna punch me.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking the worst, the niggle who want to shoot
Speaker 1: up at school. So you don't have no situations, You'll
Speaker 1: have no situations of optimism, heartaches, huh b optimistic about
Speaker 1: when you go out that what do I speak about?
Speaker 1: Big facts, very big, optimist everything that's going on right? Yes,
Speaker 1: very big? Yes, yes, because when you til I know it,
Speaker 1: don't take that. But nothing for me to do that
Speaker 1: but keep great people around me, with the right people
Speaker 1: and do my best. And I know I'm gonna do that.
Speaker 1: But I can't be optimistic about I'm gonna hit the
Speaker 1: lottery because you can't throw that because I've never done it,
Speaker 1: and I think it's a scam. I play Sam. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, but I don't want to stand. But I
Speaker 1: knew I could tell me how the funk I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get that luck. That's I guess. Sistic. I feel like
Speaker 1: the look that I have is what I'm doing to
Speaker 1: be able to work. I don't got the lottery look,
Speaker 1: hopefully my wife hit it. Realism, realistical, realistic, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, But you won't have a lottery lucky
Speaker 1: if you don't play. You don't even play. So you
Speaker 1: ain't because I ain't. I don't even want to try
Speaker 1: to waste that look on some ship that I need
Speaker 1: this slog. But like they said, it's pessimistic. Could be
Speaker 1: good for gamblers, yeah, because you can win enough money
Speaker 1: to be like end up losing. The rest of the
Speaker 1: ship ain't been win on more eving they quit. So
Speaker 1: optimism pestimism is both good and doses. You can't have
Speaker 1: too much of either balance yea, thank you. But you
Speaker 1: know what I think that makes you? You know what
Speaker 1: I think that makes you a realist? Right in the
Speaker 1: middle is a realist. Some bad ships could happen or
Speaker 1: some good ship could happen, So I'm gonna prepare for both.
Speaker 1: The realist. Okay, yeah, you kind of religious. End of
Speaker 1: the episode. Yeah though, Yeah, a realist. But there's also
Speaker 1: another word. Okay, we just have to bring this up.
Speaker 1: But what place does paranoia play in all of this?
Speaker 1: How detrimental is paranoia? Paranoia? Think would be the negative?
Speaker 1: My fucking jaw just got stuck. The negative, the negative
Speaker 1: extreme of the spectrum of pessimism. That's what Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: that's what I was coming in there, And those are
Speaker 1: the people that generally can't function paranoia. Paranoid people are
Speaker 1: fucking hypochondriacs. Paranoid people are fucking whatever kind of other
Speaker 1: acts that I feel like some shit is what helped
Speaker 1: me with my pessimistic ways for agreements. Definitely, you can't
Speaker 1: take name personal. You know what I'm saying. You gotta
Speaker 1: speak your words, you know what I'm saying, like and
Speaker 1: stand on them. Yeah, like different ship like never y'all
Speaker 1: ain't never seen that book, read that book, heard that book,
Speaker 1: Go get it. Somebody helps you, sure, but the ship
Speaker 1: that's inside you is not gonna allow you to be naive.
Speaker 1: So I'm glad for everything I've been through, everything I've seen, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't feel like he could have made a better
Speaker 1: nig to me, So I take the good with the
Speaker 1: bad from customistic, I'm not inselent at all because that's
Speaker 1: a person that just stuck as a debut downald. Right. No,
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I don't even allow myself to
Speaker 1: be around those kind of people, right, But am I
Speaker 1: about certain situations? Yes, because I can't fight the feeling?
Speaker 1: How can you? How can you fight something that when
Speaker 1: you it's like deja vudo? You yeah, how basically your
Speaker 1: experiences that's your reality. If a nigga say the same
Speaker 1: ship that the nigga said, who fucked over you before
Speaker 1: he did it? How are you not gonna see that
Speaker 1: ime situations the same cologne, that's the nigger that did
Speaker 1: something to you. How you don't smell that you're right?
Speaker 1: You're gonna be right whatever that situation telling you it is.
Speaker 1: If a nigga walk like the nigga get something you,
Speaker 1: how you don't that ain't him? You gotta prove to
Speaker 1: me that you ain't him. That president is dog whatever
Speaker 1: it is it is. You know, like you go outside
Speaker 1: today and you're like, dam it's about the rain, because
Speaker 1: nig about police when they get behind you. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: every time every time cars back, thinking he's coming to
Speaker 1: get me, you're gonna slow down. Pessimism if you see
Speaker 1: the motherfucker you can pay about them bits on spread way.
Speaker 1: If you're thinking, damn, what's I going too fast? People
Speaker 1: to come getting they could have already pulled somebody here,
Speaker 1: You're still gonna slow down pessimism. Yeah, nigga, they're gonna
Speaker 1: be You have a nigga pulled over, You're still gonna
Speaker 1: show down. You're gonna think damn they are him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you ain't doing ship you legit you everything like you
Speaker 1: you're calling you smoking the weeds that she calls them
Speaker 1: Bill pessimism. Huh. Still pessimism that comes from experience and
Speaker 1: that is PTSD. Yeah, that is just from anybody because
Speaker 1: just being black, you at risk and that is the reality.
Speaker 1: What what what what? What? What makes it the other way?
Speaker 1: You think? Like what they fail that way about us?
Speaker 1: What created that? Police and authorities and paranoise? What he
Speaker 1: said paranoia? He said, niggas do be doing like why
Speaker 1: doing it? Why? They said niggas be shooting the two
Speaker 1: big facts. That's true. A lot of them now ain't
Speaker 1: don't matter. Niggas just'stimistic about I'm saying a niggas that's
Speaker 1: what I love. Like we want to go back and
Speaker 1: get into that. We're gonna have to go all the
Speaker 1: way back to slavery probably, but slavery still is still
Speaker 1: with niggas crossing niggas in the slavery days, we still
Speaker 1: got own up to what we do, but who in
Speaker 1: the slavery accountability niggas. Niggas. Niggas could come to motherfucker
Speaker 1: after the fun with us and nigga we to go,
Speaker 1: But who your selling? Crockers, So who's calling? If nigga
Speaker 1: was selling, they couldn't buy the fucking white man. That
Speaker 1: you're like a niggas. That's you're like a motherfucker. Come
Speaker 1: telling me they want to buy my son for slavery.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sell it where together. I don't need again. Niggas,
Speaker 1: Come telling mother, niggas, I can make you a king
Speaker 1: just selling me a few of your niggas. Niggas did
Speaker 1: ye who but whole provided the intemptive for them to
Speaker 1: be able to do gonna there is no market. Yeah,
Speaker 1: get our niggas to say, who are gonna who? They're
Speaker 1: gonna conservated the market though, That's what I'm trying to
Speaker 1: get to the point of the niggas. No nigga, how
Speaker 1: we know it, nig we don't know. As an African,
Speaker 1: I must say that Africans has servants. Yeah, they had servants.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying that yo niggas on the boat
Speaker 1: and brought him over here. But they were so so
Speaker 1: so Okay, well we this discussion is not going anywhere.
Speaker 1: But yeah, before was even out. No, but what I'm
Speaker 1: saying to you who they're having a bigger scale, those
Speaker 1: niggas and niggas and had servants and ship. We're definitely
Speaker 1: to blame and they're definitely we're talking about in the
Speaker 1: cause that So that's all we can talk about this, dude, Queen. No,
Speaker 1: but what that's all we can talk about is the route, queen,
Speaker 1: not how it expanded. What's it? Dips go forth? Oka't
Speaker 1: argue with that. Yeah, they nigglas crossed niggas. Man, if
Speaker 1: we were together on anything, it wouldn't be. That's just
Speaker 1: the same way they in the case the niggle go
Speaker 1: to jail, don't phote on her ship. You tell on
Speaker 1: your man. Not both of y'all locked up. It don't
Speaker 1: be nothing until y'all making something like niggas got a
Speaker 1: start being okay, mother, be like damn, the folk locked
Speaker 1: you up. Okay, that's their job. It's also their job
Speaker 1: to prove it. Oh way they gonna prove when y'all
Speaker 1: start telling on each other the same ship. If you
Speaker 1: didn't get caught right then doing whatever you're doing, they
Speaker 1: helped to prove it. Oh j got away because he
Speaker 1: did that ship by himself allegedly. I'm just saying if
Speaker 1: he did. Yeah, the white boy, motorcycle boy. They call
Speaker 1: all the motorcycle them home. They ain't say ship. Mhm. Right.
Speaker 1: We put ourselves in every situation we in. Then try
Speaker 1: to blame Oh the motherfucker to me accountability. That's just
Speaker 1: my opinion on it. And didn't get mad. Whatever they
Speaker 1: want to do. But think about it though. It's always
Speaker 1: different factors from some ship, for sure, and you're speaking
Speaker 1: on one of them. You gotta better made bun before
Speaker 1: you damn man, you're gonna lel me and him, so
Speaker 1: now you tell it, and especially no media out there
Speaker 1: at Grandma put the outs up. But you know you
Speaker 1: mad because he out Yeah, niggas putting their crime on
Speaker 1: the internet. Time about the police got nicky. You told
Speaker 1: him who did this ship? Everything now and then we
Speaker 1: had a whole episode on accountability. But you gotta take
Speaker 1: accountability like at the end of the day, like mother
Speaker 1: can't do none of you. And this is inside job, bro,
Speaker 1: that's the same ship with slavery ship anything. It gotta
Speaker 1: be a motherfucker next to you to turn you over.
Speaker 1: M h. When no Folte walked pulled up them peel
Speaker 1: lass facing the Africa to my buying some niggas and
Speaker 1: they pull to show them how this go. We're gonna
Speaker 1: play like that over here. Fuck on, so they here
Speaker 1: about got them Old Bob Bob Pete didn't make it
Speaker 1: back from over there trying to buy the nickel. And
Speaker 1: to your point, you see what happened there with the
Speaker 1: Haiti with that ship. Haitian was going m yea, I
Speaker 1: just say everything, everything, every every uh action caused a reaction,
Speaker 1: bro as I look at it, and then we gotta
Speaker 1: just start from where it started. Like, I can't be
Speaker 1: mad at my wife that she's paranoid about me when
Speaker 1: I'm not there. I caused those actions for my actions
Speaker 1: to play with this man. I'm just being real. Can't
Speaker 1: she called me on FaceTime to stay around the FaceTime
Speaker 1: to see what's going on. I can't follow her. I
Speaker 1: gotta look into myself and say, what how would you feel?
Speaker 1: What do you do? You rebuttle that with excuses? No,
Speaker 1: I don't rebutter excuse I butter I rebutter it with
Speaker 1: compliancy what's up baby? Let you see everything you ever
Speaker 1: need to see. A matter of fact, you can come
Speaker 1: to that's how that's on the way. What else can
Speaker 1: I do? Get mad that I put you in a
Speaker 1: place there? Now you got damn doing with the saying
Speaker 1: things that I don't How can I not like that
Speaker 1: when I either one did it right. That's a big fact.
Speaker 1: That accountability. That's what it takes to be on some
Speaker 1: real grown up ship. You gotta have that accountability. Accountability
Speaker 1: definitely lost our society though everybody everything somebody else fun
Speaker 1: Nigga's broke because another nick if he would have did it,
Speaker 1: did what you do for yourself? Because it's hard for
Speaker 1: a negative to look in the mirror and say, damn,
Speaker 1: it's really my fault that I ain't on ship, But
Speaker 1: it's easy for me to say, damn, it's his part.
Speaker 1: I ain't on ship. I think what it is when
Speaker 1: people see other people that have helped with certain things
Speaker 1: and then they want that type of help. They get
Speaker 1: mad that they don't have that help. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Get mad At the end of the day,
Speaker 1: if it's something worse help helping, somebody's gonna step up
Speaker 1: to it because they can see value in it. If
Speaker 1: it ain't ship. They helped me up, but I pot
Speaker 1: take you from zero. You get that ship like two percent,
Speaker 1: and THEGNA started to see it, get the fitted I
Speaker 1: camp to get to a hundred. Yeah, that's true. Niggas
Speaker 1: wants you to come get them at zero and take
Speaker 1: all the way to a hundred. I didn't go. But
Speaker 1: also you can't compare your race and somebody else's because
Speaker 1: you don't know what the other person had to go
Speaker 1: through to get where where they are exactly. So if
Speaker 1: I see if I see this other person, like you said,
Speaker 1: if I've see somebody else with help, I don't know
Speaker 1: what the fund they went through the to the situation
Speaker 1: where other people are willing to help them. Facts, But
Speaker 1: you have to do your own work at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, and it's so hard to to start
Speaker 1: that ship. But nothing easy comes nothing good comes easy.
Speaker 1: That's a fact. So that's what I think. Put the
Speaker 1: leg work in. Niggas will catch on eventually. But it
Speaker 1: happens a lot like in the workplace, like when just say,
Speaker 1: for instance, like you're working and you have a team
Speaker 1: and each team member has a different thing that they're
Speaker 1: supposed to do a different position that they're supposed to play.
Speaker 1: But then they feel like, Okay, either they can do
Speaker 1: what this next person is doing, or they feel like
Speaker 1: they should be compensated just as much as this person
Speaker 1: because their work or whatever is just as hard, or
Speaker 1: they feel like they've gone through just as much as
Speaker 1: this person. And then they start resenting the other team
Speaker 1: members and the other workers because of the way that
Speaker 1: they're being um, what's the word, I'm looking for the
Speaker 1: web that they're being celebrated for their job and they
Speaker 1: feel like they're not getting that same type of celebration
Speaker 1: when at the end of the day, again, you don't
Speaker 1: know what these people had to go through to make
Speaker 1: it to the position to get to where they're celebrated,
Speaker 1: and all the work that they put in and all
Speaker 1: the other ship that they've done. So it's kind of
Speaker 1: like that ship just creates a lot of unnecessary attentions
Speaker 1: for nothing. Yeah, is what it is. Just a hater.
Speaker 1: You just want what somebody else got. All you gotta
Speaker 1: do is keep working. Whatever you do, you keep working,
Speaker 1: it's gonna show one thing about you go to the gym,
Speaker 1: you're gonna start againting smaller. You do push up, You're
Speaker 1: gonna start againting muscles. You keep working. Mother got vengency. Hey,
Speaker 1: she don't out grow that position. But people don't want
Speaker 1: to do the work that is that you can't finally
Speaker 1: to cut your hell no more. You know that. You say,
Speaker 1: I need to pull up, cut your health, put up.
Speaker 1: Watch your cars, like all the car watch niggas got
Speaker 1: them booge, You're like, she make appointment appointment? I mean,
Speaker 1: ain't hungry no more? Brother, you don't know watch five
Speaker 1: cars a week when you can watch on Yeah, then
Speaker 1: you go home and make excuse your niggas ain't sucking.
Speaker 1: But when nigga called you, you would not available. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that that's that's the world that's creative, where
Speaker 1: everybody like Crez I ain't gonna say more value than
Speaker 1: what they are, but they're more valuable than what they are,
Speaker 1: and people think that they deserve more than what they
Speaker 1: actually should be getting. Do you think social media players gratification? Yeah.
Speaker 1: You see people go from like nothing to something by
Speaker 1: a post. So everybody want to feel like they're part
Speaker 1: of that every Yeah, everybody wants to be part of
Speaker 1: that it crowd. So every just think about it all
Speaker 1: of us. Even with social media, a lot of people
Speaker 1: run their pages as if they're already there before they
Speaker 1: even get there, you know what I mean. You got
Speaker 1: basic people doing big gass photo shoes, doing all this
Speaker 1: stuff to make themselves look like a certain something because
Speaker 1: of because of the way social media looks at everybody.
Speaker 1: And if you ain't popping, you ain't it on social
Speaker 1: But you can't. But you can't fat people for doing
Speaker 1: that because at the end of the day, it's still
Speaker 1: them putting in their own work to get to where
Speaker 1: they feel. Like that, you can't believe that you somewhere
Speaker 1: you're not exactly. No, you're supposed to make it look good,
Speaker 1: but you can't go to believe in that you already there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like Whennick called you for a show for a thousand
Speaker 1: Nolan and you that's what you're worth for thouand you
Speaker 1: can't be like, no, I need team. Yeah, we'll never
Speaker 1: get booked, Yeah, because you're just look like goddamn yeah,
Speaker 1: is that a honey ka following like and I know
Speaker 1: and I know like you and j women like you've
Speaker 1: probably seen the difference in how like the hair people
Speaker 1: like the beauticians and ship start treating themselves like everybody like.
Speaker 1: It's a bunch of people claim that their celebrity beauticians
Speaker 1: and ship now well they feel like they that once
Speaker 1: they do one celebrity, one celebrity head, all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: you're a celebrity beautician. So that's just what it is.
Speaker 1: I don't even like. I've been get my white healthy
Speaker 1: for a long time, usually to pull up to a shop,
Speaker 1: but that she's over with. Now you gotta send a deposit.
Speaker 1: You gotta goddamn wash here. Yeah, your hell got you
Speaker 1: got them, they'll be ready. Yeah. I don't even deal
Speaker 1: with it. No, I ain't gonna wa social media did that.
Speaker 1: I wish Nigga would tell me to watch my long here. No,
Speaker 1: you've got something, man, it's just one girl on Instagram.
Speaker 1: It's just one girl on Instagram. I swear that got
Speaker 1: her graves our bombs hell. I've been wanting to book her,
Speaker 1: but literally in her booking process, of course, you got
Speaker 1: to send a deposit. She wants your nails to be done.
Speaker 1: I don't know why you hear me. I swear to
Speaker 1: God in her book, in her book, your nail can
Speaker 1: be done and your makeup has to be done. Because
Speaker 1: after she's done doing you pure, she wants to take
Speaker 1: these pictures. She wants to bring your hair in the
Speaker 1: shots and all that. So that's free promo. But at
Speaker 1: the at the same time, you're paying. Hell yeah, you're
Speaker 1: paying for files with some braids. But yet she wants
Speaker 1: your nails and you'll make up to be You got
Speaker 1: to be on time. Ten minutes is out of here.
Speaker 1: You're gonna might be quality control though if it's working different,
Speaker 1: I'm not either, but I ain never did that. You're
Speaker 1: never gonna do that. You have to subject yourself to it.
Speaker 1: But I see where they're going to just walk into
Speaker 1: the salon hand cousin. Now, for guys, is what fifty
Speaker 1: sixty dollars we having like dollar haircuts to you at
Speaker 1: the two? Swear to god you're paying ut it at
Speaker 1: it for about here just now ty minute before I
Speaker 1: got him, swear why do you gotta get you some there?
Speaker 1: Just yeah nah, But nigga's niggas want it's inflation to now.
Speaker 1: Yeah's hot. Everybody needs more, including us on God Week week.
Speaker 1: I try to see that though, so I kind of
Speaker 1: take that back. If you won't tin thousand for a
Speaker 1: show stand on it, but don't you got You gotta
Speaker 1: be prepared. You're doing it for you do it. If
Speaker 1: you don't take, don't tell nobody tell these folks like
Speaker 1: you gave me ten, but you gave me that won't broke,
Speaker 1: won't break a state like fuck up trying to stand
Speaker 1: on the price. When are you gonna know you're not
Speaker 1: worth that price? That's the optimism, though, that's the optimism.
Speaker 1: But what if one person I'm a firm believer, once
Speaker 1: one person paid is up, I don't matter. You can
Speaker 1: get one one show for ten thousand a month, I
Speaker 1: mean for ten thousand one month, then you shoot, I
Speaker 1: get tent on show because you got one team, but
Speaker 1: you're gonna have got five thousand every day of that month.
Speaker 1: You're right, that don't make sense? Yeah, I agree. There's
Speaker 1: some people who think different, but I agree Like you're oh,
Speaker 1: I don't keep saying I just always have for everything.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? What you want? Who? You
Speaker 1: want big bank? You want black? That's a price for
Speaker 1: all them? Nigga, what's one who? But what do you
Speaker 1: want me to do? What you want is on what
Speaker 1: you want me to do when I come into building?
Speaker 1: What's the most expensive one. What's the most expensive one?
Speaker 1: Which you one you like the most book and that's
Speaker 1: the most pensible. Big facts Bank is the top priority.
Speaker 1: And then right under him Big Bank Black for a
Speaker 1: slight discount and then you know we're going down like
Speaker 1: after that or whatever we can do old school, I
Speaker 1: can bring back the song the host, how do you
Speaker 1: want me to dress? All that plays a factor. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because we have to include the wardrobe and his booking
Speaker 1: fell if I'm an drink that night, or how many
Speaker 1: people coming with me, my security, All that ship plays
Speaker 1: a factor. That's what you gotta do. You gotta set
Speaker 1: a price for my fellow on the set a price.
Speaker 1: You have to scale your ship, scale your ship on
Speaker 1: how because you don't post turn out no money in
Speaker 1: this period period unless you don got to that. That
Speaker 1: is like the future baby or niggas like that here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you don't want to run yourself dry and you
Speaker 1: don't want the number spread with bro, he just deg
Speaker 1: me two. But you want to in my show, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So you so when in that situation,
Speaker 1: I get it. But when you want to come up, bro,
Speaker 1: you just average or mediocre whatever, Bro, you probably have
Speaker 1: a price for here. You probly have soft for ever
Speaker 1: what you want? Know what ye what you want? Usually
Speaker 1: got some for everything you think you want. He getting
Speaker 1: the same kind of money as the mother because he's
Speaker 1: getting it all. Ye, that's the difference, bro, we're not
Speaker 1: get big. I've heard a lot of people be like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's bad for nig as. If Nick asked what the
Speaker 1: budget is, they're like, oh, what what you're giving me?
Speaker 1: Mad promoters Like you're asking what the budget is when
Speaker 1: they can't afford your first number because at the end
Speaker 1: of the day they see that you're trying to work
Speaker 1: with them, and then they'll bring you back again and
Speaker 1: again and again. But number okay, yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1: How do you tell me your worth? Though? You gotta
Speaker 1: look at the market price, everything about it's like it's
Speaker 1: like your worth's internal, Yes, your worth is internal and
Speaker 1: then realistic though that's not it feel like on the
Speaker 1: way up, on the way up, it's all it's all
Speaker 1: paid promo to me, like you ain't already made it.
Speaker 1: Take whatever to get in from this crowd, to show
Speaker 1: the next person who's gonna book you what you can
Speaker 1: do with the crown. What you get what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: what the last three people paid ten and there's somebody
Speaker 1: coming with four or five. Ain't your worth ten out
Speaker 1: at three? I got something that four or five I
Speaker 1: ain't even turn it. Well, that's just me. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna turned up. If I just did that ten and
Speaker 1: did five songs, I'm gonna do seven minutes for your
Speaker 1: last four shows was ten? How long was the show?
Speaker 1: A regular show? Okay, you're saying that they com four
Speaker 1: or five. I got you. I walked through. I'm gonna yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do my do my hit. I ain't even
Speaker 1: to come through and sweat for this, do like once
Speaker 1: song maybe on the artist the ladies over here? What
Speaker 1: did that disappoint the fans? That's how artists they want
Speaker 1: to see Fithers. This is That's where that's where your
Speaker 1: management and the people you have handling your business come
Speaker 1: into play. Because at the end of the day, if
Speaker 1: these people only have five thousand and you guys have
Speaker 1: the agreement that you're gonna come and do five thousand
Speaker 1: illars worth of ship, that advertisement and that promotion for
Speaker 1: that particular event doesn't need to be performing live all
Speaker 1: of its hits. It needs to be to walk through
Speaker 1: or you know what I'm saying. Whatever, Yeah, and then
Speaker 1: like you surprised him and give him up. And the
Speaker 1: way he's over here, you got your song playing with
Speaker 1: the mic and your yeah, ain't getting swited for this ship? Yeah, Stephen,
Speaker 1: Mike and the crowd let him saying that ship for
Speaker 1: that five Yeah. But if you you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: ain't enough. If y'all want to see a real show
Speaker 1: tail the promoter to give it right now, right yeah,
Speaker 1: we got New Orleans. Oh god. Uh, pessimism, So don't don't.
Speaker 1: Don't be in a state of pessimism. That's what we
Speaker 1: got from the day. You shouldn't be in a state
Speaker 1: of pessimism, even though some people are, but all of
Speaker 1: us are pessimistic. Being in a state of pessimism is
Speaker 1: death to your future. Oh I totally agree with that,
Speaker 1: so try to. But being too optimistic, it's optimism, it's
Speaker 1: naive and what's the other word, being too optimistic could
Speaker 1: possibly set yourself up for that same failure than being
Speaker 1: in a state of pessimism can. So they're basically the
Speaker 1: same ship. I got a question, So what happens if, like,
Speaker 1: for example, if It's been known that DJ Scream is
Speaker 1: some bullshit, right, And I've never met DJ Scream a
Speaker 1: day in my life, but everybody around me and saying
Speaker 1: DJ screaming some bullshit. And I meet you and I'm
Speaker 1: not working with you, does that make me pestimistic based
Speaker 1: on you? I can't say special follow, it makes you
Speaker 1: follow to me, you have a pest You don't know.
Speaker 1: People off reaction for me some straight bullshit and I
Speaker 1: can see it. But if you don't treat me that way,
Speaker 1: I can't hold you to that, and just how I
Speaker 1: look at it, because I don't know what he saw,
Speaker 1: what he sought in you to make him be some
Speaker 1: bullshit to you, until you be some bullshit to me.
Speaker 1: That's the only way I can say you good that
Speaker 1: you have always been, Like we asked that long time ago,
Speaker 1: like can't you do busy with somebody to say a
Speaker 1: person do shady busy? Yes, because I'm already pestimistic about
Speaker 1: doing business with niggas, So watching you already, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: already to count they're trying to do some shade ship
Speaker 1: to you. Know, you get what I'm saying. I'm already
Speaker 1: to kind of watching you anyway, no matter who it is,
Speaker 1: you can come clean face suit or you can come
Speaker 1: with a scheme mas song. Either way, I'm still watching
Speaker 1: you because I'm already pestimistical about doing business with people period,
Speaker 1: right anyway, because there's knowing that you can get fucked by.
Speaker 1: Got them the pretty face on the ugly face, right,
Speaker 1: So it don't matter what they're saying about screen. Maybe
Speaker 1: scream ain't make the right nigga to do business with
Speaker 1: you and Mama, Yeah, maybe so optimistic about that. Maybe
Speaker 1: we jailed and this is it's time to prove that,
Speaker 1: hey didn't they ain't no bullshit? Maybe I'll be the
Speaker 1: boys to said she, Well, I just made it on
Speaker 1: the meal with him. Yeah, because every area you can't
Speaker 1: name and they get the top, Dan saying some bullshit
Speaker 1: name one. Yeah, yeah, everybody got some bullshit. Yeah that's truthful.
Speaker 1: I don't think you get to talk without some bullshit.
Speaker 1: So who who who finny? Goddamn who fin it? Like
Speaker 1: you said, who finn't? God damn? Yeah, they got before
Speaker 1: you even see. Yeah, like I said, I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: your chance to prove to me you're good approved me
Speaker 1: some bullshit, especially if if it's off the word of
Speaker 1: somebody else. They could have been the bullshit. But but
Speaker 1: if I get around you start seeing the size immediately,
Speaker 1: then here you go. You gotta react and then we
Speaker 1: do what we deal with this ship accordingly, right, react accordingly. Yep,
Speaker 1: big facts Friday, you know what I'm saying. Freciate everybody
Speaker 1: tuning in and rocket with us. Any final words, anybody
Speaker 1: want to say something, anything on your mind, your heart,
Speaker 1: your soulier. I don't want to say, man, I really
Speaker 1: appreciate you all. This ship is like therapy. A lot
Speaker 1: of these words that I hear, I'll be saying, like, damn,
Speaker 1: well you best than the motherfucker about ship. You got
Speaker 1: got them nist traits. I have been a million that
Speaker 1: made something bad, Like a lot of this ship really
Speaker 1: helps me, Bro, And you're cognizant of the fact. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know you have a lot going on. We all
Speaker 1: have a lot going on, and we're incorporating this into
Speaker 1: our daily lives and it's really allowing us to ascend.
Speaker 1: I look in the mirror every morning and take accountability
Speaker 1: for my action. That's why I was able to say,
Speaker 1: I get why should I tell you years the way
Speaker 1: she is sometimes when she liked that because what I've done,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I just had to
Speaker 1: go through the whole ship about oh yeah, and I
Speaker 1: told I want to create this. We interview hot boy,
Speaker 1: and I was like, why don't you think you need
Speaker 1: to women? Like she took that ship to the max.
Speaker 1: I wasn't saying, but I probably did. But I don't
Speaker 1: mean you didn't mean it she took it. I didn't
Speaker 1: mean it. This is entertainment what you'm on my looking
Speaker 1: in right entertainment, queen. I am. This ship really helps,
Speaker 1: no hope. The way that she helped me is helping
Speaker 1: people at home and people walk up to us all
Speaker 1: the time, man walking y'all, y'all, don't go out like that.
Speaker 1: Man you'll be outside y'all, y'all don't even understand like
Speaker 1: that should be for real, like every day and having
Speaker 1: me like almost on the verge of tears, like people
Speaker 1: come up to me saying, how like our discussions and
Speaker 1: our talks and ship like basically, for lack of a
Speaker 1: better way to put it, take them off the edge
Speaker 1: or off the ledge because they don't be having people
Speaker 1: to talk to and they don't be having people to
Speaker 1: understand what they're going through. And then when they watch
Speaker 1: us and see all of our different perspectives, it gives
Speaker 1: them a new outlook on life. So what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I'm hearing, and then they feel like they're not the
Speaker 1: only ones going through the ship. Yeah, you gotta get
Speaker 1: that ship out. I started meditating, meditating. You told me
Speaker 1: you start it. Really, don't be working like I told you.
Speaker 1: Gotta graduate to the hot yoga. You're going to be
Speaker 1: different because I can't. Can you get five minutes to yoga?
Speaker 1: Is gonna meditation music? But you are better try the
Speaker 1: guy you are meditating. You don't know it though. Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh now that's it. I'm addicted to it. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: don't be thinking too much. You kind of exum in
Speaker 1: the nature you meditate. You called me here, you did
Speaker 1: called here before I got you hype wheel nature boy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we have to yeah, like trails together. You know that ship. Really,
Speaker 1: that's how I came up with like a lot of ship.
Speaker 1: I'll come up with on that trail and help me
Speaker 1: for real meditation. Yeah, that's meditation. I ain't know that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that make your mind. Your mind is working at its
Speaker 1: highest capacity because you meditate, treating you, being able to
Speaker 1: focus on the nature and not everything else around you.
Speaker 1: A lot of it is just about getting away for
Speaker 1: the phone. Sometimes are definitely real. Yeah Instagram. Ain't even
Speaker 1: been on Instagram, I really, I probably and they ain't.
Speaker 1: They ain't take it. It's just I need I need
Speaker 1: rest from that ship that should give me anxiety and
Speaker 1: all the types of get all of it. I think
Speaker 1: we don't know how much inside it like having your phone,
Speaker 1: m yeah, to tune in too, tapped in two, tapped in,
Speaker 1: like mother having your phone. Iman. I ain't never been
Speaker 1: the type of nigga you just get in touch with. Yeah,
Speaker 1: nigga dmu bro in the first couple of worlds looked like, Man,
Speaker 1: I need the openness, the opening, and I just took
Speaker 1: my ship now. Yeah, but you know you don't you
Speaker 1: don't want to be a ass So I don't you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because these some of these people
Speaker 1: really just don't understand that the nigga who you knew
Speaker 1: I ain't him anymore different. Yeah, I'm on big facts
Speaker 1: and ship now, cameras and lights and ship. I want
Speaker 1: to talk about the things that I used to want
Speaker 1: to talk about you want to know the motherfucker I
Speaker 1: used to know, did he put up when he put
Speaker 1: on the phone and it was some bullshit. It's like,
Speaker 1: I got time for that ship right now, hung up
Speaker 1: and get back to It's like people, like people you love,
Speaker 1: have a misunderstanding of that. They don't understand that. It's
Speaker 1: like and they take it like you're trying to be
Speaker 1: funny or you know what I'm saying. But it's just
Speaker 1: I'm in a different space now and I can't afford
Speaker 1: to go back, so I can't even entertain the ship
Speaker 1: that I was entertaining when I was back there. I
Speaker 1: would thinking, I would think the other day, like like
Speaker 1: how people how easy for people to start hating you? Right?
Speaker 1: A motherucking know you all? They lie right and people
Speaker 1: around them and they circle know that this person knows
Speaker 1: you all you all your life, but it's like you
Speaker 1: know him, but he don't know you. So it's like
Speaker 1: this motherfuker be like, don't you fallot with the niggabite?
Speaker 1: And first he gonna be like, yo, hey, yeah, my man.
Speaker 1: Then they start saying like, bro, they don't see you
Speaker 1: like you're where you're gonna start saying when the next
Speaker 1: people here the Hollywood saying but but but when at
Speaker 1: the end, yeah, when at the end of the day.
Speaker 1: Not to cut you off, I'm sorry. It's not that
Speaker 1: you don't funk with the nigga. Butt to outside apparents
Speaker 1: is because you're not with this nigga every day, or
Speaker 1: you don't post pictures with this nigg or you're not
Speaker 1: on your story with this nigga or whatever. It seems
Speaker 1: like you're not as close to the nigga as you
Speaker 1: really are and at the end of the day, like
Speaker 1: it's still the same, y'all really close that you just
Speaker 1: don't have to start hating um resentment, yes, because because
Speaker 1: it's like you go to thinking like this nigga don't
Speaker 1: funk with me. But whether you fit it in these
Speaker 1: people life exactly exactly you are supposed to be like
Speaker 1: all these top big as artism like friends. I don't
Speaker 1: talk to these niggas every year every day. I might
Speaker 1: not talk to one of them till year, but we
Speaker 1: pick up right when we left off. It's my Yeah.
Speaker 1: You see, if you see, if you see somebody that
Speaker 1: know me, you ate till broad love them till bro.
Speaker 1: We don't have that, And I got your You got
Speaker 1: my want to talk, but you're doing your things. I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not feeling like, becuse you over here and I'm
Speaker 1: over here. I gotta hate you. That's you. Some people
Speaker 1: don't look at it like that. Some people don't even
Speaker 1: know how to grasp that. Like people don't know how
Speaker 1: people can move grow apart. That you can grow apart
Speaker 1: from somebody and still love them and still have a back.
Speaker 1: But you just on some different ship right now, and
Speaker 1: they're on whatever they're on, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Some people just don't know how to deal with that
Speaker 1: and got to be able to celebrate other people's success. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's might even necessarily growing apart. You guys are just
Speaker 1: on two different levels right now. I mean that's growing up,
Speaker 1: okay if you're on a different level on them, but
Speaker 1: the proper things. So it wasn't like y'all were together.
Speaker 1: Everything wasn't. I didn't intentionally grow from you. But I'm
Speaker 1: just growing, yeah, right, And we don't have much to
Speaker 1: talk about no more, because sometimes you can lose interest
Speaker 1: in certain things, like for example, like if you're a
Speaker 1: type of person that used to club with everybody, all
Speaker 1: y'all do you don't want to do what some people
Speaker 1: probably looking at that at some funny ship and you
Speaker 1: just wrote it. You just don't do it, and you
Speaker 1: ain't on no fund ship. I just rather be chilling. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm too busy, broth, y'all grown apart. Yeah, any mother,
Speaker 1: they're going to the club like that ain't for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but a lot of people measure their friendship to you
Speaker 1: with how much access you allow. Yes, that's what that's
Speaker 1: you just you just broken down in a good front.
Speaker 1: You can on fat today that yeah, yeah, you be sleeping. Yeah,
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