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Speaker 1: of Big Facts Fridays. What's up? What's up? Games? That's

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Speaker 1: a little hi. Everybody feeling today? We're feeling everybody good? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what it is. Well, Big Facts Friday's tradition. You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We always have a word of

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Speaker 1: the day that we explored and we moved that into

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Speaker 1: a topic. So, Jay, what's the word of the day?

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Speaker 1: Hit us? Hit us with it? Okay. So our right

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Speaker 1: of the day is pessimism, And the official textbook definition

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Speaker 1: of pessimism is a tendency to see the worst aspect

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Speaker 1: a belief that this world is as bad as it

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Speaker 1: M So it's pessimism bad which the urban definition. The

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Speaker 1: urban definition is something that I do not have right now,

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Speaker 1: and we can get it in a minute. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: you're not properly prepared, No, I'm not. We do we

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Speaker 1: usually do the RBAN definition. It's it's pessimism bad because

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Speaker 1: obviously the complete opposite of pessimism is optimism. So obviously,

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Speaker 1: to some extent we have to talk about optimism today too.

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Speaker 1: But it's pessimism a bad thing I think personally, Um,

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Speaker 1: it could be bad and good. It could be good

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Speaker 1: it may prevent you from being naive and so in

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Speaker 1: situations which could ultimately lead to your downfall. But I

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Speaker 1: could create unnecessary anxiety and limitations on living in life.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I don't think it could

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Speaker 1: be that bad. Like me, personally, I prepared for the

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Speaker 1: I'll deal with the situation. Preparation, deal with the worst

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Speaker 1: and I just take my step back. Yeah, Like, if

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Speaker 1: take a step back from the whole situation. It's preparation testimism, though,

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Speaker 1: like you should be. Is it being prepared if you're

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Speaker 1: lock you lock your door at night because somebody could

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Speaker 1: That's preparation, That's what I think. But it's still you're

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Speaker 1: still thinking that the worst can happen. That's why you're

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Speaker 1: locking the door, right. But I think pessimism to that

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Speaker 1: exactly what you're laying in bed like hears right, paris

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Speaker 1: that's based on experiences. How'd you looking at the world

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Speaker 1: We're looking at the experience. But everybody, but everybody, everybody,

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Speaker 1: Look at the world? What what I was about? Pensimists?

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Speaker 1: But if you're a pessimist, you're you only think the

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying is passimism. A lot of times it

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Speaker 1: might be the negati get more in it. That's pessimism,

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Speaker 1: up at school. So you don't have no situations, You'll

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00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 1: have no situations of optimism, heartaches, huh b optimistic about

420
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 1: when you go out that what do I speak about?

421
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 1: Big facts, very big, optimist everything that's going on right? Yes,

422
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 1: very big? Yes, yes, because when you til I know it,

423
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 1: don't take that. But nothing for me to do that

424
00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 1: but keep great people around me, with the right people

425
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 1: and do my best. And I know I'm gonna do that.

426
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 1: But I can't be optimistic about I'm gonna hit the

427
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 1: lottery because you can't throw that because I've never done it,

428
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 1: and I think it's a scam. I play Sam. I'm

429
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 1: just saying, but I don't want to stand. But I

430
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 1: knew I could tell me how the funk I'm gonna

431
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 1: get that luck. That's I guess. Sistic. I feel like

432
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: the look that I have is what I'm doing to

433
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 1: be able to work. I don't got the lottery look,

434
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:46,639
Speaker 1: hopefully my wife hit it. Realism, realistical, realistic, you know

435
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,360
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, But you won't have a lottery lucky

436
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: if you don't play. You don't even play. So you

437
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: ain't because I ain't. I don't even want to try

438
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: to waste that look on some ship that I need

439
00:25:54,040 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: this slog. But like they said, it's pessimistic. Could be

440
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: good for gamblers, yeah, because you can win enough money

441
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 1: to be like end up losing. The rest of the

442
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 1: ship ain't been win on more eving they quit. So

443
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 1: optimism pestimism is both good and doses. You can't have

444
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: too much of either balance yea, thank you. But you

445
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: know what I think that makes you? You know what

446
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: I think that makes you a realist? Right in the

447
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 1: middle is a realist. Some bad ships could happen or

448
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: some good ship could happen, So I'm gonna prepare for both.

449
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: The realist. Okay, yeah, you kind of religious. End of

450
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 1: the episode. Yeah though, Yeah, a realist. But there's also

451
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,959
Speaker 1: another word. Okay, we just have to bring this up.

452
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: But what place does paranoia play in all of this?

453
00:26:56,640 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: How detrimental is paranoia? Paranoia? Think would be the negative?

454
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: My fucking jaw just got stuck. The negative, the negative

455
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: extreme of the spectrum of pessimism. That's what Yeah, okay,

456
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: that's what I was coming in there, And those are

457
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: the people that generally can't function paranoia. Paranoid people are

458
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 1: fucking hypochondriacs. Paranoid people are fucking whatever kind of other

459
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 1: acts that I feel like some shit is what helped

460
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: me with my pessimistic ways for agreements. Definitely, you can't

461
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 1: take name personal. You know what I'm saying. You gotta

462
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 1: speak your words, you know what I'm saying, like and

463
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 1: stand on them. Yeah, like different ship like never y'all

464
00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: ain't never seen that book, read that book, heard that book,

465
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 1: Go get it. Somebody helps you, sure, but the ship

466
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 1: that's inside you is not gonna allow you to be naive.

467
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: So I'm glad for everything I've been through, everything I've seen, Like,

468
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: I don't feel like he could have made a better

469
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 1: nig to me, So I take the good with the

470
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: bad from customistic, I'm not inselent at all because that's

471
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: a person that just stuck as a debut downald. Right. No,

472
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I don't even allow myself to

473
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: be around those kind of people, right, But am I

474
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: about certain situations? Yes, because I can't fight the feeling?

475
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: How can you? How can you fight something that when

476
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: you it's like deja vudo? You yeah, how basically your

477
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: experiences that's your reality. If a nigga say the same

478
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: ship that the nigga said, who fucked over you before

479
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: he did it? How are you not gonna see that

480
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: ime situations the same cologne, that's the nigger that did

481
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: something to you. How you don't smell that you're right?

482
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: You're gonna be right whatever that situation telling you it is.

483
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 1: If a nigga walk like the nigga get something you,

484
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: how you don't that ain't him? You gotta prove to

485
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: me that you ain't him. That president is dog whatever

486
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: it is it is. You know, like you go outside

487
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: today and you're like, dam it's about the rain, because

488
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: nig about police when they get behind you. I'm gonna

489
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: every time every time cars back, thinking he's coming to

490
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: get me, you're gonna slow down. Pessimism if you see

491
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 1: the motherfucker you can pay about them bits on spread way.

492
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: If you're thinking, damn, what's I going too fast? People

493
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: to come getting they could have already pulled somebody here,

494
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: You're still gonna slow down pessimism. Yeah, nigga, they're gonna

495
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: be You have a nigga pulled over, You're still gonna

496
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 1: show down. You're gonna think damn they are him. Yeah,

497
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 1: you ain't doing ship you legit you everything like you

498
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 1: you're calling you smoking the weeds that she calls them

499
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: Bill pessimism. Huh. Still pessimism that comes from experience and

500
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: that is PTSD. Yeah, that is just from anybody because

501
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 1: just being black, you at risk and that is the reality.

502
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: What what what what? What? What makes it the other way?

503
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: You think? Like what they fail that way about us?

504
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: What created that? Police and authorities and paranoise? What he

505
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 1: said paranoia? He said, niggas do be doing like why

506
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: doing it? Why? They said niggas be shooting the two

507
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: big facts. That's true. A lot of them now ain't

508
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 1: don't matter. Niggas just'stimistic about I'm saying a niggas that's

509
00:30:55,080 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 1: what I love. Like we want to go back and

510
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 1: get into that. We're gonna have to go all the

511
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 1: way back to slavery probably, but slavery still is still

512
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: with niggas crossing niggas in the slavery days, we still

513
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 1: got own up to what we do, but who in

514
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: the slavery accountability niggas. Niggas. Niggas could come to motherfucker

515
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: after the fun with us and nigga we to go,

516
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: But who your selling? Crockers, So who's calling? If nigga

517
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 1: was selling, they couldn't buy the fucking white man. That

518
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:40,479
Speaker 1: you're like a niggas. That's you're like a motherfucker. Come

519
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 1: telling me they want to buy my son for slavery.

520
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sell it where together. I don't need again. Niggas,

521
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: Come telling mother, niggas, I can make you a king

522
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: just selling me a few of your niggas. Niggas did

523
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 1: ye who but whole provided the intemptive for them to

524
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: be able to do gonna there is no market. Yeah,

525
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: get our niggas to say, who are gonna who? They're

526
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: gonna conservated the market though, That's what I'm trying to

527
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 1: get to the point of the niggas. No nigga, how

528
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 1: we know it, nig we don't know. As an African,

529
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: I must say that Africans has servants. Yeah, they had servants.

530
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying that yo niggas on the boat

531
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: and brought him over here. But they were so so

532
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 1: so Okay, well we this discussion is not going anywhere.

533
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, before was even out. No, but what I'm

534
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: saying to you who they're having a bigger scale, those

535
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 1: niggas and niggas and had servants and ship. We're definitely

536
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: to blame and they're definitely we're talking about in the

537
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: cause that So that's all we can talk about this, dude, Queen. No,

538
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: but what that's all we can talk about is the route, queen,

539
00:32:52,240 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: not how it expanded. What's it? Dips go forth? Oka't

540
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 1: argue with that. Yeah, they nigglas crossed niggas. Man, if

541
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 1: we were together on anything, it wouldn't be. That's just

542
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 1: the same way they in the case the niggle go

543
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: to jail, don't phote on her ship. You tell on

544
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 1: your man. Not both of y'all locked up. It don't

545
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 1: be nothing until y'all making something like niggas got a

546
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: start being okay, mother, be like damn, the folk locked

547
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,239
Speaker 1: you up. Okay, that's their job. It's also their job

548
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: to prove it. Oh way they gonna prove when y'all

549
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: start telling on each other the same ship. If you

550
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: didn't get caught right then doing whatever you're doing, they

551
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: helped to prove it. Oh j got away because he

552
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 1: did that ship by himself allegedly. I'm just saying if

553
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: he did. Yeah, the white boy, motorcycle boy. They call

554
00:33:53,600 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 1: all the motorcycle them home. They ain't say ship. Mhm. Right.

555
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: We put ourselves in every situation we in. Then try

556
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: to blame Oh the motherfucker to me accountability. That's just

557
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: my opinion on it. And didn't get mad. Whatever they

558
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 1: want to do. But think about it though. It's always

559
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 1: different factors from some ship, for sure, and you're speaking

560
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: on one of them. You gotta better made bun before

561
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 1: you damn man, you're gonna lel me and him, so

562
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 1: now you tell it, and especially no media out there

563
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: at Grandma put the outs up. But you know you

564
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 1: mad because he out Yeah, niggas putting their crime on

565
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: the internet. Time about the police got nicky. You told

566
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: him who did this ship? Everything now and then we

567
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 1: had a whole episode on accountability. But you gotta take

568
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: accountability like at the end of the day, like mother

569
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: can't do none of you. And this is inside job, bro,

570
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 1: that's the same ship with slavery ship anything. It gotta

571
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 1: be a motherfucker next to you to turn you over.

572
00:34:54,880 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 1: M h. When no Folte walked pulled up them peel

573
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 1: lass facing the Africa to my buying some niggas and

574
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: they pull to show them how this go. We're gonna

575
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 1: play like that over here. Fuck on, so they here

576
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 1: about got them Old Bob Bob Pete didn't make it

577
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: back from over there trying to buy the nickel. And

578
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: to your point, you see what happened there with the

579
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: Haiti with that ship. Haitian was going m yea, I

580
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:27,280
Speaker 1: just say everything, everything, every every uh action caused a reaction,

581
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: bro as I look at it, and then we gotta

582
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 1: just start from where it started. Like, I can't be

583
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 1: mad at my wife that she's paranoid about me when

584
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: I'm not there. I caused those actions for my actions

585
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 1: to play with this man. I'm just being real. Can't

586
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: she called me on FaceTime to stay around the FaceTime

587
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 1: to see what's going on. I can't follow her. I

588
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: gotta look into myself and say, what how would you feel?

589
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 1: What do you do? You rebuttle that with excuses? No,

590
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 1: I don't rebutter excuse I butter I rebutter it with

591
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 1: compliancy what's up baby? Let you see everything you ever

592
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 1: need to see. A matter of fact, you can come

593
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: to that's how that's on the way. What else can

594
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 1: I do? Get mad that I put you in a

595
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 1: place there? Now you got damn doing with the saying

596
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: things that I don't How can I not like that

597
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 1: when I either one did it right. That's a big fact.

598
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 1: That accountability. That's what it takes to be on some

599
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 1: real grown up ship. You gotta have that accountability. Accountability

600
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 1: definitely lost our society though everybody everything somebody else fun

601
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: Nigga's broke because another nick if he would have did it,

602
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 1: did what you do for yourself? Because it's hard for

603
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,319
Speaker 1: a negative to look in the mirror and say, damn,

604
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: it's really my fault that I ain't on ship, But

605
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 1: it's easy for me to say, damn, it's his part.

606
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 1: I ain't on ship. I think what it is when

607
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 1: people see other people that have helped with certain things

608
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 1: and then they want that type of help. They get

609
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: mad that they don't have that help. You know what

610
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Get mad At the end of the day,

611
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: if it's something worse help helping, somebody's gonna step up

612
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 1: to it because they can see value in it. If

613
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 1: it ain't ship. They helped me up, but I pot

614
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: take you from zero. You get that ship like two percent,

615
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: and THEGNA started to see it, get the fitted I

616
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: camp to get to a hundred. Yeah, that's true. Niggas

617
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 1: wants you to come get them at zero and take

618
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 1: all the way to a hundred. I didn't go. But

619
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,760
Speaker 1: also you can't compare your race and somebody else's because

620
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 1: you don't know what the other person had to go

621
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 1: through to get where where they are exactly. So if

622
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: I see if I see this other person, like you said,

623
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: if I've see somebody else with help, I don't know

624
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,240
Speaker 1: what the fund they went through the to the situation

625
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: where other people are willing to help them. Facts, But

626
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 1: you have to do your own work at the end

627
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 1: of the day, and it's so hard to to start

628
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: that ship. But nothing easy comes nothing good comes easy.

629
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 1: That's a fact. So that's what I think. Put the

630
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: leg work in. Niggas will catch on eventually. But it

631
00:37:56,480 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: happens a lot like in the workplace, like when just say,

632
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 1: for instance, like you're working and you have a team

633
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: and each team member has a different thing that they're

634
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: supposed to do a different position that they're supposed to play.

635
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 1: But then they feel like, Okay, either they can do

636
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: what this next person is doing, or they feel like

637
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: they should be compensated just as much as this person

638
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: because their work or whatever is just as hard, or

639
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: they feel like they've gone through just as much as

640
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 1: this person. And then they start resenting the other team

641
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: members and the other workers because of the way that

642
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,800
Speaker 1: they're being um, what's the word, I'm looking for the

643
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:38,839
Speaker 1: web that they're being celebrated for their job and they

644
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 1: feel like they're not getting that same type of celebration

645
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: when at the end of the day, again, you don't

646
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: know what these people had to go through to make

647
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 1: it to the position to get to where they're celebrated,

648
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 1: and all the work that they put in and all

649
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 1: the other ship that they've done. So it's kind of

650
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:56,280
Speaker 1: like that ship just creates a lot of unnecessary attentions

651
00:38:56,400 --> 00:39:00,439
Speaker 1: for nothing. Yeah, is what it is. Just a hater.

652
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 1: You just want what somebody else got. All you gotta

653
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: do is keep working. Whatever you do, you keep working,

654
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: it's gonna show one thing about you go to the gym,

655
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 1: you're gonna start againting smaller. You do push up, You're

656
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:14,359
Speaker 1: gonna start againting muscles. You keep working. Mother got vengency. Hey,

657
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 1: she don't out grow that position. But people don't want

658
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:20,959
Speaker 1: to do the work that is that you can't finally

659
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: to cut your hell no more. You know that. You say,

660
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 1: I need to pull up, cut your health, put up.

661
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: Watch your cars, like all the car watch niggas got

662
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: them booge, You're like, she make appointment appointment? I mean,

663
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 1: ain't hungry no more? Brother, you don't know watch five

664
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: cars a week when you can watch on Yeah, then

665
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: you go home and make excuse your niggas ain't sucking.

666
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: But when nigga called you, you would not available. Yeah,

667
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: I think that that's that's the world that's creative, where

668
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 1: everybody like Crez I ain't gonna say more value than

669
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 1: what they are, but they're more valuable than what they are,

670
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 1: and people think that they deserve more than what they

671
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 1: actually should be getting. Do you think social media players gratification? Yeah.

672
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 1: You see people go from like nothing to something by

673
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 1: a post. So everybody want to feel like they're part

674
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 1: of that every Yeah, everybody wants to be part of

675
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 1: that it crowd. So every just think about it all

676
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: of us. Even with social media, a lot of people

677
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: run their pages as if they're already there before they

678
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 1: even get there, you know what I mean. You got

679
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: basic people doing big gass photo shoes, doing all this

680
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,800
Speaker 1: stuff to make themselves look like a certain something because

681
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: of because of the way social media looks at everybody.

682
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 1: And if you ain't popping, you ain't it on social

683
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 1: But you can't. But you can't fat people for doing

684
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: that because at the end of the day, it's still

685
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:43,839
Speaker 1: them putting in their own work to get to where

686
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,240
Speaker 1: they feel. Like that, you can't believe that you somewhere

687
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 1: you're not exactly. No, you're supposed to make it look good,

688
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 1: but you can't go to believe in that you already there. Yeah,

689
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 1: Like Whennick called you for a show for a thousand

690
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: Nolan and you that's what you're worth for thouand you

691
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: can't be like, no, I need team. Yeah, we'll never

692
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:02,279
Speaker 1: get booked, Yeah, because you're just look like goddamn yeah,

693
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: is that a honey ka following like and I know

694
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 1: and I know like you and j women like you've

695
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: probably seen the difference in how like the hair people

696
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:14,800
Speaker 1: like the beauticians and ship start treating themselves like everybody like.

697
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 1: It's a bunch of people claim that their celebrity beauticians

698
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,359
Speaker 1: and ship now well they feel like they that once

699
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: they do one celebrity, one celebrity head, all of a sudden,

700
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: you're a celebrity beautician. So that's just what it is.

701
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 1: I don't even like. I've been get my white healthy

702
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 1: for a long time, usually to pull up to a shop,

703
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 1: but that she's over with. Now you gotta send a deposit.

704
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: You gotta goddamn wash here. Yeah, your hell got you

705
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 1: got them, they'll be ready. Yeah. I don't even deal

706
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: with it. No, I ain't gonna wa social media did that.

707
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,360
Speaker 1: I wish Nigga would tell me to watch my long here. No,

708
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 1: you've got something, man, it's just one girl on Instagram.

709
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,359
Speaker 1: It's just one girl on Instagram. I swear that got

710
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: her graves our bombs hell. I've been wanting to book her,

711
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 1: but literally in her booking process, of course, you got

712
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: to send a deposit. She wants your nails to be done.

713
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 1: I don't know why you hear me. I swear to

714
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: God in her book, in her book, your nail can

715
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: be done and your makeup has to be done. Because

716
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: after she's done doing you pure, she wants to take

717
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,360
Speaker 1: these pictures. She wants to bring your hair in the

718
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 1: shots and all that. So that's free promo. But at

719
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 1: the at the same time, you're paying. Hell yeah, you're

720
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: paying for files with some braids. But yet she wants

721
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 1: your nails and you'll make up to be You got

722
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 1: to be on time. Ten minutes is out of here.

723
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: You're gonna might be quality control though if it's working different,

724
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: I'm not either, but I ain never did that. You're

725
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 1: never gonna do that. You have to subject yourself to it.

726
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: But I see where they're going to just walk into

727
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 1: the salon hand cousin. Now, for guys, is what fifty

728
00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 1: sixty dollars we having like dollar haircuts to you at

729
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 1: the two? Swear to god you're paying ut it at

730
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 1: it for about here just now ty minute before I

731
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,439
Speaker 1: got him, swear why do you gotta get you some there?

732
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 1: Just yeah nah, But nigga's niggas want it's inflation to now.

733
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:25,439
Speaker 1: Yeah's hot. Everybody needs more, including us on God Week week.

734
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: I try to see that though, so I kind of

735
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 1: take that back. If you won't tin thousand for a

736
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:35,479
Speaker 1: show stand on it, but don't you got You gotta

737
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 1: be prepared. You're doing it for you do it. If

738
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 1: you don't take, don't tell nobody tell these folks like

739
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:44,919
Speaker 1: you gave me ten, but you gave me that won't broke,

740
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,959
Speaker 1: won't break a state like fuck up trying to stand

741
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: on the price. When are you gonna know you're not

742
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:54,760
Speaker 1: worth that price? That's the optimism, though, that's the optimism.

743
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: But what if one person I'm a firm believer, once

744
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 1: one person paid is up, I don't matter. You can

745
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 1: get one one show for ten thousand a month, I

746
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 1: mean for ten thousand one month, then you shoot, I

747
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: get tent on show because you got one team, but

748
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 1: you're gonna have got five thousand every day of that month.

749
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 1: You're right, that don't make sense? Yeah, I agree. There's

750
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:16,839
Speaker 1: some people who think different, but I agree Like you're oh,

751
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 1: I don't keep saying I just always have for everything.

752
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? What you want? Who? You

753
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: want big bank? You want black? That's a price for

754
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 1: all them? Nigga, what's one who? But what do you

755
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 1: want me to do? What you want is on what

756
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 1: you want me to do when I come into building?

757
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: What's the most expensive one. What's the most expensive one?

758
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:56,399
Speaker 1: Which you one you like the most book and that's

759
00:44:56,400 --> 00:45:00,760
Speaker 1: the most pensible. Big facts Bank is the top priority.

760
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: And then right under him Big Bank Black for a

761
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: slight discount and then you know we're going down like

762
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 1: after that or whatever we can do old school, I

763
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: can bring back the song the host, how do you

764
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: want me to dress? All that plays a factor. Yeah,

765
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:19,760
Speaker 1: because we have to include the wardrobe and his booking

766
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 1: fell if I'm an drink that night, or how many

767
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 1: people coming with me, my security, All that ship plays

768
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: a factor. That's what you gotta do. You gotta set

769
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: a price for my fellow on the set a price.

770
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 1: You have to scale your ship, scale your ship on

771
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 1: how because you don't post turn out no money in

772
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: this period period unless you don got to that. That

773
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: is like the future baby or niggas like that here. Yeah,

774
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: because you don't want to run yourself dry and you

775
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:50,840
Speaker 1: don't want the number spread with bro, he just deg

776
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: me two. But you want to in my show, you

777
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So you so when in that situation,

778
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: I get it. But when you want to come up, bro,

779
00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: you just average or mediocre whatever, Bro, you probably have

780
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: a price for here. You probly have soft for ever

781
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 1: what you want? Know what ye what you want? Usually

782
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 1: got some for everything you think you want. He getting

783
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 1: the same kind of money as the mother because he's

784
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 1: getting it all. Ye, that's the difference, bro, we're not

785
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: get big. I've heard a lot of people be like, oh,

786
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 1: it's bad for nig as. If Nick asked what the

787
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 1: budget is, they're like, oh, what what you're giving me?

788
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:39,399
Speaker 1: Mad promoters Like you're asking what the budget is when

789
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 1: they can't afford your first number because at the end

790
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: of the day they see that you're trying to work

791
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:45,800
Speaker 1: with them, and then they'll bring you back again and

792
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 1: again and again. But number okay, yeah, yeah, for sure.

793
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: How do you tell me your worth? Though? You gotta

794
00:46:56,040 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 1: look at the market price, everything about it's like it's

795
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 1: like your worth's internal, Yes, your worth is internal and

796
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: then realistic though that's not it feel like on the

797
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: way up, on the way up, it's all it's all

798
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: paid promo to me, like you ain't already made it.

799
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:19,399
Speaker 1: Take whatever to get in from this crowd, to show

800
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 1: the next person who's gonna book you what you can

801
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,399
Speaker 1: do with the crown. What you get what I'm saying,

802
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: what the last three people paid ten and there's somebody

803
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 1: coming with four or five. Ain't your worth ten out

804
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:33,360
Speaker 1: at three? I got something that four or five I

805
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 1: ain't even turn it. Well, that's just me. I'm not

806
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,400
Speaker 1: gonna turned up. If I just did that ten and

807
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:43,399
Speaker 1: did five songs, I'm gonna do seven minutes for your

808
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,799
Speaker 1: last four shows was ten? How long was the show?

809
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: A regular show? Okay, you're saying that they com four

810
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: or five. I got you. I walked through. I'm gonna yeah,

811
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do my do my hit. I ain't even

812
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 1: to come through and sweat for this, do like once

813
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 1: song maybe on the artist the ladies over here? What

814
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 1: did that disappoint the fans? That's how artists they want

815
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 1: to see Fithers. This is That's where that's where your

816
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: management and the people you have handling your business come

817
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: into play. Because at the end of the day, if

818
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: these people only have five thousand and you guys have

819
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: the agreement that you're gonna come and do five thousand

820
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: illars worth of ship, that advertisement and that promotion for

821
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 1: that particular event doesn't need to be performing live all

822
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 1: of its hits. It needs to be to walk through

823
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: or you know what I'm saying. Whatever, Yeah, and then

824
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 1: like you surprised him and give him up. And the

825
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: way he's over here, you got your song playing with

826
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 1: the mic and your yeah, ain't getting swited for this ship? Yeah, Stephen,

827
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 1: Mike and the crowd let him saying that ship for

828
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: that five Yeah. But if you you know what I'm saying,

829
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: ain't enough. If y'all want to see a real show

830
00:48:54,280 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 1: tail the promoter to give it right now, right yeah,

831
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 1: we got New Orleans. Oh god. Uh, pessimism, So don't don't.

832
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 1: Don't be in a state of pessimism. That's what we

833
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 1: got from the day. You shouldn't be in a state

834
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 1: of pessimism, even though some people are, but all of

835
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: us are pessimistic. Being in a state of pessimism is

836
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 1: death to your future. Oh I totally agree with that,

837
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:36,839
Speaker 1: so try to. But being too optimistic, it's optimism, it's

838
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 1: naive and what's the other word, being too optimistic could

839
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:46,399
Speaker 1: possibly set yourself up for that same failure than being

840
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,400
Speaker 1: in a state of pessimism can. So they're basically the

841
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 1: same ship. I got a question, So what happens if, like,

842
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:59,800
Speaker 1: for example, if It's been known that DJ Scream is

843
00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 1: some bullshit, right, And I've never met DJ Scream a

844
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 1: day in my life, but everybody around me and saying

845
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 1: DJ screaming some bullshit. And I meet you and I'm

846
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,800
Speaker 1: not working with you, does that make me pestimistic based

847
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: on you? I can't say special follow, it makes you

848
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: follow to me, you have a pest You don't know.

849
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:26,719
Speaker 1: People off reaction for me some straight bullshit and I

850
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 1: can see it. But if you don't treat me that way,

851
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 1: I can't hold you to that, and just how I

852
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:33,839
Speaker 1: look at it, because I don't know what he saw,

853
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: what he sought in you to make him be some

854
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:39,360
Speaker 1: bullshit to you, until you be some bullshit to me.

855
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 1: That's the only way I can say you good that

856
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,399
Speaker 1: you have always been, Like we asked that long time ago,

857
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 1: like can't you do busy with somebody to say a

858
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 1: person do shady busy? Yes, because I'm already pestimistic about

859
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:56,399
Speaker 1: doing business with niggas, So watching you already, yeah, I'm

860
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 1: already to count they're trying to do some shade ship

861
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 1: to you. Know, you get what I'm saying. I'm already

862
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 1: to kind of watching you anyway, no matter who it is,

863
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: you can come clean face suit or you can come

864
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:08,800
Speaker 1: with a scheme mas song. Either way, I'm still watching

865
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 1: you because I'm already pestimistical about doing business with people period,

866
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: right anyway, because there's knowing that you can get fucked by.

867
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: Got them the pretty face on the ugly face, right,

868
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:22,919
Speaker 1: So it don't matter what they're saying about screen. Maybe

869
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 1: scream ain't make the right nigga to do business with

870
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 1: you and Mama, Yeah, maybe so optimistic about that. Maybe

871
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 1: we jailed and this is it's time to prove that,

872
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 1: hey didn't they ain't no bullshit? Maybe I'll be the

873
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 1: boys to said she, Well, I just made it on

874
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 1: the meal with him. Yeah, because every area you can't

875
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:46,280
Speaker 1: name and they get the top, Dan saying some bullshit

876
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 1: name one. Yeah, yeah, everybody got some bullshit. Yeah that's truthful.

877
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:54,720
Speaker 1: I don't think you get to talk without some bullshit.

878
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: So who who who finny? Goddamn who fin it? Like

879
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: you said, who finn't? God damn? Yeah, they got before

880
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: you even see. Yeah, like I said, I'm gonna get

881
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: your chance to prove to me you're good approved me

882
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,360
Speaker 1: some bullshit, especially if if it's off the word of

883
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 1: somebody else. They could have been the bullshit. But but

884
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 1: if I get around you start seeing the size immediately,

885
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 1: then here you go. You gotta react and then we

886
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:26,439
Speaker 1: do what we deal with this ship accordingly, right, react accordingly. Yep,

887
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 1: big facts Friday, you know what I'm saying. Freciate everybody

888
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 1: tuning in and rocket with us. Any final words, anybody

889
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 1: want to say something, anything on your mind, your heart,

890
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 1: your soulier. I don't want to say, man, I really

891
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 1: appreciate you all. This ship is like therapy. A lot

892
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,439
Speaker 1: of these words that I hear, I'll be saying, like, damn,

893
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 1: well you best than the motherfucker about ship. You got

894
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 1: got them nist traits. I have been a million that

895
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 1: made something bad, Like a lot of this ship really

896
00:52:57,560 --> 00:53:00,280
Speaker 1: helps me, Bro, And you're cognizant of the fact. Okay,

897
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 1: you know you have a lot going on. We all

898
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 1: have a lot going on, and we're incorporating this into

899
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: our daily lives and it's really allowing us to ascend.

900
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 1: I look in the mirror every morning and take accountability

901
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:14,359
Speaker 1: for my action. That's why I was able to say,

902
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 1: I get why should I tell you years the way

903
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 1: she is sometimes when she liked that because what I've done,

904
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:22,800
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I just had to

905
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: go through the whole ship about oh yeah, and I

906
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: told I want to create this. We interview hot boy,

907
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:29,840
Speaker 1: and I was like, why don't you think you need

908
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:32,840
Speaker 1: to women? Like she took that ship to the max.

909
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:38,760
Speaker 1: I wasn't saying, but I probably did. But I don't

910
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:43,399
Speaker 1: mean you didn't mean it she took it. I didn't

911
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: mean it. This is entertainment what you'm on my looking

912
00:53:47,120 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 1: in right entertainment, queen. I am. This ship really helps,

913
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 1: no hope. The way that she helped me is helping

914
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: people at home and people walk up to us all

915
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 1: the time, man walking y'all, y'all, don't go out like that.

916
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: Man you'll be outside y'all, y'all don't even understand like

917
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:22,919
Speaker 1: that should be for real, like every day and having

918
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,320
Speaker 1: me like almost on the verge of tears, like people

919
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: come up to me saying, how like our discussions and

920
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: our talks and ship like basically, for lack of a

921
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 1: better way to put it, take them off the edge

922
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 1: or off the ledge because they don't be having people

923
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 1: to talk to and they don't be having people to

924
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,399
Speaker 1: understand what they're going through. And then when they watch

925
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 1: us and see all of our different perspectives, it gives

926
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 1: them a new outlook on life. So what I'm saying,

927
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 1: I'm hearing, and then they feel like they're not the

928
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 1: only ones going through the ship. Yeah, you gotta get

929
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:58,840
Speaker 1: that ship out. I started meditating, meditating. You told me

930
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:05,160
Speaker 1: you start it. Really, don't be working like I told you.

931
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: Gotta graduate to the hot yoga. You're going to be

932
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:15,760
Speaker 1: different because I can't. Can you get five minutes to yoga?

933
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: Is gonna meditation music? But you are better try the

934
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 1: guy you are meditating. You don't know it though. Yeah,

935
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 1: oh now that's it. I'm addicted to it. Yeah, you

936
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:31,840
Speaker 1: don't be thinking too much. You kind of exum in

937
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 1: the nature you meditate. You called me here, you did

938
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:40,359
Speaker 1: called here before I got you hype wheel nature boy. Yeah,

939
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 1: we have to yeah, like trails together. You know that ship. Really,

940
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:46,279
Speaker 1: that's how I came up with like a lot of ship.

941
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 1: I'll come up with on that trail and help me

942
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: for real meditation. Yeah, that's meditation. I ain't know that. Yeah,

943
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 1: that make your mind. Your mind is working at its

944
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:57,440
Speaker 1: highest capacity because you meditate, treating you, being able to

945
00:55:57,520 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 1: focus on the nature and not everything else around you.

946
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 1: A lot of it is just about getting away for

947
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 1: the phone. Sometimes are definitely real. Yeah Instagram. Ain't even

948
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:15,480
Speaker 1: been on Instagram, I really, I probably and they ain't.

949
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 1: They ain't take it. It's just I need I need

950
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: rest from that ship that should give me anxiety and

951
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 1: all the types of get all of it. I think

952
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 1: we don't know how much inside it like having your phone,

953
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:31,279
Speaker 1: m yeah, to tune in too, tapped in two, tapped in,

954
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:33,839
Speaker 1: like mother having your phone. Iman. I ain't never been

955
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 1: the type of nigga you just get in touch with. Yeah,

956
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:40,520
Speaker 1: nigga dmu bro in the first couple of worlds looked like, Man,

957
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 1: I need the openness, the opening, and I just took

958
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 1: my ship now. Yeah, but you know you don't you

959
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: don't want to be a ass So I don't you

960
00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because these some of these people

961
00:56:55,160 --> 00:57:00,439
Speaker 1: really just don't understand that the nigga who you knew

962
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 1: I ain't him anymore different. Yeah, I'm on big facts

963
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: and ship now, cameras and lights and ship. I want

964
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 1: to talk about the things that I used to want

965
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:13,560
Speaker 1: to talk about you want to know the motherfucker I

966
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:15,799
Speaker 1: used to know, did he put up when he put

967
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 1: on the phone and it was some bullshit. It's like,

968
00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 1: I got time for that ship right now, hung up

969
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: and get back to It's like people, like people you love,

970
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 1: have a misunderstanding of that. They don't understand that. It's

971
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 1: like and they take it like you're trying to be

972
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: funny or you know what I'm saying. But it's just

973
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: I'm in a different space now and I can't afford

974
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 1: to go back, so I can't even entertain the ship

975
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:42,240
Speaker 1: that I was entertaining when I was back there. I

976
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: would thinking, I would think the other day, like like

977
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:47,840
Speaker 1: how people how easy for people to start hating you? Right?

978
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 1: A motherucking know you all? They lie right and people

979
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:55,080
Speaker 1: around them and they circle know that this person knows

980
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 1: you all you all your life, but it's like you

981
00:57:57,880 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 1: know him, but he don't know you. So it's like

982
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 1: this motherfuker be like, don't you fallot with the niggabite?

983
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 1: And first he gonna be like, yo, hey, yeah, my man.

984
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 1: Then they start saying like, bro, they don't see you

985
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 1: like you're where you're gonna start saying when the next

986
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 1: people here the Hollywood saying but but but when at

987
00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 1: the end, yeah, when at the end of the day.

988
00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 1: Not to cut you off, I'm sorry. It's not that

989
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 1: you don't funk with the nigga. Butt to outside apparents

990
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: is because you're not with this nigga every day, or

991
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 1: you don't post pictures with this nigg or you're not

992
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 1: on your story with this nigga or whatever. It seems

993
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: like you're not as close to the nigga as you

994
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: really are and at the end of the day, like

995
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,560
Speaker 1: it's still the same, y'all really close that you just

996
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 1: don't have to start hating um resentment, yes, because because

997
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 1: it's like you go to thinking like this nigga don't

998
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 1: funk with me. But whether you fit it in these

999
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 1: people life exactly exactly you are supposed to be like

1000
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 1: all these top big as artism like friends. I don't

1001
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 1: talk to these niggas every year every day. I might

1002
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 1: not talk to one of them till year, but we

1003
00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 1: pick up right when we left off. It's my Yeah.

1004
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:04,400
Speaker 1: You see, if you see, if you see somebody that

1005
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 1: know me, you ate till broad love them till bro.

1006
00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:09,440
Speaker 1: We don't have that, And I got your You got

1007
00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 1: my want to talk, but you're doing your things. I'm not.

1008
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 1: I'm not feeling like, becuse you over here and I'm

1009
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: over here. I gotta hate you. That's you. Some people

1010
00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:22,960
Speaker 1: don't look at it like that. Some people don't even

1011
00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 1: know how to grasp that. Like people don't know how

1012
00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:28,760
Speaker 1: people can move grow apart. That you can grow apart

1013
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: from somebody and still love them and still have a back.

1014
00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 1: But you just on some different ship right now, and

1015
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 1: they're on whatever they're on, you know what I'm saying.

1016
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 1: Some people just don't know how to deal with that

1017
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 1: and got to be able to celebrate other people's success. Yeah,

1018
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 1: it's might even necessarily growing apart. You guys are just

1019
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 1: on two different levels right now. I mean that's growing up,

1020
00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,680
Speaker 1: okay if you're on a different level on them, but

1021
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 1: the proper things. So it wasn't like y'all were together.

1022
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 1: Everything wasn't. I didn't intentionally grow from you. But I'm

1023
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: just growing, yeah, right, And we don't have much to

1024
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: talk about no more, because sometimes you can lose interest

1025
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:07,040
Speaker 1: in certain things, like for example, like if you're a

1026
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:08,920
Speaker 1: type of person that used to club with everybody, all

1027
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:11,960
Speaker 1: y'all do you don't want to do what some people

1028
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 1: probably looking at that at some funny ship and you

1029
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 1: just wrote it. You just don't do it, and you

1030
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 1: ain't on no fund ship. I just rather be chilling. Yeah,

1031
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm too busy, broth, y'all grown apart. Yeah, any mother,

1032
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 1: they're going to the club like that ain't for you. Yeah,

1033
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 1: but a lot of people measure their friendship to you

1034
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 1: with how much access you allow. Yes, that's what that's

1035
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 1: you just you just broken down in a good front.

1036
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 1: You can on fat today that yeah, yeah, you be sleeping. Yeah,

1037
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 1: and you know, hey, we appreciate y'all tapping into another

1038
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 1: Big Facts Friday. Make sure you follow us at big

1039
01:00:54,360 --> 01:01:01,160
Speaker 1: facts pot dot com. Sute exactly, don't cat for Fitch