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Speaker 1: about eight o'clock or just after eight, guys, speaking of

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Speaker 1: the toll way, can we just talk about the toll

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Speaker 1: way quickly, because because I have I don't even know

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Speaker 1: how they managed to bill you, kiki, because it never

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Speaker 1: works for me. I'm I tend to be every time

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Speaker 1: I drive in a toll way, which is about once

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Speaker 1: or twice a week, I tend to be that guy

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Speaker 1: But my toll I pass, whatever it's called. I am.

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Speaker 1: You have my credit card, I have the transport under

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Speaker 1: take my money, take it here it is it doesn't

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Speaker 1: and then I'll call, I'll push the help. Then I'll

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Speaker 1: go Hello, we can't hear you. Com in the middle

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Speaker 1: of a road right now, they're like the toll way

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Speaker 1: of people, we can't hear you. That's because a motorcycle

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Speaker 2: I just open the gate, right a truck is honking

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Speaker 2: and then they'll be like, well, give us your the

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Speaker 1: And then I do that, Like, yeah, it doesn't register

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Speaker 2: Oh you bought one of those fake ones. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: But it works sometimes, it doesn't work other times, and

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Speaker 1: it's guys, can we get it together? Like, first of all,

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Speaker 1: you have potholes in your road. I tell you why

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Speaker 1: my thing doesn't work. It's because it can't invent new

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Speaker 1: technology because Kiki won't pay them.

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Speaker 2: Oh, they get more than enough money. Okay, this is

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Speaker 2: the biggest scam.

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Speaker 1: It costs fifteen dollars to drive on the thing. Can

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Speaker 1: you at least take my money? Probly? What is going on? Really?

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Speaker 3: Does I have a confession to make Kiki? I pulled

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Speaker 3: a U because I don't have a transponder. I normally

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Speaker 3: That's what I mean.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about the Skyway.

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Speaker 3: First one I paid with my credit card, like, I

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Speaker 3: The second one, there was one with a broken gate,

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Speaker 3: I was like, you guys need to get open tolling

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Speaker 1: Like the Skyway, because they got the gate so so

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Speaker 1: But guys, it's not my job to tell you how

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Speaker 1: to take my money. Like I am a customer. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you have my credit cardage current, take my money. That's

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Speaker 4: Make it easy. Illinois has figured it out.

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Speaker 1: Are no gates, you just drive right through your computer

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Speaker 1: please come on, like take my money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you never agreed to this. I don't know who

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Speaker 1: My friend Bill Barker, our friend Bill Barker, not Bob Barker.

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Speaker 1: He just texted me and said, after that last segment,

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Speaker 1: can you just get these guys raises please? Like we

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Speaker 1: sound like total brokies. I'm like, dude, if you only

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Speaker 1: if you only knew, if you only knew, right, we've

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Speaker 6: Wait, and you know there are a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of hot threads. I don't know if there are.

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Speaker 1: Let's know, what's kind of fine?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, he was, I like a man and go

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Speaker 1: You know, that's all Fred's show is on Tuesday, July fifteenth, Morning,

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Speaker 1: every One, The Fred Show's here. Hi Kaitlin, hij Hi Paulina,

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Speaker 1: Hi Kiki, Good Morning SHOWBS two fifty is the prize

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Speaker 1: Your Second debates in My Relationship Drama and the entertainer

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Speaker 7: The singer that got drunk and is posting green shots

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, yeah, she comment, Yeah, I have to confess something.

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you and I have something in common.

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Speaker 4: What we already got the same birthday.

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Speaker 1: You get the same. I'm so glad that you and

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Speaker 5: Nothing can't do you today.

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Speaker 8: I never do nothing to holidays.

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Speaker 1: I won't get that never.

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Speaker 5: I don't even know what the holiday.

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Speaker 1: You know that whoever came up with that. I don't

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Speaker 1: think they realized how brilliant they were man, but they

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Speaker 1: have gone wildly viral. Yes, I guess it's a thing

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Speaker 1: in Europe. It's like a vacation package. It would be

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Speaker 1: like Apple vacations. I'm not plugging anyone in particular, but

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Speaker 1: like where you you know, you pay them whatever and

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Speaker 1: But it's got that. There's jefs Glynn that song and

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Speaker 1: beat will drop and show gop nothing be to get

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Speaker 1: to holiday. And the people are doing it all over

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Speaker 9: A couple of new friends. And last night you will

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Speaker 9: not believe what they said to me. They said, Nicole,

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Speaker 9: what is a Jet two holiday?

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 9: I think you could not stop laughing because clearly the

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Speaker 1: It happens. I had no idea what.

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Speaker 5: On earth a jets Woo holiday is and why.

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Speaker 9: You can get two hundred pounds off for a family

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Speaker 9: of four. Jess Glynn and Jet two you've made it

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Speaker 9: to America.

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Speaker 1: The people love it, but they want to know what

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Speaker 1: you are. They have no idea. See it's brilliant, Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, it's brilliant. But yeah, I guess these commercials

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Speaker 1: was last week about the jingles that just stick in

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Speaker 1: your head, you know, for the commercial campaigns that you

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Speaker 1: know it doesn't even matter what it is, it's just

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Speaker 1: you just you know it immediately. And I guess the

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Speaker 1: people of Europe they just know this immediately, like this

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Speaker 4: It's so wild.

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Speaker 2: It has gone viral on TikTok, so like all these

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Speaker 2: people are taking this sound and putting together videos of

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Speaker 2: like terrible things, right, people almost drowning, people falling, stages

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Speaker 2: breaking like it is. But I will never miss a

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Speaker 2: like I'm it just it keeps playing on a loop

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Speaker 1: Head, which I'm sure Jet two is ecstatic that they're

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Speaker 1: I'm like, ohso are they Are they telling us what

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Speaker 1: are they just making fun of the jingle, which I

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Speaker 1: think they are. But if I'm Jet two, I want

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Speaker 1: to be like, hey, guys, just hold up. They just say,

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Speaker 1: you know, this is nothing. This is int are our trips.

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Speaker 1: Our trips are way better than this. Yes, fifty dollars

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Speaker 1: for person. That's two hundred dollars for a family of four.

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Speaker 4: We need her at the iHeart Festival.

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Speaker 1: Well, yes, there is a big announcement tomorrow. I don't

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Speaker 1: say it. Sorry, Tom Pullman, It's Jess Glynn at the

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Speaker 1: Jetsoo Holiday Lady. It's stay or go all right, Serena

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Speaker 1: is here? Good morning, Serena. Welcome.

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Speaker 8: Hi.

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Speaker 1: How's it going? Doing great? Serena? What's going on in Ciergo?

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Speaker 1: This is I mean, the headline here is that you

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Speaker 1: just had a baby what months ago?

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Speaker 10: Oh yeah, two months ago, a little baby boy.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations, that's exciting you and your husband's need a little beach.

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Speaker 1: So what what?

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Speaker 11: Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, no, here and tell the story, Serena. So

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Speaker 1: you had this baby, which is wonderful, and your husband

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Speaker 1: he's acting not acting right about this, She's not.

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Speaker 10: And listen, you know, just to be clear, I'm not,

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Speaker 10: you know, considering leaving my husband. But lately, you know,

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Speaker 10: he told me he doesn't want the baby sleeping in

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Speaker 5: And you know.

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Speaker 10: That's tough because you know, we had the baby two

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Speaker 10: months ago and he says that if I cared about

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Speaker 5: And you know that's pretty intense. And he also gets

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Speaker 10: You know, we decided I decided to breastfeed, even though

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Speaker 5: That was an issue for him. That was a really

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Speaker 1: Affect him. I'm asking that question, uh, Paulina as a mom, Yeah,

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Speaker 6: It shout in first and foremost mom can make that choice,

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Speaker 5: The only issue quote and.

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Speaker 5: But that you guys can figure.

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Speaker 10: You know, so it's just like you know, he says,

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Speaker 5: Well, typically six weeks you have a good checkop.

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Speaker 6: You go to a checkop, but they kind of clear

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Speaker 1: So we're not even really there yet.

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Speaker 10: So you know, and obviously we're both just exhausted and

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Speaker 10: I'm really trying my best. And I just never imagined

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Speaker 1: I don't mean to be insensitive, Serena, but what did

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Speaker 5: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 10: And you know, like you said, it's not like we

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Speaker 10: and like it's just temporary. It goes by so quickly,

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Speaker 5: And I think he's taking it really personally.

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Speaker 10: And I did not expect to set off from him,

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Speaker 10: and I just don't I just don't know where to do.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry to be negative, but this is him making

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Speaker 1: this about him. He's not being considerate of you. He's

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Speaker 1: not being considerate of what you're going through. He's not

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Speaker 1: ready to make the adjustment that he's going to have

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Speaker 4: Men through postpartum.

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Speaker 1: I don't know the answer either, but I mean I

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Speaker 6: I mean, listen, everyone's world is upside down right now,

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Speaker 5: Just everything you're going through.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you are in the thick of it, and

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Speaker 6: that needs to be put to the side. I'm sorry

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Speaker 6: you guys will once again have all the amazing sex

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Speaker 6: and all the amazing times together and daints and all

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Speaker 1: Yeah, two months out, honestly, and not that his needs

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel so. I feel so bad for you, mama.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, And you know again, I'm not like thinking about

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Speaker 10: I don't want to lose myself or my marriage. You know.

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Speaker 1: Well, good luck to you and let's see what some

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Speaker 1: By Serena maternal mental health professional. Men go through postpartum

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Speaker 1: mood changes in postpart and depression. It's a maternal mental

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Speaker 1: I'm a maternal mental health professional.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so that may be what he's experiencing, but it.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't necessarily change the negative effect it's having on her

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Speaker 1: Good morning. How are hi, Julie. So you just heard

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Speaker 12: It's very reminiscent. We have three kids and they do

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Speaker 5: This is a newborn.

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Speaker 12: Need the parents. There's no one taking care of the baby,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's like, you can wait, you can wait

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Speaker 1: it's not a preference. It is a mandate, right, Like

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Speaker 1: if we don't do it, it's not happening. Correct, So

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Speaker 1: once we get this baby, like you know, with a

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Speaker 1: holling yes, yes, right right. I guess that's where I'm

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I have a good day. It's like, guys, you know,

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Speaker 1: you're worried about whether you're getting coddled enough.

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Speaker 6: It takes two years for a mom to really get

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Speaker 6: back to her quote normal self, I'm gonna say that,

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Speaker 6: so I'm not.

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Speaker 5: Even there yet myself, so I can't even imagine how

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Speaker 5: she feels.

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Speaker 1: All right, Again, I don't I mean to be like

444
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Speaker 1: an anti male here. I think a lot of guys

445
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Speaker 1: listening now would have who've been through this. I gotta

446
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Speaker 1: think they're thinking, like, dude, it's not about you right now,

447
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Speaker 1: Like it's it can't be about you right now? Emily, Hi, Hi, Hi?

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Speaker 1: What do you think? So?

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Speaker 13: I have two babies. I had two babies under and

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Speaker 13: under two years, and I think I've reastpy both of them,

451
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Speaker 13: and the breasting issue is the thing that really sticks

452
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Speaker 13: out to me is like Dicky in this situation, I

453
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Speaker 13: really don't understand what his problem with her breastfeeding is.

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Speaker 13: What I love to say, though, is while I think

455
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Speaker 13: this is like a weird situation and he's definitely putting

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Speaker 13: a lot of unnecessary like anxiety on a new mom,

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Speaker 13: I am sympathetic to the fact that like having a

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Speaker 13: baby is an adjustment for both partners, and there is

459
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Speaker 13: definitely a point where you want to kick the baby

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Speaker 13: out of your room because you're ready to have some

461
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Speaker 13: space back. But two months postpartum is not that time.

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Speaker 13: Maybe four to six months is a moreasonable time.

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Speaker 1: I think that's what I'm saying is right now would

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Speaker 1: not be the time to put pressure. I don't think

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Speaker 1: on the relationship to make it about you, because I

466
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Speaker 1: just seem like there's so much adjustment going on, and

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's necessarily personal. I don't think, but

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Speaker 1: I think I think that one way it could create

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Speaker 1: a tremendous amount of divide is by behaving this way

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Speaker 1: right now, right right.

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Speaker 13: And I think that a lot of times, well actually

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Speaker 13: more often than not, we are very focused in that

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Speaker 13: nine months of growing a baby on the needs that

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Speaker 13: the baby will have, but there's not a lot of

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Speaker 13: support about like what a new mom needs, especially a

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Speaker 13: breastfeeding mom, or women with their hormones and postpartum issues

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Speaker 13: and how to be like partners in that situation. And

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Speaker 13: so I do think there's ways to move past it.

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Speaker 13: Like when I was pregnant with our second baby, our

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Speaker 13: first day was it just turns one, and we decided

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Speaker 13: to do some couple counseling courses that are about like

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Speaker 13: bringing home baby, that like focus less on the like

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Speaker 13: how to feed and diaper and take care of your

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Speaker 13: baby and more on like how to be partners in time.

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Speaker 1: That's interesting, that's a good idea.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, there's one specifically by the Gotman. They're like pretty

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Speaker 13: famous couple counselors and it's called bringing Home Baby. So, like,

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Speaker 13: I do think there's ways to work past it, but

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Speaker 13: he has to be willing to like listen and hear her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he needs good points at good points. Emily,

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Speaker 1: thank you for Colin, thanks for listening. Have a good day. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you too, appreciate you. Julian, Julian, we're not considering his

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Speaker 1: feelings really, no.

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Speaker 11: Because Joe focusing more on him. I want to be

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Speaker 11: intimate with him. I had a baby to it. The

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Speaker 11: father of my botto was really involved with the child.

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Speaker 11: That set him when I'm going to feed the baby,

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Speaker 11: I told him when the baby's going to sleep, and

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Speaker 11: everything else in between.

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Speaker 1: It's the community.

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Speaker 11: I believe her issues of no one had to communicate

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Speaker 11: with the father of putting him involved actually in the

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Speaker 11: baby's child. And when I had my first baby, I

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Speaker 11: was very in say care because I will call her

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Speaker 11: father through the trauma that I've.

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Speaker 13: Been with all the time.

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Speaker 11: But I do understand when you said that it's an

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Speaker 11: intimate issue and everything. But she did mention of him

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Speaker 11: feeling absent in the child's life.

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Speaker 1: You know, that's fair, that's fair much maybe and someone

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Speaker 1: texted much, right, Julian, I'm Tellingry, someone texted maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: he hasn't bonded with the child yet. I think for

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Speaker 1: me it was the comment about you don't cuddle me,

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Speaker 1: you've never cuddled me as much as you've cuddled him.

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Speaker 11: Well, it's my daughter will feel like that. But at

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Speaker 11: the same time, I had my daughter in certain place.

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Speaker 1: In a toy bat.

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Speaker 11: I apologize, my English is my second language. My daughter

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Speaker 11: in a in a play band by the by the bed,

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Speaker 11: so he wasn't. She wasn't in the bed with us.

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Speaker 1: So maybe other.

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Speaker 11: Than putting the child in it on his own roomb,

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Speaker 11: maybe you know, put a little band or something next

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Speaker 11: to next to her or something in the womb and

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Speaker 11: that and whatnot. But at the same time, they just

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Speaker 11: had a baby within two months, so maybe he will

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Speaker 11: probably do some research and see a way to make

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Speaker 11: her feel better with him being in the in the

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Speaker 11: intimately as well, because at the time is not really

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Speaker 11: sex really is more over the sitting together and talking.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Julie, the person there. I appreciate that, of course,

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Speaker 1: thanks for listening. I think for me, it's the sixty days.

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Speaker 1: You know, we're talking about this after three years. You know,

534
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Speaker 1: my needs are being mad. You're not paying attention to me.

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Speaker 1: We're not you know, our partnership is falling apart. Like okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: Like the kid's a little bit more independent. It's been

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Speaker 1: years of this now, you know he doesn't feel like

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Speaker 1: he's part of the process. I mean, all of that

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Speaker 1: is fair, but I mean we are. It is just

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Speaker 1: so new and we're to your point, we're still physically

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Speaker 1: healing from what happened. Yeah, Kathy, Hi, Kathy, Hi, good morning, Hey,

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Speaker 1: good morning. And just to recap here, this woman, Serena

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Speaker 1: Coled and she just had a baby sixty days ago

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Speaker 1: and her husband's not adjusting well. Essentially, he's throwing a

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Speaker 1: temper tantrum, saying, hey, you're not paying enough attention to me.

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Speaker 1: I want the baby out of the room. I want

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Speaker 1: to be cuddled more, I want to be held. But

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Speaker 1: whatever he wants, he wants all the things that baby's getting.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know that she's necessari. I mean, maybe

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Speaker 1: she's choosing to do this, But at the same time,

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Speaker 1: I think she kind of has to write.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and something similar happened to me. I was married,

553
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Speaker 8: had a baby, so excited the whole time and everything,

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Speaker 8: but then he got really insecure for the baby was born,

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Speaker 8: because yeah, you don't go out to dinner every night,

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Speaker 8: you know, you don't have all that free time to yourself.

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Speaker 8: And he ended up, you know, it drove a wedge

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Speaker 8: between us. He ended up having an affair. And then

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Speaker 8: when we were splitting up, she said that it was

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Speaker 8: the lack of attention and more attention on the baby,

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Speaker 8: and it's just you know, like hindsight, it was all

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Speaker 8: just a lot of insecurity, like you're so jealous of

563
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Speaker 8: a little baby, like a sweet little baby.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's all just gaslighting. Right again, I've said it

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Speaker 1: fifty times in the last fifteen minutes. What are you

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Speaker 1: supposed to do, especially in these really early stages, what

567
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Speaker 1: are you supposed to do? Just okay, you know what,

568
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Speaker 1: baby's crying and needs to eat and it requires me

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Speaker 1: to do everything, but you know, let me make sure

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Speaker 1: that I hold you a little longer. And it's just

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Speaker 1: a tough spot to put her in.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm sorry. Time to put your big boy pants on,

573
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Speaker 8: like you're a dad now, like it's time to provide

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Speaker 8: and you know, intimacy will come later. Right now, it's

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Speaker 8: all about your baby. You cannot make it about you.

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Speaker 8: And like I said, just a lot of insecurity.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think so. Thank you, Kathy, and I'm

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Speaker 1: sure that happened to you, but thanks for sharing.

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Speaker 8: It was all for the best.

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Speaker 1: There you go, have a good day. Do you have

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Speaker 1: any final thoughts?

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Speaker 6: I do, because people are saying, you know, maybe dad

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Speaker 6: doesn't feel like he's bonding with baby. I think mom could, okay,

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Speaker 6: maybe give him like hey, do bathroough, little things like that.

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Speaker 5: People have to understand it.

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Speaker 6: Two months postpartum, you feel like you don't want to

587
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Speaker 6: be away from your baby, like it's I don't know

588
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Speaker 6: if it's just like this.

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Speaker 5: I call it a primal feeling, Like I.

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Speaker 6: Feel like I just like I had to grab her

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Speaker 6: all the time, if somebody was holding her, I needed

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Speaker 6: her back instantly. So like we have to give grace

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Speaker 6: to the mom to understand that these are her hormones,

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Speaker 6: this is how she's feeling.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about a chemical reaction, we're talking about human

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Speaker 1: chemical reacity. We're not. It's not necessarily all a choice, correct,

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Speaker 1: So understanding at least, so yeah, CalWIN's Entertainment report, he's

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Speaker 1: on the Freas Show.

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Speaker 7: Chris Stapleton and his wife donated one million to support

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Speaker 7: the victims of those devastating bloods in Texas. The couple's charity,

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Speaker 7: Outlaws State of Kind, announce the donation will be split

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Speaker 7: among several charities like Texas Search and Rescue, World Central Kitchen,

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Speaker 7: and a few others. And if you want to donate

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Speaker 7: and anything helps, any helps, you can head two Community

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Speaker 7: Foundation dot net if you want to get involved. Moving

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Speaker 7: on to singer Zach Bryan, who has seemingly started coming

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Speaker 7: for X and barstool employee Brianna chicken Fry out of nowhere.

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Speaker 5: It seems like, I don't know.

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Speaker 7: What has gotten his his little self so upset, but

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Speaker 7: his army of fans started coming for her as well,

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Speaker 7: saying she's lying about how things went down during the breakup.

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Speaker 7: She ignored it, ignored it, and remember she was the

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Speaker 7: one who said she was offered an NDA in exchange

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Speaker 7: for her silence, So she decided to scare screenshots from

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Speaker 7: what she says was his team texting her outlining the terms. Now,

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Speaker 7: first of all, she said, his team is not really

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Speaker 7: like the sharpest tool in the shed.

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Speaker 5: Why are we texting the terms of an.

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Speaker 7: NDA like that with like bullet points and typos.

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Speaker 5: It just seems if that's true crazy.

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Speaker 7: But according to the message, here's what the deal included.

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Speaker 5: She had two options.

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Speaker 7: Ten million or three million plus the Massachusetts house that

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Speaker 7: Zach bought them, which cast seven point five million in return.

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Speaker 5: Here's the bullets of what she would have to do. Now,

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Speaker 5: this is allegedly what they texted her.

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Speaker 7: Number one promised not to speak about Zach or his

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Speaker 7: quote non public cheating, So I guess if he publicly cheated,

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Speaker 7: she could speak about that.

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Speaker 5: That's private.

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Speaker 7: It guarantee a specific recording where Zak yelled at her

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Speaker 7: friends and family at a bonfire never sees the light

633
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Speaker 7: of day. She was also asked to publicly defend Zach

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Speaker 7: if questioned by media or fans, and she has always

635
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Speaker 7: said that she turned it down so she could speak

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Speaker 7: about her own experience, really own that, and share only

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Speaker 7: the parts that may help other women. Now, as for

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Speaker 7: Zaki does have a new woman in his life. Her

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Speaker 7: name is Samantha Leonard, and she looks so much like

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Speaker 7: Breonna that it's actually scary. And I just showed Jason.

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Speaker 7: I don't know what's going on there, but there's something

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Speaker 7: and that just freaks me out when people date someone

643
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Speaker 7: else after and it's like, that's the same person, That

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Speaker 7: is the same person. And lastly, singer Kim Carnes who

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Speaker 7: you know she sings Betty Davis's eyes, of course if

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Speaker 7: you don't know that name. She's sharing how she really

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Speaker 7: feels about jojoh seas cover of the hit Now. She said,

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Speaker 7: I can only speak to how it initially struck me.

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Speaker 7: The phrasing, the tone, even the inflections. It all felt

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Speaker 7: a little too close. I'm all for female artists lifting

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Speaker 7: each other up. This business can be brutal, and I

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Speaker 7: strongly reject any kind of hate and personal attacks that

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Speaker 7: I've seen online. But at the same time, I believe

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Speaker 7: artists have the right to speak openly about how something

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Speaker 7: And I think even the way she dressed up everything

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Speaker 7: kind of freaked her out. She initially posted her first

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Speaker 7: reaction and then she deleted it and elaborated on her feelings.

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Speaker 7: But remember that was the cover was man Dave and it.

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Speaker 1: Was going very well. That was actually I played the

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Speaker 1: audio just then.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you were quick on that.

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Speaker 1: I was it really was. That was that was her

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Speaker 1: singing it.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, so she doesn't love it. It's sounds bed Dave. Everyone,

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Speaker 14: thank you, thank you so much, you do.

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Speaker 1: I do love her.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I love it. It's so camp. But that wasn't good.

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Speaker 1: You can you can love someone and then you cannot

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Speaker 1: love everything they do act she ate with that cover.

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Speaker 1: It was really bad.

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Speaker 5: Tomato tomato.

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Speaker 7: you missed.

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Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

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Speaker 1: Shelley in the Showbiz Shohow Now Military Mike didn't have

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Speaker 1: any issue when you first had babies, right, he was well.

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Speaker 5: Than that, Yeah, I was gonna.

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Speaker 7: I feel like Mightship isn't a good baramter because she's

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Speaker 7: just gone a lot.

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Speaker 5: So I feel like it's it's just a little bit different.

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Speaker 6: But man, I feel for her that that's sad because

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Speaker 6: it's such a hard time after you have a baby.

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Speaker 5: For lots of reasons.

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Speaker 6: I think I told you guys, like from going from

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Speaker 6: zero kids to one kid, it's a lot like you know,

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Speaker 6: you hear like, oh, it's a lot of work, but yeah,

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Speaker 6: it's a lot of work.

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Speaker 5: Can it changes like it changes the dynamic of everything.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it's a hard thing for everybody. But like

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Speaker 1: especially when you add the human chemical component, it's like

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Speaker 1: have some grace here, you know, Yeah, time at all?

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Speaker 1: Right exactly? Margo, Hi, Margo Hire, what's up? Margo? Fun

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Speaker 1: fact about you?

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Speaker 11: Ease?

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Speaker 1: I'll be sixty this year. Oh my god, Margo, well

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Speaker 1: happy almost sixtieth.

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Let's see how well you do here. Five questions against

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Speaker 1: our pop culture expert showb is Shelley. Two hundred and

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Speaker 1: fifty bucks is the price? Three game wins streak one

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Speaker 1: twenty three wins, sixty nine losses, you ready, Yes, I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: Let's do it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, good luck?

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Speaker 1: All right, with all the respect, Shelley, you gotta go

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Speaker 1: into the sound booth. Poof question number one Margo Rihanna

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Speaker 1: walk the red carpet with her kids for the premiere

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Speaker 1: of the Swurfs movie. How many kids does she have? Two? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Which actress was spotted with top gun actor Danny Ramirez

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Speaker 1: after her divorce from Cash Warren. Jessica Alma, Amaya Espinol,

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Speaker 1: and Brian Arenalez were announced as the winners of This

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Speaker 1: Peacock Show and awarded one hundred thousand dollars Love Island.

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Speaker 1: You are killing it, Margo, which DC movie broke box

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Speaker 1: office records after its release over the weekend. Superman and

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Speaker 1: HBO's Harry Potter series is officially in production. Who played

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Speaker 1: Harry Potter in the movie series, Daniel Radcliff. That's five.

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Speaker 1: That's a five.

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Speaker 5: Oh boyoy mao.

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Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you. She got a five.

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Speaker 8: Oh, Margaret, I remembered that that is really really good.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's see how you do, Shelley. We got to focus.

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Speaker 1: I am, I know, I know. Rihanna walked the red

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Speaker 1: carpet with her kids for the premiere of the Smurfs movie.

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Speaker 1: How many kids does she have?

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Speaker 5: Well? That are like out in Rebelly two.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, two with one on the way. That's right, which

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Speaker 1: actress was spotted with tockun Actor Danny Ramirez made her

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Speaker 1: divorce from cash Worn Jessica Alba, yes Amaya Espinal and

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Speaker 1: Brian R. Nalis, who announced as the winners of This

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Speaker 1: Peacock Show and awarded one hundred thousand dollars. Love Island, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: which DC movie broke box office records after its release

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Speaker 1: over the weekend. Superman yep, and HBO's Harry Potter series

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Speaker 1: is officially in production. Who played Harry Potter in the

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Speaker 1: movie series, Daniel Radclffe. That's a five. That's a time, Margo.

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Speaker 1: You got to come back tomorrow, Okay, all right, Wow,

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Speaker 1: I'm still impressed with you. Margot showed three hundred bucks.

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Speaker 1: You made earn yourself an extra fifty and we're stalled

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Speaker 1: out at the three game win streak. So three hundred

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Speaker 1: bucks tomorrow, hang on, all right, Shelley, good work.

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Speaker 5: Oh thank you.

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Speaker 7: I need to watch Love Island, right like I That's

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Speaker 7: a show I would like, right, Cale, Yeah, you just need.

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Speaker 5: A lot of time, which I don't.

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Speaker 7: Know if you have as a mom of no wonder,

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Speaker 7: I even't started it right.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I can bring myself. I've said okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it, and then I can't.

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Speaker 5: You promised me.

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Speaker 11: No.

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Speaker 2: There's too much dancing in the intro like everybody's what now?

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Speaker 1: You told me that there was a choreographed number.

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Speaker 5: I said in the beginning forward through that.

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Speaker 1: And I don't like a number. I'm not a number guy.

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Speaker 1: I don't like a number.

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Speaker 2: You're not gonna like you, brother. They're jumping out of

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Speaker 2: trees like twirl in everybody's why Why is it necessary?

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Speaker 2: Let's get to the smut right because there are a

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Speaker 2: bunch of hot people hikinis.

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Speaker 1: I've already seen the TikTok parodies. Hey can I pull

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Speaker 1: you aside?

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Speaker 7: Play for a chat text bachelor?

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Speaker 1: Like okay, put your put your like I'm really into

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Speaker 1: like another like four or five other girls here, like.

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Speaker 5: I'm a mommy that you've not seen that? No on TikTok.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know how would I know the reference?

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Speaker 1: I haven't watched the show.

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Speaker 7: Oh, it's like this is like how you when we

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Speaker 7: didn't know the plane thing and you thought we were crazy, Yeah, Masita,

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Speaker 7: except no one told us that Ms Huddah is one

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Speaker 7: of our mary own from Raleigh.

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Speaker 4: Oh is she?

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Speaker 5: Yes, she is from Raleigh or she lives there. At

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Speaker 5: least I didn't know that, yes, one of us. Maybe

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Speaker 5: she's one of the thirteen.

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Speaker 1: Then I take it back. Then it's probably one of

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Speaker 1: the thirteen, and you're you're gonna pack otherwise otherwise I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure. I just don't know. No, I didn't know

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Speaker 1: that reference.

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, there was a really dumb conversation when she was

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Speaker 7: trying to tell another islander that she is a real

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Speaker 7: life mom and he like it didn't compute. So he

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Speaker 7: was like, mommy a mom of what Mamasita? And she's like, no,

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Speaker 7: like I have a human child.

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Speaker 1: Oh I did see that. I just wouldn't. I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: know the reference. Kind of watch the show. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean you know, that's why there's eighty seven of us

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Speaker 1: on this show, because everybody watches different stuff, and then

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Speaker 1: we're covered. Shelley, I want you to have a great day,

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Speaker 1: and Margot's coming for you tomorrow.

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Speaker 5: I No, she's good, all right, she is good.

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Speaker 1: Okay, talk to you later. All right, waiting met the phone.

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Speaker 1: Why does somebody get ghosts to the Entertainment Report? Fun

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Speaker 1: fact in headlines all made up. More Fred Show next