WEBVTT - Misspelling: Holidays at The Manor 0:00:08.760 --> 0:00:15.960 Misspelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. This is very exciting. 0:00:16.400 --> 0:00:21.760 I love our episodes of the Manner. And here we are, 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:24.720 Amy and I are here doing a very special edition 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:29.760 called Holidays at the Manner. 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:37.040 Yes, this is a very special episode because I get 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:44.400 to ask all my many, many holiday Manner questions. Shall 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:44.840 I begin? 0:00:46.159 --> 0:00:49.400 You shall where? I feel like it should go back 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:52.440 before the Manner though, because my parents still did epic 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:59.240 stuff even when it wasn't bad. But the other house, Yeah. 0:00:58.040 --> 0:00:59.880 You're throwing me a curveball. I was not prepared for. 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:02.680 Okay, well, I'm gonna jump in with one. 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:03.279 All right. 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:08.319 It's my memory as far back as I can go 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:13.560 thinking of spelling memories around Christmas. It is the year 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:17.600 I was five years old that my dad had snow 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:18.600 made in the backyard. 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:22.400 Oh okay, this is worth the worth the pivot. 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:27.000 Oh yeah. And before there was Kardashian, there was spelling. 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:31.240 And I'm like, I think nineteen seventy eight, nineteen seventy nine, 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:36.160 I was five six and it wasn't done then. Now 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:38.840 you can find companies that come to your house in 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:42.880 close snow, and no one did it then. And my 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:46.280 dad found someone who had worked on one of his 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:48.600 sets for a movie where they had to have snow 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:51.520 and had them come to the house. And it wasn't 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:53.200 a big area, but it was a little area and 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:56.360 we made a snowman and my dad. There's a great 0:01:56.360 --> 0:01:58.920 photo I'll show you guys, my dad holding me and 0:01:58.960 --> 0:02:02.240 I'm dressed in my you know, winter sweater and snow boots. 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:04.920 And it was probably like eighty degrees out and okay. 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:06.360 The party or just snow for you? 0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:07.640 It was just for me. 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:10.560 Was Randy Bourne? No, if you were. 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:14.800 Five, Randy must I'm thinking he might have just been born, 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:16.680 But no, that wouldn't make sense because they would have 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:19.080 come out with a little holding bright born. He was 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:21.959 born in October, so maybe it was nineteen seventy seven. 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:24.800 Then was there a sky slope or just snope? 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:29.760 Not this one, Okay, that's later. This was recreated years later. 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:33.400 Randy would be involved. This one was just like a 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:36.680 little tiny area with a snowman, my dad smoking his 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:42.440 pipe holding me. Yeah, and that house snow mittens. Where 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:46.600 was that house on Mapleton where the manor is the 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:49.640 manner but on the north side it's still there. It's 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:50.080 almost so. 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:53.680 It's really close. Yeah, how about was that house ten thousand? 0:02:54.160 --> 0:02:56.000 He said, Boulevard twelve thousand? 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:59.760 Oh my god, so that's really where you grew up. 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:04.079 It really is, And snow came back there later. Did 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:08.080 snow ever go to the manor No? I know, so 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:10.919 snow only came What was the Mapleton house called? 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:12.239 She didn't name it? 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:18.040 Ooh, it didn't own candy. Come on, speaking of the 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:21.800 holidays and your mom being named Candy, Like, does she 0:03:22.040 --> 0:03:23.320 love the holidays? 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:30.480 My mom loves the holidays? Oh my gosh, specifically wintertime, 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:32.840 like Christmas. Okay, that was that was her big one. 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:36.240 So Halloween was sort of a big. 0:03:36.480 --> 0:03:39.080 We decorated, but not no, no, no, no Christmas. She went 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:41.480 all epically out. 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:43.240 Now she went. 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:46.080 Back to the snow. Okay, when we did come back back, 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:49.000 when Rampy was like five, we moved it down to 0:03:49.520 --> 0:03:54.880 the tennis court and there was a slope, wow, climb 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:58.080 in the back a bit, but it was a sledding hill. 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:01.440 This is pretty iconic. 0:04:03.000 --> 0:04:05.360 Did your mom break the rule that I break, which 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:08.960 is decorating for Christmas before Thanksgiving? 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:12.120 Or did she wait and then did a team of 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:15.440 people come out with like like it was just like 0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:19.200 here comes trucks. That's what I envision and just like 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:22.640 tons of people making it happen all in one day. 0:04:24.120 --> 0:04:27.960 Well, when he was alive, her best friend back in 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:31.039 the day, Nolan Miller, who was also the costume designer 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:37.080 Dynasty and Epic, like, he would always help her. They 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:39.200 would do it together. It would be my mom and 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:41.960 uncle Nolan always. But it would and this is like 0:04:42.000 --> 0:04:44.920 at the first house, but it would be a day. 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:47.240 They would spend a day the two of them, and 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:49.960 he would bring some people over to help for the day. 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:53.320 But once it went to the manor, it was a 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:57.160 team because I believe it was like I'm going to 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:58.719 get this wrong. I have to ask my mom, like 0:04:58.720 --> 0:05:00.359 a twenty five foot to tree? 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:01.839 Wow? 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:04.279 Does that sound right? A twenty five foot tree? 0:05:04.400 --> 0:05:06.840 Yeah, I mean that sounds reasonable. Lo, most people would 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:07.839 have like a six foot tree. 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:13.160 Yeah, So Brahm, was she like super involved, like that 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:15.400 goes there and those boats there. 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:17.680 And that nutcracker there, or was she like, hey, just 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:19.800 have at it, Nolan Miller and team. 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:24.680 No, my mom is a virgo, a double virgo, and 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:27.400 she's a perfectionist, but in a good way. She has 0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:32.200 great style. So she yeah, everything. She had to watch 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:34.520 everything where it was going and. 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:35.760 Was all this stuff stored. 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:38.480 Let's go to the Manor. Now we'll leave Mapleton for 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:41.320 a minute. Was everything stored there or was it like 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:42.320 in warehouses? 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:43.760 And it would come in trucks. 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:51.120 So at the Manor, specifically, there was one floor of 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:54.680 the Manor, the very top floor. One would consider it 0:05:54.720 --> 0:05:57.640 an attic, okay, but it was not because it. 0:05:57.640 --> 0:05:59.839 Was almost like a storage facility. 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:04.880 It was the same length as each mean the second yeah, 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:07.960 So it would be like, okay, if let's say you 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:11.560 had a fifty thousand square foot act Okay, So it 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:14.760 was that, and she had it designed in different areas. 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:18.919 So she had storage up there, but she had holiday storage, 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:22.120 she had Christmas storage. Everything like it would be as 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:23.880 if you went to a storage unit. But it was 0:06:23.960 --> 0:06:30.640 all beautifuf gun and labeled. And she has books like literally, 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:32.520 I guess we can't say bibles anymore. 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:34.080 Wait, books of what's in it? 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:35.679 Yes? 0:06:36.400 --> 0:06:36.960 WHOA? 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:39.440 So like you take the Christmas book and it would 0:06:39.480 --> 0:06:41.800 be like, here's all the nutcrackers, here's all the bows, 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:43.520 here's all the ribbons, here's all the boxes, here's the 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:45.760 wrapping paper. Well, that would probably be in the wrapping room. 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:49.520 Here's the santas, here's the trees, here's the garden keeper. 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:54.039 But for rapper keeper, crapper keep it. 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:57.240 Yeah, now you everything, and you could like it was 0:06:57.240 --> 0:07:00.280 a catalog basically, now the Christmas wrapping room, because you 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:03.840 know there was in my wrapping room downstairs, Christmas wrapping room. 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:05.240 Stop us up in the attic. 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:08.919 Stop it. It was a separate wrapping room for Christmas, 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:12.600 just for Christmas. Now, why did she not want to 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:14.560 use the regular wrapping room for Christmas? 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:17.920 This is a question I've never asked her, But I 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:23.160 would write these things because Christmas was such a beloved 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:25.720 holiday for my family, Like I think she had so 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:29.320 much stuff for Christmas or that she put up there. 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:31.680 And also she needed the space, I think because my 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:34.520 mom would always like she shopped all of my dad's 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:38.920 gifts for all of his cast and crews. So she 0:07:39.000 --> 0:07:44.120 did all that personally, yeah she ds oh yeah, like 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:48.160 that time of year, I feel like, but she never 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:49.000 seemed stressed. 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:51.960 Could she just go into a store like Julia Roberts 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:54.760 like and they would just like bow down, like she's here, 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:55.640 she's coming. 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:59.679 Oh, I'm sure Eurie's or whatever. I bet she loves Geary. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:04.520 I could see her mom about curious Definitely, definitely that. 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:08.120 Feels like her. Maybe Neiman Marcus. 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:10.920 Yeah, all this sounds right. But she wouldn't let them 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:12.480 wrap it. She wrapped it herself. 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:16.640 Yeah, Oh my gosh, I would never if I it 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:21.800 was of means of the spellings, I would never cook 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:23.160 or wrap a gift ever. 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:28.040 Again, somebody would do love all my wrapping. 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:30.559 Now, I'm not going to say that. As the years 0:08:30.600 --> 0:08:33.680 went on, she didn't start to have people there. 0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:35.640 Helping her helping, but she. 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:38.720 She would oh everything, and it would be like a 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:41.439 lineup of her. And like if someone would come to 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:45.199 wrap gifts so that she could tell them exactly how 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:47.040 she wanted it, she would make the sample one and 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:47.760 then they would whoa. 0:08:47.840 --> 0:08:49.400 And can she do all kinds of bows? 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:53.840 Oh god, her bow game is off the charts, like it's. 0:08:54.280 --> 0:08:56.920 Her bow game is so good. I've never seen anything 0:08:56.960 --> 0:08:59.520 like it. She can make little ones or big ones, 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:01.160 and she has the technique that she does. 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:01.600 Whoa. 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:03.920 You tried to teach me and I actually wasn't good 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:06.640 at it so much so that I've gone the opposite 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:08.439 way and I do stick on bos. 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:10.600 But yeah, You're lucky if you're getting that for me, 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:13.000 because really, for me, that's going to ruin the chance 0:09:13.040 --> 0:09:15.280 that I can reuse the box and the gift bag. 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:18.560 So it's like you're probably not. 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:20.959 Getting a bow, and you're definitely not getting like, you know, 0:09:21.000 --> 0:09:23.000 the little gift tag that comes on the bag. I'm 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:24.520 not going to write on that because then I can't 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:27.360 reuse that. I could just write it and cut it, 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:28.240 cut it off. 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:31.439 I do not like wrapping at all. Now. 0:09:31.440 --> 0:09:33.320 I used to do gift bags, but then I started 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:35.600 to not like those. So now at home Goods you 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:41.320 can buy the box wrapped, meaning it's like TV style, 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:43.640 you know, on TV they just nicked up the lid. 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:46.640 They sell those at home. It's probably more than the 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:51.280 gift Home Goods and they're like twelve dollars, which is 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:54.679 probably more than half the gifts I'm giving. But whatever. 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:57.800 So yeah, my niece is getting like a five dollars 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:01.600 toy and a twelve dollars box, but whatever, Okay, who 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:02.679 cares about me? Back to this. 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:07.319 I'm with you because I saw so much wrapping growing up. 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:09.559 I think it like, put me on the other end 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:12.720 of it, and I can wrap if I really tried to, 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:17.200 but I choose not to. So yeah, I'm fucking scotch 0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:19.360 tape like not folded edges and she just looks like 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:23.040 a hot mess. Some one would suspect. And also up 0:10:23.040 --> 0:10:25.920 in that attict, my mom had it like a barber. 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:29.240 Shop, no yeah, for people to get their hair cut. 0:10:29.760 --> 0:10:32.920 So it was a beauty salon slash barber shop. 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:35.120 With a professional would come in. 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:38.080 Well, like my mom and dad would get their hair 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:39.840 done at home, like you know when you have a 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:42.439 hair stylist, like make a house call or something. Yeah, 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:46.240 blow out. So she put in like the proper washing 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:49.120 bowl that you win it slans. But also she put 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:51.200 in a barber chair and everything because my dad he 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:55.240 had this barber named Little Joe for years and my 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:57.959 dad up until his dath had the best head of hair. 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:01.440 He had to have his hair cut like every two weeks. 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:02.120 So much hair. 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:07.160 So yeah, so she put that up there, wow in 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:09.640 the attic. But wasn't it not a creepy attic. This 0:11:09.760 --> 0:11:11.320 is a full done attic. 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:15.640 It's fully done. Yeah wow, but like done. 0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:19.720 Okay, okay, let's go to the tree. Let's start with 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:22.079 the tree. Where did the tree go? 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:29.840 It went in the formal living room. Well is it formal? H? 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:32.840 I think there was a hidden TV, which makes it 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:35.520 not formal. You know what? There were way too I 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:38.480 don't know the terminal room. There were too many living 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:40.040 rooms in that house, so I don't even know what 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:40.640 to call them all. 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:43.440 Okay, so let's room and just give it a name. 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:46.520 Let's call it the living room. 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:47.959 Was it where you came in the front door? 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:51.679 Would you in the front door, like in the foyer, 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:54.960 you would see right into this little living room that 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:58.199 nobody ever really used. But it is right the backyard. 0:11:58.240 --> 0:12:00.720 You could see a whole view of it. She probably 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:02.720 put a tree in there. I don't really remember. But 0:12:02.920 --> 0:12:05.199 then you would make a rate and go down the hallway. 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:07.160 My dad's office would be on the left, and then 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:08.800 you would come to the living room that we had 0:12:08.840 --> 0:12:12.000 Christmas eve at and Christmas every year, and then through 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:13.960 that door would be the projection room. 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:17.439 Oh gosh, so many doors. Real tree or fake tree? 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:21.320 Real tree? So I never grew up with fake trees. 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:23.640 I didn't understand them till my friends like taught me. 0:12:23.800 --> 0:12:26.600 Like, so, somebody cut down a twenty five foot tree 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:30.280 and brought that thing in, dropping the pine needles all 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:33.800 over the beautiful floor and set that puppy up. 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.680 And was there some sort of a tree skirt? I 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:40.240 would imagine your mom would never see the watering thing. 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:43.319 She would not, No, it must have been covered. I 0:12:43.840 --> 0:12:45.040 was there a. 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:46.040 Presence all around it? 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:49.520 Were these show trees or like you could actually put 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:52.080 presents under it, and like on Christmas morning you would 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:54.440 actually sit by this tree. 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:57.560 We would sit by this tree and there would be 0:12:57.600 --> 0:13:02.000 presents all around it, and we would always delineate like 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:05.800 everybody's area, so like it'd be like my mom had 0:13:05.800 --> 0:13:09.559 a section, my dad, my brother Randy, me like. 0:13:10.120 --> 0:13:13.640 My goodness, And it was kind of. 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:17.200 Cool because the bigger the house we moved to, the 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:20.679 bigger the tree we went moved to, like it had 0:13:20.720 --> 0:13:23.000 to look the part, so like our present area got 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:24.400 bigger and bigger, So that was good. 0:13:24.800 --> 0:13:27.840 So did Okay? I just don't even know where to begin. 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:29.520 So on Christmas morning? 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:34.280 Was their staff that worked on Christmas making bacon and eggs? 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:36.360 And was it just the four of you or did 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:39.040 you ever have like grandparents and cousins and uncles and 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:40.680 ants join in? 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:43.760 Okay, are we skipping Christmas Eve? We'll go back. 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:44.600 Oh, no, we're going back. 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:47.280 No no, no, no, no, We're going all over because I'm not 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:51.040 even nearly done. Okay, okay, So Christmas morning, my family 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:56.560 really believes in tradition and the tradition, however, it is 0:13:56.600 --> 0:14:01.760 different to everybody. So breakfast, we always had Natenles ordered, 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:06.920 which is a very famous deli in la in Beverly Hills. 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:09.720 My mom would order Nate Nows and we would have 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:12.880 like a fish plotter, what do you call it? It 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:18.920 would have sturgeon And are you Jewish? Yes? Half or 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:20.200 full full? 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:23.360 Oh my gosh, but this is all about Christmas. 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:26.360 We had a little Hanukah. We'll get to that, but 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:27.360 is Christmas. 0:14:27.440 --> 0:14:31.880 Christmas was the one more because of like less religion 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:34.240 to it, but more because of because my. 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:36.760 Brother and I would say it, you know at times, 0:14:36.760 --> 0:14:38.720 like kids at school are saying to us, like how 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:41.120 can you celebrate Christmas? And you guys are Jewish, like 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:43.520 what you know? And we would bully us, and my 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:46.880 mom was like, you know, let them know that it's 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:49.400 about a holiday and being with the family and about 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:52.440 tradition and it's not about religion to us. 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:54.280 What was your high school if you went if you 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:56.520 went to high school? Was it Beverly Hills High. 0:14:56.680 --> 0:14:58.440 I went to Barborough. I went to. 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:01.440 So you went to private Okay. 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:04.920 Got it? And then JT D before I D did 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:08.040 Randy go. Randy went to Brutland and then he transferred 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:11.160 to Montclair, which is in the valley which no longer exists. 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:13.160 But a lot of my friends went to. 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.480 Okay, back to Okay, Okay. 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:22.040 Bread, fish, plantter, bacon, pancakes, the basic stuff. 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:27.880 No, no bagels, fish, flatter, the spreads, you know, like 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:29.840 the cream, cheese. 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:32.320 The lock spread, all that we're not getting like a Cinna. 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:38.000 Slice, tomatoes slice. So this is not it's a little 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:42.800 bit of a Jewish Christmas Okay, here we go. Yeah. 0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:46.880 And my mom always had this loose sight or acrylic bagel. 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:51.760 It looked like you know, a paper towel holder, yep, 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:54.120 but it was a smaller one and it was this 0:15:54.280 --> 0:15:59.760 beautiful like acrylic loose site one and the bagels cutting 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:03.280 off would go on it and stack and pull them off, 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:05.160 and she would have one for the tops one for 0:16:05.160 --> 0:16:07.400 the bottoms, because she always believed people either like the 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:10.280 top of a bagel or the bottom bagels were very important. 0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:14.400 I'm sorry, stop. Yeah, Number one not toasted. I'm just 0:16:14.440 --> 0:16:17.640 so toasty I can't My head starts to explode during 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:23.040 these conversations. Okay, so there was two paper towel holders, 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:26.720 so you didn't take the whole bagel. You'd take your 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:29.000 top or your bottom, but you could have more than one. 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:31.520 Of course, I'm not sure I know the. 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:34.480 Difference between a top and a bottom bagel. I'm kind 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:36.000 of like they're interesting. 0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:41.880 Cut it off the bottom one. It's a little bit slusiers, 0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:43.440 a little curvier. 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:46.160 Now, what if Homegirl wants like an English muffin? Is 0:16:46.200 --> 0:16:46.920 that happening or no? 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:50.000 Well, I guess you could take what if I wanted 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:52.080 one of the hundred drawers? 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:56.240 Is there somebody that I could say I want pancakes? 0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:57.680 Or no, that's not happening. 0:16:58.640 --> 0:17:02.080 I mean, technically yes, but we didn't operate that way, 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:04.639 like I never felt you know me, I'm not going 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:07.359 to ask anyone one for anything. But if I had 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:09.200 a friend sleepover and we wanted something, we would just 0:17:09.240 --> 0:17:09.919 go into the kitchen. 0:17:09.960 --> 0:17:12.040 This isn't a white house, I understand. This is spelling 0:17:12.040 --> 0:17:13.520 man or not the white House where you can just 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:14.520 get whatever you want. 0:17:14.880 --> 0:17:18.840 But of course, if someone really like wanted it. There's 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:30.680 people there, yes. 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:30.400 Okay, So now was anyone sleeping over just the four 0:17:30.440 --> 0:17:32.160 of you? Were there ever? Relatives? 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:36.359 What about your dad's brother, going way way back, Yes, 0:17:36.560 --> 0:17:38.840 there were times when Uncle Danny would come out, my 0:17:38.920 --> 0:17:42.400 dad's brother. I think Uncle Sam had come out. 0:17:43.520 --> 0:17:45.720 Uncle Sam, that's pretty good. 0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:54.240 My cousins who were Uncle Sam's kids and then their kids, 0:17:54.240 --> 0:17:56.000 so it would be like our second cousins. They would 0:17:56.040 --> 0:18:00.200 come buy sometimes but usually later in the day and like. 0:18:00.240 --> 0:18:02.200 Okay, so not for the morning, for the morning. 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:06.760 It was just family. And going way back before he passed, 0:18:06.800 --> 0:18:10.080 it was my mom's father who we call. He would 0:18:10.080 --> 0:18:10.720 always come over. 0:18:12.640 --> 0:18:15.680 Now are we are we Christmas Eve people, Christmas Eve 0:18:15.680 --> 0:18:19.280 dinner people? Or are we Christmas Day people? Or we 0:18:19.320 --> 0:18:20.119 all the above? 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:23.840 What are we the above? Because my parents would grow 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:26.520 like the most epic Christmas Eve party that was known 0:18:26.600 --> 0:18:29.320 all over town on Christmas Eve like wavy. 0:18:29.160 --> 0:18:32.400 Like yeah, but it was celebrities got to come. 0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:35.480 They would, but it was on a smaller level like. 0:18:35.400 --> 0:18:39.800 You, John Forsyth, what are we talking? Oh? Yeah? 0:18:39.800 --> 0:18:43.200 It depended on the year. And I always wondered later 0:18:43.280 --> 0:18:45.440 on in life, like I wish I could go back 0:18:45.440 --> 0:18:48.199 and ask my dad. I guess I could ask my mom, like, 0:18:48.920 --> 0:18:51.840 does depend on like a good standing with your like 0:18:52.560 --> 0:18:54.640 you have your shows on if one of your stars 0:18:54.680 --> 0:18:57.440 is not behaving as well and then they don't get 0:18:57.440 --> 0:18:58.720 that invite that your day. 0:18:58.560 --> 0:19:03.880 Era awset not to come after she left Charlie's Angels. 0:19:04.320 --> 0:19:06.560 I'm sure not. It was very like in the but 0:19:06.600 --> 0:19:10.000 it was more about Heathercklayer. I feel like Heather. I 0:19:10.000 --> 0:19:13.760 wonder if she ever came. He loved her, but maybe 0:19:13.760 --> 0:19:16.880 she had plans. Also, most people had plans right right 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:19.760 rights call and they have an epic party at the 0:19:19.760 --> 0:19:20.920 manner you should cancel him. 0:19:20.840 --> 0:19:22.919 But you know, I'm Rocado Mantelbon. 0:19:23.720 --> 0:19:27.080 Oh, I'm sure they were very close. They were, Oh 0:19:27.080 --> 0:19:30.280 my god, I'm very close. And all of the executives 0:19:30.280 --> 0:19:32.840 from ABC and then Fox when nine. 0:19:32.760 --> 0:19:35.080 Times, oh wow, okay on. 0:19:34.960 --> 0:19:38.960 What network he was with, and then family friends would 0:19:38.960 --> 0:19:41.760 always come. As my brother and I got older, we 0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:44.680 were allowed to bring all of our friends. If we're dating, 0:19:44.920 --> 0:19:45.800 there would be So. 0:19:45.800 --> 0:19:48.880 This is Christmas Eve dinner, a catered. 0:19:48.720 --> 0:19:53.280 Christ not dinner. It's a party, a party Christmas. 0:19:53.359 --> 0:19:56.160 Appetizer's not a sit down buffet. 0:19:56.320 --> 0:19:59.440 Correct past there would be a buffet, but the buffet 0:19:59.760 --> 0:20:04.960 was only like a seafood mega seafood tower and paviar. 0:20:07.400 --> 0:20:10.440 I'm not talking anything like any little thing of caviar. 0:20:10.520 --> 0:20:13.960 And if you know caviar, it's a fortune. And a 0:20:14.000 --> 0:20:17.560 tiny tin that you have like four bites and can 0:20:17.560 --> 0:20:21.320 feed one person is like two hundred dollars. My mom 0:20:21.359 --> 0:20:25.240 would have the biggest can. It had to have been, 0:20:25.280 --> 0:20:27.280 and she had multiple ones that they were replaced on 0:20:27.359 --> 0:20:30.240 the It would be a big caviar holder and it 0:20:30.320 --> 0:20:32.880 was either in silver or crystal, and there would be 0:20:32.920 --> 0:20:38.240 like crushed ice and then the caviar tin placed, and 0:20:38.240 --> 0:20:40.800 then all the condiments for the caviar, and then bleanies 0:20:40.840 --> 0:20:45.439 and toast points and the cat. My mouth's watering. I 0:20:45.480 --> 0:20:47.680 love gosh, see this is all food. 0:20:47.720 --> 0:20:52.040 I don't want any of it, but very fancy bear. 0:20:52.160 --> 0:20:55.280 It would have been pissed, like I would have liked this. 0:20:55.320 --> 0:20:58.040