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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. This is very exciting.

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Speaker 1: I love our episodes of the Manner. And here we are,

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Speaker 1: Amy and I are here doing a very special edition

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Speaker 1: called Holidays at the Manner.

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Speaker 2: Yes, this is a very special episode because I get

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Speaker 2: to ask all my many, many holiday Manner questions. Shall

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Speaker 2: I begin?

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Speaker 1: You shall where? I feel like it should go back

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Speaker 1: before the Manner though, because my parents still did epic

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Speaker 1: stuff even when it wasn't bad. But the other house, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You're throwing me a curveball. I was not prepared for.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, I'm gonna jump in with one.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: It's my memory as far back as I can go

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Speaker 1: thinking of spelling memories around Christmas. It is the year

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Speaker 1: I was five years old that my dad had snow

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Speaker 1: made in the backyard.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, this is worth the worth the pivot.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah. And before there was Kardashian, there was spelling.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I think nineteen seventy eight, nineteen seventy nine,

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Speaker 1: I was five six and it wasn't done then. Now

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Speaker 1: you can find companies that come to your house in

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Speaker 1: close snow, and no one did it then. And my

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Speaker 1: dad found someone who had worked on one of his

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Speaker 1: sets for a movie where they had to have snow

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Speaker 1: and had them come to the house. And it wasn't

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Speaker 1: a big area, but it was a little area and

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Speaker 1: we made a snowman and my dad. There's a great

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Speaker 1: photo I'll show you guys, my dad holding me and

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Speaker 1: I'm dressed in my you know, winter sweater and snow boots.

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Speaker 1: And it was probably like eighty degrees out and okay.

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Speaker 2: The party or just snow for you?

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Speaker 1: It was just for me.

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Speaker 2: Was Randy Bourne? No, if you were.

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Speaker 1: Five, Randy must I'm thinking he might have just been born,

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Speaker 1: But no, that wouldn't make sense because they would have

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Speaker 1: come out with a little holding bright born. He was

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Speaker 1: born in October, so maybe it was nineteen seventy seven.

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Speaker 2: Then was there a sky slope or just snope?

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Speaker 1: Not this one, Okay, that's later. This was recreated years later.

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Speaker 1: Randy would be involved. This one was just like a

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Speaker 1: little tiny area with a snowman, my dad smoking his

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Speaker 1: pipe holding me. Yeah, and that house snow mittens. Where

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Speaker 1: was that house on Mapleton where the manor is the

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Speaker 1: manner but on the north side it's still there. It's

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Speaker 2: It's really close. Yeah, how about was that house ten thousand?

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Speaker 1: He said, Boulevard twelve thousand?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, so that's really where you grew up.

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Speaker 2: It really is, And snow came back there later. Did

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Speaker 2: snow ever go to the manor No? I know, so

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Speaker 2: snow only came What was the Mapleton house called?

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Speaker 1: She didn't name it?

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Speaker 2: Ooh, it didn't own candy. Come on, speaking of the

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Speaker 2: holidays and your mom being named Candy, Like, does she

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Speaker 2: love the holidays?

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Speaker 1: My mom loves the holidays? Oh my gosh, specifically wintertime,

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Speaker 1: like Christmas. Okay, that was that was her big one.

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Speaker 2: So Halloween was sort of a big.

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Speaker 1: We decorated, but not no, no, no, no Christmas. She went

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Speaker 1: all epically out.

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Speaker 2: Now she went.

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Speaker 1: Back to the snow. Okay, when we did come back back,

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Speaker 1: when Rampy was like five, we moved it down to

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Speaker 1: the tennis court and there was a slope, wow, climb

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Speaker 1: in the back a bit, but it was a sledding hill.

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Speaker 2: This is pretty iconic.

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Speaker 3: Did your mom break the rule that I break, which

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Speaker 2: Or did she wait and then did a team of

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Speaker 2: tons of people making it happen all in one day.

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Speaker 1: Well, when he was alive, her best friend back in

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Speaker 1: the day, Nolan Miller, who was also the costume designer

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Speaker 1: Dynasty and Epic, like, he would always help her. They

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Speaker 1: uncle Nolan always. But it would and this is like

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Speaker 1: They would spend a day the two of them, and

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Speaker 1: But once it went to the manor, it was a

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Speaker 1: a twenty five foot to tree?

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Speaker 1: Does that sound right? A twenty five foot tree?

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Speaker 2: have like a six foot tree.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So Brahm, was she like super involved, like that

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Speaker 2: And that nutcracker there, or was she like, hey, just

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Speaker 2: have at it, Nolan Miller and team.

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Speaker 1: No, my mom is a virgo, a double virgo, and

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Speaker 1: she's a perfectionist, but in a good way. She has

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Speaker 1: great style. So she yeah, everything. She had to watch

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Speaker 1: everything where it was going and.

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Speaker 2: Was all this stuff stored.

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Speaker 3: Let's go to the Manor. Now we'll leave Mapleton for

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Speaker 3: a minute. Was everything stored there or was it like

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Speaker 2: And it would come in trucks.

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Speaker 1: So at the Manor, specifically, there was one floor of

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Speaker 1: the Manor, the very top floor. One would consider it

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Speaker 1: an attic, okay, but it was not because it.

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Speaker 2: Was almost like a storage facility.

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Speaker 1: It was the same length as each mean the second yeah,

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Speaker 1: So it would be like, okay, if let's say you

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Speaker 1: had a fifty thousand square foot act Okay, So it

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Speaker 1: was that, and she had it designed in different areas.

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Speaker 1: So she had storage up there, but she had holiday storage,

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Speaker 1: she had Christmas storage. Everything like it would be as

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Speaker 1: if you went to a storage unit. But it was

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Speaker 1: all beautifuf gun and labeled. And she has books like literally,

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Speaker 1: I guess we can't say bibles anymore.

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Speaker 2: Wait, books of what's in it?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: WHOA?

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Speaker 3: So like you take the Christmas book and it would

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Speaker 3: be like, here's all the nutcrackers, here's all the bows,

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Speaker 3: wrapping paper. Well, that would probably be in the wrapping room.

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Speaker 3: Here's the santas, here's the trees, here's the garden keeper.

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Speaker 2: But for rapper keeper, crapper keep it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, now you everything, and you could like it was

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Speaker 1: a catalog basically, now the Christmas wrapping room, because you

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Speaker 1: know there was in my wrapping room downstairs, Christmas wrapping room.

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Speaker 1: Stop us up in the attic.

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Speaker 2: Stop it. It was a separate wrapping room for Christmas,

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Speaker 2: just for Christmas. Now, why did she not want to

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Speaker 2: use the regular wrapping room for Christmas?

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Speaker 1: This is a question I've never asked her, But I

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Speaker 1: would write these things because Christmas was such a beloved

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Speaker 1: holiday for my family, Like I think she had so

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Speaker 1: much stuff for Christmas or that she put up there.

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Speaker 1: And also she needed the space, I think because my

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Speaker 1: mom would always like she shopped all of my dad's

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Speaker 1: did all that personally, yeah she ds oh yeah, like

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Speaker 1: that time of year, I feel like, but she never

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Speaker 2: Could she just go into a store like Julia Roberts

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Speaker 2: like and they would just like bow down, like she's here,

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm sure Eurie's or whatever. I bet she loves Geary.

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Speaker 1: I could see her mom about curious Definitely, definitely that.

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Speaker 2: Feels like her. Maybe Neiman Marcus.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all this sounds right. But she wouldn't let them

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my gosh, I would never if I it

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Speaker 3: was of means of the spellings, I would never cook

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Speaker 3: or wrap a gift ever.

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Speaker 2: Again, somebody would do love all my wrapping.

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Speaker 1: Now, I'm not going to say that. As the years

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Speaker 1: went on, she didn't start to have people there.

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Speaker 2: Helping her helping, but she.

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Speaker 1: She would oh everything, and it would be like a

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Speaker 1: wrap gifts so that she could tell them exactly how

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Speaker 1: then they would whoa.

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Speaker 2: And can she do all kinds of bows?

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Speaker 1: Oh god, her bow game is off the charts, like it's.

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Speaker 1: Her bow game is so good. I've never seen anything

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Speaker 1: and she has the technique that she does.

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Speaker 2: Whoa.

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Speaker 1: You tried to teach me and I actually wasn't good

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Speaker 2: But yeah, You're lucky if you're getting that for me,

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Speaker 2: because really, for me, that's going to ruin the chance

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Speaker 2: that I can reuse the box and the gift bag.

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Speaker 2: So it's like you're probably not.

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Speaker 3: Getting a bow, and you're definitely not getting like, you know,

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Speaker 3: the little gift tag that comes on the bag. I'm

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Speaker 3: not going to write on that because then I can't

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Speaker 3: reuse that. I could just write it and cut it,

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Speaker 2: I do not like wrapping at all. Now.

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Speaker 3: I used to do gift bags, but then I started

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Speaker 3: to not like those. So now at home Goods you

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Speaker 3: you know, on TV they just nicked up the lid.

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Speaker 2: They sell those at home. It's probably more than the

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Speaker 2: gift Home Goods and they're like twelve dollars, which is

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Speaker 2: probably more than half the gifts I'm giving. But whatever.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, my niece is getting like a five dollars

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Speaker 2: toy and a twelve dollars box, but whatever, Okay, who

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Speaker 1: I'm with you because I saw so much wrapping growing up.

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Speaker 1: I think it like, put me on the other end

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Speaker 1: but I choose not to. So yeah, I'm fucking scotch

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Speaker 1: tape like not folded edges and she just looks like

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Speaker 1: a hot mess. Some one would suspect. And also up

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Speaker 1: in that attict, my mom had it like a barber.

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Speaker 2: Shop, no yeah, for people to get their hair cut.

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Speaker 1: So it was a beauty salon slash barber shop.

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Speaker 2: With a professional would come in.

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Speaker 1: Well, like my mom and dad would get their hair

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Speaker 1: hair stylist, like make a house call or something. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: bowl that you win it slans. But also she put

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Speaker 1: in a barber chair and everything because my dad he

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Speaker 1: had this barber named Little Joe for years and my

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Speaker 1: dad up until his dath had the best head of hair.

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Speaker 1: He had to have his hair cut like every two weeks.

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Speaker 1: So much hair.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, so she put that up there, wow in

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Speaker 2: the attic. But wasn't it not a creepy attic. This

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Speaker 2: is a full done attic.

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Speaker 1: It's fully done. Yeah wow, but like done.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, let's go to the tree. Let's start with

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Speaker 2: the tree. Where did the tree go?

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Speaker 1: It went in the formal living room. Well is it formal? H?

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Speaker 1: I think there was a hidden TV, which makes it

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Speaker 1: not formal. You know what? There were way too I

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Speaker 1: don't know the terminal room. There were too many living

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, but this is all about Christmas.

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Speaker 2: So you went to private Okay.

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Speaker 2: Is there somebody that I could say I want pancakes?

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Speaker 1: But of course, if someone really like wanted it. There's

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Speaker 1: What are we the above? Because my parents would grow

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Speaker 2: Era awset not to come after she left Charlie's Angels.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure not. It was very like in the but

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Speaker 3: Like what's I'm sure we've never had a blow up

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Speaker 2: What kind of outdoor?

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Speaker 1: like the fun like yeah, like I don't know, blow

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Speaker 2: I don't know what's happening with our outdoor lighting situation?

442
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 2: Are we doing that?

443
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 1: I feel like that wasn't a big issue.

444
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 3: Not like I don't know, you know Caruso, you know

445
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 3: the like, so Caruso owns them all and his house

446
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:20,120
Speaker 3: in Brentwood is lit up like you would not believe.

447
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 3: But the spellings were not doing that. So was there

448
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,880
Speaker 3: any that was a thing back then? Like I don't

449
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 3: think it was like it is now, Like those people

450
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 3: in the Palisades that are paying ten thousands right to

451
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:31,880
Speaker 3: light their houses, right.

452
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 1: But imagine at the time a fifty six thousand square

453
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: foot house to light it on the outside. How much

454
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 1: would that have been?

455
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 2: Probably a lot, I mean okay, So what about like

456
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 2: your room? Did you have a tree in your room

457
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,199
Speaker 2: or was there only was this in the downstairs? Is

458
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:48,360
Speaker 2: this the common rooms?

459
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 1: We always grew up having like a little many. I

460
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 1: guess we did have a little any fake tree that

461
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 1: we would pull out of storage every in your rooms. Yeah.

462
00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,880
Speaker 2: Now, what about the candy bowls? Are they immediately being

463
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 2: switched to holiday candies, holiday kisses, candy canes? What are

464
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 2: we doing?

465
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:11,919
Speaker 1: Super good question? Duh? Of course she did. She swapped

466
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: them out for red, you know, silver, gold, and green. Okay,

467
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: of course, so the candy kisses, the little many like hershees, yeah, everything,

468
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 1: And I even believe she was. I think I've told

469
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 1: you this before. The silver almonds were a big deal,

470
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: always there a year long in big candy dishes. She

471
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 1: would swap those out and there would be red, white,

472
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:35,640
Speaker 1: and green ones.

473
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 2: I think, oh wow, Yeah.

474
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 3: What about a dessert spread, like is there homemade fudge

475
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 3: and brownies and a.

476
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 2: Log roll a mule? What is the things called? You

477
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 2: know what I'm talking about?

478
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:49,120
Speaker 3: Those cakes that are like a log, Those are great

479
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 3: was there some baker doing all the baking.

480
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 1: Later on. I mean I'm talking a party. That's gosh,

481
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: because the part would change and grow and they would

482
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 1: start in that living room where there would oh my gosh. Okay,

483
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 1: so there was a Okay, I'll talk about deserts. Okay, Wait,

484
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 1: I have so much to tell you. So I remember Stella,

485
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: who is now sixteen. I think she was like a

486
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 1: year old. We went to one and Liam was two.

487
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 1: We went to a party at the manor and she

488
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 1: had a dessert room. So remember the room, Remember the

489
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 1: breakfast room we've talked about, Yeah, where there's a huge

490
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 1: rown table and it's not like everybody else's breakfast room

491
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: is still a buzzer under the table to tell them

492
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:44,679
Speaker 1: when to come in and out to take stuff. She

493
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:48,880
Speaker 1: turned that entire room into the sweet room, like the

494
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 1: candy room, and she had desserts everywhere. And I think

495
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 1: there was a train going through that was filled with

496
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 1: like these amazing it looked like something.

497
00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 2: I mean, I didn't think of trains.

498
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: Whoa green that was like filled. It was like on

499
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 1: a chocolate mountain. It was beautiful.

500
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:09,120
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it was. This is in the dessert room.

501
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 2: And now was this going on a month long or

502
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 2: just for the Christmas party?

503
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 1: It was just for that would have been cool, just

504
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: for the Christmas Eve party, just Eve, not Christmas gone

505
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 1: by Christmas. Yeah, and then bolt like you know, there

506
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: was candy jars everywhere and the guests could you know

507
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:28,919
Speaker 1: taste Oh but there were.

508
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 2: Going about to go backs to go could we take?

509
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 1: Yeah? And I think they were stamped the Manor a

510
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: Christmas at the Manor or something like that.

511
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it was gosh, okay.

512
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: There were always chirllers, even like back in the day when.

513
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 2: It was squirllers, I didn't even think of this. So

514
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 2: so carollers would show up at the party and it's

515
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 2: you know, oh yeah, god rest you marry gentlemen.

516
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh I can't. And my mom, who is

517
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 1: a really good singer, would always join in towards the

518
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 1: end with them. That was always we were excited, like

519
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,640
Speaker 1: and as we got older teens were like, okay, wait

520
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: for and my mom's going to join in, And then

521
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: she eventually did and we're like, yeah, yeah, there was that,

522
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 1: oh my gosh. And we would always everyone would kind

523
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: of deck out for the Christmas Eve part with like

524
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 1: their outfits. Oh yeah, and there was someone passing champagne

525
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:29,120
Speaker 1: in beautiful Crystal, oh the past champagne. Because you would

526
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: start talking and everything. And this obviously didn't affect me

527
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 1: when I was younger, but once I was twenty one

528
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: and there with my friends, oh my gosh, we she

529
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,399
Speaker 1: and she would just come by and you'd be talking

530
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: to everyone and she would just slip around next you

531
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: and just fill it up, so you never really knew,

532
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, you're like, whoa wasted? Yeah,

533
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 1: and my nanny like, did you okay?

534
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 2: Keep going? Keep goingep going.

535
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 4: Oh.

536
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 1: And my nanny would always either be there for our

537
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 1: whole lives, during Christmas or when we were older, she

538
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: would always come for Chris. She would stay for Christmas,

539
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 1: said Christmas Eve, and she always wore like a Christmas

540
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: sweater and jingle ball like ear rings, and we would

541
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 1: She'd always bring her own stuff, and she wanted to

542
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: bloody Mary and she'd bring her bloody Mary mix and

543
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 1: she would hand it to the bartender there and be like,

544
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 1: can you put this behind? This is mine? Yeah, And

545
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:24,399
Speaker 1: I just remember she was like eighty two at the time, No, eighty.

546
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 2: Two, eighty two oh my gosh, like.

547
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,439
Speaker 1: Eighty two, and I remember her being there and we

548
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 1: were like, oh my gosh, in her twenties and my

549
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,440
Speaker 1: brother and me and all of our friends and we're

550
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 1: like Nanny, Nanny, and she was like drinking with us

551
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: and getting drunk with us. And then oh my gosh,

552
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: we're like Nanny, you gotta smoke weed.

553
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 2: With oh my thank god.

554
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 1: In her eighties and she was like okay. And it

555
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: was like such a fun thing, like I was her

556
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: daughter truly and like right of course to have that

557
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 1: full circle. And my friends had grown up with Nanny

558
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: since we were young, and they were like, oh my god,

559
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: we're now adults and were partake and and he's like

560
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: smoking with us. It was like crazy, gosh. There was

561
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,239
Speaker 1: an infamous fight that happened at one of the Christmas Eve,

562
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: probably between when I had the bad boyfriend.

563
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 2: Okay, this is.

564
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 1: It is and he.

565
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 2: Who did he fight? Luke?

566
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 1: Luke fought him?

567
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and Jason, I'm like, get out of here, man,

568
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 2: fight Jason broke it up. What caused it?

569
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: It was the way he treated me. It was just

570
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 1: like it was like everyone had had enough. And Luke

571
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: was truly like a big brother to me when I

572
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: was young, and he was like he and I started

573
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: we had a period and we used to talk about

574
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 1: it that on set, like we started like not talking

575
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: for a while because he was like, I couldn't watch

576
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: you go through this and it's like your family to me,

577
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: and like seeing this guy the way he tweated you

578
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 1: just wasn't okay. And I couldn't stand by anymore. And

579
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 1: this happened after the Christmas thing because I would say, like, please,

580
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: don't say anything to him. They tried to have like

581
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 1: an intervention on set, like to get me out of

582
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 1: this relationship, and you know, when you're young, you don't

583
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 1: listen to people, and it was bad. So anyway, I

584
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 1: brought Nick to this guy to who's fine. Now we're

585
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: on speaking terms. He's been sober for like over twenty years.

586
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 2: Okay. So this is Christmas Eve or Christmas Day.

587
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: This is Christmas Eve, and this is.

588
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,239
Speaker 2: The Christmas Eve party, and this is early nineties.

589
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 1: In the nineties, and Luke and Jason were there and

590
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: I came in with Nick. And I'm sure my parents

591
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: didn't like none of my friends liked him. Some people

592
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: would tolerate him just because it was out of respect

593
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: to me, but Jason, you know, you could probably like

594
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 1: Jason was more like neutral even though he didn't like him,

595
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: and which sh and high and very Jason, you know,

596
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 1: yeah kind of you know, I'm gonna do.

597
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 2: This, just like he did to Colin in the episode

598
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 2: we talked about recently.

599
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, but Luke couldn't hide it, and if Nick would

600
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: say hi to him, he would just look away and

601
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 1: walk away, like and at the times that you know,

602
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: a teen girl, I was like, oh my god, like please,

603
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 1: I'm going to get in trouble when I get home

604
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: and I if my friends aren't nice to him. It

605
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:23,959
Speaker 1: was that stupid mentality. And I don't know what exactly happened,

606
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: but I think Nick approached Luke to be like, you know,

607
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: what's up, Like like he didn't get like, why don't

608
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: your friends like me? What are you telling them? He

609
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: would say, right, right, of course they see it. I'm

610
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 1: coming to work in tears, like there's so many it's

611
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: they see it. Anyway. I don't know what happened next,

612
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:48,479
Speaker 1: but there was literally like a brawl and Jason had

613
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: to break it up and they went outside, and it

614
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: was awful because Nick was like I'm leaving. I'm out

615
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: of here, and I was crying. I'm like, please don't leave,

616
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: Please don't leave. I'm sorry. My friends are made and

617
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: it was not a good situation. And then Luke and

618
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 1: I s yeah Christmas Eve and Luke and I didn't.

619
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 1: I mean, in all fairness, like Nick instigated it, but

620
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 1: Luke was like, loved me so much. He was like,

621
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: I can't take this anymore. I can't watch you treat

622
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 1: her this way.

623
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 2: Oh my, did your dad and mom know this was happening?

624
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: They had to have There was only like forty people

625
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: at this party, Like it was crazy. It was really embarrassing,

626
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: and I, yeah, as my family does that. We went

627
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: back and celebrated Christmas and was like okay, everyone just okay,

628
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 1: let's move on. But Luke and I didn't talk for

629
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 1: months on set and yeah, because he I was pissed.

630
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: I was upset. Yeah, and then of course he was

631
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 1: right and he was just trying to protect me and

632
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 1: save me from this. And yeah, I'm young, but that's

633
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 1: the infamous fight that went down on Christmas Eve one year. Wow,

634
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: star sudd It fight.

635
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 2: Does Santa come to these parties?

636
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 1: I mean he came from me one year and I'm

637
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 1: just saying, no, I'm just kidding. But like a year

638
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 1: or two after that, when I was single, my dad

639
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: would always like court. I would say, like new talent

640
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: that he was trying to show, so they would come,

641
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 1: this is before Sex and the City. But John Corbett

642
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 1: keep oh good one, and he and I totally hit

643
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 1: it off, and I remember having kiss with him Christmas Eve.

644
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 2: Yeah this is before Bo Derek.

645
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, you kissed John Corbett before he was Aiden? Correct,

646
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 3: But he was John corbetty.

647
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: I mean he had been on what was it North Exposure?

648
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 2: Northern Exposure?

649
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 1: Was Northern Exposed?

650
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, so he was a big star already, and my

651
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 2: dad like big TV star.

652
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 1: Yeah. My dad wanted to use him in something, and

653
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 1: I think he never did because I think.

654
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,800
Speaker 2: Sex and sex something.

655
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I was like, I never could tell anyone you.

656
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 2: Had a kiss with John Corbett. What kind of kiss?

657
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 1: A kind feel so foolish because I was kind of

658
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 1: dating but not dating Noah who was Vince Young?

659
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

660
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 1: And because of that, like John would call me and

661
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: we were SOPs to go on a date, and I

662
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 1: didn't reciprocate because I was like.

663
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 2: Oh, it's not with this kiss. What kind of kiss?

664
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:46,439
Speaker 1: It was a full kiss where it wasn't a long kiss.

665
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 2: It was like it's okay. Where it was.

666
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 4: I believe it took place like outside at the man Yeah,

667
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 4: like he was leaving the party and I walked him

668
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 4: out because we've been hanging out all night and getting

669
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 4: to know each each other, and yeah.

670
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 1: Whoa was there valet?

671
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 2: No, there's just parking.

672
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: Well here's the thing. It was so massive that they

673
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: could just park. Yeah, in the beginning, maybe her last

674
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,800
Speaker 1: few ones before she like sold it, she might have

675
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: had valet, But no, you know, anywhere you can get

676
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 1: and ring.

677
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,720
Speaker 2: The doorbell, or would there be a person like welcome,

678
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 2: mister Corbett, come on in so you don't feel like

679
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 2: a weirdo ringing the doorbell.

680
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 1: I feel like the door was just open. There'd be

681
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: people standing there with trays, you know when you arrive

682
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 1: at a resort.

683
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like that if you got.

684
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,439
Speaker 1: To like a fancy resort and they're like standing there

685
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 1: with a tray, and as soon as you walk in,

686
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 1: they're like champagne.

687
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 2: Great.

688
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 1: Oh, you know, pigs and a blanket. Great, meatball, swish, meatball.

689
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 2: Great, wo, meatball is a nice appetizer.

690
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: Friend stick maybe yeah?

691
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, MANI four. It started.

692
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 1: It started with the little toothpicks that had the little

693
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: Frillian ends.

694
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 2: They would be like oh Sam as lambs almost kind.

695
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: Of basically yeah yeah, like tinsel wow.

696
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 2: And was there ever like a toast or was it

697
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 2: just like a party like it?

698
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 1: Did your dad ever.

699
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 2: Say welcome everybody? He was, you're here because you're one

700
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 2: of our close friends.

701
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 1: There's always a magic Every year there was always a

702
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: magician that came.

703
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,439
Speaker 2: A magician unexpected.

704
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,919
Speaker 1: Same, it still feels random, like I did that.

705
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 2: You know, fancy adults love magicians.

706
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 3: I was at a fancy fancy adults like the generation

707
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 3: before us or one before that. I was at a

708
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 3: fancy party and there was a magician and it was like,

709
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 3: it's not like he's like pulling a corner out of

710
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 3: your ear, but kind of but a lot of like

711
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 3: pick a card, I have your card.

712
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,320
Speaker 2: Over here behind this tree like that kind of stuff.

713
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: But he did. I mean in the when she made

714
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: the party like epic huge Yeah, after my.

715
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 3: Dad had passed, like it, yeah, so your mom still

716
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:12,799
Speaker 3: had parties for a couple more years after just a

717
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 3: couple I believe.

718
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 2: Was your dad allowed to smoke his cigars in the house?

719
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: Mm? Hm his pipe?

720
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 2: It was a pipe. He wasn't a cigar. Sorry, his

721
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 2: pipe he was.

722
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

723
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 2: Are they not so stinky?

724
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 1: Maybe because I grew up with it. But like I

725
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,720
Speaker 1: told you, my mom also till I was a certain

726
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 1: age's cigarettes and it would be in the house. So

727
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 1: I grew up not to.

728
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 2: Do that in her bathroom, just doing it.

729
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: And by the time we got to the Manor, she

730
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 1: no longer smoked. And although she did have one relapse

731
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: of smoking when I was with a bad boyfriend.

732
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 2: No, your mom had a boyfriend.

733
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, when I was with that bad boyfriend.

734
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,720
Speaker 1: O my god, one relapse. She had stopped smoking four

735
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 1: years and she had boyfriend. I know.

736
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 2: I felt, Oh, oh my god.

737
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:03,880
Speaker 3: By the way, I was gonna do New Year's in this,

738
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 3: but we're gonna have to do a whole different New

739
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 3: Year's episode because I can't even do New Year's I

740
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 3: don't have time.

741
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we should totally chow another episode for now.

742
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: We'll do a separate because the New Year's we had

743
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 1: would probably surprise everyone. Oh and that's where I can

744
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 1: tell the story about the chef I dated because it

745
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 1: involves New.

746
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,320
Speaker 2: Year's Let's let's not do that now. Let's finish Christmas first.

747
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:27,240
Speaker 2: So Santa shows up at this party or not usually

748
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 2: like a so ho ho.

749
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: At my old house, Santa Maple came every in Mapleton

750
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 1: one eleven Mapleton, North Mapleton, Santa came every year. It

751
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: was the same Santa. Oh wow, and yeah he was

752
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 1: the same Santa. My brother and I was sitting on

753
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 1: his lap and tell him like our wishes and yeah,

754
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: was there.

755
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 2: Any kind of basic stuff like were you writing a list?

756
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 2: I read it twice.

757
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was like Barbie dream House.

758
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 2: Oh Barbie dream House. Of course did you get usually

759
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 2: everything you wanted?

760
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 1: Yeah?

761
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 2: Was there like bikes under the tree and like no bikes? Wow,

762
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 2: I'm on candy. There's the bikes.

763
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 1: But keep in mind, like there was something like what

764
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: would it be that was like the big ticket item?

765
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: Well then Madame Alexander or.

766
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:23,280
Speaker 3: Maybe in an Atari or a Nintendo or something, Oh yeah,

767
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 3: or yeah, I.

768
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:27,879
Speaker 2: Just can't see you. You know those cars like did

769
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 2: you ever have those like ride on cars or you

770
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 2: could like ride around on the you know what I mean.

771
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: To Europe which should be an entire episode. We have

772
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 1: to do that, like a.

773
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 2: Trip to wait what what were the.

774
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god in vacation? What is their names? The

775
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 1: Chris Like, there's several episodes, so we have to do

776
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,359
Speaker 1: a whole episode, which took a week to get there.

777
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:54,439
Speaker 1: But I have epic stories. But when we we saw

778
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: it in Europe in London, and when we came back,

779
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 1: what I got it? I'm gonna tell you. But it

780
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:04,760
Speaker 1: was like a driving like an electric car, but not electric.

781
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 1: It had gas. I feel like, let's liken it to

782
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 1: the one an ATV. Let's let's like, what are the

783
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: ones that kids get. They have a little doors.

784
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:15,919
Speaker 2: It's probably like like a range Rover.

785
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: They have like real real seas. Now Bo said to me, Mom,

786
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: all I want this year is a Lamborghini one.

787
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, get him.

788
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 1: They run between one hundred and three hundred dollars.

789
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're not terrible. They're surprisingly not terrible.

790
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:32,840
Speaker 1: You charge them and they go yeah, yeah. So I

791
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: got a Mini Ferrari.

792
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 2: They were battery. I don't think they had gas. I

793
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 2: think you'd lug it in.

794
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: This one was not whoa So I got this one.

795
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:49,280
Speaker 1: I was like twelve, I don't know what happened.

796
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 2: Oh you're older, okay, so this was not This was

797
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 2: like more of a golf cart type of deal.

798
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,280
Speaker 1: It was a fray, but a little small one only

799
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 1: like a two seater like me and my brother could

800
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: go in it. And I feel like it went up to.

801
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 2: I don't think you were and it feels like you

802
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 2: were really old.

803
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: Thirteen kids have now.

804
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,359
Speaker 2: Well I guess, yeah, this is the.

805
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: Golf carse they drive like on properties.

806
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 2: Do you have any like spelling traditions? Like we write

807
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 2: it wrote our list and then you put him in

808
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 2: the fireplace and Santa can read the smoke signals like

809
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 2: any weird quirky things, and we would always read twas

810
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 2: the night before Christmas.

811
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think, like, yeah, we always did like

812
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 1: and Santa always called Usta called the actor that played

813
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 1: Santa that came who I didn't know till years later

814
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: was an actor. After he had passed away, his wife

815
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:42,360
Speaker 1: got in contact with me and said, wow, like photos

816
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 1: in a letter, like it was really cute. Oh, but

817
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: it was an actor that I guess my dad had

818
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 1: used several times and he was like, hey, for Christmas

819
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: one year, we dress up and then it became a tradition.

820
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: He was like, she knows your face, it has to

821
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 1: be the same thing I say. So he ended up

822
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: coming till I was like, oh my god, like sixteen

823
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 1: like and then yeah, and then he would call us

824
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: on Christmas Eve and be like, hope you're going to

825
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 1: bed like good, and they would like ring the bells

826
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: in the background, like there could be years.

827
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 2: So what's your happiest Holiday memory at the Manor?

828
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: HM at the Manner It would probably be one of

829
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 1: my last memories at the Manor for Christmas. It wasn't

830
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: the very last party that I was at with Stella

831
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 1: and Liam once they were born, which was an epic party,

832
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 1: but it was when my dad was alive and Nanny

833
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:43,399
Speaker 1: was alive, so that year was really special and all

834
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 1: my friends were there, all my friends I've grown up with,

835
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 1: and yeah, that's the night we smoked weed with Nanny,

836
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:54,280
Speaker 1: whoa still your favorite.

837
00:42:55,520 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 2: Was not expecting that. Well, wow, I don't even know

838
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:05,800
Speaker 2: what to say. It seems somewhat normal and somewhat not,

839
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:08,760
Speaker 2: is what I'll say.

840
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: We did try an, I know, I know it's the

841
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 1: lock Christmas Day.

842
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:19,240
Speaker 2: So then yeah, so halfway.

843
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 1: Through the day, like around we slept in so my

844
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 1: family loved. My whole family.

845
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 2: Sleeps, so like till ten or like t.

846
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 1: Like ten, my dad would be in his robe and

847
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: go down like and probably around one o'clock, I would say,

848
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: the lock station was cleaned up and a deli station

849
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: came out and it was all those you know, pre

850
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 1: meat sandwiches.

851
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 2: Okay, now now you're talking. Now you're talking.

852
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, like roast beef sandwiches, turkey sandwich, all of that.

853
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: We would have all those, like from Nate Nell's again.

854
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 1: So then there's yeah, like the ones with like the

855
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: Thousand Islands and coal slaw and potato salad on the

856
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: side and all of that. So we had that for

857
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:10,840
Speaker 1: hours and then we had a proper Christmas dinner service.

858
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: It was turkey stuffing.

859
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 2: Sweet Thanksgiving okay Thanksgiving.

860
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 1: Luffy marshmallow. Yeah, Thanksgiving. And there's always like the things

861
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 1: that my mom did. So she would chill navel oranges,

862
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,319
Speaker 1: the big ones, slice them and put a slice of

863
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 1: cold jellied cranberry on it, having on a huge silver

864
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: clatter and everyone wow. So I know it sounds funky

865
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: like like cranberry sauce. I grew up thinking that's cranberry sauce.

866
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 1: It was like the jelly from a can. No idea.

867
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 1: But there's certain things like she would do that. I

868
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 1: still do that. I've introduced night kids to that. We

869
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 1: make every year for Thanksgiving. It else she would like

870
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 1: things like there were great things like homemade stuffing and

871
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 1: like that, the fixings, but things like the frozen green

872
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 1: frozen green peas, the small green peas in a bag.

873
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 1: She would make those with sliced black olives or diced.

874
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,760
Speaker 1: It must have been like an old fashioned thing and

875
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: you would make it with like salt and butter. It's

876
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: really good. Whoa. And then my mom's a big baker,

877
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 1: so yeah, she would really get into the baking. So

878
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 1: apple pie, pon pie for my dad. She always made

879
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: which kind of pie for your dad? Con con okay

880
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 1: or pecan pumpkin pie. We would always have sweet potato

881
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 1: pie as well. Sweet potato pie a.

882
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 2: Dessert or like a dish. I've never had that.

883
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 1: It's good, it's like but not as bitter.

884
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 2: Oh sweet, okay, so it's like a dessert. Okay. Yeah.

885
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 1: But we made sweep to casserole with the big marshmallows

886
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 1: like porched on top of it and gosh, I don't know.

887
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: We always had the Christmas poppers so what they call them.

888
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:09,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, with a little prize or something in there.

889
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: Stick each twist them or you pull it out and

890
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: everyone gets a crown and you get a little fried

891
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:18,280
Speaker 1: and a fortune. I learned that from my parents. Always

892
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 1: had that, even though they were like, you know, cheap ones,

893
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:25,359
Speaker 1: Like they would have this elegant, beautiful like candelabras and

894
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: like the most gorgeous like long table, like twenty foot

895
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 1: table that she would like do all the flowers. And

896
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,359
Speaker 1: my mom loved floral arranging, so she would do all

897
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: the flowers and like and beautiful like dark colors and

898
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: burgundies and orange and green and anyway.

899
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, is it a happy time? Those memories.

900
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, Holidays always really great because we celebrated it was

901
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 1: my dad worked a lot. We weren't all always together,

902
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 1: you know. Once I was sixteen, I started working a lot.

903
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 1: It was just and Thanksgiving and Christmas always brought us together.

904
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 1: And while it grew in size, I still remember it

905
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,879
Speaker 1: when it was on the smaller side with just our

906
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: family and like, I have those memories. So as it grew,

907
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: it wasn't weird for me, it was enjoyable to see

908
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 1: my mom be able to celebrate everything we had on

909
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 1: another level and have fun. And it was always a

910
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:31,359
Speaker 1: fun time. Yeah, Like my friends would come and drink

911
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 1: with my mom and my mom like, my mom's not

912
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 1: a big drinker at all, but on holidays she will

913
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 1: have some drinks. And I love when my mom drinks

914
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:45,280
Speaker 1: because she totally loosens up and we had a similar

915
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 1: sense of humor when she allows herself to be like that.

916
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: And we would just be cracking jokes with my mom

917
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,840
Speaker 1: and she'd be funny and dirty, and we loved it

918
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 1: and it was so cool. And one year, my mom

919
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: had this amazing dress. It was a blue tartan dress,

920
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 1: which is like green and I love Tartan. Half at

921
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:06,280
Speaker 1: a huge long gown and the top part was like

922
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 1: a half of a white blouse, but it was all

923
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 1: one thing, and she was moving gracefully and were laughing

924
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 1: with her because we'd had some drinks, and I kept

925
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 1: going up to her and whispering in her ear, Mom,

926
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:23,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna fart on your dress, and she'd be like,

927
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 1: don't you dare, don't you far on my dress, and

928
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: like laughing, I know this is so random, but picture

929
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 1: her in this amazing, huge game. But she was getting

930
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 1: silly at that point too, and I was like, what

931
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: can I do? This is gonna like freak her out

932
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 1: and like just shock value. So id. And then there's

933
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: one point where my friend Maron would be like, oh

934
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: my god, and you were literally like chasing your mom

935
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,479
Speaker 1: around like in this big, huge party, be like fuck

936
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 1: and she'd be like, don't my dress and she was

937
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,759
Speaker 1: like sashing her like half down everywhere. And I'm like,

938
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: it's memories like that that I would see my parents

939
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 1: in a different lights. I'd see them relaxed in having

940
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 1: and they really like my mom loved entertaining, but my

941
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 1: dad was a total home but yeah, yeah, yeah, it

942
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 1: was like her one time a year Christmas Eve that

943
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,880
Speaker 1: she did like really entertain and do her thing that

944
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 1: meant so much to her, and he enjoyed himself too,

945
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: and it was a safe place.

946
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, because he would get to be at home too.

947
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:21,959
Speaker 1: So I'm telling the stories today.

948
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's okay. They could say, I think you're good.

949
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 2: He didn't really tell any tales too bad. Well, okay,

950
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:30,320
Speaker 2: I mean I think we got to continue the manner

951
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 2: series because I have a lot more. We didn't even

952
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 2: touch on Thanksgiving. We didn't even touch on the ears.

953
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 2: Got more to do, years with the chef. Yeah oh yeah.

954
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 2: We will to be continued