WEBVTT - Dance Down the Aisle 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.600 What's going on? Everyone? Welcome to Help, an all new 0:00:02.640 --> 0:00:05.200 episode of Help by suck At Dating Man. We're already 0:00:05.200 --> 0:00:09.760 off to a shaky sta. Um. I want to take 0:00:09.760 --> 0:00:13.600 a second and announcer guest co host this week, obviously 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:16.760 Sydney Lutwaco. I'm not sure if you guys have already 0:00:16.760 --> 0:00:19.239 known that because you've read the Spotify description. But Sydney, 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:21.000 we didn't. We didn't get a chance to talk about 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:23.840 this before this episode started recording. Um, and I'm kind 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:26.599 of glad that we didn't because you just recently got engaged. 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:30.960 Is that right? Yes, I'm engaged. Let's spend the next 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:33.479 two hours talking about this engagement. All right, let's do it. 0:00:33.520 --> 0:00:35.800 What you want to know? Okay? Well, first of all, 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:40.000 off the last Jared said, congratulations, thank you. Yeah. I 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:42.159 feel like we were talking about the possibility of me 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:44.000 getting engaged last time I was on here. That's what 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:45.120 I was gonna say. I feel like we kind of 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:47.800 knew it was a long time coming. Yeah, you're glowing. 0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:51.160 You look so happy. Thank you. I'm very happy. We're 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:54.200 very excited. Um. Now we're just starting in the process 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:59.000 of wedding planning, which is expensive. Well, so tell us 0:00:59.000 --> 0:01:01.840 about the engagement a little it. Yeah, so we got 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:06.600 engaged in December December, I think like five. I already 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:10.520 don't remember the day. I know really not have been 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:12.800 like two months. I know I need to have it 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:15.720 like written on my hand. Um so yeah, December. I 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:19.160 think it was fifth or sick something like that. But um, 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:21.520 he surprised me by doing it kind of in a 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:24.520 photo shoot, so he I'm very hard to surprise because 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:27.680 I'm the one that plans everything that we do. Um, 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:29.360 So we had to get tricky with it. So we 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:32.200 had a photographer reached out that we worked with before 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:34.960 for like other photo things, and she and I are 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:37.399 good friends, and she reached out about doing like a 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:41.240 cute Christmas themed photo shoot and I was like, yeah, 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:43.120 that's totally cute. I just had to run it by Nick, 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:46.840 Like he's not the biggest photo shoot fan. Um so 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:50.040 I had to like run by this plan with him. 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:51.919 So I got to pick out like where the photo 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:53.880 shoot was, what we were wearing, what it was gonna 0:01:53.920 --> 0:01:56.560 look like, all this stuff and that the last minute, 0:01:57.200 --> 0:01:59.600 the photographer had texted me and was like, hey, I'm 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:03.520 really good idea, Like why don't we write love letters. 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:05.440 Why don't you guys both write love letters to each 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:07.720 other and we can read them on camera. I've seen 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:09.760 people do this. It makes for like a really cute 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:13.079 photo shoot. Um. And then you guys can like exchange 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:15.160 them at the shoot. And I was like, well, that's 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:17.080 super cute. But again, I have to run this by 0:02:17.160 --> 0:02:19.880 neck because that sounds like something you might not want 0:02:19.880 --> 0:02:22.519 to do. UM. So he's a really good liar, I 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:25.600 learned from our engagement because I would run it by 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:27.560 him and be like, oh, that's I have to do? 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:29.079 What Like, what do I have to do? Like he 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:31.200 would just act like he didn't really want to do 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:33.600 it when and in fact it was actually his idea. 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:37.200 So I thought like, it could be happening maybe at 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:40.560 this photo shoot, because I thought that would be super cute. Um. 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:42.800 And I had a pros and like cons list in 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:45.320 my mind of the reasons why it could be happening 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:47.400 and the reasons why it couldn't be happening. And by 0:02:47.480 --> 0:02:48.960 the time we were like on the way there, I 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:51.560 was like, Okay, there's no way it could be happening. 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:53.840 Because every time I asked him or try to throw 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:58.040 a curveball, he knew he had an answer for everything, um, 0:02:58.240 --> 0:03:02.239 like like what do you mean? Like, uh, for well, 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:05.200 just even the fact that he was like lying about 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:07.960 not wanting to do it. Um. Even my friend, my 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:10.640 best friend had texted him as we were on the 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:13.640 way there. It's not like they talked normally. UM, so 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:15.880 he would he asked my brother and my friend besides 0:03:15.880 --> 0:03:19.240 my parents for my hand in marriage essentially. Um. So 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:21.080 she was texting him back finally and I was like, 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:24.760 why is why is Casey texting you? And he was like, oh, oh, 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:26.920 why is she? Oh you know what, I texted her 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:30.200 about your gifts, So don't look at the text, um, 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:32.120 because I was asking her like what I should get 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:35.120 you for Christmas. So just like like right on the moment, 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:36.880 knew how to lie about. And I was like, oh, yeah, 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:39.400 that's a perfect excuse. Okay, yeah, I guess that's true. 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:43.080 So things like that, um. And just the fact that 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:45.280 the photographer was the one sending everything up when in 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:48.560 fact it was actually him. Um, even with the date 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:50.880 that they picked, like originally we're going to do it 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:52.720 one day and then we had to switch the date 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:54.800 at the last second, and he had to like switch 0:03:54.960 --> 0:03:57.920 up all these details and the and those last like 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:00.480 a few hours before we got engaged, so yeah, he 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:04.160 was just really on top of it. And when we 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:07.360 switched letters, so we read each other our letters. We 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:10.160 switched letters at the last moment, so ah, he read 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:12.800 mine first, which was way too long for what this 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:14.920 boy saw. If I knew I was getting engaged too 0:04:15.000 --> 0:04:17.680 or getting proposed to, I would have made a very 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:21.039 short letter. Um. And then I read his letter, which 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:22.640 was in this journal that we shared when we were 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:25.720 doing long distance. It was really cute and basically I 0:04:25.760 --> 0:04:29.640 asked for my own hand in marriage. Um. Yeah. So 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:32.920 I was like, I was like, you know what, that's 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:35.240 kind of perfect. I asked myself, that's good. Um. So 0:04:35.279 --> 0:04:37.000 then he got on one knee at the end of 0:04:37.040 --> 0:04:41.159 like me leading that me reading that letter, and yeah, 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:44.320 was super it was very cute, super perfect. My my 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:47.400 parents were on FaceTime because at the last second his 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:50.760 parents walked up the stairs, um and saw us, like 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:53.080 I saw him get on one knee, and my parents 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:54.920 were on FaceTime, so they were a part of it too. 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:57.800 So yeah, it was very Wow. What a great engagement. 0:04:58.160 --> 0:04:59.880 They did a good job. Yeah, and then we had 0:04:59.880 --> 0:05:03.120 like pictures and photos from it, so are videos from it, 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:06.400 so yeah, it was. It's perfect. You want to know 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:09.080 what's so cool about this UM engagement for for me 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:13.679 personally and selfishly, UM, is that, However, long ago, when 0:05:13.800 --> 0:05:16.400 you first co co hosted with us, there was a 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:19.320 while ago. I remember you were talking about this guy 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:21.120 that you just started dating and how much you liked him, 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:23.280 and and then the next time we talked to you, 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:24.919 you were like, yeah, you know, I'm gonna move to 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:26.960 I think it was Ohio and we were like, wow, 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:30.160 that's really fast, and now here you are. However, long later, 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:33.360 I know it's like, obviously, this this engagement came for 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:35.640 all because of you guys, are not because of help. 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:38.039 I stuck at dating. Selfishly, I want to believe that 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:40.200 all of this was made possible because of help. I 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:43.080 stuck a dating. I will agree. You guys have been 0:05:43.120 --> 0:05:46.000 at every each benchmark of our relationship. I've been on 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.039 the episode. I feel like, so, yeah, you guys have 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:52.359 seen the full journey of it. So you help. It 0:05:52.440 --> 0:05:55.600 just feels like there's one engagement after another on this podcast, 0:05:55.640 --> 0:06:00.480 and it's either coincidential dating. So thanks to you guys, 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:04.440 I am fixed. You know, that's what we're here for Yeah, 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:07.800 you're doing something right. Um. So, now that you guys 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:11.080 are planning the wedding, are you have any arguments about 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:12.680 do you want a big wedding, small wedding? Have you 0:06:12.720 --> 0:06:15.839 always envisioned your wedding? Well? How does before you answer sitty? 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:17.680 How does this work? So you don't start planning your 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:19.280 wedding the second after you get engaged. I mean, I 0:06:19.320 --> 0:06:21.880 know you've been engaged for two months now, but I mean, yeah, 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:23.800 is that wrong with me to think? I mean, you 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:26.919 technically don't, but then people immediately are asking to like, 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:29.200 when's the wedding? Where is it? Yeah? What? What's? What 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:31.280 are you wearing? What are you eating? Like all these things? 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:33.800 So I mean, wait till you get married. The next 0:06:33.880 --> 0:06:36.159 question is when you have a baby. You have a 0:06:36.160 --> 0:06:38.040 baby and you're like, when are you having another one? 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:40.080 And you're lik and everyone shut the hell up. Yeah, 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:42.360 And then you get really old and the like when 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:45.200 are you gonna die? Already? When you die? Let's let's 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:49.240 wrap this up. Okay, yeah, be done. Um, So you 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:51.919 don't plan right away, but I mean you start getting excited. 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:54.200 I think once you decide when you're getting married, it's 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:56.400 going to determine when you should start planning. We don't. 0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:59.479 We don't have a date until it's made, so we 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:03.160 have a while. Um, but I've started to plan and 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:06.320 it looks like it's going to take me a long time. UM. 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:08.320 But you start having to like figure out where it's 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:11.679 going to be, UM, if you're gonna have a planner, 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:15.960 if you're gonna have a band, if you're traveling, where 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:18.080 people are going to stay, like all that kind of stuff, 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:22.560 And the most important thing is like the guest list, um, 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:25.800 because that determines how much everything costs. So we're working 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:28.760 through that currently because that's very hard to figure out 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:31.640 who's invited who's not. Why did you guys inside on 0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:40.280 um weather and our venue had that open? Like there 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:44.320 wasn't a lot of options for two because of COVID, 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:48.120 Like I think everyone pushed back into two. At one point. 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:50.760 I was like there was an option for MAO And 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:52.840 I was like, you know what, maybe like that I 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:55.400 could pull that together and he was like are you dumb? 0:07:55.520 --> 0:08:02.800 Like no, so yeah, don't you guys are marrying exactly, 0:08:02.880 --> 0:08:06.040 enjoy every aspect of being engaged, because once you're married, 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:09.080 then people stop caring about you as much. You know, 0:08:09.160 --> 0:08:12.080 now you're just a married couple, so enjoy the engagement 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:15.360 at the newly wed stage. It's fun, it's exciting. Yeah, 0:08:15.400 --> 0:08:17.840 I'm excited. It's super fun. And it's like fun to 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:23.000 put together mood boards and you know, use my creativity hat. Um, 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:25.160 but yeah, we have we have a good amount of time. 0:08:25.160 --> 0:08:28.800 But I'm excited to like get things rolling. I gotta say, 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:30.880 you were mentioning this just a minute before I cut 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:33.160 you off. One of my biggest terrence I've ever wanted 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:37.640 to have a wedding is um, the guest list. It's terrifying. 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:41.040 It's the worst part, especially with having family, that you 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:43.880 have to invite everyone's family and then that's like a 0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:46.280 hundred people. As it is, the family is fine. I 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:48.199 don't like, I know a family like obligated to have 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:49.880 an invite. It's like the friends, and it's not so 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:52.360 much like you're close friends. It's like the fringe friends 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:54.560 where you're like, oh, we really like each other and 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:56.600 we're friends, but like, do I like you? Like, are 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:58.959 we good? In the friends? You're pretty come to my wedding? Yeah, 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:03.000 deans that close close to a personal on this on 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:08.040 this podcast. Uh, during my list that was that was 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:11.360 a tough and I'm sure that that was totally stressful 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:14.079 situation for you to be in, and especially now because 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:15.840 Sydney you're going to go through the same situation. You 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:19.080 have bachelor friends that have probably dated other bachelor friends 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:21.680 that you're both friends with, but you're like, uh, it's 0:09:21.760 --> 0:09:24.840 good called awkwardness, Like they're not on good terms. Do 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:28.160 I invite them? Because I want you know, you know, 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:29.800 I'm closer with one, so I want to make sure 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:31.920 they have the best time possible. But I'm pretty close 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:34.000 with the other one that should probably be there, but 0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:36.360 it might ruin the other person's time without telling me, 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:41.439 and it's just gonna be chaotic. Yeah right, But it's 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:44.600 it's also so much fun because at the end of 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:46.680 the day, don't let any of that drama phase you. 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:49.920 It's your wedding. You're allowed to be selfish. That's the 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:52.520 way Ashley and I thought about it, and just do 0:09:52.559 --> 0:10:05.640 what you want. While we're on the topic, keep giving 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:09.040 out some advice for Sydney. You know you've been engaged, tis, Yeah, 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:11.400 what are some tips you have for for wedding planning 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:16.080 or being engaged? For being engaged, maybe give her some 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:17.560 tips and then maybe give her some things that she 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:19.440 could pass on to Nick, because you only really know 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:23.080 it through the guy's lens. I would say, if you're 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:26.719 going to do a wedding, if you're going to say, hey, 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:30.400 we're gonna invest some finances into this wedding some time 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:34.040 and effort, then go all the way. Don't have asset 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:36.640 because I think one of the biggest things for ash 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:38.880 and I was when we decided that we were going 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:42.320 to do the wedding that you know, of course you 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:44.960 have a budget, but within that budget, do everything you 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:47.360 possibly can to make it the best day possible for 0:10:47.400 --> 0:10:50.280 yourself and for your guests even too. I always make 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:53.480 this use this example. Ashley and I talked to the 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:55.920 band and said, these are the songs that we want 0:10:55.960 --> 0:10:58.160 you to play, and if you don't play these, then 0:10:58.200 --> 0:11:00.840 thank you so much for wanting to lay at our wedding, 0:11:00.880 --> 0:11:02.920 but we're going to find someone else, you know, because 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:06.040 it was just more it was like we really wanted 0:11:06.040 --> 0:11:09.839 to create an experience. So my advice is, whatever you 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:12.400 want to do, do it. Some people don't want to 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:14.199 invest so much time. They want to just hire someone 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:15.959 to take care of it and just enjoy the day 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:19.120 and not even think about it. M hm. We weren't 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:21.120 that way, you know. So my advice would be, if 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:23.760 you're going to do a wedding, you're really getting married once, 0:11:23.840 --> 0:11:27.240 knock on wood, So just go all in and do 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:29.280 whatever the hell you want to do. Don't be scared, 0:11:29.360 --> 0:11:33.120 don't be afraid of pissing someone off or you know, 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:35.559 your your parents might your parents might be like, I 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:37.520 kind of want it this way, and you're like, I 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:39.880 understand that, and I respect that, but I wanted that 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:41.560 way and this is my wedding and I love you 0:11:41.600 --> 0:11:43.480 and I want to be here, but let me just 0:11:43.480 --> 0:11:46.640 be selfish. Yeah, I love that advice. Thank you. Are 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:50.319 are you going to utilize your dancing abilities at all, 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:53.360 like choreographing any kind of dances or anything that absolutely so, 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:55.760 I'm I mean, Nick doesn't fully know this, Yeah, but 0:11:55.920 --> 0:11:58.520 there'll there will be a choreograph dance. Things will be happening, 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:02.400 maybe even like outfits will be being changed the whole thing. Yeah, 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:06.920 that's my plan. I can see you, um, and I mean, like, 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:08.440 I don't even know why I'm going to say this. 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:11.160 I can see you wearing like Air Force ones with 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:14.440 your wedding dress and absolutely killing it. I'll be so 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:19.240 here for that. Yeah, what's the because you were an 0:12:19.320 --> 0:12:24.160 NBA dancer, correct. So I don't know why you know 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:27.839 that Chicago Bulls theme song. It's serious. I think it's 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:30.439 like dent Dent, Dent dent to day. You don't know 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:33.720 there's anybody. Yeah, I was thinking like, yeah, your your 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:37.199 bridesmaids could run down the aisle to that song. Me 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:39.280 some ideas. It could be kind of fun. I'm not 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.000 gonna lie. We could take in a lot of different 0:12:41.040 --> 0:12:44.600 theme ways for sure. So you live in Cincinnati, now 0:12:45.360 --> 0:12:47.360 are you? Are you guys like Bengals fans? The super 0:12:47.360 --> 0:12:50.880 Bowl just happened. Was that the big thing in the city? Oh? 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:53.240 Oh it was. It was definitely a big thing in 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:56.280 the city. Um, that's cool. Yeah, it was awesome. I've 0:12:56.320 --> 0:12:59.240 never been around like such super fans like that before, 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:01.040 so it was really interesting for me to see because 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:04.880 I wasn't generally a super football fan necessarily before. But 0:13:04.960 --> 0:13:08.559 I really appreciate the passion behind it. And I mean, 0:13:08.800 --> 0:13:11.440 all I have to watch with him. He's considered me 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:13.280 now his good luck chime. Oun't know how I got 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:14.880 that role because now I have to sit in front 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:16.960 of the TV with him while he is screaming his 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:20.280 head off. Um, don't you understand anything he says when 0:13:20.280 --> 0:13:22.200 he screams at the TV. No, it's he'll be like 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:25.280 jumping up and down, like off the ground. Like sometimes 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:28.880 he's like like banging on the ground, running around the 0:13:28.920 --> 0:13:31.280 living room and like, what's what have we just watched? 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:33.720 So I started to get it towards the end. But yeah, 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:36.920 is he more attractive when he does that? Less attractive 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:39.640 or it doesn't matter? Um, I don't know. It's I'm 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:42.920 kind of medium with it. I like the passion. Um 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:46.560 sometimes it's just a little allowed for me. But I 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:49.720 mean the whole city is just they are so loyal, 0:13:49.800 --> 0:13:52.120 which I really love. I mean even I was actually 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:54.400 in l A for Super Bowl weekend, not for the 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:56.559 super Bowl, just to go and there was a huge, 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:59.040 like light up Whoday sign in the airport with like 0:13:59.080 --> 0:14:02.560 balloons all round it and like people posing in front 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:06.320 of it. So it's just like very much their thing here. 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:09.240 Like even my yoga teacher was playing a Bengals playlist 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:13.360 playlist for like the last month because they were continuing forward, 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:15.000 and I was like, if I have to hear jock 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:19.160 jams one more time during meditation, I'm going to freak out. 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:21.480 But so it's just like a part of the culture here, 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:23.960 So I mean, I appreciate it. It's making me at 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:27.560 least understand football more, which is a big step for 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:29.360 me because I didn't really have any knowledge of it 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:32.920 before and Cincinnati doesn't really have much root for professionally 0:14:32.920 --> 0:14:35.280 wise because they don't basketball or hockey anything, right, so 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:39.240 it's mostly baseball and football that's right now. Baseball is 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:41.680 coming again, and I'm like the Reds. I think they 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:46.200 are right, Cincinnati Red I didn't know baseball was every 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:48.560 day basically, I didn't know they played that many games 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:51.920 in a row. Yeah, it's way too long. Yeah. Like still, 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.440 at least you're not dating Jimmy Fallon from Fever Pitch. 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:56.920 Could that be? That would be pretty bad. Sometimes I 0:14:56.760 --> 0:14:58.480 I try to act like him because obviously have a 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:00.920 Red Sox fan, and then Ashley just isn't enjoyed him much. 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:04.040 But I digress. So we do have a lot to 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:06.640 get to with Sydney. We have some hot topics coming up, 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:10.120 including Aaron Rodgers and Shaneley Woodley call it quits, But 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:12.800 before we get into that. Let's take a quick break, 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:24.720 all right, welcome back to help I suck at dating, 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:27.040 like we tease. There's there's two things I want to 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:30.400 get to. One this shaneley Woodley and Aaron Rodgers story, 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:32.480 and then there's another one that I looked up on 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:36.160 a website called cracked dot com. Yeah, you heard me correctly, 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:39.800 and it's twenty five bizarre statistics about relationship and sex. 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:41.480 And I don't want to read some of these statistics 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:44.160 to Sydney and Dean and get their reaction. But first 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:49.280 and foremost, Aaron Rodgers and Shaneley Woodley call it quits. Sydney, 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:51.640 do you know who these two people are? I know 0:15:51.720 --> 0:15:54.480 Sleen for what big little lies? And then I know 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:58.400 he dated Jordan around dated He's his brother is Jordan Rodgers, 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:01.720 which was a Bachelor. So that's so funny. Usually it's 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:04.480 the opposite. People are like, oh, Jordan, you're Aaron's brother. 0:16:04.800 --> 0:16:07.240 That's that's nice to hear be like, oh, Aaron is 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:10.120 Jordan's brother. Yeah, I wonder, I wonder if you want to, 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:12.480 I wonder if anyone approached Aaron Rodgers like during his 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:14.040 time on the Bachelor and they're like Hey, I'm a 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:18.440 big fan of your brother, like you because I'm really awesome. Sure, 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:20.640 it was always the other way around. Um, that's that's 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:22.520 a bummer about Aaron Rodgers. He always He's got a 0:16:22.520 --> 0:16:25.160 pretty good dating track record. I think you want to 0:16:25.160 --> 0:16:28.440 know why I think they broke up though, It's because 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:31.800 Aaron Rodgers is prepping a move to Denver, and uh, 0:16:31.880 --> 0:16:33.280 you know he doesn't want to be in the longestance 0:16:33.280 --> 0:16:37.840 relationship with someone. Yeah, but shaneley Woodley isn't Colorado like 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:42.960 very progressive. I feel like real enjoy her time in Colorado? 0:16:43.200 --> 0:16:45.560 Pretty is Wait, why do you say it with a smirk. 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:48.840 I'm confused. I'm being serious. I know I said it 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:51.280 with a smirk because it's a ridiculous statement. But I 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:53.640 find out when I was thinking about where Rodgers could 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:55.440 go in the NFL, I was thinking, well, where would 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:58.520 shaneley Woodley want to be in Denver, Colorado? I was like, Okay, 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:01.560 I think she could you there. For example, if he 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:05.199 was like, hey, I want to go play um in 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:11.000 I don't know, Houston, she might be like, ah, I 0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:13.800 think this relationship could be over. But Denver. I think 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:16.440 you can see that This is from experience. The reason 0:17:16.480 --> 0:17:19.639 I'm saying this is because I've had years of experience 0:17:19.720 --> 0:17:23.280 with Tom Brady and Giselle Bunching, where it's been like 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:27.639 Tom needed to approve wherever he was gonna go with Giselle, 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:32.440 and I'm pretty sure Giselle told him, you either retire 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:34.879 or we're getting a divorce, which is why he retired. 0:17:35.080 --> 0:17:38.080 Because can we say about Tom Brady, he might come 0:17:38.080 --> 0:17:40.280 out of retirement, like he even said himself, he will 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:42.520 assess it, you know, five months or however long it is. 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:45.440 He did not want to retire. He didn't want to 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:48.240 play for Tampa anymore because he doesn't like Brasirians and 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:53.560 he I think Giselle was like, listen, you're done, You're retiring. 0:17:53.680 --> 0:17:56.640 It's over. And I think in like he retired. Now 0:17:56.720 --> 0:17:59.680 in about four months, there's gonna be a lot to 0:17:59.720 --> 0:18:02.399 spec pulation about him going to San Francisco, and I 0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:03.840 think it could easily come out of our timement. But 0:18:03.880 --> 0:18:05.800 I digress. This is not about Tom. I've already talked 0:18:05.800 --> 0:18:08.160 about about because I've got questions for you. I've got 0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:11.280 questions for you. Please, Okay, I'm an open book. Here 0:18:11.320 --> 0:18:12.720 we go, Okay, So hey, I didn't know that he 0:18:12.720 --> 0:18:16.639 didn't like Bruce arians that's surprising to me. Um and be. 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:20.360 If you retire and you come out of retirement, are 0:18:20.400 --> 0:18:23.400 you at that point of free agent? No, he's technically 0:18:23.440 --> 0:18:28.119 still side with Tampa. However, I think the conspiracy theory 0:18:28.200 --> 0:18:33.919 here is that he is retiring from Tampa and you know, 0:18:33.960 --> 0:18:37.440 Tampa will obviously move on make other plans at quarterback, 0:18:37.760 --> 0:18:39.679 and then in a couple of months, when Tampa already 0:18:39.680 --> 0:18:42.879 has another quarterback in his system, He's gonna say, hey, 0:18:43.080 --> 0:18:45.560 I want to come back and play. Tampa is already 0:18:45.560 --> 0:18:47.760 gonna at their next quarterback. Tom's gonna say I don't 0:18:47.760 --> 0:18:50.800 want to play from Tampa, and then you can trade me, 0:18:51.040 --> 0:18:54.479 and then they'll be suitors out there saying, like a 0:18:54.520 --> 0:18:58.000 team it's one quarterback away. Sorry, I know, Hannas, like, 0:18:58.040 --> 0:19:00.840 are you freaking kiddi? Tom ready? Again? My point being 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:03.520 is that when he comes out of retirement and Tampa says, okay, 0:19:03.520 --> 0:19:05.800 we're gonna trade you a team like Tennessee who's one 0:19:05.840 --> 0:19:08.200 quarterback away from winning a Super Bowl, or San Francisco 0:19:08.240 --> 0:19:12.000 who's a quarterback away Denver. Honestly, like, if Denver doesn't 0:19:12.000 --> 0:19:14.359 get Rodgers, Why wouldn't Brady want to go there? I 0:19:14.359 --> 0:19:17.680 mean because it's cold. But you have seen Brady win 0:19:17.800 --> 0:19:19.320 in the first season in a new place, as he 0:19:19.359 --> 0:19:20.760 did with Tampa, So I can see where you're saying. 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:22.399 It makes sense. He doesn't need that much warm up 0:19:22.480 --> 0:19:24.359 ramp up time in a new system because he's the 0:19:24.400 --> 0:19:26.840 smartest human in the history of existence, and he wants 0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:28.280 he wants to go to San Francisco. That's what it 0:19:28.320 --> 0:19:30.040 really comes down to. He's a huge ward to Niners fan. 0:19:30.119 --> 0:19:34.919 But we really should not be talking about this outcast. 0:19:35.240 --> 0:19:36.840