Speaker 1: It's lift Service.
Speaker 2: I'm Angela Yee, I'm Gigi Bagwire, I'm Stephanie Sanciago.
Speaker 3: I'm Laura Moura, and I'm Sarah Jay.
Speaker 4: The legendary Sarah Jay back the way who bought us
Speaker 4: gifts today.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's talk about this CBD line first and foremost.
Speaker 5: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 5: I have Sarah J CBD and it is a product
Speaker 5: line that focuses primarily on topicals. I have a bath
Speaker 5: bomb that's got one hundred milligrams of CBD in it.
Speaker 3: I'm a pain roller.
Speaker 5: I have massage oil and personal lubricant. All the products
Speaker 5: are organic and they're really great products on.
Speaker 1: For long days and even longer nights.
Speaker 5: Yes, girl, but they're really great products even without having
Speaker 5: the CBD in And you have the CBD in it
Speaker 5: and just makes it even better.
Speaker 1: What made you decide this was something you wanted to do.
Speaker 5: No, I've always been involved in the cannabis industry, but like,
Speaker 5: once I started to really find it out, like how
Speaker 5: CBD is accepted and it's legal, I was like, let's
Speaker 5: go with this for a second. Not only that, but
Speaker 5: I use CBD personally, like I used it for sleep
Speaker 5: a lot, and then I use it like topically for
Speaker 5: like sore muscles. Like the older I get, the more
Speaker 5: of it I use. I don't really want to always
Speaker 5: take like advil or be putting like bengay or weird
Speaker 5: chemicals and stuff on my skin. I would much rather
Speaker 5: use something like that's natural and organic and.
Speaker 3: Yeah, CBD.
Speaker 5: What it does is it increases circulation, right, so that
Speaker 5: way it can help relieve like inflammation. I use CBD oil.
Speaker 4: I can't wait to try. Is it safe to put
Speaker 4: it in your vagina? You put it on your vagina, okay?
Speaker 5: Said as a lubricn it is definitely a lubrican. The
Speaker 5: lubrican I have is like a really nice lube. But
Speaker 5: like the regular CBDs, you don't want to put that inside.
Speaker 5: You only want to put things made for your personal lubricant.
Speaker 5: So the lubrican is there's some here. Two of these
Speaker 5: are personal lubricant and two of these are pain roll on.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 5: But the way it works is it increases the circulation,
Speaker 5: so that increases the stimulation.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, it's very nice.
Speaker 5: Well, we definitely believe you so very nice. I'll take
Speaker 5: your work for yeah, and the other ones that are
Speaker 5: in there. The pain roll on and they've got like
Speaker 5: mental and camphour in them. So not only does it
Speaker 5: like it's very like aromatic, you know.
Speaker 4: So clean at your Yes, you might need that, but
Speaker 4: your ad.
Speaker 6: And I'll take a painroll.
Speaker 1: I know we want that.
Speaker 5: You got it. Say there's two pain rollers in two loops,
Speaker 5: so you guys gonna have to figure out who wants.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, I'll take, Okay, is like leaking.
Speaker 1: For the pain. I was like, wait a minute, leaking
Speaker 1: It's okay.
Speaker 5: I don't need the loom, but the pain roll on
Speaker 5: is great, especially if we've got like migraines or like
Speaker 5: neck pain and stuff.
Speaker 4: Okay, I always I'll be sitting like this all the time.
Speaker 4: I shoulders and I'm always signed down.
Speaker 5: And there's two of them.
Speaker 3: There's two of them.
Speaker 2: But what about for her sickness? That's no, No, you
Speaker 2: can give mine to g because she has.
Speaker 5: Somebody.
Speaker 4: Maybe Laura, you had a loub one for your booby
Speaker 4: take the loop, yeah, to be on some heavy drugs.
Speaker 1: But let's dig into Sarah Jay a little bit.
Speaker 4: Okay, because first of all, I was telling the ladies
Speaker 4: that I actually spent New Years with you one year
Speaker 4: and it was very random. My friend Mecca actually he's
Speaker 4: on Math Hoffers podcast. Now you were we were all out.
Speaker 4: Jay Electronica was with me. I think Q Tip was DJing.
Speaker 4: It was at Brooklyn Bowl. We had some funny pictures
Speaker 4: because bat I took some edibles that night that my.
Speaker 6: Brother or your brother forget.
Speaker 1: My brother was there.
Speaker 6: Yes, gave them holes. Yeah, your brother got the best out.
Speaker 4: Yes, And for some reason he thought he could like
Speaker 4: just keep on eating them.
Speaker 1: No, because while yeah, you gotta.
Speaker 4: And so he was passed out, like we were sitting
Speaker 4: in Brooklyn Bowl. We were there, Well, he was sitting,
Speaker 4: he couldn't move, but he was smiling, so we knew
Speaker 4: he was alive. But he was smiling the whole time
Speaker 4: that moving. And we definitely had some good pictures with
Speaker 4: your boobs all like in his face and.
Speaker 5: Stuff like that. Well, how many years ago do you
Speaker 5: think that was? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I couldn't look at it.
Speaker 5: I'm on Facebook, like if I guess, I feel like
Speaker 5: maybe ten, two thousand and nine.
Speaker 4: Wow, Oh yeah, more than that, like fourteen years like
Speaker 4: two nine maybe.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 1: That was a fun New Year's dude.
Speaker 4: Yeah, do you remember like some of your most fun
Speaker 4: New Years ever, because I feel like as I get older,
Speaker 4: new Year's.
Speaker 5: Gets more lane. Yeah me too. We were in the house.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the last fun New Year I had, like real
Speaker 2: fun New Year was in Miami.
Speaker 6: And then before that was the time that we had
Speaker 6: a part.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, came to my house.
Speaker 3: We didn't really do.
Speaker 1: That was the year do you know that we went
Speaker 1: to a party too in Brooklyn?
Speaker 6: Party and we got like the dope picture behind the graffiti.
Speaker 2: Yeah it was a bad job. Yeah, that one was cool.
Speaker 2: I had a good time about one.
Speaker 1: Do you remember your most lit New Year? What's a
Speaker 1: Saturday New Year?
Speaker 5: Like bir They're all over the place sometimes like it
Speaker 5: ends up being like house party because I like at
Speaker 5: this point, like I like to gather with my friends,
Speaker 5: but also do we really need to be out there?
Speaker 1: Let's go back to when we were out there.
Speaker 5: Ye oh, you all know he's seen it, he's seen
Speaker 5: it online.
Speaker 3: No, there was.
Speaker 5: No. There's been some good ones. So there's been some
Speaker 5: good ones and some bad ones. Yeah. I might have
Speaker 5: gotten into a fight in New York City.
Speaker 1: You got to a fight really, right?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: What were you fighting about?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 5: Like so it's one of those things where like we
Speaker 5: were kind of staying near Times Square and we were
Speaker 5: in a taxi and I was with a bunch of
Speaker 5: my friends and it was before New Year's.
Speaker 3: It was like before it was.
Speaker 5: Like maybe seven pm or something eight, like you know,
Speaker 5: it's starting to get like crazy down there, but like
Speaker 5: we need to get to the hotel real quick. The
Speaker 5: cab driver, instead of going around everything, just decided to
Speaker 5: like go straight through, and like it's all blown blocked
Speaker 5: off with people, Like people are like, no, you're not
Speaker 5: You're like there's just people.
Speaker 3: They're like, no, it's not coming.
Speaker 5: So I'm like already pissed off of the cab driver
Speaker 5: because I felt like you did this on purpose. You
Speaker 5: live here, you're attacked. You know, you can't like you know,
Speaker 5: you can't do that come all day if anybody knows,
Speaker 5: you know, And uh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So then I don't know.
Speaker 5: Like I got outside the car and I don't know
Speaker 5: what the fuck have were you drink?
Speaker 3: I was not drunk, but I was.
Speaker 1: Drinking, Okay, what were you drinking?
Speaker 3: Like champagne?
Speaker 5: Not in New Year's Like I'd been at a friend's house,
Speaker 5: like just drinking, like we were drinking, Like we're drinking, right, now.
Speaker 3: No, but like I don't know, like.
Speaker 5: You know, this was also a long time ago, but
Speaker 5: something happened. I was outside the car and like fighting
Speaker 5: with this guy. I ended up losing my hat out
Speaker 5: the car and I'm like, oh no, I'm not gonna
Speaker 5: just leave here without my hat. I go back to
Speaker 5: get my hat and like they want to fight me
Speaker 5: for my hat.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was just like this real experience.
Speaker 3: It's just like this.
Speaker 1: Crazy like experience.
Speaker 5: Don't give me at the wrong time. I'm not wanting
Speaker 5: to back down, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: We believe anything.
Speaker 6: I'm here late New Year's I'll never forget it. We would.
Speaker 2: I remember Drake had a show, Lil Wayne came out.
Speaker 2: We were backstage. It was real cool, like that's how
Speaker 2: it started. And then everybody separated and I called somebody
Speaker 2: else who was really famous, and they took me to
Speaker 2: another private party and then we were like partying to like.
Speaker 6: The sun came up twelve o'clock the next day.
Speaker 1: You have wawfles.
Speaker 2: I think Miami, Miami, that was the most lit when
Speaker 2: I was younger I ever had.
Speaker 1: I remember one year I was I can see that
Speaker 1: I think the weather got.
Speaker 4: To be nice to have a good lit New Year's
Speaker 4: I mean, I know you were in New York, you know,
Speaker 4: fighting over I had, but I feel like.
Speaker 1: When the weather is nicest, way better. But all right,
Speaker 1: so Saturday, I want to ask you this.
Speaker 4: I'm sure a lot of people recognize you all the
Speaker 4: time because you are like one of the most recognizable faces.
Speaker 4: But in particular, and I was saying this in the
Speaker 4: black community, people love you, and I was trying to
Speaker 4: explain why. But I think it's because there used to
Speaker 4: be this stigma for like if you do porn, if
Speaker 4: you're a white woman and you do porn with black actors,
Speaker 4: that it was like frowned upon and then your money.
Speaker 1: Would go down. I know people have told me that before.
Speaker 4: So can you talk a little bit about your background
Speaker 4: and how you got study and if there's any truth
Speaker 4: to that.
Speaker 5: At the time, there was a lot of truth to that.
Speaker 5: You know, It's not that way anymore, thankfully, but you know,
Speaker 5: we're talking twenty two years ago when I got started,
Speaker 5: So yeah, at the time, it was definitely like that.
Speaker 3: I didn't know it's like that, you know.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 5: The way that I got into porn was like very uh,
Speaker 5: you know, we all have our own path and it
Speaker 5: was like very organic and it's something that I sought
Speaker 5: out and that I wanted to do and I had Yeah,
Speaker 5: I had no idea that there was like a pay
Speaker 5: disparage like situation. Like I had no idea that I
Speaker 5: should or could I shouldn't say should, but that there
Speaker 5: were girls that were asking more to fuck black guys. Yeah,
Speaker 5: like that blew my mind when people would ask me
Speaker 5: how much to do this scene with this guy and
Speaker 5: I'm like, what do you mean the same as the
Speaker 5: other guy? Right, Like like that's crazy, Like are you serious?
Speaker 1: Like that is ridiculous, So that you know, like I.
Speaker 5: Just didn't even like I never even made it a
Speaker 5: thing into this day, Like I just I don't really
Speaker 5: make race the thing. Like it's just not a thing.
Speaker 1: It's not you that does it.
Speaker 4: But important definitely when you're like searching for certain things
Speaker 4: for some reason, people are like a certain like ethnicity.
Speaker 1: Sometimes people like quote unquote inter racial porn.
Speaker 3: And they like to see you know, and you know,
Speaker 3: I have a production company.
Speaker 5: And it's a very thin line between like serving like
Speaker 5: an SEO like search engine autimization and like serving people's
Speaker 5: fetishes and not fetishizing skin color. And you know, these
Speaker 5: are all like things that I think about when I'm
Speaker 5: producing content and not just like fetishizing singular but what
Speaker 5: can we do to change this view in the world,
Speaker 5: To be honest with you, because like I create images
Speaker 5: that last on people's minds forever. Whether you approve of
Speaker 5: what I do or not irrelevant, the images I create
Speaker 5: will last on somebody's mind for eternity. What kind of
Speaker 5: images I can't agree with that? You know, yeah, like
Speaker 5: you're gonna remember it, right, like if it's if it's
Speaker 5: something that like you know, you see that one thing
Speaker 5: that one time when you're at that right age when
Speaker 5: you were looking for that one thing and you just stuck,
Speaker 5: you know. And so like I want I try to
Speaker 5: be create like mindful, and of the images that I'm creating,
Speaker 5: most of the content that I create are people of
Speaker 5: mixed ethnicities, Like it'd be like, you know, your colors
Speaker 5: a benison on ourselves, you know, because that's the change
Speaker 5: that I want to see in the world. And that's
Speaker 5: the images that I want to create, And that's the
Speaker 5: things that I want people to think about when they're jerking.
Speaker 4: Off Okay, Wide Side Productions, right, that's an image of
Speaker 4: production company. What do you do for people to feel
Speaker 4: comfortable on set? Because you know, I'm sure that when
Speaker 4: you're first getting started, and we've had a lot of
Speaker 4: other apport starts up here before, they talk about their
Speaker 4: experiences like first getting started and not being so comfortable
Speaker 4: sometimes people like I have to drink, I have to smoke,
Speaker 4: I have to do whatever. So as a producer on
Speaker 4: the other side of the camera, what do you do
Speaker 4: so people can feel Eddy's.
Speaker 5: I'm like very laid back and easy going anyway. So
Speaker 5: I think just like my presence and letting them know
Speaker 5: that I'm here for them if they need anything. I'm
Speaker 5: totally accessible, going over their nose and like also their yeses,
Speaker 5: like things that they like, things that they don't like.
Speaker 1: What's a bit what's some nose that you see a
Speaker 1: lot like?
Speaker 5: Okay, So like a lot of times, like girls don't
Speaker 5: want to do anal, like if they're not booked to
Speaker 5: do anals, So like no bought stuff is like guys, yeah,
Speaker 5: and also guys will let you know, no bod stuff.
Speaker 3: Okay, everydy's no bod stuff.
Speaker 5: Hey, We're all no but stuff fantastic and then like
Speaker 5: sometimes if people have sensitive nipples, they'll be like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: I don't really like that, Like I would like it
Speaker 5: if you don't touch my nipples or like like don't
Speaker 5: smack me in the face or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's a hard note for me. It's definitely
Speaker 1: like that's a hard Yes.
Speaker 5: I'm like, what, No, do you have any knows when
Speaker 5: you Yeah, yeah, I have no anal for sure, like
Speaker 5: at all.
Speaker 1: I don't do any that would be great. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie.
Speaker 5: I know you don't do that, but yeah, so anal
Speaker 5: And actually I don't do any like family stuff. So
Speaker 5: you know you see all the stepmom and that family
Speaker 5: parents stuff out there, I actually don't do any of that.
Speaker 3: I mean they might label it whatever they label it.
Speaker 5: I can't control it after our shooter sometimes, but yeah,
Speaker 5: I just feel like there's certain boundaries that we don't
Speaker 5: need to promote, like kind of what I was saying,
Speaker 5: like I try to create responsible images and like I
Speaker 5: don't really think fucking your step mom is like like
Speaker 5: I just don't, like, you know, like I do a
Speaker 5: lot of stuff where it's like neighbors and lawyers and
Speaker 5: like nurses and like teachers and I don't know you, like,
Speaker 5: this is what I do for living, So it's like
Speaker 5: they're not related.
Speaker 6: Yeah, they're not related.
Speaker 5: And it's like it'll be like the step.
Speaker 6: Daughter and she's like, oh, thank you for teaching me that.
Speaker 5: My boyfriend, I'm not gonna like that.
Speaker 3: This is what you Yeah, it's like, this is what
Speaker 3: I do for a living.
Speaker 5: So you know, even you gotta have like your own
Speaker 5: morals on all the things that you do, you know
Speaker 5: what I care, Like, I just can't do it. Like
Speaker 5: I know people who are victims of incests.
Speaker 1: And yeah it's a person, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: It's like I just don't think that. I think that
Speaker 5: that can be taken to normalize too easily, like stepbrothers
Speaker 5: and step sisters fucking each other and stuff like, I
Speaker 5: just think it can be normalized really quickly.
Speaker 1: What's a hard yes for you?
Speaker 5: Then I'm like to be choked generally, like yeah, like
Speaker 5: yeah yeah yeah, but also like some people's like touch
Speaker 5: is wrong, but most people you could choke me before
Speaker 5: the time is right. Sometimes it's just like some people
Speaker 5: don't touch, right, you know, I don't want to touch nothing.
Speaker 4: Actually, Chemistry that chemistry thing because some people could touch
Speaker 4: you and immediately you like wet.
Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, some.
Speaker 1: People they could do that.
Speaker 3: You like, like kissing.
Speaker 5: I like kissing a lot. I'm a big fan.
Speaker 6: So you're still filming porn, So I have a question.
Speaker 6: You know, the black move the black films?
Speaker 3: Yeah, have you done?
Speaker 6: No, you haven't, Okay, Okay, that's.
Speaker 5: My favorite I've heard. Yeah, Like, I just don't like
Speaker 5: the word is a verb.
Speaker 6: Okay, So you won't do you won't work with them?
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like it's not it's not like my favorite word.
Speaker 5: Like I just feel like, even though I feel like
Speaker 5: a lot of their stuff is really pretty and it's
Speaker 5: shot really well, and like the word is a verb
Speaker 5: kind of roast me the wrong way a little bit.
Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, Yeah.
Speaker 4: But you know you're in a position where you kind of, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: you could do whatever. Yeah yeah, when did you realize
Speaker 4: that this was going to really take off for you?
Speaker 4: Because there's so many people that try it and will
Speaker 4: never reach the level of success or can't like sustain
Speaker 4: a living.
Speaker 5: That's just my personality with you. I don't care what
Speaker 5: I did. I could sell wine for a living. I
Speaker 5: could be an accountant, I could like put install these
Speaker 5: floors right here. I would be the best. I'd be
Speaker 5: the best floor installer. I'd be the best audio person,
Speaker 5: the best wine.
Speaker 2: Earlier, I used to follow you on Instagram and it's
Speaker 2: not like we follow you on Instagram.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's not.
Speaker 2: Like it's only porn. You had a great personality. I'm
Speaker 2: really enjoying following.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you went to go by psychology.
Speaker 5: I did. I went to school for a few things.
Speaker 5: I went to school for psychology. I went to school
Speaker 5: for tear design, I went to school for film.
Speaker 1: See this is all psychology probably does help a lot too.
Speaker 5: Psychology come came natural though, and like I was like, oh,
Speaker 5: look at that, I can use those little like yeah,
Speaker 5: it's it's It helps a lot in stripping too, because
Speaker 5: I was a stripper before I did porn. And like,
Speaker 5: I'll how you psychology helps a lot in stripping. Yeah, well,
Speaker 5: because you spend a lot of time talking to people.
Speaker 5: And part of being a stripper, besides like being a
Speaker 5: fit physical entertainer, you are a companion. Like, so you
Speaker 5: sit here and you talk to people, and like you
Speaker 5: can't just be like yeah, that's cool.
Speaker 4: All right, you know you have to be engaging and
Speaker 4: like ask quess, be interested.
Speaker 1: Yeah, make you feel like you're so special.
Speaker 5: And then also, yeah, you know what kind of like
Speaker 5: levels can you what kind of lines can we walk?
Speaker 5: You know, like make you feel special but not too special,
Speaker 5: but just to no special.
Speaker 4: You know, like it's yeah, what's the creepiest experience you
Speaker 4: had where you would like, okay, you got to chill?
Speaker 5: Oh so many So like let me just like say
Speaker 5: that I started out dancing. I lived in Ohio in Cincinnati,
Speaker 5: which is in the corner and it borders Kentucky and Indiana.
Speaker 1: You actually fly into.
Speaker 5: Since yeah, you fly into airport the Cincinna Airport's in Kentucky. Okay, yeah, right,
Speaker 5: so like, uh, where I lived, you had to go
Speaker 5: over to Kentucky to dance if you wanted to be
Speaker 5: a stripper. And I didn't really have a car, So
Speaker 5: we're even go to Kentucky because it's like right there.
Speaker 5: And yeah, the clubs.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there was a lot of interesting stuff. Give us
Speaker 1: an example.
Speaker 3: I mean we're like, okay, just paint that picture.
Speaker 5: You know. This is probably like nineteen ninety eight in
Speaker 5: like northern Kentucky.
Speaker 1: All right, I'm picturing it.
Speaker 6: You know the nineties.
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's like a bar, probably several of them, but
Speaker 5: the bar that you're going to probably has like four strippers.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 5: And the stage is a little bit broken when you
Speaker 5: walk it up on the step, be careful, like there's
Speaker 5: a splinter in the handrail too, So don't touch the
Speaker 5: hand the hand, you know.
Speaker 3: Like yeah, it's like it's not like the best situation.
Speaker 1: It's not glossy, No, it's not.
Speaker 5: It's not in like some of the craziest stories I
Speaker 5: have are from like those times. I mean maybe like
Speaker 5: like wildest when it comes to like you know, walking
Speaker 5: in on like orgies or like girl like naughty things
Speaker 5: and all kinds of stuff. Maybe that was Vegas, but
Speaker 5: like just like mind blowing you'll never see this again
Speaker 5: in your life, like pulp fiction esque type things. That
Speaker 5: was northern Kentucky.
Speaker 1: This guy's like a series.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like yeah, you know I saw girls shooting hairin
Speaker 5: up in their toes in the bathroom.
Speaker 3: I saw I saw like.
Speaker 1: Go in Kentucky.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I sure I saw guys like this. There
Speaker 5: was this guy who used to come in and buy
Speaker 5: girls pee wo. Yeah, like there was like all kinds
Speaker 5: of stuff. There was some guy used to come in
Speaker 5: and like I like was young, and I was like,
Speaker 5: I'm the type of person I will like run the
Speaker 5: other direction, but I.
Speaker 6: Will like I want to say, I don't want to
Speaker 6: be in.
Speaker 5: And there was this guy who used to bring in
Speaker 5: these like tools in They have a name, and I
Speaker 5: forget what they're called, but like these tools, and he
Speaker 5: would like slide the go in the bathroom and like
Speaker 5: slide the tool up his like dick and then have
Speaker 5: like a fishing line from the tool, and the girl
Speaker 5: on stage while she was dancing would pull on it,
Speaker 5: you know, like they're.
Speaker 4: Wow, Yes, but we've dominated, says, we've seen all kinds
Speaker 4: of things.
Speaker 5: So people, She's right, things you never know.
Speaker 1: But people are like all kinds of things.
Speaker 4: That's why I'm like, you'd be surprised because you can
Speaker 4: get paid to actually not have sex too. You can
Speaker 4: engage in these things where you're just like, okay, let
Speaker 4: me just pull this surprised.
Speaker 1: Let me say you some pe you know, tell me.
Speaker 2: When I was a stripper, there was this guy used
Speaker 2: to just want me to put my foot in his balls,
Speaker 2: like just yeah, with your heel, yeah, with the heel exactly,
Speaker 2: with the stripper heel just for fifteen minutes.
Speaker 5: I used to see girls get their hair brushed, like
Speaker 5: girls with real, nice fluffy hair.
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what you said, Like I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: that's regular.
Speaker 6: But then you got to the real stuff.
Speaker 1: Like she was, what's the most money you made in
Speaker 1: a night ever, like out of all in.
Speaker 5: Your dances, like you're just stripping just as a stripper stripping, honestly,
Speaker 5: not that much to be I'm not even going to
Speaker 5: upfront like maybe like eighteen hundred dollars okay, yeah, like.
Speaker 3: Nothing crazy or anything.
Speaker 5: But I worked at a different time.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I didn't.
Speaker 3: Like not at all.
Speaker 5: And I worked in different types of clubs, you know,
Speaker 5: like starting out in like Kentucky, Ohio, Indiana, right, Like
Speaker 5: it's a different time with different types of clubs. It
Speaker 5: wasn't like that, and like dances. I used to tell
Speaker 5: this story, this is like kind of mind blowing. During
Speaker 5: the recession, I was a stripper, right and I was
Speaker 5: just making that transition to porn.
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 5: So I was doing both and there would be nights
Speaker 5: where like you end up paying the club more than
Speaker 5: you are taking a Yeah, like so I remember the
Speaker 5: house was seventy bucks and the dances were thirty bucks
Speaker 5: apiece and you had to pay ten dollar out of
Speaker 5: each one of those dances to the club.
Speaker 1: So in order to go regardless, in order.
Speaker 5: To cover that, you had to do over three dances,
Speaker 5: you know, in order to take anybody moment on something.
Speaker 6: Then you start making money, and.
Speaker 5: Then you start making money on dance number four. But
Speaker 5: like nobody, it's a Tuesday in the recession and it's
Speaker 5: already two am.
Speaker 3: Nobody's you're not going to they.
Speaker 1: At least may be like freeze drinks or anything pink.
Speaker 5: Looking, yeah, get shot?
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: So what makes it a side? Okay, now it's time
Speaker 1: for me to.
Speaker 5: Do porn, because like there was so much drama, Like
Speaker 5: like I went from going to like a Midwest like
Speaker 5: little tiny indy body bar to dancing in Vegas and
Speaker 5: there was like just so much drama, so many more girls,
Speaker 5: so many more customers, so much more like drug problems
Speaker 5: and like depression and bipolar like.
Speaker 1: All these things, and I was like.
Speaker 3: This is awful, but I did.
Speaker 5: I've always really appreciated the way that adult work has
Speaker 5: helped me bring out my sexuality and it allowed me
Speaker 5: to just be sexy and experience that, and so that's
Speaker 5: something that I kind of like wanted to stay in.
Speaker 5: And I met a girl who did porn and I
Speaker 5: was like and also like my brother in law at
Speaker 5: the time, because I was married to my brother in
Speaker 5: law at the time. He really liked porn and he
Speaker 5: would always have me take him to the porn shop
Speaker 5: on pay day.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 5: Like this happened for years, right, Like I hadn't really
Speaker 5: watched porn a lot, but like that's how my introduction. No,
Speaker 5: but like I would go to the porn shop and
Speaker 5: he would be like doing whatever he was doing, and.
Speaker 3: I would just like look at the back of boxes
Speaker 3: and be like, wow, this looks like fun kind of.
Speaker 4: And you said your husband used to actually you had
Speaker 4: to take pictures and I did.
Speaker 5: He's the one from help me get started a little bit,
Speaker 5: you know.
Speaker 1: Was he ever jealous?
Speaker 5: You know, I don't think he was ever jealous, like,
Speaker 5: but we did like kind of grow apart. I think
Speaker 5: just because he wasn't really looking for like a real exciting,
Speaker 5: like dynamic lifestyle. And I didn't know that I was
Speaker 5: when I met him. I meta when I was so young,
Speaker 5: you know. But once she started popping off for me.
Speaker 5: I was like, I want to kind of like yeah,
Speaker 5: you know, yeah, and he was like cool, it was
Speaker 5: just chilling at home, right, Yeah, it was. Have you
Speaker 5: ever dated anybody that you been on film with? No?
Speaker 5: I don't, you know what, I'll be honest, I don't
Speaker 5: really date. You don't date?
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I don't really date.
Speaker 5: It's so complicated to like date somebody, you know, because
Speaker 5: that's a lot to expect somebody, you know, to deal with,
Speaker 5: like all that I am not only the fact that
Speaker 5: like sex is involved in my work, because sex could
Speaker 5: easily not be involved in my work too, Like I've
Speaker 5: got enough stuff going on I could. Yeah. That's why
Speaker 5: I asked you if yeah, because like why not? Yeah,
Speaker 5: like absolutely, why not? Like I say, I still like sex,
Speaker 5: like why not? But I don't have to, you know.
Speaker 5: But the thing is is that now I'm Sarah J.
Speaker 5: So in addition to dealing with the fact that I
Speaker 5: may or may not be having sex with while in
Speaker 5: a relationship with you, now you also have to deal
Speaker 5: with the fact that I am Sarah Ja. Want to
Speaker 5: go out in public in place and people are like,
Speaker 5: oh my gosh, your day.
Speaker 1: I love your words.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and what's that you know, your uncle and like, yeah, some.
Speaker 1: Guys might take pride in that too.
Speaker 5: Some guys do, absolutely, but it's like it's not something
Speaker 5: that I'm like actively looking for, you know, it's just
Speaker 5: like whatever, if it's cool, something awesome happens, it does
Speaker 5: you know what else a value?
Speaker 1: You keep everything confidential.
Speaker 4: Of course, people would be like, oh, you dated this person,
Speaker 4: you dated that person. You know, they were saying Barack
Speaker 4: Obama was a your DM, but because Barack Obama was
Speaker 4: following her, it turned into a big thing.
Speaker 1: I remember that I was like, okay, Sara Jay because
Speaker 1: residential Sara Jay, And I was like, listen, first of U,
Speaker 1: it's a human thing. He probably definitely was like, oh
Speaker 1: I enjoyed this.
Speaker 2: Movies, but you're a personal Obama.
Speaker 4: That was loan up all over the place. When that happened,
Speaker 4: people were like interviewing you about that.
Speaker 3: I remember everybody wanted.
Speaker 5: To scoop on that, and it's like, you know, I
Speaker 5: just wanted to like kind of let it go. It's
Speaker 5: actually it happened like it's so long ago that like,
Speaker 5: and people didn't really pick up on it until late,
Speaker 5: Like he started following me in two thousand and eight,
Speaker 5: and I honestly think that it was just like that
Speaker 5: time in Twitter when Twitter was first just starting to pop,
Speaker 5: when you followed everybody that followed you, you know, and.
Speaker 6: I always to this day.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was definitely like a supporter of Obama during
Speaker 5: his election, you know, so like that could have happened.
Speaker 3: Or maybe he likes to watch my work, right, that's
Speaker 3: cool too.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And when people will start bring out like let
Speaker 5: the man be just be Okay, I'm making but I'm like,
Speaker 5: you're just making it hot. But y'all make it hot,
Speaker 5: like I've known even following me, and nobody nobody's saying
Speaker 5: when they do it, I just ignore them, like leave
Speaker 5: it alone, let him follow me.
Speaker 3: Maybe he's just it's fine.
Speaker 4: What do you think when people say that watching porn
Speaker 4: can ruin your sex life, because we've had several people
Speaker 4: say that there's a lot of a lot of people
Speaker 4: that believe that that when you watch porn, there's these
Speaker 4: unrealistic expectations and it's dangerous.
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel.
Speaker 5: Like anything can be dangerous, and I do feel like
Speaker 5: it can be a tool to use. You can over
Speaker 5: use it, you can misuse it. But I feel like
Speaker 5: porn also can be a tool to use to like
Speaker 5: there's lots of different kinds of horns. Education.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it can't be educated.
Speaker 5: I have to watch the extreme ship, like watch some
Speaker 5: lovely do you stuff, you know, I love flashing.
Speaker 6: Like watching porn with my man and being like, okay,
Speaker 6: let's do that.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's try this.
Speaker 6: Yeah, let's put but let's put.
Speaker 3: My leg there.
Speaker 6: Let's see what happened. Like I said, ed vocational, I
Speaker 6: like watching porn.
Speaker 3: In my inspiration for your faster too.
Speaker 6: With porn on the TV one, I'm fucking.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, Like I find that like when I
Speaker 5: have met people who have like a d D and
Speaker 5: they're like brains all over the place. If you like
Speaker 5: kind of put porn on and kind of submerge them
Speaker 5: in sex, it kind of helps, right, you put your own.
Speaker 3: Porn on, you know, I do not like no.
Speaker 5: Like and it's super hard, Like I would prefer not
Speaker 5: to pick the porn that we're putting on because I
Speaker 5: know her, I know him, I know that cow, you know,
Speaker 5: like I know that there's like yeah, I know exactly
Speaker 5: where they're filming. Like I just and I am so
Speaker 5: distracted by all that I'm like, oh, she's not enjoying it.
Speaker 5: Her foothurts I can tell, like, yeah, it's awful. Like
Speaker 5: I'm not the person to watch porn with, but you
Speaker 5: should put something on while I'm stucking you or looking
Speaker 5: you or whatever.
Speaker 3: Go ahead and help yourself to whatever.
Speaker 7: Enjoy all your senses. You actually, like, enjoy every single scene.
Speaker 7: Have you ever faked and a scene?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Like real, real, like no, you know, Like I mean,
Speaker 5: i am creating a product, and I am trying to
Speaker 5: make a good product, but at the same time, I'm
Speaker 5: also trying to get off.
Speaker 3: So I'm going to do everything I possibly can.
Speaker 5: To get off on this other person that I am
Speaker 5: with right now, and I hope it works out. If not,
Speaker 5: I'll throw in a fake one for your.
Speaker 1: Camera.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because you know, we all have days that are
Speaker 4: off days too, and we all have days like now
Speaker 4: don't feel like going to work.
Speaker 5: And also sometimes I like, I mean, we're all women here,
Speaker 5: we know that we have many different types of orgasms.
Speaker 3: Sometimes you have.
Speaker 5: A little one. You're like that, I don't know if
Speaker 5: that was monumental enough for camera.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got should do it, over do it?
Speaker 2: You hire bluffers, like do you have people that are
Speaker 2: like are buffers like fuers?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, not really like that. There are fluffers
Speaker 5: in scenes, but they're usually for like multiple persons scenes,
Speaker 5: sometimes like gang bangs or something like if there's like
Speaker 5: a lot of guys involved, like and they all need
Speaker 5: to look hard or like somewhat alive at the same time,
Speaker 5: sometimes they'll have fluffers for that. But it's fair.
Speaker 3: It's rare that they have fluffers anymore.
Speaker 6: And you don't you guys don't use them on the women.
Speaker 1: No, we don't need that. You know what you can
Speaker 1: get bro, have you ever? And I have to assume
Speaker 1: that this happens.
Speaker 4: Just like we have up days, there's got to be
Speaker 4: times when guys also have up days and they just
Speaker 4: can't perform.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you do in a situation like that?
Speaker 1: Is it just I go home? Or like what?
Speaker 3: Okay? So, like, as the female performer, uh, I.
Speaker 5: Try to like pull out every sexual trick in the
Speaker 5: book to try to make it happen, because like, I
Speaker 5: want to create this product and I do want to
Speaker 5: go home with a paycheck today, and I also like
Speaker 5: the worst thing that can happen, right, the absolute worst
Speaker 5: thing that can happen. I guess is that, like I
Speaker 5: try for a really long time with this guy and
Speaker 5: it doesn't work out, Like maybe they got me suck
Speaker 5: in his dick for like two hours by by to
Speaker 5: my choice, because I feel like that this might be
Speaker 5: like the solution.
Speaker 1: I'm not sucking anybody's dick now, Okay, I'm a change.
Speaker 5: I can do it. Like it's okay, I can do it.
Speaker 5: But then but then two hours, come on, we're.
Speaker 1: Guys stopping fucking. Then you suckle, you sucking just the hole?
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe both like whatever. I'm I'm a team players,
Speaker 5: so like whatever we need to do. So like let's
Speaker 5: say I've been working on this gentleman for like two
Speaker 5: hours and I'm like, I have to tell the director.
Speaker 5: I'm like, look, it's not gonna happen. He thinks it's
Speaker 5: going to happen, but it's not going to happen.
Speaker 3: I'm like, you, no, this is not definitely dead water
Speaker 3: because you got.
Speaker 5: To realize we already filmed like all the pick up,
Speaker 5: all this sh that was outside at the park. We
Speaker 5: took three takes at the park, like there was kids around.
Speaker 5: They kept on screaming. You know what I'm saying it
Speaker 5: was like, okay, so now we're just at the end and.
Speaker 4: I just need you to do your thing right the
Speaker 4: money shot, right, we just we're ready for you now,
Speaker 4: and like he just can't do it.
Speaker 5: So then they're like, well, I mean we can call
Speaker 5: this other guy and he can just come in and
Speaker 5: dumpload on you. And you're like, great, why.
Speaker 6: Didn't we do that twenty minutes ago?
Speaker 5: But no, also like okay, so as a female, cool,
Speaker 5: you're like, yeah, do that.
Speaker 3: Let's let's turry up and get this.
Speaker 5: If you're happy with that, I'm happy with that. Let's
Speaker 5: do this right. As a director, which I'm also a
Speaker 5: director and a producer, I'm like, that is exactly what
Speaker 5: I don't want to do.
Speaker 4: That's a different dick anybody ever, Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 5: I had this amazing videographer that if we ever had
Speaker 5: to do that, which we'd never have to do that,
Speaker 5: but if we ever had to do that.
Speaker 3: He would be able to do the best he could.
Speaker 3: It like trying to line up the head of the dick.
Speaker 5: And no, what we normally do is we do know
Speaker 5: we do fake internal pop, what we call a FIP,
Speaker 5: and that's like a fake internal pop like we will
Speaker 5: put like fake com in the pussy and make it
Speaker 5: look like it was a cream pie scene. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 5: we have to save the scene. Like we spent all fucking.
Speaker 1: Day shooting this there.
Speaker 5: Abandoned to hold the crew, you know, Like yeah, it's
Speaker 5: like there's a lot of things to go in.
Speaker 2: Trap for two hours first of all three minutes.
Speaker 5: So I don't like, I don't let the girls work
Speaker 5: that hard on my stuff because I know how it's
Speaker 5: how it is, you know, Like so like when as
Speaker 5: soon as I can tell she's like starting to get
Speaker 5: a little sweaty and like you know how it is
Speaker 5: when she goes from one hand to the other, I'm like, okay,
Speaker 5: we need to figure out and I'll pull then side.
Speaker 5: I'm like, what do you need?
Speaker 3: Like what is it that I can get for you?
Speaker 5: Is there anything that I can do? You need hotter?
Speaker 5: Do you need a cold or? Do you need water?
Speaker 5: Do you need gate Riad? Do you need vigor?
Speaker 3: Do you need what can.
Speaker 5: I get for you magazine? Do you need to look
Speaker 5: at somebody? You need to look at the internet, You
Speaker 5: need to call somebody? But I don't know. Yeah, I
Speaker 5: like to do it and I will literally just go
Speaker 5: through all the things that you could possibly need. Like
Speaker 5: I'm here for you, I'm on your team. There's no pressure,
Speaker 5: but we would like you to come today, and like,
Speaker 5: how can I get that from you?
Speaker 1: Do you look at this.
Speaker 3: That's the boss?
Speaker 7: Do you prefer doing more producing or actually being on scene?
Speaker 2: Do you know?
Speaker 5: I've been doing it twenty two years, so it's obviously
Speaker 5: changed a lot. Like when I was younger, it was like, yeah,
Speaker 5: just fuck me, it's just great. And now that I'm older,
Speaker 5: I really get pride out of creating a product, So
Speaker 5: that's cool. And I'm also like personally, like sexually, like
Speaker 5: definitely a voyeur, so I get a little like satisfaction.
Speaker 3: I was like telling people what.
Speaker 5: To do and watch them and be like, oh, you
Speaker 5: need to suck her harder, and you know, put your
Speaker 5: leg up over there.
Speaker 3: We need to see it more. I need to see
Speaker 3: your balls hanging down. Yeah, I know, it's fine. Ye,
Speaker 3: it's super fun.
Speaker 6: What do you.
Speaker 1: What do you think make somebody a star?
Speaker 5: You know? Okay, So marketing and promotion, unfortunately, I feel
Speaker 5: like a lot of times these people that we are
Speaker 5: familiar with, we're familiar with them because there was a
Speaker 5: large company that backed them, put a lot of money
Speaker 5: behind them and shove them all in your faces, you know,
Speaker 5: and you're like, oh, this person must be the best,
Speaker 5: and it's like not necessarily that's who that company backed
Speaker 5: and put all their advertising dollars.
Speaker 1: Like the music business, of course that worse.
Speaker 5: So like I feel that for me, the people that
Speaker 5: we like to work with and that we would consider
Speaker 5: stars are people that actually truly like sex, also are
Speaker 5: fully like responsible health wise, physical appearance. They present themselves
Speaker 5: as a good product, like they're a good product inside out.
Speaker 5: They're a pleasure to work with. They're like people who
Speaker 5: you know, do a lot of self promoting and stuff.
Speaker 5: So I used to manage talent, and that's what I
Speaker 5: would look for is people that take.
Speaker 3: Pride in their product.
Speaker 5: Understand that we are having a great time, but we
Speaker 5: are making a product.
Speaker 3: Also it's still yeah, it'll still work, you know, just
Speaker 3: like music.
Speaker 5: Just like you said, you know, it's like super fun
Speaker 5: to hang out on the street on it, but you
Speaker 5: gotta turn something in the time. Everybody in the morning here.
Speaker 7: Yeah, So when did you start having sex? Like what
Speaker 7: was like, at what age did.
Speaker 5: You start having I was eighteen, was yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: you know, I give him an only child, and so
Speaker 5: I grew up around adults, and I knew that the
Speaker 5: person that I was going to lose my Virginia too
Speaker 5: would be an adult. So I just waited until I
Speaker 5: was in the.
Speaker 1: Black nobody to do.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I wasn't intracted to anybody that went to school
Speaker 5: with or anything like that. Like I gave a couple
Speaker 5: of blow jobs to some friends just to see how
Speaker 5: I was doing and try it on. I mean, give
Speaker 5: me some constructive credits.
Speaker 1: And be.
Speaker 4: But like the fast then I did that, I did
Speaker 4: not know what I was doing, So yeah, that's yeah
Speaker 4: at all.
Speaker 3: I think I did a little bit, like I think
Speaker 3: something there.
Speaker 2: I think I knew what I was doing the first
Speaker 2: time I gave a blow job, because the blow job
Speaker 2: I was giving to wasn't somebody who was really big.
Speaker 1: So yeah they were easy.
Speaker 2: Yeah you can't no hands. Yeah that was a throat
Speaker 2: like the first few times because he wasn't you know,
Speaker 2: we were kids.
Speaker 6: We were he was a kid too, he was like seventeen.
Speaker 6: I'm not going to say, oh that was.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, like I like was a tomboy and stuff.
Speaker 5: So I was always listening to what I was like
Speaker 5: to and they were complaining about Ohio, Cincinnata.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I was there at the past
Speaker 1: and Gamble headquarters.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I feel like like East Coasters we saw
Speaker 2: Tower like even Philly. Like you, they started early and
Speaker 2: fail me too, right like yeah, I mean like New
Speaker 2: York was started you started late?
Speaker 5: Right? No?
Speaker 4: No, no, Actually, the first time I had sex it
Speaker 4: was so bad I didn't do it again for a
Speaker 4: couple of years. Oh yes, I lost my virginity because
Speaker 4: it was like my boyfriend for a while, I was
Speaker 4: moving and I was like all right, let me and
Speaker 4: I actually didn't really want to. He kept pressuring me,
Speaker 4: and then finally like he just did it. It was
Speaker 4: so bad. I was like, this is terrible. This is
Speaker 4: not what they talked about. Because we were on the
Speaker 4: poor He said, what no beans, No, yeah, well now
Speaker 4: he was because I was.
Speaker 1: I would be like okay, okay, and then he would try.
Speaker 4: And like no, I use my mind, you know, because
Speaker 4: I was scared and he wasn't good at like we
Speaker 4: were young, you know, he was a virgin two, so
Speaker 4: he didn't know how to.
Speaker 1: Like get me ready.
Speaker 3: I was eighteen, he was thirty six.
Speaker 1: Damn.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just sweet.
Speaker 1: So he really knew what he was doing though.
Speaker 5: So yeah, but you know, he didn't believe it. He
Speaker 5: was taking my virginity, so like he didn't pay it
Speaker 5: no mind. He was just like whatever, I didn't eat
Speaker 5: your pussy. No, definitely not. There was definitely no pussy
Speaker 5: eating happening.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he wasn't.
Speaker 5: No, Like he had a really nice dick, and it
Speaker 5: was like a lot for me to take.
Speaker 3: I remember being like, oh, that's a lot. But also
Speaker 3: but also like he just wasn't.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 5: He was like not a good fuck at all, and
Speaker 5: I was, but I think they kind of set me
Speaker 5: on a trajectory like, Okay, I know this gets better.
Speaker 6: Yet I was.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, yeah, it gets better.
Speaker 3: When it was your first time actually climax and durant.
Speaker 7: And of course because that clip then went crazy, I
Speaker 7: saw so many different things about you know, because I
Speaker 7: was saying that when I was younger, I had my
Speaker 7: son at sixteen, and I literally the way you guys
Speaker 7: saying how I lost my virginity to him, It was
Speaker 7: more so everybody around us was having sex and he
Speaker 7: was cheating on me and having sex. So I didn't
Speaker 7: want him to step out and go have sex with others.
Speaker 7: So I was like, I gotta have sex with him.
Speaker 5: Like, so she was.
Speaker 7: Saying that I didn't. I never climax during intercourse with him.
Speaker 7: What was the first time that being that you started
Speaker 7: at eighteen with a grown.
Speaker 3: It right, it definitely wasn't that time. Debinitely wasn't.
Speaker 5: I got off with like finger fucking a lot, Like
Speaker 5: I had a lot of organs, a lot of finger
Speaker 5: fucking orgasms.
Speaker 1: I tell you that's underrated.
Speaker 3: No, No, it's.
Speaker 1: Yes, I think today people I like it.
Speaker 6: It's not howdish you know, finger make me squirrel?
Speaker 3: Yes, you know, like even.
Speaker 1: Bring back saying, yeah, I'm not gonna be that.
Speaker 5: It's hard for me to remember because I know that
Speaker 5: I got off so many times with finger fucking before
Speaker 5: actual like dick sex orgasms. But it was probably honestly,
Speaker 5: it was probably with my husband because I got married
Speaker 5: at a young age.
Speaker 3: I got married at nineteen.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yes, exactly.
Speaker 3: My husband was number seven?
Speaker 4: Did you cheat on did you ever cheat on him?
Speaker 4: While you guys were I mean, I know you were
Speaker 4: doing but did you ever do things that you.
Speaker 1: Were like not while a terrible wife.
Speaker 5: I'm the first, you know, I know you have to.
Speaker 5: That's like where your freedom lies. Like as you get
Speaker 5: older and you get more mature, you realize that there's
Speaker 5: so much freedom and just being honest and truthful right
Speaker 5: when you fucked up? I was married all my twenties.
Speaker 5: I did terrible things.
Speaker 2: Yes, no, but I was in a relationship young and
Speaker 2: so my twenties and I wasn't married, but I feel
Speaker 2: like I was horrible. Yeah, you're young, you want to
Speaker 2: do things.
Speaker 5: Yeah, tell me some of the faust ship you did,
Speaker 5: you know, some of this stuff, Like I can't even
Speaker 5: like really speak on it because it's so fucking found
Speaker 5: that we want to hear it. Like I definitely, like,
Speaker 5: you know, I definitely like traveled like all over the US,
Speaker 5: especially as I just first started doing porn, and I
Speaker 5: would just like have sex with whoever, Like you smile
Speaker 5: at me the way way am I fucking Yeah? I
Speaker 5: mean alive, like because I was really like because but
Speaker 5: this is so crazy, but like feel my mind set,
Speaker 5: and yeah, it's because I was secure in.
Speaker 1: My relationship at home. Like I wasn't looking for a relationship.
Speaker 5: I just wanted to taste everybody and see how they felt,
Speaker 5: you know, like I already had a relationship that was
Speaker 5: like totally secure in So I'm out here already having
Speaker 5: sex for work. You know, part of my job is sex.
Speaker 5: So like, what's it matter? Like, I just what do
Speaker 5: you taste?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 3: What do you taste like? What do you taste light like?
Speaker 1: Like? Like do you think it was kind of an addiction?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 3: Not so much?
Speaker 5: Maybe a search, Okay, I'll try out. Yeah, like I
Speaker 5: was because I guess because I didn't. I was very
Speaker 5: like sexually interested, you know, like and sexually open, and
Speaker 5: I didn't have a lot of experiences as a young person.
Speaker 5: Once I became eighteen and then I got married at nineteen,
Speaker 5: I already had my situation in my life like solidified.
Speaker 5: I love my husband, I loved our thing. At home,
Speaker 5: everything was great. But now that like I have part
Speaker 5: of my life on the road, it's like, oh, everything's
Speaker 5: good at home. I'm not looking for relationship. I don't
Speaker 5: have to worry about anything my heart broken because my
Speaker 5: heart is not involved in this. Stuck you dickings, see
Speaker 5: what it looks like, and I might let you.
Speaker 4: Bun be over some women, some people think women can't
Speaker 4: have sex without emotions involved, and that's.
Speaker 1: Definitely not true now.
Speaker 4: So people that's a popular misconception, right that men and
Speaker 4: women have sex for different reasons.
Speaker 5: And I feel like sometimes we do. That's I mean, yeah,
Speaker 5: maybe that's common, but also sometimes.
Speaker 7: We don't, you know, like it's acause if like we're
Speaker 7: not supposed to enjoy sex, like we enjoy it too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got to be in craved. We enjoy it.
Speaker 4: We just always don't have to be in love. But
Speaker 4: think gets better when you're in love. Yeah, I mean everything, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: I mean.
Speaker 3: It's just chemistry.
Speaker 5: It's just science, the whole serotone.
Speaker 1: I got to ask you, who was the best sex
Speaker 1: you ever had? On camera?
Speaker 4: I want to go camera so we can look up
Speaker 4: some of his right.
Speaker 5: Honestly, I always have like great sex with Lexington Steel.
Speaker 1: I actually have a mold of his digging home is huge.
Speaker 3: It is very good.
Speaker 1: Wow you do, Yeah, I have a mold of it.
Speaker 5: Him and I are like friends, so it's like we
Speaker 5: have a nice friendship. But then also I always appreciate
Speaker 5: like how loud he is and how like verbal no,
Speaker 5: because like I look for feedback, like I'm a lover,
Speaker 5: like when I'm having.
Speaker 3: Sex with you.
Speaker 5: I'm like looking at you to see what you're feeling
Speaker 5: like this, and he's so easy to read, you know,
Speaker 5: like he's just such an easy person to have sex with. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 5: and he sounds great.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's huge though it is us Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 1: I yeah, I did steal. Yeah, you're right, you're an expert.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Like a mouth and two hands, he's definitely your mouth
Speaker 5: and two hands.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: I have a contrary to probably believe.
Speaker 5: I don't really usually go down too big on like
Speaker 5: really big dicks, because you end up just digging your
Speaker 5: teeth on the back of him. You know. That's why
Speaker 5: a lot of times to get my hand involved, especially
Speaker 5: on really.
Speaker 1: Big has a second dick.
Speaker 2: No, no, And you're right, when a guy you don't
Speaker 2: have to like unless he wants to push you there, yeah,
Speaker 2: wants to fill your throat. But when he has a
Speaker 2: really big dick, two hands, yeah, hands, mouth, feel like.
Speaker 5: I wanted to see how he looks.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, hands in our mouths like put a hot,
Speaker 2: warm pussy on that when the dick is big enough.
Speaker 6: That's not for what I saw, all right, Now, give
Speaker 6: us a couple of tips.
Speaker 4: Let's just say you're having sex, right, and we were
Speaker 4: talking about this earlier and the guy just isn't coming
Speaker 4: and you're ready to be done.
Speaker 1: What are some things that you can do to get
Speaker 1: it gone?
Speaker 5: Well, like, you know, contact, First of all, you have
Speaker 5: to see what's doing it for them. You have to
Speaker 5: look at their eyes and see Sometimes you can just
Speaker 5: look at somebody's eyes and make that eye contact and
Speaker 5: that will get them in the zone. I will like
Speaker 5: pull back from like sucking it maybe so much, and
Speaker 5: like start talking dirty and like staring at their eyes
Speaker 5: and talking dirty, like and like being like a cheerleader
Speaker 5: for the com like, oh, I want you to come
Speaker 5: to talk about where you want to, like come on
Speaker 5: my face, Yes, talk about I love you works. Come
Speaker 5: on my face works.
Speaker 2: And I feel like, like you said, contact, kissing them
Speaker 2: on the neck, rubbing their back.
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's something to do. And I'm not a scientist.
Speaker 5: I'm just a porn star, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: But there's something about making like a circuit right, like
Speaker 5: when you with your touch, so like if you have
Speaker 5: like an extra hand or something, touch him somewhere, you know,
Speaker 5: like there's something about me and it goes the same
Speaker 5: with you too, Like when you're about to have an orgasm, sate,
Speaker 5: you're like on top of him, about to have an orgasm.
Speaker 5: If he reaches and touches your neck or touches your titties,
Speaker 5: you're more like, yeah, yeah, there's it's something to do
Speaker 5: with the closing the circuit, you know, Like that's the
Speaker 5: way I think about it.
Speaker 2: And I feel like like even when I'm in missionary position,
Speaker 2: like when I find my hands on doing anything, it's like.
Speaker 3: Put your hands around his neck or on you have
Speaker 3: to close.
Speaker 6: I always say, yeah, like I owe my hands.
Speaker 3: I feel like you feel the energy shift when you
Speaker 3: do that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I always have to be grubbing the back
Speaker 2: or having my hand on the thigh a neck exactly,
Speaker 2: Like hands always have to be in motion. Like I've
Speaker 2: caught myself like with a hand a dead hand and
Speaker 2: missionary and I'm like, what do you do?
Speaker 1: I'm not working hard enough?
Speaker 5: No good hands. Yeah, you know there are like little
Speaker 5: things to like look to see if they're enjoying it.
Speaker 5: Like you know, you might try kiss, you might try
Speaker 5: a neck, you might try a nipple, might try the nuts,
Speaker 5: you might try looking.
Speaker 3: At them in the shade. And like be dirty talking.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like breathing in the ear.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll take my tongue and like rub it all
Speaker 5: around your ear while I'm twisting your nipple with one
Speaker 5: hand and jerking your cock with the other.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I don't know.
Speaker 1: What is something that guys like that.
Speaker 4: Maybe we don't do enough that you've learned like from
Speaker 4: a head of by ways for sure.
Speaker 5: Okay, like nipples hands down is like a big, big
Speaker 5: thing for guys, like a lot more than and maybe
Speaker 5: they don't even know. Like just go for it, like
Speaker 5: unless they say no, go for a nipple.
Speaker 6: I always go for a nipple. Get the guys that
Speaker 6: are like what are you doing?
Speaker 5: No, guys do really like that, you know, if you're
Speaker 5: wondering what you're about to do to this nipple, I
Speaker 5: wouldn't just like tweak the nipple, right, So like maybe
Speaker 5: like put a little spin on your finger some and
Speaker 5: just kind of like rub it in circles.
Speaker 3: Yeah, start out with that.
Speaker 5: And then maybe like your mouth. But yeah, nipple will
Speaker 5: surprise even the guy and will be like.
Speaker 2: Oh show maybe it's like that. Yeah, maybe it's my
Speaker 2: fault because I make it funny the nipples. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: because I go put a nipple and I make it funny.
Speaker 6: Maybe it's my fall.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, make it a little more. Yeah, you
Speaker 3: can do it while you're making out or like you
Speaker 3: like magic.
Speaker 5: You know that's good advice.
Speaker 6: Thank you.
Speaker 4: I also remember the story of the Sara Day Soldier.
Speaker 4: You were trending right, and the Sara Day Soldiers were
Speaker 4: just really giving you your props. No, I know, you
Speaker 4: know did you love that about what was I trending
Speaker 4: for that time? I think I would just giving you
Speaker 4: your props?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, it's cool, Like I I'm so appreciative
Speaker 5: that people still talk about me twenty two years.
Speaker 1: Now, that's a long time to be like cool.
Speaker 3: It's super cool.
Speaker 5: And sometimes they're talking ship and sometimes sometimes.
Speaker 3: They say it nice stuff.
Speaker 1: They no, it's the money here.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I could care less to be honest with you.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, you guys people are you guys still
Speaker 5: give a fuck what I'm doing? That's nice?
Speaker 2: And the people who are talking shit are probably watching
Speaker 2: some of the stuff you produce and direct.
Speaker 5: You know what, There is so much stuff that I've
Speaker 5: had my fingerprint on in adult industry. It's impossible not
Speaker 5: to it's impossible not to either you saw a performer
Speaker 5: that I managed, a scene that I directed, a scene
Speaker 5: that I produced, a scene that I was in, Like,
Speaker 5: it's impossible to like avoid me, Like when you break
Speaker 5: up with me.
Speaker 2: It's impossible to you gonna see me on Instagram. You're
Speaker 2: gonna hear me on the radio.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I see me on CV, Like.
Speaker 2: It's just you're gonna run into me, bro, no matter
Speaker 2: what if you ain't me or not.
Speaker 5: And I'm gonna be any better. Block my whole name,
Speaker 5: Mute my whole word and everything. Block everything.
Speaker 1: That deep before filming with women or with men her
Speaker 1: for threesomes.
Speaker 5: Like a lot of what I shoot is a lot
Speaker 5: of threesomes, because I feel like you get the best
Speaker 5: of both worlds. If you are somebody who wanted to
Speaker 5: see these two girls together, gets what you're gonna see it.
Speaker 5: You're gonna see the guy and the girl again, You're
Speaker 5: gonna see you're gonna see the other guy and the
Speaker 5: other girl together, and then you're gonna see three someome.
Speaker 5: I think threesome is like the best of everything.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what about two guys.
Speaker 5: And a girl?
Speaker 3: Like I love that too, I love that too.
Speaker 5: But viewers don't like like that as much, because like
Speaker 5: everybody wants to fantasize about the two roll threesome. But
Speaker 5: I think a lot of times women fantasize about the
Speaker 5: two guy threesomes.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I guess some guys, even guys, watch Poorn
Speaker 4: more than definitely, yeah, a lot more.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I throw one in there every now. And Here's
Speaker 5: the other thing is like I don't like to force
Speaker 5: things to happen, So like if it's easy to cast, like, oh,
Speaker 5: you two.
Speaker 3: Guys work together before, Oh did you want to do
Speaker 3: a scene with these two guys? Okay, cool, let's do
Speaker 3: that next week.
Speaker 5: But like I need to know it's going to be easy.
Speaker 5: I don't want to put you as a guy. If
Speaker 5: you were a guy and you over there, if you
Speaker 5: guys don't really know each other, and you guys haven't
Speaker 5: touch penis and.
Speaker 1: Make sure you guys are comfy.
Speaker 5: No, I would. I prefer it, Like I want my
Speaker 5: day to be easy. I'm trying to make my life
Speaker 5: easier and harder.
Speaker 1: I feel like I could write a good scene.
Speaker 5: You probably can.
Speaker 6: And produced Poorn.
Speaker 4: Now I would write some day and then Sarah Jay
Speaker 4: can direct it and produce it.
Speaker 3: Absolutely I can do it.
Speaker 6: This sounds like a partnership.
Speaker 4: I just you know, people are so scared. I mean,
Speaker 4: part of why we do lip services. People be so
Speaker 4: nervous and scared to talk about sex. And I think
Speaker 4: these are healthy conversations to have.
Speaker 1: But you know, some people like they some people appreciate.
Speaker 4: It because there's no other place for them to hear
Speaker 4: certain conversations. And I think it is educational. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 4: what are your dms? Like, I'm sure people hit you
Speaker 4: up and ask you questions all the time. It's like
Speaker 4: the most popular question you get.
Speaker 5: Most of them are about anal which is really funny
Speaker 5: because I don't real.
Speaker 4: Yeah, people go in on your personal life.
Speaker 1: No, it's like a button plot.
Speaker 3: No, you know what, I'll take a tongue.
Speaker 5: In my ask there is it? Yeah, No, I get
Speaker 5: nervous about poop after that.
Speaker 3: I mean, more power to you if you do it.
Speaker 3: But that's I mean.
Speaker 4: I'm telling you though, with this, Loube, they would sell
Speaker 4: out if you.
Speaker 1: Just want to think about marketing person.
Speaker 5: I know, I know, Yeah, a lot of guys want
Speaker 5: to want to also tell their partner how to improve
Speaker 5: That seems to be effect.
Speaker 3: A very common thing.
Speaker 5: Like you know, I don't really like the way my
Speaker 5: girl sucks my dick, Like, how do I tell her
Speaker 5: that she's like killing it?
Speaker 3: You know, Like.
Speaker 5: I get I give a lot of like guys that
Speaker 5: are not pleased with their partner and they don't know
Speaker 5: how to communicate that.
Speaker 1: That's tough. That sensitive about that too. But part of
Speaker 1: being in a.
Speaker 4: Great relationship is being able to communicate those things in
Speaker 4: a positive way.
Speaker 5: Yeah. One of the things that I think a lot
Speaker 5: of people just like overlook and it's just so easy
Speaker 5: to do, is to like be verbal during sex. And
Speaker 5: you don't even necessarily have to think of like creative ship.
Speaker 5: You can just be like, oh I like that, yo,
Speaker 5: oh yeah, that's great. And then when you don't like something,
Speaker 5: shut the fuck upright like like but when you go
Speaker 5: back to the good thing, you're like, oh, yeah.
Speaker 4: I know that that baby whoa not there?
Speaker 5: Do you know what he was doing is I'm actually
Speaker 5: to click Like.
Speaker 2: Old men like getting their dicks suck differently, just like
Speaker 2: women like getpuiate differently. So I like hands and people,
Speaker 2: don't I really appreciate when the guy tells me like
Speaker 2: exactly where he wants my head or you know what
Speaker 2: position he wants me to be in that he likes
Speaker 2: because I might be doing something crazy that I I
Speaker 2: think it's wonderful and it's.
Speaker 1: Like hurrying him or something.
Speaker 6: So I like, I was with a guy and you know,
Speaker 6: I remember he would tell me.
Speaker 2: He would like he would tell me, like and it
Speaker 2: felt good for him to tell me, like, you know,
Speaker 2: because I I like taking instructions, so you know, like
Speaker 2: once I knew what he liked it was, he didn't
Speaker 2: have to tell me anymore, you know, And I was hot,
Speaker 2: and I like taking instructions, like I like when a
Speaker 2: guy be like th like breathe take it, take it further, brief,
Speaker 2: breathe a little.
Speaker 3: That's how my trust was like.
Speaker 5: That with me, And honestly, it was so helpful and
Speaker 5: like I feel like I stuck really good dick because
Speaker 5: of him, like I do. I do, like we all
Speaker 5: learn different things in each other. But like yeah, he'd
Speaker 5: be like, okay, a little tighter with your middle ring finger,
Speaker 5: and I'm like, like it's just him and I, so
Speaker 5: like yeah, he'd be like super specific and yeah, I
Speaker 5: like a couple or anything else, not.
Speaker 3: At all, not at all.
Speaker 5: He was super dominant. Like I we had a really
Speaker 5: we had a decent, you know, decent sexual life. Like,
Speaker 5: to be honest with you, it was like, as much,
Speaker 5: I'm just like a very sexual person, like I want
Speaker 5: to have sex with everybody. At that time, I'm always
Speaker 5: in my twenties, you know, like I was ready for
Speaker 5: the world. So it was just like but yeah, I
Speaker 5: know we had a decent sex life and everything. And
Speaker 5: he had a nice dick, and it was just like
Speaker 5: he was he really like getting his dick stuck, and
Speaker 5: I really like sucking.
Speaker 3: Dicks, so like perfectly.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And like he would sit there sometimes even play
Speaker 5: video games, and I would just suck his dick and
Speaker 5: he would just be like how many gamers?
Speaker 3: Yeah, he would be like wetter wetter, he'd be like
Speaker 3: just a little bit tighter.
Speaker 5: He like, don't forget about my balls, you know, and
Speaker 5: like twelve years tongue around the head of my dick, and.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I love that.
Speaker 6: I love when a guy is vocal.
Speaker 2: I like when I'm having sex and a guy is
Speaker 2: talking to me in my ear and telling you he's
Speaker 2: about to come.
Speaker 5: When you know what part of that is though, is
Speaker 5: that that's them being present exactly, you know, like that's
Speaker 5: them telling you that, like I really like what you're
Speaker 5: doing enough to give you specific instructions. I want you
Speaker 5: to do it even better, you know, Like and it's
Speaker 5: kind of like a bonding thing to be honest with you.
Speaker 3: It's like he's like letting you know that. He's like,
Speaker 3: you're he's here with you and we're doing this together.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 5: I know, no, like that, I've put so much effort
Speaker 5: and emphasis on sex. But that's like my whole life.
Speaker 1: You know, nobody better to ask. Literally, it's paid off.
Speaker 5: So yeah, we know you're you know what you're doing.
Speaker 5: Thank you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, you know, and I still enjoy it, which
Speaker 3: is great. I'm just yea thrilled.
Speaker 5: Twenty five you're letting him I gonna still want to
Speaker 5: fuck at forty five. The answer is yes, Well they
Speaker 5: were going to.
Speaker 1: Take back in when you're sixty and see what.
Speaker 3: I don't know if looking I wouldn't know.
Speaker 7: When you had in a relationships, Like I can't you
Speaker 7: don't see yourself getting in a relationship.
Speaker 3: So ever, Like it's just not something that I feel
Speaker 3: like I need in my life.
Speaker 5: Like I got a lot of really good friends that
Speaker 5: I spend like companionship time with like really great people
Speaker 5: that I work with, and then I spend time with that.
Speaker 3: We go different places and do different things. So it's like,
Speaker 3: you know, I'm not my brother husband.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been watching it.
Speaker 2: Even still, when you get into the relationship, all of
Speaker 2: that has to change. You have to switch your friends
Speaker 2: circle and all of that. And you were married already,
Speaker 2: you experienced and.
Speaker 5: What do I need? I guess?
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know what I think sometimes you have
Speaker 3: to just learn something about yourself too and be like.
Speaker 5: May that's not me, it's not me.
Speaker 1: That's all right, and it's okay, Yeah.
Speaker 3: It's okay. We can be whoever we are. What's have
Speaker 3: a day?
Speaker 4: The CBD products are here. It actually helped g a lot.
Speaker 4: She was having really bad but I was over here
Speaker 4: with it.
Speaker 5: Like you sound better even, Maybe put on your neck
Speaker 5: if you're feeling a little like stiffness in your you.
Speaker 1: Know, well, where can people find these products?
Speaker 5: You can get it Sarah JCVD dot com. Okay, we've
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Speaker 1: All right, well, I can't wait to try mine.
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is great. Thank you, You're welcome.
Speaker 1: We thank you so much for coming that we've been.
Speaker 1: Like I said, I wanted to have you up here,
Speaker 1: and now we can see why.
Speaker 5: You're definitely like the expert on all that.
Speaker 1: You know, how many people who learn how to do things,
Speaker 1: and today in particular, they learn.
Speaker 6: I'm going to stop being funny about the nipples. I'm
Speaker 6: gonna make it sery.
Speaker 5: Yeah, make it a little sensual. Yeah, yes, yeah.
Speaker 3: And we start up here and way down because I
Speaker 3: know guys like nipples.
Speaker 6: I've been with guys that want you to suck.
Speaker 3: Their dick and nipples in the same time.
Speaker 5: But I mean, you know I like him. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, Sar, thank you so much, really appreciate it.
Speaker 5: Thanks.
Speaker 1: Still on Instagram, are you kicked off of it?
Speaker 5: You know what? They kicked me off once and it
Speaker 5: was like, I'm not the type to be like begging,
Speaker 5: so yeah, it's not the only thing is yes, of
Speaker 5: course on Twitter. That's on Twitter, TikTok and TikTok. Yeah,
Speaker 5: I'm doing TikTok.
Speaker 1: Get the money baby, all right, Samite, Thank you so much,
Speaker 1: thank you. Thanks