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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for criticizing my step family's

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Speaker 1: dirty laundry and Thanksgiving? Uh oh after they criticized me

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Speaker 1: for being unmarried. Also to everyone listening to these point fives,

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Speaker 1: if you have a crazy story or just something that

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Speaker 1: some MIC's, submit it there. No, I'm still getting shit

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Speaker 1: from my family, so as possible, I may be a

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Speaker 1: bit of an a hole here, but let's see. I'm

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Speaker 1: twenty nine female, and the players are my mom's stepdad

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Speaker 1: and four siblings, thirty five male, thirty seven male, forty female,

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Speaker 1: forty two male, and their families. I'm the black sheep

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Speaker 1: in the family and I'm the only one not married

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Speaker 1: with kids, but that's my preference. I love living alone.

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Speaker 1: I don't want kids and having a partner. No thanks,

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Speaker 1: just not very important to me. Get it out of here.

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Speaker 1: My family has been asking me when I'm going to

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Speaker 1: get a boyfriend and settled down since I was nineteen,

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Speaker 1: and the answer has always been ill. Never. I was

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Speaker 1: going to skip Thanksgiving, but my mom insisted that she

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Speaker 1: wanted everyone home this year if possible, so I went.

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Speaker 1: It was the usual drill, but the youngest stepbrother and

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Speaker 1: his wife were having another kid, so there's this big announcement.

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Speaker 1: This was fine until around the end of dinner. One

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Speaker 1: of the stepsister in law is asked if I'm not

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Speaker 1: anxious to have kids since I'm almost thirty and time

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Speaker 1: is running out. That biological clock keep ticking. I laughed

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Speaker 1: and said, oh nah, I'm good. That led to one

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Speaker 1: of my stepbrothers saying that every family needs an old

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Speaker 1: maiden and some other comments I didn't appreciate. I said,

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Speaker 1: let's move on, but my mom said, we're just worried

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Speaker 1: about you. This is where I'm possibly the a hole.

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Speaker 1: I know all the family dirt, and so I said, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm the only person at this table that's not an alcoholic,

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Speaker 1: a cheater, or constantly broke as fuck because I have

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Speaker 1: more kids than I can afford, so I'm not the

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Speaker 1: one to worry about. Wow. And that's how I brought

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving to a dead halt. And no one said a

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Speaker 1: thing the rest of dinner. But my texts are still radioactive.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it was probably writing the Live and

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Speaker 1: my mom says this has caused a lot of problems

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Speaker 1: among the siblings, but also, hey, they gotta started.

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Speaker 2: It, so okay, So here's my thing. She said that

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Speaker 2: her mom is basically for ten years, her mom is like,

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Speaker 2: when are you settling down?

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Speaker 1: When are you settling down?

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Speaker 2: It really depends on how much and how intense they're like,

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Speaker 2: like these comments are like if if she got comments

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Speaker 2: like that constantly for whole.

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Speaker 1: Life or whatever, you know what go off? Sis, But

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I've it is. You know, the most

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Speaker 1: passionate thing to do would be to not say that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I understand op if you're fed up with it,

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna say everyone's the a hole here ding

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