1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: I listen to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: Rod and Karen. 3 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:10,399 Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to another episode of the Blackoutils podcast. I'm 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 2: your host, Rod Joiners always by my co host, and 5 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 2: we're live on a Monday night, Memorial Day. 6 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 1: That's right, we're working on Memorial Day. We chose to 7 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: do that. 8 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 2: You can find us on Spotify exclusively. 9 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: Shout out to Spotify. 10 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 3: Spotify. 11 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: And of course, you know, I don't know what to say. 12 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 2: It's not like happy Memorial Days for all the people 13 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 2: that died in like wars fighting for this country and. 14 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 3: Ship people that's no longer here. 15 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't even know what to say. 16 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 2: Just you know, I guess work good Memorial. 17 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: Day, Like I don't. I don't know what you say, guys, 18 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 1: but it's Memorial Day. 19 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 2: At any rate. You can find us on Spotify. The 20 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 2: official weapon of the show is an unofficial sport and 21 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 2: bullet ball Extreme. And there's a lot of news to 22 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 2: get into today. So you know, I didn't mind doing 23 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: the show. Figure it'd be pretty fun to talk about 24 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 2: different things. I'm gonna talk about the hot topics before 25 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:10,759 Speaker 2: I do coronavirus news. 26 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: Okay, I gotta start off with number one. 27 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 2: Now, we normally talk about this, we wait for the 28 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:18,559 Speaker 2: sports show, but I had to talk about it because it's. 29 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: Like the biggest news. But Naomi Osaka is pulling out 30 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: of the French Open. 31 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know she was pulling out. 32 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: She pulled out. 33 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, she called it. Bro She's like, oh, we're guess 34 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 3: who I ain't got to be here me and guess 35 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 3: what's gonna happen. Nobody gonna watch that, bitch. 36 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: Well, have you read her statement. 37 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 3: Yet? 38 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 4: No? 39 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, So the thing is her statement is not 40 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 2: I think. 41 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 5: So. 42 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: All right, so let's break down what happened. 43 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 2: So, first of all, last week she cited her mental 44 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 2: health and announced on Instagram that she would participate in 45 00:01:58,000 --> 00:01:59,919 Speaker 2: the French of Them, but she wouldn't be doing any press. 46 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 2: And you know, I understand the adversary relationship between certain 47 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 2: members of the press and athletes and stuff like that, 48 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 2: although that didn't sound like that was the reason she 49 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 2: was doing it. 50 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: She cited her. 51 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 2: Mental health and just saying like, you know, she was 52 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 2: dealing with something mentally and she didn't think she'd be 53 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 2: able to. 54 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: Do the press. 55 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 2: Of course, a lot of discussions fawned off of that. 56 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 2: Most of it being you know, all of us projecting 57 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 2: our own things onto it. Whether it was like she's 58 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 2: doing it because of racism, she's doing it because she's 59 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 2: taking a stand against the press, or you know, just 60 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 2: a bunch of different reasons that really she never really 61 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: indicated were her reasons, because. 62 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 3: Once she made that statement, nobody like a lot of shit. 63 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 3: So abody makes a statement and nobody actually really cares 64 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 3: to give a fuck about what that person thinks it says. 65 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 3: After that point, everybody projects there from that point forward. 66 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 3: They could even tell you what they want, but nobody cares. 67 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 3: Most people don't care, and most people aren't really going 68 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 3: to listen to why she said. What she said is okay, 69 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 3: you said it projection time, yeah. 70 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 2: And which is you know, in all fairness, that's what 71 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 2: you did. When I first said she wasn't doing the thing, 72 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 2: he was like. 73 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: Yep, she's tall. They bluff. She called him out. 74 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 2: So, like, I think that's kind of the world we're 75 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 2: in now, is we get a little piece of information, 76 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 2: we go off on like the tangent or what we 77 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 2: think happened or what we want to happen, or you know, 78 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 2: we have to compart. We have to fill in a narrative. 79 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 2: I'll try my best to stick to what she said 80 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: before I go into my own projections. But this is 81 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 2: what she said the twenty sixth, which was five days ago. 82 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 2: Hey everyone, hope y'all doing well. I'm writing this to 83 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 2: say I'm not going to do any press during the 84 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 2: Rolling Garyls. I've often felt that people have no regard 85 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 2: for athletes mental health, and this rings very true. Whenever 86 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: I see a press convince or partaking one, we're often 87 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 2: sat there and asked questions that we've been asked multiple 88 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 2: times before, ask questions that bring doubt into our minds, 89 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 2: and I'm just not going to subject myself to people 90 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 2: that doubt me. I've watched many clips of athletes breaking 91 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 2: down after loss in the press room, and I know 92 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: you have as well. I believe that whole situation is 93 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 2: kicking a person while they're down, and I don't understand 94 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 2: the reasoning behind it. 95 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: Me not doing press. 96 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 2: There's nothing personal to the tournament, and a couple of 97 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 2: journalists have interviewed me since I was young, so I 98 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 2: have a friendly relationship with. 99 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 1: Most of them. 100 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 2: However, if the organizations think that they can just keep 101 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 2: saying do press are you're going to be fine and 102 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 2: continue to ignore the mental health of the athletes that 103 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 2: are the centerpiece of that cooperation. 104 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: Then I just gotta laugh. 105 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 2: Anyway, as I hope that the considerable amount that I 106 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 2: get fined for this will go towards a mental health charity. 107 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 2: Hugs and kisses piece emoji heart. So that was kind 108 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 2: of her throwing the gauntlet down. And that was also 109 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 2: apparently the Roland girls. That was their first time hearing 110 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 2: of the shit too, so like there were no talks 111 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 2: behind the scenes. She didn't reach out to them beforehand 112 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 2: to say like, hey, this is how I feel about 113 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 2: this thing. Can we talk about it? Can we you know, 114 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 2: figure out like what we're gonna how we can adjust 115 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 2: how the press conferences work. She just said, I'm not 116 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 2: doing press and you know the reasoning in here, I 117 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 2: think because we all, for the most part, I think 118 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 2: we all, like Naomi, the reasoning in here is stuff 119 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:27,840 Speaker 2: that we're going to allow. But some of that reasoning 120 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people would not fuck with 121 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 2: that if we was someone else, Like I'm not gonna 122 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 2: subject myself to doubters and shit like that, Like you know, 123 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 2: like the press is supposed to just everyone comes in 124 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 2: win or lose, and we just go yay or you know, 125 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 2: we don't ask any tough questions. We're not gonna ask 126 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:49,160 Speaker 2: you know, about your challenges. We're not you know, those 127 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 2: are the things that the press ask about. And you know, 128 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 2: to some athletes, I'm sure they say it's beneficial. She's 129 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 2: extremely talented, so I could see the equation flip for 130 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 2: her where she's like, I don't need this as much 131 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 2: as somebody else might need this, you know what I. 132 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 3: Mean, Yeah, because people that actually need the press. 133 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:13,039 Speaker 2: But she's she's kind of achieved a point where she 134 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 2: can flip that power dynamic and be like, I don't 135 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 2: need y'all. Everyone's watching my matches and they're seeing what 136 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 2: I'm thinking. But you know, sometimes I think about a 137 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 2: lot of sports is about people who don't watch, Like 138 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 2: how many people don't watch tennis, but they love now 139 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 2: On Yosaka me. 140 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 1: Right and Serena right? And why do you love her? Partially? 141 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: You know, you love her because of that press stuff. 142 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 6: Right. 143 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 2: Part of the reason that you start to like these 144 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 2: people that you don't watch is you saw a press 145 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 2: conference or you saw a quote, or you heard this 146 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 2: thing and you know, you like that about them. 147 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: But now you can kind of do that. 148 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 2: Through Instagram and Twitter and YouTube, so you don't necessarily 149 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 2: as an athlete, especially a star athlete, you don't necessarily 150 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 2: need the press to get that out. And if you 151 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 2: want to get out a message that's completely just in 152 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 2: your favor, on your side, your interpretation of things, you 153 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 2: can do that directly with social media. Now you don't 154 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 2: need to have some third party interpret your words and 155 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 2: then present it to everyone in a piece that they 156 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 2: wrote or presented on film somewhere. So what I what 157 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 2: I saw when I read this, My thing was like, oh, 158 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 2: I hope she's okay. 159 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. 160 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: I didn't think of it from. 161 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 2: The perspective of like, does she standing up for like 162 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 2: black Lives matter or something. 163 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: I just was like, I hope she all right. 164 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 2: The press will probably react badly to this, is how 165 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 2: I thought, because typically how they always react to someone 166 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 2: opting out Yeah, for whatever reason, I thought she kind 167 00:07:56,200 --> 00:08:00,559 Speaker 2: of taunted Roland Garrels with some of the stuff she said, 168 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 2: you know, do pressing, you're gonna get fined and continue 169 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 2: to ignore the mental health of athletes that are the 170 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 2: center piece of cooperation and I just gotta laugh, like 171 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 2: you're kind of challenging them to, Like, so if we 172 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 2: find you now, we're the bad guys. 173 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: Even though you. 174 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 2: Didn't tell us this, even though you're not articulating this, 175 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 2: even behind the scenes, you couldn't even gave us a 176 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 2: heads up, Like this is how I feel about this. 177 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: I think we should change this. You know, at least 178 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: that we know of. 179 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 2: Maybe that's happened and we just haven't heard, so like, yeah, 180 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 2: I could definitely see why they would be like, Okay, 181 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 2: what the fuck are we supposed to do? You know, 182 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 2: because that's a big thing for them. And like I said, 183 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 2: the I like now mio soak. I think most of 184 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 2: us like what we know of her. But I did 185 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 2: this exercise in my mind where I flipped it and said, 186 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:53,599 Speaker 2: what if it was like Sharpova Sharapova, who you know, 187 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 2: we hate, who's been beaten by Serena Williams many. 188 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 3: Times she has, but they keep calling, but they keep 189 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 3: calling that a challenge or a battle or rival. 190 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, has done performance enhancing drugs and gotten caught. 191 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 2: Imagine after them loss with the Serena, she wrote some 192 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 2: shit about her mental health and how she just opting 193 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 2: out because she don't need to be subjected to doubters, 194 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 2: and we would take it differently because we don't like 195 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 2: that woman. So this is to me, a lot of 196 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 2: the discussion around this can't be separated from the fact 197 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 2: we like Naomi and we want to see her allowed 198 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 2: an exception that the other athletes aren't gonna get, which 199 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 2: could be seen as an advantage or unfairness or whatever. 200 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:42,719 Speaker 1: But the other like the like. 201 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 2: So she can go through the whole tournament, but Cocoa 202 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 2: Golf has to go and talk to him. Serena gotta 203 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 2: go talk to him, Venus gotta go talk to him, 204 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So I think she's kind 205 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 2: of pulling like a little bit of a superstar move 206 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 2: here to even do that, right. 207 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: So that's that's one part of it. That's the first statement. 208 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 2: So then the next thing that happens is that she 209 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 2: rolling Garros the French Open. They do find her fifteen 210 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 2: thousand dollars for not doing the press right, to which 211 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 2: everybody was like, they didn't learn shit, you know what 212 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 2: are they doing? 213 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 3: In her first statement, she knew that was coming. 214 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 2: It's not like she yeah, and she kind of anticipated 215 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:24,319 Speaker 2: it and called them out for it, and it was like, 216 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 2: you know, she kind of made it into this battle, 217 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 2: you know. And so then the next thing they did, 218 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 2: which is probably their biggest tactical mistake in my opinion, 219 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 2: and I think it's really tempered the whole discussion. They 220 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:42,439 Speaker 2: put out a joint press release that essentially said, if 221 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 2: you don't want to do the press stuff, we're just 222 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 2: gonna stop letting you do our play tennis at these 223 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 2: opens and shit like this is a big part of 224 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 2: what we do. This is part of the thing, it's 225 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 2: part of what all the athletes participate in. 226 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:00,440 Speaker 1: If you just choose to opt out with you. 227 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 2: Know, like like it's just at will kind of disrupting 228 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 2: the whole dynamic of the whole process. Because you know 229 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 2: she does it, of course other athletes gonna go, why 230 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 2: can't I do it? 231 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 1: So what her mental health the only one that matter? 232 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 2: And you know all that kind of shit. So they 233 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 2: were like, nip it in the butt. If you do this, 234 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:21,559 Speaker 2: you won't be able to play. And so that's when 235 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 2: she did this newest statement, which is kind of along 236 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 2: but I'll read it because I want context to matter 237 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 2: on the show, like to be thorough. Hey, everyone, this 238 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,439 Speaker 2: isn't a situation I ever imagined or intended when I 239 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:37,439 Speaker 2: posted a few days ago. Yeah, which is funny because 240 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 2: a lot of people are framing what she just wrote 241 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 2: as like calling the bluff, and I'm like, they kind 242 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 2: of call hers cause they was like, then you don't, 243 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 2: We're fine. We just won't have the number two, number 244 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 2: one player in the world be at our tournaments anymore 245 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 2: because everyone else is doing this and seems to be 246 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 2: fine and you refuse to and so they were like 247 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 2: fuck it. Then, you know, now knowing else has ever 248 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 2: really challenged it in this way because so we don't 249 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:04,719 Speaker 2: really have a counterfactual of like, well, if it was 250 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 2: a white person or if it was this, we don't 251 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 2: really have it because no one's really even Serena, who 252 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:12,319 Speaker 2: was doing press conferences where she's been like crying and 253 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:16,079 Speaker 2: had to get up and leave recently, even she did 254 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:18,599 Speaker 2: the press conference. So we don't even have like a 255 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 2: I'm not talking to y'all, y'all some haters like. 256 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 1: We don't have that. 257 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 2: So anyway, hey, everyone, is this in a situation I 258 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 2: ever imagined her attended when I posted a few days ago. 259 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:30,439 Speaker 2: I think now the best thing for the tournament, the 260 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 2: other players are my well being is that I withdraw 261 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 2: so that everyone can get back to focusing on tennis 262 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 2: going on in Paris. I never wanted to be a distraction. 263 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 2: I accept that my time it was not ideal and 264 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 2: my message could have been clear. More importantly, I would 265 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 2: never trivialize mental health or use the term lightly. Yeah, 266 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 2: because you got a lot of people that basically said 267 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 2: the way she's throwing out this kind of blanket mental health, 268 00:12:55,040 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 2: like it's sounding like the press is purposely trying to 269 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 2: do something to her mental health, and you can just 270 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 2: kind of use that to opt out of anything, like 271 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 2: you don't like there's no process, there's no discussion. You 272 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 2: can just go I feel like this messed up on 273 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 2: mental health. I don't want to do this no more. 274 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 2: And it's like, yes, that should be your right. But 275 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 2: also there's a. 276 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,599 Speaker 1: Whole bunch of shit that lines up with all of this, 277 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like saying, for example. 278 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 2: If somebody was like started playing a match and they 279 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 2: got down a couple of sets or whatever and they 280 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 2: just was like, yeah, mental health, man, I'm out, people. 281 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,319 Speaker 1: Would definitely be like, what the fuck was that you 282 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, hold up, we can't have 283 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:45,559 Speaker 1: that happen. What can we do in the future to 284 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: avoid what just happened. 285 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 2: Everybody paid all this money, everybody's got TV rights, all 286 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 2: this stuff, and now we got to turn around and 287 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 2: be like, so where do you end with this? Right? 288 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 2: And for them, I could see the fear between the 289 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 2: press and the tournament of where's this going to end? 290 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, because they're thinking about the worst case scenario, which 291 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 3: most people don't think about that. 292 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 2: They're not thinking of it as we like Naomi and 293 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 2: we should allow this just for the special person. They're 294 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 2: looking at it like okay, but the next person is 295 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:16,800 Speaker 2: going to be like, why is Naomi gotta get special treatment? 296 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: What about me? 297 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 2: And if you do want us to change the way 298 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 2: we do this, we would like some participation in discussion, 299 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 2: not just say I posted something on Instagram. Y'all should 300 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 2: go read it. You know what I mean that I 301 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 2: think that is unprofessional, you know what I mean? And 302 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 2: it does make it hard to work with somebody when 303 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 2: they do something like that. Now, look, maybe her mental 304 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 2: health doesn't really allowing her to be in a space 305 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: to be that level of professional and discuss all this 306 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 2: shit or low key. Maybe she did it behind the 307 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 2: scenes and they didn't respond. We don't know because she 308 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 2: never brought that up. But even as I go on 309 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 2: in this even she kind of alludes to the fact 310 00:14:55,920 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 2: that she didn't really tell them anything. So more importantly, 311 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 2: I will never trivialize mental health to use the term lightly. 312 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 2: The truth is that I've suffered long bounce of depression 313 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 2: since the US Open in twenty eighteen, and I've had 314 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 2: a really hard time coping with that. Anyone that knows 315 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 2: me knows I'm introverted, and anyone that has seen me 316 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 2: at the tournaments will notice that I'm often wearing. 317 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 1: Headphones as that helps thow my social anxiety. 318 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 2: Though the tennis press has always been kind to me, 319 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 2: and I want to apologize to all the cool journalists 320 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 2: who I may have hurt. I'm not a natural public 321 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 2: speaker and get huge ways of anxiety before I speak 322 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 2: to the world's media. 323 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: Yet now see that is very important. 324 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 2: Because the framing online is She's been dealing with this 325 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 2: very racist, antagonistic press that's been trying to destroy her 326 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 2: and she finally had enough. 327 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: But that's not really the truth. 328 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 2: The press likes nail me sometimes to a degree that 329 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 2: I think is kind of fucked up, and it's not 330 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 2: her fault, but some like she benefited a lot in 331 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 2: the we're sick of Serena Williams. We need a new 332 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 2: person to cheer for that doesn't make us look racist 333 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 2: or fucked up to hate on Serena. And they've done 334 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 2: this with several women at this point, but she was 335 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 2: definitely like the latest beneficiary of at least it's not Serena. 336 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 2: Look at her doing it the right way and look 337 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 2: at how she like. It was a lot of that ship, 338 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 2: which I'm sure has its toll in general, because she's 339 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 2: a huge Serena fan and like Serena, she considered Serena 340 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 2: like a mentor and all this type of shit. 341 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 1: I'll get back into that part later, but. 342 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 2: You know, I can see how that would would fuck 343 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 2: with you, even if you're benefiting from it, Like, man, y'all, look, 344 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 2: how y'all do Serena, you know, like y'all ain't like 345 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 2: y'all ain't shit. But but but yeah, it was that 346 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 2: narrative that people were trying to pitch was not necessarily 347 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 2: true because she hasn't been getting a lot of flag 348 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 2: and for a bunch of shit, mostly because Serena paved 349 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 2: the way and took a lot of them hits and 350 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 2: stuff that we consider now to be normal was not 351 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 2: for Serena, and it was all shit. They were like, 352 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 2: look at this black person trip walking and shit, and 353 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 2: new this is beneath the tournament and all this shit. 354 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 1: And now it's like I got a RAPPERR boyfriend. 355 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 2: Serena's had too, you know what I mean, Like, it's 356 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 2: not it's not a big deal like it was, you know, 357 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:15,400 Speaker 2: even five. 358 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 1: Or ten years ago. 359 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 2: Agreed anyway, but she says, I get really nervous and 360 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 2: I find this stress. Oh I'm not a natural public speaker, 361 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 2: and I get huge ways of anxiety far i speak 362 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 2: to the world's media, I get really nervous and I 363 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:32,360 Speaker 2: find the stressful. To always try and engage and give 364 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 2: you the best answers I can. So here in Paris, 365 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 2: I was already feeling vulnerable and anxious, so I thought 366 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:40,399 Speaker 2: it was better to excise self care and skip the 367 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 2: press conferences. I announced it preemptively because I do feel 368 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:46,440 Speaker 2: like the rules are quite outdated in parts, and I 369 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 2: wanted to highlight that I wrote privately to the tournament 370 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 2: apologizing and saying that I would be more than happy 371 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:54,679 Speaker 2: to speak with them after the tournament as the slams 372 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 2: are intense. So that's the part that makes me go, oh, 373 00:17:58,680 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 2: she's spraying it on them. 374 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why they responded so heavy handy. 375 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 1: And this isn't Twitter. 376 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 2: This is a business, right, So people are not gonna 377 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 2: just Okay, we'll take your time, you know, like they're 378 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 2: gonna be like, no, there's obligations, there's contracts, there's a 379 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 2: bunch of shit that happens that we that we can't 380 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 2: just have somebody go nah, I don't feel like doing it, 381 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 2: you know, not to mention if people other competitors see 382 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 2: it as some type of competitive advantage, like damn, that's 383 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 2: fucked up. 384 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:29,399 Speaker 1: She could just say I'm gonna play, but I'm not 385 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: talking to nobody. Well can I do that this? 386 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 3: You know, like like we don't want to sh show? 387 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, is there like a form that we can fill out? 388 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 2: Is there like some type of thing we can do 389 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 2: a letter or someone can write like how do we 390 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 2: do this? Because I know that the tournament doesn't want 391 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 2: the chaos of athletes announcing on Instagram whether or not 392 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 2: they're gonna participate in essentially the press, the what do 393 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 2: you call the pr part of the tournament because the 394 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 2: tournament is still focused on well, wow, Naomi O soccer 395 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 2: may not need the media the tournament does, right, The 396 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 2: tournament doesn't sign these contracts with ESPN and fucking ABC 397 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 2: and shit because you know, without needing the media. So 398 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 2: to them, it's like, part of what we sell these 399 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:23,919 Speaker 2: companies is the availability of our athletes, and. 400 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:24,959 Speaker 1: It's true of all of them. 401 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,639 Speaker 2: It's like, whenever people go, why do they find athletes 402 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 2: for not participating? 403 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 1: That's why. 404 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 2: It's because it's not the sport could probably give a 405 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:35,120 Speaker 2: fuck if you actually what you have to say after 406 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:38,440 Speaker 2: the game. Like, as a sport, you gave us the 407 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,920 Speaker 2: two and a half hours of entertainment and that's good. 408 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 1: But as a media entity, which sports have to be now, 409 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 1: we want the whole story. 410 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:51,119 Speaker 2: We want everything, and so do the fans, which is 411 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,400 Speaker 2: kind of hypocritical of a lot of people. A lot 412 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:56,200 Speaker 2: of people act like they don't want this shit, but 413 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 2: they do. The press conferences go viral all the time. People, 414 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 2: you know, people don't, like I said, you don't watch 415 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 2: the sport, but then you watch the highlight and then 416 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 2: what's the next thing. 417 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 1: You want to see? What did they say after the game? 418 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:13,360 Speaker 2: Like imagine Kevin Durant and Draymond Green cussing at each 419 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 2: other on the court, which we saw, and then they 420 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:19,200 Speaker 2: just go, yeah, for mental health. 421 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 1: We don't want to talk about that. No press conferences 422 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: after the game, like people will lie. People lie and 423 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:25,360 Speaker 1: say that that would be fine. 424 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 2: They wouldn't be okay with that. They do want to know, 425 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 2: they're like, but we did see that, y'all had a problem. 426 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: What happened? 427 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:34,199 Speaker 2: Explain it, you know, tell us what happened, even if 428 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:35,880 Speaker 2: you downplay it, even he you don't want to tell. 429 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 1: Us the truth. 430 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 2: People are nosy and the media is kind of the 431 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:42,440 Speaker 2: outlet for that. And then we all get to hide 432 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:43,440 Speaker 2: our hands like we didn't. 433 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 1: I don't know. We don't care about that. Yes we do, 434 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 1: Yes we do. 435 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 2: And it's mostly just if you like the person that 436 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 2: you go, why are we bothering them? But if you 437 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 2: don't like him, like for example, Tom Brady has a 438 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:58,159 Speaker 2: maga hat, I do want to hear him answer that question, right, 439 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 2: I want to hear him at least get asked that question, 440 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 2: you know, Like I. 441 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 1: Said, it's it's very. 442 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 2: People are so trapped in as prisoners of the moment, 443 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 2: they're not able to think it all the way through. 444 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 2: What is Kaepernick If they don't ask him why he 445 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:19,120 Speaker 2: took a knee, why he sat? What is He's nobody? 446 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 2: The whole point is nothing. Hey, well, you know, we 447 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:23,480 Speaker 2: don't gotta we don't know, We don't got to. 448 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 1: Ask him no questions like this. 449 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 2: There's a reason these things happen, and there's a because 450 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 2: it's essentially helps create the story off the field and 451 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:34,159 Speaker 2: create the narrative that they sell this ship to us with. 452 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:37,880 Speaker 1: Right, it's the biggest reality show in the world sports. 453 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 2: Uh, that's you know, if you think of it that way, 454 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,639 Speaker 2: I think it's a lot easier to process. It's not 455 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 2: some sacred meritocracy. It's literally a reality TV show where 456 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 2: they're selling us a narrative. Don't like Russell Westbrook because 457 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 2: we told you not to like him. Love uh hate 458 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 2: Kobe Bryant. He dies, love Kobe Bryant, you know, like 459 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,360 Speaker 2: it's you know, he retires. We the best guy ever? 460 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,879 Speaker 3: You know, Yes, And this is one reason why a 461 00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 3: lot of dudes, basically a lot of straight dudes, many 462 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 3: manly men you know, they try to act like sports 463 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 3: aren't their soap operas, but it is a form of 464 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 3: soap operas for them. 465 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,920 Speaker 1: They care about the relationship like that shit. 466 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 3: Means something, you know, because a lot of men will 467 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 3: try to act like that is just different from when women, 468 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 3: you know, watch their favorite shows, the soap operas. 469 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,440 Speaker 2: Like if for some men it's a separation, no, no, 470 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,400 Speaker 2: well I'm the same. I'll take it further than soap opera. 471 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 2: Reality TV it's the first reality TV. Yes, before the 472 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,600 Speaker 2: Real World, this was reality TV. 473 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 3: Yes, it was. 474 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 1: These people don't get alonger these people do. 475 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 2: Or look at this guy, what he did and what 476 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 2: he said to this guy, and that stuff takes on legends. 477 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 2: The sociopath ship that Michael Jordan did the other people 478 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 2: lives on in infamy, like seeing somebody throw somebody's stuffed 479 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,919 Speaker 2: animal to the river Seattle, like all that those moments 480 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 2: living infamy. 481 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:03,640 Speaker 1: Because we love that reality TV shit. 482 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 2: As long as you're not you know, as long as 483 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 2: it's not the Kardashian's right, you know, But anyway that's 484 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 2: getting we're getting sighedtraight, my fault, so she said, I 485 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,360 Speaker 2: wrote propaly to the tournament, apologized and saying I would 486 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 2: be more happy to speak with them after the tournament 487 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 2: as the slams are intense. I'm gonna take some time 488 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 2: away from the court now, but when the time is right, 489 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 2: I really want to work with the tour to discuss 490 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,120 Speaker 2: ways we can make things better for the players, press 491 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:30,880 Speaker 2: and fans. Anyways, I hope you all are doing well 492 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 2: and stay safe. Love you Guys'll see you when I 493 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 2: see you hard emoji. And so now we got her 494 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 2: giving us the exact reasons she suffered from depression that 495 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:45,399 Speaker 2: she's dealt with since the US Open twenty eighteen. And 496 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 2: that's a major one for me, is because I remember 497 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 2: that time we talked about it on the show, and 498 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:57,440 Speaker 2: I think it was just hard to give Naomi any 499 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 2: level of space in that conversation because it's conation became 500 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 2: about the infamous court judge that Serena got into it with, 501 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 2: had an outburst, got kicked out, got disqualified, was. 502 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 1: Literally in tears with screaming, yelling. 503 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 2: And on the other side, there's this girl who was 504 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:22,119 Speaker 2: beating her at twenty one years old, who was beating 505 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 2: a woman she looked up to, who was beating a 506 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:28,160 Speaker 2: woman that she saw as an idol and a mentor 507 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:32,400 Speaker 2: and watching that woman have literally probably the worst day 508 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 2: on the court of her life, and her she was 509 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:40,359 Speaker 2: having the best day of her flowerless on the court 510 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 2: and in that trophy ceremony. I remember when she won, 511 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 2: she was crying, and Naomi didn't seem to be crying, 512 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 2: you know, like I said, this is my projective. It 513 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 2: didn't seem like she was crying like tears of joy, 514 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 2: like I can't believe I did it. It's like Serena's 515 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,880 Speaker 2: crying because she's so upset. This has kind of been 516 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,679 Speaker 2: ruined now like my victory, which I'm sure was frustrating 517 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 2: to Serena already, is now like this this mar this 518 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 2: this scar on the on. 519 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: The on this court, this tournament, on everything. 520 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 2: And I remember, you know, very graciously, how Serena, you know, 521 00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 2: in a very like mentor sister type way, like comforted 522 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 2: Naomi as Naomi was winning and in think you know, 523 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:36,119 Speaker 2: it was very gracious and very you know, classy and stuff. 524 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, like she Naomi 525 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,679 Speaker 2: was then thrust into a lot of controversy. You had 526 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 2: the people going, you know, she only won because of 527 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 2: this lawn judge, which she was winning handily. At that point, 528 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 2: you had the people that said she was Japanese, not black. 529 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,440 Speaker 2: Don't call her black, she's Japanese. 530 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 3: Uh. 531 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 2: They changed her bio on Wiki to say she was Japanese. 532 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 2: Not took all the mentions of hate she and black out. 533 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 2: You had black people claiming her like she's black, she's 534 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,160 Speaker 2: not Japanese. You know, look at her hair. 535 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: You know you had all of that, right, you had. 536 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 2: You know, you just had a lot of agendas. You know, 537 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 2: people that love Serena made her a villain for winning, 538 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 2: for playing her best. She had to become the villain 539 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 2: because she was fucking up the narrative that we have 540 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:25,440 Speaker 2: for Serena, which is we wanted to win the most 541 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 2: tournaments of all time, and how dare this want this 542 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,920 Speaker 2: little girl come in here and fuck this up for Serena? 543 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 2: You know, and we knew she was gonna be a 544 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,640 Speaker 2: problem for years to come possibly, so it's like, look 545 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,880 Speaker 2: at her getting in the way of our hero. 546 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:43,880 Speaker 1: Meanwhile, Serena's her hero too, right, you know, not to mention. 547 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 2: She stepped full face lead into the Black Lives Matter discussion. 548 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 2: Why wearing those masks last year? Of all the victims 549 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 2: of people that died by either police or whatnot. And 550 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 2: it was like, well, now she's the face of this 551 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 2: tournament and she's also winning. You know, the same people 552 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 2: that we think are racist for how they treated Serena, 553 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,359 Speaker 2: the same people that we think are racists for the 554 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 2: comments and the media and stuff. 555 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 1: She had to deal with that too, you know. 556 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 2: And she stepped into that knowing what that the slings 557 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 2: and arrow would be like because she's seen Serena. But 558 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,200 Speaker 2: at the same time, it has to take a mental toll. 559 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, and no matter what you see, it's different when 560 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 3: it's you, Like I think a lot of people fail 561 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 3: to realize that. Like you could see somebody go through 562 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 3: something and see how they handle it, But when the 563 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 3: arrows are pointed in your direction and when. 564 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 1: You get hit by them, everybody don't. 565 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 3: Respond the way that they think that they would and 566 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 3: should until they get hit. 567 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:44,919 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, and she seemed to be doing an 568 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 2: amroll job or whatever, and I mean obviously to just 569 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 2: like I said, not to try to not make this 570 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 2: about Naomi, but Serena makes everything look so easy that 571 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 2: even her human moments, even her moments of like despair 572 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,199 Speaker 2: and rage, that she shared with us. 573 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 1: She just makes it look so easy to just. 574 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 2: Go and now I'm back composed, and now I'm in 575 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 2: another tournament, and now I'm playing again, and now I'm 576 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 2: a mother, and now I'm a wife, and now I'm 577 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:20,440 Speaker 2: a business owner, and now I'm a mogul now and 578 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 2: it's just so and it's just everything as black X 579 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:26,120 Speaker 2: one's all the time. And she just never really lets 580 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 2: them see her crack that often, and like even when 581 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 2: she does, she's like right back. 582 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:34,960 Speaker 1: She's like a staple within the whole. She's like a 583 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 1: staple where you just like you depend on Serena to 584 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 1: be there, you know, And I think you know when 585 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,720 Speaker 1: you look up to somebody like that, the cost and 586 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 1: the toll of being them is a lot, and you 587 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 1: never really know if you can hack it, like you said, 588 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,560 Speaker 1: until it happens to you. This is the same nao, 589 00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 1: we can't hack it. 590 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,800 Speaker 2: I mean, there's been plenty of times Serena withdrew from 591 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 2: something we didn't know why, you know, she probably just 592 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 2: didn't put it on Instagram or tell us whatever it was. 593 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 1: And a lot of ways Serena and Venus have. 594 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 2: Fought as these groundbreaking battles so that players after them 595 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 2: can push beyond their limits. Yes, you know, whether it's 596 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 2: for paid quality, whether it was for uh the maternal 597 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 2: the rankings for women that are become pregnant and then 598 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 2: uh have you know, they kind of go like, let 599 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 2: me go get birth, let me give my maternal leave. 600 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 2: And then Tennis World is like, all right, well now 601 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 2: you're ranked one hundred and fifth. It's like, that's not fair. 602 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 2: This is the women's tournament we're doing. We're penalizing women 603 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 2: for that. 604 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 1: How does that make sense? 605 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 3: Right? So she had to fight and they changed the rules, 606 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 3: but it's like it shouldn't have been like that. Anyway, 607 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 3: I get pregnant, now I lose my ranking? The fuck 608 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 3: is this? 609 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:45,600 Speaker 2: The racial battles Serena and Venus have fought, and especially 610 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 2: just how out spoken Serena has been about. 611 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: Racism and stuff. 612 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 2: It can't it must pay, it must weigh on you, 613 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 2: it must you must pay a cost because everyone has. 614 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 1: And yet they Serena made it look so fucking easy, 615 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 1: you know what I. 616 00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 2: Mean, And so I can see how even stepping into 617 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 2: those big ass shoes, it's like, okay, this is a lot. 618 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. And that's Serena over 619 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 1: the years gaining more and more. 620 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 2: Like we're comparing like thirty something year old Serena to 621 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 2: like twenty three year old Naomi, and that's like a lot, man, 622 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:26,480 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So the way I'll see 623 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 2: the situation is I look at it and it's singular 624 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,840 Speaker 2: because I think all the agendas that people are trying. 625 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: To attached to it. 626 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 2: It's weird to say this because I know it's coming 627 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,360 Speaker 2: from a good place, but I think it dehumanizes her. 628 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 1: I think it dehumanizes her and it adds to the 629 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 1: problem when. 630 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 2: We try to make her into this archetype of the 631 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:51,200 Speaker 2: strong black woman who's taking a stand against the French 632 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 2: opening the tennis media and all this shit. I don't 633 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:57,880 Speaker 2: see that here yet. I'm not saying she isn't there 634 00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 2: are it can't become that, But it sound like she's 635 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 2: going through about a depression according to her own words, 636 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 2: and she's just mentally exhausted and needs a fucking break. 637 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 1: You know. I don't even like. 638 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 2: One of the things I keep thinking is I don't 639 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 2: even know that if she would have been able to 640 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 2: do the French tournament with no press, if she would 641 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 2: have made it through that it sounded like she was 642 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:27,920 Speaker 2: at a point where she was just fucking tired, according 643 00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:33,240 Speaker 2: to the words she wrote on this page. And unfortunately 644 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 2: you put this out into this universe. And this is 645 00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 2: the thing I talked about when that the girl died 646 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,360 Speaker 2: with the police shot her and they thought she was 647 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 2: going to stab somebody else, and all of a sudden, 648 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 2: everybody had these like stories about people that have been adopted, 649 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 2: people that have been foster kids, and this, that and 650 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 2: the other, but we really didn't know her story. It 651 00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 2: just was we knew a few details, and that people 652 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,200 Speaker 2: start filling in their gaps, are like, this is what happened, 653 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,480 Speaker 2: and that's the story we're rolling with. Now everybody get 654 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 2: out there and get your marching orders. And it was like, damn, 655 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 2: that's have we lost something so fast that we just 656 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 2: process everybody's individual thing and to put check this box, 657 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 2: check this box, check this box. 658 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 1: Now print the story. And that's how it felt. 659 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:24,479 Speaker 3: Because that's easier that like, like, that's a lot easier, uh. 660 00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 3: And I will say this, I will continue to say this, 661 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 3: A lot of the who, what, when, we're why and 662 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 3: how has been lost because in order to do that, 663 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 3: you have to do shiit loan form, and we don't 664 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 3: and as as a society as a whole, we don't 665 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 3: process loan form very easily. 666 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, And so you know, look, man, I really do 667 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 2: hope what most importantly, more than anything else any of 668 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,480 Speaker 2: these motherfuckers are talking about. I really hope that you know, 669 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,960 Speaker 2: she's able to find that balance, get get you know, 670 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 2: feel like she can get right because. 671 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,680 Speaker 1: Everything else don't really matter, you know what I mean. 672 00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:03,720 Speaker 2: Like, honestly, it reminds me of something Kaepernick said before 673 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,720 Speaker 2: all this shit happened when he got black ball, but 674 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 2: it was the year after he was injured and he 675 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 2: came back, and then we want to say it was 676 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:17,400 Speaker 2: a preseason. They were talking to him and they asked him, like, 677 00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:21,480 Speaker 2: what did he learn when he injured his knee and 678 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 2: he didn't he couldn't play football, and he said he 679 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 2: learned he could live without football. And then from that 680 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 2: point on, everything about his protest made sense to me, 681 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,440 Speaker 2: because I was like, yeah, I think he made a 682 00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 2: decision a long time ago. If these motherfucker's going blackball them, 683 00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 2: he doesn't want that to happen, but he doesn't see 684 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 2: this as the inevitable. He didn't see this as the 685 00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 2: big scary thing that a lot of the people. 686 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,080 Speaker 1: Commented on it saw it. You know, a lot of 687 00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 1: people commenting were. 688 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:52,840 Speaker 2: Like, you know, when you see a bunch of black 689 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 2: athletes being like, all right, man, it's time to stop this. 690 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 2: It was because they saw it as like the death 691 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 2: of my career, that's the scariest thing I can think of. 692 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,360 Speaker 2: And he somehow was like, that's not the scariest thing 693 00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 2: I can think of, you know, like I'll exist without 694 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:11,400 Speaker 2: football just fine, but I you know, but I won't 695 00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 2: feel like I exist right if I don't stand up 696 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 2: right now or taking me in his case, So anyway, man, 697 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 2: I just thought that it was kind of weird to 698 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,359 Speaker 2: see everybody flipped to like and then she showed down. 699 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 1: It's like, I don't know if she I don't know 700 00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 1: if she's doing that or. 701 00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 2: She's literally protecting her mental health, and then we're projecting 702 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 2: this warrior shit onto her, which I don't know if 703 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:37,440 Speaker 2: it is good for her either. 704 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 1: I don't know that that's her intention necessarily for us 705 00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 1: to like, like, you know, you see a lot of 706 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:46,319 Speaker 1: I support her. 707 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 2: And then the long ass thread about you know, the 708 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:52,359 Speaker 2: Tulsa Riots or whatever the fucking like they don't got 709 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:53,319 Speaker 2: nothing to do with each other. 710 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 3: Now, I got nothing to do. Like we said, something happened. 711 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 3: You start off there and then you veer off into 712 00:34:57,719 --> 00:34:58,920 Speaker 3: what you really want to talk about. 713 00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think we're we're at a point right 714 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 2: now where a lot of stuff is colliding. And I 715 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 2: don't blame us like for feeling this way, but a 716 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 2: lot of these things are colliding. At the same time. 717 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:16,000 Speaker 2: We're having NBA athletes harassed by fans who are being 718 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:18,920 Speaker 2: allowed back in arenas for the first time, and. 719 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 1: We're having the hundred year anniversary of Tulsa riots. 720 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 2: You know, everyone's passed around this history lesson the day 721 00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:31,879 Speaker 2: of Memorial Day was originally about black soldiers and then. 722 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 1: It was co opted by you know, white people and shit. 723 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 1: So like, we're constantly in a battle to find meaning 724 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 1: and bigger stories and bigger narratives and to thread it 725 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 1: all together. 726 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,440 Speaker 2: And I don't blame people for wanting to do that. 727 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 2: I think that's how we make sense of shit in 728 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:48,279 Speaker 2: our brains. But sometimes I feel like the individual is 729 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,440 Speaker 2: lost in this, and I think that's the kind of 730 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:54,000 Speaker 2: callousness too. You know, It's like, what she really is 731 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:57,680 Speaker 2: doing is taking a stand against racism, and the I'm like, well, 732 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,359 Speaker 2: if she's doing that, she should probably say that, yeah, 733 00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,239 Speaker 2: before we say that that's what she's doing. 734 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:03,680 Speaker 3: Don't sound like that's what she's saying. 735 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: It sounds like she could just be having a really 736 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,759 Speaker 1: bad time right now, and then everyone is glimbing on 737 00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,080 Speaker 1: to like and this is what that means. We'll see maybe. 738 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,879 Speaker 2: Because it sounds like she's gonna work with them, which 739 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:19,680 Speaker 2: means it doesn't sound like she's quitting at twenty three. 740 00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like she's quitting the thing she's the 741 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 2: best in the world at just yet, you know, And 742 00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:29,120 Speaker 2: sometimes you do need that balance, man, And maybe there 743 00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:30,840 Speaker 2: are some things they can do differently. 744 00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 1: But I think the idea of. 745 00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,880 Speaker 2: Everyone opting in or out of the press thing is 746 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 2: something that's gonna need to be a little more fleshed 747 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:44,120 Speaker 2: out than just someone announces on Instagram and then everyone 748 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:47,920 Speaker 2: that has a job working there goes, Okay, No problem is. 749 00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:50,200 Speaker 2: It's gonna take a little bit more than that. It's 750 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 2: gonna have to at least be official. Hey, let me 751 00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,680 Speaker 2: run this by y'all, you know. And even the idea 752 00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 2: of going to IG first is kind of like indicative 753 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,479 Speaker 2: of shit that I talk about to show all the time, 754 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:05,840 Speaker 2: which is how is this social media shit affecting. 755 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 1: Our mental health? 756 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:11,880 Speaker 2: And especially when we're talking about these young black women celebrities. 757 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:15,200 Speaker 1: We keep seeing over and over and over. 758 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:18,040 Speaker 2: Again them being some of the people because you know, 759 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 2: they're on the margins when it comes to like protection 760 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:24,319 Speaker 2: from you know, harassment and all this shit. We keep 761 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 2: seeing over and over again them being like, Okay, I'll 762 00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 2: spend a lot of time on this area, or this 763 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,320 Speaker 2: is where I go to get my press release and 764 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,320 Speaker 2: to contact my fans and shit, and then being. 765 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:34,239 Speaker 1: Like, yo, I got to stop this. 766 00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,760 Speaker 2: This is crazy, this is too much, This is fucking 767 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 2: with my mental health, and then we just act like 768 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 2: it's just a part of Hey, that's just part of 769 00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 2: the deals. 770 00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 1: Like maybe it doesn't have to be, you know. 771 00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 2: So I'd like to see what comes of this and 772 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 2: what changes she proposes, because it is also a business. 773 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 1: Like I remember when. 774 00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 2: Or a long time ago, somebody was just in that 775 00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 2: me and Karen wed you should hire somebody and they 776 00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 2: should do XX and XT for you. 777 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,640 Speaker 1: And I was talking to Karen, I was like, I 778 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,440 Speaker 1: don't really want to hire somebody to do things for 779 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,720 Speaker 1: the show. Yet that I like that we do for ourselves. 780 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,360 Speaker 1: I like that control. It's part of my job. I 781 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 1: do it full time. 782 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:20,120 Speaker 2: I don't mind scheduling things and emailing people and all 783 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:22,520 Speaker 2: this stuff. But then also part of it was like 784 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:27,920 Speaker 2: being a boss comes with some responsibilities, and being with 785 00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 2: an employee. 786 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:30,440 Speaker 1: Comes with some expectations. 787 00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:34,600 Speaker 2: I'm not a person that likes to impress upon people 788 00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:38,279 Speaker 2: the expectations that they gave me and say you're not 789 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 2: fulfilling those, because that's the worst case scenario. 790 00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,320 Speaker 1: No one thinks about that. We always think of a positive. 791 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:42,480 Speaker 7: Right. 792 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:44,480 Speaker 2: You hire somebody that do a great job, you love them, 793 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 2: they love you, boom. But it's like, what if you 794 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,360 Speaker 2: hired somebody and they're like, you know that very important 795 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,279 Speaker 2: project that you had scheduled for this week, I need 796 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 2: some mental health stuff and I'm not gonna do it 797 00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:59,640 Speaker 2: now for me personally, That's never gonna be an excuse 798 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 2: for me. So like, and by this I mean me personally, 799 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 2: Rod Morrow. So if if I'm like, my taxes are 800 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:08,680 Speaker 2: due April fifteen, I won't come in here April fourteenth 801 00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:09,640 Speaker 2: and be like mental health. 802 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,520 Speaker 1: I don't feel like it fucked them taxes. 803 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:13,800 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do the taxes and just be like I 804 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 2: had a very I was very depressed and anxious that day, 805 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 2: and I had to do my taxes because I understand 806 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,560 Speaker 2: what that means for my business, right and because I 807 00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:23,960 Speaker 2: have to pay the brunt of the costs either way. 808 00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:28,560 Speaker 2: You know, if me telling my own self to kind 809 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 2: of quote unquote man up for lack of a better term, 810 00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:34,080 Speaker 2: human up, what the fuck is the right person up? 811 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:38,040 Speaker 2: Person adult up to adult up to grown up? I 812 00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,880 Speaker 2: don't know me telling myself to be that to do that. 813 00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,200 Speaker 1: No one can come in here and be like Rod, 814 00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:44,440 Speaker 1: that's fucked up what you just did. 815 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 2: But if I told somebody that worked for me, hey, man, 816 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,320 Speaker 2: I'm gonna need you to adult up, come and do 817 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,360 Speaker 2: these taxes. If not, we fin to get fined and 818 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,759 Speaker 2: all kinds of shit that we don't want to deal 819 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,400 Speaker 2: with on our side, now I look like a fucking 820 00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,560 Speaker 2: bully and a bad guy because I I just asked 821 00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:02,839 Speaker 2: the person to do the thing that they said they 822 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,080 Speaker 2: would do as part of the job that I hired 823 00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 2: them for or the job. You know, So these tournaments 824 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,760 Speaker 2: are kind of like the bad guy in this situation 825 00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 2: because they're the job. So the job is never gonna 826 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 2: just be like you can just at a moment's notice 827 00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:18,959 Speaker 2: say fuck it. They're always gonna be like you gotta 828 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,759 Speaker 2: run up the flag pole. You know, all of us 829 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:25,080 Speaker 2: that have jobs understand that to some degree. You know, 830 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 2: we want that freedom and stuff. But we would definitely 831 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,440 Speaker 2: look sideways at another employee that was able to get 832 00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:33,839 Speaker 2: certain benefits from the job that we weren't. 833 00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:35,920 Speaker 1: Because they were really good at the job. We'd be like, well, 834 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,719 Speaker 1: that's also kind of fucked up, and we all have 835 00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,279 Speaker 1: done that. Well, I know if my ass told them. 836 00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,080 Speaker 2: I remember when time was in a meeting and a 837 00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 2: guy said came in late to the meeting and they 838 00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,799 Speaker 2: asked the why it was late, and his clothes were 839 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,440 Speaker 2: looking kind of, you know, disheveled, and he said he 840 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:54,680 Speaker 2: fell asleep on a lake drinking the day before the 841 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:59,759 Speaker 2: night before, and yes he was. And I was thinking 842 00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:01,920 Speaker 2: to myself, if my black ass would have said that, 843 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:03,640 Speaker 2: I would have been in an office. 844 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:04,480 Speaker 1: Talking about it right now. 845 00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:08,840 Speaker 2: But they liked him, and so he got a benefit 846 00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,520 Speaker 2: that I did not get, which is the come in 847 00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 2: hungover and just tell everybody at the office that shit 848 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,120 Speaker 2: in the clothes you had on the day before, and 849 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:21,799 Speaker 2: everybody laughed at it, and then we moved the fuck 850 00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,160 Speaker 2: on and nobody got in trouble. 851 00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:25,960 Speaker 1: And he was late. You understand what I'm saying. So 852 00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,759 Speaker 1: like when I describe it like that, you go, I 853 00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:31,759 Speaker 1: don't give a fuck what his mental health was. Fuck him. 854 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:33,640 Speaker 1: He could have been like, now, look, you could have 855 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,919 Speaker 1: got him in an office. He'd been like, I'm an alcoholic, Okay, 856 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 1: I have a serious mental issue. This is a disease, 857 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:40,800 Speaker 1: and it's not fair for you to reprimand me for 858 00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,480 Speaker 1: coming in late just because I have I'm alcoholic. That's 859 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,200 Speaker 1: not right. And it's like that is his narrative, that 860 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:46,880 Speaker 1: is his story. 861 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:50,120 Speaker 2: At the same time, you probably getting written up for 862 00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,560 Speaker 2: that one dog, you know what I mean, Like, like, 863 00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 2: I gotta understand your job being like be that as 864 00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:56,319 Speaker 2: it may be. 865 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,160 Speaker 3: That ass man. We can get you help for that, 866 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 3: but this right here is not is not We have 867 00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:02,760 Speaker 3: to do something about this behavior. 868 00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:04,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I think it's. 869 00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:09,880 Speaker 2: I think I think it's just difficult for people to 870 00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,920 Speaker 2: divorce the fact that we really really root for and 871 00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:16,560 Speaker 2: like now me from the fact that if this was 872 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 2: any literally almost anybody else, none of us would have 873 00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 2: this reaction, it would be different, you know what I mean, 874 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,080 Speaker 2: if it was like or just not even somebody I 875 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,200 Speaker 2: just imagining with someone you don't like. 876 00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:32,719 Speaker 1: That's all somebody you don't like. 877 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 2: And now we got a whole different set of opinions 878 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,840 Speaker 2: about the same fucking thing, you know. And also, like 879 00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,520 Speaker 2: I said, this environment so fucked up right now because 880 00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:45,560 Speaker 2: the NBA players are dealing with this, you know, the 881 00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 2: the uh fans attacking and throwing shit at them and 882 00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:50,720 Speaker 2: all this stuff. 883 00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,120 Speaker 1: So I think everyone's in a like fight or flight 884 00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:54,120 Speaker 1: mode right now. 885 00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:57,600 Speaker 2: We're just like, we gotta have everybody's back, and you know, 886 00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:01,400 Speaker 2: and I think I agree with having people's back, but 887 00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,520 Speaker 2: I think people should consider what having Naomi's back is. 888 00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,000 Speaker 1: And I don't think having Naomi's back is. 889 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:14,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, no press conferences at the at the French Open anymore, Like, 890 00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,160 Speaker 2: I don't think that's it. I think if you really 891 00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,080 Speaker 2: want to have somebody's back when they're going through something 892 00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:20,919 Speaker 2: like this, it's really allowing. 893 00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,960 Speaker 1: In the space to like heal and to do what 894 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:24,279 Speaker 1: they need to do to manage this. 895 00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,560 Speaker 2: Because if you've been do you understand how people glossed 896 00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,919 Speaker 2: over the shit is she's been dealing with depression since 897 00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:35,799 Speaker 2: twenty eighteen. Do you understand, Like, I don't think people 898 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:37,759 Speaker 2: are understanding, you know what I mean, Like, that's a 899 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,320 Speaker 2: serious fucking thing. We don't know what that means, what 900 00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:43,520 Speaker 2: the depths of that is, and the fact that she's 901 00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:47,520 Speaker 2: been functioning through that for the last three years. 902 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:48,959 Speaker 3: A lot of people do it all the time. 903 00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,800 Speaker 1: People all around you constantly are like that. 904 00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,640 Speaker 2: And I think a lot of people because we have 905 00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:57,880 Speaker 2: such a black and white, simple A to B causality 906 00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 2: thing with mental health, we think, you know everything, we 907 00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:06,880 Speaker 2: think we're helping when we can turn somebody to a 908 00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:07,840 Speaker 2: good guy, somebody. 909 00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:09,440 Speaker 1: To a bad guy. But that's not really how that 910 00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:12,000 Speaker 1: shit works, you know what I mean. 911 00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,600 Speaker 2: So I just really hope whatever she's able to do, 912 00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:18,239 Speaker 2: you know, as far as, like you know, her own 913 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:22,120 Speaker 2: resources and however much time she needs a way, I 914 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:22,759 Speaker 2: hope that's what. 915 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:23,400 Speaker 1: This is about. 916 00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:26,480 Speaker 2: I really don't hope it's as simple as what people 917 00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,840 Speaker 2: think this is, with just her folding her arms and saying, well, 918 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 2: fuck you, I won't do your tournament. You know you won't, 919 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,640 Speaker 2: you know, Like, I really hope it's not. 920 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,319 Speaker 1: Because that really would trivialize to. 921 00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:41,000 Speaker 2: Me, like that wouldn't necessarily make her what people are saying, 922 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,839 Speaker 2: that would trivialize it if it's like, actually, nothing's wrong 923 00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:46,200 Speaker 2: with me, but fuck you and fuck your tournament because 924 00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:49,319 Speaker 2: I didn't feel like doing press and I then y'all, 925 00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:54,800 Speaker 2: then she is the monster that people claim they don't like. 926 00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,000 Speaker 2: And I don't think she I don't know her, but 927 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,960 Speaker 2: I hope that's not it. I hope she's not just 928 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 2: some type of egotistical monster. It reminds me so much 929 00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,760 Speaker 2: of when you see discussions on social media about therapy 930 00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:11,799 Speaker 2: and apparently nobody honors the client patient privileged thing where 931 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,600 Speaker 2: you just or you know, like like they expect the 932 00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 2: therapists to honor it, but the patient don't, Like they 933 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:18,879 Speaker 2: just walk out of the office and blah blah blah. 934 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,880 Speaker 1: But it reminds me so many times when I see. 935 00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,960 Speaker 2: People share a story about that therapist on Twitter, and 936 00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:27,360 Speaker 2: it's always something like not always, but a lot of 937 00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 2: the stories that I'm talking about, they all go like this, 938 00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:34,279 Speaker 2: I was in therapy and my therapist told me that 939 00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:37,000 Speaker 2: maybe I need to look inside myself. 940 00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:42,160 Speaker 1: And forgive of you know, my forgive my mother for the. 941 00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,480 Speaker 2: Thing she said to me or something like that right, 942 00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:46,480 Speaker 2: or something you know, something out of context like that right, 943 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:48,839 Speaker 2: And then it's like and now I need a new 944 00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:52,160 Speaker 2: therapist or you know, or somebody will chime in and 945 00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:55,239 Speaker 2: be like, man, fuck that therapist, blah blah blah. And 946 00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,920 Speaker 2: I always think to myself as somebody that's actually, you know, 947 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:04,440 Speaker 2: done therapy a bit. It's like, you know, there's context, right, Well, 948 00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:08,520 Speaker 2: that happens in a bunch of fucking sessions after like 949 00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:12,360 Speaker 2: you do realize that someone that spent hours listening to 950 00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:17,319 Speaker 2: you talk and asking you questions. It what we are 951 00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:20,359 Speaker 2: supporting on social media and is really quick drive by 952 00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,319 Speaker 2: way where we have no responsibility to this person's life. 953 00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:27,840 Speaker 2: What we call support, well, we may be validating the 954 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 2: thing that the therapist is trying to help them with, right, you. 955 00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:31,560 Speaker 3: Know what I mean. 956 00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:33,000 Speaker 1: We don't know the full picture. 957 00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:38,160 Speaker 2: We just think we're helping because we think support looks 958 00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 2: like a like or retweet. But sometimes support is tougher 959 00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:46,200 Speaker 2: and more nuanced than that, you know what I mean. 960 00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:51,120 Speaker 2: It's like, maybe this person is manipulating you and telling 961 00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:53,759 Speaker 2: you what you want to hear. It's like when the 962 00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:56,000 Speaker 2: same thing happens when you know, I'm a fat person. 963 00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 2: I go to my doctor, there's certain things our doctor's 964 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:01,560 Speaker 2: gonna say, right, because doctors looking at my vitals, they're 965 00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:03,719 Speaker 2: looking at my history, they're looking at my test they're 966 00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 2: looking at all this shit. 967 00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:05,799 Speaker 1: There's ranges that. 968 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:07,879 Speaker 3: Are good that all this shit. 969 00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's good and it's within this right range and 970 00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:12,960 Speaker 2: we're on the right path, and sometimes I'm not. 971 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:17,000 Speaker 1: Okay, my doctor knows that because that's their fucking job. 972 00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:19,800 Speaker 2: So if I come in and my doctor's talking to 973 00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,240 Speaker 2: me about I don't know, diet and exercise or something, 974 00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,600 Speaker 2: and then I hop on Twitter and I go my 975 00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:27,800 Speaker 2: doctor is fat phobic. 976 00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:30,680 Speaker 1: They tell me to lose some weight. People go, see, this. 977 00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:32,520 Speaker 2: Is what's wrong with the medical industry. They look at you, 978 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:34,239 Speaker 2: they just say you fat, Da da da da. Now 979 00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:36,840 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna skip over. My cholesterol was fucked up, 980 00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:39,520 Speaker 2: my blood sugar was messed up. My you know, my 981 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 2: kidney's about to fail. 982 00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 1: Y'all. 983 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,560 Speaker 2: Motherfuckers will still port you into kidney failure because they 984 00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:45,680 Speaker 2: don't really give a fuck. 985 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:47,759 Speaker 1: They didn't go to school for it. 986 00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:51,000 Speaker 2: There's no malpractice against Twitter, and nobody gives a fuck 987 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 2: about that, and it doesn't fit that narrative that. 988 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,360 Speaker 1: All doctors are evil, fat, phobic motherfuckers that want to 989 00:47:57,360 --> 00:48:00,440 Speaker 1: see you die. It doesn't fit that narrative, you know 990 00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:00,959 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. 991 00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:05,279 Speaker 2: So now they don't want to hear any nuanced or 992 00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,000 Speaker 2: any other side to it. You know what I'm saying now, 993 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,440 Speaker 2: I'm not personally, I ain't wanted to share what the 994 00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:11,400 Speaker 2: fuck my therapist a doctor said with people for the 995 00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:14,000 Speaker 2: most part, and I definitely ain't gonna share it the 996 00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,320 Speaker 2: shade them, because I think that's pretty ridiculous. If I 997 00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,040 Speaker 2: really need a new therapist, I just go get one, 998 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:21,719 Speaker 2: because I'm an adult. But the point, the point being, 999 00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:26,120 Speaker 2: though the support we have online is often fucked up. 1000 00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:29,800 Speaker 2: It's often not a clear whole picture. It's just what 1001 00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:34,440 Speaker 2: we think somebody should want to hear. And because it's 1002 00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,040 Speaker 2: all about validation, yeah, and that's you know, it's kind 1003 00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,239 Speaker 2: of like, that's that's not how friendship work. It's not 1004 00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:42,040 Speaker 2: how family works, not how the marriage works. Sometimes it's 1005 00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:43,440 Speaker 2: gonna be some shit you don't want to hear. It 1006 00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,200 Speaker 2: doesn't have to be said in the mean way, but 1007 00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:48,279 Speaker 2: sometimes it's gonna be like, hey, you know, maybe you 1008 00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:51,440 Speaker 2: do need to do blank, or maybe you should talk 1009 00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:52,880 Speaker 2: to this person or whatever. 1010 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,120 Speaker 3: Because you're the person that spent hours with them, the 1011 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,279 Speaker 3: other person that got notes on you. They're the person 1012 00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,640 Speaker 3: that has listened to your family history and then whatever 1013 00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:03,160 Speaker 3: else you told them. And sometimes they might tell you ay. 1014 00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,319 Speaker 3: Sometimes you know, depend on the doctor, presson. They might 1015 00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:08,359 Speaker 3: tell you ay. What you need to do is step 1016 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,839 Speaker 3: away from social media, take a break. And I've seen 1017 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,279 Speaker 3: these people go on social media and talk about them 1018 00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:15,200 Speaker 3: like they telling me I need to get out social media. 1019 00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:17,600 Speaker 3: I don't know why they told you that, baby. 1020 00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:19,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just the narrative is I walked into a room, 1021 00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,440 Speaker 2: this person is evil and wants to destroy me, and 1022 00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:26,000 Speaker 2: y'all are my real friends on the outside looking in, 1023 00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:28,040 Speaker 2: And y'all are gonna tell me to do what I 1024 00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,479 Speaker 2: already want to do what I want all the time. 1025 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,880 Speaker 2: You know, It's like if you asked Twitter some should 1026 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,440 Speaker 2: I do blank? Everyone's gonna say yes because you want 1027 00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:38,920 Speaker 2: to do it and it doesn't cost them shit, you know, 1028 00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:41,640 Speaker 2: Like for the most part of this it's some you know, 1029 00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:43,839 Speaker 2: ridiculous thing. But if you go, hey, should I get 1030 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:44,719 Speaker 2: some ice cream to night? 1031 00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,800 Speaker 1: Yes? Why not treat yourself? Right, that's what we do. 1032 00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:48,360 Speaker 7: You know. 1033 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 1: So now me osaka essentially, should I have to talk 1034 00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:54,880 Speaker 1: to the media, No, girl, do what you want to do. 1035 00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,840 Speaker 1: It's like okay, But she also just says she's. 1036 00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:01,560 Speaker 2: Dealing with depression and us even like talking to the 1037 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:03,920 Speaker 2: media or not talking to the media if it's a 1038 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,920 Speaker 2: serious about a depression, and it's you know, kind of 1039 00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,280 Speaker 2: coded in the way that she coded that first message, 1040 00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:13,719 Speaker 2: just like maybe this is bigger than what Twitter can do. 1041 00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:17,239 Speaker 2: It's you know, I often think about this when people 1042 00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,919 Speaker 2: say shit like protect hashtag protect black women or something 1043 00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:24,400 Speaker 2: on Twitter, and at the same time, like a tweet 1044 00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:25,920 Speaker 2: isn't protection. 1045 00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:26,400 Speaker 3: No, it's not. 1046 00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:30,240 Speaker 1: So just because you tweeted, that doesn't mean shit. 1047 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:34,520 Speaker 2: So if somebody is threatening my life, you coming in 1048 00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:38,120 Speaker 2: and sending me a cat emoji. I know you might 1049 00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:40,759 Speaker 2: think that that dope mean here is gonna change. It 1050 00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:42,840 Speaker 2: doesn't change a motherfucker want to kill me? 1051 00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:47,440 Speaker 1: So what like, so why do we why do we feel? 1052 00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:48,920 Speaker 1: But it makes us feel. 1053 00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:50,480 Speaker 2: Empowered because it's all we can do. I guess I 1054 00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 2: answer my own question. It makes us feel empowered. It's 1055 00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:55,879 Speaker 2: the only thing that such space allows us to do. Hey, 1056 00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:57,200 Speaker 2: I send you a cat emoji. 1057 00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,560 Speaker 1: I fixed it, and it's like no, my my mom's 1058 00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:03,440 Speaker 1: still still dead or whatever the fuck, like like this 1059 00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:04,840 Speaker 1: didn't change that for me. 1060 00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:07,239 Speaker 3: And you're the one that has to deal with the 1061 00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:10,360 Speaker 3: consequences of listening to a therapist or not listening to 1062 00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:13,120 Speaker 3: a therapist or whatever you decide to do, because I've 1063 00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,480 Speaker 3: also seen wonderful things. But people have went to a 1064 00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:17,319 Speaker 3: therapist and they come back and they'll talk about how 1065 00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:19,719 Speaker 3: they've had breakthroughs, how they work through stuff, but guess what, 1066 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,919 Speaker 3: a lot of their work was not done in front 1067 00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:22,160 Speaker 3: of us. 1068 00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:25,440 Speaker 1: They postshit after they've actually people people often say, what 1069 00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:28,040 Speaker 1: therapy isn't easy all the time, it. 1070 00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:31,760 Speaker 2: Says, they even say it's work, yes, But then every 1071 00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:34,200 Speaker 2: time somebody brings this shit up in public and that 1072 00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,680 Speaker 2: type of way, we go thrown through the work and 1073 00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,640 Speaker 2: then we go we're the ones who are right, not 1074 00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:40,879 Speaker 2: the people that got paid and sat in the room 1075 00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:43,920 Speaker 2: with you and have a lot more insight to what 1076 00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,040 Speaker 2: we're talking about than what we have from your social 1077 00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,720 Speaker 2: media because everything I'll seeving on social media is curated 1078 00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:53,200 Speaker 2: through you, right, so my picture of you as the 1079 00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:56,760 Speaker 2: like whatever the fuck you're promoting is one you chose 1080 00:51:56,840 --> 00:52:00,200 Speaker 2: to show me. So even in this situation where your 1081 00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:02,719 Speaker 2: therapist where it's different, it's real life. 1082 00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:06,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what you told them, like like. 1083 00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:08,399 Speaker 2: Like if I feel like if you do some shit 1084 00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:09,840 Speaker 2: like that, I should be able to say, you know what, 1085 00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:12,480 Speaker 2: send me the hour long recordings of all your sessions. 1086 00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:14,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna save this tweet. 1087 00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:16,000 Speaker 2: I'm gonna listen to those, and I'm gonna come back 1088 00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:17,320 Speaker 2: to you in twenty hours and tell you how I 1089 00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:17,879 Speaker 2: really feel. 1090 00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,560 Speaker 1: Cause it's like, you know, I got an m complete 1091 00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:21,120 Speaker 1: picture when. 1092 00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:22,919 Speaker 2: You be Like I walked in and my therapist said 1093 00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:27,120 Speaker 2: that it's time for me to stop crying and time 1094 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:29,600 Speaker 2: for me to stand up, and I said, bitch, I'm 1095 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,160 Speaker 2: getting a different therapist. And I'm like, well, I don't 1096 00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:35,160 Speaker 2: know what the context of that was. I don't think 1097 00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,960 Speaker 2: your therapist is just an evil, wicked wish that came 1098 00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:41,360 Speaker 2: out of and started penalizing you for crying. 1099 00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,520 Speaker 3: They came in and chose violence with you today. 1100 00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:49,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think, I mean, I think stuff like 1101 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,400 Speaker 2: this kind of makes me go down that path. Like 1102 00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:55,000 Speaker 2: I said, this is my own projecting all this, I'm 1103 00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:56,040 Speaker 2: not unaware of that. 1104 00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,719 Speaker 1: So but this is how I see it. 1105 00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 2: It's just like, man, what we call supporters, just everybody 1106 00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,200 Speaker 2: retweeting blackfist emojis. 1107 00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:05,239 Speaker 1: At her and. 1108 00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:09,560 Speaker 2: Replying like yeah girl and all this shit, And I'm like, man, 1109 00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,759 Speaker 2: she might be like, whatever she's dealing with, we are 1110 00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:18,080 Speaker 2: not quit privy too, and it's gotten so bad she 1111 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,080 Speaker 2: don't even feel like she can do to fulfill the 1112 00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:23,960 Speaker 2: full obligations of that job. And she sprung it on 1113 00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:27,680 Speaker 2: them on the last second. Which, you know, normally for 1114 00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:30,799 Speaker 2: a lot of people, especially if you're dealing with mental 1115 00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:36,880 Speaker 2: health issues, that can be the depression talking. Yeah, you 1116 00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:39,520 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like, there's certain times, there's certain 1117 00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:43,160 Speaker 2: posts that people see and it's framed in a certain 1118 00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:45,160 Speaker 2: way because depression is a chemical and balance in your 1119 00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:48,759 Speaker 2: brain and it doesn't allow you to fully think, like 1120 00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:52,600 Speaker 2: same thing with anxiety and stuff. Depression be kicking people's ass. Man, 1121 00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,920 Speaker 2: Depression will be like you not important, no one loves you, 1122 00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:59,480 Speaker 2: no one cares about you. How this person didn't call 1123 00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,640 Speaker 2: you back, and it's because they secretly fucking hate you. 1124 00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:05,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought it. I've been down there. And the 1125 00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:11,600 Speaker 3: thing about it is that, uh, nobody ever wants to 1126 00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:14,120 Speaker 3: talk about you can be just like you could be 1127 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:17,560 Speaker 3: a functioning alcoholic, a functioning person on drugs, you could 1128 00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:21,520 Speaker 3: be a functioning depressed depressive person like you can actually function, 1129 00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:24,000 Speaker 3: which means you go to work, you keep your job. 1130 00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:26,320 Speaker 3: Because everybody think when people think of depression, they just 1131 00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:28,440 Speaker 3: think you lay in bed all day, you don't go nowhere, 1132 00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:31,960 Speaker 3: you don't do nothing, you just lose everything. And most 1133 00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:35,000 Speaker 3: people that are dealing with forms of depression are actually 1134 00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:38,200 Speaker 3: functioning in society. So it almost takes people for a 1135 00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:40,600 Speaker 3: loop when somebody says that depressed because they don' quote 1136 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,920 Speaker 3: unquote have the symptoms of depression. Well, what does depression 1137 00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,920 Speaker 3: look like? Nobody really knows, because depression looks different for 1138 00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:48,560 Speaker 3: every person. Yeah. 1139 00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:51,200 Speaker 2: So, like I said, I'm not saying I know Naimi 1140 00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:52,560 Speaker 2: any better than anybody else. 1141 00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:55,120 Speaker 1: And maybe it's as simple as everybody is saying, and 1142 00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:58,960 Speaker 1: it's really about exactly what you like. 1143 00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:02,279 Speaker 2: She's standing up for racism and against black people by 1144 00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:05,279 Speaker 2: not talking to the press but participating in the French 1145 00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:08,080 Speaker 2: open in some type of way that may make sense 1146 00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:10,080 Speaker 2: to people, but reading with her words, that ain't what 1147 00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,560 Speaker 2: that felt like to me, you know what I mean? 1148 00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:16,120 Speaker 2: So that was like the major hot button topic dollars. 1149 00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:19,440 Speaker 2: Just like, damn boy, glad we have a podcast, we 1150 00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:23,000 Speaker 2: can talk about it, you know what I mean. But 1151 00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:27,719 Speaker 2: let's talk about more hot button topics. Okay, your girl, 1152 00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:32,879 Speaker 2: Black Lives Matter Patrice Colors m h stepping down. 1153 00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:36,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, ain't that the one they wrote auto articles about 1154 00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:36,919 Speaker 3: not two months ago? 1155 00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:40,279 Speaker 1: Yes, she's on four houses and Black Lives Matter. 1156 00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:43,959 Speaker 2: The organization got ninety million dollars and not enough people 1157 00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:44,680 Speaker 2: got enough of that. 1158 00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:46,160 Speaker 1: So what she must be? 1159 00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:48,759 Speaker 3: You know, she's like, I ain't guess what. I ain't 1160 00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:49,319 Speaker 3: got to be here. 1161 00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I guess what. 1162 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:55,600 Speaker 3: It's always an option to opt out because and it's 1163 00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,200 Speaker 3: funny though, everybody think everybody else supposed to take an 1164 00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:02,680 Speaker 3: ass with them with them, like everybody you know, stand there, 1165 00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:05,320 Speaker 3: do it fighting and get big up and you know, 1166 00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:08,080 Speaker 3: you know, stand up. Okay, cool, cool, cool cool? But 1167 00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:10,320 Speaker 3: what happens when I'm tired of getting my ass whooped 1168 00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:11,080 Speaker 3: on both sides? 1169 00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:12,400 Speaker 1: I find it. 1170 00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:15,399 Speaker 2: I found it funny because I just remember so much 1171 00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:17,279 Speaker 2: of what Black Lives Matter was doing was doing that 1172 00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:17,800 Speaker 2: the other. 1173 00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:22,080 Speaker 1: Activists, come on, come on, we're keeping it a buck. 1174 00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:23,719 Speaker 2: A lot of what they was doing when they came 1175 00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:25,680 Speaker 2: on the scene with shitting on other activists and talking 1176 00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:26,760 Speaker 2: about how they was gonna. 1177 00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:27,640 Speaker 1: Do it differently and do it right. 1178 00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:31,040 Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, like and it's 1179 00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,239 Speaker 2: not just her, a ship ton of activists have gone 1180 00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:37,399 Speaker 2: back to just life, yep, because because taking that ass 1181 00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:40,400 Speaker 2: whipping for how many, like forty fifty years, like like 1182 00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,359 Speaker 2: like Al Sharpton and some of these people have done. 1183 00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:45,480 Speaker 2: Motherfuckers don't want they don't. 1184 00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:49,440 Speaker 1: Have the whatever it is to be in the center 1185 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:53,160 Speaker 1: of that for that long and continue getting up every 1186 00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:55,120 Speaker 1: day and doing your best. 1187 00:56:55,760 --> 00:57:00,399 Speaker 3: Correct And it's more to it than people think. You say, 1188 00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:03,200 Speaker 3: And I'm on the outside looking in. But whenever you 1189 00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:05,200 Speaker 3: say I want to be an activist, like you say, 1190 00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,920 Speaker 3: this is my thing, You're taking on an ass whipping 1191 00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:10,319 Speaker 3: whether you want to or not. You're taking white people 1192 00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:12,759 Speaker 3: beating on you. You're taking niggas beating on You're telling 1193 00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,680 Speaker 3: you you're not doing enough, you could do more. You 1194 00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:18,760 Speaker 3: got them saying that that what you're doing ain't worth it. 1195 00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:21,360 Speaker 3: They got you, you know, you got black people telling 1196 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:24,120 Speaker 3: you no matter what you do, it is the wrong decision. 1197 00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:26,640 Speaker 3: You have other activists coming at you saying what you 1198 00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,960 Speaker 3: do is the wrong decision. And that's from us. That's 1199 00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:32,520 Speaker 3: not talking about those white people telling you get out 1200 00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:37,080 Speaker 3: my space. Why you hear your callsing problems, them harassing 1201 00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:40,400 Speaker 3: your online, them docksing you, them coming at you. It 1202 00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:44,160 Speaker 3: is a constant fucking ass whipping, and so it's designed 1203 00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:46,600 Speaker 3: to actually take the fight out of you. So you 1204 00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:48,480 Speaker 3: have to find a center and you have to find 1205 00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:51,200 Speaker 3: a balance to this. You can't be on all the time, 1206 00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,560 Speaker 3: but this is what they expect activists to do, to 1207 00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:56,800 Speaker 3: be owned all the time. Nobody can function like that. 1208 00:57:56,960 --> 00:58:01,400 Speaker 3: You just can't function like that mentally and physical and spiritually. 1209 00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,360 Speaker 3: You're not designed to constantly be beat like that. So 1210 00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:06,720 Speaker 3: you have to have a balance. And the thing is 1211 00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:08,680 Speaker 3: the niggas want you to do it for free and 1212 00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:12,320 Speaker 3: want you to die broke. You know, and not all 1213 00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:14,280 Speaker 3: of them, but some people do. They feel like if 1214 00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:15,640 Speaker 3: you pick up this matter, you're supposed to get your 1215 00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:18,040 Speaker 3: ass with for free, be homeless, live in the truck, 1216 00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:20,680 Speaker 3: not make a dime, not make a living dipinding on this. 1217 00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:22,960 Speaker 3: Nobody knows your name and nobody knows who you are. 1218 00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:25,320 Speaker 3: That does not make sense. How can you accomplish your 1219 00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:27,800 Speaker 3: goals without money. You have to have money in order 1220 00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:30,160 Speaker 3: to accomplish these goals, and a lot of times that 1221 00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:32,640 Speaker 3: money has got to come from white people in order 1222 00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:35,439 Speaker 3: to accomlish these goals because as a whole, Black people 1223 00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:38,920 Speaker 3: do not have the financial history to support us in 1224 00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:41,560 Speaker 3: those realms. Once you get to a certain point, you've 1225 00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:44,160 Speaker 3: got to get money outside of us, because it's actually 1226 00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:47,760 Speaker 3: a collective thing. You can't do this without some help 1227 00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:50,480 Speaker 3: from white people. You've got to have it there. But 1228 00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:53,640 Speaker 3: because you know black people, and I understand, I'm on 1229 00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,240 Speaker 3: bias and now on hatred for some of them, and 1230 00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:59,120 Speaker 3: we don't trust white people period. We think any help 1231 00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:01,920 Speaker 3: from white people it's just the wrong thing. Ever, and 1232 00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:05,200 Speaker 3: so it is a big ass clusterfuck when it comes 1233 00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:08,120 Speaker 3: to activism. So I understand her looking out of all 1234 00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:10,280 Speaker 3: them giving the middle fingers, said, fucking I ain't got 1235 00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:11,919 Speaker 3: to be here, bitch, just kiss my ass. 1236 00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:16,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, But like I said, that's how they came in 1237 00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:16,960 Speaker 1: the game too. 1238 00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:20,840 Speaker 2: So like you came in the game shitting on people 1239 00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 2: that were doing that work and said we're gonna do 1240 00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:24,880 Speaker 2: the work the right way and do it different. 1241 00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:28,480 Speaker 1: So to me, all that shit is like. 1242 00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:32,479 Speaker 2: Part of the come uppings of it, like it's part 1243 00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:35,520 Speaker 2: of the cycle, Like it sucks to see, but we 1244 00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:37,680 Speaker 2: you know, we've gotten to see it upfront on social 1245 00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:40,680 Speaker 2: media now. For the last ten years, this just seemed 1246 00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:43,320 Speaker 2: like part of the cycle. People come in, they say 1247 00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:45,120 Speaker 2: they're gonna do a bunch of shit, they do a 1248 00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:48,280 Speaker 2: bunch of shit. People tell you why that's wrong, and 1249 00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:50,960 Speaker 2: somehow they didn't do it right. And the next group 1250 00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:53,160 Speaker 2: of people come in and they tell you, I'm gonna 1251 00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:55,520 Speaker 2: do it different than they doing it. And a lot 1252 00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:57,720 Speaker 2: of this shit is loving activism. A lot of the 1253 00:59:57,760 --> 00:59:59,840 Speaker 2: people that were jealous and shit like that were con 1254 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,400 Speaker 2: STI Lean framing any action that she or Black Lives 1255 01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:06,680 Speaker 2: Matter took as in a negative light. And then even 1256 01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:12,160 Speaker 2: more importantly, you had white racist publications doing a lot 1257 01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,680 Speaker 2: of that too, and and a lot of these people 1258 01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:17,360 Speaker 2: were in lock sink and step with these racist publications. 1259 01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:20,200 Speaker 2: When I say, I'm out of the fucking activism game. 1260 01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:21,120 Speaker 2: When it comes to like. 1261 01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:25,840 Speaker 3: Like this is it, Like activists is just people man, 1262 01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:27,320 Speaker 3: just regular as human being. 1263 01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:30,440 Speaker 2: You know, you can make the same you can make 1264 01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:32,720 Speaker 2: the same judgments of activists that they must have some 1265 01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:35,960 Speaker 2: egomania type shit in order to think that they're the 1266 01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:38,080 Speaker 2: one voice that can change the world, and all they 1267 01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:39,800 Speaker 2: need to do is this, this and this, and it's 1268 01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:43,440 Speaker 2: so fucking simple, like, Okay, you know what I mean, 1269 01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:46,160 Speaker 2: but you must think highly of yourself to even want 1270 01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:49,920 Speaker 2: to attempt that, you know, like it's and at the 1271 01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:52,880 Speaker 2: same time you get penalized for thinking holly of yourself, right, 1272 01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:56,240 Speaker 2: because we had this weird like martyrdom thing where it's like, 1273 01:00:56,320 --> 01:01:00,400 Speaker 2: you supposed to want to die for everybody. And if 1274 01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:04,080 Speaker 2: you don't show us that that you have no self preservation, 1275 01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:08,640 Speaker 2: that you have no uh, you don't want any level 1276 01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:12,080 Speaker 2: of abundance in your living or anything. Unless you show 1277 01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:15,280 Speaker 2: us all this shit, then we gonna consider you somehow 1278 01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:19,880 Speaker 2: the enemy, right, And people, now it probably was always 1279 01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:23,320 Speaker 2: this way, but now it's so easy to pick a team, 1280 01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:25,040 Speaker 2: which is what so many these people do. 1281 01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:26,120 Speaker 3: Mascot. 1282 01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:28,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and once you pick a mascot, you gonna you 1283 01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:31,880 Speaker 2: like part of that game is I gotta anything they 1284 01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:34,280 Speaker 2: do that people don't like, I gotta defend anything they 1285 01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:40,360 Speaker 2: do that, anything somebody else does that isn't them, I 1286 01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:41,560 Speaker 2: gotta I gotta attack. 1287 01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:44,560 Speaker 1: And I'm like, this is very weird and It's crazy 1288 01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:45,320 Speaker 1: y'all don't see this. 1289 01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:47,560 Speaker 2: And maybe it's because I like sports so much that 1290 01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:49,800 Speaker 2: I'm able to be like, oh, you think this niggas 1291 01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:50,280 Speaker 2: the Sixers. 1292 01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:52,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, that's not what I of this is about. 1293 01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:55,720 Speaker 2: You know, this is a jersey I chose to wear, 1294 01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:57,920 Speaker 2: and now I must fight on this lines like it 1295 01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:01,000 Speaker 2: ain't even that for the important you know, it doesn't 1296 01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:07,120 Speaker 2: help that they have beef with each other, sorry, within 1297 01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:10,120 Speaker 2: that spear, and so then a lot of it does 1298 01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:12,000 Speaker 2: make it seem like you need to pick a side, 1299 01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:14,880 Speaker 2: which is something I refuse to fucking do. I don't 1300 01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:17,080 Speaker 2: even care who it is. By the record, I just 1301 01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:19,520 Speaker 2: don't give them money. If I don't really think, if 1302 01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:21,160 Speaker 2: I don't know whatever fuck is up with them, I 1303 01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:21,880 Speaker 2: don't give them money. 1304 01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:22,640 Speaker 3: That's it. Same. 1305 01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:24,920 Speaker 1: That's as simple as I got for you. You can 1306 01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:26,240 Speaker 1: make it more complicated than that. 1307 01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:28,680 Speaker 2: I do not have to pick any of these nigga side, 1308 01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:31,000 Speaker 2: because last time I checked, we are no closer to free. 1309 01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:35,880 Speaker 1: Everybody got all the answers, we are no closer to free. 1310 01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:36,880 Speaker 5: You know. 1311 01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:40,920 Speaker 2: I saw somebody today making an analogy about defund the police, 1312 01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:45,280 Speaker 2: and they said something to the effect that like these 1313 01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:48,760 Speaker 2: articles saying defund the police didn't work. It's like saying 1314 01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,560 Speaker 2: this tough that's been stopped up and the water's been running. 1315 01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:54,480 Speaker 2: It didn't unstop the toilet just because we turned off 1316 01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:57,280 Speaker 2: the water and it's only been five minutes and now 1317 01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:58,880 Speaker 2: they want to turn the water back on or whatever. 1318 01:02:59,440 --> 01:02:59,960 Speaker 3: And I was like. 1319 01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:04,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, except it's like if someone told you that turning 1320 01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:08,880 Speaker 1: off the water would fix everything right away, and then 1321 01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:11,680 Speaker 1: you found out that it was work and that's why 1322 01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:14,760 Speaker 1: everybody was like, well fuck it. Then that's really closer 1323 01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:15,520 Speaker 1: to the truth. 1324 01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:21,040 Speaker 2: Right, Like the solutions keep getting presented as very easy solutions. Hey, 1325 01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 2: just do this, we just haven't thought of it this way. 1326 01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:27,320 Speaker 2: Do this, everything will be fixed. Snap, rack of pop, 1327 01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:30,200 Speaker 2: We're done. And I think that's one of the things 1328 01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:32,680 Speaker 2: that kind of hurts a lot of people because and 1329 01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:35,520 Speaker 2: it's because people demand to be sold these things like products, 1330 01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:38,120 Speaker 2: like I need something that's gonna fix it today, and 1331 01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:40,760 Speaker 2: then you do the thing and it doesn't work right away, 1332 01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:43,560 Speaker 2: and then everybody goes fucking your fraud. You just want money, 1333 01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:46,800 Speaker 2: you don't care about black people. This is always a 1334 01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:49,560 Speaker 2: grift and all this shit, and it's like damn, which 1335 01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:52,800 Speaker 2: of these people hasn't been called a grifter. Show me 1336 01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:55,000 Speaker 2: the activist that hasn't been called a grifter, Show me 1337 01:03:56,480 --> 01:04:00,640 Speaker 2: show them. I can't think of any I've seen somebody 1338 01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:02,720 Speaker 2: out there that don't fuck with every single one of 1339 01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:03,840 Speaker 2: these activists. 1340 01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:04,400 Speaker 3: So one of them. 1341 01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:05,960 Speaker 1: I don't know that we are. 1342 01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:08,880 Speaker 2: I don't know that the pressure to get her to 1343 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,120 Speaker 2: step down gonna fix a motherfucking thing. 1344 01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:11,440 Speaker 5: Mm. 1345 01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:14,960 Speaker 2: You know, I don't know that that's gonna change any 1346 01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:17,240 Speaker 2: of the work or whatever. Now she's saying she created 1347 01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:20,360 Speaker 2: infrastructure and the support and the necessary bones of foundation 1348 01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:22,080 Speaker 2: so that she could leave, and it feels like the 1349 01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:23,760 Speaker 2: time is right, And I'm like, yeah, cause youre getting 1350 01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:26,520 Speaker 2: shitted on and you making money now, which is how 1351 01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:31,200 Speaker 2: motherfuckers are like decided that you ain't shit. She has 1352 01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:32,200 Speaker 2: an upcome and release, her. 1353 01:04:32,160 --> 01:04:35,200 Speaker 1: Second book, multi year TV development deal with Warner Brothers, 1354 01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:36,760 Speaker 1: and yeah. 1355 01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:41,480 Speaker 2: People was like, look at her money, y'all. Look, I'm like, 1356 01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:43,760 Speaker 2: so she could have bought the houses with that money. Nope, 1357 01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:45,440 Speaker 2: she must be stealing money from. 1358 01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:47,960 Speaker 1: Black Lives Matter. It's like, well, I mean, isn't all 1359 01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:48,880 Speaker 1: the money accounting for? 1360 01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:51,320 Speaker 2: And they had some rules that they like, open up 1361 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:53,640 Speaker 2: their books and show their Nope, fuck that shit. She 1362 01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:56,360 Speaker 2: a motherfucking thief and she need to go. It's like, 1363 01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:59,520 Speaker 2: all right, this doesn't seem rational or reasonable at all. 1364 01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:00,640 Speaker 7: You know. 1365 01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:03,320 Speaker 2: She said those are right wing when she talked about 1366 01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:05,960 Speaker 2: the stuff with the money, she said, those are right 1367 01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:06,680 Speaker 2: wing attacks. 1368 01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:08,320 Speaker 1: They tried to discredit my character. 1369 01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:10,479 Speaker 2: I don't operate off of what the right thinks about 1370 01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:12,320 Speaker 2: me and she The Parts Foundation is bringing the board 1371 01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:15,480 Speaker 2: to two new interim senior executives to help steer the 1372 01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:20,160 Speaker 2: immediate future. Monifa Bendel or maybe Ben Della and longtime 1373 01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:22,800 Speaker 2: Black Lives Matter organizer and founder of Malcolm X Crass 1374 01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:27,640 Speaker 2: Root Movement in New York City. Maconie Themba Thimba, an 1375 01:05:27,720 --> 01:05:30,360 Speaker 2: early backer of the Black Lives Matter movement and chief 1376 01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:33,280 Speaker 2: Strategies at Higher Ground Change Strategies in Jackson, Mississippi. 1377 01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:36,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll see what happens, man. I don't know, man, 1378 01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:39,720 Speaker 1: it was just a lot of like it was building 1379 01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:40,040 Speaker 1: to a. 1380 01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:42,960 Speaker 2: Point where I couldn't imagine what else she could do, 1381 01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:46,040 Speaker 2: because it was like, that's the other thing. Once they 1382 01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:49,680 Speaker 2: decide that you ain't the one, they never gonna let 1383 01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:52,760 Speaker 2: you breathe no matter what you do like they are. 1384 01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:55,800 Speaker 2: There's no move you can make where they'll be like, 1385 01:05:56,040 --> 01:05:59,760 Speaker 2: you know what I had Patre's pegron. It's like from 1386 01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:02,439 Speaker 2: this point on, you just the bad guy. 1387 01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:04,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, because like a lot of things, once they turn 1388 01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:07,720 Speaker 3: on you, which they turned but that's the thing, those 1389 01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:11,200 Speaker 3: collective group of people, they turn on everybody, right, you know, 1390 01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:14,680 Speaker 3: and and that's like it's almost like everybody is shocked 1391 01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:16,440 Speaker 3: by the turn. I was like, how many times do 1392 01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:18,760 Speaker 3: we got to see this before we realize like this 1393 01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:21,080 Speaker 3: is the shit that they do. They build you up 1394 01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:23,440 Speaker 3: and then they turn They do it the celebrities, they 1395 01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:25,040 Speaker 3: do it, the singers, actors. 1396 01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:27,560 Speaker 1: I haven't seen one. I haven't seen one. 1397 01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:29,120 Speaker 3: They haven't done it too. Yeah. 1398 01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:32,320 Speaker 2: What's funny is that they go is celebrity activism when 1399 01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:35,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, but we the ones making them celebrities. 1400 01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:38,800 Speaker 1: You the one follow them on Twitter? You do want 1401 01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:40,880 Speaker 1: to retweet everything they say? You don't want to give 1402 01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:42,760 Speaker 1: a fuck what they wear, what event they went to? 1403 01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:47,520 Speaker 2: What do you mean all activism and celebrity activism if 1404 01:06:47,600 --> 01:06:50,000 Speaker 2: you know about it, you. 1405 01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:50,520 Speaker 1: Know what I mean? 1406 01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:54,160 Speaker 2: Even when you talk these names of people that you're like, oh, 1407 01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:56,640 Speaker 2: this activist is talking about this activist that make. 1408 01:06:56,640 --> 01:06:57,240 Speaker 1: Them more woke. 1409 01:06:57,320 --> 01:07:00,360 Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, but then what happens when we start 1410 01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:02,640 Speaker 2: listening to them and they get more followers and more 1411 01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:04,360 Speaker 2: pull and more people on that platform. 1412 01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:06,520 Speaker 1: Now, guess what they are? A celebrity? 1413 01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:10,480 Speaker 2: Like you tell it like your issue is with this system, 1414 01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:14,360 Speaker 2: but you're a celebrity. You know, the attempt to get 1415 01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:16,840 Speaker 2: the word out makes you a celebrity. There's not a 1416 01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:18,720 Speaker 2: way to get the word out where the word don't 1417 01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:22,280 Speaker 2: come from you at some point. Right, It's impossible because 1418 01:07:22,280 --> 01:07:24,600 Speaker 2: people want to know who's behind these things. So if 1419 01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:27,160 Speaker 2: people don't think about the cash twenty two that they're 1420 01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:29,880 Speaker 2: saying when they promote that shit, Like there's some type 1421 01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:34,040 Speaker 2: of activist who's an activist but also don't got but 1422 01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:37,640 Speaker 2: also not known to be an activist, but also does 1423 01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:40,720 Speaker 2: super great work but also doesn't talk about it, and 1424 01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:42,280 Speaker 2: no one talks about it and no one wants to 1425 01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:45,920 Speaker 2: ask them any questions. That's fucking impossible, right, you know, 1426 01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:48,560 Speaker 2: people be on podcasts like I can't believe these motherfuckers 1427 01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:53,040 Speaker 2: is a celebrity. Activists like Nigga, you doing it, You're 1428 01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:55,360 Speaker 2: helping them be a celebrity and also guess what if 1429 01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:59,040 Speaker 2: you're an activist, you're doing a podcast, you you a celebrity, 1430 01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:02,720 Speaker 2: what does it mean. Particularly normally, it seems to mean 1431 01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:05,360 Speaker 2: that they're more successful at it than you have been. 1432 01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:08,800 Speaker 2: That's typically what it means. And when I realize that shit, 1433 01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:10,760 Speaker 2: I'm just like, man, fuck all this shit, Like, I 1434 01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:13,240 Speaker 2: don't care. I don't give a fuck. If it's jay Z, 1435 01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:16,800 Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck if it is whoever, the fuck. 1436 01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:19,400 Speaker 2: If you're trying to help people in the ways that 1437 01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:22,120 Speaker 2: you think you can help people and to help, thank. 1438 01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:26,360 Speaker 3: You, right, Because if I'm on the receiving end of something, 1439 01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:29,200 Speaker 3: whether it's Kim kar Dashing getting my black ass out 1440 01:08:29,200 --> 01:08:32,040 Speaker 3: of jail, whether it's Beyonce and jay Z building me out, 1441 01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:34,720 Speaker 3: it does not matter. If I am the person that's 1442 01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:37,000 Speaker 3: the beneficiary of this, I don't give fuck where it's 1443 01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:39,439 Speaker 3: coming from. And sometimes people lose the sight of that 1444 01:08:39,920 --> 01:08:40,559 Speaker 3: when it comes to. 1445 01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:42,720 Speaker 2: The thing for me is always like and show me 1446 01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:44,920 Speaker 2: how that stopped anybody else from getting up there and 1447 01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:47,240 Speaker 2: doing whatever they want to deal, right, because that's the 1448 01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:50,719 Speaker 2: one thing we haven't seen, this thing where it's like, well, damn, 1449 01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:55,040 Speaker 2: since jay Z did that, I guess Colin Kaebernick can't 1450 01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:58,200 Speaker 2: give suits to homeless people, Like what? Both of those 1451 01:08:58,240 --> 01:09:01,760 Speaker 2: things can still happen, Like they're not stopping anybody from 1452 01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:02,240 Speaker 2: doing shit. 1453 01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:03,560 Speaker 1: It's just what do you want to do? 1454 01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:04,640 Speaker 6: You know? 1455 01:09:04,960 --> 01:09:08,840 Speaker 2: But anyway, I think it's just kind of sad that, like, 1456 01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:11,240 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people was probably celebrating this 1457 01:09:11,680 --> 01:09:14,200 Speaker 2: who claimed to be woke, but they were celebrating it 1458 01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:19,840 Speaker 2: out of a pure level of just foolishness and ridiculousness 1459 01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:24,720 Speaker 2: in my opinion. All Right, what else happened? Oh, other 1460 01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:30,200 Speaker 2: big news bonnet gate? You heard about this gate? 1461 01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:34,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I guess I don't know how to started. 1462 01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:38,960 Speaker 2: But there's a debate about black women wearing bonnets outside 1463 01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:42,200 Speaker 2: of the house. And I know someone took I saw 1464 01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:44,760 Speaker 2: a viral picture someone took a black women in the 1465 01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:46,400 Speaker 2: airport and they were all wearing bonnets. 1466 01:09:46,640 --> 01:09:49,800 Speaker 3: Not saying that because it was like everywhere. 1467 01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:52,400 Speaker 2: And I saw like there was a fight video of 1468 01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:55,280 Speaker 2: a fight and it was like black women in bonnets 1469 01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:57,719 Speaker 2: beating somebody's ass or maybe fighting each other. And somebody 1470 01:09:57,840 --> 01:10:00,280 Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, look at these bonnets. You 1471 01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:02,160 Speaker 2: see a black girl doing this, you know, And so 1472 01:10:02,320 --> 01:10:07,240 Speaker 2: then it turned some weird like respectability thing and whether 1473 01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:12,320 Speaker 2: black women should wear bonnets or not. And so then 1474 01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:16,800 Speaker 2: your girl Monique, who we all supported and boycotted. 1475 01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:19,599 Speaker 1: Netflix for Oh what y'all be watching Netflix? 1476 01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:20,280 Speaker 5: Wow? 1477 01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:21,639 Speaker 1: Chat room for real? 1478 01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:23,280 Speaker 3: So it was just me. 1479 01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:28,160 Speaker 1: I'm the only one. I'm so sad, But she had 1480 01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:29,320 Speaker 1: to weigh in on the topic. 1481 01:10:30,160 --> 01:10:36,000 Speaker 6: Hey, my sweet babies. So it took me a minute 1482 01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:39,000 Speaker 6: to say what don't getting ready to say because I. 1483 01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:42,479 Speaker 1: Want to kind of just say, Monique is aging so gracefully, okay, 1484 01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:47,639 Speaker 1: jo just some beautiful and see can kill herself great. 1485 01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:51,799 Speaker 3: Hell, I can't wait till I get my grades. 1486 01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:54,400 Speaker 2: She's really doing her damn thing. All right, let's see 1487 01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:55,960 Speaker 2: how she fucked up this good momentum. 1488 01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:59,439 Speaker 7: Sure, I'm not saying it in judgment, and I want 1489 01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:01,600 Speaker 7: to make sure I'm standing from a place. 1490 01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:04,559 Speaker 6: Of love, y'all. 1491 01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:06,960 Speaker 7: Some of y'all have given me the title of Auntie, 1492 01:11:08,360 --> 01:11:13,320 Speaker 7: and I'm honored that y'all do that, right, But there 1493 01:11:13,360 --> 01:11:16,559 Speaker 7: are times where Auntie got to talk to her babies 1494 01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:23,400 Speaker 7: and say some real shit. So yesterday I was in 1495 01:11:23,520 --> 01:11:26,840 Speaker 7: the airport in Atlanta because I'm in Jackson, Mississippi. Now 1496 01:11:27,280 --> 01:11:30,519 Speaker 7: at Chuckles Comedy club right, and we got three shows tonight, 1497 01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:32,120 Speaker 7: we got a mat in a at five point thirty. 1498 01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:34,880 Speaker 7: Then we got seven, then we got ten, right, and 1499 01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:35,879 Speaker 7: I'm excited. 1500 01:11:35,920 --> 01:11:38,200 Speaker 6: I always love going to the stage. 1501 01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:41,439 Speaker 7: So when we got to the airport yesterday, I was excited, like, 1502 01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:44,400 Speaker 7: all right, baby, let's go get him in Jackson, Mississippi. 1503 01:11:45,840 --> 01:11:49,200 Speaker 6: And as we begin to walk through the airport, I. 1504 01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:54,599 Speaker 7: Saw so many actually too many to count and too 1505 01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:58,200 Speaker 7: many for me to tap. But I saw so many 1506 01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:06,600 Speaker 7: of our young sisters and head bonnets, scarfs, slippers, pajamas, 1507 01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:11,240 Speaker 7: blankets wrapped around them. And this is how they're showing 1508 01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:17,280 Speaker 7: up to the airport. And it I've been seeing it 1509 01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:19,880 Speaker 7: not just at the airport. I've been seeing it at store, 1510 01:12:20,439 --> 01:12:23,160 Speaker 7: at the mall. I've been seeing sisters showing up with 1511 01:12:23,280 --> 01:12:26,920 Speaker 7: these bonnets and head scarfs and they slippers. And the 1512 01:12:27,120 --> 01:12:30,240 Speaker 7: question that I'm having to you, my sweet babies, when 1513 01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:34,320 Speaker 7: did we lose pride in representing ourselves? When did we 1514 01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:38,360 Speaker 7: step away of Let me make sure I'm presentable when 1515 01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:42,080 Speaker 7: I leave my home. Let me make sure I'm representing 1516 01:12:42,560 --> 01:12:45,400 Speaker 7: the family I created, so that if I'm out in 1517 01:12:45,439 --> 01:12:50,280 Speaker 7: the street, I look like I have pride in myself. 1518 01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:53,080 Speaker 7: And I'm not saying no full face of makeup. I'm 1519 01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:56,320 Speaker 7: not saying no full front front or I'm not saying 1520 01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:59,960 Speaker 7: none of that. All I'm saying is could you please 1521 01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:00,800 Speaker 7: comb your hair? 1522 01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:02,840 Speaker 6: And if you don't want to. 1523 01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:05,400 Speaker 7: Comb your hair, they got enough shit out here now, baby, 1524 01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:08,040 Speaker 7: where you can style yourself up and look like you 1525 01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:13,320 Speaker 7: have pride. I'm not saying you don't have pride, but 1526 01:13:13,479 --> 01:13:17,759 Speaker 7: the representation that you're showing someone would have to ask. 1527 01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:19,920 Speaker 6: You to know that you had it. 1528 01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:26,679 Speaker 1: So okay, all right, that's like half of it. Yeah 1529 01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:27,519 Speaker 1: that was. 1530 01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:30,080 Speaker 3: So she got more to say. 1531 01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:32,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, it goes on. Okay, you wanna play 1532 01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:33,200 Speaker 1: some more. 1533 01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:36,839 Speaker 6: My sweet babies. For the ones that do call me Auntie, 1534 01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:38,679 Speaker 6: I love you for real. 1535 01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:41,040 Speaker 7: Even the ones that don't, I love y'all asses too. 1536 01:13:41,560 --> 01:13:45,000 Speaker 7: But the babies that say Auntie to me, please listen 1537 01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:50,400 Speaker 7: to Auntie. Always have pride in your representation of you. 1538 01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:53,040 Speaker 6: It's not to get a man, it's not. 1539 01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:57,040 Speaker 7: It is just your representation of you, My sweet babies. 1540 01:13:57,720 --> 01:14:01,960 Speaker 7: So I'm just giving y'all a warning. If I see 1541 01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:07,280 Speaker 7: you in the streets in the airport and the walmart 1542 01:14:07,840 --> 01:14:10,519 Speaker 7: and you got a bonnet, on and you got slippers 1543 01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:13,240 Speaker 7: on and you're looking like what the fuck? 1544 01:14:14,280 --> 01:14:17,559 Speaker 6: Ah Nikki gonna tap you and say, hey, baby girl, 1545 01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:22,719 Speaker 6: show you what you're worth, show you what you deserve. 1546 01:14:23,600 --> 01:14:26,360 Speaker 7: So all of those posts that you see celebrities putting 1547 01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:30,280 Speaker 7: out there saying hey queen, Hey queen, hey queen, well 1548 01:14:30,320 --> 01:14:33,960 Speaker 7: can we start putting it into action? So I'm asking out, 1549 01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:37,040 Speaker 7: why is the sisters when we see our little babies 1550 01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:39,360 Speaker 7: out there looking like they just don't care. 1551 01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:43,479 Speaker 6: And I'm not saying y'all, don't it looks like it. 1552 01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:48,080 Speaker 7: Can we just tap them and say, baby girl, you 1553 01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:50,040 Speaker 7: deserve more than what you're showing. 1554 01:14:50,320 --> 01:14:55,120 Speaker 2: Now, Listen, I don't suggest anybody go around airports tapping 1555 01:14:55,200 --> 01:14:58,360 Speaker 2: black women on bonnets on the shoulder, cause it's gonna 1556 01:14:58,360 --> 01:14:59,879 Speaker 2: be I've seen the videos. 1557 01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:03,720 Speaker 1: Okay, it's gonna be a lot of fucking problems. 1558 01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:08,840 Speaker 2: Like if I'm minding my fucking business, you know what 1559 01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:12,439 Speaker 2: I'm saying, by the hop on this Southwest flight and 1560 01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:14,960 Speaker 2: you come knocking me on the shoulder to tobot has 1561 01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:15,880 Speaker 2: a pride. 1562 01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:19,439 Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't do that. They might not take 1563 01:15:19,520 --> 01:15:22,160 Speaker 1: that in the spirit of an auntie. The way that 1564 01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:24,240 Speaker 1: you the way that is. 1565 01:15:24,320 --> 01:15:29,640 Speaker 6: Thinking representing you with pride, my babies, and that may 1566 01:15:29,720 --> 01:15:30,559 Speaker 6: be a part of us. 1567 01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:33,599 Speaker 1: That's like, if I did a video, I might even 1568 01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:33,880 Speaker 1: do this. 1569 01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:37,240 Speaker 5: That's like if I do saying but I see a 1570 01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:41,559 Speaker 5: brother in air Force once in black air Force ones 1571 01:15:42,080 --> 01:15:45,840 Speaker 5: at the airport, and I just want to tap them. 1572 01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:51,040 Speaker 1: On the shoulders, say hey, have some pride, y'all see 1573 01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:53,599 Speaker 1: me and the motherfucker I see you. Dog. You don't 1574 01:15:53,720 --> 01:15:57,559 Speaker 1: tap with your ass. What you don't tap the bonnet 1575 01:15:57,640 --> 01:16:01,240 Speaker 1: on their head is the air Force ones of black women. 1576 01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:05,240 Speaker 1: You don't do that. You mind your motherfucking business. Whatever 1577 01:16:05,400 --> 01:16:07,639 Speaker 1: that woman is going through it, that moment in time 1578 01:16:08,560 --> 01:16:12,760 Speaker 1: is not about you. Okay. She knew and made a 1579 01:16:12,840 --> 01:16:15,800 Speaker 1: decision when she woke up the point out to have 1580 01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:20,439 Speaker 1: whatever the fuck like, I was gonna wrap my head 1581 01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:24,040 Speaker 1: and put on that scar and go about my motherfucking business. 1582 01:16:24,080 --> 01:16:29,400 Speaker 2: And she knew that when she opened her eyes. I 1583 01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:33,040 Speaker 2: promise you, you're not helping them the game. You do 1584 01:16:33,240 --> 01:16:34,160 Speaker 2: not want the smoke. 1585 01:16:34,600 --> 01:16:38,920 Speaker 1: Okay, Oh my god, MO need no helping our community. 1586 01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:41,519 Speaker 6: Because if you look like you don't give a damn 1587 01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:44,360 Speaker 6: how you gonna be treated. 1588 01:16:45,960 --> 01:16:53,920 Speaker 7: So when I say, hey, queen, I can only say 1589 01:16:53,920 --> 01:16:56,640 Speaker 7: it to the sisters that it belongs. 1590 01:16:56,280 --> 01:16:58,679 Speaker 1: To because they gonna hit you with that tupac. 1591 01:16:58,840 --> 01:17:01,680 Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck about mine self, so you 1592 01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:05,639 Speaker 2: don't give a fuck about your ass, because a lot 1593 01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:06,000 Speaker 2: of us. 1594 01:17:05,960 --> 01:17:09,879 Speaker 7: Are still in queen training. So if you're in queen training, 1595 01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:16,519 Speaker 7: stop being fearful of taking your position. And queens don't 1596 01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:20,200 Speaker 7: walk around with barnets and head scarfs and slippers and pajamas. 1597 01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:25,160 Speaker 7: That's for the house when you go outside. Represents your 1598 01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:29,599 Speaker 7: baby like you are worthy and you deserve the title 1599 01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:34,880 Speaker 7: of Hey queen, Nikki loved y'all for real, and I 1600 01:17:34,880 --> 01:17:38,719 Speaker 7: ain't never gonna be YESU stop wearing them damn barnets 1601 01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:41,439 Speaker 7: and head scarfs looking like don't nobody give a damn 1602 01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:43,639 Speaker 7: about you, nor do you give a damn about yourself 1603 01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:47,160 Speaker 7: because you beautiful, so represented. 1604 01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:50,080 Speaker 6: I love y'all for real, my babies. 1605 01:17:50,800 --> 01:17:53,719 Speaker 1: All right, So then you had a full context here, thoughts. 1606 01:17:54,880 --> 01:17:55,640 Speaker 6: A lot of this is. 1607 01:17:58,520 --> 01:18:04,639 Speaker 3: That police correctness, political respectability, yes, respectability, politics, and giving 1608 01:18:04,640 --> 01:18:06,639 Speaker 3: a fuck about what white people think about you, because 1609 01:18:06,720 --> 01:18:09,600 Speaker 3: niggas been tying their heads up forever, forever, ever and 1610 01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:13,320 Speaker 3: ever ever, and you don't know why my hair's tied up. 1611 01:18:14,160 --> 01:18:15,799 Speaker 3: I could be going to a win in to a funeral. 1612 01:18:15,840 --> 01:18:17,680 Speaker 3: I might not want to swip my hair like you. 1613 01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:22,919 Speaker 3: You don't know why I'm doing this, and particularly after airport. 1614 01:18:23,800 --> 01:18:26,400 Speaker 3: I know for a fact a lot of times black 1615 01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:28,800 Speaker 3: people have a tendency, particularly black women, when you wear 1616 01:18:28,840 --> 01:18:30,400 Speaker 3: your natural hair, they want to touch it and shit. 1617 01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:32,519 Speaker 3: So you might put it in the bonnet just so 1618 01:18:32,720 --> 01:18:34,880 Speaker 3: it won't flag and shit like that, you know, on 1619 01:18:35,040 --> 01:18:36,680 Speaker 3: the thing, because the oars that we have in our 1620 01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:40,639 Speaker 3: hair causes the thing to flat. That's why I paid 1621 01:18:40,680 --> 01:18:43,240 Speaker 3: the money for the TSA, just so I can skip 1622 01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:44,840 Speaker 3: past all that bullshit. And I ain't got to worry 1623 01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:46,519 Speaker 3: about you patted me down and filling up on me 1624 01:18:46,560 --> 01:18:48,759 Speaker 3: and shit and running your fingers through my hair because 1625 01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:53,559 Speaker 3: the fucking thing went off. And my thing is, who 1626 01:18:53,640 --> 01:18:55,320 Speaker 3: are you to tell me what I can and cannot 1627 01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:58,040 Speaker 3: wear and where I can and cannot wear it? A queen, 1628 01:18:58,479 --> 01:19:00,080 Speaker 3: I don't care if I being a goddamn. 1629 01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:02,000 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, because you know, I think she had 1630 01:19:02,120 --> 01:19:04,559 Speaker 2: considered that maybe some women don't care about being her. 1631 01:19:04,560 --> 01:19:05,479 Speaker 1: Definition of a queen. 1632 01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:09,000 Speaker 3: I don't care. And I woke up and I made 1633 01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:11,160 Speaker 3: a conscious decision to look like this. I knew I 1634 01:19:11,280 --> 01:19:14,519 Speaker 3: looked like this before you've seen me. I just knew it. 1635 01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:17,800 Speaker 2: My main thing is, you can't be tapping women with 1636 01:19:17,920 --> 01:19:20,160 Speaker 2: bodies on the shoulder. I just cannot reiterate that you 1637 01:19:20,200 --> 01:19:22,760 Speaker 2: don't know what's on their minds. You don't know, and 1638 01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:25,960 Speaker 2: what's gonna be on your face is some hands. Okay, 1639 01:19:26,600 --> 01:19:28,640 Speaker 2: Like that is not like I tell you that the 1640 01:19:28,720 --> 01:19:31,200 Speaker 2: Air Force ones, they're there, black air Force ones of 1641 01:19:32,120 --> 01:19:34,880 Speaker 2: black women. Man, that's not the type of black woman 1642 01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:37,280 Speaker 2: you interrupt in the middle of her minding her business 1643 01:19:37,320 --> 01:19:37,519 Speaker 2: and be. 1644 01:19:37,640 --> 01:19:42,200 Speaker 1: Like, hey, queen, you know you need to have some pride. 1645 01:19:42,439 --> 01:19:46,400 Speaker 3: Oh shit, O you know she ain't bothering nobody. She 1646 01:19:46,439 --> 01:19:49,760 Speaker 3: ain't said nothing nobody she is. She's literally minding her. 1647 01:19:49,840 --> 01:19:50,719 Speaker 1: All of this started. 1648 01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:53,320 Speaker 2: All of this started off of people showing videos of 1649 01:19:53,600 --> 01:19:56,880 Speaker 2: like black women that fight, and that's the outfit of 1650 01:19:56,960 --> 01:19:59,400 Speaker 2: a black woman that will whoop your motherfucking ass. You're 1651 01:19:59,400 --> 01:20:01,519 Speaker 2: gonna have to like, it's gonna be a fight. So 1652 01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:03,600 Speaker 2: how is the next thing you see gonna be? And 1653 01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:05,280 Speaker 2: then we need to tap him on the shoulder. Why 1654 01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:07,680 Speaker 2: it sounds like you don't need to tap him on 1655 01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:09,960 Speaker 2: the shoulder from everything y'all been saying. 1656 01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:13,840 Speaker 3: You know, Yeah, my thing is, you don't know what 1657 01:20:14,000 --> 01:20:16,120 Speaker 3: twelve other fly to eight off flight? How long gonna 1658 01:20:16,160 --> 01:20:18,320 Speaker 3: be on this motherfucking plane. And I'm like, I don't 1659 01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:20,719 Speaker 3: want to rub my head on these cotton ass seats 1660 01:20:20,760 --> 01:20:22,519 Speaker 3: for them to tear my edges up. You don't know 1661 01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:24,200 Speaker 3: why I got this bodyside my head. 1662 01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:26,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, you know, and if I'm being you know, 1663 01:20:27,040 --> 01:20:28,960 Speaker 2: let me stop joking for a second. If I'm being serious, 1664 01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:33,679 Speaker 2: She's fifty three years old. You know, not ancient or anything, 1665 01:20:34,000 --> 01:20:35,280 Speaker 2: but she's fifty three years old. 1666 01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:37,760 Speaker 5: And you know that is that. 1667 01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:41,719 Speaker 2: Certain age range where black people get a little bit older, 1668 01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:47,280 Speaker 2: Black people can be conservative, and black people definitely believe 1669 01:20:47,360 --> 01:20:48,480 Speaker 2: in that presentability. 1670 01:20:48,520 --> 01:20:52,000 Speaker 3: Shit, yeah my mom, Yeah, so fight against them my 1671 01:20:52,040 --> 01:20:52,800 Speaker 3: whole life of with that. 1672 01:20:53,360 --> 01:20:56,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is that thing that I think social media 1673 01:20:56,840 --> 01:20:58,680 Speaker 2: and black Twitter and shit they get mad about. But 1674 01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:01,000 Speaker 2: I don't really ever get that mad about this kind 1675 01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:02,719 Speaker 2: of shit from a certain type of black person because 1676 01:21:02,720 --> 01:21:06,160 Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, like I'm just gonna. 1677 01:21:06,120 --> 01:21:09,120 Speaker 1: It's not like I have to do what she says. 1678 01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:12,280 Speaker 1: I'm just ignore it. I'm an adult. You're an adult, and. 1679 01:21:13,840 --> 01:21:17,600 Speaker 2: If you need to be you know, fresh looking in 1680 01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:19,519 Speaker 2: a certain type of way to be at an airport 1681 01:21:19,920 --> 01:21:23,720 Speaker 2: because it means something to you that way, fine, you know, 1682 01:21:23,800 --> 01:21:25,560 Speaker 2: because she's like, you should do this, go into the 1683 01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:28,280 Speaker 2: grocery store and all this place. I'm like, if that's 1684 01:21:28,280 --> 01:21:31,240 Speaker 2: what you believe, that's fine. You can't really make anybody 1685 01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:35,000 Speaker 2: else believe you, you know. And what she's really saying, 1686 01:21:35,200 --> 01:21:37,600 Speaker 2: like all this advice, what she's really saying on a 1687 01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:40,639 Speaker 2: deeper level is how she feels about herself. What she's 1688 01:21:40,720 --> 01:21:45,320 Speaker 2: really saying is Monique does not feel right unless she 1689 01:21:45,600 --> 01:21:47,880 Speaker 2: looks a certain way when she's out in public. 1690 01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:49,639 Speaker 1: That's literally what she said. 1691 01:21:49,760 --> 01:21:51,840 Speaker 2: I think if you look at it that way, it's 1692 01:21:51,960 --> 01:21:54,200 Speaker 2: less scary, and it's less we need to drag her 1693 01:21:54,280 --> 01:21:56,719 Speaker 2: and cancer her and shit, it's just more like, Okay, 1694 01:21:57,040 --> 01:21:59,880 Speaker 2: everybody got this person in their family, you know. 1695 01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:01,920 Speaker 1: But now, you know, we get all dog pole on 1696 01:22:02,000 --> 01:22:03,080 Speaker 1: social media together. 1697 01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:06,120 Speaker 2: But in real life, everybody got that hey, pull your 1698 01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:08,559 Speaker 2: pants up, nephew, Like come on, man, you got your 1699 01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:10,439 Speaker 2: ass hanging out or whatever, and you know, it's just 1700 01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:12,920 Speaker 2: part of going to the cookout every years that one 1701 01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:15,360 Speaker 2: uncle gonna be Look, now, look at you do. 1702 01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:18,479 Speaker 1: Tight ass pants. Why are you wearing them? Tight ass pants? Boy? 1703 01:22:18,880 --> 01:22:21,240 Speaker 3: You know, like it's just to me, it's not. 1704 01:22:21,439 --> 01:22:24,120 Speaker 1: I'm not as threatened by this because I think. 1705 01:22:24,040 --> 01:22:25,560 Speaker 2: For the most part, just see it as part of 1706 01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:29,280 Speaker 2: being black, right, And I don't really see it in 1707 01:22:29,360 --> 01:22:31,720 Speaker 2: the academic fashion that so many people discuss it in 1708 01:22:31,880 --> 01:22:33,760 Speaker 2: where it's like, you know, this is. 1709 01:22:33,800 --> 01:22:37,360 Speaker 1: About the years of respectability that we have endured as 1710 01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:40,280 Speaker 1: a community, and it's a typical form of anti black 1711 01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:42,320 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I get what you're saying. I really do. 1712 01:22:42,560 --> 01:22:45,080 Speaker 2: I'm not trying to knock you, but it's also just 1713 01:22:45,400 --> 01:22:48,120 Speaker 2: your auntie at the cookout saying some shit that you're 1714 01:22:48,160 --> 01:22:50,400 Speaker 2: gonna go okay and then go about your life. 1715 01:22:50,680 --> 01:22:53,240 Speaker 3: Right, because actually nobody gets a fuck And you know what, 1716 01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:56,960 Speaker 3: Niggas gets shot in suits. Niggas get shot in their 1717 01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:59,720 Speaker 3: pants showing ass, and niggas get shot in pull ups, 1718 01:22:59,800 --> 01:23:02,439 Speaker 3: and niggas get shot with ties like well. 1719 01:23:02,360 --> 01:23:04,360 Speaker 2: She's not even talking about not getting shot by the police. 1720 01:23:04,479 --> 01:23:06,599 Speaker 2: That's not what she's talking about. She's just talking about 1721 01:23:07,080 --> 01:23:10,360 Speaker 2: And for the record, it will resonate with some people. Yes, 1722 01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:13,719 Speaker 2: you know, I know there's times when I dress better, 1723 01:23:14,200 --> 01:23:16,920 Speaker 2: or dress up a bit and I feel better about myself. 1724 01:23:17,720 --> 01:23:20,479 Speaker 2: You know, there's time it does It does matter to 1725 01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:24,240 Speaker 2: you individually. I'm not saying that I walk out and 1726 01:23:24,240 --> 01:23:25,960 Speaker 2: I look at some how someone else is dressed and 1727 01:23:26,000 --> 01:23:26,679 Speaker 2: I cave a fuck. 1728 01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:27,200 Speaker 3: I never do. 1729 01:23:27,720 --> 01:23:29,720 Speaker 2: But there's been times where I'm like, you know what, 1730 01:23:29,920 --> 01:23:32,920 Speaker 2: let me put on a shirt with some buttons on it, 1731 01:23:33,200 --> 01:23:36,040 Speaker 2: or you know, let me make sure my beard is straightened. 1732 01:23:36,080 --> 01:23:37,640 Speaker 1: I got my da da da da. But that's me 1733 01:23:37,840 --> 01:23:38,519 Speaker 1: choosing to do that. 1734 01:23:38,640 --> 01:23:43,000 Speaker 2: For myself and how I feel, and it really doesn't 1735 01:23:43,040 --> 01:23:45,760 Speaker 2: apply to anybody else. And then I think one of 1736 01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:48,439 Speaker 2: the things that I've really embraced in the last few 1737 01:23:48,520 --> 01:23:51,400 Speaker 2: years is just especially with black people. All Right, that's 1738 01:23:51,439 --> 01:23:55,040 Speaker 2: your opinion, you know what I mean, not just for Monique, 1739 01:23:55,080 --> 01:23:57,640 Speaker 2: but for all these niggas. This is how you need 1740 01:23:57,680 --> 01:24:01,519 Speaker 2: to be in your marriage. Okay, you're opinion, you know 1741 01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:02,000 Speaker 2: what I mean? 1742 01:24:02,200 --> 01:24:04,400 Speaker 1: Like I don't agree the end. 1743 01:24:05,080 --> 01:24:06,880 Speaker 2: Now what we're gonna do stare at each other, like, 1744 01:24:08,479 --> 01:24:10,240 Speaker 2: guess what's gonna happen when you go to the airport 1745 01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:13,920 Speaker 2: next time? Black women are gonna still be in bonnetless 1746 01:24:13,960 --> 01:24:16,760 Speaker 2: and some and some of them won't and some of 1747 01:24:16,840 --> 01:24:19,599 Speaker 2: them will, and it won't really matter because we y'all 1748 01:24:19,640 --> 01:24:21,720 Speaker 2: got to exist together. There's nothing we can do about it, 1749 01:24:22,120 --> 01:24:24,639 Speaker 2: right every when when it comes to blackness, we're all 1750 01:24:24,840 --> 01:24:27,560 Speaker 2: a part of that blackness. Yeah, people made it a debate, so, 1751 01:24:27,600 --> 01:24:29,840 Speaker 2: which is why she even hopped in, because everybody was 1752 01:24:29,880 --> 01:24:33,240 Speaker 2: hopping in and whatnot. But you know, I can't even 1753 01:24:33,280 --> 01:24:34,840 Speaker 2: sound shocked by her opinion or whatever. 1754 01:24:35,120 --> 01:24:37,360 Speaker 1: That's just it. I just ain't planning on, you know, 1755 01:24:38,160 --> 01:24:38,880 Speaker 1: doing that shit. 1756 01:24:39,880 --> 01:24:42,680 Speaker 2: So and then of course I'm sure somebody right the 1757 01:24:42,760 --> 01:24:51,679 Speaker 2: fucking definitive, you know, the definitive like bonnet, academic medium 1758 01:24:51,760 --> 01:24:52,360 Speaker 2: piece or whatever. 1759 01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:55,479 Speaker 1: I don't think it's that deep for me. 1760 01:24:56,439 --> 01:24:58,479 Speaker 3: And I'm gonna tell right now, I don't care. I 1761 01:24:58,680 --> 01:25:03,400 Speaker 3: really I don't. And for a lot of people, like 1762 01:25:03,560 --> 01:25:05,920 Speaker 3: a lot of Shiti, which really made a lot of 1763 01:25:05,960 --> 01:25:09,080 Speaker 3: black women mad this period, this came a reason for 1764 01:25:09,200 --> 01:25:11,080 Speaker 3: niggas is just coming in shit on black women. And 1765 01:25:12,479 --> 01:25:15,200 Speaker 3: and so that becomes a problem because there's like, y'all 1766 01:25:15,320 --> 01:25:17,479 Speaker 3: leave us the fuck alone. Who gets a goddamn what 1767 01:25:17,560 --> 01:25:20,120 Speaker 3: we wear? Y'all niggas don't have shit to say about shit. 1768 01:25:20,240 --> 01:25:23,280 Speaker 3: But the second time comes a time for for y'all 1769 01:25:23,439 --> 01:25:26,160 Speaker 3: for black women to get shipped on it. It's like 1770 01:25:26,280 --> 01:25:29,360 Speaker 3: a clock. Y'all come out of nowhere, y'all talking about 1771 01:25:29,400 --> 01:25:31,320 Speaker 3: black women. Here, I come. I'm gona talk about what 1772 01:25:31,360 --> 01:25:31,840 Speaker 3: you got to say. 1773 01:25:32,040 --> 01:25:35,080 Speaker 2: Well, I only gently pushed back a little bit, which 1774 01:25:35,120 --> 01:25:36,080 Speaker 2: is to say people. 1775 01:25:35,960 --> 01:25:37,120 Speaker 1: Like doing this to everybody. 1776 01:25:39,240 --> 01:25:40,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just black women. 1777 01:25:41,040 --> 01:25:42,760 Speaker 1: You know that's what you're saying. I'm just taking it 1778 01:25:42,800 --> 01:25:44,840 Speaker 1: one step further and saying they like doing this shit 1779 01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:45,360 Speaker 1: to everybody. 1780 01:25:45,479 --> 01:25:45,839 Speaker 3: Agreed. 1781 01:25:46,120 --> 01:25:50,360 Speaker 1: I've seen it a lot, the men dressing bummy the ship. 1782 01:25:50,439 --> 01:25:52,799 Speaker 2: They just had something that went viral about a baseball 1783 01:25:53,280 --> 01:25:56,080 Speaker 2: date where a guy was wearing shorts and a T 1784 01:25:56,320 --> 01:25:58,719 Speaker 2: shirt and some woman on Twitter said that he shouldn't 1785 01:25:58,760 --> 01:26:00,960 Speaker 2: be wearing shorts and a T shirt and men need 1786 01:26:01,040 --> 01:26:03,320 Speaker 2: to dress up on dates and go into a ballpark, 1787 01:26:03,360 --> 01:26:06,160 Speaker 2: blah blah blah, and it went viral because everybody was 1788 01:26:06,200 --> 01:26:08,880 Speaker 2: shitting on her like fuck you, and then women were 1789 01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:11,120 Speaker 2: like retweeting, They're like, no, but she got a point. 1790 01:26:11,439 --> 01:26:13,840 Speaker 2: Me and dog don't know how to dress. They dress ugly, 1791 01:26:13,920 --> 01:26:16,840 Speaker 2: they dress bummy. My point being everybody does it. It 1792 01:26:16,880 --> 01:26:19,400 Speaker 2: doesn't hurt till it's you. When it's you, when it's you. 1793 01:26:19,560 --> 01:26:22,240 Speaker 1: It's like nobody ever does just to anybody, like no. 1794 01:26:23,400 --> 01:26:25,800 Speaker 2: People are very fucked up on social media, and then 1795 01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:28,880 Speaker 2: they just try to hide behind like it only happens 1796 01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:29,479 Speaker 2: to my group. 1797 01:26:29,600 --> 01:26:31,840 Speaker 1: No, everybody does it. I fucked up. 1798 01:26:31,960 --> 01:26:32,439 Speaker 3: I agree. 1799 01:26:32,840 --> 01:26:38,439 Speaker 1: So in this case it does jump into the gender 1800 01:26:38,520 --> 01:26:38,960 Speaker 1: war thing. 1801 01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:42,120 Speaker 2: So of course you got dudes jumping in Palin on 1802 01:26:42,200 --> 01:26:46,479 Speaker 2: applause who people love, sometimes hate sometimes. He said something 1803 01:26:46,520 --> 01:26:48,960 Speaker 2: about women shouldn't be able to wear bondis I'm on 1804 01:26:49,000 --> 01:26:50,599 Speaker 2: than six feet outside they residents. 1805 01:26:50,800 --> 01:26:52,680 Speaker 1: He was trying to make jokes about it. 1806 01:26:52,760 --> 01:26:55,280 Speaker 2: He said, they wear these motherfuckers in the airport like 1807 01:26:55,320 --> 01:26:58,800 Speaker 2: they a Louis Vauton bucket. Hat ain't in y'all business, ladies. 1808 01:26:58,840 --> 01:27:01,519 Speaker 2: I just thought that was supposed to be sleeping. And 1809 01:27:01,640 --> 01:27:03,960 Speaker 2: then he's foot and laughing about and then he put 1810 01:27:04,040 --> 01:27:05,479 Speaker 2: bond this is the female do rag. 1811 01:27:06,680 --> 01:27:08,640 Speaker 1: So it seemed like he was on joke time. That 1812 01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:10,679 Speaker 1: sounds like joke time, which I'm sure. 1813 01:27:10,800 --> 01:27:13,599 Speaker 2: In a in a you know, in this climate, he's 1814 01:27:13,640 --> 01:27:16,760 Speaker 2: probably getting you know, probably getting clowned or whatever. 1815 01:27:17,120 --> 01:27:18,519 Speaker 3: Sound like he was taking himself seriously. 1816 01:27:18,920 --> 01:27:21,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, somebody probably posted a picture him in a 1817 01:27:21,840 --> 01:27:25,000 Speaker 2: do rag or some ship on here. I don't know, Yes, 1818 01:27:25,479 --> 01:27:28,040 Speaker 2: I don't know, but yo, this ship was major news 1819 01:27:28,200 --> 01:27:30,719 Speaker 2: that Monique even said this ship, that this was even 1820 01:27:30,880 --> 01:27:31,759 Speaker 2: trending on Twitter. 1821 01:27:31,840 --> 01:27:31,960 Speaker 6: Ear. 1822 01:27:32,160 --> 01:27:34,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't really know that boy Bonnagay went out 1823 01:27:34,800 --> 01:27:36,680 Speaker 3: of control. All I know is I just seen that 1824 01:27:36,840 --> 01:27:39,759 Speaker 3: picture and I was like, dang, what the fuck Bonnetts? 1825 01:27:39,800 --> 01:27:41,519 Speaker 3: Who cares? And I just got do do do? 1826 01:27:42,200 --> 01:27:45,320 Speaker 2: I'm always I an't and it's maybe it's just maybe 1827 01:27:45,360 --> 01:27:48,639 Speaker 2: it says something about me. Maybe I'm so maybe I'm 1828 01:27:48,680 --> 01:27:51,840 Speaker 2: self absorbed. But I'm always surprised people care that much 1829 01:27:51,840 --> 01:27:52,840 Speaker 2: about what other people wear. 1830 01:27:53,640 --> 01:27:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm always surprised, Like there has never been. 1831 01:27:57,040 --> 01:27:59,960 Speaker 2: A phase of any clothing I've ever gave a fuck about, 1832 01:28:00,920 --> 01:28:02,840 Speaker 2: you know, and people do it all the time. People 1833 01:28:02,960 --> 01:28:05,320 Speaker 2: that I think, you know, are quote unquote kind of 1834 01:28:05,360 --> 01:28:08,479 Speaker 2: woke and smart. I'll listen to their show or whatever, 1835 01:28:08,479 --> 01:28:11,080 Speaker 2: and then they just go off on people's like clothing choice. 1836 01:28:11,080 --> 01:28:14,559 Speaker 2: I'm like, what, like, where is this coming from? 1837 01:28:15,240 --> 01:28:15,280 Speaker 3: Like? 1838 01:28:15,720 --> 01:28:18,240 Speaker 1: And maybe I'm not a stylish person, so I don't understand, 1839 01:28:18,280 --> 01:28:22,320 Speaker 1: but it's just who gave? Who's the fuck cares? 1840 01:28:22,640 --> 01:28:22,800 Speaker 3: Right? 1841 01:28:23,000 --> 01:28:27,800 Speaker 2: And skinny jeans, tight pants, loose pants? Men rib no men, 1842 01:28:27,920 --> 01:28:31,840 Speaker 2: rib titties pushed together, yoga pants. I don't care what 1843 01:28:31,960 --> 01:28:36,040 Speaker 2: you put on your body. It doesn't mean anything to me, Like, 1844 01:28:36,160 --> 01:28:38,120 Speaker 2: what the fuck unless it's some of scene like I'm 1845 01:28:38,120 --> 01:28:39,439 Speaker 2: gonna put my dick on the table. 1846 01:28:39,560 --> 01:28:43,080 Speaker 1: Who gives a fuck? It has nothing to do with me. 1847 01:28:44,439 --> 01:28:46,880 Speaker 1: This is insane to me how much people care that. 1848 01:28:47,240 --> 01:28:49,559 Speaker 2: Like I said, I know I'm the weird one because 1849 01:28:49,600 --> 01:28:52,720 Speaker 2: everyone seems to care about this bullshit right and also a. 1850 01:28:52,760 --> 01:28:55,280 Speaker 3: Lot of times this and other things not your funny. 1851 01:28:55,600 --> 01:28:58,280 Speaker 3: All you're telling me is insecurity is within yourself, Like like, 1852 01:28:58,439 --> 01:29:01,479 Speaker 3: that's that's all this raised up come? Because I think 1853 01:29:01,560 --> 01:29:03,560 Speaker 3: a lot of people have insecurity about clothing. You have 1854 01:29:03,600 --> 01:29:05,639 Speaker 3: a lot of people that grew up and they couldn't 1855 01:29:05,640 --> 01:29:07,680 Speaker 3: afford it. Now they can't afford those things, so then 1856 01:29:07,720 --> 01:29:10,040 Speaker 3: they turn around they judge people like they would judge. 1857 01:29:10,240 --> 01:29:11,600 Speaker 3: So you have people to fall in that group. You 1858 01:29:11,640 --> 01:29:14,240 Speaker 3: have people who their family kind of was always in 1859 01:29:14,280 --> 01:29:16,479 Speaker 3: the name brand. They felt the pressure to get named brands. 1860 01:29:16,560 --> 01:29:18,559 Speaker 3: They grow up, they raised their kids to get named 1861 01:29:18,600 --> 01:29:20,679 Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck. I probably have name brands. 1862 01:29:20,720 --> 01:29:22,120 Speaker 3: I don't know what the fuck it is. Other people 1863 01:29:22,160 --> 01:29:23,800 Speaker 3: tell me it's next because I can't keep up with 1864 01:29:23,800 --> 01:29:24,880 Speaker 3: stuff like that because I don't care. 1865 01:29:25,080 --> 01:29:28,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I get more, Uh, I get more upset that 1866 01:29:28,960 --> 01:29:31,639 Speaker 2: people said out here eating armies. Then I get about 1867 01:29:32,520 --> 01:29:35,679 Speaker 2: whether or not they wore Jean jackets in the whatever. 1868 01:29:35,800 --> 01:29:36,759 Speaker 1: Who gives a fuck? 1869 01:29:37,800 --> 01:29:41,479 Speaker 2: This is all very weird. It's all very fucking weird. 1870 01:29:41,880 --> 01:29:44,200 Speaker 2: Everybody is being super weird about this shit. 1871 01:29:44,320 --> 01:29:44,840 Speaker 3: Yeah they are. 1872 01:29:45,040 --> 01:29:47,640 Speaker 1: I can't believe she got a bond it all? Is 1873 01:29:47,680 --> 01:29:50,040 Speaker 1: it on your head? Who cares? 1874 01:29:50,720 --> 01:29:51,040 Speaker 3: All right? 1875 01:29:51,680 --> 01:29:54,280 Speaker 1: No, if anything, just look at the clothing for the 1876 01:29:54,360 --> 01:29:57,840 Speaker 1: warning flags. Now that I do believe in. So if 1877 01:29:57,880 --> 01:29:59,680 Speaker 1: I see you in the Black Air Force once i'm 1878 01:30:00,000 --> 01:30:04,080 Speaker 1: you're clear, Thank you, sir for letting me know that 1879 01:30:04,240 --> 01:30:07,400 Speaker 1: you are not the one, okay, won to fuck with. 1880 01:30:07,640 --> 01:30:09,920 Speaker 2: If you got your bonnet on and you're heading towards 1881 01:30:09,960 --> 01:30:12,960 Speaker 2: the Southwest Gate, I already know what time it is. 1882 01:30:13,280 --> 01:30:15,559 Speaker 2: I'll wait to get my luggage off the rack after 1883 01:30:15,640 --> 01:30:16,160 Speaker 2: your gone. 1884 01:30:16,280 --> 01:30:20,679 Speaker 1: Man, have a pleasant day. Come on, man, what happened 1885 01:30:20,720 --> 01:30:24,040 Speaker 1: to that? But nah, I really do not get this shit. 1886 01:30:24,200 --> 01:30:27,559 Speaker 2: So, and I think everyone's guilty of it. By the way, Oh, 1887 01:30:27,720 --> 01:30:30,080 Speaker 2: everyone's piling on my nique. But I've seen a version 1888 01:30:30,160 --> 01:30:34,120 Speaker 2: of this with everything and everybody. Yes, it's like, oh, 1889 01:30:34,280 --> 01:30:37,120 Speaker 2: y'all wore this, y'all wore this. I'm like, who what 1890 01:30:38,000 --> 01:30:43,280 Speaker 2: you care about that? I can't twenty y'all was wearing 1891 01:30:43,640 --> 01:30:48,840 Speaker 2: best with no shirts underneaven like okay, okay, all right right. 1892 01:30:48,920 --> 01:30:50,760 Speaker 2: I look at it like a video game when people 1893 01:30:50,840 --> 01:30:54,599 Speaker 2: create a character, like, who get that they character chose 1894 01:30:54,720 --> 01:30:56,479 Speaker 2: no shirts, were wearing vegs? 1895 01:30:56,720 --> 01:31:00,600 Speaker 3: Come on, create a character and that and that's what 1896 01:31:00,800 --> 01:31:04,560 Speaker 3: they their version of their avatar decide to wear. So 1897 01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:08,000 Speaker 3: we are cool. And I think for me growing up, 1898 01:31:08,000 --> 01:31:10,040 Speaker 3: and I love my mama. But her thing was she 1899 01:31:10,160 --> 01:31:12,519 Speaker 3: was very fashion conscious than I wasn't, so she knit 1900 01:31:12,600 --> 01:31:14,080 Speaker 3: picked out everything that I wore, and I was like, 1901 01:31:14,120 --> 01:31:15,960 Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck. Just leave me the fuck alone. 1902 01:31:16,280 --> 01:31:17,840 Speaker 1: You wearing knee hot socks? Cool? 1903 01:31:18,680 --> 01:31:22,280 Speaker 3: Come on, I don't care, don't care your ship mixed matched, 1904 01:31:22,479 --> 01:31:23,440 Speaker 3: don't unless. 1905 01:31:23,160 --> 01:31:25,439 Speaker 2: You go in my closet and start making me wear 1906 01:31:25,520 --> 01:31:27,840 Speaker 2: some shit I don't want to wear. And then I 1907 01:31:28,680 --> 01:31:33,200 Speaker 2: can never imagine caring, you know what I mean? I 1908 01:31:33,320 --> 01:31:34,639 Speaker 2: love him ship low key. 1909 01:31:34,680 --> 01:31:37,120 Speaker 1: I love a good like ridiculous. 1910 01:31:36,600 --> 01:31:40,400 Speaker 2: Outfit anyway, But anyway, I don't know. It's gotta it's 1911 01:31:40,400 --> 01:31:42,160 Speaker 2: gotta be some remnant of slavery type ship. 1912 01:31:42,200 --> 01:31:42,680 Speaker 3: It's gotta be. 1913 01:31:43,520 --> 01:31:45,160 Speaker 1: I don't even feel like getting that deep into it, 1914 01:31:45,280 --> 01:31:50,479 Speaker 1: but you know, let me guess, right, because yeah, like, uh, 1915 01:31:51,400 --> 01:31:53,360 Speaker 1: Bill Cosby is back in the news. 1916 01:31:53,600 --> 01:31:54,240 Speaker 3: What about him? 1917 01:31:54,439 --> 01:31:57,040 Speaker 2: He airs out his grievances with the media at the 1918 01:31:57,120 --> 01:31:59,919 Speaker 2: being denied parole. He did it on Instagram? 1919 01:32:01,080 --> 01:32:03,160 Speaker 3: You got an Instagram account? Did you tell somebody log 1920 01:32:03,280 --> 01:32:03,680 Speaker 3: in for him? 1921 01:32:04,240 --> 01:32:08,439 Speaker 1: How does that work? I don't know. I've never been 1922 01:32:08,479 --> 01:32:10,479 Speaker 1: to prison. Maybe you can have it in there. Apparently 1923 01:32:10,560 --> 01:32:14,080 Speaker 1: you can, you know, or maybe, like I know, shit, 1924 01:32:14,160 --> 01:32:17,680 Speaker 1: they probably sell you though you on Instagram. Let me 1925 01:32:17,800 --> 01:32:20,720 Speaker 1: sell your tablet forty seven dollars a day, you know what. 1926 01:32:20,880 --> 01:32:22,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna have to print a lot of license 1927 01:32:22,800 --> 01:32:25,280 Speaker 2: plates stuff for the hour of this and come on, 1928 01:32:26,000 --> 01:32:27,479 Speaker 2: they do Maybe that's what it is. 1929 01:32:27,560 --> 01:32:29,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. Do they monitor the Instagram? 1930 01:32:30,200 --> 01:32:32,320 Speaker 3: You know they do them everything you can say. 1931 01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:34,639 Speaker 2: You could do some shit on Instagram from into jail. 1932 01:32:34,680 --> 01:32:36,920 Speaker 2: It is, you know, like, hey, man, kill the witness 1933 01:32:37,360 --> 01:32:38,080 Speaker 2: direct message? 1934 01:32:39,000 --> 01:32:40,760 Speaker 1: Uh just you supposed to me? 1935 01:32:40,960 --> 01:32:43,200 Speaker 2: Hey, it'd be a shamed if somebody killed the witness 1936 01:32:43,280 --> 01:32:48,960 Speaker 2: to my crime. Anyway, I have a good day post. Well, 1937 01:32:49,000 --> 01:32:52,440 Speaker 2: you went on Instagram and said, attention America. 1938 01:32:53,360 --> 01:32:56,760 Speaker 1: I can't do it. Bill Cott's been so long. They 1939 01:32:56,840 --> 01:33:01,599 Speaker 1: are they are lying to you again. Hit all the facts. 1940 01:33:03,080 --> 01:33:09,000 Speaker 1: Oh no, it's pretty bad, it's pretty rusty. Contrary to 1941 01:33:09,160 --> 01:33:12,400 Speaker 1: the reports that you have been reading in the media, 1942 01:33:13,240 --> 01:33:19,120 Speaker 1: mister Cosby has never charged nor convicted of rape. Mister 1943 01:33:19,240 --> 01:33:23,320 Speaker 1: Cosby was convicted of aggravated in decent assault, for which 1944 01:33:23,400 --> 01:33:29,200 Speaker 1: he maintains his innocence. Oh no, the media and. 1945 01:33:29,320 --> 01:33:35,320 Speaker 2: His machine have repeatedly and blatantly misled and misrepresented the facts, 1946 01:33:35,840 --> 01:33:40,160 Speaker 2: continuing in there tempt to manipulate the public opinion against 1947 01:33:40,280 --> 01:33:41,240 Speaker 2: mister Cosby. 1948 01:33:43,120 --> 01:33:47,080 Speaker 1: And that's what he said on the IgE third person. 1949 01:33:47,280 --> 01:33:50,000 Speaker 2: The media and the machine sat here getting mister Cosby. 1950 01:33:51,360 --> 01:33:54,720 Speaker 2: So you got him again, media, he was hoodwink And 1951 01:33:54,880 --> 01:33:57,160 Speaker 2: by media I mean the fifty seven women he was 1952 01:33:57,200 --> 01:34:02,720 Speaker 2: accused of sexual assaulting and that testified and uh, you know, 1953 01:34:03,160 --> 01:34:04,920 Speaker 2: the media because. 1954 01:34:04,680 --> 01:34:07,280 Speaker 1: Apparently the media only wanted to get him. I don't 1955 01:34:07,320 --> 01:34:10,160 Speaker 1: know why, just him. I mean it seemed like this 1956 01:34:10,320 --> 01:34:11,679 Speaker 1: is a pretty full proof tactic. 1957 01:34:11,760 --> 01:34:14,639 Speaker 2: If you can just get fifty seven women that huse 1958 01:34:14,720 --> 01:34:17,920 Speaker 2: somebody alse sexual assault on a whim. You would think 1959 01:34:17,960 --> 01:34:19,960 Speaker 2: you do it against more than just Bill Cosey. You 1960 01:34:20,000 --> 01:34:22,680 Speaker 2: think you'd be doing the shit left and right. You know, 1961 01:34:23,080 --> 01:34:25,599 Speaker 2: all these people out here calls and call and havoc 1962 01:34:25,680 --> 01:34:26,360 Speaker 2: and doing shit. 1963 01:34:26,520 --> 01:34:30,040 Speaker 1: You know, I see mergers and acquisitions having all the time, 1964 01:34:30,200 --> 01:34:33,120 Speaker 1: like oh puff, daddy just bought a brand new alcohol thing. 1965 01:34:33,160 --> 01:34:35,759 Speaker 1: I'm like, man, they should have framed them in the media. 1966 01:34:37,360 --> 01:34:38,280 Speaker 3: That's not how that works. 1967 01:34:38,640 --> 01:34:44,439 Speaker 1: So I don't know. Hypocritical. Fox News attacks Kamala Harris 1968 01:34:44,479 --> 01:34:49,920 Speaker 1: for pre Memorial Day tweet. M M M, Kamala Harris? 1969 01:34:50,000 --> 01:34:53,320 Speaker 1: How dare you? How dare you? Kamala? 1970 01:34:53,560 --> 01:34:58,200 Speaker 2: Okay, this is what she tweeted for Memorial Day, enjoy 1971 01:34:58,320 --> 01:35:01,160 Speaker 2: the long weekend. The picture of her just smiling, looking 1972 01:35:01,240 --> 01:35:05,400 Speaker 2: all fine day weekend, still the best looking vice president 1973 01:35:05,479 --> 01:35:06,160 Speaker 2: we've ever had. 1974 01:35:06,280 --> 01:35:09,120 Speaker 1: Come on, it's not fair for her to flex on 1975 01:35:09,200 --> 01:35:11,120 Speaker 1: us like this. And you know what, Karen, I see 1976 01:35:11,160 --> 01:35:11,800 Speaker 1: what they're saying. 1977 01:35:12,280 --> 01:35:15,360 Speaker 2: This means she don't care about the soldiers, despite the 1978 01:35:15,400 --> 01:35:19,080 Speaker 2: fact that she stopped yesterday at the graves of John McCain, 1979 01:35:19,200 --> 01:35:22,639 Speaker 2: the put uh, you know, put flowers on there and stuff. 1980 01:35:22,720 --> 01:35:26,000 Speaker 2: But okay, so then Fox News of course picked up 1981 01:35:26,120 --> 01:35:30,000 Speaker 2: accurately on this and said disgusting disrespect. Vice President Kamala 1982 01:35:30,080 --> 01:35:33,560 Speaker 2: Harris a nice outrage over miss fire Memorial. 1983 01:35:33,200 --> 01:35:35,759 Speaker 1: Day tweet, and they put a picture looking very serious. 1984 01:35:37,240 --> 01:35:40,640 Speaker 1: I love this picture is like her smiling everything. And 1985 01:35:40,720 --> 01:35:45,240 Speaker 1: then this picture is look at this she mad, She 1986 01:35:45,360 --> 01:35:46,000 Speaker 1: coming to get you. 1987 01:35:46,560 --> 01:35:49,400 Speaker 2: Twenty two minutes later, they posted another tweet on Fox 1988 01:35:49,479 --> 01:35:55,479 Speaker 2: News channel, which was this, cheers Memorial Day weekend twenty 1989 01:35:55,560 --> 01:35:57,320 Speaker 2: twenty one cocktail trends. 1990 01:36:06,760 --> 01:36:12,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, y'all can't even take y'allself seriously. 1991 01:36:13,160 --> 01:36:17,760 Speaker 1: Keep in mind she posted hers before Memorial Day, like 1992 01:36:17,840 --> 01:36:18,320 Speaker 1: on Friday. 1993 01:36:18,479 --> 01:36:20,719 Speaker 3: Have a nice week long weekend they posted yesterday. 1994 01:36:21,080 --> 01:36:27,120 Speaker 1: They posted theirs yesterday and said, look at this shit, y'all. Okay, 1995 01:36:27,360 --> 01:36:30,320 Speaker 1: this is crazy. She wished y'all long weekend. 1996 01:36:30,439 --> 01:36:36,080 Speaker 2: Anyway, twenty one cocktails to drink this Memorial Day again 1997 01:36:36,600 --> 01:36:38,479 Speaker 2: owned a lord batch of that shit. Sound delicious. Might 1998 01:36:38,520 --> 01:36:42,560 Speaker 2: be racist and delicious, but it sounds delicious. Texas Democrats 1999 01:36:42,680 --> 01:36:45,360 Speaker 2: blocked restrictive voting bill by walking off the Florida the 2000 01:36:45,479 --> 01:36:47,360 Speaker 2: not the GOLP majority House of Quorn. 2001 01:36:47,760 --> 01:36:48,080 Speaker 3: Let's go. 2002 01:36:48,920 --> 01:36:51,360 Speaker 1: This is so like what they did. 2003 01:36:52,120 --> 01:36:53,840 Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you for them, Thank you for the 2004 01:36:53,880 --> 01:36:56,080 Speaker 2: people that voted for them. But this shit is so 2005 01:36:56,240 --> 01:36:58,400 Speaker 2: scary that Texas was about to pass the. 2006 01:36:58,439 --> 01:37:01,840 Speaker 1: Most stringent vot voting restrictions in the nation. 2007 01:37:02,120 --> 01:37:04,120 Speaker 3: I heard that they was like, they was like, y'all, 2008 01:37:04,200 --> 01:37:05,880 Speaker 3: if they do this shit, people going, they're gonna make 2009 01:37:05,920 --> 01:37:07,120 Speaker 3: it literally impossible to vote. 2010 01:37:07,960 --> 01:37:10,400 Speaker 1: But they took a loss because. 2011 01:37:11,720 --> 01:37:13,840 Speaker 2: The exodus from the floor came at the Chris Turner, 2012 01:37:13,880 --> 01:37:16,439 Speaker 2: the House Democratic Chairman, sent instructure took colleagues at ten 2013 01:37:16,600 --> 01:37:20,479 Speaker 2: thirty five PM on a Sunday night. That's when they 2014 01:37:20,520 --> 01:37:21,880 Speaker 2: were going to do this vote. They had to get 2015 01:37:21,880 --> 01:37:25,760 Speaker 2: it in I think by midnight Central time, instructing them 2016 01:37:25,840 --> 01:37:29,120 Speaker 2: to exit the house. According to an image share with 2017 01:37:29,200 --> 01:37:31,720 Speaker 2: the Washington Post, members take your key and leave the 2018 01:37:31,800 --> 01:37:34,679 Speaker 2: chamber discreetly, he was said, referring that the key locks 2019 01:37:34,720 --> 01:37:36,160 Speaker 2: the voting mechanism on their desk. 2020 01:37:36,560 --> 01:37:39,400 Speaker 1: Do not go to the gallery, leave the building. 2021 01:37:40,320 --> 01:37:42,000 Speaker 2: We decided to come together and say we weren't going 2022 01:37:42,080 --> 01:37:45,439 Speaker 2: to take us at. Representative Jessica Gonzales in an interview 2023 01:37:45,680 --> 01:37:48,120 Speaker 2: after the walkout, adding that she objected to the measure 2024 01:37:48,400 --> 01:37:50,840 Speaker 2: content and the way it was crafted with no input 2025 01:37:50,880 --> 01:37:52,640 Speaker 2: from her side of the aisle. We needed to be 2026 01:37:52,680 --> 01:37:54,800 Speaker 2: a part of the process cutting us out completely. I mean, 2027 01:37:54,840 --> 01:37:57,720 Speaker 2: this law will affect every single voter in Texas. The 2028 01:37:57,800 --> 01:38:00,400 Speaker 2: Republican majority House took up the legislation at the Senate 2029 01:38:00,479 --> 01:38:04,960 Speaker 2: passed passed it in early Sunday, following a marathon overnight 2030 01:38:05,040 --> 01:38:08,240 Speaker 2: debate that stretched for more than seven hours. The measure 2031 01:38:08,640 --> 01:38:11,960 Speaker 2: mirror's other GOP back legislation approved in Georgia, Florida and 2032 01:38:12,040 --> 01:38:14,920 Speaker 2: other states. In a statement, Turner said that dozens of 2033 01:38:14,960 --> 01:38:17,559 Speaker 2: House Democrats were prepared against speeches objecting to the bill, 2034 01:38:17,880 --> 01:38:20,120 Speaker 2: but that it became obvious Republicans were going to cut 2035 01:38:20,120 --> 01:38:22,400 Speaker 2: off the bait to ram in their voter suppression legislation. 2036 01:38:22,560 --> 01:38:24,599 Speaker 2: At that point, we had no choice but to take 2037 01:38:24,640 --> 01:38:28,240 Speaker 2: extraordinary measures to protect our constituents and their right to vote. 2038 01:38:30,040 --> 01:38:33,760 Speaker 2: After the walkout, House Democrats assembled at a predominantly black 2039 01:38:33,840 --> 01:38:37,879 Speaker 2: church in Austin Mount Zion Fellowship Hall to speak the reporters. 2040 01:38:37,960 --> 01:38:41,040 Speaker 2: Staff members at SARAH leaders chose the location to highlight 2041 01:38:41,120 --> 01:38:43,400 Speaker 2: the party successful fight against the bill. They said were 2042 01:38:43,400 --> 01:38:46,640 Speaker 2: the targeted voters of color in particular. Yeah, I know, 2043 01:38:46,920 --> 01:38:49,640 Speaker 2: my man Larry Willmore says not to say that this 2044 01:38:49,800 --> 01:38:51,680 Speaker 2: is Jim Crow, but this is Jim Crow to me. 2045 01:38:52,280 --> 01:38:54,280 Speaker 2: I mean, I get the distinction, and I'm not trying 2046 01:38:54,280 --> 01:38:56,439 Speaker 2: to downplay what they did to our ancestors. That was 2047 01:38:56,479 --> 01:39:00,280 Speaker 2: a direct attack on people's blackness and black vine. But 2048 01:39:00,400 --> 01:39:04,920 Speaker 2: this is just a roundabout way of accomplishing the same thing. Like, no, 2049 01:39:05,000 --> 01:39:06,640 Speaker 2: they're not gonna come to your house and kill you 2050 01:39:06,760 --> 01:39:09,519 Speaker 2: for walking out and voting. So I definitely understand the distinction, 2051 01:39:09,680 --> 01:39:13,160 Speaker 2: but it's a distinction that doesn't I don't find much. 2052 01:39:14,800 --> 01:39:18,880 Speaker 1: Need to make you know what I mean. Like now, 2053 01:39:18,960 --> 01:39:21,439 Speaker 1: it's just the digital Jim Crow, the twenty twenty one 2054 01:39:21,560 --> 01:39:21,960 Speaker 1: Jim Crow. 2055 01:39:22,040 --> 01:39:24,640 Speaker 2: But it's the same intent, which is the scare and 2056 01:39:24,920 --> 01:39:28,000 Speaker 2: intimidate black voters and not allow black voters to vote, 2057 01:39:28,040 --> 01:39:30,920 Speaker 2: because they just can't target you directly by saying no blacks, 2058 01:39:31,240 --> 01:39:33,560 Speaker 2: but they can target everything around. 2059 01:39:33,280 --> 01:39:34,080 Speaker 7: It, right. 2060 01:39:34,280 --> 01:39:37,120 Speaker 3: And the thing that is so fucked up about this 2061 01:39:37,439 --> 01:39:40,439 Speaker 3: GOP loved them overnight votes. That's the bullshit they did 2062 01:39:40,520 --> 01:39:43,000 Speaker 3: here in North Carolina. They love that shit. You wake 2063 01:39:43,120 --> 01:39:45,000 Speaker 3: up at five or six or four am in the 2064 01:39:45,080 --> 01:39:46,880 Speaker 3: morning to get your ass up working here they don't 2065 01:39:46,960 --> 01:39:49,760 Speaker 3: vote for something overnight, But motherfuckers, we can't get y'all 2066 01:39:49,800 --> 01:39:51,680 Speaker 3: in here for the most simplest shit. You tell us 2067 01:39:51,760 --> 01:39:54,000 Speaker 3: that y'all got an extended weekend and y'all taking vote 2068 01:39:54,040 --> 01:39:56,639 Speaker 3: for a whole fucking month off, but yet you find 2069 01:39:56,720 --> 01:39:58,800 Speaker 3: the time to vote at fucking midnight when you know 2070 01:39:58,920 --> 01:40:01,559 Speaker 3: nobody's god damn in there, or y'all call a special 2071 01:40:01,640 --> 01:40:03,120 Speaker 3: session in the middle of the night where people got 2072 01:40:03,200 --> 01:40:05,920 Speaker 3: a rish and running their you know, half of them 2073 01:40:06,000 --> 01:40:08,479 Speaker 3: not gonna get it because they fucking sleep unless they 2074 01:40:08,520 --> 01:40:11,519 Speaker 3: have somebody like watching twenty four hours reading their emails 2075 01:40:11,560 --> 01:40:13,160 Speaker 3: and shit to get the person up to get them 2076 01:40:13,200 --> 01:40:16,160 Speaker 3: there in enough time. Y'all know this, Fuck them yeap. 2077 01:40:18,600 --> 01:40:21,360 Speaker 2: And Greg Abbott has vowed to say he will strip 2078 01:40:21,439 --> 01:40:24,839 Speaker 2: the state lawmakers of their pay and veto their budget 2079 01:40:24,920 --> 01:40:27,840 Speaker 2: at the Democrats abandoned their duty by walking out on 2080 01:40:27,880 --> 01:40:30,120 Speaker 2: the Voting Right bill, so because they didn't sit there 2081 01:40:30,160 --> 01:40:32,320 Speaker 2: and let him strip away the rights of their voters, 2082 01:40:32,600 --> 01:40:34,639 Speaker 2: which would have damned them, by the way as well, 2083 01:40:34,800 --> 01:40:38,479 Speaker 2: like it would have kept their constituents votes from counting 2084 01:40:38,600 --> 01:40:40,640 Speaker 2: as much as the should count, and it would have 2085 01:40:40,720 --> 01:40:43,040 Speaker 2: definitely probably caused some of them to lose their seats 2086 01:40:44,040 --> 01:40:45,600 Speaker 2: because they didn't go along with it. 2087 01:40:45,960 --> 01:40:48,400 Speaker 1: He's like now that's gonna be hell to pay. 2088 01:40:50,240 --> 01:40:54,519 Speaker 2: It then, right as he said, I will veto article 2089 01:40:54,600 --> 01:40:57,160 Speaker 2: ten of the budgets passed by the legislator. Article ten 2090 01:40:57,240 --> 01:41:00,160 Speaker 2: funds the legislative branch. No pay for those who are 2091 01:41:00,200 --> 01:41:02,880 Speaker 2: betting their responsibility. Stay tuned now. I don't know if 2092 01:41:02,920 --> 01:41:05,920 Speaker 2: he'll be able to do that, but where it's only Democrats, 2093 01:41:06,160 --> 01:41:09,160 Speaker 2: like some Republicans gonna get caught up in that too, and. 2094 01:41:09,320 --> 01:41:10,760 Speaker 3: We'll see how they respond. No No. 2095 01:41:11,960 --> 01:41:14,719 Speaker 2: Ted Crews also urged Texas legislators to hold a special 2096 01:41:14,800 --> 01:41:17,040 Speaker 2: session to pass the new bill which will protect the 2097 01:41:17,080 --> 01:41:20,560 Speaker 2: integrative of our elections and get around the scheming Democrats 2098 01:41:20,600 --> 01:41:21,120 Speaker 2: the bill known. 2099 01:41:22,200 --> 01:41:23,559 Speaker 1: Yeah they're scheming now. 2100 01:41:24,040 --> 01:41:25,960 Speaker 2: Like I said, y'all want to hold a midnight session 2101 01:41:26,000 --> 01:41:30,639 Speaker 2: on a Sunday, but the Democrats are scheming. Thank god, 2102 01:41:30,680 --> 01:41:33,360 Speaker 2: those Democrats were savvy and smart and fought the way 2103 01:41:33,400 --> 01:41:35,240 Speaker 2: they could because you know, they probably don't have the 2104 01:41:35,320 --> 01:41:36,719 Speaker 2: numbers to really stop that ship. 2105 01:41:37,680 --> 01:41:40,880 Speaker 1: If Texas keeps at it, you know, and they will 2106 01:41:41,000 --> 01:41:44,800 Speaker 1: keep at it. Let's see. 2107 01:41:45,160 --> 01:41:48,680 Speaker 2: Nicole Hannah Jones remember when I said either was either 2108 01:41:48,760 --> 01:41:51,479 Speaker 2: on the show when we went on three Guys on 2109 01:41:51,600 --> 01:41:55,040 Speaker 2: But I was like, everyone keeps treating this story when 2110 01:41:55,120 --> 01:41:58,360 Speaker 2: Nicolehanda Jones not getting tenured at North I must have said. 2111 01:41:58,160 --> 01:41:59,800 Speaker 3: It on here a you will cut. 2112 01:42:00,000 --> 01:42:02,799 Speaker 2: There's a story of like, look at this university uphosed 2113 01:42:02,840 --> 01:42:04,880 Speaker 2: to giving her tenure. It's like, that's not what happened. 2114 01:42:05,880 --> 01:42:08,439 Speaker 2: We're old enough to know, smart enough to know stop 2115 01:42:08,600 --> 01:42:11,680 Speaker 2: you know, once again, kind of that projecting, kind of 2116 01:42:11,720 --> 01:42:16,559 Speaker 2: that running off without the context. I was like, it's 2117 01:42:17,000 --> 01:42:19,800 Speaker 2: probably a small group of people who have found a 2118 01:42:19,880 --> 01:42:23,560 Speaker 2: way to stop this something that everybody else in the 2119 01:42:23,640 --> 01:42:26,400 Speaker 2: process of the university wanted, because it wouldn't have got 2120 01:42:26,439 --> 01:42:28,759 Speaker 2: to that point unless everybody else was on board. 2121 01:42:29,000 --> 01:42:29,360 Speaker 3: Correct. 2122 01:42:30,200 --> 01:42:34,040 Speaker 1: Turns out it was one die that makes sense Walter 2123 01:42:34,240 --> 01:42:35,200 Speaker 1: Hessman Junior. 2124 01:42:38,120 --> 01:42:40,000 Speaker 3: Somebody did some jounders and worked. It was like, hey, 2125 01:42:40,640 --> 01:42:43,960 Speaker 3: what what is happening. Somebody did some investigation. It was like, 2126 01:42:44,080 --> 01:42:47,040 Speaker 3: what really happened. That's what happened. Y'all can't just say no, 2127 01:42:47,160 --> 01:42:49,760 Speaker 3: because guess what, nobody knew who the fuck you were. 2128 01:42:50,120 --> 01:42:52,160 Speaker 3: You could have kept nobody knowing who the fuck you were. 2129 01:42:52,560 --> 01:42:54,840 Speaker 3: But because you did this and you made the university 2130 01:42:54,920 --> 01:42:58,360 Speaker 3: look bad, somebody fucking I guarantee you. Somebody asked, somebody 2131 01:42:58,479 --> 01:43:01,519 Speaker 3: leaked your name, sir. Nobody need to know who you were, 2132 01:43:01,640 --> 01:43:03,519 Speaker 3: but they know now because the way you voted. 2133 01:43:04,320 --> 01:43:08,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, Walter Hussman Junior, who's a mega donor. He gave 2134 01:43:09,200 --> 01:43:13,040 Speaker 2: twenty five million dollars to in twenty nineteen to the 2135 01:43:13,160 --> 01:43:14,880 Speaker 2: UNC Chapel Hill School of Journalism. 2136 01:43:15,760 --> 01:43:17,120 Speaker 1: His name went on the school. 2137 01:43:17,280 --> 01:43:20,000 Speaker 2: A statement of journalistic principles went up on the entry wall. 2138 01:43:20,479 --> 01:43:23,600 Speaker 2: He's a publisher the Arkansas Democrat, because that is a 2139 01:43:23,720 --> 01:43:28,560 Speaker 2: he's an evangelist, evangelist of old school objectivity and partiology 2140 01:43:28,640 --> 01:43:31,880 Speaker 2: means reporting, editing, delivering the news honestly, fairly, objectively, without 2141 01:43:31,920 --> 01:43:32,960 Speaker 2: personal opinion or bias. 2142 01:43:33,360 --> 01:43:36,880 Speaker 1: And like they went into like how much that's not. 2143 01:43:37,080 --> 01:43:40,760 Speaker 2: Really true, like how much he's really just conservative and 2144 01:43:40,920 --> 01:43:45,240 Speaker 2: so it's his papers, but they framed it as like 2145 01:43:45,479 --> 01:43:48,320 Speaker 2: he just doesn't think she's objective, and that's why he 2146 01:43:48,400 --> 01:43:49,519 Speaker 2: didn't want her to get tenure. 2147 01:43:49,840 --> 01:43:52,120 Speaker 3: Right, you said that to somebody actually did some real reporting. 2148 01:43:52,240 --> 01:43:54,200 Speaker 3: It was like no, no, no, no, let's find out 2149 01:43:54,240 --> 01:43:55,960 Speaker 3: why this shit didn't pass because it was such a 2150 01:43:56,040 --> 01:44:00,320 Speaker 3: fucking uproar and it Lindy had everybody in the academs 2151 01:44:00,360 --> 01:44:03,960 Speaker 3: fear of talking. Like everybody was like the fuck is 2152 01:44:04,040 --> 01:44:07,040 Speaker 3: this like? This is this normally design happened? This is 2153 01:44:07,080 --> 01:44:11,120 Speaker 3: some presidented like this doesn't make sense. Something's happened. 2154 01:44:11,920 --> 01:44:15,559 Speaker 2: He related his concerns to the university's top leaders, including 2155 01:44:15,560 --> 01:44:17,599 Speaker 2: at least one member of the UNC Chapel Hill Board 2156 01:44:17,600 --> 01:44:21,000 Speaker 2: of Trustees. The Assembly obtained copies of the emails in 2157 01:44:21,040 --> 01:44:24,479 Speaker 2: which he expresses concerns about Hannah Jones to David Ralf, 2158 01:44:24,680 --> 01:44:27,439 Speaker 2: Vice Chancellor for University Development, Susan King, the dean of 2159 01:44:27,520 --> 01:44:32,439 Speaker 2: husbmand School of Journalism and Media, and Chancellor Kevin goosquicks. 2160 01:44:32,120 --> 01:44:34,400 Speaker 3: Cause you know what them dot ed used them shit 2161 01:44:34,479 --> 01:44:35,360 Speaker 3: stays on files. 2162 01:44:35,960 --> 01:44:40,080 Speaker 2: M m uh he's and he basically says, I worry 2163 01:44:40,080 --> 01:44:42,920 Speaker 2: about the controversy of tying the UNC Journalism School to 2164 01:44:43,000 --> 01:44:46,040 Speaker 2: the sixteen nineteen project. I found myself more in agreement 2165 01:44:46,080 --> 01:44:48,840 Speaker 2: with polic serprise when the historians like James McPherson and 2166 01:44:48,920 --> 01:44:51,559 Speaker 2: Gordon Wood than I do the coll Henda Jones. These 2167 01:44:51,680 --> 01:44:54,320 Speaker 2: historians appear to me to be pushing to find the 2168 01:44:54,400 --> 01:44:57,080 Speaker 2: true historical facts. Based on her own words, many will 2169 01:44:57,120 --> 01:44:59,280 Speaker 2: conclude she is trying to push an agenda, and they 2170 01:44:59,320 --> 01:45:02,040 Speaker 2: will assume she manipulated historical facts and support it. If 2171 01:45:02,120 --> 01:45:04,120 Speaker 2: I if asked about it, I would have to be 2172 01:45:04,240 --> 01:45:06,000 Speaker 2: honest and saying I agree with the historians. 2173 01:45:06,320 --> 01:45:08,760 Speaker 1: So that was his one way, not not, y'all better 2174 01:45:08,840 --> 01:45:14,439 Speaker 1: not give her tenure? Yep. Keep in mind he's expressing 2175 01:45:14,520 --> 01:45:15,200 Speaker 1: bias right there. 2176 01:45:15,360 --> 01:45:18,200 Speaker 2: I agree with these other dudes, you know, the ones 2177 01:45:18,240 --> 01:45:21,360 Speaker 2: that say the founding fathers are infallible, righteous men that 2178 01:45:21,760 --> 01:45:25,360 Speaker 2: you know, we should overlook their slave owner. And of 2179 01:45:25,479 --> 01:45:30,439 Speaker 2: course this country that was literally had genocide and slavery 2180 01:45:30,800 --> 01:45:32,280 Speaker 2: was not founded on those things at all. 2181 01:45:32,560 --> 01:45:36,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, And like you said, this one person made it 2182 01:45:36,240 --> 01:45:38,720 Speaker 3: look like the university said no. Even though it was 2183 01:45:38,760 --> 01:45:41,240 Speaker 3: this one person, it really made it let the university 2184 01:45:41,280 --> 01:45:45,840 Speaker 3: said no. So now everybody's looking at the university, which 2185 01:45:45,960 --> 01:45:47,760 Speaker 3: is they have the right to what y'all gonna do? 2186 01:45:48,560 --> 01:45:50,040 Speaker 1: Yep, what are you gonna do? 2187 01:45:50,439 --> 01:45:52,920 Speaker 3: Are you gonna go fuck him? Are you gonna give 2188 01:45:52,960 --> 01:45:55,640 Speaker 3: her tenure? Like? What are you gonna do? Like? If 2189 01:45:55,760 --> 01:45:58,160 Speaker 3: I am a donor to this university and a big 2190 01:45:58,240 --> 01:45:59,800 Speaker 3: donor and I don't agree with him, and I just 2191 01:46:00,000 --> 01:46:02,880 Speaker 3: agree with this, now I might decide, you know what, 2192 01:46:03,200 --> 01:46:05,200 Speaker 3: I might not want to donate my five hundred of men. 2193 01:46:05,360 --> 01:46:06,479 Speaker 3: I might not want to do that no more. 2194 01:46:06,720 --> 01:46:09,720 Speaker 1: Maybe, But at the same time, it shouldn't even take that. 2195 01:46:10,880 --> 01:46:13,719 Speaker 2: But I know, but it shouldn't even take that because 2196 01:46:14,040 --> 01:46:15,800 Speaker 2: people with that kind of money might not agree with 2197 01:46:15,840 --> 01:46:17,000 Speaker 2: the sixteen nineteen project. 2198 01:46:17,040 --> 01:46:21,160 Speaker 1: But the schools is the school right. My hope envision was, Oh, well, 2199 01:46:21,240 --> 01:46:24,080 Speaker 1: let me get to this September email. He wrote. 2200 01:46:25,600 --> 01:46:28,080 Speaker 2: That he took issue with her sixteen nineteen se on 2201 01:46:28,120 --> 01:46:30,080 Speaker 2: the UN say on the country's post World War iiO 2202 01:46:30,080 --> 01:46:32,599 Speaker 2: struggle for civil rights, in which he wrote, she wrote, 2203 01:46:32,640 --> 01:46:35,479 Speaker 2: for the most part, black Americans fought back along, and 2204 01:46:35,600 --> 01:46:38,320 Speaker 2: he said, I think this claim detigrates the courageous efforts 2205 01:46:38,360 --> 01:46:40,599 Speaker 2: of many white Americans to address the sin of slavery 2206 01:46:40,600 --> 01:46:44,080 Speaker 2: and the racial injustices resulted after the Civil War. He 2207 01:46:44,280 --> 01:46:47,240 Speaker 2: listed white freedom writers and other whites who fought free equality, 2208 01:46:47,280 --> 01:46:50,640 Speaker 2: including journalists across the South. The email was sent to 2209 01:46:50,760 --> 01:46:53,320 Speaker 2: Rout and copied to Goskowitz and King. 2210 01:46:53,960 --> 01:46:56,280 Speaker 1: Long before the COHEADA. Jones won her polar surprise. 2211 01:46:56,360 --> 01:46:59,840 Speaker 2: He wrote, courageous white Southerners, risking their lives standing up 2212 01:46:59,880 --> 01:47:01,400 Speaker 2: for the rights of blacks were winning. 2213 01:47:01,160 --> 01:47:09,600 Speaker 1: Publish serprises too. Mm hmm. Despite that, King continued to 2214 01:47:09,640 --> 01:47:10,679 Speaker 1: pursue Hannah Jones. 2215 01:47:11,080 --> 01:47:14,880 Speaker 2: After a liftic faculty and the administrative process recommended tenure board, 2216 01:47:14,880 --> 01:47:18,200 Speaker 2: the trustees member Chuck Duckett raised questions and asked for 2217 01:47:18,280 --> 01:47:20,680 Speaker 2: more time to get answers. The university instead offered a 2218 01:47:20,760 --> 01:47:24,280 Speaker 2: five year fixed term appointment without tenure to Hannah Jones. 2219 01:47:25,439 --> 01:47:28,880 Speaker 2: So that's how they decided to keep the process going. 2220 01:47:29,040 --> 01:47:33,360 Speaker 2: Was basically like, Okay, so we can either let this 2221 01:47:33,479 --> 01:47:37,519 Speaker 2: man slow up the process and to see if we 2222 01:47:37,560 --> 01:47:39,680 Speaker 2: can get her tenure, but it's gonna take longer than 2223 01:47:40,080 --> 01:47:42,760 Speaker 2: we think do we want, or we can go ahead 2224 01:47:42,760 --> 01:47:44,439 Speaker 2: and just offer it to her without tenure, which of 2225 01:47:44,479 --> 01:47:45,519 Speaker 2: course is slapping the face. 2226 01:47:46,520 --> 01:47:47,200 Speaker 3: It's an insult. 2227 01:47:47,880 --> 01:47:56,599 Speaker 1: Yeah. So he did not address this when they brought 2228 01:47:56,640 --> 01:47:58,240 Speaker 1: it up to him. They were asked about it. If 2229 01:47:58,280 --> 01:48:00,680 Speaker 1: he was asked the interview, and he said that he 2230 01:48:00,760 --> 01:48:03,000 Speaker 1: considered himself a working journalist and was bound by his 2231 01:48:03,120 --> 01:48:04,439 Speaker 1: company's code of ethics. 2232 01:48:04,840 --> 01:48:08,639 Speaker 3: But Nida, you put on at dot ed u email 2233 01:48:08,680 --> 01:48:10,959 Speaker 3: address the bitch. We gonna know what you're talking about. 2234 01:48:10,800 --> 01:48:13,599 Speaker 2: The company's code of ethics, which prevents newsroom employees from 2235 01:48:13,640 --> 01:48:15,759 Speaker 2: taking size and contentions by ment matters. 2236 01:48:15,880 --> 01:48:17,519 Speaker 3: But you wrote the emails we see the emails. The 2237 01:48:17,600 --> 01:48:18,880 Speaker 3: fuck you talking about sir? 2238 01:48:19,720 --> 01:48:24,320 Speaker 1: Right? Yep, mm hmmm. 2239 01:48:26,680 --> 01:48:28,760 Speaker 2: He said he thought his comments to the university leaders 2240 01:48:28,800 --> 01:48:31,040 Speaker 2: were private and said he would not have made them publicly. 2241 01:48:31,680 --> 01:48:32,800 Speaker 1: So what the fuck do would matter? 2242 01:48:33,080 --> 01:48:33,280 Speaker 5: Right? 2243 01:48:34,160 --> 01:48:39,120 Speaker 2: Because you privately torpedoed her her career when we. 2244 01:48:39,160 --> 01:48:41,960 Speaker 3: Tell you why? Because he thought that he could hide 2245 01:48:42,600 --> 01:48:46,200 Speaker 3: like they always do and hide under ooh, we we 2246 01:48:46,280 --> 01:48:49,759 Speaker 3: didn't got to this, and nobody knows. It's the special donors, 2247 01:48:49,920 --> 01:48:52,360 Speaker 3: and he thought he was gonna hide up underneath. Nobody 2248 01:48:52,479 --> 01:48:54,680 Speaker 3: knows who the fuck they are. Somebody knows who these 2249 01:48:54,720 --> 01:48:55,160 Speaker 3: people are. 2250 01:48:55,280 --> 01:48:55,960 Speaker 1: You're on the board. 2251 01:48:56,080 --> 01:48:57,919 Speaker 3: Somebody has to know that you're on these boards. 2252 01:48:58,160 --> 01:49:00,800 Speaker 2: He said he never met Hannah Jones but would like to. 2253 01:49:01,400 --> 01:49:03,920 Speaker 2: And they said a good question for her is how 2254 01:49:03,960 --> 01:49:06,760 Speaker 2: do you feel about these core values? I really don't 2255 01:49:06,800 --> 01:49:07,519 Speaker 2: know the answer to that. 2256 01:49:07,720 --> 01:49:09,120 Speaker 1: Well, you would think that maybe. 2257 01:49:09,000 --> 01:49:13,400 Speaker 2: Through the interview process, whoever interviewed her and talked with her, 2258 01:49:14,120 --> 01:49:17,880 Speaker 2: the people that you know at the school, they do 2259 01:49:18,120 --> 01:49:20,160 Speaker 2: know the answer to that, and they felt fine about 2260 01:49:20,200 --> 01:49:21,120 Speaker 2: her core values. 2261 01:49:23,360 --> 01:49:26,120 Speaker 1: It's just you, for some reason, you can't trust her 2262 01:49:26,160 --> 01:49:26,719 Speaker 1: core values. 2263 01:49:26,920 --> 01:49:30,000 Speaker 2: Just you, and that's enough to derail the whole process, 2264 01:49:30,120 --> 01:49:33,040 Speaker 2: one powerful white man because is able to do that, 2265 01:49:34,120 --> 01:49:36,519 Speaker 2: and not a whole whole, not a whole, the whole 2266 01:49:36,600 --> 01:49:38,599 Speaker 2: un C Chapel Hill got to take this l now 2267 01:49:38,640 --> 01:49:41,720 Speaker 2: because of him, people sitting on the whole university like 2268 01:49:41,880 --> 01:49:45,600 Speaker 2: everybody that said fuck her, and it's really him, right, But. 2269 01:49:45,760 --> 01:49:49,519 Speaker 3: As far as people are concerned, because they allowed it, 2270 01:49:50,000 --> 01:49:53,120 Speaker 3: it's a problem, Like they go, you allowed this bullshit, 2271 01:49:53,240 --> 01:49:56,160 Speaker 3: So you're accountable because you allowed you allowed one man 2272 01:49:56,240 --> 01:49:58,640 Speaker 3: to fuck the process up. Normally they sign off and 2273 01:49:58,680 --> 01:50:00,840 Speaker 3: they keep a truck and nobody get the fuck. But 2274 01:50:01,000 --> 01:50:04,920 Speaker 3: because he decided that he wanted to derail the whole show, 2275 01:50:06,000 --> 01:50:08,559 Speaker 3: now the university is holding the bag. And so now 2276 01:50:08,600 --> 01:50:10,360 Speaker 3: you have people mad, you have people upset, you have 2277 01:50:10,400 --> 01:50:13,080 Speaker 3: people boycott, you have people protesting, like and this is 2278 01:50:13,160 --> 01:50:16,040 Speaker 3: going to be for a while, uh in my opinion, 2279 01:50:16,680 --> 01:50:20,640 Speaker 3: until if she decides to do the tenure, if she 2280 01:50:20,760 --> 01:50:23,120 Speaker 3: doesn't decide to do your tenure, whatever her decision is, 2281 01:50:23,240 --> 01:50:25,880 Speaker 3: even if she leaves university, people are still going to 2282 01:50:25,920 --> 01:50:28,240 Speaker 3: be on asses. They're like, what happens when the next 2283 01:50:28,320 --> 01:50:29,880 Speaker 3: person does this and go up? You'll low is he 2284 01:50:29,960 --> 01:50:32,720 Speaker 3: gonna be the one to tell him no too? Yeah? 2285 01:50:32,760 --> 01:50:34,639 Speaker 1: Because like I was thinking, I was talking to Randolph 2286 01:50:34,640 --> 01:50:34,960 Speaker 1: on Twitter. 2287 01:50:35,120 --> 01:50:37,080 Speaker 2: I think he may have said something like this always 2288 01:50:38,360 --> 01:50:41,160 Speaker 2: happens or something like something like something like that, or 2289 01:50:41,160 --> 01:50:43,080 Speaker 2: because he was the one that putt that put it on. 2290 01:50:43,200 --> 01:50:45,560 Speaker 2: It was like when you were saying it was it 2291 01:50:45,880 --> 01:50:47,560 Speaker 2: really just take a small group, it was like, it 2292 01:50:47,680 --> 01:50:52,160 Speaker 2: really takes one man, and this is him. And he 2293 01:50:52,280 --> 01:50:55,360 Speaker 2: said something like, you know, they are like they always 2294 01:50:55,479 --> 01:50:56,360 Speaker 2: allowed this to happen. 2295 01:50:56,439 --> 01:50:57,120 Speaker 1: It's what he said. 2296 01:50:57,320 --> 01:51:00,320 Speaker 2: And I and I took it one step further and said, 2297 01:51:00,360 --> 01:51:03,760 Speaker 2: it's not that they always allowed us to happen, it's 2298 01:51:03,800 --> 01:51:05,080 Speaker 2: that they're never prepared. 2299 01:51:05,800 --> 01:51:07,000 Speaker 1: They always shure. 2300 01:51:07,080 --> 01:51:10,559 Speaker 2: That's what That's what bothers me is that it's still 2301 01:51:10,680 --> 01:51:14,360 Speaker 2: the benefit of the doubt that whiteness gets that would 2302 01:51:14,439 --> 01:51:17,479 Speaker 2: lead them to go, We were not prepared for one 2303 01:51:17,640 --> 01:51:21,080 Speaker 2: man to derail this whole fucking thing the university wanted. 2304 01:51:21,720 --> 01:51:23,000 Speaker 1: Just because he gave a lot of money. 2305 01:51:23,200 --> 01:51:25,360 Speaker 2: We like, we didn't have anything in place to be 2306 01:51:25,479 --> 01:51:27,600 Speaker 2: like yeah, but fuck you though we already did all this, 2307 01:51:28,840 --> 01:51:29,120 Speaker 2: you know what. 2308 01:51:29,160 --> 01:51:32,240 Speaker 1: I mean, like done, he said, and now we got 2309 01:51:32,320 --> 01:51:33,839 Speaker 1: to go through all this shit again. 2310 01:51:34,000 --> 01:51:37,680 Speaker 3: You know, Yeah, and the thing is okay. Twenty five 2311 01:51:37,720 --> 01:51:39,720 Speaker 3: million dollars one person is say, a lot of fucking money. 2312 01:51:39,760 --> 01:51:43,000 Speaker 3: Please don't get me wrong, but the bit the negative 2313 01:51:43,040 --> 01:51:47,120 Speaker 3: publicity and everybody talk about your university, not only here 2314 01:51:47,200 --> 01:51:49,320 Speaker 3: but around the world, and people from all over the 2315 01:51:49,360 --> 01:51:52,679 Speaker 3: world come to this prestigious university. You know, it could 2316 01:51:52,760 --> 01:51:54,960 Speaker 3: cause you more than the twenty five million dollars that 2317 01:51:55,040 --> 01:51:57,280 Speaker 3: he gives every year. Like, like from all of this, 2318 01:51:57,439 --> 01:51:59,720 Speaker 3: like you could lose a lot more money in the 2319 01:51:59,800 --> 01:52:03,000 Speaker 3: law on run from from from him making this decision. 2320 01:52:03,080 --> 01:52:05,320 Speaker 3: Like you say, it's funny how they always shook and 2321 01:52:05,439 --> 01:52:08,320 Speaker 3: shocked and don't have mechanisms in place to go. We 2322 01:52:08,400 --> 01:52:12,320 Speaker 3: don't really give a fuck. We voted, so yeah, we're 2323 01:52:12,360 --> 01:52:15,040 Speaker 3: gonna do this with or without you, Like, like, you 2324 01:52:15,080 --> 01:52:17,559 Speaker 3: should not have that much power, not trying funny as 2325 01:52:17,600 --> 01:52:20,439 Speaker 3: somebody who is not in the academic arena. You shouldn't 2326 01:52:20,479 --> 01:52:23,040 Speaker 3: have that much power. If it's got to you, you 2327 01:52:23,200 --> 01:52:24,120 Speaker 3: just sign off on it. 2328 01:52:25,200 --> 01:52:31,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, And now they're saying she's weighing a lawsuit against the. 2329 01:52:33,320 --> 01:52:38,080 Speaker 3: University, so hold them account But yeah, because this is why, okay, 2330 01:52:38,520 --> 01:52:41,479 Speaker 3: why and if this one may hold up your process 2331 01:52:41,600 --> 01:52:44,479 Speaker 3: and not and not only I don't know what's gonna happen. 2332 01:52:44,479 --> 01:52:47,760 Speaker 3: But I hope this sets a precedent for other universities 2333 01:52:47,800 --> 01:52:50,479 Speaker 3: to go, hey, we got the same structure. We can't 2334 01:52:50,520 --> 01:52:52,920 Speaker 3: give these people this power because guess what, U and 2335 01:52:53,080 --> 01:52:56,000 Speaker 3: C is an example of the rest of y'all motherfuckers 2336 01:52:56,040 --> 01:52:58,760 Speaker 3: can be like this too. If y'all have somebody in 2337 01:52:58,840 --> 01:53:00,760 Speaker 3: y'all university and it don't have to be black. Does 2338 01:53:00,840 --> 01:53:04,160 Speaker 3: somebody talking about some history that these white folks don't like? 2339 01:53:04,560 --> 01:53:08,040 Speaker 3: With this money, y'all gonna be on some insagrams screen. Also, 2340 01:53:08,320 --> 01:53:09,960 Speaker 3: what are you gonna do when it's your turn? 2341 01:53:10,560 --> 01:53:13,280 Speaker 2: I had no desire to bring turmoil or political firestorm 2342 01:53:13,280 --> 01:53:15,960 Speaker 2: into the university that I love, but I'm obligated to 2343 01:53:16,040 --> 01:53:19,200 Speaker 2: fight back against a wave of antidemocratic suppression that seeks 2344 01:53:19,200 --> 01:53:22,240 Speaker 2: to prohibit the free exchange for ideas, silence black voices, 2345 01:53:22,280 --> 01:53:26,599 Speaker 2: and chill free speech. Her legal team includes attorneys from 2346 01:53:26,840 --> 01:53:29,960 Speaker 2: Levi Rattner PC and Ferguson Chambers and Son to PA 2347 01:53:30,120 --> 01:53:33,000 Speaker 2: and the NAACP Legal Defense and Educational Fund. 2348 01:53:34,000 --> 01:53:35,080 Speaker 1: So, yeah, man, they. 2349 01:53:35,000 --> 01:53:36,760 Speaker 2: Fuck with the wrong one, They're gonna see her in court, 2350 01:53:38,479 --> 01:53:41,320 Speaker 2: you know. And it's just like I said, It's like 2351 01:53:41,400 --> 01:53:44,519 Speaker 2: they're never fucking prepared to beat for this. They're always 2352 01:53:45,479 --> 01:53:46,680 Speaker 2: like caught off guard by. 2353 01:53:46,720 --> 01:53:48,840 Speaker 1: Like, oh shit, this is gonna be a whole thing now. 2354 01:53:48,880 --> 01:53:50,719 Speaker 1: It's like, yes, y'all. 2355 01:53:50,560 --> 01:53:53,639 Speaker 2: Didn't see this coming, and everybody else can see this coming. 2356 01:53:53,680 --> 01:53:55,439 Speaker 2: You could I could have told you this could happen 2357 01:53:55,479 --> 01:53:57,320 Speaker 2: from the time that you were like, we're interested in 2358 01:53:57,439 --> 01:53:59,719 Speaker 2: having her, I would have been like, well, in this process, 2359 01:53:59,760 --> 01:54:01,440 Speaker 2: you need to be prepared for some pushback. 2360 01:54:02,960 --> 01:54:03,400 Speaker 5: Mm hmm. 2361 01:54:03,680 --> 01:54:07,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. And like you say, every other large university ain't 2362 01:54:07,840 --> 01:54:10,240 Speaker 3: even small, are gonna be looking. They're gonna look at 2363 01:54:10,280 --> 01:54:12,760 Speaker 3: this lawsuit. They're gonna see what happens. They like like 2364 01:54:12,880 --> 01:54:15,559 Speaker 3: they're gonna be paying attention. Guarantee, you wouldn't be surprising 2365 01:54:15,560 --> 01:54:17,439 Speaker 3: if somebody else they're gonna pass it, pass it, past it. 2366 01:54:17,479 --> 01:54:19,120 Speaker 3: Because we don't want no bullshit. We don't gna fuck 2367 01:54:19,200 --> 01:54:21,160 Speaker 3: just sign the papers. We'll give a fuck. Did you 2368 01:54:21,240 --> 01:54:23,360 Speaker 3: think it's racist? We don't want to. We don't want 2369 01:54:23,760 --> 01:54:26,080 Speaker 3: the scrutiny and everything else that comes along with this 2370 01:54:26,160 --> 01:54:27,639 Speaker 3: because you being fucking racist. 2371 01:54:27,720 --> 01:54:30,400 Speaker 2: Because the tenures protection to keep doing the work she's doing, 2372 01:54:30,479 --> 01:54:33,920 Speaker 2: and the work she's doing is very controversial to in 2373 01:54:34,000 --> 01:54:37,480 Speaker 2: a racial racist country, because she is shaking the very 2374 01:54:37,560 --> 01:54:40,360 Speaker 2: foundations of the myths and the lives that we purpose, 2375 01:54:40,840 --> 01:54:43,480 Speaker 2: that we perpetuate throughout this country. 2376 01:54:44,160 --> 01:54:44,320 Speaker 7: You know. 2377 01:54:44,880 --> 01:54:46,680 Speaker 1: And the truth is the one thing they're afraid of. 2378 01:54:46,960 --> 01:54:49,440 Speaker 3: Come on more than anything, right, because it gives you powering. 2379 01:54:49,480 --> 01:54:50,960 Speaker 3: They don't want you to have the power and the 2380 01:54:51,160 --> 01:54:52,200 Speaker 3: power knowledge. 2381 01:54:52,000 --> 01:54:54,320 Speaker 1: Why agains quoe unquote critical race theory and shit? 2382 01:54:54,520 --> 01:54:58,000 Speaker 2: You know because two TV shows did an episode about 2383 01:54:58,080 --> 01:55:03,120 Speaker 2: Tulsa and now motherfucking Joe Biden a year later is 2384 01:55:03,560 --> 01:55:06,280 Speaker 2: talking addressing it on the on the at the White House. 2385 01:55:07,480 --> 01:55:09,400 Speaker 2: You know what I mean, Like, that's the power of 2386 01:55:09,520 --> 01:55:13,600 Speaker 2: the narratives. That's the power of these voices and these stories, 2387 01:55:14,640 --> 01:55:17,680 Speaker 2: you know. So I you know, that's why they're afraid 2388 01:55:17,720 --> 01:55:21,040 Speaker 2: of her talking. One woman have all that power. All right, 2389 01:55:22,200 --> 01:55:24,040 Speaker 2: let's wrap this up. We've been talking for a while. 2390 01:55:26,280 --> 01:55:50,440 Speaker 1: Sored ratchingness. H h, that's right, sored ratchingess. 2391 01:55:50,520 --> 01:55:55,560 Speaker 2: Time when we talk about the people and uh, the 2392 01:55:55,720 --> 01:55:59,920 Speaker 2: swords throughout the world that are out here unregulated causing 2393 01:56:00,040 --> 01:56:07,160 Speaker 2: all kinds of heavy you know, brother own, brother, sister owned, sister, familis, 2394 01:56:07,640 --> 01:56:11,960 Speaker 2: you know, just neighbor on neighbor violence and in this case. 2395 01:56:12,040 --> 01:56:15,320 Speaker 2: We're talking about a man in New Hampshire who chased 2396 01:56:15,920 --> 01:56:18,960 Speaker 2: his neighbor with the sword because he was asked to. 2397 01:56:19,040 --> 01:56:20,240 Speaker 1: Lower his music. 2398 01:56:24,080 --> 01:56:27,120 Speaker 4: Manchester Police say a forty seven year old man grabbed 2399 01:56:27,120 --> 01:56:31,120 Speaker 4: a sword and chased after his neighbor after being told 2400 01:56:31,200 --> 01:56:34,280 Speaker 4: to turn down his music. Officer say the neighbor knocked 2401 01:56:34,320 --> 01:56:38,839 Speaker 4: on Benjamin Leyland's door on Elm Street Monday evening. Leyland 2402 01:56:38,960 --> 01:56:42,360 Speaker 4: then apparently grabbed a two and a half foot sword. 2403 01:56:42,800 --> 01:56:45,080 Speaker 4: The neighbor got away and no one was injured. Leyland 2404 01:56:45,200 --> 01:56:47,040 Speaker 4: is now charged with criminal threatening. 2405 01:56:47,520 --> 01:56:47,720 Speaker 7: Ka D. 2406 01:56:47,880 --> 01:56:49,440 Speaker 4: Johnston for CBS Boston. 2407 01:56:51,600 --> 01:56:54,000 Speaker 1: You must have heard Kyrie Irvan was in town, right, 2408 01:56:55,560 --> 01:56:56,760 Speaker 1: Can you cut that music down? 2409 01:56:56,880 --> 01:56:59,440 Speaker 2: Or I got your cut down bitch and just put 2410 01:56:59,480 --> 01:57:02,880 Speaker 2: out the the sword and yes he was white. 2411 01:57:03,080 --> 01:57:04,600 Speaker 3: All right, y'all, got yall cut up. 2412 01:57:05,760 --> 01:57:07,880 Speaker 1: Well, we'll be back tomorrow. Thanks for listening. 2413 01:57:08,120 --> 01:57:10,800 Speaker 2: We'll appreciate y'all. I hope y'all like this very pop 2414 01:57:10,880 --> 01:57:14,920 Speaker 2: culture heavy episode. I didn't even get the coronavirus news 2415 01:57:15,000 --> 01:57:17,640 Speaker 2: or any of the segments. We just talked about random 2416 01:57:17,680 --> 01:57:20,520 Speaker 2: shit on this Memorial Day. Maybe we'll do this more often, 2417 01:57:21,480 --> 01:57:24,360 Speaker 2: but I hope you enjoyed it. If not well, we'll 2418 01:57:24,400 --> 01:57:26,520 Speaker 2: try again tomorrow. Until then, I love you.